Goth Girl SLASHED Her Boyfriends WHAT?! | Dating Talk #78

Date: 2023-05-29
Duration: 5h 55m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Orion Taraban(guest)
SPEAKER_02Bernadine(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_05Alicia Tunisia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Cassidy Williams(guest)
SPEAKER_07Abigail(guest)
SPEAKER_08Amber(guest)
SPEAKER_09Farah Khalidi(guest)
SPEAKER_10Tegan Powell(guest)
SPEAKER_11Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_12Shelby Ally(guest)

Key Moments

00:07:04
IntroFarah Khalidi introduces herself: 24, TikTok creator and OnlyFans creator

my name is Farah khalidi I'm 24. I'm a tech talk Creator and I'm also one only fans

00:08:29
IntroBernadine introduces herself as 32; Tegan Powell follows immediately after

my name is Bernadine I am 32. I

00:18:29
QuoteFarah reveals she is a virgin despite doing OnlyFans

I'm currently single I've only been in one relationship... we didn't [censored]

00:52:46
QuoteFarah defends being a virgin OnlyFans creator: asks what intercourse has to do with taking photos of yourself

I would ask them to Define what they think intercourse is and then ask how they think that relates to taking photos of yourself

00:58:35
OtherBernadine promotes her femininity/relationship online course and announces it to the panel

my program I have like my students messaging me every other week now saying I'm engaged or married

01:43:59
TopicRatings round begins — Brian asks guests to self-rate physical appearance 1-10

let's go around the table what do you rate yourself in terms of physical appearance on a scale of 1 to 10

01:44:16
QuoteFarah rates herself 10/10, up from 1/10 on a previous episode

honestly I give myself like a 10. last time I said one

01:44:56
QuoteShelby refuses to give a rating number; says everyone is beautiful (Christian worldview)

I think everyone's beautiful I personally don't do ratings

03:04:12
ControversyAbigail reveals she slashed ex-boyfriend's mattress with a knife, scattered his clothes and blankets in the desert, and stalked his new address

I slashed up his bed so that way he won't bring other women... I scattered them around the desert

03:07:32
QuoteAbigail also found ex's new girlfriend's info, threatened to email her boyfriend, and physically showed up at ex's house

I found out her boyfriend's email and his social media... I showed up to his house

04:38:17
OtherBernadine promotes her course with discount code 'whatever'; Instagram: fearless.femininity

if any of you ladies are interested in enrolling in my course you can enroll with a major discount using the code whatever

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Guest Introductions

Guests introduce name, age, occupation. Round of relationship statuses and longest relationships.

00:09:30
Relationship Status & Dating Apps

Each guest's current situation. Covers situationships, long-distance, virgins on OnlyFans, arranged marriage pressure.

00:35:00
Arranged Marriage & Indian Families

Alicia discusses family pressure around marriage by 35; arranged marriage as fallback. Farah open to curated introductions.

00:47:30
Flowers & Gift-Giving on Dates

Whether first-date flowers are turn-on or cringe. Orion's adorer/adored framework. Gift personalization vs. script following.

01:03:20
Dating Multiple People Simultaneously

Brian's discomfort with women dating 5+ men per week. Farah/others argue women's selectiveness. Debate on female vs. male option asymmetry.

01:09:23
Skincare / Pimple Ad Read

Sponsored segment on skincare. Panel discusses whether acne/pimples are distracting on dates.

01:34:56
Zombie Apocalypse Hypothetical

Would guests survive or give up in a zombie apocalypse? Walking Dead vs Last of Us zombie comparison.

01:43:59
Self-Rating & Sexual Marketplace Value

1-10 physical appearance self-ratings. Orion's normalized SMV framework. Debate on objective vs. subjective attractiveness.

02:41:40
Marriage, Divorce, Blood Covenants

Bernadine's Christian perspective on lifelong marriage and blood covenants. Divorce statistics. Brian's skepticism of marriage contracts.

03:04:12
Ex-Revenge & Property Destruction

Abigail reveals she slashed ex's mattress, scattered his clothes in desert, and stalked him. Discussion of tire-slashing and revenge behavior.

