She Dated *50* Men In 50 Days?! | Dating Talk #105

Date: 2023-10-02
Duration: 5h 27m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Chat(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Amy(guest)
SPEAKER_03Claire(guest)
SPEAKER_04Sam(guest)
SPEAKER_05Zoe(guest)
SPEAKER_07Q(guest)
SPEAKER_08Alexa(guest)
SPEAKER_10Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_12Emily(guest)
SPEAKER_13Lynn(guest)

Key Moments

01:30:00
ControversyQ delivers extended explanation of biological basis for body count double standard using oxytocin, vasopressin, paternity uncertainty, orgasm gap, and sexual disgust research.

paternity uncertainty... oxytocin and vasopressin... women experience a lot more sexual regret... the orgasm gap... sexual disgust

01:33:54
OtherEmily reveals ex-boyfriend (cheater) has been mailing her $3k cash and $2k in weed post-breakup for ~a year with no solicitation.

he's probably watching... he sends me money sometimes and weed... total maybe three grand... probably 2000 in weed

02:08:00
QuoteBrian pitches scheduling automated 'good morning' texts via iPhone accessibility feature as a hack for forgetful/autistic texters.

there's a thing in the accessibility section of your iPhone where you can automatically send out a text message every single day at a specific time

02:22:48
OtherSam reveals during the show she snapped the guy she had sex with 4 days prior and he texted back that he was watching the show.

I kind of called him in the bathroom... he was like I lowkey wish you mentioned my name

02:36:20
OtherSophia discloses she has sent 30+ unanswered texts to a man who has gone silent after she moved to California.

like a lot... how many give me a number... it was never an issue in the past... yes but it wouldn't be all at once

03:58:00
OtherSam discloses she had ~30 men in her rotation during summer after high school breakup (age 16-17), and received ~$1k from sugar daddy offers on Tinder before getting banned.

maybe a grand... my rent for my parents... I got banned from Tinder but I got the money

04:02:00
OtherSophia shares she has had multiple car breakdowns in California and is helped each time because she is a young female, citing female privilege.

I am more vulnerable so when I'm stuck on the side of the road... I have been very fortunate that everyone who stopped was very nice

04:52:48
QuoteEmily argues the biggest struggle facing women is men claiming to be women: 'you can be a cow, do whatever you want, but you're not going to be a woman.'

I think it's actually commendable... the biggest struggle women face is you can just put on some tits and makeup and be one of us

05:16:00
OtherSophia discloses she has endometriosis, was denied minimally invasive surgery in the US, and had to go abroad for treatment.

I have endometriosis which is a women's issue... they wouldn't give it to me in the United States I had to go out of the country

Topics Discussed

00:00:07
Guest introductions and relationship statuses

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation). Each guest describes their current relationship status, longest relationship, and dating history. Covers Zoe's roster, Sam's bipolar diagnosis breakup and hot girl summer, Claire's situationship and virgin status, Sophia's multi-year ambiguous friendship with a divorced man, Amy's 5-year relationship ended by cheating, Lynn's dating app experience.

01:34:00
Texting habits and communication in relationships

Brian admits he does not text daily even in relationships; describes himself as autistic re: utility of texts. Debate on whether consistency in texting signals interest. Brian suggests scheduling automated 'good morning' texts via iPhone accessibility. Discussion of letting someone miss you vs. constant contact.

01:35:00
Body count, pair bonding, and double standards

Discussion of male vs. female body count preferences. Q explains oxytocin/vasopressin science, paternity uncertainty, orgasm gap, and sexual disgust as biological explanations for gender differences. Debate on whether the double standard is actually a 'different standard.' Emily's story about ex-boyfriend who cheated then mailed cash and weed post-breakup. Sam's sugar daddy experiences on Tinder.

01:47:40
Brian's ideal woman list

Brian reads from written notes his preferences: any race (slight preference Asian/white women), petite, no plastic surgery, minimal makeup, large labia preference, introverted/quiet personality, no heavy drinking, low body count (under 10), no cluster-B personality disorders (BPD, NPD, HPD, APD). Spirited debate from panel on whether these preferences are reasonable or a double standard.

02:00:00
Mental illness, therapy, and relationship compatibility

Sam discloses bipolar type 1; ex left her because of it. Debate on whether mental illness is a reasonable dating disqualifier. Brian says he prefers no major mental disorders but acknowledges exceptions. Q argues personality disorders recur in relationships and therapy is insufficient. Claire discusses panic attacks and benefit of therapy for communication. Brian shares his own anxiety/panic attack history and preference for solution-focused approaches over talk therapy.

02:23:00
Herpes, STD risk, and dating disclosure

Recurring donor 'Jay Butler' asks whether panel would sleep with / date someone with genital herpes. Panel goes around: most say deal-breaker or heavily conditional. Discussion of legal liability for non-disclosure. Sophia says only her future husband matters; Claire says strongly committed relationship might be exception. Brian says 100% deal-breaker. Q defers briefly.

04:00:00
Female privilege, male gaze, and body standards

Zoe cites Barbie movie monologue about impossible beauty standards for women. Brian and Q argue men face more uncontrollable physical criteria (height, penis size, balding). Discussion of 'male gaze' vs female gaze. Panel surveys percentage of men they find physically attractive (responses range from 2% to 60%). Emily argues biggest struggle facing women is biological males claiming female identity. Discussion of wage gap being debunked vs. earnings gap nuance. Sophia discusses endometriosis surgery being denied in US while gender-affirming surgery is accessible.

04:50:00
Transgender identity and dating preferences

Panel discusses definition of 'woman.' Most panel members define as adult human female / XX chromosomes. Claire distinguishes trend-based vs. genuine gender dysphoria. Debate on whether a man declining to date a trans woman who has had bottom surgery is prejudice or preference. Brian explains genitalia preference; eventually panel largely agrees preference is valid.

05:10:00
Abortion, Christianity, and foster care

Sophia (pro-life, Christian) and Claire (pro-choice, Christian) debate abortion. Sam distinguishes irresponsible casual sex abortions vs. difficult-circumstance abortions. Amy suggests funding should go to foster care instead of Planned Parenthood. Claire discloses personal experience in the foster care system.

05:20:00
Gun ownership and closing segment

Donation question: would any girls date a man who legally owns a firearm. Sam says she would not feel comfortable with a gun in the house given her mental health. Most others are neutral or conditionally OK. Show wraps with quick body count round-robin: Zoe=0, Sam=no comment (over 10 implied), Claire=0, Emily=one hand/1, Sophia=1, Amy=3, Lynn=not stated, Brian pleads the fifth.

