Single Mom With Neck Tattoo Wants TOP 1% MAN?! | Dating Talk #67

Date: 2023-03-29

Duration: 4h 08m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLexi Pantera >

AAlicia Waldner >

BBrett Sanchez Smith >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02Alicia Waldner(guest)

SPEAKER_04Grady(guest)

SPEAKER_05Ben Samuels(guest)

SPEAKER_06Arlen Moore(guest)

SPEAKER_07Elo Musk(guest)

SPEAKER_08Brett Sanchez Smith(guest)

SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Ellis(guest)

SPEAKER_12Soul(guest)

SPEAKER_13Lexi Pantera(guest)

SPEAKER_14Ivy Wolf(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteLexi Pantera introduces herself claiming to be 21, declares herself "the baddest bitch alive", and says she will "forever and always" be 21.

“My name is Lexi Pantera I'm a singer songwriter actress dancer and an entrepreneur and the baddest bitch alive... I am proudly 21 years old and wherever and forever will be here”

OtherBrian recognizes Lexi Pantera from a 52 million view twerking in public video they collaborated on 7 years ago; Lexi initially does not remember him.

“that's wild I didn't recognize... do you remember this video twerking in public 52 million views wait seven years ago”

OtherSoul reveals she accepted men paying for babysitters (10-12 times) so she could go on dates after recently immigrating to America.

“I don't remember actually because I don't count and it was like oh I get money okay”

ControversySoul tells Brian he does not understand her experience because he is a white man; Brian pushes back saying bringing up skin color is racist.

“you was not uh moving to another country like when you was an adult and you're not a woman if what is what does my skin color have to do with this privilege”

QuoteElo Musk tells Brian he is close-minded because he only wants to date a narrow group of women.

“I think you're close-minded because you only want to date oh my god”

QuoteLexi runs the delusional calculator for her partner requirements: Black man age 28-42, minimum income $500k (she says it is too low), resulting in 0.011% of men.

“500 500k is too low it's laughable the highest you might as well keep that find out... 0.011”

QuoteSoul concedes her future husband is in the bottom 9% because he does not yet make enough money, but says he will.

“Ryan my husband's just not in nine percent because he's still not making that money right now but he will so”

Key MomentPatrice O'Neal clip played at end of show; Brian asks what guests would do if they lost their genitals in a train accident to keep their man.

“what that mouth do so look around the table we're bringing a girlfriend in”

OtherLexi responds to super chat insult about her mom by saying she beat up the last person who talked about her mom.

“the last person that talked about my mom I beat his ass by the way so you better watch your goddamn mouth”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

Transcript

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Arlen Mooredon't know what it is look at me I don't know I don't know

Arlen Moorewe were in uh Croatia this summer and he like showed up with this like six foot like New York runway model like I was just like it doesn't it doesn't compute sometimes

Lexi Panterait could be it maybe it's gotta be more than that you know I don't know it's all about the personality the cool chill genuine girls like to laugh yeah

Soulyeah I'm a Libra see that's what oh why are you gonna ask like a zodiac

Gradysign what no I mean why didn't ask like everybody's zodiac sign because he's not crazy we're all connected to the Stars I believe it I believe it I think we're Celestial beings for sure I just I think

Gradythat I think a lot of people put too much on it you know I think a lot of people use it as it might be because you don't know enough about it sure or you know too much right like I think I think a lot of people use it as a crutch and

Gradysay well you know I'm only an [ __ ] on Wednesdays because the star said so and it's like no you're just you're just being an [ __ ] on a Wednesday and maybe take accountability you know I think I think I think I think people like in this day and age have a lot of

Ivy Wolftrouble with taking accountability so that's just the bottom line your natal chart is you you basically your blueprint however you get to do whatever you want with that blue yeah so you

Gradydon't have to be what exactly that's how I feel I I felt I felt very aligned with a lot of stuff I've read I've gone to shamans I've done done a lot of that stuff I mean like I I try to find yeah I

Gradymean I try to stay tapped in I don't I don't do drugs but I do a lot of mushrooms I like I I always I always try to like keep keep myself in check spiritually and and I've I've definitely

Gradyfelt a lot of times like really seen by by stuff that I read with astrology and I think there's power to it I just think just like with anything else you got to realize that you're the one in the in the driver's seat it's like the same

Soulwith the religion you can use that like oh like in my my dad or my daughter he said like uh one time I'm like uh I need some money it's on on some point we was

Soultalking and he was helping sometimes financially so he was like I need some money money for like for my daughter for like clothes and he's like what do you

Lexi Panteraget to send something or not he's like oh you know Allah doesn't give me money [Music] I can see your red Flames coming out of your head yeah it's like okay um I'm

Brian Atlasgonna I need to get caught up on some of the chats um sorry guys stream Labs is is broken um I've enabled TTS on YouTube I just enabled it so I did see some come

Brian Atlasthrough so I'll have to uh I'm gonna re-trigger them now if I can um Eric before I do that can you just pull up twitch really quick all right guys go over to twitch.tv whatever drop us a follow the link in

Brian Atlasthe is in the description mods if you can just uh put the link there uh drop us a follow on Twitch twitch.tv whatever if you have a prime sub JavaScript Prime sub yo thank you all so much everyone

Brian Atlasfor uh following appreciate it guys okay let me get these uh chats here so we have uh I don't know if this is gonna trigger but oh okay yo streamlabs might be working now can somebody go over there and

Brian Atlasdouble check and see if streamlabs is working um yo Craig thank you man uh Lexi in college we would blast DJ Snake middleware you're twerking Hollywood uh

Lexi Panterauh let me [ __ ] trigger it again stay tuned baby one sec he's not gonna

Brian Atlasuh I'm drinking a cocktail right now in your own talking about the money again cheers to you all right Stephen Krug thank you for that man

