BANGS IS BACK?! Round 3! FIGHT! | Dating Talk #86

Date: 2023-07-24

Duration: 6h 31m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBrooke (DT86)>

AAli Hardesty >

AAmy Dangerfield >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02Karen(guest)

SPEAKER_03Bangs(guest)

SPEAKER_04Amy Dangerfield(guest)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_07Nev(guest)

SPEAKER_08Ali Hardesty(guest)

SPEAKER_09Aelia(guest)

SPEAKER_10Essie(guest)

SPEAKER_11Brooke(guest)

SPEAKER_12Naomi(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteKaren introduces herself as a 31yo porn star and discusses her professional body count

“"hi I'm Karen I'm 31 and I'm a porn star... I sleep with a lot of people during the week and sometimes more than one like today I slept with two"”

QuoteNaomi reveals she has been celibate for 3 years 4 months since March 2020

“"I am single and celibate for 3 years and four months since March 2020 pandemic"”

QuoteNaomi announces she is a respiratory therapist who leads worship at church with her twin sister

“"my name is Naomi I'm 31 I'm a respiratory therapist and I also do worship leading at church... me and my twin sister both"”

QuoteEssie offers to quit OnlyFans and become a supportive girlfriend for a chat donor (beaten cheeks)

“"Mr if you are looking for a girlfriend I am willing to quit only fans if you will support me full time I will cook for you clean for you I will do anything that you need me to as a supportive girlfriend um just hit me up after the podcast"”

QuoteKaren reveals she slept with 15 people in 9 days while shooting in Miami

“"I was just in Miami and I think I slept with 15 people there... nine days... I was shooting yeah... it's unsafe we're all getting tested"”

QuoteBrian introduces Jonah Hill surfer girlfriend controversy and asks panel to weigh in

“"so basically Jonah Hill was in a relationship with this surfer girlfriend and he sent her text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work"”

QuoteAli Hardesty recounts her ex having an OnlyFans page — she appeared in BG content with him early in their relationship

“"so the only time I ever did like BG content that I actually like put on my only fans was with my ex who also had an account so how he did it was he also sold things"”

ControversyHeated debate about financial abuse in traditional marriages — Aelia and Bangs argue giving up income for a man is dangerous; Amy argues prenup terms can protect wives

“Aelia: "Financial abuse is basically what we were describing where you give up your entire career for a man in a relationship a partnership and then they hold the money over your head"”

QuotePanel reacts to Baby Rexa leaking her boyfriend's private text message; most side with the ex

“"to me personally reading that text message it seemed like he was coming from a place of kindness... I don't think it's right to be upset with him if you were asking for honesty"”

QuoteNev lists books of the Bible when Brian asks guests to name 7 books

“"Genesis Exodus Leviticus Numbers Deuteronomy Judges Samuel Kings..."”

ControversyAli Hardesty gives firsthand account of Sneako/Zena/Lauren drama — she was offered rides by both Lauren and Sneako, chose not to get in Sneako's car because Zena was visibly upset

“"basically Lauren was going to give me a ride home... sneo was like do you need a ride home... Zena was sitting on the back of someone's truck and she's clearly upset... I declined Sneako's car"”

QuoteAmy confirms she and Lauren will do a public podcast debate about the Sneako/Zena situation

“"Lauren and I we're going to debate on this we're going to go on a public podcast and have a conversation"”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian announces show, plugs Streamlabs/Twitch/merch/BLM nonprofit. Guests introduce themselves: Essie (24, social media manager/OnlyFans), Bangs/Anai (21, student/OnlyFans, returning), Karen (31, porn star), Brooke (24, content/OnlyFans, in relationship), Aelia (31, flight attendant/OnlyFans, in relationship), Ali Hardesty (YouTuber/OnlyFans/podcast, OC), Nev (20, UCSB student/soap seller, taken), Amy Dangerfield (27, high ticket sales), Naomi (31, respiratory therapist/worship leader, celibate).

Relationship Status Round

Full round of relationship statuses. Essie: single 6 years, last situationship ~1yr ago. Bangs: single 2 years. Karen: single 2 months. Aelia: in relationship 1.5 years. Brooke: in relationship ~1 year. Ali Hardesty: single/complicated since end of 2021. Nev: taken 2 months officially. Amy Dangerfield: single 2 months after 4-year relationship. Naomi: single and celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic.

OnlyFans, Sex Work & Dating Compatibility

Extended debate on whether men who oppose OnlyFans are insecure, vs whether having an OnlyFans is a deal-breaker. Essie offers to quit OnlyFans for a chat donor. Nev argues OnlyFans distributes harmful content. Discussion of whether lingerie-only OnlyFans is equivalent to Victoria's Secret modeling. Karen explains she separates professional sex from personal life. Body count discussion: when should you disclose? Karen's professional body count discussed (up to 15 in 9 days shooting in Miami). Bangs confirms she was honest with her crush about her body count.

Jonah Hill / Surfer Girlfriend Situation

Brian introduces the Jonah Hill "surfer girlfriend" situation — Hill sent his girlfriend text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work. Panel debates whether these were reasonable relationship boundaries or controlling behavior. Aelia argues Hill knew she was a surfer when he pursued her. Amy says prenup/contract terms should cover these expectations. Nev says it's within a partner's right to set boundaries. Naomi observes many women have dated men who tried to change them.

Financial Dependence, Traditional Marriage & Financial Abuse

Discussion of whether women should give up jobs/OnlyFans for a provider man. Bangs and Aelia argue financial dependence is risky if the man leaves. Amy argues prenups and contract terms can protect stay-at-home wives. Aelia raises financial abuse concept (husband controlling wife's allowance, leaving her stuck). Brian asks who would quit their job for a wealthy/attractive man (most say yes with caveats). Ali Hardesty tells story of a friend who quit her job for a sudden rich man who then went to jail and lost everything.

