She Dated 50 Men In 50 Days?! | Dating Talk #105

Date: 2023-10-02

Duration: 5h 27m

Guests

Brian Atlas

CClaire (DT105)>

AAlexa (DT105)>

EEmily (DT105)>

SSophia (DT105)>

QQ Jquan (DT139)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Chat(audience)

SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_02Amy(guest)

SPEAKER_03Claire(guest)

SPEAKER_04Sam(guest)

SPEAKER_05Zoe(guest)

SPEAKER_07Q(guest)

SPEAKER_08Alexa(guest)

SPEAKER_10Sophia(guest)

SPEAKER_12Emily(guest)

SPEAKER_13Lynn(guest)

Key Moments

ControversyQ delivers extended explanation of biological basis for body count double standard using oxytocin, vasopressin, paternity uncertainty, orgasm gap, and sexual disgust research.

“paternity uncertainty... oxytocin and vasopressin... women experience a lot more sexual regret... the orgasm gap... sexual disgust”

OtherEmily reveals ex-boyfriend (cheater) has been mailing her $3k cash and $2k in weed post-breakup for ~a year with no solicitation.

“he's probably watching... he sends me money sometimes and weed... total maybe three grand... probably 2000 in weed”

QuoteBrian pitches scheduling automated 'good morning' texts via iPhone accessibility feature as a hack for forgetful/autistic texters.

“there's a thing in the accessibility section of your iPhone where you can automatically send out a text message every single day at a specific time”

OtherSam reveals during the show she snapped the guy she had sex with 4 days prior and he texted back that he was watching the show.

“I kind of called him in the bathroom... he was like I lowkey wish you mentioned my name”

OtherSophia discloses she has sent 30+ unanswered texts to a man who has gone silent after she moved to California.

“like a lot... how many give me a number... it was never an issue in the past... yes but it wouldn't be all at once”

OtherSam discloses she had ~30 men in her rotation during summer after high school breakup (age 16-17), and received ~$1k from sugar daddy offers on Tinder before getting banned.

“maybe a grand... my rent for my parents... I got banned from Tinder but I got the money”

OtherSophia shares she has had multiple car breakdowns in California and is helped each time because she is a young female, citing female privilege.

“I am more vulnerable so when I'm stuck on the side of the road... I have been very fortunate that everyone who stopped was very nice”

QuoteEmily argues the biggest struggle facing women is men claiming to be women: 'you can be a cow, do whatever you want, but you're not going to be a woman.'

“I think it's actually commendable... the biggest struggle women face is you can just put on some tits and makeup and be one of us”

OtherSophia discloses she has endometriosis, was denied minimally invasive surgery in the US, and had to go abroad for treatment.

“I have endometriosis which is a women's issue... they wouldn't give it to me in the United States I had to go out of the country”

Topics Discussed

Guest introductions and relationship statuses

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation). Each guest describes their current relationship status, longest relationship, and dating history. Covers Zoe's roster, Sam's bipolar diagnosis breakup and hot girl summer, Claire's situationship and virgin status, Sophia's multi-year ambiguous friendship with a divorced man, Amy's 5-year relationship ended by cheating, Lynn's dating app experience.

Texting habits and communication in relationships

Brian admits he does not text daily even in relationships; describes himself as autistic re: utility of texts. Debate on whether consistency in texting signals interest. Brian suggests scheduling automated 'good morning' texts via iPhone accessibility. Discussion of letting someone miss you vs. constant contact.

Body count, pair bonding, and double standards

Discussion of male vs. female body count preferences. Q explains oxytocin/vasopressin science, paternity uncertainty, orgasm gap, and sexual disgust as biological explanations for gender differences. Debate on whether the double standard is actually a 'different standard.' Emily's story about ex-boyfriend who cheated then mailed cash and weed post-breakup. Sam's sugar daddy experiences on Tinder.

Brian's ideal woman list

Brian reads from written notes his preferences: any race (slight preference Asian/white women), petite, no plastic surgery, minimal makeup, large labia preference, introverted/quiet personality, no heavy drinking, low body count (under 10), no cluster-B personality disorders (BPD, NPD, HPD, APD). Spirited debate from panel on whether these preferences are reasonable or a double standard.

Mental illness, therapy, and relationship compatibility

Sam discloses bipolar type 1; ex left her because of it. Debate on whether mental illness is a reasonable dating disqualifier. Brian says he prefers no major mental disorders but acknowledges exceptions. Q argues personality disorders recur in relationships and therapy is insufficient. Claire discusses panic attacks and benefit of therapy for communication. Brian shares his own anxiety/panic attack history and preference for solution-focused approaches over talk therapy.

Herpes, STD risk, and dating disclosure

Recurring donor 'Jay Butler' asks whether panel would sleep with / date someone with genital herpes. Panel goes around: most say deal-breaker or heavily conditional. Discussion of legal liability for non-disclosure. Sophia says only her future husband matters; Claire says strongly committed relationship might be exception. Brian says 100% deal-breaker. Q defers briefly.

Female privilege, male gaze, and body standards

Zoe cites Barbie movie monologue about impossible beauty standards for women. Brian and Q argue men face more uncontrollable physical criteria (height, penis size, balding). Discussion of 'male gaze' vs female gaze. Panel surveys percentage of men they find physically attractive (responses range from 2% to 60%). Emily argues biggest struggle facing women is biological males claiming female identity. Discussion of wage gap being debunked vs. earnings gap nuance. Sophia discusses endometriosis surgery being denied in US while gender-affirming surgery is accessible.

Transgender identity and dating preferences

Panel discusses definition of 'woman.' Most panel members define as adult human female / XX chromosomes. Claire distinguishes trend-based vs. genuine gender dysphoria. Debate on whether a man declining to date a trans woman who has had bottom surgery is prejudice or preference. Brian explains genitalia preference; eventually panel largely agrees preference is valid.

Abortion, Christianity, and foster care

Sophia (pro-life, Christian) and Claire (pro-choice, Christian) debate abortion. Sam distinguishes irresponsible casual sex abortions vs. difficult-circumstance abortions. Amy suggests funding should go to foster care instead of Planned Parenthood. Claire discloses personal experience in the foster care system.

Gun ownership and closing segment

Donation question: would any girls date a man who legally owns a firearm. Sam says she would not feel comfortable with a gun in the house given her mental health. Most others are neutral or conditionally OK. Show wraps with quick body count round-robin: Zoe=0, Sam=no comment (over 10 implied), Claire=0, Emily=one hand/1, Sophia=1, Amy=3, Lynn=not stated, Brian pleads the fifth.

