She SLASHED His Tires But HOOKED UP After?! | Dating Talk #110

Date: 2023-10-18

Duration: 5h 42m

Guests

Brian Atlas

EEllie (DT110)>

SSophie (DT110)>

JJulia (DT110)>

SSasha (DT110)>

JJessica (DT110)>

PPortia (DT110)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01Ryan (Rhino)(guest)

SPEAKER_02Sasha(guest)

SPEAKER_04Sophie(guest)

SPEAKER_05Jessica(guest)

SPEAKER_06Ellie(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Julia(guest)

SPEAKER_12Portia(guest)

SPEAKER_13Maia(guest)

SPEAKER_14Ana Godina(guest)

Key Moments

RelationshipEllie reveals her 3-year NC long-distance boyfriend did not visit or get her anything for her 21st birthday.

“He like for the past like month beforehand was like oh I am going to come visit... nothing”

QuoteTikTok reaction: woman lost all interest when boyfriend started crying after opening up about vulnerability. Brian and Ryan discuss reality vs stated desire for male vulnerability.

“I wanted this man to be vulnerable with me for so long he finally called me yesterday and opened up but the second he started crying I lost all interest in him”

Key MomentJulia reveals she was in a situationship with a meth addict who had her steal bikes and break into an unlocked stranger house in IV. Two weeks later she discovered it was her friend house.

“We go into the bathroom... we hear people in a bedroom... we start freaking out so we just run out... two weeks later it is the house”

Key MomentSasha reveals her previous boyfriend (11-year age gap) was engaging in emotional cheating via Snapchat messages to a girl younger than Sasha.

“It was emotional cheating it was saying about how like you know maybe we could have worked I miss you I do not know if I am happy”

Key MomentSasha reveals she slashed 3 tires on her cheating boyfriend truck, then both slashed the 4th together so he could file an insurance claim -- the title story.

“I slashed his tires on his new truck... we both walked outside and finished off the job so that he could follow the insurance claim”

Key MomentAna reveals she lost her virginity at age 25 with the person she thought she would marry, surprising given her OnlyFans and nightlife image.

“I lost my virginity at 25 with the person who I thought I was going to end up with”

ControversyBrian confronts Portia after her three friends came to his studio building and buzzed all tenants on the call box looking for her during the live show.

“Your friends came to our studio... they called everybody all the residents here on the call box wondering about you... your friends are really immature”

OtherPortia apologizes at end of show for the disruption caused by her friends showing up at the studio.

“I am really sorry about interrupting a podcast I feel really bad I am sorry”

Key MomentVoluntary body count disclosures: numbers 5, 5, 3, 9 shared around table (attribution unclear). Ryan Rhino claims 100+ jokingly.

“anybody here want to share body five five three um nine... Rhino 100 plus”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Each guest introduces name, age, and occupation. Guests: Ana (28, cocktail server/OF, Vegas), Ellie (21, SBCC poli sci, NC), Sophie (20, barista/tattoo artist), Julia (~21, barista/nanny), Sasha (27, bottle girl/photographer, married, from Brazil/Vegas), Jessica (19, student/Sacramento), Maia (21, CSUN), Portia (20, UCSB feminist studies, Guam), Ryan "Rhino" (26, YouTuber, LA).

Relationship Status Round

Each guest describes current relationship status. Key stories: Ellie's 3-yr long-distance on-and-off NC boyfriend who didn't visit for her 21st birthday. Sophie's ended open situationship. Julia's recently ended 2-yr on-off semi-open relationship. Sasha is married 3 yrs (husband had 3 brain surgeries). Jessica's situationship after being cheated on badly. Maia: single 2 yrs after 5-yr HS relationship. Portia: just ended talking stage. Ryan: single since early 2023.

Dating Apps and Hinge Profiles

Discussion of dating apps. Sophie's Hinge profile reviewed by chat. Guests discuss match volumes, motivations for using apps. Ellie met one sneaky link on Hinge.

Feminism Debate

Round-table on whether guests identify as feminists. Portia identifies as feminist (nuanced). Others mixed. Ryan and Brian critique feminism as women's advocacy rather than true equality, pointing to military conscription and custody law reform.

Going Out / Partying While in a Relationship

Debate on whether it's insecurity or reasonable concern for men to not want their girlfriends going out to clubs and bars. Both Vegas nightlife workers (Ana, Sasha) weigh in on cheating they witness. Discussion of alcohol, lowered inhibitions, and situational infidelity.

Marriage, Kids, and Relationship Goals

Round-the-table discussion on wanting marriage and kids, desired timelines. Sasha married 3 yrs. Others want marriage by late 20s or 30s. Taking husband's last name debated.

Traditional Roles / What Partners Expect from Each Other

Guests discuss expectations from a partner in a relationship. Ana and Sasha favor traditional roles (man provides/protects, woman cares for home and family). Ellie and Portia push back on financial expectations.

Male Vulnerability

Discussion triggered by TikTok clip of woman losing attraction after boyfriend opened up and cried. Debate on whether men should be emotionally vulnerable with partners, and how women actually react vs what they claim. TikTok reaction: "I wanted him to be vulnerable but the second he started crying I lost interest." Brian and Ryan share personal experiences where vulnerability led to relationship deterioration.

Men Losing Fights / Attraction and Male Strength

Discussion of a viral clip of a female MMA fighter's boyfriend getting knocked out in a professional fight. She lost attraction and broke up with him. Panel reacts. Discussion of whether women lose attraction when men lose fights or appear weak.

Political Views and Deal Breakers

Round-table: guests share political leanings (conservative, liberal, moderate, apolitical). Discussion of whether opposite political views are a deal-breaker when dating.

Julia's Meth-Addict Situationship

Julia describes a situationship with a man she later discovered was addicted to meth (thought it was just coke). He would spam-call her at 3-4am, have her steal and return bikes, and once led her to break into an unlocked IV house to hook up while residents were home. Two weeks later she accidentally discovered it was her friend's house.

Sasha's Tire Slashing Story

Sasha recounts discovering emotional cheating (Snapchat messages to younger ex) on her then-boyfriend (11-yr age gap). Drove to his place, slashed 3 of 4 tires on his new truck. Went inside, confronted him. They made up the same night. Then both went outside and slashed the 4th tire together so he could file an insurance claim for all 4.