Soulyes [ __ ] I have a kid you have to pay for a kid yeah the question is are you on my of is what I really want to know yeah

Brian Atlasuh okay for some reason streamlabs is just absolutely scuffed it doesn't even want to trigger whoa anything so yes that's too much energy here yeah I

Brian Atlashave no [ __ ] idea streamlabs is obviously scuffed I don't think it's on I don't think it's on our end because people weren't even able to donate so um I'm just gonna read Eric were you still starring everything yeah okay uh I'm

Brian Atlasjust gonna have to read the uh soup chat sorry guys um streamlabs must be scuffed right now yo cheeks thank you man thanks for the 200 of girls and single mothers are barely made for recreational use let

Brian Atlasalone wifey these delusional thoughts have it easy to simp giving them whatever they asked Brian I'll see you soon I sent you the days verify please guys don't sub to of it's foul and they

Brian Atlasdon't give you anything back they're wearing a bow tie bro

Lexi Panterawould you date a guy with a bow tie no potentially those aren't even cool anymore you have zero sense of style and you're probably balding in the back okay shots fired thank you cheeks

Brian Atlasyo Dustin Bond thank you man thank you for the 200 whoa just tuned in in this panel of high Val is this the panel of high value man question for each dude how much did you pay last year to the

Brian AtlasIRS I paid just short of 400k come get us Daddy look [Applause]

Ivy Wolflook at his picture

Brian Atlasthat guy's a Chad okay come pay mine he is kind of a chat my uh my bills are high as well all right um yo cheeks thank you man uh as a man that is black and Latino I

Lexi Panterarun to girls like you and give you a nice spit oh Jesus Christ is honey you have to pay for your women yeah

Brian Atlasalso Real Men of status won't ever marry any of you through your photos

Brian Atlaslet me read these guys it's sir we'll consider you in the running with your obvious behavior and Endeavor shut up I can't get any messages on Labs sorry man yeah the stream Labs is uh is scuffed

Brian Atlasright now so uh yeah and you need to pay to be heard so yo marquavius Martin thank you man sorry sorry to you too I streamlabs as [ __ ] um hearing this panel give advice is like making a

Brian AtlasMcDonald's fry cooking financial advisor or Ted Bundy your dating coach you have Lexi the ADHD grandmother uh a hobbit nothing wrong with it in a onesie

Lexi Panterais that me [Laughter] oh my God thank you Martin thank you for that 200 feedback Martin can't even have a profile pic he's so ugly wow do I have

Soulany Lord of the Rings music on my stream deck oh I hope I can run that [ __ ] up are you kidding people spend so much money

Brian Atlasit's so funny and they telling me like oh yo shut up and a gaggle of fatherless bro let's start a gaggle of fatherless

Brian Atlasdigital streetwalkers have any of you ever listened to yourselves thank you man appreciate it all right we have uh Sebastian 100 soup chat thank you man uh dating a single mom you build

Brian Atlasa bond with the child in the event you two don't work out you would lose the child as well that you have no rights to think about how having a father figure in the child's life that then went to

Brian Atlasget milk talk about childhood trauma interesting facts from experience based uh Eric did we miss any of the uh

Brian Atlassuper chants sure okay uh let me see if I can trigger this nope that's not working that's really weird no idea what's going on

Brian Atlasum hold on let me check one thing see if that'll do it nope okay uh I'll just have to read it but it's not going to be visible on

Brian Atlasstream here so we have a 200 donation from or excuse me 100 donation from why thank you man Brian I'm sorry about not making it tonight I can fly out from Mt

Brian Atlaswhenever your neck is fully healed and the podcast is up and running necktat it is essential to match the level of energy your man gives who's talking back there

Brian Atlasbro why are you distracting my producer what are you doing can you rejoin the panel or what's what's the deal huh you're eating what the [ __ ] bro

Brian Atlasyo but don't don't be sitting next to him just like go in the bathroom or some [ __ ] sit on the toilet while you eat huh be respectful

Brian Atlasall right uh Wyatt it is essential to match the level of energy your man gives you seem to only bring issues to the table who's this directed to Wyatt I don't know

Brian Atlasconfirm or deny Wyatt sorry Wyatt sorry that your donations didn't come through normally streamlabs is [ __ ] uh not sure what's going on I want to redirect everyone to just super chat through

Brian AtlasYouTube we'll just treat it TTS might not even be working so uh yeah um I'll just we'll have to play it by ear okay

Brian Atlasum everyone got to give their uh relationship status so my question is uh all of you most of you guys are on only fans so

Ellishave you encountered any issues with dating because of having only fans I bet guys definitely get kind of upset but it's like if you're not gonna pay my bills you can't tell me to stop making my income sort of thing you know I

Ivy Wolfadvertise as polyamorous so I'm pretty straightforward from the beginning this is what it is so one question on the polyamory so um what's the most amount of Partners you've had at one time like

Ivy Wolfthat I'm in love with sexual partners oh love or not it's an intriguing question isn't it yeah I love to know I've never really kept track is that something you do do

Ivy Wolfyou keep track well I'm typically one woman person I typically only sleep with one girl at the time so you're monogamous typically yes gotcha okay but so I mean and I'm

Brian Atlasspeaking concurrently so at the same time so maybe not like same day but say over the stretch of a two-week period a month period I would say three or four three or four is that the most eat them all the time like

Ivy Wolfhave you ever had like seven at the same time no that's a bit much

Brian Atlasyeah and I'm very in love with her and then I have a boyfriend yeah and I'm very in love with him here leave this uh Eric leave this up I'm gonna read it while it's here yo VD cards thank you for the 200 you want men to be traditional and pay for things but none

