Single Mom With Neck Tattoo Wants TOP 1% MAN?! | Dating Talk #67

Date: 2023-03-29

Duration: 4h 08m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLexi Pantera >

AAlicia Waldner >

BBrett Sanchez Smith >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02Alicia Waldner(guest)

SPEAKER_04Grady(guest)

SPEAKER_05Ben Samuels(guest)

SPEAKER_06Arlen Moore(guest)

SPEAKER_07Elo Musk(guest)

SPEAKER_08Brett Sanchez Smith(guest)

SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Ellis(guest)

SPEAKER_12Soul(guest)

SPEAKER_13Lexi Pantera(guest)

SPEAKER_14Ivy Wolf(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteLexi Pantera introduces herself claiming to be 21, declares herself "the baddest bitch alive", and says she will "forever and always" be 21.

“My name is Lexi Pantera I'm a singer songwriter actress dancer and an entrepreneur and the baddest bitch alive... I am proudly 21 years old and wherever and forever will be here”

OtherBrian recognizes Lexi Pantera from a 52 million view twerking in public video they collaborated on 7 years ago; Lexi initially does not remember him.

“that's wild I didn't recognize... do you remember this video twerking in public 52 million views wait seven years ago”

OtherSoul reveals she accepted men paying for babysitters (10-12 times) so she could go on dates after recently immigrating to America.

“I don't remember actually because I don't count and it was like oh I get money okay”

ControversySoul tells Brian he does not understand her experience because he is a white man; Brian pushes back saying bringing up skin color is racist.

“you was not uh moving to another country like when you was an adult and you're not a woman if what is what does my skin color have to do with this privilege”

QuoteElo Musk tells Brian he is close-minded because he only wants to date a narrow group of women.

“I think you're close-minded because you only want to date oh my god”

QuoteLexi runs the delusional calculator for her partner requirements: Black man age 28-42, minimum income $500k (she says it is too low), resulting in 0.011% of men.

“500 500k is too low it's laughable the highest you might as well keep that find out... 0.011”

QuoteSoul concedes her future husband is in the bottom 9% because he does not yet make enough money, but says he will.

“Ryan my husband's just not in nine percent because he's still not making that money right now but he will so”

Key MomentPatrice O'Neal clip played at end of show; Brian asks what guests would do if they lost their genitals in a train accident to keep their man.

“what that mouth do so look around the table we're bringing a girlfriend in”

OtherLexi responds to super chat insult about her mom by saying she beat up the last person who talked about her mom.

“the last person that talked about my mom I beat his ass by the way so you better watch your goddamn mouth”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

Introductions & relationship statuses

Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and current relationship status. Brian mentions neck injury and upcoming 2-3 week break.

Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

Single mom dating challenges — Soul

Discussion of Soul's situation as a single mom recently immigrated from France. Topics include men paying for babysitters, wifey material, child support, ambition.

Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

Body count and loyalty debate

Extended debate on whether loyalty is common, body count significance, and promiscuity. Lexi argues all men are the same; Brian counters with data on promiscuity correlating with relationship outcomes.

High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

High-value men and women's standards

Delusional calculator used on Soul and Lexi to illustrate how few men meet their stated requirements. Soul wants top-1% Black man; Lexi needs a man matching ~$200k/month income.

Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

Polyamory and dating multiple people

Ivy discusses her polyamorous lifestyle; others weigh in on monogamy vs. open relationships.

Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

Self-ratings round (Stifler super chat)

Guests rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Most women rate 10; men are more modest (6-8).

OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

OnlyFans economics and career vs. family

Discussion of why women create OnlyFans, whether men should provide while women earn on OF, and whether career or family takes priority.

Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

Manifesting and spiritual beliefs

Soul advocates for manifesting healing of any disease through mindset. Brian challenges with specific fatal conditions (brain-eating amoeba, prions). References Joe Dispenza.

Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

Would you give up Instagram for marriage?

Question posed whether women would delete social media/career for a marriageable man. All women say no.

Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

Boundaries and who should set them in relationships

Debate between Grady and Brian about whether to tell a partner your boundaries or find someone who naturally shares your values. Brett and others weigh in.

Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

Patrice O'Neal clip — if you lost your vagina

Classic Patrice O'Neal clip played; guests respond to how they would keep a man without sex. Lexi: bring another woman. Ivy: polyamory. Soul: asexual partner.

Transcript

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Lexi Panteraguests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation I'm 21 years old you can't argue with me it's 21 years old you can't argue with

Lexi Panterame my name is Lexi Pantera I'm a singer songwriter actress dancer and an entrepreneur and the baddest [ __ ] alive wait what

Brian Atlasa cow bad baddest I wish I had a button the baddest [ __ ] alive okay go stream bad [ __ ] my new single I I need to take notes on this one okay so you said you

Lexi Panteraclaim to be 21. yeah yeah well Google me if you'd like but yes I am 21 and wherever and forever will be here I'm

Brian Atlasgood [Laughter] Google seems to think that you're 33 yes

Lexi Pantera33 going on 21 like I [ __ ] said going on 20. I look 21 though don't I I know I don't know which is 33 I will be your mother

Ivy Wolfwhat about you I don't know how to follow that yeah my name is Ivy wolf I'm 26. I'm a porn

