03:42:58Laurenclose to a man unless I have sex with him like and like I I like when if I see like a guy that wants to date me I'm the same way yeah yeah if I haven't had sex with a man I like I just got to have him like you know if and if I don't have him then he don't like me and and I think
03:43:10Mercedesthat that goes back to your story that goes back to that original story think that's a whole coaching session I'm like I want to give you a coaching session I think I think if a guy do like like like
03:43:21Laurenfor instance if if like let's say a man like like was a virgin and and he's like if I didn't get to sleep with him I would think that he didn't like me and I wouldn't feel loved and I um I I would
03:43:33Mercedesjust be like oh my gosh I got to have them and like this is like tearing me apart and I was like H like well we have different love languages yeah I know that's also because you're making it mean something about you so I told Olivia this story earlier there was a
03:43:45Mercedestime last year when my partner was so the masculine just operates different than the feminine so when they're stressed and there's like a lot going on in their experience they they're not going to look at us and be like oh I want to tap that it's like their their
03:43:57Mercedesmental is somewhere else because the masculine is extremely in his Consciousness extremely mental so would I be in my masculine wanting to have sex with with the guy no you're making his
03:44:07Mercedesrejection mean that you're unworthy and undeserving oh okay of Love Of Love because you're interpreting you're
03:44:15Mason Gregoireinterpreting love like to give my point of view on it so I and I think uh we see this so if you we turn to certain
03:44:26Mason Gregoireevidence showing that uh relationships are generally hurt by having sex before marriage uh I think and I this is just a hypothesis obviously you can't dig into
03:44:37Mason Gregoiresomeone's brain to see how it works and the reasons why more marriages fail because of or there's a correlation between sex before marriage and
03:44:45Mason Gregoiremarriages failing I think uh my hypothesis would be that it is if the goal of marriage is to have sex
03:44:56Mason Gregoireprocreate and develop this emotional connection it's a unionship and I think it's so okay yeah so it's to create this connection so if we're creating this
03:45:06Mason Gregoireconnection I need to be able to clearly and without any clouded judgment evaluate you okay so how can I I need to evaluate you as an emotional partner
03:45:18Mason Gregoireokay where where do we line up morally spiritually I need to start evaluating all of these things that are extremely important that can be clouded by adding sex into the picture like if I'm having
03:45:29Mason Gregoiresex with my girlfriend I am going to overlook a whole lot of stuff yes obviously like there's the desire I want to have sex with her a lot of people misinterpret lust as love and there's oh
03:45:42Mercedesno I agree with that and there's a and so I get what you're saying because love is actually a choice you know and it's something that it's it's a commitment and I think that a lot of people lust someone and they they misinterpret it as
03:45:56Mason Gregoireoh my God I'm so in love with this I agree I 100% agree with that and so that's why I don't have sex before marriage love is because I I don't want to intermingle lust with how I'm feeling
03:46:09Mercedestowards them well you're Desiring unionship and a lot of what we see in like hookup culture is people are more committed to being partners and more committed to being 50/50 and more committed to all this than having a
03:46:21MercedesDivine unionship and there's a big difference between the two there's a massive difference between the two yeah modest Heim donated
03:46:30SPEAKER_06$100 brixon three for doubting this cast is 100% about dating has taught me a lot about what the sjws spitting the these
03:46:40SPEAKER_06days number four legit said human attraction you know laws of physics not related at all this is about dating I just said any
03:46:50Mason GregoireI don't date I have to have sex with or I feel you doesn't love me yeah no I don't know if he was saying that IR I don't know yeah yeah there's only so
03:47:00Mason Gregoiremuch you can get through through text yeah exactly yeah yeah I think that's it's in it is really important for you to be able to differentiate uh I would like you on my podcast
03:47:12Mason Gregoirephysical yeah like would you want to be on it I wouldn't be against it yeah I feel like Brian wants to move on I'm feeling the energy so I think it's important like in my life I want to be
03:47:24Mason Gregoireable to separate what are my feelings of like like physical desire I need to be able to separate that from my feelings of love and so if I'm cultivating those feelings of love so the emotional
03:47:37Mason Gregoireconnection what do you like what do you think about the Bible do you agree with me like on morals like I'm checking off all these boxes without cling my vision with she provides me the sex yeah so
03:47:49Mercedesthat that's where I come from that area and that's actually a really aligned masculine way to lead your life because the underdeveloped masculine is she just provides me exactly yes it's beautiful
03:48:00Brian Atlasyeah beautiful is I have Nickelodeon here hold on let me pull this up Brian the way redhead is looking at you
03:48:10Brian Atlasafter speaking yay oldie nerdy you'll be getting the veteran discount tonight you'll also you'll also have a puddle of
03:48:20Brian AtlasFireball to clean off her chair I'm not sure what that means a fireball Alice little conf what is a fire I don't know what Fireball
03:48:31Brian Atlasis it don't get it you're red red head sure I love your red hair yeah fiery personality fiery personality we have a
03:48:39Brian Atlaschat here from the golden eagle gold the Gold Eagle the the gold okay brixon if you get the opportunity to get the lady in purple husband on for an interview if
03:48:50Brian Atlashe's willing I'd tune in for that oh did I already read this I forgot um yeah I think in just a moment here we can have him uh come up that' be cool yeah last thing we have some notes here from Alice
03:49:02Brian AtlasAlice you said that let's see your first relationship in high school was with was with your two best friends also dating each other is this like a love triangle
03:49:12Brian Atlastype of thing yep back in high school two dudes no two girls oh two girls okay um if you're able are you able to scoot into the table just a tad eth ethical non monogamy SLP polyamory and
03:49:24Brian Atlasdifferences between that and having an affair or being a swinger I'd also love to talk about couple's first thre sums and then you also say more couples should have thre sums there's lots of
