03:52:11Brian Atlasyo esto Surfer thank you very much man for the TTS I mean but when it comes to like the drinking date um one drink Max like yeah it's
03:52:21Kikodefinitely you don't want to go and get yeah like one drip for either I wouldn't say two is a good number no just one one's a waste of time one drink one's a waste one's a waste of a drink I
03:52:34Kikofeel like you might as well get two well I'm a lightweight so you know what it matters it's a waste it's a waste of your time but it is not a waste of his money no that's not my point I'm saying neither I'm not talking
03:52:50Kikoabout what I was just kidding towards so as long as you're buying the second one I mean you're still gonna be sober I mean to me personally I've paid for numerous dates that's not a problem to me I just do think it does say something on the first occasion
03:53:03Kikoum I feel like the first drink right is kind of like a given that he's gonna buy it the second drink alerts to me if you're feeling me or not or like if he doesn't buy the second drink that shows me that he's not interested anymore if
03:53:16Kikohe buys a second drink that shows me that he's interested in prolonging our conversation and time together I don't know man and theoretically work just questions um if you couldn't afford it I would hope that he didn't pick a place that he knew I wanted to
03:53:30Brian Atlasorder more than one thing he was going to be in trouble but Billy I will tell you my previous Mo okay here's what you do first off you go to like a nice kind of a lounge
03:53:40Brian Atlasplace that could double as a restaurant whatever no no loud bars no loud clubs but like a lounge maybe kind of uh like the Ritz you go the Ritz that's nice
03:53:50Brian Atlasthat's amazing fancy yeah and take get this I show up to the Ritz in a flannel that's right that's right that's right wearing sweatpants that's right
03:54:01Priyashow up to the Ritz no you did not I swear to God I believe it no 100 I swear to God I Chase would slap me if I said that right now good
03:54:12Brian Atlasum no no no it's because of the swearing to God it's also good okay no I have gone on multiple dates at the Ritz the Ritz wearing sweatpants and a flannel what's
03:54:26Brian Atlasup what's up it's hacky it's right on the beach casual people walking around the lobby and flip-flops and shorts and a t-shirt it's not it's good it's not even about
03:54:39Kikothe right thing it's about it's the first time okay so I'm supposed
03:54:55Brian Atlashonestly that's a good thing though that means you'll find another person that will go back I was listening to the Drake song I say this all the time
03:55:07Kikolike why are you just like [Laughter]
03:55:15Brian Atlasthe nectarine has imbued me with energy and power I have three pieces
03:55:24Brian Atlasokay listen look look you just Drake oh God Best I Ever Had oh man sweat sweatpants hair ties that's when you're the prettiest I hope
03:55:36Kikoyou don't take it wrong that's fine but you shouldn't be showing up for that formal events like that's you look the best but would she look her best if we were at a wedding and she shows up like that I don't know like there's time and
03:55:49Michaelaplace Brian would you be attracted to her if she was walking on the street with sweatpants her hair tied up no makeup on will that be attracted like would you be like I'm gonna I'm gonna go after how pretty is that Brian's type right yeah I
03:56:01Kikodon't think I don't think it matters to guys as much I really don't I put they say it doesn't matter to them but it does because that's a big thing I've even seen on like am I the Reddit where it's like the woman stops
03:56:13Kikoputting effort into her appearance and as they have kids I don't even just like about gaining weight but it's like oh she doesn't do her hair she's not getting dressed she's a stay-at-home mom and just stays in her sweatpants and t-shirt all day and Men start to really
03:56:25Kikohate that a lot of the time obviously not playing a man like Brian who shows up to the Ritz and sweatpants but a lot of men are fine I love a natural bear phase but they also wouldn't love a woman who doesn't take care of herself
03:56:36Brian Atlaslike those look obviously I don't want a woman who's like disheveled is that how you disheveled disheveled I don't want a woman who's disheveled her hygiene's got to be good well I would consider a little she shows up to a date at the
03:56:47KikoRitz Carlton in sweatpants that's a disheveled woman in my opinion fair enough but like like
03:56:58Productionyou're cornered Brian am I cornered sorry he goes a redditor I love a good one page I do spend a lot of time on Reddit sometimes not Discord though
03:57:13Brian Atlasokay um what were you talking about rich sweatpants I think there's differences dating Mo oh the dating Mo okay look yeah you show up
03:57:24Brian Atlaslike obviously dressed to the nines in a flannel and sweatpants and uh
03:57:35Brian Atlaswait what Water breaker is are you listening are you are you challenging is this a challenging conversation Billy do you
03:57:46Brian Atlasyou can't handle the flannel Ritz combination okay um opria is going too all right peace out um so okay
03:57:56Brian Atlasyou show up on time meet me there at seven boom you know she's gonna be late so here's what you do here's the game plan right you talk you tell the waiter
03:58:06Brian Atlasthis is the this is the gangster move you tell the waiter or whatever by the way because you've already arrived early you already get you already asked for a drink give me some give me a Merlot whatever the you
03:58:19Brian Atlaswant to drink whatever get me a Merlot sir politely please listen Steve the waiter
03:58:30Jennacan you I want you to bring Separate Checks at the end boom that's it and then you pay she orders whatever she wants did you say that she orders that's so terrible that
03:58:41Jennawas not terrible no she orders what she wants you order what you want I mean it's okay go half because if you know right like if you're just like hey like I'm paying for mine or you're paying for yours right no that's just like that's
03:58:54Brian Atlasmy Mo on the date yeah but then when you find out a woman's truth what if she didn't have any money like then what well she showed up and just assumed you were gonna pay a 10 drink I mean she's chilling oh she's just broke and she
03:59:05Jennajust she loves she's one of those people like Chris Brown I don't date broke
03:59:15KikoI'm not saying your philosophy is wrong there's nothing there's nothing like philosophically wrong with doing that but based off the things that you say you want in a woman I don't think you're
