00:55:50Laurenwalking like on the street so I would be walking like around the corner or anything or kind of going into in and out of like 7el or something and uh they'd walk and say hey where you going
00:56:01LaurenI like I I don't know what you know what what where are you going and then you know I and then they'd say oh well you know we're going back to Buddy's place I was like okay what do you do like you know and try to vet them and then
00:56:13Laurenthey're like oh well you know would you like to come up and I you know and then that would be how it would go and then sometimes I'd go into strip clubs and I would sit in the strip club and like
00:56:24Mercedesdressed up like as like in in a really nice like outfit and they were like oh do you work here and I'd be like I used to and oh wow pull out I banned from a club for doing that that's cor
00:56:36Laurencontroversy with strippers and esorts coming in it causes a lot of fights chaos yeah I had uh left with like a couple guys and I think the club was starting to recognize it and so they I
00:56:48Laurensaw the owner just kind of lurking and I was like I better stop and and then I would go into my strip club yeah it turned out when I was dancing I would go into my strip club and I would go with
00:57:01Laurenthe intent of pulling someone out within an hour that's like I would yeah I would do that too but but then I was just like oh but then that's what led to the like Behind Enemy Lines type of [ __ ] yeah and the trench coat I I would always wear
00:57:12Brian Atlasthe trench coat trench coat okay so you'd be walking down the was it like a specific Street and you said downtown San Diego downtown right by the bars and so but like when the the guys would come
00:57:23Brian Atlasup to you and so did they assume they knew that you were I think they were just trying to be friendly they were just hitting on what point in the conversation would you be like by the way I charge x amount um well so they'd
00:57:35Laurenbe like where they they would first say where are you going and I was like oh I'm just you know I don't know it might be headed home and then where are you going and then they'd they'd be like oh well if if you want to and I was like I don't know and they'd be like I'll take
00:57:47Mercedescare of you like usually they would say something the not to interrupt but it's when I moved to Los Angeles I was like shocked at the level of prostitution
00:57:59Mercedesthat was happening because where I came from it was like very looked down upon to escort if you were dancing and whatnot when I came like you'd be surprised at how many people just know like it's so normalized it's wild okay I
00:58:11Brian Atlasthink it just had the vi because like but at least for your situation I mean if you're in these environments like you said you'd go out in The Nightlife District or whatever like it's an expectation almost like people just know that there's going to be hookers there
00:58:24Laurenoh and I think like I looked at him too like I'd look at him a certain way and then they'd be like yeah i' like show me the look ooh like I I can't do it on look for this camera right here I think
00:58:36Laureneveryone's an escort though that's no this camera this camera oh that camera like I don't know i' look at him a certain way I Tri a little I I I tried to just lock him in like you know like because like but if you're out in like a nightlife
00:58:50LaurenDistrict couldn't these guys just be coming up to you and not know you're pros and they're just hitting on you they could and then and so I would deny them once so so you deny them once and then after you deny them they'd try to
00:59:01Laurenbe like oh why are you sure yeah I don't know what if I you know took care of you a little bit and then that's when I knew that oh they would say that yeah so you you knock them down it would never occur to me if I'm like trying to hit on a
00:59:12Mercedesgirl and I don't know well then then you'll meet people who like it's not a thing and so like you'll you'll proposition them and they'll be like what the hell or then I've never I've been propositioned before and
00:59:24MercedesI'm like what the hell like that's what happened to me when I first moved to LA I was like what the [ __ ] I'm like oh sorry I don't know if I fine but I'm like I don't know I'm like I'm not this like I'm not an escort you know it's
00:59:36Laurenvery very very normalized like uncomfortably normalized okay I see it so you've never done like the car comes up thing no cuz I I didn't want to get trapped in a car with someone I I've had
00:59:49Laurencars but where would you go then we've all watched monsters oh they would we go to a hotel I'd say can you book a hotel room and they say yeah and then they'd book it really quick and then they would do it and these were in my my Wilder
00:59:59Brian Atlasdays Wilder days when rocket roll so how does that conversation look like okay some dude walks up he knows you're you're an escort
01:00:11Mercedesyeah um I'd be like they how what's the are you are you the guy or are you a she just told you the it's like you
01:00:22Laurengot to pay pay to play oh no he I would just say okay well I mean he would he would pretty much proposition he'd say oh well if I take care of you and I'm like you know you got X we could do for x amount if you get a hotel and he'd be like all right
01:00:35Laurenand just book it right there on on his phone and then we'd walk up together I'd see and then I'd leave okay gotcha and did have you two done any I've never no what about I have the first time I ever
01:00:46Annie Lobertgot paid okay my girlfriend flew me to Hawaii and it's very known there I don't know if it is right now there's street that everybody walks and it used
01:00:57Annie Lobertto just be it would be regular girls like me just young girls and then there was a lot of I don't want to use the wrong word you guys well if they're not regular girls what are they I mean I
01:01:08Annie Lobertcall them vanilla they they were they were sex workers but they I don't like to say that word either it's okay oh you guys this is really hard okay they were men dressed as
01:01:22Annie Lobertfemales I don't want to say it offend a lot of people but we we called them [ __ ] okay and so back in the day there was a major competition
01:01:32Annie Loberttoo by the way but I only did that for about two weeks because I never jumped in a car MH so that that would have freaked me out car no cars we would just
01:01:41Annie Lobertmeet Japanese men and we we would say ikim and they would get you know their
01:01:50Annie Loberthotel it means would you come and play with me come you know let's go and so that I learned
01:01:59Annie Loberthow to speak Japanese and we would not go with white guys oh any other race but I know this sounds so bad you guys but
