BANGS IS BACK?! Round 3! FIGHT! | Dating Talk #86

Date: 2023-07-24

Duration: 6h 31m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBrooke (DT86)>

AAli Hardesty >

AAmy Dangerfield >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02Karen(guest)

SPEAKER_03Bangs(guest)

SPEAKER_04Amy Dangerfield(guest)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_07Nev(guest)

SPEAKER_08Ali Hardesty(guest)

SPEAKER_09Aelia(guest)

SPEAKER_10Essie(guest)

SPEAKER_11Brooke(guest)

SPEAKER_12Naomi(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteKaren introduces herself as a 31yo porn star and discusses her professional body count

“"hi I'm Karen I'm 31 and I'm a porn star... I sleep with a lot of people during the week and sometimes more than one like today I slept with two"”

QuoteNaomi reveals she has been celibate for 3 years 4 months since March 2020

“"I am single and celibate for 3 years and four months since March 2020 pandemic"”

QuoteNaomi announces she is a respiratory therapist who leads worship at church with her twin sister

“"my name is Naomi I'm 31 I'm a respiratory therapist and I also do worship leading at church... me and my twin sister both"”

QuoteEssie offers to quit OnlyFans and become a supportive girlfriend for a chat donor (beaten cheeks)

“"Mr if you are looking for a girlfriend I am willing to quit only fans if you will support me full time I will cook for you clean for you I will do anything that you need me to as a supportive girlfriend um just hit me up after the podcast"”

QuoteKaren reveals she slept with 15 people in 9 days while shooting in Miami

“"I was just in Miami and I think I slept with 15 people there... nine days... I was shooting yeah... it's unsafe we're all getting tested"”

QuoteBrian introduces Jonah Hill surfer girlfriend controversy and asks panel to weigh in

“"so basically Jonah Hill was in a relationship with this surfer girlfriend and he sent her text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work"”

QuoteAli Hardesty recounts her ex having an OnlyFans page — she appeared in BG content with him early in their relationship

“"so the only time I ever did like BG content that I actually like put on my only fans was with my ex who also had an account so how he did it was he also sold things"”

ControversyHeated debate about financial abuse in traditional marriages — Aelia and Bangs argue giving up income for a man is dangerous; Amy argues prenup terms can protect wives

“Aelia: "Financial abuse is basically what we were describing where you give up your entire career for a man in a relationship a partnership and then they hold the money over your head"”

QuotePanel reacts to Baby Rexa leaking her boyfriend's private text message; most side with the ex

“"to me personally reading that text message it seemed like he was coming from a place of kindness... I don't think it's right to be upset with him if you were asking for honesty"”

QuoteNev lists books of the Bible when Brian asks guests to name 7 books

“"Genesis Exodus Leviticus Numbers Deuteronomy Judges Samuel Kings..."”

ControversyAli Hardesty gives firsthand account of Sneako/Zena/Lauren drama — she was offered rides by both Lauren and Sneako, chose not to get in Sneako's car because Zena was visibly upset

“"basically Lauren was going to give me a ride home... sneo was like do you need a ride home... Zena was sitting on the back of someone's truck and she's clearly upset... I declined Sneako's car"”

QuoteAmy confirms she and Lauren will do a public podcast debate about the Sneako/Zena situation

“"Lauren and I we're going to debate on this we're going to go on a public podcast and have a conversation"”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian announces show, plugs Streamlabs/Twitch/merch/BLM nonprofit. Guests introduce themselves: Essie (24, social media manager/OnlyFans), Bangs/Anai (21, student/OnlyFans, returning), Karen (31, porn star), Brooke (24, content/OnlyFans, in relationship), Aelia (31, flight attendant/OnlyFans, in relationship), Ali Hardesty (YouTuber/OnlyFans/podcast, OC), Nev (20, UCSB student/soap seller, taken), Amy Dangerfield (27, high ticket sales), Naomi (31, respiratory therapist/worship leader, celibate).

Relationship Status Round

Full round of relationship statuses. Essie: single 6 years, last situationship ~1yr ago. Bangs: single 2 years. Karen: single 2 months. Aelia: in relationship 1.5 years. Brooke: in relationship ~1 year. Ali Hardesty: single/complicated since end of 2021. Nev: taken 2 months officially. Amy Dangerfield: single 2 months after 4-year relationship. Naomi: single and celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic.

OnlyFans, Sex Work & Dating Compatibility

Extended debate on whether men who oppose OnlyFans are insecure, vs whether having an OnlyFans is a deal-breaker. Essie offers to quit OnlyFans for a chat donor. Nev argues OnlyFans distributes harmful content. Discussion of whether lingerie-only OnlyFans is equivalent to Victoria's Secret modeling. Karen explains she separates professional sex from personal life. Body count discussion: when should you disclose? Karen's professional body count discussed (up to 15 in 9 days shooting in Miami). Bangs confirms she was honest with her crush about her body count.

Jonah Hill / Surfer Girlfriend Situation

Brian introduces the Jonah Hill "surfer girlfriend" situation — Hill sent his girlfriend text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work. Panel debates whether these were reasonable relationship boundaries or controlling behavior. Aelia argues Hill knew she was a surfer when he pursued her. Amy says prenup/contract terms should cover these expectations. Nev says it's within a partner's right to set boundaries. Naomi observes many women have dated men who tried to change them.

Financial Dependence, Traditional Marriage & Financial Abuse

Discussion of whether women should give up jobs/OnlyFans for a provider man. Bangs and Aelia argue financial dependence is risky if the man leaves. Amy argues prenups and contract terms can protect stay-at-home wives. Aelia raises financial abuse concept (husband controlling wife's allowance, leaving her stuck). Brian asks who would quit their job for a wealthy/attractive man (most say yes with caveats). Ali Hardesty tells story of a friend who quit her job for a sudden rich man who then went to jail and lost everything.

Baby Rexa Leaked Text Message Controversy

Brian reacts to singer Baby Rexa posting her ex-boyfriend's private text message to Instagram. The text was diplomatic: noting she gained 35 lbs, expressing concern, and still expressing love. Panel largely agrees the text was reasonable and the ex was not in the wrong. Discussion of whether weight gain in relationships is a valid reason to address attraction. Aelia notes she'd want her partner to be honest. Panel agrees it was immature/unloving to leak the private message publicly.