03:49:36Brian Atlasbenefits to learning from another person in the bedroom here I'll save that till after we adjust that stuff um so you think more couples
03:49:45Brian Atlasshould have threesoms oh absolutely yes see my view on threesums is i' prefer to just disappoint one
03:49:55Alice Littlewoman at a time well you see that's why a lot of men come to see sex workers to have their first threesome is because for many guys it's like a goal it's a fantasy it's something that they've
03:50:08Alice Littlealways wanted to do do they're not sure to H go about doing it it's so much easier to just go to a sex room and be like I want to have this fantasy I want to fulfill it yeah absolutely and seeing
03:50:20Alice Littlea legal sex worker is a great way to do that and when it comes to couples and getting to have a threesome when you bring another person into the bedroom you have an opportunity to get more
03:50:32Alice Littlecomfortable with each other intimately as well you're starting to talk about the things that you like and the things that you don't like because now you have somebody new it's not just the same standard sex you've been having for the
03:50:43Alice Littlepast 20 years on repeat it's different you've shaken it up and now all of a sudden it's hot it's spicy it's new again like if you want people to have successful long-term relationships it
03:50:53Alice Littlecan't be the same thing again and again and again you've got to do something different you ever thought be about becoming a
03:51:02Alice Littlepolitician or like a a spokesperson I feel like you uh I am I an advocate for the Nevada brothel industry I'm the founder of the Nevada brothel Association I defended the legalization
03:51:15Alice Littleof brothels against multiple religious individuals I my [ __ ] forwards backwards inside and outside mhm back inside outside okay wow that's a lot of that's
03:51:26Brian Atlasa lot of ways I've been doing it for a while now okay all right there you go um you also say porn isn't cheating it's not and women shouldn't feel threatened by prawn or uh P Stars no
03:51:39Alice Littlethey shouldn't mad what do you think about that what do you think about yeah so many women have this reaction oh my God I caught my man watching porn he's cheating on me he's lusting after somebody else he's looking at somebody
03:51:51Alice Littleelse and there's this internal comparison that women are doing with porn stars where they feel like they then have to do the things that porn stars are doing and they feel like
03:52:01Brian Atlassomehow he's cheating on them and he's not it's not about I do no I I I do think that certainly there are some women who blow it out of proportion but
03:52:12Alice Littledo you think it is valid for a woman to prefer her partner not consume do you think that's like a valid standard for a woman to have I'd prefer him to not
03:52:21Alice Littleconsume any porn so how is that woman masturbating what is she fantasizing about is she reading erotic literature that's
03:52:31Alice Littlejust written porn I mean porn takes so many forms and Fashions and Fantasies I do think some women blow it out of proportion but I think it's a in the same way that men are allowed to have
03:52:44Brian Atlaspreference and standards and boundaries I think if a woman doesn't want her partner to be consuming porn I think that so long as that's something that's discussed and made it's made aware to
03:52:54Alice Littlethe partner I do think it's a valid uh preference to have as a woman yeah and I think that there needs to be a conversation around well how is this man now quote unquote permitted to then
03:53:06Alice Littleplease himself are we trying to prevent him from masturbating all whatever is the only way that he's allowed to Rel himself is with her and only with her cuz I mean it can take a lot of forms
03:53:16Alice Littleand Fashions of control I mean it's like once you start limiting how somebody interacts with their own body I mean it's a really slippery slope I would
03:53:26Alice Littlemuch rather have standards around what kind of porn my guy would be consuming like I would want him to be paying for his porn not downloading [ __ ] off the internet for free that's going to end up
03:53:37Alice Littlelike filling his computer with Spam and nonsense like pay people for their work consume it ethically consume it from it else donated
03:53:47SPEAKER_06$100 since when is it a fantasy to contract heres for
03:53:54Brian Atlaslady to clean the place up otherwise it will be uninhabitable you know what J Butler I'm actually that is a legally binding offer I'm accepting your offer
03:54:04Brian Atlasto send us a hazmat suit can you DM me on Instagram I will send you a uh po. box and I will you I don't want like a cheap Halloween
03:54:15Brian Atlascostume version either you have to send us a real one CD a proper Jay Butler are you down to send me hmat suit I will have Madison wear it next
03:54:30Brian Atlasnext J Butler like victim here Madison will wear the Hazmat suit next episode if you send it um and what's the term he's a he's a doctor I forgot the exact
03:54:42Brian Atlasurologist thank you Nick thank you he's a urologist that's why he knows so much about well I still don't Kaiser said I
03:54:51Olivia Bentleydidn't come on come on the show yeah stairs explain my test results then and a penis can I eat these oh my gosh I'm shaking over all right go ahead maybe
03:55:03Brian Atlasjust tilt the microphone away tilt the microphone away just so we don't hear nobody hears you can eat go ahead go ahead I somebody's granola and iic so I think uh what do we got what do
03:55:14Brian Atlaswe got to do uh oh yeah let's do twitch guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub let me see uh T90 I think I shouted him out uh wavy 97
03:55:27Brian Atlasthank for the prime UTSA Jennifer thank you for the prime teeny sunflower thank for the tier one appreciate it man twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you got one so I
03:55:37Brian Atlasthink Annie I think we should bring up uh your husband um I think standing by the door
03:55:47Brian AtlasMary sit here next to her I'm I'm trying to uh move I can move oh yo AB check dude thank you so much for the gifted 20 memberships thank you dude and thank you
03:55:59Brian Atlaseverybody else who's like so generously sent in some super chats tonight and um streamlabs donations and gifted memberships thank you guys so much really appreciate it thank you The Paton by the door he was like I'm already by the door thank you for the patronage
03:56:12Brian Atlasguys I'm getting scared because there's people in the space they're getting cancelled Pearl got demonetized so she says some some things though