Transcript

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Alexacollege at like a very young age so I was like I legally can't date anyone for a while um and then once I was everyone kind of called me prud so I was like screw it I'm going to see what's out there and I was like I'm go big or go

Alexahome so I was like I'm going to go on 50 dates with 50 50 days with 50 different guys and so my longest relationship was date 14 on the first attempt and then we were together for almost 4 years and

Alexathen he we broke up very viciously and then uh I was like might as well finish it so I was like I'll go on I'll try and keep going and then my next relationship

Alexawas date number nine and then that ended he got Deport he's the one from Norway he got deported funny enough he did he overstay his Visa his no yeah exactly he yeah he he had to go

Brian Atlasoh man uh and then last relationship was a friend that so turned into this whole

Brian Atlasuh okay 50 dates 50 days 50 different guys so the first one 14 dates in now so

Brian Atlaswhat you're saying is prior to finding the your relationship from date 14 you went on 14 dates with 14 different guy 14 different guys within

Brian Atlasthat two we period before meeting him yeah so you went on a date with a new guy every single day without Miss without Miss I one day I even went on two dates in one day okay um and then

Alexajust a question though so date 14 did you know like so you had the first date did you like you knew right away yeah after after our date I I got in my car and I

Alexawas like I could marry this guy and then I said that's a weird thought and then I was like I really like this one and then did you cut it off with yeah I had two more weeks lined up and I cut all the

Brian Atlasguys off so oh you had two more dates lined up no I I had two weeks oh you had two weeks upcoming you pre-booked I pre-booked two weeks and you cut them

Brian Atlasall off cut them what about the previous 14 guys I ghosted them you ghosted them yeah I really liked this one okay and then you did that then you broke up with that guy and then you did this again but

Brian Atlasyou only got to date nine yep so then you had nine dates in a row yep and then again your most recent relationship I guess 12 dates in a row I went on 12

Alexadates and dating in the bay is very different than down here and I I I told myself I wasn't allowed to date for 6 months and I kind of like put cuz I've I'm a Serial monogamous I've been in relationships for I think the past nine

Brian Atlasyears altogether except for those little stints sure um and I highly recommend women do it cuz you you recommend women do what you did yes so reason being is cuz I feel

Alexalike I feel like a lot of women are picky and they don't give a lot of guys a chance so if you have to book it out you have to actually give people a chance and I think that would be good for women so are you really giving men a

Alexachance though if you're dating 14 of them in a twoe period it's you're giving guys a chance that you never would have talked to and then if you find like the guy I ended up in a relationship with is someone I never thought I would ever

Alexaactually date like he was not someone who like in the profile I thought he was cool but I didn't actually you weren went on a date huh you weren't physically attracted to him uh he no he

Alexawas very attractive guy he's just not my typical type what if he attractive that that right there I mean all the guys were attractive it was I mean in their own ways but I mean you can go on dates

Alexawith guys he was he was a little he he was very I don't really go for blondes and he was a blonde so well okay so so

Brian Atlasyou the first time you tried this you were able to secure 14 dates with 14 different guys in a 14-day period yep and it sounded like one of the days did

Brian Atlastwo dates one day you did have you ever done three dates in one day no that's have have you done was it just one time you did two dates in one day or have you done that a couple times uh I've only done it once okay gotcha well I mean the

Qfirst thing I would say to that is women have dating on easy mode I agree women absolutely have dating on easy mode even I can never get 50 dates in a week

Brian Atlasbro rescheduled for like an a like an average guy is what lucky to get one date in a month or something

Brian Atlastwo yeah two two in a month yeah women have dating on easy mode that's I mean look I I know it's it's not a shock to me but it's like yeah you got that on easy mode um but I would like to say

AlexaI also the dates weren't like I was getting free meals every time I have a question do you have a brother don't you don't have any siblings uh I have I mean I have half in Step half in Step my

Brian AtlasDad's on his third marriage so good times so you you have a half brother no half sisters oh half okay okay never

Brian Atlasum let's see um you said in your messages to us I hear stories of women getting the red carpet brought for them on the first date I feel like I'm lucky if a guy will

Brian Atlaspay for a meal for me in the bay don't get me wrong I've had some amazing dates but men in the bay have no clue how to date I agree so you you want a guy to pay for the first date is that I would

Alexalike that you want them to and it also doesn't have to be dinner like I'm totally down for coffee or like ice cream but you want them to pay in that I would love the offer I had a guy one time on a date for for a coffee date

Alexawalk up in line it was Starbucks he goes oh I forgot my wallet walked back to the door I paid for I have no problem paying for my own meal that's perfectly fine or my own coffee I paid he walked right

Brian Atlasback to me and goes I do this so I don't have to pay for girls stuff okay so e hold on so so the 14

Brian Atlasday hold on I'm trying to I lost my train of thought um 14

Brian Atlasdates I remember I remember would you tell the guys that you were doing this no but I mean everyone's everyone's casually dating so it's yeah but most guys are don't most guys are not and

Brian Atlasfrankly most men don't have the capability to go on a date every single day of the week it's it's it's a lot of work I'd say even like really attractive guys I'd say guys even more attractive

Brian Atlaslike than your looks equivalent it's like it's not going to be that easy to schedule a day a date every single day of the week CU guys guys like if you make yourself available to them I'm free

Alexathis day they're going to take that opportunity whereas women are typically not as flexible with uh yeah I mean but like I said I I also did it because it made me it it forced me to give multiple like different types of people a chance

Brian Atlasthat may be to pick different races different ethnicity all that and so different agent sure but what you did and I get Flack for this um what you did is actually one of my Arguments for I

Brian Atlasthink for why I think men should not pay for First Dates because we don't I don't want to feel like a sucker I'm going on a date with you and you just went on 10 dates in the past 10 days with 10 different men oh you have a you said you

Brian Atlaswent on a two dates in the night so I'm going to go on a date with you and then afterwards you have a date with another guy I'm going to feel a certain type of way about that so like this expectation this expectation of traditional treatment when you have so many options

Brian Atlasand you're dating so many people it's like I'm not going to pay for you well and I'm not going to be traditional when like it's I get that we're not we wouldn't be exclusive but if I found out

Alexaif I went on a first date with a chick and she saw a guy after me you're not yo you're not getting any traditional treatment I said you can go on the date and you I actually am all

Brian Atlasfor like going out and doing things that don't cost little to no money going to if I knew like if I knew this going into the date somehow I became privy to the fact that you were dating multiple

Brian Atlasdudes even if there was no expectation that I was going to pay I would just cancel on you I wouldn't go on a date with you if I found out this chick was dating this many dudes goodbye they can

Sophiahave you but if it's just a date then why like if you're not like sleeping around it doesn't matter it's just like you're just getting to know people I feel I feel like it's different if you're actually like building something

Brian Atlaswith this person and like I like a girl I like a girl that's properly single and that's not talking to 50 other dudes I concur she only not only hold on not