Partner Type / Physical Preferences

Round-table on physical and personality type preferences. Sophie likes skater-boy aesthetic. Ellie prefers 6' minimum. Sasha: dad bods okay, tattoos a turn-on, gravitates toward white men. Jessica: blonde hair, blue eyes, ~6'4" (wants to pass on genes to kids). Portia: no race preference, personality-focused.

Portia's Friends Showing Up at the Studio

Three of Portia's friends came to Brian's studio building and buzzed all residents on the call box trying to locate her. Brian learns from property manager Nick. Becomes frustrated that strangers are harassing tenants and threatening his tenancy. Portia apologizes; Brian remains annoyed. Portia apologizes again at end of show.

Feminism and Bodily Autonomy / Military Conscription

Brian argues male bodily autonomy concerns (military conscription, circumcision) are stronger than the abortion debate talking point. Portia (feminist studies) pushes back against direct comparison. Extended debate on reproductive rights, Ukraine war, and feminist organizational hypocrisy on equality.

Body Count Discussion

Final segment. Round-table on whether body count matters. Ana and Sasha say women's body count is more important than men's. Sophie indifferent. Ellie disagrees. Voluntary sharing: some guests volunteer numbers (5, 5, 3, 9 — speaker attribution unclear due to diarization). Ryan jokes about 100+.

Transcript

Page 2 of 7

Sashauh how did you guys meet me and my husband yeah we met in La actually out of all places um I used to be a product specialist for Kia and he's a professional driver so I was you know doing registration being a product

Sashaspecialist he's a professional driver testing out the cars and we went on tour for like 4 months yeah for like 4 days a week and then we kind of just were like oh hi

Sashayou're cute we hated each other the first weekend and then he asked me on a date and I was like a a yeah okay got it okay what about

Jessicayou um I have been like technically single no it's I've been single for technically a

Jessicayear and a half now I my ex-boyfriend like my actual ex-boyfriend like he cheated on me like really bad and made me a little bit like psycho um but I've

Jessicahad like this on and off situationship slash like I have no idea what to call it it's been long distance or it was um and he lived in Orange

JessicaCounty and I lived in Cali or Northern California and we did like long distance almost and his hometown was my hometown where I lived so we would like visit and I just wasn't ready after like getting cheated on to like go on and fully date

Jessicahim so we ended then we kind of like picked back up in the summer and we he lives with two girls now his two roommates are two girls at ASU so it just didn't really work out considering like the circumstances he goes to as

Brian Atlasyeah the biggest party school is that why you're going to be transferring that aren't you no I was already planning on that it just so happened that that was always in our plan I see okay wait so you said you're you've been technically

Jessicasingle for 1.5 years yeah something like that but like when I'm with him like I'm like very like committed to him like you won't catch me like talking to anyone else like even though it's like not in the legal terms of like a situationship

Brian Atlaslike my eyes are not on anyone else like when I'm with him so or when I was and wait so and you were in a Rel relationship for two years you said it was like a year and two months three months yeah and wait was it on again off

Jessicaagain no it was like a full like consistent relationship okay got it but it ended 1.5 years ago yeah something like that the timelines are all kind of blurry goes fast but yeah so technically

Brian Atlassingle for 1.5 years technically yes but you're still kind of interested in him or oh no okay um and then we left that so but for 1.5 years I mean have you had any

Jessicasituationships guys you've been talking to it's been like him and then like of course I've met a few along the way like in between us being on and off but like nothing ever like serious hold on I'm a

Jessicalittle confused you said it's not it wasn't on and off but it is on and off no okay my are there two different guys there two different guys you're confused it's two different guys so I dated this

Jessicaguy like a year and a half ago right yeah um like consecutively like I dated him like our total relationship was like done cheater he cheated on me like 13year

Jessicaolds weird anyways that yikes yes and what the the girls are all amazing they're about to graduate high school

Brian Atlasthis year so just to be clear though let's just get a clarification um what you said you cuz you're 19 you dated him a year and a half ago yeah so I was a

Jessicasenior in high school so he was a senior in high school as well he was 18 uh he was pushing he was 17 and a half so it's not technically illegal dating it's just

Jessicaweird third okay he was just Junior High texting them oh that's even worse almost yes that's a yikes okay

Brian Atlasand he got his karma he got his karma yeah okay he got jail time no his karma deserve he got his karma but okay that's the old guy you said there's a new guy there's a new guy

Jessicafollowing that breakup like this guy who's like kind of like always been around I actually met him on Discord I was like like on some like guy's Discord like Discord I was like wearing his like headset and like all of a sudden this

Jessicalike guy came through and we just like Snap Chats and then we started talking and then like we stopped talking I got a boyfriend that was the cheating boyfriend and then after the relationship he found out I was single so oh okay he like kind of like slid

Jessicaback in um and we had that little like fling but obviously after getting cheated on and just being kind of like uh-uh I was just like not ready for that okay dating so it just did not work out

Jessicaand then this summer uh we went back to like what we had and then he was transferring out from Orange Coast College which is the college that he went to nearby here and he went to

Brian AtlasASU and he lives with two girls in at ASU Discord guy yeah disc disc guy okay yeah sorry so you're still kind of talking to him did you you guys have you guys met in person right yeah oh yeah we

Jessicalike used to travel to each other like I was just there like a few months ago like before we tragically ended but you were never in a relationship with him him official relationship not official how long were you like romantically involved first time was like 6 months

Jessicaand then the second time first time what like ra me and my ex broke up the one that was a cheater with the younger girls yeah um first time what though you guys Linked UP yeah first time we like had our talking stage was like 6 months long

Jessicaand that was like a brutally long talking stage so that ended and then um second time it was just like from May of this year to August like once I moved

Brian Atlashere it just kind of fell so technically single 1.5 years you were involved for a brief period with Discord man yeah um have you seen any other guys um not

Brian Atlassince Discord man like since our second round but like a sneaky link a fling anything like that um your friends throwing you under the B here by the way oh not recently like since I've been in Santa Barbara no but um in the 1.5

Brian Atlastechnically single period what are we what are we talking about like like five sneaky links no no two sneaky links some friends three sneaky links a few friends

Jessicayeah a three to four sneaky links do you mean friends friends mean like I like tried to like get to know other guys but

Brian Atlasthey just W my mind what about right now zero I'm so celibate I'm C yes and I'm stuck stuck yes what what do you mean stuck uh like just like trying to move

