Jonah Hill EXPOSED By SALTY Ex-Girlfriend?! | Dating Talk #82

Date: 2023-07-10

Duration: 6h 31m

Guests

Brian Atlas

DDaria (DT176)>

NNicole (DT88)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS(audience)

SPEAKER_01Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_02Aubry(guest)

SPEAKER_03Burke(guest)

SPEAKER_04Grace(guest)

SPEAKER_05Daria(guest)

SPEAKER_06Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Jake(guest)

SPEAKER_10Nicole(guest)

SPEAKER_11Tasia(guest)

SPEAKER_12Mandy(guest)

SPEAKER_13Brittany(guest)

SPEAKER_14Priya(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteBurke introduces herself as an OnlyFans 'spicy content creator' from Virginia

“my name is Burke I'm 26 years old and I'm from Virginia but I live in LA uh now and I do only fans of spicy content creator”

QuoteDaria introduces herself as Iranian-born, from 'the valley downtown gay town'

“hi I'm Daria I'm uh 29 I'm from Iran grew up in the valley downtown gay Town”

QuoteJake (Rattlesnake TV) introduces himself as Australian YouTuber from Brisbane

“my name is Jake 27 rattlesnake TV on YouTube and I'm from Australia”

QuoteBurke defends Jonah Hill's texts as mature boundary-setting, not abuse

“I think that it's honestly pretty respectful of him to State what he wants to find in a romantic partner”

QuoteJake argues men are repulsed by high body count in women as an inherent reaction

“a lot of the time guys are actually quite repulsed by girls who have like a high body count it's something that's like we're internally inherently very repulsed by”

QuoteDaria discloses she completed rehab (sober 1 year) then relapsed when she moved to LA

“I did that but I that's because I know I have like other things I needed you know but still no no I did it finished are you sober not anymore how long were you sober a year”

QuoteNicole reveals she finds high body count attractive in a man

“there is something attractive about a man who has a high body count”

QuoteMandy discloses she wrote letters to a boyfriend who went to prison

“it was already like I was already thinking about not talking about drugs already before he had gotten in trouble um got in trouble talked to him for a little bit and then was like this is boring I need this in-person stuff”

QuoteAubry reveals her boyfriend of 1.5 weeks got a DUI and was extradited to Texas

“we became Like official boyfriend girlfriend a week and a half later he got a DUI upon being arrested for a DUI”

QuoteTasia says Albuquerque's dating scene is worse than the Ukraine war zone

“I'd say the dating scene is probably worse in Albuquerque than in Ukraine”

QuoteTasia explains conversion from hardcore leftist/atheist/feminist to conservative born-again Christian

“I think as well the atheists all focus on the liberal first so liberalism you're just constantly angry and offended”

QuoteTasia: 'There's a lot more racism in the left than on the right'

“I believe there's a lot more racism in the left than on the right”

QuoteTasia reveals she is a virgin (born-again celibate, saving herself for marriage)

“I'm a virgin oh did not know this are you waiting until marriage yes I am”

QuoteJake discusses potential co-hosting offer with Whatever Podcast; Brian raises international franchise idea

“you're down to be the co-host of whatever I'm looking for a co-host”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions & Relationship Statuses

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation, location) and share current relationship status, how long they've been single, and longest relationship.

Jonah Hill Texts Controversy

Panel reacts to Jonah Hill's ex-girlfriend Sarah Brady posting his texts on Instagram, calling him abusive/misogynistic. Discussion of whether his boundary-setting was reasonable, whether posting it publicly was justified, and the context of feminist male self-identification.

Body Count & Relationship Value

Discussion of why men care about body count, the double standard between men and women, scarcity as a signal of value, and whether experience vs. selectivity matters differently by gender.

Mental Health & Substances Discussion

Guests share mental health status and substance use history. Daria discusses completing rehab (sober 1 year) and relapsing after moving to LA.

Self-Ratings Round

Guests rate their own physical appearance on a scale of 1-10. Discussion of bell curve distribution of attractiveness and objective vs. subjective beauty standards.

Prison Attraction & Female Fantasies

Discussion of women writing to men in prison, the book '365 Days' (captive romance fantasy), Richard Ramirez fangirls, and the book 'A Billion Wicked Thoughts' identifying women's top fantasy categories (vampire, surgeon, billionaire, pirate, werewolf).

Feminism Waves & Female Independence

Panel discussion of first, second, third wave feminism and emerging 'bimbo feminism.' General agreement that modern feminism has become harmful to the nuclear family and male-female complementarity. Discussion of whether anyone identifies as feminist.

Women Dating Men Who Earn Less

Would the guests date or marry a man who earns less than them? Discussion of hypergamy, stay-at-home dads, and whether income parity matters in relationships.

Age Gap Relationships

Panel discusses their biggest age-gap relationships. Nicole's 22-year gap (37/59). Priya's 10-year gap (21/31 with kids). Grace comfortable with 10-15 year gap if chemistry is right.

Background Information Round (Pre-Show Notes)

Brian works through pre-show notes for each guest: Tasia's ideological conversion (leftist-to-Christian), Priya's dating history (age-gap relationship, dating someone with kids, drug use in relationship), horse girl stigma discussion with Priya, Jonah Hill's Vice article on toxic masculinity.

Traditional vs Modern Gender Roles

Discussion of family backgrounds (divorced vs. intact parents), traditional vs 50/50 relationship dynamics, whether women want to be stay-at-home moms, and roles of each partner.

Social Media DMs Round

Brian asks each guest how many DMs they receive per week and what kinds (sugar daddy offers, random, etc.). Answers vary from 1-2/week (Grace, Priya) to 10-15/month (Daria) with most in single digits.

Andrew Tate Clip: Women Not Drinking Water

Panel reacts to an Andrew Tate video claiming women don't drink water and that's why they get headaches. General agreement that many people (not just women) don't hydrate properly.

Celebrity Crush Paying on Dates

Would you expect your celebrity crush to pay on a first date, or would you let it slide? Discussion of whether rules about who pays change based on a man's status and attractiveness.

