01:54:36JadeSoundCloud rapper well at least you know he's got a passion in something he's he's he's going to make it got to support his rap career man more like realistic ambition
01:54:47Brian Atlasbeing a SoundCloud rapper is not realist no I quite like that it's sort of like survivorship bias though how many people want to be actors or in the entertainment industry and never make it but they're so ambitious and they go on
01:54:59Brian Atlasat least they try that's that's right but that that's unrealistic practically speaking like how where does that leave you if you want to be like for example a uh you want to stay at home and you want your man to be you won't be able to stay at
01:55:13Jadehome if he doesn't succeed specific I want to date somebody who's like okay yes you know what this is the position that I'm in right now it might not be the best position possible however this is my goal and this is how I'm going to
01:55:25Natalie Wintersget there and this is what I'm do very sexy it's very SE yeah Manny had no money when we got together like I feel like you're sort of LARPing as a stay-at-home mom in the
01:55:36Natalie Winterssense that I think a stay-at-home mom is something bigger and it's like a culture and a household where the man is providing for you so then you have the luxury to stay home and do it like it's not merely just reduced to a financial
01:55:48Natalie Wintersthing like you stayed home because you financially can it's like you stay at home because the GU is is complimenting you like that's amazing that you can afford to do that for yourself exactly that's why but then you're sort like a sugar not a sugar mommy but if you're like paying this you know what it just
01:56:01Natalie Wintersseems sort of like I would I wouldn't want to stay home because I have the choice to I would I would want to stay home because my husband is taking care of my family and I don't have to like secretly pay the bills on the side oh 100% I get that and it's not going to be
01:56:15Jadesomething that I'm going to be doing forever and I'm going to make sure that that's something that's told and there's certain things that men will do when they aren't making money that show that he has the capability to take care of you when he is making the money it's an
01:56:26Brian Atlasattitude it's the way I don't think women care that much about ambition I just want to they care I really want to I'm the most ambiti ambitious person in Santa Barbara these Santa Barbara women
01:56:37Natalie Wintersare not like oh I've already maybe they want to get Mar vas work ethic is maybe a better cuz when I think ambition I think like grifter like crypto promoter like you know what I'm
01:56:50Natalie Winterssaying like it's not it doesn't necessarily canote someone who actually is working hard like you could be very ambitious if you want to be like the world's best only fans Creator no offense that's not necessarily ambition
01:57:01Natalie Wintersthat I would look up to so I feel like I don't not to put words in your mouth but there's a little more like refinement there maybe let me let me try to let me try to put it into a different
01:57:11Jadeperspective somebody who has a goal it's a possible goal it's a reachable goal and then he also knows how he's going to achieve that goal and it's not something like it's not something like oh my gosh one day I'm
01:57:22Jadegoing to be the next like uh Travis Scott and then he's like you ask him okay how are you going to be Travis Scott and he's like well I'm still going to make this music in a minute like no that's stupid sit here and tell me listen I'm
01:57:36Jadegoing to invest in this I'm going to invest in this this is how I'm going to get the money to invest in this or blah blah blah blah things like that not necessarily someone who's working a dead end job doesn't make sense good times what you were saying Ryan I wanted to
01:57:49Andreaccle back back to that real quick I keep trying but um when you were saying like you know most women want to you know get a guy at the finish line and don't really want someone in the middle you know maybe for some people like me personally I feel like if you're with a guy you know like you were saying and
01:58:01Andreathey have a reachable goal and stuff and like you're with him and you know grinding with him until he reaches that goal and then you know eventually then you know he's at the top with you and you were there with him through the whole struggle and that just shows like
01:58:13Andreahow much of a good woman you are and I feel like you could prove yourself to him you know that you trust and believe in him and you know you want him to be the leader and that he was able to reach those goals so I'm curious though for
01:58:24Brian Atlasthe women here at the table where on the totem pole of like his ambition like where is that number one thing you look for in a guy is his ambition is it his
01:58:34Brian Atlascharacter is it his his game is it his some funny get along with Oh I thought you about to say something else but and big yes
01:58:45TTS Readerdefinitely no I'm actually not a size queen yeah um oh we're in boys okay definitely I'm actually the reverse
01:58:56HazelI'm the reverse of a size queen you you've got a bit really big what I'm so confused what what no like size is Size Doesn't
01:59:07Brian AtlasMatter like I'm like the corresponding like wait watch let me yo plug I'm plugging big La yo # big La so you like big la
01:59:19Lily PhillipsLeia y oh really okay period King I almost wanted like I I actually had mine chopped off wait you had you had a Leia plasty yeah I did wait are you f are you are you telling I I paid like five grand
01:59:31Lily Phillipsfor sweat God I did it about two years ago why hold on cuz I didn't like my big lar sorry like Ryan it wasn't cute he is hard now
01:59:43Brian Atlashonestly I look like Barbie you lost your this is why I do what I do so that women like Lily don't mutilate
01:59:53Lily Phillipsthemselves uh can I ask you why you did it um you didn't like for cosmetic reasons yeah I just didn't like the look of it I didn't feel sexy I felt really insecure and you know what no one had actually said
02:00:05Lily Phillipsanything about it I just felt really and scary myself damn that's so R I did ask to keep it though as in like oh my God but they wouldn't let me keep it they were like like bodily like
02:00:18TTS ReaderP disgusting I just want to like keep it why would you like a little I could probably sell it you know I know a lot of girls that actually that could have I
02:00:30Brian Atlasknow about three that done it so far who've had laia plasty God damn this is fuckingg I'll show it you later it's
02:00:40Brian Atlaspublic service announcement if there's any women who are considering mutilating themselves and getting a labia plasty for cos medic reasons please don't wait
02:00:51Lily Phillipswhy do you like it do you like to like suck on it or something he said no com actually I don't do that
02:01:01Lily Phillipswell you God I don't who I I have not well I'm going to you know retract my thing that I fancy you cuz if you don't eat I'm not good good I want nothing to do with you good uh yeah I
