Feminist CRIES And WALKS OFF When Asked "Define Misogyny"?! REVENGE By SEX?! | Dating Talk #109

Date: 2023-10-16

Duration: 5h 27m

Guests

Brian Atlas

RRachel (DT109)>

AAriel (DT109)>

YYasmin (DT109)>

BBecca (DT109)>

VViolet Brandon >

MMadison (DT115)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS/Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_02Violet(guest)

SPEAKER_03Nick(audience)

SPEAKER_04TTS/Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_06Ariel(guest)

SPEAKER_07Yasmin(guest)

SPEAKER_08Becca(guest)

SPEAKER_09Rachel(guest)

SPEAKER_10Madison(guest)

Key Moments

Key MomentViolet reveals she left her management company (nudies) in 2023, losing access to her 13M Instagram follower account which was technically owned by the manager. Now goes by her real last name Brandon.

“I've been with them since I was 18 and they put me on all of my accounts... I wanted to move on... I had a Instagram account with 13 million followers yes I did and but it wasn't yours”

Key MomentViolet confirms she has made 7 figures in at least one year from her adult content career and owns multiple properties.

“seven figures yeah we could say... have you in any year did you ever make seven figures yes”

QuoteViolet on reconciling Catholic faith with adult content career: "We're in a broken world and I was kind of born into that... I'm just a product of my surroundings."

“we're in a broken world and I was kind of born into that... I'm just a product of my surroundings as I grew up”

Key MomentRachel reveals her high school ex stole and totalled her car, then framed her with police. He had taken her keys under pretense of charging his phone.

“they had my keys little did I know that they were actually going to drive my car they went to get McDonald's into a waste management truck”

Key MomentRachel reveals the same ex faked his own death to try to win her back — had a friend call saying he was unresponsive in hospital.

“he had his friend call me and tell me that the nurses said that he wasn't going to make it and he was unresponsive”

Key MomentRachel reveals the same ex pulled a knife on her at his house, nicked her finger. She escaped by distracting him with sex.

“he pulled knife on me... he just kept repeating it and like why didn't you leave... I had sex with him so yeah it's okay”

QuoteYasmin says feminism and career-focus taught to women is a "mind virus": "I do think it's a mind virus and that's what I was taught in school and college."

“I do think it's a mind virus and that's what I was taught in school and college”

QuoteRachel says about her sex work experience: "I realized — what would my dad think — that's like sounds dumb." Moment of self-reflection.

“I kind of realized oh in the long run like this isn't going to be good for me... what would my dad think like sounds dumb”

Key MomentRachel reveals she had sex with a man out of spite after he called her a derogatory name at Chabad. She laughed during the encounter and he kicked her out afterward.

“I went over there... cuz I was just talking to my sister about how I should be using those... he got kind of I could tell very uncomfortable”

QuoteViolet says she would stop adult content and have as many children as her future husband wants: "I'll pump out as many babies as my man wants me to pump out."

“I'll pump out as many babies as my man wants me to pump out when I get to that place in my life”

OtherBrian asks Violet to say she supports "Big Labia Matters" (#BLM) — his satirical nonprofit. She says it into camera with raised fist.

“I support big Labia matters”

Key MomentRachel reveals she performed oral sex for money via Craigslist on two occasions ($129 and $100) — a man who initially advertised a "poolside catering" gig.

“he paid 50 to 75 for an interview in person with potential for you to make more... I made like 129 and then 100”

ControversyRachel cries and walks off after Brian asks her to define "misogyny." She called the panel misogynistic after a viewer donation told her to abandon feminism. Could not define the word, became visibly upset, said "I'd like to go home," and left despite Brian trying to keep her talking.

“you guys are all just like really misogynistic... I don't know I don't like this... I mean no I'd like to go home”

QuoteBrian frustrated after Rachel leaves: "I literally asked her how she defined a word she used" — defending asking her to define misogyny as a completely reasonable request.

“I literally asked her how she defined a word she used... I was trying to understand her position”

QuoteBrian's end-of-show vent about talent flaking: 10 flakes, stalker calling police before show, talent coordination burning him out, disrespect for people who flew/drove in. "The show is literally sucking the life out of me."

“I'm working 80 hours a week on the show I'm dealing with a bunch of behind the scenes... the show is literally sucking the life out of me”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Brian introduces show; lists 10 flakes/no-shows by name. Guests introduce themselves: Rachel (21, UCSB biopsychology), Ariel (23, paralegal/aspiring attorney), Yasmin (32, sales), Becca (29, medical aesthetics sales), Violet (23, adult content creator — formerly Violet Summers), Madison (18, SBCC/Whatever Podcast staff). Violet discusses leaving her management company and losing her 13M Instagram account.

Violet's OnlyFans Career and Catholicism

Extended discussion of Violet's adult content career: started at 18, primarily solo, some girl-girl. Left nudies management in 2023 and lost 13M Instagram account. Makes 7 figures; owns multiple properties. Goes to Catholic church with grandma; had confession. Family knows and is supportive. Reconciling faith with profession.

Relationship Status Round

Each guest describes current relationship status and history. Rachel: single, 4-5 people she is ignoring. Ariel: single 5 months (Christian, virgin, purity ring, no men in picture). Yasmin: single, celibate until right person. Becca: single 1+ year, FWB with ex. Violet: single since 17, all relationships tied to content/work. Madison: in relationship (~1 year, boyfriend Frankie).

Feminism vs Traditionalism Debate

Central debate of the episode. Becca identifies as partly feminist (equal pay/Independence) but also wants traditional relationship. Yasmin is firmly traditional: career focus is a "mind virus" from school, women's purpose is nurturing/family. Rachel is pro-feminist. Violet and Madison lean traditional. Brian argues non-traditional women want traditional men but the two are incompatible. TikTok video reaction: liberal woman who wants traditional treatment from a non-conservative man.

