Feminist CRIES And WALKS OFF When Asked "Define Misogyny"?! REVENGE By SEX?! | Dating Talk #109

Date: 2023-10-16

Duration: 5h 27m

Guests

Brian Atlas

RRachel (DT109)>

AAriel (DT109)>

YYasmin (DT109)>

BBecca (DT109)>

VViolet Brandon >

MMadison (DT115)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS/Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_02Violet(guest)

SPEAKER_03Nick(audience)

SPEAKER_04TTS/Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_06Ariel(guest)

SPEAKER_07Yasmin(guest)

SPEAKER_08Becca(guest)

SPEAKER_09Rachel(guest)

SPEAKER_10Madison(guest)

Key Moments

Key MomentViolet reveals she left her management company (nudies) in 2023, losing access to her 13M Instagram follower account which was technically owned by the manager. Now goes by her real last name Brandon.

“I've been with them since I was 18 and they put me on all of my accounts... I wanted to move on... I had a Instagram account with 13 million followers yes I did and but it wasn't yours”

Key MomentViolet confirms she has made 7 figures in at least one year from her adult content career and owns multiple properties.

“seven figures yeah we could say... have you in any year did you ever make seven figures yes”

QuoteViolet on reconciling Catholic faith with adult content career: "We're in a broken world and I was kind of born into that... I'm just a product of my surroundings."

“we're in a broken world and I was kind of born into that... I'm just a product of my surroundings as I grew up”

Key MomentRachel reveals her high school ex stole and totalled her car, then framed her with police. He had taken her keys under pretense of charging his phone.

“they had my keys little did I know that they were actually going to drive my car they went to get McDonald's into a waste management truck”

Key MomentRachel reveals the same ex faked his own death to try to win her back — had a friend call saying he was unresponsive in hospital.

“he had his friend call me and tell me that the nurses said that he wasn't going to make it and he was unresponsive”

Key MomentRachel reveals the same ex pulled a knife on her at his house, nicked her finger. She escaped by distracting him with sex.

“he pulled knife on me... he just kept repeating it and like why didn't you leave... I had sex with him so yeah it's okay”

QuoteYasmin says feminism and career-focus taught to women is a "mind virus": "I do think it's a mind virus and that's what I was taught in school and college."

“I do think it's a mind virus and that's what I was taught in school and college”

QuoteRachel says about her sex work experience: "I realized — what would my dad think — that's like sounds dumb." Moment of self-reflection.

“I kind of realized oh in the long run like this isn't going to be good for me... what would my dad think like sounds dumb”

Key MomentRachel reveals she had sex with a man out of spite after he called her a derogatory name at Chabad. She laughed during the encounter and he kicked her out afterward.

“I went over there... cuz I was just talking to my sister about how I should be using those... he got kind of I could tell very uncomfortable”

QuoteViolet says she would stop adult content and have as many children as her future husband wants: "I'll pump out as many babies as my man wants me to pump out."

“I'll pump out as many babies as my man wants me to pump out when I get to that place in my life”

OtherBrian asks Violet to say she supports "Big Labia Matters" (#BLM) — his satirical nonprofit. She says it into camera with raised fist.

“I support big Labia matters”

Key MomentRachel reveals she performed oral sex for money via Craigslist on two occasions ($129 and $100) — a man who initially advertised a "poolside catering" gig.

“he paid 50 to 75 for an interview in person with potential for you to make more... I made like 129 and then 100”

ControversyRachel cries and walks off after Brian asks her to define "misogyny." She called the panel misogynistic after a viewer donation told her to abandon feminism. Could not define the word, became visibly upset, said "I'd like to go home," and left despite Brian trying to keep her talking.

“you guys are all just like really misogynistic... I don't know I don't like this... I mean no I'd like to go home”

QuoteBrian frustrated after Rachel leaves: "I literally asked her how she defined a word she used" — defending asking her to define misogyny as a completely reasonable request.

“I literally asked her how she defined a word she used... I was trying to understand her position”

QuoteBrian's end-of-show vent about talent flaking: 10 flakes, stalker calling police before show, talent coordination burning him out, disrespect for people who flew/drove in. "The show is literally sucking the life out of me."

“I'm working 80 hours a week on the show I'm dealing with a bunch of behind the scenes... the show is literally sucking the life out of me”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Brian introduces show; lists 10 flakes/no-shows by name. Guests introduce themselves: Rachel (21, UCSB biopsychology), Ariel (23, paralegal/aspiring attorney), Yasmin (32, sales), Becca (29, medical aesthetics sales), Violet (23, adult content creator — formerly Violet Summers), Madison (18, SBCC/Whatever Podcast staff). Violet discusses leaving her management company and losing her 13M Instagram account.

Violet's OnlyFans Career and Catholicism

Extended discussion of Violet's adult content career: started at 18, primarily solo, some girl-girl. Left nudies management in 2023 and lost 13M Instagram account. Makes 7 figures; owns multiple properties. Goes to Catholic church with grandma; had confession. Family knows and is supportive. Reconciling faith with profession.

Relationship Status Round

Each guest describes current relationship status and history. Rachel: single, 4-5 people she is ignoring. Ariel: single 5 months (Christian, virgin, purity ring, no men in picture). Yasmin: single, celibate until right person. Becca: single 1+ year, FWB with ex. Violet: single since 17, all relationships tied to content/work. Madison: in relationship (~1 year, boyfriend Frankie).