Ivy Wolfstar um dancer model singer author

Soulgo ahead I'm Soul I'm touch therapist masseuse dancer movement coach everything about touch is about me [ __ ]

Soulwhy the hesitation I know it's just I just don't like people judge you by your age like oh you do that oh you're 28 what do you do like in general no it's not about what I

Souldo it's about like just general age yeah I judge guys just because like oh you're 26 oh I'm not dating with you just because you're like you're too young but I know like some good guys can be smart

Brian Atlasand mature so but I mean wouldn't it make sense to if you have no interest in younger men to be forthcoming about your older age

Soulso to speak older age yeah oh yeah 26. I get it relative yeah okay we're just trying to defend you it's the

Soultone yeah no I mean I can say my age I'm I'm okay with that I just doesn't make any sense like to put it I'm okay hey Jane someone in the chat is saying

Ellisyou're did you used to date snico Nico I don't know who's that no we never dated okay what about you hello I'm Ellis I am 26 years old

Ellishealth and wellness coach social media manage influencers basically anything that you want me to do I could probably figure out how to do it can you pull the microphone a little closer to you hi

Ellisperfect do you do only fans I do you should subscribe to me all of you do only fans I'm gonna do next month yeah you're gonna start I get

Elo Muska lunch money okay sure what about you same hi my name is Elo musk I'm not related to Elon Musk I'm much better than him and better looking

Elo Muskum I am proud richer too I am proudly 34 years old and um I'm a model actress and I am the hookah queen I am a hookah influencer

Brian Atlasand I've traveled the world for that oh wow oh a what queen okay have you gotten your lungs checked recently absolutely yes it's good health

Alicia Waldneryep good okay what about you um my name is Alicia Waldner um and I am 27 years old I run a few different companies so just do a bunch

Elo Muskof random different [ __ ] okay yeah only fans I have only fans as well included yeah everybody that's outside you guys you can't but can I say something about that about what about

Elo Muskthe only fans part and like how everybody has one the reason is like why post a bikini picture showing more on Instagram for

Elo Muskzero money when I can post it on only fans and get some kind of money for it and it's not just out on Instagram 24 7. like that's all it is it's free money it's all it is you don't have to be on

Elo Muskthere naked doing whatever you can go for it do it love people that do it what you're doing on only fans yeah so yeah yeah any nudity and I don't need to but that

Elo Muskway I have I have a connection with certain followers and they can see different pictures and I take pictures I want to post them but I don't want to post them on Instagram for free for people to what screenshot and I don't

Elo Muskget paid for it no so Instagram is a promotional vehicle yeah it's gonna get get my people maybe to my only fans in with a different you know view of my

Brett Sanchez Smithpicture but that's about it okay fair enough let's keep it moving um go ahead my name is Brett Sanchez Smith I'm a trainer online coach and a competitive

Brian Atlasbodybuilder and I'm going to school to be a massage therapist hello oh I'm 29 29. and you're underselling yourself a little bit because you're I mean you compete in bodybuilding and you

Brian Atlasrecently you've won a Mr California Mr California yeah and then can we get like a double buy yeah take it off baby let's go let's go

Ben Samuelswe like three of us we all are it's okay go ahead I am Ben Samuels I'm 23 and I'm a holistic health practitioner and a owner of a supplement company

Arlen Moorerock and roll Arlen Moore I am 26 years old entrepreneur and uh been on YouTube for a while

Arlen Mooreand no only fans but maybe soon who knows maybe I'll learn something tonight

GradyI'm Grady I'm 28 and I'm a stay-at-home mom [Laughter]

Gradyprospective only fans we've scarred you oh yeah I mean Beyond honestly today always okay I had an inclination for it people have been begging me for years to

Alicia Waldnerdo it so what do you actually do music music okay yes all right he's talented thanks Lexi that was sweet that was so sweet

Brian Atlasokay so uh we're gonna go around the table once more on a couple things uh let's see here um so Lexi uh we actually collaborated a long time ago I don't know if you remember

Brian Atlaswhat oh okay remember really damn I feel bad this happens to me this is funny uh do you want to hear just it can't be anything crazy a couple seconds do you

Lexi Panterawant to just think it over I have no [ __ ] clue really wow okay you must have done the London no time that's what you assume I used to smoke a

Lexi Panteralot of weed when was first of all uh Eric can you pull up the video okay oh my God I'm so scared do you remember this video twerking in public 52 million views wait

Lexi Panteraseven years ago 52 million views this is one of the biggest videos this twerking in public went insane

Brian Atlasthat's wild I didn't recognize well that's why because you reached out saying hey come I want to be on the Pod or whatever and I was like just I thought oh into the mic damn Awkward

Lexi PanteraAwkward on my part yeah that's crazy crazy you didn't have what was the name of the it was it this it was the whatever it's called whatever okay yeah oh my God

Lexi Panterawe're very forgetful if you guys haven't seen that video you need to go see it I just worked with so many people that time that's when I was like blowing up so it's like yeah so you just went by

Lexi Panteralike a blur it's our seven year anniversary oh [Applause] million on you

Brian Atlasyeah but uh and and I imagine a lot has changed since we last uh collaborated so a lot has thanks to you as well no I mean you were you were on your way with or without me anyways a lot can happen