Oral Sex / Sexual Expectations Debate

Brian reveals he does not go down on women ("neck problems," personal preference). Panel reacts with disbelief. Discussion of whether men are more expected to perform oral sex vs women. Brian argues women are not equally shamed for refusing oral. Aelia and Essie share personal comfort levels. Ali Hardesty describes her experience with BG content on OnlyFans with an ex. Discussion of pillow princesses, orgasm difficulty for women, faking orgasms, post-nut clarity (Bangs describes experiencing it).

Makeup, Appearance Standards & High vs Low Maintenance

Discussion triggered by Jordan Peterson's claim that makeup mimics arousal signals (dilated pupils, flushed lips/cheeks). Amy explains the evolutionary psychology argument. Aelia pushes back. Naomi describes enjoying makeup as self-expression. Discussion of whether "high maintenance" and "takes care of herself" are different things. Brian says he prefers natural looks and is skeptical of heavy plastic surgery. Amy notes men often say they prefer natural but are attracted to heavily made-up women like Kim Kardashian.

Passport Bros Debate

Brian reads a donation from a viewer living in Japan with a Thai wife. Panel discusses passport bros. Bangs and Essie call it a red flag. Aelia argues men going to Morocco for traditional wives encounter transactional arrangements (90 Day Fiancé reference). Amy argues traditional women exist in conservative US regions (Texas, Louisiana). Naomi as a near-example of traditional woman. Brian argues men seek overseas women because they find more appreciation abroad.

First Date Payments

Who should pay on the first date? Most guests say the man should pay (especially those seeking traditional relationships). Essie goes in expecting to pay half but ultimately does not object if man pays. Amy says men should pay. Naomi says it sets the right tone for a traditional dynamic. Ali Hardesty says she just prefers to cook as a date. Brian says he thinks the bill should be split or whoever asked should pay. Discussion of whether expensive getting-ready costs justify men paying.

Celibacy, Dating Timelines & Sex Expectations

Essie uses three-date rule and has never gone shorter. Naomi has been celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic. Nev is saving herself until marriage. Aelia was celibate 2.5 years before current relationship to screen out men who only wanted sex. Brian asks whether women who had promiscuous pasts who now make men wait are being inconsistent. Aelia argues a woman changing her standards is a bonus sign she sees more in the new man. Discussion of casual sex destroying intimacy (Nev's perspective).

Dating Easier for Men or Women

Is dating easier for men or women? Amy argues strongly it is easier for women (a 5/10 woman can get a 5/10 man easily; a 5/10 man must work extremely hard). Brooke and Aelia push back, arguing women face emotional labor and quality challenges. Nev shares "short bus" anecdote. Brian argues women have enormous selectivity advantage (instant access to men willing to sleep with them). Panel debates whether unsolicited male attention counts as dating "ease." Discussion of dating apps as amplifying female options.

Ali Hardesty — Sneako/Zena/Lauren Drama

Ali Hardesty gives firsthand account of drama involving Sneako, Zena, and Lauren. Ali was at Sneako's show; Lauren had offered her a ride home. After the show, Sneako also offered a ride. Aelia (present) encouraged Ali to go with Sneako. Zena appeared visibly upset/crying outside. Ali declined Sneako's car because of Zena's state. Zena later DM'd Ali to apologize. Amy adds public context: Lauren and Sneako broke up, and there was Twitter/online drama. Amy says she will do a public podcast debate with Lauren. Brian and Amy discuss public allegations culture.

Transcript

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Essieage and occupation go ahead I'm sc24 and I'm a social media manager and I also do only fans

Bangsokay welcome Anie 21 student and only fans welcome back hi I'm Karen I'm 31 and I'm a porn star all right what about

Aeliayou I'm Brooke I'm 24 and I do content online such as only fans okay I'm aelia I'm 31 I'm an aviation worker and an only fans girl when when you say AV

Brian AtlasAviation worker what do you mean by that I work on planes are you the baggage loader no flight attendant flight oh you're flight attendant okay uh domestic

Brian Atlasor International or both both is there one that's more primary um honestly wherever in the world they want to send me okay are you like major airline or I

Ali Hardestydon't know if you can you disclose which airline or no that's fine that's fine what about you hi my name is Ali Hardesty AKA aligators I'm a YouTuber only fans model and I also have my own

Brian Atlaspodcast okay um my name is Nev I'm 20 and I make and sell soap bro that's not you're a student at ucsp what you don't sell soap Yes I do I

Brian AtlasI do I do I I do sell soap on the side where on Etsy no no I just sell soap just like on the street corner I sell soap all right okay cool uh wait sorry

Amy Dangerfieldwhat was your uh Age Again 26 26 thank you thank you uh okay what about you uh my name is Amy Dangerfield I'm 27 and I do high ticket sales High ticket sales

Amy Dangerfieldwhat's that uh High ticket sales is just selling a product or service it's high in value so usually over $10,000 uh but I've worked in Industries such as Bas Big Data res a service

NaomiAutomation and recently education and courses okay what about you my name is Naomi I'm 31 I'm a respiratory therapist and I

Naomialso do worship leading at church worship Le are you a pastor oh you're a musician okay me my twin sister me and my twin sister both okay rock and roll

Amy Dangerfielduh okay when you just going back to you uh you say you you do big ticket sales High ticket sales High ticket sales yes sir do you sell art or what do you no so high ticket sales just means a product or service over

Amy Dangerfield$10,000 and so you make a percentage Commission of whatever product or service you sell depending on you know obvious indust yeah what's an example of like something you might sell yeah for

Amy Dangerfieldsure So currently I am working in offer in the real estate industry they offer a mentorship uh the guy in question is flipped like over 1,200 properties over a period of like a decade and so he

Amy Dangerfieldsells a mentorship service that is like $10 to $15,000 so when I help facilitate that sale I get a percentage of the overall commission okay of the overall uh you

Brian Atlasknow prize which is my commission rock and roll very cool okay we're going to go around the table once more so current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship

Brian AtlasFriends with Benefits relationship married uh if you're single how long have you been single and your longest relationship go ahead oh I really don't

Essiewant to answer this I'm single and I've been single for six years okay single single for six years what was your longest relationship um I think it was like 6 months it was when I was like in

Brian AtlasHigh School 17 yeah yeah cuz you're you're 24 right so six years ago you would been you what the six years ago that was your six-month relationship right okay it ended 6 years okay oh

TTS Readerhello dwim donated $99 first time I'm catching the Pod Li y' has been crushing I binge watch it

Brian AtlasI'm excited keep it up Brian welcome to the Pod ladies hey Dwight thank you very much uh for your very generous TTS man thank you and uh glad that uh it sounds like this is your first time tuning in