Feminism vs Traditionalism Debate

Central debate of the episode. Becca identifies as partly feminist (equal pay/Independence) but also wants traditional relationship. Yasmin is firmly traditional: career focus is a "mind virus" from school, women's purpose is nurturing/family. Rachel is pro-feminist. Violet and Madison lean traditional. Brian argues non-traditional women want traditional men but the two are incompatible. TikTok video reaction: liberal woman who wants traditional treatment from a non-conservative man.

Rachel's Relationship Horror Stories

Brian reads from Rachel's pre-show notes. Stories include: ex stole and totalled her car then framed her, faked his own death, pulled a knife and she escaped by offering sex; open relationship that was only open on boyfriend's end; slept with drug dealer for $129 and $100 via Craigslist; obsessive stalker who printed coloring pages and showed up at her window with a new friend; simp ex who bought a puppy at her joking request and nearly got a restraining order.

Revenge Sex / Getting Back at the Person Who Called You a Bad Name

Rachel reveals she slept with someone out of spite after he called her a derogatory name at Chabad. Matched him on Tinder a year later, went over, had sex, laughed at the condom moment, told him horror stories afterward, and he kicked her out.

Racial Preferences in Dating

Round-table on racial preferences. Ariel: prefers white men, dated black men before but happier since switching. Becca: prefers white men. Yasmin: same race (Persian) preferred but not exclusive. Violet: no preference (last partner was Asian). Madison: attracted to white men (brunette, brown eyes, thick eyebrows); first two partners were Asian.

Height Preferences

Round-table on height requirements. Becca (5'7"): 5'6" minimum, 5'10"+ preferred. Yasmin: above 6 feet preferred. Madison (5'2"): 5'6"+ preferably. Violet (5'0" inferred): not a size queen; high school BF was 5'5". Brian: women's height must start with 4 (jokingly about preferring petite women).

Sugar Daddies, Sex Work, and OnlyFans

Discussion of sugar daddies (Becca had one unintentionally — her spineless ex). Violet's OnlyFans: someone tipped her $5,000 in a night. Violet on weirdest requests: scat (declined), peeing in nature (has done). OnlyFans content restrictions discussed. Whether OF girls simp for men to compensate for their work.

Firearms Ownership

Round-table: would you date someone who legally owns a firearm? Yasmin says yes (protection). Becca: yes (ex took her shooting, changed her view). Violet: yes, owns two guns herself. Madison: yes.

Rachel's Walkoff — Misogyny Debate

Viewer donation tells Rachel to abandon feminism. Rachel calls the panel "misogynistic." Brian asks her to define misogyny. Rachel becomes upset, cannot define it, starts crying, and leaves the show at ~3:43. Post-walkoff discussion: Brian frustrated (was just asking for a definition), Yasmin says it was Rachel's first time facing consequences of her actions, Madison says keeping her crying would not help.

After-show Discussion Topics

Topics after Ariel and Rachel left: love and whether it's necessary for long-term relationships; deal breaker if guy doesn't perform oral sex; most attractive hobbies; would you date a trans person; immigration and 50/50 split debate; Grim Reaper hypothetical (sacrifice yourself or spouse); Alpha/Beta male theory; reactions to streamers Asmongold and xQc Instagram profiles; Violet invited back for Tuesday show.

If a Guy Gets a Girl Pregnant

Brian asks: what do you say to a guy who got a girl pregnant but doesn't want the kid? Panel: step up, take responsibility, use protection in future.

Pro-life / Pro-choice Round

Brief round-table. Becca: pro-life. Yasmin: pro-choice politically but personally pro-life. Violet: keeping private. Madison: goes back and forth.

Wrongful Conviction Loyalty Test

Brian asks: if your boyfriend/husband was wrongfully convicted, how long would you wait? Violet: forever (would be like military wife). Becca: yes, 10+ years. Yasmin: forever. Madison: yes.

Grim Reaper Hypothetical

Brian asks: Grim Reaper says take your life or your husband's — who do you choose? Yasmin: herself. Violet and Becca: themselves (strategic reasoning about husband fighting the Reaper). Brian debates whether self-sacrifice or survival is more "Alpha."

Transcript

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Brian AtlasAll Sons seven kids seven years we have to have at least seven sons okay and then you'll leave so I don't care if we have 10 daughters we're going to have seven sons okay let's just get to the part where you leave you're going to be

Brian Atlaspumping out kids I'm going to stay until we have seven sons okay D yeah maybe I'll have link triplets okay three boys I'm telling you though like we have to have seven sons so I don't care again if we have 10 daughters

Brian Atlasokay you know what's kind of interesting that I've noticed is like and I'm not saying that this is me but guy H hold on oh can you read this

VioletViolet props to Yasmin for acknowledging the feminism programming they teach females growing up about being boss babe making money is not fulfilling at the end of the day also helmet head I

Violetwouldn't touch and bang with you even with Brian's dick # streets rip Madison is this for I was

Brian Atlasjust making a joke sounds like you got offended but oh damn LP coming for you uh not even with my penis what do I would want that either I

Violetwouldn't want that either whoa okay that's like really a lot of logistics you know he's really shoving it and she's would be the corner like would he

Brian Atlasbe like a lawyer um so let's get back to me divorcing you for all your money um okay yes the fantasy yes the

Brian Atlasdream just let me know and you want to get going on that and I would probably like if we were to date I would just reverse finesse you like I would never you I'd wait

Brian Atlasuntil marriage and then like we'd never have sex wow that's hot is it yes I like that I like that a lot I would just basically make you my servant you'd have to massage me but we could have no sexual contact the only time we could

Brian Atlashave sexual contact I'd probably have to like artificially inseminate you like God what am I talking um that thing where couples like are you actually excited by this idea