02:01:14Brian Atlashaven't gone down on a girl since the Bush Administration oh what's the Bush Administration like 2000 2000 to 2008 what when the bush bush so I think was
02:01:25Brian Atlasit was like 2007 2008 the last time I went down on the girl why I did it a couple times it just wasn't my thing look do you expect to get puss is great
02:01:34Brian Atlasdon't get me wrong like but just not my I don't do that no but do you not like do you not like making your
02:01:44Brian Atlaspartner I W that what making your partner like oh I want no no okay well I remember we were talking about well women they there's the orgasm Gap I like
02:01:55Brian AtlasI want to make my girl climax before I do preferbly like a little vibrator well there's I mean there's there's ways depends on the girl finger yes you can
02:02:06Brian Atlasuse your hands you can use you can use a toy I'm open to I'm open to using toys you know if needed it's sometimes it's not needed and you don't have to but
02:02:15Brian Atlassome you know some women struggle without so you know let's use it sad that's technology son
02:02:25TTS Readermakes my job easier Sports donated $100 brixon does not do that he is properly terrified of dying from meeting a bad SL who's that famous actor is it
02:02:36Brian AtlasCharlie Sheen's dad what's his name or is it who's who's one of these actors got throat cancer and they there is a hypothesis no there's a
02:02:46Brian Atlashypothesis out there that um HPV well we know it causes cervical cancer right so a it's plausible that this also causes throat cancer when you
02:02:57Lily Phillipsknow when you give you know when you if you do it really hard and deep throat it like it actually bruises your throat so really like that happens more
02:03:07Lily Phillipsusing your esophagus throat cancer so really we're putting ourselves on the
02:03:14Lily Phillipsline you can't really like I eat a lot of you can't can't really yeah I think you no harm in eating you should eat makes your skin better what about you Nick Michael Douglas wait what's
02:03:25Brian Atlasabout Nick this poor guy Nick he was just eating too much and he got throat cancer that's a theory you said no I think he said I I think he said it
02:03:37BeccaI don't wait can I ask Nick do you eat uh I think she fan she's moved on from
02:03:45AndreaBrian I was like that no I look listen okay look I got neck problems okay I sorry I don't you're not that old
02:03:56AndreaJesus yeah look I got a ice pack look at this maybe have that on when you do that I was wondering what that was for boom got an ice pack you
02:04:06Lily Phillipsknow got neck problems I'm just not a fan after honestly I've been sat on so much recently my yeah we yeah we'll we'll get you uh we'll get you
02:04:17Brian Atlassome penicillin how about that um well uh but uh that's a tragedy did you actually get AIA plasty I'll show you the before and after
02:04:27Lily Phillipsokay it's so much cuter now I heard it hurts really bad like recovery I actually went out like clubbing the night I got it done cuz they got me on C
02:04:37Lily Phillipswhen I had it done so I was like let's turn it up let's go out so sad yeah it wasn't painful but I did have sex like a week after I had it done and the stitches came out it was it was
02:04:49Brian Atlasreally painful but I shouldn't have done that for like a month she should have done that guys um I so sad though that's so depressing yo genuinely though any any some women who have an Audi that's a
02:05:02Brian Atlassweet message though no some women who have an Audi and look I think they get it from both men and women but maybe they had a boyfriend who made a insensitive comment maybe they've heard insensitive comment from the high school
02:05:12Brian Atlasboys whatever you know there's certain terms that can be thrown around that may make a woman feel uh self-conscious ladies like punch those on your and there's also
02:05:23Brian Atlasthis uh fake news that if a woman does have an outy it means that she's had a lot of sexual partners that's not true well not just not loose but
02:05:33Brian Atlaslike if you've had a lot of sexual partners that it can cause no that's not that's not true you can be a virgin and have an Audi so
02:05:44Brian Atlasladies don't do it don't do it I'm I'm Natural Body supremacist I'm not in favor of plastic surgery either okay I don't want no no fake titties no BBL
02:05:55Brian Atlasno fake lips I'd rather you know I'd rather I'd rather no boobs than perfect fake titties I'd prefer like a flat bum yeah well I haven't as English might say I've I haven't had my bottom done and
02:06:08Brian AtlasI've I haven't got faked teirs oh I'm not talking about you just I'm saying like I would prefer she still trying to oh okay yeah checks out I I prefer a girl with like maybe a little you know sometimes girls got a little belly fat
02:06:21Andreathey thinking about getting the Lipo I don't the Lipo belly looks weird to me when they like hiding my stomach and stuff so no like you said about the stomach but no like that's what I'm like
02:06:32Brian AtlasI want lipo on my stomach have you seen like the fake apps you can get like fake apps put in yeah that shit's weird in any case listen ladies if you're thinking about getting a labia plasty don't do it if you need I'll talk you
02:06:45Brian Atlasout of it I'll talk you out of it you got a large I'll talk you out of it whatever yeah just send him a photo and then he'll have a CH I'm going to be a bit hyperbolic in this next statement I
02:06:55Brian Atlasonly date women with large labia how about that I only top one criteria wh women have there's women out there who are size queens I know you said you're not a size
02:07:08Brian Atlasqueen if women are allowed to have preferences like that so too can us men so I I only date women with large labia the bigger the better she left I'm
02:07:18Emanueljust trying to put it back on yeah thr it back on I want to jump in I think it's interesting two out of three of you right only f porn oh bricken's flannel donated
02:07:29TTS Reader$100 denim Dana calm down with the Mike stand it won't impress brixon all girls who wear Canadian tuxedos he only love me is flannel I
02:07:42Jadelive in the back of his subar I don't have a subar that's her speaking of which somebody talking about we were talking about Subaru I said how so I'm from Vegas and
02:07:53Brian Atlashow I put it on like a self-driving mode oh we got fat boy please ask natle Winters about what her what the no
02:08:05Unknownno uh I don't know what that is but they want you uh okay I think uh we'll skip over that one I don't think I don't I don't know fat fat boy does not
02:08:15Jadework for war room okay fat boy okay coming back wait oh go ahead you do your quick thing with the Subaru yes I was um talking about how I drove my Subaru here
02:08:28Jadewell not really drove it I just put it in the self-driving mode and it just took off and then you responded yeah so so you know how you get them Teslas that
02:08:38Lily Phillipslike really like easily driveable um I actually the driver while we were driving down like the motorway in one of them but it was daytime I'm all blacked out and honestly one some of the best