03:59:27Milangonna find the woman you want by doing things like that you'd be surprised really that's why are you in a nice happy relationship right now listen I can't I can't oh hold on you put all of our lives on blast but you want to tell
03:59:39Kikous if you're in a relationship on a dating podcast what's your point if you wanted a woman who was more dominant headstrong like making decisions maybe
03:59:50Kikomore masculine you will say that might work with her she might love that and love is but the bill but the women that you talk about you want a lot of the times I think most women will see that and not like it not because you're a
04:00:03Kikogold digger but you talk about traditional woman I mean on a first date if I'm getting courted on this date I would very at least expect you to pay for that one I'm not saying for the pain for everything in the rest of Eternity
04:00:14Brian Atlasbut I don't think you're gonna find your Chad wife bye well here's the thing right here's the thing can you girls stop gossiping back there and uh
04:00:26Brian Atlasokay it's a fair point Fair Point right oh Brian you go on about wanting this and that and but but you don't even want to pay for the first date so it's a fair
04:00:37Brian Atlasargument however here's the thing right is given the current landscape I believe that you don't get the you you don't get that sort of treatment
04:00:47Brian Atlasuntil you are committed to me now I would say 99 of women are not prepared to let's not say commit but are like fully single going in to a first date they're
04:01:00Brian Atlaseither on a dating app they've got tens 10 10 20 30 40 options that they're entertaining maybe they're sleeping with one two three other guys so my whole thing is you don't get girlfriend
04:01:11Kikotreatment until you are said you are my girlfriend but then when I on a previous podcast said that men shouldn't get husband treatment until they make me a wife
04:01:22Kikoyou said well that how will you ever get to that stage so how will she ever get to that stage if you're showing her things that she doesn't like yeah when the question well most but
04:01:34Kikoyou're saying that she doesn't get girlfriend treatment until she becomes a girlfriend correct I said that men shouldn't get husband or wifey whatever husband treatment until there's a ring on my finger and you said well you'll
04:01:46Kikonever get to that point unless you start me what is wifey what is wifey treatment to you what what is that I mean I didn't really yes yes to me personally I mean I guess you will say like the cooking cleaning
04:01:59Brian Atlaslaundry or whatever that sense I don't really need a ringtone so but I guess the differentiation I'd make here is
04:02:09Kikoif you want a Trad wife woman who's you know Homemaker the traditional Viewpoint you're probably not going to get that by making her pay for her first date is
04:02:18Kikowhat I'm saying so that's why I understand I'm cool with 50 50. it
04:02:25Brian Atlasbut but here okay let me let me add a bit of nuance let me add a bit of of nuance I guess I guess to this um
04:02:38Brian AtlasI don't think I'm prepared I'm not like going to provide off-rip for a girl I'm not saying you should it's we're talking about paying for like a 10 drink or whatever I'm not saying
04:02:51Jennathat you take her on a date and then the next week you're paying her rent I mean that's not what so like what happens if say she wanted to buy you a drink right the first time and then like she wants to go out a second time so she's like you know what I'll get you this time how about you pay next time would that be
04:03:05Jennaokay what's that like if she paid the first time and want to go on a second date would you be a second date
04:03:15DanI also think the provider it's not great but it's not bad it's okay Financial provision in an era where women can financially provide for themselves is a massive
04:03:25Danmassive step like you can still give a girl the wife you can give the girl the husband treatment everything outside of the money right
04:03:36Danyou can still give him the wifey treatment everything outside of taking the provision like there are I think we can both agree like there's massive things to a relationship to masculinity
04:03:47Danand femininity outside of the provision of resources it's a huge element and I do think that there is something to a man being able to and this is one of the things I talk about a lot I say men need
04:03:58Danto figure out how to showcase the characteristics that get them to buy into the fact that you can be a provider so to Brian's point if you're able to provide for yourself but you're not ready to commit to him if
04:04:11Danwe can just throw provision to the side and then focus on the other aspects of the audition let's say we should be able to do that in this particular era especially where women are talking about how they're equal right especially on
04:04:23Michaelathat particular front I think she was saying more so if I don't know I don't know who you would uh prefer like a traditional wife versus you know a more
04:04:34Michaelaworldly I don't know but from a Liberal Liberal yeah there we go um but from the traditional standpoints
04:04:44Michaelawe we're tending to look for guys who would be willing to pay for that so she I feel like what you were saying is that if you're not willing to pay for the First Dates then you're probably not
04:04:55Brian Atlasgoing to attract the women that you desire for I I actually disagree I think my unwillingness now granted I and I've said this many times because this topic
04:05:04Brian Atlascomes up frequently uh this loses me women or well you know um perhaps it does but it'll certainly lose other men women if they don't pay the for the first date so
04:05:17Brian AtlasI don't recommend this isn't like some dating coach advice and I don't build myself as a dating coach I don't recommend men because it's not going to do you any positives to not pay it's
04:05:28Brian Atlaseither if you pay for the date it's either neutral or positive uh whereas if you don't pay for the date it's either it's it's never positive it's either neutral or negative uh so gentlemen if
04:05:41Brian Atlasyou're watching don't do this um I'm also I wear sweatpants and flannels too first aid so you know uh take that into consideration uh but
04:05:53Brian AtlasI would actually argue that of the women that still want to date me after I am not prepared to pay for them they're actually really really into me
04:06:06Brian Atlasso or they might be into well not necessarily but it's a screening mechanism whereby the girls that aren't cool with me not paying
