Single Mom With Neck Tattoo Wants TOP 1% MAN?! | Dating Talk #67

Date: 2023-03-29
Duration: 4h 08m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Alicia Waldner(guest)
SPEAKER_04Grady(guest)
SPEAKER_05Ben Samuels(guest)
SPEAKER_06Arlen Moore(guest)
SPEAKER_07Elo Musk(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brett Sanchez Smith(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Ellis(guest)
SPEAKER_12Soul(guest)
SPEAKER_13Lexi Pantera(guest)
SPEAKER_14Ivy Wolf(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:09
QuoteLexi Pantera introduces herself claiming to be 21, declares herself "the baddest bitch alive", and says she will "forever and always" be 21.

My name is Lexi Pantera I'm a singer songwriter actress dancer and an entrepreneur and the baddest bitch alive... I am proudly 21 years old and wherever and forever will be here

00:12:35
OtherBrian recognizes Lexi Pantera from a 52 million view twerking in public video they collaborated on 7 years ago; Lexi initially does not remember him.

that's wild I didn't recognize... do you remember this video twerking in public 52 million views wait seven years ago

00:23:03
OtherSoul reveals she accepted men paying for babysitters (10-12 times) so she could go on dates after recently immigrating to America.

I don't remember actually because I don't count and it was like oh I get money okay

00:28:49
ControversySoul tells Brian he does not understand her experience because he is a white man; Brian pushes back saying bringing up skin color is racist.

you was not uh moving to another country like when you was an adult and you're not a woman if what is what does my skin color have to do with this privilege

01:39:59
QuoteElo Musk tells Brian he is close-minded because he only wants to date a narrow group of women.

I think you're close-minded because you only want to date oh my god

02:13:05
QuoteLexi runs the delusional calculator for her partner requirements: Black man age 28-42, minimum income $500k (she says it is too low), resulting in 0.011% of men.

500 500k is too low it's laughable the highest you might as well keep that find out... 0.011

02:19:55
QuoteSoul concedes her future husband is in the bottom 9% because he does not yet make enough money, but says he will.

Ryan my husband's just not in nine percent because he's still not making that money right now but he will so

03:43:53
Key MomentPatrice O'Neal clip played at end of show; Brian asks what guests would do if they lost their genitals in a train accident to keep their man.

what that mouth do so look around the table we're bringing a girlfriend in

03:57:25
OtherLexi responds to super chat insult about her mom by saying she beat up the last person who talked about her mom.

the last person that talked about my mom I beat his ass by the way so you better watch your goddamn mouth

