She Wants A Traditional Man But WILL NOT Take Husbands Last Name?! | Dating Talk #117

Date: 2023-11-13

Duration: 5h 53m

Guests

Brian Atlas

JJacqueline (DT117)>

KKylie (DT117)>

JJackie (DT117)>

EEmily (DT117)>

CChase (DT118)>

TTiffany (DT117)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Ava Marie(guest)

SPEAKER_03Tiffany(guest)

SPEAKER_04Ali(guest)

SPEAKER_05Pearl Bots(guest)

SPEAKER_06Tiffany/Jackie (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Chase(host)

SPEAKER_11Emily/Jackie (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_13Jacqueline(guest)

SPEAKER_14Kylie(guest)

Key Moments

QuotePearl Bots introduces herself and describes going viral for TikTok about shaming men who split the bill.

“my name is Pearl Bots I'm 31 and I'm a singer songwriter and content creator”

QuotePearl argues that the viral TikTok was a skit to illustrate a point, not actual advice, and criticizes sensationalist journalism for misrepresenting her views.

“it was a 30 second clip of like a very small piece of how I think and who I am”

QuoteBrian challenges Pearl: she wants a traditional man who pays and leads but won't take his last name. Pearl says she hasn't met a man worthy of it yet.

“I haven't met a man who is worthy of me taking [his last name]”

QuoteChase responds that a high-value man would not want to marry a woman who won't take his last name.

“why would a high value man want to marry a woman who won't even take his last name”

QuotePearl rates herself a 10/10 on looks, arguing that perceiving yourself as a 10 helps you actually become more physically beautiful through higher self-standards.

“10... I think that my looks have grown as my self worth has grown”

ControversyBrian challenges Pearl and another guest who rated themselves 10/10, saying they overrated themselves. Ava pushes back, calling it ridiculous.

“y'all overrated yourselves a lot”

QuotePearl defends her 10/10 self-rating by explaining it as a mindset tool that leads to actual self-improvement and attracting better energy.

“if I perceive myself as a 10 then I push myself to get to those standards every day”

QuoteKylie shares the story of her first love at 19: a meth/heroin addict who led her on while seeing his ex, and who she visited in jail.

“he was addicted to drugs... he was messing around with me the whole time and seeing his ex-girlfriend”

QuoteJacqueline expresses frustration at the double standard on body counts, arguing men have no right to judge women when their own counts are higher.

“who the f*** are you to tell me or judge me on my body count when your body count is probably 10 times higher”

QuoteChase explains why the body count double standard exists: women can get sex easily, men must become exceptional to achieve the same. A high body count in a woman raises questions about self-control and faithfulness.

“if a woman wants to rack up a very high body count all she has to do is open her legs; if a guy wants to sleep with 100 women he has to become an absolute stud”

QuoteJacqueline calls out a TTS donor who criticized her looks, saying 'who are you to call anyone' and looking at his appearance.

“women look at what he looks like like look at you you are so ugly like who are you to call anyone”

Topics Discussed

Introductions and relationship status round

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation) and describe current relationship status, recent breakups, and longest relationships.

Pearl Bots viral TikTok: shaming men who split the bill

Reaction to Pearl Bots' viral TikTok (~8M views) and NY Post article about using a trick to shame men who want to go 50/50 on dates. Discussion of whether men should pay for first dates, Pearl clarifies it was a skit/illustrative video, not advice. Led to broader debate about gender roles, feminism, and courtship norms.

Feminism debate: definitions, equality, gender roles

Whether guests consider themselves feminists and what that means. Debate about equality of opportunity vs. equality of outcome. Whether feminists truly want equality (draft, dangerous jobs). Pearl, Ava, and others articulate varying positions. Brian and Chase push back on inconsistencies.

Marriage, no-fault divorce, and state vs. biblical covenant

Brian argues no informed man should sign the marriage contract because women overwhelmingly initiate divorce and are rewarded for breaking the contract. Chase discusses history of fault-based divorce. Viewer donation about eliminating no-fault divorce.

Pearl Bots additional viral videos: feminine energy and traditional relationships

Reaction to Pearl's other viral TikToks about transitioning to feminine energy and soft girl era, wanting to be led by a man. Discussion about the tension between hyper-independence and femininity. Brian challenges Pearl on consistency between feminist identity and traditional relationship preferences.

Traditional man vs. taking husband's last name

Pearl says she wants a traditional man but is unsure about taking husband's last name. Brian and Chase press her on the contradiction: wanting a man who leads and provides but not wanting to take his last name. Pearl eventually says she's open to it if he's the right man.

Requirements in a partner and what women bring to the table

Discussion of what women offer beyond physical appearance and sex. Pearl talks about feminine energy as value-add for men. Brian and Chase debate whether high-value women need to offer more than what average women offer.

Self-rating of looks (1-10)

Guests rate their own physical appearance. Two guests rate themselves 10/10. Brian says most overrated themselves. Debate about objectivity in beauty standards, self-confidence vs. delusion, and how overestimating looks leads women to pursue men out of their league.

Kylie's dating story: first love, drug addict, criminal history

Kylie shares story of her first love at age 19 (newly sober) — a meth/heroin addict who led her on while secretly seeing his ex-girlfriend. She visited him in jail. Discussion of bad boy attraction, why women are drawn to men with dangerous/criminal vibes, and whether this is self-sabotaging.

Body counts and double standards

Whether body count matters, the double standard (men revered vs. women shamed), and why the double standard exists (differential ease of getting sex). Jacqueline expresses frustration. Chase and Brian explain biological/evolutionary reasoning. Guests share their counts. Jacqueline: 15. Tiffany: 0. Kylie: not disclosed. Emily: not disclosed. Chase: 8 (referenced from prior episode).