Jessicaon there's not one guy in the picture right now nothing literally my roster is clean roster is clean like actually you open up yeah if I opened up what my Snapchat you would see he is literally

Jessicathe only guy I talk to who which guy Discord man Discord man you're still talking to oh wait wait wait no like snap oh if I open you snap okay the kids

Jessicaare still CIB you're celibate only she only communicates okay you claim to be celibate actually am no for what like

Brian Atlastwo weeks me and him have not been together since August and there's not been another guy that sneaky like mm so what two months

Brian Atlastwo month celibacy period you're friends right you guys are friends right yeah we're friend we're roommates and oh your roommates yeah okay has have I brought a guy over since

Elliemoving back here thank you but has she got home a little late a couple nights you know actually not this semester so far not this semester last semester is a

Maiadifferent question for all right okay um what about you um I am currently single I've been single for probably like two years and my longest

Maiarelationship was a 5year relationship single for you said single for two years longest relationship fiveyear relationship that's like a high school relationship yeah I was like high school going in cuz I went to Community College

Brian Atlasfor two years so it was like high school going into Community College okay um so you've been single for two years but have you had in that 2-year Peri period uh little

Maiasituationship or um like when we first like ended things like I I spoke to a

Maiacouple people but nothing was ever like serious um and yeah what about right now um I've been a couple sneaky links no

Maiasneaky links I haven't I've been like speaking to someone for a little while um it's been actually like a few couple months but I haven't been with like I'm

Maianot like I don't go around like doing other things so I've only been speaking to one person probably since like January okay what about you I am single

Brian Atlasfor a couple months but my longest relationship was like 2 years two years okay I've been single for a couple months do you currently is there somebody you're currently talking to now

Portiasituationship talking stage or just nunnery I kind of just got out of a talking stage recently like a couple days ago couple days ago okay um yeah we like

Portiadated for a little bit and then we broke up and then when I got back we talked for a little bit and then we stopped talking okay

Ryan (Rhino)uh let me uh uh Ryan what about you I had a let's see I had like a two-year relationship and that ended at the

Ryan (Rhino)beginning of this year so I've been just kind of lost in the s for the last how many months is it this whole year basically I just been in the mix a

Brian Atlaslittle 2023 yeah it's a mess yeah okay got it got it let me get a couple oh okay let me see here uh first thing I need to do hold on we had a couple chats

TTS Readerhere from that was submitted before the show uh hold on clouse vongo donated

TTS Reader$27 thank you to thank you for saving me the other weekend on the boat fishing I had no idea I had hooked a great white as it pulled me into the ocean if you

Brian Atlashadn't acted with such speed and raw strength to pull me out of the water R be dead that's right we were we were on a fishing Expedition and this is a

Brian Atlasnormally I don't know you normally don't send it from this username but uh yeah I saved him I saved him we were on a canoe it's

Brian Atlasa comp it's a long story okay thank you man appreciate it um let's see here uh okay I had a couple notes I want to wait until she's back to

Brian Atlasget into this um Dena I don't know what she I think she went to pee okay um I have a question for you while we wait

Brian Atlasfor her to get back um so you you do feminist Studies have you found that it's that men are scared off by your

Portiacourse of study for sure I think it's like we only have like I've only seen a smaller percentage of men in my major

Portiamhm but I think the way that it is labeled is like more towards women just the study of women mhm so obviously a

Portialot of men aren't that interested in that so it makes sense okay got it um okay we'll come back we'll come back to

Brian Atlasthat I'll just get to my not here hold on one sec Let's see we have I need to trigger this one too oh God okay CL V go donated

TTS Reader$27 to the single ladies on the panel who would date Brian why or why not and Brian would you reciprocate if not

Brian Atlaswhy ow I don't know why he's he's trying to find you a wife I mean maybe we should wait until

Brian Atlasafter you hear all my hot takes um before we get into whether you would well okay maybe we'll do it before and after yeah it's like that that would be

Brian Atlasinteresting um bro you're you guys don't have to answer this but if okay it whatever um how many of you would pay for me on a first date and take me on

Brian Atlasthe first date pay for you yeah cuz like I'm I kind of need to be wh and Dy you know like there's a woman that'll do that but it's not going to be me don't you guys believe in Chivalry anymore

Brian Atlaslike hello like you got to wh you got to wh and dine me um okay do we go it's a chat um would you date

Brian Atlasme it's so I swear I did not send this in picco Stein's bro why do you got to ask this okay just it's okay you can reject me if you want I don't care go ahead if you're a traditional man

Brian Atlasyou're paying for the first dat like oh was kind of meing with a little bit you like I you don't have to pay for the first dat I mean it'd be dope if you did but but I wouldn't I would not whether whether or not I'd pay for the first

Ana Godinadate that's another that's what that's that's another if you asked me out like and you wanted to take me out yeah I probably would yeah you're a cute guy bra's got ambition yeah look at his eyes

Elliebeautiful okay what about you I mean kind of like hopping off of what she said like oh you know the DAT okay no no like no okay okay you got to like dinner

Brian Atlasnot paying no offense you know you just got to Riz and then I would say I I'd have to Riz yeah have I have I demonstrated Riz no yet zero RZ

Brian Atlasso far but I can redeem with RZ is what you're saying there's been zero RZ yeah okay okay all right yeah okay all right I can turn the Riz on I'll turn I'll Riz

Ana GodinaI can R it up uh Sophie what about you come on probably not rip Rip's in the chat not why not enough tattoos he's not like enough for you yes what do you mean

Brian AtlasI wear FL show too much yeah I shower too much yeah what what I know what kind of guy she's into for sure if if I had a lower back tattoo would that change if I

Brian Atlasthat wouldn't do it for you what if it was a dolphin jumping over a lotus flower would you be kind of into that possibly I probably not though I do have

Brian Atlasa tram stamp it was a mistake in my younger years when I was proofer it's not real see it yeah show us yeah no you

Sashagot to pay for that um for I showed mine someone somebody send show somebody send money so we can see it please yes please if he was like a convicted felon like

Sophiewould you maybe like oh maybe like this kind no I'm not really into no now into bad voice um it's a not really honestly I just I have such like a weird specific type we could we could also go around

Sophiethe table after this like what is everybody's type I think that's interesting um but since you're on the topic what's your type um I usually do go for guys that are tattooed not always