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

00:00:00
Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

00:15:00
Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

00:15:00
Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

00:45:00
Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

00:45:00
Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

01:10:00
High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

01:10:00
High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

01:55:00
Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

01:55:00
Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

01:58:59
Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

01:58:59
Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

02:05:00
OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

02:05:00
OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

02:13:20
Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

02:13:20
Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

02:40:00
Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

02:40:00
Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

03:24:00
Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

03:24:00
Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

03:43:53
Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

03:43:53
Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

Transcript

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01:54:09
Souleasy sure and the last seven years of my life the craziest one after I got pregnant it's like they're crazy like I'm in stress almost every time last
01:54:19
Soulfive years I'm okay right it doesn't buy happiness yeah so and uh I don't believe that I deserve like their bare minimum
01:54:29
SoulI'm not I know that I will meet a person who I deserve because I like right now I know that dating and late it sucks and I had this mindset so I changed my mindset
01:54:40
Soullike oh I will get a really nice guy in L.A and this has to manifest and think about that concentrate on that and I started dating a guy who's like awesome are they like oh my God I was like I have so many options because oh these
01:54:52
Soulguys are nice he's like Laura he's a smart he's like super polite these guys he's like fashion designer but still like very spiritual and very like super successful not like too artistic like
01:55:04
Soulcrazy and I'm like ah I'm changing my mindset so I'm getting these like successful guys they're not rich they're regular guys but they get in already their own [ __ ] they can afford living in
01:55:15
Soulthe two bedrooms just because they want and all that stuff so it's like you're not dating a guy who's like renting a room in L.A I'm I'm not dating like
01:55:25
Soulthese okay guys so and I I already saw I already see that I was like I can potentially build a [ __ ] Empire with these guys just because he's smart he's successful I'm the same and can we we
01:55:37
Soulcan build together like I want to have the flag of my family I want to have like specific like stuff or and like you know just build an Empire not just like a
01:55:49
Brian Atlasregular family I'm gonna build in Parks okay I'm I'm not saying this to be mean but you're delusional I'm not saying that to me but you're delusional okay I
01:55:58
Souldon't care because I'm super excited because like no one believe me my mom doesn't believe me no all my friends they like
01:56:12
Brian Atlaslook if you prove me wrong that's great for you I'm not gonna prove you I don't care I just gonna like but that would be great for you however you're you're looking for a less than one percent man
01:56:22
Souland you yes you are she's a one percent female no she's not you're not yes she is you're not in you know you're not good value you're not know me you didn't know what I put in a table in
01:56:33
Brian Atlasrelationships the most part the most a single uh you're a single mother you are not so you are not I'm not saying this to be mean but you are not you know what I mean let me finish okay you're not in
01:56:43
Soulthe one percent of desirable Partners out there you're just not okay you might be a fantastic person okay you might be a fantastic person between the guys who's like oh I would love to care about
01:56:55
Soulyour kid because I want to have a kid uh I see you as a great mom and it's not even the guys who I'm dating it's like bunch of people in my DMs they they feel my energy they see me on the social
01:57:06
Soulmedia as like really authentic person they like always get make it that's great accomplishments like how great mom I am and yeah I'm I'm okay with that with your opinion it's in your opinion I
01:57:20
Brian Atlasdon't care that's I mean that's wonderful that you're authentic I think authenticity is a great trait to have however I just based off of all the things you've provided you're looking
01:57:30
Soulfor a less than one percent man and it's possible but it's not probable so what or do you want me to low my
01:57:40
Soulstandards or what what you're like well I if you want to find I'd rather to be alone than agree
01:57:49
Elo Muskwith their bare minimum peer there it is that's why no but that's why I feel like I would disagree with you because if you find somebody who's like that's your freaking real love and you have that
01:58:01
Elo Muskconnection and this is all and he's not going to be able to give you exactly that oh what if he can't even have kids okay whatever you can no kids is like super fast like no okay but then what if
01:58:12
Elo Muskokay so then again and then what if money will the time money will come what if he has the money and he's amazing the best person ever and he's black but he can't have children
01:58:25
Soulum we just not we're just not going a point where I figure out that he's a great person if a person tell me if a person tell me like I can't have a kids and
01:58:36
Soulit's like 100 like and I don't want a kid we're just not go on a second date period so it's a non-negotiable and kids not okay it's like I don't I don't see
01:58:47
Brian Atlasmyself having one kid I want to have a lot of kids it's just my value let's um here let me do some super chats and then we're gonna pull up the delusional calculator so we can get an actual number it's so annoying so we can get an actual number on this
01:58:59
Brian Atlasum actually really quick here uh we're gonna go around the table Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten um Lexi you first read our looks great
01:59:14
Alicia Waldnercorrect with a hint of narcissism I'm a 10 with a henna narcissism and seven you're ten of course I always have a 10-2 self-love baby into the mics guys
01:59:26
Brett Sanchez SmithI would say attend um eight always room for improvement gentlemen bro you're more than the four shut up shut up dude show us the double box with
01:59:39
Brett Sanchez Smithmy clothes off if I'm about to compete I'm like an eight only for my body oh okay what about you ten thank you
01:59:51
Arlen Mooreso 10. um I think well I think uh with the male population probably I would personally wreck myself probably
02:00:03
Arlen Moorebetween a six or seven but my girlfriend tells me I'm a 10 so that's all that matters right
02:00:11
GradyI cannot adorable okay with a solid six okay yeah down with it yeah honestly the lower the better because life is so good that you know if
02:00:24
Brian AtlasI if I can get away with the life that I have being a six I think it's way cooler than what about myself six all right there's no tens at this table I'm just gonna say there's definitely
02:00:36
Gradyten to the table don't play the you guys have a man all right let me let me ask you this honey what is what is it 10 what is a 10 out of 10 relationship partner Beyond physical
02:00:47
Gradywhat does that look like to you oh 10 out of 10. yeah this is all perspective I mean I mean of course it is of course it is but I'm asking Brian what what
02:00:55
Gradychecks every box like I mean I mean physically emotionally mentally looks no I mean I mean as a partner what do you look for sure uh well I would say first
02:01:07
Brian Atlasoff uh no forehead tattoo just kidding I'm kidding um all right that's about what's the phone yeah is that like from an animator
02:01:19
Soulwhat is the forehead tattoo no it's a symbol of feminine masculine energy the Moon and Sun from what culture from what culture it's just a symbol I just found it on Pinterest you just found it it's a
02:01:31
Elo MuskPinterest tattoo can I see it I I it's it's actually the moon uh Rising women yeah sensorizing women I have that tattoo it's like your feminine masculinity okay um so yeah as far as what I'm looking