Transcript

Page 4 of 6
02:51:17
Emilyit's not big how much did he tell you about his problems with his marriage um what do you mean like I know like did he tell you about the arguments and fights they got into and private
02:51:28
Sophiathings about their marriage when I asked but I don't really you asked um like well I asked like General cuz like okay I want to know you know like what
02:51:40
Sophiahappened send the nuke well I think it's important but don't you guys think like it's important to know like if like a man got a divorce like what happened like you know what led up to that after the divorce after
02:51:52
Sophiathe divorce the man between himself and God oh no no during the marriage no no no during the marriage I didn't know actually whenever I would ask him sometimes like like how's like cuz we'd be like talking just as friends and I'd be like how's your wife and I never met
02:52:04
Sophiaher I wanted to meet her but but but but then but then listen listen no because I I'm also like a very outgoing person very Christian hold on hold on no no no I'm I'm a very outgo like you guys are like spinning this completely the wrong way I'm just a very outgoing person so
02:52:17
Sophialike we'd meet in like group settings and I'd be like hey how are you doing how's your wife you know whatever just being friendly wait is this Judas no it's just like a simple like hey how are you you know and also I was just like
02:52:29
Sophiawell I was like when can I meet your wife because sopia well because because it was well because it was weird to me that I'm friends with him and I've never because I have married friends and I'm friends with both of them and that's
02:52:42
Sophiafine but with but you had romantic feelings but I completely at first and then but then that was over I even remember like sometimes we'd like hang out and I remember thinking like thank God he's not my husband so like no those those
02:52:53
Sophiaromantic feelings were like like buried but clearly they were never buried if you considered being marrying him after they got un buried so they were never buried but I didn't have anything to do with it when he like brought up like any
02:53:06
Sophialike frustration or anything that he had in his marriage I immediately like I didn't ask any more questions stop get some help I did question question question so you guys
02:53:17
Sophiaare taking this all the wrong way like you you were kind of semi quasi involved with this guy for what two three years no the only time we would hang out was would be in group settings and then when I was going through a really hard time then we'd like talk on the phone like
02:53:30
Brian Atlasoneon-one and then that led to me having feelings and then immediately I took a step back I was like no but okay he got divorced right but then there was a after the divorce you were pursuing him correct a only after the divorce and but
02:53:41
Brian Atlashe would he and I even I asked did he reciprocate the the Romantic feelings yes after the divorce but you're saying that you go you'll uh text him and call
02:53:52
Brian Atlashim and he just doesn't respond like yes right as of but like you'll send one text and he doesn't respond or you'll send like seven he doesn't respond you'll call him he doesn't respond what what's the degree
02:54:04
Sophiato which are you a scammer like when no because some women will be like he never texted me and the woman didn't even she never even sent a text either oh no I I
02:54:15
Brian Atlastext him like or how how many what what color is the text green blue usually is it no it's blue how many blue quite a
02:54:24
Sophialot it didn't start off that way how many blue without a response well because he like I would text him like every day and then he wouldn't he responded like three times and that was
02:54:36
Brian Atlasjust like show do you have your phone on you no I don't okay I I I deleted the messages okay get rid of that I was like so how many it was never an issue in the
02:54:47
Sophiapast how many blue texts 10 10 unresponded 20 how many yeah like a lot how many how many how many give me a number you want the number I don't know the number is it 30 30 plus you have to
02:54:58
Brian Atlasscroll up to see the top yes but it wouldn't be like it wouldn't be like all I want Sophia Sophia you got to have dignity like three like if if it's three no but it wouldn't be all at once it would just be like like every day or you
02:55:11
Brian Atlasknow and also because for the past 6 weeks that's how it's been yo this is some intervention Sophia that's why I cut things off
02:55:20
Sameven like if two no I'm done the biggest rag is that he was married and then just like wait how many phone calls many right away I some because I'm in trouble
02:55:32
Sophiasometimes and I need help yeah like I'm here in Virginia what's he going to do for you send me money and then I'll repay him I I literally have run out of money multiple times and I had to ask my friends to loan me money
02:55:43
Sophiaand I always pay them back I literally like I don't have money for gas and food cuz my job doesn't pay me enough it's tough out here in California ain't that the truth thank you so my question my question is when
02:55:57
Sophiayou were going through these tough times you had no other friends that you could have reached out to like some girlfriends or something that you I did but I did but I feel bad because I know that like I have a lot of friends who also like don't make a lot of money and I feel bad asking from them and he works
02:56:10
Sophiaas an engineer and also we are really close so we are like a relationship like our friendship is where I I can ask him for I we were really close and so like
02:56:21
Sophiahe's somebody that I can I can I can tell all my problems to all the problems and like he knows about like everything going on in my life and so if
02:56:32
SophiaI'm in trouble and like need like help to pay for gas or food whatever then I can ask him for money um and I do always like pay it back and I know that it's not going to be hurting him financially because cuz he's an engineer and he
02:56:45
Sophiamakes a lot of money and he has a lot saved up and versus like I have a friend um who she she has a friend and he always sends me money when I when I he works he's National Guard he's Army National Guard On the Border he doesn't
02:56:58
Sophiamake a lot of money so I feel bad asking from like my friends who I know do you only have guy friends then or something no I have a diagnosis here I have a diagnosis I can I can kind of think why
02:57:09
Sophiahe stopped responding to you you kept hitting him up for money no I not just I'm cutting a somebody's asking me for I repa him for everything you repay him yeah even though I'm
02:57:21
Sophiastruggling financially I sent him $950 cuz I repaid him for like the last one he sent me and then also like he paid for my um to get my uh Open Water scuba certification cuz this was like last summer why do you need that son
02:57:32
Brian Atlasbecause he was do struggling you're struggling for money let me become a why that was before I went to Califor up huge priority I'm I'm in I'm IND that last summer
02:57:45
Brian Atlasand I also could it that's the first thing homeless people go for homeless I need to get my SC check out let me get some oxygen tanks I need some
02:57:55
Brian Atlasoxy T I'm homeless let me go get some stocked up on my oxygen tanks okay that's not what happened I'm living in a cardboard box let me get the oxygen tank son cardboard box I
02:58:05
Sophialive in my car I'm just kidding um but no that was last summer and uh and he he was getting his Open Water scuba and I said I wanted to get mine but I didn't have the money and so he paid for me and I said I will repay you and it's been
02:58:17
Sophialike a year so I'm like I said I would repay him so it's time so even though I'm struggling I and also because of like the situation like he's not texting me whatever so I was just like okay you know what I just want to pay everything back and then like so are you guys done are you guys done seeing each other I
02:58:30
Zoemean I think I mean there's nothing well yeah he's not he's not responding to you's not any friendship nothing yeah yeah yeah okay it's over can I add something like if you're spamming some
02:58:39
