Jonah Hill EXPOSED By SALTY Ex-Girlfriend?! | Dating Talk #82

Date: 2023-07-10

Duration: 6h 31m

Guests

Brian Atlas

DDaria (DT176)>

NNicole (DT88)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS(audience)

SPEAKER_01Clip(audience)

SPEAKER_02Aubry(guest)

SPEAKER_03Burke(guest)

SPEAKER_04Grace(guest)

SPEAKER_05Daria(guest)

SPEAKER_06Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Jake(guest)

SPEAKER_10Nicole(guest)

SPEAKER_11Tasia(guest)

SPEAKER_12Mandy(guest)

SPEAKER_13Brittany(guest)

SPEAKER_14Priya(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteBurke introduces herself as an OnlyFans 'spicy content creator' from Virginia

“my name is Burke I'm 26 years old and I'm from Virginia but I live in LA uh now and I do only fans of spicy content creator”

QuoteDaria introduces herself as Iranian-born, from 'the valley downtown gay town'

“hi I'm Daria I'm uh 29 I'm from Iran grew up in the valley downtown gay Town”

QuoteJake (Rattlesnake TV) introduces himself as Australian YouTuber from Brisbane

“my name is Jake 27 rattlesnake TV on YouTube and I'm from Australia”

QuoteBurke defends Jonah Hill's texts as mature boundary-setting, not abuse

“I think that it's honestly pretty respectful of him to State what he wants to find in a romantic partner”

QuoteJake argues men are repulsed by high body count in women as an inherent reaction

“a lot of the time guys are actually quite repulsed by girls who have like a high body count it's something that's like we're internally inherently very repulsed by”

QuoteDaria discloses she completed rehab (sober 1 year) then relapsed when she moved to LA

“I did that but I that's because I know I have like other things I needed you know but still no no I did it finished are you sober not anymore how long were you sober a year”

QuoteNicole reveals she finds high body count attractive in a man

“there is something attractive about a man who has a high body count”

QuoteMandy discloses she wrote letters to a boyfriend who went to prison

“it was already like I was already thinking about not talking about drugs already before he had gotten in trouble um got in trouble talked to him for a little bit and then was like this is boring I need this in-person stuff”

QuoteAubry reveals her boyfriend of 1.5 weeks got a DUI and was extradited to Texas

“we became Like official boyfriend girlfriend a week and a half later he got a DUI upon being arrested for a DUI”

QuoteTasia says Albuquerque's dating scene is worse than the Ukraine war zone

“I'd say the dating scene is probably worse in Albuquerque than in Ukraine”

QuoteTasia explains conversion from hardcore leftist/atheist/feminist to conservative born-again Christian

“I think as well the atheists all focus on the liberal first so liberalism you're just constantly angry and offended”

QuoteTasia: 'There's a lot more racism in the left than on the right'

“I believe there's a lot more racism in the left than on the right”

QuoteTasia reveals she is a virgin (born-again celibate, saving herself for marriage)

“I'm a virgin oh did not know this are you waiting until marriage yes I am”

QuoteJake discusses potential co-hosting offer with Whatever Podcast; Brian raises international franchise idea

“you're down to be the co-host of whatever I'm looking for a co-host”

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions & Relationship Statuses

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation, location) and share current relationship status, how long they've been single, and longest relationship.

Jonah Hill Texts Controversy

Panel reacts to Jonah Hill's ex-girlfriend Sarah Brady posting his texts on Instagram, calling him abusive/misogynistic. Discussion of whether his boundary-setting was reasonable, whether posting it publicly was justified, and the context of feminist male self-identification.

Body Count & Relationship Value

Discussion of why men care about body count, the double standard between men and women, scarcity as a signal of value, and whether experience vs. selectivity matters differently by gender.

Mental Health & Substances Discussion

Guests share mental health status and substance use history. Daria discusses completing rehab (sober 1 year) and relapsing after moving to LA.

Self-Ratings Round

Guests rate their own physical appearance on a scale of 1-10. Discussion of bell curve distribution of attractiveness and objective vs. subjective beauty standards.

Prison Attraction & Female Fantasies

Discussion of women writing to men in prison, the book '365 Days' (captive romance fantasy), Richard Ramirez fangirls, and the book 'A Billion Wicked Thoughts' identifying women's top fantasy categories (vampire, surgeon, billionaire, pirate, werewolf).

Feminism Waves & Female Independence

Panel discussion of first, second, third wave feminism and emerging 'bimbo feminism.' General agreement that modern feminism has become harmful to the nuclear family and male-female complementarity. Discussion of whether anyone identifies as feminist.

Women Dating Men Who Earn Less

Would the guests date or marry a man who earns less than them? Discussion of hypergamy, stay-at-home dads, and whether income parity matters in relationships.

Age Gap Relationships

Panel discusses their biggest age-gap relationships. Nicole's 22-year gap (37/59). Priya's 10-year gap (21/31 with kids). Grace comfortable with 10-15 year gap if chemistry is right.

Background Information Round (Pre-Show Notes)

Brian works through pre-show notes for each guest: Tasia's ideological conversion (leftist-to-Christian), Priya's dating history (age-gap relationship, dating someone with kids, drug use in relationship), horse girl stigma discussion with Priya, Jonah Hill's Vice article on toxic masculinity.

Traditional vs Modern Gender Roles

Discussion of family backgrounds (divorced vs. intact parents), traditional vs 50/50 relationship dynamics, whether women want to be stay-at-home moms, and roles of each partner.

Social Media DMs Round

Brian asks each guest how many DMs they receive per week and what kinds (sugar daddy offers, random, etc.). Answers vary from 1-2/week (Grace, Priya) to 10-15/month (Daria) with most in single digits.

Andrew Tate Clip: Women Not Drinking Water

Panel reacts to an Andrew Tate video claiming women don't drink water and that's why they get headaches. General agreement that many people (not just women) don't hydrate properly.