02:01:43
Brian Atlasfor in a girl that would be like a perfect 10 personality wise first off I don't think anyone's a 10 in any regard but uh peace if she can bring me peace that's a big one loyalty fidelity
02:01:56
Brian Atlaslow body count what's your why is it low body count important yeah I mean the vagina feel different yeah wait wait it's important to me too uh just basically don't I mean there's a
02:02:10
Brian Atlaston of reasons don't want the Town Bicycle don't want a higher likelihood of getting an STD there's a higher likelihood of infidelity higher likelihood of divorce higher likelihood of reporting relationship to
02:02:20
Brian Atlassatisfaction the as the as it as your number of premarital sexual partners increases so do so too do all these uh things I just listed also it's just
02:02:31
Brian Atlasgross like a woman who with a high body count that's a pro that's a proxy for promiscuity so to me I don't want to even date a girl who's sleeping with another guy like I I want a girl to come properly single if she's going to date me so the
02:02:45
Brian Atlasthought of going on a date with a girl kissing a girl hooking up with a girl and she's [ __ ] another dude to me that's disgusting so body count is a proxy for promising are you are you a serial monogamist like like a Shook Up culture just not something you're
02:02:57
Brian Atlasinterested in engaging in I'm not interested in hook up hookup culture I have no interest in one night stands if I sleep with the girl I want there to be a continuity yeah that's sweet and cute we don't need
02:03:09
Brian Atlasa lot of men like you right I 100 agree with their values on that thank you man cool yeah I if I sleep with a girl I want to continue seeing her I would never sleep with a girl with the intention of ever
02:03:19
Soulsleeping with her yeah just one time Ryan you won't date me listen I I understand you we go way back seven years ago that's also why I was asking earlier the tension the passion's there
02:03:32
Brett Sanchez Smiththat's why I was also asking earlier if like replying to only fans would be like cheating because there's emotional cheating too uh well you know the thing with only fans is and I kind of get dragged for
02:03:43
Brian Atlasthis I ideally I wouldn't date a girl who has only oh no no I would not yeah I've I've never dated a girl who has only fans however I would I would date a girl who did solo content
02:03:56
Brian AtlasI've it's never happened if I put two two girls together I'd prefer to date the girl without the only fans what's the difference between solo content and only fans well like a girl
02:04:08
Brian Atlaslong only fans could like be doing like porn like [ __ ] other dudes oh no so she's [ __ ] other dudes on camera like no way so if she's like DJing it by herself
02:04:30
Brian Atlasuh yeah I suppose that would be okay it's not ideal though okay especially but without we can make things work Brian personal preference I would not want to
02:04:40
Brett Sanchez Smithdate someone the amount of I don't know about opposed to me Lexi are you gonna propose to me Lexie I like this ring from my perspective if another man is
02:04:53
Brett Sanchez Smithpaying 10 or 20 dollars Amazon for seven bucks if another man's paying 10 or 20 dollars to watch a girl's you know doing her thing um and I have to pay like way more than
02:05:04
Soulthat just to even get to that level like I think that's I'm not very cool I'm not being a provider for a chick with only fans okay but but you're a regular girl who
02:05:19
Lexi Panteralike I had this come back to what I said I had to because you guys put us in a hard spot men put us in a hard spot you want a woman that doesn't work but then you don't want to work well we moved on we
02:05:31
Lexi Panteramoved on from that no we haven't well there was like a million questions oh I do too much so I can't you know that there's a there's a thing there that we're in between now it's either you want a woman that doesn't work or you want a woman that works
02:05:43
Lexi Panterathat has maybe less time so where the hell do we survive that I'm not really following the question so you want women
02:05:54
Lexi Panteraa girl basic men don't want a woman usually that works too much that's not available when they want that has a [ __ ] career and passionate job a blah blah because they're always busy and they're making money depending all these things and then
02:06:08
Brian Atlassuddenly you don't want a broke [ __ ] it's just like you I want a man that's going to pay for me and support me and blah blah blah so it's like well what do you want I think you can find guys that are would be happy to have a 50 50 and I
02:06:19
Brian Atlasthink you are happy to find guys that uh would be willing to be the sole Breadwinners and be willing to be the traditional provider type I think
02:06:29
Brian Atlasthere's guys that are happy to be 50 50 and there's guys that are cool being the provider agree it's just about finding the guy she she kind of repulsed around
02:06:40
Brian Atlasthe term uh you kind of recoiled when I said 50 50 you find that disgusting I guess no no no no I don't know okay I don't know I've done it you don't you don't get pregnant you don't know
02:06:50
Lexi Panterabreastfeeding it's it shouldn't be 50 50. okay I'm as the man even the man is a problem makes them very very very insecure some men sure most yes yeah I
02:07:01
Lexi Panteramean but it is the case though that I think women are unsatisfied in those relationships too well the man feels like they can't provide or give anything to the woman so they feel like oh well what does she want what does she need me
02:07:13
Lexi Panterafor I mean what can I give her that she can't give herself and then they start being insecure then they start going to the bottom of the barrel women that just don't do [ __ ] or whatever you want to call that and then they go and usually [ __ ] around with
02:07:24
Elo Muskthem you said you did a lot of narcissists right yeah which they do that but those were the women the men that are already in to find a man that's a pretty big leap of logic that wouldn't happen then yeah
02:07:36
Arlen Moorehe's gonna be proud of you for making that money and making appetite is really [ __ ] because yeah all of the guys I've dated are very insecure yeah like do you want a husband do you want a
02:07:46
Arlen Moorefamily yeah I want a husband what do you like what's your one percent man build lifestyle I want a husband that can match my lifestyle well you said you're the
02:07:59
Lexi Panteranumber one only fans earner so he's making like you're making like you're making what like half a million a month for me because of the insecurity it comes with how you must be making more
02:08:09
Lexi Panterathan half a million a month right now no no you're making six figures you know oh most subscribers I'm one subscriber person but that doesn't mean I'm making the most money got it okay so what's his what's his income
02:08:30
Arlen Moorewhat is it I would say over two hundred thousand okay a month all right and then you're you're what like five eleven five ten five seven you're five seven oh okay you look taller for some reason okay I
02:08:43
Lexi Panterathought you were taller too than that oh yeah the the this it's very slim to none men but I have dated the opposite and I've had zero absolutely zero luck with them and you need a specific ethnicity
02:08:55
Arlen Mooreno no not even like American or what they are where they're from no you don't care if they're from Brazil Asia or whatever I don't care
02:09:05
Arlen Mooreokay will you move for them yes okay all right so what what's your ideal lifestyle um my
02:09:19
Lexi Panteratravel and have one or two houses Maybe okay maybe a Birkin or two yeah um yeah no that's it I mean I want to be
02:09:31
Lexi Panteracomfortable okay so you want a guy I pay for that myself but I'd like the guy to match that yes okay okay so what do you think is preventing
02:09:42
Arlen Mooreyou from getting that the guys my my type that I go for but that that actually seems actually a lot less specific than I'm sorry I forget your name but that's actually
02:09:53
Arlen Moorewhat soul okay so into the mics guys just well so you want a guy that's making like roughly two at least 200k a year you want a couple properties oh okay that's where it came in oh yeah you
02:10:06
Brian Atlaswant the guy who makes 200k a month I said they need to match my lifestyle or more yeah and so you're making 200k a month around about okay that's what I said okay okay
