33 First Dates In 3 MONTHS?! ft. Think Before You Sleep | Dating Talk #84

Date: 2023-07-17

Duration: 5h 12m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBrittany Venti >

SSean (Think Before You Sleep)>

JJasmine Jafar >

JJosie (DT84-Montreal)>

VVeronica (DT84)>

MMadison (SBCC)>

SSophia (DT84)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_01Byronique(guest)

SPEAKER_02Veronica(guest)

SPEAKER_03Sean (Think Before You Sleep)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_05Josie(guest)

SPEAKER_06Jasmine Jafar(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brittany Venti(guest)

SPEAKER_08Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_09Sophia(guest)

SPEAKER_10Anna(guest)

SPEAKER_11Lana(guest)

Key Moments

IntroGuest introductions — Brittany Venti through Madison in seating order

“"hi I'm Brittany venti I'm a YouTuber... I'm Sean I run a YouTube channel called think before you sleep... my name's Anna... I'm Lana I'm 39... my name is Jasmine Jafar I am 28 and I am an only fans Creator as well as a licensed attorney... 33 for about two more months I am a stand-up comedian I am a social media content creator... I'm Josie I'm 27... my name is Veronica I'm 35 years old... my name is Madison I'm 18 years old"”

QuoteLana introduces herself and reveals partner died; she is essentially widowed with a 5yo daughter

“"hi I'm Lana I'm 39... I am an accountant I am also a mom and last but not least I do only fans... I'm currently single my longest relationship was seven years... not legally [married]... he passed away... last year"”

RelationshipJosie reveals she is going through a divorce while in a new 2-year relationship

“"I don't know if I'm divorced yet but uh divorce... was married longest relationship uh six seven years currently in a relationship yeah taken for two years"”

QuoteBrian reads from Jasmine's pre-show form: she went on 33 first dates in ~2.5 months, all on Hinge

“"so starting with Jasmine who uh is an attorney uh in your Instagram you describe yourself as a lawyer and hoe... you ended up going on 33 dates in around 2.5 months... just a point of clarification are these 33 dates all first dates with different guys? yes"”

QuoteJasmine reveals she slept with only 1 of 33 dates and has a total body count of 7

“"of the 33 guys how many did you hook up with... just one... I've only slept with seven people"”

QuoteSophia arrives late (from Bakersfield) and her first words introduce her relationship reconciliation

“"okay well welcome by the way my boyfriend and I we did have sex and we've been in a in a relationship for a year now"”

QuoteJasmine reveals she makes the guy she likes wait 2-6 months for sex but slept with BG content partner same day

“"two to six months... I like making them wait... I like making them control themselves... the guy I do BG content with now we hooked up the same day we met but that was an anomaly for sure"”

Key MomentBrian challenges Jasmine on her different sexual standards for different men — waiting vs. fast hookup

“"the guy who you are now currently [sleeping with] who you do porn with... you slept with him like the first time you met... however the guy who you [want a relationship from] you make them wait for sex"”

QuoteLana self-rates approximately 9 for being almost 40 with a kid

“"looks wise I'd say for being almost 40 and being a mom I'm probably like a nine"”

QuoteByronique tells story of friend's baby daddy who quit firefighter school to avoid child support

“"she got pregnant by the guy that guy didn't want the baby... when he found out she was pregnant... he stopped going to school to be a fireman because he knew they would be taking so much of that damn fireman check"”

QuoteJasmine self-rates as 9.22735 (joke precise answer)

“"I changed my answer 9.22735 beautiful okay let's move on"”

QuoteAnna self-rates 4-5 based on self-perception (Goblin mode) but 7-8 based on male feedback

“"I think I'm probably because I see myself in Goblin mode every day so I would say natural state I'm like a four or five but my personality I found is what people at least you know guys find attractive about me So based on my perception of myself four or five and based on guys like a seven"”

QuoteSean deflects self-rating with "I'm a 10"

“"uh I'm just gonna say I'm a 10"”

QuoteBrian tells story of Japanese woman who said his anatomy was too large — "the furthest I've ever gone" — punchline

“"I had a girl I dated who said that she saw me as a boyfriend but after having sex three days later she said that she changed her mind because my schlong was too big for her... this is in Japan FYI with a Japanese woman"”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Announcements

Brian introduces show. Co-host Kiki mentioned as shy. Guests introduce in order: Brittany Venti (YouTuber, 30, NY/Texas, in relationship with Sean), Sean/Think Before You Sleep (32, YouTuber, in relationship with Brittany), Anna (20s, AAA gaming freelancer/cosplayer, engaged), Lana (39, accountant/OnlyFans, single mom, partner died), Jasmine Jafar (28, OnlyFans/attorney), Byronique (33, comedian/content creator, Compton, single), Josie (27, cyclist/content creator/cyber security, Montreal, in relationship/divorcing), Veronica (35, OT student/model, single), Madison (18, SBCC student/Whatever co-host). Sophia expected but late — show proceeds without her.

Relationship Status Round

Brittany & Sean: in relationship ~1 year, met via Patreon/online. Anna: engaged (1 month engagement, 7-year relationship; July 3 anniversary). Lana: single (partner of ~7 years died last year; 5yo daughter). Jasmine: FWB situation (BG content partner). Byronique: single, just met a French/Mexican man. Josie: in 2-year relationship, going through divorce (husband initiated, mediation). Veronica: single (recently ghosted, relationships only last ~3 months due to clinginess). Madison: in relationship. Sophia allowed in via chat donation; sits in back without mic.

Only Fans Ethics — Ghostwriting DMs

Jasmine raises whether it's ethical to have someone else manage your OnlyFans DMs and pretend to be you. Brittany argues it's not ethical — parasocial deception. Jasmine says she does all her own DMs for ethical reasons and limits purchases. Josie reveals she works as an OF DM ghostwriter (and Tinder/dating app opener writer for men). Discussion of men who spend kids' college funds on OF, manipulation dynamics on both sides, and whether OF facilitates relationship infidelity.

Romance vs. Transactionalism in Modern Dating

Brittany argues men vs. women war has sucked romance out of relationships. Brian asks her to define romance. She describes it as genuine mutual interest and commitment, not just romantic gestures. Discussion of how dating has become transactional (money, resources, body counts as metrics). Panel discusses how unclear relationship labels have proliferated; Brittany argues clearer commitment structures (boyfriend/girlfriend, marriage) reduce the need for OF-type parasocial relationships.

Jasmine's 33 First Dates in 2.5 Months

Main episode topic: Jasmine Jafar went on 33 first dates in approximately 2.5 months, all via Hinge, during law school bar exam prep period. Kept a phone list. 4 of 33 became repeat dates (saw them more than once). Slept with only 1 of the 33 (the one she does BG content with). Once had 2 dates in a single day. Brian argues top 1% of men could do this; top 50% of women could. Discussion of whether this indicates abundance or desperation on men's part. Panel debates whether 33 dates is impressive or exhausting. Josie notes social anxiety would prevent her from doing the same.

First Date / Early Sex and Relationship Outcomes

Brian asks panel about relationships where sex happened early (first 1-3 dates). Sophia shares she had sex with current boyfriend ~a month after meeting (friends first). Veronica: hooked up around 2 weeks / 3rd meetup. Josie: alcohol involved. Jasmine: usual wait is 2-6 months; one exception was BG content partner (same day, anomaly). Brittany: anti-hookup culture; argues early sex is promiscuous behavior by definition. Brian: disputes that early sex equals promiscuity if low partner count. Sean: pattern behavior is key indicator. Discussion of whether "first night sex" is necessarily a bad sign for relationship quality.

