BANGS IS BACK?! Round 3! FIGHT! | Dating Talk #86

Date: 2023-07-24

Duration: 6h 31m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBrooke (DT86)>

AAli Hardesty >

AAmy Dangerfield >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02Karen(guest)

SPEAKER_03Bangs(guest)

SPEAKER_04Amy Dangerfield(guest)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_07Nev(guest)

SPEAKER_08Ali Hardesty(guest)

SPEAKER_09Aelia(guest)

SPEAKER_10Essie(guest)

SPEAKER_11Brooke(guest)

SPEAKER_12Naomi(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteKaren introduces herself as a 31yo porn star and discusses her professional body count

“"hi I'm Karen I'm 31 and I'm a porn star... I sleep with a lot of people during the week and sometimes more than one like today I slept with two"”

QuoteNaomi reveals she has been celibate for 3 years 4 months since March 2020

“"I am single and celibate for 3 years and four months since March 2020 pandemic"”

QuoteNaomi announces she is a respiratory therapist who leads worship at church with her twin sister

“"my name is Naomi I'm 31 I'm a respiratory therapist and I also do worship leading at church... me and my twin sister both"”

QuoteEssie offers to quit OnlyFans and become a supportive girlfriend for a chat donor (beaten cheeks)

“"Mr if you are looking for a girlfriend I am willing to quit only fans if you will support me full time I will cook for you clean for you I will do anything that you need me to as a supportive girlfriend um just hit me up after the podcast"”

QuoteKaren reveals she slept with 15 people in 9 days while shooting in Miami

“"I was just in Miami and I think I slept with 15 people there... nine days... I was shooting yeah... it's unsafe we're all getting tested"”

QuoteBrian introduces Jonah Hill surfer girlfriend controversy and asks panel to weigh in

“"so basically Jonah Hill was in a relationship with this surfer girlfriend and he sent her text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work"”

QuoteAli Hardesty recounts her ex having an OnlyFans page — she appeared in BG content with him early in their relationship

“"so the only time I ever did like BG content that I actually like put on my only fans was with my ex who also had an account so how he did it was he also sold things"”

ControversyHeated debate about financial abuse in traditional marriages — Aelia and Bangs argue giving up income for a man is dangerous; Amy argues prenup terms can protect wives

“Aelia: "Financial abuse is basically what we were describing where you give up your entire career for a man in a relationship a partnership and then they hold the money over your head"”

QuotePanel reacts to Baby Rexa leaking her boyfriend's private text message; most side with the ex

“"to me personally reading that text message it seemed like he was coming from a place of kindness... I don't think it's right to be upset with him if you were asking for honesty"”

QuoteNev lists books of the Bible when Brian asks guests to name 7 books

“"Genesis Exodus Leviticus Numbers Deuteronomy Judges Samuel Kings..."”

ControversyAli Hardesty gives firsthand account of Sneako/Zena/Lauren drama — she was offered rides by both Lauren and Sneako, chose not to get in Sneako's car because Zena was visibly upset

“"basically Lauren was going to give me a ride home... sneo was like do you need a ride home... Zena was sitting on the back of someone's truck and she's clearly upset... I declined Sneako's car"”

QuoteAmy confirms she and Lauren will do a public podcast debate about the Sneako/Zena situation

“"Lauren and I we're going to debate on this we're going to go on a public podcast and have a conversation"”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian announces show, plugs Streamlabs/Twitch/merch/BLM nonprofit. Guests introduce themselves: Essie (24, social media manager/OnlyFans), Bangs/Anai (21, student/OnlyFans, returning), Karen (31, porn star), Brooke (24, content/OnlyFans, in relationship), Aelia (31, flight attendant/OnlyFans, in relationship), Ali Hardesty (YouTuber/OnlyFans/podcast, OC), Nev (20, UCSB student/soap seller, taken), Amy Dangerfield (27, high ticket sales), Naomi (31, respiratory therapist/worship leader, celibate).

Relationship Status Round

Full round of relationship statuses. Essie: single 6 years, last situationship ~1yr ago. Bangs: single 2 years. Karen: single 2 months. Aelia: in relationship 1.5 years. Brooke: in relationship ~1 year. Ali Hardesty: single/complicated since end of 2021. Nev: taken 2 months officially. Amy Dangerfield: single 2 months after 4-year relationship. Naomi: single and celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic.

OnlyFans, Sex Work & Dating Compatibility

Extended debate on whether men who oppose OnlyFans are insecure, vs whether having an OnlyFans is a deal-breaker. Essie offers to quit OnlyFans for a chat donor. Nev argues OnlyFans distributes harmful content. Discussion of whether lingerie-only OnlyFans is equivalent to Victoria's Secret modeling. Karen explains she separates professional sex from personal life. Body count discussion: when should you disclose? Karen's professional body count discussed (up to 15 in 9 days shooting in Miami). Bangs confirms she was honest with her crush about her body count.

Jonah Hill / Surfer Girlfriend Situation

Brian introduces the Jonah Hill "surfer girlfriend" situation — Hill sent his girlfriend text messages asking her not to surf with men, post bikini photos, or do modeling work. Panel debates whether these were reasonable relationship boundaries or controlling behavior. Aelia argues Hill knew she was a surfer when he pursued her. Amy says prenup/contract terms should cover these expectations. Nev says it's within a partner's right to set boundaries. Naomi observes many women have dated men who tried to change them.

Financial Dependence, Traditional Marriage & Financial Abuse

Discussion of whether women should give up jobs/OnlyFans for a provider man. Bangs and Aelia argue financial dependence is risky if the man leaves. Amy argues prenups and contract terms can protect stay-at-home wives. Aelia raises financial abuse concept (husband controlling wife's allowance, leaving her stuck). Brian asks who would quit their job for a wealthy/attractive man (most say yes with caveats). Ali Hardesty tells story of a friend who quit her job for a sudden rich man who then went to jail and lost everything.

Baby Rexa Leaked Text Message Controversy

Brian reacts to singer Baby Rexa posting her ex-boyfriend's private text message to Instagram. The text was diplomatic: noting she gained 35 lbs, expressing concern, and still expressing love. Panel largely agrees the text was reasonable and the ex was not in the wrong. Discussion of whether weight gain in relationships is a valid reason to address attraction. Aelia notes she'd want her partner to be honest. Panel agrees it was immature/unloving to leak the private message publicly.

Oral Sex / Sexual Expectations Debate

Brian reveals he does not go down on women ("neck problems," personal preference). Panel reacts with disbelief. Discussion of whether men are more expected to perform oral sex vs women. Brian argues women are not equally shamed for refusing oral. Aelia and Essie share personal comfort levels. Ali Hardesty describes her experience with BG content on OnlyFans with an ex. Discussion of pillow princesses, orgasm difficulty for women, faking orgasms, post-nut clarity (Bangs describes experiencing it).

Makeup, Appearance Standards & High vs Low Maintenance

Discussion triggered by Jordan Peterson's claim that makeup mimics arousal signals (dilated pupils, flushed lips/cheeks). Amy explains the evolutionary psychology argument. Aelia pushes back. Naomi describes enjoying makeup as self-expression. Discussion of whether "high maintenance" and "takes care of herself" are different things. Brian says he prefers natural looks and is skeptical of heavy plastic surgery. Amy notes men often say they prefer natural but are attracted to heavily made-up women like Kim Kardashian.