Celebrity Crush Paying on Dates

Would you expect your celebrity crush to pay on a first date, or would you let it slide? Discussion of whether rules about who pays change based on a man's status and attractiveness.

After Show: International Dating & Travel

After-show with Priya, Madison, and Jake discussing European vs Eastern European dating culture, Japan/South Korea, Russia, traditional women by country. Jake recounts travels: Italy, Turkey, Thailand. Discussion of Whatever franchise/international expansion concept.

After Show: Emotional Detachment, Pair Bonding, Alpha Widow

Discussion of whether men fall in love with every woman they sleep with, emotional detachment in casual sex, pair bonding theory, and the 'alpha widow' concept from The Rational Male.

Transcript

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Burkeahead my name is Burke I'm 26 years old and I'm from Virginia but I live in LA uh now and I do only fans of spicy content creator

Dariarock and roll hi I'm Daria I'm uh 29 I'm from Iran grew up in the valley downtown gay Town

Dariawhatever uh school for photography but do music art modeling whatever when when did you move from Iran I was eight years old do you speak fars Farsi is it yeah I

Brian Atlasstill do you still speak it can we hear a little Farsi or uh of course yeah totally I agree okay uh what about you hi my

Mandyname is Mandy [Music]

Aubryfull-time only fans creator okay welcome my name is Aubry I'm 19 from Kansas live in Colorado currently and I am a

Brittanydoor-to-door solicitor salesperson sorry Age Again 19 19. okay got it what about you hi my name's Brittany I am 26 years old I

Tasiaam from this is and I am an only fans model all right hi my name is Tasia I'm 24 years old I'm from New Mexico and I'm a student pilot

Nicolemy name is Nicole I'm the panel Elder I'm 39 years old and I'm an investor and business owner originally from California and still live here sorry my pen my pen is [ __ ] up properly

Brian AtlasMaddie's getting me a new one so you're 20 what 24 24 and you're 39 correct thank you Maddie okay uh 24. holy [ __ ] this one's busted

Priyatoo okay it's I'll make it work okay um go ahead hi my name is Priya I'm 22 years old and I'm from Sacramento California

PriyaI co-run a family business I'm an athlete and I'm a full-time student at ASU online all right hi my name is Grace I'm 18 years old I'm

Gracefrom San Diego California and I'm a marketing student at John Paul the great Catholic University my name is Jake 27 rattlesnake TV on YouTube and I'm from Australia

Brian Atlaswhat part of Australia Brisbane Brisbane that's the East Coast right yeah okay sweet all right and uh so we're gonna go out on the table one more time what is your current relationship status are you

Brian Atlassingle you got friends with benefits talking stage situationship relationship uh and then also if you are single how long have you been single and what's your longest relationship go ahead

Burkeum okay so current relationship status very single um and I've been single for about oh god um I want to say like three years

Burkeum and then longest relationship was around it was like an on and off relationship for like six months

Dariaokay um I'm I'm very single as well uh last relationship like maybe two and a half

Dariayears ago I was what's the difference between single and very single oh like I'm you're not looking to not be single anytime

Dariaanytime me too you know like I'm I'm good you almost get married and so it's like talking to the market I'm gonna

Mandyreel back in like a lot yeah um I'm single longest relationship was a year about a year and a half ago was

Mandydid he break up or did you break up first um what did he do you do yeah

Jake[Laughter] I can I know what the answer is uh he broke up with me because I caught him cheating he broke up with you because you caught

Mandyhim cheating interesting interesting how that works right okay okay were you also cheating no no never yeah

Mandyall right sarcastic wait okay so just to recap single single

Aubrysingle okay no those those very single yeah very very soon

Brian Atlassorry Burke uh what's your age again 26 okay very single for the both of you you're single um how long have you guys been single again sorry I had to get up and fix something um I've been single for like three years

Brian AtlasI think didn't you have a Ting uh last time you were on the show I'm like wondering when was I March I think it was March or no wait

Burke[ __ ] only trying things was when I wore my blue wig and I'm like I think it was April what so you had a team January what's a Ting like a like a thing with someone but I like listen so you had a

BurkeTing you hold a blue wig now you have no Ting actually I honestly don't remember February February I think it was February when you were last on the show February

Burkeoh I don't even I don't if who it was honestly okay that's fine probably not that important yeah not probably not that important uh what about you yeah I'm single been single

Brittanyfor about two months my longest relationship is just over 10 months okay I am single um I'm in a situationship with my

Brittanyex-boyfriend um we probably been on and off for like two years now we broke up two years ago and my longest relationship was two and a half years

Jakeis that the current situationship no it was not okay I love that story your ex-boyfriend is your current situationship and your manager yeah it's a great Dynamic on the left

Brittanydo you make content with him or you do solo content you have to go check that out how much per month how much per month 15

Brittanyper month is there a discount use code whatever it's free 100 discounts please code whatever so the reason that we broke up I was still finding a lot out about

Brittanymyself you know went through some crazy stages and we just weren't in tune with each other timing yeah timing for sure heard that one before he's also in LA and I'm in Texas okay so it's kind of a long

Brian Atlasdistance a long distance situationship and he manages your only fans great Dynamic right there good times does he stop managing it when you guys are like you

Brian Atlasknow how people are on again off again like if it's in an off again does he kind of hands off when it comes to like uploading like nudes and [ __ ] no he's pretty professional when it comes to okay needing to stick to

Brittanyhe does give us our time if I'm like what the hell are you doing and then okay yeah all right good times good times I did I did see in in uh the pre-show

Brittanyinformation you provided for us you said you consider yourself uh traditional is that correct yes traditional in what sense so in traditional in a sense that I like to be like the Homemaker maker so if you

BrittanyI provide as well but if you provide I'm going to like I like to cook and I like to clean and I'll I don't know I'm just like a traditional housewife okay yeah I'm domesticated I definitely fall into that she's