Brian Atlasof you act like traditional women if I shared a photo of the national flags of Tonga Albania China Morocco Singapore Tunisia Switzerland and Isle of Man there would still be fewer red flags in

Soulthat image than on this podcast I'm so traditional but you just can't see that like you don't know how you know that when not traditional tradition like who cares about Traditions

Soullike not paying bills for the women that's not called traditional tradition oh yeah that's different like you don't want men

Souland being providers is them being traditional adhering to their traditional gender roles what's traditional mean and like traditional woman it's who who's staying at home and raise the kids but I I can't I can't

Soulraise a kid by myself I mean like and don't work but you can be traditional I'm so old-fashioned I'm I'm monogamous I'm so old-fashioned so in different

Soulways because I was born and raised in Russia it's like my mentality is like it's so traditional and old-fashioned but again how how we can know like you can't

Gradyjust because the way I talk it's it's you can't see that I also think it's I think I also think it's like way harder to be like quote unquote traditional in

Gradythis day and age like with how expensive just living is now um it is nearly impossible to be like a dude like just a regular dude working a

Gradyregular job and be able to provide for you and your spouse and a kid and like get a house like that's insane it's it's actually impossible yeah it doesn't operate with a regular job yeah so like

GradyAmerica so like you know people people are just kind of reaching for for like fewer and fewer fruits because like you're not talking about just finding a guy that has a job anymore you're

Gradytalking about like like a very small pool of men that have managed to like beat the odds and and have a career that is sustainable you know

Gradyum but that's that's why that's why the this like idea of tradition at least in America is like impossible it's like doesn't exist I don't think it's impossible but you do make a good point that there are certain

Souleconomic realities where it makes it harder for the man to be the sole Breadwinner in a family and everything everything is a trickle down from that isn't it is a traditional woman should cook it clean it's just a question

Brian Atlasshould what should who can clean yeah I mean when I'm thinking of traditional it's it's more about just your demeanor

Lexi Panteralike how you act yeah okay cooking and cleaning like that's cool so your girl can have it only fans is that a way of acting

Soulso why wouldn't you want to date someone what if she's like super traditional but it's her like really Hobby and because like I my friend she's like

Soulsuperstitional typical Russian woman has two kids she's married but she has like her own things about like not only fans but like sexual stuff which she and and

Brian Atlasfor her it's like a hobby so it's like but she's still traditional that's fine but I think a lot of men will look at women who are really invested in their career and think for example the guy who wants family and

Brian Atlaskids he's going to look at a girl who's really invested in her career and think well maybe she's not going to be particularly involved or wanting to be involved in the household when it comes to raising the kids because and hey if she wants to pursue career that's great

Brian Atlasbut I think men might look at that and be like well maybe I want to pursue someone who might be more willing to work part-time or even not work at all and let me be the breadwinner and they take care of that inner household while the man takes care of the outer

Alicia Waldnerhousehold I totally agree with that like even myself because I run several different companies and I feel men are often intimidated by that and like it's a turn off because they want and like I even looked at the guys that I would

Alicia Waldnerdate and they're all with somebody just like that that would take that part-time job or was just working like a babysitting job they were a teacher and they can just Nagle their way out of there but any girl that's running their

Soulown [ __ ] I think it is often very intimidating for men yes not all men but a lot of men I can go ahead I can stop uh I I don't say stop my career but I'm

Soullike I can pause my projects if I'm really getting into the marriage and the kids so I was like I still have my passion about dancing like massage all

Soulthat stuff but if I'm like getting into serious relationship and there I I think like I need like put more attention in there and into the family and

Soulrelationship I can like okay my project can wait and I'm like yeah yeah I know I couldn't do that not at this point in my life not at all um yeah I'm totally okay with that so I was like just again like

Soulmy family is my priority like my daughter's my priority when I have a husband has been my family is my priority I can I can pause the business I can pause everything in in my

Arlen Moorerelationship right now I would say it's generally pretty traditional where I make all the money and my girlfriend who's hearing this studio is her main goal is

Arlen Mooreto just have a family as as soon as possible um and she has some career goals but she's said you know from the start like as soon as I'm ready to have a kid she's

Lexi Panteraready uh that's a full-time job does your family have money does her family have money where her family taking care of her I'm taking care of her before that

Lexi Panterauh she was yeah yeah I mean she had a she had a job she had an internship but um well women who aren't independent on their own they have no they don't have an opportunity or you're just gonna be on the street so some people have that

Lexi Panterahustle and they're working working and that's all they can do so it's like okay now I'm successful and now a guy comes around and I have all this and then suddenly they don't want you because you're too busy you're not hand and foot

Elo Muskat them that's it's an issue you wanted to go yes I just wanted to say something to what you um just mentioned my boyfriend himself as well he knows I work and you know I'm successful he's

Elo Musksuccessful but he also says I don't have to work if I you know don't want to or because he could provide and he would provide because that's how he was raised and that's what he would want to do for the woman that he loves so I love that

Brian Atlasyou're doing that okay I'm gonna do a couple of super chats here by the way I think I have TTS working on YouTube it might be working on YouTube it might not but what what

Brian AtlasI'll do is if you are at the Super Chat [ __ ] for 200 and it's just like not it doesn't work I'll try to read it immediately as possible so it's almost like a TTS um thank you for hanging in there with

Brian Atlasme guys okay so did we do this one yeah I think we did that one we did this one we had cheeks here thank you for the hundred as a 50 year old balding black man no matter what insults are thrown at me you still will never be respected by

Brian Atlasanyone with your current activities and only homies for the record my bow tie still cost more than your whole outfits combined Kobe uh Brian verified his hey you got him on the floor bro the fact that you just