Passport Bros Debate

Brian reads a donation from a viewer living in Japan with a Thai wife. Panel discusses passport bros. Bangs and Essie call it a red flag. Aelia argues men going to Morocco for traditional wives encounter transactional arrangements (90 Day Fiancé reference). Amy argues traditional women exist in conservative US regions (Texas, Louisiana). Naomi as a near-example of traditional woman. Brian argues men seek overseas women because they find more appreciation abroad.

First Date Payments

Who should pay on the first date? Most guests say the man should pay (especially those seeking traditional relationships). Essie goes in expecting to pay half but ultimately does not object if man pays. Amy says men should pay. Naomi says it sets the right tone for a traditional dynamic. Ali Hardesty says she just prefers to cook as a date. Brian says he thinks the bill should be split or whoever asked should pay. Discussion of whether expensive getting-ready costs justify men paying.

Celibacy, Dating Timelines & Sex Expectations

Essie uses three-date rule and has never gone shorter. Naomi has been celibate 3 years 4 months since pandemic. Nev is saving herself until marriage. Aelia was celibate 2.5 years before current relationship to screen out men who only wanted sex. Brian asks whether women who had promiscuous pasts who now make men wait are being inconsistent. Aelia argues a woman changing her standards is a bonus sign she sees more in the new man. Discussion of casual sex destroying intimacy (Nev's perspective).

Dating Easier for Men or Women

Is dating easier for men or women? Amy argues strongly it is easier for women (a 5/10 woman can get a 5/10 man easily; a 5/10 man must work extremely hard). Brooke and Aelia push back, arguing women face emotional labor and quality challenges. Nev shares "short bus" anecdote. Brian argues women have enormous selectivity advantage (instant access to men willing to sleep with them). Panel debates whether unsolicited male attention counts as dating "ease." Discussion of dating apps as amplifying female options.

Ali Hardesty — Sneako/Zena/Lauren Drama

Ali Hardesty gives firsthand account of drama involving Sneako, Zena, and Lauren. Ali was at Sneako's show; Lauren had offered her a ride home. After the show, Sneako also offered a ride. Aelia (present) encouraged Ali to go with Sneako. Zena appeared visibly upset/crying outside. Ali declined Sneako's car because of Zena's state. Zena later DM'd Ali to apologize. Amy adds public context: Lauren and Sneako broke up, and there was Twitter/online drama. Amy says she will do a public podcast debate with Lauren. Brian and Amy discuss public allegations culture.

Transcript

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TTS Reader99 the Rabbid sense of entitlement foaming from redhead's mouth as she decries these imaginary husb holding money over their wives heads called

TTS Readerbudgeting by adult human beings to avoid debt poverty Etc is soul numbing these stories are all fake yeah I mean couldn't you make the

Brian Atlasargument like the husband is looking out for the finances and budgeting like okay don't don't go buy this thing because we don't have the money for it is that abuse I don't think it is that's not abuse but that's different that's

Amy Dangerfieldcomplet like a play Devil's Advocate like I've been debating against them the whole night but it's very Financial abuse versus that that's what occurs most of the time but Financial abuse also does exist can't you can't conflate the true in my personal opinion if

Bangsyou're budgeting I think both parties know and are aware of that and the other side isn't just like oh abuse you know like I think they're very much aware that's budgeting word okay well let's move on to our next thing we were talking a bit about the Jon the hill

Brian Atlassituation there's also something recently that's kind of related to that this singer called I don't know baby rexa is that how you beby oh yeah re B

Brian Atlasrexa Nick can you pull up the uh screenshot so she also leaked uh text messages from her boyfriend her boyfriend I guess they broke up um so

Brian Atlaslet's read that okay can you uh control zoom in yeah and you know what I'm actually going to have Essie no no no scroll to the top so we can actually read it out all the way to the top all the way to

Brian Atlasthe top uh Essie can you read the text message it says hey I never said you were beautiful hold on let me let me just clarify this is her boyfriend so

Brian AtlasBaby Rex or whatever her uh singer I guess famous never heard of her um this is a text message not that she sent but that her boyfriend sent go ahead Nick and if you can uh scroll it out just a

Essiebit so we can actually read the sorry you the okay that's fine that's fine I never said you weren't beautiful and I never said I didn't love you in fact I said how beautiful you are and how much I loved you but I always said I would be honest with you and your

Essieface was changing so so I told you it was that was the conversation we were having and you asked because I care would you rather I lied to you you gained 35 lbs obviously you gained weight and your face changes should I just pretend it didn't happen and that

Essieit's okay come on I gain three pounds and you call me chubs and fat doesn't mean you don't love me if you're trying to find reasons to break up this makes sense dot dot dot but it's not the real reason if you're unhappy with me SL yourself SL with life and don't see a

Essiefuture with us then that's okay and that's the reason don't use something like that to weaponize your anger or anxiety or any insecurity you may have you you know I always found you to be beautiful and loved you no matter something I I think it's

Essieimportant for you to zoom out zoom out I think it's important for you to think about things and write things down speak to a therapist and do this retreat thing to get the root of the problem to get to the root of the problem let me know if you'd like to speak or if you need more

Brian Atlasclarity love you okay so text message from her I suppose now ex-boyfriend she uh posted this to her Instagram uh so somewhat related to the Jonah Hill

Brian Atlassituation because she's releasing what is otherwise private Communications um so has anybody seen the story yes yeah I was on value tment

Brian Atlasrecently okay so I'm trying to understand a little bit because it she only released that text message from what he's saying it sounds like she

Brian Atlasasked him at some previous Point some prior point to give her feedback on her appearance we don't know if she literally just texted him like Hey does this outfit make me look I don't know

Aeliawhat the scenario is but does anyone know like kind of the details of this we never really heard what preface that she just kind of released that and went with

Brian Atlasthat yeah so but given what we've seen um it's he's saying hey you've gained some weight 35 lounds I guess is what it was

Aeliaum is he a dick for this is he a is he a jerk no or was that a pretty reasonable text message to me it seems like she asked I think if it was an unwarranted opinion then maybe it wouldn't exactly

Aeliahave been an appropriate thing to say but to me personally reading that text message it seemed like he was coming from a place of kindness after her kind of prefacing the conversation and asking him I don't think it's right to be upset

Aeliawith him if you were asking for honesty and because to me he didn't seem like he was attacking her he wasn't trying to break up with her he wasn't saying that she wasn't beautiful anymore or anything like that he just seemed like he was

Amy Dangerfieldresponding to something that she had asked him agreed also gave a lot of reassurance yeah and he he didn't he say that like you made fun of me when I gained like a couple of pounds or something this this instance is like didn't he say 30 lb or something or

Amy Dangerfieldthat's what they were implying like that's a very large amount compared to a couple of pounds and again going back to the difference between men and female we perke fun at guys all the time we make fun of them for being shorter or maybe not being as masculine or this that or

Amy Dangerfieldthe other but when it comes back to females the direction the the the the reaction is totally different sometimes and the way we expect them to react is totally different sometimes I mean I don't think it's appropriate for her to

Aeliacall him chubs or fat if he's gained a couple pounds either I mean it just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me if that's I agree I'm just saying that happens no no I I completely agree with you I I do agree

Aeliawith you I think that I just it seems like he was coming from a place of love and he wasn't aggressive or completely yeah I completely agree coming at her with malice or anything like that yeah