Tasiadomesticated okay and also when you say traditional is there a religious component to that or not really no not really okay got it uh what about you I am single if you count a six day

Brian Atlascommitted relationship then I've been single for four months if that doesn't count it's been a year and a half how can we hold on wait okay can you just repeat that so there was a six day something yes a

Brian Atlascommitted Six-Day relationship the commitment lasted for six days indeed wow okay how did how did it that how just how

Brian Atlasum I don't know you'd have to ask him I I think what do you mean these men are scared they're scared they're scared well he committed to it for six days on the seventh day he said on the seventh day on the seventh day he pulled the

Brian Atlasplug yeah so I think good was created in six days huh so besides the kind of smart though yeah besides the six day thing it's been a you said a year and four months a year and a year and a half a

Brian Atlasyear and a half yeah just single single yeah single okay so you're currently single currently a single longest relationship was two and a half years okay and you've been single you said for four months was it or how long have you

Brian Atlasbeen single two months single four months if you count the six day Relationship okay so that was four months ago that was four months ago okay gotcha but if not a year and a half okay

Brian Atlasright and in our pre-show messages you said that you only date outside your state and fly out to go on dates every relationship I've been in has been long distance at one point if not the whole

Brian Atlasrelationship is that correct that is correct okay uh so you've never what's going on locally nothing locally or I live in a scary place where what do you mean

Brian Atlas[Music]

Brian AtlasI'm a fan of Kazakhstan I'd be glad to visit um wait it's okay uh what's a scary place are you like in uh the Border like the Border conflict where Ukraine and Russia is currently fighting or

TasiaCompton Breaking Bad new Albuquerque yeah Albuquerque hold on your Albuquerque is worse than the current Ukraine conflict I'd say the dating scene is probably

Brian Atlasworse in Albuquerque than in Ukraine Ukraine's Got traditional men at least six facts New Mexico is not is not good right now for dating it's scary yeah how so

Tasiaum there's not much to do so Got Drugs got alcohol gotta feminine men in New Mexico is New Mexico like more or liberal or conservative is

Tasiait well in the city I'm in it's pretty liberal Albuquerque's blue Albuquerque's blue yeah okay but I I do long distance for a multitude of reasons I think it helps Whiting when you widen the date

Jakeand pull you got better options are you getting flown out by the dudes or are you flying out to see the dudes no I fly out to see them don't you work in uh like an airline or what what's your job

Brian Atlasagain yeah I fly for free I work at an airline are you one of the desk people or are you a flight attendant no I'm desk person you're okay a ticket agent a ticket agent you get to fly for free I do get to fly well that's convenience

TasiaI'd be so flattered if someone flew to another state to come and go on a date with you but then you find out it was yeah part of their not the only one apparently but then six days later they abandon you what's up it's a win-win it's a win-win

Brian Atlasit's yeah it's pretty fun I recommend it if anyone if any of you okay so um have you done any international travel to meet a guy or is it strictly domestic

Brian Atlasum International it's a bit hard I dated in France for five months okay yeah so how are you meeting these dudes like are you just swiping in like New York

Brian Atlasand Vegas so you'll you're on dating apps right I am yeah and you'll like put your location as Vegas or LA or exactly where's your like Premier number one

Tasialocation you'd like to set it to Minneapolis huh elaborate Miranda got that tender premium

Tasianot on Tinder um yeah they they got sweet boys over there

TasiaI love the cold but also on when you start a long distance relationship first people get a lot more vulnerable because you're not face to face and it really yeah really moves things in a good

Dariadirection you don't have to like go through the physical phase first so you get to like know you know what I mean like you know that person deeper yeah would you would you date someone who

Tasiaworks uh for the APD Albuquerque Police Department my my two and a half year relationship is with the cop and she said stop

Brian Atlasin in your pre-show information you also said that you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist feminist but you now recently a Conservative born-again Christian thank you I'd love to hear it yes okay

Brian Atlasum so when you were dating the cop was this during your hardcore leftist atheist feminist phase or your Conservative born-again Christian phase hardcore leftist atheist feminist phase how did you reconcile your hardcore

Tasialeftist atheist feminist beliefs with dating a um I like to say it can be pretty convincing I think we both got to a point of being pretty moderate but I've always been a

Brian Atlastame leftist I mean isn't that kind of the antithesis of being a hardcore anything I mean you can't can you be tame hardcore my beliefs were hardcore my delivery was

Aubrysweet and gentle so okay my upbringing like were you brought up Christian or no or was it liberal Buddhist family oh

Nicoleyeah okay interesting okay um well uh moving on uh what about you so my longest relationship was two years

Priyaand I've been single for a year now all right my longest relationship was five months

GraceI'm currently single and have been so for almost a year now I'm currently in a relationship and this is the longest relationship it's been a

Jakemonth and a half so I'm very new you got this um yes I'm single not very single but single tried to slide into General

JakeOrtega's DMS she didn't reply so who's who James General Ortega you know the girl who doesn't dance that dance thing oh yeah yeah yeah I was like she didn't

Jakereply who the [ __ ] is that guy okay uh so you said sort of single or so I was single but not very single because the girls across were very simple they're very when they defined it they

Jakesaid that they don't want to be in a relationship anytime soon so I'm single but open-minded wait none of you want to be in a relationship

Burkeevery single listen if I meet the right person I can spoil me and make me happy down very single seems like Coke now agreed but yeah yeah

Brian Atlasokay we just don't want rattlesnake TV to misrepresent you know the you know you're you're what you're looking for at the moment so yeah

Brian Atlasokay all right so um the first thing that we're going to react to today is uh this came out about two days ago Jonah Hill are you guys all

Brian Atlasfamiliar with the famous actor Jonah Hill uh he was dating a woman two two and a half years ago they broke up I think he's now having a kid with

Brian Atlashis new I don't know if it's either married or new girlfriend um so I don't know if it was spurred on by the fact that he's announced that he's having a child or did I don't know if she the girlfriend gave birth in any

