BANGS STORMS OFF?! (RAGE QUIT) | Dating Talk #101

Date: 2023-09-18
Duration: 4h 59m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Dan(guest)
SPEAKER_02Rachel(guest)
SPEAKER_03K(guest)
SPEAKER_04Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_05Anay(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_07Leila Jenner(guest)
SPEAKER_08Billy Ray(guest)
SPEAKER_09Katie(guest)
SPEAKER_10Allison(guest)
SPEAKER_11Madison(guest)

Key Moments

00:02:23
IntroLeila Jenner intro: 20yo porn star / OnlyFans, stage name, from Texas.

I'm Leila Jenner I'm 20 and I'm a porn [star]

00:05:38
RelationshipLeila reveals she is legally married to a 21yo Mormon bishop candidate in Utah while openly dating content creator Zera. Marriage is open/informal. Panel debates credibility of the story.

I have a husband he's Mormon but I'm dating Zera

02:40:35
ControversyAllison states that being born with a penis means you are a man; frames this as biological fact during a feminism/trans discussion.

when you are biologically born with a vagina you're a girl and when you're born with a penis I'm out

02:40:35
Key MomentAnay ("Bangs") storms off set after Allison's statement about biological sex, calling it transphobic. Brian confirms: "That was our first bangs walkoff."

I'm out [exits]

02:42:33
QuoteBrian confirms the walkoff on-air: "That was our first bangs walkoff."

all right that was our first bangs walkoff

03:00:00
Key MomentRachel reveals she has a 4.5-year platonic male mentor who has paid her >$10k this year alone; panel debates whether this constitutes sugar babying.

it's more than 10,000 correct yes okay

03:09:00
Key MomentRachel explains she broke up with 6-year boyfriend ~3 months before a Sweden trip to visit first love; admits the trip was a catalyst for the breakup.

this trip gave me the out I'm like I'm going to go and I'm going to be with my best friend... there's a likely chance I'm going to have interest in him

03:59:57
QuoteK reveals she used seeking arrangements to fund an entire Texas road trip by doing 2-minute FaceTime calls for ~$500 each.

all I did was FaceTime and like be like Hi how are you doing and then they... I got that entire trip paid for

04:04:06
IntroAnay returns to the show after her walkoff (~4:06 mark).

she's here

04:05:27
QuoteLeila describes sugar daddy income: ~$300/date in Texas, up to $2k for a movie day, ~$4k/month total at peak, while attending nursing school.

I would say like maybe 5,000 for one guy... in one week like I hung out with like three at the most

04:18:00
QuoteBrian asks Leila about body count; she reveals she started college at 16 and had 40 partners by end of freshman year.

you started college at 16 your freshman year of college you [had] 40 dudes yes

04:19:00
QuoteLeila tracks her body count through college: 7 entering, 40 by end of freshman year, ~67 by start of junior year, then ~60 personal + ~50 in porn = 100+.

freshman year we had this contest... sophomore year probably got up to 67 by junior year... then I got into porn and that was probably another 50

04:38:15
Key MomentLeila offers oral sex to host Brian Atlas on air; Brian deflects with humor. SPEAKER_03 (K) intervenes. Creates prolonged comedic exchange.

I give myself six I think you're 10... this girl trying to gas me up so she can give me a BJ

Topics Discussed

00:00:04
Guest introductions and relationship statuses

Guests introduce themselves; Brian goes around table on relationship status. Leila reveals she is legally married to a 21yo Mormon bishop candidate while dating "Zera"; story debated for credibility.

00:18:20
Sex work, OnlyFans, and social shame

Discussion of OnlyFans, porn, and whether sex work should face social shame. Billy Ray argues for returning social stigma to sex work; Leila, Anay, and K defend their work.

02:00:00
Sugar daddies and seeking arrangements

Panel discusses experiences with sugar daddies and seeking arrangements. Leila had 3 at once; made ~$4k/month in Texas. K did 2-min FaceTime calls for $500 each. Rachel describes her long-term platonic male mentor who paid her sporadically.

02:20:00
Dating dynamics and who has it easier (men vs women)

Brian and Dan argue women have dating on "easy mode" due to sexual optionality. Panel debates Bumble, rejection rates, group project analogy for dating initiative.

02:40:00
Feminism, wage gap, and trans rights

Heated exchange on feminism and wage gap statistics. Allison states biological sex is determined at birth; Anay calls it transphobic and storms off the set at ~2:44:35.

02:44:30
Bangs (Anay) walkoff and aftermath

Brian and panel discuss Anay's departure. Dan argues she stormed off because her feminist arguments were being debunked. Leila defends Anay. Anay returns at ~4:06.

02:53:00
Rachel's sugar daddy and 6-year relationship story

Rachel explains her 4.5-year platonic male mentor arrangement. Panel debates whether it qualifies as sugar babying. Rachel then describes breaking up with 6-year boyfriend ~3 months before a Sweden trip to see first love.

03:15:00
Women keeping in contact with exes while in relationships

Discussion of Rachel's situation; Dan and Brian argue women often line up next relationship before officially ending the current one.