Brian Atlaslive uh so welcome hope you enjoy the show thank you man appreciate your patronage Okay so 6 years been single uh longest relationship 6 months it was like a high school

Essieromance uh why why you been single for six years what's going on uh I've dated off and on um I I don't know I don't know why I get I know why I've been single I'm working on my

EssieCharacter defects right now which is probably feeds into why I've been single for so long but um Character defects yeah yeah I have like a bad habit of like ignoring red flags and dating people that are bad for me cuz I'm used

Essieto like the toxic Behavior so I'm trying to like take contrary action to not do that in the hopes of getting into a healthy relationship how's that working out it's working really good actually it's getting better yeah I think with

Brian Atlaspractice and like dating over time I'll probably find somebody when's the last time you dated a guy who you ignored the red red flags for um I'd say like a year ago a year ago yeah okay yeah and that was like a short-term situationship type

Brian Atlasthing it was like six months of dating yeah okay so I mean that's fairly recent um but you you wouldn't cons were you still considered yourself single in that yeah there was like no conversation

Essieabout exclusivity um until that 6 months when I brought it up and then he was like I just don't think I'm comfortable with being exclusive and I was like well what was this whole 6 months of getting to know each other for but good times

Essieyeah what what are the you mentioned Character defects what are what are we talking about here yeah my Character defects are just things that are like my fault and what I do wrong to like have like these toxic shitty

Essierelationships um so yeah like I said like I just have a bad habit of like wanting to be loved so I like take on people that like are serial daters or

Essielike me like ignoring those red flags and other people um yeah I like yeah basically would just date people that

Brian Atlaswere bad for me if that makes sense okay got it um but for that for a six-year period you haven't had for example a boyfriend no no unfortunately and is

Essiethat because you just haven't found the right guy or yeah I think it's just a process of like fixing myself so I'm ready for the right partner but also like there's certain things that I feel like you can't fix being single there's

Essielike things that you have to work on while being in a relationship with somebody or dating somebody so I think yeah it just takes time have you ever slashed somebody's tires I've not okay I not I'm not making I was just curious I

Bangswas I'm not making assumptions what about you um I'm single I've been single for two years my longest relationship was um a little over a

Brian Atlasyear okay you've been single for two years you said yeah any so you were last on the podcast a couple months ago any little situations popping up since your

Bangsappearance any dudes sliding into the DMS yeah a lot of them but not that I'm interested none that you're interested okay all right but I have talked to like a few

Brian Atlasguys or maybe just one guy I think no no no romances in I fall in love very fast really fast you fall out of love very fast too yeah I do okay good times

Brian Atlasgood times but then I end up missing them like I'll leave first and then I'll be like no come back sure uh what about you and just one note just if you can scoot a little bit into the table because you are getting a little bit

Karenblocked but go go ahead okay so I'm single and I've been single for about two months two months okay yeah uh longest relationship about 2 years and

Brookewas that your last relationship or no okay so single for 2 months all right uh what about you okay so I'm in a relationship it's over a year now okay

Aeliaand my longest relationship was a year and a half so got it what about you um I'm in a relationship I have been for about a year and a half and my longest

Aeliarelationship is 2 years okay and uh question so you're flight attendant right yes how often do you have flights once a week twice a week three times a week it depends on

Aeliathe month this month I'm on call for work so could be four flights a week it could be um six days a week that I'm gone it just really depends do you take

Aeliayour partner boyfriend with you uh he's on my flight benefits so if he's free and wants to come with me he's more than welcome to okay but maybe he has a job

Aeliaso he can't always he he owns a production company so he um has a pretty busy freelance schedule so it kind of works out okay was that ever an issue either in previous relationships or

Aeliaperhaps at the start of your current relationship uh like how frequently you were traveling current relationship not really an issue previous relationships definitely an issue it was kind of like

Aeliaa I would date people that it was very out of sight out of mind so if I was gone they didn't really care or you know yeah that kind of thing got it okay what about you I feel like I

Ali Hardestywould classify a lot of my dating life as complicated but I'm single complicated okay why is it complicated I was in a relationship um I had met him

Ali Hardestynear where I live I live in LA well Orange County but then they moved back to where they're from across the country so it became long distance and then we ended up breaking up I was sort of in

Ali Hardestylike a Friends with Benefits situationship there's been a couple guys I've romantically tried to pursue but nothing where it's been like committal

Brian Atlasagain okay uh what was your longest relationship three years three years how long has it been complicated ever since we broke up which was sorry remind me

Brian Atlaswhen was that like the end of 2021 okay so it's complicated so there's kind of a guy in the picture currently M sometimes a girl in the picture um I

TTS Readerfeel like I'm really all over the place for a while I was seeing a girl 99 thanks cheeks being on o alone is a toxic trait and the only guy you of girls will get are the simpai boys

TTS Readerwithout any self-respect for their own family and friends are there any decent women left that aren't in the industry or scam artists chat don't sub SLS to them did you guys have a response to

Ali Hardestybeaten cheeks um I would say that dating can be complicated while having an only fans but it's not impossible a lot of guys can deal with it and are supportive in my

Aeliaexperience anybody else want to respond to Mr Cheeks I would say that all the women I know that do have only fans and participate in only fans their boyfriends are usually the most

Brian Atlassupportive and caring partners because they're not insecure so what what do you mean insecure like do is it insecure for a guy to not want to date someone who does sex work I mean not necessarily early

Aeliabut I mean when you come with an opinion like that being all negative about it and acting like women that do only fans have no sort of stake or you know value in a relationship then I would call you

Brian Atlasinsecure yes got it so you're so you're saying Mr Cheeks beaten cheeks he's insecure absolutely okay

Essiecheeks all right there you go um anybody else have a little clap back at cheeks or um I would like to say something um Mr if you are looking for a girlfriend I

Essieam willing to quit only fans if you will support me full time I will cook for you clean for you I will do anything that you need me to as a supportive girlfriend um just hit me up after the podcast thank

Brian Atlasyou okay all right there you go well cheeks so DMS are open for cheeks yes does it bother you at all that his username is bead in cheeks honestly no that intrigues me I like you're

Brian Atlasintrigued yes okay all right I think this is perhaps one of your charactera flaw is being intrigued by by people with strangely name uh strange usernames

Brian Atlason the internet so okay well uh Bean cheeks for DMS are open okay well thank you man appreciate it for your uh good to see you back in the chat uh Nev what is the uh relationship um I'm

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Brian Atlas777777 Nam s books yes wow uh seven deadly sins that was poetic um here I almost want to do a