Brian Atlascase uh ex-girlfriend comes out of the woodwork saying Jonah Hill was emotionally abusive and controlling and manipulative and narcissistic and misogynistic and every buzzword that you can throw at somebody

Brian Atlasuh and there's a bunch of articles on this so uh if you can pull that up Nick so this is on TMZ uh ex-girlfriend posts his can you uh Mouse wheel control

Brian Atlasscroll up uh a little yeah that's fine okay uh scroll down blast him as misogynist uh scroll scroll down just a ton so we

Brian Atlascan read this oh nope nope up up nope now you're covering it scroll down nope scroll down yep yeah okay Jonah Hill's alleged dirty laundry is getting aired out by an ex

Brian Atlaswho's posting what she claims are a ton of old texts from him and painting painting him as a toxic partner surf instructor Sarah Brady uh jh's former

Brian Atlasflame of about a year from back in 2021 is dragging the new actor on her Instagram account and she's not holding anything back in her repudiation of him as an alleged misogynist narcissist as

Brian Atlasshe puts it herself and scroll down just a bit so we can see that's good right there um so the the primary one that we're going to react to is uh that one on the right

Brian Atlasum can you uh alt tab over one I just want to see what we have pulled up here or is it control tab I forgot

Brian Atlasum so this is Jonah Hill honest if you're curious 39 years old scroll down just a bit and every single like uh journal or whatever they're all writing about him glamor scroll down just a ton so we've got Vanity Fair glamor

Brian AtlasHuffington Post People magazine Washington Post scroll down uh Entertainment Weekly just keep scrolling keep scrolling uh okay I think that's fine go to the next one really quick yeah go to the next tab scroll

Brian Atlasdown so Huffington Post yeah just like pretty much every uh vulture Daily Mail independent they're all talking about

Brian Atlasthis this story of Jonah Hill misogynist narcissist abuser um so we're gonna actually investigate the text messages and we're going to get your guys's reaction to this uh can you go to the next tab

Brian Atlasso this these are um screenshots direct from her so this is just one of the posts she made and she this she says Reviving a pic I took down by request of a misogynist narcissist so I guess this is one of the

Brian Atlasphotos that he requested she takes down I think this one's fairly tame but there were definitely some other photos um go to the next Okay so

Brian Atlasthis is a text from Jonah Hill she took a screenshot of it and posted on her story um she says [ __ ] it plain and simple if you need this is from Jonah if you need

Brian Atlassurfing with men boundaryless inappropriate friendships with men to model to post picture I guess this is a list to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit to post sexual pictures

Brian Atlasfriendships with women are in unstable places and from your wild recent past Beyond getting lunch or a coffee or something wait sorry what happened there why why were we not visible in the

Brian Atlaswindow tab or were we previously in the window tab uh put put it put it back into the window tab though please

Brian Atlasand you can I mean you can make a bigger uh there's the other gh5 Center down there the eyeball

Brian Atlasyeah cool thank you thank you um so friendships with women who are in unstable places from your wild recent past Beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful I am not the right

Brian Atlaspartner for you if these if these things bring you to a place of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings these are my boundaries for for romantic partnership my boundaries with

Brian Atlasyou based on the way ways these actions have hurt our trust uh so there's a bunch of other screenshots but we're going to just start focusing on this one to start um

Brian Atlasso I guess there's a couple questions here and I'll open it up to you guys do you consider this to be abusive do you consider it to be is this manipulative controlling or do you think it's reasonable and then also do you think it

Burkeshould have been shared publicly so let's start with you Burke why don't you go ahead okay so first I'd like to say that I think that it's honestly pretty respectful of him to State what he wants to find in a romantic partner and if she

Burkeis not doing those things like there are so many people in this world that he can find that would respect that and I think that it's very like I love how he said like the boundaries and stuff instead of

Burkegoing off on her or anything like that like I think that that's like I think that's great yeah I think that that's a very mature and adult thing to do communicate your boundaries yeah

Dariawell a like definitely I don't think that should have been like shared publicly like personal like tips or like whatever that should be kept to yourself and if

Dariayou get bothered that people like comment on it like it was your choice to put it out there but aside from that like yeah I do agree like at least he

Dariasaid what he wanted and like it wasn't necessarily in like a mean way either um yeah we can pull it back up really quick um go to the window tab

Brian Atlasso I mean he says um I'm not the right partner for you if those things bring you to a place of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings these are my boundaries for romantic Partnerships so he's saying

Brian Atlaslike look if you want to break up basically that's totally fine respect it just this is what I want in a romantic relationship I mean yeah I feel like he definitely

Dariadid the best he could in that situation like what regardless of like whatever else we don't know about like because that could play like a part in her reaction but it's still not like okay to

Darialike put put people on blast like that even if you're like separated or something's happened between you guys it's not other people's business to comment on or know about but

Dariaespecially like if no one's forcing you why do you think she did it why do you think she you know some people emotion over logic when like that's you think maybe it has

Dariasomething to do with the fact that he just had a child and he's happy it could be it could have sparked up like some old you know like whatever issues she had with him while she was with him he could have sparked it up and made her think

Brian Atlasabout it again but it's still still not okay yeah he said it pretty respectfully yeah and also let's just uh it's okay if you you know I I suspect that most of us at this

Brian Atlastable are going to say probably shouldn't have shared it publicly but you might actually think well maybe he was he was being a bit controlling or maybe he was you know maybe he shouldn't try to restrict what his girlfriend is

Brian Atlasposting online or you know who she's associating with and hanging out with so um so I don't want you to necessarily like just because she perhaps overstepped by

Brian Atlassharing it publicly that she might not also be in some ways I don't think she would necessarily be wrong for saying well hey I do want to post this stuff and then the relationship should end