02:08:51Brian Atlassex I've ever had that was good you know him beautiful yes he wasn't like my drive or anything Strang or something no I knew oh wait last thing on marriage and then Manny I know you wanted to come in on something last thing on marriage
02:09:03Brian Atlascuz I know I know we've moved on to a couple different topics here I do think when it comes to marriage right again religious from the religious
02:09:13Brian Atlasperspective marriage cool the issue is though even if you're religious when it comes to let's say your marriage doesn't work and one partner is suing for a breakup suing for
02:09:25Brian Atlasa divorce they're not going to go to the church they're going to go to the state the state presides over their marriage not the church or their priest or their biblical values so when the woman is
02:09:37Brian Atlasunhappy from the man's perspective she's going to go to the state she's not going to go to God so um she might but if she's dead set on getting the divorce and many people are are she's going to
02:09:49Brian Atlasgo to a divorce attorney and also let me just if even if your wife is not inclined to screw you over in a divorce maybe she's a good
02:10:00Brian Atlasperson or Godly or whatever is her divorce attorney which by the way you'll probably have to pay for along with your own attorney
02:10:10Brian Atlasso I think and the the divorce attorney's incentive the divorce attorney is there to make money uh so again it's uh it's sort of
02:10:22Brian Atlastreacherous it's a treacherous situation for men especially men who make a good amount of money uh to get married nowadays especially with you know the current state of the uh legal
02:10:34Emanuelsystem and uh so yeah I was going to say with the idea of as a Christian if there was something with beckan IED marriage we would bring it to God and then we would bring it to our community right
02:10:46Emanuelour Brothers and Sisters in Christ and then we would bring it to the church leader so three levels added additionally before getting to that so right it it is not um we live in a perfect world we live in a fallen world
02:10:58Emanuelwe are all sinful and sinning means going against God God is good God is love and evil is the absence of God so when we go away from God that's when we start to experience these things so having that Community around having the body of Christ is a beautiful thing by
02:11:10Emanuelthe way if somebody's going I can't to his program because he said he was you know a relationship with Jesus the program you do not need to be of any religious Bel anything like that we made it that way so it's open to anyone so if anyone is wondering that just want to
02:11:22Brian Atlasmake sure they see okay here I'm going to finally get into uh some of people's uh pre-show notes Here I was going to start with a lily but I think she's gone off to the bathroom here so first let's
02:11:33Brian Atlasstart with Andrea Andrea you said you met some weird guys from Tinder before any notable stories you can share with us so I met this one guy um on Tinder
02:11:46Andreaand really cool looking guy you know he he was like 6'9 was in the military and he had a really nice house in Arcadia if you guys know yeah so um Arcadia yeah I
02:11:56Andreaknow in Phoenix in Arizona but yeah um really really nice house you know and I was talking to him but anyways so his Tinder bio is like I like to buy my girlfriend's volumptuous assets so you
02:12:09Andreaknow we were talking he's like yeah I like to get them you know lip fillers bbls Botox breast implants everything and he was like it's kind of like making my own
02:12:18Andreacustomizable Barbie doll Yes red flag red flag and not making this up this is like the weirdest and I feel like the only weird story I could really tell but anyways you know I get to uh his house
02:12:30Andreaand stuff and he's just like telling me how he um was dating this girl but actually like um she's transgender so he you know paid for her surgery too everything yeah paper her surgery
02:12:47Andreato sorry wait was it thank you we good Jesus Christ my bad
02:12:55Andreaokay no they're good now they're titting okay sorry um did you guys see that no no I got it okay okay thank you a shot
02:13:07Andreato I I wear covers anyways yeah so um and you know we're like talking and stuff and he was just like getting really upset about that and you
02:13:20Andreaknow it was really weird like we didn't hook up or anything um then I left and then you know we're texting and stuff and he was calling me like doll and asking me you know like how long I've been into like the whole Barbie look cuz
02:13:32AndreaI used to wear like a bunch of makeup and like you know stuff like that and um then it just got weirder he was like telling me Oh is it okay like if I can tell you what to dress what to eat what
02:13:43Andreayou can do every day blah blah blah and yeah it was just like really odd um and then he was like sending me gifts of
02:13:53Andrealike a a threep two in the and one in the ass yeah and then he said he wanted to do that and then just com back to this conversation want in the ass wait so
02:14:04Brian Atlashold on I you said he was dating a woman that wanted to become a man or a man that wanted to become a woman yeah they were already yeah it was there was a man who wanted to become a
02:14:15Andreawoman so and he was dating the man yeah and then he's like into gay guys too so he would tell me that he wanted me to have a gay guy have sex with me missionary and then he has sex with the
02:14:25Andreagay guy uh analy like like human centipede type kind of yeah like is like American Horror Story there's a scene in like the election one where she's laying down the guy doing it and behind the guy
02:14:38Andreawhile he's the girl and it's kind of like a whole like we it's like a weird train then he can't go back and then it's like well if he's gay why would he
02:14:49Andreahave sex with me a woman he's bisexual yeah yeah he said he wanted a gay guy to me and then he the gay guy so I'm like how is that even possible yes
02:14:59Brian Atlaslike Tinder is a dark place and then just a kind of like I don't know and that's that's pretty much it well I I'll at least address so he had a desire was he like kind of a well-off wealthy guy
02:15:11Brian Atlasyes yeah so he wanted to pay for you and then it sounded like his other people that he was dating pay for various plastic surgeries you said lip filler breast implants BBL perhaps lipo too or
02:15:23Brian Atlasno yeah all of it he said he wanted he views women as that he's dating as his own customizable Barbie doll weird it's such like any girls here at the table who are watching if your significant
02:15:36Brian Atlasother your boyfriend whatever want like is pushing on you to get any plastic surgery I think that's a major major red flag major red flag like literally just
02:15:47Andreawant to control and just make me his Barbie doll and I was just like yeah no after that I ghosted him cuz it's like it's like maybe some girls want all that but eventually you're going to hate your life and just being controlled like a