Amy Dangerfieldyeah I don't think this is to as controversial of a post as yeah maybe would have liked it to be which is crazy why she person what did she expect people like what reaction did she expect it's so funny that just that's an

Amy Dangerfieldindication of how women just expect sympathy automatically for nothing like there's a bunch of other examples of this in recent metor actually yeah it's really

Aeliasilly yeah I mean I yeah I think wh women tend to be criticized harder personally but I I just don't think that he was criticizing her in my opinion I think he really just seemed he seemed

Ali Hardestylike a good partner to me in what he was saying very much so I'm also wondering if maybe the weight gain was contributed to like the relationship not being the best maybe she wasn't happy like there's probably some deeper things to unpack

Aeliathere I would say yeah it could be anything we have absolutely no idea yeah but yeah I think this is less controversial I know people online were kind of making a lot of controversy

Aeliaabout it but when I read it and I mean I tend to be pretty you know attack mode with stuff like that um but no I think he seemed like a good partner and somebody that was just addressing the

Brian Atlassituation that she had asked for yeah I mean it's pretty shocking though that she took a screenshot of that and thought Oh this is going to be such a w like well I mean there's definitely people that sided with her but I mean

Brian Atlaslike just if you take yourself out of the situation you look at the actual text message he's being very diplomatic and polite and he does say Hey you gained some weight but it sounds like

Brian Atlasshe there was some we don't know what it was but either she asked him to be upfront or honest with with her about her any changes in physical appearance so who knows but uh I think even if she

Nevdidn't ask before I think it's reasonable to bring something like that up because that might like like affect certain things in the relationship like for example as shallow as it seems like attraction attraction plays a huge part

Nevwithin relationships and if he feels no longer attracted to and that could be a thing and also like gaining a lot of weight might indicate problems with mental health so that could have come from a place of that too being concerned about that which is why he mentioned

Nevlike the a treatment or whatever like in therapy or whatever so I think it's perfectly fine like if I gained a few pounds I'd definitely want my boyfriend to help me and if my boyfriend gained a few pounds I'd definitely say something because like you're supposed to move

Essieforward as coup will not move back I would say anything to do with looks though is kind of a touchy subject so you have to definitely approach it with like as much kindness and empathy and I think that he approached it perfectly

Aeliafine if that were to be the case absolutely well and I kind of agree with Essie I think it's just something that's really sensitive and it could be like a health issue it could be a mental health issue there's so many different reasons for that but I think that if as long as

Aeliayou're coming from like a place of kindness because I see so often in marriages and relationships where a woman has like a baby for example and then the ma male is like well I'm not attracted to my wife anymore like her

Aeliabody isn't the same and I think that that kind of comes back to it like if you're not going to be attracted to the person that you're with no matter what weight they're at or whatever then you like shouldn't with them wait hold on

Aeliacan you just repeat that last part well goad I think that if you think that you're going to lose attraction if somebody gains a couple pounds and you shouldn't be with that person because women our bodies go through changes throughout our entire life especially

Aeliawhen we're having kids that you know men also want I mean I see instances all the time where these men are going online or on Reddit and they're like I'm not attracted to my wife anymore her body isn't the same I like I don't love her

Aeliaanymore because her body isn't pre-baby body and I mean like that's you're never going to have pre-baby body again that's not what it is when a man chooses to have a baby with a woman I feel like

Bangswomen always feel really bad after and they're like oh like they have like this expectation like oh like their husband isn't going to view them the same you know because your body changes so much

Bangswhen you have a child like when a man has like a kid it's like you know like they're or ordering a baby on Amazon Prime like a woman like she's carrying the baby for 9 months like your body is going through so many changes so I think

Bangsthat's really important like I feel like a lot of men do go on Reddit and or even go online or anywhere and they're just like uh I don't like my wife anymore she's not attractive even though she

Brian Atlasjust like gave birth to their child like it's so sad well but I mean okay so there's obviously a couple components there's weight gain and then which you do have control over perhaps it might

Brian Atlastake you a bit of time but there's also uh like stretch marks from pregnancy okay so stretch marks that's pretty much out of your control contr if you get that from you know caring a kid I don't

Brian Atlasthink that men should you know be hounding on their wives for stretch marks um but when it comes to weight gain um you know she gained 35 PBS apparent

Bangswhat's that I said some weight gain in some cases it's good weight gain you know but when a man is like oh no I I would like it better when you were thinner like in my case like I was very very thin uh about 2 years ago and I

Bangsgain I gained 30 lbs and some guy was like you're like you're getting fat and like that's really hurtful you know like you don't just say that you know and like some weight is good weight and it again it can be attributed to health

Aeliaissues I mean for example like I've always been a thicker person but I mean I have a personal trainer I work out five days a week I wait lift weights I go to spin classes I eat healthy I don't

Aeliaeat meat I have a dietitian I go to doctors and I am insulin resistant I'm not a diabetic or anything like that but it's very very very difficult for me to lose weight no matter what I do so am I supposed to be in a relationship with

Aeliasomebody that's going to judge me for that when it's something that's completely out of my control wait what's out of your control um being insulin resistant and working out and eating healthy and not losing weight wait insulin resistant yes what is that what

Aeliais it's very difficult for my body to lose weight I'm not diabetic or anything like that but like insulin is extremely necessary in order to lose weight and my body that medical diagnosis yes to be

Brian Atlasinsulin resistant and so that makes it difficult for you to lose weight yes so even if you you eat at AAL caloric deficit you still can't lose weight uh I permanently eat at a caloric deficit

Aeliareally okay yeah okay some people do have that yeah and so that's what I'm saying is like is that fair for me to you know at any point in time have my man be like oh well you've gained weight

Aelialike you're unhealthy I'm not attracted to you anymore when it's literally something that's out of my control I mean I literally have a trainer I do everything I can taking medication too appropriate to disclose that to your partner because if you disclose that to

Bangsyour partner right away there might be less that's not something to really talk about like oh by the way can't lose weight but what if she was what if your

Brian Atlasyour girlfriend or wife was one way and then gained 40 lbs and you you're not attracted to her at her new

Brian Atlasweight I think that let's say let's say it's okay with the B beby whatever the [ __ ] her name is don't have they don't have kids so there was no

Brian Atlaspregnancy involved we let's if we stick to the story she wasn't pregnant she didn't go through a pregnancy as far as I know she doesn't have kids um she just

Brian Atlasgained 40 PBS 35 PBS whatever it was and it wasn't even clear he said he loved her so I he wasn't like trying to end the relationship but she was just butur about this text message I guess I don't know he even still said she's

Aeliabeautiful he said I love you at any weight so that's why I'm saying like I don't even think that it was malice or that he wasn't attracted to her to me it seemed like a conversation they were having and she just for some reason felt vengeful and decided to screenshot that and post it do you guys think it would

Brian Atlasbe it would be wrong for a guy to break up with his girlfriend again no child in the picture break up with his girlfriend if she gained like 40 pounds I think that's perfectly reasonable honestly like I said attraction plays a huge role in relationships and if you no longer

Nevfeel attracted to that person that's going to set your relationship back quite far like that's like if a guy were to go bald say like meale powed baldness and if you no longer feel well if

Nevsomeone huh like I feel like okay if a guy were to go bald like let's just compare the two like a guy goes bald if a woman doesn't feel get the scroll energy drink if a guy were to go bald and a woman were to complain about it it

