Goth Girl SLASHED Her Boyfriends WHAT?! | Dating Talk #78
Date: 2023-05-29
Duration: 5h 55m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Orion Taraban(guest)
SPEAKER_02Bernadine(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_05Alicia Tunisia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Cassidy Williams(guest)
SPEAKER_07Abigail(guest)
SPEAKER_08Amber(guest)
SPEAKER_09Farah Khalidi(guest)
SPEAKER_10Tegan Powell(guest)
SPEAKER_11Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_12Shelby Ally(guest)
Key Moments
00:07:04
IntroFarah Khalidi introduces herself: 24, TikTok creator and OnlyFans creator
“my name is Farah khalidi I'm 24. I'm a tech talk Creator and I'm also one only fans”
00:08:29
IntroBernadine introduces herself as 32; Tegan Powell follows immediately after
“my name is Bernadine I am 32. I”
00:18:29
QuoteFarah reveals she is a virgin despite doing OnlyFans
“I'm currently single I've only been in one relationship... we didn't [censored]”
00:52:46
QuoteFarah defends being a virgin OnlyFans creator: asks what intercourse has to do with taking photos of yourself
“I would ask them to Define what they think intercourse is and then ask how they think that relates to taking photos of yourself”
00:58:35
OtherBernadine promotes her femininity/relationship online course and announces it to the panel
“my program I have like my students messaging me every other week now saying I'm engaged or married”
01:43:59
TopicRatings round begins — Brian asks guests to self-rate physical appearance 1-10
“let's go around the table what do you rate yourself in terms of physical appearance on a scale of 1 to 10”
01:44:16
QuoteFarah rates herself 10/10, up from 1/10 on a previous episode
“honestly I give myself like a 10. last time I said one”
01:44:56
QuoteShelby refuses to give a rating number; says everyone is beautiful (Christian worldview)
“I think everyone's beautiful I personally don't do ratings”
03:04:12
ControversyAbigail reveals she slashed ex-boyfriend's mattress with a knife, scattered his clothes and blankets in the desert, and stalked his new address
“I slashed up his bed so that way he won't bring other women... I scattered them around the desert”
03:07:32
QuoteAbigail also found ex's new girlfriend's info, threatened to email her boyfriend, and physically showed up at ex's house
“I found out her boyfriend's email and his social media... I showed up to his house”
04:38:17
OtherBernadine promotes her course with discount code 'whatever'; Instagram: fearless.femininity
“if any of you ladies are interested in enrolling in my course you can enroll with a major discount using the code whatever”
Topics Discussed
00:00:00
Guest Introductions
Guests introduce name, age, occupation. Round of relationship statuses and longest relationships.
00:09:30
Relationship Status & Dating Apps
Each guest's current situation. Covers situationships, long-distance, virgins on OnlyFans, arranged marriage pressure.
00:35:00
Arranged Marriage & Indian Families
Alicia discusses family pressure around marriage by 35; arranged marriage as fallback. Farah open to curated introductions.
00:47:30
Flowers & Gift-Giving on Dates
Whether first-date flowers are turn-on or cringe. Orion's adorer/adored framework. Gift personalization vs. script following.
01:03:20
Dating Multiple People Simultaneously
Brian's discomfort with women dating 5+ men per week. Farah/others argue women's selectiveness. Debate on female vs. male option asymmetry.
01:09:23
Skincare / Pimple Ad Read
Sponsored segment on skincare. Panel discusses whether acne/pimples are distracting on dates.
01:34:56
Zombie Apocalypse Hypothetical
Would guests survive or give up in a zombie apocalypse? Walking Dead vs Last of Us zombie comparison.
01:43:59
Self-Rating & Sexual Marketplace Value
1-10 physical appearance self-ratings. Orion's normalized SMV framework. Debate on objective vs. subjective attractiveness.
02:41:40
Marriage, Divorce, Blood Covenants
Bernadine's Christian perspective on lifelong marriage and blood covenants. Divorce statistics. Brian's skepticism of marriage contracts.
03:04:12
Ex-Revenge & Property Destruction
Abigail reveals she slashed ex's mattress, scattered his clothes in desert, and stalked him. Discussion of tire-slashing and revenge behavior.
03:25:00
Female-Initiated Divorce & Feminism
Why women initiate ~70% of divorces. Bernadine argues feminism since 1960s caused decline. Farah/Orion debate pair-bonding and hypergamy.
04:00:00
College Hook-Up Culture
Discussion of hook-up culture at UCSB/Isla Vista. Whether people actually want relationships vs. casual sex.
04:20:00
Sex Before Marriage & Body Count
Premarital sex debate. Body count and pair-bonding. Tegan on sadness of high body counts. Alicia on double standards.
04:30:00
Final Q&A / Audience SuperChats
Extended audience donation reading, relationship hypotheticals, Brian discusses podcast direction and online drama.
04:40:39
After-Show (Madison hosting)
Madison hosts a brief after-show with remaining guests and chat interaction.