Brian Atlasonly had she been on 14 dates prior probably still texting with them she had a date planned out for the next 14 days so let's say I I we I had a genuine interest in her I wanted to set up a

Brian Atlassecond date oh you're you're booked up for two weeks out of here I'm not gonna I'm not dealing with that I'm gon find a girl that's properly single and then I'm G talk to her but it's also like you're meeting these people on a

Sophiadating app and you're just meeting with like if it's your first meeting like you you didn't oh she's free to do it it was your first time like you're just getting to know them like when I go like on date like when I was on a dating app and I

Brian Atlaswould go on like dates like it wasn't even like really a date it was just like hey I'm meeting you in person that look I'm you're you're free to move in that way but what I'm saying

Sophiais what you're saying but like if it's just a date like you're just getting coffee or lunch or something then I don't then I I I kind of understand like why you say like you wouldn't want to pay like okay fair I think I I don't

Sophiaeven want to go on the D exactly but that's the part that I don't cuz like not paying like okay I get it I it would set you apart though and then she might want to go on another dat with you but from the the 30 other men she going on the DAT all the guys have like the same

Brian Atlasmindset and they don't pay like she was saying like this guy like when out to his car to grab his wallet so that he wouldn't have to pay what happened to the days of like liking the person and you they both you both like each other

Alexahard they have to even for women but this no here's the thing it's really hard to find someone that you actually like and if you are a woman who's career oriented or you focus on school I would love to know how you're supposed to meet someone if they're not in your immediate proximity and I'm not dating someone

Alexathat I work with person think it's personal reference though yeah I wouldn't want to be with the guy who's like going on dates personally but but here's the thing you could also go on a date with a guy who's sleeping with three different women why would you be more okay with that and not have him

Alexaactually going to go meet someone and genuinely find someone as soon as I found someone that I was like this guy's great I I have no desire to even talk to these other men and out of respect I wasn't exclusive with him we I mean it's one date but at the same time it was

Alexasomething where if I saw that there was actual potential I cut it all off and I have no problems doing that too if I was that guy who really liked you and I knew that you had he felt flattered he honestly when when we actually were in a

Alexarelationship I said as soon as I met you I cut it off with every other guy I I think it's out of respect and it makes a man feel more special if you know she had options and she chose you and you chose her even after the first date you knew there was potential that there's

Alexadifference of that if you're going out on a date with someone and it's you're hooking up or you're doing whatever you want to do that's perfectly fine but that's your choice but if you're just going to go get to know people I mean if someone's actually looking for a relationship and they want to meet

Alexasomeone like by all means why why should you waste your time going on I I think it's mean when a girl leads a guy on for so long you go on seven dates and the GU paid for everything I think that's messed up and the girl knows it's not going anywhere or the guy's just trying

Alexato hook up with the girl like yeah I don't I don't think it's bad if you actually say hey I'm I'm looking for something and if you if you're giving people a shot and I think that's a big thing is like our date ended up being like 6 hours long and it was just cuz we wanted to talk and we got to know each

Brian Atlasother and we really found each other intriguing and and you know he's very articulate look so just to bring it back to what I was talking about so originally what I was saying is in that situation I would not want to pay for the first date I wouldn't even want to

Brian Atlasgo out I wouldn't even bother going out with a girl who's doing that I mean you're kind of gamifying um courtship and dating I get it

Brian Atlasbut and and you might say well you're single you don't owe it to a guy to only be talking to him personally I think it's pretty it's actually very easy to

Sophiadate just one person of the time but um oh I only dat I like I said I cut it off but you going on first dates and dating around like if you're going on multiple dates with multiple people there's a

Brian Atlasdifference than going on first dat you went on a date and then that was it and you knew and then you knew whether you want to go on another date or not right did you kiss any of those guys on the first date uh a few of them yeah exactly

AlexaI mean but I in my defense one of them it wasn't it wasn't by choice on some of them one guy like picked me up and put me upside down and K me it was very awkward okay all right I'll just say

Brian Atlaslike look you don't owe it to guy to only be talking to him and we as men we don't owe it to you to adhere to outdated unfair gender roles like paying for the first date you can get your own

Brian Atlasride you can open your own door you can pay for your own meal and if you're going to be entertaining dozens of other men while you're talking to us then out the window goes traditional gender roles

Alexaso so can I ask on this part when when you're saying talking to someone I mean I'm a I don't really I mean if you're on a dating app I think it's it's nicer to talk meet people as soon as you you can in person like yeah you can have cordial conversation there's some people who

Alexawill spend weeks talking to someone and then they meet them and feel like theyy there's no real chemistry or you know they're really good at texting but you know in person they're not that very articulate or they're not that comfortable like you're you're able to portray a

Alexadifferent mask of who you are I guess you can say through text I I meet people we match they say Hey you know are you free this day they say yeah like it and that's as quick as it is so it's not like they've invested weeks of conversation or that I think that's I

Alexathink that's messed up but if you said hey I think I think you're attractive you think I'm attractive I think we have a really good banter I thought your profile is cool do you want to meet next Thursday I feel like most guys would actually prefer a girl who does that versus investing all this time texting

Alexaand you then you find out she's dating other people or you meet her in person and she's like time hey you know I'm not really feeling it and you're like damn it I you know I've been talking this car for like two weeks you can meet up relatively quickly and still not be

Brian Atlasdating like 20 other men at the same time is is your issue that she had like the two weeks like prescheduled or that she was going on the whole thing just is the whole thing just makes me uncomfortable the whole thing is

ClaireUNC why is it because you can only get two dates a month is that one is it because you're jealous that women have it on easy mode I think it's it has nothing to do with it has nothing to do with jealousy that's just not a a woman that I want to associate with that's

Emilypersonal reference too everybody has different references right and if everyone has different opinions like you can totally respect someone's preference to not want to date somebody who's dating around with multiple people like dating around with multiple people is

Emilyreally simple it just means you're going out with multiple people and mult a lot of men like Brian don't want a girl that goes on multiple dates but some guys don't care I'm just trying to like understand like if she's just meeting

Sophiawith people like she's not like hoing around so to speak like she's not sleeping around whatever she's just meeting people talking to them like I don't she's not even like emotionally invested at that point she's just

Brian Atlasgetting to know them I'm just trying to like understand I don't know let me try to put it this way let's say because cuz I'm not for me I don't really have an interest in one night stands or just a girl once and maybe stringing

Brian Atlasher along a bit I'm dating like if if I'm pursuing a girl let's say we do hook up I want there to be continuity I want to continue seeing her I want it to maybe at leads to a long-term

Brian Atlasrelationship so my issue would be if this is going to be my future girlfriend if this is going to be my future wife if this is going to be my future mother of my children I'm going to feel a very