Sophiebut um most of the time um I mean like right off the bat like if I see somebody you know but and previously I've definitely gone for guys

Sophiewho should probably have treated me better I like I always go for like the douchier guys like I gotta stop doing that I'm trying to stray from that now and go for guys that are like

SophieI want someone to be like obsessed with me like I want like a s oh no kind of not like but like in moderation no but like that's nice but because I've always

SophieI've never had a guy like like take me out all the time and like pay for me and like just like not it's not just the like money or anything but I'm just saying like

SophieI my first like boyfriend like wanted yeah but yeah he my first boyfriend like barely wanted to like be SE with me in that's why you like right you like that I just like you like them to treat you

Jessicalike because when it's like real because when they treat me right it feels like a reward oh God dog what do you mean you're saying here you go no but I don't it's like it's not it's like

SophieBeauty and the Beast I don't mean to Beauty and the Beast the beast but he's fallen in love with you I'm changing that because now I like love myself I've like been love yeah I I really I don't I

Brian AtlasI totally have been from that okay gotcha okay I'm I'm completely new mindset that's beautiful yeah it's great it's great okay cool uh what about you

Juliawould I date you um I think you're not in my age range okay girl how old are you Brian 34

Ana Godinaokay I'm an old man it's prob years fine yeah I think for a 21-year-old I mean I don't know would you be interested in a 21-year-old I mean I'm not like hanging

Brian Atlasout at college parties trying to pick up like 21y old girls but what like if a 21y if I match with a 21y old on a dating app or someone DMD me or

Brian Atlassomething like yeah date them assuming we matched up on other things you know but uh the fact that you party three to four nights a week that's probably a deal breaker though so in different

Brian Atlasworld age my age is a problem you're alcoholism is a problem it's all good it's okay we're at different life stages go ahead well you're married so if I was

Sashanot married I would date you I would pursue you I would I like the style the hair is really nice um beard about it actually Brian kind of looks like your husband Brian look yeah you resemble my

Brian Atlashusband I look like your husband you don't look like my husband but you resemble him in the fact that like the eyes you have a little bit piing like dictator eyes like the dark the dark

Brian Atlaskind of grayish bluish eyes where you're not sure if he's a psychopath or if he just has beautiful eyes that kind of they're green so it's even more like it's more intense he's got really

Sashaintense eyes okay they're beautiful dope that's cool okay also are we just is he also pale like really pale yes he has a little bit of redness to his cheeks too okay and he doesn't I'm blushing yeah

Jessicaokay okay all right okay love you honey maybe we're related um what about you not you and me yeah no I think you're closer in age to my dad than me

Jessicatherefore I probably would not date you and you have Fair your dad available I have facial hair no my dad is married to my mom okay I was trying to no shoot my

Brian Atlasshot nope okay um facial hair got to go facial hair not a fan not a fan not a fan okay you like do you like clean

Brian Atlasshave maybe like just totally yeah naked face okay all right what about about you oh God a I personally would not totally

Portiafine I personally would not either did though just visually like he's just not your type um the age and I don't think we

Brian Atlaswould vibe that well there's no vibe zero there's zero Vibe VI is not yeah I I mean I would I would not date a feminist so that's a major deal breaker

Ana Godinaum feminist studies that's even what do you plan to do with feminist like a feminist studies degree she's going to be a professional grievance person Prof or she uh right

Portiaprofessional victim sorry sorry sorry right isn't that what you can do with a feminist degree Stud I'm a I'm I'm going I'm planning to go to law school okay oh I'm on that track

Ana Godinaokay so these just like extra classes like I remember in college like I'm like yo I'm doing everything I can to just like you know get my degree is this just like Nick camera is this going towards

Portiayour like law degree or exposure yeah you can technically major in anything and go to law school okay Goa gotcha so it's just a different perspective yeah okay all right there you have it folks I

Brian Atlasdon't know why you didn't ask him oh well I think that was to the ladies to the oh no it's to the single ladies on the panel would you date BR and I was supposed to would I reciprocate I don't know if would you let your sister date

Ryan (Rhino)him yeah don't um I I like you a lot you're a cool dude oh no so then again I maybe I haven't seen

Brian Atlasyour behavior outside of here so I don't know if I could if I had like a younger sister or something he can't he doesn't know me well enough to to he hasn't vetted me properly based on what I've seen though yeah I'm a standup guy according to Ryan

Brian Atlasover here just he doesn't know me yet enough so um okay let's see we had uh and then this one came in but I trigger uh Seven Deadly simps donated

TTS Reader$100 do any of you consider yourselves feminist we'll go the table on if so why also 777 deilan 7 77 nonillion

TTS Reader777 777 setian 777 seon

TTS Reader777 quinti 777 quadrillion 777 trillion

Ana Godina777777777777 thank thank you s Dead s appreciate it um go ahead um I would consider myself like a man of fear as feminist um I think that kind of has like a negative term to it but I think

Ana Godinawomen you know should be kind of treated as equal uh in some cases but I do consider myself more red pill for sure I don't consider myself her kind of feminist no okay what about you yeah I

Elliemean I guess I would say to like some extent I don't know I just think people like to take it a little too far sometimes and I feel like sometimes it's just like I don't know I love women and go women and w women are all beautiful

Elliebut I don't know sometimes it just turns into too much of like an argument too much of a what like an argument argument okay but I would say I'm in the middle okay I'm with her I'm with both of them

Sophieon uh yeah I I kind of like agree fall into that category I guess you kind of like kind of in the middle sort of feminist okay yeah I feel like everyone

Juliahas a different definition of feminism um I would say I am a feminist according to mine okay I don't think so I'm definitely not

Sashaa feminist um women are beautiful I love women we are powerful creatures but not for me okay um I honestly don't think I'm educated enough on feminism to have

Portiaa valid opinion agree that's totally fair I would actually agree with her as well okay I would say I'm a feminist but I feel like there's a big misconception

Portiaof it as in like go women it's all about women but I feel like I'm in a I'm a feminist in the way that's like there's certain issues that both men and women are facing that it's like it's important to like work through

Portiathat that's the whole point of feminism in my definition but I can see how like now I think it's a really misconstrued like definition and label so I that makes sense in what way is it

Portiamisconstrued I think it's like misconstrued in the way that it's like women deserve like or not women deserve but like it's all about women when it's