Nevwouldn't really be as big of a thing cuz like oh he went bald like I don't like him anymore but if a woman gains weight for some reason that's a sensitive touchy topic go ahead as opposed to um

Essiewell relationships are for like the better and for the worse like I If my partner's struggling with like things that effect there like if he was had a receding hairline or something like I

Essiestill care about him on the inside like my My ATT attractiveness to him May differ but like these are all things that can be fixed over time like if he's he's bald he can get a hair transplant or what if he doesn't want to if he

Essiedoesn't want to get a hair transpl that's on him but like I'm not going to break up with him because he's balding like I don't I'm not dating him for his hair like if a guy is going to break up with me for gaining 40 lbs for like whatever reason like at least be will

Essiehave a conversation with your partner about your like communication like talk to them about it work through it if you can don't just give up I feel like a lot of people just give up way too easily in relationships nowaday 40s would also usually denote some type of physical or

Bangsmental health like thing that's like really occurring so typically the conversation would happen before you got to that TI I feel like I wouldn't be like oh my God like my boyfriend gained like 40 lb I don't like him anymore I

Brian Atlasdon't know I feel like that's like really shallow you're not way what's going on yes I just said I love I love it when my men are thicker you love you like thick dudes well I think it's I don't know if it's a like I really like this one guy when he can I can I say

Bangsthis real quick I'm sorry I like interrupted you go ahead okay I really like this one guy sorry I like tend to play with the cup but I really like this one guy and he was a little bit like chub year and then all of a sudden he started losing all this weight and like started going to the gym and like

Bangsstarted getting like a really nice body I kind of lost attraction I'm not going to lie like I was like oh like I miss my chubby man like there was so much more to hug and like so he got fit

Bangsyeah and you started losing attraction for him yeah I don't know you should see a doctor about that but um squishy they're fun to hug fun to cuddle with they're not all hard and like yeah I think it's perfectly within

Nevyour right to like lose attraction to someone if you were attracted to him for being chub beer in the first place and you lost weight that's perfectly reasonable but at the same time like if someone started out as thin and got fat which like and and they could control it like say male pattern baldness you can't

Nevcontrol that shaving your head you can control that but if they were to get fat I think it's perfectly within the man's right to be like like a step back from the relationship I mean sure he should bring it up first or stop it before it's too late stop it whatever but I think

Brian Atlasit's perfectly within anyone's right to like Express that they're they don't feel attracted to their partner yeah also I mean I don't know if the like a guy losing his hair is is an apt comparison to gaining 4 but I just meant

Nevoh yeah I just meant like medically gaining weight like like if there's like a medical reason going on I'd say that it's like sort of on the same kind of spect as uh the hair loss thing like meal pattern baldness but when it's

Nevsomething that you do have control over like Liberty over like if you choose not to lose the weight that you've gained and if you went to the gym and you just easily lose it like that I'd say that it's like perfectly like reasonable to

Nevbe like hey I don't really feel attracted to you I don't think this is going to work out because that also reflects a person's lifestyle and this person has a lifestyle that might set the other partner back you know you don't really want to be a part of that

Nevand like I feel like not wanting to go to the gym not wanting to improve that reflects on the person as like oh they're lazy they they just don't want to change they just want to like sit stagnant in this situation no yeah I see

Bangswhere you're getting at but I think you can you know if like your couple your partner is getting some way you don't really find them attractive I think there's a nice way to say it like oh like gym date you know you have to be like you're getting fat or how baby's

Amy Dangerfieldboyfriend did it honestly he did it great honestly if any going to do it that way then honey that's fine go ahead that's fine was a little very respectful there was no reason to post that BB no reason I don't know also if she really

Bangsloved him I feel like she wouldn't really out him like that you know I feel like if I if I love somebody I'm going to protect them no matter what I don't want anyone I don't want anyone I'd say she was already even if I was mad didn't you just say earlier on in the show

Bangssomething about getting revenge on the next I said yeah like you know like sometimes you do want to get revenge but like to put it out there in public and be like I wouldn't come out here and be like [ __ ] my like he was you know like say all these like terrible things about

Bangsthem because like you know I feel like I've always when I love somebody I feel like I will always love them a little bit you know I that love will never like die for them and I also have massive respect for these people that have once

Bangsbeen a part of my life like they came into my life for a reason you know and I wouldn't go out of my way to like post something especially if I have like such a huge fan base and anyone and everyone can go and like attack them for no

Bangsreason just because you know you needed that little hit of like feeling like validated you know validation and I don't know I feel like I'm so sorry BB but I feel like it was a little immature

Bangsespecially CU she's such she's such a huge celebrity and like all her fans are probably going to go attack that poor dude and he wasn't even you know he didn't do that he didn't do anything wrong out of the relationship her

Brian Atlasboyfriend ises not like super well like I think I I I looked him up he's got like 10,000 followers on worse Instagram so he doesn't have like the same level

Brian Atlasof oh yeah that's way worse than she didn't really love him she sent the the dogs after him basically like so to get her lick all right let's get a couple

Brian Atlassuper chats and we have we already did that one Leon if you ladies met a potential partner that was of the wealth and status of Jonah Hill but with the looks of what you find a p find a

Brian Atlaspersonally a 101 and they said hey babe can you can quit your job I'll take care of us would you I feel like kind of answer

Brian Atlasit would you quit your job but this is directed at everybody here not just the girls who do only fan so um that was of the wealth and status of Jonah Hill well

Brian Atlasokay so Jonah Hill is is he an A-list celebrity I think he is um he's not like a leading man but he's in major pioneered most of Comedy as it is like

Brian Atlashe pioneered it feel Jah like as millionaire he's he's a millionaire and just really quick going back to the whole the surfer chick

Brian Atlassituation I think because he's a celebrity and because he's of his status he's probably a little bit more concerned with what his partner is like putting out there on the internet because he has a very public facing

Brian Atlasreputation to be con consider considerate of but but for this Super Chat Leon here looks of what you find a 10 out of 10 okay so the question is

Brian Atlaswould you quit your job for a guy who has who's an aess celebrity or has that level status is a millionaire many times

Brian Atlasover and is a 10 out of 10 looks I think this is an obvious like well I kind need to consider like what if you hate their personality if we're commercially

Ali Hardestycompatible as well then yeah for sure just because they're rich and famous and hot doesn't that's not everything here show show of hands would you qu most likely but like there's still a chance it wouldn't be right if it's imally

Brian Atlascompatible then absolutely all right we have bad zxe here hey thank you man good to see you in the chat Victor uh ladies in 30 oh God okay if you're upset with men setting boundaries that is mad

Brian Atlaschildish yo a boundary is a set of based on a level of comfortability with certain things you can't accept boundaries then don't be mad when men

Brian Atlasdon't treat you like a lady and more of and more of a piece of meat we don't give those type of men our time of day so oh men that set boundaries no men that treat you like a

Aeliapiece of oh [ __ ] what I just don't agree with you saying that if you can't accept somebody's boundaries because boundaries go both ways so if I if I'm Sarah his

AeliaSurfer girlfriend and I am having the conversation and I go well I'm going to keep my career and continue posting what I want so I guess we're just not going to be in a relationship that doesn't mean that she is devoid of humanity well I'd say that certain behaviors might