After Show: International Dating & Travel

After-show with Priya, Madison, and Jake discussing European vs Eastern European dating culture, Japan/South Korea, Russia, traditional women by country. Jake recounts travels: Italy, Turkey, Thailand. Discussion of Whatever franchise/international expansion concept.

After Show: Emotional Detachment, Pair Bonding, Alpha Widow

Discussion of whether men fall in love with every woman they sleep with, emotional detachment in casual sex, pair bonding theory, and the 'alpha widow' concept from The Rational Male.

Transcript

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Tasiaindustry but I see people care more about cars purses materialistic things and they're so focused on these materialistic things and not focus on their family spending time with their

Jakefamilies like they take so much time to work that they neglect their wives they neglect their children so you think people who are more wealthy and have more resources tend to have less time so less time for their families yeah because once you start making a ton of

Nicolemoney you just can't stop you always want more like so yeah but also people who are struggling for money are working a lot of jobs and usually both of the people in the household and the time is very slim with the family and that's

Nicolewhat they have to do I don't know that it's necessarily um matters how much money you make the other thing is is just because someone can't afford nice things doesn't mean that they aren't constantly focused

Nicoleon it and it doesn't mean that they don't if they are given the money that their mindset is like that as well so I think money money can inflate that and

Nicoleshow that but I think it would be unfair to say that people who are well off or have money um have poor values or especially morals

Brian Atlaswell in any case disregarding whether people who are wealthy or not wealthy you know not as not making a conversation about assessing their Moral Moral character so

Brian Atlasyou want to be a pilot and you anticipate you will end up making more than your partner yeah I hope not but that it may very well be the case

Brian Atlasum my bigger question with you being a pilot is I mean I know you talked about most of the people that you've dated uh you fly

Brian Atlasto them uh do you think it makes for a stable relationship to be constantly gone from your significant other because as a pilot you I assume you would be in a different

Tasiacity what two-thirds of the year oh you can very easily manage it I actually dated a pilot and he would just could do one international trip a week

Brian Atlasand so he was just gone for two days out of the week and home five days out of the week red flag I think well okay so for example I I've said this before I think for example a

Brian Atlasflight attendant is a red flag in terms of like a career that a potential partner I feel like I've pretty much reduced my options down to like two percent of women with all the red flags that I'm

Brian Atlasaware of but as a as a flight attendant or as a pilot you're constantly and I know you said perhaps not for in your case but you're always in a new city so like for me if I was to date a flight

Brian Atlasattendant well I just wouldn't want to because I just feel like there's such an opportunity for infidelity under those circumstances maybe that's me being like

Brian Atlasinsecure or whatever but it's like bro even even if we're in a committed relationship and there's not an opportunity for

Brian Atlasinfidelity my understanding is is that you're in a new city every week only there for a couple days because for example I'll match with girls who are flight attendants on dating apps at

Brian Atlasleast well I'm not on any dating apps right now but when I used to be I'd match with a girl who's on the dating app and she's a flight attendant you're in you're oh you're in town for a day and you're on a dating app okay what

Brian Atlasare you looking for then you must be looking for casual sex because you're in town for two days why are you on the dating app what's what is the only option available to you casual sex

Brian Atlasso my assumption is people who are like flight attendants and I Pilots probably [ __ ] a lot you know that's my that's my impression yeah absolutely

Tasiathey there's a very sexual sexually rampant culture within the airline industry I advise people not to date Pilots or flight attendants unless you meet them no no no unless there's always

Tasiagoing to be exception right if you look at them and you're like this is some of the most outstanding moral values like truly the best you've ever seen I'd say I'd say don't go for it because it's insane the things that happen fair

Brian Atlasenough well um I had a uh another thing here uh just really to touch on this very quickly actually I'll come back to it but we'll continue going around would you date a guy who makes less than you I

Nicolewould not data man who makes less than me it's not that simple with me I also want him to have a pretty solid net

Nicoleworth and a high credit score and no irresponsible debt and to make a certain amount of money that's reasonable that's basically it's because like no offense or anything but

Nicoleas you get a little bit older you start to be able to like Define what you want a lot more right yeah I mean I I I'll go out on a lot of dates with men and I

Nicolewill end things over various Financial factors that to me are red flag such as

Nicoleone person that I dated recently was 51 because I'm 39 so I'll date May I don't know if I would date younger or maybe if he was like a super solid 35

Nicoleyear old so I'll say like 35 to 55 I probably date um and by the time you are in your 50s to me you need to have established

Nicoleum net worth you should have investments in the stock market and or real estate crypto doesn't count because it's too volatile um and you should know how to manage your money and that's why I feel like the credit score is important because

Nicolepeople can make a lot of money and waste a lot of money and to me that's also not attractive so like he needs to have financial literacy and be successful and hold it all together and make more than me see I respect that a lot I think a

Jakelot of people would look at that and be like oh you go up so demanding or whatever I think that if girls if women were to lay out those sorts of things it would encourage men to be better in that regard with financial literacy especially in this country like

Jakefinancial literacy is really not a thing like when I was looking around La I was thinking if you guys did two things if you replaced all of like the weird sexual stuff that's being taught to kids in school and all the racism that's been

Jaketaught to kids in school and you replace that with macronutrients and financial literacy it would it would solve a lot of problems in your country teach them from a young age

GraceI also think a lot of relationship problems are because of Finance like and especially in marriage that's why a lot of people get divorced so being able to talk about that in the first like few

Brian Atlasdates is really important if a guy didn't want to pay on a first date like if he didn't pick up the tab with that is that one of the red flags or deal breakers for you I just wouldn't go on a second date but I wouldn't make a thing

Priyaabout it it's just not the person for me sure fair enough uh what about you me yeah which question uh would you date a guy who makes less than you um well I'm I'm pre-law so I anticipate

Brian Atlasthat I'm going to be making a good a good amount of money I'm I'm pre-law pre-law pre-law okay sorry you wanna uh what kind of law do you want to go into

Priyauh sports and entertainment sports and entertainment okay I originally wanted to do constitutional law though um but yeah I anticipate making a good amount of money so

PriyaI would definitely prefer for them to be making more money than myself but if it were a comparable amount that'd be fine when you say comparable do you mean it's simple too similar okay because I I've heard some study and