04:18:00
Body count and its effects

Panel debates whether body count matters. Leila reveals her count: ~7 entering college, 40 by end of freshman year, ~67 by junior year, then stagnated ~60 personal + ~50 in porn = 100+. K explains endometriosis limiting hers. Madison describes her frat president competition freshman year.

04:52:00
Self-ratings

Stiffler chat triggers self-rating round. Madison: 8, Allison: 9.5, Rachel: 4-5 (undecided), Dan: 7.5, K: 6, Brian: 7.5-8. Brian notes Anay would have said 10.

Transcript

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04:47:58
Leila Jennertouch I would say is woman's Duty facts word protect and provide as a man all right there you go uh we have Lea can you read this Lea I think your voice is
04:48:10
Leila Jennervery very seductive it's not weird it's okay but that honestly scares me considering the services you offer makes me think you're good at mind manipulation what was the last part I pray you use it for good yeah well
04:48:22
Leila Jennerthere's a reason that me and Zer are such a good couple I got another one for you you know read it triple digit body count is bad but three abortions is worse thank you George Reed appreciate it
04:48:34
Brian Atlasthey are just coming out your nut girl Madison can you read this one damn that body count was we already did this one sorry sorry sorry thank you Mr mea
04:48:43
Brian Atlasappreciate it we have a couple YouTube based chats here we have claudo Rogan that second to last conversation about double standards was literally the
04:48:54
Madisondefinition of insanity Brian trying to explain something expecting a different outcome though that's most of the conversations on the show now hey it is what it is you know is maybe uh all
04:49:06
TTS Readerright we got Joshua goody here thank you for the supp them appreciate donated $69 oh hey man she did not have a contest with a her friend calling it a contest implies some level
04:49:17
TTS Readerof difficulty what her and her friend did his easy as Brian drinking the glass of water in front of him that was not a contest it was an easy activity so you calling men easy it was pretty fun so I
04:49:30
Brian Atlasenjoyed it calling those men easy at that point you it's easy for women to to get laid like it's not well some men actually have standard a lot of those a lot of those are also just heads so I guess some of them don't count as body well men have like morals and standards
04:49:42
Kjust like he does like not all men are just down to the first night once you hit him up a lot of immature men that are still in college are it yeah that's true well if it's if it's the specifically the Frat presidents not all
04:49:54
Kof those frat presidents are down to the same girl wait what she was saying she had a competition was a competition she was going to the entire basketball team I was going to every frat president yeah that's not they're saying saying that's easy all those guys are not that easy wait
04:50:06
Brian Atlaswho won I think they are she won oh wow she in who you was it you no no it was my it was a different girl okay yeah she look it's just like again easy mode like only a woman can wake up in the morning and say I'm going to get
04:50:18
Brian Atlaslate today like with all certainty and have it come true so um let me see if we have any other no I think we're all cut up on chats I think the only thing we have left is we had what was your
04:50:29
Madisondeepest darkest someone here has a deep dark secret yeah what was that about who is it said I think we already talked about that no I think we we wouldn't be
04:50:39
Brian Atlasbringing it up I think that was just me and like amping up the whole uh you're just trolling or something I don't know I don't yeah um wait so you're you're a Christian do we have
04:50:52
Allisontime for this oh yeah we got we got a coup we got a couple minutes but you're you're you're Christian but liberal yes how liberal like woke liberal or like kind of normal liberal
04:51:05
Katiethere is no woke liberal I feel she's kind of normal I I would say kind of normal I don't know you don't make it your personality you do for yourself I also am like very baby Christian so like I'm still like kind of
04:51:17
Katiegetting to know like baby Christian meaning like I'm starting to like go to church more and like build my relationship with God so I am like at a starting point but it is like a weird like feeling with your identity being like okay like I'm building my Rel
04:51:29
Katierelationship with God like I love this but also like I have very strong views about pro-choice and civil rights so it's kind of like conflicting that's all
04:51:38
Katiebut I'm also like 22 so I will change as it goes you are so well spoken I love it thanks you're welcome sorry just you're good you're
04:51:52
Brian Atlasgood yay okay last question here Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 um you see the T I know I give right
04:52:05
Madisonnow I give myself a eight I could have done my hair better but you know we're rocking an eight right now okay I think I'm a solid eight all right I always say eight stick with my answer I'm going to
04:52:19
Allisonsay a 9.5 I'm going to say like four or five I feel like oh sorry like four or five like I never feel like I'm like the hottest girl in the room but I never feel like I'm the ugliest girl in the
04:52:30
Rachelroom I feel like I'm just very average I think you're gorgeous thank thank you but I feel like that's like a very real I don't know I'm like well if you're a four or
04:52:41
Rachelfive no no answer honestly answer I don't know I genuinely had even more time to think about that I can't answer that okay take a minute to think come back to me come back to me I will I mean there's okay you going to get the same
04:52:54
Dananswer 6.7 okay was you yeah I said solid eight last time I think I'm more of a seven and a half today but yeah it's around there okay I give myself six I give
04:53:05