Nevlead to men mistreating you like there's certain like the way that you portray yourself for example not to like blame anyone but like if you're you if you have like a history of promiscuity it might lead men to be

Nevmore but do you think that that's okay I I don't think it's okay but I think that it's like within I'm not justifying it I think it's within their reason to maybe react that way to you like if you

Essiepresent yourself as a certain kind of person if we avoid those men I mean that is a broad generalization with men and women like women can make assumptions of men and how they put themselves out there as well so I mean obviously people are going to judge you based off of what

Nevyou post and how you put yourself out there yeah but that like again like your actions and what you do what you wear like sadly it does play a big part on how people might treat you like if I showed up here just in a bra or

Aeliasomething people would be like oh she's a [ __ ] and that's perfectly within their right to assume that or think that because you said you're not justifying it but that is justifying it saying that it's within their right necessarily like justifying it but it's sort of like I

Nevcould see where where they're coming from like if I saw this like [ __ ] boy like some guy getting drunk at a party like a frat guy I might be like oh no I don't really want to have relations with him you know and I'm perfectly Justified

Nevwithin my right you know people make judgments based on your character based on what you're wearing based on everything I think that judgments while while they may not be like substantiated

Bangswhile they may not like be true of you I think that everyone has judgments and mhm it's really hard I I do make a lot of judgments and I try really hard not

Bangsto because I personally don't want people making judgments about me so I think it that goes both ways yeah word okay Mr Fire and Ice love the

Brian Atlasshow Brian currently living in Japan and love my current girlfriend over here and make and makes it easy to see the red flags majority of women in the US what's yall thoughts on passport Bros red flag big red flag big red flag

Bangswhy why is that you just can't get you just can't get a woman over here that's it you're like bye I'm going to go find somebody else that doesn't know anything about me and I'm just going to flaunt that I am from a western state and say

Essiethat oh I'm going to provide for this girl who probably doesn't have an education or is looking for a way out so red flag red flag sir I think that maybe this is me making assumption but that

Essiepassport Bros just have a fetish for exotic foreign women that have Traditional Values but that's okay everybody's allowed to have their a fetish to want a woman with Traditional Values I mean if they're Outsourcing it specifically from

Essieanywhere else to have a foreign women I would say so but if it's devoid in the states then wouldn't they go elsewhere it's not devoid in the states we more difficult to find we have one right here

Amy Dangerfieldin Western countries you're saying one of of 1 2 3 4 5 6 seven eight so she's one in 10 so apply that to the general population it's really not that easy for the average guy I'm sure that if he

Bangswanted to he could find yeah why go all the way like why make this huge treacherous journey to like go find a girl treacherous

Bangstreacherous I mean it's and [ __ ] like no cuz he's literally like pioneering like when you think of it he's like is he on the Open Seas and like the [ __ ] Mayflower like that's what they I'm sure

Bangsit's not easy talking to foreign women they all got scurvy no I'm I'm sure it's not that easy like going you know like going out and like talking to like foreign women you know I mean I just

Aeliathink it's it's um really bizarre to say that it's not available in the United States there's 150,000 women that exist in the United States and if you go to especially more conservative areas of

Aeliathe country I am 1,000% sure that it wouldn't be a one in 10 situation if 10 women sat down it would probably be way more Trad wife in Texas and in Louisiana

EssieMississippi Etc than it is here we live in losel right I mean also it's probably one in 10 because I'm not I'm sure many traditional women aren't Outsourcing to go on a controversial podcast to like

Brian Atlasput themselves out there in the public eye so of course it's going to be one in 10 I feel like that's a weird static got we got an exhibit a over here she's waiting till marriage she's been

Brian Atlascelibate for 3 years and four months how many days has it been I don't know I don't want do math how many days yeah how like what what do you mean days I

Brian Atlasneed it to the hour oh God this hour three 3 years 4 months 22 days and 12 hours yeah 925 that's exactly what it is

Brian Atlasrock and roll um so yeah he's currently in Japan uh Mr fire and ice can I ask you a question what's up what you got what is like I maybe I've even asked you

Bangsthis before um what is like your dream girl my dream girl like perfect maybe not even your dream girl but like what are what is the criteria to date you like what are you that's two sep

Brian Atlasquestions that's two separate questions so um my dream girl I'm going to give kind of an obnoxious answer because I feel like you know dream it's like okay she's a

Brian Atlastrillionaire virgin like 10 out of 10 looks is a simp I'm not going to find that yeah that's like that's the dream right but

Bangsthat that's like the uh that's my obnoxious answer to that question women are much more realistic with their dream no well I'm being I'm being little fous there literally like some girls would just be like oh like he's tall that that's it that's it and then we're like

Brian Atlasoh my god he has to be tall you hate short men literally okay wait what's your care so your question is oh hold on we'll let this come in than b the offend ladies could it be that women in

TTS Readerthe western world are more masculine more argumentative and more independent than men would really want you know what I mean you know what I mean know kind you know you know you can find it you

Bangsjust got to look a little harder you know no but can I continue what I was saying go ahead I was goingon to say that we'll be like oh like we want a tall guy and that's literally it that's it like oh I just want a tall guy stop

Brian Atlasthe C hold on hold on hold women have much more requirements than do men um girl you haven't met me literally so your only requirement is

Bangswhat tall attractive okay that's it but Define attractive what does he need to be oh oh my gosh dude literally like I can like the ugliest guys like what I find

Brian Atlasattractive will not be attractive to like any of these girls okay fine I'm not going to call cap on that because I remember last time you said there's a certain rapper who you like yes and guess what he he's not a handsome guy he

Bangsokay yeah he actually facetimed me he actually he facetimed me and invited me to dude low key I got humbled wait okay well tell us this what's his name again I'm not going to say it because I don't know if I say you already said it I

Brian Atlasdon't want to say it again who's It DJ Wizzle word no what no because I still want to chance with him I don't want yeah yo anybody in the chat remember does anybody remember

Brian Atlaswho he's not attractive you're going to put me on the spot I love him so wait he he saw the video and dm' you no what happened is I've been dming this man um what happened was that I was going to

Bangsone of his concerts I've been to like so many of his concerts but I was going to one of his concert and he said that he was he said this city he was going to be in and was like posted a picture and I all I commented was see you tonight baby

Bangsand then he dm'd me he facetimed me and then he invited me to hang out with him after the show can you give us hints as what it is how did you get humbled too what do you mean because when he facetimed me he's like you look really

Bangsyoung and then he I didn't hear a single word from him after that until after the show but by the time the show had ended it was like far away from where I live and I was like already heading back home and I was like drenched and sweat like

Bangsmy mascara was running I did not look cute so I like I didn't do anything with him but his lyrics scare me his lyrics scare me so I was like I'm

Bangsgoing to so you got what are his lyrics yeah cuz he told me I look young he's like you you look too young and then I I that was it I thought I was like going to get to go back I'm 21 21

Bangshe said I look young he's like you look young you I mean you 21 that's that's young do you meant you look like a child like what the [ __ ] yeah I don't know he was just like you look look really young

Nevhe didn't want to catch a Cas he thought you were like under 18 or some sh like I think it's the pigtails I didn't have pigtails on that day I mean I I don't I when I was like a kid I used to be

Nevobsessed like I could understand the obsession I used to be obsessed with Texas Congressman Dan khaw I don't know if you the guy with the Texas Congressman why why I don't know that

