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00:03:23Brian Atlasnecessarily reflect the views of the whatever podcast so without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name
00:03:30Maddie Ruage occupation and location go ahead hi I'm Maddie Ru I'm 21 I do only fans wait in location yeah like where
00:03:41Brian Atlaswhere are you from Oh California California so like uh Orange County oh okay all right and you recently went viral uh for like what do they what are
00:03:50Brian Atlasthey calling you P squat girl that's the name of the gym the or or P that's the name of the move the name of the movement yeah I was at LA Fitness okay and you you got how many views like
00:04:02Brian Atlasacross social media like 300 million or something 300 million yeah yeah okay well we're going to pull it up we're g to we're gonna Joey swo reacted to it so we're going to see his reaction we're going to see the original and we'll have
00:04:14Misra/Kendall/Kylaa little discussion on that uh what about you um misra um 21 and I did only
00:04:24Misra/Kendall/Kylafans um I'm in between right now so sorry um I did only fans but I'm in between right now um and yeah where
00:04:38Brian Atlasyou from um originally turkey but right now Riverside were you born in tur turkey
00:04:46Brian Atlasokay Istanbul uh no uh ismir I love that place it's dope my okay um and are you a student or um not
00:04:58Megan Robinsonanymore what were you studying previously um I was psychology psych okay yeah what about you my name is Megan Robinson I have a mindset coaching
00:05:10Megan Robinsonbusiness and I have a podcast called lessons in selflove I'm 22 years old and I'm from Washington DC all right welcome so you you flew
00:05:20Misra/Kendall/Kylahere I did first time to California no okay got it what about you hi my name is Kendall I'm 19 years old and and I'm a student where at I'm at the Santa
00:05:33Misra/Kendall/KylaBarbara City College what are you studying I'm studying Communications gotcha and where you from originally um I've moved a lot but originally from San
00:05:42KaylaDiego got it what about you my name is Kayla um I'm 30 I live in Las Vegas um I'm a stripper an author and I'm also
00:05:52Misra/Kendall/Kylastarting real estate all right welcome thanks um my name is Kyla I'm 18 years old um I'm a student and I'm from Santa
00:06:02JordanBarbara and uh what are you studying I'm studying business econ as of right now at the city college yeah got it okay hi thank you for having me my name is
00:06:14JordanJordan I'm 25 my husband and I own a private gym in Riverside we also do personal training online coaching entrepreneur I'm a wife and a dog mom
00:06:25Q (Jquan)and we're uh Riverside your you grew up born in Riverside um yeah okay Q uh the Q behavioral scientist certified
00:06:36Q (Jquan)relationship coach YouTuber entrepreneur author age 31 government name jquan
00:06:47Brian Atlasokay do what do you prefer you want them to call you qill call me Q call Q call them Q all right cool so we're going to go around the table once more so what's
00:06:57Brian Atlaseverybody's current relation ship status so you're single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits
00:07:06Brian Atlasrelationship married polycule uh sex cult part of a herim is it herim or Haram I've heard both it's Haram I've
00:07:16Brian Atlasheard harim let's go chat chat is it haram or harim harim is ugly as I thought it was Haram for my entire life
00:07:26Brian Atlasbut then I started hearing harim her so which one is it chat is it which one help us out PPC help us out in
00:07:37Brian Atlasthe chat Haram first one wait okay one for heram two for harim one for heram two for
00:07:47Brian Atlasherim one for Haram two for herim okay so if you're in if you're in
00:07:56Brian Atlaseither of those um let us know if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead
00:08:07Maddie RuI'm single not talking to anyone not having sex with anyone and the longest stop the
00:08:15Brian AtlasC maybe lower it to 90 you're not having p and the V with anybody no I mean don't check my Twitter but yeah I did check your Twitter and there on Twitter you're
00:08:27Maddie Ruhaving is that AI or are you say that's AI oh no um I stopped seeing that person so currently I'm not hooking up with anyone so that's that was just like in your backlog no that was like a week
00:08:39Brian Atlasago oh oh so you had sex as recently as a week ago but I also stopped a week ago
00:08:47Brian Atlasso you've been are you claiming celibacy yes I feel like a at least a a minimum a month before you can claim celibacy okay but before that was like eight
00:09:02Maddie Rumonths huh okay so okay you're was this a guy you were dating or was it just for work no I was dating him my friend introduced us to start dating and then she got jealous that we were singing
00:09:15Maddie Rueach other so she also started him and then I said that makes me uncomfortable and she said I was fine with sharing and I said well I'm not so I don't talk to either of them
00:09:26Maddie Ruanymore yeah how long were you friends with this lady few months okay I yeah I have a hard time actually being friends with
00:09:37Maddie Ruother sex workers which is funny because I find that these situations always happen so did you consider the guy that you were seeing your boyfriend or what was
00:09:47Maddie Ruit just he asked to be exclusive and I said I'm not seeing other people but like I want like a little bit more
00:09:57Maddie Rutime you want a little more time to what decide if there's something better comes along no I'm just like I'm scared of people you know you never know people slip up I have might your friend
00:10:10Brian Atlasthey did my friends they might your friends yeah okay uh well he was was he in the content adult content creation space before you met him he he