01:02:10Annie Lobertonly Japanese men only the Japanese makes perfect sense they were the safest this is the way I was taught by the people that I knew back then my girlfriend my best friend her her girl that turned her out that was the way the
01:02:23Annie Lobertclientele were because they had a lot of money it was the 80s who the 80s we as United States were doing really really well in the late '
01:02:32Annie Lobert80s so the Japanese men had a lot lot of money the first date I ever turned was with my girlfriend and I
01:02:41Annie Lobertliterally took my clothes off and the guy was done I was like okay that's why I got hooked into sex work because you're like oh you know 500 bucks there
01:02:51Annie Lobertwas no agency fee and I was like this is is way too easy cuz I was making $347 an hour you know at my normal job and I'm
01:03:01Brian Atlaslike this is not compete at all this is a noer I'm can we do an inflation check what was 500 in the 80s double dou did you adjust for back double double so
01:03:12Annie Lobertyou're making 500 back then a th000 it would be okay and it was so tempting to just stay in that space so I did they pay in Yen ever was yeah a lot and we would we would know what the Yen was so
01:03:24Annie Lobertfor 100 typically it was 100,000 Yen okay wow interesting so 1 million yen was like a th000 you know during the rates gotta but it was you guys it was so and I don't know about any of you
01:03:36Annie Lobertladies uh your thoughts because for me I'm just going to be blunt and honest I was after the money bottom line dollar dollar make me holla that's all it was
01:03:46Annie Lobertat that time like you are a man that is dumb enough to pay for sex this is what my thoughts were cuz I was really mangry at men back then I remember we talked about this last time Brian I was so like
01:03:57Annie Lobertembittered towards men so I was like if I can charge them yes de is happening right now and it yes it was empowering
01:04:06Annie Lobertyeah and I felt really like actually made me happy to be able to control MH men's Pockets with my looks yeah it was very addicting it's it's a for me I
01:04:18Laurenwanted the sex and I wanted like the intimacy like I I was an infomaniac too I I wanted like to be I I didn't feel safe like in my Waking Life and I felt like when I was intimate with someone I felt really safe and and
01:04:31LaurenI was like oh this is comforting but then there's also money which helps me out so I would kind of like linger a little while when I'd see them and then I'd be like all right well I better get going like you know call me yeah yeah
01:04:42Laurenand and then my coach is going off yeah like what you're actually we seeking was safety yeah safy I would spend the night sometimes at their at their places cuz I just didn't I just I wanted to be with
01:04:55Mason Gregoirethem I was like I feel safe here I'm getting fed I'm I'm you know this is nice you know so I guess I have I have a question do you so in the sex work
01:05:05Mercedesindustry do you see it as like an empowering thing absolutely yes it's a form of Shadow work it's it's a way for women that you have to understand a lot
01:05:15Mercedesof like sex workers Shadow work I would say legal sex work legal what is Shadow work Shadow work is so it's basically say you have a disempowering like childhood like something really
01:05:27Mercedestraumatic happens to you um you start forming all these beliefs in your subconscious mind and that's what ends up leading you in your adult life so for me like I have an extremely traumatic
01:05:38Mercedeschildhood I know that majority of the sex workers that I work with have really traumatic childhood so they they go to sex work as a way to actually re-empower themselves from what happened to them
01:05:49Mercedeswhen they were children um just cuz like they they weren't valued by their parents like it's a lot of things so like for her case can I use as so for
01:06:00Mercedesher case it's safety so she was she had this underlying desire of safety we'd obviously have to go into a session pick your brain and like understand where this sensation of like not feeling safe
01:06:10Mercedescame from but for her she was using sex work as a tool to create safety in her adult life because that was something
01:06:18SPEAKER_06that um is like a wound within her for me man I just finished watching the last three episodes
01:06:29SPEAKER_06116 117 and 118 this is for your ability to put up with all the BS that was said God I'd cow some of those girls even still alive
01:06:42Brian Atlasyeah uh yeah the last couple episodes were definitely pretty uh interesting shows uh thank you swordless appreciate it man yeah that's why I had to hire this U masseuse to uh you know help help
01:06:52Brian Atlaswith the stress the shows been so stressful yeah okay um let me see oh I had a question um did you want to finish your thing or it was just basically we
01:07:02Mercedeswe see sex work as a stepping stone I think where it gets muddled and the perception that people see is like all of the the negative you know what I mean and they don't see how it actually can
01:07:13Mercedesbe the stepping stone like I was saying like to for me to to God and to re-empower yourself um I think that women just get stuck in it too long sure so they don't know when to like or they
01:07:26Madisondon't change they don't evolve they don't evolve probably even weigh in on the empowerment yeah I kind of wanted to ask um how you got involved sorry we
01:07:36SPEAKER_06have to wait for this first selling sex is not empowering men get to have you for money very delusional to think otherwise the attempt to spin such
01:07:47Mason Gregoiredebauchery in a positive light is madness so this this kind of gets to the point I wanted to make yeah um um do you so as you're participating
01:07:58Mason Gregoireparticipating in sex work say it's empowering it's creating this safe space uh maybe it's I I don't know I mean obviously I'm not in that I've never
01:08:07Mason Gregoirebeen in that space um do you really see that all you can not all you can offer but what you offer right then and there
01:08:18Mason Gregoirein this uh very intimate setting you're providing a very close connection with somebody that maybe you've known for a little while maybe it's the first time
01:08:29Mason Gregoirewhatever do you really see that as like you you can put a monetary value on that and say that it's empowering why not put a monetary value on that we pay for
01:08:40Alice Littletherapy we pay for doctors we've pay for all sorts of professional expertise in our industry M why not pay a sex worker who knows what they're doing absolutely
01:08:53Olivia Bentleyyeah no I I understand my clients worship me when when these clients come in these men are just so enamored and so gracious
01:09:02Olivia Bentleyand so happy to have our company and it is a win-win one strung my guitar the other day this is the most stereotypical panel daddy didn't love me enough
