Adam22, Lena The Plug vs. Lila Rose, Isabella DeLuca, Ruslan | Dating Talk #93

Date: 2023-08-23
Duration: 4h 28m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Ruslan(guest)
SPEAKER_02Lena The Plug(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_04Adam22(guest)
SPEAKER_06Christy(guest)
SPEAKER_07Lila Rose(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brenna/Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brenna(guest)
SPEAKER_10Isabella DeLuca(guest)

Key Moments

00:01:50
QuoteLena The Plug introduces herself: 32yo OnlyFans creator and mom, married to Adam22.

hi everyone I'm Lena the plug I'm 32 years old and I'm an only fans Creator and a mom

00:07:07
QuoteAdam22 explains Lena's first MFM scene with Jason Love was framed as a "wedding present" joke — but it was actually a pre-wedding agreement. Jason Love later had beef with Adam by talking on podcasts.

we were talking because we were thinking about doing like a sort of like game show type thing or like an American Idol type tryout thing for us to find the next dude

00:13:00
QuoteLila Rose states she and her husband practice fidelity as a sacred promise; intimacy is for marriage alone. First response to Adam22 and Lena's open arrangement.

Fidelity is really really big we think that's part of being married is that it's a sacred promise to each other

00:26:05
QuoteAdam22 describes watching Lena's C-section and realizing he is committed to her for life regardless of circumstances.

I'm watching the doctor slice her stomach open and pull the baby out like The Lion King and I'm just witnessing that and just realizing like oh I am sticking around like it does not matter

00:31:05
QuoteLena explains the Jason Love MFM scene: it was a business decision, not infidelity, because it was fully disclosed. Not cheating because they discussed it beforehand.

for us if it's not cheating or infidelity because it was all you know talked about... if I was texting Jason right now probably that would be considered cheating but me having... told my husband...that was not cheating

00:31:47
QuoteAdam22 describes their open relationship as primarily on-camera only; almost never hook up with others off-camera. Distinguishes from Destiny-style full polyamory.

we almost never in the past like three four years have really hooked up with anybody off camera not that we have anything against it it just hasn't really it just it's primarily a work thing

01:26:14
QuoteAdam discloses body count of approximately 600.

like 600-ish 600-ish okay

01:27:16
QuoteLila Rose cites stat: 56% of divorces list pornography as a reason; the top site for trafficking victims is porn sites.

56 of divorces list pornographies of one of the partners as one of the top reasons... the top site that trafficked victims are at according to the data is porn show sites

01:46:07
QuoteLila Rose reveals she was a virgin when she married at age 30 and was mocked for it; advocates normalizing virginity before marriage.

I got married at 30 and I was a virgin and people were like you're so crazy you're so weird like how could that be

02:11:07
QuoteRuslan reads Matthew 5:27-28 ("You have heard it said you shall not commit adultery but I say to you anyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery") to argue porn is a sin by Christ's own words.

this is Jesus speaking it's in red he says you have heard that it was said You shall not commit adultery but I say to you

02:25:51
QuoteChristy self-discloses body count of approximately 22, describing it as very low given her opportunities as an OnlyFans creator.

mine's probably around 22... that is a very very low body count... compared to how many opportunities I have on a daily basis

02:26:18
QuoteLila Rose discloses body count as 1 — her husband only. She was a virgin when she married at 30.

it's eighteen is Lila... it's just my husband one

02:27:48
QuoteBrenna tells the story of meeting a man from the phone number on the side of his truck, going on a date and discovering he was a little person, then faking an emergency to escape the date.

I see this guy pull up in a truck next to me and I'm like oh he's kind of cute and he's like call me... my mom comes upstairs she's like Bren your date's here... and I walk outside and he's a legit [little person]

02:33:27
QuoteBrenna shares ghosting story: ex-boyfriend of 2.5 years disappeared entirely — all belongings gone; his father called her father to end things. She never heard from him again.

I came home one weekend he was gone all of his stuff was gone and then his dad reached out to mine to tell me it was over and I haven't heard from him since

04:03:00
QuoteAdam22 argues he would not pay for the first date if the woman out-earns him; but ultimately paid for Lena's first date (diner). Explains paying is peacocking to signal financial stability.

I feel like I understand there's like a value to the peacocking that you're doing by paying it's just like sort of demonstrating that you're not broke

04:20:15
QuoteAdam22 reflects that the intangibles — Lena's loyalty during his lowest moments — made her irreplaceable regardless of her body count history.

I have been at the lowest points in my life and she was somebody who you know was just there for me 100 of the time... it would have been like a catastrophic mistake in retrospect [to write her off for body count]

04:24:13
QuoteRuslan cites "The Good News About Marriage" book: real divorce rate is ~38%, and for practicing born-again Christians who attend church it drops to 10-15%.

the real divorce rate's around 38 when you feel alive when you factor in people who make above average income and get this practice their faith... the divorce rate falls off the cliff... between 10 and 15 percent

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian opens show from Santa Barbara CA, introduces co-host Ashley Sinclair (formerly Kiki). Guests introduce themselves: Lena The Plug (32yo OF creator/mom), Adam22 (39yo podcaster), Christy (33yo OF model), Brenna (34yo publicist), Madison (18yo SBCC student/Whatever staff), Lila Rose (34yo Live Action founder), Ruslan (38yo YouTuber/Christian speaker), Isabella DeLuca (23yo conservative influencer/Think Tank fellow). Relationship status round: Lena married to Adam 7 years; Christy single 5 months; Brenna/Madison single; Lila married 15 years; Ruslan married 15 years; Isabella dating 1 month; Brian longest relationship ~1 year.

00:05:00
Adam22 & Lena The Plug: Open Relationship, Porn Career, MFM Scene

Extended discussion of Adam and Lena's marriage and content career. Lena's first MFM scene with Jason Love (framed as "wedding present" joke). Jason Love had beef with Adam after the scene by "yapping" on podcasts. Plan for future MFM partner selection ("American Idol"-style tryout). Adam and Lena discuss only shooting together (Adam did one solo scene when Lena had stomach virus). Adam explains need to clear sexual thought via masturbation. Discussion of whether their arrangement constitutes cheating — agreed it does not because fully disclosed. Lena: "if I was texting Jason right now probably that would be considered cheating but me having told my husband...that was not cheating."

00:30:00
Pornography Debate: Harm vs. Personal Freedom

Lila Rose and Ruslan vs. Adam22 and Christy on pornography's societal impact. Lila: average porn entry age 13; 56% of divorces list porn; trafficking victims appear on major porn sites; Utah porn law and PornHub withdrawing due to underage users. Christy: parents should parent better; kids shouldn't have iPads. Adam: porn is like alcohol — harmful to some, neutral for most; first saw porn at 11 from dumpster magazines. Isabella: no-middle-ground is unrealistic but age verification should exist. Ruslan: secular removal of God from society correlates with rising STIs, divorce, suicide. Lila advocates for federal age verification law.

00:59:30
Logan Paul vs. Dylan Danis / Body Count Debate

Discussion prompted by Dylan Danis attempting to embarrass Logan Paul by posting about his fiancee's past. Christy's "body count ratio" theory introduced: ratio of opportunities taken vs. offered matters more than raw number. Lena: double standard for men vs. women. Lila: consistent standard should apply to both sexes. Ruslan: body count matters, harder to pair-bond with higher numbers, statistically proven. Adam: 40-body-count girlfriend at 22 made him reconsider, but now would not write off Lena for her history. Christy self-discloses ~22 body count. Brenna: does not know her number. Lila: husband only (1). Ruslan: not disclosed. Isabella: history matters for current relationship, but redemption exists. Adam: ~600.

01:30:00
Religion, Sex, and Morality Debate

Ruslan reads Matthew 5:27-28 (lust as adultery). Lila explains theology: sex is for unity and procreation within marriage; porn creates lust, which is a sin by design. Christy argues she only did content with her boyfriend and does not feel she sinned. Ruslan: porn is like cocaine to cocoa leaf — processed form becomes harmful. Adam: neither masturbation nor porn has negatively affected his life. Christy: "I'm Catholic, I have a very good connection with God." Discussion of God's love as accepting where you are while desiring more for you (Ruslan's Adam-daughter analogy). Isabella: sex is sacred within marriage per the Commandments.