Transcript
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00:57:32
Orion Tarabanhe is projecting an idea of you that may or may not not actually Accord with who you are and on some level it feels as almost like he's trying to purchase your affection
00:57:44
Bernadineum which generally has the counterproductive effect of lowering attraction but I think like if we were given a gift of like here's an iPhone we'd be like Yay we'd love it because we like iPhones more than flowers you know what I mean and obviously they're more
00:57:57
Shelby Allyexpensive but we just don't appreciate flowers as well back in the day could I say something really quick go ahead then I have to come in and then I have to redirect a little bit but I just wanted to say that I agree I think um I think
00:58:09
Shelby Allyflowers are great but I think that possibly like on the first date they're probably not the best idea because I think um girls in this case could possibly get used to the materialistic gifts and then they're not going to appreciate the man
00:58:22
Abigailas much and they're gonna get they're gonna get used to as I mentioned the gifts in the future real quick go ahead um what about
00:58:31
Abigailgiving the man a gift or flower yes I mean well I can speak for myself uh because I have done I like when the
00:58:42
Brian Atlaschick says they don't I would appreciate it get me in my My Chemical Romance CD I'm yours forever um okay so um it's just my personal experience with
00:58:54
Brian Atlasthat whole thing I mean I've rarely done the romantic gestures just because I learned very early on that typically it doesn't really work um
00:59:05
Brian AtlasI I really don't think it's going to in any way it's not going to be the deal maker so getting a girl flowers getting a girl this or that it's never going to
00:59:15
Brian Atlasbe the the deal maker so uh and in a lot of cases it can actually be a detractor if you get flowers or do this because I I think a lot of girls perhaps in the
00:59:26
Brian Atlasdays of old but I feel like in today's date and climate a lot of girls don't respect that um and also my recommendation to men is is because of the dating landscape and
00:59:38
Brian Atlasboth men and women are doing this but um a lot of women are dating multiple men uh so I don't think that you should be adhering to your traditional gender
00:59:48
Brian Atlasroles with women who have as many options as they do and are dating and sleeping with as many men as they are I have a question what's up when you're going out with a girl can't
01:00:00
Alicia Tunisiayou kind of tell like who she is you could research her you could know like who this human is right so but you feel that when you say that you're kind of like assuming that she's just like going
01:00:13
Alicia Tunisiaaround with like 10 other dudes and [ __ ] them like on the spot and you know that she's just meeting up with them like in a Target and not going on a date and she's just like doing booty call but like how how do you know like how are you assuming that like how are
01:00:26
Brian Atlasyou making that assumption I just want to know well I mean there there's a few ways I mean first off it is to some degree an assumption because that seems to be the norm it's
01:00:38
Brian Atlasnot every woman it's not every man but it does seem to be the and it's more so the case that women are engaging in or it's more so the case that women are
01:00:48
Brian Atlashave the capability or the ability to be dating multiple men whereas very there's definitely men that are dogs and dating [ __ ] 10 chicks but the amount of men
01:00:59
Brian Atlasthat are capable of doing that is far fewer than than uh on the opposite side an average guy he doesn't have a roster of chicks
01:01:11
Brian Atlasan average girl if she was so inclined could have a roster of guys they might not be prepared to give her commitment but she could be sleeping with multiple
01:01:20
Brian Atlasattractive guys um so I think as a man it's you ought to expect it more um I mean there's also if you meet them on a dating app right away you know they
01:01:32
Brian Atlashave like an infinite amount of option not an infinite but a very high amount of options um you can sort of look at someone and sort of get a sense for how they move
01:01:42
Brian Atlasyou know if they go out and party if they drink you know look at their social life um for example I don't I don't go to the bars on go to clubs I don't drink so I value that in the partner
01:01:54
Brian Atlasum but that's not always a guarantee because some very unassuming women who might be very quiet May might be very shy introverted
01:02:05
Brian Atlascan be putting up bodies like they can be I've known some women who you never think just based off their personality
01:02:14
Brian Atlasand the way they move they have a lot of options so you never can really know you can you can look at someone's General behavior and try to
01:02:25
Brian Atlassuss it out a little bit but as I've said I've known some very unassuming shy quiet girls who you wouldn't think it but are dating four guys at the same time and sleeping you know so you're still
01:02:38
Alicia Tunisiamaking the Assumption like you don't know that if that's true because if you're not asking you're not doing the research like you're you even admitted it you said you're just making an assumption like you just think that way based on like maybe one past experience
01:02:49
Brian Atlaslike you're just it's more than one it's well it's I mean it's Collective male experience and um it's it's
01:03:00
Brian AtlasI mean you you know what's going on I've heard from I've heard from women yeah I know I I mean but I do that I asked too yeah for like for example I I was on a date this must have been a year or so
01:03:14
Brian Atlasago um with a girl and I I didn't outright ask hey how many men are you currently sleeping with but what I did ask was is that it was a first date and she she had told me that she had just I met her on a
01:03:26
Brian Atlasdating she told me oh I just got I just got on hinge and I was just asking her about her experience and she's like well yeah I just got on hinge keep in mind this was like a
01:03:37
Brian Atlasnot to be mean to her but she was unremarkable she's not particularly interesting uh she's pleasant but she wasn't charismatic she wasn't
01:03:48
Brian Atlasstunner in terms of her physical appearance like an average girl um she had told me she just down downloaded the app I had the date I went on with her was like her
01:03:59
Brian Atlasfourth day on the app she'd been on two dates prior to me and then she had two dates planned for the weekend she's an average woman like
01:04:10
Brian Atlasher male looks equivalent perhaps you can consider me as that would not be capable of securing five dates in a week
01:04:19
Brian Atlasso I mean I'll ask questions and they'll reveal themselves I mean I she may have very well not be sleeping with any of them but the fact that she's going on five dates with I don't even
01:04:31
Brian Atlaswant that's not worth my time I don't want to deal with a girl who's going on all these dates because if I want to see her again I want to see her on a Friday oh you you're you've already got another date I'm not interested anymore you need
01:04:42
Abigailto get out of the city busy Santa Barbara is not that big like I think it just depends on the type of girl you know like um if she's a relationship type she can
01:04:54
Abigailhave all these dudes coming into her DMS but that doesn't mean she'll be interested in them you know um and you know just from my personal experience
01:05:04