Violetyeah and like we're just so sexually tensioned and then the honeymoon comes and you just like pound me and no not even that huh not even that oh wait what you know have you ever seen those videos

Brian Atlasof like how they like they don't actually allow horses to other horses they have to like get in in a tube and then they artificially inseminate oh like Frenchies yeah yeah like that's how we would have to have

Violetour kids that's weird yeah oh you wanted to be things got okay wait I think I was missing that whole inseminate part of your sentence or whatever I don't know

Violetwhere I'm going with this I'm losing my mind I feel you thought about this all night and artificially inting you yes you think it's just been yeah you're like man she's got the best jeans I know

Brian Atlasit the best jeans do you no I actually don't yeah exactly um but yeah I'm just going to marry you for your money and then

Violetdivorce you is this my water I don't think so oh oh my gosh thank God okay thank you I thought I was drinking someone else's water well do you believe

Yasminin love after like do I believe in love yeah after having like all these conversations about dating that's a good question yeah I believe in love um for

Yasminyourself yeah sure I believe in love have you ever been in love yeah I've been in love is it something you like would want in life or like strive to find with

Yasminsomebody else what is it something you would strive to find with someone else to like fall in love with someone

Brian Atlaselse well honestly I don't feel like are okay for like having

Brian Atlaskids it's not clear to me if love is necessary like kids aside just with like a person

Brian Atlaslike I think once you have kids your selfish desires go out the window

Yasminlike disagree no I think like once you have kids you do what's best for the kids so and I think what's best for the kids is

Brian Atlasthe parents being in love so they grow a household where the what if you fall out of love but you otherwise have if you otherwise have

Brian Atlasa a uh healthy relationship with your spouse but you have fallen out of love then I think it's selfish but love is work it's like you have to put in the

Yasminsame effort you do the first few dates as you do like 10 years into the relationship wait what so like the first few dates you're going to put in so much effort you're going to be like courting the woman's like going to be showing up as her best self and 10 years down you

Brian Atlasstill have to be putting in that same effort to keep the love alive or else of course you're going to fall out of love sure I mean and this is a very hypothetical scenario I'm just I think it would be hard for me me to fall out

Brian Atlasof love with the mother of my children that'd be very hard to do I think it's more often the case that women fall out of love with their

Violethusbands I think that's just from like neglecting what you have and not yeah not working on the relationship like you said and when women kind of are in the

Violetreal world they always are getting like oh you should be a part of or Girl Mob and leave your you know it's kind of like this especially when you're friends with single women and then you're in a

Brian Atlasrelationship I think that they Clash a lot um and so it's always kind of fighting that and then yeah I mean I

Brian Atlasthink I think when it comes to long-term relationships love is great but I think you can continue having a relationship if you've fallen out of

Brian Atlaslove you're a Catholic right you said you don't believe in divorce MH okay do you think divorce is warranted if you fall out of love with

Violetsomebody I don't think under Catholicism falling out of love with somebody is a valid reason for divorce yeah I mean don't get married if you have any chance of falling out of love with them or yeah

Brian Atlasbut don't people fall out of love with people but that's just making I mean marriage you said you would never divorce never get divorced right so

Brian Atlaslet's say the relationship is otherwise healthy you treat each other well but you have fallen out of love with your partner maybe you get bored people have you ever been bored in a relationship by

Violetthe guy he was otherwise great guy he was very nice but you got bored um I can't really say I have okay what about you yes you've been bored mhm

Brian Atlasgreat guy nice guy treated you well never was toxic or abusive in any way but you just got bored why did you get

Beccabored um I think if there we just I don't know maybe the spark was

Beccanot there anymore or it just kind of felt like we were in a rat and things I mean that could be on my part too I didn't maybe put in as much effort as I

Beccacould have but yeah I mean I think it's very possible to fall out of love and get bored people fall out of love people

Yasminchange yeah what about you have you ever been bored in a relationship no oh okay all right mhm yeah I think if you really love someone you don't really get bored but love like being in a relationship is

Yasminwork you can't just like get in a relationship get married and then just be like okay I'm going to chill now you have to keep continuing putting in the work through stage you yeah of course but uh and then if if you don't I think

Brian Atlasthat's when you fall out of love maybe you can fall back into love yeah so that's always an option I think there's always work to be done

Brian Atlasum and obviously relationships have lows like sometimes there's periods of time where you're upset about each other you have arguments about things

Madisonand I feel like even if you do fall out of love with your husband or your wife like you can still care about each other to the extent that you care about your children together so you care about having a good relationship with each

Violetother still mhm you know yeah at that point it's more of like a companionship than a like love Yeah like marriage isn't like your friends like you're committing to each other for life I I

Violetsee it like that that's why I'm waiting to get serious about that because I want it to be someone who I'm with forever and I'm going to commit myself to them like that so absolutely I just think

Violetthat people are very Loosey goose with marriage and it shouldn't be that way I think it's sacred and like yeah it's something that came from God not

Brian Atlasgovernment or anything like that marriage came from what God yes love or wait marriage oh didn't it I don't know

Violetwe have stochastic Decay here Violet could you read this hey Brian question for the lackluster panel other than simp handyman what is the most attractive Hobby a man can

Violethave um we'll go around the table starting with you I like um excuse when a man is into

Violetthings like sports and comedy and I like when we can connect on things like that so yeah little Hobbies like

Beccathat um I like when a guy likes like building stuff like whether it's furniture or like I I don't know just