Transcript

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TTS Donationssoccer it's not like there's some like gosh grid One Motorsports donated $100 okay Chase last one sorry it throws you off ladies that think you are

TTS Donationsfeminist please try and understand that men value you but feminism must devalue men true curious what what qualities do you look for in a man here we'll come back to I'll write that question down we'll come back to that so yeah but It

Chaseultimately comes down to the like there's not like a governmental organization that's like we're going to pay them this much the teams play there's advertisers that pay advertising money and then they get like it's a business they get a cut of that but I

Ava Mariealso think it's because men for so long have been in a POS position of power and have been looked at as like the more physical whatever are the ones who go out and work are the ones who do sports are the ones who do this so they have

TTS Donationsmore years of it being socially acceptable it's so it's like it's not I hate to your bub I think it's that complicated but related to that goore

TTS Donationsuncore theore TBL uncore yes uncore or uncore no donated $99 be honest do you thnk it's possible that men outperform women in hierarchy

TTS Donationsnot involving sex Plus Beauty not because of sexism but because men have to acquire power and resources to attract women and so invest more hours effort and energy on competence it's

Brian Atlasactually a really good point um because there's a there is a mating pressure on men to because there's a lot of women who want men to be providers but there's

Brian Atlasnot a lot of men who want women to be providers airo there's a larger cohort of women who in a partner desire a guy who can provide a guy who makes good

Brian Atlasmoney therefore couldn't you make the argument that if there's this massive pressure from the opposite sex for men

Brian Atlasto make money that they're probably going to want like have a more of a there's performance pressure there's perance we have to perform see that

Chasethat's the thing women often times almost always are selected by men because of their physical appearance their personality their energy so on and so forth w women

Chasegenerally speaking don't really select men based on just their physical appearance obviously women care about personality every woman likes a funny man for example and a guy with confidence but men in order to you know

Chasereally secure a woman they have we have to perform we have to make money we have to be able to provide especially if you want a traditional woman like we have to perform in society and provide value so there's like competition right and the

Chasemen who are performing the highest typically get the most attractive women right this is why like the celebrities the athletes uh the you know all all of these like wealthy businessmen they have

Chasethe greatest selection when it comes to women so there's like a huge there's a huge competition among men to perform at the highest levels possible but women don't have to compete in that same way in order to lock down a partner does

Chasethat make sense yes yeah which is kind of what drives this inequality throughout soety like you have one of the factors yeah it's it's one of the factors like you have think about like all the billionaires in the world they're almost all men because men we

Chasehave this you know we were talking about hormones before men have the hormone testosterone this makes us competitive it makes us aggressive because of the hormone testosterone you have you often have like super driven men that are like

Chaseextremely focused on their career and bringing value to society and they become obsessed with their careers and they make billions of dollars and they rise to the top of the hierarchy and dudes are driven to to do this for any

Chasenumber of reasons often times pulling in the best women is one of those motivating factors whether or not men are conscious of it so you have this natural thing that's driving massive inequality in society that just exists

Pearl Botsin nature and I don't think it's because of sexism that that exists I think it's just because of human nature you guys think that's fair I think that that is fair yeah yeah I think that that is fair it's it's the same pressure that women

Pearl Botsfeel to be as beautiful as they possibly can exactly and so that's it's it's the exact same pressure so if I say if men are like well you don't have to wear makeup you don't have to buy all this

Pearl Botsstuff it's like well I don't have to but I do I have to outperform other women with my beauty in order to attract the kind of man who's who's performing to be

Pearl Botswhatever have the mor resources or whatever because men are valued for their resources and women are valued for their beauty that's absolutely correct that's biology that's how we're made go ahead you had something can I sorry really quick can I say something before

Pearl Botsthat though I think what there's many different forms of feminism but I think the reason that the feminist movement had to happen although yes it can be

Pearl Botsextreme is because um men abused that power and because they created the structure of the workforce to benefit them yes maybe in an Ideal World if men

Pearl Botslike protected women and they we didn't have to suffer like and like be scared every time I went outside I carry pepper spray everywhere I go just in case like and we hear all of these stories that

Pearl Botsare like I'm being put in danger I need a man to protect me from other men who knows what a society would be like if there wasn't that kind of abuse and I'm not saying that women don't do anything

Pearl Botsbut I'm saying we're just all up and we need each other to help like us balance the scales and for a really long time like there was just this huge inequality as far as like safety goes so

Pearl BotsI think women are saying like I need to feel safe like so I need some power I need some Financial power because these men are like making me feel unsafe you know what I'm saying so that's why we

Chasekind of needed that F I think women are much less safe now than they were under the protection of a man who actually loved them I think nowadays you have so many strong independent women out there that are like boss babes and they're out there working and they're uh walking

Chasealone late at night throughout major cities and they don't have a man who's protecting them and these women get assaulted you know like whereas back in the day throughout traditional what you might call patriarchal societies uh women were accompanied by men often

Chasetimes where they would go because yes the world is a brutal place it always has been throughout all of human history I I would argue that women were often times safer back then I would also argue too what you call um or what many feminists call like Liberation and

Chasebringing women into the workforce so that they could get their independence and and uh you know this is something that they secured for their own good I would plant the seed donated

TTS Donations$100 copy Kiko please you carry M because of feminism men used to protect women but you have shamed them into being soy boys realize that men are not

Chasethe evil you want them to be what's a copy Kiko I think we should raise it to like 150 so we can have conversation going on for more than two minutes maybe grid wait if you can give

Chaseit give us 30 minutes just to get through this conversation um I I think I think you know I hear a lot of women talk about they secured Independence

Chasethrough joining the workforce and there's an argument to be made there I also think this idea of like Liberation and empowerment through working like you know I talked about this on the

Chaselast episode read Alexander toille writings like the women of the 1800s in America they did not see themselves by and large as oppressed like they they knew where their domain was and that that was in the home and it would they

Chasehad pride in mastering that and they raised awesome families and they were awesome wives and there was dignity in that position like to be a great Homemaker it's a very it's a very

Chaseimportant role right I think get getting women out of that position and into the workforce for the people at the top who run this whole society now all of a

Chasesudden you have twice the amount of people that are working in Industry to support this entire capitalist superstructure and then paying taxes it's possible that what you call women's Liberation has actually been exploiting

Pearl Botswomen as taxpayers when they might be much happier at home as uh wives and homemakers thought about that they might be um I I can't speak for every woman

Pearl Botsbut I do think that there are some women who just want to work and they want to have that option to work and I don't I think that there just should be that

Pearl Botsoption if women cuz I mean I'm somebody who yes I want to be a mother yes I want to have a husband I do want to have children that is a desire of mine but some people do not and and I also have a

Pearl Botsdesire to have a successful business just because I want to prove that to myself I like working I guess like I don't know about the traditional Workforce but like I want to make money for myself like um I want to be able to

Pearl Botsleave a relationship if it's not good so I want to have that option and I think before it was kind of forced upon women to choose a certain way and I think women were like well just in case I want

Chaseto have an option has it gone to an extreme measure I think in some cases yes when you say you want to be able to work so you have the option to choose to leave a relationship do you mean in the context of marriage um any kind of

