Her Ex-Boyfriend DRIVES Her To Dates?! | Dating Talk #81
Date: 2023-07-05
Duration: 5h 50m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Video Playback(audience)
SPEAKER_02Dion(guest)
SPEAKER_03Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kat(guest)
SPEAKER_06Production/Crew(audience)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_12Nikki(guest)
SPEAKER_13Taylor(guest)
SPEAKER_14Yuki(guest)
Key Moments
00:06:50
Key MomentSophia admits ex-boyfriend Kaden told her to say she's 'single' before driving her to show
“he so like we're friends... he told me to say that I'm single”
00:07:25
Key MomentPanel accuses Sophia's boyfriend of letting her go to hook up with someone else
“he forced you to say you're single so he can drop her off and go hook up with another girl”
01:25:47
Key MomentBrian reveals xQc's identity and $100M Kick deal after showing panel his Instagram
“this is Felix he's a very popular twitch streamer... a two-year non-exclusive deal for a hundred million dollars”
01:33:43
Key MomentKat reveals she hasn't worked in a year and was financially supported by her ex
“I haven't worked in a year... my ex supported me”
01:52:33
OtherYuki becomes emotional discussing her online ex-boyfriend who ignored her hotel invitation; she waited alone all night
“I invite him to come over there and he just ignore... I'm staying in that hotel whole night alone”
01:55:04
OtherYuki cries on stream; Nikki and Sophia comfort her about self-worth
“I'm really ugly... I'm really sorry... she was hurting from a little bit before”
02:14:00
Key MomentSophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was planned to come on the show
“we actually we did DM like a long time ago like a year this is a year and a half ago... he was gonna come actually be on the show”
02:14:23
Key MomentSophia reveals she spoke with Destiny and was on his abortion debate discord
“I was speaking to Destiny... I should have been on abortion debate... on the pro-life side”
03:46:57
OtherDion (and Kat/Gabby) leave show early due to work obligations at 8am
“I do have to go... you've got work at eight in the morning”
04:53:11
ControversyBrian reveals he and Nikki almost got into a fight before the show started
“me and Nikki almost fought before the show but it's all love right Nikki”
05:13:34
Key MomentSophia admits she was 45 minutes late because she was doing her anxiety medication in the car and stopped at Target
“I was lost... I had to do my makeup in the car... I got leggings from Target”
05:40:52
Key MomentBrian shows Sophia's prescribed Lorazepam bottle on stream; she took 2 pills (double dose)
“this is Lorazepam 0.5 milligrams uh take one tablet by mouth twice daily but didn't you say you took two tablets”
Topics Discussed
00:03:52
Introductions & relationship statuses
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation, location). Brian goes around table for relationship status and longest relationships. Sophia's unusual situation discussed: broke up 3 days ago but ex-boyfriend drove her to the show.
00:06:38
Sophia's situationship: ex driving her to dates
Extended discussion on Sophia's ambiguous relationship status. Her 1-year boyfriend Kaden drove her from Bakersfield; they had a 'break' conversation Saturday. Dead bedroom for ~6 months. Panel debates whether this constitutes a real breakup.
00:46:40
Feminism & who should pay on first dates
Sophia identifies as feminist; debate on feminism, wage gap, patriarchy. Brian plays viral TikTok of liberal woman wanting traditional man. Discussion on whether feminist women can expect men to pay on first dates. Soy boy terminology debate.
01:38:00
Dating happiness check-in
Brian asks panel if they're happy with their dating lives. Goes around table. Tiffany celibate 7 months and attending therapy. Discussion on why Taylor isn't dating despite being attractive.
01:43:20
Female Delusion Calculator exercise
Brian has Kat and Dion run through the Female Delusion Calculator live. Kat gets ~1.1% match (white men, 100K income, 5'8'+, age 24-40). Dion gets ~0.75% match. Discussion on hypergamy and income requirements.
01:48:10
Self-rating round (looks scale 1-10)
Brian asks each guest to rate their own physical appearance. Dion: 6. Nikki: 10. Sophia: refused. Tiffany: 6. Taylor: 6.5/6. Kat: 7-8. Gabby: left before. Yuki: 0 then 5. Yuki's low self-esteem triggers emotional moment.
01:52:50
Yuki's self-esteem and online dating experience
Yuki explains she rated herself 0 due to poor self-esteem rooted in online relationship where ex ignored hotel invite. She cried. Nikki and Sophia give encouragement. Panel advises building confidence outside of relationships.
01:53:20
Flowers on first dates debate
Super Chat question triggers extended debate: is bringing flowers on a first date too much? Brian argues it's over-investment in hookup culture era. Taylor strongly disagrees. Most guests broadly open to flowers. Brian presents hook-up culture argument.
02:02:50
Bachelor showcase (Felix/xQc and Chance)
Brian shows the panel Instagram profiles of two potential bachelors: Felix (xQc, Twitch streamer, 27, $100M Kick deal) and Chance (29). Panel rates whether they'd date them. Reveals xQc's deal amount — Kat walked back her dismissal.
02:46:00
Religion and firearms discussion
Panel discusses whether they would date a religious person and their views on partners owning firearms. Most are OK with moderate religiosity and responsible gun ownership. Sophia is pro-life Catholic. Dion requires religious partner.
03:11:40
Andrew Tate and Destiny discussion
Sophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was going to appear on the show. She also claims to chat with Destiny. Brian dismisses online acquaintances as not real friends. Brief debate on Tate's legal situation.
03:14:00
Long-distance relationships debate
Sophia's story about guys driving hours for hookups prompts debate on long-distance. Brian says he wouldn't drive 45 minutes even for his dream girl. Taylor and Nikki offer different perspectives. Yuki shares her painful online-only relationship story.