02:10:18
Lexi Panteragirl now it's not a lot of people no but she needs a guy to match her her level yeah I'm not making that much secure guys and I'm not saying that I have guys around me all the time that have a lot of guy
02:10:31
Lexi Panterafriends like I don't feel like I do anything to make them insecure if anything I'm very supportive and all these things right and I can I help them but it makes them feel very small and it makes them feel demasculated Damascus
02:10:44
Lexi Panterawhatever the hell the word is it just it doesn't it doesn't work out for me I'd date a girl who makes more than me I wouldn't wouldn't really bother me with yourself but there's really not a lot of men that are like that yeah they
02:10:54
Lexi Panterareally aren't and so that that has been my problem and I did date a guy that made good money a little like less than me but he made good money but his lifestyle was very very um he did we didn't want the same things
02:11:07
Lexi Panteraso he didn't like to travel that much he didn't want to own other properties you know I was just like okay well I'll show myself with you when they start to get insecure what is that what does that look like
02:11:19
Lexi Panteraum they put you down welcome to therapy putting you down they try to control you too they try to control you may be talking to the girls or they it's very controlling
02:11:28
Elo Muskwhat you're wearing who you're hanging out with try to make your your success
02:11:36
Brian Atlashow can I make them lower than I am because I feel low wait so you like I have a question did you have an issue where for example a guy maybe you were dating him for a couple months and he for example didn't want you going to the
02:11:49
Brian Atlasclub or to a party or bar because you mentioned like controlling what you wear controlling what you do is that kind of what you mean I kind of really want to do that so that's really not a problem what do you
02:12:00
Soulwhat do you carefies for relationships because I I remember I made a list where like oh this is a guy like less than one percent and I know like I can sacrifice let's do it I will not sacrifice my career or that my passions that I'm
02:12:12
Lexi Panteradriven like that's definitely I'm not gonna do that and I know in my industry I have a certain time frame where I have you know it's about time you give it up type of thing I'm very aware of that and so
02:12:23
Lexi PanteraI'm willing to kind of put things on the back burner a little bit and do other things when I want to settle down have kids and do all that yeah sure okay I think you do want kids though right you want kids you want to get married okay
02:12:35
Brian Atlasand uh so Eric I want to pull it back up for her can we do the digital calculator okay so I'm we're gonna have you fill this in uh um Eric scroll down just a tad
02:12:47
Brian Atlasum so what's the ideal age of let's just make this 33 or 42. 2 between 33 and 42. exclude someone who's already married
02:12:59
Brian Atlasobviously yes okay uh race put it that's black minimum height how tall does he have to be I'm five two so I don't care like everything like well taller than
02:13:14
Brian AtlasMegan for like four you could put like five four three okay five four okay five four uh exclude obese do you want to exclude obese yes
02:13:25
Brian Atlasuh minimum income you're gonna have to Max that because of what you want a month or like that's a year you just have to Max it you're gonna have to Max for what she wants um okay go ahead find out
02:13:37
Ellisum wow okay zero that doesn't make sense okay this program the limit does not exist yeah I don't care there's no black man but do you see do you see what I
02:13:50
Soulmean like why why I said you're delusional I think yeah it's not real like [ __ ] program and you're trying to prove that I am Ron in my thoughts it's the Census Bureau huh that's the
02:14:01
Brian Atlaswell never mind but I don't care do you see this cat bag right here captain
02:14:13
Brian Atlasyes wow I don't like cats sponsorship I thought so too that was incredible that was incredible wait oh one thing going back to uh Stifler's uh
02:14:25
Brian Atlasask yourself to rate everyone on the scale of one to ten um uh would would you guys hide this Eric
02:14:33
Brian Atlasyou guys down to revise your answer yeah I have some makeup remover I look better without makeup I wanted to come completely without makeup but I
02:14:45
Souldidn't know how it looked I'm I don't wear makeup at all in real life that's hilarious dermatologist recommended so does anybody want to revise their answer should we know
02:14:59
Brian AtlasEric pull it back up we're gonna do Lexi's uh delusional calculator when the money's delusional honey
02:15:08
Brian Atlasare you about to rap I thought you were okay uh can you give him your answers um you know age
02:15:17
Lexi PanteraI mean up to like 42 I think that's a good age we can go lower than 33 if we'd
02:15:23
Gradylike yeah like that's fine about 28. 28. thank you thank you to what to 42.
02:15:35
Lexi Panterahi um okay like I said I'm talking exclude obese oh into the mic into the mic in a year
02:15:46
Lexi Panterathat's too low 500 500k is too low it's laughable the highest you might as well keep that find out [ __ ] around and find out 0.011
02:15:58
Lexi Panterathere's hope I need that 0.11 to slide through my idea slime tour only fans dick size is that in there
02:16:09
Brian Atlaslike not enough questions you're right honey I don't yeah I agree well and and that's just off of those Soul questions I'm sure all of you have
02:16:20
Brian Atlasother you know uh disqualifying things you know personality is he physically attractive that's not even the component of it you know you gotta be there and then
02:16:31
SoulRyan my husband's just not in nine percent because he's still not making that money right now but he will so [Laughter]
02:16:45
Brian Atlasthat's [ __ ] cool just enjoy the cat food that is what I have to say Enjoy in my life and I know that's great oh my God so but you said manifest it like you you
02:16:57
Brian Atlascan't let me ask you a question do you think you can manifest anything yes so if I have terminal cancer I'm terminal I believe
02:17:07
Soulyou can heal the everything 100 yes if I if my arm gets chopped off can I heal my arm is that [ __ ] oh but it's like you cut your arm like you you can't put it together I thought you
02:17:19
Soulcould manifest anything no that's the robot arm it's like we're talking about the healing but you can you can't put the arm back it's just yeah it's just something we can't talk about that because we're going to be
02:17:32
Soulhere until tomorrow because yeah so you can talk about everybody's gonna happen I'm 100 sure about my mentality and mindset so you will you can feel any disease they say you can still feel it
02:17:43
Soulyou can heal any disease yes by yourself by mentality by your mind so somebody who has cancer whatever is that yeah you can have you heard it oh your teeth yes
02:17:55
Brian Atlashave you heard of the brain eating amoeba it's called Nigeria flowery I think the if you if you get it the death rate is like 97 99 can you heal that
02:18:06
Soulokay we're talking you're gonna ask no but it's a disease yeah I know but you're gonna continue to ask like oh what is about that this is what about I said my point 100 sure that you can heal
02:18:17
Soulany disease but what about this Soul listen I didn't finish it okay if the soul comes to this planet to die on a second day it's gonna die it it's the
02:18:28
Soulsame like her miscarriage when you lose a kid or when you use miscarry so if this so this kid like this baby inside didn't has like any
02:18:41
Soulchance to survive because it's not it's supposed to be like that this Soul came on that planet I'm too spiritual I told you this year they just came to this planet for for that purpose
02:19:02
Soulum Okay so have you heard of Joe dispenza sounds familiar what you should you should read the whole books please and
02:19:13
Brian Atlasthen we will talk okay okay so have you heard of prions I don't know what is that prions I don't know it's these I think it's uh I feel like we're going too far hold on come on hold on prions
02:19:25
Brian Atlasso it's basically proteins that are that have misfolded and it's basically like melts your brain do you think you can manifest healing if you have like prions how do you know about that it's like
02:19:36