Brian Atlasthere um but uh perhaps a better way to frame this question and we will continue going around the table is would you object to a boyfriend or potential boyfriend

Brian Atlaswanting to restrict you from posting risque photos online from associating with like single or single female friends who are [ __ ] out partying and doing drugs and

Brian Atlaswe don't know all the details but I mean it sounded like she was associating with some Scoundrels let's just say so

Dariamy pocket I'm gonna say like especially if like you you met me a certain way and you wanted to be in a relationship with me knowing that that that's who I am these are my friends

Dariathis is what I do after you try to tell me like don't post or don't but when you first were like meeting me that's what you saw and that's what you came and got in a

Dariarelationship with me for like you can't kind of that part's a little too much so but you know you have the option like he doesn't agree with that that's fine there's plenty of other people that agree with it but like

Mandythat's mine I don't see it as like manipulative uh or like anything like abusive like that I could see how people could see it like that because some people don't like being told what to do

Mandyum especially when it comes to social media because social media is a big piece of life I guess now but I mean as an only fans Creator yeah it would be kind of hard for someone in a

Mandyrelationship with me to tell me to not post scandalous things online because that's kind of my job but um you know there's just some things like hanging out with men um With No Boundaries is weird you

Mandyshouldn't do that when you're in a full committed relationship and I'm not sure what else he like put up as like the rules we can pull it back up really quick just

Brian Atlasto give everyone a little reminder so she she didn't want him to be surfing with men boundary-less inappropriate friendships with men to model to post pictures of

Brian Atlasyourself in a bathing suit to post sexual pictures friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent past Beyond getting a lunch or

Dariacoffee or something respectful I agree with that well you're making a little bit of a it's like something respectable yeah like can I only get coffee with my

Dariafriend and like what [ __ ] next excuse me like exchange little like notes about my recent like escapades and that's it like that all right bye like that's it brunch he probably doesn't he probably

Brian Atlasdoesn't want his girl like going to the club or the bar with her with her single female friend single girls or recruiters yeah

TTSyeah oh hold on just one Malik donated 100 God forbid a man emotionally manipulate a woman into being a good candidate to be the mother of his kids

Brian Atlasword yo Devon thank you for the TTS man very much appreciated yeah I mean um good point David is that Devon okay

Mandyanyways go ahead thank you man but yeah on the way over here we me and Brooke were talking about how like as a friend you should be able to point your good friends right or wrong and tell them and

Jakethey should be able to take that as perspective and do you think that girls tend to do that because I find that a lot of the time when girls have single friends the single friends tend to be recruiters they want you to come join the single train again a lot of single

Mandygirls they look at their friends and they no matter if they're on the wrong or the right you look at your friend as like okay you're hurting let's go out and party let's get you know let's turn it down do you think do you think that's good good advice for a girl in a relationship with a man who has an 11

Mandymillion house in Malibu no not always after a student you gotta like you kind of just [ __ ] it like sorry it's okay you get you get hurt you gotta pick yourself up and you gotta get your stuff together

Jakeso so if one of your friends is in a happy relationship and they have a fight and she's hurting you'll come and say let's go party did they disrespect you was it overstepping any boundaries

Mandyno I'm just saying is that is that what you'd say no if as long as they weren't disrespecting you No Boundaries are overstep fix that with your relationship you're happier wait so you wouldn't as the friend tell them to come out and party with you that wouldn't be your advice no can I have you tilt your

Dariamicrophone down just a little bit and get a little closer to it perfect good good good a couple people are saying your mic's a little uh but why does it matter if you like want to go party with your friend like does that

Jakemean like directly like oh put yourself in Johnny Hills shoes for just a second so if if your girl goes out and parties in LA with her friends crazy friends from a recent past and she's like

Jakehurting or whatever it is I'm not sure what the situation was don't you think that's pretty much that's a pretty big red flag for Jonah Hill that his his hurting girlfriend is going to go out and party 100 yes because you

Burkeknow that those single friends are in her here are in her ear like oh like it's okay I already dance with that guy like I think that's very talkative he'll never know you'll never know and can I ask you guys just just quickly to follow up is

Jakeit what's more unattractive a man who sets boundaries like I think Jonah Hill's a bit of a [ __ ] if I'm honest but like a man who sets boundaries or a man who has no boundaries

Burkewhat's more attractive what's more what's more unattractive is someone that

Brian Atlasanybody else any other women in his life is like exactly yeah you're like a man who tells you what to do let's uh just continue around the table give everybody an opportunity to win and not weigh in on this what about you um I don't

Aubrystated his boundaries and he's very clear with it I think oftentimes women are really quick to throw the word abuse out there um and that and maybe like in other areas of their relationship there was like semi like there's a whole scale

Aubryobviously of what can be considered abuse and that screenshot specifically though like he was respectful and he just stated where he was at and I mean if you looked at it turn the other direction like and it was her sending

Aubrythe text message she probably would have a ton of people on her side with it but kind of double standard sometimes yeah yeah

Brittanywhat about you can you go back to the screenshot um I'm pretty sure when I read it considering the job that I have um I'm gonna have to post those pictures so I'm not going to date anyone that's going to tell me that I can't I do

Brittanyrespect that that's not what you want though um but he stated right there that he's happy for her there's no hard feelings so he did give her the option

Brittanyshe doesn't do only pens though she's she's a surfer like well doesn't she surf in her I mean like cute like bum photos when she's surfing you know yeah I mean she's she's taking those pictures for herself she feels good in those

Aubrypictures so she should be able to post what does she need to post it then she feels so good I feel like it comes down to the intent like I take I definitely take pictures and I'll save it for myself but like I don't know I feel like it is like getting validation from other people or

Mandylike most other guys because girls you're not really posting for other girls like your body it's more so other guys sure if you're posting it because your bum looks cute and you're surfing yeah do we all have Instagram everyone have Instagram you guys post on

MandyInstagram yes don't you guys oh you don't film students no I don't post bikini photos how many green flags over here but we all we all post photos just to