Brian Atlasmaybe you're you might be familiar with this women will say they want a guy who makes the same as them but really that means like 56 they want a guy who actually makes 56 more than them uh no

PriyaI'd like to keep it within like 10 percent well oh you're saying that that means that they need to be making 56 more than than they do is that what you're saying I forgot the exact wording

Priyaon this maybe someone in the chat can uh help me out so no I'll be more specific if they make within like 10 15 of what I make then that would be that would be fine in either direction uh I mean if

Priyait's above then go all out but but below I would say within like 10 15 okay what about you um I would date someone who makes less than me but I don't think I would marry

Gracesomeone who makes less than me because I want to be a stay-at-home mom I want to work but like very little just because you do have to do a lot in the house and I want a lot of kids hell yeah just a reminder so who said

Brian Atlasthat they would date a guy who makes less than them just show of hands you would date a guy who makes less than them I guess

Brian Atlaswhat's the point of dating if you're not gonna make it hold on would you be okay with a stay-at-home dad so you're the 100 Breadwinner and he's just stay at

Dariahome dad taking care of the kids a little bit of a reach like it would be I don't know okay it wouldn't be a no picture this situation you come home

Jakefrom a long day of work and you're stressed and your man is at home and he's got dinner on the stove for you and he's wearing a little a pink apron thank you yeah and he's wearing his pink apron and then he has to go and do the grocery shopping so he has to ask you for the

Jakecredit card and then he jumps in your car to go and drive to the shopping center to use your credit card imagine imagine how miserable he would be he's Mr

Mandyyes if my husband he would pull over and scream if my husband is like stay at home Dad and I'm the breadwinner my husband has his own car my husband has his own card

Jakemy husband is set just like but it's your money we all know it's your money and that's mine as long as you're taking care of my kids our kids I think in practice I think in practice

Jakeit would be you'd be pretty off it a man who takes care of his family is that not sex see taking care of your family as a man isn't being a stay-at-home dad taking care of your families providing financially

TasiaI think you underestimate the bond that you form with a child especially when they're young like you are when they're born you need to be glued to them like they need you 24 7. yeah some other it's

Mandyit's just not practical especially when they're young to have a stay-at-home dad while you work well I mean I would be there like obviously after I'm done giving birth I would be there for a certain amount of time but you know if I'm the breadwinner I'm I'm going to

TTSwork and make sure my family's getting fed Proverbs 21 19 donated 100 better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome

Brian Atlasand nagging wife paste word uh yeah thank you Proverbs 21 19. um okay uh so what I'd like to do at

Brian Atlasthis point is uh I had a couple notes for each of you here uh some of you provided some pre-show information actually you know what before we do that uh before we get into that juicy stuff

Brian Atlasuh Nick can you pull up the twitch guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub mods if you can spam and then the chat a bunch of

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Brian Atlaslet's see I had some notes Here we have Tasia so you just going back to what you said before you said you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist feminist but now you are recently a Conservative

Brian Atlasborn-again Christian when you say born again are you so are you waiting until marriage to have the sex I am but you're not a you're not a virgin correct but you're

Tasiayou're born again virgin I wouldn't put it that way but yeah I am how would you put it well I'm just saving myself for marriage from now on out okay

Tasiayou can't really reclaim virginity what was the Catalyst for all of this might I ask oh man there was there was a lot I think dating a Cop made me realize a lot of

Tasiathe BLM stuff is ridiculous um going to France yeah France yeah France changed me a lot because France is ahead of us in their

Tasiaprogressiveness um it's real weird out there the gender roles are completely reversed like the guys are staying at home cooking cleaning in the south of France where it's very liberal the north is different

Tasiaum but the women are like players and sexually promiscuous and the guys like really want commitment and it's just so reverse it's actually it's actually a cultural thing with French is that the

Brian Atlaswomen tend to have like a Assad pace yeah women have side pieces yeah born in France I didn't know about this [ __ ] I was lion

JakeFrench women are adventurous dirty so France is like in Flames at the moment so did you see the

Brian Atlasthe in Flames like if there's been riots the last few weeks like yeah R.I.P the motherland is France the motherland or the Fatherland I guess it's my fault because my dad's from France it's the

Brian Atlasmotherland the mother has this because isn't Russia the Fatherland what wait what how do you differ Chad how do you decide if it's Fatherland or motherland how do you

Brian Atlasdecide if your mom or dad is from there so my mom's from Italy so Italy's my motherland oh okay I didn't know it was that simple okay so it's my Fatherland yeah France

Brian Atlasis a failed Society yeah it's going down the drive there's a lot of a lot of other countries that are getting all anyways um let's not get political but um okay so born again

Tasiadid you used to have like did you have a hope phase or what like were you like super crazy before no my my whole face was like kissing

Tasiapeople in clubs and not going further so word what made you miserable about being a liberal atheist I think as well the atheists all focus

Tasiaon the liberal first so liberalism you're just constantly angry and offended and I I believe there's a lot more racism in the left than on the right and that a

Tasialot of well-intentioned things but the road to hell is paved on Good Intentions um yeah it's very regressive like this idea that black people can't well we won't get into we won't get into politics

Brian Atlasum we can go there a little bit how do you feel Brian what a quick tidbit on politics what's what specific political topic are we

Brian Atlastalking about here black people what bro I'm 40 Nigerian so I feel like I can I can claim that um black black is the the political

Brian Atlastopic you which wish to discuss is black this could go so many ways um yeah I'm gonna pass on that one I'm gonna take a pass on that okay well well we'll exclude any race the idea of Oppression I think is very harmful when you're

Tasiatelling people your country hates you you have opportunity stripped from you and really that's not the case like we're born in a country that we can do so much no matter where you came from I came from I came from Mystics I came

Tasiafrom The Boondocks and here I am like in the in the pilot field like it's yeah it's yeah I think it's ridiculous I think it's very harmful to tell children

Priyaespecially that um you are disadvantaged purely for something that you cannot control and I think it does a lot to their their um mental capacity to be able to see

Priyathemselves as somebody that's going to provide value to society I think I think it really really harms kids especially yeah it becomes self-fulfilling prophecy absolutely I did a video yesterday where we went to Santa Monica pier and we were