03:25:00
Female-Initiated Divorce & Feminism

Why women initiate ~70% of divorces. Bernadine argues feminism since 1960s caused decline. Farah/Orion debate pair-bonding and hypergamy.

04:00:00
College Hook-Up Culture

Discussion of hook-up culture at UCSB/Isla Vista. Whether people actually want relationships vs. casual sex.

04:20:00
Sex Before Marriage & Body Count

Premarital sex debate. Body count and pair-bonding. Tegan on sadness of high body counts. Alicia on double standards.

04:30:00
Final Q&A / Audience SuperChats

Extended audience donation reading, relationship hypotheticals, Brian discusses podcast direction and online drama.

04:40:39
After-Show (Madison hosting)

Madison hosts a brief after-show with remaining guests and chat interaction.

Transcript

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05:44:45
Brian Atlasmost most guys if they're gonna reject a girl first off like if a girl here's the difference is like some girls get approached so frequently that it's like annoying for them whereas most men
05:44:57
Brian Atlasget so rare like they rarely get approached so if you approach a guy even if you like get turned down most of them are going to be like pretty chill about it they're gonna almost probably be
05:45:08
Brian Atlasapologetic like oh my God hey thank you like I just I got a girlfriend I'm really sorry but hey you know I feel like we talk about like different
05:45:17
Madisongroups of guys though like I feel like guys like my age and younger younger men are like a lot
05:45:28
Abigailyou know be like oh how dare you like but but if you have a chance with me but you realize you realize that like most
05:45:37
Brian Atlasmen will never get approached will never get hit on like that where a girl like goes up to them in in person whereas like
05:45:48
Brian Atlastake an average girl even average girls have been approached so it's like like I get you most chicks they might be complimented by a guy they might get hit
05:46:00
Brian Atlason they're gonna forget about it the next day if you approach a dude like if you approach like an average guy it's probably the one of the only times in his life he's ever going to get approached
05:46:13
Brian Atlasand he's probably gonna remember that [ __ ] the rest of his [ __ ] life most of the chicks aren't going to remember most chicks are not going to remember 90 of the dudes that hit on them
05:46:25
Brian Atlasthat's true that is actually very true yeah so I I'm trying to think if I've ever been approached in public I think when I like when I was young I used to I was never a big partier but
05:46:38
Brian AtlasI'd occasionally go out to parties I maybe got approached and a part like in a party environment one or two times yeah I think you're in a party
05:46:49
Brian Atlasenvironment Maybe maybe here I'm going to read this one from Rex okay oh [ __ ] hold on I gotta hide this I got Brian just want to say I respect a lot of the pins you and people like oh I
05:47:00
Brian Atlasthink this one also came through as a sorry yeah I I saw that you mentioned this sorry Rex um or Romero thank you man do you want to read this
05:47:11
Brian AtlasBrian be honest did you start this podcast to pick up chicks LOL uh no no um I'm not really like trying to date the girls that uh come on the show I
05:47:22
Brian Atlasmean I'm not I'm not opposed to it but like wasn't the purpose no the purpose was I wanted to uh start a podcast but uh yeah
05:47:36
Brian Atlasum wait there's one here from wait someone was saying something about Rolo [ __ ] that he he wasn't talking [ __ ]
05:47:52
Brian Atlaswait did I miss it oh here it is kyber hey thank you man rolling Tomas he
05:48:04
Brian Atlashad nothing bad to say about you Brian please ignore all the goofball childish instigators W whatever podcast is that true because some people were saying that there was uh
05:48:15
Brian AtlasI don't know I don't watch I I don't have time to watch any of these guys's full stream so maybe I catch five minutes but most of the time I don't have time so um
05:48:28
Brian AtlasI don't know if he said if he hasn't said anything bad if he has said anything bad I've I don't know I I don't I try to be friends with all these guys
05:48:40
Brian Atlaslike try to be on good terms with all these guys so I don't know if they're saying like bad [ __ ] but yeah um cool cool um okay I think that's it all right guys
05:48:51
Abigailwhat's up oh I was gonna ask um what what are some um some of your uh what's the word um
05:49:01
Abigailyou know um off not off limits um non-negotiables non-negotiables in a relationship yeah