Tasiaupdate our lives with people around us we'll come to that once we let everybody answer go ahead I pretty much agree with everyone I do want to add that Jonah Hill brought this on himself and he was making Reckless

Tasiadecisions and picking a partner if he saw those photos that should have been something that was addressed before entering into a relationship with her I think all of his boundaries were valid except for she can't surf with other

Brian Atlasguys because I'm pretty sure she's a professional Surfer so it's like a work thing well I think I think it's like intentionally going out like paddling out that I use i surf

Brian Atlasuh paddling out with a guy sitting next to him talking to him I think it's like in the same way if you just like went on a hangout with a male alone it's kind of a

Brian Atlaslittle suspect but I mean so you're saying that because he should have known get going in that while she was already posting these kind of photos and she was

Brian Atlasalready doing this before they got into a relationship that it's kind of like well you should just accept it and now that you're in the relationship he should have never gotten into it in the first place if that wasn't addressed

Brian AtlasI mean it's fair like for example some of you you guys here do only fans it's kind of like if you date a girl knowing up front that she does only fans and

Brian Atlasthen expect her to stop doing only fans I mean you could you could negotiate that but it's like it's going to be a pretty tough sell I think

Brian Atlasum unless you're prepared to like fully support the girl at her income level whatever she's making um but but I I think what his issue was is I don't think she was like a model I

Brian Atlasdon't think she was like making money from posting on Instagram I think it was more like more hobbyist and so wouldn't it be fair to say like because I think

Brian Atlaswhat originally happened is he saw her like cute sexy surfing photos so you could argue hey I mean this is what you first messaged when you saw me why should I have to take it down but

Brian Atlascouldn't you make the argument that like you have no problem in she was engaging in what he considered single Behavior but once they started dating he wanted

Brian Atlasher to act in a way that he thought was consistent with being in a relationship and his thing was well okay you were single you're posting these kind of revealing photos fine now that I'm in a

Tasiarelationship with you though I want that to stop yeah I still think it should have been a conversation way sooner but I commend him for how he handled it I don't think he was totally sure bogus okay what

Brian Atlasabout you what do you want to know specifically well just I mean your reaction do you uh um I think you think it's abusive do you think it was manipulative controlling you think it's okay what do you think I think when a text message goes out like

Nicolethat that looks like it was constructed in notes for like hours and hours the problem started a lot earlier than when it was sent my guess is that someone like that probably had difficulty setting boundaries in the first place and I

Nicolethink that we're allowed to have our preferences and boundaries and what we want with a partner and if we see things if we see things in their behavior if I see something in a man's behavior that I don't like

NicoleI just step away I exit the situation I'm I'm not big into like Behavior control of a man that I'm with so

Nicolethat text to me seems like things got really bad he was like final straw here are the bullet points and I'm kind of like Well why'd you stay so long

Priyayeah I definitely think that that is a conversation that needs to happen sooner in a relationship I'm not too sure how long their relationship lasted but I definitely think that it it should have happened soon in a relationship

Priyaall of his boundaries are completely valid um especially being a um for lack of better words a celebrity of some sorts you kind of have to protect your image at some point and the people

Priyathat you date are definitely going to be associated with you with

Graceum I totally agree with you guys I feel like they should have had that conversation so much sooner and over text it's just kind of weird because you're in a relationship with that person so you're they're like your best

Gracefriend I feel like you shouldn't be hiding all these emotions for so long and like not addressing that in person in a conversation it shouldn't have been this bulleted list like that makes no sense if you're actually in a good

Jakerelationship yeah Jonah Hill is also a male feminist as well just so we know so he's he's he obviously he had he had zero frame in that relationship that was absolutely clear he should have set that from the

Jakejump and the fact that he had to say all those things means that she's already crossed all of those boundaries already so it should have happened at the very start How would how would you introduce that earlier on like because do you think

Jakeit's maybe like you know second day that's like take down these photos you think it's maybe like much or probably from the start like he he can see who she is he can see that she loves surfing he can

Brian Atlassee that she's got a nice cute band that she posts on on Instagram so he should have just said it from the jump okay yeah got it and what we're gonna do so that wasn't the only thing she posted so

Brian Atlasuh Nick can I have you pull it back up and then

Brian Atlasyeah go to the next one there's a [ __ ] ton okay so uh then she started posting a bunch of like kind of semi-related stuff there's something about

Brian Atlasthe equality wheel um for domestic violence I don't know um what is she wanting to achieve by posting all of this she said she's a bitter person who's lost a millionaire I

Brian Atlaskind of believe that he's abusive now if you look at the very top look how many stories she's posted that in itself is a red flag like even if it's not like if you're posting that many stories a day

Brian AtlasI'm sorry that's funny if you're posting memes and [ __ ] that's what I play um [ __ ] 20 20 30 memes a day about [ __ ] anyways uh next one there's a ton we're gonna go through them all really quickly

Brian Atlasum next one uh okay just like she's posting about it um she says that uh it was emotional

Brian Atlasabuse not physical I mean I it's really not abuse but okay next not abuse at all um this is a warning to all girls if your partner is

Brian Atlastalking to you like this make an Exit Plan love you all call me if you need an ear so I mean this is in reference to the list or whatever Exit Plan from Jonah Hill yeah

Dariaum so I think she has a clear

Brian Atlaskeep going next one um uh sort of done with explaining this also like one thing I just point out is

Brian Atlasa lot of her and we'll see this she's mostly taking Snippets of what he said sometimes you see her responses and I don't know anytime you're just like excluding your responses like it'd

Brian Atlasbe interesting to obviously see the full unedited back and forth that they've had but let's see the next one okay there's just more back and forth next one she posted so much I too

Brian Atlasstruggle with mental health but I do not use it to control people like he did to me it's been a year of healing and growth with the help of loved ones and doctors to get back to living my life without guilt shame and self-judgment