01:09:15SPEAKER_06getting arrested for assault instead of sex closeted Christian man he's a real he's a real one force
01:09:23Mercedesbecause he won't pay for dates um all right the short answer is I I don't think you could put a number on our value and I think that value is is
01:09:36Mercedesimmeasurable like all of us are intrinsically valuable so you can't put a number on that but I think that there's a difference between value and a service you know what I mean I guess so
01:09:48Mason GregoireI I I mean this is my opinion and I think this Bears out in the science uh there I would say there is no value
01:09:57Mason Gregoirebeing added and let me let me reinforce that so in the ability for somebody to bond with somebody else so in a sexual
01:10:07Mason Gregoireum relationship the more sexual partners you have the less likely you are able to bond with that other person actually there was a study that was done that showed that what is it after 20 Partners
01:10:20Mason Gregoireyou are 16 times more likely to get divorced what study with this yeah please please do tell I can't remember the there's also
01:10:29Olivia Bentleystudies that probably prove that wrong yes let's get the foundation you're 27 and you still haven't been able to tie down a
01:10:39Alice Littlerelationship well he doesn't desire to but that's supposedly yeah I mean I'm extremely picky with who I am going to involve myself with and that's totally okay and there's just as many people who
01:10:52Alice Littlearen't picky and want have the experience before they get into a relationship so they're a understand there is a desire so I know that people
01:11:02Mason Gregoirehave the desire I am just simply putting forward the evidence that shows that having multiple sexual sexual partners before marriage hurts your ability to
01:11:12Mason Gregoirebond with somebody else and I'm not saying that I mean as as a Believer I know that that Christ can he restores the soul so I'm not
01:11:25Mercedessaying that it's impossible for someone to be redeemed mhm I'm saying that it takes a miracle mhm yeah and we're all possible of having that miracle and and I'm not
01:11:38Mason Gregoiresaying this in a negative way but it's like I don't think that it's fair to speak to something that you haven't experienced absolutely uh that's that's slightly unfair I can I can sit here and
01:11:49Mason Gregoiresay that uh certain atrocities in history were wrong and not have experienced them so like I you can take it to either side of the spectrum just because I haven't experienced something
01:12:00Mason Gregoiredoesn't mean I don't know truth mhm so and I what is true for you in your journey that's that's interesting in your god-given journey but what is my god-given journey it looks a little bit
01:12:11Mason Gregoiredifferent and it feels a little bit different op okay well so there is only one truth like I can I can say till I'm bleue in the face that gravity doesn't exist but gravity does exist I don't
01:12:24Mason Gregoirewhat anyone says so there is an objective truth there are Universal constants there are scientific things that are just true so in uh so I believe that the Bible is the foundation for
01:12:35Mason Gregoiretruth it is where I derive all of my truth from when I when someone says something or when I start pondering things okay what does the Bible say about this if the Bible teaches against
01:12:46Mason Gregoireit then that is objective truth and I must mold myself to that doesn't the Bible promote prostitution it doesn't it doesn't promote it but the Bible doesn't necessarily it doesn't like I think there's some reject it it
01:12:59Alice Littledoesn't reject prti I don't even make sense if anything sex workers are exceptional within the context of the Bible work is Mission work sex work is a
01:13:08Mason Gregoireform of mission work oh that's oh yeah of of mission it's Mission anytime Jesus interacted with prostitutes in the Bible
01:13:18Mason Gregoireit was he treated them with love but he called them to repent he did you got to rep out of get out of there's no rep got but going back to prior to Let's Talk
01:13:30MercedesAbout Mary magdaline why did all the kings have we're repented okay but I'm saying we God oh I didn't there's no oh it's in there I brought it to the Candace Owens
01:13:41Mason Gregoiredebate oh no I I know that there were people in the Bible that were those scriptures I of the horny me love you long time
01:13:54Mason Gregoirefull metal I don't know what that mean okay so the Bible shows a whole lot of sinful people who are imperfect so it shows a need for a perfect savior so it
01:14:06Mason Gregoireshows a need for Jesus so there are Testament or new testament that you follow both it is the word of like all of it's the word of God cuz the old
01:14:15Mason Gregoiretestament's shadowy oh I know it's very Shadow the yeah the the Old Testament shows the need for a perfect savior it
01:14:27Mason Gregoireshows okay all of these Kings all of these men they are broken they are fallen and they need to be they need to be redeemed none of these guys are perfect none of these guys are going to cut it I have a question I'm not to cut
01:14:39Mercedesyou off but I just okay there's a statement and then a question the statement is I don't I don't believe that anyone is truly a a
01:14:48Mercedessinner right I think that we all have this mission like your mission was to be brought up the way that you were our mission this is a part of our mission
01:14:58Mercedesand and we need to experience this this Darkness okay so that we can understand the light and this is why I'm saying that I feel like a lot of sex workers stay too long and they they go through the darkness but they don't have the the
01:15:11Mercedescognizance because they're so used to their human patterns they don't have the cognizance of listening to the calling of God within them what do you mean cognizance so they don't have the
01:15:22Mercedesawareness a lot of the time that that's like okay their human brain tells them like this is safe so can I use you as an example so like it's safe for me to be
01:15:32Mercedeshere at the end of the day every single human being craves one every being on this planet if you're to run towards a flock of birds what are they going to do fly away they're going to fly away why cuz they don't want to be killed
01:15:44Mercedesbecause they don't want to be killed they're seeking safety M so every single human being on this planet every being on this planet is seeking safety so if you go into an industry and it creates
01:15:54Mercedesthis bubble of safety for you why leave it your human brain is always going to choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven so yeah okay um I
01:16:04Mason Gregoirewould say and we see this throughout the Bible but it show the Bible tells us multiple places that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God we all