03:56:22Brian Atlasare you and the other podcast you don't say things like the well oh yeah you were on fnf like what two three weeks ago yeah holy my my God different this
03:56:33Brian Atlasguy is on fire oh my God that's me boys Boom ninja L skis Tech what's his name
03:56:43Brian Atlasyo skiz dude holy [ __ ] bro thank you dude that's so nice thank you man 100 gifted Subs on Twitch dude thank you so much man skiz Tech bro I need to play
03:56:56Brian Atlashold on [ __ ] I didn't mean do uh we'll do uh yes that's awesome yeah thank you man appreciate it you're awesome thank you
03:57:08Brian Atlasthis is my first time seeing skis SK uh so thank you man um are we going down to get him Nick I think Nick
03:57:18Brian Atlasif you yeah also he does need to uh sign a uh and I think maybe we have him where do we have him sit do we this lady we could yeah I guess I guess and then we
03:57:29Brian Atlasjust move I could me and Alan I think yeah he should sit next to so I'm almost we're get I think we here's what we're going
03:57:38Brian Atlasto do guys so what we're doing right now is uh Annie's husband who uh what's what's his name Oz Oz Oz Oz Fox uh lead
03:57:49Brian Atlasguitarist backing vocals of the Christian glam rock band striper that's hard is coming on the show what's up I get a picture with you guys know oh she
03:58:00Brian Atlassaid he's just at the door M yeah the door uh so um I think can we maybe pull let's pull uh Kiki into the corner then
03:58:11Laurenwe'll just get another chair is there do we got another chair back here somewhere where where we got a chair um there's this one come on you're strong
03:58:20Brian AtlasMadison you got it oh it's fine it's not keep drag drag her drag her yep Treat Her Like a Lady
03:58:29Brian Atlasthat's right okay that's good yep okay so now we oh we need another microphone that's what we need [ __ ] this is going to be complicated he could use my microphone do you want to take a
03:58:42Brian Atlaslittle a little breathers out know what you're saying you want to take a little yeah we could do I'm shaking over here sugar or maybe you know what maybe [ __ ] we could have uh do we have I think
03:58:53Brian Atlasmaybe let's all just move one seat over one seat over maybe Madison you uh sit on Kiki's lap or something I don't know chat should she sit just chill on Kiki's lap for is that going to be comfortable
03:59:04Mercedesjust Alice is going to need her booster seat she's so can you scoot that chair back in just scoot that chair in
03:59:13Brian Atlasyeah okay we yeah we'll have Madison yeah back there I guess uh sorry
03:59:21Brian AtlasNick Nick is here while we are waiting for that guys I have a question for
03:59:34Brian Atlasuh I forgot Lauren have you had any DM cuz you've been on the show twice have you had any DMS from guys they don't want to see you like they want to actually date you they want to act date me yeah have
03:59:46Brian Atlasyou had any dudes slid into the DM what the [ __ ] is that holy [ __ ] oh my God it's just a mo I don't know it's a mo um you're okay protect Lauren yeah yes
03:59:57Laurenshe's gotame so I've had F I've had a few um my my issue is is is um what's your issue tell us your issue this is my
04:00:07Brian Atlasissue what um Olivia where's Olivia Olivia is my issue that's what it is where did she go I um so my biggest issue is this do you want to scoot just
04:00:18Brian Atlastake this seat or actually maybe take this seat I think sorry guys we're doing little uh we're doing little chair musical chairs
04:00:28Laurenhere I I know that I can't you know I never say never in a sense like oh I'll never date like a civilian person like you know somebody that wasn't in entertainment but the only only reason why I do date people only in
04:00:41Laurenentertainment or only if they're like a like business owner anything like that oh just right next to uh Annie over here is because the safety
04:00:54Brian Atlasoh welcome wait hold on I got to play like some special music hey guys hey he wasn't expecting this by the way wasn't so okay you got to spit out your gum I
04:01:05Oz Foxhave to apologize to Kiki for kick her out of her space her out it's all good what's up oh go ahead take your out yeah pass
04:01:15Laurenit okay it's pretty much just the safety I only date people in entertainment because of the safety Factor they have a social media they have an image to uphold um or if they're like a business
04:01:27Laurenowner like that because if they don't it it ends ugly real ugly it's happened three times and I don't typically date civilians because of those three strikes you're out experienc but wait yeah
04:01:39Brian Atlaswhere's is Olivia in the bathroom I think so yeah I think she I think she's Alice are you coming back or Y okay yeah yeah that's fine um so let's have you intro introduce
04:01:51Oz Foxyourself tell us how you doing I'm Oz Fox uh married to Annie Annie's husband okay and uh we've been married for 15
04:01:58Oz Foxyears I've been in striper the Christian 80s hair metal band whoops sorry since uh 1983
04:02:08Oz Foxis when the band started I'm original member and uh we've just been going for 40 years now and we're uh still going
04:02:17Oz Foxstrong still doing albums still touring and all that good stuff so um yeah is and my wife is definitely my hero okay
04:02:28Brian Atlasyou're so sweet can we just have you pop your hat off is that cool cool yeah just the it tends to cast a shadow on the eyes I get it so uh how long have you been involved in music
04:02:41Oz Foxall my life all your life oh yeah there's a long story to it but basically started professionally obviously when striper yeah got famous as a Christian heavy metal band wait can we can we get
04:02:53Brian Atlaslike a photo of like the like an 80s photo just for context I guess yeah you'll see him yeah Nick if you're able to it's striper with a Y correct St with
04:03:01Oz Foxa Y striper with a y yeah okay let's know once you got it Nick yeah there we go there you guys are one
04:03:13Brian Atlason the right right there's there that's definitely from the earliest wait Nick can you go big on that photo just do right click right click open a new tab yep click over Brooklyn vegan what the
04:03:25Oz Foxno that's you scuffed that hold on X out of that it's one of the worst pictures that's hard which one are you do the one on the bottom honey are you if you're looking at the top right I'm the one on
04:03:35Brian Atlasthe far right which is one of the most terrible pictures if we've ever done if you go to wait what about the Nick the one that's just below us in this image thing yep there this one yeah Bingo okay
04:03:49Oz Foxthat's from I'm in the middle um that was from our uh platinum album to with to hell with which one's you are you on the top I'm the one in the bottom the Middle