Rachel's Relationship Horror Stories

Brian reads from Rachel's pre-show notes. Stories include: ex stole and totalled her car then framed her, faked his own death, pulled a knife and she escaped by offering sex; open relationship that was only open on boyfriend's end; slept with drug dealer for $129 and $100 via Craigslist; obsessive stalker who printed coloring pages and showed up at her window with a new friend; simp ex who bought a puppy at her joking request and nearly got a restraining order.

Revenge Sex / Getting Back at the Person Who Called You a Bad Name

Rachel reveals she slept with someone out of spite after he called her a derogatory name at Chabad. Matched him on Tinder a year later, went over, had sex, laughed at the condom moment, told him horror stories afterward, and he kicked her out.

Racial Preferences in Dating

Round-table on racial preferences. Ariel: prefers white men, dated black men before but happier since switching. Becca: prefers white men. Yasmin: same race (Persian) preferred but not exclusive. Violet: no preference (last partner was Asian). Madison: attracted to white men (brunette, brown eyes, thick eyebrows); first two partners were Asian.

Height Preferences

Round-table on height requirements. Becca (5'7"): 5'6" minimum, 5'10"+ preferred. Yasmin: above 6 feet preferred. Madison (5'2"): 5'6"+ preferably. Violet (5'0" inferred): not a size queen; high school BF was 5'5". Brian: women's height must start with 4 (jokingly about preferring petite women).

Sugar Daddies, Sex Work, and OnlyFans

Discussion of sugar daddies (Becca had one unintentionally — her spineless ex). Violet's OnlyFans: someone tipped her $5,000 in a night. Violet on weirdest requests: scat (declined), peeing in nature (has done). OnlyFans content restrictions discussed. Whether OF girls simp for men to compensate for their work.

Firearms Ownership

Round-table: would you date someone who legally owns a firearm? Yasmin says yes (protection). Becca: yes (ex took her shooting, changed her view). Violet: yes, owns two guns herself. Madison: yes.

Rachel's Walkoff — Misogyny Debate

Viewer donation tells Rachel to abandon feminism. Rachel calls the panel "misogynistic." Brian asks her to define misogyny. Rachel becomes upset, cannot define it, starts crying, and leaves the show at ~3:43. Post-walkoff discussion: Brian frustrated (was just asking for a definition), Yasmin says it was Rachel's first time facing consequences of her actions, Madison says keeping her crying would not help.

After-show Discussion Topics

Topics after Ariel and Rachel left: love and whether it's necessary for long-term relationships; deal breaker if guy doesn't perform oral sex; most attractive hobbies; would you date a trans person; immigration and 50/50 split debate; Grim Reaper hypothetical (sacrifice yourself or spouse); Alpha/Beta male theory; reactions to streamers Asmongold and xQc Instagram profiles; Violet invited back for Tuesday show.

If a Guy Gets a Girl Pregnant

Brian asks: what do you say to a guy who got a girl pregnant but doesn't want the kid? Panel: step up, take responsibility, use protection in future.

Pro-life / Pro-choice Round

Brief round-table. Becca: pro-life. Yasmin: pro-choice politically but personally pro-life. Violet: keeping private. Madison: goes back and forth.

Wrongful Conviction Loyalty Test

Brian asks: if your boyfriend/husband was wrongfully convicted, how long would you wait? Violet: forever (would be like military wife). Becca: yes, 10+ years. Yasmin: forever. Madison: yes.

Grim Reaper Hypothetical

Brian asks: Grim Reaper says take your life or your husband's — who do you choose? Yasmin: herself. Violet and Becca: themselves (strategic reasoning about husband fighting the Reaper). Brian debates whether self-sacrifice or survival is more "Alpha."

Transcript

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Rachelyeah not like out loud oh here we go uh first girl serious advice you need to stop making decisions and choices find a man in your family

Rachelwho is sensible and who really cares about you and just take their advice seriously also abandon feminism it's truly poison okay you guys are all just like really misogynistic um I don't

Rachelnecessarily need a man to tell me I also have females who can support me I feel like women and men can both provide that wait what what is misogynistic

Rachelabout his statement here well I don't know why it has to be a man what why why does it have to be a man

Brian AtlasI think the problem why is that I'm not sure why that's misogynistic no not that I mean like what's the what's the def what do you how do you define

Beccamisogyny there's a lot of answers up there Brian yeah mhm no how do you define

Rachelmisogyny I don't know I don't like this what

Brian Atlashow do you I'm just asking how you define

Brian Atlasmisogyny can I go um are you okay like do you want like you want to go as and leave is it because I asked how you

Brian Atlasdefine misogyny is that the no I was just I wanted to make sure that we were like talking about because in in a debate I it's very important that you both people are

Racheltalking about the same thing and both people have things defined well I'm not going to answer how I'm using this in the context cuz I have signed a waiver

Rachelwait what never mind I don't do you want to just take a little breather or you could just stay at the

Racheltable I mean no I'd like to go home if L cuz I asked about how you define misogyny that

Brian Atlaswas that was the precipitating thing I've said some way more I don't know he's asking me to

Rachelabandon feminism it's like do you even know what feminism is it's like hey I I just never the one that's been like sitting here wanting a man to be a man

Brian Atlaswait what well let's talk let's try to talk well let's try to talk it through let's try to get to the bottom of this cuz cuz

Brian Atlasit seems like it's a position you're really strong on and we'd like to hear your your

Brian Atlasstance Nick

Brian Atlasso let me try to maybe parse what he was saying so Darien Murphy he was saying abandoned feminism you object to that which is