Baby Rexa Leaked Text Message Controversy

Brian reacts to singer Baby Rexa posting her ex-boyfriend's private text message to Instagram. The text was diplomatic: noting she gained 35 lbs, expressing concern, and still expressing love. Panel largely agrees the text was reasonable and the ex was not in the wrong. Discussion of whether weight gain in relationships is a valid reason to address attraction. Aelia notes she'd want her partner to be honest. Panel agrees it was immature/unloving to leak the private message publicly.

Oral Sex / Sexual Expectations Debate

Brian reveals he does not go down on women ("neck problems," personal preference). Panel reacts with disbelief. Discussion of whether men are more expected to perform oral sex vs women. Brian argues women are not equally shamed for refusing oral. Aelia and Essie share personal comfort levels. Ali Hardesty describes her experience with BG content on OnlyFans with an ex. Discussion of pillow princesses, orgasm difficulty for women, faking orgasms, post-nut clarity (Bangs describes experiencing it).

Makeup, Appearance Standards & High vs Low Maintenance

Discussion triggered by Jordan Peterson's claim that makeup mimics arousal signals (dilated pupils, flushed lips/cheeks). Amy explains the evolutionary psychology argument. Aelia pushes back. Naomi describes enjoying makeup as self-expression. Discussion of whether "high maintenance" and "takes care of herself" are different things. Brian says he prefers natural looks and is skeptical of heavy plastic surgery. Amy notes men often say they prefer natural but are attracted to heavily made-up women like Kim Kardashian.

Passport Bros Debate

Brian reads a donation from a viewer living in Japan with a Thai wife. Panel discusses passport bros. Bangs and Essie call it a red flag. Aelia argues men going to Morocco for traditional wives encounter transactional arrangements (90 Day Fiancé reference). Amy argues traditional women exist in conservative US regions (Texas, Louisiana). Naomi as a near-example of traditional woman. Brian argues men seek overseas women because they find more appreciation abroad.

First Date Payments

Who should pay on the first date? Most guests say the man should pay (especially those seeking traditional relationships). Essie goes in expecting to pay half but ultimately does not object if man pays. Amy says men should pay. Naomi says it sets the right tone for a traditional dynamic. Ali Hardesty says she just prefers to cook as a date. Brian says he thinks the bill should be split or whoever asked should pay. Discussion of whether expensive getting-ready costs justify men paying.

Celibacy, Dating Timelines & Sex Expectations

Essie uses three-date rule and has never gone shorter. Naomi has been celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic. Nev is saving herself until marriage. Aelia was celibate 2.5 years before current relationship to screen out men who only wanted sex. Brian asks whether women who had promiscuous pasts who now make men wait are being inconsistent. Aelia argues a woman changing her standards is a bonus sign she sees more in the new man. Discussion of casual sex destroying intimacy (Nev's perspective).

Dating Easier for Men or Women

Is dating easier for men or women? Amy argues strongly it is easier for women (a 5/10 woman can get a 5/10 man easily; a 5/10 man must work extremely hard). Brooke and Aelia push back, arguing women face emotional labor and quality challenges. Nev shares "short bus" anecdote. Brian argues women have enormous selectivity advantage (instant access to men willing to sleep with them). Panel debates whether unsolicited male attention counts as dating "ease." Discussion of dating apps as amplifying female options.

Ali Hardesty — Sneako/Zena/Lauren Drama

Ali Hardesty gives firsthand account of drama involving Sneako, Zena, and Lauren. Ali was at Sneako's show; Lauren had offered her a ride home. After the show, Sneako also offered a ride. Aelia (present) encouraged Ali to go with Sneako. Zena appeared visibly upset/crying outside. Ali declined Sneako's car because of Zena's state. Zena later DM'd Ali to apologize. Amy adds public context: Lauren and Sneako broke up, and there was Twitter/online drama. Amy says she will do a public podcast debate with Lauren. Brian and Amy discuss public allegations culture.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasharder like I don't think you underestimate you underestimate like any single girl here at this table could walk into a club walk up to a guy and just be like hey do you want to [ __ ]

Brian Atlashonestly that's a guy could not do that a guy could not go up to a chick straight up hey do you want to [ __ ] it's not it's not GNA

Brian Atlashappen but why you watch hold on hold on um uh let's see um Amy do you want to [ __ ] tonight are you down the hook up

TTS Readertonight oh saved by the [ __ ] TTS donated $100 reality says it is difficult for men to approach women at

TTS Readerbars or clubs last chat I promise thank you thank you promethus reality uh I I said no Essie would you

Brian Atlaslike to hook up tonight um no I'm sorry whoa hold on willing I'm willing here but I've just been rejected by two women

Brian Atlasat the stable the horror I'm deeply hurt I'm I am heartbroken it is tough must be there should I keep asking all the other girls who's in a

Brian Atlasrelationship okay sell a bit so that's a nogo see look it's just harder for dudes it's harder for dudes um you made your point okay we're going to wrap get it we are going to wrap okay guys thank you so

Amy Dangerfieldmuch for tuning in tonight oh wait let me just double check if we uh so what is the after hours thing uh we just dimmed the lights and uh you back later if you guys want to hear the story we're going

Brian Atlasto do it in like 2 minutes cuz I'm TI as fre okay guys last call hit the like button please on your way out uh Nick can you pull up the twitch really quick let's get people uh twitch.tv whatever

Brian Atlasdrop us a follow drop us a prime s what the oh the Patrice do we do the Patrice it's it's quick guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop

Brian Atlasus a follow drop us a prime sub uh drop us a prime sub yep twitch.tv/ whatever thank you for tuning in tonight guys do we do the Patrice or do we just let's just second what is that it's a video oh

Bangsn yeah let's F [ __ ] it let's do it okay pull up theat trece clip that's it oh my

Brian AtlasGod what okay you got it all right I'll tell that's your question here's a question serious question pay attention guys pay attention Okay ladies if you didn't have

TTS Readera vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like we have to remove your [ __ ] right

TTS Readerway well you're going to die how would you keep your man past you get a TW Monon guilty I can't leave the [ __ ] right away cuz you just lost a [ __ ] in the train

TTS Readeraccident can't just walk right out on

Karenher how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina it what about you anal yeah I was going