04:06:18Brian Atlasbecause a lot of women will break all these rules like if a do you think a girl like if she meets her celebrity crush or whatever granted he may very
04:06:27Brian Atlaswell have the resources to provide for her exceptionally do you think like she needs her celebrity crush to like be paying for all this no
04:06:39Brian AtlasI think Andrew Tate often and I don't like that he uses Chris Brown as the example but he's like do you think a girl cares if do you think she's gonna expect Chris Brown to pay for her now I
04:06:51Brian Atlasdon't think Chris Brown is a great example because of his uh previous dvu situation with Rihanna so I I think he could he you couldn't replace Chris Brown with someone I don't
04:07:03Brian Atlasknow who who's like a dude that chicks fawn over Jordan's worth brother Ryan Reynolds yeah like I think a lot of women
04:07:14Brian Atlasif their ideal man was like yeah I don't really want to pay for you I'll pay for myself like they're gonna be like they're gonna tolerate that story they're gonna change their rules yeah they're gonna break their rules if the guy needs to pay the pay the excuse me
04:07:27Kikopay for the first date uh I just think it's a screening mechanism because they're not they're not disregarding though because they really like this guy it's because he's rich and famous which is two different things it's not looking for love it's looking for a leg up in
04:07:40Kikothe world somehow if I was on a date with a man who was obvious it wasn't like a hidden thing he was known that he was either rich and successful and he didn't pay for me I would think that
04:07:52Kikothey're a loser I would I would think that they're a bum it's like that's I would think either it's a facade that they're putting on and they truly can't afford even though it is a great money saving tactic to keep your expenses low
04:08:03Kikobut I no it would change it for me I would honestly they would not no longer be my celebrity crush I would have been like wow this guy is a real
04:08:14Brian Atlasloser sorry I mean you're a rich and you can't even pay for my it's not about the 20 meal it's about the principal and honestly like a woman who requires romance just really doesn't like you that much and when I say romance I mean
04:08:26Brian Atlaslike romance is a very I mean flower getting flowers paying for the first day doing these intricate that's how you keep the love alive until you keep it Sparky is that what it requires for you I mean I love receiving flowers and
04:08:38Kikothe fact that I know that you were out and about and thought of me to get me some flowers and bring them home to me I have a question for you Kiko why do you support a patriarchal tradition I'm a very traditional woman in a lot of
04:08:50Brian Atlassense I but isn't that supporting the patriarchy are we saying that the patriarchy is kind of based I I do support it doesn't exist by the way but in some ways I don't never denied it huh
04:09:00PriyaI don't agree that's fine um I think that people especially now with how high divorce rates and Etc are I think people forget that relationships
04:09:12Priyathat are a lifelong commitment take a lot of effort and you need to do things throughout your life to continue to keep that spark alive and to wake up every day and continue to choose to love that person I mean if all she's asking for
04:09:26Kikoyou is to buy her some flowers every once in a while she's not asking for a trip to Cabo or the Bahama or something that's not that crazy to expect some flowers every couple oh no I can't prefer when the when the girl is more simping on me than I'm simping on her
04:09:37Brian Atlasbut that sounds like an insecurity issue it's not an insecurity but but why because this is some it's an insecurity for me as a male to have it but this is almost this is the standard that the vast majority of women want a lot of
04:09:49Brian Atlaswomen oh yes a lot of women are severely insecure I've never said something different because women want men to pay on first dates it makes them insecure they want men to chase them you were talking about how you want her to
04:10:02Kikoyou you want the woman to simp off of you yes the woman who want to have a bunch of men chasing her and simply her all attention are insecure they feel they need the attention to remind them of who they are because they don't feel
04:10:14Kikosecure with themselves do you cook for your boyfriend huh do you cook for your boyfriend I would cook I say I could maybe you guys live together right I cooked maybe nine he cooks like he cooked breakfast yesterday I think he
04:10:27Kikoactually cooked you guys split the rent um yeah you do we're both working we're both we went to our careers We're Young I don't expect him at 24 years old to be paying for my
04:10:37Brian Atlaslivelihood okay so it's just what the first day it's just like this arbitrary thing from a holdover from days past where men were would pay for first AIDS but then it's you don't want him to pay
04:10:50Kikofor your rent and I I don't expect no it's because okay it's two different things that's why I'm saying like to me it's a part of the the
04:10:58Kikocourting showing your love like showing how you are interested in me and I think it's a bigger impression if a woman pays for the first date
04:11:10Kikolike that to me that but like we also see in America like a lot of our divorce rates come from the woman being the breadwinner and it not working out if I have to pay for the first date I
04:11:23Brian Atlaswould hope I'm making more money it doesn't but I'm not arguing that the woman I mean it it's gangster if she if she does but I'm just saying I pay for my bill she
04:11:35Danpays for hers that seems to be the most Equitable thing you can do what do you think about this would you feel emasculated about if a woman paid for the bill I've had girls pay for bills before
04:11:44Danum and usually it's like to let me know how thoroughly how how thoroughly they liked the date this happened very rarely but they've done it
04:11:54Danlike just to be like I'm gonna buy this like because I just wanted to let you know that like I had like a really really really great time and I don't want you to feel like you have to buy this sport like it's great it's
04:12:06Danextremely rare the comment that I would say and kind of combining what you're saying with what you stated earlier in the modern dating world where dates happen way more frequently you have to
04:12:19Danput yourself in the position of a man who is now going on way more dates okay it's not like you stumble upon a girl who now you finally have an opportunity to maybe go on a date with