01:16:14Mason Gregoirehave yeah yeah and that we are all dead in our trespasses and sins so that is that is what we do that is by nature we are children of Wrath we are people who
01:16:25Mason Gregoirego against God and it takes God to save us to transform Our Lives to make us more like him it's not something that I can just drum up so no I know that yeah yeah so so and you see that throughout
01:16:37Mason Gregoirethe Old Testament there are some horrible men wild like they're it's it's it's a wild place it's some rated R stuff hold on just Lauren's typical GTA
01:16:46SPEAKER_06hook in the life is smash get paid then get batted and money jacked Ryan behind behind you she stole my audio fingers
01:16:56SPEAKER_06what the [ __ ] # oh Dr Kid the last time when we were Joan amen the argument said by the kind
01:17:05Brian Atlasgentleman on the panel in the Bible Jesus says to the super weird going on with the TTS uh yo LP thank you very much man yes and I do recall that from
01:17:15Annie Lobertthe yes it um did you I wanted to say that you know and I want to respect everyone's opinion here I have
01:17:24Annie Lobertmy experience in the sex industry was in the very beginning empowering but very beautifully the [ __ ] I'd like to hear
01:17:35Brian Atlasyeah Alice I'd like to hear you too speak up um I met well I have questions do you have something brief cuz I like I just wanted to say that when you're
01:17:46Annie Lobertreferencing us I mean she's speaking for what she knows I'm going to speak for what I know and what I've experienced and the empowerment part was very limited and
01:17:57Annie Lobertvery short yeah that's that's kind of what the point I was trying to make and so it's very everyone's experience has been different here at this table and I think that everyone has the I think they
01:18:09Mason Gregoirehave a right to say yeah no I I agree theyve experienced their context I mean this is this is a very rare situation for me where I can see across from people are that very different than me
01:18:20Laurenhe real but but you know what makes real makes him a real Christian is there's hope I feel like the ones with no hope if they're like guys guys guys stop let
01:18:28Laurenher speak please Sor oh go no no okay the the thing that makes him a real one is is I feel like a real Christian at least has some hope like
01:18:40Laurenit's not like oh my God sorry you're stuck it's just like you know hey like you know there's going to be at least you're respectful just Candace isn't a a
01:18:48Mason Gregoirereal Christian I mean you know her I'm like so there yeah yeah I mean it's it's important for Christians one
01:18:59Mason Gregoireto be respectful like we are called to love but we are not called to uh promote or accept sin so like I'm not going to sit here and be like I
01:19:09Mason Gregoireapprove of your guys' lifestyle I heavily disapprove but I see you are created in the image of God and I respect him so he has infinite value so
01:19:20Mason Gregoireand he has bestowed that value upon yourself so thing I see it as like the thing that makes sin so sinful is that it is it is especially sexual sin it is
01:19:31Mason Gregoirea sin against your own body so it's sinning against something that is infinitely valuable that's where I see the tragedy cuz I see like there is so much value and that's why it just is
01:19:43Brian Atlasdistasteful to me but anyway I know Brian you want to move on yeah I just want to make sure I get this chat in just because uh it's about to fall off we have Derek the Traer question for the ladies if a young young woman approached you for advice on entering the escort industry what would you tell her so
01:19:57Olivia Bentleywe'll start with Olivia we'll go around the table try to keep brief answers if you can go ahead um I would Advocate that they go and um gain their training
01:20:08Olivia Bentleyat a legal brothel I would um I'm not going to state which but I I have my favorites in terms of ethical um decisionmaking and business practices and I would send them there for for
01:20:19Olivia Bentleytraining and and understanding I would be happy to be there mentor and um invite them to to join join our Squad and and gain knowledge from us we've
01:20:30Olivia Bentleywe've all talked about this how we could you could be of use in the spiritual sense you are fantastic at branding and business um I can assist on you know in terms of physical health we we've talked
01:20:42Olivia Bentleyabout being kind of a hub together and also um the the business aspect in terms of just being able to manage your money and invest financial literacy offering
01:20:52Laurenthem that as well okay I'd say uh before um I wouldn't I guess necessarily recommend escorting or or you know sex work to anyone I mean obviously I would say like okay if you're really going to
01:21:03Laurendo it do a legal brothel you're going to be safer and safe um but uh I would say try dancing first see if you like it see see how it goes and if you like it then
01:21:14Mercedeslegal brothel mhm I would not recommend it whatsoever I would not recommend it only because if you're questioning it then it's just not for you a lot of the women
01:21:26Mercedeswho are LED into that industry are literally led into that industry and it's not something you question sure it's just something you do I think it really depends on the individual and what their motivations
01:21:37Alice Littleare for getting into the industry have they considered the risks the benefits what this means for them longterm and short term how this is going to impact their life sex work is work but it is
01:21:49Alice Littlealso realistically stigmatized work so I would really encourage someone to sit with it pause and think about all of those things and do their homework and research before moving forward
01:22:01Brian Atlasintentionality is everything your why really matters in this industry sure so another question I have going around the table with for everybody I want to know
01:22:11Laurentotal clients you've had we don't I I think I already said a thousand how much I think I already said like a thousand 10 years yeah in 10
01:22:22Brian Atlasyears yeah I'm just curious like how many total clients have you I don't know if you give us a range that a range a th000 plus maybe a th000 plus 2,000 plus
01:22:33Olivia BentleyI don't know I I I don't even pull out the receipts pull out the receipt I feel like a body very vanilla why why would you ask that's a different question that's a different question the body count it's a
01:22:46Brian Atlasdifferent question the body count because body count that extends to your your uh sex life outside of your work I'm curious just your total clients that you've had So within the profession
01:22:57Olivia Bentleyprobably a th000 plus but 2,000 plus 10,000 5,000 I'm just curious into Olivia I'm curious I'm curious I got to know I've seen a lot of people I've made