Bangsto say we got other holes I don't know I'm tired my brain can't think right now you got this dude I don't know what would you that's so

Bangsweird I am a nurur I am a caregiver I'm a pro not a provider oops that's it what about you BJs I

Amy Dangerfieldagree I also concur yeah the other holes they can invert a pink on a trans God bro why you got to well hey if they can do that for men then I'm sure

Bangsthey can fix me right up if that were I'm not too worried about that there's no reason why our vaginas would just be gone shut that's how we pee science amazing nowadays Brian we would no

Brian Atlaslonger be able to what she said and I'd be a really good wife wait what what did she say she I think you said BJs yeah PJs okay all right okay those are some answers there go ahead

Brian Atlasmore wow nothing you can talk you can talk Mo that cursor neck suck his dick okay

TTS Readermouth [ __ ] okay great do you see what I'm saying now I've been getting [ __ ] beam the whole show right but I give women the opportunity to say I'm going to make

TTS Readermyself worth more but you just classified yourself as a series of holes but but I you know

TTS ReaderI'm I'm supposed to treat you special but you just a bunch of holes for yourself no one said learn how to play Xbox learn how to play pool tell better

TTS Readerstories get another [ __ ] that got a [ __ ] to come on in well look whatever do you guys have a response I

Essiewas the only one who didn't say Wow first of all that's obviously a joke so it's meant to be taken as a joke because let's be realistic a man is not

Brian Atlasgoing to stay with you he's not having sex with you I would seow Essie if you lost in a terrible train accident and we were married and we had kids if I lost all my holes you would still be with me

Aeliano no exactly he said one hole he said the he said the [ __ ] yeah so we offered other holes and then he said oh yeah

Brian Atlasthat wasn't good enough it had to be but you know what was the question I does anybody have any other further notes on that okay all right you guys

Brian Atlasdid fall for the you guys all fell for it though yeah he got you he got you 1 in the morning all right guys thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that we will

Brian Atlasbe doing a very brief after show with uh I think most of you have to take off but you're stick you two are sticking around I think you guys have to take off though is that correct

TTS Readeryeah you underscore uncore nocore idea donated $99 I've had sex with between 75 and 100 greater than average women grew up being

TTS Readercalled hot by both male friends and females I date I make $200,000 a year zero of the women I've had sex with were as fat or unattractive as the two arguing it's still easier for

Aeliathem to get sex I mean if you're averaging 7 to 100 I don't really think that it's been that difficult for you my boy also I don't really care about your

Brian Atlasopinion yeah nobody really cares to be honest except Brian I know yeah I mean okay all right well

Brian Atlasthank you there uh I think uh I think we can all come to an agreement here that it is in fact harder for men to get late okay all right thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you to the panel thank you

Brian Atlasthank you to the wonderful panel for I know we went late here tonight so appreciate your guys' patience we will be doing it after show thank you to all our chat mods thank you big thank you to Brit who's helping with time stamps um uh any women who want to

Brian Atlasbe on the show DM at whatever on Instagram any women with large labia my DMs are open we will be live again Sunday wait no excuse me Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific guys we'll see you next

Brian Atlastime good night guys and the after show begins 0's in the chat the after show begins boom okay if anybody needs to uh

Ali Hardestygo bye bye and then these two here are you guys want to take these so is it like a new recording or what still on hi guys

Amy Dangerfieldhello if we could like move this

Amy Dangerfieldway the camera is not on us though it is not on us hello wait do we go do we start do okay all right guys so we're just going

Amy Dangerfieldto listen we're going to put this out there uh which I usually would not want to put any type of like private business public but this was something that was brought all over Twitter something that

Amy Dangerfieldwas made a spectacle of um and it's kind of old news in the sense that like Zena and sneaker broke up but there was a whole issue with a girl Lauren is her name right uh where she was

Amy Dangerfieldessentially saying that due to this lady here and what she witnessed with her eyeballs from this lady here she was able to definitely definitively say that

Amy Dangerfieldnumber one Zena was unhappy and number two sneaker was an abuser so what I found very interesting after speaking to her very briefly is that I mean sneaker may be flirted with you a little bit

Ali Hardestyright I didn't even really take it as that to be honest so basically I was on the fresh and fit podcast with Zera sneo and Zena had invited me on the show and I was on there with

Ali HardestyLauren that was my first time ever meeting her super sweet girl she lives pretty close to me in Orange County and basically during the show I was over on like the little couch area so I couldn't even really see sneako during it I saw

Ali Hardestyzurka he was talking the whole time whatever and it's hard to miss yeah pretty hard to miss and afterwards uh a big group of us had gone to Sushi and so when we were at Sushi there was like an open

Ali Hardestyspot next to sneo like right across from him and so he started speaking to me he ordered me some sushi and basically he was asking me if I wanted to be on his stream and so Zena when she told me to

Ali Hardestycome on the podcast had already mentioned that to me would you like to be on some like big streamer streams like G you promo blah blah blah and I know streamers like they want like girls to be on there you know for more views and stuff so I took it as like a

Ali Hardestybusiness thing and I was like yeah I might be down and then so when he brought it up I was like oh you're the guy she was talking about right two and two were clicking you were like okay let's go no idea that they had any sort

Ali Hardestyof relationship um you know I was just sitting there making conversation and so Lauren was supposed to give me a ride home she had offered to drive me home and my friend home who I was staying

Ali Hardestywith but she just got kicked off the show so she felt awkward eating sushi with everyone so Lauren ended up driving her home and then coming back to take me home and basically sneo was like do you

Ali Hardestyneed a ride home and I was like well you know like she was going to take me and Lauren was looking at me like go with him go with him and so I was like okay I don't really care it's 3 minutes down the street like what does it matter you know like maybe this is like a good

Ali Hardestyperson to know like I work in social media I do YouTube we were talking about my Channel all business stuff like I really didn't think of it as more than that and I'm not even sure it was and so then I was like okay like we ready to leave I was like I have to use the