04:12:30Dannow it's in your pocket you could get a date this week and the week after and the week after and the week after and to Brian's point you can you can be as selective as you
04:12:42Danwant talking to these girls it could be your dream girl on paper you go on the date you may think it went well I'm gonna pay because obviously there's going to be a
04:12:52Dansecond date and then she goes it doesn't work out or you say something so as a man in the modern dating world where not only women can't afford to Now cover their own bills it's one thing when in
04:13:04Danyou know times past they couldn't afford to do so so men would do it as a courtesy part of the chivalry a concept earlier right but now you can afford to do it and dates are happening more
04:13:16Danfrequently so men are less inclined to be willing to put money on the line knowing that they're going to have to continue to put money on the line moving forward with more and more dates I see that and but even like she said or you
04:13:29Kikosaid if people have paid for the woman has paid for the date to show like how much that they you know liked it or I've seen the also flip side where women will say I'll decide to pay for my share of the date if I don't I just show that like I'm not interested anymore and to
04:13:42Kikonot make them pay so that's why I could see you know it could be a fine line and then what was the other thing you said with my other point uh Toy lost my train of thought
04:13:51Brian Atlaswhat was one thing you said yeah it's like on It's So Gone um I'll just I'll just jump in here don't buy a girl dinner when she's gonna
04:14:03TTS Readerhave some other dudes producer oh my goalie what Brandon Mills donated one thousand dollars
04:14:14Kikohow about we all just my other point oh God this guy Brandon mels is on that's fire it becomes a problem if a woman expects it to be the same diet every time is that the champagne I think
04:14:27Kikoit's champagne walk apart the free first date like I feel that's totally acceptable and more women the
04:14:37Danlast time I was like like truly finally single God I was you good yeah yeah sorry go ahead go ahead go ahead yeah no big deal celebrate uh is that the highest
04:14:48Danyou ever gotten uh he's done that he's dropped 1K before Giga Chad I have paid for more second dates than I have First Dates yeah
04:14:58Danbecause I was in a relationship entering the pandemic and then broke up kind of early in the pandemic so I was single during the time where like America
04:15:08Dandiscovered walking as its favorite hobby again so like I so I would literally just tell them hey I'm gonna go walk my dog do you want to join me yeah it sounds great that sounds like a great person like that's an admit like I had I
04:15:19Danhad a walking trail when I moved uh back to uh Pennsylvania for a year and that was a great place to be like hey just like meet me here like let's go for a walk it's a beautiful Trail and if that went well I'd be like hey you want to get coffee this weekend and then if that went well let's go out to dinner next
04:15:33Danweek that's totally acceptable like that that is an escalation that I think a lot of men should be willing to do and they they're so slept on there that's a really they're too want to dive into it too quickly but but that but that kind
04:15:44Danof supports Brian's point right like it's not necessarily it's not necessarily about the money it's about like why are you actually going out with him why are you actually meeting up with him are you meeting up with him because
04:15:56Michaelayou're interested in going on a date with him yeah or for free dinner or are you doing it for a free drink at a free dinner yeah anytime I offered to pay for the meal they felt really offended
04:16:09Madisonand and you said you said you were 22. oh my God
04:16:19Kikois this Nick in the back can I account what is going on there's no way one thousand dollars yeah venmo Zell right
04:16:34DanBrian should we just pause the conversation [Music] and you typically date guys around your age yeah them
04:16:46DanI could see guys that age not necessarily having the Financial but well I know she said they get offended when she pays I could see them having a hard time navigating that
04:16:57Dansituation because it can be you feel like you're going through a very step-by-step process at that age it's like I'm supposed to do this that I'm supposed to do this and I'm supposed to do this as you become an adult you realize it's a much much more liquid
04:17:09Danprocess um so I could see them not necessarily being offended but just being a little bit
04:17:19ProductionKiko where are you going she's scared she's the bartender have her do it yeah Kiko can you do it you're the bartender
04:17:30Brian Atlaswait it says read the instructions Point bottle away from self and others remove foil firmly grasp them on top yeah why would you point it twist top until
04:17:40Madisonstopper pops push down on top firmly until it clicks twice twist there's a warning label yeah kind of yeah and just screw it off don't
04:17:51Brian Atlasactually like slowly slowly release if I put my hand if my hands on top of it is my hand's gonna go you're gonna be fine you'll stop it from shooting it just
04:18:02Priyaslowly release the pressure don't just actually shake it and then so if my hands on you're fine Brian is do it
04:18:15Billy Raymy hands are I think mld's in the chat
04:18:22Brian AtlasMuse this is the problem with having small dainty hands bro I don't know how to open the champagne uh is it
04:18:34Brian Atlasdo I lose my man card if I have Kiko dude yeah just don't point just go [Laughter] put your hand on top though to stop it from you
04:19:18Madisonthis way yeah go put your hands on top door yeah that's good that's gonna keep going guys it's gonna pop in you're gonna be
04:19:28Milanlike oh I know I know I said there's so much hype for nothing you got it oh did you shake it Brian no I didn't I definitely didn't
04:19:45Priya[Music] in the world okay it wasn't even a cork Ryan it wasn't it's just a toy stop
04:20:01Brian Atlasbartender oh my gosh approximately 24 people are killed each year by champagne bottle corks depending on WOW
04:20:12TTS Readerdid I move the Cups did I bring the cups back over there where's the coffee I mean we all have a million carbs yeah I think we all have Brandon Mills donated 100 yo Brandon thank you so much and I
04:20:23Brian Atlassaw your second one thank you sir uh is anyone here just Madison you can't you're not 21. I think you're the