Madisondoing something with his hands yeah um I'll go with hunting hunting okay I'll go with just straight like businessman

MadisonCEO CFO or I feel like being in the sports industry is an attractive job as well like a sports agent a sports like

Brian Atlasgoing in a sports management or something like that yeah okay what's the most attractive career for a woman a mom

Brian Atlasprobably honestly probably mom uh that's probably um it's like the best thing a woman can do I think an actual job too I

Brian Atlaswant to say hm yeah I was going to say massage therapist no men are way better they are better

Yasminmassage um what about like as a nurse but then or teacher no not nurse not

Brian Atlasteacher but then like women who are massage therapists they also like really don't want to massage massage you because they've been doing it all day so you think it's a catch like you think a girl who's a massage

Brian Atlastherapist is a catch because it's like especially if you're a guy who like you're an athlete or you work out you're like oh that'd be amazing my girlfriend massages would massage me all the time a lot of these massage

Brian Atlaschicks don't want to massage you for free they would do it if they loved you yeah but they get it so much they're like women who do massage therapy get it so much that it's probably annoying like

Brian Atlasokay yeah I get it you want to massage cuz I'm a massage therapist like they're probably burned out on it um but is it an L guys

Brian Atlaslike is it kind of an L if you're like if H she's like massaging other dudes is that kind of

Brian Atlasif your girlfriend or wife is for her career it's like nonsexual it's like massage is totally legit I would probably have a problem with I wonder is that like an L chat chat do you think

Violetthat's a l yeah it could potentially really I feel like it's not like sexual though I don't think it is like massage

Brian Atlasis like it's look there are some like sketchy like massage parlor type places but they were legitimate massage professionals

Brian Atlasso yeah um oh yeah I'm an idiot I forgot about rubbing tugs it is it is yeah I she's like massaging it might be an L

Brian Atlasbecause yeah it might be an L to I think it is might be an L okay all right I don't know how did how the Oh we have some chats here uh where did we

Brian Atlasleave off Queen did we do this one did we do this one we haven't done that one either but we uh Violet can you read

Violetthis one cute and gray blue dress in Middle you're more based than you think black shirt you're super based and I appreciate your takes tank I disapprove of your lifestyle but I think you're

Brian Atlassuper based big labia is the only BLM thank you ligma Johnson can you read this all Yas Meine can you read this one

Yasminwhy not talk to Yasmin we're really proud of her as a Persian woman who values family and Carries herself with dignity it's great to have women like her who make great mothers

Brian Atlasword word word okay thank you man appreciate it all right guys get your last chats and I'm going to wrap up the show here pretty quick if you want

Brian Atlasto um were we on a conversational thread I forgot sorry guys I'm at my last bit of brain fuel here just talking about the

Brian Atlasjobs jobs I feel like I had one of my questions here pulled up but uh were we going to react

Brian Atlasto uh what was it sorry guys I'm just going over my notes here for the show uh is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't go down on you is that it I don't know if that was

Violetit I think it is if he expects you to go down on him I really like I mean I love giving head but I do like when a guy's

Beccagood at giving me head so I to not ever get it har be sad so I guess no I mean yes it's a deal

Beccabreaker i' yeah I'd say yeah it's a deal breaker no it's not a deal breaker that answered uh I so I haven't gone down on

Brian Atlasa girl in like since the Bush Administration so like that's like 20072 2008 um so that's like being like for real I'm 100% for real so for real

Brian Atlasyou're Jing huh since 2007 I have not gone down on a girl since 2008 200 20072 2008 the bush administ

Brian Atlasthe Bush George Bush Jr should try it may I have tried it I've tried it wasn't a fan you tried it again not since the Bush Administration

Yasminmaybe maybe it doesn't feel doesn't sound natural to me like I get girl with going on a guy but a guy going on down on a girl I feel like it's not W's in the chat I think Brian I think you're

Brian Atlasgoing to find a girl one day you love and then you're going to love going down I've Loved women what's your what's your issue with it f you know first off the neck hurts the neck a little bit you

Brian Atlasknow so there's that don't you think giving head hurts the woman's necks a little bit why have I actually legit have some

Brian Atlasneck pain issues but um okay whatever ndie uh not kidding uh but uh it's different it's so

Violetdifferent I think it might be it's well there is like a surprise for women at the end because we get the big load but the women I mean when guys are going down on us it's kind of like we got to really like let you know like

Violetokay I'm done you know because there's nothing spraying in your face well um sometimes yeah some women are squirters well but that's yeah I just don't think that that's going to happen from being

Violeteaten out from eating out yeah I like you can finger me and I might you know have some juices like spraying at you but not being eaten out I mean that is true I think most women when it comes to

Brian Atlassquirting and that's actually typically tends to be from a G-spot orgasm versus uh but uh um it's different cuz

Madisonlike it's different I do think it's different whatever you don't think it's different I do think it's different I just think that easier for you easier no not wait

Brian AtlasNick you think it's easier the actual okay the actual technical like

Brian Atlasit's physically it's easier smells worse but there's other components you know that granted you are an Asian woman what

Brian AtlasAsian people people don't have like they have less or they don't have they have the cutest little vaginas that's for sure well actually wait wait what were you going I've seen some Japanese one h

Brian AtlasHuh what no well uh my understanding is Asian people don't have a certain sweat like you don't have body odor yeah

Brian Atlasand that in addition to just like body odor that also translates to body odor down there in the region this

Brian Atlasis an armpit right like this is basically an armpit for women that's what it is that's why we that's not what I'm saying but like Asian women they