Zoesomeone and they're not responding like I don't like I don't know I'm what I'm trying to say is like if you want him you have to like cut things off or just like ghost him because then he'll
02:58:50
Zoecome back to you like I don't think this a healthy relationship when did he get divorced
02:58:57
Sophiathough when did he get divorced uh they separated uh spring 2021 um and then I don't know when the divorce became official so you don't
02:59:10
Sophiaeven know if they're technically divorced no no no they are because at when in Jan 2020 yes uh spring 2021 I know that they separated I didn't ask him when the then
02:59:20
Sophiawhen the divorce became official but in January 2022 so so like almost a year later I asked him and he said yes they were by then divorced so I think what the you
02:59:32
Emilysaid earlier that you were saying the reason he didn't want to pursue relationship with you is because he struggled with the idea of of um because he's Catholic so he he had a divorce and that that wasn't he didn't feel
02:59:44
Emilycomfortable marrying again but like my question is how how did you jump from not even in a relationship with him to asking him to marry you after he just
02:59:54
Sophiagot out of divorce like well not not right after he got out of the divorce no no it started with um actually when I I did not think that he liked me that way but when I found
03:00:06
Sophiaout that he got a divorce I was a lot closer with my other friends from that group guy friends because they were single so I'm just going to what you're
03:00:14
Sophiadoing there Sor sorry sorry that's Nick Nick controls that yeah sure okay um but anyway so my my initial thought like after I found out that he got divorced wasn't like
03:00:28
Sophiaoh it wasn't it wasn't here's my chance or whatever it was more just like well I can now I can talk to him freely and because he was one of my closest friends
03:00:40
Sophiabut I wasn't as close with him as as I was with my other friends um um because my other friends were single and so it was like a lot easier and so I'm like well now we can like start talking more and whatever um and that's how it
03:00:50
Sophiastarted out divor yeah it like okay separate I don't know when the divorce became official but separated spraying like April like 2021 and then we started
03:01:02
Samtalking like February 2022 if I was the ex-wife I would be a little suspicious I would too I'm not going to lie the ex-wife like she decided to leave him why why would she care My Sweet Summer child I think I think she would be more
03:01:14
Emilythat you know exactly why they divor we're still not done I I don't understand like you don't understand the problem with another woman being that involved in someone else's relationship like you know every detail you're talking like after the divorce why would
03:01:26
TTS/Chatshe care after the divorce before the divorce I didn't know to that person at the same time but she doesn't care like donated $99 she wrecked her home then got Alpha
03:01:37
Brian Atlaswidowed that's not what happened you were kind of talking to I'm married man just say all right what what okay what do you mean it literally was what happened you were talking and had
03:01:50
Brian Atlasfeelings for a men who was married you guys don't like the words came out of your mouth you said now you said well okay I boundaries I took a step back but you did had boundaries you
03:02:02
Sophiahad feelings for a guy who was married and you had a but no I'm I'm really proud of like I set like really good boundaries because I knew that like at one point I didn't before I knew he was married I had feelings for him so I'm not going to do anything where like like
03:02:15
SophiaI start having feelings for him and as soon as I started having feelings I took a step back so like the whole time I didn't even like hug him um until like that's after they got divorced that's that's considera of that's like like Ser
03:02:28
Sophialike I mean we would be hanging out with cuz like I hug my friends you know like like HBY whatever hug the hug the friends I give I give my friends hugs and we would um we would be hanging out in a I don't know what you guys are laughing about but we'd be hanging out
03:02:39
Brian Atlasin a group and um like we'd go fishing what it the vicarious hug like you were hugging your friends but you were really wishing H one second too long no it's like when we say goodbye it's like hey
03:02:50
Sophiait's been nice hanging out whatever goodbye hug like I don't know why that's weird and okay and then I would just like skip him you'd skip like out of yeah because he's he's married I'm not going to be hugging a married man but I
03:03:03
Sophiahugged my other friends cuz they were like single are they talk to him on the phone for hours no no that was after the divorce I'm sorry but if I was the wife and I found out what would you do tell us what
03:03:15
Brian Atlasyou would do but why would she she divorc him like she doesn't care so let's move on here but uh thank you Sophia for being open and sharing sharing that with us I regret it I'm never coming back
03:03:26
Brian Atlasagain it was good it was good it was a I'm kidding I'm kidding okay we have I need to get caught up on a couple chats we'll get we'll continue with the rest of the status of the panel uh ladies
03:03:37
Brian Atlaswhat yearly salary would you consider low for a man oh now bendra I I do want to point out some of these women are in University college so I for a lot of these women I don't think that they are
03:03:48
Brian Atlasreally all that preoccupied with money at this point right any of us have a salary job yet yeah like some of these girls are 18 19 like but we will ask a question maybe you can try to
03:04:00
Brian Atlasframe it from I'd say 20K 25k currently yeah or no in general like if I'm married to somebody like 20 you you trying to live
03:04:11
Samin Idaho what's up what's up well because California you ain't living in California maybe Bakersfield I mean even Bakersfield even Bakersfield I'll give
03:04:21
Zoeit 30k 30k okay what about you um I don't really know as long as like he has a job and like it's a steady job then
03:04:31
Brian Atlasthat pays like somewhat well word okay what B what's too low is that the question yes Bas what's too low would you consider low for a man how about
03:04:42
Clairebare minimum let's just do minimum to oh if he M he's got to be making like 70 80,000 I feel like what the says the
03:04:52
ClaireSocialist hello I told you I'm not going to I'm not going to fix Society by myself so I got to I got to live with it like what do you mean that's that's a very like you you said you're a
03:05:04
Clairesocialist but the guy needs to make 70 to $80,000 but like I just said I'm not going to change the world by myself so I have to live yeah but what your partner can't be in Indigent Indigent what do
03:05:16
Brian Atlasyou mean it's like no makes no money basically like broke if he's I probably don't want to be with them if he's broke I want I want both of us to be making Mone for somebody who's a socialist
03:05:26
Qthat's a rather distribute your income to him actually you know what would do you believe in reparations the script for what do you believe in uh reparations for
03:05:37
ClaireAfrican-Americans like in what like giving them back like land money like what are we talking about money I I think I would need more context I think that sounds I don't know how you have any cash on you right now
03:05:49
Brian Atlascash on me yeah I do you want some yeah would you give it to me because some people I don't know we slaves some people I don't know I don't know why I think the context is just off right now it's it's do you have any cash
03:06:00
Brian Atlasin your wallet I do can you I I feel like this has to come out of Q's mouth I'm I'm just Q ask ask for reparations I told you it's it's the
03:06:13
Brian Atlaswrong context oh sorry sorry s sorry yeah I don't know why the I'm that was really random okay I don't know I think he wants to talk about it a little
03:06:21
Clairesleepy I can see I I think so okay so 70 to 80k socialist by the way I I'm not going to fix the country by myself like if you can't beat him
03:06:33