03:20:00
Men vs women promiscuity debate
Sophia claims men are more promiscuous than women. Brian debunks with General Social Survey data (28% of men 18-30 report no sex in past year vs 18% of women). Extended back-and-forth on hookup culture access asymmetry.
05:45:35
Yuki leaves; show wind-down
Yuki says goodbye at ~5:45. Remaining panel jokes and wraps up. Nikki, Sophia banter about making up after pre-show argument. Show concludes.
Transcript
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03:50:05
Nikkinormal guys so if you that I've experience if you're not refreshed oh you've been there yeah of course I I know dating I've been on the dating apps I know how it is have you had sex
03:50:17
Nikkiyeah so what is your current relationship status bro it's it's hard for men to get laid Point playing period it's no not really if you haven't now see your projection this is this is the
03:50:28
Sophiadifference women you again men are invisible to most women so you're projecting like you're only looking at a certain location by that person what the [ __ ] are you talking about a
03:50:41
Nikkicertain portion okay if you want it if you want to be I'm not talking about a small portion of like dead ass the whole world would turn their back on you yes and you as a person should turn the world back around and be like listen
03:50:53
Nikkithis is me like this is me as a person and confident and being like Oh I'm not an average person you literally just put yourself in a whole like 80 number why don't you want to be better like why don't you want to be part of that five
03:51:05
Brian Atlaspercent you could be part of that five percent if you put that hard work and dedication but I guess you're just okay we can talk about everything we can talk about aspirational goals and [ __ ] the
03:51:16
Nikkireality is is that there are normal average people and that's kind of what I'm talking about no okay with no Hobbies with no goals they just go along and drift off in line let me have it back and forth with
03:51:28
Brian AtlasSophia go ahead um I understand hey thank you for coming very much let's say say goodbye to the chat why don't you while you're uh they can't see you give a little wave
03:51:40
Brian Atlashey thank you for joining us we'll have you back sometime that sounds good okay soon have a safe drive can you sit in that seat now that seat yeah
03:51:56
Nikkiit's just like that's it that seeps open so that seat's open how am I gonna be single forever like what I'm in a relationship yo mad
03:52:11
Sophiathat's funny she's crazy Celsius yeah you can get pretty wild I can't Okay so here you gotta move the mic a little bit
03:52:23
Brian AtlasI know that yeah okay that's like that should be good okay so what was your point that you were making okay
03:52:36
SophiaI want to say because I I understand where you're coming from about like you know men struggling to just even have sex and one thing that not just me but a lot of girls and a lot of people have
03:52:48
Sophiatalked about nowadays especially like with my generation is that guys are like
03:52:57
Sophialess likely to ask you out on the date like for me specifically like all the dates I've been on I asked him I asked them out you know and
03:53:09
TaylorI thought that was just can you you need to be straight on with Mike please here skip the mic that way toward the edges that way so yeah that way no no no no no no scoot yep
03:53:21
Brian Atlasthere you go okay go ahead go ahead go ahead um
03:53:28
Brian Atlasso I understand your point where men are struggling well okay that was in rebuttal to you saying that men you wanted to fact check me and you said that men are more promiscuous than women well which are more promiscuous than they're
03:53:42
Brian Atlasnot because they don't have the capability of acting on it what do you mean you need to be capable of
03:53:51
Brian Atlasmen have a higher sex drive yes however men are not as capable as women when it comes to actually acting on that promiscuity it's very easy for a woman to get sex where it's difficult for a
03:54:03
Brian Atlasman to get sex any single girl here at this table it's [ __ ] 11 p.m on a Tuesday like you could go download Tinder right now [ __ ] a dude tonight most dudes like could not just download
03:54:13
Brian AtlasTinder no no you cannot just download Tinder and get laid at 11 PM as a dude even really good looking guys no it's no
03:54:28
Brian Atlasit's really not that easy you think it is because you've had experiences with men who are capable of doing that who are in the top five top ten percent of men but most men are don't have like
03:54:39
Sophiathat pull with women swipe no on 90 of men on dating apps that's one thing I'm saying though is like I can empathize empathize
03:54:51
Sophiafor these men because um like I was saying is one thing I notice like when I was single that I these guys that I was talking to I asked them out on the date you know we didn't
03:55:04
Sophiago to dinner or anything but we just hung out and talked and um and I thought that was just a me thing maybe they're scared to ask me first or you know I just don't care and
03:55:15
Sophiaso then I ended up like talking to a couple other girls and like then I saw this video about this about how guys are like
03:55:25
Sophiamaybe shy or scared or they just don't like the girl but um to ask girls out now and it's like becoming a thing because I've just noticed this so much like this trend so
03:55:37
Sophiayou're arguing that men are much Shyer and it's harder for them to get laid well I don't know why they're not going up to a woman like what's holding them back from now because of feminism and me too and all that [ __ ]
03:55:49
Sophiaand because women will [ __ ] put men on blast who like maybe awkwardly approach them so so men just we've so if you go up to
03:55:59
Brian Atlasa girl his biggest worried is that she's just gonna accuse him of a false allegation no not necessarily but like there's an added layer now with social media a lot of men are like oh there's
03:56:11
Brian Atlaslike this because of we've seen what's happened that you know there there could be a potentially a false accusation there could be uh or he could just be get socially dragged and say oh this creepy guy approached me he didn't do
03:56:24
Brian Atlasanything wrong but like oh he's kind of creepy or whatever and what about it and also like women are pretty rude like a lot of times if you approach them in person I think sometimes guys not all the time but
03:56:37
Sophiawomen can be pretty rude but another thing like you know how a woman can be pretty rude sometimes so men can be rude too not even just the rooting but guys can come off as creepy
03:56:48