00:10:20Maddie Ruwas but not in an online way but he was also okay to like make and sell content with me so it kind of was like an L I'm not going to lie for him or for you for me to make
00:10:32Maddie Rucontents with him yeah why is it now cuz you had to pay him or no cuz I only want to make content with a partner I you know I don't make content with strangers so but you made content
00:10:43Brian Atlaswith him yeah who is kind of a stranger sort of I've known him for like you know oh okay all right little bit all right well so okay you've been uh single and not talking to anybody for a week yes
00:10:54Misra/Kendall/Kylaokay do you think that's going to reconcile or that's dunzo um um no it's done okay all right what about
00:11:04Brian Atlasyou um as of a week I'm in a relationship now as of so you've been it's like wait are you seeing are you dating is this is
00:11:17Maddie Ruthis your friend yeah we have beef oh sh yeah I text her she's a crazy like what how many days ago you guys don't know oh my God no
00:11:29Maddie Runo that's cat no they're just how's his 9 in though 9 in and girthy I noticed you're wearing a size
00:11:39Brian Atlasqueen hold on a minute shirt no I mean I I don't believe that there's actually a oh oh so you okay you've been dating a
00:11:48Brian Atlasguy for for for purposes of clarity for the audience you're not dating her guy no okay so how long have you been seeing this guy or like cuz you said has it
00:12:02Misra/Kendall/Kylabeen official for a week but you've been seeing him for longer or um okay so technically I've been talking to him for like a
00:12:10Misra/Kendall/Kylayear um but he just came or like technically yeah he just came like a month ago cuz he used to live in
00:12:21Misra/Kendall/Kylaturkey and so he moved to the US for me and then I was like now I can be in a relation cuz I didn't want to do long distance but but so you first met him a
00:12:32Misra/Kendall/Kylayear ago was this in Turkey mhm okay well or here I met him like a few years ago cuz he was my ex's what he was my
00:12:42Brian Atlasex's friend what your ex's friend like best friend but wait you met so while
00:12:51Brian Atlasyou were dating a guy you met your current yeah Ting yeah okay
00:13:05Brian Atlasyeah but he deserved it who deserved it like my ex why cuz he cheated on me oh so you're just with this new guy as
00:13:16Misra/Kendall/KylaRevenge basically no cuz that was like that was like 5 years ago oh okay so we knew each other back then um obviously we were friends and then um yeah a year
00:13:29Misra/Kendall/Kylaago then we just like we just friends and I went back to Turkey and I was there for like six months and so we were like seeing each other on off and then he officially like moved to us for me to
00:13:41Brian Atlasfor you yeah why didn't you move to Turkey for him I didn't want to so he likes you more than you like
00:13:53Misra/Kendall/Kylahim maybe that's basically what it boils down to no I wouldn't say say so cuz I think like it's very different cuz
00:14:02Misra/Kendall/Kylaturkey it's not good economically right now so it's like no one would choose to choose yeah I think I can I think I can I think that's the one exception to the
00:14:13Brian Atlasman moving America is better than turkey so I mean watch out all the watch out you're going to invoke the Wrath of the Turkish do you want to apologize to all
00:14:26Brian Atlasthe Turkish people that you've just no America number one sorry okay all right so okay so he moved here so you've been
00:14:36Brian Atlastalking to him for a year you said is that correct yes okay were you see were you seeing other guys in that onee period
00:14:45Brian Atlasyes hey it was on and off like you had an on and off again long distance relationship no I was in Turkey for 6
00:14:55Misra/Kendall/Kylamonths okay so for the first for the the first six months okay so you guys were dating there yeah was it on and off again there yeah yeah it's always been
00:15:06Brian Atlason off oh okay yeah he moved for an on again off again relationship yeah I mean I don't know
00:15:15Brian Atlasokay all right so You' been he's been here for a week um he's been here for a month oh been here for a month has it been off yet no how it is it any arguing
00:15:27Brian Atlasso far no arguing did he move with you or did he move into oh so yall live together mhm okay okay good times okay all right uh okay what about you I have
00:15:39Megan Robinsona boyfriend we've been together for about 10 months now and we just had our first session of premarital counseling
00:15:46Megan Robinsonlike a week ago so we're very serious wait uh you and him went together to see a therapist no so premarital counseling in like the Christian Rel religion you
00:15:59Megan Robinsonhave to go there and like talk to a priest for a couple sessions before like you get engaged so that you can prepare properly I didn't know that what what
00:16:12Megan Robinsondenomination it's a Christian Christian Pastor Protestant Evangelical um this specific church we go to is just like a
00:16:22Brian Atlasbible church I don't know denominational something like that in order to get married at that specific Church you have to do like the couple premarital I I
00:16:32Megan Robinsondon't think it's required but it's something that we wanted to do okay just to make sure we're like doing right by God in like the Covenant that we have so
00:16:44Megan Robinsonlove that huh how many sessions is it I think it's like five and what so what is discussed in so the first one he just kind of gave
00:16:57Megan Robinsonus advice cuz he he's been married for like 40 years so he was just talking to us about like our relationship who we are coyot donated
00:17:07TTS/Donations$100 what's up with Kaiser Wilhelm back there dude looks like he's planning to go around the mashino line and invade France suspicious well you know here's