Lexi Panterasaid Kobe you're corny you got him on the balding part Lexi

Ivy Wolfand what is respected by anybody we're respected by plenty of people and people that we care about I don't really care about anyone's opinion other people that too agree 100 yeah all right we have Minnesota Liz here I think for the

Brian Atlashundred the only comments these women will listen to will be the comments from the children's mouths when they are embarrassed by how you presented yourself guys as a custody evaluator this of world makes it easier for all you men in court to gain custody that's

Brian Atlasactually false but okay yeah is that true is that true that's absolutely Minnesota oh wow I'll hurt you did you call Minnesota Karen sorry

Alicia Waldnerabsolutely go home to your hubby when girls have to put other girls down okay we have uh Captain bamalam yeah something's going on there Liz a hundred dollars thank you man hey Brooks and I'm just dropping by to say keep up the good work my brother thank you man I've been

Brian Atlasworking on my certifications head down and focused well done I pray you and your family are in good health shout out to the chat love you guys

Brian Atlasthank you man thank you man appreciate it uh very nice of you I really appreciate the support Captain here I'll do it I'll give you launch

Brian Atlasuh Janan Clawson uh merci beaucoup for the 137 Canadian uh I know over six families with 18 plus children families

Brian Atlasdoing just fine on single father income the fathers for the most part are your average contractor it is very much possible to make it and be successful stop the cap and become a proper man working 500 hours a week where your

Gradychildren don't see you okay oh wow depends on the job but yeah Sean's fired yeah I'd love to see the the breakdown

Ivy Wolfof that I really want to see the house I want to see how they live how well are they really in Canada 18 children what

Brian Atlasum so everyone here lives in LA right I mean you used to live in LA Miami that's so crazy have you ever lived in L.A did you guys traditionally do this with UCSB

Brian Atlasstudents yeah yeah yeah we we still get UCSB students on but uh it's great it's just all transplants now yeah it's just people commuting I guess we made the track today it's harder to get UCSB

Brian Atlasstudents on because we're a little a little getting a little too big at this point um some of them don't want to talk about some of this [ __ ] yeah uh so

Brian Atlasuh yeah um okay so let's talk about dating in La since most of you have trashed live in L.A or you're dating around the world oh it's it's just trash everywhere yes

Ellisthese men they all have wives girlfriends let's talk about women sure what do you want to say about men Lexie

Brian AtlasI just feel like most men I'm gonna say most are unloyal most men are unloyal especially with me please disloyal disloyal or disloyal when you say most

Brian Atlasmen can you assign a percentage I would say about 85 85 percent of men yeah what do you think are unloyal yeah do you have any guys in the friend zone yes do you think any of them would be

Lexi Panteraloyal to you no even the guys in your friend zone yeah and most of my guy friends will say that yes every guy that they know has cheated so there's not a guy that's just like super down for you but you're just

Brian Atlasnot like he does he's not exciting he's in your friend zone he's he's safe not exciting you know maybe I can think of one okay but you're not attracted to him um I yeah I just never really liked him

Alicia Waldnerthat I feel like the chemistry just wasn't there like that just wasn't there I feel like so what's helped me like I really feel that for me and it's like I'm gonna go against this a little bit men really for me like aren't that

Alicia Waldnerunloyal because I just have been able to create like a really safe space where I'm just very straightforward and I give them the space to say whatever they want I don't try to control them and when I noticed I took that away and they took

Alicia Waldnerthat away off me it's just like straight vulnerability and it's like this beautiful communication I get to have like I've tried that they still lie I have another problem I'm not saying it's easy but that's helped me a ton let me just I bet if you go through their phone you'd find something let me I

Brian Atlasdon't want to touch it I think for equality okay let me just address Lexi's thing really quick so I mean you said 85 percent of men are disloyal are all the

Brian Atlasmen that you've dated have they've all been disloyal all of them no okay most of them have you ever cheated no I'm not a cheater no never once never

Lexi Panteranot once okay I'm a loyal girl I smile just because I'm traveling but no okay I'm a very loyal girl and I expect that back and yeah I don't think they've all

Lexi Panteracheated but I do think that they didn't have to go as far as like hooking up or kissing but like texting or like doing some things in their phone

Brett Sanchez Smiththat I wouldn't like yes every boyfriend I mostly wouldn't it probably cheating though if you're messaging people on only fans that's kind of like who said we're the ones no but if you're replying to them

SoulI'm saying no I don't think so do you do content with other creators no that's just me though so I have another problem no one want to

Soulhave a family like I I'm really going to dates and I'm like I'm not looking for a husband but I wish I can have a family

Souland people like oh I'm not ready blah blah all that stuff oh they like oh one day guys don't wanna commit they don't want to have kids in the family but you

Souljust said you don't want a husband I one husband I want to have a husband I want to have kids uh and like if I I was

Soultrying to date like my age like 29 20 even like 30 31. it's still not age specifically in a list like it's at that age like oh they just don't think

Soulthey're all dead [ __ ] they hardly paying their own bills so they're not ready financially emotionally for any kind of family have you tried guys that have kids already oh yeah sure and they still

Souloh no they okay as it was just another thing it's not about the kids so I again like I I love to date with the guys who has already kids but yeah but they don't

Soulthey don't want a family but they are no they want families just uh guys with the kids they have another thing sometimes

Soulthey like oh I'm not sure like I want to have like people so scared to get divorced like I don't want to uh married again if they if they had a kid and got

Soulmarried before like I don't want to marry it again just because I'm scared I'm gonna divorce again and I don't want to go again for that [ __ ] because women most of the time takes everything it's

Soullike all that custody is just like pain or you know wherever child support all right I'm gonna do these uh super chats here hold on we have a Minnesota

Lexi Panteralist thank you for the 100. Karen's back here uh Lexi can you read this okay oh Karen you say yeah of is how you get attention from men paying to see your snatch I get money by giving attention