Brian Atlaslack the and men men also well men don't have but uh also Asian men uh either have minimal or no body odor because there's a certain I I don't know

Madisonif it's it's just a gene or is it a gen Gene but that's no it's a thing it's actually very true now I don't work I've never put on deodorant it is a thing Asian people most I don't know if it's all Asian

Brian Atlaspeople but a large portion of Asian of people who are Asian uh they lack a gene or there's a gene difference where they don't have body odor or minimal body

Violetodor so I'm so jealous of that that's really cool word and they don't grow a lot of hair I heard too I think that the hair is another comp I'm

Nickthe hairiest person like the fact that you don't wait why did you say based Nick I'm going to pretend like you just make my dick go

Violetsoft yeah anything else you're wait you're what Violet I'm very hairy yeah I have to like shave every well I'm mexican and italian okay I'm lots of

Violethair comes with that so I got to shave like everything I tried laser hair removal and that didn't work now I know you're not a natural beauty but I think

Nickwith the right striking oh yeah got the connection what it's different also the

Brian Atlasother thing is like blood comes out of there once a month so that's like another Factor when it comes to get head don't

Brian Atlaseat her out when she's on her period then yeah but it's like I don't think our ancestor did that like probably not I don't think our male an

Violetactually they probably were just probably doing wild my eighth grade teacher told me that when women had periods back in the day that they would just sit on sit on like a stick for a week

Brian AtlasBas and I just think about that sometimes kid just kidding Chad um okay last question what would you say to a guy who got a girl pregnant and she wants the kid but he

Brian Atlasdoesn't starting with you Violet did you say a girl who got a guy pregnant no what would you say to a guy who got a girl pregnant she wants the kid but he doesn't what would you say to

Brian Atlashim um he's like oh man like I don't really I'm not ready to be a father like I don't want to have I'm not ready to have

Brian Atlaskids yet like I'm not in the right place mentally I'm not in the right place emotionally I'm not in the right place financially what do you say to him

Violetstep it up I don't know uh just basically keeping keeping

Violether what are you what are you doing you're like Brian what what are you doing ignore my facial expression okay because it's freaking me out um why is it fre because I'm like am I like disappointing you in what I'm saying

Violetright now go ahead okay um yeah I think that you have to take responsibility for your

Brian Atlasactions and basically be a man it's time to grow up okay uh what what do you say do you agree with

BeccaViolet I mean yeah if she wants to keep the kid then like he needs to live with that and do that oh did you

Yasminhave more sorry no I'm I'm good yeah I feel like my first reaction was like yeah yeah CU that sucks but I mean at the end of the day he doesn't really have a choice but

Yasminto co-parent the kid or be there for the kid and that like that the best thing he can do is like be present for that kid and feel like God always has a plan so even if he doesn't feel ready once the kids here might be different Okay

Brian AtlasMadison what about you I agree with all of them basically do you think that if he didn't want to have a kid he should have just kept it in his pants not necessarily keep it in your

Yasminpants but like use protection absolutely or something yeah the consequences of intimacy is getting pregnant so if you don't want pregnancy then you should be

Yasmincareful or try to do things to prevent it from happening I mean have the conversation with the girl of like if you're going to

Beccabe yeah intimate with her then talk about if she's on birth control or if you're going to use a condom or whatever yeah

Beccaso Nick what are you typing in the chat Nick can you not do that anymore all

Beccaright I mean yeah it's it's if he should keep it in his pants maybe he

Brian Atlasshould find other way but you're saying tough you were saying like oh tough like should have thought of that before yeah it's kind of like living with the consequence okay um are you guys

Beccapro-choice or pro-life I'm pro-life I I've gone back and forth but I would say

Yasminpro-choice okay yeah something I haven't made a decision on I always go back and forth on and I don't really know aren't you conservative and religious yeah you

Yasmindon't know that topic have you have you had the worst no you're not certain yet well I get the pro-choice but also I don't want to make

Brian Atlasa decision for someone else I don't think it's my place to decide what someone else what about on a personal level for you oh for myself pro life okay but you're just okay I see I see

Brian Atlaswhat you're saying mhm okay um yeah I was just curious are you pro choice I need to keep my opinion on that one private

Brian Atlasdid you have an abortion last two questions no it's not that um if your boyfriend or husband was wrongfully convicted how long would you wait like he's in jail oh

Violetgosh I don't know it's kind of like having your man off to the war you'd leave him no of course not I would stay by I would love to be a military wife

Violetcuz I feel like I'd be really good at it like you know I hate cheaters and like my stepdad had his wife cheat on him when he was in the military it's just like how can you do that to someone

Beccathey're all fighting for your country fighting for you supporting your family yeah what was I saying um when I wait for my guy in if

Beccahe was incarcerated um i' I'd say yes yes okay and it was wrongfully right

Brian Atlasmhm yeah I would wait 10 years yes it feels Frankie I would wait forever conjugal visits are an option

Brian Atlasabsolutely visitation can be done okay last question if the Grim Reaper comes and says should I take your life or your husbands who do you

Brian Atlaschoose what M what the Grim Reaper the Grim Reaper comes and says should I take your life for your husbands who do you choose

Yasminmyself right there's no I don't think there's a right or wrong answer what about you mine I would choose myself I don't want to live with the guilt of oh my God these girls okay they're okay I

Violetsaid mine oh okay all right but then you think about it strategically if you were to say him then he would go and kill him and then maybe the guy's like manly enough to have a fight you know and then kills him off actually this kind of

Brian Atlasrelates to what we were talking about before the show you're talking about like Alpha Beta what what was your whole thing on that there's a lot of beta males these days a lot of beta males but you said like