01:23:10Brian Atlasa lot of connections motivated a lot of had a lot of fun yeah yeah okay 5,000 plus 5,000 give us a number you got to give us a
01:23:21Olivia Bentleynumber Olivia we have a range yeah range is fine but a thousand plus what if it if that could be that could be 10,000 a million a million times when like so there's been times you know in the very
01:23:33Olivia Bentleybeginning when I first got in and then it was more volume and then I decided I wanted to be a travel companion I was only going out with like five guys for a
01:23:43Olivia Bentleycouple years and we traveled and and that I I made a way that was fantastic I I made a ton of money that way and we did vacations but that was only with Five Guys for several years I like that
01:23:55Brian Atlasrestaurant that's a good restaurant one my um okay well so to the to the clients to the clients come on
01:24:04Brian AtlasOlivia Olivia you guys are maybe I don't know 2000 plus well over you think it's do you think it's 2,000 plus likely do you think it's 3,000 plus I'm not sure
01:24:15Olivia Bentleyso somewhere between two and three, yes because I have had a lot of regulars I have regulars of like 10 years oh no so I wouldn't I wouldn't count you count
01:24:24SPEAKER_06them I wouldn't count repeats you can't collectively have over 9,000 clients that is an A+ reference a plus maybe
01:24:35Brian Atlasactually maybe okay thank you Bender the offender so Laur is it Laura or Lauren I always get confus is it 1,000 plus 2,000 plus 3,000
01:24:48Laurenplus I mean I guess 1,000 plus cuz if I said a th000 like a couple weeks ago then I but do you know if it's because a th000 plus that could be 2,000 plus right so you think it's between a th000
01:24:59Laurenand 2,000 it's got to be between a th000 and like 1,000 100 no some of them didn't dear D
01:25:08Annie Lobertdear die today that would be uh Annie what about you yeah I got I got beat up for this last time
01:25:17Annie Lobertremember we did this I did documentary on some a couple years back about that very number and I could not really remember I said 10,000 at first but
01:25:28Annie Lobertactually when I look back now about 30,000 okay because I worked every single day of the year and it was a competition me and the other girls'
01:25:39Annie Lobertpimps I mean we were all trying to make the most money and yeah it's about 30 and I don't know how many repeats those are cuz I had a lot of regular clients a lot of repeat clients H did you guys
01:25:50Annie Loberthave your own like like you know Cor like you know areas or is oh no it's escorting oh got some girls we call it walk in the carpet yeah oh okay walk in the carpets we call yeah walking the
01:26:02Annie Lobertpark we we don't walk the street we walk the carpets gotcha okay and that's if you're in between cars the knees like to well I mean it's more comfortable for your feet like you literally sometimes would take your heels off at the end of
01:26:14Annie Lobertnight and not use your heels anymore but walking the carpet was you know it's really weird okay there's a hierarchy and I know we we talked about this earlier touched on at the hierarchy street walker a stripper escort or I'm
01:26:26Annie Lobertnot no no yeah where did you put ventriloquist on that list okay so that's a whole another level of a of a have any of you guys seen a vquest what's that wait that's a
01:26:39Annie Lobertspecial I sexual too like what's that up uh Charlie yeah Charlie yeah I loved him I wanted to I wanted to be a v c but anyway but so there's hierarchy so
01:26:52Annie Lobertthere's well I don't like to say this stre I don't want to hurt anyone Street Walkers and I'm sorry exotic dancers and if you called me a stripper I would get mad at you I'm an exotic dancer don't
01:27:03Annie Lobertcall me a stripper yeah they' get mad you know and then going they yed at me esorting and then no I'm not an escort I'm a call girl what are you talking about call okay I am not a street walker I'm a call girl in fact I'm a high class
01:27:16Annie Lobertcall girl because I saw nothing but at the very end I worked for the casinos the coner I work for nothing but people that no one knew about that were calling the escort services that was on the down
01:27:26Annie Lobertlow so yeah yeah strip clubs would even call and yeah and I hated the STP because they were our competition and they took a lot of the money yeah there
01:27:36Mercedeswas less strippers and Es bartender yeah it's like really misplaced how many clients have you SE I
01:27:46Mercedesfeel so vanilla I feel like I cuz it was something that I didn't really enjoy like I was just like oh mental health
01:27:54Mercedeslike could go without it um I'd say under within escorting maybe under 20 oh okay less than yeah I was like very vanilla with it okay Alice what about
01:28:06Alice Littleyou it all depends on how you define body count are these the people I have been with but does that extend to the people that those people have been with when you think about risk however and this is something I think is important
01:28:18Alice Littleto touch on here when you're calculating who are you being intimate with you also have to consider who are those other people being intimate with that is true we are professionals that are tested
01:28:29Alice Littleevery 7even days we are the most tested individuals on the planet nobody receiv received the same level of STD and STI testing you should be a
01:28:43Alice Littlepolitician we quite literally are professionals though so when you hear these large numbers also understand that we are routinely being tested we are
01:28:53Alice Littlevery risk aware we're using condoms and dental dams as required by law this isn't just like random hookups at a bar where people are having active I'm just
01:29:05Alice Littleasking total clients yeah I'm just asking total clients I mean easily over 3 to 5,000 easily easily without a problem it doesn't really matter because
01:29:16Alice Littlewe are doing so in a professional context would you not be nervous if your surgeon's like have operated on five whole people I'd be like no thank you
01:29:26Alice Littleget away from me with those tools I don't trust you in your experience yet so I think it's a good thing do you oh well I think well are you're saying
01:29:38Alice Littlewithin the context of seeing a sex worker you would want somebody who's experienced a professional absolutely like do you think
01:29:46Alice Littlegenerally Grand oh my God I have learned so much in my experience over time from when I first started in this industry and I give a much better experience now as compared to back then everyone
01:29:59Alice Littlestilled the difference between quality versus quantity and everybody has moved away from the oh I want to see more people and instead everyone's focused on oh I want to be more selective more