Who Has It Harder in Dating — Men vs Women

Brian argues top 50% of women could secure 33 dates in 3 months; top 1% of men could. Jasmine's 33-date experiment cited as evidence of asymmetric dating market access. Discussion of whether quality relationships are harder for women (emotional availability, commitment-seeking) while quantity (dates, sex) is easier. Brittany argues it's hard for both in different ways. Sean notes that women complaining about dating apps often means they reject a lot of men; men complain about no matches.

Dating App Debate — Pros and Cons

Anna credits dating apps with boosting her confidence during college. Josie argues men should delete apps and meet people in real life through hobbies. Brittany agrees apps are less effective but useful for connection. Discussion of how apps have reduced men's in-person approach confidence. Jasmine notes social skills are worse without apps. Sean argues that heavy app users likely have other social deficits. Brian and panel discuss stigma shift: meeting online was weird 10-20 years ago, approaching in person is increasingly frowned upon now.

Baby Mama / Baby Daddy Terminology Debate

Discussion of whether "baby mama" and "baby daddy" are derogatory or neutral. Josie argues the terms imply the parents aren't together. Brittany argues they signal lower commitment level. Jasmine (as attorney) says the terms are never used in legal contexts when parents are married. Lana defends her own situation — was committed with child but never legally married, did not consider herself a baby mama because they were planning to marry. Byronique offers hood perspective: terms are used differently in that context and are sometimes neutral. Sean gives analytical framework: level of commitment matters more than label.

Dating Culture — Racial & Regional Differences

Byronique brings perspective from Compton/South Central LA on how dating, baby mama dynamics, and relationships differ in the hood. Josie discusses Quebec independence and Canadian vs. Quebec identity. Brian asks about dating meta in South Central. Byronique tells story of friend whose baby daddy dropped out of firefighter school to avoid child support payments. Discussion of how hood street-smart approaches differ from mainstream dating discourse.

Single Mothers and Dating

Brian explains he tried dating a single mother once — she canceled 10 minutes before they were to meet. Confirmed he would not pursue single mothers. Argues single mothers expect provision without corresponding parental authority for the new partner. Lana pushes back: she is financially independent and would not expect a new partner to provide for her daughter. Brian grants her situation is different; many single moms do expect immediate provision. Byronique says she doesn't date men from the hood anymore. Discussion of men who give up career goals to avoid child support obligations.

Self-Rating Round

Chat/TTS donations prompted self-rating round (looks on 1-10 scale and overall value). Jasmine: "9.22735" (precise/joke answer after initially deflecting). Lana: ~9 ("for being almost 40 and being a mom"). Anna: 4-5 (self-perception Goblin mode) / 7-8 (based on male feedback). Sean: "I'm a 10" (deflecting/troll). Byronique: "10" (everyone should love themselves). Others largely deflected or gave non-committal answers. Brian notes it's "not quantifiable" and moves on.

Approach / Pickup Roleplay

Panel does in-person approach roleplay exercise. Scenarios: street, elevator, Starbucks line. Madison (18, SBCC) plays the male approaching. Sophia plays the approachee. Sophia demonstrates how she would approach a man. Brittany demonstrates her approach (brief and direct). Panel discussion: men overcomplicate approaches; a simple compliment and asking for a number is sufficient. Brian notes men are afraid of rejection.

Transcript

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Sophiaand I'd like about the one with the buttons down the middle yeah yeah and um and someone said the girl with the lowest hanging top is anti-porn and it's like well I have breasts you know yeah

Sophiaand cleavage any other girl that you know doesn't like it looks modest on her yeah but even with the same amount of coverage of that you know yeah and I just thought that's weird because what

Brittany VentiI'm wearing has nothing to do with you know being anti-porn yeah and obviously there's a way you could dress promiscuous and be curvy or like a skinny girl doing it too but it just seems like there's different standards so I don't necessarily believe like a

Brian Atlascentimeter of cleavage equals promiscuous we can't leave our tits at home you know well I think you are a little too hyper focused specifically on the cleavage component of what I said but for example

Josieregardless of your well that was why I added the end part because a lot of people will do that they'll literally wear the same top and one has bigger chests sure smaller chest and yeah and it's like can't relate to having big tits so yeah like I actually just made a

Brian Atlasvideo sure I look promiscuous and everything my my view of promiscuity while I suppose the quickness with which you sleep with someone could you could make some inferences about their

Brian Atlaspromiscuity I think ultimately the main thing you'd have to look at is how many sexual partners there they have how many people they're sleeping with how many years

Byroniqueyeah

Jasmine Jafarthat's the real number we have to Define promise you have very interesting definitions he's saying the definition which is the most widely accepted is somebody who has a lot of sexual partners is a promiscuous that is the

Brittany Ventidefinition but there's also promiscuous Behavior right like there's a difference between having like a little bit of cleavage or wearing a mini skirt and then like having your ass cheeks falling out of a skirt and having like your nipples almost showing so you're saying you're saying you could engage in

Jasmine Jafarpromiscuous Behavior though and not be promiscuous then are we there's a line to where it is or isn't promiscuous in terms of like dressing fashion wise for example so he's saying that yeah if sleeping with someone on a first date is promiscuous behavior that doesn't

Brittany Ventinecessarily mean they're promiscuous because of definition you did sleep with multiple people so I think for the time it does mean that because what do you mean the time like it just meaning they could decide meaning later on maybe they stopped

Jasmine Jafardoing that so to you the definition of promiscuous doesn't mean to sleep well possibly the word promiscuous means to do that behavior right so if you're not separating behavior from promiscuous like is promiscuous Behavior different

Brittany Ventifrom promiscuous woman promiscuous women have promiscuous Behavior if somebody has promiscuous Behavior then they are necessarily promiscuous they are so if you have promiscus behavior for that time being unless you change later on

Jasmine Jafarwhat do you mean that time so you're okay so a certain amount of time does promiscuous mean that you have multiple partners or no because that's what the widely accepted definition of

Brittany Ventipromiscuous means it doesn't mean more than one I guess that's what it means having many transsexual relationships so I'll put it this way if a girl was a

Brittany Ventivirgin but then she had God and only fans and she does full nude full engaged porn on her site wouldn't she be called promiscuous despite her being a virgin that might be the perception but is it

Brittany Ventitrue yo Adam thank you for the 20 gifted memberships appreciate it go ahead yes because uh that's how the language is used language is used how people actually use it

Lanathat's that's how even if it dictionary but they're wrong they don't have the actual definition and what something means then they're using these words wrong different than how we would use it for instance who

Jasmine Jafarwhat makes you right either they're basically saying the same thing it's just no people are drawing the different lines it's promiscuous women have promiscuous Behavior but all not all promiscuous Behavior necessarily means a promiscuous woman if that's what he was

Josiesaying we're talking about right do you not understand there's just some kind of logical fallacy I mean this is the message that you're sending Maybe you know it's if you're if your show cleavage you're sending Define so you're

Brian Atlasdefining promiscuous arrange right yeah okay promiscuity it is inherently about sexual non-selectiveness with numerous people right so if you have only fans that