00:17:18Brian Atlasthe thing right so this is a Chilean Chile South America military uniform uh you know it has certain
00:17:27Brian AtlasPrussian uh military influences dating back to the early 19th uh 1900s perhaps even before and uh so he's thinking
00:17:38Brian Atlasabout you know I think he's looking at Peru he's looking at Peru um you know there's Argentina's pretty close you
00:17:49Brian Atlasknow so yeah thank you for that appreciate it what uh go on you were talking about the meeting thing yeah we just had our
00:18:00Megan Robinsonfirst session so I'm not entirely sure what it entails but I know there's a section on like handling conflict and it also talks about like sexual stuff and
00:18:11Megan Robinsonhow you're supposed to approach that so we how are you supposed to approach sexual stuff so we are not having sex until we're married and that's the
00:18:23Megan Robinsondecision that we both made like early on in our relationship um we want to do what God
00:18:31Megan Robinsonsays is right in a marriage and we feel like sexual activity and that kind of pleasure and like the heathenism aspect
00:18:40Megan Robinsonof that is something to be earned from having like a good relationship and growing together got it wait so are you
00:18:50Brian Atlasboth virgins no but you guys have not with each other haven't had right that's correct any sexual intercourse that's correct okay um and
00:19:09Brian Atlasso okay cool I feel like I had a follow-up question so okay why why the shift is my question so
00:19:18Brian Atlasyou neither of you are virgins why all why go from having had sex previously to now we want to wait all the way until marriage
00:19:29Megan RobinsonH well before him and I started dating so we were friends for a couple years before we started dating he actually decided like autonomously that he wanted
00:19:41Megan Robinsonto do a 9-month period of celibacy himself so this was before like my influence he chose to do that and I was also going through a similar thing and
00:19:53Megan Robinsonwhen we started dating like right off the bat I just told him like you know I want to wait like that's just what I prefer and then as we grew in our
00:20:03Megan Robinsonrelationship with God we made like more strict decisions about what we were going to do so it was a process all right got it are are you guys engaged
00:20:15Brian Atlasnot yet not yet okay what about you go ahead um I'm in a relationship how long have you guys been dating like a month one month yeah what's your longest
00:20:25Brian Atlasrelationship like 2 and a half years 2 years when did that end like four months ago so you you were single for about 3 months yeah okay so
00:20:38Brian Atlasyou currently how did you guys meet your current situation um we met at a party party how long did y'all talk before y'all got in a
00:20:50Brian Atlasrelationship like a month so two you've known him for two months total mhm okay who uh he approached you you approached him he approached me what was his what did he
00:21:02Misra/Kendall/Kylasay he's like sup yeah exactly was that a frat party yeah is he a frat boy yes called it okay
00:21:12Brian Atlaswhich frat Sig app uh I can't say okay that's fine was it a foam Cannon party a what foam foam Cannon was there
00:21:23Brian Atlaswas it was a rodeo a rodeo theme yeah something like that so you came dressed as a cowgirl and he just saw you and mhm got to talk to that
00:21:34Brian Atlascowgirl yep oh God that was sorry that that wasad okay uh okay
00:21:44Misra/Kendall/Kylaso my God it's pulling teeth tonight okay he approached you oh oh um yeah he approached me and he called me like really pretty and we just kind of talked and then we realized we were both from
00:21:56Misra/Kendall/KylaSan Diego MH we we went to the same High School worked at the same job just like didn't even realize lives like 6 minutes away from me from
00:22:06Brian Atlashome just like perfect match did you guys have a one night stand well not a one night stand but like did it go down that night no no
00:22:15KaylaMM the night after what the night after no it did not happen that night okay what about you um so I've been
00:22:24Kaylacompletely single for like 2 years um but I've been dating and since then but now my ex is trying to come back into my life but I don't like him I don't even
00:22:35Kaylawant him single you said single for two years yeah longest relationship I was 5 years but I was like 15 to 20 any kids
00:22:44Misra/Kendall/Kylaone one kid yeah is the guy who's trying to come back is that your no okay all right what about you I'm single my longest relationship was 2 years and a
00:22:57Brian Atlasmonth month how long have you been single uh for a year and two months one year two how many days how many days yeah you
00:23:10Brian Atlassaid one year two months how many days hours minutes to seems like you're keeping track of when the breakup occurred who who dumped who I dumped him
00:23:21Misra/Kendall/Kylaof course yeah why um he just wasn't changing the things I asked him to change oh what and what are those
00:23:30Misra/Kendall/Kylaum he oh gosh that was so long ago I feel like um he just wasn't really prioritizing the relationship he was
00:23:42Misra/Kendall/Kylamore prioritizing other things not that like you have to prioritize me specifically like constantly but it was kind of just like he was putting me in
00:23:51Misra/Kendall/Kylathe dark all the time so I just like had to respect myself and couldn't take it anymore but you said you asked him to
00:24:01Brian Atlasmake certain changes and he wasn't he didn't make those changes so what was it just the example that you provided were there other things um it was mainly just
00:24:12Misra/Kendall/Kylalike he wasn't prioritizing prioritizing you how often would you guys hang out um like once or twice a week depending on um the season