Amy Dangerfieldrestroom he waited for me to use the restroom and during this time and see I don't like no if I'm saying too much like I don't know no you're not you're not you're not this is just the truth this is literally just exactly what happened and everyone's been waiting for you because we've heard everything from

Amy DangerfieldLauren we've heard everything from other people sharing their stuff and wanting to have a say yet we've never heard it from the horse's mouth which is why this is so important that you actually say this right now you know I I think it's very important to let the truth come to

Ali Hardestylight yeah and so when I was sitting there like right after he'd asked like do I need to ride home and then I went to the restroom I was like checking my Instagram and Zena was messaging me and she was like like you're my friend like she was like mad at me or something and

Ali HardestyI was like what is she talking about like I don't understand and um basically like right before this had happened like she had like left the restaurant and I think she was crying she was upset I didn't really know what was going on I had no idea that I had anything to do

Ali Hardestywith sneo sure and so like two and two did not click when she had dm' me whatever I was just like okay you know what is she talking about and before the show

Ali Hardestystarted she had asked my friend and I who got kicked off if we could mention that like she put us on the podcast but there was like 15 girls on the panel I honestly forgot when I was introducing myself so I was like oh she upset that like I didn't like shout her out or

Ali Hardestysomething like I I didn't know no no no it's just that there were promer so that's kind of just like the standard you know thing it wasn't anything like that so when she was like Oh I thought you were my friend or like you're my friend got that I didn't know that was

Ali Hardestylike her man you know and I literally did not take it more as like a ride home and she she was the one who told me about his stream and everything and so

Ali Hardestythanks for coming app and so um yeah and then also I was thinking like oh maybe when he invited me to be on the stream I wasn't like clarifying oh Zena told me about this like I didn't know like I was

Ali Hardestylike that's the only reason I could think she would be like upset in any way so I was confused and then I almost like wanted to ask sne when we were going to get in his car for him to drive me home cuz I I didn't really know her that well like this is my first time meeting both

Ali Hardestyof them but I just kind of like brushed it off for a sec and I was like okay I guess I'll like WR her back when I get home I have no idea like why she's upset or like what this is about like it was unclear so then um sne goes waiting for

Ali Hardestyme outside the bathroom I get out and then I walk out with him and Zena's like she's sitting on the back of someone's truck and she's clearly upset like I think she had been crying whatever and I

Ali Hardestygo to together a hug goodbye and I was like thank you so much for having me on the show you know it was so great meeting you blah blah blah and she was like that's my boyfriend and I was like oh my God okay I'm not going to let him give me a ride home then clearly you're

Ali Hardestyupset like I don't know what's going on and then basically Lauren was there because you know she was going to get me a ride home first so she was waiting yeah she was kind of like lingering basically and so then Lauren was like oh my God blah blah blah and then sneo had

Ali Hardestylike walked ahead of me and he was like waiting for me by his car and then so from like across the way I didn't get in his car I wasn't even near his car I was like hey I'm sorry like I'm going to let her give me a ride and I think he could tell it was because Zena was upset like

Ali Hardestyshe clearly said something to me when she didn't say much I was just like I'm a girls girl like if there's any amount of like uncomfortability like he doesn't need to get me a ride like it's not that big of a deal I could literally Uber if I needed to right and so I basically

Ali Hardestydidn't get in the car he did not give me a ride that was that and then Lauren took me home as well as like another girl and then when we were leaving like she tried to get Zena to come in the car

Ali Hardestycuz she was upset and Zena was just kind of like I need my space like I'm fine like I'm having a moment yeah like you know I don't really think they knew each other and um then I got dropped off and then from there whatever had happened

Ali Hardestywith Zena and Lauren if they had hung out talked whatever I have no idea Zena did messaged me afterwards saying sorry apologizing she was like you know I was just being emotional you did nothing wrong I think it's a really good

Ali Hardestybusiness opportunity you honestly should go on sneo stream blah blah blah and you know I'm starting to realize like who zurka and sneo are in the whole space and everything and I'm like okay yeah but like I didn't know if it was going

Ali Hardestyto be drama so I ended up just basically not doing it regardless even though she gave me the okay right and then a couple weeks go by or whatever and then all this stuff starts breaking out on Twitter saying that and I mean I think sounds like she would know more than me

Ali Hardestyat this point because she was actually responding to the tweets Zena did message me and she was like will you say something but I didn't want to be put in the middle cuz like Lauren lives near me and like she was really nice to me and like I didn't know what happened after I

Ali Hardestyhad left you know but allegedly she was saying that like she had to pull me out of the car or she said she girl she said she dragged you out of the car yeah I never got in his car something

Amy Dangerfieldalong those lines and was literally saying that like that whole incident was a clear reflection of the fact that it was an abusive relationship this that

Amy Dangerfieldand the other and you know ultimately like my perception of the whole thing and I could be entirely wrong in fact Lauren and I we're going to debate on this we're going to go on a public podcast and have a conversation yeah but

Amy DangerfieldI I literally think number one inserting yourself in people's personal business is like what's your in of what's your motive number one but then number two at the end of the day all the stuff that

Amy Dangerfieldshe was claiming is reaching like she was really [ __ ] reaching with all that at the end of the day because number one you said you aren't 100% sure that sneaker was even hitting on you it could have been construed like that

Amy Dangerfieldnumber two you did not get dragged out of the car and number three there wasn't anything about sneo or Zena's relationship you construed as abusive at the time right I didn't even know they were in a relationship exactly so and I mean he bought me a sushi and he was

Ali Hardestynice to me and offered me a ride but like to me you know I would be doing something to help him on his stream get beers like be a hot girl they in an her relationship so it's fun yeah and also being from La I feel like a lot of

Brian Atlasthings are like you know people have their benefits and like am I a party to this gossiping am I am I going to get in trouble for oh no I don't think so for platforming this conversation I don't

Brian Atlasknow but uh okay let's so did you guys kind of yeah we we pretty much W out okay all right so a couple questions here for the the after show and then we're going to we're going to try to

Brian Atlaswrap up here comment say um my down dude my down store actually I'm not going to talk about that um okay so what was I