Bangswas just my childhood celebrity crush so I I I totally get the like stalker things but I don't know and to say the song lyrics um this ain't a Milly rock this a money dance and my dick ain't

Aeliahard that's a 30 of my pants I've never I know exactly what you're talking about now I don't I was listening to that in the core really I listen to metal I don't know I'm like I don't know what

Brian Atlasthat is it doesn't matter what you think okay um how did we get on to that I don't you're asking me what my type is I think oh yeah and then I said that I

Nevlike men that are usually seen as attractive I if I heard that as a guy and someone asked me like wait wait did you tell him that like that that's what your type was or no why would I tell him

Bangsthat heard I thought you I'm just saying that te usually my type tends to be guys that people don't really find attractive and honestly good for me because then nobody wants him yeah okay but okay you

Brian Atlasgot into that because I was saying well women I think women demands a lot more from men than do men demand from women yeah I'm say but you disagree yeah who should pay on the first dat men or oh my

Bangsgosh and I know we we do have to talk about that one but whoever invites you and I'm not inviting anyone out to dinner I am the Chooser I am the decider I choose who do I want to go out on a date with and if he's asking me and

Brian Atlasinviting me out on a date then he's got to pay what you don't like my answer well I mean like whoever it's just like okay

Brian Atlaswhoever ask should pay but I never ask well okay then how do you go on dates just say men should pay huh okay then men should pay word okay so to answer your question you you wanted to know what I'm yeah I want to know what your I

Bangsgot a list I pulled up a list here I got it I got it on the notepad W do you like read like when you find a girl that you like like do you like check all this stuff off and you're like okay needs this needs that well okay some of these

Brian Atlasare a bit more like flippant but uh let's see so is it dream girl or is it just what I'm looking for just what you're looking for large labia very important large labia gots to have have

Brian Atlaslarge labia otherwise you know short short wh huh I have wait do I like you're talking about oral sex yeah I I haven't gone down on the girl since the Bush

BangsAdministration oh my goodness there is there is something going on that men do not like to go down on girls anymore based okay I will

Bangsbasally I one time I was like going to I was like going to hook up this guy and I like I was like okay like you know and then he's like oh no I don't do that based and then he's like Legend he's

Bangslike I'm only going to do that for my wife when I love her I'm a [ __ ] Legend honestly that's right you see that clutchness I am [ __ ] clutch that's what's up would you but if you

Bangshad a well I know you don't want to get married but if you like really loved somebody really loved somebody that's sad you've never pleasured a woman Brian who what the [ __ ] you really think do

Bangsyou think women are iure do you think most women don't finish off of penetration that's why you got to bring some toys into the picture you know i'mi the toys are the toys are the one

Bangsthat's doing the pleasuring not you oh hey hands hands get the job done hands get the job done no they don't they don't and whoever is saying that they that that's that's doing it for them is lying they just saying that to make you

Brian Atlasfeel better Brian what are you in the bedroom with like what what's going on are you [ __ ] just are you like in the corner crying like what what how do you know about my my escapades most lie

Bangsabout that stuff true women have you lied have you lied about a man making you finish I have faked an orgasm yeah really yes you've never I'm very adamant about communicating if I have or haven't

Essiefinished with my partner cuz I like I like to you know reciprocate pleasure so I'm very honest if I don't come I I'll tell him and usually he's like sad he's like oh I want to be able to do that for you yeah that's a pretty bad thing to

Ali Hardestylike fake an orgasm that's your shooting yourself in the foot if you're doing that as a chick like well that was when I was younger now I would try to teach them coach them you know but I think it would definitely involve oral yeah also

Brian Atlaslike there's this there's there's this huge Shame about like if a guy can't get a girl off like let's also like let's be fair it's much harder hold on there's no some some

Brian Atlaswomen some women are like can come like it's some women just come like 10 seconds it's insane and then multiple orgasms whatever but then there's other women

Brian Atlasthey can't even get themselves off alone there's some women like that too so the orgasm response is much more varied in

Brian Atlaswomen and it's also uh for example I would say that most guys obviously you know there's different anatomical features but like if a girl was just

Brian Atlashonestly like put her in doggy position doggy style or she could just be a what's it what's the term like a dead horse pillow princess pillow princess

Brian Atlasthank you dead horse what the [ __ ] that's she's just let's say a girl's a pillow princess you put 99% of men in that scenario they can make themselves

Brian Atlascome but if a guy's just laying there do you think most women could make themselves come if he's not doing anything I would say no so the orgasm response is very different between men

Bangsand women so I think like you know it's harder it's a little harder I have another question okay it's a little off topic but not really off topic do you get post nut Clarity like do you

Bangsbelieve in that like do you think the girl is ugly after you're like oh what am I doing um I don't I have had that experience but

Brian Atlasit's it's more so like it's more so I just like I have no more interest in sex like after after climax it's just like all right go over there you know no after kid I'm kidding huh no snuggling

Bangsno cuddling after you know beware obligatory 2 minutes be literally beware but what what what's okay so I get the worst postn Clarity like I'm in a constant

Bangsstate of like if I was in a constant state of clarity maybe like I don't know so you nut you nut and you're like all right I'm done yeah that's actually with my ex-boyfriend like that would happen

Bangsmultiple times where I'd be like I am so sorry I can't continue oh [ __ ] yeah oh wow okay yeah like it was like a really weird thing maybe I just wasn't like maybe I wasn't like as emotionally connected with him as I thought I was

Nevbut that's actually happened a few amount of times where I've just I think if it's happened a few amount of times like you should just step back and maybe evaluate why it's happening like maybe you're just like entering unfulfilling relationships or if they're just hookups maybe that's why you feel that way yeah

Bangsthat could be true but even when I was in a happy relationship I was like it that would still happen and then I was like maybe I don't really like him as much as yeah that could be true but I think you're destroying your like um perception of like intimacy and

Nevrelationships if you do do hookups I don't know your personal story I don't really do hookups I only really hook up with like if I really really like I think in general hookups not that I've

Nevdone it with anyone but I think in general like hook stop the C no I I sincerely haven't but like I think that it does like destroy intimacy and I think just like having a culture full of

Brian Atlasthat just like that's like a whole another conversation I whole another conversation okay so let me let me touch on a couple things here then we'll get back to the super chats so okay uh and I will open this up to the rest of the

Brian Atlaspanel so we were talking about oral sex and you were kind of like what the [ __ ] Brian you don't go down on the ladies yeah you're not pleasuring I'm not I'm not allowed listen it's a prefer it's a

Bangsboundary of mine I don't what boundary it's a boundary are you scared it's a boundary bab scared I'm not scared what if the girl was like okay I'm not going

Brian Atlasdown on you if you're not going down on me I mean I suppose that's if uh you know you want to make it an equality argument and I I suppose you know I suppose it's reasonable although I think

Brian Atlasthat would be more that's more like if her standard before I revealed this was she doesn't like giving head that's one thing but then it just to me it seems almost vindictive you won't do this it's

Essielike Tit for Tat you won't do this therefore I won't do that yeah some girls are Petty like that I wouldn't say it's Tit for Tat I would just say it's like reciprocating pleasure if a man isn't willing to do that certain thing

Brian Atlasfor me then I'm maybe not as willing to give a [ __ ] to him you know what I mean and I I understand the argument about reciprocity but I don't necessarily think just because your