00:24:24Misra/Kendall/Kylacuz he played basketball how tall was he um like five 510 this is definitely high school
00:24:34Jordanbasketball well of course okay wait so depending on this yeah go ahead so excuse me you said he was prioritizing other things what were the things he's
00:24:46Misra/Kendall/Kylaprioritizing like his friends um yeah he well he was also like to be honest he was kind of lazy um he just like red flag um like we'd make plans and he would just be
00:24:58Misra/Kendall/Kylalike I'm really tired I just want to lay in bed we so basically what he tired of um he was playing junior varsity basketball I mean give the cut the guy a little slack during that season cut him
00:25:09Misra/Kendall/Kylasome slack he was tired after practice but also like I'm an extrovert he was an introvert we just didn't match word okay so you guys only so it's pretty
00:25:22Misra/Kendall/Kylamuch what you guys just weren't hanging out enough um it wasn't even just that I just like think that like over the span of 2 years after like constantly asking him to change certain things I just kind
00:25:34Brian Atlasof got over change what change what though just like him like prioritizing the relationship but you said plural change things besides that change what
00:25:44Misra/Kendall/Kylaum I mean specifically I'm like trying to think I'm like blanking she mentioned lazy yeah he was just like attractive yeah like I would I would ask him to
00:25:54Misra/Kendall/Kylalike go for like go somewhere to like do something and he would just be like oh I just want to lay in bed or like for example I he liked the Dodgers I took
00:26:05Misra/Kendall/Kylahim to Dodger games and he um never did any of that for me like went to Disneyland for my birthday my mom paid for my ticket he didn't pay anything not
00:26:16Misra/Kendall/Kylathat you have to pay but I mean it's like 5050 right and it was more 8020 I'd say okay is it possible was he loyal to
00:26:27Misra/Kendall/Kylayou um that's so funny you say that um yeah for as much as I know I mean I have my
00:26:37Misra/Kendall/Kylaown reservations on things but that's what he says is possible you were the side chick I definitely don't think so he he for he for sure was
00:26:50Misra/Kendall/Kyladefinitely like like in love with me don't get me wrong he was a good boyfriend he just like definitely got too comfortable able
00:26:58Brian AtlasI think too comfortable okay all right what about you happily married for how long uh 6 months six months but we've
00:27:10Brian Atlasbeen dating for like six years six years 6 months kids nope planning to yep how many don't know don't know okay Q what
00:27:21Brian Atlasabout you man single doing me whatever I want whenever I feel like it that's right all right cool so we're gonna we're
00:27:32Brian Atlasgonna get into our first uh actually you know what before we pull up Maddie's viral no let's do Maddy's viral clip thing first all right
00:27:52Maddie gym (clip)wow my leg day warm up no don't give me that I know you know you're doing
00:28:05Maddie gym (clip)so you're actually are youing me ridiculous don't come my onl don't
00:28:22Brian Atlasokay uh so first off couple questions there I I noticed something
00:28:31Brian Atlasuh your phone screen was cracked but I I have okay the kick the supposed kick right it
00:28:42Brian Atlaslooked pretty like a gentle kick not a kick that would sufficiently crack a phone screen so was your screen already cracked yes so you but you kind of
00:28:54Brian Atlasframed it you gave it the spin where like he cracked to the screen but it was already damaged my screen was already cracked and it got one more crack from
00:29:03Brian Atlasfrom the the slight k kick okay saying look it's not appropriate for him to uh to kick my to kick your property that's
00:29:13Brian Atlasnever appropriate um but that's one thing that caught my eye so uh you were doing that in the gym yeah okay and that you posted that it went
00:29:26Maddie Ruviral well tell us a bit about the backlash okay any back any backlash any praise okay first we need to go back like two years because yeah let's go back there
00:29:38Maddie Ruso we go back to totally related no I swear we're going to get there because this like well help oh my God that mic came out of nowhere holy if you think it's like right or wrong like you need to know like where the exercise
00:29:50Maddie Rucame from yeah yeah right so two years ago my friend super into fitness I watch all of her stories she posts all this stuff she posted that exercise without the bouncing and said that if you can do this for a minute it's linked to
00:30:02Maddie Rulongevity did I look any further into it no but did I start doing it like every day when I went to the gym yes okay as a stretch okay and then I was working out
00:30:14Maddie Rulike probably a year ago and I was filming just for vlogging and then I realized that it looked kind of sexual and so I started adding like a bounce to it okay and I started filming it for
00:30:24Maddie Rureals mhm but it still was a part of my warmup and I had just you know added it for that um so that's where the exercise came from I still do it like three times
00:30:37Brian Atlasa week doesn't matter yeah at that same gym or have you no I'm I moved to Equinox oh you moved do people recognize you when you're doing yeah doing that exercise
00:30:49Brian Atlasyeah wait I have a question though okay okay all right was it staged no
00:31:06Music/Clips[Music] yes okay okay
00:31:17Brian Atlasokay all right oh why you why are you looking at me now what the I thought we were having a staring contest yeah but the the sound the sound thing so kind of put
00:31:28Brian Atlasme in a transed out so it wasn't it it wasn't you know people be staging for you know it's not you know yeah not