Amy Dangerfieldgonna say uh Amy co-host for whatever sure bring me on you down yeah you down I thought I thought you were [ __ ] I will move to

Amy DangerfieldCalifornia to be a cohost for what hair hair I hate this state it is the devil but let's go you hate California yeah I mean it's where like you're in Florida right yeah okay opposite like political

Amy Dangerfieldideology yo chat do you think do you think she uh she should be co-host y'all think I got what it takes I don't know they I thought you were good they really hate my accent a lot of the time like I like Australian ACC they really they be

Amy Dangerfieldroasting me about my accent like majority of the time not going to lie I think Australian accents are cool but they make fun of me cuz I've been living here for like uh close to six years now so it's kind of like a watered down Australian accent yeah yo I they don't

Ali Hardestylike I don't know there was a couple times when you were like arguing with the the as as and then [Music] an I can't dude I cannot pronounce

Brian Atlaspeople's names yeah yeah and I was like and you were [ __ ] cooking oh like you were I like to debate and you got you got heated too which I was like busted

Amy Dangerfieldthe it's okay it's okay people can say whatever they want it was it was amusing but yeah that was the zena Lauren sneo drama and a lot of people like that was a nothing Burger I know but for those who

Ali Hardestyknow if you know you know it was like blown up on Twitter like I drag the O girl I didn't even have a name I was the O girl out of the car and he was abusive

Brian Atlasand she I'm going do a PLL I'm going to do a PLL to see if uh yeah wait if we should have Amy okay this is going to be a YouTube poll should oops someone said

Brian AtlasZena falsely accusing sneo I don't know what she's accusing him of but B Co co-host should Amy be

Brian Atlasco-host okay we'll say yes no okay there's a pullup let's see what you guys have to say don't vote for

Brian Atlasyourself that's unfair I'm not even on there I want text I need a co-host guys I need a co-host for this what happened to the um you had the Christian guy right oh he doesn't want to do it he

Brian Atlasdoesn't want to I've I've offer he got too too hot I mean there's a lot to it

Brian Atlasbut the offer was put out multiple times and uh he didn't want to do it I feel like there are there isn't any with like a male uh female Cur really in this

Brian Atlasspace it would be pretty cool yeah you've got you've got some strictly males and then you got one girl who's doing some stuff and then like a tag team guy and girl could be a good

Amy DangerfieldDynamic and you were [ __ ] debating pretty pretty well with with uh with them so yeah so I went to law school originally I was going to be a lawyer I've done High ticket sales for the last several years so yeah debating okaying

Brian Atlasis like my thing hell yeah that's awesome yes sir that's what I do I'm honestly I'm trying to move out of sales and move into broadcast you lied up huh are you liquored up I've I just you're I

Amy DangerfieldI got some alcohol on your barely it's like one of those like half a percentage vodka closer to the m it's like one of those half a percentage uh pre-made

Brian Atlasvodka drinks it's nothing um let's see they're saying 84 84% yes and 500 about 500 votes 83% yes so there is that but

Brian Atlasuh yeah I think well one thing that could be beneficial if I did have a female co-host is like they can't it's not so easy to dismiss like a woman making the

Brian Atlasarguments because you could like you could just say to a guy oh you're a misogynist or you're like but it's it's really hard to like I suppose people are still going to throw that label on you but it's a little harder to make these

Amy Dangerfieldsort of baseless accusations of either misogyny or sexism when you yourself are a woman and uh so yeah I would agree especially when you can back it up I mean there's certainly some women in this space who just kind of regurgitate stuff they hear from men and they get

Brian Atlasclout for it but if you're able to back it up with a little bit of psychology and real life experiences it's a little bit different I would say yeah so good times okay well I mean are you sticking around California for a little bit or

Amy Dangerfieldyou heading back I am heading back fairly soon but hey if you need me to come back will back sir oh tomorrow okay I was going to say we have a show on uh Tuesday and I was just on Michael show too I was like damn I could have come down with you at the same time we could

Brian Atlashave been on whatever Mike yeah Mike's coming on oh yeah guys Mike stin is coming on Tuesday so that's going to be a good show I've learned a lot from him him and rer learned aike is very very sharp so very knowledgeable people I

Brian Atlasjust need to check a couple things here Amy is going to be the new fresh someone just said I don't know a lot of people say that [ __ ] about me so maybe you're going to be myin and I'll be fresh okay

Brian Atlaswe that whatever I'll just be I'll be the I feel like I would play better as a good cop right I think oh yeah I'm pretty good at bad cops so that would work yeah I think it'd be easier for you to be bad cop but I feel I don't know I

Amy Dangerfieldfeel like I'm too I'm kind of more on the agreeable side like I don't know you're good at asking questions to bring people to The Logical conclusion versus being like hey you're being a heart

Brian Atlasright now I'll just tell them that they're being our it's fine okay yeah there you go yeah I mean I try to keep everything you know polite with everybody no it's great like you you literally ask questions until they say

Amy Dangerfieldthe point that you're trying to make anyway which you're pretty good at that you're I'm okay I'm okay I'm all right I you know sometimes I I fumble hey the people asking the ni questions when ND

Amy Dangerfieldwait can what what's like some of the most Australian [ __ ] that you could say uh honestly it's all like faded but the biggest one is just Nur people absolutely love the way I say Nur in fact I think I'm going to make merch at

Amy Dangerfieldthis point because anytime I go on any sh everyone's just like no no no no it's like the only thing they really want to say so that's probably like the number one thing I would say yeah I'm going to

Amy Dangerfieldmake n merch we first we need to get a formalized like consensus of how to spell Nur in Australian pretty sure it's

Amy Dangerfieldn a r or n Ur R I don't know you guys let me know not 100% n n is it true the toilets flush the opposite way they do wow that's so cool

Amy Dangerfieldyes sir I think that's why I want to go to Australia just because of the toilet just to see the toilets once in my life and it's on the other side of the road as well so that's why I don't drive you don't drive I don't how to drive because