04:20:33Brian Atlasonly one yo Brandon thank you so so much man that's incredibly generous of you thank you so much man um where where you go whoa what the
04:20:44Jennayo we just got a camera full of titty what the just like boom right up wait where did the can I get a cup though I need a at least she's grabbing
04:20:56Brian Atlascups right now she's gotta grab cups there's no cops dude Brandon thank you man really appreciate your patronage your Legend well that's where all the guys does that mean we have to pop two
04:21:08Kikobottles though I think so does that mean we popped two okay that was for all the men who comment on my photos flat chest energy I just wanted to show you what I was working
04:21:19Jennawith he was like all right mosquito bites whoever else is drinking let me see what you're working with Arturo you must have some baked I do not know how to pour champagne
04:21:34Billy Raythey're late oh you're really doing another one that one looks more like a quarter excess swelling and even glaucoma are all possibilities caused by corks oh my God
04:21:48Priyathose different directions yeah you can't do it off camera no you have to do it on camera right he paid for this you have to do it on camera
04:22:00Kikoyeah let's move it over here Kiko how old is Puerto Rican girl 26. you have 26. am I Wikipedia now sit on there
04:22:10Brian Atlasshe got it down I like to listen you got some meat we have a Schloss B rich did I say that right B brick I don't
04:22:22Brian Atlasknow good times what were we talking about related to dating before I feel like we've talked about like three things do I have to like oh my God
04:22:39Priyahe's trying to get us drunk is there is there something else that's what we can do oh my God oh my God
04:22:53Madisonyou have to open the cage
04:22:57Brian Atlas[Music] if my okay serious question if my hand is on top your hand is going to be fine is my hands going to have a hole in it you're small it's even a cartoon Brian
04:23:09Billy Raythis is not a cartoon for Brian that what okay oh my God oh my God
04:23:21JennaGod wait how do I do it it's it's unscrewed okay so now now dude just pop it off slowly release the pressure what do you mean release the pressure like slowly
04:23:33Priyatwist it off twist it twist it upwards yes but slowly yes it's way too dramatic oh my gosh
04:23:42Jennawait oh somebody said grow some don't point it at the camera
04:23:57Madisonkeep going bro I'm not turning it it's not turning no no it's kind of like kind of knocked it off I was pulled with my thumb just kind of like
04:24:10Brian Atlasoh I don't know this is ridiculous get on camera dude Kiko sit down this is ridiculous what is happening on whatever podcast
04:24:24Kikobro don't worry I'm pointing it towards the wall [Laughter] I I oh my God Dan please can you do it
04:24:35Milanjust feel it out just feel it out [Applause]
04:24:43Brian Atlasthat's right oh my God he's like the man now Brian so proud of you okay he just throws it okay here pass pass the cups pass the cups all right
04:24:54Brian AtlasI'd like to make a toast my heart dude very hard oh yeah I mean I'm wild you
04:25:17Brian Atlasis anybody is anybody else gonna okay cheers did you guys pour yeah yeah let's get some for Billy let's get some okay we don't really drink have we lost
04:25:28Brian Atlashalf our eyes [Laughter] okay yo Brandon this is a cheers to Brandon Mills yeah to Brandon to Brandon
04:25:41JennaMills let's go Brandon I drink unfortunately yeah uh I mean
04:25:50Brian Atlasit was three bottles it sounds delicious it was great thank you so do we have to do I have to do another one figure out something different to do for his his
04:26:00Priyapatronage uh Brandon I will set you all of them I'm gonna set you up on a day with Mia there you go what the man that just donated three thousand dollars you want me to set you
04:26:12Milanup with with Brandon where does this come from oh no I think he likes I understand I just got that impression Dre Brandon do you want me to set you up
04:26:24Brian Atlaswith me I just wow this is my first time on the podcast not drinking wow look how that went oh you've been tanked all your previous appearances what we were talking about
04:26:36Kikowe were talking about oh my God we were talking about you should pay on the first day oh wow like I would take down before every podcast about like two Tito shots and then in this cup I usually had
04:26:48KikoI would get like two cans of the tall nicolos yeah like I would be so nervous beforehand I was like I can't I can't do this yeah I was like I can't do this
04:26:58Brian Atlassober I need something in my system but oh no this is my water
04:27:10Brian Atlasright inept um so last Point here on the who should pay thing bill can we just what you're doing we're already past that I feel like
04:27:22Brian Atlasokay all right let's do some super chats well I mean like we are like if we're gonna Brandon melts May Long may he Reign oh we have hill we
04:27:32Brian Atlashave kahill here can you hide that did I don't know if we I read this opinions on this dating app significantly lower your self-esteem especially if you're an average man the idea there's so much access to women but somehow you're not
04:27:44Brian Atlasgood enough gets to the hearts of many Modern Day Men I do see a little contusion on my hand I'm just gonna say I'm a little confused
04:27:56TTS Readeris that a word but I don't think that's a word a contusion is not that Brandon males donated 100 okay Leah I'm taking you out
04:28:08TTS Readernext week you'll be down in Santa Barbara on the 5th to the 7th also idened you Brian
04:28:19Milanby the way she's five feet I am five feet I do I am mid-tier because I play the piano according to Brian mid-tier yeah you said that last time oh right you said you preferred
04:28:29Brian Atlasstrains yes that's right you don't play cello or violin I'm just a Pianist okay dude Brandon thanks so much for the uh patronage wait okay so there's going
04:28:40Brian Atlasback to kahil did we did that one come up earlier no the idea there's so much access to women but somehow you're not good enough gets to the hearts of many Modern Day Men
04:28:52Danthat's from kahil he was asking for opinions on this I was hoping that speaks I agree I dating apps in particular are incredibly like
04:29:04Danself-esteem bashing for men um look no further than the statistics that came out from Bumble and from Tinder just look at the graph to see the swipes for women versus the swipes for men and also just take into account your
04:29:17Danexperiences on dating apps I know all of you have been on them at in some capacity at some point you open up your app to men in your inbox who have reached out to you men open their app