Brian Atlasjoin them you the change you want to see in the world Claire it starts with you sure standing on her answer I'm not going to do it by myself so do you think I feel like most you'd bect like you like communist socialist
03:06:45
Brian Atlasmen right not communist communism and socialism is not the same thing okay fine you like socialist men H yeah mhm okay all right are they like are
03:06:55
Alexalike okay whatever okay what about you I work in Tech so like low for where I live in survival is like 70 to 80 yeah so bare minimum 70 80k yeah Emily what
03:07:07
Emilyabout you like the lowest yeah bare minimum bare minimum we know you previously dated a drug dealer so that might skew things right does it yeah if it's not if it's legal I'm just kidding
03:07:18
Sophiaum probably the lowest would be like 40 or 50 okay sopia I mean depends where we would live
03:07:29
Sophiaobviously I I would want uh what was the question again bare minimum bare like to date or like Mary well yeah Mary okay so like Mary like I would want um my
03:07:41
Sophiahusband to be able to um provide for me and a family and you you wouldn't want to work correct like um I would like to be a stay-at-home mom now if like the situation like the going
03:07:53
Sophiagot tough and I had to get a job then obviously like like you know I'll do what I have to but yeah I would like to be a stay-at home mom and not work how many kids do you want um I don't know
03:08:04
Sophialike are are you a one and done do you think or do you want like multiple um so since I'm like Christian leaning Catholic um like Catholics she wants 10 like they it's basically however many
03:08:16
Alexachildren the Lord will bless us with and so that's what I'm like leaning towards is like whatever I'll have a lot of kids I don't care I'll have 10 I don't know God but not a Christian just saying 10 10 kids is a lot of mouths to feed that's the thing you got to think about
03:08:28
Sophiaif you're having right like Catholics don't even believe in um well they they think like contraception is like morally wrong but there is a thing called natural Family
03:08:39
SophiaPlanning so if we were in a really tight financial situation where it's like okay right now we can't afford to have any more kids then you know that's where natural Family Planning comes in Translation you can only bust nuts
03:08:52
Sophiacertain times of the month yeah basically yes sweet you can do that if you're not Christian you just have sex your yeah it's actually like more effective than
03:09:03
Sophiaum using a condom but it doesn't I mean it doesn't uh dope what's it called protect against a CDS but uh Amy what
03:09:10
Lynnabout you minimum um I say bear would be like 60 70 around that range sure Lyn um I'd say bear like starting out would be
03:09:23
Brian Atlas35,000 okay all right all pretty reasonable all right we have a chat here from vavina okay sorry Q not into the multiple girl situation you've got going on I might have missed an update do you still have three or did main girl step
03:09:34
Qit up I think she's asking about your over the last time yeah yeah um no I actually chilled out a little bit but main girl main girl is she she there we
03:09:49
Brian Atlasgood my chill out okay all right we have former okay let's see uh do I pull that one off do an
03:10:01
Claireinteresting question do a good one spice it up let's get spicy uh Get Saucy get the hot sauce okay I'll
03:10:13
Brian AtlasI'm a 25-year-old Catholic virgin who's very ugly so no man wants to date me I've offered men hundreds to thousands of dollars to go on dates with me but they say no I would like to offer Brian
03:10:22
Brian Atlas500 plus a fly out to visit me via wire transfer 72 yeah with it sounds like CR yeah sounds like anyways um so let's see
03:10:33
Clairehere we have I need to do some of the other two CH take off huh it's a girl offering you free money that's all you've ever wanted would you take the offer yeah she might be obsessed with you too moving on Josh how much to kick
03:10:44
Brian AtlasBoon cap wearing oh wait sorry I don't know why that okay um black bro I know that might be to hold on bro uh hold on let me read this
03:10:57
Brian Atlasbefore uh rest I just got to make sure I already pulled it up uh that's a little to I don't know
03:11:07
Brian Atlasum okay it um 59 Euro I'll explain that race is actually Spectrum is not Sunday Monday and Tuesday I'm black the rest of the week I'm white but some Fridays I will identify as Native American if the mood strikes because
03:11:19
Brian Atlasit's my truth and you must believe me all right okay thank you man appreciate it thank you thank you um puffy Vegas twice in my life I have took home trans you can tell the difference both I turned them down PS I can't streamline
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Brian Atlasapparently they don't know correct spelling and grammar either yeah my my audience is like primarily illiterate so uneducated It's pretty dope um Brian you're getting butt hurt over
03:11:45
Brian Atlassomething you can't control women have it easy I think Alexa's method Works in our favor she removes herself out of the pool just be the best version of yourself also men pay on the first men
03:11:54
Brian Atlaspay on first date or no second date you're not a 10 uh so uh the last part confused me well the whole like paying on the date thing so I I mean I say this
03:12:06
Brian Atlasright so you're going to lose women if you don't pay for the first dat i acknowledge that like if you want the mench or dating you should pay for the first date I am starting to kind of lean towards more just like okay just
03:12:18
Brian Atlaspay for it but so you've been going on dates I'm too busy for that how long has it been since you've been on a
03:12:28
Brian Atlasdate it's been I'm a busy I'm busy it's been 10 years what do you mean like a date like uh like have you hung out with somebody recently honestly I kind of feel like it's better if the girl just
03:12:39
Brian Atlaslike comes over to my place right away that's kind of the so you're kind of exposing yourself a little bit what do you how how's that exposing myself nothing it's just it's
03:12:51
Brian Atlasjust just your your instead of like what are you going to do watch Disney movies at your place let's go out to this place it's just like e I'm kind of busy let's
03:13:02
Sophiajust kick it to my place whatever it's what to watch movies or what yeah to to watch yeah we'll back am in chess whatever you want to do um but on like
03:13:12
Brian Atlasthe Ling or something exactly that's my that's my go-to um puffy Vegas all women cheat I don't believe can't be faithful
03:13:23
Brian Atlasokay I don't believe can't be faithful uh puffy Vegas she's 27 I'm 49 she beautiful I love you uh she said I love you I never bought her anything she's
03:13:35
Brian Atlasbeautiful I never bought her anything okay is this is this like song lyrics or some like I don't know you should be a rock all right Vegas my neighbor is
03:13:43
Brian Atlas27 I'm 49 she told I told I love told me I love bro puffy H puffy okay all right all right that's um
03:13:54
Brian Atlasstruggling he puffy is the is a Giga chat wrong with this keyboard okay let's go uh Amy what's your dating situation what's up um I'm
03:14:04
Amysingle right now I'm not talking to anyone not sleeping with anyone okay um wait hold on are you also waiting until marriage um not
03:14:17
Amynecessarily my principle is just to sleep with a boyfriend not just you know just a stranger have you had that yet yes uh my longest relationship was 5
03:14:28
Brian Atlasyears okay gotcha um let's see and in your pre-show notes to us you said let's see not much besides being cheated on and not having a place in the market there's all this talk about
03:14:41
Amywanting a traditional woman but there's no place in the market for us what do you what do you mean by that um the last part I guess oh are these two kind of different I guess um I guess not but I'll respond to the last part uh I feel
03:14:53
Amylike there in the market right now there's a lot of IG models and a lot of um only fan models too that and a lot of girls who post very Pro provocative
03:15:04
Amypictures online which I'm not saying is necessarily a bad thing but I feel like a lot of men who do say I want on a traditional woman and gravitate and go
03:15:15
Amyfor those women first and versus someone who keeps a very low radar we don't really get noticed well
