RAGEQUIT KEEKO Returns! She Has 3 Baby Daddies?! | Dating Talk #88

Date: 2023-07-31

Duration: 5h 55m

Guests

Brian Atlas

MMadison (DT94)>

NNicole (DT88)>

MMichaela (DT88)>

PPriya (DT102)>

BBilly Ray (DT101)>

DDan (DM Dating)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01Dan(guest)

SPEAKER_02Michaela(guest)

SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_04Milan(guest)

SPEAKER_05Nicole(guest)

SPEAKER_06Jenna(guest)

SPEAKER_07Production(audience)

SPEAKER_08Kiko(guest)

SPEAKER_09Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_10Priya(guest)

SPEAKER_11Billy Ray(guest)

Key Moments

IntroBrian introduces Kiko as co-host and all guests introduce themselves with name/age/occupation

“I am your host Brian Atlas I'm joined by my co-host Kiki she's a bit shy”

OtherJenna reveals she has 4 kids by 3 different men; panel and Brian react with surprise

“I have three baby daddies three... um two from one and then one from see this is where it gets really confusing”

OtherJenna discloses she is Bipolar 1, diagnosed at 17; explains the difference between type 1 and type 2

“I have a mental illness um I am bipolar one”

Key MomentMilan explains she is simultaneously courting a Catholic abstinent man from Mass and a recently divorced older man; panel debates whether she should just commit to the abstinent man

“one of them is completely abstinent we met at Mass... the other one is a little bit older about 10 to 15 years older than me and um he just got a divorce like a year ago”

Key MomentNicole challenges Brian's self-rating of 6; Brian runs live poll — 75% vote Nicole is cuter

“I think you said you rated yourself on the look scale a six but on a good day of 6.9... so are you a five or am I seven”

Key MomentSelf-ratings round: Kiko revises down from her usual '10' to 5-6; Dan rates himself a solid 8 (highest male self-rating at the table)

“um so you know I've had a lot of feedback in the recent months about my parents and I've been kind of taking a mental note... I'll give myself a nice like six maybe seven”

QuoteKiko notes she has revised her self-rating down from 10 after reading comment feedback; describes getting zeros and tens in comments and averaging to 5-6

“you've been convinced... well I mean you guys are telling me that it's not what I see myself as is what everyone else views me and they've given me their feedback so I've seen the feedback”

QuoteDan explains that men need attraction advice and women need retention advice — a core distinction for his coaching

“men need help attracting women women need help retaining men absolutely women need relationship advice men need attraction advice”

ControversyMilan reveals she was arrested in Ojai, CA during the week before the episode after grabbing her phone back from a physically aggressive man she was dating

“I was in jail you got you got arrested yeah I did for for grabbing my phone out of a guys hand who was assaulting me yes”

QuoteKiko says this has been her favorite podcast episode she has appeared on

“I have my favorite podcast episode I've been on yet has it it has this has been lovely”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Brian introduces Kiko as co-host. All guests give names, ages, occupations. Brian then asks each guest their relationship status and longest relationship.

Jenna's 3 Baby Daddies and 4 Kids

Jenna reveals she has 4 kids by 3 different men. Timeline established: first child at 19, second at ~21 (didn't know she was pregnant and was dating a new man; original father has 5 kids with different mothers), third and fourth at ~22-23 with that man. She lost near-full custody due to jail history; rebuilding co-parenting. Bipolar 1 disclosed. Panel and Brian react. Discussion of impulsivity and how bipolar manifests.

Milan's Dating Two Men / Polygenism

Milan explains she is courting two men (Catholic/abstinent man from Mass, and a recently divorced older man). Both men know. She describes herself as polygenist (closed on her end, open on man's end). Panel discusses whether men actually want the woman to initiate commitment. Dan discusses how he 'told' Billy Ray they were in a relationship rather than asking.

Passport Bros Discussion

Discussion of the passport bros movement (men traveling abroad to find foreign women). Guests debate whether it is effective, whether foreign women also manipulate men, and whether it signals a legitimate protest flag to Western women. Dan argues it highlights that Western men are expected to be chivalrous without a clearly defined female equivalent duty.

Gender Roles, Chivalry, and Female Equivalent

Dan poses the question: if chivalry is the male duty, what is the female equivalent? Michaela/SPEAKER_02 references Proverbs 31. Kiko describes being a homemaker as her version of female chivalry. Milan discusses hypo-feminine vs. independent women as emerging camps. Dan discusses leadership in relationships as more nuanced than a dictatorship. Multiple women say they have been the dominant one in prior relationships and found it unsatisfying.

Gun Ownership Poll

Brian asks the panel: gun ownership in a partner — positive, negative, or neutral? All who respond say positive (with training/education caveats). Madison says positive. Priya says positive. Billy Ray says positive.

Nicole vs. Brian Looks Poll

Nicole (from pre-show notes) wanted to discuss Brian's self-rating of 6. She suggested she might be cuter than him. Brian runs a live stream poll — 75% vote Nicole is cuter. Discussion of objective beauty standards, facial symmetry, race and attractiveness studies. Brian suggests Kristin Kreuk and Ana de Armas as near-tens.

Self-Ratings Round

Brian pulls up a superchatter request for everyone to rate themselves 1-10. Kiko revised down from her usual '10' to 5-6 after processing negative feedback from her comment sections. Jenna: 6 (jokes she is a 10 on the reservation). Milan: 6. Madison: ~7 (6.5 without makeup, 8 on a good day). Nicole: 6.7 (consistent across 3 episodes). Billy Ray: 6.7 (consistent 3 episodes). Dan: solid 8 (highest male self-rating at table). Extensive debate about objective vs. subjective beauty standards. Brian: 6. Kiko noted this is the first time a man rated himself highest at the table.

Milan's Arrest Story

Milan reveals she was arrested in Ojai, CA in the days before the episode. The man she was dating (Phoenix/older man) became physically aggressive when she repeatedly refused him over 3 days. She grabbed her phone back while recording the incident; California domestic violence law required the responding officers to arrest her despite apologizing. They escorted her to safety afterward. The case is expected to be dropped due to her video evidence. She has since ended contact with that man.