Brian Atlascoin flip cuz I won't have everybody name seven books um Anna Anna anay anay okay I'm G to try to

Bangsget it right name seven books I don't read don't you read not really read you were reading the comments yeah I read

Bangsthe comments I read my Tik Tac comments that's about it you read at an above college level oh no I don't

Amy DangerfieldI read at like a fifth grade level I I really don't I don't read um it hurts how about name seven books stresses me yeah okay so uh nonfiction so

Amy Dangerfieldnon-fiction would be like Harry Potter The Alchemist fiction would be like Think and Grow Rich outwitting the devil How to Win Friends and Influence People 12 rules of Life by Jordan Peterson and

Amy Dangerfieldthen oh that's another good one that I really like you said non-fiction for Harry Potter oh did I flip them around I me fic versus nonfiction sorry about that um and then the last one oh Atomic

Brookehabits that's actually probably one of my favorite ones oh okay did you have you wanted to come in on this I was just going to point out that there's a bookshelf right behind

Brian Atlasyou cheated I can't even read that far or see that far clever clever okay um all right okay uh Nev go ahead okay

NevGenesis in order Genesis ex Exodus Leviticus Numbers Deuteronomy J judges samel K that's like more than seven also di

Nevwouldn't be Kid Dog Days word uh relationship status stuff oh okay um I am taken uh my longest relationship was 2 years uh what was the

Brian Atlasother question uh how long is how long have you been in this relationship um well I've been seeing him for a bit but we've been officially daing for two months so question when you were last on

Brian Atlasyou were also in this kind of situation is this the same guy or different guy same guy okay was he upset at all because on the last show you're kind of like simping for Chase I wouldn't say I was simping I'd say I admired him you

Brian Atlaswere enthralled by there just for the rest of the panel for context one of the other male panelists on the show you were kind of into him and you were kind of simping

Nevon him I was no no no no chat was she sing she was she was sing did that have an impact on your relationship at all kind of did he he didn't he was upset yeah but like again I wasn't really sing

NevI was just like w this guy's kind of cool like not in a I want to dump my boyfriend kind of no he's too old for me and's you're trying to start problems now no I'm not trying to start problems

NevI know I just thought it was cool with his like bible stuff like I like really cuz like I grew up in a really really Co houseold so I was just cheeks $99 yeah thank you cheeks I don't have lame Tik

TTS ReaderTok igore Facebook only Twitter Amy can back me on me being a real person from SAS cast live VIP event B High guy any girl that think I'm insecure because I

TTS Readerdon't want my women n for my future kids to see is delusional shout out to you bow TI guy yeah shout out bow TI guy

Aeliaokay um do you guys go ahead it's not that you're insecure because you don't want to date a woman that has an only fans you're insecure for speaking negatively on women that

Amy Dangerfieldchoose to do it you don't have to date an only fans girl you don't but speaking negatively on them does make you insecure well women often times like belittle and make jokes about guys who are short and often times things that

Amy Dangerfieldguys like don't often times have control over MH so two wrongs make a right now no I I agree with what you're saying an ie for an i leaves the whole world blind but you know it's very common and prevalent in our culture so we can't act like it's shocking or he's a terrible

Brian Atlasperson when it's something that's so normalized in our society I didn't say he was terrible I just said he was insecure yeah whatever cheeks I mean apparently you're still you're insec here you know so I don't know if you have any thoughts on

Brian Atlasthat you didn't address uh Essie over here inviting the the uh DM so I know I'll I'll cheeks I'll put in a

Nevgood word okay um was who was I think you were telling us about how you nearly lost a relationship because you were enamored by Chase on the show no I wasn't enamored by Chase I was just like oh this guy I like his politics I like what

Nevhe's saying you know I'm going to listen to him but it the guy was upset post show your boyfriend or whatever I me I could totally understand why like I could totally see why was he upset because I rated Chase uh like higher

Nevthan he rated himself like I think Chase said he was like an eight and I said I I think you're selling yourself shorts but like I didn't mean it like that yeah I think there's also some other things too

Amy Dangerfieldin any case we'll move on uh what about you relationships situations um no I'm single for about 2 months my longest relationship was nearly 4 years which was my most recent one okay so that's

Amy Dangerfieldpretty freshh for your relationship why did he dump you um uh I think that we realized that we were going on very different paths I wanted something that was a little bit

Amy Dangerfieldmore traditional um I've realized that you know I don't necessarily want to do what I do forever eventually I want the more traditional lifestyle of just like a family kids that kind of thing and it

Amy Dangerfieldit didn't really resonate at the time although I I think maybe he reconsidering possibly so you wanted family kids and he he didn't well it's funny because he always said that that's the thing that he wanted and I'm not

Amy Dangerfieldtrying to say that that's not what he wants as an absolute but I think he just really wants to focus on his career and himself over the period of the next several years which I understand you know he's going into his prime he's

Amy Dangerfieldturning 30 at the end of this year you know it's a time for a man to do that kind of thing you know so have you had a rebound yet uh no not quite yet no

Amy Dangerfieldrebounds not quite yet not quite yet okay um was he also Australian no he's American we met in Hawaii I moved to Maui Hawaii uh originally when I moved

Amy Dangerfieldfrom Australia was there for about 3 years uh we met uh pretty soon after I moved there but started dating maybe like I don't know a year and a half after knowing each other okay yeah so we

Amy Dangerfieldwere we were friends beforeand and you so you currently live in Hawaii or no no no I moved uh we both moved to Miami from Hawaii a couple

Naomiyears ago got it okay mhm all right uh what about you me I am single and celiv it for 3 years and four months since March 2020 pandemic okay pandemic kind

Naomiof broke everybody in a way 3 years four months celibate celibate uh okay I get lots of attention granted I won't say that I get a lot of attention a lot of

NaomiDMS but they're all the wrong dudes no Godly men these days okay um and what was your longest relation ship probably

Brian Atlas2018 it was a year and a half 1.5 years okay uh so you're as of 3.4 months ago or three four wait sorry 3 years four

Naomimonths ago you've been celibate but you were not celibate prior to that correct correct okay and now so are you waiting until marriage waiting till marriage

Naomitrying to do it the right way the moral way biblical way were you not religious prior to I was but I wasn't perfect did

Brian Atlasyou did you have like a party phase or like a uh not a huge partyer no okay nope okay um so would you you also want to I assume you want to date a guy who's also celibate yes hopefully so that

Brian Atlaswould be that would be great would it bother you like let's say you meet a guy and he's he's Godly well I don't know if he's if what I'm about to say would