00:31:38Brian Atlasstage no I do understand that wasn't the guy who just dumped you no oh did sorry oh sorry trigging just flashbacks
00:31:47TTS/Donationsflashbacks no the guy that I was just with was like six something that guy was uh Ryan Holt donated $100
00:31:57TTS/Donationsthat clip pissed me off so much that entitled poir without natural selection unfortunately we have to deal with idiots like her SMH can't believe
00:32:08Brian Atlasyou have her on but I get it views actually you know what madd's here's the thing she's been on before and I actually reached out to you to invite you back before the whole viral thing like we had scheduled you to be on
00:32:21Brian Atlastoday's show like two weeks ago two three weeks ago before the before it went viral so it's kind of just happen that she happened to have this this wild
00:32:30Brian Atlasgym moment um in between that but uh not staged not staged cuz like I just I don't know Q like I'm trying to figure out
00:32:44Maddie Ruwhat sorry go ahead I'm trying to figure out you why the did you add the bounc in why did I add the bouncing yeah okay because when I post it on reals it looks like I'm like riding a dick and so
00:32:56Maddie RuI always put that clip with a caption that says wondering when I'm going to be recognized from my leg day warmup or from my videos based off my leg DayM on YouTube do just said I'm
00:33:08Q (Jquan)sorry to the world please don't listen to this I'm sorry for her I'll pray for her initially I thought you said it looked sexual so you added the wait I'm confused you added the bounc because people thought it was already sexual so
00:33:20Q (Jquan)you just fed you just fed into it I started doing it like a long time ago uhhuh I it always had the bounce when I was filming it oh okay okay I thought you said you added the bouncing
00:33:31Maddie Ruwhen I filmed it like anytime I filmed it it's been the same thing oh okay okay so so it was to elicit sex yeah okay I mean it's also good for you but yeah sex
00:33:43Brian Atlasis good for you yeah so it's you know deep pull was so you do o was it helpful in terms of procuring subscribers that
00:33:52Maddie Ruthe whole viral okay um so I had like 200 81,000 followers on Instagram yeah
00:34:00Maddie Ruand then after everything it went to 285 but on average a day I gain like 500 followers when I'm not like my videos are just doing normal so it gave me like
00:34:12Brian Atlasa little boost and then my the money that I made for the day for like four days doubled okay well so I'm going to open and we have a video from Joey SW that I'll pull up after I get the
00:34:23Brian Atlaspanel's opinions on that you all saw the video so your guys's reaction do you think is that a actual exercise do you think it's appropr appropriate to be doing in the gym do you think it's a bit
00:34:36Brian Atlasa bit sexual you know cuz like if you saw a guy like doing like hip thrusts you know you might be like eh it's a little I don't know if it's uh you know appropriate for Jim okay but before or
00:34:49Maddie Ruon Valentine's Day there were all these reals going viral and it was men doing hip thrust rolling out but they were just humping the floor and then doing this with a weight that's all sexual they're all doing sexual
00:35:02Maddie Ruthings in the gym but every single one of those videos got praise what what is the exercise they're doing like the che spot they' put like waist on their like wow that's yeah and like that okay maybe
00:35:14Maddie Ruyou see someone doing that like whatever but like humping the floor in a gym like I wasn't humping the floor okay I was writing it all right there you go all right going around the table your reaction your thoughts I don't think
00:35:27Maddie Ruthere's anything wrong with it like of course okay also so sorry I'm in full sweat making no noises no tripod hold on
00:35:36Brian Atlasbut you're doing you did like the the like lip in the side of the mouth people make all kinds of faces when they work out here pull it pull it up again pull
00:35:46Brian Atlasit up again you're doing like a face like the the you know the the I'm facing a wall though or yeah go ahead you can mute the audio we don't need yeah oh
00:35:57Brian Atlaswait can you start it from the beginning maybe what it's like right at the beginning
00:36:12Brian Atlasyeah we don't need look at that the tongue in the in the cheek there's something in my mouth that's okay okay all right anyways so nothing wrong what
00:36:23Megan Robinsonyour thoughts appropriate inappropriate I think think based on like the environment you grow up in certain things you do like one person would feel comfortable with someone else wouldn't
00:36:35Megan Robinsonfeel comfortable with I don't think I would feel comfortable doing that but it like if you feel comfortable then you know that's
00:36:48Misra/Kendall/Kylathat okay um I kind of I kind of agree with what you're saying kind of just it depends depends on I also like feel like it depends on
00:37:00Misra/Kendall/Kylalike the location of it too like if you if there was an option to go into like a smaller room like a private room and do it like maybe that would be more appropriate than doing it out in the open but I also don't think there's like
00:37:12Maddie Rua huge problem with doing it on the open so usually I do do it in like the rooms in the gym see that makes sense then yeah that's that's and like at this gym I went into the smallest corner like on
00:37:23Kaylathe stretching mats in like the corner corner of the gym yeah like I try to be respectful I mean I like it um I do like
00:37:33Misra/Kendall/Kylawould I do it in a gym probably not um I like it I personally like don't see an issue with it I mean like you do you like
00:37:43Jordanthanks girl okay so I'm an actual trainer so great Mobility thank you good ankle