Jonah Hill Boundary Discussion

Panel reacts to a post-show note Nicole wrote about the Jonah Hill text message controversy. Discussion of whether his demands were boundaries or control. Nicole argues they were controlling; Kiko says women should stop posting provocative photos when in a relationship. Dan discusses his texting approach with Billy Ray. Billy Ray discusses running content by Dan before posting. Panel discusses the difference between a boundary and manipulation.

Men Approaching Women Discussion

Panel discusses whether women like being approached by men at bars/clubs. Kiko says she dislikes it in general but has never been rude. Madison (SPEAKER_09) says positive if tasteful. Billy Ray says she avoided bars so rarely encountered it. Dan argues men approach because they have to — deficit model. Discussion of day game vs. bar approaches. Kiko notes her boyfriend approached her at her job.

Birth Control Discussion

Billy Ray announces she got off birth control this month. Dan and Billy Ray explain the research (book: Beyond the Pill) about birth control affecting immune-based mate selection and post-pill hormone changes. Billy Ray notes symptoms (breakouts, feeling more in tune with body). Kiko defends birth control for period regulation. Panel discusses whether recommending going off birth control on a show mostly watched by men is responsible.

After Show / Wrap-Up

Final thoughts from guests. Michaela encourages fellow Christian singles to use singleness season for God. Kiko recommends men get out of their routines and join social groups. Milan recommends men work on confidence and self-improvement. Priya acknowledges being too afraid to approach men and says she is working on it. Dan discusses the pheromone/birth control study and mate selection. Show wraps.

Transcript

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KikoVegas he lives in Vegas he just tried to fix his his spelling errors we already went over this

Brian Atlasall right let me let me read this here never met a woman excuse me I did it changed never met a woman in my life

Brian Atlasthat was faithful I don't think a woman can be faithful every woman I have ever met women that will not sleep with the man on the first night if he gives her who she pees

Brian AtlasPaul puffy Vegas himself all right we have testing tolerance black shirt is wrong there's no point in checking each other's phones and can only cause harm I've dated at

Brian Atlasleast three women who later I found out had husbands or boyfriends

Kikoclean phone means nothing I don't know how disconnected are you not realize your partner has a whole other phone like yeah I mean are you even there

Danalive that they're working overtime to hide that kind of thing like again are we talking about The Fringe case here something like that like like how often do we really think

Danthat that's going on like I understand that women can can hide things I understand that they can delete VMS I understand that they can do those things I don't want to make it seem like it's something that is like completely and utterly abnormal especially in the

Danmodern dating world but again like I think you can tell when you're dating like a total freaking narcissist a total sociopath okay like again pattern recognition

Brian Atlasit will be Michelin star and will change your life oh I I can't do it okay Priya don't wear your Safari outfit wear

Brian Atlasyour hair up Brian wear your hair up as well Brian you have to bring a girl I can't do it right now to defend Priya I don't want you staring out okay I don't

Priyawant you staring at us while we eat bring Madison if you must if we bring Madison we got to bring Frankie so can I say something about my outfit yeah no I don't I don't care if they're dissing it

Brian Atlasbut people in the chat think my shirt is Denim and it's not it's Satin can somebody who's in the chat maybe Brandon can do this Brandon I don't know

Brian Atlasif you're still watching okay I don't know if you're still watching but okay Trump can you can you make a photo with Priya with one of those like old school

Brian AtlasSafari hats and send it to our Instagram and we'll show it on the stream uh or somebody like just a little Photoshop a cheapo Photoshop thank you man

Milanhad like a show on Animal Planet like I'd probably watch honestly if Priya had a show on animals you look like if she was a true Safari girl I would watch

Brian Atlasshe's a horse girl Martin thank you very much we're gonna we're gonna talk about it I'm gonna email you sir I will email you to get this at all all right we have puffy

Brian AtlasVegas positive Bryant question oh he just disrespected the out of you he put a y entity major disrespect the biggest disrespect though is when they do brain that

Brian Atlasis rude is it disrespectful or does it just show their lack of uh ability to yeah to check their grammar it's all of the above Prime question to the girls no

KikoBS can the whim why man he's not I don't believe it is possible can a woman not this guy's drunk too yeah she has been cheated on he's tried to

Milansay the same statement three three times he's doing the cheating guys maybe there's a language barrier he lives in Vegas [Laughter]

Danwe need Mr puffy to call into a show and we need to get the the scoop on what's going on with him yeah give him a hotline to call right now he is he is an amplified version of what a lot of men

Danthink actually I'm just gonna like call him like like that that whole concept this is like we go back to that thing I said earlier about like the female version of chivalry one of the one of the things that women can do as a duty

Danto their man you need to more so than him you need to go out of your way to Showcase loyalty to him yeah that is something like because of what you said you said women treat just as much as men

Danthey're just better at hiding it it's because of their access to it women their barrier to cheating is so much lower because men are pursuing them they don't need to go out of their way to pursue somebody else okay that's a good

Danpoint okay so women going out of their way to demonstrate loyalty to their man in very very overt ways that is also something but that doesn't always work with high value men right that have like

Milana bunch of options because I've recently dated like a man that I considered have a high value man and like you know how you were discussing earlier about like approaching a high value man at the bar and how he might reject you because he

Danhas options of like other beautiful women like how does that fit into what you're saying like right now what do you mean approaching versus versus loyalty well those are two very very different things um

Brian AtlasI lost my train of thought but the question was there I'm sorry I just I just want to say puffy I tried on Instagram I tried calling you from the whatever Instagram so oh my goodness are

Brian Atlasyou still in the chat I'll call you from we'll put you on the stream right now puffy if you want um all right bye Felicia Pepe Le Pew replaced Chris Brown dope uh I think that was that was that

Brian Atlaswas when we were talking about like Chris Brown yeah thank you bye Felicia I appreciate it puffy Vegas I've never bought women anything you don't have to

Brian Atlasbuy win-min wait why is there why why is there a why okay if a woman likes you 90 my days are just come over I'm sorry excuse me but that that's

Danactually kind of true though what does that mean I don't know that means that if she actually likes you 90 of the time it's not even about taking her out on dates it's like hey let's come over and chill and again at a certain point in time if she likes you that is exactly what it is and it's not hey let's

DanNetflix and chill no it's like come over let's spend some time together no we don't need to go out I love that I prefer that most of the time yeah but once I know somebody yeah definitely not for our first yeah