Brian Atlasfine um you also objected to him saying find a man you can certainly find like a strong woman in your family to um guide you too the reality is is like it doesn't

Rachelmatter about other people like the only person that can face you is yourself um yeah but you can always go to like a parental figure also you're already talking about like pornography

Racheland like no man is going to marry like yes there men that will marry women that do por pornography but you were also talking about how there's a lot of men that are judgmental of that and like things being potentially online forever

Rachelit's like this is like literally no different for me like for me it's like anyone can look this up I thought this was going to be like some little student podcast that like maybe

Brian Atlasfive people listen to I have no idea but okay so are you just on the adult content thing are you do you object to men having a

Rachelpreference for not dating women who have been engaged in that kind of adult content no I think it's really ridiculous that guys are also I've had a

Rachellot of guys sit there and complain about how they're jealous that women can actually go into that profession because a lot of males do not feel like they have a platform in that

Rachelbusiness um and I do think it's an industry I do think it's a business I respect it it's good it's Dandy I just can I please go

Brian Atlashome if you yeah no look if you want to leave you can leave I was hoping we could continue having a conversation but um just let it go okay I

Brian Atlasmean I mean if you're leaving we can't really offer that but

Brian Atlasokay what did it bro I don't know the chat's like what I'm trying to like have a conversation about

Yasminit okay whatever um I think that was the first time in her life she was faced with like the truth of and the consequences of her actions and I think yeah I think she was just like Gathering

Madisonlike everything she said on here and it just hit her kind of I could could see that in a bit bro I mean

Brian Atlaslike everyone in the chat's like bro let her let her go like I'm trying to reel her back into the conversation she had a she was

Brian Atlasupset I don't know if it was that Super Chat that got her or me asking her to Define what misogyny is but

Brian Atlaslike but if she that was really a pretty tame conversation um

Brian Atlashow is bro okay I was trying to like she was having a reaction I was trying her to like calm her down by talking to her

Brian Atlasthe chat wants to White night then fine whatever

Brian Atlasum so okay whatever bro um oh like it is what it is um I'm going to read a couple chats let's see

Brian Atlasuh Kate Robinson thank you for your honesty you have made me laugh a lot Rachel question mark what's your cat's

Brian Atlasname uh she left sorry Kate um let me see if we have any other chats but I mean was that crocodile

Brian Atlastears I don't know what do you mean like I think it was the first time life's funny is what's actually funny is if I can just like be meta and address it is she

Brian Atlasstarted crying and then you started reassuring her even though you disagree with her you weren't prepared to step up and actually be

Brian Atlaslike because once the tears come out yeah you're going to Plate her but that does nothing to actually address and the Chad is roasting me here but like simps I don't think it was anything

Violetit's white nighting it's white nighting guys fall for that a lot in arguments like girls crying but they shouldn't fall for it because it kind of gives into the girl and like then they end up

Yasminyou know doing habits like that just crying to get out of AR well the way I see it though is like this is the first time in her life where she's like oh these actions I've done in my past like are going to have consequences cuz I don't think she's ever thought about

Yasminlike there are consequences of what I've done in all these stories and it's going to like it's shaping her as like who she is as a human and now she has to like she just and I don't think she ever like

Yasminhas processed what she's gone through and for the first time she's like wow I've gone through a lot of stuff and I need to process this and I think that's what made her emotional honestly yeah the chat like

Brian Atlasthe chat was spamming and maybe this is why I ultimately would like I should not I should probably tried to keep her here and allow her to talk through what she was feeling but the chat was like Brian

Brian Atlaslet her go you're exploiting her blah blah blah it's like yo let's talk through what she is going through

Brian Atlaslike honestly if any of you said like we again just unsubscribe like if those of you who are like I literally asked her how she

Brian Atlasdefined misogyny and that made her cry I'm sorry like there's way heavier going on in the world than asking

Brian Atlassomebody in sitting at a table how you define misogyny I get that there was other conversations going on during the table but

Brian Atlaslike holy chat like if you think that I was like being a unsubscribe unsubscribe I don't want you as a viewer unsubscribe like I'm not going to be guilt tripped here

Brian Atlasbecause I was literally asking her how she defined a word she used I was trying to understand her position and then she's gonna start

Yasminokay whatever bro um it was probably and Maddie over here didn't have my back she was like oh you should let's not drag other people into what do you mean just move on I also don't think it had anything to do with you anything you

Yasminsaid I think it was just more it was probably most more so the Super Chat huh I think it was just more her own life overwhelmed her she's like she just she looked like she wanted to cry for a while yes exactly I think it was a

Brian Atlasculmination of everything it just was building up so okay whatever um I don't even know I mean obviously the Super Chat was kind of digging into

Brian Atlasher a little bit but I just asked her how she Define misogyny so whatever um but uh but no Maddie you were like oh just

Madisonlet her go whatever I I just don't think keeping her here crying would have done any better like she was already so set that she wanted to leave like she was super uncom able so I wasn't going to like I wasn't forcing her but I was

Madisontrying to like yeah yeah I understand that I think you hand it Well's you weren't yeah I think you hand it well it was just like it wouldn't have done us any justice just had her sitting here crying the whole time because if I think

Brian Atlasif I immediately was like oh okay like go ahead and leave I wanted to try to like reel her back in be like it's okay I thought it was working like it was no I was trying she started talking again like she chilled down on the crying and

Brian Atlasstarted talking so I thought it was fine but okay okay all right um all right I don't know I saw like literally every chat I saw now it seems like the chat is

Brian Atlaskind of back in my court a little bit but like every chat I saw was like elban let her leave let her leave like every single one so I don't know um I wasn't like forcing her to stay here I was just