Amy Dangerfieldwhen I first Dred here I was 22 years old and it's literally the other side of the road wow you don't drive no I don't know how I don't know how to up 27 I'm

Amy Dangerfield28 next month too yeah 28 H I know from 28 I know my sexual market value is oh my God by the minute guys find me a

Amy Dangerfieldhusband ASAP are you are you Christian are you religious I'm Christian yeah I'm a cing Christian a what cussing Christian you're a cussing Christian so you like to curse a lot I'm a little rougher

Amy Dangerfieldaround the edges but I'm Christian you curse like a sailor I believe in Christ's uh Resurrection okay yes sir interesting okay I read the Bible not every day but I try to read it frequently are you waiting until

Amy Dangerfieldmarriage like Naomi who was sitting in that chair I wouldn't say no I wouldn't say that I'm a born again virgin but I will say that the next guy I date I would very much say like him to be my husband that would be nice doesn't

Amy Dangerfieldeverybody say that though yeah I know but like I'm taking that pretty seriously yeah I don't uh have sex outside of relationships there's been

Brian Atlaslike two instances where that's happened yeah mhm Haram Haram Haram hold on I'm too slow [ __ ] it never mind too slow [ __ ] yeah that was a long show it was a

Amy Dangerfieldgood show how long was that Brian was that we're at 6 hours and 10 minutes right now wow is that a record I was like no it's not a record but it's pretty [ __ ] late even thinking about doing like 5 hours was a long the

Brian Atlaslongest I've ever done is three on Al can you just scoot that microphone this that one just like scoot it that way yeah I was kind of blocking I can tell that you're like kind of OCD is that

Brian Atlaslike an actual thing or just with the sh I'm a little OCD I guess what's your me too I'm actually a little OCD too like I like things to be kind of like straight

Brian Atlasyes are you a Vero Taurus okay okay but uh oh [ __ ] that's what I wanted to talk about the girls before the show were like really getting heavy into astrology

Brian Atlas[ __ ] like oh my Jupiter rising and d d and I really wanted to talk about that but sadly I forgot about what talking about talking about that [ __ ] or not

Brian Atlasreal yeah I don't buy that Ally you were like staring at me super intensely during the has anyone ever told you you have like very intense I do I'm a Scorpio I have like an intense stare

Amy Dangerfieldeyes also like I was zoning out a couple times oh so you're just looking at me and zoned out one time you caught me doing that I was totally like zoning out so I was just like seeing nothing but I just looking at you I zoned out once as well just I I can get used to the length

Brian Atlasof these podcasts but here's the thing here's the thing I don't want to make a habit I don't want to make a habit of having these ridiculously long shows

Amy Dangerfieldbut recently the shows have been [ __ ] long and like if it's good right and it's and it's flowing then there's no reason to cut it short but when five out

Brian Atlasof like 10 girls on your show say Brian I know but like I'm she's being like I she was being great she was giving you a lot to work with I there's been very few

Brian Atlasgirls who have come on the show like a lot of girls will be like I think dating dating the difficulty with dating is about the same which I disagree with but but like to say that it's harder for or

Brian Atlasit's about the same when it comes to getting laid to me is like so ridicul like you can I think you can make much stronger arguments about well it's about equal in terms of

Brian Atlasdifficulty or frustration when it comes to dating but when it comes strictly to the ability to get laid to me that's

Brian Atlaslike so obviously not true that like really I'm gonna like I just want to argue with you at that point

Brian Atlaslike just continually argue so and we had a a lot of a lot of super chats tonight like yeah I was going to say that like people were giving you the

Brian Atlaslove oh ni which which I I don't want people to think I'm like not um what's the word like not um grateful for the

Brian Atlaspatronage I absolutely am but you know the shows when like and a lot of the super chats and you know the ttss were asking questions um you know like I I'm

Brian Atlasnot the type of guy that wants to just like glance over the super chats I do like to try to provide like actually you know read the whole thing and not just

Brian Atlasread it but also hey they ask a question let's ask the entire panel and then then conversational threads you know start start and then so 20 minutes later we're

Brian Atlaslike wait how do we end up so um so yeah I mean I'm I'm super grateful for for all the patronage but

Brian Atlasyou know I think the first like two or three hours it was like TTS TTS TTS TT like which is thank you guys so much for your patronage but it is going to

Brian Atlasprobably like show I wasn't able to get into to like a lot of my notes that I had pre-written there were there were three other videos we were going to react to I prepared a couple other things we didn't even get into that we

Amy Dangerfieldrushed through a lot of stuff so I think just the convo was naturally flowing so yeah definitely it was a really great show yeah it was good it was good so okay I love reading the comments I know I try not to read them while I'm like on

Brian Atlasthe show because it's so distracting I can't help it it's like my favorite part yeah I almost wonder if we should uh okay Ruby Brian you have lost 70% of

Brian Atlasyour live viewers you used to uh you moved it away while I was reading it but um it's all good um I don't know whatever but she said I

Brian Atlasused to get 30k now I'm getting 3K the only first off we've never had 30k we had 24K with Destiny right with the destiny stream which I that was like a

Brian Atlasspecifically assembled [ __ ] super panel where we had Destiny his wife there were the two feminist girls that weren't like whatever we had um we had

Brian Atlasyeah we had him we had Chase we had John Doyle we had Mary from timcast and we had Nev and then we had and we were just

Brian Atlascoming off of like some really insane shows so like bro I'm not I'm not like

Brian Atlasdisappointed that I'm not getting 24K every show when you just yeah an that was like an exceptional show right yeah when you like stack a panel with really big guests like when we had Michael

Brian Atlasnolles on the show like we like doubled or tripled our previous View count um when we had Rolo and Mike and Justin Waller we had [ __ ] about double or triple our

Brian Atlasnormal view count when you like bring on some high ticket what high whatever you know some high profile person high profile people like you're going to have more people tuning in the conversation's going to be much more compelling so for

Brian Atlassure cuz their whole Community comes over as well it's not just your community it's their Community yeah but we also I mean to be fair like there's been a little decline in the average viewer count that's partially because I