Priyaif a woman actually likes you it's easy to tell and therefore it is just 90 of the days is like let's just hang out yeah absolutely no I completely agree with that but I think his argument is

Priyathe first date like it seemed I don't know it it doesn't seem like he's finding women that he's going to get into some sort of relationship yeah remember when

Milanwe looked at his Instagram last week and like he had like so many different like random women on there like you're not like demonstrating like really what you're allowing women I don't I don't think that you're surrounding yourself with

Danum people with decent moral values I would ask what would it take for you to trust a woman that would be that would be very simple because again like maybe you can't trust anybody like not to get too deep but like

Danlike what would it take like what's the barrier for you to be like it's good enough like it's good enough I can trust or are you just out completely self-reflection is key

Brian Atlaswhoa that was Steve so deep so deep okay we have bye Felicia approximately 24 people are killed each year by Champagne by the corks depending

Brian Atlason the conditions the cork would need to be under three bars of pressure to travel at 60 miles per hour yeah it's dangerous it's dangerous my hands are still contused okay puffy Vegas thank you man this woman is

Brian Atlasjust joking no man would be offended about what you wanted to pay every man I've known has had women paid for dinner why do you not believe the truth you are the reason why I would never pay for any women one one in

Milanone in one in oh my God how did you spell the same word differently three times Michael Sartain said it best grammarly get it grammarly there's a free version

Brian Atlasfolks we have Bye Felicia some men concerned about being screamed at or labeled as creepy for simply greeting a girl Toby Addison a blind man was bizarrely asked

Brian Atlasto leave a gym after being accused of checking a woman out Joey swole good points good points this is related to uh

Nicolemen's hesitation to approach I suppose and we don't get to just blame our hormones and say oh my testosterone was acting up can't do that well men do make some blanket statements like oh that's just my nature this and

Nicolethat is another way to say my testosterone's always on that high level but I don't necessarily think that that's a bad thing but it's not only women who are blaming their biology for their ways that they are sure I think it

Danhappens on both ends but but it's considered but basically we're considered to be like predatory like like this whole financial Instinct like it's not just like oh my God you're being a nag right like like

Danit's like you are you're being predatory in a setting where women are now like made to feel uncomfortable and it's just like all I did was check you out yeah okay because that's the difference because that's

Danliterally what men do is objectify you in order to see if they want to approach you and maybe date you and it's literally just the way that we're wired biologically we have Trenton Kingsley

Brian Atlashere hey thank you man uh thanks for the long podcast Bryant makes work easier add some colors to the whatever merch Billy Ray thank you to for your videos

Brian AtlasMadison 07 always lovely to see you from Trenton Kingsley

Brian Atlasthank you senior transition Trenton Kingsley stand-up guy Trenton what a Chad what a legend okay what Chad Chad

Kikocomes from insult dumb yeah on Reddit is actually that's right you're correct it dates back actually um it dates back to actually you know since we're on the top of Intel don't you think together don't

Kikoyou think it is kind of not ironic but like a crazy coincidence that this podcast takes place in Isla

KikoVista which is where not I won't say in cell culture brood but it is where no most most skin cells wait until dumb uh was created in New Hampshire by a

Kikogovernor on Reddit hold on I think our insult the culture is now where they say like the incel um like their King their Warrior is Elliot Rogers

Madisonthat's not one of our prohibited words or topics yeah but it's just that's one that's a big part of this whole special complicated topic his actions let's not talk about it it's

Kikonot what any of the words that were yeah but I don't really feel like talking about like I'm sure you don't shooting well I wasn't I heard that I wasn't going to go into details about what happened I just think I'm just bring it up how I thought it was thank you very

TTS Readermuch donated 100 puffy my God stop messing with drunk women on the strip and go to church now kept up the good work Alabama if I

TTS Readerhad sock media I shoot my shot but I don't sad face locked araga lifetime for The Horde for The Horde I'm thinking about deleting my social

Brian Atlasmedia she's thinking about deleting her social media and as far as the origins of Chad uh

Brian Atlasaccording to Google it's a rooted in the Old English name chiada that's all we're talking about Defender

Brian Atlasjust saying I'm just saying don't worry about don't worry Chads and Stacy's and all those blondes so we've gone through all the super

Brian Atlaschats here we've gotten liquored up

Brian AtlasI will revise my statement that's kind of it's good I'm liquored up um

Brian Atlasthank you to Cheers Brandon Mills uh before we wrap up with anyone like a final word this has been my favorite

Kikopodcast episode I've been on yet has it it has this has been lovely

Kiko[Music] I'm not wait did you not like Michael thirteen do you not like Michael sardine um I think wait were you on I've never

Kikobeen on with Michael um the Michael Knowles podcast I liked a lot as well but I feel like sometimes he he's a very well educated well-spoken man but at points he'll try to say

Kikothings to trigger the other side that goes unseen where he will say things blatantly to get a reaction out of people that won't be seen as such Michael Sartain I think he is another one of the very well spoken men

Kikoon the other side but he has a lot of things that he says that are easily country like even when he was on here with his uh girl the first time he came on here there was a few things that they said together where I was like

Kikolike he's talking about oh Instagrams have to be a certain way and I don't want my girl posting this out in the third but then if you go on his girl's Instagram page it's yes but he but he did say that he like he

Brian Atlaswas a bikini model like um person so he was like totally okay with that let's not talk about the man well he's we're not trash we're not trashing it shout out Michael

Brian Atlascertain we're gonna talk puffy Vegas

Brian AtlasI'm gonna put you and like the most disagreeable people we've had on the panel with the zerka I think I think we'll do that um okay there is a fight that puffy Vegas there's a fight a physical fight no not a physical fight I mean a

Brian Atlasdiscussion about a physical fight a cat fight Vegas can talk to the panel dude check your Instagram check your DMs I've been trying to call you

Kikohold on I wasn't ignore this I'm not pregnant let's not start I'm not pregnant wait he sent it twice I've just gained weight it's just the angle I mean come on Kiko let's not I'm I'm purposely

Kikotrying very very hard to gain weight to get this huh you're trying to get thick I'm trying to get sick huh you're trying to get with the help of my boyfriend he's encouraging it but okay I have gained weight I've gained 20