Brian Atlasfor things as small as surfing in the swimsuit rather this seems like a very um a very I don't know

Brian Atlaslike soft per like you're destroyed because he look even if you even if you're of the opinion that

Brian Atlasthis is controlling Behavior it does not rise to the level of like abusive like it might be controlling but like

BurkeI feel like before because we don't know the context so like he stated those things and was like oh like you need to work on these things she could have been like oh yes definitely I will do that and then it progressively he started to get more and more frustrated because she

Jakewas promising that she would change something and she didn't this is called this is like her [ __ ] testing game though yeah yeah she'll she'll keep pushing the boundaries pushing the boundaries pushing the boundaries and then here we go to Instagram stories that had something to do with like her

Aubryupbringing too because if she had that much like guilt and shame to work through it's probably and oftentimes people get into relationships that are familiar and familiar with like family so it's like you get into these unhealthy Dynamics with similar things

Aubryyou were um yeah trauma Bond and so it sounds like there's maybe some deeper rooted childhood trauma behind some of her I guess feeling this way that it was

Aubryabusive I do think like there is a fine line between like abuse in that sense especially emotional like it's really hard to gain teach that because it's very different obviously than physical abuse but yeah I mean there's more of

Brian Atlasthat we have some more that we have to react to If you want to uh next one okay um

Brian Atlasmore just next one sharing this publicly now because keeping it to myself was causing more damage to my mental health than sharing it could ever do

Priyareal I mean I find it very interesting when people need to share their personal life especially like this on the internet it seems very attention seeky and needing to play the victim and get

Priyaattention there's no reason that she should have posted any of this on the internet it doesn't help anybody and she's pretty delusional if she truly thinks that this is any sort of abuse facts it's never okay to post your stuff so I have no respect for Prince Harry

Priyaputting his dirty laundry out with his family and like this there's no excuse for it especially if you claim that you want privacy and don't want to be in the public eye and then sign multiple contracts to publish your

Brian Atlasyour it's very interesting yeah I mean it's definitely a pretty bad look to one to like talk [ __ ] publicly talk poorly about uh an ex I mean how many

Brian Atlaslike relationships are truly I mean some relationships will end amicably but I mean there's always some people have arguments people have disagreements I mean I'm sure like everyone here has

Brian Atlassome X that could either you could say maybe something negative about or they could say something negative about you maybe even you yourself reflect back on a past dating experience and you're like maybe I could have handled this better

Brian Atlasmaybe I shouldn't have said this maybe I should have just moved on whatever whatever it may be so I mean I think it's just like nobody's perfect and to just be publicly airing the [ __ ] is it's

Brian Atlasso it's such I mean if you were like actually like physically abused or emotionally abused then

Priyaseems very me too s and not the same not the right place to address this no and yeah like I said none of that's gonna help anybody else other than you know getting yourself attention um

Brian Atlasum let's pull it back up because there's a [ __ ] ton more we'll try to blast through them next one please this is what healing looks like and I guess she's text it's so like self-congratulatory like Pat myself on

Brian Atlasthe back I'm a victim blah blah blah let's see the next one uh Teen Vogue did for me what couples therapy didn't my boyfriend and this is something from Teen Vogue my boyfriend says the way I dress at the beach is too

Brian Atlasrevealing he says I shouldn't wear bikinis or short shorts I don't want it to make him feel bad but I like my style which I do ditch the boyfriend keep the bikini and hey looks if if that's just you want to dress how you want to dress

Brian Atlasif that's just non-negotiable for you and you're a woman I think that's fine and I think men are justified in having their preferences and boundaries it just comes down to a negotiation and a

Priyaconversation um let's bring it back okay and she he gave

Priyayeah if she wanted it she could have said okay like those are your boundaries I I don't agree I'm not gonna abide by those I'm gonna do what I want to do she could have left he said no hard feelings

Brian Atlasthat's totally fine I wish you the best but she didn't I'm curious to know how much longer because I don't know if they maybe someone knows from the point you know she took the screenshots of that

Brian Atlasconversation I think they stayed together I think she she uh obliged him in his requests she took the photos down

Brian Atlasso they stayed together and I think now years after the fact she's after he's just had a kid that's kind of sauce yeah it is very interesting that this is happening two years after their

Priyarelationship ended there has to be some sort of incentive I get that his girlfriend is pregnant now but I feel like there has to be some sort of other incentive for her to post these so well even even what she's saying and what other people are saying and I don't know

Brian Atlasif we have the screenshots of this she's saying that well sometimes you don't realize you were traumatized until years later and and uh you know sometimes you have to work through you know

Brian Atlasto to really know that something happened in the past that was wrong and maybe that may be the case but I mean

Burkegood and post it on social media go to therapy like go take it therapy don't have to go to Teen Vogue yeah Teen Vogue yeah yeah uh let's pull it back up let's

Brian Atlastry to get through all of them uh Gaslight much even the person I loved and shared a bed with uses me and can't just be like yeah you were super nice it hurts so badly but I'm done apologizing

Brian AtlasI was so lovely to you 8 31 22. I'm assuming that's a text message I think that's sent to her yeah it is um next one

Brian Atlasand then some memes the right boundaries in the right places don't limit they liberate okay here come the memes that feel good okay as you heal you'll start trying to force people to see you in ways they're unwilling to you'll

Brian Atlasremember more often that choosing yourself is sacred even if others don't okay next she being our couple okay so I guess they went to couples therapy or it's

Brian Atlaslike um okay next

Brian Atlasthey're so Hall if there's so many of these um uh

Brian Atlassafe word it was pineapple okay next okay yeah oh and this we yeah this is the one we already saw um if I'm not the right partner for you number one

Brian Atlasboyfriend so Jonah I don't think Jonah Hill was 100 perfect here he he was sending her like walls of text which maybe came across I mean definitely a little bit a little bit uh much a little