Kmyself six I think you're 10 I think you are all like so pretty wow I do think you're higher than a six if we're being honest I do genuinely think that I'm a six I think I'm a six but it it's all depend on the way you look yourself just
04:53:17
Brian Atlasthink this girl trying to gas me up so she can give me a BJ okay all right lady is it working not at all not at all I'm immune to your FL why are you turning red mother the lights are
04:53:28
Brian Atlasred I'm not red she's just yo this is gaslighting she is gaslighting now you are a gaslighter is it working it's purple manipulation flattery I am immune to flattery so why you can't look at me
04:53:41
Brian Atlasin the eyes can I compliment you I'm looking at you in the eyes right now dork I haven't heard that listen up dork okay um here well speaking of got her there oh go ahead did
04:53:56
Madisonyou what she's like summoning like a spirit or something uh your rating on the scale of
04:54:05
Brian Atlason I I would say like I would say 7.58 okay cool all right sweet all right nobody crazy delusional tonight all right um if bangs was still here though
04:54:16
Brian Atlasdon't bro not everything's intact she would have said she was a 10 actually there's a crazy viral video that there was a back and forth it got like 10 million views on Tik Tok and I got pretty Dr like Brian's such a
04:54:28
Brian Atlasdouche yeah it was pretty yeah well it was kind of clipped unfairly but whatever I mean I said what I said um it wasn't bad I just she said she was a 10 I'm like you're not a 10 anyways um
04:54:39
Leila Jenneryou're Madison can you read this I have a strong waa read it Lea read it I have a strong feeling Brian will take Lila up on her earlier offer after the show because if it was me I would 100% V thank you so much lick and he definitely
04:54:51
Leila Jennerwill be and I will definitely be coming back and being like there's going to be an essay for that to happen with a trophy with a trophy of come in my hand that
04:55:02
Leila Jenneris I'm that's where it goes in your hands that's kind of disappointing I mean if we were to F if it goes in your hand take a little bit I would swallow fore don't
04:55:11
Brian Atlasworry thanks B appreciate it I'm getting somewhere anyways girl she's kind of funny I'm not going to lie she's funny I think this one's about me is this a girl yeah if you want to read it go ahead
04:55:22
RachelWhite Tank do I know do you know who this is you want to just read it white tank top must have plenty of bodies pay attention to her body language and her past acts and the way or her past actions the the way she sat for the
04:55:34
Rachelmajority of the show is fairly masculine the offender okay so meaning like men take a lot of bodies or like I'm confused like you've had a lot of bodies so you act like a man now like is that
04:55:45
Billy Raywhat I'm a lot of confusion tonight and I my my body counts actually super low when your body count goes up you might become more masculine yeah yeah but so that has nothing to do with my
04:55:54
Brian Atlasmasculinity if that's what you're saying Billy on point as usual Billy on fle um in chat for Billy okay I think we're we're all caught up guys if you want to get a last minute chatting do it
04:56:06
Brian Atlasnow we're about to wrap up um Nick can you pull up the twitch really quick oh he's on D Nick on it okay yo guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one Taro
04:56:19
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04:56:32
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04:56:43
Brian Atlasthe prime man appreciate it um let me see here do we have any other chats that came in no we're all caught up all right cool cool uh let's see here let me just
04:56:54
Brian Atlaspull up anyone final thought while I get the twitch raid going my thoughts are done with clearly I just want you
04:57:05
Brian Atlaswhat what's a button hold on I got this i got this I'm a little late with it but I'm going to pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft okay there you have it so it was hard oh my God no it would why would you give her a punchline
04:57:17
Brian Atlasdude like it had be hard was set did I give basically was hard before you pressed that button no it was like it's it was flaccid and it's even more flaccid I'm going it's a reverse boner
04:57:28
Brian Atlasit's like it's gone you know what I mean I can't even have her talk to me about that right now you're right I know let's see it's cute that oh there's a TTS Fally the blank trophy oh uh hold on
04:57:40
Brian Atlaslet me re-trigger it yo Pub test thank you for the gifted five Subs man appreciate it uh can you read this Leila the trophia is the single grossest thing I've ever heard tonight I need to bleach my eyes I feel like you would have to
04:57:53
Leila Jennerbleach your ears or something right cuz it's you heard it you didn't like see it but whatever works better it was pretty fun though word hold on guys still I'm
04:58:02
Brian Atlasgetting this raid going anyone any other thoughts before we uh wrap up here no do you have any thoughts do I have any thoughts yeah
04:58:14
Brian AtlasI've been speaking all night I pretty it could be one of your thoughts dude I cannot Brian tried really hard to just go straight face after but he couldn't hold on sorry I
04:58:26
Madisondon't know why I can't get this figured out cuz you're flustered no I'm not flustered dork that's some really old dork that word just reminds me of like
04:58:36
Brian Atlasdork diaries oh my God Dork Diaries stop that just brought back so much memories dude it was like it was like the girl we we're going to I don't know if
04:58:48
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04:58:58
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04:59:11
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04:59:23
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04:59:34
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