Brian Atlaswouldn't you like a you would want a guy to sacrifice his life for you that would be the alpha male thing right yeah

Brian Atlasokay yeah I guess that's protection yeah I actually think the most Alpha thing and we said this during the show I talked to you about this before the show

Brian Atlasand I don't buy into the whole Alpha Beta thing I mean at the ve I it's probably a spectrum it's not like you're Al either alpha or beta there's probably

Brian Atlaslike degrees to this plus I think it's just kind of cringey um categorization especially dudes who are

Brian Atlaslike I'm I'm so Alpha that's cringe as um but uh wouldn't it be the most Alpha thing for the guy like to

Brian Atlassacrifice this woman and then continue on living and just get a new woman isn't that like pretty based in Alpha no that's kind of gangster right I

Yasminmean but can't he do the same thing with woman like can't he just procreate with his the same woman why does he have to like sacrifice her get a new one I don't know in just some situation where one of

Brian Atlasthem has to die like wouldn't be that be like the most Cutthroat Alpha like okay you can isn't that the most Alpha thing like the beta thing would be I'm I'm

Brian Atlaslike the White Knight simp thing I'm going to sacrifice I'm going to take the bullet for you the most Alpha thing would be like I think it's the opposite push your wife I think the beta would sacrifice

Yasminthe woman the the what I think the beta would be the one that would sacrifice the woman and then Alpha would sacrifice

Brian Atlashimself like it I do think technically speaking it is the most Alpha thing to sacrifice your

Brian Atlasgirl right I mean evolutionarily I guess to keep your cuz you could survive

Brian Atlasthat's Alpha you survive right Am I Wrong Am I Wrong chat it's kind of alpha alpha male preserves himself he

Violetfinds another woman starts another family boom Alpha what if it's like two men in war does the man who sacrificed the other man is he Al Al alping that man who he

Brian Atlasjust sacrificed is he in a situation where one of them has to die and he's making the

Brian Atlasdecision from a purely like utilitarian pragmatic point of view you get to

Brian Atlascontinue that's a tough question um h the alpha is the one who's going to just

Brian Atlassay like no just sacrifice me he's going yell Freedom if one of you has to if one of you I mean if one of you has to

Madisondie survival no the beta the beta would probably be like oh I don't want to die take him I don't want to die

Brian Atlasyet yeah I don't know that's H get your calculator thing on what you're thinking wait I had another question for this but it slipped my

Brian Atlasmind it was such a good question um I'm I'm going to wrap I'm going to wrap here pretty soon what was the

Brian Atlasquestion uh wait it was the Grim for Alpha Beta well was okay we're talking about alpab beta you want to do these chats yeah I'll do

Brian Atlasthese chats maybe it'll come back to me Violet can you read this one I think it's this one just to follow up I was telling her

Violetto get advice from Men Thank You Daren for for making her cry buddy because men will know what lies other men might say to take advantage of

Violetwoman also sometimes women will let other women say something is okay because they do it oh women will tell other women that something is okay

Violetbecause they do it oh okay I get you yeah that's true cuz women are agreeable so we just live in chaos together yeah go ahead

Yasminyasine let's get married and build a Persian

Brian Atlasarmy your response just I will I will put Danza Danza tastic I need you to change your

Brian Atlasprofile picture and your name to Xerxes so get go find the picture of Xerxes change your name to

Brian AtlasXerxes tell Yas Meine that she will be Empress of all Greece and I will put in a good word for

Brian Atlasyou good sir okay change it send another chat I'll put in a good word okay uh it's just what's up with these dog F what the we want Nick in the chat just I didn't know Nick was typing in

Brian Atlasthe chat I didn't know he was doing that um okay um all right what was my question goddamn Alpha Beta were we was

Madisonit a video it was something really good we were saying like the Grim Reaper

Brian Atlasif it was you or your husband sacrifice M yeah I forgot totally lost my forgot what

Violetit was um oh here we go can you hide that Violet can you read this does Brian

Violetadvocate for large laas cuz oh my god he has one he identifies as binary gender fluid dang it hold on I'll pull I'll pull it back up where did it

Brian Atlasgo he also said he can flap his wings and fly away he admitted it in a video oh yeah this was like from a couple years ago ago I did this like video and I was talking to a

Brian Atlasgirl and I said I identified as a nonbinary gender fluid Dragon Kin please get it right Nickelodeon and that I can flap my wings and fly

Brian Atlasaway whoosh into the sky and it got it went like crazy viral everywhere but nobody credited me cuz people were like rep like stealing the clip it's fine

Brian Atlasum the was my something about like Alpha Beta totally I don't remember slip my mind uh I think I had a question for you Violet what's wrong with

Violetyou I don't know um nothing really I'm just very sexually free um got a little daddy issues going

Violeton um just your average Texas girl are your parents still together no

Brian Atlasno divorce yes okay I have a stepdad word what the what was the thing

Brian Atlaswith the alpha beta um did you have more on

Yasminthat I mean that's like the problem with Society right now is men are not men they're soy boys they're soy boys

Yasminsoy boys yeah huh but also at the same time women are not women either like most women are just like feminists question focus on their career

Violetquick sorry does that do y'all have siblings yes y all of y'all do how many siblings I have a younger brother and a younger sister okay I'm the old about

Violetyou I have a sister I have three sisters wow I have a younger sister oh I'm sorry for her and I'm just kidding I'm totally

Violetkidding do you have any siblings that good uh yes I have uh funny two sisters a brother and six Step Brothers holy