02:13:00
Abortion Discussion

Lila Rose: 2500 abortions per day in the US; sky-high numbers because people don't take sex seriously. Brenna: abortion can be justified in some circumstances (finances, abusive relationship). Lila: never justifiable to kill an innocent child; many abortions are coerced by abusive partners. Isabella: conservative, pro-life, was in an abusive relationship but did not have an abortion. Christy: pro-life, has never had a pregnancy scare. Discussion of financial circumstances as reason for abortion — Brian challenges if that is a valid justification.

02:25:00
Body Count Round (Direct)

Explicit body count disclosure round. Adam: ~600. Lena: will not disclose (advised by Adam not to). Christy: ~22 ("very low given opportunities"). Brenna: does not know / "30ish." Lila: 1 (husband only). Ruslan: not disclosed. Isabella: not disclosed (former engagement referenced). Brian: not disclosed.

02:40:00
Dating App Profiles Review

Brian reviews Isabella's Hinge profile live on show: notes all photos have filters/makeup. Christy shows Coffee Meets Bagel profile (kicked off Bumble for promoting OnlyFans; also on Hinge previously). Brian argues filters on dating apps are misrepresentation. Christy reads her Coffee Meets Bagel bio: "I have to weed out the weak... I hate feminism and I love toxic masculinity... men and women are not equals." Discussion of Christy's new breast augmentation (6 weeks prior). Brian and panel discuss catfishing via filters and whether dating app photos should be unfiltered.

03:10:00
How to Make Men Great Again

Panel asked how to make men great again. Christy: men are natural providers/protectors/hunters; society forces feminine energy on men to eliminate identity and control population. Ruslan: men should be in communities with older couples mentoring them. Isabella: no-fault divorce devalued marriage; people need to take marriage more seriously. Brian: find a traditional woman with low body count, no cluster B personality disorders, and no children from another man before marrying. Lila: marriage is awesome when both partners strive to be their best and serve each other.

03:20:00
Jealousy in Adam & Lena's Relationship

Q&A segment on jealousy in Adam and Lena's relationship (prompted by TTS donation from a fan couple). Lena: early jealousy during threesomes when not sure where they stood; desensitized over time. Adam: mild jealousy when he complimented another girl's Instagram in front of Lena; strong jealousy during Jason Love scene. Lena felt jealous during Adam's drunk podcast with grabby girls while pregnant. Adam: "some degree of jealousy is inevitable and is a sign of a healthy relationship." Ruslan: avoids situations that would cause jealousy. Lila: natural wiring for monogamy makes desensitization concerning.

04:02:30
First Date Paying Debate

Extended debate on who should pay on first dates. Brian: not obliged to pay; prefers splitting as sign of equality. Lena: Adam paid on first date (diner). Adam: paying is peacocking — signals financial stability; also a test to filter women just there for free dinner. Isabella: women contribute by getting dressed and doing makeup (takes time). Lila: paying signals provider dynamic — "I want to be a provider." Christy: would let a man pay, prefers it. Brian explains "gangster" strategy: arrive early, get own drink before she arrives so no obligation. Discussion of "foodie calls" — women going on dates for free food.

04:15:00
Marriage Skepticism vs. Pro-Marriage Debate

Brian: strongly resistant to legal marriage due to divorce laws, community property, alimony. Lila: custody issues exist even without marriage; preparing well for marriage reduces divorce risk. Adam: having a child made marriage feel obvious and important. Ruslan: real divorce rate ~38% (not 50%); drops to ~15% for practicing born-again Christians who attend church regularly. Isabella: people treat marriage as escapable due to no-fault divorce. Brian: three criteria for men considering marriage — no child from another man, no cluster B disorder, low body count. Lena: initiated prenup process with same lawyer as Britney Spears and Kim Kardashian.