03:15:25
Brian AtlasI I kind of disagree with you because I think I mean I you I haven't heard much from you so far but you're saying you're the opposite of that you're the opposite
03:15:35
Brian Atlasof the IG model the only fans girl I think there's actually a huge demand for women like you
03:15:43
Brian Atlasum sorry hold on um okay all right um hold dude she really wants you except her free money at least it was 100 text
03:15:53
Brian Atlasevery day a 7 it's not like you'll text her every day anyways yeah okay let me just hold on hold on one second guys uh
03:16:04
Sammen like Brian are my type but they said uh DM DM her she wants cuddles and handholding or him who knows we don't
03:16:14
Brian Atlasyou don't know so um Amy what I was going to say is that I mean but you often hear men say well the Instagram models the only fans girls like those aren't the girls that you want to have a
03:16:25
Brian Atlasrelationship with right by the way W I want to see W's in the chat guys there are no only fans girls at this table right nobody here does only fans no I've
03:16:36
Brian Atlasbeen offered like by multiple people to be like a manager for that but no okay okay but nobody yo I'm trying to move away from bringing on all these o girls
03:16:48
Brian Atlasand porn stars I mean look I'm not there's going to be some war in the future but I am trying to move away from it why is there a reason honestly they're kind of obnoxious and they don't speci I don't
03:17:01
Brian Atlasthink they're representative of like normal women 100% agree mhm so uh and they're just like some of them have come
03:17:12
Emilyon the show and been like very nasty so or they want to shout seen a few content on Tik Tok Seena yeah that's what made me watch these was the girls on there and then the episode with Candace Owens
03:17:23
Brian Atlaswhere she just like ripped into a lot we will will continue we are going to continue probably having them on but I am trying to like there was a point where it was like every show
03:17:35
Brian Atlasit's like half the panel most of the panel only fans girl like so now I'm trying to rebalance it where it's like let's bring on some more regular girls let's say I guess we're regular that we
03:17:46
Brian Atlasare well I'm undecided on you but what you you care to explain I'll tell you later um later why can't you
03:17:56
Brian Atlassay it right now say it say it I'm just teasing you okay um so Amy sorry the TTS came in we you were saying that there's not a place in the market for women like
03:18:07
Amyyou who are not out there shown their TNA basically is what you're saying yeah um cuz I'm not on any dating apps and that's just a principle that I made for myself there there have been moments
03:18:20
Amywhere I'm like oh maybe should maybe should I get on but I'm always I always you know eventually say okay no I'm not going to do it um cuz I do believe that
03:18:31
Amyeverybody has made themselves very easily accessible especially online and anybody and anybody like and everybody could find you with a search and they
03:18:41
Amycould DM you on anything thing and I just don't necessarily like that type of attention I feel like it's very tiring um that has happened to me for like two
03:18:51
Amyweeks when one of my Tik toks went went viral and I got many requests and I eventually just took off that that Instagram account and I made a new one what it was very tiring what did you do
03:19:03
Amyon Tik Tok it was like a very it was like a uh did you did you got cancelled no I I was I didn't get canceled it was just uh it was gym video and people were
03:19:13
Amysupportive but like men were trying to get my attention and I didn't like you were just like working out yeah was it one of those gym videos that was like oh
03:19:23
Amymy God look at this guy no staring at I don't even remember the context rude yeah on your phone get off okay I think I think I said something along the lines
03:19:33
Amyof like you can't go to gym expecting to fix all your problems you got to you know fix your mind too I think that was pretty much the context of the video okay but you're saying that you being
03:19:45
Brian Atlascheated on not having a place in the market is that a little different than the whole traditional woman but there's no place in the market for us um I kind of think of them as the same cuz how I
03:19:56
Amythink my my problem is I don't know how to find men like you don't know how to find men like traditional men you know are you Rel I am I'm Christian you're Christian yes okay
03:20:07
Brian Atlasum I mean I would say that there's like if if we put you next to an
03:20:15
Brian AtlasInstagram baddy I would say I think most men would prefer you over the chicks the chick who's on Instagram or who has only
03:20:25
Amyfans eventually but I don't think mean eventually I don't think at first like at first glance I would be a first pick I think eventually I think you're under selling yourself to be honest girl you're so pretty like I I agree with
03:20:37
AmyBrian you're under selling it yeah I think it's just it's just hard for me right now I don't know where to look it's not even like I am looking but I just haven't been approached in a very long
03:20:49
Brian Atlastime yeah well I mean it's definitely hard in because you said you're not on dating apps which I I think that's a good thing but obviously that's the way a lot of people are meeting nowadays you don't have a big presence on Instagram
03:21:00
Brian Atlasthat's also in some case well it's also considered a dating app to some degree a lot of people will uh meet on Instagram so um yeah it's going to be harder for you but I I I think think that that's
03:21:12
Brian Atlasnot necessarily A Bad Thing and um I think it gets um discouraging sometimes it really it really does yeah yeah no I mean uh and you consider yourself a bit more
03:21:24
Sophiaintroverted uh yeah bit more on the shy side um not necessarily shy like um I think I'm more Ambert Ambert yeah like a mix it depends on the day like and it's
03:21:36
Sophiahard because men aren't doing the pursuing anymore right yeah that if you're not on dating apps then like men aren't like you know asking you out on dates and stuff why do men have to do it though because that's a man's role
03:21:48
Brian Atlasthat's a fair point why can't we I mean I've done multip times Amy start hting on dudes go to Trader Joe's like I think
03:21:56
AmyI'm okay I like like my I mean maybe some women do but I've done it um I ask hold on just let your answer go ahead I
03:22:05
Amydon't I'm not like lonely enough to like be like out there but um but I am like I have have like my faith of like you know God has someone for me eventually but I
03:22:16
Samwonder how okay yeah it'll happen it's best to not look because the best people come around thing I'm not it's just like I'm I'm wondering you know wait say that again the best people come around when
03:22:26
Brian Atlasyou're not looking they come out of nowhere only women can say that why is that that's what I'm saying I agree with that well you as women are the pursued typically like men we have to do the
03:22:38
Brian Atlaspursuing we have to approach I've done it before sure that's fine but most women don't we as men like let's let's talk about dating apps or nightclub if I step foot into a nightclub would I don't
03:22:51
Brian Atlasgo to bars or clubs not my scene and I go in the corner I have my drink whatever or I'm at the bar what wherever it may be nobody's coming to talk to me the entire night as a woman
03:23:02
Brian Atlasif you go to a bar or club you're going to get hit on someone's going to approach you yeah same same thing with dating apps as a guy if you're on the dating app if you don't take
03:23:12
Saminitiative you're not going to all just depend on the girl though you know some girls do walk up to guys some girls don't yeah but it's that's the exception not the rule yeah most girls don't most most women do not
03:23:25
Samapproach men you approach men you approach men let's let's see some game okay I I actually I approach men more than they
03:23:35
Samfat party we're at the Frat party okay um hold on where's the Hat where's the Hat well I don't have like I don't have liquid courage so this
03:23:47
Brian Atlasis going to be harder all right let Sig up that's a horrible frat by the