Sophiacreepy sometimes you know and I'm not saying oh if a guy I dropped my credit card and he gives it back to me and I'm like oh he's such a creep like he followed me you know like something like that because I've seen like I saw this
03:57:01
SophiaTick Tock of something like that this girl was like screaming because a guy was trying to give her her card back and I just was like that's so pathetic oh well I mean there was some video of some woman in
03:57:12
Brian Atlasthe parking lot in like a parking lot Walmart or something and she was like some guy approached her and she like yelled at him yeah and like that's the kind and then you see like uh you see also those gym Tick Tock videos where
03:57:24
Brian Atlasgirls like work out in the gym and then there's like a guy who like glances at them for like one second and they [ __ ] blast them that's what guys are scared of and these guys aren't even they're not even doing anything wrong
03:57:36
Brian Atlasthey're just like innocently sometimes they're not even looking in their Direction but like so there's like this social component now where like people are terrified to get like [ __ ] Exposed on social media so I mean
03:57:48
Brian Atlasthere's that also um you know with dating apps one of the reasons men aren't approaching women in person anymore is they don't really have to because dating apps exist it makes it convenient it's more convenient so you
03:58:00
Brian Atlascan just like talk to chicks on dating apps so yeah I mean but what let's go back to your original point about you were you were fact checking me saying that men men are more promiscuous than
03:58:13
Sophiawomen and the study dated to I think 2018 It Was 1980 to 2018 and who do you think has higher body counts like if you had to take an
03:58:26
Brian Atlasaverage like who's more likely to have a high Bond count a man or a woman which in average no it's actually more women have high body counts than do men have high body counts yeah
03:58:38
Brian Atlasyou'll have you'll have like a small tier of men who have like insanely high body counts and then you have a much larger proportion of women who have like mid-tie body counts and then you'll have a ton of guys who like have low and then
03:58:50
Brian Atlaslike or just zero okay let me ask you a question are you familiar with the term incel yeah yeah involuntarily celibate can a woman be involuntarily celibate I saw your video fencils don't exit
03:59:06
Brian Atlasyeah I'm on Brian's side okay but but why is there a phenomenon where there are men who are incapable who are involuntarily celibate who are incapable of getting laid but that same phenomenon
03:59:19
Brian Atlasreally does not exist for women wouldn't that suggest if men were more promiscuous than women how can it also be true that there are men who are just incapable of getting laid I mean we
03:59:31
Nikkican't deny and so as a majority of the time our creeps awful people not necessarily that they don't have a nice body or they just don't have a nice personality that's the
03:59:41
Nikkionly thing I could say to you they're on 4chan talking no okay I doubt you want to be scrolling Instagram and see a dad bod as something that you would get aroused to so as a female with ass and
03:59:54
Nikkititties that's the first thing that a guy would see before your personality and that's what guys don't have they don't have that ass and titties wow a girl too you know to be like oh okay
04:00:05
Nikkilike I'm trying to impress you like you know how nature gives like people like the peacocks like feathers to show the females like for a guy they don't have that they have to have a nice body well
04:00:16
NikkiABS six packs and stuff like that but most people Overlook the fact and you just need to work on your personality because that's what it is nowadays because you're communicating you're going to be with this person if they have a shitty personality why would you
04:00:28
Nikkiwant to be and or place yourself in a room with this person so I mean you can love them with their dad bod yes eventually but would it be an eye
04:00:38
Nikkicatcher wow no it's not so average men who are looking average looking with no money or a below minimum wage type but we'll get hard will be harder to find a female yes I would have not I mean to
04:00:51
Brian Atlastouch on what you said so you said that there are things that men can do to like level up like they can get become funny or have a good personality or become successful and maybe they're not the best looking guy but they can do things
04:01:03
Brian Atlasthrough their personality or ambition or success or money or status to become attractive to women the difference is is that women you can just be 18. and be
04:01:14
Brian Atlasattractive or not even be physically attractive and still get like insane amounts of dicks like exactly we've had just just add one thing we've had women on the show who are like below average in physical appearance who we had one
04:01:27
Brian Atlasgirl say that she had a sex addiction and she was like overweight no offense to her but she was she was I'm just stating the facts here don't shoot the messenger she happened to be overweight she wasn't particularly
04:01:39
Brian Atlasgood looking I'd say she would I don't I'm not gonna read it was it the blue dress girl um no she was wearing a pink thing in any case look overweight not particularly attractive
04:01:52
Brian Atlasshe was able to sleep with six guys in the night she slept with six dudes in the night her body count was 140. hold on her male looks equivalent
04:02:03
Sophiawould be incapable of doing that exact same thing but like is it woman's fault that men are so desperate no horny like that's
04:02:15
Sophiathe thing is I feel like in this argument sometimes and I'm not saying you're doing this but some people who do also argue with this you know take them
04:02:25
Sophiawhat we're doing is still try to blame it on us you know I mean I don't know if you've seen that before but it's like men are choosing to be easy they are
04:02:37
Sophiachoosing the low of the low and having sex with her but yet it's women's faults because men chose that honestly every guy I known so far that has talked openly talked about their body all have
04:02:48
Brian Atlasa bad body yeah that's all I know because I think men I think generally speaking men and women like we kind of view sex a little bit differently we have different priorities
04:02:58
Nikkiwomen don't prioritize sex the same way that men and that's right on that and the only person that has really got to me and I have understood is Rallo The
04:03:09
NikkiGodfather pill I love the red pill it's the age The Party The Party season or the party Theory where you're 18 to 26. and after that you're just no guy would
04:03:21