Brian Atlastook like a month off and then we've we had like uh I think another thing that kind of [ __ ] things up over is we had like a group of only fans girls that showed up and I'm not going to get into it but

Brian Atlasbasically they showed up they sabotaged they sabot they sort of sabotaged do they flash themselves no but like we B ended up not having a show and then like just little things like that are kind of going to and then we've had like a

Brian Atlascouple technical issues like some issues with the stream and then yeah well no even that in our recent startup episodes also the panels have been a bit more

Brian Atlastame so I think like it's been a a little less engaging and I haven't really like the past six seven shows I

Brian Atlashaven't really booked like anyone super notable in the same way like bro okay

Brian Atlasgorlock the gorlock episode was huge and then like I mean it is what it is um I took a month off it's going to take a bit of time to build back up and that's

Brian Atlasnor yeah you know you have EB and flow when it comes to viewership it's it's part of the you know it's part of the hustle okay let me just read these little small ones and then we'll get out of here angry Casper thank you man uh

Amy Dangerfieldactually can you read it I'm getting parched RW guy failed test for Amy who is Aaron pizzy who is Terrence pop not sure okay angry Casper

Brian Atlasthank for the new uh I know who Aaron pizzy is she's like a one of the I think she's she was in the UK she was one of the first women or well she opened up the first male

Brian AtlasDomestic Violence Shelter From oh yeah okay and she got she used to be a feminist but then she got like ostracized because she

Brian Atlaswanted to open up a shelter for men okay uh okay shout out to you yo major pain Australian 10 thank you man I nominate

Brian Atlasmyself as tribute for what what do you he said it again Amy I'll nominate myself as tribute our only problem is I am in Perth oh for romantically I guess I don't know ugab Booga Amy is a smart

Amy Dangerfieldgirl don't judge on past what's your past whoever wins her heart as a lucky man I don't know that was I've been on I've been on fresh and fit a bunch um and like since I went on since I went on fresh and fit from like the very first

Amy Dangerfieldtime there were people saying like oh I know Amy she used a guy for a green card but I just debunked it recently on my YouTube I posted up receipts of me paying for my own green card like last year it's still not even fully in I want

Amy Dangerfieldan adjusted s my green card comes in in October uh but I left my ex-husband before our green card was ever finalized because the marriage was not going to work I think that's what they may dfor I

Amy Dangerfieldam I think that's what they may be are referring to but I cannot say for sure I cannot say for sure okay all right we have major pain here Amy I'll nominate myself as tribute only problem is I'm in

Brian AtlasPerth oh okay okay you're in Florida though aren't you I am Miami Florida for now good times you're moving here to become the co-host of whatever podcast Bender Defender may have to up the TTS

Brian Atlasto 150 yeah maybe I mean previously when like our view our view count was a little higher we had Super Chat read like 100 and T TS 200 but I wanted to

Brian Atlaslower that back down a little bit so I lowered it to 50 to read 100 for TTS You could argue like when you bring on someone like bangs who's gonna like you know make for like a really

Brian Atlasentertaining show maybe you boosted up a bit but I think it was appropriate it was the TTS was very frequent though so you could actually make an argument tonight that it was too low um but in

Brian Atlasany case in any case I'm still great very grateful for the people who so generously uh you know spend their money and you know are patrons of the podcast

Brian Atlasand uh it's very it's uh means the world because like we're like I said demonetized ad revenue is not great um and uh you know a lot you know we do have a controversial show so it's hard

Brian Atlasto get sponsorships and uh yeah so really app I really appreciate everybody that is super chatting and supporting in whatever way you are whether that's just

Brian Atlaseven watching the show you know so Terence pop saved 526 men from cancelling out so oh from deleting themselves I don't know I've never heard that name but uh I'll take a look at it thank you Casper appreciate it man okay

Amy Dangerfieldany final thoughts from you guys before we wrap it up here um for the person asking what my YouTube channel is just search by name Amy Dangerfield and you'll be able to find

Amy Dangerfieldme my YouTube is Ali Hardesty there we go um just thank you so much Brian this was awesome my brain is melted but this was fun yes thank you for coming I know

Brian Atlaswe uh like I said I know what's up it's okay got it um I'll I'll read those yeah I'm glad we were finally able to get you guys on the show uh yeah thank you for having us this was really fun yeah thank

Brian Atlasyou guys for coming really appreciate it and uh yeah like I said I know we went late but uh yeah uh B the founder you could also do it on a perow basis what

Brian Atlasdo you mean just like bump it up sometimes type of thing yeah off for big guess yeah we've done I mean we did that like when we had um I mean when we have some like

Brian Atlasbig guest coming on we're like okay if the TTS is too low it's just gonna [ __ ] interrupt way too frequently like and if I have like a guest who like when I had Michael Michael nolles on I

Brian Atlaswas like okay um and I forgot what we said it to for the null show but I was like look the sky he's I don't want I want to try to limit how frequently TTS

Brian Atlasinterrupts Michael nolles because I I want him to have like a good flow and if it's just too frequent you know I mean that's the case for anybody but um for sure bangs was not entertaining she

Brian Atlasargues in bad faith Alvin Sam the Michael NS episode was awesome that was one of my favorite I should have asked one of the things I I forgot to ask was uh would the girls date somebody who

Amy Dangerfieldculturally appropriate that would have been a good conversation culturally appropriated did you know cultural appropriation so is that like when people say that girls who get like braids as them being like

Brian Atlasracist or a guy who has um dreadlocks that's culturally appropriating well I mean yeah well that's a little bit ridiculous but basically like the the kind

Brian Atlasof thought process I had with that is like well Michael noes isn't really like doesn't really talk about dating much he's a conservative is pundit is it the right

Brian Atlasword conservative pant pund commentator pundit polit he's a conservative political commentator and I was like okay well how can I kind of um weave in these so I was like well okay I asked

Brian Atlasthe girls would you ever date a conservative would you date a guy who's pro-life would you ever date a guy who uh owns a firearm these sorts of things I was like would you ever date a guy who culturally appropriated that would have been good unfortunately maybe next time