Brian Atlastrying to like it's okay we can talk about it no big deal um so whatever uh I don't know if we've got any other chats

Brian Atlasbro today's just been a absolute show between everybody flaking that girl leaving early she Rachel crying and leaving early ah bro okay relax Brian you can

Brian Atlasstill continue with the show Al turning on okay whatever um let's see I think we got through all her

Brian Atlasstories pretty much um I'm thinking if there was anything else uh let's

Brian Atlassee should we do we could do a little bit of after show I guess yeah all right Nick do you want to hit the lights guys we're going to change the uh we're going to do a short after show then we're going to wrap um I

Brian Atlasthink we need to uh I guess we can keep it like this um guys I'm going to change the Triggers on streamlabs it's going to

Brian Atlasbe uh 20 and up to read slans and it's TTS is going to be 69 and up we're going to do a 20 minute after show then we're going to wrap up all

Brian Atlasright bro okay uh hold on guys I'm just getting that changed sorry guys I feel like honestly to I've literally carried a 4-Hour conversation not to be mean to any of

Brian Atlasyou guys I know I'm the host but like the burden of conversation has fell really heavily on me tonight which is difficult for 4 hours normally we have a

Brian Atlasbit more people so um I get I'm the host it's it I'm taking accountability it's on me but it really felt very one-sided

Violetconversationally so hey it is what it is um well you shouldn't focus on her so much because she was going in circles you know you should have passed it around a little more well I mean I

Brian Atlastry but uh I think she was just get no but but so like my goal is like if you hear something that somebody says anybody at

Madisonthe table is free to like oh let me add to that let me here's what I think about that and I feel like you even said in the beginning of the show you like if you guys have anything to add like just

Violetsay it like don't even ask if you can speak but I don't know little yeah I just think when the first chair is like a ramp Rambler it kind of it's hard to

Madisonjump in you know so but you can't really I don't know she was telling her own personal stories like yeah it was she had a lot of stories yeah it was a lot to

Brian Atlasprocess to hear I maybe I should have now people are in the chat are saying Brian you were doing fine reeling her back in you

Brian Atlasshould have let her stay mhm now they just now they're like bri I'm getting such conflicted messaging literally it was spamming in the chat Brian Let Her

Brian AtlasGo Let Her Go I was like oh am I like I don't know now kissing up so okay trying to make up um oh let

Brian Atlasme just oh uh so okay oh did I read this one okay I did um I think I CH made the changes in

Brian Atlasstreamlabs so TTS is 69 Reed is 20 and up that's both Super Chat and streamlabs guys so if you yeah we can pull up

Brian Atlastwitch really quick okay all right Ravon thank you for the prime Superman thank you for the five Community subs thank you man really appreciate it Superman thank you for the five gifted Subs appreciate it D lit

Brian Atlasthank you for the Prime brics thank for the prime Jordan thank for the tier one finga thank for the prime really appreciate it man tough episode yeah it is what it is 10 flakes today um

Brian Atlasum pulling teeth at points but um let's see uh I'm trying to think what

Brian Atlaselse the PE someone said the Optics look bad because she was crying I mean okay should we maybe we should have her back and like she's

Brian Atlasnever coming back she might yo pubcast thank for the 10 uh gifted she might you never never did she ask at the end right before she left no she she no like right she she

Madisonsaid something to Nick and you were like well that's not going to happen if like don't worry about it okay um watch watch experiment I'm just going

Madisonto go silent so what do you guys look in what do you guys what is your dream

Brian Atlasman what do you guys look for in a man a beard a beard and wait we should have Violet take her seat Violet do you want to go over there

Violetokay sorry what was that her phone it's

Violetfine I'm allow to sit on my phone right I've been doing that yeah you can sit on it does it does it vibrate no it's on okay just not trying to

Violethave someone okay never mind like who do you want to be your husband when you turn 28 um uh someone

Violetfrom Texas someone older someone with the beard um yeah what is the age range that you usually date in well if I'm

Violetgoing to be 28 I would say from 35 to 45 would be good because family kids eventually I like to mess around with older guys but to get

Madisonserious with someone they would have to be around 35 to maybe even 55 yeah do you do you guys both would you guys say that you both are like older men as well

Yasminlike same age and above same above like how what's like what's the oldest that you would go you're 32 right

Yasmin32 I think it all depends on like that particular person ideally maybe someone like like within one to

Beccalike 8 n years of my age range MH what about you um I'd say I've I was more open I guess when I was first started

Beccadating to date younger and older but now I kind of lean towards older by a few years so why do you think that women

Madisonnowadays try to go for older men specifically men my age do not want to get their hands dirty and I want a man

Violetwho what do you mean get their hands dirty like I have a handyman for example he's amazing and anytime I call him over he's like leaving his job to come and paint this or you know he's just like on

Violetthe ball and he's not afraid to do whatever he needs to do and he's like 60 and I can't find someone who's like 20 or 30 to come and do that because and he's like yeah I thought I would have so

Brian Atlasmuch competition but no nobody wants to work and I feel like guys wait is he one of your simps or is he actually like a handyman no he's a handyman yeah but you says he leaves whatever he's doing to

Violetcome in yeah he has an actual job but I pay him to do handyman work oh like he has an actual job still I mean I pay him good like he could probably just work for me and make good money but what do

Violetyou mean just work for you like just do handyman things for me like and he'll even do gardening if I need some gardening done yeah but I'm sure you don't have like a full-time job for him

Brian Atlasdo you yeah but is your house is your house just a catastrophe that's constantly like no I have multiple properties oh okay she's got multiple properties have you ever been a sugar

Brian Atlasmama no you wouldn't do that no even with all your your vast wealth and riches and yeah I mean I would definitely like pay on a date or