Lexi Panterain 21 years okay

Brian Atlasum okay so we're gonna go around the table once more current relationship status so are you single do you have a Friends with Benefits talking stage situation chip relationship engaged married and what's your longest relationship you've ever

Lexi Panterahad go ahead Lexi close to the mic the longest relationship I've had is three years and I am single right now I'm talking to people single but talking to people

Brian Atlastalking to some people some people how many people like three three people three or four three or four all guys or is there girl

Lexi Panteraall guys all guys okay three or four guys are they aware that I'm not saying that I'm banging them but like maybe conversating I might be interested a little bit yeah sure a couple guys is there one that you are hooking up with

Brian Atlasno it took you a little second yeah plead the fifth no [Music]

Lexi Panterawow I can't wait till this gets to the boys side of the table um you know yes all right currently no but yes have

Lexi PanteraI hooked up with one yes okay so one of them you are I may have been recently or not okay I'm a lady I can't tell you all the details okay so it's my personal

Brian Atlasbusiness so three of them you've been hooking up with no no okay one of them there's like three or four guys that you're talking to any of them have a blue check mark

Gradyright now everybody can get it it's very smart because he just can't make that special anymore are you kidding me yeah that's the one thing I had the one thing

Brian AtlasI had going for me I'm doomed I didn't know they rolled that out yet is it rolled out yeah it is yeah so you're not special anymore if you have a booster well it doesn't mean anything but I assume maybe there were

Lexi Panterablue check marks before the purchased blue check mark they've been blue check mark because all of my credits no I've dated my um share of non-blue check marks and I found it they're all the same so it really

Brian Atlasdoesn't matter they are all the same so men are all the same yes perhaps the menu data are no all men are the same all men okay that's not take we'll come back to that trust me I've dated a lot

Lexi Panteraso I know you've dated a lot what does that mean I've had my share of all ethnicities I've definitely dated a wide spectrum of men have you tried a dwarf no but why would they be different I

Brian Atlasdon't know it just seems like dwarves I can get you linked up are you you're in Florida right oh so I just I want my man to be taller than me

Brian Atlasfor me more feminine I need that okay because I'm a tall I'm not big but like I'd say I'm a taller bigger girl okay so in any case there's one guy you're kind of hooking

Brian Atlasup with and then three or three other guys that you're kind of entertaining talking to yeah yeah okay got it what about you current relationship status along this relationship

Brian Atlaswell I'm not doing anything with any of them talking to six people all guys no mix girls and guys girls and guys and animals okay

Brian Atlasokay so thanks bro and you're but you're not you're not hooking up with any of them no no but you're talking are you going on

Ivy Wolfout on dates though like for dinner or drinks or something exactly they're all in they're all in Russia yeah they're all in some other country or what's up no I just

Ivy WolfI don't want to [ __ ] them yet and I know I will so you know you will [ __ ] all six of them at some point probably okay

Ivy Wolfwrite that down in your neck I think I have a button for this hold on oh God oh God oh God oh God I can't find it in any case why are you waiting you know you're just gonna [ __ ] them because

Brian AtlasI don't actually really want to I just know myself all right got it oh and just just uh self-awareness quick recall that was self-awareness yes so you are I know Lexi you're in Florida

Brian Atlascorrect you live in Florida I've just moved yeah okay a year ago what everyone else are you guys in L.A Miami L.A L.A L.A okay so her and you guys are in Miami okay got it uh what's your longest

Brian Atlasrelationship that you've had uh four years four years okay okay well I suppose that would explain the six are you polyamorous yes okay

Soulyeah have you ever been monogamous yes okay it takes us uh what about you um I'm dating nud hook up with anyone

Soulyou're you're dating yeah I mean I'm single for yeah kind of like many years I didn't have a serious relationship um over eight years so my longest yeah

Soulmy longest relationship was three years when I was 16. so from 19 to 28 you've been single I I'm had like a

Soulrelationship I don't call it serious relationship because yeah so they I don't I didn't introduce my kid to my uh boyfriend so it doesn't

Brian Atlasit means it's not serious you have a kid yeah how old four four years old we're oh okay so does anyone else here have a child or is it just just you

Brian Atlasokay um so but from 19 to 28 which is right now you've not had a long-term relationship um but you had a kid four years ago so

Soulwho like yeah so I I got or I had a relationship while I was in Hong Kong

Soulwhile I was in Hong Kong it was I don't say again like it was not serious for me because we didn't live together um we was dating for like four or five months then we broke up and then we

Soulrandomly ended up having sex and everyone getting pregnant that's it wow okay is he involved is he in the picture right right now not he's not involved or

Soulnot financially not emotionally doesn't call I'm okay with that no child support um I he doesn't pay he's not officially dead so I can do whatever [ __ ] I want with my kid I don't have to ask

Brian Atlaspermission to bring my kid to another country so I'm 100 good with that okay so you're currently single I'm single

Soulbut you said you were dating uh I I go on a date that's what I mean like I just talk with the people yeah sometimes when I'm like have time I'm like okay let's go in a hinge or like I don't use Tinder

Brian Atlasokay but so you're single when's the last time you went on a date uh yesterday yesterday what about before that uh two days before same guy or different guy oh different what about