Portianot there's like other issues that men also face men also have like issues with their mental health that's like really affecting younger growing men now like

Portiathere's like issues with like being emotional and being vulnerable and things like that that I think a lot of people look past and kind of think that men don't have issues as well as women

Brian Atlasdoes so okay we can touch on the vulnerable thing later um do you but TP my understanding of

Brian Atlasfeminism and feminist studies is you view men's issues through the patriarchy is that correct so there's a patriarchy

Brian Atlasand that patriarch patriarchy negatively impacts women but it also negatively impacts men is that a fair assessment

Brian Atlasyes okay but you do view view things through the lens of patriarchy Theory um I definitely think it's different in this day and age than it was years ago but isn't that what they teach I thought

PortiaI mean my understanding is patriarchy theory is a pretty central tendon to feminism yeah I just think it's the way that you view it you could see it as in like men are like completely like in

PortiaRule and like oppressing women and I think it it's it's a big deep topic I think you know okay got it uh Rino do you consider yourself a feminist I don't think so I have to look at the

Ryan (Rhino)definition of it but I don't think I am a feminist shifting and depends on who you talk to and if it's about like men and women are equal then great I'm a feminist but is it though no is it though I don't think it's turned it's

Ryan (Rhino)turned into something far more than that has it ever been about that not really has ever been about I think that's like the label they want to give it but I don't think it's that word okay cool I

Brian Atlasthink we're all cut up on chats here actually we have one uh Austin Smith we live in the land of death dadd issues we live in the land anybody here have Daddy Issues show of hands any

Sashadaddy issues at the table any daddy issues Julia daddy any D I'm not I'm not saying you do I'm just asking okay what

Ana Godinawhat daddy issues what are the daddy ISU Daddy he wasn't there he I think still some women who have daddy issues and have present fathers so like what yeah what daddy issues are you talking about

Ana Godinaoh Anda could you read this one really quick yo Ana let me take you to dinner Let's Fall In Love you quit only fans and I'll take care of you okay what's up baby do you accept his offer um where are you

Brian Atlastaking me where are we going to go yeah ja probably not did you read his name by the way did you read his name no here I'll pull it up again can you read his name Jack that's clever thank you man thank

Brian Atlasyou Jack M appreciate it um hit the only fans babe and then we can talking Jack miof miof uh he's asking or she was asking where would you take her yeah where and what's your

Ana Godinadefinition of taking care of a woman yeah that that's what I want to know cuz I think to some people you know varies occasionally talking to her that's not

Brian AtlasTak like once a week for 10 minutes I think that's like the extent of the emotional no no no all right um Nick

Brian Atlaswere you able to fix the twitch tab can you you did you fix fix it or oh perfect guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have

Brian Atlasone let me uh yo Thuggin this was from two days ago but thank for the tier tier one no thank for the tier one Kai thank for the prime Pub Pub test thank for the 10 community that we might have read

Brian Atlasthat last time but yo Tom bomb thank you for the prime major Adil thank for the prime Robin dude thank you for the 10 gifted subs thank you so much man really appreciate it you're awesome dude thank

Brian Atlasyou guys thank you twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow oh Zen thank you for the prime man appreciate it all right so some of you were so kind to send some pre-show notes to us so what I'm going to do and once okay I I'll get into that

Brian Atlasso we had uh Ellie you said you had a very weird story uh the Mormon restraining order can you tell us that

Elliestory so yeah um when I was in high school I was dating this guy for a very long time this was in North Carolina so I was dating this guy for I think like at this point may have been we were dating for like a year everything seemed

Ellienormal it was totally fine he was like the first guy like I think I can say like I really genuinely like cared about so I was like really like involved with

Elliehim and stuff and then like it just got really rough he wanted to propose and he bought a ring he and I was like 17 so I was like I don't know I was kind of just

Ellieso brainwashed by him I was like kind of like weirdly okay with it with what getting married yeah for some reason I was like what do you mean brainwashed how were you brainwashed he like I mean I don't know if it was like his like him

Ellieor his family or whatever but I would just like act like him and he was like kind of rude so like you would act like him yeah I would just kind of or like act like the person he might have wanted me to be so like kind of just doing

Brian Atlaswhatever he says and just following along with him just so that like I don't know I had real big attachment issues with this man like really big attachment issues I mean but isn't that pretty normal like you if you hang out with

Brian Atlassomeone long enough you start to kind of maybe copy some of their mannerisms or certain um okay so so yeah he uh he

Ellietried to do that and then my parents found out and when my parents found out they were like n you got to get out of here like bye so I left home you dipped I dipped it was like this whole big

Elliefight with my parents like huge like massive like fight like my friend showed up it got like physical like it was bad so and then after that I just lived with him I was like you know what like

Elliewhatever I'm just going to like live with him and his family so I lived with his family for a few months and we were still set on like getting married and all that and that whole thing and then I don't know one day I was just like no

Elliethis like something is not right here and I ended it with him and then he got like really like upset about it and he like would like show up at my house and like it' be just really weird getting

Ellieweird text weird calls he called the cops on me one time like I was just in a parking lot with my friend I think like we were getting ready to like leave we were eating and he called the cops on me for like good times I know I like was

Elliesitting there like 17 like my pants I was just like why are there like cops here and they're like oh we got like a call about you being worried you your pants almost how old was this man he was

Elliehe's like 2 months younger than me so at the time he was also she's a cougar was not a man he was a boy she likes the younger guys he was a boy he was not a man he was a boy not a man so tell I I

Brian Atlasneed to get up here for a sec um but tell us about how the restraining order came along oh yeah so like that was just I walked into a Five Below it was a lot like what happened with the restraining

Ellieorder was like once I kind of you know like came to my uh senses I um moved back home with my parents it was like this whole big like rekindling they sold my car while I was gone which kind of sucked but like other

Elliethan that my parents were like okay look it's over block him don't do anything and then my parents were like you should get a restraining order against him cuz he kept doing all that like weird showing up in like random places and just being weird so I did and I went to

Elliecourt and I show up at like the court and he has a DUI attorney as his attorney which I was like what are you doing like what are what are you trying to get out of this right now and so this DUI attorney comes up to me and is like

Ellietalking to me and he was just like so like what is your side of the story I'm just like wondering like what are you going to bring out in the court like do you have any like receipts on anything and I was just like well like duh this is like a court case I didn't have a