Soulthere's a lot of scary [ __ ] out there guys don't don't do not Google hold on okay do not Google prions if you want to sleep tonight uh I I started in Medical College I can go where I will sleep so
02:19:48
Brian Atlascan you manifest the end of Promise listen the question like you born with that and then then you die the next day or like what uh well it depends but pretty much once it starts replicating or I don't know if that's the exact
02:20:00
Soulcorrect terminology can manifest so you're pretty much dead if you have prions yeah but the babies can manifest what like the babies can't just like or baby
02:20:12
Soulcome together with disease I'm talking about humans just any human who gets a prime so this disease you you just got it like infection or you was born with that or what um I think my understanding
02:20:24
Brian Atlasit you can get it it's I don't know if you've heard mad cow disease but you can get it through consuming it uh perhaps there's bloodborne ways you can get it um but basically like if you get it you
02:20:35
Souldie basically still the same you can't manifest so you can definitely people you can healers no body nope can't heal that my point is still the same what's
02:20:46
Soulyour point you can heal any disease if you're conscious enough through your mind that's it um don't even eat food you mentioned Joe dispenza please read his books and like his podcast wherever
02:21:00
Ellishe has like meditation everything what about what about Jesus raising the Dead can anything be done Fox manifestation he manifested himself to be alive again so anything's possible
02:21:10
Brian Atlasare you Jesus all right let me do a couple super chats here all right do you believe in Jesus I love Jesus yeah you believe in Jesus I love him
02:21:22
Ben Samuelsyeah okay I know him and I don't really believe in believing I believe in knowing have you seen the secret secret on YouTube no you should Google it the secret secret the secret
02:21:34
Lexi Panterathis is that like the sequel to The Secret no it's where they get all the terms like crystals I think okay here I gotta do some super chats MD thank you though here Lexi can you read this for
02:21:45
Lexi Panteraus I'm here for more
02:21:52
Brian Atlasdid we read that yeah I remember The Hobbit um
02:22:00
Lexi PanteraI think we haven't read this one go ahead it's hilarious that the girl getting paid Millions to do nothing that's me with no credentials what's kind of what does credentials really mean though things that white men are the most privileged class have some awareness are you saying that I'm the
02:22:13
Brian Atlasmost privileged sounds like it's jealous of you to be honest I don't think so but Levi thank you for the 100 Super Chat sorry that it took us a while to get to appreciate enough Jeremy Korea uh go ahead Lexi you've got a pleasant
02:22:26
Lexi Panteraspeaking voice the whole problem with the world is that fools and Fanatics are always so certain of themselves people are just so full of doubt Bertrand Russell mathematician logician philosopher Jeremy Korea thank you man
02:22:37
Lexi Panteraappreciate it go ahead Lexi just say you want a rich dude to take care of five kids and have multiple properties nothing wrong with wanting that a dude making that kind of money age 33 to 42 is in his prime and probably would not choose a 28 year old
02:22:50
Brian Atlassingle mother realistically what is your plan to get a guy like that yeah you have to ask yourself what does the guy that you want what does he want
02:23:01
Brian Atlaswell you can I put in a table hold on as a girl you can think well I want this this all these traits in the partner but you have to think well the guy that I want what does he want and if it's not
02:23:12
Lexi Panterayou you're from the relationship from me from a girl does he want you child 20 20. hey Lexie thank you I I just know what I put in the table that's it
02:23:27
Soulshe's conceded that she's delusional she she's optimistically delicious I don't think I think you're gonna go back to my point again and again and I will tell you again and
02:23:39
Brian Atlasagain the same [ __ ] don't beat the dead horse Brian yo PT cars um sorry I know this came this was a trigger for TTS just the TTS is still not working not sure what's going on uh
02:23:52
Brian Atlasso sorry about that but thank you man for your patience all right and then we have Matt T thank you for the hundred man uh hey Brian can you ask the ladies what they would tell a man who says he'd go on a date with them if she gives him a
02:24:04
Brian Atlashundred dollars to pay for a babysitter if being able to pull that off isn't a sign of privilege I don't know what is oh [ __ ] wait oh streamlabs is working again
02:24:14
Brian Atlasstream Labs working again hello okay I'll pull that one up again let me wait so let me I'll pull that one up again
02:24:22
Brian Atlasum so would you guys let's say you you met match with Guy and um he had a kid he had a son single father and he asked you you know you guys were trying to
02:24:34
Brian Atlasplan plan a date and he asked you hey could you pay me a hundred dollars uh for a babysitter so I can go on a date with you yeah what would your answer be let's start with you Lexi oh we had a dinner at that point like well it's not gonna happen
02:24:48
Lexi Panterawould you pay the guy I really liked him yeah you'd pay a hundred dollars for the babysitter that's fine
02:25:00
Elo Muskshe doesn't pay okay no the man that I'm gonna end up with doesn't need the hundred dollars for the babysitter okay that would never happen to me but hypothetically speaking I would say yes because if he's going to have a little
02:25:11
Elo Muskdate or something at the house or he comes over my house and we have a little date if he can't afford a date outside and he is a genuine good guy and he just is in a [ __ ] position and has a
02:25:23
Elo Muskchild that he has to right I bring all that bag I'll do it I mean we friends it doesn't mean that you're gonna be something I just don't I just don't think that any any man that has a potential husband just like her you know
02:25:35
Gradyit's a [ __ ] Tinder date so who knows if it's going to be your husband or your best friend or are you going to make it okay can I can I say something I just don't think that any dude that has a kid should be prioritizing going on dates
02:25:47
Gradyand if they have a kid that they can't even pay for you know you know like their number one priority should be getting enough money to take care of their kid before they're gonna get a good wife out of her cook clean sex blah blah blah I mean if the guy can't pay it
02:26:00
Alicia Waldnerwhat the hell else are we gonna get from the guy I mean that's just the bare minimum I mean I agree with you I personally I know I couldn't date somebody with a kid so I wouldn't even go there but I wouldn't also expect
02:26:10
Alicia Waldnersomebody to do that if I had a kid so um yeah I just I mean I kind of it just wouldn't be a situation I'm being I also was never on on any apps on dating apps I would never want to do that stuff yeah okay I would say hey I
02:26:23
Brian Atlaswant to take you on a date here's 100 for your babysitter that's the ultimate goal there yeah period um yo SoCal Surfer 805 that it did pop up on the screen but for some reason I don't know I'm not able to trigger it
02:26:36
Brian Atlasagain so uh I'll just read it question for the ladies what do you think about men who make decent money 130 to 200k but love to get high on Edibles and smash hot hot hookers all day dateable
02:26:46
Brian Atlasmust he lie he wants to make more money eventually but overall just chill surf eat be honest please what is this question it's kind of ridiculous but yeah how about just a thumbs up or thumbs down on that one sounded almost
02:26:58
Lexi Panteralike a guy I dated parents had money ate Edibles all day like to play a lot of video games basically he was like a 24 year old retired dude already didn't smash nipple
02:27:09
Brian Atlasbaby girls though no I'm speaking for all of us thank you okay uh good times all right so we have
02:27:20
Brian Atlastwo Miss super chats from last week that I need to get to uh this is from cheeks he he asks marriageable man or Instagram so would you get rid of your Instagram
02:27:32
Lexi Panteraor social media for a marriageable man Lexi you give up your career for a man is the question well you because I'm a
02:27:42
Brian Atlassinger so I need my Instagram social media no okay that's fine what about you no into the mic you gotta speak into them no same thing no no you're asking me to give up my career
02:27:55