Nikkiever want you because you're you're already high mileage and it's but it's not the that's not an option like as a female like let's say a guy breaks your heart okay well [ __ ] that guy there's
04:03:32
Nikkilike six other guys in my DM box that are screaming for my attention so I'm gonna go entertain them and what it basically is is that like you understand like a fire you know if you throw more wood to the fire the fire will gold
04:03:43
NikkiBlaze but you know once a certain you know time passes the fire will slowly die down and it's just like that with women's age like you know we're kind of like exotic fruits you guys like it's
04:03:54
Taylorit's as ugly as I say it sounds like it's it's exactly what it is but we also have different shortcomings too I think like um to kind of piggyback off of what both of you are saying so I'm not going to
04:04:05
Taylordeny that for average men it's maybe more difficult to uh to approach women or be successful sexually but I this is the way that I
04:04:17
Taylorunderstand things is that women are The Gatekeepers of sex and Men Are The Gatekeepers of relationships so with that being said I think that because women are prioritizing romance or love
04:04:29
Tayloror something a bit more substantial which is why they have a higher or a more uh rigorous criteria that you'd have to fit or they have more conditions for their love whereas men I think is in
04:04:40
Taylorthis current space or in this I guess discussion they are only looking for physical satiability so I think that that has something to do with the reason why we're not seeing eye to eyes because we're not looking for the same things no
04:04:53
NikkiI would chime in on that it is very true that we are not saying [ __ ] from eye to eye but honestly like you know how women are more emotionally vested when that just happens you're you put everything
04:05:04
Nikkiin a relationship when that just ends and you know you feel like your world is shattering on you and you have like this big hole in your heart and as a female and you're in your parting years you feel like you could feel that hole with more bodies and you think that the more
04:05:18
Nikkiguys that you sleep with they'll love you for who you are which is not true and it has been proven but you know it's more of like nobody thinks like that at that moment it's like I'm hurt I wanna I
04:05:29
Nikkiwanna start over I don't know where to stand on so they they usually seek comfort in physical affection and what you get out of physical affection is through sex and I would say that you
04:05:40
Nikkiknow after that one night we we as females who are under you know people with under 10 body counts they still get to have that you know emotional connection with that person but people who are like 10 over will not start
04:05:52
Taylorlosing how to get connections with the guy and they will never see the guy's relationship material I also think that add to this is kind of dynamic between men and women I think
04:06:05
Taylorthat there is because there's like a discrepancy between what we're looking for I think that there is there's kind of like the this like projection process that's happening so
04:06:18
Taylorlike I think that it's really frustrating for men to to be hit with rejection because what they're looking for is something that's very very intimate and a lot of these a lot of these behaviors that we see from both
04:06:31
Taylormen and women are fueled by women's having to navigate a new space where because before women's value is directly derived from how much a man valued them
04:06:42
Tayloror like how much how attractive they are and that was basically just what it was for a long time and so now we're in a different space where we have to find our value and we're navigating this
04:06:52
Taylorwithout having it be just our looks or just what we can give physically so I think that that's a new element that I we're not really that we haven't really discussed a lot but I think it really a lot of these behaviors both the
04:07:04
Nikkidesperate ones on both on both ends derived from this this particular thing I would say is more like a little sad stage like the little time period period where you are trying to figure yourself
04:07:15
Nikkiout and what to do like the next forward and in those times of times a lot of thoughts are in your head of what you can do what you what you will do or what's going to happen in the future in the future and I feel like those people
04:07:28
Nikkiwho have been in toxic relationships feel this more either in the relationship themselves or the or just in general afterwards that they can't find that like social placing for guys
04:07:39
Nikkiwhen you do hurt a guy they just do like go back to the gym you know work on themselves family and then until they find another female or they are more comfortable with themselves to access
04:07:49
Taylorlet a female access them emotionally everyone has process with dealing with pain or kind of dealing with heartbreak and I think that a lot of it has to do with I guess maybe I'm also kind of putting my own projection on it because
04:08:02
Taylorlike when I got broken up with or whatever I didn't I didn't have to fill a void but I know that that's how a lot of women feel like they're being value or loved because that's what they're seeking right it's like this emotional
04:08:14
Brian Atlasum comfort or some or something of the sort but Tiffany what do you think huh huh I'm thinking about driving home that's what I'm thinking a word word okay uh anybody here on this side of the
04:08:27
Gabbytable want to weigh in on the conversation any thoughts sure I'll volunteer um isn't it like the what's that saying where a lock that can be opened by any
04:08:39
Gabbykey is like a useless lock and the key that can
04:08:47
Nikkiabout human bodies no it's just females in general because us as females have that opening in who we choose to open our legs for we have that option this is a choice that we have it's not these
04:08:59
Nikkiguys that are trying to force you to have sex with you it's you choosing to take off your clothes and to have this like like moment with this person analogy to call a woman one ran through
04:09:10
Nikkiyes because it's your choice to open your legs for these men female biology what how do females have sex do you think you get loose you have to
04:09:22
Sophiaenter the key inside the locker no it's an analogy she's using an analogy I know I'm talking about the analogy and analogy is to call woman ran through yeah like yes because she chooses to
04:09:33
Nikkiopen her legs so the fun part about Disney um all the females in Disney are hard working they do dedicate themselves to their dream they don't let the night squad run through them first before
04:09:45
Brian Atlasthey're finally Prince Charming just letting you know that you think a Disney princess lets the whole Kingdom access her no I think that Nikki would be really good