Amy Dangerfieldpartner isn't comfortable with doing something doesn't mean that you necessarily have to be like well you won't do it so I won't do it maybe girls are only used to doing it when it is reciprocated so for example if they're not getting that pleasure in return they

Amy Dangerfieldmay not actually enjoy it but if they're getting equal amount of pleasure back from the man going down then they're going to be like okay it's justifiable so that that information may change the

Brian Atlassituation yeah I mean but not Everyone likes every sex act I mean I'm trying to think of it like a you have a bad experience yeah yeah did you scar really

Bangswhat was wrong with that [ __ ] Brian tell us what was wrong with that [ __ ] tell us the truth it's it's more so okay I mean is getting red is there is I know okay you

Bangsneed to tell us please yes you're blessing you're blessing not blushing yeah you are I got naturally red Che you're literally blushing chat is he blushing I got naturally red

Brian AtlasChe look um okay so there's a couple things right so first off uh certainly you shouldn't do it in like a one night stand or like a Friends with Benefits

Brian Atlaswhere there's no uh like there's no exclusivity that's been established uh I would find that I and I don't do it even within the confines of a relationship

Brian Atlashowever the idea of like going going down on a girl and she just like [ __ ] a dude yesterday to me I would be very uncomfortable with that but if you just the same way like because you'd feel

Nevlowy gay huh lowy not it's just no it's not about it's not like a that it's more just like it's just the you know but you said that could be applied to a relationship

Amy Dangerfieldtoo so if she's in a relationship she's not getting dick down the day prior well you know some people move in interesting ways we pray and H that she would right let's assume fine let's be

Brian Atlascharitable let's assume that she's defly faithful and loyal well okay I mean then it's just like okay here's here's another I guess we can call it I call it a boundary some people consider a hang

Bangsup I don't like to kiss after girls giving me head how about that oh my gosh Brian get out of here get out that's reasonable no you're canceled now maybe that is the most that's lowy

Bangskind of gay huh like cuz what the [ __ ] no it's not it's not that it's just like no not it's not gay well no all right then what if the girl was like I'm not going to

TTS Readersuck your dick after you like went inside penetrated me because that's that's gross what Brian like you're just not you're just not secure I'm SEC no you're not it's just boundaries how you

Brian Atlasreally appreciate large labor year without getting your face buried exactly why is that your preference right why huh why you actually you actually want

Brian Atlasme to articulate why I I will tell you I will tell you show I'll tell you but show of hands who here has a large labia what this a reasonable question to

Bangsask somebody not like we look every day I don't even know you would consider large like what are we comparing it the inner the outer what are you talking about I I would pull up a photo but it might be you want a fat [ __ ] is that

Bangswhat you want doesn't it change SI turned on Leia like inner or outer Leia I don't know what you mean there's inner outer lips I feel like it gets big if you're like no that's only your C gets

Nevengorge there's blood flow but it's it's more like an anatomy thing that's there all the time and then you know I'm a fan you like camel toes then no no sure camel tell us why no no so there's a

Nevlaia minora which is uh the structure that's outside of it and there's the laia Majora which is like the lips of the vagina and then the vagina itself and then there's like yeah I think to

Brian Atlasscience class yeah biology class I really love look look okay here's the thing right so first off and I know we were talking about uh you know within the confines of a relationship

Brian Atlaslook definitely you can't be doing that [ __ ] if it's like a one night stand or you just met the chick like you don't know she could have [ __ ] a dude last night so of course under those circumstances absolutely not uh the

Brian Atlasother thing like if you're like if you're you know I don't know I got neck problems okay he just doesn't like it I don't like it why can't I just see why why is what I don't

Brian Atlasget is there's such a push back for guys if they won't go down on a girl because women are always expect cuz women are always expected to go down on the guy he just doesn't like that's not true like why can't that is true that's not true

Nevit is true there's always like the guy pushing your head down I would first off I would what if I start grabbing the guy and pushing his head down I'm going start doing that he just doesn't like it he just doesn't like it okay based off

Essieof my own personal experience that is true because I had been seeing this guy and after a few dates he he was he asked me the question of I was wondering why you didn't go down on me the first time we had sex like I was really expecting

Essiethat you were that's my personal example he the man was expecting me to go down on him the first time we had sex and I didn't and he was curious as to why I never did that because he said that's expected to him every time you have sex with a woman I have a question for I

Bangsmean I don't think anything the ladies expected but the first time you ever did like something with a guy did you did you get eaten out first or did you suck dick first

Ali Hardestysuck dick first sucking actually I'm 69 she's even yeah fair for her but there have been guys where they wanted to go down on me and I wasn't comfortable but I just did it to them

Aeliayeah cuz sometimes like it's a comfort thing I feel like you know sorry I mean that's I I wouldn't have a guy go down on me the first time either

Ali Hardestylike a comfort thing for sure but I like I do think that most men expect it I also like getting other people off like that gets me off like pleasuring other people so I don't necessarily always

Brian Atlasneed it in return I don't think you you hear like if a girl doesn't want to go down on a guy I don't think there's like the same degree of shaming as when a guy doesn't want to go down on a girl like

Brian Atlasoh you're not a Munch like what's wrong with you every single girl at this table when I was like yeah I don't really like to do it you're like oh who hurts you Brian what's wrong with the [ __ ] like all this [ __ ] I'm like he just doesn't

Nevlike it I can't thank you that why can't just it's a boundary it's like I won't eat McDonald's I just don't I [ __ ] hate McDonald's it's gross like it makes me feel nasty like if someone waved McDonald's in front of me I just no I don't really want McDonald's I'll go get

Ali HardestyTaco Bell but I just don't want McDonald's but you would put your private parts in the McDonald's but I I bet most of you would

Brian Atlasfind it like pretty tacky or trashy if guys were like uh she doesn't suck dick she's not a dick sucker what's wrong with her most guys never even in some way like and I think there are a lot of

Aeliawomen that don't prefer to give [ __ ] that still do because the man expects it and if they don't they're afraid of like what they might say or what the repercussions would be yeah if you don't suck that guy's dick you're not getting

Bangscalled for a second date and they told about it to their friends too yes suck dick exactly what yeah they're going to tell their friends like don't get with her she doesn't suck dick I want with

Brian Atlashis friends anyway you guys hold on hold on hold hold on I wish I had another dude here for a little backup but okay you guys are guys are not sharing the

Brian Atlasdetails of their sex lives they let me finish you're just shy no hold on you're a shy little man I'm not sorry I love calling people little

Brian Atlasman okay men are not sharing their the details of their sex lives to the same degree that women are sharing their sex lives with their female friends I do not talk about my sex life with my female

Brian Atlaswell good for you I'm not saying all women do it however it's like it's kind of a known thing that like a girl is going to share like literally hours or the next day after she hooks up with a

Brian Atlasnew guy she gets with her girlfriend or gets her with her group and that entire group or her girl her singular girlfriend is going to know the size of the guy's dick how long he lasted all these [ __ ] details guys aren't

Essietalking about this [ __ ] with their guy friends men will show their their girlfriend's nudes to their guy friends I think that happening multiple times or there sex tap I have heard of that but I would me personally I would never like

Brian AtlasI'm a very discreet person when it comes to my relationship I would never dis you see anybody right now huh are you seeing anybody right now what are you seeing anybody right now who knows you never know you never know private man you