Chaserelationship where I might be dependent on a man to support me okay do you want like a traditionally masculine man kind of sounded like that how do you define traditional masculine man well I mean do you do you want like a 21st century kind

Chaseof like Metro feminine guy or do you want like a you know strong masculine man who's like the leader in the relationship like what kind of guy do you want what are the qualities of a traditional masculine man break it down tell me what kind of man you want I'll

Pearl Botstell you what kind of man I want um I want somebody who um where there's like Mutual support in whatever we feel like our purposes on

Pearl BotsEarth um I yes I think for me personally because I do want to have children I do want a man who if you know we decided to have children it wouldn't be like

Pearl Botsfinancially burdensome for us to have children and I get to choose like depending on how much money I'm making at the time depending whatever like what kind of man like what his finances are

Pearl Botsor whatever how many finances are what do you mean no sorry I get to choose the what the kind of men I choose like I can look at who their finances and then choose according to that depending on my situation as well okay you know what I'm

Chasesaying like Okay gotta yeah no it totally makes sense I mean I'm hearing you know it sounds like you want things relatively equal in the relationship in in many way in terms of the power Dynamic and stuff and you also want equal power dynamics and a lot of

Chaseequality throughout Society correct I don't want I feel like women should feel empowered to make the choices that best serve them okay that's not an answer to my question earlier in the conversation you know we've been having this conversation in the context of equality

Chasein society and you're telling me that you want like understandably and equivalence in the power Dynamic with a relationship you want to be making your money you want him to be making his you guys want to be able to mutually support

Chaseone another correct um yes but if I do have a child I do want to have the option to not have to work okay so if you want all of this equality throughout Society but also in your

Pearl Botsrelationship why do you not want equality when it comes to splitting the bill um well how are you defining equality equality is a b equality when it comes to splitting the bill like I pay 50 you pay

Pearl Bots50 uh again I don't think that equality means that you do the same thing I think it means that you bring equal value to the relationship or equal value to whatever the situation is wait can I say

Emily/Jackie (mixed)something so if it if that means you both bring equal value would that mean you would also pay rent like half the rent or would you expect your partner to pay like full rent groceries everything like that even if you're working at the

Pearl Botssame time um I haven't been in a situation where I I wouldn't go into a relationship where I I would expect my man to pay the rent and pay for all that stuff if I'm pregnant if I'm pregnant um

Pearl BotsI mean I think it just depends on your financial situation and who you are with but I'm not opposed to going 50/50 with rent like if we make like equal amounts of money or whatever I wouldn't be

Pearl Botsopposed to sharing I ideally wouldn't choose that I would ideally like to not have to work but we don't live in a society where like you can I mean you can you can attract whoever you want whatever choose whatever you want but no

Pearl Botsthat wouldn't be like I have to have that or I'm not going to be with you if if but it depends on their energy it depends on their ambition you know if like their desire is to do that their desire is to provide to give me whatever

Pearl Botshe possibly can to take care of me to make me feel at ease that energy is more of what I'm looking for than like a actual number okay so let's say you meet a guy and he's like yo I want to provide

Chasefor you I want to take care of you he's happy to pay for the bill on the first date and the subsequent dates and he's like this whole like you having a business thing and like going and working out in the world I don't really

Chasewant you to do that but I am going to take care of you and you trust him and he wants you to be like a stay-at-home mom would you be open to that I would ask why don't you want me to well I can

Chaseanswer as as a guy who wants a wife who's a stay-at-home mom why would I want my wife out in the world working for some random guy when she could be home with me like I I have my own business you know like I want my woman

Chasewith me cooking for me being there to support me to take care of me to hang out with that's something women are very very good at when they dedicate themselves to it why would I want my woman out there working at some Corporation or whatever when she could

Pearl Botsbe home with me why would I want her to do that yeah um well for me if I'm working some job job just to make money and I totally get that argument because it's you're going if if a guy wanted to

Pearl Botsdo that for you and he wanted to take care of you in that way would you be open to it I would say that um the reason that I do the work that I do is

Pearl Botsbecause it develops me as a human being and it makes me it is impossible to get a straight answer out of you I think you wouldn't be okay I like to do I like to

Ava Mariedo can I chime in because there's no way I will never not be pursuing my dream and career like I it's not a job I'm an

TTS Donationsartist3 donated $100 sorry for interrupting but this relates to the convo ladies would you rather be a boss babe woman who goes

TTS Donations50/50 in finances or be a tread wife/ Zam who serves her family and husband also do you think you're deserving of a high value man we'll go around the table

Chaseon that go ahead um you want to be a state home mom or not you you said no do you believe you're Val deserving of a high value man hold on I don't understand the question he's saying do you want to be a boss or you want to be

Pearl Botsa St stay home mom St oh stay at home mom um I think that you answered the question already you you don't want to be a stay-at-home mom I will I would like to be a stay-at-home mom for a part of my life yes okay while you're

Chasepregnant do you believe you you're deserving of a high value man um yes okay and I get to deem whatever that is okay what about you not going to stay home yes I'm deserving of a yeah okay

Kyliewhat about you I would definitely stay home and I definitely think I'm deserving of a high value man okay what about you I would totally stay home too

KylieI'd be cool doing that um what well what is defined as a high value man it's a good question I want to know good question I mean values in the eye of the

Chasebeholder values in the eye of the beholder but like generally speaking you've got slobs in this world and then you've got dudes that are on top of their business that can provide and snap necks and cash checks I would say that's

Chasea high value man you know a man with confidence who can get things done then yes I think I definitely deserve a high value

Aliman um I would be a stay-at-home mom in a millisecond um and yes I believe that I am deserving of a okay I don't want to be a stay-at-home mom and I think I'm

Tiffany/Jackie (mixed)deserving of a high value man okay oh sorry S I didn't mean to press that go ahead I think it would depend on the man to be honest if they make twice as much as me then I would be a stay at home

Brian Atlasokay yeah how much you're you're a software engineer in Seattle right I mean software Engineers that's typically a very high earning job so um I don't know if you're at liberty to you make

Brian Atlassix figures yeah okay 20 and you're 203 23 6 pretty good good job yeah software engineers make good money um so

Tiffany/Jackie (mixed)you need a guy to make what like 300K if for you to be a stay-at home mom yeah and I would I would I feel like I would be a good stayathome mom just that I want to be like comfortably living so if

Emily/Jackie (mixed)I I I could stay at home and also do my work anyways so it really depends on the financial situation sure um yes I would I don't want to have children unless I have the option of staying home and um