04:09:57
Brian Atlasin a zombie apocalypse like if she was your survival partner she would be really like Nick would be really trying to kill me did you drop Nicki you drop something in the room oh
04:10:08
Brian Atlasbut you would like if if we formed a zombie survival Squad like Nikki we would have to ask you to please you can't have the nails
04:10:18
Gabbyno Nails in the zombie apocalypse we gotta you know we need your when that happens I want Yuki on my squad or the zombie
04:10:30
Gabbyapocalypse I want you on my skin that aim is a match I know right Widowmaker who tears it up anything
04:10:42
Brian Atlasshe's she's um okay uh Yuki what about you um okay all right um well I think we're um
04:10:52
Brian AtlasI one last quick thing here with Sophia because I don't think she's uh managed to have been convinced Sophia your whole head was in the frame the whole back of your head yeah she's loving the
04:11:04
Brian Atlasattention now I can read the chat they're like Sophia wave guys please don't send for Sophia she's a she's a
04:11:12
Brian Atlasradical feminist so that's a yikes let's see yikes okay so men's actually and what
04:11:26
Sophia[Music] yeah it's like I opportunities being a radical feminist and an advocate for men is like diametrically opposed it's really really
04:11:38
Sophiayou you I mean I just like kind of choose radical feminism because I align with some of their points rather like than with liberal feminism what are the radical
04:11:49
Brian Atlasfeminist points I mean like with sex work like I don't want sex work at all is that really a radical well I guess there's like two sides so there's two sides of feminism there's one side of
04:12:00
Brian Atlasfeminism where it's like go sex work like it's fine like you should be empowered it's empowering and you should be able to do whatever you want and nobody should judge you for doing sex work and the other side of it is uh sex
04:12:11
Brian Atlaswork is like predatory and and you you know it's the evil men who are forcing other than that with only fans it's like they're doing it themselves that's the thing though is even with only fans like I
04:12:31
Sophiawhat gender dominates only but that's the thing is
04:12:40
Sophiakind of first coming out and people are like oh like I'm when I turn 18 I'm gonna make an only fans and make a million dollars and like this is not like it was kind of like preying on
04:12:51
Sophiayoung girls that are freshly turned 18 to do only fans and start and only fans and just like romanticizing that but as a person you shouldn't fall
04:13:02
Sophialike under pressure to anybody else's opinions but yours what do you guys um what about Charlie Sheen's daughter yeah and she started in only fans and he like
04:13:13
Sophiagot mad but she wanted to do it or Denise Richards the mom she was like proud of her and she was like I'll start my own well I think Denise Richards was kind of
04:13:25
Brian Atlaswanting to start her own anyway yeah but that's a little side digression yeah she started her own here let me do the soup chat okay we have marimore hey thank you man LOL please Brian some need slow
04:13:36
Brian Atlasmotion knowledge men want it more women provided more LOL real men want low body count yep what do you want to be are you asking me what I want to be I'm not really sure about that yo thank you for all the super chats tonight man
04:13:49
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04:14:01
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Brian Atlasreally quick and then we'll do final thoughts and then we're gonna wrap up and then uh we'll go from there
04:14:23
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04:14:35
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04:14:45
Brian Atlashere pretty soon maybe we'll do a short 10-15 minute after show uh any anyone final thought before we uh wrap up here pretty soon anybody I had a great time well thank you very much for coming thank you thank you this
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Taylorwas an interesting experience we'll say that yeah yeah it was an interesting condo yeah it went all over the place Powers really hard at one point and I was
04:15:10
Taylortrying so hard to stifle myself and that was the story you guys were laughing hard to keep it in yeah you didn't hear it regular
04:15:23
Sophiado you want to be a regular on the show a regular yeah
04:15:30
Gabbyher boyfriend driver s make sure you have a meat you guys I like Sophie I saw the chat say that I was hating on Sophie and I'm not wait I don't mean to be it was like a long time ago
04:15:45
GabbyI mean happy [ __ ] happy [ __ ] ain't hating and hating [ __ ] ain't happy there you go
04:15:59
Brian Atlasso okay did anybody have any final thought I know zip it zip it zip it Sophia
04:16:09
Gabbyzipped good um I'm also yeah I am only 24 I'm not older than 24. I thought you really had me clarify no they were like if she knows Diablo and Beavis and Butthead
04:16:21
Gabbyshe's there's no way she's in her 20s wow so I can know things from the 80s like deepesh mode and I don't have to be you know yeah yo chat should I speaking
04:16:32
Brian Atlasof the 80s and 90s should I bring on the American Gladiators on if any of you have seen that Netflix documentary I'm thinking about trying to bring on the Gladiators the American Gladiators any
04:16:44
Brian Atlasin any case I don't know what that is okay derailed uh anybody final thought question I mean your sister was on the show did I
04:16:54
Brian Atlasmention that earlier no no her sister was on the show she got eaten alive on here oh really the mic is like really blocking your face this entire time I feel like we
04:17:06
Taylorneed a posture checks sorry yeah yeah yeah we tried too yeah you're so small over there I only buy it on Wednesdays so thanks guys I couldn't this is the first time I can
04:17:20
Brian Atlassee the chat because I don't have my glasses are they saying nice things are mean things wait Sophia Sophia no I don't know it's kind of weird what
04:17:31
Sophiawhat hold on hold on what's something [Music] what are what are questions
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Gabbywill you do it if I say it I know it's like yeah okay this is what you have to do first off um can you oh God that's so dumb can I
04:17:53
Brian Atlasdo what you're halfway there I'm gonna get canceled I'm not gonna do it never mind wow expose them you're gonna expose them all right I mean you
04:18:05
Brian AtlasI mean you didn't do a great job fact checking me earlier I still don't agree with you on that whole thing more promiscuous okay well I'll have you if you're down to stay in a little extra minutes after the show I'll have you on