Brian Atlasdisqualify him as being Godly but he he loves you whatever but he wants to sleep with other women until because

Naomiwhat then he wouldn't be a godly man you know what I mean if he's fornicating he's not you know what I mean fair enough he's not at least trying oh ohin Sam donated

TTS Reader$100 to the of girl it's not a matter of insecurity if you stepped out of your box the average man and woman would find only fans unacceptable men have

Aeliastandards because they worked hard for their freedom get over it oh I mean you're kind of just still negating my point if you don't want to date a girl that doesn't have only fans

Aeliathat's totally fine everybody has preferences preferences aren't an issue but when you're being rude to other people I think that you're insecure for that and my opinion is not going to

Essiechange on that I have a question for him would an only fans girl date you just wondering turn it around can I say something also I feel like it's like a it's definitely a personal preference

Essieon if you want to date an only fans girl or not but my question to him is what are there levels to that like if it's an only fans girl who does swimsuit stuff or does lingerie or is like nudity his boundary I'm just curious to know if

Brian Atlasthere if it's just like strictly if she has an only fans it's a noo or if there's like levels to it that's a good question fair cuz I I there are you know

Brian Atlasdegrees to this [ __ ] you know like so I have a question for cheeks and Alvin uh what about it like you know what if

Brian Atlasthere's like no BG content you know yeah no BG cuz like you have like a girl who's posting lingerie photos who could do only fans all the way to a girl who's

Aelialike doing gang bangs and [ __ ] like you know like there's a difference you know you know I mean the women that do only fans that are in lingerie or swimsuits it's basically the same thing as a sports

NevIllustrated model or Victoria Secret model so if you would date a Victoria's Secret model it's pretty much one and the same same type of content I think that someone not wanting their girlfriend to have an only fans is perfectly reasonable I don't think it's a matter of insecurity I think it's

Nevrespecting their boundaries because everybody has boundaries coming into a relationship and to say that that's solely based on insecurity is kind of stupid cuz you know there's other

Bangsfactors that play into it m I think what the comment says is he's saying like oh the average man won't want and only fans that is an only fans girl but I've met a lot of average men that have really

Bangsgreat jobs that think it's cool that I have an only fans and they even support it and they're like oh like let me subscribe like send me the link hold but okay I have a and I'll get you in here

Brian Atlasjust a sec um okay so question for you on that though um can we all agree that men will say anything to get laid like so couldn't they just be like

Nevthey might not genuinely believe that but they're just gassing you up to try to get some that could be a possibility but some of them haven't slept with me I don't think that most men would like it

Nevthough personally like most men maybe some some some there are there are a minority of men who like it it just reflects on their values and like boundaries like I said I don't think that it has anything to do with

Nevinsecurity or anything like that and like it's really hard to find a man who will respect the only fans and endorse that stuff who will stay like it's very like I don't know it's

TTS Readersort of just oh I'll $100 no only fans period plenty of beautiful feminine women throughout the

Bangsworld you're not that special you're competing against women who offer more to the table we aren't waitresses yeah why we're pretty that's about it

Bangswe're not wait don't you work at Red Lobster I'm kidding I'm kidding I have not worked a I have not um what is it clocked into a job since I was 18 so okay oh wow all right beaten cheeks

TTS Readerdonated $99 tatted up of girl in blue you are cool asked Brian for my Twitter he's got it to the trigger F girl I date girls

TTS Readerwith real value that have a body count under three and less than 16% body fat no o f girls at all don't compare o to

Aeliasiber tiles smash he'll smash he will smash I mean I'm not consideration he took it into consideration thanks I'm

Aelianot interested um yeah but going back to the point previously um again I said it's not an issue of having a personal preference it's totally fine to not want to date somebody that has an only fans

Aeliabut when you're judging somebody that doesn't make you a good person or a decent person and I believe that it makes you insecure if you're going to talk down on someone even if it's not within your boundaries and your personal

Amy Dangerfieldreferences because you're still talking and judging somebody else that's doesn't fit in your box think they come up to and say it on the street but it's an inflammatory podcast where that's literally the point like that's why it

Amy Dangerfieldcame in it's not that surprising I don't think You' say it to you on the street in person like that would be really disrespectful but this type of environment kind of promotes that type of thing to occur and I'm fine with that but I'm still allowed to make the point

Ali Hardestyokay I don't think that necessarily makes him insecure there hold on you and then you go ahead I was just going to say I feel like in my experience a lot of the time men will say it's hot at first and they're like into it and then

Ali Hardestyif you actually start to get serious with them they can have some drawbacks and they kind of have to work through it and also in my experience it's sometimes easier to date men with like

Essienon-traditional jobs like maybe they work in music or real estate stuff like that okay what did go ahead I was going to ask a question that would change the subject a bit so if there's anything

Brian Atlaselse that needs to be said um before we do that we do need to have everybody oh I think we everyone shared oh we were talking about celibacy so we'll come back to that um hold on to that thought really quick but cheeks thank you for

Brian Atlasyour uh TTS appreciate it um okay so you're celibate yeah you're waiting until marriage close M um

Brian Atlasso how cuz on our last show we had a girl who she said the same thing she's waiting until marriage but she said that she sinned two months ago oh so she like hooked up with some dude

Naomieven though her her standard is okay well so do are you pretty confident that you're going to hold to your celibacy yes okay like there's not you're not going to f trust me I learned the hard way I'm not a perfect person I've made mistakes and you've made mistakes it's

Brian Atlaskind of pushed me to where I am question on that have you declared your celibacy at any point and then made a mistake no and then okay so the C I've been walking in Purity for three years and four

Brian Atlasmonths three years four months would you you'd be okay like to date uh what if is a virgin would you date a virgin a

Naomi31-year old virgin yeah I mean he's celibate he's celibate right yeah sure I don't care about that yeah okay with that that but

Naomihope2 I mean what 30 what older guy is a Godly Man okay he's just been waiting okay yeah okay all right I know a guy

Essieokay um what what was your question question oh I I'm so sorry I forget your name Amy um I was going to ask you about your relationship the one that was 4 and a half years you said it ended because he wanted kids and you weren't quite

Amy Dangerfieldready it wasn't necessar he does want kids long term but the time period when I want kids cuz I'm like turning 28 next month so there's a very limited period of time where I'm able to really actualize that versus his timeline so it

Essiewas most of a timeline Thing versus absolute values I was going to say I was just going to ask cuz four and a half years is a long time and I would be very upset if my partner couldn't come to a compromise with me at that point about that so I was just wondering like if he