04:03:59Brian Atlaslook at his face look at his eyes I got a question yeah did the 8S like smell a lot like Hairspray
04:04:08Brian Atlasin in our case yes back then the days okay um that's awesome so uh okay so you were in this band oh the question I was going to ask is being a Christian uh
04:04:20Oz Foxheavy metal what what was the classification glamrock they call some called us glam metal hair metal is another one people called this and then
04:04:30Brian Atlasum just overall like radical Christian heavy metal okay nobody was doing it back then did you guys have given that you were like a Christian band did y'all
04:04:42Oz Foxhave groupies oh yeah absolutely okay it was all all I mean we didn't have anything any different than any other band except we weren't doing drugs and
04:04:52Brian Atlasno drug partying no women backstage no women nobody like that no okay but you had groupies just you weren't like just hooking up with them we W fact we had we
04:05:02Oz Foxhad a good let's just say we had a good security system that kept anything like that for come near us gotcha did you guys um you guys I assume went on tours and yep obviously International or just
04:05:14Oz Foxin international around the world yeah what um your first tour like how many cities did you guys hit oh my gosh uh well first major tour was through the US I think it was the soldiers under
04:05:25Oz Foxcommand tour that was our second album what year was that uh it would have been 198 six okay something like that did you guys play on uh what was the is it was it Melrose that was well that's where we
04:05:38Oz Foxstarted was the Sunset Strip where there was all Sunset Strip uh Melrose was a famous place called no no I'm sorry that well that wasn't or that was a venue right venues were all over Hollywood
04:05:50Oz Foxyeah and um we played pretty much the majority of them as well as a few outside of Hollywood that were famous like the country club and R and um so we played a lot of the venues all over
04:06:02Oz FoxSouthern California that yeah you know we had lines of people coming to see us because of what we did so okay yeah got it pretty quick nice and
04:06:12Oz Foxsorry did you say how many like how many cities were in the I mean all over the United States all over so that would be like you know we'd be hit per year maybe
04:06:24Brian Atlas40 50 cities got something like that and uh before meeting Annie were you previously married or Annie is my second my second marriage yes second marriage okay got it well Madison do you want to
04:06:34Oz Foxjust sit there while I guess we wait until yeah what are you doing waying what the having a good time with Kiki back
04:06:44Brian Atlasthere she's getting comy okay um comtable yeah why don't you just take that scene I don't know what Nick do you know what's they coming back or what's
04:06:56Brian Atlasthe situation I could text if you want me to did they leave both in the bathroom they're both in the bathroom do you want me to text Nick can you just go check really quick and see if they might have dipped I don't know
04:07:08Brian AtlasI'm not sure what's going on open the door they actually did they left oh maybe they're in the okay
04:07:19Brian Atlaswhatever um okay so you were pre you were married uh before MH and then I was married for 20 years 20 years yeah okay and then so tell us the story I mean
04:07:30Oz FoxAnnie kind of uh went over it but we'd like to hear it from your perspective um what's the origin story of you guys meeting well she gave you the the basic idea how we met we met on MySpace and uh
04:07:42Oz Foxthrough a friend of hers that I had met and became a Myspace friends with saw her uh profile and read her story and was blown away at uh what both of them were doing she her friend was someone
04:07:54Oz Foxwho went into the strip clubs and helped women you know kind of want bring them out of that that and and uh see if you could steer them a different way and so uh reading Annie's story and and her
04:08:05Oz Foxstory really uh sparked my interest because uh striper was out doing a lot of that kind of same work in Hollywood with all of the uh uh people that would
04:08:15Oz Foxcome in rock clubs or whatever you want to call it uh and um just share people about what we believed in and uh we got a lot of flack from Christians because
04:08:25Oz Foxof what we were doing uh wearing Spandex and doing the uh hair metal thing or whatever wear makeup yeah yeah we well we weren't trying to look like women although that's what those pictures look like that's what a lot of the the uh
04:08:38Oz Foxchurch people would say that we were trying to be a feminine we Crossing yeah yeah and we weren't doing that at all we were just using it as stage makeup you know um so I mean if anything you know
04:08:50Oz Foxuh we we were just doing what we felt we were called to do and uh so going along with that I mean obviously I felt uh the the the whole idea of the the church
04:09:01Oz Foxcoming against us related to what maybe Annie and her friend might have went through the same thing and that was the whole spill for me wanting to meet Annie was to hopefully be a support if she ever had situation where she would could
04:09:14Oz Foxunderstand why that was happening it happened to us okay and uh you know I felt like I can share some stuff you know give her some support on that so but eventually obviously we met in
04:09:26Annie Lobertperson the rest is history you were such a fan of mine honey can we do a selfie please you're reg I'm your biggest fan
04:09:35Annie Lobertnow oh and I brought guy to that show and you you thought it was my boyfriend yeah that was a funny thing H he was very offended he was like I wasn't offended it was like no no no not
04:09:47Oz Foxyou he was offended oh your friend he was a huge F of striper yeah yeah and uh I invited her to come see me play in Vegas cuz I was playing with some local bands there and and she came and um that
04:09:59Oz Foxwas kind of how it started I started coming to uh uh play in Vegas on a regular basis and dating her at the same time so okay it was uh it's it's it's kind of
04:10:12Brian Atlasa interesting long story there's more details to it we can't do it all in one night but you know yeah yeah yeah and we're uh just kind of unrelated to your guys' relationship but just your own background were you moving in the same
04:10:23Brian Atlascircles is like some of the other like uh mly crew Skid Row like any of these those other exactly okay gotcha did you ever like tour with theman Simmons did you meet him um Jean
04:10:35LaurenSimmons we we this was like the 70s right kid I think so I think it's like 70s ' 80s right guess you talking about striper yeah about kiss you ever meet