Elo Muskand why wouldn't like absolutely not whether it's my career or not um I've done that before and he was a narcissistic [ __ ] and I had to divorce him so I would definitely say no times
02:28:06
Alicia Waldnerum yeah I have to agree no like I just for something like that I don't want to there's little things that I would change to be with somebody and yeah like it's just controlling and that just not
02:28:18
Brian Atlasgreat even yeah it's not [ __ ] healthy so what if he was willing to he was very wealthy and he was prepared to totally provide for you under those circumstances you don't like social media just because
02:28:31
Soulmoney money doesn't make the social media doesn't make you just I mean people through my social media to connect with their body to heal their body so it's like it's not just about
02:28:42
Soulmoney I'm really I see one of my purpose like to helping people with the certain things I wasn't I mean I'm still movement coaches that I don't just don't work right now but I'm helping people
02:28:52
Soulwith the posture so I use my social media just like yeah get this knowledge and like do like it doesn't make any principle it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship like why are you so insecure that you're making me do it
02:29:05
Alicia Waldneryeah like I wouldn't want to change that person that person shouldn't change me and regardless if they can pay for stuff that means nothing to me so no have you just tilt your microphone up just a tad
02:29:14
Brian Atlasthank you perfect yeah um well just on your point really quick so I I would say that
02:29:28
Brian Atlasyou said that you want to have six kids some perhaps for example for you your husband is looking to you to stay home and take care of the six children that you're going to have and you won't have time what a stay-home mom
02:29:39
Soulfor you like I need six kids that's a lot you can still work from home though you still can work you still can travel you still can do so many things and the
02:29:49
Soulcertain point kids are need a lot of attention but I can't imagine like my daughter right now four and I imagine if I have a house I even don't need a
02:30:00
Souldaycare school she gonna be outside I just need to prepare food for her she can go to the bathroom by herself I know how to teach her like basic things and she can just play outside so it's like
02:30:12
Soulshe doesn't needs me so like I see that um again this thing I mean maybe it's
02:30:22
Soullike delusional about that one but I see like it's easier to raise the kids when you have a huge land when you have like a money you have a house or kids need
02:30:33
Souljust space and entertainment and they can entertain themselves especially if it's like not one kid because like right now I'm living in there when my friend is like three kids they entertain each
02:30:44
Elo Muskother so it's like sure but he's saying whether or not if if the guy was to ask you to delete your Instagram otherwise he wasn't going to marry you and then he
02:30:54
Elo Muskcontinued saying oh but you're gonna you want six children and X Y and Z but her Instagram was her passive income so that already canceled your I thought but you said you want to do healing right
02:31:07
Brian Atlasso wouldn't that be like for example you do massage right so I mean you can't really make passive income from massage because that's a service I mean are you gonna make massage
02:31:17
Soulinstructional videos online courses I'm gonna do a retreat house um okay it's like online
02:31:26
SoulI'm selling my massage oil so it's like sure
02:31:37
Soulbecause like I'm gonna increase my price more and more and I just get like a higher value customers who like okay with my price and then like even tip so I don't have to period okay give her a
02:31:49
Arlen Mooregoddamn break um Arlen you wanted to come in yeah I've a lot on my mind but okay my first question is so you guys if you had to choose between your personal careers and having a family you
02:32:01
Lexi Panterayou would choose personal career but each of our careers are our happiness too it's not just family right but if you had to choose I'm not sure but if you had to choose
02:32:11
SoulKorea as a hobby so it shouldn't be like you so like right now I put all my attention in my career can we can we do that though like why do we have to can we reverse if you like go around the
02:32:22
Arlen Mooretable you guys like career family which you would choose oh yeah yeah we can do yeah yeah
02:32:31
Lexi Panteralet's just keep it as simple as this would you give up your passions and the [ __ ] you love the most and I'm supposed to be like okay I'm gonna give all this up and be a stay-at-home dad and I'm and a wife would you guys be a stay-at-home
02:32:44
Brian Atlasdad give up your kids if she was capable of providing and she was a good woman and he was and you're giving me like this only option although I I'm not sure how set I am on
02:32:57
Arlen Mooreif I want to have a family or whatever but perhaps but uh Brian we can't be together then rip I'm the same way I think all right he's in the chat I think most men are it might sound cold but
02:33:08
Arlen Mooremost men are going to be generally pretty like if men can't actually work if they can't go out and exercise they're essentially like masculine urges
02:33:19
Arlen Moorethey're gonna be pretty miserable so if you could put a guy in like a daycare and you say like you can't build anything you just have to play with kids all day he's gonna be kinda like heterosexual straight men he will
02:33:32
Alicia Waldnerbe the worst that's how I feel just reverse that's how I feel reverse but I also too I'm similar I don't know what I want in the future like marriage family independent have something we're working towards
02:33:45
Lexi Panterait's like well how do you balance finding a man that wants that and you want that and and being successful and all this together I mean it's it's not we just need a woman on a podcast who already balanced her family and business
02:33:57
Ivy WolfI feel like if I knew someone long enough like say I had a friendship with them for a decade 15 years and then we got together and there was the necessity
02:34:06
Ivy Wolffor me to choose the family I would have enough trust at that point to to do so I agree with that I think that it really is what you're saying like it really just depends on how long I've known
02:34:18
Ivy Wolfsomebody how much I trust I'm sure we've all thought about that yeah so I think that question is a little yeah it's a little black and white when that Situation's a little colorful well it's kind of sad that we've in some ways
02:34:30
Brian Atlasperhaps even for both men and women that the ultimate happiness that we've been sold that we will receive in life is through a career when I I think for both
02:34:40
Ivy Wolfmen and women it's going to actually be through a family it's about my reasoning is basically just but I think willing to give it up sorry I'm willing to give it
02:34:50
Ivy Wolfup but I need to know that I can trust that I'm gonna be taken care of and okay and not suddenly dropped yeah give up when you get divorced the momentum of my
02:35:00
Ivy Wolfcareer and stuff like that so if I had that time to develop that trust over because that's the only thing that will really give you that is the long long long period of time I think what happened to that situation
02:35:12
Lexi Panterayeah you dropped your drop now I'm now I'm with a child and no money because I didn't work on my career and you left me because you wouldn't think and objective
02:35:23
Brian Atlasbe to not get divorced marriages for Life there ain't no divorce
02:35:36
Brian AtlasI wouldn't do that to you Lexie I
02:35:42
Brian Atlasyou're tainted what do you mean um so you actually when we were talking about that so you said did you should we talk about body count body count should body count matter yes
02:35:52
Brian Atlasor no oh is it no what's your body count that's what I want to know what is yours I would love to know as a man of God as a man of God I do not reveal my body count
02:36:12
Brian Atlasbut I preface are you a virgin I'm not the first are you sure so multiply by three it's at least not totally why does it bother you that
02:36:23
Lexi PanteraI've slept with so many men why have you I want to know why have you I think he explained earlier man so why would you feel uncomfortable about that he explained earlier why that matters you just can't stand the fact because it's
02:36:35
Lexi Panteragross he was saying it was gross that sounds
02:36:43