03:23:59
Amy[Music] way please wear it correctly there you go you got it go yeah
03:24:10
Samokay [Laughter] we're waiting for you to spit game yeah yeah he's waiting the thing is I would never walk up to
03:24:21
Samhim beer pong yeah no pretend he's the guy of your dream just go just come okay what's up
03:24:35
SamSu y yo you got no game it's not about spitting the game it's like you have to make the ion contact that's how I am I'm a very big like you walk up to the dude and you just St
03:24:47
Samno did you say the blue eyes oh we didn't talk about the blue eyes yeah you were kind of creeping me out for a second there she was doing it with brown eyes don't do that cuz
03:24:58
Samit's honestly just ew well if you're staring at me like that I would never hit on you in the first
03:25:09
Samplace yeah you got no game I'm sorry that was weak she di that's also cuz you're old and I don't want to like make it weird like I could hit on
03:25:20
Brian Atlashim damn wow you know you do know what a role play is right going to cry
03:25:30
Brian Atlasnow you're cool but just not my Ty I think the feeling is mutual but so okay so what was the whole thing here since we brought it up the blue eyes thing what's the blue eyes thing
03:25:43
Brian Atlasyou don't like men with blue eyes you're really about to make me say it again we you didn't say it on camer okay okay okay okay so listen listen chat listen to what she's about to say about men with blue eyes it's actually steeped in
03:25:54
Brian Atlasracism but go ahead about an eye color you racist no are you racist I'm full Native American why would I like want to be racist what what do you have against it's cuz you don't like white
03:26:06
Sampeople who said white people are the only ones with blue eyes what are you saying nothing go ahead okay I'm just around go ahe well I was at a frat party once like specifically like a
03:26:17
Sammonth ago I would say yeah and I meet this guy and he's really cute and I'm like oh I can't really see like what he looks like a little bit cuz it's kind of dark and there's like lights or whatever
03:26:28
Samand so I take him outside and we start making out and like a light comes on and so I open my eyes and he's still making out with me but with like these piercing blue eyes just staring at me they
03:26:39
Samweren't closed the entire time time we were making out so when I when he like opened his eyes I literally was like I got to go and he like kind of followed me around the whole party and I literally just looked at him and I was
03:26:51
Samlike your eyes are just really creepy like I can't make out with you like it just it gave me chills it's just a it's just a preference though do I do I have
03:27:01
Brian Atlasthose blue eyes specifically like that color oh thank you this color yes what color are my eyes like icy blue icy cold
03:27:11
Clairemurderous blue dope okay maybe not murderous I wonder if any women are into that the whole murderous oh yeah I bet there's
03:27:22
Brian Atlasplenty you'll find they write books about good everyone loved Ted Bundy so okay I'm I'm too old my eyes are too icy and cold and murderous but I think
03:27:33
Brian Atlasyou're cool I'm so depressed oh my God I need to go to talk therapy now okay um you have all of us what do you mean you could talk to all
03:27:44
Brian Atlasof us about your problems yeah that's actually why I started this podcast therapy let me start a get paid for it dating podcast um instead of
03:27:54
Brian Atlasgoing to therapy okay so oh um it's Sophia with
03:28:02
Brian Atlasph okay um hold on let me see if okay uh so Amy you also had a couple other notes here um she's not here she's not here oh she di no she went to the she went okay
03:28:13
Brian AtlasI didn't even see her okay she just yeah good idea Nick very very smart Nick guys I even read what they said do me a favor we can't see any of their
03:28:23
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Brian Atlasyou for the tier one Postman s2k thank you for the prime appreciate it guys twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one okay so uh Lynn you have uh relationship
03:29:09
Lynnstatus uh I'm I am very single right now very single what does that mean um I haven't been in a relationship for a year and a half year and a half what but I feel like okay you haven't been in a
03:29:21
Brian Atlasrelationship for a year and a half when's the last time you went on a date or hung hung out with a guy in a romantic sort of
03:29:32
Lynnwhat I guess technically two weeks ago you only is this somebody you've been seeing for a while or no so it was somebody that I went to high school with um he's been texting me like
03:29:44
Lynnconsistently for a while and I kind of just always brushed them off uh but then one day he was like hey do you want to hang out and I was like screw it why not um so I went to go hang out with him and then we just hung out for like a couple
03:29:57
Lynnhours and then the next day he ghosted me so like it wasn't really romantic but it could have been I guess did y'all smash no smash I put it I put it in my
03:30:09
Brian Atlaspre-show notes that that you what that I haven't had sex in two years oh okay we'll talk about that so you've been celibate for two years
03:30:19
Brian Atlasyes why did why did he he it sounded like he was really like up on you and then he ghosted you mhm so um did you like do something
03:30:30
Lynnweird did did you say anything that was maybe like a red flag I think he wanted to but she's not he did want he did want to he said this and I straight up was like listen I
03:30:43
Lynndon't have sex outside of like relationships like it's it's not going to happen um and I think that's all he wanted I think at some point like some part of him wanted to have a relationship with me but I think he wanted the sex first and I wasn't
03:30:54
Brian Atlaswilling to give that up so good for you girl thank you I do think Q what are your thoughts on that though do you think my personal view
03:31:03
Brian Atlasis I think in the way most relationships I think tend to play out is it's not hey let's go on 10 Dates be boyfriend girlfriend then have
03:31:15
Brian Atlassex it's typically have sex fairly early on continue hooking up you start liking each other then you become boyfriend and girlfriend yeah typically with men
03:31:25
Qbecause um sexual attraction is the primary factor you don't know a woman commitment is a big thing for a man it's I say commitment is equally as risky as
03:31:36
Qsex is for a woman because as you said a woman has the ability to up your life so you need to know this woman you need to know what this woman is about you need to know what her mindset is her attitude her values her personality all these things you have to learn but what
03:31:48
Sophiayou do know is you would smash her because she's attractive enough but facts that's just facts son you guys want low body count but then you're playing into that like having sex
03:32:00
Emilywith the woman very early on well because we because normally we let things just develop we go with a flow I think it would be like a weeding out type situation where they're they're not they're not wanting the women that promiscuous so they're going for the
03:32:13
Qones that haven't so if she sleeps with you then you're weeding her out because she's having sex with you no no not not necessarily see some women think if I sleep with him then he's going to think I'm a but that's not necessarily the case but you're adding to their body
03:32:25
Sophiacount and yet you want women with low body count not if she continues sleeping with me and only me okay but if you guys if it doesn't work out if you guys break up then that's one more that's if it doesn't
03:32:36
Brian Atlaswork out I mean a girl could be a virgin and then sleep with you on the first date and just stay with you
03:32:45
Sophiayeah well outly exactly girls don't do it don't sleep with guys wait until marriage cuz they're not going to commit umit wait wait wait wait wait wait wait I think
03:32:58
ClaireI'd stay with her forever if she slept with you even if we there were like like core just like incompatible like irreconcilable differences huh oh I'm being a little
03:33:09