Transcript

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00:58:32
Brian Atlascommunity note on it uh Nina AG doll oh wait stop it oh no yeah I gotta be careful a little bit wait scroll back up Scroll up a little bit uh
00:58:46
Brian AtlasI guess that's Nina with one of her exes scroll down keep scrolling down and these are just he's blasting them here okay yeah some of these might be a little uh
00:59:00
Brian AtlasI don't know I don't think so in any case uh Play that video play the video right there yeah you got a reason like if you're
00:59:13
Brian Atlasjust like I don't want to you anymore say that yeah like if you're just like in any case he's posting a lot of photos with Nina with other men there's a couple videos
00:59:26
Brian Atlasof her where she's you know like that one making some sexual comments there's one where she mentioned that she was at a stadium and gave a guy a blowy
00:59:37
Brian Atlasat a stadium or something I don't know basically just posting photos of uh her with some dudes and some kind of perhaps as viewed by some people unflattering
00:59:48
Brian Atlasstatements she made um so Adam you actually we have a video from Adam here um yeah full screen all right so Logan Paul has an upcoming
01:00:00
Adam22boxing match against this Dylan danis guy and Dylan's been going on a little bit of a campaign trying to embarrass Logan by pointing out all the guys that
01:00:09
Adam22his now fiance has spent time with before Logan ah this is Ja Rule Dylan I don't know how hip-hop fluent you are but this is one of the goats What's Love
01:00:20
Adam22Got to Do With It huh I'm not always there when you call but I'm always on time uh Dylan this is one of the goats if his girl has actually spent time in
01:00:31
Adam22the presence of Ja Rule then he should be proud of it I think the more men that your woman has spent time with before you get her the more desirable she becomes how about that Dylan also why was Dylan Dennis like the first guy in
01:00:44
Adam22my girls DMS as soon as she started to go viral with the Jason love thing uh I guess he says he's Armenian or whatever but uh you're a perv so let's just throw that out there can I do seasoning
01:00:56
Brian Atlasroll the one that also went with the fire festival thing yes yes thank you for mentioning that's very confusing to me it was important to mention that it's
01:01:07
Brian Atlasrelevant it's relevant I don't really trust shop roll I'm not gonna lie so obviously you're kind of joking a little bit you're handling it up but no but I do like when a woman has some
01:01:19
Lena The Plugmiles on her you know that doesn't bother me but every photo she's ever taken with another dude means that she's like not worthy of of a marriage anymore like maybe some of those relationships maybe some of them weren't but like who
01:01:31
Lena The Plugcares she's 31 years old of course she's gonna have experiences with other men I kind of doubt that she banged Ja Rule also Logan has a bunch of my friends no one's talking about that like I mean I I get that it
01:01:42
Lila Rosedoesn't matter when men do it but like you know it's like everybody knows like I have had a bunch she's witnessed it she's seen him her friends right I mean I think Lena you're on to something Lena you're on to something in that you
01:01:54
Lila Roseknow I I saw I heard about that whole kind of kirkhoffle happening on Twitter between the two and I do think that it is um inconsistent for a man to demand
01:02:05
Lila Rosesexual Purity from a woman and not demand it from himself and I think that we're seeing that a little bit because it's like okay this woman supposedly has slept with other men I mean there's like I don't know about proof of that but
01:02:17
Lila Rosethey're saying that she has but it's not like Dylan is saying Hey I want to stand for you know self-control and I'm going to be a man instead of they're claiming that part of being a man is being promiscuous that's typically the thought process and I think that's totally
01:02:29
Lila Roseuntrue I mean I think part of being a man and part of being a virtuous woman is total self-control and directing your energy towards good things and choosing good things and in a relationship that
01:02:41
Lila Roseis includes choosing Fidelity and choosing honor and choosing commitment so I kind of agree with you're taking that I think it's inconsistent of him to be doing that when he's trying to live that way at least that he hasn't said
01:02:52
Lena The Plugthat or he is you need to kind of date people to figure out like what you are into and what you're willing to put up with and not put up with I know you say love is a choice so in your position there could be an arranged marriage at 13 and those people just need it
01:03:05
Lena The Plugwouldn't be a choice but it wouldn't be a choice if it was arranged but if if they committed to get married to each other and they do get married then they have to still choose to love each other if they fully choose it I don't think they could choose at 13 or 15. Okay so let's say it was 18 and they just they
01:03:18
Lila Roselike let's get hitched because we want to yeah well I don't know since then if you get hitched just to have sex I think that's going to be a problem for you you should get married to yes you want to be intimate with the person you want to give your body to them and receive their body but it has to be more
01:03:30
Lila Rosethan just physicality it's about your spirituality it's about your lifelong plan of what we're going to do together we're going to create something beautiful together a family so marriage isn't just about sex sex is super important but it's not just about sex
01:03:42
Lila Rosefor example like if one of you had an injury right and you God forbid couldn't have sex would that make you the other person love the other person less no no would you still stay together
01:03:53
Lila Roseyeah what kind of injury you need to do that an injury that prevented at least for an indefinite amount of time you being able to be sexually intimate i here's here's the scenario I'll give you at least six months here's here's the
01:04:05
Lila Rosescenario but after six months you'd Cut Her Off I am out of here no I'm just kidding I'm gonna hold you down I have a flashlight I have a scenario for you Adam but that's beautiful you mean you stay together regardless of like your physical problems you would be committed
01:04:17
Brian Atlasto each other they could leave me if I got fat hell no we got a baby together I'm sticking around no matter what credit to uh Patrice O'Neill on this let's say uh Lenna is on the train and there's a
01:04:29
Brian Atlasterrible train accident and she loses the in the train accident um right
01:04:40
Adam22yeah I mean luckily for her she's got a mouth she's got an and she's got these great armpits realistically they secrete a lot of uh fluid throughout the
01:04:51
Adam22body right now I just I just found that out the hard way but um no yeah for sure like especially you know what when she had a a baby and you know I'm watching the doctor slice her stomach
01:05:03
Adam22open and pull the baby out like The Lion King and I'm just witnessing that and just realizing like oh I am sticking around like it does not matter that they're ripping her apart I could see her intestines they're pulling the child
01:05:15
Lila Roseout of her I'm on board like and and that was you know an important moment for me to realize like have you thought about like you've got a beautiful commit for each other have you thought about retiring and not continuing to
01:05:29
Lila Rosesleep with other people and just being completely exclusive with each other not just in your emotions but in your body which I think is just as an important just as important as emotions I think probably within let's say like
01:05:40
Lena The Pluglike three to four years that's probably quite likely is that we might uh but I think even if we retired with having sex on camera for money we would probably still do explorative things in our
01:05:54
Lena The Plugpersonal life because that's kind of how we got into the porn thing was we knew that we liked sharing our energy with a third person and that when that person even left the room our energy between us was actually a lot stronger yeah and I
01:06:05
Adam22figured that out when I first moved to California I had this girlfriend that I was seeing and we drove down to Tijuana and uh we ended up like banging some of the strippers at the strip club called Hong Kong
01:06:16
Adam22um and just us like we had that communal experience of banging strippers together and I swear to God the rest of our time together we were so close and then once I started seeing her and we kind of
01:06:28
Adam22started having those experiences like I think you would really be surprised at how the level of trust that it takes to involve somebody else in your relationship now I'm not saying it's always easy or smooth because obviously sometimes you'll have girls you know
01:06:40
Adam22lying on you or like you know creating weird narratives or just doing strange stuff in general but I do think that when it works it can be like a very uh Transcendent experience I think you're kind of making the point which I agree
01:06:53
Lila Rosewith that it's very high risk right like there's it can get very toxic quickly like even the guy that you were talking about earlier you're not really sure if you're texting with him like after the scene that you did there was not for
01:07:04
Lena The Plugeverybody I think like I'm not we don't just walk around talking about what we do with sex and trying to encourage other people to do it you know like I'm not saying go let your wife sleep with someone else it's really good for your relationship you definitely do it I don't think it's for everybody I don't
01:07:17
Lena The Plugthink everybody can handle it we can only do this because our relationship is in a really good place if our relationship was in a bad place threesomes everything's off the table because we're not connected so we can't open up ourselves to somebody else but
01:07:30
Lila Roseyou're most important I would I'm going to guess your most important sort of focus is protecting your relationship yeah that's the case Okay so if that's the case why would you kind of constantly put your relationship on the
01:07:41
Lena The Plugfoot of on the edge of the cliff again and again the reward is is like the risk is there but when you actually have to experience it makes our connections stronger when that person leaves what if
01:07:53
Lila Roseyou just fully invested in each other and you're like we're gonna find the high eyes and the lows together and keep this exclusive to us have you considered that have you tried that seven years I feel like we've probably felt a large
01:08:05
Lila Rosepercentage of the highs and lows you know but also like what we need is actually like keeping that intimate for yourselves like have you given that a year we're gonna just do we're just gonna be together cut out other people this is just for us again or maybe for