Soulbefore that so when I go on a date it doesn't mean that it's like oh we kisses or like we planning a hook up so I was like I just

SoulI'm so wifey material so when I'm dating with a person stop the cow what hold on you're free dinners in here is what she's talking about your wifey material

Brian Atlashold on repeat that say it one more time I'm wifey material are you being ironic like she's pretty ironic huh are you not ironic I'm

Soulserious your wifey material yeah I love cook first but I mean I like to serve for men I want to be a wife run it but why hasn't a guy in the

Soulsince you were 19 for almost a 10-year period because I know what I want and I can't and I'm dating only are black guys and I didn't

Soullive in America before so like when you're into black guys and you live somewhere like Russia or like Thailand you like okay wherever we're not dating

Soulhere wait so hold on

Souloh yeah I'm complicated so you only date black eyes oh yeah um have you ever dated the white guy hell yeah I never saw a black person

Soultill uh 18 years old so I saw black person for the first time that's my [ __ ] right there that's that [ __ ] I like I fell in love with the culture with their

SoulAfrican culture first and then like oh I actually love black guys and then I'm once you go back once you go black you never come back so you've never so

Brian Atlasyou're so beautiful you're amazing so since you were eight since your first black eye but 18 oh no no no no it was

Soullike uh so I moved in China with a 20 and in 21 I started dating the black guys and since that time I was trying so I was like okay I'm dating and black

Soulguys maybe I'll try like white again and then like oh no no more there hasn't been any white guys since the first oh I was dating a specifically a Russian guy

Soulwhich is like super crazy for me but he was like because you're forced me yeah I was like I don't I don't deal with the Russian guys you I mean I know him as a friend I was like I know you're into

Soulblack guys let's go on a date I was like okay so I he knows not gonna work I know it's not gonna work but I'm like okay let's see and immediately I figured out like oh that's the reason why I don't

Brian Atlasdate Russians why I don't date why but whatever so okay so hey you like what you like it's beautiful that's awesome

Lexi Panteraokay so your wifey material uh-huh but you I mean you have wifey material yeah I mean hell yeah different in different ways Amen in different ways

Brian Atlasamen yeah preach very specific man yeah exactly yeah so it was like do you I mean don't you think it's going to be hard to find a husband given that

Brian Atlasyou have a child oh I don't think it's a problem 100 no you don't think it's well it might not be completely preventing you from finding someone but you don't think

Brian Atlasthat a lot of men look at a single mother and say I'd rather date someone who doesn't have a kid so oh one thing a year ago I

Soulwas like completely broke um financially I was in Houston and I already had like some followers on Instagram and people like oh I want to take you on a date blah blah blah and

SoulI'm good I'm sitting at home with no money with a kid and like okay if you paid for a babysitter we can go in a date so yeah I I remember I put that video on Tick Tock and I'm like I only

Souldate the guys who's paying for babysitter because I has no money so it's not like I'm trying to get money from you so no I take your money and I

Soulpay for a babysitter for real so did it work uh yeah every time so I I did it oh wow wow okay can I say okay can I can I

Brian Atlascontinue to sort a little bit wait I'm gonna blow your mind one point of clarification so you would match with guys guys would want to take you no no it was not even on Tinder I mean I had Tinder but the question is

Brian Atlasyou would if a guy wanted to go on a date with you you would say yes but you have to pay for the yeah that's exactly what I say I'm like I like you that's cool but I have a kid I can't bring the

Soulkid to the date it's not like what it like so you want the guy to pay for the was it child care what was the term a babysitter he uh some guys they like oh you just can go outside why like why

Soulyour kids are sleeping we can just sit in a car I was like hell no I'm like I respect myself I want to like go on a date I don't want to sit

Soulin a car with talking with you bro that's no okay one quick story I'm gonna blow your mind okay blow our minds okay so I did it for a while like maybe

Soultwo months or something but I'm starting like getting money like slowly and my Ukrainian friend just come to my place and we started living together because I like have to help her because the war

Soulstarted blah blah so and we actually like both broken I'm like barely paying my bills and uh she obviously doesn't have a documents nothing she just moved from Ukraine and

Soulwe like just made a business so we basically go on Tinder we're just looking for guys to go on a date with we're saying that we need to pay for a

Soulbabysitter 100 bucks and we just show your kids so we better she has a kids too she has a kid too so she go on the day the guy paying like 100 bucks for a babysitter and we just share this money

Soulto buy we survived we were like buying a grocery buying a basic [ __ ] at home paying our bills and then the next day or like the same day just another time

SoulI go on a date with another guy he's paying for if someone who was on a date with me like a year ago I'm so sorry it was like for surviving purpose so we did it like one month it worked

Lexi Panterabecause the trash man wanted to leave her after she had a child by the way the men the men did a good deed at the end wait so she's getting revenge on she's

Souljust hustling or did you want him did the baby daddy want to leave or did you want him to leave uh oh we broke up because he just

Soulshowed up with like oh I actually married and have a kid and I'm like oh okay so we're broken up he's like no I want to be together I was like hell no wait one question the guy you have a kid

Soulwith yeah how long did you know him before you had the kid uh so we met on so we we were together like five five or four months then we broke up for like

Soulfive six months and then we like had randomly sex and then I got pregnant so it's like a one night stand after you got back to you get back together so boring I'm like I don't want to have