Samfactious here don't take that okay thank okay yeah but uh but don't like you don't have to promote like everybody has to be a virgin everybody has different
03:33:18
Amypreferences like I think a good call I think a good like measure to it would be like don't do what you don't want your partner doing you know like if I could
03:33:30
Amybe a traditional woman I wouldn't want a traditional man who would have a lower body count which I know it is like a pipe dream but I think I understand that men are more of like visual creatures
03:33:42
Brian Atlasit's actually not a pipe dream and I would actually argue that there are more women who have higher body counts than there are men who have high body counts I I haven't heard of that hon I think I
03:33:54
Brian AtlasI usually say the other way around but maybe because well I think what happens is you have like a very small percentage of men at the top like insanely high body counts and then you have like women
03:34:05
Brian Atlaswho are kind of in the mid tier who are like getting 10 20 30 40 whatever and then you have dudes who are in that top percent or like 100 200 300 right and then you have dud and then you have the
03:34:16
Qrest of the dudes who are getting nothing yeah the men the men more like virgins low body counts yeah the smaller percentage of men skew the average to where the average male body count is higher than the woman's by about one or
03:34:29
Qtwo bodies but it's like you said it's that hyperr of men that get so many bodies that they naturally just make the the average higher than a woman's right yeah word word I agree
03:34:44
Brian Atlasmoving on what were you gonna say I thought somebody was going to say some so I okay um I mean my personal stance is and I'm gonna have Maddie come in on
03:34:55
Brian Atlasthis too actually is I think that you can sleep with someone fairly early on and that can that can flourish into a serious committed monogamous long-term relationship I would say mo I've had
03:35:08
Brian Atlasmultiple long-term relationships my longest was five years all of my long-term relationships it wasn't like let's date for 3 months and then have sex let's go on 10 20 dates and then
03:35:18
Brian Atlashave sex it was within the first three dates we hooked up and those became healthy long-term relationships yeah because y'all got to understand the average man is not a like he he
03:35:30
Qjust can't get multiple women so when he finds a woman that he can finally have sex with and that sex is repetitive he's going to typically stay where he knows he can get sex so once he has sex he probably likes you he know you know
03:35:42
Qhe's attracted to you physically you guys do things after you Pillow Talk you cuddle whatever whatever promotes that bonding and then that's what it is that's what it becomes it becomes a routine he can't afford men can't typically afford to just sleep with a
03:35:54
Brian Atlaswoman then just move on to the next most men don't have it like that most men are not that desirable word word that Madison uh
03:36:04
Unknownwhat's the sitch with Frankie Frank who's Frank her boyfriend her boyfriend oh uh so so uh I don't know we were talking about this like the other week
03:36:15
Unknownbut basically my boyfriend and I we we had sex like the first time we ever had hung out ever alone like we didn't really go on dates before that I wasn't really looking for anything like
03:36:29
Unknownlike you said earlier I'm pretty sure like things just kind of come too I wasn't really looking for anything he was looking for a wife but I didn't know that at the time and I don't know I feel like it it really helped helped us move
03:36:42
Unknownforward in our relationship not even just like a relationship but a friendship in a way like it helped us no not not like that not like that I I just
03:36:52
UnknownI just like fumbled my words but I don't know now we're going like one year strong they've been dating for a year that's cute shout out I just feel like that's that's really like I'm super happy for you but I just feel like
03:37:04
Brian Atlasthat's relatively rare no that's it's pretty normal I'd say most I'd say most adult relationships again I don't think it's let's wait 3 months then have sex I would say most relationships the way
03:37:15
Brian Atlasthey develop is they the people hook up relatively early on and then they continue seeing each other and then it becomes a relationship yeah I guess I just don't have that I mean yeah you're you're you haven't had yeah for me it's
03:37:28
Clairejust the it's the opposite experience so it's like oh you're a virgin goodbye I'm not going to get try to get to know you anymore well yeah well I think that's that's fair but it's also doing you a favor because you're not wasting your
03:37:39
Brian Atlastime on a guy guy like why why would you want to waste time on the guy that doesn't want to move at the same Pace as you no 100% I mean the thing is for me is um like a lack of communication like
03:37:52
ClaireI'll tell some like I'll be straight up with a guy like about that about myself particularly and instead of like if I'm like if that's not what you're looking for that's that's totally fine you know that's like that can be an irreconcilable difference but most of
03:38:04
Clairethe time it's like oh no it's fine that doesn't change anything and they slowly distance themselves from me and I'm left questioning like what happened I just have to assume that that is what
03:38:14
Samhappened that they didn't like that about me is Brian waiting for marriage somebody
03:38:24
Brian Atlasasked um okay so to go back to Lynn um I had a couple questions for you here so you you you have been celibate for two years
03:38:33
Brian Atlasyes good times uh right and you said you had to although or maybe not although you have a tattoo for an ex from an or of an ex can you show us
03:38:45
Brian Atlasdo yeah it's right here oh wait the microphone can you maybe stand up the microphone's blocking it a little bit yeah it's right here
03:38:54
Lynnwhat's it say it says an angel 9498 an an an angel a n a n g e a an
03:39:03
Lynnspace Angel yeah is his name Angel no um it's an angel because so he was my high school boyfriend I dated him when I was a freshman yeah um and he passed away oh sorry to hear that and after he died
03:39:15
Lynnlike I just had like a really strong presence of him being with me so he became my angel so I got a tattoo that says an angel and then his birthday how long were you dating him for uh a year
03:39:27
Brian Atlasyeah well Sor sorry to hear that he passed away that must have been rough especially uh at a young age like that um I didn't know I put that in my
03:39:39
Brian Atlasnotes you get a tattoo I'm just trying to think like how would how would I feel if a girl I was dating had a tattoo of like an ex-boyfriend I will
03:39:51
Lynnsay I didn't sleep with him like we weren't sexually it was just my first serious relationship through high school and the way he died was really tragic it was like a really bad car accident
03:40:03
Brian Atlasso like so there was any kind of like sexual Bond it was just emotional I'd feel if I
03:40:14
Qwas I dated a girl who had a t of her ex was it it bothered me what was it it would bother me it was it was his name with like a basketball and it was on
03:40:25
Qbasketball did he pass no he passed into tragic basketball no no no he didn't pass away um she just had it because I guess of their connection and it used to bother me and I used to ask her I was
03:40:36
Qlike you know you got a tattoo of your ex on your back right like it just she was like I'll get it covered up I just could never get past it I couldn't get past it okay I think that's fair I think most people would have a problem with
03:40:48
Lynnthat but in this regard this is a different yeah understand yeah it is different because like there's people that will just do it kind of um impulsively I would never get it like if he if I would never get a tattoo for
03:41:01
Lynnsomeone if they were like alive this was purely cuz like he died and he was like someone that yeah he helped me a lot like through high school cuz he was a senior when I was freshman so like coming in high school and also I was a
03:41:12
Lynntransfer student from like a different area so he helped me a lot like getting adjusted to the school so he was like yeah he was my boyfriend but he was my freshman he uh he skipped a grade he he