04:10:46Oz Foxany of them kiss started in in the 70s which I was a fan of kiss when I was in high school but obviously striper became popular and eventually we gained the
04:10:55Oz Foxrespect of Kiss we ended up playing on the kiss cruise this uh last year there's a cruise there was a kiss Cru they they did do a cruise they they did
04:11:06Oz Foxa kiss Cru every year and last year we played the last one that they you know they're they're retiring now so I see it was bomb it was amazing Paul Stanley was J was I
04:11:18Annie Lobertvideotaped him well it's not videotaped anym I filmed him watching striper play and nodding his head and grooving with it I couldn't believe it I was like I'm watching Paul Stanley love my husband's band this is I I actually worked with
04:11:31Oz FoxJean Simmons at the rock and roll Rock and Roll Fantasy Camp when he was the head uh uh celebr on a weekend there and we got a chance to you know relate talk and whatever and he he said he admired
04:11:44Oz Foxour band just because we stood up for something and we became successful doing it we stuck to our guns that's awesome it was really great yeah were there any other Christian like hair metal glamrock
04:11:54Oz Foxbands or were you guys the only no there were some definitely coming there were there well I wouldn't say copy cats you know everybody has a calling I know and if you have a calling to do something you're going to just do it with your
04:12:07Oz Foxpassion and I have really good friends that did that same thing that we did it's like they didn't know that you could do that and then they saw this band that oh you can do hair metal and
04:12:17Oz Foxlove God and love the Lord at the same another another very popular uh uh hair metal band if you want to call it that was a band band called blood good which I ended up being in the vanand later on
04:12:28Oz Foxin like 2006 because they had asked me to be a part of it and we did an album and toured a little bit it was really cool I wasn't talking about them honey you just do backing vocals right you're not I'm a guitar player and I sing
04:12:40Oz Foxbackgrounds but I can lead sing which I've had to cover for the I've had to Le I've had to cover for the lead singer of striper when he got sick and could sing a few times I see can we hear something what's that can we hear something I want
04:12:52Mason Gregoireto hear something what we throw me under the gun here I did not ask to do this I have guitar what do you want me to hear I have a guitar upstairs
04:13:03Oz Foxserious get it Ryan get the guitar what kind of it's not acoustic though it's electric plug it in plug it in if you got an amp I can plug it
04:13:14Oz Foxinto I'm freaking out me I don't have Oh Come yeah I don't think it's going to work yeah it might not work because you don't have an amp if it's electric you got to have it's going to you'll hear a little you you won't hear it no it's
04:13:25Oz Foxgoing to go yeah Nick I think it's it's electric never mind but anyway yeah I mean singing you know that's just something I've done since I was a kid naturally so uh it it just stands the reason I uh you know would be an
04:13:37MercedesEntertainer in my later years well maybe we could hear something what's your favorite what's your favorite line in your favorite song the line King my favorite line in like your favorite like something that just stands out for you
04:13:49Oz Foxthat like you feel on a soul level Go I mean if anything um uh I mean I love Beatles oh and so I was laughing I was
04:14:01Oz Foxlaughing at Madison yeah yeah no we love the beatlesles are I love the Beatles Need Is Love is oh we love that that's our favorite song in the world that is probably speaking to so many
04:14:12Oz Foxpeople's you know into so many people's lives over decades and and those guys were just amazing and it's you know they just released something new and and we're all excited about it so um I guess
04:14:24Brian Atlasbringing it back to the dating talk here so um when your first message to Annie if I recall correctly was uh I for
04:14:35Brian Atlassomething like you saw on her Myspace that she had been an escort and is that what caught your eye or was like what what was your first message to her on
04:14:45Oz FoxMySpace well well what caught my eye basically about her was mainly when I could tell out of her uh paragraphs of stories and whatever her heart was just
04:14:55Oz Foxso genuine and uh and she really was dedicated to her faith which was something I missed in former relationships and uh and I really felt
04:15:06Oz Foxlike that was something actually after my divorce to my first marriage I I made a list uh uh to myself of what I would
04:15:16Oz Foxwant you know to to be in the next person I would be with but it would have to match so well that you know it would have to be God that would bring it to me and and uh and then all of a sudden when
04:15:28Oz FoxI met Annie God went above and beyond the list that I created for myself because that's true that's what happens you don't know what you want more than what God knows what you want he knows
04:15:38Oz Foxwhat actually what she needs so so for me for me it was important to stick to that and then meeting Annie and seeing how she was uh
04:15:48Oz Foxpersonally and in real life and dating her and seeing those awesome attributes in her um it it it's that's what sealed
04:15:59Oz Foxthe deal just watching her how she was around kids I have kids I have three kids and uh watching her with my kids was like unbelievable her heart was so
04:16:09Oz Foxgenuine and so loving and so for me that meant so much uh as well asally crying as as well as how how her faith was so
04:16:20Oz Foxsolid and and and to me that meant more than what her past was her past was meaningless she was forgiven for her past she's a different person so yeah I was going to ask you about that I mean
04:16:32Oz Foxdid you have um were there any reservations or any concerns or no I Had No Reservations it was one of these it had to be a Divine thing because I could have been that way but to me it was like
04:16:44Oz Foxwhy I mean what is that going to how's that going to benefit myself to keep holding on to something like that that you know it really doesn't matter because she's now new she's transformed
04:16:56Oz Foxyou know and I believed it wholeheartedly because I watched her I saw her talk I saw her love for other people and that's what changed my heart about any of that it I didn't have to
04:17:06Brian Atlaseven ask her about it God I mean what but was there anything like any concerns in terms of well she had done this kind of work or she had been with a lot of men was that
04:17:18Oz Foxever never even crossed her mind never crossed my mind never crossed her mind no you're a strong man for I don't think so I don't think it's that difficult okay you're Godless I really don't if you've got the holy spirit in you then