01:08:18
Adam22the first time it's not for the first time I mean uh we've had we've gone many months without doing things with other people but it's not like a huge deal to us at this point like honestly even when I met her and I was still single like I
01:08:30
Adam22was first starting to sort of like get to the level of clout when I started seeing her that I was having random girls come into my DMs and want to like come over with their friend and hook up and you know when I started seeing her
01:08:41
Adam22it was almost like kind of hard for me to let go of the filthy lifestyle that I had been living but now the perspective I have on like group sex and stuff is that I absolutely don't give a if I would be totally fine being in a
01:08:53
Lena The Plugrelationship with her I've offered him to go sleep with girls without me like if I have a sore throat I'm like I don't want to go to set today and he's like no no no let's just cancel like I'd rather do it with you I'd rather play Pokemon go or something yeah
01:09:04
Lila Roseyeah I mean I so the statistic is over 90 of uh non-monogamous relationships end up in separation or divorce 92 92 so you know I it's kind of that edge of the
01:09:16
Lila Rosecliff thing right because it sounds like it sounds like they shouldn't have gotten married for a second it sounds like you really value each other you've got a beautiful uh trust and like love for each other and you have a child and you want to have more children so have
01:09:30
Lila Roseyou thought about you know even separate from the straight up morality question which you know we're on the side of like this is not moral this is hurting other people actively the addicts the young kids the broken couples but even just
01:09:39
Adam22for the sake of your own marriage we put so much stress on our relationship like in the sense that us or her sleeping with another guy was like basically one of the biggest stories in the whole country or world
01:09:53
Adam22over the course of the past couple months and I could say that it put very little stress on our relationship because it just really wasn't that big a deal to us especially just because you know we do porn it's business to us you
01:10:04
Adam22know it was decided upon in a business sense I do think that honestly it might put more stress on our relationship if we were to have just done some sort of like sex party hookup thing that might be a little bit more treacherous in
01:10:16
Adam22terms of our relationship I think the reason why we were comfortable expanding our relationship and that we can do orgy type content and all that kind of stuff and it's not that that big a deal or that intimidating to us is because I've
01:10:28
Adam22been with her for seven years I have no doubt that she's never cheated on me I have no trust issues with her at all you know we're like completely comfortable with each other so that's why we felt like it wasn't that big a deal and
01:10:41
Ruslanthat's probably why we feel comfortable doing it again even after having been so massively in the news over the past couple months Adam you don't see the increase in opening a relationship up to risk though we're just giving you
01:10:53
Ruslanstatistics 90 of relationships you guys are functionally in a non-monogamous relationship even though privately you may not be it seems like you guys have something special and it seems like you guys have a child and a beautiful family you decided to get married you decided
01:11:05
Ruslanto say the vows and it seems like there's this roaring going on inside of you guys where you have certain values and you have certain things that you want for your kids and this unit yet at the same time I'm just perplexed by the
01:11:17
Ruslanmotivation I don't see those things to be contradictory that we want to have a great life for our kids and stuff and then we also are willing to you know do I'm talking about for your own Union like like it seems like this increases the likelihood of this potentially
01:11:29
Adam22ending which I I don't want for you guys I don't we've never really discussed it in those terms I don't think of it that way and I think if anything it kind of made our sex life a little bit more exciting for a period of time just the fact that I had a little bit of
01:11:43
Adam22competition a little bit more of a reason to go hard you know and I don't necessarily think that's the worst thing I do have a question though so if your last thing on this because I feel like we've been dog piling a little bit sorry oh it was Adam here um if like going off and like sleeping
01:11:55
Lena The Plugwith other people is not out of bounds with your marriage what would you consider something out of bounds of your marriage well this actually is out of bounds with our marriage like we we only have sex with other people on camera but
01:12:07
Lena The PlugI think if we ever opened up a relationship to anything more like we we don't we want emotional monogamy and it's physical non-monogamy that we have and like so for us cheating would be
01:12:18
Lena The Pluglike dating other people but also doing something that we didn't previously discuss like we have a calendar of all the girls we're gonna have a threesome with if Adam decided he was gonna go a girl that wasn't on the calendar and I didn't know about it that's cheating yeah 100 yeah like her doing
01:12:32
Adam22that scene with the other guy like there was no betrayal of trust it was just content which I feel like the statistics of like 92 percent of people in polyamorous relationships or whatever they break up it's like it's probably
01:12:43
Adam22not necessarily including because like we know a ton of porn couples who do stuff with other people and they do it on camera and it either helps their relationship or it seems like it's just kind of a non-factor which I will kind
01:12:55
Lena The Plugof put us in that box I've only been married like 50 years do you think they make it that long I mean there's not people who are 70 in porn so but like after
01:13:07
Lena The Plugat least a few couples who are in their late 40s who have many kids and happy marriage so uh let's try to bring it back to uh the Logan Paul and Dylan
01:13:19
Brian Atlasdanis thing so uh I guess a couple questions here one do you guys think that Dylan has gone and what I would like to go around the table fully so we can give everyone a chance to answer do
01:13:30
Brian Atlasyou think that Dylan Dennis is going too far by posting these photos of Logan Paul's fiance with various other men and
01:13:42
Brian Atlasum do you take uh quarrel with uh he's Dylan Dennis is saying that she's been with 75 guys before Logan
01:13:53
Brian Atlasand a lot of people are arguing well Logan's he's a successful guy attractive guy um could he get somebody who's had less previous sexual partners maybe that's
01:14:05
Brian Atlasnot part of the calculus for him in any case thank you playing life appreciate it do you uh do you think that body count
01:14:17
Lena The Plugmatters wait so we'll start with you and then we'll go around the table I think when it comes to these fight promos there's probably nothing off the table people are free to promote how they want but I think it's
01:14:29
Lena The Plugkind of stupid that he's going after his fiancee instead of him for the fight um I don't think her value isn't at all diminished by 75 or 100 or a thousand guys I I believe Logan is a smart guy
01:14:42
Lena The Plugand I believe he's dated many women and he's decided like this is the woman he loves regardless of any of those factors like okay let's say she's a virgin but she has like a super personality like you know who's to say one is better than the other
01:14:55
Adam22um I don't think body should count should matter even though people place so much importance in it I mean yeah like stupid I I like Dylan doing it from the perspective of like promoting a
01:15:05
Adam22boxing match trolling that kind of stuff I've been enjoying it if it wasn't in the lead up to a boxing match I would just think it was just gross and just really misogynistic and just kind of lame
01:15:16
Adam22um for me though if I'm if I'm Logan Paul I mean that girl I don't know anything about her besides the fact that she's very beautiful and seems like she's quite successful and I mean there's probably a reason why uh all these other successful dudes one is
01:15:29
Adam22spend time with her at some point aside from just her looking good I don't really like see Purity as being a big part of why I would want to be with a girl like now I can understand the
01:15:40
Adam22awkwardness of the fact that you know if you're in the same world as someone and you start dating them and then you know they've had sex with a bunch of your friends or whatever that could be kind of awkward but at the same time I mean
01:15:52
Adam22you got to look at all the successful dudes out there like if you're Travis Scott wife Doug Kylie Jenner who at the very least has had sex with Tyga shout out tiger and you know probably dozens of other dudes and it's like he didn't
01:16:05
Adam22choose this is like the most successful dude in the world he didn't choose to go out and wife up some girl who's got you know one body or two bodies or whatever he went out there and got a girl had actually been really like living her life and having experiences and stuff
01:16:18
Adam22and I I think that the sort of traditional you know like a red pill idea that you want to find a girl that's got you know less than five bodies like I feel like most successful dudes don't
01:16:30
Christyactually seem like they invest a lot of mental energy into that myself included your take um if I'm dating someone yeah they're not gonna someone else they're not
01:16:42
Christygonna anyone but me like I am totally into monogamy um but like I said earlier it's about the ratio not the number and when it's
01:16:52
Christypeople in the public eye like this they have a lot of opportunities and they their number might seem higher compared to a lot of people that don't have nearly as many opportunities so I have I
01:17:05
Christydon't think it has anything to do with through your number has everything to do with your ratio and the opportunities that you're choosing to take or not take but if you are in a relationship yeah like I'm if
01:17:18
Brian AtlasI'm dating a man he's not anyone else but me thousand percent do you do BG content on your of yeah I do but it's only with the whoever we
01:17:29
Brian Atlasjust we broke up pretty recently but yeah okay so you wouldn't for example if you're in a relationship with a guy you wouldn't do content with another guy no okay okay it was only like me and him because
01:17:41
Christydo you think uh do you take Coral with men caring about the women's body count no because I I said this multiple times it's about the ratio what do you mean
01:17:53