Brian Atlasbeing with them I think children deserve their mom at home until like their te teers so yeah and I think I do deserve my value man okay Miss Lux thank you very much for the chat appreciate it I think you were about to I don't know if

Ava Marieyou recall your point you were about to come in on or you had come in on something you had more to add okay I think well I you're saying you never want to give up your dreams yeah no way

TTS Donationsno way and the way you were talking about men in tell Sports doned $0000 Chase face it equality is whatever copy Kiko says it is divorce for

TTS Donationsattorneys will be the only winners in her future copy Kiko men do not value your money we value your femininity a man you will want will not want you apologies can you scoot into the table a

Chaselittle bit you're just getting caught up yeah before you go on I want to hear what you have to say but the point that he's making kind of touches on what that last Super Chat was pretty much every woman at this table just said that you

Chaseall deserve a high value man high value men look for high value women high value women have femininity to offer a man

Chasesupport help uh n said you know a man's happiness is I will a woman's happiness is he will right I've found that the healthiest relationships I've had in my life were when a woman looked at me as

Chasekind of like the hero in her life and she really admired me and looked up to me and my dreams and goals and vision were her dreams and goals and vision and when there's tension there uh it kind of you know it can tear at the relationship

Chaseright high value men typically are very driven they're they're like they're they're focused they're confident they're on a mission in the world if you have your own mission that's fighting with his and there's conflict there like

Chasenot a lot of high value men want that high value men want women in their lives that make their lives easier who they feel supported by so on and so forth but if you know if a woman's like no you know I I I I want to go work and I want to go do all these things and like you

Chaseknow you can go take care of your stuff but I'm going to go take care of my stuff like I think it's worth asking is the kind of man that you guys are looking for what if the dreams are aligned well then that's that's a different story if you guys have a

Chasemutual passion a shared passion in the same vision and Mission that's a different story you know then you guys can partner in that way um someone I know a man named Michael Foster or no I think it was actually Jordan Peterson

Chasewho said this he said that the best marriages can only have don't quote me on this this might not be Jordan Peterson but some somebody recently said the best marriages only have one career under the household right when you have two careers two separate missions this

Chasecan create conflict and typically the highest value men in society like they need a support system they need a partner you know and uh they don't have a lot of tolerance for women that aren't bringing that like raw supportive

Alifemininity to the table also men want to come home after a long day of work and just vent and the woman be there to be like the shoulder to cry on like hey how was your day at work and they should be comfortable

Alienough to be like you know what work suck today and the woman should always be well not always but in a a perfect relationship I guess they would be the man would be you know what this is what

Alihappened and the girl's like okay well what are we going to do about it how are we going to fix the problem not how are you going to fix the problem so that way I can go and do this yes like it may I add something yeah yeah yeah go ahead

Chaselike as a man on a mission in life like the thing the thing about high performing men like there's our lives are stressful there's hard stuff hard problems that we have to figure out on a daily basis and as career woman I'm sure you guys understand the stresses that

Chasecome with your career right I know that when I come home from work especially if I have kids if I've spent a hard day snapping necks and cashing checks I want to come home to my wife in the most feminine mood possible and I'm like like

Chaseyou said like I want to be able to come home and vent and her just be like come here baby let me take care of you but if you're in a position where you've had the stresses from your life and you come home and he comes home and you don't

Chasehave that feminine energy to bring your man what is there for him to support him in the relationship and if you need that supportive energy from him like if you want a really high value man like you

Chasehave to ask yourself are you going to be able to get the support that you're looking for from him is he going to need it from you MH will you be able to provide that to him if you can't provide that feminine energy to him what is it

Ava Mariethat you're offering him can you know speak to that um and then I want to go back to you sorry do you want to go first or um you want to go first I feel like in response to that I get what

Ava Marieyou're saying and I think if we're asking for more in this way I understand that it gives and take I think relationships a really great relationship is give and take it's reading the room seeing what that

Ava Mariepartner needs at that time versus that partner because it shouldn't be one-sided where the man's always venting and the women woman can never vent venting is just an example yeah so yeah and I get what you're saying and in a good relationship both people are going

Ava Marieto be there to support one another exactly and I feel like just because I'm saying I want to work and I have a passion doesn't mean I can't also be feminine and support my husband or whatever and the way you're T and the

Ava Mariething is too I can't generalize for all women you can't generalize for all men everyone's very individual very unique very different blah blah blah but the way you're talking about high level men

Ava Marieand being so driven about their career is exactly how I feel about my career and I like like that's my life that's everything to me that is my first love

Ava Mariethat's my passion and to have a partner that will respect that cuz I'll be able to respect him cuz I know the feeling so well and I know how it feels to be so passionate where you live eat and breed

Ava Mariethe thing you do and it takes a lot to be extremely successful and so I'll will get it but yeah it's going to be a lot harder cuz that means there might we might there might need to be a babysitter there might need to be this that's why I feel like divorce rates are

Ava Mariehigh cuz women are working in the workforce a lot more than they were years ago but at the same time you're talking about women in the 1800s being happier I mean that's a statistic based

Ava Marieon there was no social media then it was very hard to be aware you only know what you know so they only knew what they knew then but now we're very aware and

Ava Mariealso it's funny how you say women were safer back in the day be because they had men to protect them but a lot of those men were abusing them there was a law that was passed in the '90s that was

Ava Marieabout I'm not going to say the word were not allowed where it didn't allow men to just force sex upon their wife this is a real rule that was passed so they couldn't do that in the '90s and that's

Ava Mariecrazy to me because your man should be your protector should be the one who's there for you and so a lot of time women had to stay in marriages CU they couldn't just get a house by themselves they needed the man to sign off they

Ava Marieneeded all this stuff and they a lot of the time we're married to a man that wasn't even actually protecting them and actually abusing them so you keep saying a lot of the time and I understand what you're saying the points that you're making like and also I don't have

Chasestatistics so it's like that's the thing like when I hear these feminists AR like they make sense don't have statistics either so it's like they they makes I mean depends on what you want to talk about I could whip out a lot of stats for you but like I hear these arguments

Chasefrom feminists but I feel like feminists paint the world prior to like the 1900s as this world where just all men were beating and raping wives that's not it like like the idea the idea hold on the

Chaseidea that like a lot of men were doing this like my my question is how does it compare it to now like what like I would love to know those stats because was it more men that are doing it now to be