Violetsomething do you ever s for dudes would you s for a guy no no I don't think so unless I'm I guess if that means totally falling in

Brian Atlaslove with a man and doing whatever for him then yeah I guess because I've heard from some only fans women

Brian Atlasthat they have to like s for a dude in a relationship like almost to make up for the fact that they do this

Brian Atlaskind of undesirable thing which is like have only fans do sex work doing porn maybe I don't know I'm not

Brian Atlasrelating well it's like there are women who do only fans who recognize that this makes them a less suitable partner and so they feel

Brian Atlaslike they have to make up for it by and they'll make up for it by like financially supporting the guy in the same way that men who are deficient in

Brian Atlasone realm of that would in a realm that would be attractive to women women like okay maybe he's not attractive or maybe he's not good-look but he's wealthy

Brian Atlasthey'll try to lead with their money and try to make up for it with their money so I think there are some only fans girls that will do that they make up for

Brian Atlastheir this deficiency in their character essentially or in their value in the market in the dating Marketplace by sing for guys and like bit paying for

VioletI can see that happen you you've never encountered that I don't know no but I could I I've seen that happen before for sure okay and it's yeah I think it's probably just feeling bad about what you do a little bit and so

Violetyou're like well I do this so I'm good but um it's probably just a coping mechanism I think a lot of people go into the industry and not really think about the things you have to face later

Violetin life and I think I'm doing a pretty good job with it okay can you oh wait I I'm watering it

Violetjust kidding yeah Brian would wait wait what oh the water yeah she doesn't have water I don't have any in it though in this

Brian Atlasyeah thank you um I'm trying to remember where I was uh what was my other question would

Brian Atlaswould any of you date a uh trans man I guess no no no would would you object to a guy not wanting to date a trans

Brian Atlaswoman like if I didn't want to date a transgender woman that's like dating a man would would you guys have an issue with that like if you didn't want to date a trans woman yeah wouldn't that be

Violetdating a man just you dating a man no no I wouldn't have an issue okay no all right um yeah that's an interesting one

Violetdefinitely don't get that but I don't understand the the like forcing people into dating someone you like like if I say I'm not a

Violetlesbian people kind of have gotten offended by that before why would that be offensive that you're not I've done like girl girl content or just like you know could I mean that could just mean you're buy or not even buy you're just

Madisondoing it for work well yeah you're just doing it for work yeah yeah um yeah I feel like I've heard that conversation though like of people

Madisongetting offended that you're like not willing to or that you're not lesbian I feel like I've gotten that before it's just it's not like not like they're like oh my God

Madisonyou're you're you're not into girls it's just kind of like oh like it's a huge like turn off for some reason like like I've let them down like I've ruined their lives because I'm like not

Violetbisexual or anything like that MH I've seen that I've felt that before um the funny thing is is I will do a show with a girl but I would never do one with

Violetwith like a transgender MH yeah I you're about to be you're about to be canceled Violet well canel particular about who I am doing content with no matter who it

Violetis you know I'm very particular about it so so are you like planning on not dating anyone for like a while not seriously I'm for a while because I just don't have time or my

Brian Atlaslife isn't in that spot but you you own multiple properties like if you wanted to do you think you've made enough that you could retire yes okay but obviously I

Violetmean there's no is there such thing like you always want to make more right yeah um M money and I think that

Violetjust while I have my looks or you know obviously I'm not going to have them forever so I would like to make the most out of while I can be on camera sure okay

Brian Atlasum let's say a guy came along now right you're 23 you've made you've made good money he's made good money and he says Violet listen your past is your

Brian Atlaspast I want to forge a new future I want you to stop doing only fans I want you to stop doing porn I

Brian Atlaswant you to stop doing sex work I want to pump out 10 darkhaired blue-eyed

Violetchildren do you do you accept yes if I'm in love with the man then yes I accept I'll pump out as I'm not pitching I'm not pitching chat

Violetrelax I'll pump out as many babies as my man wants me to pump out when I get to that place in my life and I don't think I will be

Violetsuitable for camera after that unless I get what is that lebia oh no Leia placeo it's Theo what huh lipo lipo yeah you

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Brian AtlasVina the vagina the vagina f surgery on your Vita veg yeah like women have done that yo pull up pull up my

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Brian Atlasyeah BLM yes I Violet I want you to say that you support BLM into the look into this camera right here say it this one

Violetright here oh I'm looking at myself I support big

Brian AtlasLeia matters raise your fist fist in the air make a fist no that's definitely not

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Violetokay bro you stop being Haram #blm say I'm not saying bro that's my it's pull it up pull it up pull

Violetit up # that's my nonprofit say big a matter oh my God bro wow okay you're trying to make me

Brian Atlassay things no I'll say it #blm no you got to do the fist right #blm what the okay did you post the black screen too no I didn't do that I'm

Brian Atlasnot a sheep oh I totally thought you would have done that you thought I would have posted like during the green yeah did you no no I didn't I had actually

Brian Atlashere's the funny story chat get this I was dating a girl for two months is it two months three

Brian Atlasmonths uh the George Floyd riots people are posting black screens my girlfriend sort of girlfriend breaks up with me because I didn't

Brian Atlaspost the black screen a black screen oh my God yeah cool that was divisive and this was when I was still

Brian Atlaskind of dating like kind of chat I know look I was kind of dating liberal

Violetwomen was she black no she's a white woman oh it was my per I would look I was I remember there being so much drama

Violetliberal woman I regret it yeah what's that yeah there was a lot of drama like oh yeah people being like you know I'm unfollowing you if you're not supporting this or silence is violence

Brian Atlasand if you knew that it would save your relationship would you go back and do it no no so you didn't really like her that much no it's not about I'm not