Lexi Panterato father's rights and no snatch required from me only respect guys you'll find better parenting advice on the back of a trucker's magazine what is um attention to father's rights What's that name

Lexi PanteraI don't get that father's rights like Mother's rights but fathers may I share my opinion on this one but yeah you guys I don't show my snatch so [ __ ] I make more money than you ever will without showing snatch you

Lexi Panteradon't no snatch no I'm not speaking on my own bikini only baby and I still am the most subscribed person on only fans carrying you will never be anybody you're the most subscribed yeah yeah

Elliswait really isn't there like no other oh jeez yeah I think in terms of Olaf getting attention from men

EllisI think that so many men are in our DMS honestly degrading us and we don't get it if you want to message me you have to that's not how we get attention from men yeah

Brett Sanchez Smithno of is how you get attention from men no when she said looking like a homeless attention to father's rights because of her last job is an evaluator yeah homeless people give us way more attention than anyone especially in

Lexi PanteraVenice like in the way that's crazy when you're looking the bummiest too just like them so like right now or okay

Brian Atlasit doesn't have to be on only fans all right VT cards think for the hundred most men equals most men you want uh I was actually about to say this I.E high value men the average guy would be loyal to you but you don't want those guys and the high value men yo can you no we've

Brian Atlashad very guys shut up we've had low value men in our lives as well they guys if I'm reading the super chats shut the [ __ ] up let me read them please I've told you guys multiple times all right

Lexi Panteraand the high value men have the options which is why they don't pick you yeah I mean Lexi I was gonna say you said a lot of universal I would say he's a very low

Brian Atlasvalue man to be honest and they still the guys you you complain about psycho you're complaining about all these men being disloyal but it's the guys that you're picking I've dated like I said a

Lexi Panteravery wide variety of what they do for a living what they look like what ethnicity they are and it's all the same would you say typically you date fairly

Lexi Panteraattractive men no not all mostly it's for me it's about chemistry and personality narcissists

Brian Atlasyes possibly yes okay why narcissist yes okay I tend to date more of the narcissist yes well that could certainly if I mean by your own

Brian Atlasadmission the fact that you do it can you stop interrupting the fact that you date narcissists would indicate to me that I would suspect someone who's a narcissist is more likely to cheat on

Elo Muskyou yes they're Psychopaths I agree yeah I agree but notice in five percent of men are this

Elo Muskare cheaters I would disagree because I think there's a lot of narcissists men out there that Gaslight women that are totally not cheaters but they are in control of the women and they're abusive

Elo Muskin all different aspects but they're not cheaters so I wouldn't say that men are disloyal look 85 of men are disloyal I would just say maybe it's a 50 50 but I

Elo Muskwould say there's a lot more narcissists and and like gaslighting [ __ ] out there hurting women than cheaters I literally just put that on my Twitter the other

Lexi Panteraday I was like what's worse a cheater or a narcissistic [ __ ] who's abusive emotionally mentally I just know all the guys I'm around have said that they don't know one person that has not been loyal so that says something I mean that

Lexi Panterasays a lot about the people you're hanging out with I mean I have good guys around me yeah I mean narcissist guys are high value because I'd probably put them at like well they care about themselves more I

Ellisthink you know physically they they take care of themselves and that's kind of attractive yeah but they're like yeah in a place like la like so many narcissists around because everyone just cares about superficial things to be

Soulhonest I think that's why it's so hard to date in L.A it's like so many models fitness instructor like

Soulat the same time like when you on a certain level of your conscious of like the business of like yourself in general you can't date a regular guy it's like

Soulyeah I had the guys who was like really nice to me and but they I don't say they they could provide me a regular life but I am too ambitious for that I'm too ambitious yeah how much money did you make right now

Soulum she said ambitious that's different I don't count I don't I don't want to say because more than six figures huh no no no no well you're you're 28 you have a child

Brian Atlasuntil I mean I just moved to America like don't forget that like I just I started from from the scratch here okay so question what and so you you want an

Brian Atlasambitious partner then huh you want an ambitious partner do you want a successful partner who's currently successful uh no we can grow together I'm good but how much does a guy need to make per year for you I don't I don't

Soulhave that I don't care because I had guys who has a lot of money but they spent a lot because they like have super luxury lifestyle and I had a guy who's

Soullike making the same money but he has a regular lifestyle so he does he saved more than he like spending so I don't care how much he's making I care how

Soulmuch he provide for me and like our family about his financial decisions yeah yeah just like you should be smart about money because I am smart about money I'm like saving I want to buy

Soulproperties I don't wanna I don't wanna work every [ __ ] day I wonder you say you say you're smart about money but you previously had to have men pay for your babysitters to go on dates I was broken

Soulas [ __ ] I just moved my American immigrating to give her family a better life you never experienced that are you American well I was born in France so I have French citizenship and I have a U.S

Soulyou was not uh moving to another country like when you was an adult and you're not a woman if what is what does my skin color have

Brian Atlasto do with this privilege no it was my skin color have to do with it privilege what do you mean I I reject that but

Brian Atlasdon't you think it's a bit racist to bring up skin color in a dating conversation no I've heard you say this before it's not racist at all there's nothing racist being said to highlight someone's skin color there's a privilege

Brian Atlasbeing that way instead of a woman if there was coming to America seven months ago from another country that's she's gonna have it and the way hold on okay okay sure if there was a black girl

Brian Atlasat this table and and I was attempting to dismiss her points because of the her skin color you don't think that would be racist there's no dismissing you were saying that I don't have because I'm white I don't have I can't

Brian Atlasrelate you don't know what you're talking about well I'm a human you're not a woman I said woman too you didn't say anything about that well I'll address that after I'll address that after but I do I can't have an opinion opinion on things because I'm a human