Brian Atlaspounds since the last time I was on really yes I have gained 20 pounds but it is not due to pregnancy I have an IUD speaking of iuds who hears on birth

Madisoncontrol I just got off this month news got off thanks Mom when did you get off of do you feel amazing okay um

Billy Rayno it's been a rough month I'm sure it'll take some time yeah all over but we've been doing a lot of research and I felt like a hypocrite being on birth control you look great you feel like being hypocrine birth control with the

Billy Raycontent you post because why because I feel like birth control perpetuates hookup culture so and it also is horrible for your health once you look into it yeah if you read the book

Billy Rayum beyond the pill it'll change your view on everything that's insane did you feel like emotionally unstable or something no I actually felt great on birth control yeah

Billy Rayum but I have it's a rough come down he said it's been difficult yeah hormones yeah so much you come off with like you're like oh my gosh I feel emotions and that was the weird thing so

Billy Rayyou were kind of numb before because I've never been on birth control ever I've never I wouldn't say I was numb it's just like I I'm more in touch with my body now and I can feel the different times of the month and also like I started breaking out because my hormones

Kikojust kind of freaked out um that's interesting because the last I think maybe the very last episode they had with Michael 13 or maybe the one you're on with whatever one was he said that his girlfriend had just gotten off

Kikoand it's been amazing and she feels great and it's been a world of a difference a lot of people do yeah I can see both sides but let's be careful when you say it perpetuates hookup culture because it can I definitely see that

Billy Raysentence but not every woman is on birth control because of hookup culture because she wants to just sleep every chance she can I think the stabilizing hormones things is not true that's not even the point I was gonna say but let

Kikome continue my point it could be for multiple reasons one we know that not every time a woman can make her own informed decision so it is a sometimes backup plan so she

Kikodoesn't have to do other things that you don't want to do two I don't want to start convincing a bunch of women to not take birth control because that can also have a very negative effect going into the doctor so let's let everyone make their

Billy Rayown conscious decision and not I think a lot of people aren't informed of what birth control is actually doing to their body yeah I mean I feel like it's just not hand you this pill I was not informed no but I think that's kind of common sense like I mean it's no they're

Billy Rayincentivized the doctors are incentivized a lot of people

Kikoand things and your real hormones would do so read beyond the pill sorry I thought I thought that was maybe read the book that's maybe naive of me to feel like that's common sense to understand putting something in your body that's literally trying to change

Billy Rayhow your body works all of your nutrient supplies once you come off birth control um to get those nutrients back I I I'm not a doctor I can't really explain it well but there is such a deficit that

Billy Raythe only way to get those nutrients back in my body are going to be um through supplements you can do it through diet but it would take months and months and months because the supply is just like so low in your care so like

Billy Raypersonal question so have you taken like blood tests to figure out like deficiency I'm actually doing that this week I I'm in touch with a neuro narrow path for blood neuropathy neuropathy yeah they they recommend

Billy Raydifferent blood tests and also in the book that I'm reading they tell you the whole panel it's like a neuroscience like home yeah it's like a yeah it's like the like the natural doctors homeopathic medicine got it okay

Kikomy whole point is this podcast the viewers are mostly men right we all know that they don't make a lot of do their own research so it's not their gender I'm saying like you said you're not a

Kikodoctor so when it comes to those things let's not start saying things and pushing things because what I don't want these men to now go on and be like I'll get off birth control don't do this I heard this one you should touch it the reason another big reason I got off is

Billy Raybecause like our next step in our relationship would be marriage and when you're on the reason that a reason that divorce rates are elevating or increasing um is because when women come up birth

Dancontrol is typically when they get married and their hormones change so much that when they're married they're not attracted to their spouse anymore pheromones and it's also a selection thing there are studies and one of the studies is mapped out in the book but

Danthere is a study that was that was performed that showcased that women who were not on birth control so have natural occurring hormones they will mate select with men who have the most

Dandifferent immune systems to them imaginable because it makes their kid more immune to more things women who are on birth control would select for the exact opposite so there are like very

Danvery natural selection oriented things and sexual selection things that the pill will fundamentally change about you and a lot of women like she said will literally just pheromones change and they are no longer attracted to their husbands and also the really interesting

Brian Atlastopic I've never heard of before I would love to do more research who's on birth control right now

Billy Rayum doesn't really make sense um hookup culture point if you look at a graph um when birth control came out the instances of pre-marital sex skyrocketed within those few years it would be very

Milanvery positive correlation to hook up culture being Perpetual but I know what you're saying you're saying that like listen you're not a doctor so let's not promote not taking your medication because women take medication and birth

Billy Raycontrol for period cramps uh but there's way more effective ways to actually get rid of absolutely I'm I'm actually I actually shouldn't have period correct I'm not on birth control I'm on the same page as you I'm just trying to play

Milandevil's advocate here where it's like you don't want to push someone to not take medication that they need you just want to encourage them to kind of do the research on their own decisions

Billy Rayyeah just have safe sex a condom is 100 um combined with taking your temperature every day is very tracking your

Billy Rayobviously it's actually you're getting a very close percentage to Birth

Brian Atlasplease guys safe sex it's really important make sure your chick wears a condom make sure guys female condoms are that's not to prevent pregnancy that's

Brian Atlasprevent STDs of the throat no this is no this isn't a dental dam my dear this is a female condom aren't those statistics that it's like really not that high in

Brian Atlassome I don't know I've never seen one I'm like I'm so curious yeah the circumference is large and that's your preference right no bro don't throw

Brian Atlaswomen without ease under the bus like that I'm not I'm on your side listen Audis doesn't have to do with the like you know I know

Brian Atlasplease do not disrespect please stop being such a misogynist okay listen I'm BLM okay you are a misogynist

Brian Atlasmy dear I'm big maybe I'm a feminist I will not stand for your misogyny ladies do yeah

Milanthat's a big labia versus the bigger the better this came up last time where she was already the girl that talked with me was like how low do you go the girl that was sitting on the end

Kikowhat was her name oh the light skin girl do you purposely put do you purposely put light-skinned girls in the first seat now always so it kind of looks like it's me we're like oh

Kikomy God purposely what put the light skin girls in this first seat now so it looks like I'm sitting here on like a quick glance [Laughter]