04:18:16
Brian Atlasthe after show if you want and we can chop it up then since we had we had it back and forth on that um anybody else final thought before we wrap up here oh I do uh if you're an influencer uh
04:18:29
Nikkiplease don't claim you're an influencer if you just brag about your lifestyle your money or just anything that doesn't influence anybody in any type of way so yeah
04:18:40
NikkiI mean yeah but there's like some people who deserve a platform than others I know it's not it's not only white people you are you are a racist Sophia
04:18:53
SophiaI want you to look into this camera right here they don't need it look into this camera look into the camera and be like hi my name's Sophia and I'm a racist hi my name is Sophia and I love
04:19:04
Brian Atlaswhite people it's okay she loves white people and Poquito um Good Times okay well this has been fun um we definitely have a lot to
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Taylorthere's a lot to unpack and I think that if you have an open mind I'm definitely down to discuss with you more at a later time though because I got work yeah I'm right it's gonna be 2 A.M by the time I get home but we have a lot to discuss I
04:19:28
Brian Atlaswill say we're yeah we can have you back on the show sometime oh okay well thank you all right cool so here's what we're gonna do I'm gonna ask uh Sophia to join me for the after show Yuki do you want
04:19:40
Brian Atlasto join for the after show okay and then anybody else want to kick it or I'm gonna have to wait until my broke ass gets my ride to come okay
04:19:49
Brian Atlaswe'll figure it out those of you who are wanting to leave out that's fine but so okay guys hold on let me put it here okay guys we're gonna do a 10 minute after show
04:20:00
Brian Atlas15-minute after show but I just want to say last call if any of you are going to tune out after the main show is over please hit that like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I
04:20:13
Brian Atlasappreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you to the wonderful panel thank you to all our chat mods any women who want to be on the show DM at whatever oh the one thing I did forget
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Brian Atlaswas our types we're done beefing all right last question are you in a rush or types we could talk about types okay we'll do
04:20:36
Brian Atlastypes five minutes and then we're gonna we'll I will properly end it okay we also didn't touch it we're only fans at all either does anyone here have only fans I just like stole your you started
04:20:48
Sophiait what do you mean you haven't only no you you haven't he has an ownership does anyone know do the link in the bio like do you post content onlyfans.com whatever wow it's your hands and feet
04:20:58
Gabbyhuh nah we it's just like a meme we you have pictures of Kiki hello bestrealddolls.com
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Video Playbacklooking into this camera are you able to like touch your elbows together move your hair move your hair
04:21:36
Brian Atlaslet's not do that um okay so we're gonna go around the table starting with you what is your type uh into the mic please okay favorite
04:21:46
Brian Atlasthing like white guys short guys funny guys rapper guys face tattoo guys what's your type [Music]
04:21:58
Yukiwell who's your dream guy dream guy do you have a celebrity crush no
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Yukido you like do you like skinny guys muscular guys maybe muscular you like muscular yeah you like blondes brunettes
04:22:19
Brian Atlasblue eyes brown eyes it's all fine it's all the same obese you like obese men location for the pushing to keep warm at night
04:22:37
Brian Atlasokay uh Gabrielle is there an ah or is it just Gabrielle Gabriella Gabriella what's your type
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Katso my type is a nerdy and I just wanted a nerdy guy who is also got a really
04:22:58
Katgood technique by the way that's good that's good a nerdy guy who's also into fitness and loves the outdoors because I'm very outdoorsy and they have to like hiking
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Katum they just have to be taller than me but probably not shorter than five five or five six um and work a similar schedule to me because I work like eight to like six
04:23:21
Gabbyduring the day word I'd prefer taller but my last couple relations
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Gabby[ __ ] um but I'm just I had to hold the brain it doesn't matter um but the last couple people that I've seen have all been shorter than me
04:23:45
Gabby[ __ ] no for real stop the cap I'm not capping
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SPEAKER_10[Music]
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Brian Atlasyourself look at you whoa wow that got heavy okay um so sure you like short dudes I don't
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Gabbylike well I mean I don't have like us hard fast preference like they have to be six feet or above word but you know
04:24:21
Taylorbut it'd be nice I'd prefer it you know but I mean it's not a deal breaker word okay what about you your type my type um I'm it's pretty much a big question
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Taylormark I just I'm cool with anybody that is honest integral and has good values um it's doesn't help or it doesn't sorry it doesn't hurt if they're like taller than me which I know you're not getting
04:24:44
Brian Atlasattention right now Sophia but maybe just relax for a little bit okay we'll get to you soon you'll get to speak soon bro I if I was 37 I'd have to have a lot
04:24:55
Gabbyof work done to look as good as I look okay
04:25:02
TaylorI know it's hard to not have attention for a few minutes like crazy no I'm sorry well but anyway sorry so like it doesn't into the mic being taller doesn't doesn't hurt but it's not
04:25:14
Taylorrequired and then probably someone with good sturdy hands and good arms yeah like that um it's nice smile and kind eyes
04:25:29
Brian Atlassemi manicured and that's fine I should be a hand model you could for like feminine male products you know what I don't know it's like here's some soy
04:25:42
Tiffanyokay uh Tiffany what about you what's your time you like Italian guys because I think you're Italian right yeah I am Italian speak Italian I do not speak Italian that's my dad's fault
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Tiffanyum no I just like I think I don't even know dude you just have to have something going in your life you have to have some want to like have a better life for yourself honestly and some ambition something I like that too and you have to be taller than me I'm five
04:26:07