Abigailum I don't know I think um like social media has influenced um like men a lot about the type of girl they want like they want like a supermodel type of girl who's perfect
01:05:17
Brian Atlashas um you know and um also I actually think it's the reverse I think it's women that have higher standards not men
01:05:28
Brian Atlaslike how well I mean I I would say that women generally speaking are pickier than men are and I think there's perhaps a biological uh basis for that but I
01:05:39
Abigaildon't think it's men out here with absurd standards well it's because in my opinion I think women are just more like um emotional beings and men are more
01:05:50
Abigaillogical so like I think if a woman were to like because you know they're I've seen like from my personal experience and I've
01:05:59
Abigailalso seen other women in my life date men who you know where people would look at him and be like you could do better but that's because the woman has an
01:06:10
Abigailemotional connection with him sure and um where men the emotional connection comes after logic so they're more like
01:06:20
Abigailokay what does she what can she do for me what she can she provide and things like that you know and then later on then a emotional connection comes after
01:06:30
Farah Khalidiso I don't think um like women are more picky I think it just depends on the connection I think women are more picky but that's why I'm confused why you'd care if the girl had five days lined up that week because she even just said a girl can get like a thousand matches pretty
01:06:43
Farah Khalidiquickly so you're probably still in like the top one percent of guys because girls are very picky with who they actually end up going on dates with like their flake rate is extremely high so why would it bother you if she curved like a thousand guys that week and then
01:06:54
Farah Khalidiyou guys were the top five yeah well I mean why would it bother me if she's because she's still showing a high level of selectiveness just by the fact you're on the day because it's so unlikely that a woman would go on a date with a guy but I want an even higher level of
01:07:07
Farah Khalidiselectiveness then it's not even actually a higher level well on the first day and then you beat out the guys of that week that's how you earn the next level I suppose but there's something that irks me about
01:07:18
Brian AtlasI I would prefer a girl that is one is properly single and dates one person at a time on a first date level yes yeah
01:07:29
Farah Khalidithat's that's a tall standard it's a tall order well well if you had if two five five dates in a week I think is a bit that's Overkill it's a bit much but if two girls match with you and one want to hang out on a Monday and one on Friday you'd curve one of them so you
01:07:42
Farah Khalidicould be fully because that's what you're asking of the woman basically what do you mean you were just saying you want her to date one person at a time even on a first date level so if two girls offer you a first date in one week you're gonna curve one of them
01:07:53
Brian Atlasyou're gonna reciprocate well I'm I'm more so saying that I think five dates in a week is a bit much oh so it's not five out of like a thousand so it's not one at a time it's just something under five
01:08:04
Brian AtlasI'm I'm a realist in that I I I understand that the dating landscape as it is is that there's a likelihood that if you're just
01:08:16
Brian Atlasmeeting somebody that they're probably gonna be there's probably some other people in the picture I I understand that however it doesn't change the fact that I dislike it that you want to feel special
01:08:27
Farah KhalidiI would like yes guys are more likely to take up every date opportunity like if you got offered three days that week three dates that week you'd probably take all of them and she said no to most of them still so she's actually showing more
01:08:39
Brian Atlasselectiveness is my point well I would agree with you that I think women are more selective but um I'm too busy to go on three dates a week the average guy who isn't hosting a podcast
01:08:50
Brian Atlaswell I can't speak I I can speak for them to be fair they would take it up I mean I'm just speaking for myself but because you're a high value man
01:09:01
Brian Atlaswell I don't I I don't know if I've uh if that's your assessment of me thank you for the endorsement however um I don't think I've ever characterized myself
01:09:12
Brian AtlasI don't like these terms like Alpha and high value or high status
01:09:23
Brian AtlasI do need to uh shift really quick but we can come back to this conversation so I have a question for the ladies and this is related to uh skincare would you
01:09:32
Brian Atlasfind it hard to focus on a date or maybe find it a little off-putting if a guy just had a giant [ __ ] zit like whitehead right either like between
01:09:42
Brian Atlashis eyes like right here or like on his nose um or even like even worse I don't know if maybe you guys have had this if any of you had breakout what if there was like
01:09:53
Brian Atlasa pimple like a white head or just some redness like on the lip have ever any of you had like the pimple like acne on the lips
01:10:03
Brian Atlasthat's what I'm talking about I'm saying like because you can get acne on on your on your lip you can get acne on your lip what's the solution the question is like you go on a date
01:10:16
Shelby Allywith the dude would you find it hard to focus if there's just a giant [ __ ] pimple right boom right here yes or on the shallow on his nose I feel like if he was a great guy and he had good
01:10:29
Cassidy Williamsmorals and he had a great personality I honestly wouldn't care okay I would notice it but like
01:10:46
Brian Atlasyeah I don't know that'd be weird but have you ever been on a date with guy and you're like he maybe has like you know a little something on his lip and you're like is
01:10:57
Brian Atlasit acne or something is it something worse right anybody no no bad hygiene I've seen that that's it that you said right here I've been on a date like recently with a guy that had that closer
01:11:10
Cassidy Williamsto Mike I've been on a day recently with a guy that had like is it like here and did it did it make you question does this [ __ ] have herpes did it cross your mind I mean she noticed it
01:11:21
Cassidy Williamsso like I I noticed it but no I didn't question if he had herpes and like it wasn't a big deal like okay you see it you notice it it's like okay whatever and then you continue the conversation like they're not like have any of you
01:11:33
Brian Atlasever been on the fence though where like because I've definitely been on a date with a girl and there's like something going on with the lip I don't know if it could be just acne I don't know and then I was like
01:11:46
Alicia Tunisiaand then I just never saw her again any has that ever happened to you what no I'm not trying to like get [ __ ] that hasn't happened to me sorry bad hygiene I mean if that's what's not the same
01:11:56
Abigailthing or no it's not is that like a deal breaker if a girl has herpes yes if she has pimples yeah for some people it's not a deal breaker that's fine for them
01:12:12
Tegan Powellit's reasonable yeah my question for you is that if you like that guy like would you have kissed him knowing that there was a
01:12:20
Cassidy Williamsit could be acne it could be the herpes I mean I feel like okay so it wasn't because I feel like a cold sore looks different than a zit if it's like here yeah I'm talking about the guy that
01:12:33
Cassidy Williamsyou're talking about yeah I mean yeah okay like you I mean obviously there's some times when you can't really tell but it was obvious that it was just as