Brian Atlasgoing to lie I believe in speaking the truth I'm not going to lie to continue to get yeah know I

Brian Atlasjust didn't know if that you like didn't do it purposefully or not no but you're ask you're asking would I go back to save the relationship would I post it and I'm no y'all were together for two

Brian Atlasmonths you said or like two three months or something yeah so good times shitty reasons to get broken up with or maybe it was a good reason I don't know blessing in disguise yeah you're not

Brian Atlaslike super deep into it if it's only a couple month no I wasn't I I just thought it was funny I was like okay once I had a girl yo I've told the story before

Brian Atlasum I I was on a date with a girl and I brought like a this this exact not this one but like a water bottle just like this it used to be pulling Springs now it's origin now it's secret juice

Brian Atlasum she towards the end of the date starts complaining about the fact that I brought a plastic water bottle to the

Brian Atlasdate was she against plastic she like you're killing was like oh super environmental type chick and she basically torpedoed the date because

Brian Atlaslike I I believe in protecting the environment like yeah plastic is bad but it's a like relax bro it's a water bottle I'm running out the door

Brian AtlasI'm going to grab a ball and then I so then I flipped the on her I was like did you wear makeup tonight

Brian Atlasokay that that is people harvesting uh like they it's uh child child labor in in Asian countries and in

Brian AtlasAfrica they're harvesting ma to put miciah to put in your concealer and to put in your all your so um the makeup in cosmetics industry is an

Brian Atlasincredible waste there's no utility to makeup and then I was like you're wearing makeup it comes your makeup comes in a little plastic container doesn't

Brian Atlasit and then she got all but well it's not the same okay shut up and then and then I was like and then I asked her how frequently she travels and then she just

Violetgot butt hurt and then left oh my goodness she brought it up you you don't want the smoke don't ask don't try to make a big deal of my plastic use yeah and it's one little thing like if she actually has a problem with it

Violetit's something you can pick and choose your battle over and be like okay well if I really like this guy maybe I'll tell him later that I you know if it's really that big of a deal plastic bottle thing did you me her on a dating app

Brian Atlasyeah it was a dating app uh on should have put that in her profile no plastic that's so weird though like first off

Brian Atlasthe the environmental impact is not being caused I mean to some degre is not being caused on an individual level it's

Brian Atlascorporations that are responsible for the vast majority of environmental waste so and then also like if you look at for example shipping is a huge thing because

Brian Atlasonce um I could be semi- wrong on this once uh uh shipping vessels get into International Water they can start burning a uh different kind of fuel

Brian Atlaswhich is really I don't know if it what it's not what's it called anybody in chat can you tell me what the there's a fuel that shipping vessels

Brian Atlasburn uh does anybody know what I'm talking about well I think the environmental crisis is just another propaganda of like a form of control bunker fuel bog thank you they start burning bunker fuel once they're in

YasminInternational Water okay go ahead what is sorry I was going to say the environmental crisis I feel like that's just another propaganda and like just a form of

Brian Atlascontrol word word Good Times um what's up sure uh Violet can you read this one

Violetfor us on the subject of rating why does 4 to six average feel offensive or people feel bad saying them also for body count does it change if you compare number to

Violetestablish relationships compared to Body Count versus just body

Violetcount if it no it's all the same I think if you had a sexual encounter that counts right oh yeah yeah sexual

Violetencounters are all counted for body counts I think it kind of Chang to established relationships it's kind of like you have a body count because

Yasminyou've been in a relationship or cuz you've had like multiple one stands like does that make a difference and I think it does well I mean

Brian Atlasyour if your body count gets high enough there's in between your relationships prior to relationships after relationships there's been you've probably had casual sex like it

Brian Atlastypically what most people are going to have only a handful of like serious relationships it's just so um I don't know but for the first question why does four to six feel

Brian Atlasoffensive most people are four to six like that's average most people are average looking it's not it is what it is oh for the rating of looks got it I think that's what he's talking about

Brian Atlasyeah for is say six average it's offensive because most people want I think they're 10 or higher yeah word uh okay what what else let me see if we

Brian Atlashave any chats here from streamlabs one sec we have

Brian Atlasuh is fake chess girl okay sorry sorry sorry sorry I don't know what I was reading there is that me um before we wrap up do you guys have anything you'd like to

Brian Atlastalk about any topics you'd like to hit

Violeton what's a hot hot top I feel like you have something no wait I had something and then I'm like oh crap I just ah yo chat one I want to know the

Brian Atlasfake TT titty fake titty uh comment oh I don't know it's just like a here can you read this one violet or wait uh sorry read this one Violet go go go quick

Violetquick quick cck where get chicks on glasses um 62 240 lb tatted 150k year Violet what's the best way to slide into those DMS uh uh

VioletInstagram Violet brand Danny I changed my last name okay rip I Summers I think was better I reckon well can't have all okay can't have what you want they like

Brian Atlastake a uh did they have a what's it called trademark did they get a

Violettrademark on it yes on Violet Summers yes damn um and he does things like that because he doesn't want you leaving the

Violetteam so yeah but brandan is my real last name so I might as well use it oh and then one day I'll get married and I won't even

Brian Atlashave that last name so would you hyphenate no okay that's kind of based okay uh let's see here oh we had this one can you read

Violetthis one it's good to see someone like Yasmin on the show that's that is not wait is good am I not supposed to read that no go ahead go ahead okay I'm so sorry that is not trying to look for for

Violetcontrol in the relationship and wants to be a mother and find something meaning meaningful and profound she will find it a that's sweet thank you Bentar

Brian Atlasappreciate it ligma thank you man appreciate it let me see if we have any else here I had oh wait what was my