Jakejust interviewing people and we were asking if they think that if they think America is racist every one of them said yes and I couldn't believe it because America I could believe it but like America is so overtly non-racist like

Jakeit's just a complete Melting Pot of all different people all coexisting together and one of the girls was telling me um that she's from Nigeria and she said she came over when she was like eight and that she was she thought she was

Jakemaking a good point to me but what she was saying was that she had no idea about racism until she went to school and the school taught her all about racism and I was like and I said to us I was like so so you never knew about it and then the school taught you about it

Dariaand then she like couldn't quite put two and two together but there's some serious indoctrination happening in this country absolutely that that's something close to like what I went through like I came here when I

Dariawas eight so like I didn't understand any even like the bullying like the verbal bullying I don't know I'm like that doesn't make sense all right I'm walking away so I have a couple more notes Here for

Brian Atlaseach people we have Priya here you wanted to talk about dating someone with kids and how drug use affects relationships and also age gaps or age differences in relationships is that so

Brian Atlasdid you date someone with kids I have dated somebody with kids yes how old was it older guy uh yes he was 10 years older than me and just reminder you are 22 yes okay so he was

Brian Atlaswell maybe this was a couple years back or uh no this was my most recent relationship the most recent under a year ago okay so he was 31 you were 21. yes and

Brian Atlashe had kids okay uh and he also so he there's an age Gap he had kids and he did drugs exactly no no no the the drugs was some a different uh meth heroin no

Priyauh what drugs do you take I do not do anything I've never touched any sort of drug um I do not support drugs whatsoever I think they're incredibly harmful but the

Brian Atlasboyfriend that that you were dating did drugs yes um and you helped you bought his you didn't partake but you bought the drugs for him no um was it math or heroin it was not

Priyaeither um pills benzos pills pills um no I started dating him and then found out about the drug habits uh about

Priyatwo months into the relationship um was going to break up with him when I found out and he begged me to stay with him I did uh believing exactly what he told exactly what he wanted me to hear I

Priyawant to change I don't want to live this lifestyle I don't want to just do it for you but I want to do it for me too and it was good for a while and then eventually he broke up with me because he believed I judged him for his partying habits uh God forbid I cared

Priyaabout his well-being but um but yeah that was that was a different different situation than the one with the kids word uh here let's talk about the age

Brian AtlasGap one so that was your biggest age Gap relationship you said it was 10 years correct yeah uh would you do it again um yeah I would do the age Gap the kids know okay because yeah I can see that uh we'll go around the table on this and

Brian Atlaswe'll start with Grace actually uh would you date someone significantly older than you say like 10 10 15 years older than you um I'm not sure because I look very

Graceyoung so I feel like I would feel like a baby in that relationship and it depends if it's a really great guy and We Vibe and I feel really comfortable and at home then yeah but I'm also in a very

Gracevery happy relationship right now if you're single but yeah if I was single um I would consider it just really depends on the chemistry I don't really look at age unless it's like creepy like

Nicoleif he gives me creep Vibes sure um what about you but you did yeah the oldest the biggest age Gap I've had is 21 years he was 21

Brian Atlasyears my senior okay good times so uh what was the age breakdown like you were what 35 he was 50. I was five

Nicolethirties seven 37 okay wait he was 59 so how old so yeah I was like 30. 22 30 he was like 50

Nicole22. what wait is my math wrong here wait 37 to 59 is 22. 15 9 49 22 39

Nicoleno if he's 60 that and he was 20 years older than me that would make me 40.

Nicoleso he was 59 so I was only like 37 or 38. so 22 year age 22 year age cup 21 or 22. I wasn't in my 20s this was

Tasialike two years ago yep he was gonna turn 60. word what about you age Gap yes or no would do it how much I I actually prefer age Gap I like the 10-year age Gap but

Brittanyyou just gotta be careful because the older you get the more baggage you got okay agreed um yeah I would date older um I typically stay within my age range

Aubrybut or my age group but you know I'm open to different things I would say older as far as kind of the age Gap goes I do prefer someone probably minimum of three years older than I am just because I'm young and

Aubryhonestly I'd be looking to settle down sooner than a lot of um people I guess are in my age range um I would maybe go up to like like seven or eight years older I don't know if I'd hit 10 again it just depends

Aubryon kind of what Grace is saying with chemistry and the person specifically because you do have to watch out for a lot of creepers when it comes to older guys sometimes so would you would you date Henry Cavill no you wouldn't date

Brian AtlasHenry do you know who that is I mean I don't like just celebrities in general I don't will you pull them up yeah we get uh Nick can you do a little Google search for our boy Henry Cavill

Brian Atlashow do you say that [ __ ] I don't know uh while he does that that's probably gonna be a no but okay what about you I'm sorry um

Dariaokay got it um my biggest age Gap is probably like I was 21 and he was 42. okay

Dariayoungest was like or I don't know like more recently I've oh you've gone the opposite direction I have and like what youngest was like

DariaOh I thought you're about to say some weird [ __ ] no no I've kept 25 26. okay okay it's like youngest I'm 29. yeah yes so okay that's like the youngest that

Brian Atlascan be acceptable for me because like sure sure do you have the photo Nick boom uh this is Henry Cavill Superman Superman yeah uh geralt [ __ ] what's the

Aubrylittle Witcher how do you say is it gorrell Gerald Gerald I don't watch that French ones I'm so I'm so glad that the faces to names but

Brian Atlasa couple weeks ago I was talking to some friends about celebrities and he came up and what do you date him no no come on yeah stop the cat he plays World of Warcraft does that change anything

Aubryhe's like probably less likely for me to date him okay Burke what about you age here um yeah I would definitely date

BurkeVibe revive uh I would go like maybe a year younger than me but not really much younger than that um and then just because of maturity but yeah definitely would date someone older

Dariathan me and if we buy We Vibe if we get along you make me happy you can please me yeah then I'm down yeah okay I've definitely been like people that like

Dariaare older and you expect a certain like behavior from them and it doesn't matter like how much role do they get I would compare the part where it's like dating

Dariaolder people is like oh sure proof of like it's gonna be good like no like a lot of people like still at like even 60s like are not well I also think