01:30:10Alice Littlechoosy and it's a very different experience as a result of that that only comes from experience no well I do have kids I have 26 kids but they're all
01:30:20Alice Littlegoats goats are they the tiny ones Alice no I have full-sized goats they weigh like 200 adorable I love goats I don't
01:30:29Brian Atlasknow if I I don't know if the comparison to you'd want a surgeon who's had a lot who's done a lot of surgeries they're more experienced therefore I I don't
01:30:41Brian Atlasknow if that's an apt comparison because couldn't you make the argument that for example a woman who is prepared to sell her virginity could could command a much higher rate than than for a one-time sex
01:30:53Brian Atlassession than for example just a prostitute that's been prostituting actually no that is a myth that is something that I don't think that's a myth no it is something that has been
01:31:04Alice Littleactively attempted through the legal brel multiple times where we have done like virgin auctions where they've attempted to raise hundreds of thousands
01:31:14Alice Littleof dollars potentially for someone's virginity and in fact that virgin didn't really have a very easy
01:31:23Alice Littletime of making that a successful auction people weren't actually they wer on it for a virgin
01:31:33Brian AtlasForin really believe you I would wonder if I would be I would wonder if there's some sort of fraud going on supposedly there was a doct a
01:31:43Alice LittleVirgin last night well this is part of it they did like a doctor's check for this girl back in the day I mean but what is she's using tampons Alice she
01:31:54Mercedeshad no definitely don't you a virgin Ian I'm just saying virginity is an energy and I think it could be renewed over over wait
01:32:04Mercedeswhat yeah virginity can be renewed I think that virginity is that's a one and okay hold on I you can't renew that I was a virgin in Christ when I married
01:32:15Alice Littlemy husband we didn't have sex and energy sorry Nick sorry like yeah if you've had sex in a way that isn't consensual for the first time and
01:32:26Alice Littlethen you're choosing to have sex for the first time consensually I am choosing to now have sex that is the first time that you are having sex to end a sentence
01:32:37Alice Littleanything before that should not be considered in violation of that if somebody that's an extreme situation ex but it happens though so it's like if
01:32:46Mason Gregoireyou have consensual sex you're no longer a virgin yes once you Sho is that's I think I'm not sure if that's what she said but go ahead so I don't like to I
01:32:58Mason Gregoireso yes there is a side of me that says okay there is redemption in Christ I've said that many times on the show but I
01:33:07Mason Gregoirecan't I hate the rhetoric that is often pedal by people who have made choices in their life that
01:33:15Mason Gregoireare in so according to bi the Bible or in their own estimation not okay like I wish I wouldn't have made those decisions but then they try to absolve them and pretend like oh but that's not
01:33:28Mason Gregoirethat's not me anymore so all of it just goes away all of the baggage all of the like all the negatives like all of the things that are going to be carried into my future relationships like that's not
01:33:40Mason Gregoireme anymore so that it shouldn't even like enter into the equation like that's not going to have any bearing on our relationship like all of my past sexual experience if it if it has a bearing on
01:33:53Mercedesyour relationship that's a personal choice like if you're triggered by the fact that a girl that you you know marry has had ex- seexual Partners that's your choice to be triggered by that so it's
01:34:04Mason Gregoireyes it's a choice but it's also an objective fact like there are physical emotional like spiritual ramifications for the choices you make regardless if
01:34:14Mason Gregoireyou want to acknowledge it or not not saying you don't acknowledge it but a lot of people they have this very um what's what the phrase I'm trying to
01:34:26Mercedeslook for it's instant gratification and then no um oh gosh I feel like what you're speaking to is by is bypassing so like someone who hasn't integrated their
01:34:38Mercedesexperience in is bypassing like oh yeah like whatever I did that versus someone who's done the healing work and who's been able to come into a space of
01:34:47Mason Gregoireunderstanding like God's um value like how God values them um and then also someone who's been able to just own their experience like so I I I
01:34:58Mason Gregoireremembered the word it's so having all of these things in your life that are going to damage future relationships but refusing to take accountability for those that's bypassing yeah yeah so refusing to take accountability for
01:35:10Mason Gregoirethose things that have happened like I have had relationships where I'm starting to talk to a girl and she'll like okay this is a decent looking dude um like green flag and then all of a
01:35:22Mason Gregoiresudden I'll bring something up that I'm like I have a strong opinion about and I'll be like these are my like this is what I'm looking for and a wife um this like I want to be her to be a mother all
01:35:33Mason Gregoirethese things and then the conversation will start to come up where it's okay I I understand this person has a past and I want to communicate to them that's not a deal
01:35:46Mercedesbreaker I want to understand where you're coming from let's work through that together and a lot of of girls are turned off by that really it's because it's not the one
01:35:56Mason Gregoirethat's for you I totally agree I I agree person that's for you I so I would say that a lot of girls are turned off by that because they don't want to be accountable for what they've done and
01:36:08Mason Gregoirethey don't want to go through the emotional Rel and relationship work to be able to work through that and to develop a good health relationship of what they've done and you should make them feel that way and I know how some
01:36:20Olivia Bentleyguys they're they're they are turned on by the fact that I've been with other men they are turned on by the fact that I'm experienced I know men that are turned on like they want other men to want me you know you have got guys like
01:36:32Olivia Bentleythat like and they're not necessarily clients I've just met my guys out on The Dating beat um you know everybody ticks to a different yeah I know what you mean Everyone likes a desirable partner and
01:36:44Alice Littlewhen you are with somebody who is desirable you then feel more desired butel is off the charts there are very few high value that will want these
01:36:54SPEAKER_06women not to be confused with highth men who pay for sex like they pay for parking goodness one my