Brian Atlasquestion I was going to ask uh it was a good one it was really good super good one of the best questions oh why don't we pull that one up if you can

Violetread it Violet I just want to tell my princess good night and I don't care if everyone calls me a wimp I love you good night

Violetis he did he call himself a s wimp wimp I think he meant s because I've never heard wimp I wimp oh really maybe he did

Brian Atlasmean wimp that's what am I swear I'm forgetting something there's something uh one last question I had something good but it's evaded

Brian Atlasme uh oh let's react to there's this video that was it like training with that experience no not the Sean Strickland one it's the

Brian Atlasgirl she's like I think in a sweatshirt or something Tik Tok yeah I think it's a Tik

TTS/ClipTok I could have all of this in my life and still afford to be me why would I ever want to invite a 50/50 man into that equation when I could have 500 men and I could live in the gifts all around

TTS/Clipme like a shrine in fact some might say I already do now pick me pck me girls and dusties will yell in your ear about what you should settle for and how you should live your life but you don't have to do that even if you're not watching me from your own apartment with your cat

TTS/Clipinside of it like I am posting right now you're still allowed to not want to go 50/50 these men will either bring you up with them or bring you down to their level and let's be honest it's never 50/50 it's usually

Brian Atlas9010 disavow um so her I'll let the girls react to that first agree disagree um

Violetdisagree okay yeah she's why just kind of like very shortsighted on relationships I think yeah she

Beccawants to not commit to a guy and saying she can have 50,000 men or something I guess

Brian Atlasdisagree but you don't want 50-50 well I don't no so you kind of agree with

Violether I've always been told that relationship should be a 100 100 I've heard that yeah huh um it's kind of an empty platitude though I mean I think when people say

Brian Atlas50/50 that's probably giving your 100 because then you make well I think when PE when people are talking about 5050 they I

Brian Atlasthink there's a difference between both people giving the um how do I articulate this there's a difference there

Brian Atlasbetween people giving the relationship they all and then 50/50 50/50 makes it like transactional versus someone giving it at their all

Brian AtlasI'm just confused now this mat is getting me all up if you're both 100

Violet100 and then you take comp yeah tell us the math the 100 and put that up on top you get a route 2500 and then you're

Violetgood till death do its part totally checks out makes perfect sense do its part um but yeah I don't know what I was going to say after that what about you

Yasminwas that on the video like saying that she has enough money to sore herself and that's why she doesn't man I guess

YasminI it hard yeah also she's very masculine like in her her demeanor and approach so I'll say like I would want to see what she says in like 20 30 years when she's

Madisonall alone and she doesn't have her looks to rely on and with fast money comes slow problems I also disagree I think that

Madisonone great man in your life can be the biggest blessing in the world

MadisonWorld wait say that again why where were you looking I don't know I I keep staring like in between the Monitor I don't know

Brian AtlasI'm seeing things but I'm looking for my really dope question that I definitely had lined up that I'm trying to get to uh let's see um what's

Yasmineverybody's type h I asked that she she likes beards a man who wants to have kids a man who wants to stab kids no who wants to have

Madisonkids like a part of like type I heard she wants to stab kids what the generally a lot of men want to have kids mhm types sticking around after you have

Brian Atlaskids maybe oh oh I know what to do stick around I know what to do Nick can you pull up the can you pull up um asmin

Brian Atlasgold and xqc their Instagram profiles we've we've reacted to it before um I while Nick is doing that I have a question for the

Brian Atlasladies all right does height matter o yes a little bit uh so I I want to ask

Violethow tall are you what's like bare minimum height for a guy good question uh we'll start with you and then we'll just go around the table I'm 5 foot so it's not that big of a deal if you're

Violettoo tall you have to be taller so I guess five five at least 5 five minimum at least yeah at least yeah but preferably what preferably uh six

Brian Atlasfoot 5 feet but oh Nick can you also pull up that that Meme the it's in the meme folder so go into Dropbox

Brian Atlasdon't pull it up yet Dropbox podcast memes uh it's the too short one what about you how tall are you bare minimum

Beccaheight for a guy I am 5'7 um bare minimum I'd say like yeah my height 5'6 5'7 preferably 510 and

Madisonup okay what about you I'm 5'6 preferably above six foot preferably above six foot okay Madison what about you I'm 52

Brian Atlaspreferably 5'6 or taller okay I mean I'll say my preference um her height has to start with four

Brian Atlashonestly for height doesn't start with four it's just like what's the point you know like I know you're 5et you're 5et you're too short for me or so sorry

Violetyou're too tall I was like am I no no I that up you're too tall sorry why is it that you find for foot just cross yall a list so sad shoot you

Violetknow I was thinking too cuz you were like will oh actually go on I'll I'll continue that later I don't want to interrupt no go ahead go ahead oh um you

Violetasked me earlier about getting more men because I or getting less men because of what I do not being able to find someone but I come from a really small so I feel like

Violeteither way my chances have expanded greatly with a good man um rather than just staying in my town and finding someone

Brian Atlasthere you want to the me yeah let's do the meme first so this is this is

Brian Atlasuh like short women who are like I've got to date a tall guy who's 6 feet so like a short chick who's 5 feet sorry I don't date guys below 6 feet and the dude's like 5 S it's like I'm still taller than you what the we've

Brian Atlasdefinitely had on like short women who are like 5 feet 5' one who are like he's got to be six feet yeah I say that but then I'm like

Violetthinking like yeah um I'm not a size queen or anything so 6 feet is kind of big I don't think I've ever been with

Violetsomeone 6 feet tall my high school boyfriend was 5'5 so yeah all right she doesn't discriminate I guess there you go really uh and then what was the other