Soulsex with a random person I don't I'm not these kind of person like it's better to just you know with someone you know yeah it's like to do bit to like not control so you

Brian Atlaswere hustling men on Tinder for babysitters with your girlfriend no

Soulno I don't even have a kid but I might try that kind of Genius is there more is there more to that story or no we just like um no we did it for like four and one

Soultwo months we like sometimes uh she bring more than 100 bucks because she's like she's smart she's like I'm I'm yeah it's like she just explained in the basic situation like hey you know I just

SoulI just left my country because there's war there so I'm gonna date here trying to you know just entertain myself get help and some guy's like oh I can give

Brian Atlasyou like 500 bucks that's wait so okay and we again we're like basically paying out where Bill's Grocery and sometimes she's from Ukraine yeah so was she justifying her fraud by

Lexi Panterabecause she was fleeing from war I mean it's just like bro both men do the same thing by the way they find women and they just live off of us so what's the difference well perhaps in

Brian Atlasrare instances but women are finessing women at all women are finessing men like this much more than men are families that goes back in 1900s we used to have babies and then stay home for

Lexi Panteralike five years hell yes I agree with her except the feminists but like you know that's what wait so you're against feminists I could not

Soulagainst it's just turn up in the wrong direction feminism

Soullet's go back to when the men were taking care of us cheers cheers to that I mean we have no rights but we should I don't want to make money I want to raise my kids I want to make a

Soulbusiness just for a hobby I don't want to go and make you know only fans to be honest I never had an only friend I never had it even repeat you don't want to be honest no I said I want to be

Soulhonest like I don't want to have only fans like I do that just because I I need to survive okay how much money did you make from this little uh scheme with

Soulyou and your girlfriend oh we didn't count which again like our grocery uh we like eat pretty good like I just eat it when I say pretty good I mean Clean Diet

SoulHealthy stuff but not crazy so we just painted glossary and my bills was uh one one innocent she is this is Purity right

Soulhere not if she's finessing men she's pure white material by the way life material by the way using our

Soulbodies yeah being a [ __ ] boy but yeah but she can but it's okay for me but it's okay I don't force you to because I was like that's my

Brian AtlasI'm I'm receiving that it's the same like yeah but you see it's one thing for you to on your own since the child is actually yours to first off it's more it's more criticism

Brian Atlason the men that they would actually agree for a first date to pay a hundred dollars for a babysitter I mean that's an L as a dude I don't think no that's a [ __ ] L on

Brian Atlasthem guys this is why you don't date single mothers but okay so wow so many single mothers if you're not interested in that everybody

SoulI actually prefer choosing the guy who already has a kid so he know what is that so yeah like oh I'm not sleeping

Ivy Wolftonight because my my kid has a fever or something okay so I'm like love today don't you think a guy is looking for more of a woman who's like ready to settle in settle down she doesn't need

Brian Atlasto have a kid in tow I think men need to have children or at least a dog personality show them some responsibility no single mothers are typically look if you want to date a single mom that's great but I think it's a Bad Bet if

Soulyou're if you don't have kids as a guy or even if you do have kids as a guy okay like it's so it's so easy I'm in Houston I'm like super broke I'm like immigrant so in Houston I have no

Soulfriends no family all my family in Russia no people to help me and I'm sitting I'm good at home I'm trying to figure out my [ __ ] I'm trying to make money and to some guys just DM me like

Souloh I want to take you on a date I'm like cool if you want you can pay if you don't want I'm good with that it's not like I text them can I say something um I love that you said that if a guy pays

Elo Muska hundred dollars for uh guys copy and paste that go ahead sorry go ahead um I love that you said that it's a l for guy if he pays for a babysitter to go out on a date with her however a guy that pays

Elo Muskuh somebody's uh for her nails for a Gucci bag and all that that's a freaking L because I think that's an L2 that's an L not to go and pay for a you know a babysitter to go out with the with the

Elo Muskone do not listening these are all dogs yeah pay for the nails

SoulI think everybody is different I don't have a makeup I think it shows he really cares about you you know if he's gonna do that he's really interested like he wants to take you out really it's just like the guy really has to be interested to do that know me

Lexi Panteralike I don't give more energy to this person men have everything at their fingertips you guys have women at your fingertips you guys don't have to do anything basically besides work well you're not gonna like my take on even who should

Lexi Panterapay for the first date but I I'll come to that later oh we already talked about this so uh just a woman should pay for the first paper can we just go there now hurt you yeah

Ellisthat's crazy you got your [ __ ] heart broken a lot something yeah in any case um yeah shoulder to cry Eric can you give me the

Brian AtlasTylenol I'm gonna need it um all right so uh one one question one more question yeah a point of clarification on your whole story with the Ukrainian women where you were defrauding men so

Brian Atlasum I'm so confident enough like well so uh so basically you had a con where your Ukrainian friend was pretending that

Soulyour child was hers in order to get uh what yeah I said we share your kids yeah that's just two children

Elo Muskanother child in Ukraine still so she okay I misheard I thought she was using your kid okay share the 100 so 50 50. because of the

Brian Atlastwo kids it makes more sense so she's she's a refugee from Ukraine yeah so she's finesse where is she in Houston also or right now she's in L.A but she wasn't