04:29:28TTS Readerhopefully to a woman who has decided to match them Raven DT donated 100 technically piano true yeah whoa it is a string instrument
04:29:39Brian Atlasmy still percussion though your brain my city college uh music instructor would freak very upset that I yeah okay
04:29:51Dansorry uh you were saying you were saying uh about the dating apps like yes a man walk a man opens up his app hopes that a woman who he has liked previously has now matched with him women are opening
04:30:03Dantheir app to a sea of men who have already liked them and they're now just selecting which one they are going to match with that is the way it works again what's the dance that he talked about earlier a woman markets herself a
04:30:14Danman makes the first move a woman that has to accept that move and see if she wants to proceed any further that's the mating dance for humans so as a man when a woman is able to literally just take the preferences like she doesn't
04:30:27Danhave to go out and find a six foot tall man she can literally just swipe on all the six foot tall men who have already liked her within a certain radius and mileage right men who are not hitting the standards on
04:30:39Danpaper are going to complete it's going to be the exact opposite effect of the girls who are average to below average who still have a ton of guys in their inbox their egos are going to be inflated their egos men's egos are going
04:30:50Milanto be completely deflated and back to her you're talking about about like when you asked earlier about um does when you ask like do you approach men like would you advocate for women
04:31:01Milanapproaching men on like a regular day out to fix that Chasm uh 100 and do you think that that Chasm between men and women uh feeds into in seldom
04:31:15Milanum you mean like being an incel being involuntarily celibate do you think that Chasm feeds into like in cell rhetoric I think so because I think a lot of men lose hope to a
04:31:27Danpoint where they just decide it's not even worth it anymore they're too ugly whereas if there were a couple that whereas if there were girl well we can get into that in a second but if there were girls who were willing to approach men who they found to be cute just to be
04:31:39Danlike let's see how this conversation goes or maybe I can tell them I'd like to get coffee with him like a lot of men would probably be willing to say yes really a lot of men like it's it's the it's the men who have like immense
04:31:51Danabundance who might see a girl who approaches him and be like and be like eh I'm gonna pass on this one because a lot of the girls who were like hyper attractive who he's probably dating already don't feel the need to approach
04:32:03Danmen but women who aren't getting that same degree of attention who see a man who they wish would approach them go up and approach he's probably going to at least be flattered and he's probably going to say yes if he's not a hyper
04:32:16Milanhyper attractive traditionally hyper-attractive man so the extrapolation is like take the chance right so like so because of how modern
04:32:28Dandating has shifted and changed you would now advocate for women to be the ones to approach absolutely I think that the the issue here is that that can be especially helpful for shy guys
04:32:40Danum I think one of the big issues here is that because women again are emotionally stimulated and emotionally aroused men are attractive on the approach just the fact that he's approaching has the balls
04:32:51Danto approach like he just him making that move automatically elevates him in your eyes so that's an injury so that's kind of an interesting one one and a reason why I wish I could get more men to be
04:33:03Dancomfortable just like approaching getting rejected but if you want to solve the problem of these men feeling the shame feeling the fear women absolutely need to be willing to approach more often
04:33:13Danand face that same rejection and face that same rejection yes you're good go for it I was going to say just the one comment on in seldom again I try not to talk I try not to
04:33:25Danlike talk down on in cells I think that abandoning Hope on anything is a bad move but what I will say to most men who consider themselves to be unattractive
04:33:35DanI've said this before you are 12 weeks in the gym and one shopping spree from taking yourself from being like a three to a six so true and if you do that for a year you're an eight and by the way
04:33:47Danthe characteristics you'll develop as a result of that the discipline the hard work like just the dedication and the overall just willingness to take care of yourself those are going to be traits that you
04:33:59Dancarry over into other aspects of your life and the moment that you start attract and the moment that you start attracting women that is the most tangible measurement of confidence that we have for men in the modern world yep it reminds me of like the best thing I've heard Andrew Tate say when he says
04:34:12Kikolike when he has men reach out to them saying like oh I'm so depressed or I'm so like you know no one likes him whatever and he'll tell them get in the gym go to the gym get a six-pack or you know do whatever and I get what he's saying is because either one or two
04:34:25Kikothings will happen you'll go to the gym you'll become more attractive you'll get more girls you're problem solved or the latter which isn't bad either is you'll get more confidence in yourself and you find something worth living for on your
04:34:37Kikoown to where it's still a positive win-win situation so yeah the gym a nice outfit a nice watch it could do wonders for a man
04:34:47Kikowe still have to pull up your Instagram before you do that
04:34:56Brian Atlasuh pull up twitch really quick first guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one
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04:35:31Brian AtlasI feel like you got drunk as soon as I got in the air like pretty much guys follow us on Twitch twitch.tv slash whatever uh Predator thing for the prime wolf Omni thank you for the prime appreciated
04:35:44Brian AtlasBrothers we'll check back in there before we wrap up the show uh let's pull up Kiko's Instagram really quick while we're waiting why are we doing this because we were going to do it like an hour ago and then just obviously go for it super relevant to the conversation we're having right now do it Nick we
04:35:58Brian Atlaswere talking about um twist uh no it's painted Cabaret oh it's the same thing love it let's scroll down just a little oh look at