Brian Atlasmaybe next time maybe next time we're going to try to get some of the daily people on the show it's in the works uh they got bre creeper on should be funny yeah I need oh yeah I need to follow up because there's been there's been some back and forth with I think their

Amy Dangerfieldproducers so I'm going to follow up she loves your pug CA she like she she does com like commentary on your pug CA all the time I almost wonder if I've fallen

Amy Dangerfieldout of favor though with some of the uh conservative Outlet I think just in general like red red pill ququ red pill podcast have kind of like a bad name

Brian Atlasright now probably not your podcast per se but maybe that like blanket like category yeah there's been a lot of there's been like we there's a period in time where like everybody had everyone

Brian Atlaswas like yeah I [ __ ] with the whatever podcast like people like really had our back but then we like you know started getting a little bigger and then there's some more eyeballs on us and there's

Brian Atlasbeen like hit pieces written in in magazine like New York Post to the hippies there's been a lot of you a lot

Brian Atlasof YouTube have done uh like essay type you know uh essayist type videos right um I'm trying to I can't remember there uh hey it's good there I feel like when

Amy Dangerfieldyou're doing that you know you're getting a little you can't reach like a really high level without people criticizing you it just really shows you're on to the right thing here in my opinion yeah there's been a lot of criticism lately so I'm almost wonder

Amy Dangerfieldthe New York the New York was it New York Post New York Times disturbing new habit of disturbing new trends making women look stupid stupid it's like no honey they they formulate their own

Amy Dangerfieldanswers they make themselves look very stupid via the words that come out of their mouth if they can fix their mouth to say what they say then they can claim responsibility for it but yeah I mean

Brian AtlasVice New York Post so well it's Vice I mean what can what can one expect right um Mario G hey thank you man Brian I think you got to make the topics more interesting again I thought today was kind of weird topics still love the show

Brian Atlasjust I thought I don't know the pH [ __ ] was [ __ ] kind of that dragged on a little yeah uh Michael Gutierrez hey $28 keep it up yo Michael thank you so much

Brian Atlasreally appreciate your patronage thank you man um but yeah just coming back to this one uh yeah I mean I you I had some [ __ ] I

Brian Atlaswanted to react to but like the the thing is is uh I I don't want to like wait until the last hour of the show to

Brian Atlasread Super Chat and TTS so I tried like every 30 minutes like we got into the TTS and super chats pretty quick and like that tends to kind of direct the

Brian Atlasconversation a little bit so um sometimes you know I wasn't a like I had a couple things specific topics and we were going to react to three videos we

Brian Atlasweren't able to get to it there's some other people had wrote me some uh pre-show notes weren't able to get to that so next time next time next time DN I want to cancel my flight and stay

Amy Dangerfieldtill Tuesday oh maybe you maybe actually are you down I mean do it I kind of I think we have space I think we have space on the Tuesday show if you're down is the

Brian Atlaspanel full actually no we have we have space actually I think we have we have big no we we do have space for the Tuesday show so okay let me see let me see if I book a if I booked a refundable

Brian Atlasflight I promise you I will refund it I will I started if it's refundable I will refund that [ __ ] pink pinky swear it's a pinky swear uh yeah we let's touch base

Brian Atlastomorrow and we can either way um but uh actually I think tonight's panel was ever because I was on a break for a month I think it was our best

Brian Atlasshow that we've had since we came back from break so that's like out of seven shows I think we've done cool yeah chat what do you think yo chat um was that

Brian Atlasthe best show since was it the best show was it the best show like not total

Brian Atlastelling me I should stay the best the best show since we've been back we were going to have uh we were gonna have Rolo but I

Brian Atlasguess he can't make it unfortunately um you want to have him tonight no we were going to have him on Tuesday with Mike but oh okay I don't know I guess something happened um he so he we he was on schedule but he's he unfortunately

Brian Atlaswasn't able to make it um maybe next time we can have him on but um oh they like like it yeah I think they like you yo wait one in the chat wait did we oh no we already we already voted for you

Brian Atlasto be coost people so then we got to do one in the chat for okay one in the chat should Amy come on Tuesday show do you guys want Amy on Tuesday

Brian AtlasShow Sophia I don't know I don't know about sopia why are you guys why why why okay who's Sophia she's been on two shows I

Brian Atlasdon't know they're in love with her I guess okay um okay I'm seeing a lot of ones there all right I guess the the the vi consensuses in okay the people have spoken all right we have Tyler here love

Brian Atlasyou Australia you're beautiful even though you didn't put me over earlier you have awesome views oh thank you put you over earlier what does that mean

Brian Atlashe was the 5 I'm so hungry oh all right okay guys uh we're going to wrap up there thank you guys for all the uh here I'll keep it here whoops uh guys say goodbye to Kiki over

Brian Atlasthere she's been lonely she hasn't been at the table for a long time I never noticed her knees she been sucking a lot of [Laughter]

Brian Atlasdick what okay have they ever seen her knees cuz I never knew her knees look like that one one day they will see the knees

Brian Atlasyeah no it's just like it's shitty rubber so okay anyways her her Chastity is intact Kiki has never been laid with okay okay okay I don't believe it but

Amy Dangerfieldokay honestly like the idea unless it's like an AI sex oh my God [ __ ] never mind that was my thing that I was going to bring up was like AI relationships and like power social relationships next

Brian Atlasshow though my brain's melted yeah it's been a long show okay coming up on like six hours now oh it's over six hours oh coming up on

Brian Atlasseven okay okay guys we're going to wrap up oh my God okay the chat is on fire okay guys thank you for tuning in tonight very much

Brian Atlasappreciated let me get some let me see some 07s in the chat 07s in the chat guys you have to do a salute salute is

Brian Atlasthat how you salute what the [ __ ] okay hold on before you um guys Michael Stine Tuesday 700 p.m. specific we have a very good panel for you going to be a very

Brian Atlasgood panel be sure to tune in gentlemen we have a good show anyways guys good night see you next time bye thank you

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