04:17:29Brian Atlasyou are just you see her with the eyes of God okay I love that yeah that's that's unconditional love and I think earlier on in the conversation Annie you
04:17:39Brian Atlashad mentioned something about I forgot I I don't want to misstate your words but you said something about ways in which you guys are married correct
04:17:51Brian Atlasum the ways in which your husband has to put up with you I I think that's what you said and so what did you mean by that like do you feel like puts up with
04:18:02Annie Lobertyou like oh that if I have any trauma episodes or if I get triggered he he's like designed for me to be my pillow to to comfort me in those times
04:18:13Annie Lobertwhen I can't handle a situation and I freak out and that does happen when you have you know complex trauma and most ladies that I've met that have left you
04:18:24Annie Lobertknow coming to us for Help by the way us not trying to find them these beautiful souls that come to us because they're completely traumatized by the way they've been treated uh it's really
04:18:36Annie Lobertimportant that they're with people that understand that they're going to have uh sometimes trigger moments or just moments that they're going to freak out but it's okay to be that way it's okay
04:18:47Annie Lobertto be yourself it's okay not it's okay not to be okay in other words I'm not talking about becoming a mass murderer or destroying a house and breaking all the windows you know things like that
04:18:57Annie Lobertyou need to really good help but any type of um thing that I might do and I'm not saying anyone would do anything like this but like I don't know if I gosh what would it be honey because I can't
04:19:09Oz Foxthink of something except for what happened this morning when iing let's just put this way nobody's perfect yeah everybody's broken even me okay every human in this world is broken and there
04:19:21Oz Foxare things we all have to learn to maneuver around each other with uh that's why the band striper has been together for 40 years cuz we've learned how to love each other well sure and you
04:19:34Laurenhave to do that in a in a relationship think is really cool is cuz you're a musician so you probably experienced you know women that were sex workers probably just throwing themselves at you and you that's funny that you say that
04:19:47Laurenand that's what's so interesting because it's like there must have been something really different about her because there probably were other women that were like you wouldn't look past their past like you chose to look past her past but
04:19:59Laurenother people you were like M I'm okay like I'm not going to proceed that's really cool well the thing about again
04:20:08Oz Foxwhen because I was a faithful believer in my Christianity it taught me that I have to put the woman that I'm planning
04:20:18Oz Foxto be with or or uh I guess you could say I pursue I have to I have to be a person that's faithful and I can't just let every woman
04:20:29SPEAKER_06be a distraction for me yeah that was one of the things that kept me modest heima donated $100 hookers for Jesus's
04:20:39SPEAKER_06literal blasphemy straight up fraud kids with another woman that you abandoned for rock and roll life and married a literal hook no [ __ ] your broken # grab
04:20:50Oz Foxthe Rocks yeah then hey he is without sin cast the first stone okay anyway um uh so I mean if anything guys I mean
04:21:02Oz Foxthis was divine yeah this is It's a Divine Union this was not that just happened out of nowhere in my opinion I believe that there is a God and that he put us together because he
04:21:14Mason Gregoireultimately knew what we both needed I think it's also extremely important to realize that you guys didn't just like cuz I mean you you were divorced and you had a promiscuous lifestyle and there's
04:21:26Mason Gregoireobviously baggage that came with that but working through that like turning to God and seeking like how do I deal with this there is Grievous sin in my life
04:21:38Mason Gregoireand I've had sin in my life that I've had to work through but like working through that I think is a very important step that a lot of people obviously it's not comfortable to go through but it's
04:21:49Mason Gregoirenecessary and I think you guys have done that beautifully and I commend you for that because I mean that's why your band is stuck together that's why your marriage has survived because you put yourselves in the position where we need
04:22:02Mason Gregoireto work through this and we're going to do that together it's going to be hard be difficult but I told you till death do us part and I mean that you you know I want to just say something Mason it's
04:22:14Annie Lobertthe weirdest thing because we get asked do you guys fight do you guys have a lot of arguments and can I just tell you just in front of you too I I could probably count on one hand how many
04:22:25Annie Loberttimes we really argued where it was very serious yeah I I mean I could think of the two times only two times like the two things you know exactly what they are too is right
04:22:36Annie Lobertfirst got married and that one time you got sick anyway um so but other than that simple silly arguments and before we go to bed we kiss each other I love
04:22:48Annie Lobertyou we love the same TV shows we like we're total trekkies we love sci-fi boy um we just we just click like it's like
04:22:58Mason Gregoirepeas and carrots you know that's yeah I I can't explain it like and I it's love and I think that's important yeah like I
04:23:06Mason GregoireI think you obviously respect your man and like and you love your wife so there is there is that we like this has to
04:23:17Annie Lobertwork and we need be read that book too by the way the pray wife love and respect I would die for this woman exactly okay like Christ died for the
04:23:27Oz Foxchurch well yeah he quotes that a lot that's what I'm taught because I learned that that's what I'm encouraged with yeah so I mean that's the reason why I
04:23:37Oz Foxthink I would tell my daughters hey find a good Christian guy that's you know yeah that's I I know what comes with that I know what he's being taught yeah he's being taught to love you like
04:23:49Mason GregoireChrist loved the church and died for it yeah and to me that's important he knows how to be a man he knows how to stick to his guns and he knows how to protect the people that are in his life yes open
04:24:01Mercedessomething powerful that you said that I was speaking to earlier is how you you had to become basically like what you wanted to attract with her and I just think that's so beautiful and that's literally what I was saying earlier when