00:37:52JordanMobility good knee Mobility um now if you were in my gym I probably would say something too not like that and I definitely wouldn't
00:38:02Jordankick your phone um but it definitely does give like a sexual message for sure which I'm sure that's what you were trying to do anyways but when there's like a public gym like you don't know
00:38:13Jordanlike a lot of a lot of women feel insecure about their boyfriends whatever going to the gym because they might see something like that right so I mean in terms of like it being in a public place
00:38:25Maddie RuI don't entire agree but I don't entirely disagree either I'm more impressed with your form looks really good thank you I looks really good to that would say I don't think it's my
00:38:36Jordanproblem that other people's boyfriends can't keep their eyes anywhere else in the gym girls yeah I mean so I mean that's not for me but definitely for a lot of people also hip thrusts men can
00:38:49Q (Jquan)do hip thrust it's there's nothing wrong with that yeah by the way actually the Creator hip thrust is a guy it's attention 304 Behavior 304 damn
00:39:01Q (Jquan)tension 304 behavior of course the women are going to support it cuz girl power female empowerment but you know you're eliciting a sexual response that's the whole motivation behind why you're doing it and we understand that men are visual
00:39:13Q (Jquan)creatures so when you get in a setting around men and you do things like this that's why the guy came to you and said this is not going to be done in my gym because he understood the underlying motive and what you were doing and he didn't like it because it's too many women nowadays who are doing that trying
00:39:26Q (Jquan)to elicit sexual responses for attention to make money on social media and it's just that simple I mean if that's what you want to do that's what you want to do but as you can see he didn't like it so yeah but I wasn't harming anyone it
00:39:38Q (Jquan)doesn't matter it's not about it's not about harm it's about what you're doing what you're what you're eliciting what you're evoking that's all it is so to play innocent as you said in the caption what did you say in the caption um what
00:39:49Q (Jquan)did you say in the caption she was like I can't work out in peace or something what' you say in a caption what' you put in the caption um I can't believe I'm not allow here M why don't you read it I can't believe I'm not allowed to stretch
00:40:02Q (Jquan)at the gym because of what I do for work do you guys actually think this was called for someone please have my back yeah see it's the Innocence it's the position of Innocence that you took like oh my God I'm just stretching I'm just we knew what you were doing dog in the
00:40:14Maddie Rucorner of a gym in the corner of a gym facing a wall you are going to come up to someone doing an actual exercise that a personal trainer has labeled as an actual exercise that's good for my ankles and knes I mean that's good it's
00:40:27Maddie Rugood for your ankles are you going to come after the yoga girls next like damn she's in downward dog her yoga is a little different is it it's a form of exercise it is a form of exercise but you're not actively trying
00:40:39Q (Jquan)to elicit a sexual response you've already stated that that's what you were trying to do overtly you've stated that so once you've stated that's what you were trying to do that now becomes valid that's what you were doing yeah but it
00:40:51Maddie Rualso is a stretch like you're saying I slowly was trying to elicit a sexual response yes that's not true because I do that when I'm not filming I do that same exercise trying you're trying to use the stretch as a troen a trojan
00:41:02Jordanhorse it's exercise so it's actually not a stretch it's an exercise but if you hold it it's a stretch if you just hold it by itself which I do both like I'm going to read this one really quick grid grid One Motorsports uh sake if
00:41:15Brian Atlasyou want to be a stripper just get a job as a stripper this 3o is the lowest form of blank stop it get some help the patriarchy is here to help you be better from grid one you have any anything you
00:41:26Maddie Ruwant to say to grid one the little grid one if you want to be a stripper just get a job as a stripper I don't want to be a stripper I want to be an online 304
00:41:35Maddie Rucuz that's what I chose to do I've been a stpp she chose I chose this the 304 life 304 life yeah you you didn't I
00:41:46Brian Atlasdon't know what I'm trying to say meant for it what's that Destiny framing of it the streets chose CH the streets chose me but I chose the how's that go anybody
00:41:58Megan Robinsonyou know I didn't choose the streets the streets chose me yeah that thing I would like to defend you for a second I don't think like you being completely comfortable with doing
00:42:12Megan Robinsonthat I don't think that that's necessarily your fault because there is some accountability on you know the gym and the higher ups and just Society in
00:42:22Megan Robinsongeneral to not normalize that kind of behavior you know so if someone is not saying that it's bad and you don't even know that it's bad like we're just accepting that and we're condoning it
00:42:34Brian Atlaswe're enabling it that's true you got anything more I know you wanted to add more C you got I actually lost my train of thought when he came my train but if someone if
00:42:46Maddie Ruit comes back let me know came up to me and said hi this makes me a little bit uncomfortable like I would be like oh my God I'm so sorry I like you know what I mean and ALS
00:42:56Maddie Rualso to the point of like what we've normalized in stuff and like what's okay in a gym and what's not there's no rules against filming there should be though okay I think filming should be banned in