Christyso I'm super hot so a lot of guys want to me and I don't a lot of guys comparatively hmm but okay if a girl's not that hot and a lot of guys don't want to her
01:18:05
Ruslanthat number with the right clothes the right look she doesn't get a lot of opportunities she doesn't get as many opportunities I do it's about the ratio it's about the
01:18:16
Adam22ratio but okay taking opportunities is like the whole thing the rate the ratio yeah yeah so what you're saying is basically if a girl is very unattractive
01:18:27
Adam22then she should have a low body count because she's presumably not having as many opportunities whereas if a girl is very attractive then she should probably has had more
01:18:38
Christyopportunities but it's still it still depends about the it still depends about the ratio but how are we even gonna know it depends well that's why a number does not
01:18:50
Adam22actually matter because I will because my 10 and her 10 might be completely different there's been like times where like some dudes told me like yeah I 100 girls I'm like yeah this you go to the club every night right
01:19:01
Ruslanlike do you live in Miami I never leave the house you know I'm not like that's why I have that's why the ratio exactly who keeps track of this ratio and how is it calculated
01:19:17
Christyit depends where you live it depends what you look like if you're out in Miami Las Vegas New York City partying every night you probably have a couple
01:19:28
Christyguys trying to take you home and if you go home if you go home at 10 over living there for three years that's not a big deal what's the difference between a number and a ratio
01:19:40
Christybecause of how many opportunities you have if you live in like Ohio and you've only had 10 opportunities to have sex and you show us all 10 10 is a
01:19:51
Christybig number for you 10 isn't a big number if you have had 10 000 opportunities and wants an opportunities they use a no-do I like that you're sticking to your guns on this race because it is a bad original because it is because it
01:20:04
Ruslanactually is doing anything at college the rate I'm still confused by what the reason I don't understand what you're gonna do she keeps tracks of how many guys want to Bone her okay and if
01:20:17
Ruslanthere's a hundred guys and she only sleeps with two that's a great race right exactly so in her mind she can know who wants to smash but therefore with someone else it's like a ratio that's what she is
01:20:29
Christyit's like Temptations some girls might say too but only add two opportunities that's kind of but if you had a hundred opportunities only choose two men yeah I get I just
01:20:41
Christythink it's funny at all it's very virgin line yeah it's very biblical
01:20:58
Christyso you think it actually shows but you said you should choose to love someone and I'm saying you should choose to have sex with them two might be a big number for someone and it might not be but
01:21:08
Ruslandoesn't this contradiction but doesn't this contradict your point earlier that we are just supposed to be in caves sleeping around like rabbits when now you're saying oh I know I didn't say you're saying restraint hold on I'll let them finish containing your
01:21:21
Ruslanbody count based on the ratio is a virtue one should Aspire for no that's not what you're saying no
01:21:35
Christyno if you're in a cave I only have ever done stuff with my boyfriend on my only fans okay and if I if Eve didn't eat the apple I would be naked in the cave doing
01:21:46
Christystuff with my boyfriend there's no there's no doors on caves everyone would be just walking around I'd see animals if animals it's not weird they're in the wild yeah
01:22:01
Christythe reason why we're not is because Society has built us up to such a horrible thing that we're not supposed to be like you could get into like why
01:22:11
Christywe wear rubber shoes like we're supposed to be grounding off the universe
01:22:18
Christyand it's about the ratio yes the answer is so about the ratio okay what is your ratio very very very low compared to how many people want to
01:22:29
Christyme to how many people I what's the ratio yeah one to a thousand so a thousand dudes want to you more than a thousand but I'm just choosing the reason excuse me point
01:22:40
Brian Atlaspoint zero zero zero zero zero three that's the ratio do you keep a notebook yep really yeah point zero zero zero zero three she keeps a tally okay diary
01:22:51
Brennagood times good times so uh your take on the Logan Paul Dylan during the situation so we're trying like numbers now not ratios well uh I'm singing
01:23:02
BrennaI don't know why people are so confused about math I forgot about seventh grade math no one has common sense I mean I just don't think I'm like a number before you're with somebody I don't know
01:23:14
Brennamy number but there's a thing but you've seen a bunches yeah you don't know your number no what
01:23:25
Christythis is the thing I don't care me and her have had a lot of opportunities that we've said no to and that should be very important every woman has a lot of opportunities that they've said no uh
01:23:36
Brenna/MadisonMadison your take I think it was very humorous I don't think he had to bring the whole wifey into it but um well that's the whole humorous part of it yeah exactly I mean he didn't have to
01:23:48
Lila Rosego that far but it was funny it was humorous uh I absolutely understand why body count matters and yeah so the question is why does body count matter or does it matter I think I think
01:24:00
Lila Rosethat it's completely understandable for someone who has chosen tried to choose virtue and self-control to want that in their future spouse I completely understand that I think for anybody
01:24:10
Lila Rosewho's lived sort of a more promiscuous past who chooses virtue and says I don't want to do that anymore I want to change my life I think there's a future for that person so I don't think having it about a camp account in your past means
01:24:23
Lila Rosethat you can't have a future but I also understand and appreciate that people that are trying to live virtue want to be with somebody who shares their values
01:24:33
Ruslanyeah obviously body count matters obviously it's harder to pair bond the higher the number of Partners you had obviously you're more likely to get divorced the higher number of Partners you've had this is all
01:24:45
Ruslanproven through and through so yes it matters the double standard of propping Logan up to be some Playboy while making her seem like some I think is a bit weird and kind of one of the non-helpful
01:24:57
Ruslanaspects of our culture and yeah it's not the most classiest move but if they're trying to sell fights I'm I'm I my guess would be as Logan is in on it and he's okay with making as much money as he can but yes it matters yes there's
01:25:09
RuslanRedemption uh yes there's an amazing story arc if these two would repent and change and go a totally different direction of their lives which I think is beautiful that there's always Redemption
01:25:20
Isabella DeLucauh yeah I mean I probably agree that I don't agree with like dragging the whole wifey into it I mean at 31 it's kind of expected that she's obviously going to have already slept with people um but I do in my opinion I think that
01:25:33
Isabella DeLucabody count matters but I think it matters for the person that you're with and the relationship that you're in and I find that oftentimes people who think that body count doesn't matter is usually coming from people with like
01:25:43
Christyreally high body counts but that was something to do with the ratio the ratio if someone's like famous I think probably yeah like a lot of people that want to them so their body counts
01:25:56
Christycan automatically be higher because they had a lot of opportunities the normal people wouldn't
01:26:05
Isabella DeLucayeah but the deals don't mean anything and I think there's a lot of opportunities please stop stop cutting people off go ahead there's a lot of people who are attractive and good looking that you can still like refrain from promiscuity and hooking up with
01:26:17
Isabella DeLucapeople and there's people who can be like I guess super not attractive but it's like who's like guiding that scale like some people find certain people attractive some people find the same person like super unattractive but
01:26:28
Lena The Plugthat's actually my whole point like it's about the ratio I think it's about this I fell in love with a guy but he found out he had slept with 10 other girls
01:26:39
TTS Readerwould that be like hold on just a second to the Blondie in the back right your body count is higher than the amount of brain cells you have and you sound like a 90 year old chain
01:26:51
Christysmoker your response to Bender the offender yeah I naturally do have a very raspy voice I actually used to work as a receptionist my first
01:27:03
Christyum job Ever After College was a receptionist at a law firm and everyone that I answered the phone to would say I hope you feel better and I was like yeah I'm not sick but
01:27:15
Lena The Plugthank you I'll transfer you now to the lawyer that you are trying to talk to it's just a question out of curiosity if you fall in love with a man and then you
01:27:25
Lena The Plugfind out he's been with 10 other girls intimately or 100 no 10. would that be a deal breaker I want to know like I feel like I'm not in this world so I don't know like if a guy checked off all the boxes for me and he was like no longer
01:27:38
Isabella DeLucain that lifestyle if it was something that he did like a while ago then I feel like it wouldn't matter too much to me but if he's been with like a hundred girls then yeah I feel like that would be like a problem what if I change my
01:27:48
Adam22ways I leave her I become a man of God and I decide that I want to be one of these Trad con internet guys and that you know I'm gonna like totally change my whole life Rebrand as a man of God we
01:28:01
Ruslanwould disciple you you could work on your marriage
01:28:10
Isabella DeLucawell I think there's like Redemption kind of what he was saying when she was saying like I think people can like be promiscuous and then I think that they can like kind of like turn from that and be like okay I'm not I don't know and that 10's promiscuous for I don't know I
01:28:23
Isabella DeLucado feel like I do genuine I know it's so bad I feel like guys and girls are very different so I feel like 10 like for a girl is like a lot but also like for a guy yeah I kind of is like I do think that if you guys did if you did that and
01:28:35
Lila Roseyou're like I'm done with you know this the porn world I know and I'm gonna be like I mean like you said a man of God and you stayed with Lena and you just yeah of course you're very hard again and really focused on your family
01:28:48