Amy Dangerfieldwas just kind of stubborn on that topic and wasn't willing to make a compromise well honestly the the breakup was really sudden and shocking to me um so it's so it's really it's really hard to go super

Amy Dangerfieldlike in depth on that because we didn't really have much time to reconcile it and uh it has been a couple of months since we may possibly be revisiting not

Brian Atlas100% sure so it may be changing but yeah was that that was the question yeah that was pretty much it I was just curious to know okay cool let me get a

Brian Atlascouple uh super chats here we have ghost hello Australian girl from fnf live event Hello Ghost uh Hey ghost thank you for your patronage much appreciated man thank you we have bendra

Brian Atlasthe offender ladies what is the farthest you've gone to hide your past actions from a man you were romantically interested in

Brian Atlasfarthest you've gone to hide your past actions from a man what do you mean past actions uh I'm assuming he's talking like if you had a past of either promiscuity or wild partying drug use

Brian Atlaspossibly anything like that have any of you hidden your wicked and wild past from a partner anybody no I feel like if I'm entering a

Ali Hardestyrelationship with someone I try to be 100% honest and if I'm not willing to do that then we're just not going to get to that point of like vulnerability mhm but

BangsI have nothing to hide personally me too I feel like I'm a pretty open book when I like somebody a lot I'll like tell them everything spill everything there's no holding me back a

Brian Atlaslot of trauma dumping a lot of trauma dumping well I think we you sent us some notes for the pre-show so maybe we can get into that okay um let me see here I think what he's kind of getting at is

Brian Atlaslet's say for example your meeting a new guy and he's kind of inquisitive as to your previous relationship situations and perhaps uh your previous sexual

Brian Atlasencounters so for example body count right would any of you have an issue disclosing your body count to a new partner uh would you be like that's not of your business any anybody here let's

Essiestart with you I don't think that's like a too crazy of a question to ask and if it's somebody that I'm seeing and I'm interested in I'm I'm more than willing to be like rigorously honest and tell them my body count I don't feel like

Bangsit's that big of an issue or that big of a question okay um I think no no guy has really asked me for my body count but for the the most recent guy that I've been

Bangsseeing or not really seeing I'm just like deeply in love with him he did ask me about my body count and I was honest because um I think you do have to be kind of honest about your body count when it comes to like being safe um when

Bangscomes to like the person that you're going to be like potentially sleeping with I think that's um something that really needs to be talked about and getting tested as well if you are sexually active um I think that's an

Bangsimportant conversation to have with your partner so yeah I don't that's about

TTS Readerit oh uh hold on two flannels donated $100 Brian you Lumberjack here is $100 so you can buy yourself some new clothes

TTS Readeryou were the same two flannels every damn show if you were a rapper they'd call you two flannels look like you're stuck in a '90s Pearl Jam music video

Brian Atlaswhich Eddie V uh two flannels thank you for the uh TT TTS appreciate hey uh you know it's I like flannels you know the

Brian Atlasgrunge '90s grunge look okay uh thank you man appreciate it um yeah I thank you I'm I'm gonna go out and I'm gonna buy maybe like a orange flannel or something so thank you um I think you

Karenwere about to come in on the previous one uh but my body count right yeah okay so I do porn and I sleep with a lot of people during the week and sometimes more than one like today I slep with two

Karenpeople then I came here today yeah today I had to three some oh [ __ ] like uh was it two two dudes a girl and a guy girl and guy okay yeah yeah yeah okay two two people today

Karenall right yeah yeah um I was just in Miami and I think I slept with 15 people there when how long were you in Miami nine days nine days well you you were shooting right I was shooting yeah okay

Karenso I'm going to be honest though I don't sleep with people in my personal life only for work for work yeah it's unsafe we're all getting tested and it's not safe to sleep with anyone else if

Karenthey're not tested God it okay do you date other people in the industry um I'm not interested in dating anyone right now no no I came into the industry with

Brian Atlasa boyfriend and it didn't work out and honestly I don't care to date while I'm in it it's hard what was it related to you being in the industry that it didn't

Karenwork out or for unrelated Reon it was a lot to do with the industry at the same time with how he felt there's a lot of red flags that I miss and there's a lot of things like I also need to work on and while I'm doing this I can't be

Karenconsiderate of someone else's feelings I have to be selfish to be successful okay um and he's not in the industry no okay I have a question but so while you

Brian Atlaswere seeing him and I assume you guys were intimate with each other um you were shooting scenes with other people correct I was would would you have how long were you dating him again about N9 months nine months would you have had an issue if he was like I don't know if you

Brian Atlasguys had an open relationship but if he was like [ __ ] other chicks would you have an issue with that I would laugh he had a small thing so wello you can't throw him under the bus like that I can

KarenI can what well I if he could get it then sure but he wanted to be monogamous and he understood that it was my job I mean he got you so yeah despite the

Brian Atlasalleged yeah yeah it was to be fair you're like you probably work with guys who are hung like [ __ ] horses 14 in so like what what if his was just

Brian Atlasaverage but you're just so used to the is an average it's below four come on oh my gosh damn you're you're really throwing your 9mon relationship under

Brian Atlasthe under the bus here that's okay he would too he would throw you yeah he's not on the podcast yo boyfriend we cordially invite you to come be on the show our next podcast and you know you can if you want

Brian Atlasyou can contest some of the things she's saying if it was actually five you can let us know but uh you're welcome to come on the podcast because we' like to hear both sides of the story um okay so

Karendo you think he's watching right now I don't I don't think so I don't think he cares anymore no no he's doing his own thing did he dump you or did you dump him um we broke up with one another I made it official but there was a lot of

Karenissues towards the end of the relationship okay um so he doesn't have RZ is that the problem he doesn't have game or uh no

Karenhe's nice I wish him nothing but the best it just didn't work up I know nothing but that you just told him told the [ __ ] world that he's got a small d and still wishing the best you're airing

Brian Atlasyour dirty laundry that's what we're here for okay um I don't know how we okay so he but would you have had an issue if he was sleeping with other

Karengirls during your relationship um I wouldn't have if we talked about it but going into it we decided to only be monogamous with one another but he did

Karenhave an issue with what I was doing you know when my job would be too much for him he would throw it in my face that I was not monogamous when you say it was too much for him um are what what are we

Brian Atlastalking about here are we talking like the frequency with which you are getting doing scenes with dudes or um I think with certain scenes he didn't like