01:12:41
Brian Atlasit was not right herpes so yeah okay well guys anyway guys so you
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01:13:12
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01:13:25
Brian Atlaslook it's already nerve-wracking enough before first date you know you're getting your hair ready you're you're doing all the things you do before a date and uh imagine though it's like
01:13:36
Brian Atlasyour dream girl and you got a giant [ __ ] pimple right on your [ __ ] forehead bro she this could be your future girlfriend future wife future mother of your children great person she's got a great personality
01:13:49
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01:14:36
Bernadinethere actually was one time I didn't press the button stop it get some help help what's that with the pimple oh with the pimple what you should have pressed the button stop it get some help oh this
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01:14:59
Brian Atlasbreakouts and [ __ ] and it's just like it's just another thing that you don't want to be dealing with when you're about to go on the first date guys so yeah get your skin care uh figured out okay so uh we can go back to what we
01:15:10
Brian Atlaswere previously talking about or we could do let's do some super chats why not okay hold on I gotta pull these up here we have uh oh Puffy Vegas last week the girls all gave me one I was curious
01:15:21
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01:15:32
Brian Atlas4.99 and up so if the girls want though I don't know if you can see him oh like that air here I'll pull that doc I'll pull that back up can you see him in the
01:15:45
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01:15:57
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01:16:09
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01:16:32
Brian Atlasthe show who uh said some things that uh not not great disavow disavow um but uh look at the end of the day we
01:16:44
Brian Atlasinvite anywhere from like six to ten people to come on the show every what people have different opinions um the views expressed by the guests and panelists do not
01:16:54
Brian Atlasnecessarily reflect those of the host or the podcast but yeah sometimes people say some wild [ __ ] so thank you man all right we have a non here can you ask the girls if a guy owning a gun is a positive deal breaker or
01:17:08
Brian Atlasneither PS would be cool to see a debate between pharah and pale ghost girl Mary both smart and logical but totally opposite viewpoints pharah are you down yeah for a debate with
01:17:20
Farah Khalidipale ghost girl Mary as you give me a travel story but this is my second time flying out oh [ __ ] well you'll be back in California right for that travel stipend yeah okay no I'm down yeah okay
01:17:32
Brian Atlasum so the question is we're gonna go around the table is it a deal breaker is it a positive deal breaker or neither um if a guy owns I assume legally owns a firearm go ahead I would say positive
01:17:45
Abigailbecause um I would feel protected um so like if there was like a burglary or something bad were to happen I know that you know we have protection
01:17:59
Alicia TunisiaI would say neutral to positive I probably want to get one yeah I'd say positive as long as it's not like visible not any like open carry type of thing I mean as long as it's
01:18:11
Alicia Tunisiaconcealed that's fine I don't want to see that stuff but the fact that you have it just shows that you know that you're like protective which is nice um it's not really my favorite but my
01:18:22
Shelby Allyfriends more neutral yeah so you'd be uh upset if a guy had a firearm I'm not fully upset I'm more neutral but it's just not my favorite not your favorite what do you mean um
01:18:33
Shelby AllyI just I'm not a big fan of guns okay I don't like them I don't like violence so okay yeah yeah so it's neutral yeah because if they had it it would it would be okay I'm not fully against it right
01:18:46
Amberokay I think it's a positive thing I lived in the South for a while so it wasn't out of the norm for a guy to have a concealed to carry on him so I don't see
01:18:56
TTS/Miscanything wrong with it okay oh sorry hold on just a second Mount underscore whatever is donated 200 don't
01:19:05
Brian Atlasgive my chemical homework my chemical home that's a fire that I guess that's your nickname by the way can I um can you give me one of those um those fingerless
01:19:17
Brian Atlasgloves for me to wear oh can I can I wear one right now do you have a response to mount what Everest good name by the way
01:19:32
Brian AtlasI don't know what to say to that like oh well okay okay that's it and I'm not a hoe how dare you mount
01:19:44
Brian Atlaswhatever wrist all right is it good is it good luck for me guys
01:19:55
Brian Atlasit matches your outfit sweet I feel like Michael Jackson okay without the okay nevermind um okay uh I think we were here you were telling us
01:20:06
Cassidy Williamsabout the guns I feel like it's neutral as long as I mean they're not like doing anything illegal it's fine but I'm kind of with her like yeah yeah it glows in the dark too it glows in the
01:20:18
Bernadinedark wow okay what about you that's a positive and she should take or he should take his woman out shooting at the range or something okay
01:20:28
Brian AtlasTegan positive okay definitely positive Orion yeah I mean it's kind of a director that the women but what if would you date a girl
01:20:39
Orion Tarabanwho has a firearm sure I have a gun hell yeah okay you got a glock what you got I have a nine millimeter Smith and Wesson all right I was really against guns for a long time so I do resonate with that
01:20:50
Orion Tarabanbecause I don't like the idea of violence um but as I've gotten older I realized that if violence did erupt I don't want to be the only guy without a gun
01:21:02
Brian Atlasyeah so I'm not really interested in starting anything but if necessary I will end something the good guy with a gun that makes sense it's good to know I understand that good times good times
01:21:12
Brian Atlasokay and then we have John Smith here thank you man for the uh can you ask the girls with only fans if their parents know about it and if so
01:21:22
Brian Atlashow do they feel about it so that's just you and you if I'm Cur uh you're the only fans before you've done only fans before yeah okay uh did they know your
01:21:32
Brian Atlasparents know about it yeah wait you did it before so you don't have you don't do it currently though no I stopped doing it okay um what were you doing on there by the
01:21:43
Abigailway BG content solo content um um well it was solo and nudes um but I had like a boyfriend at the
01:21:53
Orion Tarabantime so we would make videos together what's BG oh boy girl oh so it's like you're [ __ ] oh you actually it's the uh [Music]
01:22:11
Amberyou just assign like a release form to be able to do boy girl content now yeah um should your parents know and how do they feel about it did you answer that did your parents know that you did of
01:22:23
Abigailyeah were they cool with it did they disown you not your dad my dad would definitely kill you my bad um but my mom kneel
01:22:33
Abigailand she she was like whatever she didn't really care what kind of laundry detergent to you I just washed them yesterday well laundry detergent does it smell
01:22:46
Brian Atlasgood it smells like Citrus and pine okay uh moving on uh go ahead for him yeah
01:22:56
Farah Khalidiyeah they disowned you no no oh wait are they were asking if they knew okay so they know how do they feel about it um my mom was against me being on social media in general when I first started it's not specifically about only fans