04:24:13MercedesI was saying like with sex workers we attract a lot of the same people and it basically around like the energy that we're in and so we're we're attracting these like Sapar like shitty
04:24:25Mercedesrelationships but it's literally just God trying to provoke us into seeing ourselves you know wow yep absolutely um we're going to transition into the after
04:24:35Brian Atlasshow for 20ish minutes or so 25 minutes then we're gonna wrap up the show oh can we get the lights going Maddie if you can get the lights going on um so we've
04:24:46Brian Atlaslowered the TTS threshold we've lowered the read threshold it's 20 and up to read slans TTS is set to 69 and up that should be working as of right now so if
04:24:57Brian Atlasyou guys want to get any of uh last minute questions in and then we're going to wrap up here we're going to wrap up here very shortly so I'm trying to think uh by the
04:25:09Laurenway there's a con I don't know if you guys can hear there's a concert uh going on you playing afterwards not me I'm off you did this didn't you
04:25:18Brian Atlashoney but uh yeah so um but before we wrap up does anybody have any final thoughts or any oh I wanted to pull up
04:25:27SPEAKER_06your Instagram let's pull up Annie's Instagram oh in Vegas donated $100 let me counter the other guys ATT t/ statement dude your music literally
04:25:39SPEAKER_06played a huge role in Saving three of my bod's lives and souls at my church camp growing up TA checks for listening to
04:25:46Brian Atlashim God Rock wow wow there you go striper sweet thank you Jeremy appreciate it man thank you thank you um wait what were we going to pull
04:25:59Brian Atlasup oh the Instagram and's Instagram uh hookers for Jesus yep uh scroll down I just want to read some of these um scroll
04:26:09Brian Atlasdown I like the color I love my colors I like the color sche it matches your your hair and stuff um these are all my my quotes I
04:26:19Annie Lobertsay um My Little you do the graphic design no I I have some people that do for me pretty good they got a good aesthetic they really they take whatever I say literally sometimes I'll talk to them on the phone and then they'll quote
04:26:32Brian Atlaswhat' you say and they'll write it down and they'll put it on there so okay good [ __ ] all right there you go it's uh some solid graphic design I just followed you give a whoever's doing it you got to
04:26:44Brian Atlasgive them a raise they're doing good job oh don't tell them that oh no hey MADD can you get this light the the blue no no no this one the
04:26:54Brian Atlasone that's on the ground if you're able to get that one um oh I see it pink yeah we got some lights going you know doing the little after show um do you know how
04:27:05Brian Atlasto do Madison it's it's one yeah yeah oh we got a modest Tama I'm without sin you are correct Blasphemous you got to be
04:27:16Brian Atlasright next to it Heathen and I will cast the first stone at your fake ass I'm assuming please o Fox explain your way to Christ for us and how it is not
04:27:27Oz Foxblasphemy he's saying your don't shoot the messenger M says Christ bro no I there's no condemnation in Christ yeah okay that's all there is to it if if he knows his scripture he knows where
04:27:39Oz Foxthat's at and I I I'm not I'm not condemned I'm saved and I'm going to be an eternity someday because I I uh dedicated and surrendered completely my
04:27:50Madisonlife to to Jesus Christ and his teachings and his ways repent and believe yeah I have a question for Oz yeah um what takeaways did you have from
04:28:00Oz Foxyour previous marriage that you considered finding a new woman after well divorce well I'll start by saying
04:28:09Oz Foxuh my first marriage of 20 years uh I I I don't believe was a mistake okay uh I I believe we we have three beautiful
04:28:18Oz Foxchildren from that and we had really good times unfortunately my first wife was not uh she just when the band got back together and she she just did not
04:28:30Oz Foxlike that lifestyle and she wasn't uh I guess I maybe I wasn't making her happy or whatever it was and of course like I said that goes along
04:28:40Oz Foxwith um learning how to forgive and all that and which you know I I guess everybody's different everybody's broken right so uh and and we're by the way we're all good friends now we are you
04:28:52Oz Foxknow um we hang out but but what I did did take from it was after the uh the breakup and after we went through all of the heart break and and whatever um one
04:29:02Oz Foxthing I did learn was was that my faith in God is what kept me sane yeah through the whole thing gave me the peace gave me the strength and gave me the hope to
04:29:14Oz Foxto to know that God had a plan for my life and and so all of that teaching just came right right into my heart right from the word that I read that I
04:29:24Oz Foxstudied all of the teachings that I got from so many pastors I mean I mean I remember talking like like dozens of pastors that I was friends with or it had something to do with that would
04:29:37Oz Foxsupport me and and give me some kind of counsel I I I was able to find strength in in you know all of that and and I think it was all given to me because God
04:29:48Oz Foxhad his eyes on me you know which led me to find someone like Annie and uh and and help me to appreciate her even more and uh and you know as far as you know
04:29:59Oz Foxwhat happened in the past I mean my first wife is the one my my pastors wouldn't let me file for divorce so that I would be blameless you know cuz I I had to wait to see if it was going to be
04:30:11Oz Foxsomething that uh I I guess you could say in the eyes of Christianity if I would divorce her it would be me making a decision where it it wasn't me she made a decision to yes yeah you
04:30:24Mason Gregoireknow file and say okay it's over I don't want to be married anymore I mean yeah the Bible even talks about it if like if your spouse is wanting to leave you then you aren't to be like you're not allowed
04:30:35Mason Gregoireto do that right um but I mean there so as a Christian like the only there are two ways where divorce is lawful and that's for infidelity in which case you
04:30:44Mason Gregoirehave the choice um or like your spouse is not performing their spouse duties or the abandon exactly so if husbands have abandoned their wives they're not paying for them they're not providing for them
04:30:55Oz Foxwell even and then and then the wives are not Prov like providing for their husbands not necessarily providing let's just say in my case it would be
04:31:06Oz Foxleaving leaving the relationship okay when you when a person leaves the relationship says I don't want to be married to you anymore even whichever it is and hands you papers of divorce that's not your that's out of your