Aubrysomething to take into consideration at least for myself is is for men and women when each of them hit their Prime like what ages wage that looks at I know for women it's like mid mid 20s and for

Aubryminutes more so in their 30s I think so even from like again I brought this up like the biological standpoint kind of just makes sense to to go for a little bit of an age Gap there

Brian AtlasI mean and that age gaps actually naturally manifest um I mean I think it's typically uh a two like I think the average is two to three years I don't know if you know

Brian Atlaswhat the Yeah like typically I think the age of well also the age of first marriage it's younger for women than it is for men so I think that's another kind of manifestation I think it makes sense

Jakeparticularly in the modern day because with like the way that the Market's going it's a little bit harder for men to create resources so if a man Waits until he's 35 and then he checks up with a woman who's say 25 or so because girls

Jakeare obviously waiting a little bit more these days as well I think that 35 and 25 is like a perfect sort of age range there's also a biological component to it as well

Brian Atlaswell yeah I mean there so there's the are you talking about like fertility

Priyain terms of wanting to settle down and kind of understanding what they want out of a relationship tend to figure that out a little bit earlier in life than men do um and yeah I think if women are looking for commitment and looking to settle

Priyadown and start a family I think they're going to be looking for um men that are typically a little bit older than them any boss babes here who have their eggs frozen no got any boss babes just freezing their eggs or

Brian Atlasanything um okay let's see here we have Miss Aubry row she said a lot of people also act one way but expect unrealistic

Brian Atlasresults to their actions I think hookup culture is toxic and whether women want to admit it or not what's that you don't have to read a word from not verbatim I mean I mean you can I just put it out

Brian Atlasthere like pretty boldly on there I mean you can read it okay all right I just kind of threw out she's saying we're uh women are The Gatekeepers of sex or hookup culture so basically what you're

Brian Atlassaying is is women are to blame for hookup culture you're such a misogynist Aubry yeah honestly I just hate women you're like a raging misogynist how dare you no honestly what the reason I can I put

Aubryit like that because I was like I'm just gonna throw it out there but um can you do that again what that little is that is that your throwing motion okay I'm a girl I throw like a girl that's why fair enough checks out because I'm massaging this so of course

Aubryum okay no I would as far as like the expectations go what I find a lot is like there are a lot of women who do want to settle down they do want to eventually have a family but they wait so so late and then and then and then

Aubryit's kind of too late or it's kind of just biologically but also it's like what you put out is what you attract so if you're wondering why you're not attracting these men that are that you're wanting to settle down with it's

Aubrymaybe because you're not being the type of woman that the type of men you would want or attracted to and so and then like playing that into hookup cultures like a lot of women like they want to you know early in their 20s like they

Aubrywant to go clubbing and they want to go sleep around and they want to just have that party lifestyle and then settle down later later on but at that point like you know plays into the body count like at that point

Aubryin a sense like in different ways their value to has gone down as far as I guess market value when it comes to dating and what the like high value men I don't know

Aubrywhat we consider high volume man even depends on the person I guess but it just kind of Henry cavill's pretty high I mean he was Superman so I guess but um but no I just think as far as like

Aubryhookup culture I mean ultimately like the woman I mean obviously other than certain circumstances but the woman does get to determine like if they're gonna let a man into their space in that sense so and that's why I think

Aubrygoing back to earlier with how many people um each of us have slept with right that it can be a lot more important for women versus men because ultimately that decision lays on the woman or whether

Brian Atlasshe's gonna actually allow a man to even have a chance with her I have a note here from Nicole and Nicole says I prefer dating man a man with a high body

Brian Atlascount and certainly much higher than mine a low body count is subjective but I suspect mine is lower than many women my age there are a few reasons it's attractive to me when a man has a high

Brian Atlasbody count and as a woman I do not aspire to have account anywhere close to what the man I date have Nicole confirm or deny so you'd like to say that you did say that I wouldn't say that I

Nicoleown it that he it has a really high body count but it doesn't bother me and to me there is something attractive about a man who has a high body count he's just ran

Nicolethrough like he's just uh ran through I hate the term no he's not ran through he's he did the running through oh it doesn't bother me I've I have met men who have dated are mean dated who have

Nicoleslept with what I'm like oh wow that's a lot of people you know um but it doesn't in my eyes it doesn't take away from his value I don't know it just doesn't

NicoleI am 39 and people generally assume that I've slept with a lot more people than I have um fun fact I was celibate from my late

Nicole20s until like 38 and I didn't even date so I had no sexual contact with men for almost a decade um that's like a whole tangent but yeah

Brian Atlaswait wait what were that what was the age range 28 29 to like 38. were you in like thinking about being a nun I was yeah

Nicoleyeah I was you look good in the non-outfit thank you but I was only looking at communities that had like really like really pretty Habits Like no ugly ones habits that's what they're

Nicolecalled garments yeah so I um that was pretty radical so I that's why I originally made that choice because I needed to know if I could live the life um and then what did he do to you at 29.

Nicolethat's what everyone's saying what happened actually that's like a very ignorant question um

Nicolelike I don't I've never really been drunk like I don't I haven't done crazy drugs like I didn't have some I mean I think my 20s were pretty like

Brian Atlaslike I had a few long-term boyfriends 29-38 yeah who's the [ __ ] absolute Giga Chad who came in

Brian Atlashe had a high body count who knocked you off your [ __ ] nearly decade that was a good experience I could say

Brian AtlasI want to meet a girl who hasn't had sex in nine years yeah she's like the the pent-up sexual it would have been Bell's ring

Nicolehonestly so yeah I don't know but all I'm saying is that

Nicoleattractive to me um and maybe hot take I don't know but I feel that the reason it's attractive for a little closer the reason why it's attractive for a woman

Nicoleto have a low body count and the reason it's seen as attractive or something to Aspire to as a man to have a higher body count is because both of those things are difficult it's difficult for a man

Nicoleto rack up a really high body count with a lot of beautiful women it's hard for a woman to constantly say no when she has men coming after her so to me it's more

Nicolethat we are as a society glorifying what is the more difficult choice for each sex so and I'm not saying like morally or anything if that's right or wrong or it should be that way or not but to me