TTS Readercertain things sorry hold on just a prome $100 this is sad and ridiculous I never shamed my exes like this I only ever spoke the truth about about their

Bangsactions and personalities but never about their flaws from their bodies have some self-respect and maturity the [ __ ] are you doing you guys come on here and you guys

Brian Atlasjudge the hell out of us like please like okay well Prometheus is new to the TTS so maybe he he hasn't uh but I would you

Brian Atlasbe upset if he was like you know you know what what if he came out okay we're GNA have him on the show hold on

TTS Readerokay hold on donated $99 no real man wants to date of girls they want to F you stop the insecurity [ __ ] when you're not saying your body

TTS Readercount female dignity is going down the drain thanks feminism back in school it's caused a conference today it's 10 bucks a month

Brian Atlasdafuk def um yo greed neck thank for that um wow you guys have really you guys have really uh gotten the uh chat

Brian Atlasup in arms um okay would you be upset and we are having him on the show if he came on the podcast and was like he was like you know Karen that's your name right Karen yeah yeah that's my name

Brian Atlaslike your actual name or P star name yeah okay it's unfortunate but yeah I know our apologies um I know yeah they kind of did you dirty with the whole Karen that's what I said yeah you were

Brian Atlasaround before the meme okay what way before he come your ex-boyfriend comes on podcast and he's like holy okay prome thank

TTS Readerprome bangs I challenge that as I never judged you like that Prometheus was always polite and diplomatic with you I

Brian Atlasdon't remember he doesn't I'm sorry prome trying to put in a good word okay your boyfriend comes on the on the podcast yeah and he was like listen Karen

Karenjust she had a loose [ __ ] what if he said that huh oh he could say whatever he wants that's fine what I I don't know but what if he came on and he was like okay that's his opinion yeah I don't I don't

Karenknow we're all entitled to our opinions it's okay what do you want me to say I'm not mad about that cuz I know it's not I I don't know if that's true I'm just saying that that would be like the mirror opposite the equivalent no I

Nevunderstand like he's like ah Karen she's so loose I can't yeah you know it's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway right no well forgive me if I'm wrong but was it you it might have been her who said

Karenthat judgments come from a place of insecurity someone was saying that that's it [ __ ] that was me oh you agree with that that judgement I mean oh yeah I guess um judgment comes from a place

Karenof insecurity yes and no um you know we can all judge based on our own opinions but it doesn't mean that it's right it doesn't have not

Brian Atlaseverything has to do with an insecurity we could just just think what we think thought everything's based around insecurity okay I see okay um wait so

Brian Atlasokay let's go back to you you were saying uh you know we're talking about your ex a little bit and you said that at one point uh you were in Miami and you

Brian Atlasdid you were in Miami for nine days and you you had you did 15 scenes yeah okay 15 people okay um is that like the most in the 9-day period or have you done

Karenhave you done more that's the most as of now okay it goes It goes down in Miami it does go down it was fun it was fun but um no just whenever I have heavy workflows I'll sleep with a lot of people but before that I didn't sleep

Karenwith anyone for a month like I said in my regular life it doesn't really matter okay gotcha okay and are you the only one that does uh porn or I know some of

Ali Hardestyyou guys do only fans I do only fans too I do everything on my only fans as well gotcha you got any of you guys also do porn or just I don't do full porn I have an only fans but I don't do like scenes

TTS Readeror like boy girl things like that okay good times oh oh here we go again oh my God donated $99 I was supposed to be on the show this week but Brian ran out of money to

TTS Readerfund my trip so he has to save another year for my appearance I'll gladly let you 34s try and judge me on my appearance guess I'll gain some F to be

Brian Atlason your level okay he he's out for blood tonight cheeks what oh my God uh by the way just a reminder the views expressed by the uh

TTS Readerchat in TTS does not necessarily reflect the views of what 00 prome thank you man judgments are based how it works or should [ __ ] uh thank you man oh wait hold on let me let

Ali Hardestyme get caught up on a couple wow you guys are okay the chat's funny the chat they're roting me for what I said wait what did you say I said I don't do full porn and they're like porn e they said

Brian Atlaslike what's half porn or something like that what is half like I don't get penetrated on my only fans huh h word okay good time have you uh just to show

Brian Atlasof hands those of you who do o or traditional adult content uh who does BG content no BG I've done some BG but just

Ali Hardestynot it's like teasing what is that BG like boy girl um I my ex he had an only fans for a couple months cuz he's a musician so we made like sexy music videos together and I would like twerk

Brian Atlason him and stuff like that okay good times um okay hold on guys I'm just pulling up the next one uh one sec

Brian Atlashere uh I'm trying to remember um someone said just a tip sorry guys one sec uh okay while I

Brian Atlasget that figured out sorry guys my computer's bugged out so we have some pre-show notes from a couple of you oh we had a Miss Super Chat from last show Mr meatball sorry that we missed your Super Chat Nick if you're able to hide

Brian Atlasthat uh Mr meatball asked uh so ladies do looks even matter for a

Aeliaguy if he's successful confident and smart no not at all mm-m that's attractive to me honestly I personally think people become more attractive as

Aeliayou get to know them and their personality as well so you know I don't think you have to be a 10 out of 10 in the looks Department because you can become a 10 out of 10 based on your confidence career you know what you've

Brian Atlasgot going on in your life and your personality to be honest okay got it anybody else anybody hold on Mr meatball oh and Mr meatball he also asked uh dude

Brian Atlason the panel there's a guy on the panel so I I guess it's directed me would you date an ugly chick for any reason jeez

Brian AtlasBro [ __ ] y going okay would I uh yeah sure why not okay ugly I don't know

Brian Atlasugly I don't know but it's ugly too like a one out of 10 are we talking like I mean I definitely think a girl can make up for like her personality can

Brian Atlasdefinitely make up for a lack of appearance but ugly obviously I think for both men and women you need to be physically attracted to your partner so

Brian Atlasuh know probably probably not you know probably not but uh yeah okay all right Mr meepo thank you very much hold on I got I'm something's busted here on my

Essiething does anyone have a question they'd like to ask while I'm attempting to I would poorly get this fixed go ahead I'd like to know more about your dating life with trying to find someone who's also

Essiecelibate and and what does it Define like you want a Godly Man is that specifically Christianity or would it be like his definition of whatever his God type would be um I'm a Christian so I

Naomiwould hope he would reciprocate be a Christian as well um what am I looking for just I guess traditional like a guy who submits himself under God and then I