Brian Atlasstrong type of way if I found out that the first time I met her the first date I had with her she oh getting passionate there she was on a she after

Sophiaher date with me she went on a date with another guy that to me is just kind of scummy I don't know what to say wait wait but I think that's different when you went on a date with somebody that you actually liked then

Alexayou wouldn't go on another date with a different guy right no when I saw potential I cut off all future dates because I out of respect to him I don't want to keep doing that no right but but okay so it was just before like if if it this was like your future wife and you

Sophiawere like married or what or your the mother of your children and you found out that she was um she had like 14 days of dating you were the 14th guy but after you she didn't see anyone what does it matter like if she like I

Sophiaunderstand like body count but this is different like it's not a body count it's just she's meeting she okay so she gave an example of where in one day she went on a date with two different

Sophiamen that's like to me it's like what's going on here but if if you were interested in I'm trying to I'm trying to find a long-term relationship wait so if you were if you went on so one day

Sophiayou went on a date with two guys on the same day if the first one you felt some kind of way for would you have broken off the second one the same day

Brian Atlasyes okay let's say for example well first off I would say that while she might have broken it off with all those other guys she may have very well there might have been some other

Alexacontenders were there some other contenders or all 13 of those guys were just no goes there was like one or two that like I was like okay I could see going on a second date maybe that kind

Brian Atlaslet's say you let's say you didn't meet the guy who you're like whoa this is the one okay I'm cutting everybody else off but there were a couple that you wanted to continue seeing maybe second date right okay so you go on a second date

Brian Atlaswith them and then eventually it maybe leads to something more longterm with those guys I mean the whole time I'm seeing you I'm going on dates with you whatever you're talking to other guys who knows what else you're doing you're

Brian Atlassaying you're not doing anything else with them I'm not no maybe you move that way but a lot of people don't move that way so I just would feel I'd feel a certain type of way about that I would I

Alexawould and I respect that but it's also one of those things like would you argue that if men had the option to do that they would do that cuz I think most of the men that I know and I I primarily work with men

Alexawould love they like I I I see it from yeah they would love to go on 14 different dat men men don't have the capability of doing that but the argument could be that if a woman has to be more open she's going to give other

Alexaguys a shot and she could potentially meet someone so if if girl I agree I I see girls in I admittedly in the same way of like if you're on a dating app you swipe and it kind of gives you like a a fun left right left right kind of

Alexathing of your what you're doing and you put everyone to basically a picture and a profile that's all it is if women said okay I'm going to go on let's let's make it more tame let's say five dates this month whether or not I

Alexahave actually liked someone I have to give more men a shot and I think that actually works in men's favor because if a woman is going to say okay I have to go on like I said I typically the most of a lot of the guys that message

Alexaobviously they would have to be respectful in their comments orated $100 what do you all think about Donald Trump is he a misogynist would you vote

Brian Atlasfor him uh okay thank you riping lips um we can only do one question per TTS so um would

Zoeyou vote for Donald Trump we'll do that one never um oh that's it okay no no

Lynnhell yeah yes yes I don't really uh get into politics huh I don't really get into

Lynnpolitics just because I think it's a a lot of time and so I just don't vote in general okay there you have it thank you

Brian Atlasripping lips um okay I'm trying to think look ultimately just look I'm probably most guys don't mind right most guys okay whatever but but what can I say if

Alexaif more women gave other guys a shot that wasn't their typical type or whatever you know ridicul doing them a favor that's even worse oh she's giving me a favor a favor I'm just saying it's not even a favor it's saying women can't

Alexabe as p which I think is a good thing cuz you actually cuz like I said nothing about my ex I thought he was a great guy and he was one of those things but if I just saw his profile he had a like it was fine it wasn't anything it really stood out physically he wasn't my

Alexainitial attractive type but once I met him and I got to know him I'm a saposexual so as soon as I get to know someone if we can have a really good conversation I found myself very attracted to him so you're more so you more so mean dismissive cuz you was still picky I mean at the end of the day

Qit ended up being two out of 50 yeah dismiss yeah so so dismissive so a lot of women when they see profiles they dismiss men on all kinds of parameters and then but you could also argue that

Alexamen I mean depending on the guy a lot of guys are still picky even if they say aren't the CR to La crem so I mean but your motivation was simply to be more open yeah to the idea yeah open to it

Alexacuz it challenged me to actually say okay everyone has like what they're naturally attracted to can I can I venture out of that and he was someone that was outside of

Sophiathat she just being open Brian she's would you guys rather have somebody who's dismissive I don't well I wouldn't know I would be dismissed I mean that's a

Sophiagood point but like but like in general like would you rather have women be more dismissive or or dating more guys it's it's a bias because if she's dating me then yeah I would want her to be

Sophiadismissive but if I'm if I'm the one if I if I want to be seen by her then I would want her to give me a chance yeah but so if how do I say this like would you rather the scenario where a girl looks at your

Sophiaprofile and she's dismissed she's like oh no or she gives you a chance and then you know maybe you guys really hit it off and uh and like she said that guy that you were actually interested in like you never thought that you'd be interested in him so you know maybe it's

Qthe same way maybe she's uh she's like really into you and she just never would have thought based on your profile well I mean again that's a bias because if it's me we talking about me then yeah I'm pretty sure I can charm any woman

Qbut if it's somebody else I might be more self-a aware to know that I'm This Woman's not going to like me like there are a lot of guys who understanding just how selective women are women are

Qextremely selective y'all all know y'all are extremely selective so women dismiss men women have a million turn offs so once one of those the offender donated

TTS/Chat$99 the reason most men don't like when a woman has multiple dates lined up is that if Brian for example is the 14th dude in line he would have to wait for the date and it's not a guarantee that

TTS/Chatthe woman likes him dot it's a waste of time and money for men so you'd rather have a dismissive I'd rather just like if a girl told me by the way Brian I just had

Brian Atlasfive dates this week I've got F I've I've actually I was on a date with a girl who is totally unremarkable um not like and she told me oh she just downloaded hinge she'd already been on three dates she had two

Brian Atlasdates planned for the weekend and I just lost all interest I mean I appreciate her telling me but I'm like they can have you that that's my thought process look I get it we're not they don't have you like it's just a date right but if

Brian Atlasyou're talking to that other dude's like for me like I I just don't want to deal with that it's the principle like I don't want to okay so so what's the principle your

Brian Atlasattention is divided you're you're not like if you were it I know look I know you said you're not sleeping with all these guys but it's kind of like the same Principle as when it comes to body count if you're

Brian Atlasfive other dudes and you're trying to sleep with me it's like no I don't even want to have sex with you I don't want anything from you and I respect that I think that's perfect but it's it's almost the same thing you're with the with body count your sexual