TTS Readercould qualify even if you're a virgin you're still but you're posting pictures of yourself while sleeping first date may not mean the woman is promiscuous it does mean

Brian Atlasshe has poor sexual boundaries either way it is a red flag not necessarily but it could be a red flag but I think sexual disciplines

Lanayou did too huh whoever the man is did too he slept with her on the first date too the exception doesn't make the wrong people yeah so like would you commit to a girl she's only slept with you but she

Brian Atlashas the only fans and she's fully nude what is because one second she really she okay she's farming here okay um sorry repeat the question so if a

Brittany Ventigirl was a virgin and she had full nude only fans it's pornographic it's intended to make mancoom right cuming yeah yeah so she's a virgin she's all she only had sex with you right she's no longer virgin because she has sex with

Brittany Ventiyou or she intends to at the very least right would you consider being in a long-term relationship meaning like the equivalent of marriage and having kids with her would you consider that promiscuous would I cons hold on well there's two separate questions there would I be

Brian Atlaswould I get married to her would I have kids with her yeah and would I consider it promiscuous um well as far as having options go I would much rather date a woman who

Brian Atlasdoesn't have only fans why why well it's just better it better because it's not promiscuous yeah

Brian Atlasit's a different word I don't think having yeah having an only fans necessarily means then what's the aversion but it's different there's other factors with which you can

Brian Atlasdisqualify a potential partner besides promiscuity for example content for example having your nude content online may be a boundary for some men

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)like you see the either not exclusive with you that she's um had 30 sexual partners or she's not exclusive with you as in she's had uh lots of people on the internet looking at it but why are we throwing this under the promiscuous

Brittany VentiUmbrella Please define hold on I feel like this is almost a semantic it's too semantic because you're saying you would not prefer that and I agree I also wouldn't prefer a guy who had only fans like showing their books

Brittany Ventiyou're saying so you're saying you're saying that you wouldn't date her which is fair right but you're saying that you and day her it's like okay but why why do you have a Verge telling pants if it's not promiscuous sure well okay for

Brian Atlasexample if I do want to have kids with a woman and she has her nude photographs online uh not not ideal the kids may be subject to bullying right um also I think there's some reputational concerns

Brian Atlasof you know with amongst peer group but why because it's promiscuous right she's not it's not I don't think it's about promiscuity I think it's just like a a society

Brian Atlashold on let me finish it's like a societal cultural thing that there are I think porn and showing your body naked online is

Brian Atlasstigmatized not because of promiscuity but just on its own it's stigmatized why are you trying to get me to say that it's promiscuous I think because that's why I would say no

Brian Atlasbecause like I would be like yeah that's kind of promiscuous Behavior I don't want that to be the father of my kids they have the only family I don't know if it's promiscuous Behavior yeah

Brian Atlasdisagree on like the actual underlying meaning but I'm not sure if like the word usage here is precise you defined it earlier which is why I further asked you because you said it's to be sexual

Brittany Ventimultiple people and that is being sexual multiple people is having an online selling sex for money so wait have selling sex for money virtually is the same thing as having multiple partners

Jasmine Jafarlike is that just it's promiscuous it is what is okay what is somebody defined promiscuous and let's go by that definitely well he's my lawyer

Brian Atlasbrains as a lawyer like my turn at least one of them is making money yeah yeah I did I did I adequately answer your question or do you feel like I

Brittany Ventihaven't addressed here I feel like it's either because it's because those things that you said like being bullied and the stigmatization that comes from the act of it being

Brittany Ventipromiscuous that's why it's stigmatized that's why you're calling it right that's why she had ho and her bio for example because she's aware of the stigma that I don't think taking new like even though it's like a joke or a

Brittany Ventiplay on it's like the self-awareness of the joke okay so we're basically having an argument about what he did earlier and I said I agree and that's why we expanded on the question but let's disregard our your examples hold on hold

Brian Atlason let me just say let's just let's disregard this uh disagreement on on the on what promiscuity is but let's get to the actual Bare Bones of it what what

Brian Atlasexactly is your argument like or or are we just arguing about well what is promiscuity because I think it's just we're gonna we're sir what's the [ __ ] term well it's

Brittany Ventithe point is it's bad for a reason or undesirable to certain people for a reason and I feel like you're not acknowledging the reason that it's bad which is because it's viewed as promiscuous Behavior it's promiscuous thing to do and yeah but he said it earlier and I agreed with

Jasmine Jafarit promiscuous behavior is separate from promiscuity of promiscuity certainly means having multiple partners and promiscuous Behavior doesn't mean because you could have promiscuous behavior and not have multiple parts right but you're selling yourself

Brittany Ventisexually for men's gratification to the mass and that means that you have multiple partners physical body yourself so I just negated your definitions I don't have multiple so if someone sees you on YouTube and they think you're

Jasmine Jafarreally hot and they pause it on a like a hot into the mic and then they jerk off to that because the only fans girl is doing though their whole job so promise Beauty to you involves selling sex it's not just having multiple partners it could be a

Brittany Ventimultitude of things right it could be selling sex it's generally giving out sex um even if it's transactional even if it's just them you're it's intended to make a guy coom that still counts so

Brittany Ventiyou're redefining promise Beauty away from his definition no he defined it earlier as like having multiple partners no he defined it earlier as giving away sex to multiple people I said that could also if you rewind it that could also apply to only fans and that's what I

Brian Atlassaid so I was agreeing with that stuff but you're quite I mean if the example you provided was this girl's virgin she's only been with you but she does post her nude photos but using the words

Brian Atlasthat just came out of your mouth that's not promising security you're selling your sex multiple men multiple men are engaging in a transaction selling their sexuality to multiple men not sex which was kind of you're selling worse

Brittany Ventiintimacy then it's not the whole point of the relationship is to have that intimacy that's you're selling your intimacy the thing that makes you think listen to the other person like this is something they see you in clothes they're not going to know exactly what

Brian Atlasthe person looks like naked unless they show themselves an only fans but there's a difference between there's there is is a difference between your girl like sleeping with other men versus

Brian Atlasher posting nude so if you were in a relationship right I don't think either are ideal but I think right they're different things so if you're in a relationship and your girl

Brian Atlassent her news to another guy wouldn't you consider that cheating yes why isn't that promiscuous no it's not it's not about being promiscuous I don't think that's promiscuous it's not a good

Brittany Ventithing I think we both agree it's not good it's cheating isn't it yeah it is cheating but I don't know why you need to tag on the promiscuity label to it well I I thought we were okay with adding labels here in that case like let's never call someone a hoe then

Annaright and forego the labels at that point are you just like arguing to argue I'm a little confused here but um can I insert an example so Marilyn

SophiaMonroe married multiple times yeah she was the first model for Playboy right yeah I mean it was in what's in consensual unconsensual okay this is

AnnaDavid Bowie's wife she posed excuse me Jesus she's posed nude from multiple magazines uh Heidi Klum I can go and name off so many models that do nude you

Brittany Ventiknow photos or what about somebody that does nude modeling for art school it's the context so do you go to a museum to jerk off no you don't some people do that's why a museum isn't poor it's the difference oh no I went to the tape

Brian AtlasMuseum I [ __ ] went hard okay let me do some super let me do some super chats all right we got Mr Cappadocia here uh of girls sell a product to addicts in the same way a dealer does and they