Ellielawyer cuz I was like this is a restraining order this is stupid and then he was like he had like a folder like filled like this thick of like a manila folder filled with random like

Ellietext like emails whatever videos like it was crazy I did win though so so you guys a training order yeah and I haven't seen or talked to him since and I've never like even ran into him or anything

Elliethank God hate that man but yeah gu that's a crazy that was a weird time in my life I was all under 18 and then I moved here and you said

Brian Atlasmodern dating is crazy because there's so many different types nowadays and even like people from high school voice sounds just like it's a good

Brian Atlasimpression right have families at least from North Carolina like IDK how fast is too fast yeah sorry so like in the South you know a

Ellielot of people the way she said it in in the south in the South like so like people they are like a little unhinged I'm not even going to lie are they why yeah they

Brian Atlasjust they're so redneck like redneck yeah were you a redneck at one point don't talk poorly about your own people I don't know if they want me anymore you're disowned pretty much by the Rednecks I mean if you don't own like a

EllieConfederate flag or a gun then you're just disowned like they're not very nice people okay but um what was it yeah it was just so the south is just I think what you were

Elliegetting at though is like where you used to live people would get married really young start families very young yeah one of my friends one of my like really good high school friends like I love her to

Elliedeath she just got proposed and I was like wow like they're like most of the people I do know are younger than me in my grade just cuz I'm older for my grade but like one of them or no one two three

Elliefour six of them have had babies in the past two years three of my friends have gotten married and one of them has twins like act like they're all like and they're all like not even 21 yet by the

Brian Atlasway like they're not even like they're full on married have big weddings like but it's crazy it's just like as the only married person here do you want to have kids pretty soon or cuz you're what

Sasha27 I'm 27 is that in the works kids or um at the moment no um I feel like maybe within the next 5 years possibly uh we talk about it we want to have kids but

Sashaboth him and I want to do a lot more with our lives and our careers before bringing children into the picture Okay um we want to travel a lot more I'm from Brazil so I'm still in the process of

Sashagetting my green card and it's like we want to see the world and we always talk about like maybe we don't want to raise our kids in America May maybe we want to

Brian Atlasgo somewhere else and have children where honestly like anywhere that's secluded in a way secluded like why why just curious why wouldn't you want to

Sasharaise your kids here yes we do have amazing schooling yes we have great opportunities but the way that Society

Sashais going nowadays are you talking about the woke yeah yes go on I just I I don't know like our families both of our families are we're traditional his

Sashafamily is very Christian very traditional my family yes we're a little bit more conservative I would say conservative my mom is very involved in the church my dad not so much but like

Sashathe church cath are you talking Catholic cath well Catholic yeah yeah under under the branch of Christianity got it okay um my parents aren't pushing me to have kids his parents aren't pushing me to

Sashahave kids they know that we want to live our lives a little bit more but I see it with my uncle and his daughters that I'm like wow like I don't I don't know if I want my kids to in a way grow up like

Sashathis and go to school and I I don't know it's just sure okay I'm 27 what like when I was 10 years old

Sashalike people are already on Tik Tok doing these like little dances and you know and yeah it's a little sketchy to me like you're still a child like exposing yourself online see what you

Brian Atlasmean so it just it's different but yes the woke movement as well well going around the table here I want to ask everybody do you want to get married do you want to have kids uh and when do you

Brian Atlassee yourself getting married and having kids yeah like when would you like to be I guess uh within the next 5 years I think so marriage and kids yeah okay what about you definitely want to get

Elliemarried I don't know when I guess like which whenever it happens but probably by the time I'm like hopefully like 40 I'm sure by the time you're 40 I mean that's like the cut off on getting married if I don't find anybody at that point then it's just game over to the NY

Brian Atlasyou go yeah literally like bye that's it okay and you want kids yeah not what about you um I definitely want to get married

Sophieum hopefully by like 35 at the latest I mean maybe later I don't know um kids is a maybe I don't know it depends on where I am in life and how I feel

Juliaabout it but I'm not sure you're on the fence yeah okay got it yeah I feel like as of right now I don't know I think that's for future me to decide um but I

Jessicado want kids at some point okay and I'm assuming marriage too uh what about you um yeah I do want to get married um maybe like a couple years after college

Maiaand I want like three to four kids or honestly as many as possible okay um yeah I definitely want to get married and have kids um I definitely want to do

Maiaa lot of things for myself and for my life first sure so probably around like 28 29 okay yeah I want to get married and have kids by like married by like

Ryan (Rhino)27 ler R know what about you yeah I would definitely want to have a family married everything and maybe I'm 26 now so I would like to be a bit of an older

Ryan (Rhino)dad I don't think I'm ready for kids just yet so maybe early 30s mid3 like 34 I might want to knock someone up okay and kind of related to the marriage

Brian Atlasquestion starting with you over here um when you do get married are you going to take your husband's last name or are you going to hyphenate um I'll probably take my

Brian Atlashusband's last name it's not very feminist of you but uh okay um I will take my husband's last name yeah I would definitely take my husband's last name I

Sashatook you took but I me my my ma name is my middle name sure okay yeah um it depends if I like their last name if you like their last name yeah okay what's

Juliayour last name Madel so it would be kind of nice to

Brian Atlashave an could you say that one more time madale yeah M M M madale madale

Brian Atlasmcor quadel yes okay um so I maybe you should probably take your husband's last just throw that out there okay uh I'm sorry that was kind of mean but okay

Sophiego ahead we about I was going to say the exact same thing as her I mean if it's like he's got like a dope last name if it's cool yeah I mean are you high just be honest you want to high from night don't you no I I would be open to yeah I

Sophiedon't need like my last name but if the dude has like a weird last name then probably not pro so the last name if it's weird no go I mean if it's just like a normal last name sure why not

Ana Godinayeah if it's like a dog last name I hav taken that uh-uh if it's like sorry you're like a family you're going to become a family like a unit like you wouldn't want to have the same last name even if it's a shitty last name like that's your husband your kids are going

Jessicato have that last name I'm the odd one out yeah and you can't put like little signs like the Johnson's you know like the little like family things the Johnson's he and like the world's long yeah I take his last okay gotcha we have

Ana Godinaa couple more chats here uh if you can read this Jack May off Sor I'll take you somewhere nice don't worry I'll pick a good place Maybe sushi or Italian

Ana Godinaand I'll take care of you financially and physically oh and emotionally oh okay how much are you making a year to take care of me