Violetmoly wow holy C guac crazy my grandma grew up with like 16 siblings so that's

Brian Atlasnothing yeah that's wild I'm for there's some topic I I like in my mind I was like oh I want to talk

Brian Atlasabout this but it totally whatever um yo guys go to twit .tv whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have

Brian Atlasone uh Kai the guy thank for the primed 96 thank you for the tier one hugan thank you for the uh tier one appreciate

Brian Atlasit uh we're going to on Twitch before I do my outro I'll probably we'll do a raid on stay safe probably um let me just get

Brian Atlasmy there's I feel like there was something that damn totally forgot

Brian Atlasuh it's not coming to me I'm just going to have to wrap whatever okay um guys last call was it a video reaction did we have to react to a

Violetvideo Alpha Beta something related to Alpha Beta Sigma TTS oh can you read this Brian minimal neck pain if you let

Violetthem sit on your face gorlock will volunteer dang it I'll get it I'll get it hold on gorlock will volunteer for you to

Violettest this Violet will go Violet got to Baka Gina credit to Brian for making through the Pod with the BS doubles doubles and animal fries on me got not a fast get Nick a Mike too I'm out yo LP

Brian Atlasthank you so much for your patronage man much appreciated thank you to everybody else uh for your patronage tonight really appreciate it um means the world it's been uh okay um I'll I'll do

Brian Atlasa little debrief before I wrap up the show um oh we have a chat here here we go go ahead Yas Meine and read it you

Yasminwill be the Empress of all Grace with our army do you accept zury's wedding

Brian Atlasproposal thermop what your let me ask you um what what your what's your thoughts on like the whole hot Gates campaign what's hot Gates like thermop like what are your thoughts on thermopolymerization

Brian Atlas[Music] what are your thoughts on that I will give you a $100 if you guess within a century of when that war

Brian Atlasoccurred 300 BC I'm sorry 480 BC you're close than she's close give her Persian

Brian AtlasEmpire Xerxes the first do you have thoughts on the Battle of thermop am I even pronouncing right is it thermopol theropo propol thermopol

Yasminis it pis what persis huh I don't

Violetknow I love the movie 300 and it's a great movie Troy so good um they all are just B okay sexy good times okay um I feel like

Brian Atlassomething came to me and then I forgot it again oh man wait uh so can I hook you up with that dude though are you

Brian Atlasdown he's Persian depends he's Persian look maybe okay all right I don't know too much is that looks like a 3D I don't know that doesn't look like him okay oh

Brian Atlasyeah I was going to do a quick debrief um okay guys so uh yeah it was an interesting show um we had 10 girls

Brian Atlasflake we had four no shows or four wait um it's getting I know in previous episodes I did say hey we're going to like try to reduce bringing on only fans

Brian Atlasgirls but it's hard because on one hand we've had really flaky only fans girls but in some regard some of them are have

Brian Atlasmore incentive to come be on the show so we deprioritized for a little bit bringing on only fans girls some of them are flaky some of

Brian Atlasthem aren't uh so in any case we had 10 flakes today before I even set before the show

Brian Atlasstarts I've already done the full work day um I'm last minute messaging people hey do you have anybody else who can come I'm trying to get Replacements um Madison and Nick went to

Brian Atlasthe Mean Streets of V Vista to try to find replacements that didn't pan out I got girls walking off the show she the

Brian Atlasthis girl walked off the show um not going to lie like this show is I need to I probably need to find somebody else to do the talent

Brian Atlasrecruitment because it's like literally sucking the soul out of me I'm getting very agitated very easily I used to have a pretty good poker face but now I just lose it very

Brian Atlasquickly um the show some of you have not noted this like it's literally I'm not like trying to be like woe is me the show is literally sucking the life out of me I'm not going to lie this is not I'm

Brian Atlaslike honestly if it was just the show but like honestly dealing with all the people flaking and being late like to me it's

Brian Atlassuch a disrespect thing cuz I'm a very punctual person if I say I'm going to be somewhere I'm going to be somewhere I like stick to my plans and I believe commitment is very important and like

Brian Atlasfor people to just straight up no show so what I'm saying is they don't even they just they won't even tell you they're oh sorry they they don't even have the

Brian Atlascourtesy to take 10 seconds to say even an hour before which I still think is rude sorry I can't make it uh to me as somebody who maybe I'm kind of

Brian Atlasold school like I don't bail on plans if I say I'm going to be somewhere I'm going to be there um sometimes I start the show late out of necess like I'm a very punctual person but I end up

Brian Atlasrunning running late to the studio because I'm spending two or three hours before the show trying to coordinate with 10 different people to try to get the show to happen I'm SC uh I'm scrambling before the

Brian Atlasshow the talent coordination is probably the biggest burn on me when it comes to this if I had somebody else handling it I'd

Brian Atlasprobably it'd be much better for me uh and there's just like a lot of with the show that's frustrating and uh and then I'm just like dealing

Brian Atlaswith like annoying like I don't know I told you from a couple shows ago there's a girl that's in another country who's literally stalking and harassing

Brian Atlasme so dude just like I had a I had to call the police yesterday and then today before the show like the this

Brian Atlasis the I I was on the phone for 30 minutes with the cops today before I should be focusing on working on the show so uh viewers I uh if I'm a little

Brian Atlasuh quick with the I don't know what's the term um my fuse is short uh it's like bro there's I'm working 80 hours a week on the show I'm dealing with a bunch of behind the scenes I'm