Brian Atlasrationalize it then talk about ethics right she knows she sells poison and knows it and blonde has a weird I don't want to know complex whole panel is about denial tonight Mr Cappadocia thank you very much this came in like an over

Jasmine Jafaran hour ago so I think this was related to our discussion on to me yeah so I mean if somebody owns a donut shop right like people can like enjoy the donut in moderation it's not a detriment to

Brittany Ventieveryone who gets a donut even though a donut could be unhealthy if you have an unhealthy relationship with food right but if you I don't know if I'm allowed to say the word um m-u-r-d-e-r if someone did that to someone once wouldn't they be considered

Brittany Ventia m-u-r-d-e-r-e-r says spelling bee so what what are you calling me no I'm not no I'm not calling anyone yeah muck duck my point is my point is is

Jasmine Jafarsomebody so my point is if someone has owns a bar and there are some alcoholic but they're selling the alcohol to everybody then are they are they selling a product to addicts technically some of

Jasmine Jafarthem are but are they responsible for that so porn addicts are actually a very small portion of but they're not the alcohol you are the product but okay so I'm selling what do you what that's her now let's move on all right

Brian Atlasthen through the offender hey good to see you in the chat man ladies if you're dreaming got you pregnant but he did not want the child and you did what would be your response to him uh let's start with you Sophia go ahead um that would suck

Josieum what would I do have the kid I guess okay what about you um I would have the kid okay I'm pro-life so get the [ __ ] out would

Byroniquebe my response to that oh okay sorry I would have the kid and say I see you in court [ __ ]

LanaI would do the same thing she would do um I think uh definitely wouldn't be attracted and it wouldn't be my dream man who had that sort of attitude

Annayeah you know I would definitely not be my dream man yeah exactly I didn't even see that part go ahead um I think it's a challenge and if I got into that position I think I could do it I wouldn't want to raise a child on my

Brian Atlasown but I definitely think I would step up and and do it Brittany what about you wait well I'm not a girl yeah it says ladies wait sorry hold on pronoun check

Brittany VentiI identify she her for this question okay go ahead go ahead well I would find it interesting to know like what a guy would do in the reverse like what if he like wanted to keep the baby but she if he gets pregnant like if you get someone else pregnant and then like she doesn't

Brian Atlaswant to keep her or whatever like the reverse yes men can get pregnant too now remember people what's that term like people who give birth or what was that birthday person yeah no um

Brittany Ventiso uh what would you do in that situation Brittany but did not want before you sleep doesn't want to have a kid

Brian Atlasthat wouldn't happen we would we would have that discussion you got the snip no wait are you guys waiting so marriage or what I I don't know if that's too much TMI but you guys we are away until

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)marriage but okay these are conversations we had before okay gotcha okay if it's kind of the part of like why you don't have one-night stands or show sex too like good for you it's a little bit

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)even the constant situations like if you have sex on the first date but you knew each other years before and you've already pre-vetted the person that's a little bit different than just you met the person yesterday or today

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)no no oh born again okay like Chad no no we we didn't wait if that's what you're asking yeah the king huh we didn't wait yeah he's joking about about like the oh we're waiting

Josietill marriage he's being sarcastic wait I'm no I don't think of sarcasm wasn't it I think they just misheard me oh no no you said that you were waiting until you two would get married oh no wait for kids to have kids

Brian AtlasI think I was talking about the the until after we had a conversation about and then oh so you got wait so you're saying that you guys hooked up on the first date no I'm confused you went from

Josielike looking up two babies and that yeah wasn't there I'm confused they have already had sex they are waiting until they get married to have children oh no the the conversation about abortion is what he was asking

Brian Atlasright so we would have had that conversation before we had sex is what I was saying yeah word word that's why you shouldn't have like let me ask that let me ask the panel question here related to this question

Brian Atlasfrom Bender the offender good to see you back in the chat man thank you for your patronage um what would you tell a guy in this scenario who says he gets his girl

Brian Atlaspregnant you know maybe he thought maybe she was on birth control but you know sometimes it's not 100 effective or in any case he doesn't want to have the kid would you tell the guy you should have just kept it in your

Brian Atlaspants [Music] took a risk though yeah I would it's like a little one okay do you think is anyone here pro-choice just out of curiosity

Brittany VentiI'm kind of I'm kind of like yeah kind of it depends on the situation depends on a lot of things it depends on the situation everyone at the table is going to agree like yeah no third term and things like that yeah

Brittany Ventior something like that yeah there's certain nuances okay but what about just like a woman who don't get me started yeah I don't know how deep we want to go down the rabbit hole because we can go less friendly

Josieyeah it's I think if we're talking about abortion is fine but um we might get flagged that's fine I think it just gets demonetized I think people would just

Brian Atlasget annoyed too no it's just demonetized but uh yeah it is interesting that people for example who might consider

Brian Atlasthemselves pro-choice uh you know they might say well it's someone's Choice blah blah blah um and they would scoff at someone telling a woman who's opting to get an abortion well you should have kept your

Brian Atlaslegs closed but when it comes to men who are in The Identical situation if you often hear from people who might consider themselves pro-choice oh well you should have just been more careful you should have not had sex then but if

Josieyou were to say that to a woman who opts for an abortion or wants to get an abortion yeah like the prior question no they're both stupid things to say

Brian Atlasalthough they're true but like you know it happens like oh well it should I feel like I feel like are you on lipids by the way are you still alive like did you take drugs before you came here okay no all right uh okay here let's move on Mr

Brian AtlasCappadocia ladies fill out your dating profile do you vape smoke do you have pets how many ooh Cappadocia you're killing okay political leaning most unusual turn on What would just for the sake of moving the

Brian Atlasconversation along I'll have the girls answer one of these so uh let's do the political leaning question uh what are your political leanings starting with Miss Britney Venti

Brittany VentiI think I I would write but I don't I think I'm one of those people that's like technically politically homeless I feel like that's becoming more common nowadays sure

Brittany Ventibecause it depends on what the thing is right okay it's like I'm pro-gun um are you pro-trump or against Trump depends which year you ask right this year right now depends what his policies are no no right now right now at this

Brittany Ventimoment is it saying hello are my taxes whoever's lowering my taxes okay so it's a libertarian I guess it depends who's running literally because like the um that Kennedy is running he's running as I mean more like liberatory like mentality

Brittany Ventilike more in the middle are you talking about RFK it depends who it is I'm not gonna be like Oh I'm always gonna vote for Republican or always committed to being Democratic that seems dumb like why wouldn't you just go by policy but

Brittany Ventiyeah I'm pro-free speech um Pro right to own a gun to defend yourself especially being a woman you're four times weaker you should so are you happy that Elon Musk took over Twitter you know he needs on Shadow ban my

Brittany Ventiaccount because you can't even untick the thing about like sensitive content and he won't even he's working on me so I'm disappointed with Elon since you identified she her I guess

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)this applies to you that's the last question now well he says ladies um political leanings uh probably center right I would have been more like I think the more you listen to politics

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)the more you listen to what types of people like you think like um like Dan Crenshaw had a very like heartbreaking and then during code but he changed a little bit so I thought seeing people on the right do the kind of things that I was very very against people on the left doing and people the

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)people I'm not doing kind of things that they would so they wouldn't do like pushed me a lot more Center sure it's like everybody's kind of an [ __ ] in politics got it what about you so I actually got started in on this whole