05:49:13
Brian Atlasif you're not loyal she can't have previously been involved in a gang that's usually a
05:49:23
Brian AtlasI thought you was with it though I'm do you see how pale I am like I'm too do you need like a a gangster is that the kind of guy you're attracted to
05:49:35
Abigailno it's like a thug no I don't I don't like um gangsters or Thug Type of dudes I just like drug dealers um I like
05:49:44
Abigailscammers I like Gamers Gamers um people who oh well not people guys who like anime um
05:49:54
Abigaillike they could be any style I prefer like white asian and Hispanic um they as long as they're taller than me I
05:50:06
Abigaildon't care if they're like six foot if anything like I think six foot is like too tall so it's kind of like awkward but you know I don't really care too much about height
05:50:19
Abigailum yeah I I usually attract like nerdy dudes um weird who who are like weird and awkward because that's how I am so I guess
05:50:32
Abigailthey're comfortable with me good times good times shortest guy you've dated um same height as me like or like an inch or two aren't you four left yeah I was
05:50:44
Brian Atlasgonna say can you show us the boots can you like lift the boots up on so not onto the table but I don't know can you oh this way this way hold on that's not gonna we'll just wait
05:50:55
Brian AtlasCenter oh yeah that works damn those are some giant [ __ ] boots so you're 411 yeah yeah all right good times good times
05:51:05
Brian Atlastimes good times okay all right last Super Chat here casual Mead thing for the Australian 20 uh Madison can you read this one Brixton you're a real one keeping you and most importantly keep you have
05:51:20
Madisonand most importantly keep having fun with this podcast keep sending the asteroid keep Wing Manning Chad
05:51:26
Madisonwild Gamers and Mike D and keep spreading Alm slash BLM awareness thank you man appreciate it BLM big lady matter
05:51:40
Brian Atlashashtag BLM okay um yeah man thank you appreciate it and uh I didn't send I feel like I have not been sending the asteroid as frequently as I would
05:51:51
Brian AtlasI would like to I also want to start doing I have a I got I got we've this one a couple times [Music]
05:52:05
Brian Atlasthat's so [ __ ] holy [ __ ] and then I got this one boom and sometimes I'll send this one yep there's that
05:52:17
Brian Atlasalso that one's kind of stupid I don't know if I like that one send a nuke um also I have Tate here
05:52:28
Brian AtlasI oh I should have made Tate yeah
05:52:33
Abigail[Music] Papa Tate has joined whatever podcast um you didn't finish telling me about your um non-negotiables
05:52:48
Brian Atlasum she wears cat ears um yeah cat ears um
05:52:59
Brian Atlasshe has a pentagram if she has a pentagram necklace that's that's usually pretty bad um what kind of other what kind of other tattoos do you have
05:53:14
Abigailum I have like um my first one an ankle um and then little ones right here and right here
05:53:25
AbigailI don't really have that many I have a roast for you here I want you to read it you want a roast into the mic the Intel of a potato the speed
05:53:39
Abigailthe speech coherence and they sucker like a bottom feeding fish also just generally creepy much love she asked for it Brian
05:53:50
Abigailyeah I mean it is true yeah I am talking kind of slow today because I am tired um but yeah but thank you sweet
05:54:02
Brian AtlasGood Times um do you have any piercings or anything I should be aware of I should be aware of no I used to have a bunch of piercings but I had to remove
05:54:15
Abigailthem because you went to prison no you went sorry you went to county jail no because usually like you have to get rid of your well I have been to jail but
05:54:25
AbigailI oh but that's not why um why did you go to jail um vandalism vandalism yeah graffiti yeah
05:54:40
Miscokay all right 411 though yeah she's
05:54:50
Brian Atlasjail
05:55:00
AbigailI feel like you like that she's been to jail whoa whoa and some people don't like to admit but they like the they like the bad boy bad
05:55:10
Brian Atlasgirl type I like me a good girl I like me a good girl
05:55:18
Brian Atlas4 11. used to be in a gang
05:55:29
Brian Atlasit's tough It's a tough call all right um Nick do you know how to uh end the Stream uh yeah just uh do uh do that I'll tell you what I'll just say good night all
05:55:41
Brian Atlasright good night guys I said I'd only do a 30 minute nap but it probably ended up being an hour all right good night guys