Brian AtlasHouston man that's convenient the boys aren't saying anything she's finessing she's finessing men for to pay a hundred dollars for a babysitter for a

Brian Atlaschild that's not theirs meanwhile the men in Ukraine are getting well can't leave the country that's interesting that's not their fault I don't think a guy should pay for these

Brian Atlasextracurricular things if he is not dating her officially I do yeah yeah she has to be committed to you nope nope absolutely not sure she has to be only

Brett Sanchez Smithseeing you and exclusively yes and then even then I had a girl where we were starting to see each other and after the first time we slept together she texted me the next day and she's like are you gonna pay for my nails I'm like you're not my girlfriend no

Elo Muskabsolutely not why would I want to pay for her nails if she's not my girlfriend she didn't even want to be in a relationship yet so why would I want to pay for her nails yeah I agree with you too guys

Elo Muskaggressive yeah that's aggressive yeah that's different she's like straight up asking to start with that it just happened that somebody offered her so she was like oh [ __ ] thank you so much yes why not

Brian Atlasthat's different one reminder guys just please One microphone at the time because the audience can't hear just one microphone at the time please did you want to say something oh I just think it's it's just a matter of managing

Gradyexpectations right like if if you're someone that enjoys showing Love by giving gifts then you should be with someone that likes receiving gifts right

Gradybut where misalignment comes in where it sounds like it does in your case you're not someone that likes to show love initially by giving gifts which is a super normal thing which is why there's so many guys that do go out and like

Gradysplurge on their on new girls and like you look in you go what what the [ __ ] are you doing just like give them a hug you know that's what I want to do um we all just have different Love Languages right and so when when I meet girls that are like what are you not

Gradygonna like get my nails I'm like no like that's this is not that's not how I show a new person love but like you totally deserve to be with someone that gives you that you know what I mean it's just a matter of Love Languages right like

Lexi Panteralanguage isn't about what you're giving them it's how they receive it yeah but there's I think yeah whether you like it or not sure it's just a matter of managing

Brett Sanchez Smithexpectations right like there's also a difference between a love language and them expecting these things I just said managing expectations yeah I mean it was after the first date you said right I feel disrespected we were like it was

Brett Sanchez Smithlike a month or so in and then of us like kind of talking and then we slept together the first time and then literally the next morning I get that text and I was like that's just toxic so yeah yeah

Lexi PanteraI agree talking about else buddy you got that yeah so I was like but after once you guys are established it's like the boundary she wants that so she's telling you hey this is then you could talk Nation

Arlen Mooreyou know so she just asked for it which I think is pretty cool when when you were she could have been nicer about it when you were going on these dates were you potentially expecting to meet an

Soulactual partner oh yeah oh you were okay it's not like I just and I could again like uh I even was not in a day to get with their wide guys who I'm normally

Souldon't date so if I really don't like the person it was like it's not even like attractive I'm like oh I'm not going but my friend she's like I need money we're going everywhere she's like she's

Arlen Mooreaddicted so different what you're saying there's basically you've discovered there's an abundance of guys that are interested in a single mom is is what

Soulyou've discovered so I'm a little bit different I'm not American people can see me uh so different I have another

Soulmentality I'm I consider myself like super authentic and so different so when some guys like see me or like on that time like they saw them in social media

Souland see my personality they like oh I want you specifically I don't care you have kids are not they're like I want to know you and I'm like okay if you can pay I'm

Soullike I'm going so again like I I was like oh I can I really can make or like some maybe I can find in my partner yeah two birds with one stone

Soulhit two birds with one stone you find your partner and you pay for your baby so actually I remember like I really like one guy so he paid two times for a babysitter and then the third time he was like uh I was like you don't have to

Soulpay for a babysitter I just can go and like again talking with a car in the car because I already like you I already know you like we just can like you know talking in the car a little bit and that's it okay car conversations are

Brian Atlasthey're cool okay question so question for you how many dates with different men would you say you've you went on where you requested that they paid for I

Souldidn't come more than ten no I guess it's around like 10 or 12 or something it was not a lot again like we like share kids sometimes or and my

Soulfriends do that so okay okay makes me sad uh but so you your claim is I'm I'm not I actually have a problem

Soultoo that's my like therapy to ask in a man some help or money or anything because I can't do that I was raised like oh you can do by yourself everything like that so okay one thing really quick I'll come

Brian Atlasback to that um chat can you guys tell me if streamlabs is not working there's been a couple people that said they've been trying to donate through stream Labs but apparently it's not working not going

Brian Atlasthrough I'm not really sure what's going on uh Eric can you show me the chat so I can see what the deal is um so you were saying that uh hold on

Brian Atlaslet me just see cannot donate on streamlabs anybody else

Brian Atlas[ __ ] um I have no idea why that wouldn't be working you know you don't get pushed [Laughter] clear sign

Brian Atlasum I'm gonna stream Labs is not working

Brian Atlasum Can somebody else can anybody else try on stream Labs but uh yeah that's really weird I don't know why that's happening I'll try to fix it guys we'll we'll get it figured out otherwise I'll just switch the I'll switch all the TTS