Annaonline thing because I'm so against like politics and pop culture so I watched Star Wars and I went and saw the Disney you know the Last Jedi and I was like what the is this because they started putting politics into Star Wars and I'm

Annavery against that and I honestly have no interest in politics so I'm not even educated enough to talk about it but I'll answer one of the questions vote uh I let my partner vote for me so he

Brittany Ventipicks is it illegal no no like I'm just like what do you what you want to repeal the 19th no no no no that's not what I'm saying um she has a point though actually think about it because if you're in the same household and you're

Annalike voting against each other's interests like canceled so weird it sounds like a divorce happening no no it's a person yeah sure value is pretty important so in the last California election I did go and I was reading the

Annapolicies and so it wasn't based on you know what party is for which ones you both are Newsome

LanaI don't know buddy won so I mean yeah don't worry about it go ahead go ahead um I would just say I'm apolitical because for me that's fine itemize everything and there's no one party that

Byroniquehas everything word what about you libertarian left Center left I would say okay byronique what's up from the streets baby I don't do all that politics [ __ ] Obama for life you understand I'm saying that's all I'm

Byroniquegonna say baby I don't know what that left right [ __ ] y'all talking about even me baby Obama bring it back what about you

Brian Atlasright okay 12 20 24 let's go um I don't know much about politics I'm not sure fair enough um I'm moderate okay also you described yourself Sophia is a radical feminist

Brian Atlaslast time on the show is that still the same yeah okay what does that mean to be a radical feminist yeah you asked me this last time well there's some new people here there's some new viewers so

Sophiawhy don't you uh um I mean I feel like it's a broad definition to like just I mean like the dictionary definition is

Sophialike you know the women's rights and here in America I feel like my feminism like for me as a feminist it's more so of um

Sophialike a social thing the social standards and Society for me I mean the only right like rights were like oops sorry working here for is like

Brittany Ventiabortion but um my opinions about abortion so are you like um I think I know what you mean because I've seen because radical feminists is really different in the dictionary definition than how it's

Brittany Ventiactually applied on the internet it more of a means like right wing feminist that's that's more for how I see it um in terms of their humor stuff so are you like anti-woke for example a little I mean like do you like

Sophiaoffensive humor like how do you feel about like certain offensive words things like that um I mean I think you know some offensive words are offensive because they're you know offensive but um

Sophiaum I don't really think about that too much about the wokeness thing or whatever because I mean I think it's okay to not like you know normalize like I don't know little like racism but not to like the biggest extent like so how

Sophiado you feel about like cancel culture for example um I think it's kind of stupid okay well there you go yeah yeah but um you're not a Third Way feminist are you

Sophiashe's a fourth wave but um one thing is that I would say a radical feminist because I'm very anti-porn yeah that seems to be one of the biggest yeah you're an actual feminist like at the pure definition that's why um because

Sophialike with liberal feminism I'm pretty sure they're like super like only fans this and that they think promiscuous is empowering like men didn't make that up and so that's why I kind of like come to terms with radical feminism is what I'd

Sophiacall myself because if I just said feminists they'd be like oh liberal feminists you know yeah you have like blue hair yeah like [ __ ] every person that comes into the room yeah so one thing is like that's why I say radical

Annafeminism or from feminist because I'm very anti-porn and um I agree with some of their other things but that's one of my big ones but are you one of those feminists that you have to tear down a man to you know rise

Annawomen upload because that's what's going on in comics right now where they have to switch out all the male superheroes with female superheroes because that's the only way that they feel it's empowering to women no I mean I think one thing is that there's a problem with

Sophiathat where like on both sides like with feminism and I don't know what the other side would be but like maybe let's just say red pillars like they're creating this war between like men and women they're both doing it it's very divisive yeah and we need to stop dividing each

Sophiaother and come together I mean biologically yes we do have some differences but um like one thing like calling a woman emotional I mean I just think that's a little insensitive it's not

Sophiatrue I mean we're caretakers we have empathy but we have emotions we're emotional um well men are emotionalized they're emotional men are emotional too they're being emotional is not a bad thing it's just one thing it's very feminine it's just Society has

Sophiastigmatized being emotional um another thing I have a problem with is this feminine masculine stuff I mean that's the thing it's like I mean noun

Sophiadefinition feminine means female you know sex or gender and but the adjective um definition could be like

Sophiaum trying to think there's this one word I just didn't really like but it was um I can't remember it but it's just like you know emotional is one and another one is I'm trying to think of

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)the word I can't remember it but it was okay are there temperamental differences between men and women the top we bounced each other right right but like the the modern like super leftist feminists would say no they

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)would say men and women are exactly the same the some of them have said like dumb things like that women are just as strong as men the one that's obviously

Brittany Ventioh God that's like a modern tropes of Marxist communist feminist yeah I think she said that there's no physical strength differences between like if you look at the world records it's like

Brian Atlasdouble like the highest deadlift romance like 1200 the highest perfume it was like 500 yeah they've done that for like grip strength too like they'll just take out the population just a bunch a ton of women ton of men compare their

Brian Atlasgrip strength it's pretty I mean it's kind of self-evident that their strength their differences naturally between men and women but sorry Sophia go ahead I think you're about to talk about the patriarchy and the oppression I never

Brittany Ventibrought that up she brought divisiveness that's more like a lefty thing because like I see how a lot of rad Femmes um are on Twitter and things like that and forums and things like that it's very different in terms of like how they

Brittany Ventithink in terms of what's offensive or like being delusional things like that but I agree with the divisiveness thing um in regards to like red pill like now it's been co-opted to

Brittany Ventiyou know mean like manosphere red pill whatever term you want to use they it's very much like the same thing that feminists sorry hold on just a second

TTS Reader100 if you can't Define your feminism or other brands of feminism you're probably not a feminist Mr meatball thank you for the TTS much

Sophiaappreciated do you have a response to him I mean like I said it's a very broad thing to Define I mean I said the dictionary definition that's good enough for you which is like a Camille paulia feminist

Sophiayou know like the dictionary definition for feminism is the rights for women rights or whatever it's because it's niche that's why yeah it's like a very

SophiaNiche Thing versus like leftist feminism communistic feminism is very popular and like I said I mean for America I'd say it's more social for me with my feminism that I like personally believe and in

Sophiaother countries I mean with radical feminism and other things we do care about like other countries and what women's problems are there you know and because it's like we're not all living in America America is not just one place you know yeah and all over the world

Sophiathere are problems for in different countries and third world countries so like I do care about that as well but specifically here in America I'd say it's more social thing than a right thing like or um policies government you

Brian Atlasknow all that but you I mean you just said you were in fighting for equal rights I never said I I was fighting for equal rights equal rights is BS sorry you heard I thought I heard equal rights but maybe you're in referencing like other countries

Sophiawhat do you think about you believe in the patriarchy yeah I believe in it no what what's what does that change my mind what's the patriarchy

SophiaI mean it's a system well like I'll say my definition on that is that it's a thing a social thing a society thing that is causing disadvantages for women and men it's not just lifting up men it

Sophiacauses problems for you as well I mean like with the red pill stuff I mean like telling guys that they shouldn't cry I mean we're human beings you have emotions use them okay well there's a lot there I'm not

Sophiasure exactly vulnerability is like a thing I mean I mean men are being told not to show emotions and I mean Society does that communities do that your environment