02:15:58Andreapuppet on a string yes it was crazy that's and he was a very handsome man and it's like he's tall yes never in my life have I
02:16:09Brian Atlasseen a man that tall and he was handsome yes like yes we should get this guy on the show what the yeah so he was like bisual he was a
02:16:21Brian Atlasbisexual had like a plastic surgery fetish kind of almost yes he he sent me pictures of his like ex-girlfriends and just like from the nose down just very
02:16:31Brian Atlasyou know dude this guy is a is a Menace like it's one thing like he can he can probably actually get the women to do this cuz bro he's 69 you say he's
02:16:42Natalie Wintersgood-look and he's wealthy this guy's a Menace destroying destroying women honestly but go ahead Nat okay so it to me it sounds like this guy obviously has some like perverted sex
02:16:54Natalie Wintersstuff going on which I think you would probably a test I'm sure there's some level of like weird porn addiction going on there that leads you down that rabble hole and it sounds like you were basically offended about him more or less treating women like objects and
02:17:06Andreatrying to dictate what they could or couldn't do with their bodies all in exchange for money so how is that for surgery any different but he's like literally controlling their life though like you he's telling me what I can eat
02:17:18Andreahow I can dress what I can do who I can talk to he wants to make me look a certain way and it's like only fans I can look how I want too and I look how I do and they love it you know everybody has a type and you know and I get what
02:17:31Natalie Wintersyou're trying to say I really do but I mean there is a pretty I age varies in in degrees but don't you think that only fans as a platform is maybe kind of laying the groundwork for people like that to go down you don't think there's any
02:17:43Andreacorrelation not even only fans but just porn in general well yeah cuz actually his uh ex-girlfriend was a porn star that he was paying for all the surgeries and stuff so I mean I get what you're saying and stuff you know and it's
02:17:55Andreaalways going to be uh you know sometimes you know I do feel bad for the guys and stuff you know who are buying it and you know and I just can we get this guy on the
02:18:05Andreashow we need to find him you don't you don't I mean I don't know I can't I could probably try to look through my contacts so I don't even know if I remember his name I think I actually
02:18:16Andreascreenshot scre his Tinder profile oh you never met I did yes I met him in real life hooking up no we never we met one time and he was yeah and it was
02:18:27Andreajustd off the bat he was trying to he was just telling me what he wants and what he expects and stuff and I was like you mean him well I didn't know until we
02:18:36Natalie Winterstalked in person yeah did he pretend to be normal at first yeah story two how yeah I know for
02:18:46Brian Atlasreal yo guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop us a follow in a prime sub if you got one also
02:18:57Brian Atlasyoutube.com/ whatever second that's our Clips channels mate subscribe you is that his way of flirting you I don't know what
02:19:08Brian Atlasokay something I don't no butchered it wait okay hold on so okay there there's this crazy dude hold on let's see what else from you you been ghosted the bunch how many times have you been ghosted you
02:19:19Andreayou mentioned that in your pre-show notes to us yeah um literally like every time like you know I go on a date with somebody or you know even just like talking and then that's what like we were kind of talking about that earlier you know like you talk to somebody and
02:19:31Andreathen they just like they just want to see what you look like like they don't even want to meet up with a Woman in real life like if they can convince you to give them nudes for free you know and I'm like okay well
02:19:44Andreayou know we might hook up and stuff so you know I'll show them what I look like they don't even want to hook up they just want to see what you look like like for free you know like and a lot of like guys like with the addiction and stuff I
02:19:55Natalie Wintersfeel like they don't really know how to like talk to a woman in real life don't you think making only fans content makes it more likely for guys to not feel invested in a relationship because it's easier for them to ghost you because
02:20:07Brian Atlasthey can just go to only fans and see those pictures they don't have to build exactly and they don't know how to talk to wom irlp I got a I have a hypothesis
02:20:16Brian Atlashere could it be that prior to seeing the nude photographs that you sent them perhaps they were inclined to meet up with you after seeing the nude
02:20:27Andreaphotographs maybe they had a change of heart could that maybe potentially that that's also probably another reason but it's like it's not even like you know like before like sending pics and stuff because like and I would also just like
02:20:39Andreayou know meet up and we would go on dates and you know I would see a guy for a while and then just randomly like just get ghosted so yeah you know it could be you know could be it's okay because one
02:20:51Andreaday I'll meet a man one day I'm G meet a man who loved me for me so photos he going to love me for me so you know I may not be everyone's type but I'm somebody's type and he out there so
02:21:03AndreaI'm just H I know and I've thought about it too and it probably is you know I'm insecure about how I look you know they're probably like oh well she's probably fat so don't want to be
02:21:12Brian Atlaswith me I get it I'm not going to sit here and lie you know just a hypothesis I mean I don't know that's just I'm you know brainstorming here you also said online dating is weird I think guys who
02:21:25Andreause it aren't real men because they can't just pull a girl in real life yeah and that's like what I was saying you know like the all online stuff it's everybody not everybody but a lot of men
02:21:36Andreaare used to just being online and getting that quick satisfac satisfaction you know real quick you know yeah and they just like and then yeah you know and like they don't want to you know like put in the word get to know
02:21:48Andreasomebody or like you know like and it's like being shy too you know you go somewhere and you're like man I should have talked to her but then you go and like say you know her on Facebook like oh I saw you at that party I I got something for this for the whole panel
02:22:01Lily Phillipsso going around the table do you think it's easy to attract a woman as a man yeah you know if you got rised do you think wait I need I need like
02:22:13Lily Phillipsattract a woman as a man do you think it's easy to attract a woman as a man if you're tall Oh Yeah from person experience yeah I find it all right you
02:22:24Brian Atlasthink so okay you you think it's easy you think it's easy to attract cuz you're you mean if you're any woman or okay this question is prefaced by your statement you said guys who use dating