Ava Mariehonest I don't know the statistic but I think the thing I'm getting to is women are I think more comfortable and confident to speak up cuz they it's all

Ava Marieabout this is a because they see other women doing it or feeling empowered or whichever you know like back then I didn't live in the 18 00s I really don't

Brian Atlasknow what was going on yeah I do want to address because I think you guys have mentioned this a couple times and I mean there's been a lot of different talking points that have been brought up uh when

Brian Atlasit comes to physical safety the way that you feel has absolutely no bearing on anything related to the actual incidence rate of physical violence Jee okay yeah

TTS Donationsmaybe $99 r as driven as you are you will likely end up successful and inadvertently by so doing will also isolate yourself from many good men

TTS Donationssuccessful women also want equal quality men successful men want feminine women and don't care about her success facts I can I just speak on that really quick 10 seconds I don't agree cuz I've met a lot

Ava Marieof high value men who are very successful that want a woman who has passion and drive and focus as well let me ask you a question let me ask you a question on that I can ask the whole table mhm yes or no do you think that

Brian Atlasmen lie to get laid yes do you think men will tell you what you want to hear to get

Emily/Jackie (mixed)laid never go ahead please answer please and I think that's a difference between passion driven and and what else did you say um well passion drive and something

Emily/Jackie (mixed)else but there's a difference between having that and having a full-time career like you know 40 hours a week and you're not going to ever be home or like be raising the kids or you know I think I think there's a difference you can have those quality

Ava Mariestill being like a feminine woman like you're saying yeah like I I'm a I consider myself very feminine like I'm you know especially my music I talk about very feminine perspective of being relationships whatever but I'm also

Ava Mariespeaking from a career that I'm assuming like we're artist so it's different our schedules are very different we are very artistic expressive we're creating it's just a whole other mindset in life so

Brian AtlasI'm only speaking from my creative career perspective and it's you know it's very so okay but to go back to the whole thing so you're saying that these

Brian Atlasreally successful men are like super stoked on the fact that you're making money and have a career I would argue that from a pure practicality standpoint

Brian Atlasuh the more money a man makes the less he cares about the money that you bring or your career whereas a guy who you know the economic reality of today is most households are going to need two

Brian Atlasincomes so I would argue that actually the less money a guy makes that might be the type of guy who is more inclined to have some sort of care about the money you bring if he's looking longterm into

Brian Atlaslike okay I want a family the economic reality shit's inflation all that stuff we're going to need two incomes um I think I'm speak he might care but you you specifically mentioned like high

Brian Atlasearners and I would argue High earners actually the more the money the more money a guy makes the less he cares about how much money makes well I didn't talk about money I said specific passion in your career and drive I

Ava Mariedidn't say Financial anything so it's like I'm talking about and you also said something about what if your dreams align and I feel like I'm meeting a lot of people who are in a similar career

Brian Atlaswhere the dream does align here here's the crazy thing about like male and you might you guys have may have encountered this men in the entertainment industry especially like in music if they have

Brian Atlasmaybe they're a little more established in their music career they probably want to you and sleep with you and they're going to gas you up oh yeah you're such a great

Ava Mariesinger in an effort to bed you oh let me help you produce I mean I feel like that's pretty normal amongst L can you tilt the microphone down yeah like yeah yeah go

Ava Marieahead um kind of what you just asked everyone do you think men lie to sleep with you I think that's just a generic question so it's not even men in the industry I feel like men across the board might gas you up yeah like you kind ofely

Ava Mariebut it's so it's like I don't really know what the point is it's like yes and that's kind of your choice and to whether you want to vet this guy out and figure out how real he is or not cuz then you can make the argument like is

Ava Mariethere no one real who ever thinks highly of a woman ever like no there are real relationships and people who really respect women and what they do and care about unless you're saying there's no such thing and love's not real and

Emily/Jackie (mixed)relationships aren't real and everyone's in a lie like no I I don't think they're say I think they're saying that the same men that will say they will sleep with you because of the same career um choice or whatever is not the same type of man that's going to eventually like end up

Emily/Jackie (mixed)marrying you because of the difference in what he wants versus like like what a typical high value man wants right a woman that will stay home and support him is not going to typically want to marry somebody who has like a career

Emily/Jackie (mixed)with 40 hours a week not going to be home a lot so yes those men will sleep with you but a lot of I don't think it's like you're never going to find someone either I think you're a great person but I think they're just saying like a lot

Brian Atlasof more career-driven men are going to want women with a little bit less of that and I I would just add that I think and it's evident men and women prioritize different things in terms of

Brian Atlaswhat we're looking for in a partner in terms of what we find attractive uh I think if you want to pursue a career that's fantastic for you but in terms of it making you more appealing or more

Brian Atlasattractive to a partner like most men it's it's very rare that it's ever going to add it it's not going to make you more

Brian Atlasattractive it might it's it's almost always going to be a neutral or it's probably just going to in a lot of ways going to be a negative yeah 100% I feel like it depends on the guy it really does I know a lot of guys I'm going to

Jacquelinebe honest with you uh none of them care about a woman's career in terms of like her attractiveness I feel like there's a lot of high value men that are in relationships or married to women who

Chasehave a career though yeah they're in relationships or married to the the point Brian's making is that it's for most honest men a career is not

Chasegoing to make a woman more attractive unless he like wants to be taken care of or like Brian was saying if there needs to be some sort of like split income scenario where CU you know it's it's expensive to live nowadays the traits you were describing

Chasebefore like ambition and drive and all that kind of stuff those can be very attractive qualities in a woman for certain men like I I personally like ambition and drivve in a woman not necessarily applied towards her career

Chasethough but as inborn personality traits because like different guys like different types of women some guys I know they like like very feminine and soft women that like don't have kind of that like you know that edge to them

Chaselike I I like a woman with like a little bit of an edge to her because it's like there's there's a drive there and what I want to do the reason why I like that as a man is cuz I'm like okay I have Ambitions and I'm like how can I sync up

TTS Donationsyour drive towards my mission so that we can really be effective as a couple One Motorsports donated $100 ready are you are an artist the

TTS Donationsdivorce lawyers watching this are taking notes men don't like women who feel the need to be the center of attention all the time and that radiates from you like

TTS Donationsnuclear fire nuclear fire you a gold digger 304 it's kind of a compliment you're saying that your energy is like fire thank you thank you so much on brand for the redhe headedness too wow

Ava Marieokay is that is that does that make sense though like what I'm saying yeah but I think my main statement is like you just you can't speak for all men I can't speak for all women there are men who do want women with really dope