01:37:03Annie Lobertgosh anyway couple days in man go for this this is my um my Miracle but I don't even want to say that because
01:37:13Annie Lobertlove it supersedes all sin and when Christ came he dissolved that at the cross yes that blood dropping off that cross when it hit the
01:37:25Annie Lobertground I love Jesus it made me a virgin in Christ and for my husband to put that ring on my finger right here and tell me
01:37:36Annie Lobertthat I was beautiful MH that I was chosen by him that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me no matter how many men I had been with and how many horrible stories might come up in our relationship and me realizing yes
01:37:48Annie Lobertthose are horrible stories but you are my pillow yeah because you are the man of God that I chose in Christ that sees me as a virgin in in your eyes and see
01:37:59Annie Loberthis eyes are redeemed because he really believes what Jesus did and when he looks at me I'm in that white wedding dress like Billy says nice day for a white wedding baby can I ask you guys a
01:38:11Olivia Bentleyquestion what do you think that Christ thinks about the extraterrestrials I want I want to I want to ask what do you think that Christ thinks about that he loves we can
01:38:21Mason Gregoireget to that later but I I want to ask you a question Rec that in the Bible like so as you started your marriage with uh what was his name again Oz Oz
01:38:32Mason Gregoireyes as you started with your marriage with Oz like did you have to like how was the relationship work that needed to be done like so was there baggage from
01:38:43Mason Gregoirethe experience you had as a sex worker like how was that unpacked in your relationship was it difficult um like what did that look like oh what does it look like yeah what does it look like is
01:38:55Annie Lobertstill an ongoing struggle it's every sing and today I was listening to one of my uh friends Victor Marx I'm going to give a shout out to Victor Marx he had a very bad childhood and he had a lot of
01:39:07Annie Loberttrauma and one of the things that was done to him as a child was there was a gun put to his head and it was click click click Russ roulette so I had one of my exes do that to me actually two
01:39:18Annie Lobertbut one in particular quite frequently did that to me and he would spin the chamber so I got I got triggered and I started crying but here he comes over on the other side of the hotel room to hug
01:39:29Annie Lobertme and say it's okay mhm just I mean letting me cry in that space because I forgot about that memory in specifics so it's a it's a daily thing but it's not
01:39:40Annie Lobertunmanageable so this is the point I was trying to make he loves me enough to exactly to do that to be that man like Hosea was ordered to marry go yep even though she most beautiful name in the
01:39:52Mason GregoireBible goer as a woman was I agree he freed her so that that's something that's it is important to recognize yes there is forgiveness
01:40:03Mason Gregoireoffered by Christ but it doesn't absolve I mean so yes it absolves the responsibility of your sin but it doesn't erase the ramifications like the work that you have to do it doesn't
01:40:16Annie Loberterase like the issues that it's going to bring up in your life can I I want to speak to that too don't forget cuz I want to say this because don't forget what you say it's there that is part of our relationship
01:40:27Annie Lobertmagic and I just say love and beauty and awesomeness and incredibleness is the fact that we are together because he loves me because of my past too he
01:40:38Annie Lobertmarried my past yeah yeah and my future and my current status so it makes him love me deeper and it bonds us closer I
01:40:47Annie Lobertcan't explain it it's supernatural it is so Supernatural and I love it that he loves me enough to deal with me and I deal with him CU he's got trauma too yeah exactly I mean OB he's a sinful man
01:40:59Mason Gregoirehe's going to bring stuff to the table that is not ideal but I guess as we're speaking to the audience like there's not not everyone who's watching this is going to be like I'm a sex worker and
01:41:09Mason Gregoirethat's going to enrich enrich my future marriage yeah like so sitting here what's your message to people watching like
01:41:19Mason Gregoiredo should I seek after a sinful lifestyle so I might have a rich marriage in the future or is it I need
01:41:29Mason Gregoireto obey the word of God and like honor What He commands me and that will set me up for a healthier relationship in the future I think whoever's watching needs to First figure out why are they seeking
01:41:42Annie Loberta relationship in the first place and love them themselves first yeah first and foremost But realize hey who created me oh if they're an atheist or if they believe in God figure out what and who
01:41:54Annie Lobertthey are and for me as a tiny little girl somewhere deep down on my soul I knew I was created by someone bigger than me and that that's what settled me
01:42:05Annie Loberton my OD date I mean MH yeah and I don't want to force anyone to believe what I believe at this table or anywhere on the internet but what I know is I have peace now I have joy I have the best life that
01:42:18Annie LobertI could have if I had not lived that lifestyle I don't know if I would be where I'm at right now but I do know this I have the wisdom of a thousand years and when Christ comes to rule with us for a
01:42:30Annie Lobertthousand I'm going to be like I got you so yeah not bragging about myself this has got nothing no we all feel love with inside of me and I love all of you here because all of you have been through
01:42:41Annie Lobertsomething including the men and we all are hurting but we're also feeling the love and and the and the healing from it as well yeah so I I got some being a
01:42:51Annie Loberthuman question ask the questions right you have a son I we'll talk later you have I have children inherited three children inherited with my husband kids I have a
01:43:02Brian Atlasdaughter uh if you ever have sons or if you do have a son would you want your son to see a
01:43:11Olivia Bentleyprostitute why not I would my son has your son has he did see an S he didn't see you did you so that might be that's
01:43:21Olivia Bentleydude take it back do it take back the show started like what not to talk about Sweet Home Alabama bu I think incest is
01:43:31Laurenactually on the table did he did he was it was after like did you did he talk to you before did he talk to you before like hey I think I'm going to do do oh
01:43:41Olivia Bentleyhe did talk to you before those what did how did that conversation goally um I just discussed that there's a way to do it and I advocated that he would see somebody at at the legal brothel and and
01:43:53Olivia Bentleymake an appointment if that's what he wanted to do and he um was in a relationship for a high school sweetie for years and years and years and then they broke up and he said I think I'd