Brian Atlasdoes that and a whole bunch of other things I mean I I don't disagree with you that perhaps men are taught to not be vulnerable but I I think

Brian Atlaslet's keep it within the context of romantic relationships uh men are typically if men are vulnerable in front of women especially early on in a relationship they're typically punished

Brian Atlasfor that so it's reinforced men's supposed lack of vulnerability is reinforced by women's punishment of said vulnerability I mean I don't think that's always true I mean just because

Brian Atlasone girl says on fresh and fit like oh if a man cried I'd break up with him or if my boyfriend cried I'd break up with him that doesn't mean let me ask you okay let me ask you a question uh would you say generally speaking that women are attracted to men who approach them

Sophiain a confident way or men who approach them if they're a bit shy or nervous I'm different they all like different things generally speaking I mean generally speaking it depends on the person I mean

Sophiasome like confidence I'm just saying that like you can't just generalize everyone that's another problem is we're generalizing everyone men and women and it's selling ourselves shorts because we don't all like the

Lanasame thing I like shorts though would you write or any guys would you be turned off by a woman who cries in front of you early on or like she's way too emotional

Lanayes so yeah it's the same thing go both ways if a girl yeah if a girl cried on the first date I'm like okay what's going on here like this you're gonna think okay this girl's like she has issues sure maybe not want to go out

Brian Atlaswith her again yeah but I'm not sure if that's a if if that's a one-to-one to the example I gave where a guy's a bit shy or nervous When approaching you oh yeah that's I mean I think I think I

Jasmine Jafarmean some guys like or some girls like shy guys emotional I think guys approaching it honorable vulnerable is different than being emotional okay so how does someone being nervous and versus confident relate to being well

Brian Atlasthat's being if if you approach a girl and you're a bit nervous maybe let's say a confident guy approaches a girl and then a nervous guy approaches the girl neither of them are creepy but one guy's kind of a bit nervous and then the other

Brian Atlasguy's confident who do you think is going to be more successful The Confident guy but if the confident guy later has a vulnerable moment with you that's fine right but this idea that vulnerability is is some sort of desired

Brian Atlastrait it is it is I don't think vulnerability hold on wouldn't it be a vulnerable thing instead of just being the super mega confident guy to like actually maybe you approach a girl and hey you're

Brian Atlasnot Superman maybe you are a bit nervous I think if a guy was like Hey I'm really nervous but you're so I think that's cool yeah men don't really I think a lot of women you can say that but a lot of women are going to look at a guy who

Brian Atlasapproaches them like that and versus compared to a guy who just steps confidently and the guy who steps a bit nervous or a bit shy or whatever he's going to be punished for it no we're gonna allow so many other factors like

Lanaare we physically attracted to him what did he say like there's so many

Brittany Ventithe taller guy the guy who works out and generally the one that women like you might think they're confident guys hockey yeah yeah I think there's another side to this coin okay what if a guy was confident but his confidence is like you

Brittany Ventiknow you're walking down the street and you get cat called like he's like hey Mommy what's up um you looking good like even though that's confident that's yeah attractive well I think that goes into the realm of coffee

Brian Atlasour confident men not vulnerable ever are confident men not vulnerable men they they can be okay I think all people are capable of being vulnerable whether by choice or circumstance yeah so just

Brian Atlasbecause some one approaches you and they seem more confident doesn't mean that they're not a vulnerable person in other like am I am I out of uh am I out of touch here is it not a thing that women are attracted to confident men am I off

Sophiabase here is that is that a stretch ability or not mutually like you can be both either I'm actually exclusive I feel like When You're vulnerable if you're like oh hey I'm nervous to a girl I feel like that's kind of confident because yeah if you're

Brian Atlaslike oh hey I'm really nervous but I found you really attractive let me ask you guys a question how important is like when you're first meeting the guy how important is the vibe or the guy being able to carry a conversation would you say that's fairly important do

Brian Atlasyou think a guy who's shy and nervous is as capable as a guy who's confident of eliciting said Vibe I'm gonna be honest with this hold on let me just finish who

Jasmine Jafaris as capable of eliciting the vibe or being able to you know maneuver a conversation that feels you know good or organic I think those are different traits though like that's different than

Brittany Ventivulnerability that's confident being shy and nervous is being vulnerable there's a crucial detail that you are neglecting here like how hot is he and this applies to both men and women like how much are

Josieyou willing to like something that's quirky and on an attractive woman is maybe like sure weird on ugly girl if you get cat called by a guy that's like really hot what are you gonna do like a

Josiegetaway model like no you're gonna be like hi that's not always true I mean I feel like that I mean come on give me a break

Sophiabut it certainly allows a little more wiggle room if you're cat calling someone else if it's a really hot guy and he's vulnerable people like there's that one thing or like that Meme where it's like

Sophiaan ugly guy you know the drawing and it's like oh yeah and it's like sexual harassment like the HR me and it's yeah and it's like there's the difference between harassment and then like an attractive guy doing the same thing and it's like flirting and I feel like there's no difference if you are cat

Sophiacalling someone if you're doing something it depends you know

Brian Atlasthere is definitely truth when it comes to like two guys that are exhibit exhibiting the exact same behavior if the one guy's really attractive and

Brian Atlasthe other guys you're not attracted to him you might say that guy's creepy and then the really attractive guy he's just flirting depends on that

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)I mean one is not aggressive enough step one be attractive step two understanding like for guys to stop the workout you still have to dress properly do your hair properly and so there's

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)still some sort of social skill in being physically attractive versus the guy who um I don't know I was like wearing like a stained t-shirt or something like that or like sure like not working out it

Jasmine Jafarcan't be strong can't protect you I don't know but this whole idea of that that men should be vulnerable I don't um eye context of approaching someone well

Jasmine Jafarthat's one example that's one example so if a guy's confident approaching you but then later he's going through something and he's opens with you and he's vulnerable and he maybe even cries maybe somebody died I don't think that's yeah that's I think a lot of women would for

Brian Atlasexample like if a woman saw her boyfriend or partner uh like get beat up in a fight I I don't look I don't know if they've done a study on this [ __ ] but like there's a I would say a fair amount of

Brian Atlaswomen would lose attraction for their partner in that situation yeah how hard did you fight back okay you want you want to talk about the Joe Rogan no yeah there was a Joe Rogan

Brian Atlasinterview and obviously look this is One Singular woman who happened to be an MMA fighter but she was you would you'd almost think because she's an MMA fighter she would almost have more of an understanding but she said hey I I was

Brian Atlasat a fight with my boyfriend I was there in the corner and he got knocked the [ __ ] out and I shortly broke up with him afterwards because it was just so I lost

Josieattraction to see my partner who the way that he reacted by the time that he was hitting the floor that was the face that he made like how are you such a so bad

Josieat like getting beat up at least like taken but it was I think that's a lack of maturity though can someone be confident enough to be vulnerable like doesn't vote exactly like

Brian Atlasyou're on the side of the I think her name was Miriam Miriam I'm into martial arts as well so I can kind of understand where she's coming from oh so okay if your boyfriend like got scorched up in a

Josiefight and made some like face then you'd like a little loser face that can't take there we go don't be vulnerable hold on thank you because I think take it like a freaking

Brittany Ventiwoman okay what's the plan pointing this out you could say the same thing for like the statistic about how men leave their uh terminally ill wives like yeah