Brian Atlasfinancially that's what I want to know and I don't really like a telling her okay so was is that a yes kind of

Brian Atlasfor the date or uh maybe for the date yeah we can you know get or Italian okay over Sushi we have Bender the offender damn I walked into a five and below again not sure we ugly Bender the offender I want to know what you look yo

Brian Atlasby the way Bender can you send your best selfie in the DMS yeah what yourself can you send me a DM bjer the offender because I just wanted to good to see you in the chat man I wanted to ask you something um send me a DM though all

Brian Atlasright we have grid One Motorsports coming up uh can I have you read this one may me uh you sorry sorry sorry you me yeah yeah uh grid One Motorsports I

Ana Godinahave to ask what do the ladies on the panel expect from a man in a relationship and what do they have to offer other than sex in what way if any is their feminism

Brian Atlasa help in their relationship other than to tell them to be a 304 boss babe huh what is a 304 ho what area code area code I don't know these guys really I think it's

Ana Godinadon't listen to him it means ho it's like but know geographically where 304 is from wait 304 area

Brian Atlascode West Virginia Co area code 304 covers the entire state of West Virginia so he's just something's going on like

Brian Atlason Tik Tok Instagram I don't know huh my sweet innocent Angel yeah oh it means so the question is what do the

Brian Atlasladies panel what I can't speak English tonight what do the ladies on exp expect from a man in a relationship and I guess what do you bring to the table so what

Ana Godinado you expect from a guy in a relationship and then what do you bring I do believe in traditional roles yeah I do think a man should take care of most things financially uh you know be like

Ana Godinathe provider protector I strongly believe in that I think a woman um you know obviously I want to have kids take care of the kids take care of the home he's fed um you know the house is nice

Ana GodinaI'm there for him emotionally I think a woman should be like a man's biggest supporter like I think a good woman by your side a man can really reach like you know the greatest of heights yeah so I would I'd be there I'd be loyal um

Ana Godinayeah just I think it's hard for men to also like open up you know emotionally I'd be like his kind of you know safety blanket okay hard for men to open up emotionally that kind of touches into the vulnerability thing that she

Brian Atlasmentioned so we'll come back to that um what do you think what do you want what do you expect a guy to uh from a man in a relationship and what do

Ellieyou bring to the table I mean in the past I've like expected the bare minimum but now I would say like generally just like kind of like what she said you know I want to be taken care of and provided

Elliefor and protected and all that stuff in a relationship now as far as what I can like bring to a relationship I don't know um I mean I'm funny I can help with like

EllieI can do random stuff but like I don't really know if like random tasks I'm not like good at any like specifically anything mhm what like a handyman you can fix a light bulb or what do we I could fix a light

Brian Atlasbulb if you ask me can you change a tire yeah actually I can wow that's so hot I uh swept my engine in the car once that's what like if a girl can fix a

Brian Atlastire like then my for up it's done I got you over okay um so you want you said you want to be taken care of provided for

Brian Atlasum remind us your boyfriend got you what on your birthday your threeyear long distance on

Ellieagain off again relationship yeah nothing he yeah nothing what oh yeah I mean see I need to expect more than the bare minimum I think actually that

Brian Atlaswasn't even the bare minimum okay all right um okay but you do want a guy to like take care of you provide for you even do do do you want him to start doing that from the very GetGo so like

Elliepay for dates yeah paying for dinner 100% I want to like be able to form like an emotional connection or like a have like personality sorry there we go um or having like personalities that are like

Elliego and like together well and are cohesive like that's important but at first like you got to get you know you got to RZ you know got to have the RZ

Ana Godinayou got to have the RZ yeah okay we can the Riz the vibe the the RZ so what about you like do you think like a woman should pay for a date like ever or take

Elliecare of her man I think sometimes yeah men do need to be spoiled sometimes just not as much not as much as women yeah okay why is that I

Ellie[Music] mean I don't know it's because like kind of falls into the same thing where it's like men are like more like or what I look for and like men would be more of like a providing like protective role

Ellieand I feel like yeah like I can do that just not as well like I don't know I'd rather be actually I don't know you do you want a guy to be a protector right yeah I that's why I like oppose to like I'd

Ryan (Rhino)rather have him like be like the initiator and like the main person and then not the person but like okay you know something along this like if he was doing all the protection would it make

Elliesense that he should get the like spoiling yeah hon toly a little bit okay guys I'm asking right so like I I have a question though you said you want your

Brian Atlasboyfriend and we talked about this a little bit earlier you you want your boyfriend to be a protector right so you had an issue where your boyfriend he

Brian Atlasdidn't want you to go out partying and go to the clubs now and you mentioned this too with your boyfriend maybe you guys you other girls here have had issues with guys trying to control you

Brian Atlaswhen it comes to not wanting you to go out to Bar uh parties clubs bars get drunk go out with your single girl uh Single Girlfriends couldn't you make the

Brian Atlasargument that men not wanting their girlfriends to go out to these types of environments is men using their masculine instincts to keep their

Brian Atlassignificant other uh out of POS out of positions that put the relationship at risk and put her in a potentially dangerous situation I don't know cuz I think a lot of it with men has to do

Elliewith like insecurity with their you think it's insecure if a guy yeah I feel like a lot of guys are insecure about like their girls and they're like worried that like other guys are going to like I don't know like make a move or something I feel like I don't know but

Sophieother guys do make a move I mean yeah but like it's them yeah we like I know you guys trust yeah it's like you should already just be able to like trust if

Sophieyou're not TR trusting the person then like why are you with them yeah not okay so you should just automatically like assume they're going to be loyal cuz like that you know yeah I think they assume that we're

Elliegoing out to like find someone else cuz that's what they do most of the time that's not like what we're trying to do we're trying to actually like we're just try have fun yeah exactly but is it but just part of yeah no you go cuz I know

Ana Godinawhat you're going to say do you think yeah do you think part of having fun is like going out and like meeting guys I mean like as a woman you know like you're probably going to get hit on like you know yeah I mean a couple of times yeah if you wanted to hook up with someone you could and like as a man like

Ana GodinaI don't know me as a girlfriend like what do I need to go out for if like my man's not there because like I'm going to get hit on 100% And like you're under the influence you're like I don't know if you do drugs or like you know you're