Nicolethat's what it feels like to me is we are saying that's the harder choice for that sex and so that's why we think like kudos

Brian Atlasyou're 39. you were almost 10 years of celibacy between 29 to 38. the guy that you broke your celibacy for did you guys date for a

Nicolewhile or was it we did a little thing we did you did okay months you guys broke up recently or um this would have been when I was so I I

Brian Atlasjust went over 39 so it was like beginning of when I was like 30. and you said your longest relationship was two years yes or did you say you've been single for two years no my longest relationship was two years and I've been single for

Brian Atlasum a year okay huh you've been wait you've been single for a year okay so the thing with the guy who broke her celibacy were you were you like when you met him

Nicoledid you were you kind of looking to for this to be the end of your celibacy no we formed a really deep friendship and friendship yeah we formed a really like was he friends was he also trying

Nicoleto was he part of the nun school or what was it no like the longest it wasn't I just got to know him and and it just formed and I

Nicolejust did it wasn't like some big thing like a decision yeah it was it just happened one thing no I made a choice it's not like it just happened I made a choice to

Nicoledo it of course but it wasn't it's not as like dramatic maybe as you're trying to make it sound I just found someone and I connected with them and I felt that that really strict season of

Jakecelibacy for me had served its purpose and I just wasn't there anymore and that was okay I'm still very selective but why you don't do the nun thing you didn't want to know

Brian Atlaswell they rejected me they rejected wait so hold on were you like not trying to be celibate or this was

Brian Atlaslike a very intentional thing I was intentionally intentionally yeah okay I made a choice okay so just to bring it back I mean you were saying how you you prefer dating a man with high body count

Brian Atlascertainly much higher than yours um

Nicolehigh like they need to Plus I think I think you guys you like a guy who's sexually experienced I who knows his way around a woman's body I like who can

Nicolelocate the clitor I like it and if he's a good man then those women to me like they don't matter and I I if I'm with them they did 100 thank you man don't

TTSyou guys think a huge problematic outgrowth of social media hookup culture is the destruction of female intellectualism the destruction of it the destruction of it um

Nicolewas it ever there to begin with I'm kidding I'm kidding it's a joke as um I kid I kid I definitely don't think it's benefited it just it doesn't bother me I don't ask

Nicoleslept with just because it to me um and if I'm with a man I'm with him because I trust him and so I don't have

Brian Atlasinsecurity with him I don't like I just don't it's just not a thing word yo thank you for the

Brian Atlassuper chat or the TTS appreciate it okay um that's news to me the whole nun thing did you have like a party phase or

Nicoleanything when you were younger like college did you no because some frat parties I would go to college parties but I didn't drink so like but I love dressing up so I would have like three or four costumes per Halloween and go to

Brian Atlasall the parties but I I don't I didn't get drunk or do drugs okay all right let's see here uh I had something I think that's it for most of my notes

Brian Atlasum okay so let's get a couple soup chats in uh we have our good friend Woods thank you brother um

BurkeBert can you read this one of course uh Brian loving your content that you've been pushing out thank you man representing the zyz community this is yeah wait can you do this

BurkeAustralia can you do this no it's like this here waiting do you like this is this is this oh wait am I doing it look at these things are

Brian Atlasthese gang signs like this Austin up in heaven no like this out and look up look up higher higher lift your lift your arm and now say rest in peace what is that congratulations you're now getting

Burkeaffiliated just kidding just go ahead okay the ziz community get aesthetic as well always take your drugs and doses I even

Brian Atlasprescribed legally the simp and me want girl in pink with the dog in me refuses just ice well there's two girls wearing pink so you're gonna have to clarify Mr Woods

Brian Atlaswhich one all right can you read uh can you read this one por favor um yes okay thoughts on men wanting to get married in a church um mosque synagogue

Burkeum and with modern women being less religious it is harder to find normal women who want that uh dating within limits dating pool uh plus I found a lot of those women are nuts so convert

Brian Atlasnuts women that aren't religious it's not typically where marriage occurs in a church even if you're like not religious isn't that no well I guess there's not they're

Brian Atlasnot religious not in California not in California they do that show the beach I guess yeah beaches caves Disney I have never been to a wedding I just realized

Nicoleyou're like bro you'll have some kind of somebody in chat invite Brian to your web family I have never been to a wedding do you know that you can hire professional bridesmaids like if you don't have friends or you don't have

Nicolethem investment it's like only fans but for bridesmaids depressing stuff there was like a movie about that with Kevin Hart or something there was I remember I

Brian Atlaslove there was the best man like there was a movie yeah uh Gorton's fisherman I think everyone's in

Priyafine with it I think what about he's asking he's asking if we would if we would quote unquote convert or get married in the church look I'm I'm raining and like

Dariatechnically like I was I'm I'm supposed to be Muslim technically speaking like clearly I'm not like like abiding by it but I thought you were devoutly it was the giveaway

Dariayou know like I would probably say like we'll do that whole Spiel in the church and then like let's do like whatever

Brian Atlaslike my people would do too and then let's call it even that's it that's a good point Prius so we'll go really quickly around the table would you convert let's say your dream man is

Brian Atlaswhatever because some of you might already be religious so I'm thinking what if he was like a a different religion or if those of you who are atheists let's just say he's Christian so

Gracewould you convert to for your dream guy I would I would definitely not I'm very very strong in my Catholic

Priyafaith I would not convert for a guy so I'm Christian I would convert to be Catholic but that would be the only thing that I would be willing to convert to Buddhism

Aubryno Jainism no Scientology Scientology hard no well so I actually dated my longest

Aubryrelationship the one who went to jail and I got out a few months ago um he was atheist and I base legitimately everything off

Aubryof like God and spiritually so like going through that was like the worst thing and going into it too like all the reasons that our relationship ended I knew that was like going into it why it wouldn't work out and still

AubryI don't I felt like I needed to gain experience on more some of the surface level things of dating yeah but it taught me a lot but I realized like I would never like sure first and foremost like you can get along like it doesn't matter how many

Aubryhobbies you have in common like you'll learn to love their Hobbies but just like find somebody who has the same values as you do like that is the most important thing yeah by the way Gorton's