Brian Atlasover to uh super chats uh so one question for you uh

Soulremind me how many guys did you 10 to 12 10 to 12. I don't remember actually because I don't count and it was like oh I get money okay I'm just counting like

Soulwhere's their day of paying bills and how much I have right now that time was like that okay but you so you consider yourself a wifey material though oh yeah

Brian Atlasoh yeah I mean I I'm and I'm not saying this to be rude but I think the fact that you have a child kind of you're you're not wifey material why right now but she already

Brian Atlasshows that she can take care of it doesn't make any sense for me wait Brian what's the wifey material to you yeah wifey material would would be a girl

Brian Atlasthat at bare minimum doesn't have a child in tow from another father what

Lexi Pantera[Music] these things to bring someone that doesn't have a dad and take them in as their own that's really special and

Brian Atlaslucky to be honest it's just not for you well I think it's it's just not for you sure yeah and I sure I don't I don't

Brian Atlashave a double standard on this if a woman didn't want to date a guy because he had a kid I'm totally fine with that right you understand I don't object to that some women wouldn't want to date a guy who has a kid maybe they want to start their own family maybe they

Soulrecognize that there's potential issues there so yeah I'm like I don't date yeah like I don't date with the guys who are not ready for family or oh who doesn't want to have kids because it doesn't

Soulmake any sense like I want to have a family I want to have kids I'm I'm not looking for a husband it's just gonna happen I'm not like cancer whatever is that I'm like come on

Soullet's looking for now I'm not that but like if you tell me clearly I'm not sure I want to have kids I'm like I'm living like what I'm doing here okay uh we're gonna continue moving on

Brian Atlasuh your relationship status and uh current relationship status longest relationship

Ellis[Laughter] man what an error we're in it's crazy

Ellissingle correct yes yes when's the last time you went on a date the last time I went on a date was probably a week ago when's the last time you hooked up with somebody oh my gosh

Ellisoh it's been a minute it's been a minute fortnight a fortnight Fortnight it's been like it's been like a couple four months probably 14 days okay no it's been it's been a few

Gradyfortnights with you four score and seven years ago okay [ __ ] [Laughter]

Elo Musk[ __ ] yeah um my longest relationship was about eight years um current relationship status taken in their relationship relationship okay

Gradyhow long have you been dating um a little over a year okay got it but but you're still just not looking

Elo Muskfor anything serious right still just no it's we're boys yeah I was just joking um it was a joke

Alicia Waldnermy longest like relationship was probably two years but I was just like recently in one that was like five years on and off so I don't know if the on and off [ __ ]

Alicia Waldnermakes five years but that's kind of yeah I'll just say you know what I'll just say two years but you're currently single yeah I am single yes okay how long have you been single uh about two and a half months two and a

Brian Atlashalf months yes okay and you said your longest was like a two year on and on again off again thing that was five years on and off oh excuse me five years on and off and is that the one that recently ended yes okay have you had a

Alicia Waldnerrebound uh no no a rebound guy no I mean I'm at a really interesting point in my life like I don't I'm just really steady and comfortable with being with oh sorry with being with myself and I don't know

Alicia WaldnerI'm not really like looking for anything I'm just enjoying life that's how you find the right person yeah like I'm not yeah I have no expectations I'm just riding the wave yeah I'm [ __ ] just

Brian Atlasriding man yeah can you pull up the chat really quick um hey guys what are you guys getting an error when you're trying to donate through stream Labs is there an error that's happening

Brian Atlasum let me know in the chat I'm just going to look at it here for a couple seconds and try to troubleshoot I yeah I'll I'll have to try to switch it over to uh YouTube

Brian Atlasbut uh I did get one that came through on uh stream Labs which is weird uh cheeks I don't know if you're still in the chat did you get an error message uh

Gradycheeks that's weird Mr Cheeks are you with us

Brian Atlasum hold on uh so his comments are so interesting I know so I'm gonna have you guys answer uh your current relationship status and longest relationship I'm currently

Gradysingle and my longest relationship was three years should we feel should we like fill it in well how how was it how was it how were those three years the question why did

Brett Sanchez Smithit end yeah um that's a good question I could hardly remember that was like 2017 that it ended when was your last relationship uh

Brett Sanchez Smithended in January why did that end uh I basically was not she couldn't lift enough um I mean but simply like I basically

Brett Sanchez Smithlike left um we competed at the same show and I basically just like left and didn't kind of watch her compete yeah um just some a lot of things were

Brett Sanchez Smithhappening within my work environment that led me to believe essentially that like she was against me in a way and I instead of communicating that I just kind of wanted to handle my own business

Ellisand what did we learn through that experience

Brett Sanchez Smithmore than you you're right you're right no I'll admit that like yeah it's a regret but come Unix I also told her that we would talk about it on Sunday after and I'm like just let me do my own thing and we can talk about it on Sunday

Brett Sanchez Smithno we weren't competing against but you said there was some sort of competition like you felt like I competed in bodybuilding and she competed in bikini like we were at a show but it got complicated you said because there was a

Brett Sanchez Smithcompetition thing that that's like external factors were were playing into it where it led me to believe that like

Brett Sanchez Smithshe was not on my side as my partner pardon you properly um no it's more like work related and it

Brett Sanchez Smithwas like he said she said thing and I was just like I just want to not even think about this right now and just handle my own [ __ ] so I was just like overly selfish and then we tried to like work it out after but