01:23:09
Farah Khalidiwho's more so worried about me like lowering job prospects but now that it's my career and it's like lucrative she's pretty on board sure um my whole family pretty much knows
01:23:20
Amberit's not that they necessarily like that I do it but I live a happy life and if I'm happy they're happy good times good times okay we have uh zormance
01:23:34
Brian AtlasI'm a four or five attractiveness I make over 200k a year and I feel I'm a good partner but I'm chronically single I'm curious what the girls would say I should do to attract a good partner girl in blue I can arrange a marriage for us right now
01:23:47
Brian Atlasum he says he's a four or five attractiveness but uh 200k a year but he's he says he's a good partner he feels he's a good partner but he's chronically single so first off do you take him up on his
01:24:00
Brian Atlasmarriage proposal are your DMs the ring the DMS are open here zorman's I'll propose I'll be your proxy I will be your proxies or mans okay this is on behalf of zorman's I'm not
01:24:13
Alicia Tunisiaactually asking you to marry me will will you marry xormance yeah okay cool wow except I didn't get to comment on
01:24:26
Alicia Tunisiaanything else I'm not done yet oh okay there's more wait there's wait it was a yes with a butt oh yeah of course there's always more to say why is he chronically single what's the catch uh
01:24:37
Brian Atlashow tall are you are are you like five foot like what you already said yes so zormances if you're still in the chat she's she's asking why you're chronically single and uh he was he's
01:24:49
Brian Atlasasking what the girls would say I should do to attract a good partner um that's a bit of a vague question um I don't know it's a little too vague
01:25:01
Brian Atlashere but uh what should they do to attract a good partner well I think uh she would say that you should listen to um Jimmy Eat World in My Chemical
01:25:11
Brian AtlasRomance that's not really goth though Deftones right deaf tones I like Deftones I'm not a goth girl yeah I think so I think unanimously the panel can agree
01:25:23
Brian Atlashe should listen to Deftones if he wants to get women right yeah I like Deftones now okay all right uh so zormance she's asking she's open to the marriage proposal she said yes but she wants some
01:25:34
Brian Atlasmore info how tall are you and why are you chronically single and then we have doc venables here I disagree with the no flower Brigade if a man brings flowers on the first date it is information about the man rather
01:25:46
Brian Atlasthan the woman the message is Red Rose classy date six pack Scrappy date nothing well you get the picture not really a gift um wait so you're in are you in favor of the uh
01:25:59
Tegan Powellthe flower using flavor over the flowers a little confused he said he thinks it's uh it creates a good image for the man as opposed to him
01:26:10
Brian Atlastrying to please the woman okay all right Dr nablis thank you and then Eric we're we're gonna do the uh Instagram review for this guy because uh puffy Vegas Just for future for future
01:26:23
Brian Atlasreference um if you want us to do an Instagram review um you hit the threshold on YouTube but we do ask that you do it through stream Labs because YouTube
01:26:33
Brian Atlastakes 30 so you donated 500 but you gave 200 of that to YouTube and just FYI um so uh yeah we'll do we'll do uh
01:26:43
Brian Atlasyour review Eric if you can pull that up and uh
01:26:50
Brian Atlaswhenever you're ready
01:26:54
Brian Atlasall right um puffy Vegas here he wants the girls at the panel to what did you want you wanted you wanted a a rating a rating on a one to ten scale
01:27:08
Brian Atlasscroll down all right so that's puffy Vegas I assume he Puffs and he lives in Vegas um that's him with girls keep scrolling down okay
01:27:21
Brian Atlasyup my dude how many wives do you have okay let's keep scrolling down all right okay all right yep
01:27:32
Brian Atlasyep that's a bunch of photos blurry photos of chicks okay I feel like it's the same it's the same thing I think I think he's got
01:27:44
Brian Atlasthis he's got scroll back up just a little bit and scroll back up okay so stop there look he's the on the the two on the right
01:27:53
Brian Atlasthat's him that's puffy Vegas uh really quick one to ten I assume he's he's a two okay five
01:28:03
Shelby Allyaverage yeah like four BMS beyond my scale
01:28:11
Shelby Allybeyond my scale can't compare just beyond so like in the negative above above
01:28:20
BernadineBeyond he's so so great so great so brave okay go ahead probably a three all right a three I'm married I don't rate other men fair enough I'll give them a 2.5
01:28:32
Orion Tarabanokay I'm not gonna rate him but I would say that Dad I think what he was going for with all those picks with the other girls is trying to cultivate social proof
01:28:44
Orion Tarabanum I I mean one of the first things that you asked after you accepted the proposal was well why are you chronically single um I don't think that women generally want men that no other women want and I
01:28:55
Orion Tarabanthink what he was trying to go for there is that there's lots of women that are in my life it doesn't seem like it really had the desired effect there well it didn't look like a wholesome friend setting it looked a bit more like you know what I mean he was definitely
01:29:08
Farah Khalidigoing out and I think the idea was I'm going out having a good time with all of these women and you could be the next one if you're lucky yeah I wouldn't say that's a green Vlog if it's like him and his female friends out at a restaurant I think that's more of a green flag if you can maintain like healthy female friendships but I think just taking pics
01:29:20
Abigailwith like random girls at a club is less attractive um do that like where they try to like brag about how many women they get so they seem more desirable especially the girls on the street in
01:29:32
Alicia TunisiaVegas say you have to pay to take pictures with because those it was definitely some of the pictures I don't have an opinion because I feel like if men have too many followers then girls are like oh then that means like
01:29:45
Alicia Tunisiayou're a hoe you're just like sliding into everyone's DMS and then if they don't have social media then there's sus because they're so secretive and then if they do this then it's like this sucks too so I feel like
01:29:57
Orion Tarabaneach scenario has its pros and cons well I would say given my two cents on his profile dude rather than show yourself with a bunch of women try to cultivate a
01:30:08
Orion Tarabannarrative with an emotionally compelling lifestyle that makes it seem like you do more than just go out and talk to random women on the street hopscotch you know
01:30:21
Brian Atlasjump rope what I don't know what there's to do in Vegas rock climbing mountain climbing I'm from Las Vegas there's a lot all right and then we have one here from
01:30:33
Brian Atlaszoramance oh he's back okay let's get that one while we have it up um I'll re-trigger it maybe saying chronically single was an exaggeration I've been in three relationships over the past 10 years
01:30:44
Brian Atlasfirst one just didn't work out second one wouldn't commit to marriage after five years third one was abusive girls don't swipe on me I'm five seven by the way
01:30:56
Brian Atlasokay um he's five seven is that a deal breaker Justin Bieber was that I can be shallow you can be shallow okay that's what's going to ask
01:31:08