Brian Atlasthing we were looking up oh yeah would you date this guy so we'll scroll down we'll see the pictures just wait until we see all of them because maybe one catches your eyes so his name is Zach

Brian Atlashe's um he's a very nice guy he's a close friend he's a close friend of mine uh we we used to live in New Jersey together

Brian Atlasand um we actually had to leave New Jersey because he got he got involved with the wrong

Brian Atlascrowd Italian mafia so he had to leave that's why he has that axe there that is

Violetin okay um well I get off to Tony Soprano so if it's like that then maybe but I don't really go off someone's

VioletInstagram would you date Zach I said I don't go off anyone's Instagram just based off what you saw though would you give him a chance I would give him a chance yes I would

Violetcould I'm friends with him can I set you up with him where does he live New Jersey oh he does no he lives in Texas actually no way yeah where you go I think Austin

Brian Atlasreally yeah yeah I'll hang out with him is that where you live yes well I live uh in belon it's about an hour north so that's that's not far I think he's in Austin I don't I don't recall we've kind

Brian Atlasof you know well hit me up we've there was an incident with um a porcupine that we don't talk about so unfortunately

Brian Atlaswe've kind of haven't talked in a while but yeah it's a it's a heartbreaking story is's relationship okay it's okay we're we're it's it's amicable but

Brian Atlasthere's a history there so okay do you think but you'd be down to like kick it with him if he's a normal guy yeah okay what what about you I I go on a date

Brian Atlaswith them you go on a date with him okay no no Maddie if you were single no okay uh so go back to his profile so this is

Brian Atlasthis his name is Zach he's a twitch streamer scroll up to the top I love it uh his name his name is asmin gold his uh streaming name one of the top

Brian Atlasstreamers on Twitch very popular so maybe Violet maybe could I try to set you up for a little rendevu at Zach's AB I think his beard is really

Violetsaving him here and he pulls it off very well it's full he's got a full it could use some conditioner but we can fix that he's a viking yeah for sure but he looks

Madisonfeminine and he's in Texas no th that is Peak male performance pull it up again this is Peak male performance how dare you say he looks feminine what do you think he's got axe look at that

Brian Atlasyou talk you talked about you were talking about alpha males you were talking about alpha males earlier this is the epitome of an alpha male he will chop your head off for

Brian Atlasyou not your head he'll chop his head off for you yes which head are we talking about never mind um yeah we'll do we'll do next guy uh

Brian Atlasokay so how about this guy this guy's name is Felix and um you know okay there he is

Brian Atlaslook he's uh all right he's a close friend he's a friend of mine you know um he gives me like MGK vibes okay all

Brian Atlasright look he's got a cat um his hair is blonde dyed blonde he could be like a Calvin Klein

Brian Atlasmodel okay um a that's a cute little picture which the first one he this one the one where he's like super intense looking like he's going to murder you

Madisonthat's the one yeah that's probably like okay most pure picture yeah very pure yeah would say he's like oh I'm focused he looks like he's like about to talk

Brian Atlasto some like say some racist in the Call of Duty Lobby like puppy dog that's pure for you what the all right um so going around the table would

Violetyou would you date them no no not my the tall skinny like MGK look

Beccathat's not me not you yeah okay what about you um I don't really like the dyed blonde look I'd like to see like

Brian Atlashis natural hair okay all right so I guess no also no he kind of looks feminine Madison

Brian Atlasno sorry Felix okay let go back uh go back to his profile this is Felix his name's xqc on he's a streamer he

Brian Atlasrecently signed a kick deal for what was it chat was it 20 million or was it 100 million was it 100 million or was it I

Brian Atlasthink it was 100 million kick deal right um does that change anything 100 Mil excuse me $100 million kick deal does that change anything

Brian Atlasthat's retire you money never have to work a day day in your life money but it doesn't change anything doesn't change anything that's like a top

Brian Atlas0.00001% earner nothing no that's crazy wow well good for him okay all right it doesn't change anything I'm not

Brian Atlasgoing to lie I might go gay for that I'm just saying like gay for pay you did gay for pay I might go gay for whoa whoa whoa whoa okay hide that um well I think I might I might give him a chance

Violetbut if I'm not happy I wouldn't stay with someone for yeah just because I'm like oh well I need this chick deal okay all right all right what if you met him and you really liked his

Violetpersonality though does that change anything he's French Canadian yeah I can definitely fall in love like you know start liking a guy a lot just because his personality he doesn't even have to be like wo attractive they just can you

Beccaknow put their body language and their smooth talk that's very important the coolness of a guy is he funny I have I I

Brian Atlasfor me humor is really important huh for me yeah I guess he's funny okay he's a good guy he's one of my friends he's a close friend okay he was also involved in the Italian mafia in New Jersey for

Violetsome reason I don't know well that changes things for the better are you more turned on yes I told you I get off to Tony Soprano I'll pause like an episode I'm like oh save that for later you

Nickknow you hypocrite I love her I don't like that kind of

Brian Atlastalk it's his mom do you guys have any questions before we wrap up the show any questions you'd like to

Brian Atlasask are you going to get married am I going to get married yes do you plan to um I'm going to stop this podcast cast because it is destroying my life I'm going to marry you we're not going to

Brian Atlassign a prenup I'm going to divorce you in 7 years for lifelong alimony no if I get married I'm not getting divorced I'm so sorry oh you don't have a say though you're not getting divorced but I

Violetam so you're going to make me quit my adult work we're going to live happily together for 7even years you can do solo content dep on you can do solo content okay okay that's sweet of you I will allow to do solo content out of the good

Violetof my heart I love the compromise we're already making here like perfect um so yeah I'm going to depend on you for a good seven years probably make like five kids and then you'll leave me seven kids

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