00:43:08Maddie Rugyms in some gyms yeah I agree that there should be something that you can go to and there's no phones like no filming in that gym and you just know that that's the gym that you go to and other ones they do allow it and so other
00:43:19Brian Atlaspeople can go to that one I don't see why gyms aren't uh anybody here currently go to a gym do is there any sort of filming policies for any of the gyms that you guys go to it's shocking
00:43:32Brian Atlasto me that gyms just hav wholesale band filming in gyms do you guys see that often when you do go to the gym somebody has their like
00:43:41Brian AtlasiPhone uh propped up tripod even you guys see that at all no not really they Bann La that this is going down happening in just people
00:43:52Brian Atlasfilming in gyms tripods are banned tripods are banned the gym that I go to currently okay uh pull up the Instagram again I want to read some of the comments let's see what the people the
00:44:05Brian Atlaspeople are saying okay no one should have your back uh put us on the other side no one should have your back on this one yeah people don't want to see
00:44:16Brian Atlasyou making sexual content in public you got a follow just because of how that a-hole treated you and again look uh assuming it wasn't staged uh absolutely not appropriate for
00:44:29Brian Atlashim to have touched your property like that that's uh not cool and he he definitely stepped you in a pretty aggressive way that's not cool too e uh even if he had an issue he could have approached you more
00:44:42Brian Atlasdiplomatically I mean I would even argue it's probably like probably shouldn't even honestly I mean I don't know if he has an issue maybe he's got to go to gym management if he feels like
00:44:53Brian Atlashe has a valid concern because I don't think what honestly like look there's definitely a a lot of people doing like ridiculous in the gym people are getting fed
00:45:05Brian Atlasup with it that guy was probably frustrated um but probably best to address it with the gym management directly um so yeah but I don't know if you were like if you're doing something
00:45:18Brian Atlasmore egregious I don't know like damaging the gym in some way then he could like come up to you be like yo what the are you doing but I don't know was that actually his gym or was I
00:45:29Brian Atlasthink he proba pull back up gym uh you deserve it he's right that's a real man totally agree with him okay these guys are a little more someone please have my back
00:45:41Brian AtlasI'm a victim blame her she'll blame her me all her mental health issues on others I I have a question I mean I haven't done a deep dive on all of your
00:45:50Brian Atlasuh Tik toks and reals and whatnot do you frequently find yourself in kind of public conflict situations in public
00:46:00Brian Atlaslike does this happen to you like you just get into situations like this with people in real life um is that not real
00:46:09Maddie Rulife in my I'm like in video game or no
00:46:16Maddie Ruum okay honestly no like I've never had anyone that like has met me okay besides guys that I've dated but not just like people okay in that I'm interacting with
00:46:28Brian Atlasin like a grocery store or this or that okay all right well let's pull it back up really quick there's a few more comments then we'll see what Joey swo has to say uh deserved coffee tea I
00:46:40Brian Atlasdon't get it don't do your 30o in public place how come people don't see this as fake you're literally smiling the whole time see I thought it was fake dude okay I thought it was fake the thing is when like a man comes at you
00:46:52Maddie Rulike kind of aggressively as a woman like you don't really have a choice choice but to be submissive like what am I going to do like argue with him when he already like got to a form of aggression of like hitting my personal
00:47:04Brian Atlasproperty it's just here's why I think look it might be real here's why I think it's staged it just seems
00:47:13Brian Atlasso his kicking your phone is really disproportionate to what you're doing so it just seems like contrived and then
00:47:24Brian Atlasyour reaction to it kind of like if somebody like kicked my phone I'd be like I don't know people react in different ways but you and you don't see
00:47:36Q (Jquan)she doesn't seem confrontational well I'm not yeah she don't she doesn't seem confrontational so I was like d I don't know I think she might not were you scared I was scared I
00:47:48Maddie Ruwas like shaking after I just grabbed my stuff and I D I'm going home this boy sucks oh you didn't finish your workout okay all all right okay uh let's let's get the Joey oh
00:47:59Brian Atlasactually we have a couple chats hold on get the Joey swo ready though we had uh do dooi can you read this one Maddie of course she was right it's a public gym and why the hell would a dude be there
00:48:11Brian Atlasjust approaching woman out of nowhere and make some inflammatory remark while she's working out and then oh wait okay
00:48:19Brian Atlasuh we have this one you don't film in gyms uh and then this guy says if the gym is public then yeah you have every
00:48:28Brian Atlasright to film you know anyways we have Joey swo here he has some thoughts on it all right go ahead and play
00:48:39TTS/Donationsit hold on hold on G One Motorsports donated $100 let's be honest the craptastic video was staged better than the 2020
00:48:49TTS/Donationselection results we get it you need to be a hoot to drive traffic I weep for our youth may God have mercy on you may God have mercy on
00:49:02Megan Robinsonyou thank you I don't think that's a true like religious person thing to say though cuz like in the Bible God always says you
00:49:14Megan Robinsonknow don't be harsh on them for they know not what they do and if there is an element of like naivity wait is that verbatim I thought that doesn't sound verbatim to me I'm