01:44:04Olivia Bentleylike to go you know see a companion and he did and he said well it was fun but okay over it he goes I'm I'm kind of a relationship kind of guy and and I want
01:44:14Olivia Bentleyto just get on with it and work and um he wants kids because so I had an art studio um for several years and he
01:44:26Olivia Bentleymanaged it and he worked and we worked with kids and we did Art parties and he loves kids and so he's like you know eventually I'd like to be a father and um I'm a kind of a oneperson kind of guy
01:44:38Olivia Bentleyand that was an interesting experience but I've taught him to respect women period MH whether you know under under any circumstances and I've and I've
01:44:49Olivia Bentleytaught him about the cortison and the history of the cortison and um we used to be king [ __ ] back in the day we used to be at the top of the totem pole and why that Dynamic has changed
01:45:00Brian Atlasit's it's misogyny misogyny it's men wanting to be in control well that's even where they they tried labeling Mar prostitute well they have the concubines
01:45:11Olivia BentleyK what what specifically is misogyny what like what what what are you talking about like like this like this guy over here man explaining to us that like we're all Sinners and stuff and he's a virgin and he's he's hasn't even had a
01:45:22Olivia Bentleyrelationship wouldn't he be the perfect person to call you Sinners I guess he not hypocritical you're a virgin yeah yeah
01:45:33Annie Lobertyeah I know that don't you love you know that I know I'm shocked I didn't know love it not a born again virgin either really cool beautiful I think it's beautiful I think it's all good don't
01:45:46Brian Atlastell me what to do don't tell me what you think is best for me you know I I just it's it's not for me what why is he a misogynist though that's why is he a misogynist I I I don't need somebody like coming on this panel like saying
01:45:58Olivia Bentleythat like we we shouldn't be doing what we're doing like I mean I thought you know like this is a very sex positive group of of ladies and um what we do is very empowering and what we provide um
01:46:10Olivia Bentleyis very positive and I have provided a lot of amazing experiences for couples and Men alike and the relationships that I've cultivated been been very very
01:46:22Olivia Bentleyamazing on both ends what they do for me what specifically did he say that you object to um I I just feel like just yeah I mean I yeah I'm not even
01:46:34Brian Atlasdown with like the biblical stuff and it's just it's not yeah okay but so what specifically did he say that was misogynistic um I just feel like I'm not
01:46:45Olivia Bentleya sinner I'm not I'm not sinning by by doing my job by do by being by being a provider um and that's something that you've you you've even stated and you are you are a Godly woman you are a very spiritual
01:46:56Mercedeswoman I don't think that it's sinning I isn't premarital sex sinning yeah 100% but that's an that's so okay ahead if the Bible says sorry I don't believe
01:47:06Olivia Bentleythat I don't believe in the Bible horse pucky it's crazy there are aliens on this planet at this point guys we're we're seeing UFOs where did the aliens
01:47:17Olivia Bentleycome from go back where did the aliens come come on and and the scriptures that I busted out on Candace she couldn't even just sat there like what they made
01:47:27Olivia Bentleyno sense at all they were so crazy and she just said well um I could give you a Bible lesson if you'd like one it's like cherry picking and what about all the other religions have you had an experience with way back did you were
01:47:39Olivia Bentleyyou abducted did Abu take world religion in college because guess what there's a gazillion other religions that came well before Christianity yeah so don't sit there and act all freaking high and
01:47:52Olivia Bentleymighty like you know it all and you got it all figured out you don't have it figured out I'm curious about the alien experience what you don't have you saw you as a client
01:48:02Brian Atlaswas were you Pro you want to is there not guys
01:48:12Brian Atlastheom like Bentley Olivia Bentley Olivia Bentley confirm or deny was there alien probing this is the the the Congress or or on me
01:48:24Brian Atlasyou you talked there was there's Al you said there's aliens there are aliens has have you a client that was do you have a client that's alien you don't know we're all aliens whoa whoa whoa who wait what I don't
01:48:37Olivia Bentleyknow what do you mean you don't know I don't think so are you not able to to I I was there probing I believe that there are aliens I think we know Congress is already talking about it they've already confessed like we know that that they
01:48:49Olivia Bentleyexist I saw you doesn't that directly like conflict with the Bible of ancient you know years and I'm not saying like I'm very spiritual believe when we die
01:49:01Brian Atlasthere's something else and that's very great that's very that's a positive speaking of this I just tell me like it is what is the uh what is the religious the Christian view on extraterrestrial
01:49:14Mason Gregoirelife forms yeah it's a fair question actually so uh interesting you bring this up the person who is who brought all of this
01:49:23Annie Lobertinto the public eye is the lead singer of Blink 182 oh and so I'm a blink fan anyway love them um I know the people on the field by the way I know people
01:49:33Mason Gregoirepersonally oh pleas really good friends that are I I got tickets to go see them this coming year but I mean I'm talking about people that interacted with real
01:49:43Mason Gregoirealiens um so oh yeah he and this is kind of like I agree with him on this he doesn't think that it is interplanetary
01:49:53Mason Gregoirelike they don't come from very far away it's interdimensional so so how we see this in the Bible is there is a spiritual war that is happening that we
01:50:04Mason Gregoirecan't see there are spiritual forces that we cannot see so there's a story I can't remember the prophet eel is it the
01:50:11Mason GregoireLI I think eel yeah where uh so a fire chariot's a fire yeah so exactly yeah so he's he is uh there is an army
01:50:23Mason Gregoiresurrounding the city and uh people are like how are we going to defeat them what's going to happen and he says don't worry God is God is going to protect us
01:50:33Mason Gregoireand he can see this massive spiritual Army of angels ready to destroy the Army in surrounding the city and people can't
01:50:42Alice Littlesee do you think about there are spiritual forces that we can't see no this sounds like anime now we got to stop for a second is this NE Genesis
01:50:52Alice Littlehere like this is okay so you as me this sounds really Fantastical where in the Bible is it talking about invisible I