Lila Roseraising your kids I think it would set an incredible example it would probably help many people realize that the lifestyle they're in with porn is harmful to see two people leave that industry and say no we're gonna build something beautiful and secure and
01:29:00
Lena The Plugcommitted secure if a guy was 100 girls probably not okay he was with 300 before I started dating him that's why I'm like is there something up about me that I literally cared this much I was while and yeah like in retrospect I
01:29:14
Adam22don't know what the hell I was doing like I was just really trying to fill this hole in my heart with just as many random girls as I could and then once I got into a relationship and felt like I kind of shook off that whole mentality I definitely did feel a lot
01:29:26
Adam22better my thing is is that I think the average guy might need to catch you know 50 bodies before he realistically has like a real perspective of disagreement the size just the way he talks always
01:29:38
Adam22like nah but like personality wise vagina sizing wise there's just so many things that I feel like you're gonna figure out once you slept with a bunch of people I disagree with this vagina-sized conversation you always well there's a lot of different size
01:29:51
RuslanI've been with my wife and two other women I could assure you that my sex life is thriving and just fine after 15 years of being together I don't think you no I know well it is no because you
01:30:01
Adam22have less knowledge out there so it's like it's harder for you to you know have your mind wander to like what could be out there yeah which is good there's a freedom inside of a covenantal relationship to try things and to
01:30:13
Ruslanexplore and to do things that if you're out here and you're raw dogging it you don't know who has what and all the stipulations that go into that life there's a freedom you have there's a protection you have there's a there's a trust that you have in a relationship where it's just you and the other person
01:30:26
Adam22and that's why I do think that the sexual revolution has overall been probably negative for most women because the truth is is that as a man you can have sex with any woman and you know bust a nut in five ten minutes and
01:30:38
Adam22you're good you just had a good time whereas for a woman realistically the first time you have sex with a guy you have like an infinitesimal percentage chance that you're going to orgasm and you're realistically only going to end up having positive sexual experiences by
01:30:50
Adam22Sleeping with the same guy over and over and really learning it's called the oh connect with them it's called marriage totally and I get that I also just think women you know should be should feel free to do what they want to do but I
01:31:02
Adam22also in terms of what I would tell well you know any woman in my life what I would recommend for them I would say you know hold your vagina in high esteem and don't like just be handing it out willy-nilly because realistically the
01:31:13
Adam22the most leverage that you have to get a guy to take you serious is by holding out on sex and forcing them to show some serious amount of interest in you before you give in to that that being said if a
01:31:24
Adam22woman just wants to have sex too I'm not opposed to her Adam 22 promoting abstinence I love it well I do think it's amazing as a woman that is like the the sole superpower that you have now you know we had sex the first night that
01:31:36
Adam22we met and it still worked out but I do think that there's been many times in my life where a girl might have made me wait like even two weeks to sleep with her and in that two-week time period we were texting and going on dates and
01:31:48
Lila Rosehanging out and it kind of forced me to take her seriously what happened after she you did you stay with her some of them I stayed with them for a few more weeks but do you think that do you think that experience says something like even the way women are wired like
01:32:01
Lila Roseyou said like a woman needs to really typically get to know the man like and I mean that's the power of a marriage is you're really committed you're going to see what works for each other sexually so there's this like hedge of protection around your sex life which is this beautiful thing it opens all these
01:32:14
Lila Roseopportunities for you to really explore together but don't you think that says something about morality like our bodies say something actually about morality meaning women can get pregnant from sex women need to really be known and feel close and comfortable and be able to be
01:32:26
Lila Rosevulnerable in order to be even able to orgasm typically and so there's something written into our actual bodily design for monogamy good yeah I mean I don't know that I take it
01:32:38
Adam22that serious that it's like you know hardwired into us I think so much is Just that's the bargaining chip it doesn't guarantee an orgasm I mean well of course that you gotta you've got to work on it I mean you just said that when you sorry you just said it when you
01:32:51
Ruslanslept with those 300 women you said I had a hole in my heart you know that's like one of the most Evangelical Christian things people say right
01:33:02
Ruslanthat they're trying to fill something and so they're going out and they're trying to fill that void with something that could only be filled with God but the truth is is that I had to sleep with some number of women in order to feel
01:33:15
Adam22like I had enough life experience to then settle down like I couldn't even rewind my life to when I was you know in my early 20s and there was a girl I dated for a few months and she was awesome she was like you know we're still our friends we still talk here and there she wanted to settle down with me
01:33:28
Adam22and I just kind of knew at the age of like 23 that I just had a lot of living to do and that I wasn't going to be able to really settle down in a relationship even if the girl that I was with at the time was pretty great just because I didn't have enough life experience why
01:33:41
Adam22do you feel that way I got married at 23 19 years later we're great we're doing well we have two beautiful kids no and there's part of me that kind of wishes that I had been mature enough to have been able to like accept that
01:33:52
Adam22relationship for what it was but I also I think I would have cheated non-stop I think I would have been a total piece of I think I needed to like kind of get some of my Wild Oats out there before I was able to sell them you need to have a whole face I think everybody needs a whole face the question is just
01:34:05
Christyhow long have a whole face even those two bodies you guys that was a little bit of a whole phase right I think before Jesus yeah you know uh let's get a couple checks I completely agree with you and actually you too like I
01:34:18
Christycompletely agree with you I'm not talking about having one-night stands I don't have one night stands I need guys that I think I might date that I think
01:34:27
Christypotentially might go somewhere we hook up we date we it maybe only last three months but I'm not doing it like for a
01:34:37
Christyone night stand I'm not doing that I'm being very very very careful I genuinely interested in them I genuinely think it might go somewhere and my parents are
01:34:48
Christydivorced I'm very very careful of who I'm gonna settle down with who I'm gonna have kids with so I think that like there's a point that's misunderstanding like I'm super Republican I'm super
01:34:59
Christytraditional but I'm not going to settle down with the first opportunity because I will never put my kids through a divorce I will never put my kids through
01:35:10
Christywatching a family fight or parents fight so I think that's where I misunderstood I wish that I was how old did you say you were 23 38 you got married yeah I
01:35:22
Christywish that I met my person at 19 and married at 23. I wish that but that didn't happen for me sorry but I but I have to vet them I'm not just like people to them
01:35:37
Christygenuinely being super careful I believe in what you believe in but I didn't get as lucky to just meet my person at 19. you know what I had my whole life
01:35:49
Lila Roseplanned out with someone who I thought I was gonna marry and then it didn't go the way that was planned a lot of people think that it sounds like it sounds like you want marriage like a beautiful yeah a thousand percent but I'm not gonna
01:36:01
Lila Rosesettled but do you think that you're maximizing your opportunity for a loving faithful committed marriage by doing only fans
01:36:11
Christywell I mean that's how me and my ex got to our strongest Point ever hey I don't know he's my exit he's hearing to you yeah use my ex because I wanted him to
01:36:22
Christybe Max and not the other way but why why did you want him but like we were already doing videos and stuff for each other just because we were into it and then I was like hey we can make a lot of money doing this I got into it on my own
01:36:35
Christywithout him but no I I actually will completely say when I committed to only dance me and him were not officially together and I
01:36:46
Christysaid this might affect my dating life but I'm single and I need to live a certain lifestyle and I'm gonna do it regardless and I didn't expect it to get as far as it did
01:36:56
Christyand but I also got into a relationship that I never even thought would be a a true official relationship ever and so yeah it didn't work out but it's not because of the only Dancing Yeah I think
01:37:09
Brian Atlasit has nothing to do with only dancing I I do have to move things along so we have a couple chats here we have puffy Vegas I'm 100 straight I've been
01:37:20
Brian Atlasseven stars all women I'm five foot eight tall but nine oh my God nine inches long I've not played video game
01:37:31
Brian Atlasvideos puffy my dude you should okay since 1990 Adam 22 have your wife rate my Instagram puffy you gotta hit the threshold buddy if you want us to you got to do it
01:37:42
Adam22through stream Labs too if you want us to do a rating I like how he tells me to listen nine inch is pretty long yeah he's totally lying nine nine is so big I didn't realize until I measured mine and
01:37:55
Brian AtlasI realized that I wasn't even seven and I was like damn I'm serious you're pretty good babe okay thanks times okay we have Hearn a few things where the is Mike Davis been also
01:38:07
Brian Atlasfrom listening to Adam is this clear to me he is in the idea come on be nice I have an ideal candidate for a lobotomy as if to say that I'm already well he's saying I'm like sick in the head so I
01:38:18
Brian Atlasneed a lobotomy but he's not saying I'm dumb in regards to other super chats to find out oh my okay yeah yeah all right all right all right
01:38:29
Brian Atlasyeah Juice Box emojis in the chat Mac Mac uh thank you for the uh 100 appreciate it and then we have a couple here from streamlabs we have
01:38:40