Brian Atlasfisherman here I just want to say don't forget the Buddhist temples bro you're leaving that [ __ ] out come on man B please be considerate of other religions you

Brian Atlasdiscriminate discriminatory fishermen okay uh the real Mr meatball thank you man uh why not go more into atheist libertarian Allah and Rand definitely much more thoughtful than flipping from

Brian Atlasone empty calorie philosophy liberalism to another conservatism and Rand are we talking about The Fountainhead are we talking about the uh what's her other book Atlas Shrug Atlas

Brian Atlasvirtue of selfishness virtue of selfishness that's a good one yeah is she is she uh libertarian and Rand is she libertarian she's like she's like her own sort of philosophy yeah

Brian Atlasokay it's super capitalists like the the Omni capitalist um the real Mr meatball uh actually uh Bert can I have you read this yes uh would

Burkey'all date someone who doesn't do social media and actively dresses down to not be flashy yes totally yeah red or green green flag

Priyayeah yeah absolutely dresses down yeah but defining dresses down I mean if you're not wearing designer labels all that that's perfect perfectly fine but I want you to look clean but yeah

NicoleI like a man who dresses well I want him to have nice pants nice grooming smell good have a nice watch have shoes that go with it it doesn't need to be the most expensive but I appreciate when a

Nicoleman puts like take care of his appearance I mean like I don't want him to intentionally make himself smaller or intentionally make himself be hidden that's weird for me I'd be like why

Mandydon't you want to take up space you know dress down and still smell good and dress nice like yeah dressing down yeah that's where I'm kind of flashing that's what I'm saying you can go out and sweats and

Brian AtlasI don't know like yeah yeah what about let me let me throw something out there what about a guy who wears Puma sweatpants no and automatically bro

Brian Atlashold on let me finish a guy who wears Puma sweatpants and like a black T-shirt and a flannel but if you're at home you'd wear notes

Mandyhuh are you wearing Puma sweatpants right now oh right I guess I I happen to be wearing that you know what does the bottom of your sweats look like are they the long thick ending are they like the

Brian Atlascrunchy looking ones you're talking about sweatpants I think I don't think that brother I mean they're just Puma yeah

Priyais Brian giving you guys red flags necessarily think it's a red flag it's just not a personal preference I like somebody that knows how to put themselves together well but that being

Priyasaid you don't have to spend thousands of dollars

Dariawhere are you doing it where are you not yeah right you know what I mean like like if we're gonna have a place for everything but I also think with the man with the watch you have to flash because

Nicolea man when he shows up on a date if he he's wearing an eye watch I get major ick I get it because the watch is like the most purse is the most personal

Nicoleaccessory a man can have his watch and I feel like the iWatch is like the complete opposite of that so like I look for men's watches on their um their dating profiles so is it a red flag if

Nicolethey're not wearing a watch it's not a red flag but when a man's wearing a real watch and not an eye watch it gets me going some kind of way I think it has to do with people making tasteful choices

Dariayeah it's like he has something or I don't know like he there's something specific that he I don't know I don't know I think it's about real watches yeah I think it's about the occasion but also like just

Aubrybalancing it out like you don't have to have everything super high quality but like don't walk around looking like a bum but I also would want to be able to like you know go to the supermarket and like pull up in sweatpants yeah can I can I ask you a question what's

Gracethat so if you were to go on a date with one of us what would you wear I'm not gonna lie I would wear this [ __ ] um would you expect us are we going to Camp

Brian Atlasreally nice are we going no honestly like so okay here's here's my thing okay come on I look if a girl dress is nice that's that's fine I actually kind of there's this song it was his first hit

Brian Atlasby Drake the best Best I Ever Had is that it yeah hair tied [ __ ] how's that shape

Brian Atlassweatpants hair hold on sweatpants hair tied chilling with no makeup that's when they're your prettiest

TTSon the first date I will I'll tell a girl yo you don't need to like hold on hold on they're around meatball donated one hundred dollars I'll try him and I watch guy

Brian Atlasoh my God maybe spend that 100 on a new watch uh no but I actually prefer like I'll I'll even tell a girl like well it's

Brian Atlasokay I don't like I'm not a huge fan of makeup I don't really like makeup so honestly anything more than a bit of like um maybe mascara eyeliner whatever like when you start putting [ __ ] on your

Brian Atlasface or lipstick not a big fan not a big fan of it so uh I kind of like the more uh low maintenance type of thing she can still dress well and not wear a lot of makeup and a man

Nicolecan dress casually and still be well groomed and smell good and be put together and his sweatpants of course fit nicely and he doesn't wear open Plaid over a t-shirt you know to dinner well a lot of it has to do your flannels

Brian Atlasare candy sun I don't know what you guys missed this though I don't care even if you went to Australia you would be brought in flaming funnels are the [ __ ] this is California so I'm like button up on

Aubrya lot of it has to do with how you carry yourself as well having to do with like makeup because I even this past year for probably like a good six months I just increasingly like went with less and less makeup just to like try to embrace

Aubrymore and more yeah but I notice over time like and my mom like told me this too she knows like I started carrying myself a little bit differently in some ways it was like really good in other ways like when I finally did start wearing like a little bit more makeup

Aubryand I don't like I wear like maybe three things like I don't go crazy anyway I don't really know how to do makeup that well but um like you just kind of it like UPS your confidence sometimes like you just feel like a little bit more but do you think that has to do with the

Aubryfact that people are now comparing themselves to people online I think that that's a huge thing yeah it has to do with the comparison for myself personally it was I was able to develop more confidence with my natural beauty

Aubrybecause like I got so used to wearing makeup every day like and it was just like mascara right but even just going without mascara like I started to love like just like my facial features the way they were without any of it and like totally I think it's just about like

Priyaenhancing your natural beauty rather than creating beauty of course it can be done Tastefully and then it can be it can be uh done not Tastefully as well it could be damaging yeah absolutely the same thing happened with me I think like

Gracea month ago I was one day I forgot like bringing my makeup when I was out somewhere and I had like I didn't have any makeup on and I looked in the mirror and I thought I looked hideous and I I

Gracewas thinking about it and I shouldn't look at myself in the mirror and think I'm ugly without makeup and so I'm sorry I'm really bad at talking right now because I'm kind of kind of