Kikohow do you choose the seating on a real note I've been sat here every single time I try to make a beef yeah well he puts the most he puts who he thinks is going to be the most like combative and

Kikovocal in this seat separate us onto like arguing on both sides who thinks more it's like more Trad wife conservative on that side and

Kikothe more 304 liberal not normal I remember the second time I came on here wow but I remember it was me and then it

Kikowas like only fans only fans only fans and I'm like these is why everyone keeps commenting that I'm on the only thing and I'm like I've I thought I was going to learn so much about all my fans tonight and um

Milanyou're usually the majority this would mean that I have been demoted as I was sitting there last time you know I'm sitting here that's what I was thinking honestly I was like but you're kind of you're kind of um like I found the

Milanseating interesting I was like huh I was over there that time you're hard to read which is good she almost got her ass whooped last show I did by two very strong independent feminists oh they're

Brian Atlasfriends they're friends with their Instagrams they have pictures together they were tag teams one here about birth control of course I'm being safe

KikoI pull out of course 72 effective wait of course is that Nick is that Nick or Brian Nick wait what I see you

Brian Atlasshe thinks she's got it figured out who commented that what what's your name put some respect what's his name put some respect on Nick's name what's his name

Brian Atlasput some respect on Nick's name yeah it's Nick okay okay where's Eric uh he is

Madisonis no longer with us no no he's alive

Brian Atlashe's still alive no it was fine he just there was some work he has another job there were conflicts he put in his two weeks notice it was amicable we wish him the best

Brian Atlaswe miss you Eric we miss you Eric we miss you and your presence presence thank you

Michaelaum okay uh let's wrap up here last call does anyone have anything final what's up what you got okay so I came on to just tell my fellow Christian Singles

Michaelathat use your singleness season to thrive and um because you can use it if people usually mope about it and waste it but you can use the single season

Michaelajust to really devote to God and it's gonna change your life like for real and your foundation will be set and God will send you that person when he's ready so don't worry about dating apps or when

Michaelathis person's gonna come but even Paul refers to it as a gift so that's beautiful as a girl that is great advice

Kikoa guy will certainly show up at some point yes oh as my advice to men I advice to men I feel like a lot of people have lost this during covid but

Kikoso I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding angry go ahead um my advice would be to get out there more um join groups not just for the sake of

Kikofinding a relationship but just to get out there more I know too many men who and not just men and women in general but I guess men or women can get away with it more so that's why I'm speaking to men um get out there don't just go to work

Kikoand go home and watch a Five Hour podcast go out play find a hobby maybe go to church I don't know like find do something that

Kikodo something that you enjoy so maybe you could find someone there is what I would say

Milanyou see yourself see yourself as a five and you're afraid of rejection that's something you have to overcome and just kind of put on a little bravado and get yourself out

Milanthere and don't just uh settle for nothing or accept the fact that there's like this Chasm between men and women like put in the effort and try a new haircut

Milana few months in the gym a shopping spree does Wonders working on your personal character spending time with yourself like you just said uh like focusing on God and uh whether or not your version

Milanof God is Jesus or whatever it is I think that's really important to work on yourself first before you have that can someone take this device away from him yeah

Kikoapprove this podcast that you do not have enough you know back up my Mountain Dew making bad decisions

Milanoh my oh my god oh thank you you guys do after shows Seth's the girl who is too afraid to approach man I see you I thought it was okay okay I'm a little afraid to

Priyaapproach men sue me all right all right I'm working on it all right I'm a work in progress I think I think rejection is a good thing for people to go through it builds character it humbles you for both men and women and you just need to put

Kikoyourself out there it's just like how I teach my like kids how they have to like learn how to lose and not always win or get everything they want yeah

Jennawhat about it you just I don't know it's good it's all good there's I just thought there would be more of girls that were bigger than me so oh my God I love the honesty I love

Jennathe honest no seriously because I want to know more about business um she's like I'm on here for clout so we don't know I'm actually here because I like Brian to be honest with you I watched many of

Jennahis shows and thought he was great so I applied no not like did you did you make it not sexual way like I like him as a person I like his values so I traveled here because I went I like to listen to him

KikoI just give it to you Brian out of all the like red pill podcast you are one of the more enjoyable yeah that's very true yes that is very true definitely and I thought about I could tell you you don't

Jennahate women I thought about bringing you a ring I was doing a fake ring yeah I was gonna you know I had ideas he loves when women jump over him so he does oh yeah and he loves when they do them you

Kikoknow the masculine Duty so if you promote them that might just bring him in

Milando you want kids Brian yeah did you no I have kids but I'd like how many kids and big labia that's what I know about you let's not put those two

Milantogether oh yeah well on the bright side that's not what I was saying that's not what I was saying

TTS Readerokay if she doesn't approach that's where I come in so MIA coffee next week are you white and nerdy oh that's an orange case sure

Kikowhat's that what's like how gotta get him white or nerdy or something I like him do you guys all think that you guys are more attracted to a certain race or is it not a thing to you yeah I used to

Priyabe afraid Vietnamese women oh sorry okay yes I'm just kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm contracted I'm kidding people if I were to like describe to you my dream guy then yeah I would yeah I would have a specific race because I

Kikowould I used to say to you like oh I had a type of race but when I look at my track record it's all over the place yeah exactly the only thing I could say in common is usually they do have tanner skin if it could be a white tan

Kikoman or a light-skinned hand man or a Hispanic tan man I do usually get drawn to that and like the brown American features yeah but I don't think I've ever been like oh he's blonde and blue eyed like that's not my dog when I when

MilanI was like hyper feminist like in my like 18 to 20 like age range that's that's when I would be too afraid to admit that I like dated based on race

Milanor like that I had a certain type but I'm not afraid to say it anymore it's like it is what it is we all have our pressure did you say yes to Brandon I said if he's white and nerdy oh if he's white

Brian Atlasand nerdy and then we start talking about racial preferences yeah okay

Brian Atlas[Laughter] um Okay so did everyone else answer them there was another question there you were just doing closing costs you were asking me a question right I I talked about big

Brian Atlaslabia and then that was pretty much I asked if you wanted kids big labia check I said I had an any why would you ask me oh wait oh no the kids the kids thing the kids was that yours that Kiko who