02:22:35Brian Atlasapps so who meet women online aren't real men because they can't get women in real life AKA like approaching women in public um so the question is do you think it's easy to to attract a woman as
02:22:48Hazela man go ahead oh me yeah um I don't think I don't think so I think it's very difficult for a man to approach a woman um I feel like they have to be very
02:23:00Natalie Wintersconfident in themselves okay what about you um I agree no I don't think it's either I think with the onset of like me too culture the feminism stuff I think there's a lot more negative
02:23:11Atlantisramifications if you hit on women very good point what what do you think um I think that they can get kind of scared so they like try to stray away
02:23:22Atlantisfrom that as to why they use dating apps like it's hard for like some guys to go up to a girl cuz like oh like she's so pretty like she's probably going to reject me well when in reality she might like be like okay I'm down like let's go
02:23:34Beccaon a date like here's my number but they just need to like face their fears okay uh your thoughts I think it depends on what type of girl you're going after
02:23:46Brian Atlasprobably okay all right all right um so I want to actually do an experiment here once Madison comes back so uh those of you who
02:23:57Brian Atlassaid it's easy to attract a woman as a man what we're going to do is we're going to have you pretend to be men and you guys are going to hit on Madison here I actually think I got the question
02:24:08Lily Phillipsmixed up I think I thought you meant is it easy to track guys as a girl no no no the question is yeah is it easy to track a woman as as a man I got it a little bit mixed up but Madison's very pretty
02:24:20Brian Atlasand so like I'm could imagine she gets a lot of guys approach her and so like but is it but the the role play here would be you're pretending to be a man here we'll do with you since it was kind of
02:24:32Brian Atlasyour ultimate hit on her um so you're going to pretend to be a man and you're going to hit on Mad fit today May uh oh that's good actually we'll have
02:24:44Brian Atlasyou do it too m sit sit here I'm going to referee from behind the scenes so go ahead guys goe oh your langers m i don't
02:24:56Lily Phillipslook at the Bund on that thing it's all English Lang sorry can I sit on your hat for me oh my God can I sit on your
02:25:06Unknownhead I feel like you guys should actually try though try like be in the position like of a man and what would you say to I feel like I seen you somewhere you so familiar your eyes are
02:25:19Andreajust so gorgeous and that highlighter on your cute little nose I'm trying to get to know you that's so know me would you like be attracted to a guy if he came up to you and said that maybe I think so do
02:25:32Lily PhillipsI think it's definitely better than okay the RO do the role play I'm going to actually respond how I would respond you're at Trader Joe's what's Trader
02:25:41Lily PhillipsJo's is it an ice restaurant groc stoc store okay oh my gosh are you getting broccoli as well yeah are you
02:25:58Lily Phillipsoff next I already did mine it is our if I was a girl and hit on a girl I'd just be like call them pretty and be
02:26:08Brian Atlaslike are you into girls and be like hi here your goal is to try to get her on it so actually try to move the interaction for try to get her on okay I'm trying to think what what a guy
02:26:21Unknownwould say to me to the thing is if he was just really fit I'd be like yeah take me on the day you could also think about something a guy has said to you that you've been like oh oh we're
02:26:29Unknownhelping her too much go okay yeah yeah sorry oh your hair's so nice thank you no it's really pretty I like how long it
02:26:38Hazelis thank you my sister has long hair like thatu I don't know how to H girl I'm okay I'll hit on you I'll hit on her
02:26:50Hazelyou're going to hit on her I already did okay I'll hit on you um she she went one already you want to do it I already went okay I'll yours was pretty good but
02:27:02Andreathank you here bring it back we'll do you and then we'll do her guys well all right damn girl your skin look so soft
02:27:11Andreais someone saying beautiful I'm really trying to get to know you oh I'm really trying to get to know you if you just give me a chance I really could prove to you I could be the man you want we could
02:27:22Andreabuild something just get to know me I'm okay where you want to go I get it I get it girl I respect it I respect it have a good day ma thank you you too okay can I
02:27:35Unknownjust like say something with that reminding me of you know those guys that like sell chocolate outside of Target and they'll like try to hit
02:27:45Hazelon serious seriously try to shoot your shot goe okay that um hey what's your name Madison are you from around here um
02:27:54Hazelyeah oh cool I just moved here um maybe you could show me around sometime you think I could get your number yeah sure that was I would say that was the
02:28:05Hazelbest out of like all three still not like still not still not if I'm fine and I got money then she'll say yes yeah I think it's more just like
02:28:15Lily Phillipsif you look at someone and like find attractive and they they sound
02:28:24Lily Phillipsnormal I know you like it I don't think I've ever had a guy talk to me like that actually wait no yeah they don't be like that in England they're more like out your
02:28:36Lily PhillipsLang let me get your number G that's what they say they say G what is g mean G like girl like just like you're my G like you're my m
02:28:47Lily Phillipswife over here means gangster like my mate my friend like you know you call like anyone oh that's my g i my bestie but like they just be like
02:28:57Emanueloh your buers hell look at the rack on that I mean how did you hit on on your wife yes be and I were set up on a blind date went to Top Golf and you
02:29:09Emanuelthink it'd be good but it'd be one person's watching us on our first date the whole time with my sister and her husband they set us up oh I get it so then we come to find that we're pretty much next door neighbors and our first
02:29:22Emanueldate or some of them were just going to the grocery store speaking of Trader Joe's and it's cool CU you see what is this person shop like you know just having casual conversation what you getting there okay you know it's just kind of living life with each other a
02:29:34Brian Atlaslittle bit seeing what it's like so it was nice I was watching behind the scenes you guys all failed like I'm sorry that that was I'm not a
02:29:44Brian Atlasguy how did I fail but you you had a very strong opinion because you said you think guys who use dating apps to meet women AR aren't real men and that they
02:29:54Hazelcan't get women in real life but you just demonstrated your your quote unquote Riz and that was whack I
02:30:05Brian Atlasdon't I don't R man we're not used to like we're used to guys like okay do you do you think for example men should put in more effort when it comes to dating do you think men don't put enough effort
02:30:17Brian Atlaswhen it comes to dating I think they do oh yeah okay they do okay I think most of them are scared I don't think they try but it's like you you have these