Brian Atlasone sec let me get this triggered uh valdiv Keck W Olay girls don't know how much military and law enforcement play games question for the panel how do you think the cardinal sins being
01:38:53
Brian Atlascommonplace in our society and how it affects the dating in particular lust Envy sloth and pride Deus volt uh
01:39:03
Brian Atlaswhat about the what are the other seven there's gluttony Wrath what's the other one pride no there's lust Envy sloth and
01:39:13
Brian Atlaspride gluttony oh gluttony and wrath yeah uh so he's asking do you think the cardinal sins being commonplace in our society and how it affects dating them
01:39:24
Lila Rosewait do you think there are cardinal sins is that the here I'll pull it back up I think he's saying that like the proliferation of this stuff is leading to the down
01:39:35
Christythe downward turn of society just a failed Society okay all right I think there's a lot of things go in and play to the down fall of
01:39:46
Christysociety and it's way way bigger than only fans like so much for one okay um
01:39:55
Brian Atlasso I think what he's asking is do the seven deadly sins have an impact on dating lust greed Envy sloth Pride wrath
01:40:06
Ruslangluttony of course I have an impact on dating but I think the deeper issue is the one underneath the surface was Christy is kind of hinting at is that we have an entire Society that's upside down and we're wondering why people are getting
01:40:19
Ruslandivorced more likely why there's more self-deletion why all these things are happening in school with the Transformers we're seeing all this stuff proliferate and it's like where is this coming from as Society gets more and
01:40:30
Ruslanmore secular and removes God from everything all of a sudden things go bad all of a sudden there's more STDs there's more STIs there's more deletion of babies all of these things are connected so those are just the
01:40:43
Ruslanmanifestation of said things but I would also go back to something you guys are all into fitness you you're a fitness instructor if you know that eating in a caloric deficit having the right amount
01:40:54
Ruslanof protein being active creates certain results most of us will Implement said results but for whatever reason we compartmentalize relationships in marriage and we don't look at the best practices of people who are doing relationships marriage staying married
01:41:06
Ruslanthe longest thriving having beautiful families and we compartmentalize and we always want to be the exceptions of the rules so me and you I actually think we're on the same exact page but
01:41:17
Christyit's like yes I would have loved to met the love of my life at 17 marry them by something I didn't like you know what I mean I'm not gonna marry to marry and then either be
01:41:29
Ruslanunhappy or divorced that I don't think anyone's prescribing that I'm saying every moment passing is another chance to turn it all around like every every moment God created me right like do do
01:41:40
Christyyou think I'm a sin I'm God's one of God's greatest work we're all God's artwork I'm not like against God I'm I'm Catholic like I'm super spiritual I'm
01:41:50
Christysuper religious I don't think God doesn't like me there's so many things in my life that I know God is with me every single day of my life and so are
01:42:01
Christyall my Spirit guides so I think maybe I think we have the same core values yes I think we do but we really do ratio let me know the ratio is different let me
01:42:14
Ruslanjust say this let me just say this is different I think I think I think God loves you so much that it's this sort of love where he accepts you right where you are but desire so much more for you I think it's the way that Adam loves his
01:42:26
Ruslandaughter it's such a love where I love you right where you're at even when you have a poopy diaper even when you're making a mess of your house but yet I want more for you and that and that love
01:42:35
Christyis but that you have to trust that the universe will give you what you need and everything will happen to you when you need it like well I think especially you
01:42:47
Isabella DeLucabeing Catholic like that whole idea of like the universe giving you what you want like you said you're Catholic so I'm bringing this up because you said that like no Satan gives you what you want in that moment no I'm I'm not I'm
01:42:57
Lila Rosecompletely against well Satan yeah liberal I I'm not Hillary Clinton I think the key is like back to the original question is that you know it's not easy
01:43:09
Lila Roseto choose virtue like what Ruslan was saying like choosing a workout routine choosing to eat healthy like that can be difficult but the more you do it the easier it becomes actually and there's still hard days but the more you choose the good the more you build a habit of
01:43:22
Lila Rosevirtue of doing the good and so I think that's the same the same is true with relationships and with sex the more you choose to do it is good like choose to save sex for marriage or choose to not lust or choose to not engage with
01:43:33
Christylustful Behavior like the more you're acclimating yourself how is me and doing something with my boyfriend that I only did something with him that's secret how is that bad it was I never did it with anyone else
01:43:47
Isabella DeLucathat's a safer and a sex is sacred in a marriage not just in a relationship that you're in okay I think so have you had sex before I'm not going to answer that I was engaged before if that's generation yeah I was engaged before so
01:43:59
Isabella DeLucathere was there was a ring there was a commitment there was a ring there was a let me finish my thought and we were together for a long time so so did we though we worked together for
01:44:11
Isabella DeLucaa long time and we had to come but no to answer but I think what Lila's saying is just that it's a commitment thing within the bounds of marriage and it's the Commandments in the Bible and the verses that are there they're not to like hurt you they're there for protection and I
01:44:24
Christythink that just all you don't have to get defensive I think mileage just yeah I'm not getting defensive I say I'm completely agree with you I have a Bible in my house I'm very spiritual and very
01:44:33
Christyreligious I have a very very good connection with God God loves me no matter what you think I love you I know I know I know so we're like it's all at
01:44:45
Christythis time I think we're we believe in the same things but I don't I think in it being an accountant is a boring job just because you don't like my job doesn't mean you should bring it up I don't bring up your job and say you
01:44:57
Lila Rosedon't like your job well we're here to talk about dating and relationships yeah and that's right dating your relationships but I'll just say like I just say say this that you know God does love you he loves me he loves us all so
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Lila Rosemuch I totally agree with you on that and these laws about morality on sex and like just all the like the seven sins you brought up earlier Brian there are laws that God gives us like the Ten Commandments there's some no's and there's some yeses of what we're
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Lila Rosesupposed to do but it's not crazy it's like yes it's a narrow path but it's doable and people can do it especially with God's love right and so the idea is I want you to be happy you know I want to be happy we all want happiness at
01:45:32
Lila Rosethis table and the rules the rules about relationships and sex and marriage these rules there aren't a ton of them but there's basic ones of fidelity and commitment they're to make us happy in the end like they're not to be a burden for you when have I been infidelity
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RuslanI'm talking generally okay which one of The Commandments have I broke out so can I can I read you a verse yeah okay so this is Matthew chapter 5 verse 27 this is Jesus speaking it's in red he says you have heard that it was said You shall not commit adultery but I say to
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Ruslanyou that everyone who looks at a woman with Lust For Her has already committed adultery with her in his heart so Jesus is saying society says adultery is wrong you guys have
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Ruslanand he's saying that it's way worse than that he's saying that even if you've lusted in your heart or you've created content that causes other people to lust in your heart that it's the same as adultery that that's what he's saying so he's saying the standard is so much
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Ruslanhigher than any of us going to be that's why I think this whole like she's bad because she did this but Adam had 300 bodies like I think it's we're all jacked up we all need Grace and we all need mercy and that's the point of the Gospel that's the point of the good news
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Christyis that Jesus is saying you can't do it on your own you're incapable that's why you need Jesus that's not what I get from that at all it's saying that if a man I'm saying what it says too if a man
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Christylost elsewhere that's when he's doing wrong men would have left lost after me whether it only fans or I was a lawyer
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Christyor I was a real estate agent just because I have but how I look that has nothing to do with me there's nothing to do with me could you run your business sorry that God made me look this way God
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Christymade me look like this could you that has nothing to do with a man lusting after me and their decisions I cannot choose their decisions
01:47:22
Lila Roseit's not my fault God made me hot dude it's not my fault but could you run your business God made me look like this for a reason the point here is because you're saying you're a Christian and you want to follow I'm a Catholic
01:47:34
Brian Atlasthat you're saying you can but can you run your business without lust wait hold on let me just think okay Jane what I do with my boyfriend hey Jane Karen thing sorry if I got your name
01:47:46
Brian Atlaswrong thank you for the raid over there on Twitch really appreciating that thank you welcome welcome guys um here just to keep things moving I do need to get a couple of other uh of our other chats and we have ziki Zeki Brian
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Brian Atlascan I get a salute to my man uh me and my girl love watching your show this episode is incredible when those two girls sharing a brain cell in the corner aren't
01:48:09
Brian Atlasrambling about libraries ruining Humanity big labia matter based okay I heard about your non-profit that's pretty cool yeah I didn't you know I I didn't mention it today show but I do have a non-profit uh BLM big labian matter