Alicia Tunisiaher so you're a hopeless romantic you believe in just like I am I am the Hopeless Romantic however with still have some standards just like you you're not you're not like giving it up to just anybody right so I also don't want to
01:31:21
Alicia Tunisialike just like be with a lifelong partner with just anybody but like I realize like my age and everything and for example like okay so I passed for like way younger anyway and it's not like that big of a deal but the thing is
01:31:33
Alicia Tunisiais like of course like if you ask somebody who's like a red pillar on this podcast they'll be like oh she's 29 she's [ __ ] but it's like you know it depends on who you ask and it also depends on like what type of man you're
01:31:44
Alicia Tunisiagoing for I'm not it's not like as if you know I'm not sure if I'm interested in a guy like Andrew Tate who you're gonna marry him and then he's gonna go and [ __ ] other women in front of you so okay so you don't like necessarily be within just one you believe there's like
01:31:57
Alicia Tunisiaa pool of ones it's not like a soulmate thing no I do I Believe In One Forever partner I'm not I'm not about that whole thing where there's like oh no like you know you have like multiple partners like I'm not for like that I'm for human Army I guess more so I meant like let's
01:32:10
Farah Khalidisay you had that chemistry with someone but they were shorter or do you think they couldn't be the one they could they they could it's just a preference it's like it's just a preference just how
01:32:20
Alicia Tunisialike wait how tall are you for 11. so how how tall do you want the guy to be like usually I date like six foot and above but I have dated guys that are five nine I made an exception is it hard
01:32:33
Alicia Tunisiafor you to be like sexually turned on by them if they're below six foot or like what's the reasoning I guess I honestly I think I find it attractive I I personally find it attractive but that's not what I go for
01:32:45
Alicia Tunisiaimmediately there's like a whole range and list of things that I find attractive in a man meaning like his personality obviously comes first I think personality values personality
01:32:57
Alicia Tunisiavalues you know the whole package matters to an extent um but obviously like if we're just talking about height like of course I'm gonna say like my preference is like 511 and up but does it mean that I'm gonna
01:33:09
Cassidy Williamsit's a deal breaker no of course that's like I'm five seven so like someone that's like six two six three someone that's five six is gonna be like the same difference to you I know but they
01:33:20
Abigailgo for me they love a short girl so it's like neutral it's not like it's not like I'm like yo like you know actually um there's some there's um a lot of like
01:33:30
Abigailguys who are you know six foot that you're looking for they don't want um short girls because um they say because when they have
01:33:40
Abigailchildren with a short woman then it will then their child will be short
01:33:50
Brian Atlasyet like like 410 hook it up guys by the way does anybody you guys love wait who's
01:33:59
AbigailI'm four eleven too they don't hate on us be on our side [Music] but I mean personally I don't care as
01:34:11
Brian Atlaslong as the guy is taller than me he doesn't have to be 60. I'm sorry zorman so I'm gonna have to swoop dude you're 411. will you marry me
01:34:21
Cassidy Williamsyeah maybe sweet catch it's abusive already I thought you'd snow do you want babies for you congrats congrats guys all right put on
01:34:34
Brian Atlasthe ring sweet that was like a pretty shitty toss too I don't think it was like a hard throw I actually I remember right now I I'm rescinding my
01:34:44
Brian Atlasproposal my proposal because you you don't have the reflexes I'm sorry okay I'm looking for a woman who has good reflexes who could assist me in the zombie apocalypse scenario
01:34:56
Brian Atlasoh that's a good question for the table in the event of a zombie apocalypse do you persist do you you know you try to survive or do you
01:35:08
Abigailjust at the start you're like I'm out and you delete yourself let's start with you um I would for sure try to survive also
01:35:18
Abigaillike personally I have I do think about a possible like um disaster happening so I I am interested I do have like cases of water
01:35:31
Abigailsaved up um and I also plan on having like food kits survival kits um you know kind of like how are you a
01:35:43
Brian Atlasprepper a little bit but how much canned food do you have at your house right now I do have a lot of canned food and like do
01:35:52
Brian Atlasyou have an underground bunker what's going on no I would like to though okay I would like to also relationship goals okay
01:36:03
Brian Atlasum pharah what about you would you just would you try to survive in the event of a zombie apocalypse or you just don't want to deal with it and then
01:36:14
Brian Atlasgoing to take yourself out I order but afara yeah you don't have the energy you seem like strong individual though so I feel like you have the Constitution to like try to
01:36:26
Brian Atlassurvive through a zombie apocalypse survive for how long like let's say you like what's the also just to be clear this is more of a walking dead scenario and and not so
01:36:38
Brian Atlasmuch a uh the last of us because those zombies are pretty hardcore in the last player with either reference can you get it together yeah um it's like the zombies are kind of like
01:36:49
Brian Atlaspoverty they're poverty zombies whereas like The Last of Us zombies are pretty hardcore poverty zombies like poverty not literally poverty but they're just
01:36:59
Brian Atlaslike shitty zombies like okay the song Hold on the zombies there's like these weak zombies that are like
01:37:10
Brian Atlasreally stupid and they don't move fast the impoverished people huh that's how you see impoverished people you're overthinking about it you're overthinking about it but yes I'm
01:37:20
Brian Atlasgoing to be canceled by the poverties poverty people I guess poverty like you anything could be pot like poverty Pizza that sounds bad it could be like this what is
01:37:31
Farah Khalidilike poverty it's not it's not English it's not this isn't a term your classism is coming out no no no no it's okay you're you guys are overthinking I don't care what type of zombie though I'm taking myself out you can yeah
01:37:45
Brian AtlasI'm just saying like the zombies the zombies that were in uh The Walking Dead we've had ways to combat that [ __ ] for
01:37:54
Brian Atlasover a thousand years you just need a Phalanx falling phalan's like 300 like an art like a three Spartan Army you just need a Phalanx and long Spears
01:38:06
Brian Atlasand you're good those are easy those are easy zombies to deal with the point I'm trying to make is is there's different degrees in like the zombie Universe there's different
01:38:16
Farah Khalididegrees of like zombiness I appreciate you trying to motivate me to like not self-delete but like I'm not gonna carry on Spears and fight zombies that's like bro what if you have kids what about them if you have kids are you
01:38:28
Brian Atlasgonna try to survive you're gonna take I'll take them out first and then myself what the bro how are you gonna do that to your kids
01:38:39
Brian Atlasthey're gonna be traumatized survival think about like days of past where like there's warring tribes and [ __ ] you're gonna do that to your kids
01:38:51
Brian Atlasyou're gonna take them out spare them the potential trauma of a zombie apocalypse no what is this yeah please I want to do that too this is like really important
01:39:03
Brian Atlasokay all right moving on um okay uh that was from zomance oh [ __ ] you said you were five seven but you need a guy