Brian Atlastoo much a little extra um you know sending like I said sending these long walls of text um but I mean she's being pretty crazy and opportunistic with the victim card um so weird that it's texts though don't

Priyayou think like that is an absolute face-to-face conversation every day of the week yeah yeah and it seems very contract like you know like the bullet points and all of it I

PriyaI feel like you this is a conversation you could absolutely have in person so it is very interesting hold on just a second Destroyer donated 100 get in my

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Brian Atlasribs uh grow like a destroyer thank you very much uh for your TTS much appreciated all right Priya you were you were saying uh um he was saying it's contracty yeah I I mean I think

PriyaI can flag right there also that he didn't have the conversation earlier in the relationship it's very interesting I'm not too educated on Jonah Hill and his you know his beliefs and his career

Aubryother than his pretty mainstream stuff but yeah it seems like that they're you know nobody was perfect in that relationship I can't say I think I could understand why like like obviously I think it's definitely better to handle

Aubrythings if not face to face like at least over a phone call but I understand like if things had gone as toxic toxic as they did why maybe it came to text message instead I know like sometimes any any man who is self-respecting would

Jakesee that situation and be like I'll talk to you when I see you do it hands off like I don't know how you guys could ever respect a man who would who would send those little

AubryI guess more so it depends on who initiated over the over text message because a lot of the time I think women would be more inclined yeah and then she just pushes him

Jaketherapy that's a red flag that they're in there

Dariait can't be like don't take it personally like you're going to therapy too like don't you kind of get the gist of like how I don't know I think she definitely should have I think it definitely should have taken more of initiative in the beginning relationship

Aubryto State those boundaries but I could understand why after it gets that point where he like hadn't had that voice for so long why he was doing it the way he did but I agree he should have kind of taken it from the

Brian Atlasbeginning yeah let's let's pull up more of uh let's let's see the rest I mean there's a bunch we'll just try to blast through them uh next one oh oh sorry oh [ __ ] basically that we we don't have to go back but the previous one uh he was

Brian Atlasbeing pretty cringe actually if you can go back one Nick you'll have to go uh here I'm gonna switch it back here and if you can just go out of the f11 and do it but uh and guys we have some spicy stuff coming up after this Jonah

Brian Atlasreaction so uh wait why should I go to therapy oh f11 yeah you're good uh so he is being like

Brian Atlasliterally just say hello and leave the convo I love how your therapist thinks I suck I literally am the best boyfriend on Earth that's pretty [ __ ] cringe that jerking he sounds he sounds like Jonah Hill from Superbad yeah he sounds

Jakethat's something that I'd expect he's super bad character but like this is the problem with guys who get really rich and famous and they're still dorks is the fact that like you know he he clearly can't hold that frame and he can't have that conversation because

Brian Atlasyeah he still thinks that he's fat Jonah Hill from pre super bad you know he lost weight though so I mean good for him yeah but he's I think he's still he still exists

Brian Atlaswell he he's like super woke and yeah yeah actually there was a vice uh pull it back up next one

Brian Atlasuh uh okay I don't know where this is uh okay there's just more uh icky to see him how icky to see how I took blame for

Aubryhim okay I guess I don't know next well even on that last text that she sent she's manipulating him by saying that did you read that I'm not I was like skimming it it's like I'm not good

Burkeenough for you and I know like well like that's her manipulating him and also she left out because she said I'm sorry I said that like what did you say right so she was like okay yeah she said she's drunk so she took this stuff to say stuff she shouldn't and another thing

Jakeshe kept on trying to realize that like oh it's because I'm socially like I'm socially girls are very socially she's got this victim mindset of like I'm just the victim and like then pushing the

Mandymanipulation back on him absolutely if someone ever says I'm I'm not they are obviously telling you something that you don't know yet and obviously they know it can be can be cute from a girl the guy says it leave

Jakeyes it can be coming from a girl I'm not good enough no no because if a guy says that it's it's a simping thing but if a girl says it's a difference between guys and girls

Jakewhen it comes to simping girls get get rewarded for simping guys get broken up with for simply it's very different if a girl dotes on you and says you know oh like I'm not good enough you you're so amazing that's that's a great thing

Dariathat's a green flag but if I say that to you you'll it'll be the biggest kiss Angel feed like you know what I mean yeah exactly men just want to be respected ultimately there's certain things that you girls live for certain

Jakemoments and the moments we live for is when you come up and just say I love you I could not live without you I respect you but I feel like if they say that they don't feel like they're good enough for you foreign I feel like if they say that they're they don't feel like they're good enough

Gracefor you that means they're struggling with that a little bit on their own and so they don't feel good in that relationship I don't think it's good I think that you should feel like comfortable with your partner not like your inferior to them

Jakeno I think that the girl always has to love the guy a little bit more than the God loves the girl so if she feels like she's kind of chasing him she feels like that like he's the absolute best she can get then she's not going to leave him so she feels like she's above him then

Graceshe'll leave I don't think she should feel above him I just don't feel like she should feel like she's lesser than him or like she's not good enough I feel like she shouldn't feel like she's not good enough you know do you have you

Jakeever heard of the term hypergamy no yes so women are hypergamous datas which means that they like to date across and up socioeconomic hierarchy men can date down like I'd be happy to date a girl

Jakewho works at KFC do you guys get KFC here yes yes yeah I'd be happy to work daddy girl that works at KFC if I worked at KFC you guys wouldn't look twice at me so women tend to date up so we want

Burkewe want you we want you to look you guys see that but I feel like that is there's a double standard for that for sure yeah what's the double standard like that that people you'll see that you'll date someone that works like a

Burkeman that works at KFC but when you're in that situation would you really no God no yeah no one at this table I'm being honest like would you really it depends any girls here who would date a fast food worker

Brian Atlasso your KFC worker is studying medicine I mean but let's also do a tier list okay it's different we should do let's do a tier list of the respective fast food restaurants because not all are you

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