Brian Atlasnever know it could be you know I think something can I ask you another question hold on let me finish my thing let me finish my thing here uh very discret individual I would never share a girl's nudes with anybody I would never share

Brian Atlasthem I would never bro if a guy for example let's say I had like crazy monkey sex with a girl the first time and I'm hanging out with like a a male friend of mine the next day he might be

Brian Atlaslike yo Brian so how was it with [ __ ] Becky and I'd be like it was good that's it I'm not disclosing like I'm not saying that's it I'm just oh it's good we had we had a good we had a good time

Amy Dangerfielddo you think that's the industry standard for males think you're an outlier maybe I'm an outlier but like I'm very that's a little bit of an outlier I'm very discreet about that [ __ ] like cuz I just out of respect for

Bangsthe potential partner whatever it may be off chat chat do you guys do that can you not like that also has something to do with age you know like Brian you're an older guy you're an older guy right I

Brian Atlasmean even when I I was younger I never was like oh I I [ __ ] some chick yesterday like I was never I don't know I just thought that's kind of disrespectful good for you Brian disrespectful so yeah we could ask the

Brian Atlaschat I don't know if the chat's doing that but uh yeah as far as me not wanting to go look I got some neck issues you know it hurts my neck oh my gosh you see you've seen the ice packs I'm icing my neck my throat has been

Brian Atlassore for days after getting head you don't hear me complaining oh or like jaw pain yeah literally by the way this is her wrong so we're let's move on

Bangsoff of this topic but um it's fun though oh and I I guess just some other things uh oh [ __ ] hold on you asked me what my type was yeah I was going to say um uh what

Bangsage like what age are you looking for age yeah are you looking for a younger woman an older woman I'm just curious do you like him or something no no I'm just really C I like he's always asking us

Brian Atlasquestions why can't we ask him questions you know what we should do not [ __ ] okay you know what we should do we should we should like say it record like

Bangsfor Content like go on a date and like record the date did I not did I not ask you on a date I literally asked you on a date like our messages that's what I said I I I asked you I literally dm'd you I was like Brian let's go on a date

Brian AtlasI'll pay cuz I know you'll appreciate that literally I thought you wanted to talk about the show you're like you're like Brian I want to make sure that you're not going to embarrass me so I was like I thought that's and so far

Bangsyou're doing a good job well thank you very much but um no we can talk about more things what huh yeah we can talk like we can have decent conversation what did you do today what are you going

Nevto do tomorrow yo did you see that Luffy uh they're going to animate his gear five like Joy boy like one piece like they're animating I don't know I don't know you just brought a conversation but like you know Luffy the [ __ ] you talking

Brian Atlasabout okay Monkey D Luffy they're going to animate gear five like in August I'm like so excited wow I will not know how to proceed in life without that valuable

Brian Atlasinformation it's like like the event of the summer um I don't know sorry but we should record like like a we should live stream a date yeah we put like a cloth

Brian Atlason the table we'll dim the lights and uh I'm done for that do you think that'd be what will we talk about though that's a good question

Brian Atlasn u Madison will be our server she'll like bring through wine right Madison back there yep okay um my type I like short women I okay it's not like a deal breaker though like

Brian Atlasif a girl like I'll date a chick who's 65 I don't care but I have a slight preference for like short women I'd say like but what about their age you said height I'll date I mean actually most I

Brian Atlasfeel like what's too young what's too young for 34 so I've been like I actually recently like a lot of the women I've been like dating older recent

Brian Atlaslike I feel like a little bit I don't know how like for example like a year ago I dated like a girl who's like 44 you know that was like a year ago something I think oh all right what's

Brian Atlasyoung though what's young what would you okay so okay I would date I wouldn't I wouldn't date a single mother so like

Amy Dangerfieldbut I'll date 18 to 40 18 what's wrong 40 but what do you still consider young what do you mean like under 30 like what do you still consider to be young 18 to

Brian Atlas25 26 I think I mean Mr Leonardo DiCaprio over here but they don't age out with him cuz you know he dated a 44-year-old so true yeah to her credit I

Nevmean kid you know I've dated mostly younger guys so I could never date into older men cuz I don't know if it has like I have a really good relationship with my father and like I know like I guess like apparently like an older man

Nevhas something to do with that well apparently I'm not saying it does but like I had a pretty good relationship I don't know most of my boyfriends like have been like younger than me like growing out like a high school they were younger than me Ander than I don't know

Brian AtlasI've dated older and younger and I have a great relationship with my dad me too that matter I know relationship with my father that's just what I heard let's see what else okay um her here's another thing I like her parents made her do at

Brian Atlasleast three years of violin or cello really very specific I will also accept piano but preferably violin or cello so it has to

Brian Atlasbe a musical instrument because the hand dexterity that's exactly what I'm for long very important um that's typically going to preclude D you know that's that pretty

Brian Atlasmuch limits me to mostly Asian women so are you a passport bro no although maybe I should move

Brian Atlasmaybe I'm mooving to who knows um yeah uh peace is good peace you know don't like argu quarrelsome quarrelsome women

Brian Atlasyou know don't you I like okay okay I like more int I I typically prefer more introverted women because I feel like I'm more introverted um I like kind of nerdy shyish women who may be a little

Bangsshy a little nerdy is good I guess where are you meeting these women how do you meet these girls what have you ever been on a date with a girl like that you've invited onto the panel what's that smell

Brian Atlassmells so weird what the [ __ ] I don't know it smells so no comment no comment on that but um let's see uh and no offense to any of the ladies here uh I

Brian Atlasdon't like women with plastic surgery why I it's not what do you mean I don't think anyone here as can who are you saying that to [Music]

Brian Atlasum no like I it's not my you know no no hate no hate just I prefer women who are s plastic surgery if you know she got like a little nose job or something

Brian Atlasthat's still plastic surgery there's degree okay there's degrees to it right like what about Botox that's like lip fillers okay let's say like not

Brian Atlasme personally like I I I I'm not attracted to like Lio belly or like BBL or uh fake tits you know it's not here okay here's my thing right with plastic

Brian Atlassurgery damn she's like I'm because I yeah I was I was in line right um here's my thing like I would prefer let's say a girl was

Brian Atlastotally flat right she was totally flat but then she got fake tits I would even now she's got big [ __ ] fake Double D's right big fake tits whatever I would

Brian Atlasprefer a girl who's got small breasts that are natural over fake mhm me me personally and that's okay very fair that's fine same with the

Brian Atlaslips I'd would prefer if she just however she was naturally if she had a small leop lip whatever the [ __ ] I prefer that over the the fake lips so is like botox and filler a deal breaker for

Brian Atlasyou or is that would you be okay with that especially because it does go away over time it's not a it's not a total deal breaker um it again it scales right like a lip

Brian Atlasfiller it's like my only concern is it's a little bit of a red flag why would you consider

Brian Atlasthat a red flag it's you've you've acted upon your vanity like it's acted upon I don't know if this is the right term body dysmorphia body dysphoria I don't

Aeliaknow if that's the right term uh body dysmorph is when you like look in the mirror and don't register what you actually look like then maybe it's dysphoria no dysphoria is trans trans noph can apply to things outside of

Amy Dangerfieldtransgenderism well it can but I mean feelings in itself is a feeling it's describing no no no I think that's Moria no dismorphia is yes is like what anic

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