Brian AtlasI mean there's a difference a guy who tries to be tough genders leave are more likely to leave their partner if there's some sort of uh illness I don't know what this is

Brian Atlasa lot of women

Brian Atlasthe provider role you know if you you've got some [ __ ] you got cancer so I'm sure you're less capable if the staff how do you explain that

Brian Atlasdisavow okay that's for sure so our women nurture anymore like that's something that's I don't know I could be wrong I don't know the stats specifically on this topic either there you just don't want to look at them

Brian Atlasbecause they disagree with you because I took care of my mouth sick first off I think a lot of issues with like a lot of Statistics is there's this issue when it comes to studies of I forgot of not

Brian Atlasbeing able to duplicate replicability yeah yeah so like well that's been right okay so what what what's the Google search I look up because I'll look it up uh how do I look up to find this who I mean just type in the question who's

Brittany Ventimore likely to leave men leave their terminally ill wives men leave terms more frequently well it's just a fun statistic but my point is like it's kind of divisive to like point out like this

Sophiaother statistic when you can easily bring up ones like this is okay here's what I found it also violates my marriage vows wait can I say this real quick because one thing I'd say is if you break up with your

Sophiaboyfriend just because you lost a fight like solely off you don't like I don't know the whole thing like what happened there but solely off that why can't we just say they're a shitty person why would you truly love them like it's just that well there's

Brian Atlasprobably other problems there's I think there's a evolutionary biological argument you can make if a woman witnesses her partner her boyfriend get [ __ ] scorched in the

Brian Atlasfight somewhere in the lizard brain she's gonna be thinking is he going to be capable of protecting me in some sort of self-defense scenario so even if it's not you don't intellectualize it you're like okay well I still love him blah

Lanablah blah there there could be somewhere deep down inside you where you're like I have you lose attraction for that we don't act on other stuff in the MMA and they're so with their

Jasmine Jafarwomen what's that how many other guys in the MMA got knocked out and they're so hard with my back you have a biological inclination to be racist but you reason you're going out of it yeah you have an in-group bias I'm a function group

Jasmine Jafarselection yeah I was just reading about how you get knocked

Jasmine Jafarto our Evolution and our biology and so a lot of people reason can out override your genes so if you like somebody you're not going to be like oh my God he can't protect me if my neighboring Village comes in attacks like I don't

Brian Atlasthink we are 100 beholden to our Evolution necessarily but the you know there are certain things that could have an impact on in a relationship do you want to be with someone where you get beat up and they don't like you because

Brian Atlasyou like is that the kind of person you want to be with or do you want someone I want but I mean I I would assume that it's not an attractive thing to see your partner get [ __ ] scorched in a fight you have to be unattractive 24 7 to your

Annapartner would you want to be with someone that lost respect for you and doesn't respect you anymore as a human being why would you want to do that I don't know that doesn't happen well obviously it did with her it happens all women are gonna well maybe they're but

Brittany Ventiwhat if there's probably more leading to say the same thing and like oh well there's guys out there once their wife gets pregnant and now they have stretch marks to have their kids now they're not tracked now they want to leave them these guys out here yeah you know you should all get beat up and if your girl

Brian Atlasleaves like I'm pushing in there it just seems dodgeball well would you agree that that may very well be the case though that for some men after a woman goes through pregnancy they do they may very well lose

Sophiaattraction for their party but if I said that I would get called a feminist I would get called like lips I'll say it for you I mean that does happen though I mean yeah men do like lose attraction

Josiefor the wives when they get pregnant and then women lose attraction for their Partners it's a wide variety and those are shitty women they weren't best friends in the first place I think

Josieif they do that because if two people are best friends in the first place I don't think that they would give up on each other that quickly over stretch marks like I think it's their relationship has to be deeper than death you dodge the bullet if she's leaving

Brittany Ventiyou because you got jumped like you dodged that's a great thing bye that's the right thing you should do like I can tell you I mean did you literally just get blown the [ __ ] out is that why you tried to

Brian Atlasleave your clone out what's that she's trying to derail the podcast uh so okay according to this study it says women a woman is sick it's it's [ __ ] but obviously [ __ ] because

Brian Atlasthat you know because yeah I'm an expertise right yeah uh a woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of

Brian Atlascancer or Ms than if a man in the relationship is the patient six times I don't know if it's six times but this has been replicated you know it's not been replicated though you're a 2018

Jasmine JafarGraphics the guardian says it's seven times more likely yeah but let's say it's two times the 2018 graphical show is not replicated in any other year yet you

TTS Readerlove to show that graph there must be some other factors here donated 99 this lawyer female has been unironically woman explaining this entire time with

TTS Readerher pseudo-intellectualism guys she's a lawyer Brian she's a lawyer ladies she's a lawyer chat she's a lawyer everyone

Jasmine Jafardon't forget she's a lawyer she's been writing this multiple times I think yeah I've seen him write this multiple times and pay you a lot of money for it so you're welcome

Brian Atlasokay let me pull up some other chats here all right pot pot uh Brittany will you be down to read this one which one the on the screen why

Brian Atlasoh my God come on help me out here my voice is hoarse if it says like helmet girl read it that's the magic oh [ __ ] okay I didn't even see that see I didn't even read it okay um I don't think Madison here Madison Wisconsin

Madisonplease let him go read this the only girl ever on this podcast who rates a 10 to 10 overall is Kaiser helmet girl beautiful face beautiful smile beautiful figure beautiful personality commitment monogamy that's why her boyfriend put a

Brian Atlasring on it oh congratulations [Music] it's a promise for him it's a problem yeah that is really cute all right rock and roll thank you man uh we have hold

Brian Atlason here let me get caught up on some super chats uh uh let's let's we have did we do this one yeah we did this one we have

Brian Atlasall right you know what I think think before you sleep here should read this one oh God like in front of the glass marriage is a legal commitment between

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)two people to accept the benefits and be recognized as such historically it was a secure it was a security rooted in religious standards and intended to be forever but with divorce being more common I believe it's losing its value and meaning

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)word word maremore hey good to see you back in the chat man thanks a lot of this community reinforcement community help and stuff like that so we're missing a lot of things that people had in the past and that's why their relationship was easier to be faithful oh let me wait until Britney's back to

Brian Atlasto read that one just because uh what happened to Mike Davis Brian I don't know Mike Davis where you at um he got ate by a bear okay wait I'll wait until we're in there to save them

Jasmine Jafaroh oh this one he did it as a TTS and here a lawyer girl do you want to read this yeah this is the same I told you he's done it yeah can you read it again hey guys just a reminder she's a lawyer she's a lawyer guy it's a guy that lady is a lawyer she's a lawyer everyone

Jasmine Jafardon't forget she's a lawyer holy God shut up nobody cares do you care you just paid 200 to say that she's my commission on that one because it's like say your lord a couple more times I'm a lawyer I think he's already subscribed yeah he's probably subscribe and his

Brian Atlasname is Suits like what's the lawyer's name Jasmine Jafar yo Curtis Reynolds big thank you for your uh your uh very generous Super Chat here thank you man there are SS many

Brian Atlasflavors I think he meant as many flavors of feminism today as there are genders there's all kinds of feminists I mean I don't think you should compare that to genders

SophiaI think it's sarcasm I know but I'm just saying I just think that's stupid comparison shots fired okay uh Leif Erickson thank you for the