02:30:28Lily Phillipshigh expectations of men to like oh we should go approach but like y that up you it up I tried I know I think you feel really
02:30:40Emanuelgoodl looking though you can say that more or less like let's see what oh can we all agree it's scary to talk to you know a girl if you're a guy oh how's it
02:30:51Emanueldone I've got Guys numbers before and that's pretty easy but I think it's a little bit different I think it's interesting one of the things we talk about porn but people who watch porn they're watching it they're like oh you know she's just into anything I want she's going to change her body she's
02:31:05Emanuelgoing to do any position I want the human centipede whatever it may be and then they get out there they say hey what's up oh you while bang you what sorry I was trying to half go English ACC and not but anyway uh switched
02:31:15Emanuelhalfway but then they get rejected they run back to porn then they try one more time then they run back run back and soon they've just gone down this Rabbit Hole of just I can have any woman any way I want anytime I want and they're seeing I can have it anytime I want they're being fed that but then they're
02:31:28Emanuelgetting Ed which is something that I struggled with a ton very early on after watching porn and it's like hey how you doing it's like she wants to move things forward like I don't I don't know so you're in this weird complex of yeah I'm
02:31:40Emanuelthis huge ladies man but it also doesn't work and you're freaking out and you're thinking she wants to be slapped around in theed bedroom cuz that's what I've seen online and and and this is a crazy one 90 what was it 96% of aggression against women is
02:31:53Lily Phillipsreceived positively in porn was or neutrally or neutrally and so it's like w yeah I went to the Avet Like a Porn Convention all the guys
02:32:04Lily Phillipsthere sorry what wait go ahead all the guys there are super like aggressive no no no no quite quiet usually quite like
02:32:14Emanuelintroverted a very like nervous to speak to you yeah can I speak to something PG-13 sure when you're watching only fans when you're watching porn they wish that they
02:32:26Emanuelwere there and you they wish that you were theirs right and they're sitting in adult word the cuck position right they're sitting in the side of the room watching something happening and they're sitting there and they're feeling I I should be a real man being
02:32:38Emanuelwith that woman and I I I should and she wants it but but then then they're getting kned thrown on top of and then you're at the Porn Convention the sex convention and they're going it's like that's your shot if you're going for that you know and they're
02:32:50Emanuelthey're so scared and so it is one of those things where even people come up to us it's like should teenagers not do that and it's like yeah we should teach those kids how to talk to girls in high school so that way they become adults
02:33:01Emanuelwho know how to talk to girls instead of just pressing a button and their body can literally handle it if they have a wet dream right it's like it's built into the system that they really needed to but you know sometimes people say well if a kid is 60 days and he's you
02:33:14Emanuelknow he's like got to get off well that doesn't happen cuz what happens is well it's kind of soft when he's getting going and then he starts having some thoughts and then he starts thinking about well maybe I should watch him porn he watches porn and it just teaches and reinforces it reinforces and then one of
02:33:26Emanuelis it bad for you to wank um not to wank though uh well I think you should be using that energy positively in a different direction so like we're talking about learning how to speak to girls because that is driving you to I
02:33:38Emanuelwant to have sex with this person I want to so they need to think I'm a normal person not you know not no offense but just I like your skin you look like my sister a little bit you know it's like uh they need to learn how to talk to right and so if they're scared and they
02:33:51Emanuelnever do and they never learn it and then also just using that energy to just build skills especially at that young age and so Beck and I we were lucky you know we were pretty young when we got married we were pretty young when we met
02:34:01Lily Phillipseach other how old were we 22 24 when we met 20 when we met 22 so yeah I recently did like a porn scene where the whole scenario was he hasn't had sex in like 6
02:34:12Lily Phillipsmonths and I was like are you not going to explode like is that not really bad for you and then obviously we got into the nice but I find that funny that I thought it was really bad for you not to
02:34:23Emanuelwork yeah like blue balls is blue balls real the body is just going to take care of it you're going to be dreaming you're going to be thinking about it and really if it really is that much have jerk off you don't have to I Really it's honestly
02:34:34Jadeat that young age it's healthy because it it it builds certain like emotions or it what what's the word hormones so it releases certain hormones and things like that however it's healthy in moderation when you do it continuously
02:34:45Brian Atlasthat's when when it then becomes unhealthy word okay cool wait what about you said something about oh the there's something about AVN and like something
02:34:54Brian Atlasabout uh there's sh violence in the porn no they're not they're not violent but there's this uptick and like
02:35:06Brian Atlasviolence in adult content and also I found in relationships I don't know what happened in like 2014 all of a sudden y'all wanted to get start get choked I don't
02:35:17Brian Atlasknow what happened was Tumbl never had shades of 50 Shades of I never had a girl ask me to choke her and then all of a sudden it was like
02:35:29Beccaovernight it epidemic it was just a switch a girls all of a sudden wanted to be choked I'm like it kind of feels good doggy not going to lie there is a direct correlation between people who Read 50
02:35:41BeccaShades of Gray and they are in they're much more likely to be in an abusive relationship y also I don't know are are
02:35:50Andreawe saying that that there's a Nat I had a friend her I got bloodshot from getting choked too hard yeah I was like girl what happened to your
02:36:02Brian Atlaseye and she was like oh we did it too hard I'm like what the why why it does interest me like so 50 Shades gray was like one of the bestselling books for is it of all time I don't even know the
02:36:13Brian Atlasmovie was insanely successful it occurs to me that a lot of women seem to be attracted to these sort of like uh mchy aell and dark Triad characters and uh
02:36:25Beccait's just something to think about I don't know what's uh what's going on there I think a lot of what's going on there women have bought into the idea that they are objects you know we have
02:36:37Beccathere was a study recently done where 91% of men watch porn on a regular basis and 60% of women so this is not just a