01:39:13
Brian Atlaswho's like five eleven she's four eleven I'm four eleven oh oh no he's five seven okay got it was someone raising their hand did you know okay show of hands just really quick
01:39:26
Alicia Tunisiafrom you guys to survive in the try to survive in the zombie apocalypse yeah yeah sure yeah depend on a guy for help I feel like At first all right Rock and
01:39:39
Brian AtlasRoll All right we have KW motor works thank you man here's a question to these threefos think lizzo is beautiful question mark If so they need to they need to be so just as lizzo
01:39:50
Brian Atlasone seven but not you in the halter top skipper her what does he speak English um hello [Laughter]
01:40:03
Brian Atlasokay just show of hands do you think lizzo is beautiful Liz is yeah show of hands if you think lizzo is beautiful physically beautiful
01:40:14
Brian Atlasokay thank you KW monitor works for that interesting question um oh hold on uh zormans thank you for the donation man Brian she's all yours I rescind my
01:40:26
Brian Atlasproposal I think I might be better single girls like her are why I'm single oh do you have a response to this or man he's rescinded his marriage proposal 200k a year FYI is it because he was too
01:40:40
Brian Atlasshort you're 411 hello he's like eight inches taller I'm pulling guys that are six foot and above where's the ring well when I'm ready then I'm gonna pursue that
01:40:53
Abigailwhen you're ready I thought you are ready parents are ready it doesn't mean I'm ready what about it what if he has like every quality you've ever wanted yeah I I said I've dated guys that are
01:41:04
Brian Atlasfive nine I have so I had all the qualities that you desired I'm okay with a guy if he's five nine yeah I can make an exception wait but you're saying you're saying you oh you've you've dated
01:41:15
Alicia Tunisiathe guy who's five nine so you think five nine is short I do that's like average male height in the U.S you're taller than you that should be he's five nine is that I'm pretty sure it's
01:41:27
Brian Atlasthe average so is there something wrong with having high standards I thought you know what's interesting I know what's really interesting though I found that like women who are like five
01:41:38
Brian Atlassix it's like they'll date a guy who's a few inches ooh fireworks um it's usually like short women that really insist not all short women
01:41:50
Brian Atlasbut short women really insist on the guy who's like six foot exhibit a okay um so zormance
01:42:02
Brian Atlasthank you there um all right then we then we have sweet tooth that Mia wanna needs wannabe needs more education she doesn't understand the simplest Concepts I love how they never elaborate like
01:42:15
Farah Khalidithey just want to nag me like they never elaborate on what point I'm missing what education I need they just want to say like you just need more like more in what category nothing Sweet Tooth she's asking for
01:42:27
Brian Atlasclarification on the education with which she needs okay can we call her farha by the way she has a name please right you'd appreciate that you didn't
01:42:38
Brian Atlaseven butcher it thank you did I say it okay yeah okay cool cool all right Jace Theon thank you man at farha I think you're cute and I and I would go out with you question mark he would go out
01:42:49
Brian Atlaswith you question mark and how how tall are you and I would take myself out oh my God that's really romantic yeah he would also join you in this we're both little [ __ ] I'm 5'4 all
01:43:03
Brian Atlasright um did you say that was romantic that he would join you in your uh he can kill me and my kids and the group uh against the
01:43:13
Farah Khalidipoverty zombies poverty zombies it's not a classic thing it's just like a I don't know how to explain that term okay just like weak zombies yeah like
01:43:23
Brian Atlascompetent zombies their poverty zombies okay um all right thank you Jace for that um oh so would you go out with him though and that did you say how tall you
01:43:34
Brian Atlasare yeah five four oh five four okay I believe that is the average female height nice word okay so oh we were talking about the rating scale because
01:43:46
Brian Atlasfuzzy Vape what is his name puffy Vegas how did I [ __ ] that up um guys my neck is scuffed I'm my next bugging so I'm kind of out of it I got a
01:43:59
Brian Atlasbumping headache um let's go around the table what do you rate yourself in terms of physical appearance on a scale of 1 to 10. let's start with you go ahead
01:44:16
Brian Atlasseven okay pharah did I say right that time no I I said it right before but okay far huh yeah okay honestly I give myself like a 10. okay
01:44:28
Brian Atlasyeah is that what you gave yourself last time no last time I said one ah it's it's dichotomy next last time you felt like a one this time you yeah you're feeling fantastic You're Feeling
01:44:38
Brian AtlasFabulous okay so far as a 10 what about you
01:44:46
Brian Atlasone to ten just physical looks not like the total package five okay I think everyone's beautiful I personally don't do ratings I don't do
01:44:57
Shelby Allythem you know you do writings no no so you're a 10 is what you're saying I didn't say it so I I don't want to put words in your mouth yeah I don't do ratings so you don't I think everyone's beautiful and I
01:45:10
Brian Atlasjust it's not my thing is everyone equally beautiful I yes in my opinion everyone's equally in my opinion yes really so there's nobody at this table that is we're all just equivalent to
01:45:22
Shelby Allyattractiveness well I I I think there's different like levels of Attraction but I think that if you look into it everyone is beautiful in their own way sure sure okay we'll come back to that what about
01:45:35
Cassidy Williamsyou um I'd say like a solid seven solid seven okay I'm gonna agree with her I feel like everything is kind of based off of like personal preference it's such a cop-out
01:45:47
Cassidy Williamsno no but just for the sake of this I will say seven but I know I'm gonna get lit up in the chat so we can just be okay it's seven all right myself
01:46:00
Tegan PowellI'm old I'm in my 30s I don't know six okay spend things on my twelve so I'm good Tegan 6.7 but when I get tan I'll give
01:46:10
Brian Atlasmyself a seven when you get 10 you give yourself a seven okay uh I guess we can rate ourselves Orion I would think somewhere in the eights
01:46:20
Brian Atlasokay I give myself a six point nine on a good day I'm a seven with this thing that it's not mine by the way in case you guys are wondering flam life I'm six
01:46:32
Brian Atlasfoot six but I'm a ginger rating we'll do flan life really quick merci beaucoup will look Canadian 55 uh
01:46:40
Brian Atlasmerci flan life um he sit six foot six by the ginger what's his rating go quick
01:46:50
Brian Atlaseveryone Shout It Out blurt it out eight I give you a ten plan life six foot six Giga Chad can I hook you up with flan life he's six foot six he's actually really really tall for me but
01:47:01
Brian Atlasoh he's too tall I said are you down hook it up she's 411. okay um so wait you don't believe in the rating
01:47:13
Shelby Allysystem no I don't you don't okay um why why is that um as I mentioned I just believe everyone was born beautiful uniquely
01:47:24
Shelby Allymade and I don't think there's a reason to rape people um everyone is born I'm I'm Christian so I just believe that everyone has their
01:47:36
Shelby Allyown I mean this kind of diverts a little bit but like their own purpose and everyone I mean everyone is born already um basically just beautiful so I don't
01:47:47