Nikkitwo so you at least have to be taller than me sorry you're like it's not that hard word okay what about uh what about you a girl they have to be comfortable wearing like
04:26:19
Nikkilike those sweats pajamas just everywhere with me um anime everywhere um he had not everywhere just he knows how
04:26:29
Nikkito like dress like yeah yeah dressing is a big you know dressing's a big one but um he has to I can't eat for [ __ ] so he
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Sophiahas to be bro what are you doing Sophia do something oh my God
04:26:49
Gabbystop interrupting Nikki bro how dare you your besties like like are you but are you dear friends or are you just best we're best friends
04:27:07
NikkiI'm sorry Nikki keep going okay um somebody that I can build like I like to build things with somebody like like
04:27:17
Gabbyan Empire like anybody that's cute you know an Empire Ikea furniture
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Sophiaor whatever the [ __ ] they call it they've messed it up and warped it so much because like a woman like okay the
04:27:40
Sophiadivorce like just to see someone just in case someone gets divorce oh it looks good I know dude those are
04:27:50
Sophiahonestly kind of cool that looks good I got it on right but just in case they get divorced the woman she will be [ __ ] like completely
04:28:01
Sophia[ __ ] and so like you can be like traditional and you can be a housewife but also have a plan B you always will need a plan B he could die you're not in the will you know maybe he didn't even
04:28:14
Sophiamake the will yet like you know it's just you never know what's going to happen so don't ever ever ever be dependent on one person because something can happen they can take that
04:28:25
Sophiaaway and you will have nothing and you know and I just think that like with the traditional um are you talking about like in the sense of like a prenup or are you
04:28:35
Sophiatalking about you know in general in general like okay because like with traditional marriage like their marriages and like kind of intersects with red pill and all that but red pill
04:28:47
Sophiareally hates divorce and I mean traditional they do too but like you know they're well they value families so they're not super divorce happy but they're like you know but they aren't like how the red pillars are about divorce it's it's different flavor yeah
04:28:59
Nikkiso like I just feel like they're more I am empathetic I wouldn't bring up the red pillies I'm like new to the red pill sphere honestly I would say like within the past like two bunch of guys that like
04:29:11
Nikkiare into traditional stuff to a whole nother level like they base every female off a body count off of the way that they see religions like they take those
04:29:22
Gabbygirls and think we're all like that which is exactly that's how they like group everybody into one group which that's kind of like I kind of came on here to here today
04:29:31
Sophiabecause some guys in the chat and Brian's podcast just the way that like one girl will say something and I'm just like that's like that's crazy like that would never come out of my mouth and I
04:29:44
Sophiadon't know any other girls that would do something like that or talk like that and I just like they take that one girl and then use it to as an archetype to kind of no
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Gabbyno what you gonna do about it don't talk about it be about it run your hands oh my God I'll stick with this hold on if I give you one of those you have to wear it for
04:30:12
Taylorthe rest of the show where did you get that though that's kind of live it's not gonna lie it's pretty good I know it's a good one I like that [ __ ]
04:30:23
NikkiI like the one with the the gold and the black that's cool I guess every after hour shows oh we're all wearing a helmet yeah everybody's
04:30:34
Taylorbeen wearing some hats girl oh my God that is crazy that's actually kind of dope that's pretty cool that's pretty cool I yeah I'm surprised I can see your eyes still I didn't think I'd black one you didn't even give me the one I wanted
04:30:46
Sophiayou want you like I thought you said oh okay are we talking about helmets what are we talking about I think it's matches
04:30:58
Brian Atlasshe's been since okay I'm sorry I'm sorry that's an accomplishment it feels like a sad accomplishment okay did you share your type or did you just
04:31:10
TTS/Donationsstart rambling about something oh hold on Victoria 100 to Sophia just want to Advocate that my wife is dependent on me on many
04:31:20
TTS/Donationsaspects IM the only person she's dependent on financially emotionally and many other aspects I am however dependent on only her in many aspects that is a true family much love bee
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Sophiathat's cute yo Victor thank you for the uh TTS man really appreciate it um that's cute that's a good balance good to see you in the chat Victor okay as long as it's healthy that's good but I'm like I'm not trashing on that but it's
04:31:45
Sophiajust like some of these traditional family archetypes it's kind of dangerous for a woman to have a kid like you know in her 20s never like started a career or built her career and what if
04:31:58
Nikkisomething goes wrong like what if she gets divorced well I feel like that's why you gotta choose really carefully you know what was you know like meetings a lot of people have still that you know
04:32:08
Nikkifairy tale like imagination and they think like thinking exactly so they rush into something that they think is love but whether like in most cases if a guy
04:32:19
Nikkiis providing for you financially in every other case then he's slowly gonna stop losing interest in you if you don't put anything on the table as well it's supposed to be coming out
04:32:36
Nikkiit takes a lot you know especially if you are so dependent on this person financially and emotionally as well since us females emotionally invest too
04:32:45
Nikkiit's like a harder way to just think of a plan B if you own if your person is plan a plan a all the time Nikki I'm not gonna lie you're looking fine in that I
04:32:56
Taylorknow she usually right it fits and it matches your outfit it brings out the it was last minute all right we have a super chat here
04:33:07
Brian AtlasDustin Denton thing for the hundred does a 68 inch guy 38 white guy in California count own the home out of a lot of age brackets 68 inch that's like five are you talking about like
04:33:21
NikkiI think he's no no that's a high thing but you you don't say your actual height in feet you say in inches so it's like five three five like that's very oh yeah
04:33:31
Brian Atlashe's his age is 38. yes he's 68 inches tall yes