00:49:26Brian Atlasclose we're not yeah we're not I I know this one it's a wait isn't it like we can say in for they know not what they do or hold on chat help me out here okay let's play
00:49:39Brian Atlasthank you grid one let's play the Joey SW
00:49:48Maddie gym (clip)video my legm up no don't give me that I know you know what you're doing so actually [Music]
00:50:00Gym man (clip)you're actually girl you're actually are youting me fuing
00:50:16Joey Swole (clip)oh a ton of people sent me this video asking me who's right who's wrong my answer they're both wrong first off to this man you have no right to speak
00:50:28Joey Swole (clip)to anyone that way you don't classify all women based off that girl and you absolutely never touch someone's property if you have a problem you talk
00:50:38Joey Swole (clip)to gym management and you let them handle it but this woman is also wrong the type of content she creates in the gym is not okay and not appropriate
00:50:48Joey Swole (clip)including this video she tries to defend herself saying that she's doing pistol squats and warming up this is not a pistol squat you know exactly what you
00:50:59Joey Swole (clip)were doing and then you go and say why do we have to sexualize everything we don't but you do including when you did the exact same warmup and said this on
00:51:10Joey Swole (clip)the video caption practicing every day to please you Daddy and a photo like this bent over on all fours where you say let me sit on it now listen I have
00:51:23Joey Swole (clip)no problem with only fans you make money however you want as long as you do so legally but there is a time in place for everything and the gym is not one of
00:51:33Joey Swole (clip)them if I was manager or owner of this gym I would ask you once politely to stop doing that if you continue to do so I'd ask you to leave to protect my gym members and my gym Community let me know
00:51:46Brian Atlaswhat you guys think below your reaction to Joey SW oh did you see the reaction video oh you made a reaction video yeah it's pretty good well you're
00:51:56Maddie Ruhere in the flesh why don't we just have you um I actually didn't watch his whole video through where he pulled
00:52:06Maddie Ruup um you made a reaction video without all the fact I just when he said like you knew exactly what you were doing I stitched it and I actually said yeah I was practicing to please you Daddy which
00:52:17Maddie Ruis funny because I didn't know practicing what to please you daddy oh so you admit you were doing it for oh I'm just trolling at this point like I'm getting ripped apart on the internet
00:52:28Maddie Rulike it might as well be funny oh okay all right um but I didn't see where he pulled up my photos and screenshots of and stuff he had receips he had receipts
00:52:38Maddie Rubut like those pictures of me in the gym is in an empty room like I took those photos in an empty room mhhm so like I don't really
00:52:50Brian Atlassee why that would be an issue in a gym but it's sort of like I'm trying to think what the exact wording is there's uh it's sort of like additional
00:53:01Brian Atlascircumstantial evidence against your case like okay here here's her taking these she's got um the subtitles or whatever what's it called I don't know
00:53:12Brian Atlasthat you put a caption saying sexual things so there's like a pattern of behavior I think that's what I was looking for a pattern of behavior of you going into gyms taking sort of
00:53:24Brian Atlasprovocative photos with captions that are sexually provocative and then all of a sudden you're going to claim oh but this one that's innocent that's so it's a pattern of behavior I'm arguing that
00:53:36Maddie Ruit is a stretch and it you know I'm arguing that it's for both do you know what I'm saying it's like I do it all the time at the gym I've never had a problem no one's ever even looked at me when I do
00:53:47Maddie Ruit okay I go into the corner of the gym film my little thing it's a whole warmup like that takes not very long you know what I mean so to like just focus on this one thing at the gym ever like I
00:53:58Maddie Rusaw a video of this guy doing those like bent over what are they called where you like stand wide and then you just bend over stand good mornings morning good morning when you like hinge your hips
00:54:10Maddie Ruback and stretch yeah good he was doing you know he's doing those in the gym like yeah that's a workout I love those they're great yeah what what do you want to s look
00:54:21Brian Atlasdirectly into this camera here and I want you to give a message to Joey swo what do you have to say to to Joey swole to Joey swo hey wait Joey you can come
00:54:30Brian Atlasdown now he's up no I'm kidding what do you have to say to him oh wait look deep into this camera deep into the camera what do you what do you want to say to Joey do you want I want you to apologize
00:54:43Maddie Ruto Joey apologize Joey I need I ple innocent oh he okay all right he's going to further prosecute you I don't think I did anything wrong stop sending your army
00:54:54Maddie Ruout to get me and my comments they're not nice he you're saying he's trying to cancel you no I'm saying like oh the my comments got flooded with like Joey sw's
00:55:04Brian AtlasArmy here okay they ripped me apart yeah they they he I I agree with him Joey swo he got some fair I
00:55:15Maddie Ruyeah wait okay yo we should get joy SW on the show and like have you guys do yes he lives or he goes to G down the street from me yeah he's in SoCal all right we'll set it up yeah yeah I should
00:55:27Brian Atlasjust get him on the show period though Joey all right we're gonna make it happen Okay um I think that's pretty much it unless anybody else on the panel has any further thoughts agree with Joey
00:55:38Misra/Kendall/KylaSW how about we'll go around the table agree or disagree with Joey SW