Brian Atlaswith functioning brain and I'm capable of rationality can you stop cutting me off can you stop cutting me off please yes Brian bro what's you you've got I mean I'm not

Brian Atlassurprised your issues with men you've got an attitude I've been perfectly polite to you but this is not an attitude if you can't I mean you're interrupting me you're cutting me off yes Brian being you're being a little

Brian Atlasconversation we're going back and forth okay so to dress the woman thing what I don't see how being a woman immigrant makes it more complicated than if you were a male immigrant it's

Soulactually I would assume it's actually harder to be a male immigrant or a single mom then single mom I don't think so yeah your responsibility for a kid you have to take care of your kids

Brian Atlassingle dad if you want to do one to one then you'd have to think a single dad but you're not single dad well it's not an immigrant either word this is a hypothetical scenario so

Soulbasically uh the way I moved to America and the way uh like the the first months after our mood was happened it was like too crazy so I was in that position

Soulwhere I have no I had a lot of choice but just because I have something that I can do like okay right now I'm that position I can't do that I can make this

Soulmoney I can be smarter than everybody else and that's it so I I don't think it's like an issue and yeah no he it started off saying that he's saying that

Elo Muskyou are not smart with your money because of what you did oh I'm so smart I was so smart about the money I think I agree but I think when you come to any country it doesn't even matter if you

Elo Muskhave you were born here and now you hit rock bottom if you need to do whatever you had to do to feed your child then it is what it's not like she's out there on on Corners doing whatever she needed to

Elo Muskdo no offense to those people but I'm just saying like it could have been worse you can offend them yes

Soulearlier you were saying that you didn't care how much your partner made right huh you're saying you didn't care how much your partner made I mean it doesn't I don't care about the numbers I care but you provide everybody everybody

Brett Sanchez Smithhow much he makes if he's trying to provide huh shouldn't it matter how much he makes if he's trying to provide you see yeah and you said I want a successful person so then you care about

Brett Sanchez Smithnot about the numbers here my it's about mindset those two ideas are contradicting each other right now what exactly but you could be with a guy who makes a million dollars a year

Elliswho spends 12 years 100K a year exactly that's what I'm talking about how much you need him

Soulyou said you said so long as he provides for me be specific what do you mean by provides for you provides for our family so again we

Soulgonna work I'm gonna work too just because I love that I wish I can just like being a mom but right now I can't

Soulso uh my perfect picture of like my dream life it's having multiple properties like my own and my husband has

Soulum have a lot of kids has their babysitter or huge house and not just only one because I probably gonna leave something between America and Asia what does it take to get all that yeah what

Souldo you mean what does it take to achieve that level of status by myself or with my partner oh that's different because like I I know how I achieved by myself right that comes down to the finances

Soulright yeah so you're gonna you're gonna want a guy to at least match your level of income right or exceed it correct again I don't I'm not looking for a rich man I I don't know

Soulit's about mindset so so long run the numbers and I can see the number doesn't count she'll grow so if the numbers are working towards that he's only making 100K a year he's not going to get you

Soulthat big house with the babysitter and everything not right now but she says she's willing to work toward that they can work towards that I I don't wanna I don't need to reach guy right now like

Soulit I don't care as long as it feels like driving I don't like luxury stuff like I I spend much at some point that number it doesn't matter at some point that much even if it's not Money Matters yes

Soulthank you seriously oh Big I have a kid do you know how much money kids like really I know I want to have like a five kids and I don't wanna I wanna have a big family I want to have a helper babysitter whatever I was more pointing

Brett Sanchez Smithout the fact that a male providing for his woman and not caring how much a male is making is completely contradictive and that goes against each other like when I say

SoulI don't uh I don't care about their in the long run in the long run I don't have like the numbers one million of that because again depends on how much

Soulhe's spending how we spend it together which kind of Lifestyle he has like I have my own lifestyle I don't know like it's why you put the numbers like exactly enough but in the long run that

Brett Sanchez Smithnumber is going to matter if you want that big house in that babysitter and everything

Brett Sanchez Smithit's about ambition yes but then like what if he is not able to achieve like a certain point yeah you can't just have like he's at the top of his job I am as

Soula woman I'm my neck and the Man in the house is ahead so I I I know how feminine energy and the smart woman

Soulworks so they just like uh help their husband to achieve some goals so again like I see the men you're successful you

Soulknow what I what are you doing you're growing we started dating and I can as a woman I can like just help you to grow or in your business because again like

Soulwhen you have a woman who support you who gives you all the love and everything you need because most of the time I'm asking when what do you want from a woman I'm again I'm so traditional I'm cool clean I love that

Soulstuff but they're like oh I'm okay with that I don't need that I need support if I'm doing if I'm struggling but I'm like growing I need my woman comes to me and I'm like I'm with you no matter what are

Soulyou doing right now like we're making one million dollars tomorrow we're gonna lost that lose that but he's still with and [Music]

Arlen Mooreso I think it's pretty based what you're saying I don't know I understand same level I understand I understand him and I can't I guess okay I understand what she's saying I don't think it's I don't think it's crazy I understand

Arlen Mooreyou're saying he might not be making the money that you want now but if over time you work together you provide him support he works his ass off then you'll have your three houses your nanny of course this is because I'm Russian I

Ben Samuelsdon't have these levels she's Eastern Europeans I think I can relate a little bit I I happen to have had a relationship with half Ukrainian half Russian women with two kids so I could

Soulsee the situation now you tell us now you say this I was debating it was like is it my place so yeah

Brian AtlasI know the Mind spoke a long time ago don't touch the mic like that man what are you doing bro come on man okay

Brian Atlaswere you hearing him chat were you hearing him Eric show me the chat were you hearing him like touching the microphone like that and [ __ ] yeah could you hear that the muffling or whatever the [ __ ]