Brian Atlasasked yeah I'll have uh seven kids would be good seven god wow okay you better get started behind the ball I got time

Brian Atlasyeah he is a guy is that what the lapel means oh yes how much how much was it to reveal what the lapel means I don't well the the price was get my Eclipse

Kikochannel to a million subscribers then I'll reveal it I think that was the price so six seven a lot huh you like picked then I'm like sevens your default number whenever a number is brought up

Brian Atlasum wait but what was I saying um there's a there's a Bible verse there's a Bible verse and it goes maybe you know it it goes something along the lines of

Brian Atlaschildren are like children wow children are like arrows in the hand of a warrior

Milanthat's beautiful Brian what's that in his quiver wait hold on children quiver you just told me not to mention but I

Brian Atlasknow that's what I was gonna say you guys could talk to me children children this is Psalm 127 3-5 children are a Heritage from the Lord Offspring a

Brian Atlasreward from him like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one's youth

Kikoblessed is the man whose quiver is full of them to visit her to church right now what's going on you should be on episode there's also like the quiverful movement

Brian Atlasme too me too I just fell out of my light on fire I would like seven children because I feel like my family's not huge and I

Kikowant to start that I want to have a big family I do too right that's wholesome I wanna have a big family but I also understand economics and how the system works so yes

Jennafor sure so Seven's a little pushy three four we're talking real good I asked God if I could have four kids three boys one girl when I was at a very very young age right I forgot to ask for my partner

Jennathough so God gave me what I asked for he just didn't do it right you know it sounds like cool that's actually crazy I have three boys one girl what are the

Productionodds hey is that what you asked me like I want to ask for but a little too well wait here's the thing let's say how many how many children do you most of you want like two or three or something

Brian Atlasthree let me ask you a question though let's say your husband really wants a son and you end up having two or three daughters right and he's like really really wants a son do you keep going are we financially if I could if we could

Brian Atlasfinancially afford it I would try again but we're stopping at five because because me five is crazy I have to have I kind of agree with that at least one son I get that guy I don't care doctor carry on the name to carry on no I just want the sun

KikoI just want a son I want a son because I feel like I I couldn't relate as much to a dog my boyfriend always says I just know I'm not gonna have any daughters I know I'm only going to produce sons and

DanI'm like you keep saying that and you're gonna get yeah and I don't want all daughters so women or more women are just more complex in in so many ways it would be in my opinion it would be probably fairly easy to raise them when

Danthey're younger because they're just like less aggressive and Rowdy but the moment that they like get to the point where they're like I would imagine it would be unbelievably challenging to parent a daughter relative to yourself

Kikothe worst thing you could have when the daughter she's a hoe the worst thing you could have with the son he's a mass murderer I mean it's like it's two very like what a hoe and a mass murderer I really have a whole daughter than a

Kikofreaking murderer it's almost as if minimum the statistics but my point is though like I feel like a lot of people do say that all the time like how scared they are to raise a daughter but I feel like people are you

Kikodefinitely they're negating how hard it is to raise Sun not because I feel like they're going to be coming with this aggressive violent man but I feel like so many people place so much more effort on their daughters instead of their sons and that's why we have so many

Kikoemotionally unavailable men who don't know how to regulate or are forgotten because it's just as important to raise your son as it is to raise your daughter this is your son you're raising someone who's hopefully in a one-day Court a

Kikodaughter and raise a family with him and we all are saying how important it is for that man to be sound so I feel like it's a really big deal with raising young men especially in this generation

Kikowe're in now when there's a lot of things targeting them against their backs and stuff like that so I feel like it's I'm very scared to raise his son especially because I don't think it might wait for one ever do this to me if

Kikowe had families but I could not imagine having kids with someone having sons and then them leaving me and having to raise these Sons as a single mother on my own that's terrifying well this begs the

Brian Atlasquestion well gay son or thought daughter that's what people always say yeah okay um uh let's uh wait where wait hold on

Brian Atlaslet me see did we get any more chance let me just double check okay nope nope um by the way uh can I put in a good word for Brandon the guy who's going to take you out on a coffee date I mean he already paid because that's a thousand dollars

Brian Atlastonight that's a pretty good word on its own that is a foregone conclusion the coffee date um there was one time we were in a locker room

Brian Atlasand let me just say this dude's like a tripod like what the bruv huge it's huge giant so you actually know that would be

Milanpainful I don't believe that no woman likes that Brian no woman likes a you know larger than average what's what's that some people do but they're lying somebody's Mike they're lying I agree

Brian Atlasall right 500 I think I feel like there's all right let's wrap up all right so should we do an after show you wanna

Kikosperm decides the gender not the egg I mean if it's really short I think we just wrapped together what's the after show what are you guys doing that like what's the after show we dim the lights and

Brian Atlasthen it's like kind of more chill you just shoot the for you if anybody in the past two hours like if you don't have to stay for it um how about Madison do it do you want

Brian Atlasto do like 15 minute after show he's 15 minutes so down for this after show right now someone said we should smoke okay

Kikowell I everyone's gonna stay for the after show we might as well just I feel like we've already been designed for 15 more minutes as soon as the champagne bottle came out

Kikoit was basically the after show yeah yeah we haven't really been on topic we got a little bit for the birth control for a second but it is on fire oh

Brian AtlasBrandon on fire um hold on let me so we gotta get Brian's tolerance up I don't think it's possible I don't drink like I rarely drink so he took like two sips it's rare okay guys last call hit the

Brian Atlaslike button please on your way out we are going to do a very brief after show 10-15 minutes we're gonna by the way if anybody I know it's late so you don't have to save for the aftershave you can excuse yourself thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world

Brian Atlasbut you were here with me I appreciate that thank you to everyone so who so generously and kindly super chatted donate and supported the show tonight you guys were uh I very much appreciate your patronage tonight thank you guys

Brian Atlasthank you to the wonderful panel for joining us many of which who came from locations exotic far and wide thank you from distances far and wide thank you to our chat mods big thank you to Britt who's helping with timestamps any women

Brian Atlaswho want to be on the show DM at whatever on Instagram uh we'll be live again Tuesday 7 P.M Pacific with our next dating talk 07's in the chat if you're leaving and if