04:31:18Mason Gregoirecontrol yeah no yeah exactly and you're the Bible says to let them go yeah you have to let them go yeah exactly you know I mean I don't think there's anything wrong with reconciliation but if the other person doesn't want to reconcile I agree then it's out of your
04:31:30Oz Foxhands yeah you can't force them that was my that was my scenario yeah and it's it's good that that's the the route you chose yeah yeah it's it's tough though it's not an easy Road no that's that's
04:31:41Mason Gregoireextremely difficult I I those are my nightmare scenarios when I am sitting alone at night I am terrified that that stuff would happen don't manifest that I would I pray I pray to God that like but
04:31:54Oz Foxbut listen to me bro I'm going to be honest with you you that's where your faith comes in man exactly I AG if if you get in relationship it could be the most perfect relationship ever and
04:32:04Oz Foxthere's ways that the other person if they're not I mean I've read job plenty of times okay I know yeah it can change things can change very quickly
04:32:14Oz Foximately so I mean you know your only true hope is in God and what he does in your life and is he really enough if if everything in your life was taken away
04:32:25Annie Lobertis God enough absolutely and that's what happened to me too you guys mhm I hit rock bottom yes that's why I say that sex work is
04:32:34Brian Atlasaot but this was the worst was my overdose and I was you know I I want to say we had a girl who was on I'm totally derailing the
04:32:45Oz Foxconversation her father was in Rat was a what wow in Rat I was on that show the the band oh rat rat okay you know you know rat I know the guys from
04:32:57Brian Atlasrat and we know uh stepen uh Pierce and uh try we were just hanging out with them a couple months ago Crosby wait oh uh Robin he passed away yeah her daughter was as
04:33:08Brian AtlasI've been a guest on the show awesome um let me get a couple of these chats here we have Jeremy in Vegas to modest learn humility and Grace my dude Oz is no
04:33:18Brian Atlasfraud and Annie's work with metros Beyond Stellar step off brother I've got Cotes too and I can go all night jery come on Jeremy Jeremy if
04:33:31Brian Atlasyou're if you're who I think you are dude you better drop one more something else we know who Jeremy is HK he he same
04:33:41LaurenJeremy it's hik it's that white crunchy um fruit Mexican um it's like a white
04:33:51Brian Atlascrunchy yeah yeah who the [ __ ] is that guy that's cool uh we have bang bang Lulu forced Gump and Jenny happy ending Christ is
04:34:01Brian AtlasKing cuz I said peas and kids okay got we got Nickelodeon here let's get this straight beta male is left by wife goes onto Myspace to search for prostitute she won't sleep with him unless he
04:34:13TTS/Audiencemarries her so he proposes damn glad you're happy don't shoot the messenger I got to read funny ways of twisting things don't I'll read the rest Maddy's reading
04:34:25Brian Atlasthe rest of these so uh that's awesome oh we have a couple things to react to wait CH what was the first one we were going to pull up Nick men's oh yeah today today is international men's day I
04:34:36Brian Atlasforgot to mention that let's go men I forgot to mention that make a party yeah I forgot to mention that in my intro I was going to but it slipped my mind this
04:34:46Brian Atlasis from a Instagram called uh the Tin Men the Tin Men um can you just in the scroll the
04:34:55Brian Atlasimages no no no it's uh yeah it's just a bit to your yep that one it's International men's day a day to celebrate the Wonder men in our lives
04:35:06Brian Atlasthe essential role they play in society and families and to raise awareness around the various issues that impact them next just don't say it too loud man anyways you guys should definitely check out this blog post from the Tin Men We
04:35:19Brian Atlaswon't look at the whole thing just because it's it's long but yeah Nick you can scroll through all of them just give each page like a second or something but uh yeah it's International Men's Day guys so uh you know just thought I'd
04:35:30Brian Atlasbring it up this is a very good this is a really good resource um oh yeah they the UN tried to make it World toilet
04:35:39Annie Lobertday wow that's so typical is it not typical we know what they stand for man hating organization the United Nations
04:35:50Brian Atlasyep the UN is the UN is cucked um un is useless un is cucked down with the UN um AG next next one uh yeah the United Nations officially observes eight
04:36:02Brian Atlasdifferent days for women and girls International Day of women Girl science yeah the UN is super cocked International Day of women judges but they don't and zero for men all of those
04:36:12Brian Atlasbut they don't acknowledge any for men and boys um oh then there's this GQ thing that half of the men of the year were women hello G woman and the woman
04:36:24Brian Atlasof the year oh this is a good one too like all the Google Doodles like it's uh for international women's day there's a Google doodle but there's never been a Google doodle for international Men's Day so you know we got to talk about
04:36:39Mercedesequality a lot of people disrespect the masculine they dos it makes me upset that I I can't stand the whole
04:36:48Mercedesum I guess rhetoric of like just even on social media everybody going in on the masculine that's true I love I love a
04:36:57Mercedesman man I love a man you honey just people people look at the develop masculine and they think that's like the entirety of men it's just it's the masculine energy is beautiful you know
04:37:10Mason Gregoirewhat I mean we we need it I would say most men out there are terrible examples of what manhood actually is yeah goes for woman too yeah I agree and there's a lot of churches that are terrible
04:37:21Brian Atlasexamples of Christianity yep that is absolutely 100% MH uh remember remember the 19th of November please tell me the masseuse hold on please tell me the masseuse to spare me when she overthrows the
04:37:34Brian Atlasgovernment she doesn't speak English by the way um that's that was clever though I remember remember the 5th of November the gun something treason and plot does anybody
04:37:45Brian Atlasknow that I can't remember it goes like remember remember the 5th of November the gun something treason and plot okay whatever thank you
04:37:56Brian Atlasstochastic stochastic guy Fox DEC okay he changed his username just for for that very cool what was the other thing we were going to pull up Nick there was another Tik Tok oh the Tik Tok let's do the Tik Tok yeah go full screen with it and
04:38:09SPEAKER_13we're gonna I you didn't refresh it did you no no cuz I put it on two speed because it's all right I want everybody's reaction to this oh can you mute it Nick girl again no but it's it's