Brian Atlasattention is divided with going on this many dates your romantic attention is divided I don't I don't just want your sexual attention I want your romantic attention I want your emotional attention and if you're talking to 14

Brian Atlasother guys to me to some degree it's um for example I would think if I went on a date with a girl and she found out that I went on a date with two other girls that night I would see how she might

Alexafeel a little like a little off by that she might feel a little she disrespected like yeah another question though don't you think that a lot of women would actually to be honest be kind of attracted to that because you're a guy

Brian Atlaswho's the man fa well that's a fair point there is a differential there between men and women because I think uh women typically are uh how do I articulate this Q you got you got something for this I I have

Brian Atlasa thought on this but I feel like you might I I I don't I'm trying to understand what you saying so if you could describe well she she's saying that she's saying well for me for example it would be kind of it would certainly be a turnoff if a girl was

Brian Atlassleeping with other men or dating other men but a woman some women might view a guy who's getting with other women as more desirable because women pre-election yeah because it signals to

Qother women that this guy has things that women desire and if you don't feel special at the end of the day if you and I were to go on if you and I were to go on a date and I went on two three dates prior and you felt some type of way I

Qcould easily talk my way out of that I could easily explain to you you're different I see you different I'm a guy I have less options I have less opportunities so I have to take advantage of my opportunities you're more selective you can afford to dismiss

Qguys you can afford to tell gu I don't really you know you can afford to do that me you can understand he's just being guy and at the end of the day women are still wired to know men are just being men so you know we can

Qcompartmentalize you know you know we can compartmentalize sex and emotion you know we can compartmentalize you know liking a woman but not wanting to be with her so all of these things still leave the door open for you to

Qunderstand that you have a shot whereas with guys what Brian is saying is he's much more serious about the way he approaches dating so because he's much more serious about the way he approaches dating when he sees a woman that does things like go on multiple dates he

Qdon't know if he can take her ser seriously because that by default is showing that her her uh strategy for dating is basically bullshitting that's what he's saying

Sophiayes that's awesome pretty much pretty much what uh ran that's that's a good point but that's why I feel like you don't tell somebody on a first date that you're that you've just gone on 13 other dates

Sophiawith guys until you're in a serious relationship and then maybe if it comes up you're like oh by the way that's break that's a break up goodbye I feel like that if you've been dating for like 2

Sophiayears I mean if it was pre before you or if they ask you anyway um but no I I see your point now um I mean if I knew that a guy if I was like his third date that day it would be it would be a turnoff

Sophiabut if we had been dating for like two years whatever we're serious and he goes oh by the way I was on this dating app I was seeing a bunch of girls but I picked you I would feel like flattered I'd be like like right like well also one thing that I'd like to clarify one I feel

Alexaspecial yeah sorry to cut you off one thing I do would like to clarify is I I get as far as the Romantic attention I agree with that but if you're if you're just matching with someone and you set a date right then and there you have not romantically invested anything in me I

Alexahaven't romantically invested anything in you when we meet in person it's going to be the first time we actually both invest time and I think that that's a fair piece I think it's I think it's personally I think it's the whole texting back and forth seeing what they're going to say waiting the 3 hours or whatever cuz I see some people

Alexathey're like I don't want to seem too available or too needy it it takes a lot of time if hey we matched I think you're cute I like something about your profile I verbalize that are you free tomorrow

Sophiaat 4 for coffee the last that's that's a fair investment you neither of you have done it the last thing I want to add to that is um that it's really hard to get to know someone on a dating app unless you see them in person so speak of I'm

Brian Atlasnot opposed to meeting in person I'm not my argument is so what if if a girl was meeting it's the it's the frequency with which you are meeting what if it wasn't a date what if what if you didn't call

Brian Atlasit a date no I don't think you're I think you're failing to I don't have an issue like I I don't object it's not like you have to I actually agree that you should not

Brian Atlasspend weeks on end being a penp pal with someone I think you should meet up fairly quickly what I object to is how many dates you were going on first off I don't know how you have the time to do that I don't sleep Sor do it all

Alexathroughout the day like were you unemployed no I would do it on my lunch breaks on my lunch breaks I yeah it like it could be a 15minute date it doesn't have to be 3 hours some days it was like

AlexaI mean you both got to eat right like why 50 I don't know I just came up with a number I'm an extremist so I was like might as well well cuz here's the thing too if you actually have to I I'm sure

Brian Atlasit came from the movie to be honest the 50 like I think wait that he went on he kept having the same date with the same woman no I haven't seen the movie I just

Brian Atlasheard the number had like Amnesia she I'm pretty sure Adam Sandler right she had Amnesia she had short-term memory loss she had some Amnesia or some

Brian Atlasso he went on 50 dates with the same chick every s like hello I haven't seen the movie so I don't know I think that's where the inspiration came from I think

Sophiathat's where it came from that's like the hoe version of that movie okay I see your point I see your point I'm just saying like um it's very easy to be dismissive something on someone's profile and think like oh I'm

Sophianot going to waste my time with them versus if you meet in person then you know you you can't really get to know someone online just based on their profile so if you give them a CH arguing aru like what are we supposed to do like be like super picky or

Sophiadismissive or whatever like if you get matched with like I don't know 100 guys in a day then and you're you're sitting there like super dis like no not this one not this one then like no one gets

Sophiaany chance I would say be even more selective then only go on the dates personally like I I'm very likey on dating no I'm very picky on dating app dates in like I I understand what she's

Sophialike no I'm I'm very picky I understand what she's saying and I think like oh that's good like you're being open like me I'm super picky so if I see like one thing in your profile that's off to me like it doesn't even have to be like a red flag I'm just like eh I don't like

Sophiathat exactly because I don't want personally I don't want to waste my time if I don't think that it's going to lead anywhere but like she was saying like you never know because you might meet somebody and you might think like oh I never thought it I mean that was me with my like I like he was not my type at all

Brian AtlasI never thought I would have like dated someone like that and ultimately I'm just saying for me personally maybe there's a bunch of men out there they wouldn't mind if they were date number 22 in your game that

Brian Atlasyou're playing but I would not appreciate my uh someone I'm I'm going on a date with having look you don't owe me anything right if you want to go on

Brian Atlasthree dates yesterday and the day before and sleep with with a bunch of men that's fine that's your call I'm not and I I know you weren't doing that but I'm also free to have a St a standard of preference in the boundary of not

Brian Atlaswanting to date a woman who is moving and operating in that way some men might might not care some men might even be like oo competition okay I want to be the winner cool that's fine me personally I'm just going to opt out I

Brian Atlasdon't want to date I don't want to be involved with a woman who's gamifying like that and who's dating that many men yeah I mean he was essentially playing the black uh Bachelorette and s and honestly I