Shelby Allythink there's a reason to rate people and bring them down or yeah I don't I don't like the bringing down aspect of it well I don't think it necessarily brings people down but I feel like it could it could yeah I agree with you
01:47:58
Orion Tarabanactually I think that everybody can be beautiful but I think it would be naive to say that we're all equally attractive yeah I agree with that great the attractive aspect so I think what we're
01:48:09
Orion Tarabangetting into is sexual Marketplace value so I have some interesting takes on this maybe I can share them at this point so uh I think that there's a few different ways that we can approach this and I
01:48:20
Orion Tarabanthink it's generally done with not a lot of nuance I think that everybody kind of has an what I call a normalized sexual Marketplace value which is sort of like according to the standards of the
01:48:31
Orion Tarabanculture in which you live how well do you measure up on the most important Dimensions to the opposite sex so a number of things that you've brought up today are like height this guy LED with his socioeconomic
01:48:44
Orion Tarabanstatus he makes 200 000 a year so these are things that I think would be on normalized sexual Marketplace value for men for women it would be their physical appearance their age things like that
01:48:54
Orion Tarabanbut no one really knows what their sexual Marketplace value is because all transactions are based on perceived sexual Marketplace value like I got a thing for cute nerds that's
01:49:05
Orion Tarabanmy thing and that's not necessarily what the culture tells me women are supposed to look like in terms of their archetypal Beauty but that's something that's really interested interesting and
01:49:16
Orion Tarabanattractive to me and you never really know until you engage a person how they perceive you in terms of your general attractiveness just because you
01:49:27
Orion Tarabandon't Accord with the the socialized normalized sexual Marketplace value doesn't mean that you can't be highly attractive or conversely just because you are six foot four and you make a lot of money doesn't necessarily mean that
01:49:38
Orion Tarabanyou're going to be very attractive to certain women right yeah but the kicker is that you really only know what your sexual Marketplace value when you get
01:49:48
Orion Tarabaninto a relationship so it's like I had a I knew somebody that I was very close to she was an artist and she had never sold a painting before
01:49:59
Orion Tarabanand she started by offering her paintings for a hundred thousand dollars which God bless her you know I love the the courage with that but it just wasn't really realistic that someone was going to buy a piece of art for a hundred
01:50:11
Orion Tarabanthousand dollars from an unknown artist um it was only when she began to bring down that price that we got to see what that painting was actually worth
01:50:22
Orion Tarabanand that only occurred because somebody was willing to pay x amount for it until then the actual price or the value of that painting was kind of like just pure potential we only really realize worth
01:50:34
Farah Khalidiin the moment of transaction which can only occur between two individuals so you're saying okay so then let's say the girl gets into a relationship then how do you determine her smv from the guy's
01:50:44
Orion Tarabanstatus yes so I think that you can kind of in this framework determine a woman's sexual Marketplace value by the normalized sexual Marketplace value of the men who are willing to get into a
01:50:56
Orion Tarabanrelationship with her and you can determine a man's male sexual Marketplace value by the normalized sexual Marketplace value the women he is able to sleep with okay what if she's gay how do you determine her smv I don't I don't know I
01:51:09
Orion Tarabanguess you could do it I think most of these Concepts apply also to gay relationships I don't know if lesbians are hypergamous uh they are really big on commitment there's no joke about what does a
01:51:21
Orion Tarabanlesbian bring to a second date and it's a trailer because she's moving in so there there's takes all kinds but there is a my understanding a big bet in lesbian relationships towards commitment
01:51:34
Farah Khalidiokay I just feel like in high schools and colleges like people kind of date people at their school they're probably like in a similar income range so I don't know how you would determine like the smv of like a college sophomore was dating
01:51:46
Farah Khalidianother College sophomore who are both kind of an equal amount of college debt and you wouldn't say she has low smv because she's dating a guy in debt and not getting scooped up by a Millionaire right so it does not kind of make your
01:51:57
Orion Tarabandefinition of smv kind of irrelevant to most dating instances no because I think it's based on the context in which you exist so we can say that people might have a normalized sexual Marketplace
01:52:08
Orion Tarabanvalue for the culture at large but maybe the culture that and the context that matters most to you is your campus or maybe it's even just like the people in your homeroom class like there's all kinds of hierarchies within social
01:52:20
Farah Khalidisystems as soon as more than two people start to relate to each other okay so then you would then judge it based off like okay is that guy an athlete is he like doing well or like what would be in high school yeah that's that's the stereotypical one it's like
01:52:33
Orion Tarabanwho is the Big Man on Campus is the quarterback right sure now does this guy can he compete with somebody who's 35 makes a million
01:52:44
Orion Tarabandollars a year well it just depends on who what the woman is looking for you know she might be so involved in that context that she will actually choose the quarterback over somebody who makes
01:52:55
Orion Tarabanyou know hundreds of thousand dollars a year I think it really depends on the context all right um oh and one more thing and I think this is why this is great advice for
01:53:06
Orion Tarabanguys uh especially maybe the shorter Kings out there five seven uh is find a context in which you can shine like you can be a contextual Alpha I know you might not love that term but you can
01:53:19
Brian Atlasdefinitely have a higher sexual Marketplace value in certain contexts versus others word by the way do you want your glove back I'm kind of no no it's kind of okay here you go was
01:53:31
Brian Atlasthat shitty throw too okay uh do we did we get any chance Eric any chats let me check oh here we go oh fit check we got to do a fit check
01:53:42
Brian Atlasum hold on let me get through these we got Yo Davon Jackson long time supporter thank you man good to see you in the chat to The Hobbit why should a man shorter than his bloodline oh excuse me
01:53:53
Alicia Tunisiashorten his bloodline for you besides the two obvious reasons well thank you um well I I mean they tall guys like me
01:54:03
Brian Atlasbut like I said it's not a deal breaker but also I'm worth it so why not wait Tegan did you want to say something oh you just looked like you're chomping at the bit there to say something um well I kind of wanted to come in I
01:54:16
Brian Atlasthink on the 10 the one to ten thing there um so I mean you say that you don't rape people based off of a physical appearance I don't how tall is the guy that it's
01:54:27
Shelby Allycomplicated with I actually don't know I'm not very good at telling height so I'm not sure if you have to guess
01:54:36
Brian Atlasum maybe five nine okay yeah fair enough um you don't care at all about his physical appearance um [Music] um I he's attractive for sure but well