Lexi PanteraSTDs because that doesn't mean I'm [ __ ] other people while I'm having sex with you I don't have an STD currently so I mean but didn't you say that you're currently sleeping with one guy and dating three to four totally texting well that would that was already
02:36:55
Brian Atlasto me that would already disqualify a girl because even if you weren't sleeping within any of the other guys if I know a girl is dating for for other dudes I'm like I'm just not going to pursue it why
02:37:07
Brian Atlasuntil I maybe I want to actually wait and see who I really like and [ __ ] with it's really not that hard to do this hold on hold on it's really not that hard to date just one person at a time maybe that call me old-fashioned of
02:37:19
Brian Atlascourse not I've done that my whole life but I and that's why I think people get so stuck in situationships and why people are so dissatisfied with modern dating is this so many options or Illusion of options I think people ought
02:37:32
Elo Muskto date one person at a time if it doesn't work fine move on to the next one but you got people who are I don't know I kind of I like it I like that though I don't want to get emotional but I think the so that's again that's your problem that that's why you can't find
02:37:44
Elo Musksomebody right because like what Brian is saying you if if you're dating multiple men then yeah you're not giving a hundred percent to that one guy so you're automatically not getting 100 back you don't get it when you know they're giving you 100 if I'm treated
02:37:56
Soulthat's like an option I'm gonna treat you like you gotta show it you gotta show it first I'm agree with you I was in that point when I moved to America because I did it before like if I'm dating with you like
02:38:08
SoulI only dated with you and I came here and I'm like oh that's not gonna work here because guys like really doing the
02:38:16
Soulsame like I'm like telling them like oh so I'm like to do everything like faster like oh we like commit like we dating only each other and they're like oh I
02:38:28
Soulcan't do that I like I need to like to choose I'm talking with that girl with that girl and I just realized like it's how everything works here but obviously I when I'm like go go on a date with the
02:38:42
Elo Muskdifferent guys I don't want to sleep with everybody but it's like ended up like yeah you choosing you need to plan out your options here but I think a lot of especially nowadays
02:38:53
Elo Muskum people are dating multiple people without having sex with them because they have they've been in a shitty relationship or situationship where they can't they have trust issues with themselves and with
02:39:05
Elo Muskthe person they're dating so they're like okay just in case let me keep this one in the basket and this one in a basket in a different basket just in case if one doesn't work they can go to the other and that's what kind of like anxiety and like trust issues and things
02:39:18
Lexi Panteralike that kind of come up this is where I don't have anxiety you talking to multiple guys me talking to one guy gives me more anxiety can you tilt the microphone down a little bit Yeah so talking to multiple guys doesn't give me anxiety right now but
02:39:31
Lexi Panterabecause I've been in a couple past shitty relationships yeah I'm probably like oh like I want to just talk to multiple guys right now and I don't want like we're talking about talking we're talking like talking this is sleeping until somebody
02:39:44
Lexi Panterathis is like the root of the problem though I mean I I went through with not the root of the problem I've had many boyfriends like I've been in relationships my whole life right no but
02:39:55
Arlen Mooremy my point is that your your fear and not to put you on the spot but you're fear and insecurity that's putting you in a position where you can only have surface level relationships with a few
02:40:06
Arlen Mooreguys is preventing you from getting a deeper one like when I was when I was in my you had the deeper one when I was in college I I had the same mindset like I want to I mean you know well yeah no I
02:40:19
Arlen Mooremean I I wanted to date multiple girls at a time have the whole rotation thing um but I realized after a while that that was actually mostly out of insecurity uh and there was a moment in
02:40:31
Soulmy life where I was like wouldn't it be nice if I could just be happy with one girl I've had that multiple times I guess I'm just in a different headspace no how does it work like uh I I'm super
02:40:43
Soulstraightforward so most of the time I'm like okay uh do we like kind of like a building right now the base of the future relationship and I'm like coming
02:40:53
Soulup with that idea and then like oh I I'm not sure I'm ready for that most of the guys telling me that so I'm I'm ready to
02:41:02
Souldate and one guy and like focus and and give that all the all my energy but they are not ready the guys are not they like relationships oh I I'm they're like kind of like a scared of relationship or like
02:41:15
Soulyeah but I I would honestly look at that and ask yourself like are you really ready right I already mentally and emotionally for relationships what about you Lexi
02:41:25
Lexi Panterawhat are you ready I'm ready to give in life my time your name's not Lexi but okay if I'm ready right now you're not I'm not ready right now you're not well I mean yeah you're sleeping with one guy
02:41:38
Lexi Panteraand you're dating yeah I'm not ready no I've been in a couple jobs like I said I've been in these relationships I'm not no and I'm really focused focused right now on my [ __ ] on your [ __ ] okay
02:41:49
Ellisso not really I think it's perfectly normal to date around a lot I've been in relationships with guys who've had multiple girlfriends and know where they went wrong and are able to do better because of that and I've also dated guys I was their first girlfriend and they don't
02:42:02
Ellisknow what the [ __ ] they're doing because they've never experienced it before and I feel like I'm teaching them so I almost feel like it's better in my opinion from my experience to be with people who've experienced other people
02:42:11
EllisAmen to that oh yeah for sure uh wait so you're saying you've had boyfriends who didn't have experience yeah I've been their first girlfriend and then I've had boyfriends who've dated like quite a few girls and usually it's better when
02:42:23
Ellisthey've had the experience they know where they went right I think it's the opposite for men I think it's the opposite for men how'd you know what you want if you don't experience different things because you could think you want something in your mind and then you try
02:42:36
Brian Atlasit on your board you don't even know what's out there a lot of you guys sound like you've had a lot of dating experience and have you been able to find a good relationship are you guys religious At
02:42:48
Arlen MooreAll by chance super spiritual most of them so I think part of I think part of like finding a uh if you're actually interested in looking for a life partner is being open to leaving part of it up
02:43:00
Arlen Mooreto whatever higher power you believe in 100 I agree because you're going to attract someone who's like generally what you want but they're gonna have some you know uh [ __ ] that they gotta deal with nobody's
02:43:12
Arlen Mooreperfect right and people change exactly a lot so yeah I think you have to be open to an imperfect human I agree to that of course I agree with that and I feel like that's
02:43:23
Elo Muskhow I found my perfect match in a way because I I told the girls earlier I was like I decided okay I'm healing myself I love myself I found finally found like a
02:43:33
Elo Muskrhythm Within Myself and then again you kind of just let it you know don't just have make it put the decision on somebody else too like you were saying you know either either it's spiritually
02:43:44
Elo Muskor religiously and um you kind of just continue working you know every day towards becoming a better person a better you without having to date around 24 7 because I feel like I don't want to
02:43:56
Elo Muskspend my time on dating and doing X Y and Z and talking and texting when it's gonna be for nothing like why spend my energy on on somebody that's not gonna matter to me and then you know things
02:44:08
Brian Atlashappen and you find the right person look ultimately it's just not it's really not that hard to date one person at a time it doesn't if it doesn't work you can meet someone new but I think people are getting into trouble and it's
02:44:20
