Milan (DT88)

26yo. Puerto Rican. In the interim between completing undergrad and starting PhD in psychology; currently running a free male dating advice platform called 'Men Ask Mia.' Grew up Protestant in suburban NYC area (white picket fence background); parents no longer in contact. Went through a phase of post-modern feminist indoctrination in college (ages 18-20). Now more traditionalist in personal values while still analytical. Courting two men simultaneously (both know): a Catholic/abstinent man met at Mass, and a recently divorced older man (~10-15 years older). Has made a personal commitment to not have casual sex (born-again approach). Identifies as polygenist (open relationship on man's end, closed on her end). Had 3 prior monogamous long-term relationships (all lacking masculine leadership). Longest relationship: ~3.5-4 years (lived together). Arrested in Ojai, CA during this episode week: was with one of the men she was dating (the older/Phoenix man) who became physically aggressive when she refused him; she grabbed her phone back from him (which she was using to record the incident) and was arrested under California domestic violence law; cops apologized and she was released quickly. Has extensive video evidence; charges expected to be dropped. Self-rates: 6.