02:36:45Beccaman's issue it's not just men watching porn but so much of porn we say 88% has aggression against women in it well when women are watching that what is that
02:36:57Beccateaching you is it okay for someone to be um aggressive to their partner in real life are we promoting that is domestic violence a good
02:37:07Hazelthing absolutely not but in the bedroom you guys when a couple connects on a different level and obviously in moderation you're not going to be choked out obviously but it's like a
02:37:18Hazellittle moderately slapping them no not not like kind of a little bit of a tug or a little bit like kind of it's like spices things up not like be the out of me the thing that we're talking
02:37:30Emanuelabout is the wind and this is how crazy it is is 88% of quan sces contained for violent agression slapping choking hitting spitting when I read that stat
02:37:41Emanuelinitially I said what violence what violence is important I don't even understand cuz i' had been watching it for so long and you go that's just normal sex that was going on and how crazy is that just hearing that but then
02:37:53Emanuelwhen I stopped watching porn what was amazing is not that it was 50 Shades of Gray in the bedroom but it was more about power getting off all these different things our whole routine if you will completely changes about love connection and intimacy it was just a
02:38:06Emanuelbeautiful thing just getting to experience that with Becca for the first time and we were 3 four years into our marriage and it's like oh this is what it's supposed to be like this is awesome right here
02:38:16Beccaand in college I was one of those people who Read 50 Shades of Gray and I was like you know I can see why people were
02:38:25Beccawanting that cuz it's like um cuz it's like I'm viewing I'm you're making it this sexual thing to be treated like an
02:38:36Beccaobject call it whatever you want but you are making it a sexual thing so then you seek that out and I did seek that out of like hey you know choke me or do these
02:38:47Beccadifferent things and then I was like gosh why do I feel like crap after this I feel like I'm not being respected cuz I think we're designed to want someone
02:38:58Beccawho caresses and cuddles and kisses us tenderly and not slaps us and know comes on your face you could get the cuddles
02:39:07Brian Atlasafter you some women let's move on you said that you had lots of I that men give you we'll ask the whole table on this um what's your list of icks H okay
02:39:20Andrealet's see bad breath a man with too many bad days bad days too many bad days yeah you know doesn't respect his mom doesn't
02:39:30Brian Atlasclean his room greasy smells bad your mic down um H what else kind of drawing a blank here
02:39:41Andreasmells bad greasy to bad days you know just yeah you know a man like who does doesn't work or somebody who like I don't know just stuff like that that's pretty much it yeah I'm kind of
02:39:53Lily Phillipslike drawing a blink any other X you had a list you had a list yeah I know I'm like drawing a blank you have on your phone okay well anybody else you have I actually don't believe in X like I think if you love someone enough like you
02:40:05Lily Phillipsdon't get the EG but that is just like turn off a lazy man a lazy man for sure is an immaturity immaturity okay what about you I think when I lose respect for
02:40:17Brian Atlassomeone that's when I get the I she gets the ick lose okay all right what about you any I I think mature I think being mature immature can I have you tilt your mic down a little bit anything else yep
02:40:28Beccano that's it uh Becca what about you any any I someone who's not willing to have a vulnerable conversation yeah I would give the ik in that's
02:40:41Lily Phillipssituation I thought X was supposed to be like weird things that like you just get like turned off and you get the I like you like put the seat belt on yeah like these are just like dud who like anime seeing their butt crack when you get out
02:40:53Andreathe car like anime what's what's going on there what's wrong with that I know it's the voices of the anime like the anime characters I'm so confused yeah you know like that's what you're talking
02:41:06Brian Atlasabout when you're talking like that like I don't want to hear that is it because perhaps like you view like anime sort of a uh nerd alert it's kind of
02:41:18Brian Atlasit's maybe a little so child a little like uh maybe you're too old to be watching cartoons type thing you know and if you play video games too much and you ain't getting paid for it turn off
02:41:31Brian Atlasokay you're getting mad at the game turn off if uh okay if the guys play video games you know what I what it occurs much just too much I think a lot of women well actually just going around the table um do you guys have an issue
02:41:44Lily Phillipswith a guy who plays video games going around the table no I would play video games with you honestly video games What About You video games is that an issue I guess it's it's not like yeah taking up like
02:41:56Natalie WintersI'll play a game too the metaverse very anti- transhumanism and all that stuff okay all right in moderation it's fine yeah yeah
02:42:07Brian Atlasuh if you play more than an hour then that's it more than an hour deal breaker what about you yeah moderation moderation okay you getting paid a super nerdy game though like he's playing
02:42:17Andreahearstone or like heaven what's that one The Dungeons and Dragons he plays World of Warcraft right let's say he's got like a level 60 is this an you're talking
02:42:31Atlantisabout like here's the them right no I think this is a theme music or something like that no you know like what if he's playing you know currently
02:42:42Brian Atlascurrently hold on currently World of Warcraft it's season of Discovery and it's Phase 2 they just launched Phase 2 a couple days ago I don't play video games anymore but I watch Twitch streams or whatever and you know it's like
02:42:54Brian Atlasseason of Discovery right so right now the level cap is 40 and people got like multiple alts and there's no and like you know they got all the new ruins right so people are out there collecting all these new ruins that just
02:43:06Brian Atlasreleased phase so you got to play like seven hours if you want speaking a whole different language no if you like they released it they released phase two of season of recovery of World of Warcraft like I think it was on the 8th so people
02:43:18Brian Atlasare grinding people are playing like 12 hours in a row so like but you shouldn't like dis like disqualify a guy just because he's playing like 10 hours a day cuz he's trying to play he's trying to
02:43:29Brian Atlasraid ner he's trying to ra you know that I can't he's trying to raid he need to be making money off World of Warcraft if he playing for 10 hours a day he's trying to play n like he's trying to get
02:43:40Brian Atlasto noon he's trying to raid he's got multiple alss he's got like he's leveling four characters to level 40 he's got a rogue a druid he's got a warlock he's got a Mage like and
02:43:52Brian Atlasalso you know look let's talk classic classic forget these season of discoveries if you're playing classic that's a way hardcore investment you're going to have four level 60s me personally back in the day when I played