Brian AtlasI think he's talking to you Mike Nazi [Laughter] yeah not really oh no no no no all right guys don't touch the microphones right here that's where the

Grady[ __ ] audio is coming through all right it's pretty divisive yes should we do some breathing exercises I have breathing strips for everybody we

Lexi Panteracould take some like deep inhales yo shut the [ __ ] up what you do you want to say that to a guy so don't say that to us because the guy will punch you in the head but you know we can't so don't

Brian Atlasdon't test it you're screaming on my podcast what are you doing guys just let it out that's all she's letting out her anger just letting it out look I didn't there's been a couple issues so far tonight man you're you're touching the microphone you're on your phone I asked

Brian Atlasjust please maybe leave the microphone on the desk okay okay I think you need a spa day Brian no I think it's just nice it's just basic decency yeah no it's just basic decency

Brian Atlasthere's people there's people's courteous he doesn't want them to hear it yeah like I'm trying to run a show guys this is a professional show like going into their ear too like

Brian Atlasall right I'm gonna do some soup chats okay we have uh MD here I'm here for more economic from the musician onesie Hobbit wondering from the of girls in Russian fraudster where

Brian Atlasthey draw the line between taking babysitter money and actual payment for sex if a guy offered you 1G or five G's for the full night you would you turn it

Souldown yeah yes yeah obviously no I didn't I didn't have sex for money yeah none of us didn't say we're prostitutes just because you're

Brian Atlasnot only fans doesn't mean you're selling sex for money that's very very different all right we have A.A Ron Martinez thank you for the hundred man seriously best thing you can learn from tonight's

Brian Atlaspodcast is to stay as far away from girls like Lexi as possible not even recreational use with Attitude like that this kind of girl is not worth the drama and certainly doesn't deserve the attention she would demand your

Brian Atlasresponsibility that's all you got you got anything more to say than Martinez no that's it we love you Lex thank you

Brian AtlasLucia thank you for the uh 16 million Indonesian I don't know what the r is uh can the guests stop talking over the host especially the women traditional women with act classy more than trashy

Brian Atlasand supposedly have more humility to listen it's his podcast calm down it's not like your words bring exemplary value to this conversation or Society

Elo Muskokay then tell me why Brian has all of us here yeah he does Brian and he's just going to talk to you this is what makes a podcast please suck on that but why are you watching so many people it's

Elo Muskjust hard to and we're talking about like a Hot Topic so maybe Brian should get it this is why we're here so people can just listen to you talk all day long Brian yeah Lucia how about that

Ivy Wolfthat's a good idea I didn't really come here to fight with them yeah unfazed because what these podcasts are about honey we put our on the table well just do me

Brian AtlasI need a joint yeah having a great time there's a certain decorum that should be observed when someone's trying to operate a professional production that's all I'll say

Brian AtlasI can respect that okay um let me just check if we have any from uh if streamlabs is working again

Brian Atlasgets clicks this all right hold up let's see here

Brian Atlasokay so you were talking about you know we we touched a little bit about you know you wanting a guy who's ambitious right and you're wanting multiple properties and whatnot do you want to get married again

Brian Atlashuh do you want to get married again oh yeah I want a husband and a kids okay what's the ideal age of the guy you'd be looking to marry

Brian Atlas42 42 okay and by what age would you like to get married again huh by what age would you like to be married ideally like my age

Soulwhat age do you want to be when you get married yeah oh like I can marry tomorrow okay I'm like ready right now and so you boys line up I'm like it's like two lights why I can go

Soulokay so you you currently have one kid do you want to have more kids yeah five six I don't care I mean there's certain biological

Soulrealities you're 28 so I mean so well how many kids do you want I told you I mean three to six between three

Souland six and seven if I am um me and my husband we like have our successful relationship family we're

Soulrich and we have our help from our family again maybe babysitters I can have a lot of kids I'm okay with getting being pregnant I'm okay with their

Elo Muskbreastfeeding my kids I'm okay with that okay how many so okay five five okay just get to the point is the guy I have

Soulto be black how many he has to be black oh sure yeah okay okay it has to be black take him off the table when I say I date only black guys thank you for reminding me um

Brian Atlasokay uh so you want five kids um how much of the family income do you personally want to contribute so fifty percent well to be honest I don't know so you

Soulwant to have five kids do you want to be working during all those pregnancies no I'm gonna be uh I'm gonna have passive income you're kind of talking about my money

Soulbut again like your money or our money um I hope I will find a person who is there can provide for the whole family without me putting my money in our

Soulfamily but I'm okay putting my money spending my money on my kids or on some like needs in our family don't don't do that look because I'm again I'm so traditional I care about the kids you're

Soulmaking money you but earlier you're saying how you want to also be working and you don't really care when I say working it doesn't mean I go to the office and I don't work nine to five I don't do that I don't do a regular thing

Lexi PanteraI I want a woman to work or you don't want a woman to work where do you guys stand because at this point we can't work because then we can't lock down a guy and then if we don't work we're [ __ ] looking for your money so where is it where does that leave us women

Soulwell I'll come to that if you can remind me later I'm going to continue with you so the way I see I'm working is I go to my

Souluh social media or like I'm I know that I have like multiple properties it makes me money passive income so I just control sometimes or I have a manager who control that [ __ ] and I have social

Soulmedia like everything just already working on me passively so I don't have to work every day and control that [ __ ] like I do right now

Brian Atlasokay so and you want five kids uh you don't want to be working while you are working while you are pregnant with your

Brian Atlaskids and perhaps raising them in infancy um so ideally you want it sounds like you want a guy to take care of a hundred percent of the

Soulhousehold income again I'm uh I'm flexible enough I'm smart enough and I understand if a man my husband who I