Brian Atlaswouldn't I was offered to be on The Bachelorette I would never which season I it was 2 years ago so I would never I would yeah that that Dynamic is just

Alexalike okay it's I don't I don't want that so here's the question cuz if if you haven't met these people let's say you're you're trying to find someone you're trying to date you're trying to find a long-term relationship yeah what

Brian Atlasis an acceptable amount to you cuz again if you go I don't think you're going to like my answer to this but you want to date one guy at a time like well I don't I don't think it's that hard to date one person at a time but I mean well my joke

Brian Atlasanswer would be my joke answer should be before she even became aware of my presence on this Earthly plane she has to have committed herself to me no okay I'm I'm being a watches the podcast

Brian Atlasshe's like one day but uh she has to have been celop it for for uh two two years before she even knew me basically that's no that's my that's my joke answer but um no I think be properly

Brian Atlassingle when you're dating what what does properly single mean don't be currently anybody and don't be she's not no she wasn't I wasn't doing any of that it's a first date no penis in and around the

Brian Atlasmouth either AG none of that I didn't do any of that that's cool also just don't be dating like 14 days 14 guys in like the past 14 days that's also so but is it acceptable if a girl goes on a date once a week I was going to say what if

Brian Atlaswhat if someone had a date with you what if she scheduled the dates on the day of Spectrum it is a spectrum okay so it's a spectrum

Brian Atlaslike one one date a week yeah I don't know it's still a little I'm raising an eyebrow there is it a total deal breaker maybe maybe not uh would it be

Brian Atlaspreferable if it was once a month it' be preferable would it be preferable if it was once a quarter q1 Q2 Q3 Q4 yeah you know I have a question so if

Brian Atlasthere's like is she a virgin preferable if there's a single girl why why you give me why you looking at me that way so you would want somebody who's a virgin yes yeah she does how old are you again

Brian Atlasthough well she doesn't have to be a virgin but that would be that would be Optimum would I prefer low body count yeah low body count virgin she doesn't have to a girl doesn't have to be a

Brian Atlasvirgin to answer your question I'm 34 okay I like so what do you expect at your age that most women are going to be virgins at your age or with low body counts no no I'd say women around my age

Samprobably are typically not virgins but typically in the50s range probably the 30s to 50s you you think that's the range it well yeah what's your range right

Samnow that's a very forward question for just meeting her it's not that forward I'd say I don't regret anyone I have slept with because I have always

Samfelt somewhat connected to them that's the first time I've heard that what's like even if it was a one night stand I still enjoyed who that

Sophiaperson was which is why I Haram well because that's how women are wired like for sex for women is very emotional mhm

QI mean depends if I'm like super drunk um accidents haveen so drunk accidents happen you don't regret the accident happening

Sambecause sexual not to live my life in regrets because if I do then it just makes me like overthink it and then I let me ask you a question so you thought people kind of within my age range their body Count's going to be about 50 it's

Brian Atlasgoing to be like that I mean come on you have to experience I mean some some of the some of these CH maybe lower that was a little bit drity they do that in their

Brian Atlasfreshman Court first freshman quarter of college like so what what people your age let's say between 18 and 20 what would you say is like for for a girl maybe you you know some girls what would

Samyou say is like the average body count for that age range especially with like college life I feel like at the beginning of college most people have around

Qlike six or seven I would say really most people that I know at least what if I told you that what if I told you the average girl loses her virginity at

Sam18 I mean that's just I'm talking about people that I know maybe not like five or six like you you know she belongs to the

Brian Atlasstreet not me personally but did you say on the low end six or seven and then what's what do you think is average 10 the stretch could be 10 I mean like come on

Samlike I feel like I know people who have like 25 yeah I there are some well come on we're in Santa Barbara not me come on now come on now I think she has a point

TTS/ChatI think it also depends on um what kind of circles you're around or what kind of circles you're a part of hold on M Davis donated $100 Yu you already know them Bachelorette wanted you on there for the

TTS/Chatdiversity and would have greeted you we three latest they wanted me on that Granny show F no also you talking all

Brian Atlassoft and B get some Alpha energy in the room check these POS you can go if you

Brian Atlaswant um but uh oh That's Mike Davis guys the the guy he he owns like 20 sorry U like excuse me 230 Burger Kings

Brian Atlasoh wow yeah he's he's killing it um okay all right well let's move on from that we still haven't gone all the way through I was going to say did we even finish the whole relationship short like half a sentence really quick really

Sophiaquick so I just think it depends on what kind of circles you're part of because um in Christian circles like it's not common for women to be in their um like what's it called their late 20s and and be a virgin looking for that one man

Samthat they're going to marry and that's preference you know like people just live differently but I'm not judgmental towards any of it cuz uh did you ask like like what is he expecting cuz he's

Sophialike 30 and does he expect to find a virgin I'm saying like they're out there they're definitely in like in Christian circles like it's quite common actually so like it's but the whole world isn't Christian no I know but I'm saying like if that's what you want then you can

Brian Atlasfind what you want because it it exists just depends but a lot question is are you Christian huh you're not a Christian are you I'm a man of God let's just say that what does that mean I'm a man of God what do you what's what does that

Brian Atlasmean don't worry about it I'm worrying about it you're worried yeah the Christian woman is I'm concerned no I I want to know what that means for like a man of God what that I'm a man I'm a man of God I'll keep it vague I'll keep it

Brian Atlasvague for now um I'm trying to think if we closed up on that here let's let's get everybody's relationship status we're already an hour and a half in and

Emilywe haven't even got that what about you go ahead Emily um I'm single I my first relationship was I actually messed up earlier I'm 19 not 18 I don't know why I said that I just had a birthday but

Emilybirth thank you um so my first relationship was right after I graduated high school we were talking like in our senior year a little bit and then we started dating for 6 months and then I

Emilymoved to St Louis and then I found out he cheated on me um probably like that was like the second time I'll be honest I already knew he did before but I forgave him and then this was in high

Emilyschool right this was after I graduated so this was in 2022 still so then yeah we ended that relationship December of

Emilylast year then I was single up until I think May um but I didn't date him exclusively we just dated for about

Emily3 months and then recently ended it so I'm you ended it when um we ended things in September I think September 7th or

Emilysomething like that oh so like a recently less than a month ago like yeah the guy that I was not exclusively with but we were dating what do you mean not exclusively with so we went on a date

Emilyprobably like twice a week and like we were spending like we'd spend like the whole day together about like twice a week and like we're talking every day but it wasn't like we never had a conversation like where I'm just seeing

Emilyyou and we're boyfriend and girlfriend and I tried to and which is why we ended things so oh you tried to and then yeah I wanted to make it exclusive iive um because I really liked him and he kind