Brian Atlasum any guesses dollars Argentinian Leaf Henry Cavill cat fault calling you Henry Cavill oh excuse me um The Witcher

Brian AtlasSuperman yeah yeah that that one's for me uh what is ARS anybody what currency is that chat

Brian AtlasHarris Argentinian Argentina anybody chat hello uh thank you very much America yeah exactly Leif Erickson thank you very

Brian Atlasmuch appreciate it we have the sweet tea Guy Brian tbys love your stuff think before you sleep quick review of the manga gants it's a favorite of mine and always wanted to hear you talk about

Brian Atlasit since you mentioned it a couple times in corn posts Community posts okay oh excuse me Community posts I thought I gave a review of that manga it's like it's a it's a manga that's very hard to recommend because there's a lot of weird

Sean (Think Before You Sleep)stuff in it but the story based with if you remove the weird stuff from it it'd be a like a really really good story so probably we'll never get an anime all right we'll never get a good anime

Brian Atlasbecause they cut it halfway we have the real Mr meatball here and he says promiscuous means actively sleeping

Brian Atlaswith a lot of people baby mama is mother of baby out of wedlock

Lanaso baby mama is not holy dictionary oh my God baby Mama's a sling thank you doesn't mean it that's impressive yeah that's wild I drink water before I got

Brian Atlasback still is it is it like a gastrointestinal thing or anything um I don't know is it all the time or no it's when I drink things when you drink things Yeah okay or if I eat certain

Brian Atlasacidic Foods so maybe it's like reflux okay it says we had alcohol last night do you burp in your sleep no that'd be I wonder if it's worse for someone to be a snore or sleep burper

Brittany Ventican you burp in your sleep I assume you can she said no how do you feel is that is that possible to burst is it hot probably not are you neutral I'm neutral okay well it's not like I can control it earlier you could see I'm trying to

Brittany Venticover it but like I can't like sometimes I try to mute it and it gets more bass so how was school for you was school fun did you um I don't think it was happening when I was that young I think that happened more over like later in my

Brian Atlasteens I think is there for dinner I don't know I wish I could have insurance that should be Britney this should be Britney's Channel think before you burp in my opinion it's probably acid reflux it's the better she eats and the less alcohol she drinks a little less acidic

Brian Atlasstomach too like you need to take like okay we don't need to talk about it sorry I don't want to put I don't want to put Britney on the spot with the burping stuff but uh okay promise cutie is the practice of engaging in sexual activity frequently with different

Brian Atlaspartners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners activity would entail wait activity the wooden tail of any photos and dress I agree with the first step position is sexual activity because that's why you would consider it

Brittany Venticheating most people commit a partner sent news the opposite gender or if you're gay I guess the same gender it says frequently so what if they did it once it would still it would still be perfect so you

Sophiadon't use promiscuous as an adjective to describe something you know I mean like in like 1950s and for a while after that sex or sexuality was promiscuous that's how we would describe it

Jasmine JafarI mean any talk like if we talked about sex even if you had sex with one person you were described as promiscuous since you're making the claim you need to Define that's all I'm saying the person making the claim an affirmative

Jasmine Jafarclaim needs to define the term your definition wasn't I'm getting tried you just got lawyers your definition wasn't matching your own so contradicting yourself yeah so if you are having a sexual activity with multiple people

Brittany Ventimeaning including like images anything like that so now you're considering so what's sexual activity so for example if you are on only fans selling nudes I'll be sexual activity if you um

Brittany Ventiif you were to literally have sex with someone that would be sexual but you said some outfit you can tell someone that that still counts even though but you said some outfits but you said some outfits because somehow so that's sexual activity so if your outfits are promiscuous so if you go to a strip club

Lanaand they're not wearing anything they're Dancing Yeah that's sexual activity is a man who is masturbating to multiple different online girls is super miscuous

Lanaif he's looking at a lot of different women online is he promiscuous porn [Music]

Brittany Ventiand it's not just one girl or even if it is but in my definition because you know if I'm a relationship with somebody consume porn like I would consider that breakup so if they're single then they're not

Lanapromiscuous it would be Chris to me because and what about the girls who just they don't do it what if they're single are they still promiscuous bikini picks on Instagram are they promiscuous so your question was I think we're

Brian Atlasbeating a dead horse song I feel like we already talked about it yeah by the way it was Argentine peso apparently oh okay I didn't hear you how much was it in America here let me do that yeah wait one thou what was it one

Brian Atlasthousand one thousand it's probably ten bucks aren't they in like a financial collapse I just know red mean good huh wait a thousand Argentine pesos is

Brian Atlaswhat I almost don't want to reveal it because they're gonna be I think it's like I think it's like four dollars whoa hey you guys are abusing yeah you

Brian Atlasguys are abusing that's not that joke I wasn't serious ly everybody's gonna change their like location on YouTube to Argentina so they can [ __ ] abuse abuse

Brian Atlasokay no more I'm gonna I guess I have to wait was it ten thousand or was it one thousand this is one thousands right up there bro what the f yo YouTube what the

Brian Atlas[ __ ] well it's the same thing with um Brazilian money so that's like 50 USD only BC and only Euros wait I wait hold on okay whatever

Brian Atlasum so I have some more questions for those of you who so kindly provided some pre-show information so hold on let me just pull that up okay we have here from

Brian Atlaslet's see Lana right yeah uh you said you typically date guys that are either significantly older or younger than you I have so what do

Lanayou mean by that so I've either dated like men who are like a little like between 10 and 15 years older or between like seven and ten years

Lanayounger okay um typically I mean I've had six relationships so I would say there was like two of those were like around my age but the others weren't we're younger or older both

Lanaokay did you have better relationships with younger guys or older guys um probably the younger ones actually yeah why do you think that is I don't

Lanaknow I would say like the first relationship I was in um he was really really controlling and jealous and chauvinistic

Brian Atlasand then he was older and he was older hmm yeah okay and I would say hmm are you can are you considered a

Lanacougar are you a cougar I mean I wouldn't date like anyone who's not in their 30s oh okay all right I mean you said significantly

Brian Atlasolder or younger than me and you're 39 so like I mean that wasn't I'm thinking like some Frat Boys or something you know senior and no like okay I dated someone who was seven years younger than me a

Brian Atlaswhile ago but he was like a blues musician you know what I mean that's not an hotel I think in your 30s you know it's like huh yeah whatever um you also said you want to debunk the

Lanamyth that men don't want to date moms yeah and so you're a mom yeah you said you have one kid if I recall correct okay yeah uh so please debunk the myth yeah it's just

Lananot true I have no problem getting the men that I want

Lanait's like it's weird it's it's like okay well I don't know if you guys know this but the two I worked for like a search engine company Yahoo that does corn

Lanasearch engines and the two most you work for Bing no no corn search engine company so Bing pornography yeah like so

Lanathey okay yeah anyways other and other marketing companies in the corn industry sure and um so yeah the top two most

Sophiasearched subjects on there either like MILF or teen yeah it took some MILF yeah yeah and it was the end are you not allowed to say porn

Brian AtlasI mean you just can't say that a lot yeah yeah you can't say it's like the central Focus the YouTube Bots will pick it up if you say it a lot and yeah okay

Brian Atlasum well I mean you don't think that there's there's certainly men out there if you compare two options that would probably prefer to

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