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Brian AtlasI don't know okay all right guys after show starts tonight now oh wow oh that's cool

JennaBrian this is way better it's way cute it's better oh my God she's 10 times better that's how we started the after show the reason why this was your favorite podcast is because and I'm not

Dansaying this to to Pat my back or Pat anyone else's back first of all I don't think we've ever had as many people who lean more toward this side on a panel sure so that's for one secondly a lot of

Danthe conversations were not like aggressively culturally divided yeah I think there were actually quite a few way more than I could have imagined actual somewhat productive

Dandating conversations that occurred where I think I specifically saw a lot of you have your eyes open up and go oh wait a second that actually kind of makes sense which is usually not this is again not not against him that's not usually how

Danthe show goes there's usually a lot of like a lot of like really really like hotly divided topics in dating and then like aggressive cultural right your trans debate crazy stuff about like patriarchy patreon I was hoping we were

Dangoing to talk about Barbie that would have been fun but like but but like that kind of but yeah it was actually a conversation about the Interdynamics of dating that's not necessarily going to make for the

Kikomost like crazy viral content right like I've been on this podcast this might be like my around my eighth time now and there's about three podcasts I was on that go around and it's because we hit on those hot topics

Kikoso I've been on here before where it was very cordial kind of how it was tonight but it was boring and I feel like I didn't really learn much and we really just flabbed about nothing whereas tonight it was kind of more productive to where it was my favorite but yeah

Kikoit's like those hot topics get hit we bring up the Bible we bring up trans all these different topics especially when half the side of the

Kikopanel is there this is their livelihood right this is what they do every day day in and day out go on podcasts tweet and Tick Tock about para bonding and the Bible and these things whereas me he

Kikojust DM me to come on this show and I said sure never even watching or viewing it one time this isn't my livelihood this isn't what I do for work or a career so like for them it makes sense for them to be sitting up all day

Kikoresearching these topics and these facts whereas me no I'm not going to go home after and Google Psalms this or pair bonding this because it doesn't affect me on my day-to-day

Kikolife I'm a bartender like I don't make this content so that's where we would bump heads a lot is because they would pull out all these facts or whatever and

Brian AtlasI'm just pulling out what I experienced as a normal person and yeah that's kind of where we would bump heads TTS by the way has been reduced to 20.

Brian Atlasthat's part of the end of it so if you guys want it TTS we bumped it all the way down to uh 20. let's ask more questions by the way I think that your store I

Danknow it was five and a half hours ago your story is probably going to get you onto the podcast to talk about the things that you want to talk about it that was terrible everything I didn't want to talk about we talked about

Danwithin the first time can I can I can I say like I didn't want to talk about having my kids but I I will say like the way you talked about your family was like incredibly

Danrespectful wholesome I could tell there's a lot of love shared between you your kids it sounds like you've gone out of your way to put an effort into making sure that like they have both parents in their life to the best of your ability and very open about the reasons why you

Danthink you may have failed them and failed yourself you didn't say anything horrifically bad about the men that you dated right I thought that was like a very very like objectively good story for people to

Danhear honestly because I don't think you're by anyway propping it up as like the example of one of how people should start families and race them and there's a lot more people in her situation that

Danlike to lead on especially in America yes yeah but but like but again that's a conversation that can get so freaking loaded so freaking fast like he wanted to move it on to like okay let's get like relationship status age and then

Danwe're into the dating conversations right but like that is a five and a half hour podcast in and of itself there's like 10 people that just said you're a simp

Billy Rayhe talks like this all day every day I would have lost attraction a year and a half ago

Madisonum what previous or current guests on the show would you want to be on the panel with in the future um no idea

Billy RayI would like to get on with yes I was just about to see Destiny yeah no I'm sure you wouldn't I was on with them I can't I can't yeah he's true I would

Kikolike to be on with pearl oh yes recent disagreements Pearl so many people have because so many people have disagreements such a joke to me I mean

Kikoshe's a grifter why that's one thing I don't agree with Destiny Destiny tries to change it a grifter is someone who it's they're just doing it for views she admittedly what they believe they just

Milansee it as a way to make money online she admitted in a video in a car that in her car that she was just like looking for ways to make money and she's gonna expose multiple times yeah she's she's literally admitted it that like she's just looking for ways to make money and

Milanthen she found that like getting into the red pill space and saying Wild Things appeal the 19th Amendment where you have to take away all of women's rights that divorce should be banned like all of this stuff she doesn't believe anything that she says she

Billy Raydoesn't lead with good faith she tries I think there was a a lot of like it's almost like Tate like they they point out things that are wrong and there's value in that but just recently

Billy Rayum I don't know if she kind of lost me yeah she's going on the extreme there was there was there was just comments about

Milanunderage stuff oh yeah she's just well that's why I think that she's bad faith she takes it too far and she doesn't understand the ramifications of what she's saying she doesn't actually personally like at least Andrew Tate's a good grifter where you could leave it

Kikolike it's believable yeah I don't know him it's hard because he's so good at it whereas like with pearl it's she tries to be this Chad wife and it's like so obvious that was like this tomboyish girl that just

TTS Readerthrew on a dress like everything she didn't know how to be feminine example of something that she said that is she said that we should ban divorce she said that 16 year olds are more attractive

TTS Readerthan 26 year olds and she's literally 28 unwed a bad name also Pearl gives men a bad Pearl does give men a bad name I totally agree with

Danthat and woman as well yeah I know we actually have a little bit of a disagreement on this one well no it's because again I just I'm taking the words very literally that she's saying

Danhe doesn't have a Twitter so he hasn't seen the channel for Twitter I've seen it like she's showing me the stuff where it's like hey like don't get your like don't get your kids in sports because that's feminism because you're giving your kid over to someone else who's

Dangoing to be potentially raising them and things like that yeah I would never say that because I would love for my kids to play sports the best thing you could put your kids in the best thing you could do for some of the best lessons that I've learned in life has been through

DanAthletics sports right teams competition teamwork you're the role that you play and whatever like Endeavor you're going towards right the respect for authority climbing the ladder being a leader like

Danall these different hard hard work for the sake of like one specific one specific goal right and then there's like micro goals like there's all these different things you learn um so that's the kind of thing where I'm