Soulhave a kid with uh has some issues with his business and I has money I 100 put it in my family it's my family it's our family I'm not like that selfish but can

Brian Atlasyou just give me a percentage how much of the family income do you personally want to contribute zero percent fifty percent uh put in my money in our family yeah how much of the family income do you personally want to

Brian Atlascontribute zero percent fifty percent okay say 50 you want to you want to be 50 50 but you just I mean that's not that kind of contradicts what you just said because you said while you are pregnant with you said you want to have

Soulfive more kids and you already have one are you talking about pregnancy are you talking about like between pregnancy or like while I'm breastfeeding well if you're gonna have fun at the different stage like where you when I'm pregnant I

Souldon't want to work at all so I'm like stopping my businesses or like I have something who taken care of myself yeah you're gonna be pregnant pretty much for five year period but she's saying she wants passive income so she doesn't have

Soulto physically be working and she still has income coming in I mean but you would have to telling you that past you have to do something to set up that passive income don't have a family I'm but setting up

Soulmy all my businesses okay so how much passive income do you anticipate having okay when people make a visual board

Soulum no I I you asking me a number I don't know because he's asking where your plan is I don't I know which kind of car I want which kind of Lifestyle I know how I want to feel I don't have numbers in my house okay I'm telling you I don't

Brian Atlasknow that's fine then let's talk about that house size huh you said you won multiple properties let's say your primary residence how big do you want your house to be I want to land like 20 acres

Brian Atlas20 acres in L.A or Tennessee okay so 20 acres I mean maybe that's Landscaping uh square foot of the actual house I didn't know okay how many bedrooms would you like in

Brian Atlasthe house in your primary residence depends on on that time like say you want six kids right so maybe a master bedroom and then you want

Soulhow many baths seven okay that's fine are you manifesting you better know what you want yeah I know which kind of house I want it's just okay and not in my mind

Brian Atlasright now too many questions like and yeah do you currently live in California yeah do you want to stay in California no okay so you'd be open to having this house somewhere outside of California yeah okay do you know a specific Place

SoulOrlando Orlando oh yeah Bali Mexico like the I have multiple properties and again like I said I want to live between uh America

Brian Atlasand Asia probably like Thailand to Bali I I'm just confused you said previously that you don't really care about having a luxury lifestyle but having multiple properties in major cities not a lecture

Soulwhen I say lecture lifestyle it's like I've been there like brands or yards I don't know like boats well there is something luxurious you might spending money like traveling I mean I love

Brian Atlastravel I bet okay so perhaps the decor might not look luxurious but it is a luxurious lifestyle to have multiple properties

Soulit doesn't should be luxury and I'm into sustainable life and I you want like a farm somewhere yeah I will definitely have a farm Garden um obviously I'm not gonna do that

Souleverything by myself I have a good act okay it's still luxurious though okay so and yeah it's like if you're talking about they're having just the land in California it already sounds like sounds like good when I

Soulyou want cars too I assume right how many cars would you like to have at your primary residence um I have I have to have my own car family car and I don't care how many cars have my husband okay and are you

Soulokay if they're regular cars do they would you like a nice mid-tier luxury car or I don't know where's the luxury car for you my dream cars BMW Toyota and they're 50 000 car yeah you'd like a

Soulthank you multiple fifty thousand dollars at least two fifty thousand dollar car oh family car it's gonna be like big big and we have like five kids probably gonna be two cars I don't know okay

Soulum do you want to be vacationing regularly I mean I I would like to go on vacation with my husband but I am or more when so

Soulwhen I go to another country it's not like I stay in a hotel so I rather to go to another country for three months or get apartment for three months and live in like a local so I don't call it

Brian Atlasvacation so like vacation travel to Hawaii go to you know vacation go to Europe whatever maybe yeah but again like I

SoulI'm more like exploring I don't stay in a hotel I again I ready to go not invocation which is talking like two weeks I will go and maybe with my kids

Brian Atlasfor like two months and go to different areas yeah I love I'm I definitely love travel okay so and that includes international travel and you said yeah you want to have multiple properties so you'd be going between these multiple

Brian Atlasproperties okay um so keeping all this in mind and I know you didn't really quite want to give a number previously keeping all of what you just said in mind what would

Soulyour husband's income need to be to facilitate that lifestyle I will not ask that question because I don't know I'm not American I even even current what do you have to make for

Soulthat to happen currently what would she doesn't care why I should like oh I have to do like my husband like doing these jobs I don't care which kind of dog it doesn't matter

Soulwhat his job is how about this what percentage of men make enough to facilitate the lifestyle oh it's like really low what we're talking about like black guys it's like so less than less than one percent we should do the let's

Brian Atlasdo the calculator we should do the calculator on this um so my my question to you is first off I'm what you've just described you're

Soullooking at a less than one percent guy you're looking at I'm not looking are you I'm manifest that's so different I'm sitting here and I [ __ ] unbelievable

Soulbuild or image of life and their family which I want so it's you just not and it's you're just not spiritual so you will not understand me you're like super

Arlen Mooreum I I don't say clothes mine I actually said I think I think Brian is relatively spiritual he has some like Eckhart Tolle books back there but maybe not an

Soulaspiration are you trying to be realistic like yes so yeah I'm wild okay I'm wild I'm crazy consider myself as a wild woman because

Souleverybody keep even my friends keep telling me like oh you want this man and you deserve that you're okay with that but he also has uh you you also want a black man and I'm like yes and I will

Soulget that 100 you're not gonna get him okay can you uh I swear to God I promise I will come to you in a few years when I have a kids and a husband and I will

Soulprove me wrong I will send you a picture because I want to come listen there's no way so I'm struggling for like I don't say whole my life but my life is not

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