Ava Mariecareers and are ambitious cuz that means they will understand that much more maybe his career and they can align and they might be both doing the same thing they can go to work together they can do this they can take off when they have a

Ava Marievideo shoot versus vice versa like it could be helpful and ni I think that would go to her point about like having like shared dreams yes um but yeah I mean generally speaking though it's not

Chaselike most dudes out there aren't like yeah I want to find a woman with a sick career it's like that's not what most dudes care about at all yeah can I do something go ahead

Pearl Botsum I mean I think the reason that a lot of my answers aren't yes and no is because a lot of answers aren't just a yes and no answer and so for this situation again I can't speak for all women whatever whatever and I do think

Pearl Botsthat there is a point there to say like hi High earners the kind of like dream guy that all these girls are wanting yeah are they going to give a about you contributing to the household income no they have enough money for you exactly and for all the

TTS Donationskids it doesn't matter that's not what I'm looking for that's not what a woman brings Saint uncore easy donated $99 being successful for yourself

TTS Donationsselfish doesn't lead to happiness you will be rich bored and depressed because you have no purpose in life I know this is true for men so it will be more so

Pearl Botsfor women stay home and sing a song for your husband B thank you s if you want to continue go ahead yeah I guess what I have to do actually kind of has what I have to say has something to do with this um yeah I don't think they give a

Pearl Botsbecause women do offer something different than our money for to a high value man a woman and or feminine offer something different to a masculine man yes which is what I personally want

Chasebecause I don't want to go 5050 in life I want a man who's like I'll take care of you whatever or whatever wa so you want a man who's like I'll take care of you whatever whatever you want a masculine man but you also want to live

Pearl Botsthe boss bab lifestyle and to have total independence from him if you need it the lifestyle that I want you're saying contradictory things here so what I was

Pearl Botsabout to say um is that for me pursuing a career career let's just call it that it's more about me being the best version that I can be if I just stayed

Pearl Botsat home and didn't pursue music I didn't write songs I didn't make content I didn't try to build a life on my own I would be a shell of a human being and I wouldn't be able to offer my man the

Pearl Botslove the care the support I wouldn't have the energy I know this just for myself if I wake up and I don't do what I'm supposed to do here on Earth which is to have interesting conversations with people is to make content is to

Pearl Botssing to make music to perform all of those things I'm not pursuing just to make money I'm pursuing those things because it makes me feel whole and when

Pearl BotsI'm whole I can give to the men in my life with like more Vigor I'm able to be there to support him I'm able because I feel good about myself when I do that

Chasecan I tell you something sure I'm just going to be totally honest like I don't think your purpose in life is to like sit around and have good conversations and to like make content and all that kind of stuff now I'm not saying that

Chaseyou can't add value to society by doing those things but like I'm not looking for a woman whose sole purpose in life is to make content and have interes in

Chaseconversations mm I want to get married and have a wife and build a family you like I want a woman who wants those things and sees her purpose in life as

Chasebeing the mother of our kids a great wife and someone that I can build a super healthy and strong family with the kind of guy that you're looking for pro

Chaselike most high performing dudes if they're looking for a wife they don't just want some chick who's making Tik toks all day they want a woman who wants to be the best Homemaker and mom and wife that she can possibly be and I'm

Pearl Botssaying that the I can be the best Homer Homemaker and wife that I can be when I know that I'm acting and doing the things that I'm meant to be doing and I know what I'm meant to be you know you can be the best mom and wife as long as

TTS Donationsyou're making Tik toks all day it's not about making Tik toks all day it's doing what I meant to do manifest through that we'll let this come in female physician whose husband stays

TTS Donationsat home the common complaint heard in the doctor's laugh es very frequently about her lazy husband men have accepted our plight of being successful SL

Jacquelineambitious women cannot say the same today oh that sounds like a black marriage thank you Cam appreciate it you had something go ahead yeah so here's

Jacquelinesomething or like a fear that I have like kind of you like brought it to mind is that as a woman if you give up all these things that could

Jacquelinepotentially keep keep her financially stable um lots of friends things like that and if you have a man that you give those things up with and there's no guarantee that that man is going to stay

Jacquelinebecause the second that that man leaves you you lose everything right if his friends are your friends because he doesn't whatever he's not okay with you hanging out with your friends then you lose your friends you lose uh like

JacquelineFinancial stability you lose everything if that man leaves you so it's like we Risk Everything that's what the purpose of marriage is yeah can I I got to clean this this shit's

Emily/Jackie (mixed)bugging me you can jump yeah there's a lot to say about that marriage so just been bugging me do you actually have OCD a little bit Yeah but um so marriage is actually what that security

Emily/Jackie (mixed)is for right when you get married and you get a prub and stuff like that you're protecting yourself from that financial burden of you know if he does end up divorcing you you get half of what he earns and you know you have

Emily/Jackie (mixed)something to start yourself off with but I think like it's a false dichotomy nowadays to say that you can have a full career and a family at the same time because you know who's going to be raising your children like either way you would have to saf that have to be

Brian Atlasmade yeah that that would be the sacrifice the children would feel that sacrificed they're not going to have their parent and um yeah I kind of forgot the rest of my thought here we we we'll come back to this conversation I

Brian Atlasneed to get a couple chats by the way guys some of these have totally fell off so I'm not going to be able to trigger them I have them it it won't pop up I can still see them and read them but if it's not able to be triggered so I'm going to just try to get through these

Chasechats after this I definitely want to get back to her question because it's yeah do you want to actually is it do it before the chat yeah let's do it before the chat to her point like I mean that's that's you know you're you're raising

TTS Donationsgood questions and to her point that is the purpose of marriage the purpose of marriage modest Heim donated

TTS Donations100 the women has nothing to do with with your job income Etc High ready welcome to kindergarten where we listen with our ears and think with our brains

TTS Donationsbefore we vomit of nonsensical BS are you on the top 10 chart r n don't care then someday to late okay here's what I'm going to do

Brian Atlasfor the ttss I'm going to just pause I know I know in the description it says instant I'm not going to boost it I'm going to pause it for 30 minutes and then what I'll do is all the on that come through all the ones that come

Chasethrough I'll trigger them all at the same time so sorry it's not going to be instant guys but it's just been too disruptive go ahead thank you yeah that's as I was saying that that that is the purpose of marriage you know like if you're marrying somebody you're and if