Emilyof said like oh I don't want to tie you down like I really like what we have and I was like oh like I don't I like what we have but I want something more and I know I'm going to resent you if I keep seeing you so I cut it off and then you

Emilywould resent him yeah I knew that if I didn't cut him off after he just told me he didn't want a relationship I knew that I would resent him if I kept seeing him so I was like I can't see you anymore and then we stopped talking for like four days and then he he sent me

Emilylike a really long paragraph saying like I I want to be in a relationship with you and eventually I'm just need to take it slow right now because I have stuff to work on but like you're the one person that I want to be in one with if

Emilyyou want to take it slow and then we took it slow for about two weeks and then he changed his mind and was like yeah never mind he kept you strung along there for a little bit for like two weeks yeah he was like how how long were

Emilyyou dating him total um we started dating in the beginning of June so that's June July August September it would have been four months if we would

Brian Atlashave so okay you really liked him you started the conversation about exclusivity boyfriend girlfriend uh he said no basically basically was and then

Brian Atlasyou kind of broke up with him sort of cut things off it was in the same day but then you continued seeing him for a two we period so yeah what happened was the last day we saw each other um no it wasn't the last time we saw each other

Emilyso when I told him I wanted to be in a relationship with him he said that he didn't want to that it wasn't something he was looking for and that was in August and then um so I said all right I can't see you anymore went home that day

Emilydidn't talk to him for like a week and then he hits me up saying hey I really miss what we had I don't want to lose like a possibility of having something meaningful and I I want to be in a relationship eventually and I want to do that with you if you want to take it

Emilyslow and I was like yeah like totally for it then we saw each other went on like two more dates and then he just B it over text and was like hey we had

Brian Atlasthat last conversation but I just ch I'm not ready for a relationship so he was really vague and then have you spoken to him since the breakup no not all you said that was September 7th yeah we haven't spoken at all um and then you

Brian Atlassaid that you I don't know if this is this current boyfriend or the previous ex-boyfriend you said in your pre-show notes you've cut one of your boyfriends off but he still sends you money and sometimes

Emilyweed oh I included that yeah actually um he wouldn't be too mad if I like explained that he's probably watching wait is this the recent guy from high school no the one that cheated old

Brian Atlasexboyfriend okay old ex-boyfriend from how long ago did you break up with him I broke up with him um a year year and a half almost a year ago yeah year ago okay so almost a year you still talked to him though and he sends you money and

Emilyweed no we actually don't talk I talked to him for the first time I talked to him for the first time yesterday but before that it had been like probably 4 months and he would like hit me up on

Emilytelegram every once CE in a while it's like a a messenger app that yeah and I I wouldn't really open it but um yeah I would just get a package every couple

Emilymonths and it would be a letter and some weed and some cash sometimes so yeah um you're like shocked well I mean it's not wait but

Emilyyou said he sends you money sometimes in weed how much money would he send you um like you want like in total sure total

Brian Atlasit's not that much like three grand I mean that's not nothing so he just you broke up with him and he'd send you he in total three grand in total yeah he sent me some for my birthday and then

Brian Atlasbefore that he sent me money to buy a car how much in weed would he send you like a thousand in weed oh probably more than that more than that probably 2,000 in weed probably around probably around

Brian Atlastwo maybe a little over that 2,000 in weed okay yeah I would just sell it um oh I spoke it he's feeling so he cheated on you but he still sends you money and

Brian Atlasyou you guys broke up and he also sends you drugs okay um don't make it sound like that sound like that I that's literally what's happening it's it's a

Brian Atlasfederally legal drug now but um well it is a drug I yeah it is no it's actually not it's Fally illegal look but that's

Brian Atlasfine um so question you were dating this guy most recent guy for since June did the guy your ex-boyfriend send you money or

Emilyweed during the time period that you were talking to this new guy um yes but I never asked for any of it and I never sends it yeah I never

Emilyasked for any of it I never he just sends you here never asked for money no I've never asked for money I've never asked him to send me weed when I I cut him off of all contact a really long time ago and that's probably when the

Emilythe the packages started rolling in cuz he had my address and so there was no there was no like verbal contact like we weren't speaking but I would get a letter and that's how he would talk to me and then he would include like maybe

Brian Atlasa couple grams and that it started being more and then it this is wild would you write them back this is wait hold on this is wild like not only okay earlier

Brian AtlasI said dating on easy mode you have life on easy mode like you you have broken up with this man and he is sending you

Brian Atlasthousands of dollars and marijuana huh like what I women don't send me when I break up with

Emilythem to be fair I don't think wait to be fair I don't think ask she doesn't ask for it it's a pretty privilege to be fair I don't think like anybody's ever gone through like some of the stuff I went through in that relationship like

Emilyit was I think he feels really bad for a lot of what he did he's making it up to you he's trying to make it up a lot of it and it really I mean like he's a great person I feel like that takes a really selfless to do that so I mean is

Emilyhe trying to get he's trying to get back with you though right maybe I I I would never let money make me get back together with someone I've told him that like it doesn't matter how much money you send me it'll never make me want to

Brian Atlasbe with you but thank you you deserve way better girl like is there is there some component though of you are you stringing him on a little bit are you

Claireleading him on well she said she didn't write him back I never scoot your mic F that way so yeah I like turn it so this is facing you straight thank you that's a good

Emilyquestion because I actually felt really guilty about that for a long time after we broke up cuz we stayed in contact after we broke up for like maybe two or 3 months and that made me feel really guilty because yeah that does feel like

Emilyleading somebody on when you know someone's still in love with you and you're letting them still talk to you and like speak to you every day it just whether you're telling them you want to be with them even just talking to them gives them that hope so I cut it off

Emilybecause I was like yeah that's that's just up but he was still like send me letters and talk to me even after I cut everything off so it wasn't my choice is he was he around your age same age as yeah we're the same age

Brian Atlassending you thousand you're 19 he's sending you thousands of dollars and is this guy a drug deal or something what does he grow weed yeah he's a drug dealer he's a drug deer he hit

Samyou up on telegram that's how you know he's a plug no

Brian Atlasall I this okay I'm I am constantly surprised by this okay um well hey hey good for you making some money okay

Brian Atlasum you wanted to talk on let's see in your pre-show notes to us um man there's so many pre-show notes from all you what thank you guys um I'm not sure I'm going

Brian Atlasto cover everything but oops actually what we're going to go around the table get everybody's relationship status really quick really quick before though I'm going to do this chat vavina

Brian Atlashey thank you so much for the uh donation Brian do you just say you prefer under 5 feet to sound as crazy as the six foot preferences girls have I've watched over 70 of the shows qill wh

Brian Atlaswhoa whoa whoa whoa whoa first off cill is a top tier guest Vina cill is a gigachad well what the