Sashadrunk like you could fall into those traps for sure yeah 100% but it's also a respect thing like for your significant other like when you're in a committed relationship I feel like the respect

Sashafactor of it is like maybe you shouldn't go out clubbing and partying and putting yourself in that situation I don't think it's an insecurity thing for men I think it's more so a respect thing especially

Sashain a day and age where we post on oh that was a keep going keep going go ahead goe no I'm just saying in a day and age that we post on social media a lot you know I think that men always

Sashahave their friends in their ears being like yo your girl's out partying like actually sorry but like that's how men think that is literally how men think and it's a respect thing

Sashaand then when men get it from their friends they're like whoo my ego has been bruised and that's why they're like upset with you yeah I get that no I like the way you put that saying don't go party don't have fun but like keep that

Sashain the back of the mind of like it's a respect thing at the end of the day you know go party together go do things together if you want to have a girls day there's other things than going out to

Ana Godinabars and partying like that you know yeah and I will say like we both work in an eye club and there have been many instances where we've seen girl just

Ana Godinacompletely wasted with like a group of guys and there's been times where I'm like you need to get out of here or I'm going to get someone to you out here because these guys are going to completely take advantage of you I I have a question kind of related to what

Brian Atlasshe's saying do you guys think that people make mistakes when it comes to infidelity like you can end up in a situation due to the circumstances alcohol is invol involved drugs are

Brian Atlasinvolved maybe you're just you just had you're still in a relationship but you had an argument with your boyfriend you're both kind of upset you're with your single female friends that would

Brian Atlaslove to have you back single again um do these all these factors can they coales and potentially lead to somebody

Brian Atlasmaking uh making a mistake oh leading to infidelity because people cheat sometimes they cheat intentionally sometimes people will cheat they up they made a mistake and they feel terrible about it 100% like I see it

Brian Atlasfive nights a week you guys work in the nightclubs right yeah these girls they got boyfriends they're cheating but but it's okay it's not only girls men men okay The Bachelor parties that come in

Sashasure last night of Freedom the the friends they pull girls to the table vas abas this is in Vegas yeah they pull girls to the table they're like bro it's your last minut of Freedom like go dance

Sashawith her and then it ends up oh you're now making out oh now you're leaving together yeah but it's not it's not only women yes women do fall into that as well and it just takes as simple as oh I

Ana Godinahad a fight with my boyfriend I'm drinking my inhibitions are lowered right I also think it does matter like who your friend friends are and who you're hanging out with like T this is

Ana Godinamy best friend but she's married like we don't go out and we don't go up yeah no she's married like you know so hey we're going to brunch we're doing a little lounge or something like that

Sashaum if we go like we don't we don't go party I feel like we've like we've gone to like industry outings where it's like all of our co-workers but we still have to remember like we are part of the

Sashacompany and we're not out here trying to be wild it may seem like that on social media cuz we're promoting a fun time but it's not well I'd like to hear from you guys over here too like do you guys

Brian Atlasthink a guy not wanting his long-term monogamous girlfriend he doesn't want her going out partying do you think that's do you

Portiathink that's insecure do you think he doesn't have TR uh he he doesn't trust her um what do you guys think over here I wouldn't say it's insecurity I think that's like a bad label

PortiaI think when you're in a relationship there's definitely you have to have like mutual respect and mutual trust obviously I feel like people should be allowed to go out should be allowed to like have fun but I think that when you

Portiaare in a relationship personally just when I was in a relationship I didn't go out as much or I would go out with him yeah but also I think that saying that you

Portiashouldn't go out to someone is also like you don't really have trust in them but it also is true that like men know men better than women know men women know women better than men know women so it's

Portialike we they obviously we know what intentions are we know what like other things are but like if I was talking to someone and they were going to go out I'd like hope and trust that like they would respect me and not like do

Maiasomething you know like I wouldn't push that onto them guess sure what about you um I agree with that but I think in like past relationships like I don't know it

Maiais a huge like trust thing as well well like having your significant other go out and do things um I personally like don't I agree with like kind of like

Maiarespecting each other's boundaries and like knowing that like hey I don't want you to go to that club I don't want you to go to that party and I think that that's a respect thing and I think that they should agree with that what about

Jessicayou um I feel like in my personal experiences like when I was in that long-term relationship with my cheating ex-boyfriend it's like really hard for me to judge this question because like when I was with them I wasn't allowed to go out I didn't drink at the time I was

Jessicain high school I literally like when I would go to parties like I would just stay with my girlfriends and they would be drunk and I would be babysitting them like literally like just there to like keep them safe and like I wasn't even

Jessicaallowed to do that much so I it's hard to really say like for me if it's like insecurity or if it's because he's like cheating on you you know like I don't know it was I feel like it was like a projection almost like for him to say oh you can't do this like there's other

Jessicaguys there like you're going to cheat on me there like cuz that's obviously the end of the day you're like more nervous about your girl going out because you think she's going to like cheat like that's like the core fear so I feel like it's almost like depends on the guy cuz it could be a reflection of themselves

Juliaokay at least that's what I learned in my relationship gotcha I also feel like um if I'm dating someone and they don't know their alcohol limit and I would not feel comfortable with that but I feel

Julialike if they know how much they they drink they like know exact like I don't know I just feel like I would trust them a lot more if they knew their limit and I've seen

Juliathem drunk and they're not sloppy or could get taken advantage of or take advantage of someone else or like overly friendly Sophie did you weigh weigh in on

TTS Readerthis um oh well okay hold Brandon mels donated $99 I've been plased and cross faded into Oblivion and still know not to go

TTS Readerhome with someone and sleep with them I've never understood that excuse from others if that is you you definitely shouldn't put yourself in that spot while in a

Sophierelationship I mean yeah exactly 100% yeah yeah I agree facts um go ahead I mean thank you Brandon by the way if I I mean yeah I've like gotten in fights

Sophiewith my accident gotten drunk but I that never caused me to go and talk to somebody else I still you know it was

Brian Atlasjust I've never felt that yeah and what about you huh um I mean I don't know uh well okay um do you

Brian Atlasthink it's a let's say you're let's say you're talking to a guy yeah and I mean it sounds like you want to just be in an open relationship but let's say you wanted to be in a committed

Brian Atlasrelationship you wanted commitment from the guy and he said okay I'm prepared to be monogamous with you committed to you however if you want my commitment I don't want you I don't want you go One

Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Next