Naomican come under him because he's you know not a perfect man but a perfectly submitted man to me cuz I feel like nowadays men are submitted to their porn addiction men are submitted to their alcoholism their lust you know but if I find someone I feel like somebody who's

Essiesubmitted to God I can work with that that's like a really good start for me where do you normally like find those types of men like out in Daily so out in

Naomithe wild no but oh at church maybe right but you know I'm in a smaller church so it's kind of hard it's like there's an age Gap it's like a bunch of old people

Naomiand then you know teenagers so um but dating apps stting apps they don't work for me get a lot like I said you get a lot of attention a lot of toxic tens trying to get in your pants like on the second date like kind of like what you

Naomiwere saying like or you were saying Brian how um would you guys say a successful man who's like maybe five out of 10 whatever I totally would because I felt like we maybe we can all kind of relate but hot guys are usually like

Naomisuper toxic yes right yes like super super hot like 10 out of 10 12 out of 10 toxic yeah so are you looking to be like a traditional partner wife I would hope

Aeliayou would find me as opposed to me sing him out yeah okay but finds a wife finds a good thing yeah I mean like when you find your partner do you want to be like a traditional wife do you want him to be the bread winner and do all those things

Naomithen you kind take care of the home I mean right now I have my own job and my own house my own car but um I would definitely want to pull back if if you want to grow with me if you wanted to decide to have children I would like to pull back and I would hopefully you

Naomiwould be the bread winner and you can you know take care of me in my you know your child your legacy hopefully You' have money to do that you know but yeah so you want to be a stay-at home mom not necessarily no cuz um I feel like I have

Naomilike a lot of hobbies and things that I'm interested in I wouldn't just give up but I feel like being as being a woman I would that's a huge part like having a child I feel like it's a huge part of being a woman what kind of hobbies are you talking about well I do

Naomimusic so I do I do play music at the church a lot like twice a week um and then respiratory therapist Healthcare is It's Hard Out Here MH okay uh hold on okay I finally got this

Brian Atlasworking we have Prometheus here Instagram I'm cool with but as a reasonable idea only fans is a major red flag also opinions is your rights but facts tend to be more validating and

Brian Atlasvaluable you have to accept word thank you uh Prometheus for that uh and then we have cheeks here talking to triggered of female is worst

Brian Atlasworst than talking with a vegetable brained patient don't be mad because you won't ever get a guy of my caliber you'd be lucky to just be in the same room as

Brian Atlasme by accident in any event continue coping with your simp wow beaten Cheeks is on the war path

Aeliatonight um he's a hater he is he is hating on on you guys that's okay okay cool all right you guys are kind of Blas about it good I prefer to be unlucky at

Brian Atlasthat point okay I know all right um let's see here I had a couple notes here if I can finally pull them back up guys so starting with

Brian Atlaswe have aelia is that that's you that's me okay so you said in your pre-show notes to us men are hypocritical in what they want in a partner and what they go

Brian Atlasafter for example the Jonah Hill situation men claim to want traditional partners and then go after Independent Women with strong careers and expect uh

Brian Atlasand expect to tame them okay and then there's a bit more which I'll get into later but we can start with the Joon the hill thing so if you guys sure who here

Brian Atlasis familiar with the whole Jonah Hill situation okay um so basically Jonah Hill was I guess in a relationship with

Brian Atlasthis chick and I guess they had had some conflict some issues or something and he texted her which he later kind of

Brian Atlasreleased exposed whatever uh saying that well the text message was basically like hey uh here are my boundaries I don't want you associating with certain types

Brian Atlasof people I don't want you posting these kinds of photos on the internet etc etc and then he said something along the lines of hey if if these things like posting photos on the Internet or

Brian Atlasassociating with these people brings you happiness then no hard feelings I think what he's implying there is if it's an issue like we can just break up no hard hard feelings wish you the best but this

Aeliais just what I need for for me to be happy in this relationship um so but you have an issue with that I mean yeah because when he started dating that woman and woman and started pursuing her he was the one commenting on those

Aeliaphotos and liking those photos and he knew he was she he knew she was a surfer he knew what her career was he knew that that was what she loved to do and then when he finally got the woman that he wanted and was in a relationship with

Aeliathis strong independent woman with a successful career he decided to implement his insecurities and be like you can't surf anymore you can't surf with men you can't post any sort of photo and I don't know if you

Aeliasaw the photos that he was showing her he thought were inappropriate she was fully dressed in like a romper and just standing outside like at a brunch spot it wasn't anything that was over the top

Aeliait's not like she's doing sex work her only fans he pursued a surfer and then told her she can't surf well I don't think he said that he said she can't

Brian Atlassurf with men but I mean we don't we don't know all the details but it's look we don't know what happened but it seemed to me like she was associating

Bangswith certain people that maybe had an Unbecoming reputation and he doesn't I think Jonah Hill Jonah Hill's a darling of Hollywood so weird with Emma Stone

Bangsand super bad movie so weird what no he was so weird so that's his job you mean he weird didn't he like write it into it or like didn't he like also help produce

Bangsit or something super bad was an awesome m movie what weird no no but you mean he was like in the movie the actual movie he was weird yeah like as an actor he

Bangswas portraying like an awkward 17-year-old 18-year-old high school but like I feel like his job say he's been he's been weird like what do you mean he's I just said how he

Aeliawas weird I said he was weird in the movie super bad with Emma Stone what wait what I don't get it stuttering no I I understand because if the roles were reversed should she be okay with his

Aeliabehavior as an actor his job she's a surfer by profession so if the roles are reversed should she go well I don't want you to act then I don't want you to act in scenes with women I don't want you to kiss women and scenes at your job it's

Amy Dangerfieldthe same thing well number one she's not on that level right she's an amateur Surfer but then number two do you guys really think that that was the first conversation they had about it those text messages I know for me if that type of thing were to come up in that type of

Amy Dangerfieldsituation that text message the way it was structured that was not the first time they have clearly talked about that and I can't say this for sure right nobody knows the full extend aside from the two of them I would bet though that

Amy Dangerfieldthey had this conversation in person and that was a text reinforcing what was already discussed who brings something like that that serious up for the first time via text I would personally find that very unlikely sorry go ahead no no

Nevit's okay I think that um what she said was oh she was a server before I think that once you get into a serious relationship you completely entitled to set boundaries the more serious a relationship becomes the more likely it is and more reasonable it is for them to

Nevset those kind of boundaries but a boundary isn't something that you impose on somebody else I think that partn I think it goes both ways I don't think he was necessarily imposing I don't really like Jonah Hill like personality I love

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