Brian Atlasand and I will have you I will not tolerate dis you Vina you need to respect you need to apologize to Q yeah

Samwith the bottom tier whoa whoa that was oh my God wait wait you literally

Brian Atlassaid you prefer short girls though that's I do but like you're 5'2 right yeah how tall are you 5'1 sorry you guys are way too tall what the got giant over like guys you guys are

Brian Atlasway too tall for me I'm sorry I like short guys so it's not like yeah I would like you anyway no that's not I'm not trying to like that's not what I was getting out was kind of a joke but

Samum do I prefer yeah okay so he literally talked about this earlier too he likes if you're not like 4 foot 11 I I kind of joke a little bit about it because it's

Brian Atlaskind of the mirror image you don't often hear like men having super strong High preferences so I say like in the same way that women will reject men for not being over six feet I'll reject women for being over

Sam5T it's Revenge it's re Revenge preference what if a girl is like what if a girl is like my height but she doesn't care if you're tall or short would you doesn't matter

Brian Atlasyou still I like sorry collateral you're too tall in the same way like you know how a lot of women will be like oh he's too short yeah you're too tall sorry well I'm blessed to 52 cuz I personally

Brian Atlaslike short guys anyways like my ex was 5'6 okay cool story bro yeah um no but when it actually comes to height I do

Brian Atlashave a slight preference for uh short women um so I'll so you like virgins in short oh do you want to hear my preferences here let me get my list

Brian Atlaslet's get your ti list here I have it written down because it's it's so this is like your perfect woman written on paper there's no such thing as perfect

Brian Atlashold on let not perfect but like someone you prer build a wife here's a where's my notes hold on okay here you you ready guys okay here's what I want um so we'll start with looks I've written this down

Brian Atlaswait Q don't read don't read what if he has the same type though oh okay so any race any race is fine okay it's a good start

Brian Atlasbut slight preference for Asian women and white women okay slight preference for petite funsize short women funs siiz 52 is a bit tall but you know whatever um no I so okay when it comes to height

Brian Atlasno issue dating a woman who's taller than me don't care uh height for me it's never going to be deal breaker she could be really tall she could be real she could be taller than me not a deal breaker still with dater um whereas I would say for guys Height's going to be

Brian Atlasa deal breaker for 90% 95% of women really if a guy's shorter than you like that's 100% deal breaker whereas for men I'd say most men like the would say the equivalent of a guy being shorter than a

Brian Atlaswoman would be a woman being taller than the man I would say there's men are would be there's more men who would be willing to date a woman taller than them than there are women

Brian Atlaswho' be prepared to date a woman then there are more women prepared to date a man who's shorter than them so uh strong preference for no plastic surgery so no

Brian Atlasfake tits no fake lips no BBL no lipo uh and I I really mean this I mean say like okay so maybe this is going to sound like I'm kind of sing but this is going

Brian Atlasto sound corny so I think I think women are beautiful as they are he's getting vulnerable right now huh no it's not even vulnerable I just think women are beautiful as they are without the need for undergoing dangerous expensive and

Brian Atlasfrankly unnecessary cosmetic surgery um which I honestly think makes them look worse at the end of the day so I would for example and I'm not it's not like okay here's an example I'd prefer a girl

Brian Atlaslet's say she had small boobs I I'd rather her be have small boobs or even flat than have her with fake tits okay I'd rather have a girl with a little belly than lipo I'd rather have like a

Brian Atlassmall ass than a BBL yeah small upper lip over lip fillers so you can take any woman with any of these procedures let's say she's had them however they were before I would prefer them as they were so

Brian Atlasthere's that uh minimal makeup or no makeup a little mascara or eyeliner is fine here's a big one very important large labia huge very important um and

Alexait's not a deal breaker I don't really care I just say that I mean I do you know it's a preference yeah where where did the organization that you started come from or like what big Leia matter

Brian Atlasit's a Grassroots movement um we are BLM we are um you know yep that's the one big La

Brian Atlaswe're oh under construction we're still getting set up but you know it's it's going to be big a couple years they're going to be people in the streets in the

Brian Atlasstreets BLM okay um look women are allowed to have a penis siiz preference I'm allowed to have a labor preference yeah I think it's fine how do you like go about finding out like is that a first day

Brian Atlasquestion you try to see that's that's the diff well first off it's not a deal breaker like if a woman's gotten any that's cool that's fine in AUD it's all good right I'm not tripping do I have a slight preference I'm not gonna lie I

Brian Atlaskind of do um what I'm allowed to have a labor preference I'm allowed to have a labor preference y'all y'all be talking huh what nothing well go ahead go ahead what's up no it's fine no say it's it no I feel like it's similar to people who

Claireare like oh I prefer a circumcised or uncircumcised no I can see that it's like all dicks are ugly though whoa that's whoa that is deep like they're

Samnot like if you wow listen to me listen to me I'm

Samnot like they're they're cooler whatever but like in general like no vagina or Dick is like genuinely good looking I

Samguess disavow disavow disavow like personally like when I look at a dick I'm like I'm not going to be like oh it's cute oh my God it's so Prett you've never seen just a beautiful you've

Brian Atlasnever seen an attractive looking penis like no what they feel good but they don't look nice have you ever what about the Statue of David thinking the same thing you don't

Brian Atlasknow the statue of David he's got I mean it's like he's flaccid so I he's got his little pee pee out you've probably seen it okay so okay um I'm just saying no no no Nick don't pull it up I heard you

Brian Atlastyping Nick we're GNA get in trouble for that one um can you just blur it out stat it's I feel like YouTube is so to see what it looks

Samlike but I'm just saying like what what's up like why would you like vagina's a vagina you know look it's not that I'm down with Ines I'm down with Audis I'm down with midies that's kind

Brian Atlasof like in the middle right in the middle know about that it's like not a full-blown Audi but it's you know um look it's a sad State of Affairs that women are shamed if they have a large

Brian Atlaslabia it's very sad in the like I think I don't think anybody men or woman should be shamed for their genitalia yeah like if a man's has a micro penis

Brian Atlasyou got accept uncut no yeah the David of uh statue of David though kind of he has a micro well he's FL he's flaccid guys it was probably cold back in the

Sophiaday and he's naked you got global warming or whatever that is no but it's it's crazy though to see like how um like what's it called like our uh like beauty standards have changed over the years right

Sophiabecause we see like statues of like that were created I don't know hundreds of years ago and then versus like today's beauty standards that's right actually in if you look of statues of women from

Sophiaback in the day son they didn't have these big like giant fake titties on them they had like Smalls yeah that's that's true um the statue of Venus or the painting of Venus

Sophiawhatever and she has like a cup or what like her I I read somewhere like fun fact like her breasts are the size of like a wine glass so like not very big but that was like small breasts were

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