03:41:24
Brian Atlashe skipped a grade so he was also young oh okay whatever cuz he was born in 98 and he graduated like I would get one huh I would get one for like my first love if he passed personally word word
03:41:37
Brian Atlasuh Lynn you also said hookup culture has literally ruined dating I don't trust trust anyone and hate going out with guys because they always try something thinking it's okay and I won't just hook up with someone on a first date or outside of a relationship also fun fact
03:41:49
Brian Atlassomething funny to okay the celibacy thing yeah yeah um so do you have like and maybe some of the other girls here might also have a standard on this do you have like a hard and fast rule when
03:42:00
Lynnit comes to how quickly you'd hook up with a guy like is it yeah I feel like I put it kind of harshly like it's not like oh we have to be like I have to be your in order for us to have sex like I think and I mean I'm not even saying that I wouldn't have
03:42:13
Lynnsex with someone the first time we hang out like if it feels right it feels right but never say never and like for me too is like if I say no then don't push it and if you do push it then like it's a hard it's a hard no and that's my
03:42:25
Lynnthing is like with the guy who I just hung out with like he kept trying to like touch on me and I was like dude stop yeah that's a yikes and so like I mean it's just situations like that but
03:42:37
Lynnyeah my thing is like I don't know what what it is about me but um whenever guys hit me up to hang out I'm like all right we can hang out but like just so you know it's very unlikely like that anything's going to happen they're like oh yeah that's fine like I just want to
03:42:49
Lynnhang out and then they'll try and then I'm like no and then they continuously do it so in that factor of like I don't like going out with guys because I've just been in that situation a lot of times and it's like it sucks
03:43:02
Lynncuz it's like I'm not opposed to the idea of having sex like it has been a really long time since I have had sex but it's just I'm not going to do it someone who's not going to respect like my basic boundaries that's another difference between he's not she's not laughing at
03:43:15
Qyou she's laughing at Nick that's that's another difference between uh body count too what she just said a woman touches me I'd never say no like that's not going to happen I'm not going to say no
03:43:26
QI'm not going to be repulsed turned turned I've turned yeah I've turned like I've turned down probably twice I've probably turned down two women and that was just because I just wasn't attracted to them and they was just trying to
03:43:38
Qforce themselves on on me but most of the time most men are not going to tell a Woman No don't touch me like women y'all op to go months weeks years
03:43:49
Qwithout sex if a man has the opportunity to go months weeks or years without sex when he can have it anytime he wants he's going to have it anytime he wants that's the that's also a difference like I said we're sexually dimorphic it's
03:44:01
Lynnexhibited in our behaviors fol the one thing I will add though is I have turned down men who like I was sexually like attracted to straight to the m I have turned down men that I was like sexually attracted to it's just a matter of
03:44:13
Lynnlike I'm not going to do it just to do it like I'm not going to like I'm not going to if I see someone who I'm like oh like you're really hot like I would have sex with you that's not enough for me like I can like a 10 could walk in the room right now and if he was like oh
03:44:26
Sophialet's hook up right now I would still say no because for me it's like more than just the ACT yep that's it for you guys who just take no accountabil no responsibility what do you mean you just uh you have sex because that's just the way the men are like you're not going to
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Sophiatake any like accountability for like saying no because you know like we discussed like women also look for men like women with low body counts or virgins also look for men with low body counts or virgins but you're just like oh We're Men We it's just the way we are so you're going to take no
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Qaccountability well it's it's the reality of the situation it's not about avoiding accountability it's about realistic expectations can you not have self-control it's about realistic expectations you can in theory but will you find a man who actually demonstrates
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Qthat to the degree that you're talking about highly unlikely that's just the reality of hard to just according to according to you it's not hard for a woman to but once again you're not a man for men to you're not a man so you can't
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Sophiasay that and you won't find men who agree with you in that regard I mean again it just goes back to it depends um what Circle you're a part of where you're meeting no it depends on it's
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Qbiology no part of it is biology but you can absolutely uh exercise selfcontrol are you talking about Dick discipline if that's what you want to call it basically that's what you're talking about and like I said in the you
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Qcan't just like use that as an excuse and be like oh excuse that's not an excuse that's called explanation it's an explanation it is true that men have uh biology different
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Qyeah so what what what I'm saying what I'm saying is what I'm saying is you're operating on should bees what you think why can't this happen why can't this be well it just sounded like you were like
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Brian Atlasusing that as an excuse like oh like way we are that's how you interpret I'm explaining human behavior wrong yeah I'm explaining human behavior word we got a chat here we have hold on thally thank
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Brian Atlasyou man thank you so much for your uh uh donation streaming as usual do you plan to have Virgin Mary yeah she's actually coming this month I think she's going to do a double up she's going to be on two
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Brian Atlasshows I forget the dates but she will be here uh this month so yeah looking uh very much looking forward to having Mary back she's great every time we have son
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Brian Atlasof hacks um since you'd like to read why don't you read this one oh I I like to read out loud go okay sure into the mic go ahead wait no read it out loud why so
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SophiaI so I don't have to read it like to read you just read it oh gosh I'll read it would any woman on the panel be a homestead honey live in a food forest with livestock drinking fresh morning smoothies living self-sufficient with a permac culture design consultant
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Amytraveling around the world turning farms in Paradise yeah I would I would that's an ints Paradise right there that sounds amazing like my dream that and kids and as long
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Sophiaas I can have cows that I don't eat like I just want to P cow are you vegan no I no I like I mean like I want a pet cow like I don't yeah like I like I just want one that I can like keep cows are too I want the same thing and I want
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Brian Atlaslike a cow like just for milk and I want one of the ones with the long hair not eat word we have a question here Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 we're going to go around the table starting with you go ahead
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Emily10 I'd give myself like a seven nine eight 8.5 when I work out
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Lynnconsistently Emily I'd say like yeah eight I don't know six and a half seven
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Brian Atlassix uh I'd say six Q uh 6.5 you're you're more than that but uh