Brett Sanchez Smiththen didn't really work it out after rip

Ben SamuelsI am currently single and the longest relationship was three years so did you ever test or poop

Ben Samuelshe tests people's poop Ben does like heavy metal mineral analysis of people uh not in that relationship no I wasn't wasn't into that yet but uh

Ben Samuelsvery important microbiome of your partner you don't want to be getting parasites from your partner so wait wait wait it's like no I'm joking um I test heavy metals in the body uh

Ben Samuelsbut you have your partner has parasites and you have sex with them you're gonna transfer the parasites so hook up culture very dangerous for your health without condoms and with a condom kissing all of it oh yeah

Ellisit's got some hot takes yeah obviously isn't it mostly for me that you get parasites no no it can't be from everywhere but it just depends on how strong your body like you're like can

Ben Samuelsfight it it's a myth that just come from third world countries yeah I mean immune system's deficient you don't have all your nutrients you'll attract parasites oh yeah so you got a lot of people unhealthy in our world you gotta hookup

Lexi Panteraculture everyone's sharing nastiness go to Disneyland you'll see a lot of unhealthy people oh hell yeah welcome to America though I don't go to Disney yeah food's just getting worse over

Arlen Moorethere it used to be better trash uh I am currently in a relationship it's been about a year and it's been my longest relationship

Alicia Waldneroh that's cute and she's in the building

Gradyover there she's a hottie she's beautiful what about you um I've never been in a relationship over a year I think longest capped at like eight or nine

Gradymonths and why do you think that is I think what are your flaws Grady's a lover he's too much yeah I think I think it really just boils down to not being

Gradyin a place where like with a lot of uh options available I was like centered enough to like lock in and now kind of got like a main

Gradything so she got me these pajamas well maintain okay yeah

GradyI would call them PJs but I guess on the polar bears polar bear I think or like really poorly drawn some other animal but I think it's polar bear is very likely that the artist was was

Gradyattempting at a polar bear have you ever seen but again it could be a multitude of things could be a really really bad ant you know you said you you've never been in a relationship that was over like eight or nine months I

Lexi Panterathink that's usually I love her he said but you're like a lover yeah so it was more of the girl that was like usually the problem I wouldn't I wouldn't boil it down to that I would say I'm largely

Gradyproblematic I think it just boils down to like being able to recognize differences and like maybe the fact that you are one way at the beginning of a year and at the end of it you're not

Gradyyou're like I'm not going to keep being someone that I'm not in order to like appease someone else I think at a certain point you have to be spiritually selfish and I'm right look out for yourself first so like and and honestly just like a byproduct of being scatter

Gradybrand I think like I'm just [ __ ] insane and but you know I feel like I'm getting I'm getting in a good routine I'm starting to figure it out you know doing cold plunges yeah

Gradywhy did I know that we did we did them on the way here we stopped by diplo's house on the way up and and did a 34 degree cold plunge so shout out Diplo thank you for the cold plunge sorry for

Lexi Panteragetting your floor we're finally friends again gang again yeah what we just recently met at a wedding won't go into detail but we're friends again you guys previously hooked up no we have never

Brian Atlashooked up no allegedly okay only person literally I was gonna say shockingly uh didn't you have seven girlfriends no I didn't know seven girlfriends no that was you okay you told me that you

Gradyhad seven girlfriends I didn't have seven girlfriends it was no it was a it was it was an interesting situation um I was just I was in an open relationship with a girl um my parents just gotten divorced I I

Gradywas probably in like a pretty low point and uh and so I was just like oh kind of open to whatever and uh I'll show you when this happened it's like 23 24. and uh

Gradywhat does that look what is that you're just analyzing handled a breakup in your grown age that way I just wouldn't for sure yeah I mean there was a there was a lot of other [ __ ] going on but like I

Gradyalso it was just like I met a dope girl and she happened to me by we're in an open relationship um one thing led to another uh we met one girl that wanted to have

Gradythree ways met another one and it just kind of like compounded into this like super group of girls that um how did you feel in that moment it at a certain point it just felt normal you know it

Lexi Panterawas just like imagine if a girl regular situation imagine the comments if a girl said that 'd be crazy

Arlen Moorebut no it was it was uh great I think the way you explained it to me the first time was that you you were dating a girl and then it turned out she was dating the same girl

Gradythat you were also dating no no no no no no no no it's not like that no no so basically uh one one of the girls that I like took out while I was dating this chick

Gradyum was going on a date with a girl that I had just hooked up with and I was like and she was like I want to go hook up with this girl but I'm too nervous to be on my own will you come and I'm like

Gradyabsolutely and so I was sort of like I was sort of like the liaison for their like sexuality opening you know and so that sort of like blossomed into a much so she's never been with a girl she's

Gradynever been with a girl no okay you want to get out of all of that I I guess like a volcano eruption yeah just one beautiful final goodbye and I weighed my way back to Los Angeles and

Arlen Moorenever looked back I want to make a comment too on this is and not that it matters a ton but I mean maybe people watching see gradient of onesie and might make some judgments but Grady

Arlen Mooredates and is typically friends with some of the most beautiful women wow that's so great he I don't know what it is about Grady but what do you mean you