04:36:10KikoI guess those are my most provocative photos right there Haram that that's her rum they're also like five years old that's like if you click on it's like 2018
04:36:22Kiko. so these are kind of revealing you think my Instagram's provocative it's I've seen worse like I mean let's be real if you think my Instagram's provocative it's it's not terrible I don't think you
04:36:36Kikowould want your girlfriend to have Instagram at all then it's not that bad I'm just saying though I think I'm very mild compared to the content I feel like it's pretty tame and I have
04:36:47Kikonot deleted anything yeah people for the sake of me being in a relationship I have not edited my Instagram at all except for taking my old Partners off but I I that's why I'm saying when it
04:36:59Kikocomes to social media I don't see myself as having to change how I portray myself because
04:37:13Brian Atlasyep go follow her and also your Tick Tock is Rage quick eco
04:37:23Brian Atlasaway from the Rage Quit era question for you here you said in your pre-show messages to us that you accidentally dated your third cousin and that you're
04:37:33Jennacurrently dating this you you provide this time a man who is a felon did you ask me about fresh out of the worst thing that's happened or something didn't you like what was the question there was a
04:37:45Jennaquestion like what was it but tell us about your the worst case scenario like it's just I went to a wedding and like my grandma was like that's your third cousin and that was it did
04:37:56Jennadid you guys no okay calm down Brian now just curious just saying small town you said you're currently dating a man who is a felon fresh out of prison
04:38:09Brian Atlasbut you've been dating him for what you said a year yeah I did good again super proud of them was it seven months well you said you're the current guy you're dating you've been with him first was it seven months you said or one year it's
04:38:21Brian Atlasabout a year now yeah but you said so when you say fresh out of the prison were you dating him when he was in prison like he just got out of prison when I met him oh so a year ago yeah okay I thought maybe you were pen pals with him that's
04:38:32Jennahow you met him when he was in prison no and then no he got out we just met and we just clicked and we've been together ourselves okay
04:38:48Jennaum not very long I think I mean for a year and a half okay you know some people like oh not very long seven years yeah yeah okay good times that's like you know what I mean slap on the road Good
04:38:59Brian AtlasTimes let me do the Super Chat yeah no no absolutely not no yo we have wait did we read this one from Mr puffy Vegas
04:39:10Brian Atlasdid we read this all right this is a total lies BS my friend's wives girlfriends have hit me about SX my
04:39:19Brian Atlasentire's life offered me s x y do all women pretend that you're not 100 of
04:39:27Brian Atlasevery woman I met cheat on their husbands I've never met a WN that was faithful puffy Vegas is the guy that we looked at he's a teacher right
04:39:39Priyaby the way we looked at his Instagram right on Tuesday yeah he's saying he's essentially saying that every woman that he's met is a cheater but we looked at his Instagram and he hangs out with like mysterious strange women all the time I
04:39:53Danthink you need to surround yourself with better people that's all I'm saying so yeah I I will say I have been I've spent time like on Bachelor parties or just like random boys trips where there have
04:40:04Danbeen women who literally like I've been essayed like I have women talk to me and they literally tell me you're the reason I'm going to cheat on my husband okay like like overtly they do corner you okay like it it happens a lot I was even
04:40:16Dantalking to a friend of mine earlier he sent me screenshots he met a girl yesterday got her number said hey do you want to get coffee I can't I'm actually about to get on a plane to go to to go to Italy full disclosure I'm going with a guy that I may or may not be in love
04:40:29Danwith but I'm intrigued but but I'm intrigued by you and I'd like to keep talking the goal okay so like imagine being that guy who's going to Italy with her doesn't even know that she's just like talking
04:40:41Danto another guy who intrigues her all right he probably thinks oh she's great oh she's coming with me oh she's being super sweet or she's being super cuddly oh we're like having sex on the trip we're spending time touring together meanwhile there's a guy waiting back in New York
04:40:54KikoCity for well that's why I was saying is men don't cheat more than women they just get caught more it tends to be women are a lot better you ever heard that saying before like it's we always say men are the cheaters
04:41:06Kikomen are the biggest cheaters blah blah blah but um a lot of research shows that woman Chi almost just as much they just don't get caught as easy whereas men cheat and then the woman finds out because they you know it's super obvious
04:41:18Milanit's much easier for women to cheat to add to that they they do it some more they're more sneaky what are your thoughts on like being open with cellular devices like would you ever pick up her phone or look
04:41:30Danthrough it or or something like that um I mean I have no reason to do it with her because she gives me zero reason to um but again I think pattern recognition is something that is that is something
04:41:42Danyou got to take into account like like you like maybe something like who you've been texting all day just a question right and then at a certain point if you want to make that confrontation make it but again different people are different
04:41:55Danpeople people are very different I think people who have had their trust violated in the past who say listen it's not that I don't trust you but I have just had situations in the past it would make me feel better if you just gave me access to your phone I completely support that
04:42:07Danum I've never been screwed in that capacity um but I completely understand why people would have it and I actually support it um if the women don't want to cooperate with that so be it but that's for them
04:42:18Brian Atlasto figure out so by the way Mr puffy Vegas a woman is dm'ing me on whatever her name is puffelina I was wondering if I could get you set up with her your puffy Vegas
04:42:31Brian Atlasshe's puffalina that's actually her username let me know if I can get you set up you know okay we have uh can I make a point