02:44:04Brian AtlasI had 460s you know I was you know it's just a crazy thing could you sell your World of Warcraft account 538 donated
02:44:13TTS Reader$200 thank you bone why I love brain the farthest he runs is Hearthstone Dragon flight is the bomb I haven't played hearstone in I was I was a legend in
02:44:24Brian AtlasHearthstone okay if that was an that was pretty good reading uh I haven't played Hearthstone since like 2019 I I quit video games in 2020 um haven't haven't
02:44:36Brian Atlasreally play I played Fall Guy for like Fall Guys for like 10 hours or something but um yeah I quit I quit video games wait Nick pull up my wait hold sorry I'm not I'm not yelling at I'm just I'm really passionate about
02:44:47Brian AtlasHearthstone if you go into the Dropbox folder Nick there's my Hearthstone where is it hold on I'm trying to see it's in the first Dropbox folder it's called the Hearthstone
02:44:59Brian Atlasscreenshot if you can pull that up just so I can Flex on these noobs like right now I'm just AOE gr like this is bro this is like a 1 two three four
02:45:09Brian Atlasfive bro this is like a 1 V7 I'm 1 V7 I'm like a mage like AOE farming it's it's like Arcane explosion uh Frost Nova we're going to do cone of cold and a flame strike on cool
02:45:21Brian Atlasdown going to cold snap that ice NOA again Arcane explosion Arcane explosion throw out a another cone of cold and flame strike you guys are done I'm AOE farming
02:45:33Brian Atlasyou I'm AOE farming you all right I don't know what this means wait P my pull up my hearstone Nick you got it you all talking a different language Zoom that in Zoom that
02:45:45Brian Atlasin this is me this is me look at that ranked and I I hit a higher rank than that I was like rank 33 in the world look look at those wins Zoo
02:45:56Brian Atlaswarlock 16 1,623 wins son that's some gangster come at me bro look at these noobs they
02:46:05Lily Phillipsprobably you the man Bri that's what's up did he get paid no that was for I was that was for passion okay I was I was I hope you got your bag with if it makes
02:46:17Brian Atlasyou happy I see how happy it makes you would it give you a boner I'd let him do it then if it makes you that happy I'll tell you this when I played Hearthstone I would get so tilted playing that that's I
02:46:28Brian Atlasdon't know if you know what tilted is I would get so tilted sometimes I get nickn no I get tilted is this tilted is a gamer term for getting frustrated so like tilted you know um I
02:46:39Brian Atlasthink it's actually originates from people who used to play you know pinball machines they they would if you get frustrated with a pinball machine you'd like tilt it so tilted in video
02:46:50Brian Atlasgame you get like the you're just losing a bunch of games or would never get that excited that you would get a b no I would it would ruin my day if I was like would lose lose consecutive games in a row this is why I had to quit video
02:47:03Lily Phillipsgames cuz I'm not like the type of guy I can't play an hour I got to grind L like you'd have a bad day dude I would be if I didn't
02:47:15Brian AtlasI'm not even kidding if I did not play World of Warcraft I would be a billionaire right now I kid you not Maybe not maybe not a billionaire that's see it takes up a lot
02:47:26Brian Atlasof time an addiction I will tell you addictive if anybody Hearthstone is kind of a niche game if Hearthstone actually made me smarter I think video games can
02:47:37Brian Atlashave an application because Hearthstone you got to like that's some like big brain you got to be thinking like it's almost like chest on and it did actually like make me it was helpful it
02:47:49Brian Atlashelped same with World of Warcraft it helped with my uh organization time management cuz like hold on let me if you're playing World of Warcraft right like I'm going to maximize my time like you're going to
02:48:01Brian Atlasminmax and so here's what you're going to do right like you're going to want to make sure like if you're hopping on that flight path that like you're taking the most optimum route like if you're leveling you're not going to like
02:48:13Brian Atlaswant to level slowly so you're going to make sure you you get the right quests and you're just going to make sure that if you're going to go to the city like you do it at the right time the if I'm going to oramar bro I'm getting
02:48:24Brian Atlasdone in oramar bro I'm turning in quests I'm training I'm doing all this you know I love a good side quest yeah love a good side quest
02:48:35Brian Atlasbro but like honestly the thing I love about doing this podcast is like I'm literally AOE farming twice a week I'm AOE farming AOE farming Clips
02:48:46Brian AtlasI'm like a mage again cone of cold flame strike ice Nova Arcane explosion son see and you turn it into something that you can profit off of you know and
02:48:57Andreait like you know it made you organized it's beautiful that's good beautiful thing okay proud of you okay good talk don't play anymore no video games I'm done with
02:49:08Brian Atlasvideo games but I still never again have you your video game addic can still nerd out like how I just did right now J that was a
02:49:18Atlantislot I would definit oh sorry I would definitely watch you if you were to play like on streaming on Twitch you seem very passionate about him and I would
02:49:28Brian Atlaslike cheer you on I actually I'm going to get Madison to start playing video games her face like are you sure she's going to start streaming and then I I've
02:49:39Brian Atlasconsidered just sometimes this is a nice she like your Workhorse yes Madison is my slave how did you know um no I've considered sometimes doing
02:49:51Brian Atlasthe show I'm like bro I just want to play World of Warcraft this I'm out cuz sometimes bro we get some characters on this have like a live stream where people come and just play
02:50:02Brian AtlasWorld of Warcraft oh I've considered so many times after like a just like a grueling show I'm like I just want to stream World of Warcraft this this is way too much of a headache
02:50:13Brian Atlasbut um but uh oh so what was the breaking point a month into Co April
02:50:23Brian Atlas2020 I'm playing playing horde right World of Warcraft classic get this right I've got four level 60s I'm doing everything for my guild it's a hardcore rating Guild son you know what I'm talking about that's right hardcore
02:50:36Brian Atlasrating Guild we're rating Molton core we're crushing that ow I hurt myself we're crushing molten core Blackwing layer easy all the uh the world bosses you know
02:50:47Brian Atlasazer GH and Lord of course you know that we got that on Farm all the other guilds are jealous cuz we're taking up all that world boss Loop cuz we're
02:50:58Brian Atlasgez with that we got Summoners hold on I'm getting really hyped want to know what happened bro so okay we have here's the thing right we uh what's
02:51:07Brian Atlasthe what's the uh zg zg20 wait is it zg sorry you good zg20 just came out I think it was phase four just came out nightmare dragons the emerald dragons