Brian AtlasI don't think it's conducive to the development of a relationship if you're dating a ton of people at the same time but you can go in different dates and not be sleeping with them and stuff that's true that's true but then you also have girls that are sleeping with
02:44:33
Brian Atlaslike three four five guys at the same time
02:44:43
Gradythey're doing it behind your back so I think you just have to know yeah quite often yeah well that's what men do I feel like a lot of what you guys have been saying is is very indicative of the
02:44:54
Gradytype of men that you end up associating with and I think even even in a place like la like you're talking about a city of 10 million people you might just be
02:45:03
Lexi Panteratalking about a very Niche demographic the industry we're in exactly 10 times to date anybody first of all so but but what what I'm saying some random guy
02:45:15
Lexi Panteradown the street normally no and then you have people online that maybe might be a fan of yours or you don't know who they are or you meet someone with a check mark that's been in the industry that's [ __ ] so it's like
02:45:24
GradyI guess I guess what I'm saying is is your own career aside like you shouldn't you shouldn't be prioritizing what you're doing when you're looking for someone else right like they have to
02:45:36
Gradyhave their own life regardless of of how it aligns like professionally I think I think a lot of the times I hear girls complaining about how the guys every guy
02:45:47
Gradyis is so trash when like they're sort of just dating a copy and pasted version with like a different haircut of like the same base traits in a dude you know an emotionally unavailable and sort of
02:45:59
Gradylike like like remove detached from reality in a lot of ways that I think you are in that like you've had you've had a pretty like successful career in your 20s and I think as an attractive person or a
02:46:11
Gradysuccessful person when you're young when you have that you have sort of a removal of of a necessity for accountability and you have the ability to sort of say this is who I am this is what I want [ __ ] what you want I'm gonna put my foot down
02:46:24
Gradyand like you haven't really had to ever you know put your ego aside and just be a you know be be an adult for a sec because you you can afford the luxury of saying [ __ ] you I don't got to deal with
02:46:36
Gradythis I'm I'm rich and I'm hot and I got my own thing going on like move along instead of instead of taking a second to like check in with yourself and say what what am I doing wrong here where where where are the where are the parts that I
02:46:48
Gradymight not be stepping up to the plate in this relationship and why am I consistently finding people that I don't connect with and that are mistreating me am I mistreating myself first and
02:46:58
Gradyforemost am I am I am not giving myself enough love because it seems like I'm consistently you talk about manifestation it's all it's it's magnetism too it doesn't even it doesn't even matter what you're asking the
02:47:10
Gradyuniverse for it's what you're telling yourself too it's about what it's about it's about the relationship that you have with yourself and I think a lot of women and men
02:47:19
Gradyum are are are caught in a loop of really just toxic relationships because they have a toxic relationship with themselves and I think a lot of I think a lot of what that comes from is totally
02:47:31
Gradynot our fault and like everybody watching like we we we didn't ask for this right like when I was when I was in high school I started using social media and became like painstakingly aware of
02:47:43
Gradythe fact that there's just a million options at all times and especially when you're in the industry you're an attractive girl like those options are just always available to you and so it's been really hard for me to be monogamous
02:47:55
Gradyand like lock in with people that would have been absolutely amazing for me that had nothing wrong with them you know and that I was the one that fell short and I had to take responsibility for that and know that because I was in a position
02:48:06
Gradywhere where I could afford to be with you know really hot girls and like live an incredible life I didn't take accountability as a man to to be the person that that a partner would need
02:48:17
Gradyand I think that's where a lot of men fall short is the is is their lack of accountability and it's the same thing with with women you know we we really have have gotten so much ego with no
02:48:29
Gradybasis and and you have just a generation of people that are so blameless and and act like they're they're God's gift to earth when when really we're all looking
02:48:40
Lexi Panterafor the same thing we want to be loved like everybody wants to be loved okay well but women do too and it's in in Lexi men just need to great great and and you're and you're just God's gift to
02:48:53
Gradyearth right that's been an amazing girlfriend I'm sure you have but you've also been like consistently talking over people and and not allowing space when when people are having a
02:49:03
Gradydialogue like there there are certain components of of having a mature Dynamic with someone that I think you could still work on that's there's nothing wrong with that you know you've gotten a close by and whatever but like
02:49:15
Gradyin order to get the the relationship that you're shying away from by by having these surface level relationships you do need to like first do that work with yourself and I don't mean like checking co-star I don't mean like like
02:49:27
Gradylooking at tarot cards I mean I mean like like actually just taking a look at yourself and I'm not talking to you specifically I'm talking to everybody like myself included I think I think we all
02:49:38
Gradyhave been barraged with with so much information that it has clouded us and clouded our ability to really even know ourselves and and you have to clear that [ __ ] out before you can ever like even
02:49:51
Gradybe the person like you in order to be the person that you like need to be to have that partner because that's where I'm at in my life right like I've consistently fallen short with with relationships or they've fallen short
02:50:02
Gradyfor me where it doesn't work and I and I keep going oh they're just not right they're just not right they're just not right but I think the reality is that I haven't really done that on Cross checklist on myself right and gone what
02:50:14
Gradywhat type of person am I looking for what are those boxes that I need to check and what do I need to bring to the table what kind of man do I need to be in order to attract that kind of person because it because it's not just going
02:50:26
Gradyto come to you and and like you you thinking that like manifestation only gets you so far application is what is what delivers results and you have to you have to know exactly what you're looking for and what it takes to get
02:50:38
Brian Atlasthat in order to manifest to that level you know a key component of a station is like real true genuine effort man that was let me shake your hand man that was
02:50:49
Alicia Waldnerthat was quite the color and I have a I have a very similar Journey too like I was super hurt first or I was hurting people and I didn't understand why and I had such amazing men that were coming into my life but
02:51:02
Alicia Waldnerreally it came down to me and I had to realize like I was not okay and I had to do all this healing work to actually be able to like own my feminine and like love back so it's been like a beautiful process for sure people sometimes like
02:51:13
Brian Atlasmirror free yeah yeah okay let me let me do a couple super chats that came in here all right yo marquavis Martin sorry we didn't treat this as a TTS yeah uh men want Purity we're territorial protective we
02:51:25
Brian Atlasare conquerors wanting feminine unfettering females is in our DNA we would die for the woman we love a woman that is run through is not part of the
02:51:34
Brian Atlasrelationship equation for us she's coarse vulgar devalued already conquered Okay so I think a lot of the times people get
02:51:45
Ivy Wolfcaught up in the right and the wrong way to be and they have this opinion on what that is and that's totally valid we're all allowed to have that but at the end of the day we're each individually going
02:51:55
Ivy Wolfto have a different opinion on what is right for us and we should really be able to allow other people to have that opinion and to hold our own opinion on what's right for us