04:42:40PriyaI think that women that behave like that are absolutely pathetic people people need to take accountability yes like and if you want to have successful relationships in this life you have to
04:42:52Priyastop being a complete sorry what uh degenerate
04:43:01Priyawhen it comes to confiscating it like a teacher it was really confused yeah right but one sip but they're
04:43:12Priyapathetic because yeah because people because women behave like sex is this like disposable thing that if they engage in it more and more often
04:43:24Priyathat they're somehow being um that's the word I'm looking for like in the divine feminine energy yeah yeah
04:43:35Priyasure yes empowered empowered yeah exactly empowered and at the same time they're wanting this man to commit to them and they're trying to find somebody that is going to play the traditional
04:43:47Danrole in the relationship when they're just out here being promiscuous and not acting traditional in any sense how does that relate back to what you just said I would actually say like what she
04:43:59Danjust said like like had me thinking more about my response to you I would I would venture to say that openness with devices should should actually be like a non-negotiable that it's totally okay
04:44:10Dansame that's why I have nothing to hide from her on my phone she has nothing to hide from me and her phone do I feel the need to consistently check it no but I honestly think that if you're in a full long-term committed relationship with
04:44:22Danfuture prospects it shouldn't even be a remote question if someone were to ask you can I see your phone you should be able to be like yeah like it should be a no-brainer non-negotiable if you're look if you're hiding something or if you're
04:44:34Milanbeing fishy about that something is 100 off yes a lot of men like will DM me and be like um I'm nervous that like this girl I'm dating might be cheating on me um do you recommend that I look at her phone I'm like you're already too far
04:44:46Milanlike if you can't lay out your phone and then like for example when I was in a monogamous relationship when we're living together for almost four years phones were like it just I just picked it up if I needed to use it or he picked
04:44:58Milanmine up if you need to use it you know when you know and even the slight like instinct that you got to check her phone is you're already past that point in my opinion pattern recognition is not insecurity yeah I think that's a very
04:45:10Kikoimportant thing yes I was honestly so fortunate in the relationship I'm in right now that my boyfriend actually lost his phone like two months in three months into a relationship and while he was like there's a problem with his
04:45:23Kikophone insurance or whatever so he didn't have a phone for like honestly almost like two months he didn't have a phone and he was using my iPad a lot because it had um it has like cellular you can use it
04:45:33Kikobut what happened was since he logged into his iCloud on my iPad all of our stuff has kind of gotten synced together so he has access to like he gets my text messages and my like all my social media
04:45:46Kikonotifications and I sometimes get his too which I kind of like because right in the beginning it allowed for no like Secrets or his parents yeah it was cool transparency not even because he wanted
04:45:57Kikoto but it just ended up being that way so like now I know he has full access to all my messages and he has I have full access to his and it's just no no even questionable big question Kiko what if you were on your boyfriend's phone right
04:46:10Brian Atlasand you're so drunk [Laughter] but if you're on your boyfriend's phone right and like you're just you're checking this and then boom grinder
04:46:20Kikopops up what do you do oh shh grinder um I would be like I'm very disappointed that you
04:46:31Kikofelt the need to hide this and start something like this um you put my Sexual Health in at risk and
04:46:41Kikothat shit's not cool and you're a because if that's what you want to be then be that loud and proud don't do that on my time what y'all wait
04:46:53Brian Atlaswhat's going on behind the scenes there what y'all doing Madison what you doing back there hey Madison get back in your seat Madison are you Michaela now yeah get
04:47:05Kikoback in your seat right now you can't eat over there I demand you starve on camera odd demand eat your popcorn haven't you been eating my lgbtq it's not anti-lgbtq
04:47:17KikoI just feel like I have the right to not be in a relationship with a game I feel like that's like anti-gay that's ridiculous like that's
04:47:27Kikojust sorry yeah objectively sorry I don't want to be with a man hey you too Nicole secretly but you're going to power in that seat right now
04:47:38Brian Atlasguys here's what all right we got to do some super chats so here's what we're gonna do God you're on a good one did you even have like half a glass well no this is just his third character he has a
04:47:50Brian Atlascondescending girl yeah the operating guy and now he has it he has doctor too bye Felicia donated fifty dollars concerned about being screamed at or
04:48:02Brian Atlaslabeled as a creep for simply greeting a girl what in the hell potentially causing her discomfort however I'm all right with the receiving respectful rejection
04:48:14Kikowhat is it called what do you call when it's something this is whole podcast is scuffed now we're just Scots listen up I'll tell you this time
04:48:27Brian Atlasshe's from Alabama so she knows what did I have Todd Chrisley
04:48:41Brian Atlasokay let's not talk about it but uh let me just say bye Felicia thank you very much I appreciate it excuse me Chico
04:48:54Kikoraise your hand if you want to ask a question there you go I call on Kiko [Laughter] when they when they send comments and it just ends up as link what are they
04:49:06Brian Atlastrying to say are you are you speaking are you making fun of me right now I'm just trying to make the same energy as you wait so what was the question what are they saying
04:49:17Brian Atlasabout you roll time roll sad no like I'm actually seriously wait so just so you're gonna because your
04:49:28Kikoaccent's a bit tame but if you get a bit more drunk is it going to come I believe when I get excited or when I get uh passionate I get really country well your voice just sounds like sunflowers
04:49:45Brian AtlasI think you're like a clothesline here's here's what I see when I hear her when I just see her whatever you're like
04:49:55Kikoa a cool breeze on us that's what's up it's precious Brian's
04:50:02Brian Atlasrizz level is yeah excuse me the Ariel Brian just came out all right we have puffy Vegas here our good friend puffy