Danjust like I hope that that's just a message to kind of get the point across that women are a little bit more absent from their kids lives than they used to be but when you say it literally if you act if you actually believe that I

Milanfundamentally disagree with you I don't think it's too radical you'd hope that she'd be like that but she's literally saying that women don't have the right to vote like women she was saying that like feminism is so bad that we should go back and like to persuade feminism

Danand like repeal all of that I think that's ridiculous I think fourth wave feminism is the problem and fifth wave premium is where we come back amen it's a very thing things have to get as bad as they can possibly get

Danbefore they can get better the pension she has sort of a black pill take on a lot of this stuff yes but on the other hand she's also like I know for I know that she either already released or is working on a documentary about divorce and you should see some of the

Daninterviews that she has done with people who have gone through divorces like you would be un like the the the the red flags that she raises for men in terms of know this before you get married know this before you start dating a woman

Danknow that when she does this she might be trying to trap you today like she showed text messages or talked about text messages of women talking to their friends being like I'm trying to get him to hit me just won't like it's like

Milanlike that where it's like these were real things like do you think she's good faith do I think she's good faith because like I agree with you those are important topics to raise right but do you think she's doing it in good faith is really the question again I don't

Danwant to pass any judgment like that I think that she was I think that she started doing something because it was something that she probably cared about and then she got bigger and now she has a platform and she sort of found meaning

Danin it and now she's like what's the most impact that I can have without being untruthful right without being false so

Danshe's pushed so so again is she pushing an agenda maybe of course right I don't think but I don't think she's grifting right like be like a grifter is literally taking something that you

Dandon't believe and just pushing it for the sake of pushing it because it's going to benefit you I don't think she believes that she's pushing that's what we're saying you can think that but she admitted well she admitted to it she admitted it and when in her car video

Milanwhen she's talking about like moving to London how she wants people to in London to contact her for like uh employee employership or whatever she mentions that testing tolerance donated twenty

TTS Readerdollars black shirt I worked in the cell industry for years we have the day two and I have the anecdotes to convince me it's better to check their person their cars women have learned to hide things

Danin ways that men don't think of you can grant good faith in what what what's this

Danagain like like what I encourage people to be observant again I don't know how many times I have to say pattern recognition like you can't just live like an unconscious like but so many people are not self-aware enough to do

Danthat I I I don't know like I'm I'm like hyper aware of my surroundings same all the time have you noticed like I it just so if something was off if something was different like I would just it would

Kikoresonate and if that if it remained different or got even more different straight further from equilibrium like you just call it out I don't know what I think the overall like meaning is if you feel a doubt in your mind about

Kikosomething just ask them instead of trying to sneak around and check their phone or sneak around check that have a conversation as soon as that feeling comes up though instead of being like having these doubts in your mind not saying anything about it or doing

Kikoanything about it let it festering inside of you and so you basically convince yourself that they're in a full-blown relationship with somebody else and then do something about it it's like no as soon as you notice something it's

Danmaking you feel a certain way nip it in the butt ask them about it get your answer I I don't know like again like everyone who keeps bring who keeps talking about this I don't know what to

Dantell you if you simply don't have a barrier at which you are willing to trust a woman like I don't know what to say like like I said earlier it gets deep

Danhow much can you really trust anybody at a certain point if you want to be in a relationship if you want to do something long-term if you want to build a nuclear family if you want to have kids stay with that woman like you either decide that you're going

Danto take that risk or you don't I'm willing to take that risk like and again I'm going to be observant of my surroundings and look for things and I'm obviously going to vent or not vent vet somebody very very diligently before I

Dandecide to commit to them long term especially as a man whose assets would 100 be on the line if divorce were to ever come but but again it's just a matter of being conscientious and just being very very purposeful with your actions and how you go about this and

Milanhow you pursue it can I ask you a question sure how would you advise a woman to go about approaching a man in public in any capacity

DanI mean it's not it shouldn't be nearly as difficult as it is for a man to a woman um like a man like I don't think a man's gonna be creeped out by a woman

Danso like I don't know just just go go do it I know it sounds pretty basic but like if you just go up and start a conversation with a man as long as it's not in the middle of the day and you're like hey would you like kiss me for a dollar where they clearly know it's like

Milansome Tick-Tock thing that you're doing so what's a good like opening line like what's a good like I genuinely want to know about this like I go to like to clarify Ronnie footballer donated twenty

TTS Readerdollars Rodney C from last stream great pod Prius skydiving slash Universal after a first date drink on pretty nice shirt matches the blue eyes I can't have

TTS Readerthe eyes but I'm sure our kids can Brian sent the Safari at photo on dmps in Portuguese and Indian um I don't know did you send it to the

TTS Readerwhatever page I don't know if I see it I oh I forgot to do this during the outro I don't know if he's still in here oh what Frankie donated twenty dollars if you truly want to successfully formulate

TTS Readerand maintain a nuclear family you need bacon bake baked bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bake

Milanthey have too much time over here but I genuinely wanted like I mean

TTS Readerit's not a counter but uh Jesus Christ okay so you know wait what one real quick thing here salute salute you brother donated twenty dollars

Kikothese are the men

Kikookay this is my point can we get back to the point please no woman is ever going to see that and be like I want to hit up Brian I look I

Milangenuinely want to know what a good pickup line for a man is

TTS Readersalutes to Brandon Mills I forgot to say that again

Milanmy thoughts are that I I have been called not Wednesday but Thursday and uh my boyfriend said you like Wednesday why does everyone say it like General Ortega listen I'll take it I'll take it she's beautiful and great but I actually want to know what is a good pickup line

Milanbecause when I'm in mass and we're at a young adult mass and we go to a bar afterwards we're supposed to mingle the men are over here and the women over here and the women are super like quiet and whatever and the men are just like in a separate whatever because they

Dandon't want to be predatious right but I am a very outspoken outgoing woman I would like to know how to build the confidence to talk to you man can I tell you what my like go-to like advice pickup line for yeah absolutely would be

Danwell this is for a guy like but it should work for a girl too like hey I'm not interrupting anything am I you do that they're either going to say like no you're not and you followed up with like I'm sure you were talking about something and they start the

Danconversation for you or that or they go like oh we were just talking about and now you're into the conversation like that that is one that is like fairly easy but again pick up lines it's not it an opener is just about getting their

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