Gracenervous and tired um but I I feel like it's wrong to look at yourself in the mirror without makeup and think you're hideous and so I went on a trip to Europe for two weeks and I was like I'm not gonna pack makeup and it was terrible the first few days I

Gracefelt like terrible in all my pictures but then over time I felt more and more confident and now I can wear it for like special events but I'm trying to go make a free as well that's how it was for me too yeah

JakeI'm interested to know girls in your DMs what is the craziest thing you've ever been offered in terms of being flown out anything like that have you ever accepted have you ever been tempted to accept

Burkebecause I've saved you number one what have you been offered is it true that you girls are getting offered to be flown out yeah I would say so for like but for like sexual things and at the end of the day like are they

Burkepretty explicit you have to do that sometimes like I'll get like messages in my DMs like oh I'll I'll like pay you to come fly out to me and like do whatever um and like safety is number one

Burkeobviously um and I wouldn't necessarily accept money for that like I want to talk to someone or like get to know them and not just for sex like that's not like a thing I don't want to do that yeah yeah because you want you want to be careful

Dariaas well yeah exactly how about yourself are you being flown out to somewhere like you're unfamiliar with like yeah just anyways have you been has someone slid into your DMs and said I'll pay you

Dariato do this and then you've either rejected or accepted it and I agree with her on the safety part like you can't you can't just decide that just no matter what amount of money you're

Mandygonna give me like or or offering I don't know you so if you don't but if you did know them you might do it who knows okay

Mandyum like maybe the craziest thing would probably be like a car but they've offered to buy you a car yeah but obviously like same thing with like safety reasons like dragon that was serious there's a lot of stalkers huh Derek and I was serious

Mandyabout it like do I think he was serious yeah

Aubryright okay um I haven't had anyone slide into my DMs but people after this because I'm sure but because I go door to door and I talk to people every day a few weeks back I did have this guy like he

Aubrystraight up offered to go take me and get a new car full up in cash I was like sitting on the couch like trying to sell them like a smart home system and he's like yeah I'll buy you a car and then I was like maybe I should be selling the

Aubryfact that I'm broke instead of this system but no then I was just kind of like well I'm gonna go talk to your neighbors but other than that I've had any any crazy offers hmm no it comes

Brittanyback to safety I am a really small person so four four eleven I'm four ten four ten yeah you were giving me a little bit of Grace

Brittanygot these booster seats up what's it like being 410

Brittanyso my first car had a 1999 Tahoe and I put pedal extensions in there and I drove around with that so like this small little girl hopped out of this

Brittanyplace jacked up truck you know what's your cultural background so I was actually adopted from China

BrittanyChina never met your parents your adopted parents no I have not it was a closed adoption oh yeah so in 1996 it was pretty adoption I'm pretty sure in China you could only have one child oh

PriyaStalingrad if you wore this on the first date love a man in uniform

AubryI don't think this is what I do eat your butt erase yourself the rest of it or what you have a surprise there I just think you're missing like a

Nicoletouch of fun did you get a watch also yeah do you have a watch do you have a sword do the metals match like maybe an eye wall yeah do you have a pocket watch yeah maybe

Nicoleokay yeah perfect style you know I'm hopping on it now he's One Step Above the occasion so I show up to it like this

Jakeinstantly running and screaming the other direction is it a Soviet no it's uh World War one

Tasiauh oh United States it's quite a collector's item I'm gonna be honest I would if a guy showed up in that uniform minus the Hat on it for men minus the Hat on a first date

Tasiayou'd be into that I would do it yeah I'm kind of nerdy I have like a weird world war fetish World War fish yeah not like sexual [ __ ] well I mean when you say sexual it suggests it and when you

Jakesay fetish it's a romantic fetish yeah okay romance novel yeah Hill Harbor love story he dies and then comes back you thought he was comes back

Brian Atlasto life yeah you thought he was from the dead oh my God a b check think for the uh 20 gifted memberships much appreciated wait okay so I think before I got up and took

Brian Atlasa while to get [ __ ] changed into this [ __ ] it's not an easy yeah it was tough this [ __ ] was hard uh

Brian Atlasy'all were being very rude to me about my fashion choices I was deeply hurt and offended that all of you were hating on my flannel and you need to lose the flannel I think yeah

Aubryif maybe if you paired the flannel with like a nicer shirt underneath and then like some jeans like jeans babies

Brian Atlasbro have you ever tried to throw a [ __ ] high kick in jeans son how often throw more often than you would think son I'd be throwing kicks all day I'd be like I don't know high kicks like you never know when you're [ __ ] kicking

Brian Atlassome [ __ ] see I I dress for a zombie apocalypse I'm [ __ ] ready some some [ __ ] goes down bro [ __ ] hits the fan see you guys overlooked this [ __ ] because you'd be wearing heels and [ __ ] but us and Men we gotta be thinking okay

Brian AtlasI don't ever wear sandals when I go out in public because in case some [ __ ] goes down I want to be in some proper shoes so I can run yeah me and Brian wolf back to back that's what's up you guys

Brian Atlasdon't have the privilege hold on you guys don't have have the privilege of being conscious of these [ __ ] hits the fan scenarios that's why you all be wearing heels and [ __ ] you think you're

Brian Atlasgoing to run away from a tsunami and heal son no we're we're on the way we are here I do not wear heels California son there could be a tsunami I won't even let you

PriyaI have Puma Switz too I wear flannels I'm not trying to get to high grounds and some heels son Brian what is there ever is there ever an occasion that you do dress up huh I said is there ever an

Aubryoccasion that you do dress up funerals bar mitzvahs yeah no weddings no weddings and weddings I guess right just go to

Brian AtlasUtah everybody gets married in Utah everyone's getting married so Brian sweatpants are comfortable sweating's like every day yeah Bill Gates were wait Bill Gates uh Steve Jobs

AubryNew Balance and he's a bill he was a billionaire before he tragically died of cancer new balance is actually kind of nice what

Aubryhello what'd you say he didn't wear the same picture I mean should the bread matter that much like I just definitely quality but he said he's never been here's the thing here's what you guys

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