Chaseyou take it seriously most people don't take it seriously nowadays like as a Christian I take it extremely seriously the woman that I marry like that's it we're together for life and I'm making a promise to her I'm taking care of you

Chasefor life like that's my job I'm not leaving you hanging you know a lot of people don't don't take that promise seriously for one and because a lot of people don't take that promise seriously that's why divorce laws exist right so

Chaselike as a guy for example if hypothetically I married a woman and then cheated on her she would have every right to divorce me and take half of everything I have and that's why those divorce laws exist and alimony and all

Chasethat kind of stuff like the purpose of it is to protect women like if you're a woman and you find a guy who's traditional and he's like hey I want to make you a stay-at-home mom give up your career we're going to have kids together

Chaseif you spend 10 or 15 years not working on your career and then he just drops you like you're screwed financially you know and that's why divorce laws exist to protect women unfortunately because of feminism and all sorts of other stuff

Chaseit's now to the point where men can get screwed for no reason with divorce but like that's that's the purpose of marriage like if you're making an agreement with a guy hey I'm going to give up my finances and all this stuff like there's it's a promise of

Jacquelineprotection you know yeah I think my problem is trust too like you know like that part and also you're dating somebody for a long period of time before you get married so what about that dating period I guess we can maybe pick this back up but

Brian AtlasI do need to get through a couple chat chats AB Che thank for the 20 gifted memberships again these I'm not going to be able to trigger them on the screen but I will be able to read them we have verb microchimerism contact with semen

Brian Atlasthrough an orice allows the chromosomes of a male to absorb into a woman present in the blood spinal fluid and brain permanently the ghosts of boyfriend past forever interact with a woman's

Brian Atlasneurology and then you sense a followup the chromosomes also interact with the fetus during Just J influencing its development for every past sexual partner a woman has they are

Brian Atlascheating on their future husband with you can read more about it at the national Center of biological information and this is called microchimerism I've heard about this have you yeah youve heard I've heard

Chaseabout that it's honestly like the sketchiest thing in the world dude it's basically the idea that like for every to put it crudely for every guy that a woman is with sexually if he's blowing loads inside of her he's

Chaseactually leaving his DNA in her body and then it like incorporates itself into her body and can also interact with the fetus so like if a woman's had a lot of past seexual partners there's evidence

Chasethat her child may end up having DNA from her previous Partners I mean it's that is BS it might be real it might not be but there you believe it I I believe it's possible

Brian Atlasyeah fine why you mean come on we'll have to see the studies yeah we'd have to look at the studies there's one St but it could be who knows actually if it's real it's

Emily/Jackie (mixed)sketch yeah I learned that like in a mother's womb her first child's DNA is like always in there SEC and like the second child so like if you're a fifth child you have the DNA from all your siblings before so I think it could be true and so you're saying if a woman has

Brian Atlasthere's a different father for the various children then another man D child's DNA is in your other kid's DNA that's crazy who knows who you were

Brian Atlassaying that it messes with her mentality right let's let's move let's move on not what I uh Derek the Traer again sorry guys that I'm not able to pull these up but I'm I'm going to read them ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to

Brian Atlaslooks only okay wow 10 being the highest starting to left of Chase 8541 5567 okay thank you I guess na ever had a date appointment I think she means DEA

Brian Atlasappointment just before facing something important share your oh this is na from uh two shows ago she's one of the stab she stabbed a dude okay podcast she's

Brian Atlasgoing to come back on the show so podcast teaser pre-t rituals DEA appointment um ever had a date a DEA appointment just before facing something important have any of you ever had a de

Brian Atlasappointment before going to prison or jail or going to a criminal court proceeding involving you involving stabbing somebody involving terrorism no

Emily/Jackie (mixed)let's start over here no no no how about just no no question no

Brian Atlasno okay um here we go hold up all right we have I believe this is the next one doc vanis three e equality of value is inarguable

Brian Atlasequality of opportunity is desirable equality of outcome results in tyranny and is the guiding principles behind deadly cultural Marxism it is an indictment of our

Brian Atlaseducation system that some ladies can't grasp it from Doc vas it's facts good comment that's I I never heard the the 3E thing and I've heard of like the

Brian Atlasequality of opportunity equality of outcome but equality of value I haven't heard that one but I absolutely agree very good comment agreeing with well his whole statement but I've never heard this three EAS thing I've heard of

Brian Atlasequality of opportunity equality of outcome equality you're agreeing that equality of value is true or false true okay yeah I think it's equality value in the

Brian Atlassense of like your value in terms of your life you know uh let's see we have the saint and The Sinner are we going to talk about how

Brian AtlasTiffany and maybe others have the archaic belief that black indiv oh my God that black individuals are less uh Tiffany do you want to address

Brian Atlasthis well I never said they were untrustworthy were capable I just said that is this the saint and the cner go ahead sorry Tiff what did you say I said they're less safe less safe Christ are

Chaseyou basing this on personal experience or crime statistics crime statistics okay what crime statistics are you basing this on I guess just violence my gun shooting I guess is it that 133% of

Chasethe population is responsible for 50% of the violent crime yeah yeah real I think it now it's 14% 62 static about a race and you're racist that's crazy what' you

Brian Atlassay huh what you say like a statistic is racist yeah that's that's crazy yeah yeah I think this is Marquette he's a YouTuber um yo what's up man I'd like your stuff if you ever want to be on the

Brian Atlasshow would love to have you on if that is actually uh the saint and the cner mar his name is Marquette uh yeah man would love to have you on uh shoot me a DM on Instagram out whatever uh if

Brian Atlasyou're down to come on what content does he make uh he does he he does some live shows like live podcasting and he talks about dating and relationship how many

Chasehow many followers or subscribers why you I think he's got like I don't know there's like gold diggers and then there's follow diggers like yo wait Marquette would you could I

Brian Atlasset you up with Tiffany she hasn't heard his follow count yet Brian I think it's over 100k so yeah all right and I think let me just double

Brian Atlascheck make sure that was na doc let me just double check make sure we got okay cool we're all caught up there and then we have this one super chat here on YouTube win pc99 girl on

Brian Atlasthe far right oh she's gone okay I'll wait I'll wait I'll wait for that um and then I wanted to pull up more of her videos but while we uh here while we wait for her to come back I have some pre-show notes from people so let me get

Brian Atlasinto that uh let's start with you Ally Ali you said I don't really like hookup culture for myself but I had a big military goodness phases when I was 20 to 22 did