Brian Atlasdealing with like very unreliable disrespectful people when it comes to dealing with the show these people whether they're only fans girls whether they're college girls whether they're

Brian Atlasworking professionals have absolutely no respect for your time for like just even having the courtesy to take 10 seconds to just say even a hour before

Brian Atlasjust tell us you're not going to make it on the show don't commit don't like don't commit to the anyways whatever um it's just frust it's frustrating guys um and uh and it's it's not just

Brian Atlasfrustrating for me because like we have people who I don't know if tonight we had many people um we have people that will drive hours to be here we have people that will fly to be here people

Brian Atlasfrom the East Coast will fly 5 hours they'll book a hotel they'll book a flight spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars to come be on this show and so it doesn't I'm not just

Brian Atlaslooking at this from a purely selfish point of view I feel disrespected on behalf of the people that spend time and money to come be on the show and these

Brian Atlaspeople who live in town or who they're coming from La whatever don't have the courtesy to give us 24 hours notice or don't even have the courtesy to at least an hour before which again I still think

Brian Atlasis rude to cancel that last minute to just say we can't make it because it's whatever you want to disrespect me you want to troll me fine but like we have other people who are innocent in this

Brian Atlaswhole thing who come out who go out of their way to come be on the show and if one day it's plausible that we just get a bunch of Flakes and we can't like we don't have a show we had

Brian Atlasthat once where we had a we basically canceled the show and we had somebody who d drove here for 3 hours it's not just

Brian Atlasus over you might have your opinions on the whatever podcast but it pisses me off on behalf of the other people who are pure totally innocent and because of your inconsideration your unreliability

Brian Atlasand your flakiness that you're potentially them over financially I'm more I get more upset about that than whatever you're just flaking on us who cares but I mean I it's still upsetting but I'm

Brian Atlastrying to think about these other people so all right we have Brandon Hunter make guest paay deposit to be on the show give it back if they show up we'd love Violet bring her back yeah I'd be down I'm Violet was great be happy to have her back um I don't know if she'll be

Violetback after I kind of roasted her a little bit but uh oh I don't think going to if you invited me back oh super down do you want to come on Tuesday maybe

Brian Atlasyeah I think we might fingers crossed I super over booked on Tuesday 15 people I booked on Tuesday chances are we're probably going to get some flakes so if you want we can have you be second to

Violethat girl if you're down just let me know tomorrow night if you no do you want to you want to just come on Tuesday okay do you have a hotel or you I book a place in Palm Springs because I

Violetwas going to go out there tonight after this so it's booked tonight until is it Airbnb or yeah it's until Friday okay so I could just drive and just come back if you're down I'm

Brian Atlasdown to have you okay I'll let you um and then Brandon make guest pay a deposit to be on the show give it back well here's the problem so

Brian Atlasum for a period of two weeks I attempted to implement this guest deposit thing um my issue is is that I do think here's

Brian Atlasthe issue with the deposit I can only request a deposit for women who request to be on the show we do Outreach too where we invite people to be on the show there's no way I'm going to invite someone to be on the

Brian Atlasshow like be the first to reach out and say pay us a deposit not going to work so it can only that only addresses people who reach out to

Brian Atlasus we did it for two weeks my concern though with the deposit is that I believe that women who would otherwise show up it's just one extra

Brian Atlasstep that they don't want to take and it will turn away and again this would be a refundable deposit we made it a $100 100 you get paid immediately back you just

Brian Atlasshow up you go if you're on the show we'll pay you back I do think it will minimize to some degree some of the women that would otherwise show up they

Brian Atlasjust like I don't know what if he doesn't give it back some like that you know so it's a balancing act so I'm thinking I'm probably I implemented it

Brian Atlasbut I unimplemented it uh like a day or two ago so I don't know um what's it called I don't remember um it's a good no I've thought about I've definitely

Brian Atlasthought about it but I just uh I don't know okay uh oops let me pull do this last chat and then we're going wrap a Violet can you read this one

Violetimportant question for the panel if your partner's her leg would you cut up a cucumber for him

Brian Atlasis is that a trick question no I had a girlfriend who like I was injured and I asked her to like make cut cucumbers for me and she got butt hurt about it I don't get it don't get what why do you

Violetmake cucumbers or why do you cut cucumbers for the injured leg no not I just wanted like a snack Oh I thought you were putting the cucumbers on your leg no no okay

Violetthat's cute of course yes I'll make little cucumber sandwiches those are so fun okay those are good cool yes sarcastic this guy

Brian Atlasuh oh yeah all right I'll make feast all right we got to WP we've gone too late um all right oh oh no what's his name

Brian Atlasstopped um the uh stay safe went off okay we're going to if you're on Twitch I'm going to raid Frost adamus um he's playing hardcore on World

Brian Atlasof Warcraft classic I don't know he's is he playing a mage is he a mage or a war I think he's playing a warlock um okay I'm gonna send you guys

Brian Atlasover to frost now um those of you here I'll do my little intro really quick um so guys last call hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you can been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate

Brian Atlasthat thank you to everyone who super chats donates supports the show I really appreciate it guys sorry I'm a little tired um thank you to the panel and uh any women who want to be on the show DM

Brian Atlasat whatever on Instagram we will be live again Tuesday at 5:00 P PM Pacific hopefully with a proper panel um maybe Violet will be back we'll see and uh I'm

Brian Atlasgoing to go send the raid over on Twitch and uh let's see uh are we good are we good on all the I think yeah we're good okay wait

Brian Atlasdid we get another one no okay all right guys um yeah we'll see you Tuesday 5:00 p.m. Pacific uh

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