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Adam22um we're we're uh you know getting started but I've always felt like I was pretty open-minded about the size of the labia and I thought that was cool to know that you're on the same page as me I'm a fan I'm a fan which is why I was a
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Brian Atlaslittle I was taken aback when you mentioned the Venus fly trap I didn't know if that was but but the way you described it it was much more than than just a large I don't yeah I've heard I
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Adam22haven't really like heard a lot of girls admit to it but I've heard that the labioplasty surgery is pretty popular which I find kind of disturbing there's like 10 000 a year in the U.S that people get labor places I'm very much
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Adam22against it there are some ugly ones out there I guess but like no it seems like they're all great but it just seems like a strange thing too but do you think that's happening because there's so much porn out there so women are constantly comparing themselves yeah no I mean
01:49:11
Brian Atlasprobably well I mean one of the arguments is that like in and I think that's changing because I mean if you look there's definitely uh certain
01:49:19
Brian Atlasactress adult actresses that uh have large but in the past like in with uh typically in print I think back in the 90s I think there was definitely talk of
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Lila Roselike airbrushing or they would select women specifically who uh were not were who had innies let's say I love my wife's labia if we live in a society where it
01:49:47
Lila Rosebody parts it's understandable why some women feel so insecure about their body parts and that's that goes back to the kind of our whole position on sex is just for two people in a forever
01:49:58
Christylifelong commitment because then you're not comparing you're not constantly comparing your body to somebody else's body well we've got some artwork we're all God's creation just because I didn't
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Christyfind my soulmate yet doesn't mean I'm not his piece of art or creation or anything less than that well he's probably watching right now you are
01:50:29
Christyit's not my fault that you got to meet your husband for I did I don't think anyone's saying it yeah I think we're saying you are judging my life because I didn't meet my husband as early as you
01:50:42
Christymet your wife I don't think that that's what it is it's just a conversation all right we have Flint life here a yo raspy oh
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Brian Atlashold on let me pull it up hey yo raspy I still don't understand the ratio please explain oh and I remember my first beer chill On the Alcohol the landlife this morning do you
01:51:06
Christyhave a response to plan life if you don't understand ratios I like literally can't help you like you learn ratios in fourth grade I don't know man
01:51:15
Christythat sounds like a lot of work sounds like a lot of milk oh did you did you get through Elementary School you can't even pass through Middle School without knowing what a ratio is
01:51:28
Brian Atlasdidn't you just learn anything at College okay uh we have Bender the offender to the Blondie in the back right your body counts oh this one already came through actually I apologize
01:51:44
Christyyou have and you sound like I don't smoke at all though the thing I don't really mean I don't Vape I don't smoke no this is my a lot of actually a lot of
01:51:54
Brian Atlasguys think it's a very sexy raspy voice so I swear I don't really give a yeah some guys are into the raspy voice all right we have Lila should cover up
01:52:05
Brian Atlasdonated 100 to the Blondie oh wait what wait what hold on I don't know why one sec the Christian wears a bunch of makeup and I can tell what what her boobs look
01:52:16
Brian Atlaslike in that shirt she's only a few degrees separated from Lena's fashion sense cover-up woman she could see her elbows don't even have
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Christyany cleavage and she's pregnant so she's probably waiting in jail I am pregnant oh really congratulations
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Christycongrats that was just but I appreciate the feedback Lila should cover up I couldn't cover up more though you're dressed pretty modestly yeah all right
01:52:48
Brian Atlaswell don't shoot the messengers we have Mount whateverest Adam 22 out of 100 in his quote-unquote wife are absolutely having a threesome with
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Brian Atlassmoker voice in The Blue tonight confirm or deny is this the case you know you never know I've never this is the first time we met so I don't know Never Say Never I would be on your
01:53:11
Lena The Plugpodcast if you wanted me is a porn podcast so we always have sex at the end of it so okay so we only plug talk we've never talked about it we've never talked about it are you guys is this something I can imagine it's never
01:53:24
Adam22been suggested before we might pass her to the team and let them have a room but no it's kind of funny you say that because I actually was telling her the other day that I think I want to try out this fetish where she actually like
01:53:35
Adam22Whispers to me in an RFK Junior voice while we're sleeping together and I feel like that might actually help me to achieve erections yeah you know I'm not kidding so you might be able to pull it off even easier than her so
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Brian AtlasCBD TVD all right we have him Duncan hey thank you man the girl talking about a ratio average dudes would F anything it ain't no flex Adam would you really have done a threesome with Tate also Brian is
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Brian AtlasNotch coming on in the future uh not sure about I still need to look into the snatch guy I'll check it out uh Adam would you do a threesome with Andrew Tate well for the sheer virality of it
01:54:13
Adam22if he was willing to participate in a pornographic movie and allow us to release it I don't know how we would turn that down I'm sorry if we can get the model release form yeah that'd be nice yeah but generally speaking you know us going
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Adam22outside of our relationship is pretty much reserved just for uh you know adult performers since it is like a Content thing but if Andrew wanted to enter the game with us where do you draw the line with this
01:54:38
Ruslanstuff like honestly it seems like you've opened Pandora's Box and I mean you know you're joking kind of trolling about this stuff but are you you guys talking like penetration in you like where's this going no no no no I've only slept
01:54:49
Lena The Plugwith one other guy besides him and it was like like two months ago it's not like but you guys are like very open-minded about all this but we haven't even like planned the next thing like okay but you want to do it with another dude in the thing that is
01:55:02
Lena The Plugsomething that we both doing the worst in porn is like a big thing it's like uh yeah I just think it's hot like realistically yeah you think it's hot we did it actually once in our personal
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Adam22life when we first met yeah it was like really fun first couple weeks or whatever we were at a party and we ended up hooking up with my friends my friends that doesn't feel slightly you know well
01:55:24
Adam22once I started dating her and we fell in love it was kind of like oh my God yeah I can't believe I let my friend you that one night but while other people were watching us yeah but then once once we really kind of accepted it our our
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Lena The Pluglove it was not a big deal but yeah like he was always turned on when we'd talk about it so I was like okay clearly you're having like a physical response to this so I just grew up running trains on chicks with my friends and then it kind of became weird to like end up in a
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Adam22relationship with a girl that I essentially kind of did that with in the earlier threesome yeah it was threesome but still you know it's like you you kind of like even if you like doing that if you can get down and running a train which like a huge percentage of dudes
01:55:59
Lila Rosethat I know at some point when they were younger they did that but then like you know you just don't wipe up a girl like that right well I'm proven that you can and you should what you guys have a daughter is that right so I've got two
01:56:11
Lila Rosesons I hope we have a daughter we'll see what God does but I'll see but um what do you think for your daughter like do you would you want your daughter to go down the path you've gone down with porn no why is that
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Adam22um because I feel like she should choose whatever you know career or Pursuit she wants to pursue if she found herself as an adult one day having explored a variety of different options and that
01:56:34
Adam22was what she ultimately I wanted to do uh it wouldn't really be my choice at that point but for sure I would rather her pursue you know art or music or or but like a lot of daughters like admire their mothers and want to be like their
01:56:47
Lila Rosemothers so let's say she's 17 about to turn 18 and she's like I want to be like my mom like she's successful my dad seems to really love her and you know he's committed to her I want to do porn
01:56:57
Lena The Plughow would that make you feel I mean I would want her to do it in the safest way possible and I would want to make sure that I could help her if she needed that help but I'd like Adam like I would rather her do something else
01:57:08
Lena The Pluglike when I got into porn I had already had a degree I'd had multiple different jobs and I was super broke and I like this wasn't my first choice but I was like okay I'm just gonna take photos and then I'll have the freedom to do whatever else I want with my life and
01:57:20
Lena The Plugthat is how it started and then we started dating and we just we were already like making porn in our personal life like we'd and then we'd film it and it was kind of just like but if they're not if there's nothing wrong with porn why would you want her to do other things first why would you have
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Adam22any issue at all with her going into it I just think that it's kind of limiting for the future of your life afterwards you know like we don't really have any doubt about the fact that her degree would be kind of useless to her at this point in terms of getting into another