AliI don't know if that was a typo when you said I had a big military did you mean ho phase um well military phas SL military ho facee yeah I guess you could

Alisay that um whoops so were you in the military no so basically what that means oh goodness so um um

AliI just spit it out just spit it out I did not know that this was going to be brought of okay um so um I met this

Alifriend and she invited me to this bonfire and I was like sure why not and literally 99% of the people were military and at the time I was very like

Alioh my gosh all of them are so attractive um so I wasn't really like a hoe I guess you could say I was very like I'd talk to a guy things would get

Aliserious and then stuff would happen and then kind of would just drop off like nothing would happen like after that it kind of just you guys know what I mean

Alilike we just kind of just the feelings just disappeared and then on to the next one and on to the next one and then yeah how many uh how many of these military

Alidudes were there oh goodness [Music] um I'd say probably like

Chase10 is that we half a platoon I think that's half a Nick can you show us a platoon show us a platoon it's so easy that's a PL Nick

Alican you show us the other one that is that Marine I think T over okay no I was very Navy it was a Navy thing so like half of it's like front R that's a

Brian Atlasplatoon that's more than 10 that is a platoon okay are we Brigade it is it Brigade Battalion what are we talking [Music]

Alihere um I don't I don't said 10 right yeah it was it was around there 10 what you hooked up with 10 around

Brian Atlasthat multiply it by three and that's the real number okay um so you were not in the military I was not in the military no and did you say it was what branch of

Alithe military coast guard it was it was Navy I had a very i' see I don't know why all of a sudden they'd be like I'm in the I'm in the Navy and I'd be like oh my gosh hi I'm Ali I had a lot of

Aligrowing up to do I am not the same person I was back then just want to let you guys know but how how old are you what does it say like 20 to 22 I'm 25 now so 20 20 to 22 so you've grown out

Aliof your military phase I got my heartbroken and then I was kind of just over it then I kind of wanted the traditional standpoint and I kind of

Aligrew out of it I was dulu I was in my dulu land dulu land yeah I was very much in there what's your tattoo say there the oh goodness um so I'm obsessed with

Alithis rapper named easy and it's the crazy kind um the crazy kind it's from g e the is that guy oh you know G easy I

Alihave no problem e is Geralds be like young Gerald like now I don't really listen to much okay well it's in his song him and I and it's with Hy they dated a really long time ago I like that who the is that guy I have no idea

Brian Atlaswait so just clarification was it a squad section platoon company Battalion regiment Brigade division or core none of the above and it was 10 you said did

Aliyou memorize all that for the show yeah I go above and I go above and beyond very yeah it was and and back to what

Aliyou said they told me what I wanted to hear and I was very naive if they were like oh yeah I really like you like I'm sure they probably had some feelings in the beginning but then

Chaseonce stuff happened it kind of just I want to I want to make a point uhoh okay uh not this isn't going to be offensive towards you or anything I just want to

Chasemake a point and this is to Brian's Point earlier ladies men you have to be careful tells us in the Bible to guard our hearts men will tell you what you want want to hear in order to sleep with

Chaseyou you about to write that down oh men will tell men will tell you what what you want to hear yeah love bombing they love bombing love bombing figure out who who it is that you are what it is that you like what it is that you want

Chasethey'll tell you what you want to hear in order to sleep with you you got to be careful of this super common that's why I left the pH how women get their hearts broken be careful out there L military

Jacquelineman just fact you have experience with that no I mean I'm I haven't dated one but I know how like promiscuous they are like I've had lots of them like hit me up like super young too like I'm 33 like

Brian Atlasit's all like 18year olds and they're just there's there's always just so many they just they just want to you know yeah so so going back to you my first love never really told anybody just one day I was at work and post

Alianother girl and she ended up being pregnant this day we never broke up we kind of stopped talking so um My First Love was when I

Aliwas like freshly 18 got my Snapchat the first day he added me and we were together for a little over a year and

Aliyou know we said like bye I love you whatever and I go to work and an hour later I'm getting my phone blown up like hey have you seen a Snapchat hey have you seen a Snapchat I go on a Snapchat

Aliand it's some girl on the pregnancy test of positive and it was not me I have not talking to that man talk to talk to English spoke thank you um I have not

Alispoken to him ever since we never really broke up it kind of just the yeah how did you feel when you saw that

Alium I don't remember honestly I kind of block it out but it it was kind of was it like pretty traumatizing didn't you say you congratulated him nobody needs to um a couple months

Alilater I kind sh stop it that was years ago I was like like 19 but yeah I did congratulate him he said thanks after that I did not talk to him okay oh I'll just

TTS Donations$99 alony child support loss of access to kids a marriage isn't just about you the amalgamation of the sacrificed Freedom yields your legacy SL future

Brian Atlasreal women demurely show what they offer and quickly become wives well said man zenti and based zenan thank you man very good to see you back in the chat man it's been a minute uh let's see and then

Brian Atlaslast thing here with Ally you said your most recent ex ghosted you and left a note on your bed breaking up with you because he didn't want to be the guy that broke up with you over

TTS Donationstext yeah this was the one that broke up with me in March um so oh modest heima donated $100 again for a little bit I think

TTS DonationsChase misspoke earlier equality of outcome is extra help based on situation to get outcome affirmative action equality of opportunity is equal chance

Chaseto compete best candidate gets outcome Chase for f act didn't want TTS up oh it's all good cool yeah um if I

Brian Atlasmisspoke thanks for clarifying yeah I think you might have what did I say you you I think you said equality of outcome in place for equality of opportunity I think you meant to say equality of

Aliopportunity but whatever um do you have a quick thing about the the note on the bed yeah so um long story short um I was

Aliat work um he just kind of just stopped talking to me and I was just like did you bump your head like what's going on uh leave work early my friend picks me

Aliup takes me home uh I walk in not even realizing that all of his stuff is gone and and I just so happen to be like just cleaning my bed like normal and all of a

Alisudden I just feel like this like heavy note and it was the key to my room and then just a note basically saying like I'm sorry I don't want to be the guy to break up with you over text but like

Brian Atlasthis is done it's insanely lame yeah and it was it was a very rough couple of months do not want to live that every let's pull up some of the more uh more of the videos then we'll get that super

Pearl Botschat um I think we just watch all the videos Maybe and then yeah go ahead going 50/50 with a man is not equal we live in a culture and a society

Pearl Botsthat benefits men specifically when it comes to finances there's so much more opportunity and it's so much easier for a man than a woman women are at a huge disadvantage and even still women thrive

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