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SPEAKER_10no no no it's 5.66 repeating of course what are you doing Sophia could we possibly round up to seven could we make
04:33:54
Brian Atlasthat a seven I don't know what the balance you're talking about okay do you think that we could round that up and make that with seven okay I don't know what's going on wait Sophia did you share your time because I need to share my type okay my
04:34:12
Sophiamy I really used to like white guys like oh you used to like like guys I'm
04:34:21
Nikkiwow
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Brian Atlaswait your current boyfriend is the one who's waiting to your ex-boyfriend who drove you here okay cool but um also besides that no
04:34:38
Sophiabesides that like I was like white guys white guys white guys I don't need me white guys I mean I [ __ ] with a white guy and then
04:34:48
Sophiaum once you go white your credit get right exactly okay um yeah he was Indian and I really liked him
04:34:58
Sophiaand so like I feel like when I have preferences like I'm still not too stuck to it you know what I mean like I still open other things I feel
04:35:09
Brian Atlasthat too word word like you can like all right I got I've written this down because I've got a list so you like
04:35:21
Brian Atlasit's very vocal about that that's true okay I like short petite women shorter the better for if her height doesn't start with four she ain't the one yeah I heard I was watching an episode and I
04:35:32
Brian Atlasheard you say that I'm like so tiny like yeah no I like short girls I would date yeah brother's the same way if you like some real shorts hey look if women like tall men tall men like Trump
04:35:44
Brian Atlasin any preference uh but here's the thing for me it's not like that's not a make or break or a deal breaker uh I'll date a woman who's even taller than me like so it's not like oh she's gotta be sure I would date a woman who's taller
04:35:56
Taylorthan me I'll date a woman who's my height yeah yeah and how was that what was it like yeah was it okay like did you find anything
04:36:05
Brian Atlasyeah honestly though if I could be totally 100 I think that like it's sex is a little more Awkward with a taller chick if I can be honest it's not it's still good but it's like I
04:36:18
Brian Atlasfeel like the the puzzle piece I don't yeah it's still good don't get me wrong [ __ ] it's still good but like certain positions are a little more difficult with like taller woman whereas like a girl who's like I'd say
04:36:30
Brian Atlasanywhere from like five four down it's actually what what the [ __ ] I've heard it no there was a fuzz I wasn't trying to do anything I'm sorry oh okay it's all good yeah so let's see uh slight preference for dark hair slight preference for blue
04:36:43
Brian Atlaseyes oh no I don't it look slight preference here uh let's see um I like women who smile with their eyes [Music] um no makeup or little makeup not a big fan
04:36:55
Brian Atlasof makeup yeah you okay Sophia or do you need some attention really quick okay um so I don't like acted upon body dysmorphia
04:37:08
Brian Atlasso that means like plastic surgery okay augmentations of any kind plastic surgery excessive makeup so I mean BBL fake tits uh lipo I would like extensions and stuff like that too yeah
04:37:21
Brian AtlasI don't I'm not a huge fan of that um I prefer natural the more natural the better the more natural the better like if she wears a bit of eyeliner if she has earrings she has a bit of color in her hair that's not a big thing but it's more like the
04:37:32
Brian Atlasmore extreme it becomes the less attractive it is for me okay so definitely like with plastic surgery don't like BBL don't like fake tits don't like lipo and for all of these for example I'd prefer a girl who's like
04:37:44
Brian Atlasflat versus a girl with fake tits even if she was totally flat before and then she got fake tits I would have preferred her with
04:37:56
Gabbyum and then BBL what if she was gifted though what if she had like Mommy milkers and they were 100 yeah
04:38:06
Brian AtlasI'd say I'm more of an ass guy but like okay big boobs are nice small boobs are nice it's all good it's all good uh let's see um
04:38:16
Gabbyuh oh large labia clearly right is that is that the hill that you're gonna die on yeah is that the hill that you're gonna die on or are you okay if there's others no I'm fine look it's not again
04:38:28
Brian Atlasit's not a deal breaker deal maker just I do have a prefer look I'm a fan women have preferences women like big dicks I like I don't like I've actually heard
04:38:37
Gabbycontrary I think average is what women usually say Sophia relax you [ __ ] add [ __ ] he hasn't had attention you need to oh wait you guys are kind of
04:38:47
Gabbymatching you guys have the Plaid Vibe going on word yeah she doesn't like white guys
04:38:57
Brian Atlasyeah I mean hey she's speaking to the contrary Brian okay I don't know but what's a labia situation Sophia what's it looking like downstairs
04:39:09
Brian Atlasdeny what are you rocking are you in any or an alley or Audi plead the fifth okay she has a penis um
04:39:23
Brian Atlasum and I'd say generally speaking I like more introverted women kind of nerdy shy women over like really like not super out there no yeah because I
04:39:34
Brian Atlasfeel like I'm more introverted I prefer more I prefer more like calm women I like women who don't drink don't party I don't I don't party or go to bars or clubs or anything like that so so like
04:39:45
Nikkikind of more mellow chicks introverted and they've been on the shy side like it so how do you think that you're going to need that then if you don't go out of the library
04:39:56
Gabbyyeah no I don't know or maybe College groups or something I don't know she's going to be playing wow I know she'll be on the podcast I don't
04:40:06
Brian Atlasknow there might be some other [ __ ] too uh soft-spoken women is good too I reckon so oh stem if they study stem that's
04:40:16
Taylorgood that's good they got that math brain there you go boom it's I'm so not good the robotic stuff is yeah I know you'll be studying that you was
04:40:28
Taylordoing all kinds of math over there and I was like that's nuts that's so much story it's like all the logic is kind of zip it zip it Sophia
04:40:36
Brian Atlaszip it zip it good huh okay so uh okay we're gonna wrap up if uh we will do like a brief 10 minute after show so guys thank
04:40:49
Brian Atlasyou for tuning in tonight I know it I'm repeating myself at this point hit the like button on your way out thank you everyone for coming thank you for watching uh you wanna excuse me any women who want to be on the show DM at
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Brian Atlaswhatever we will be live again Sunday 7 00 p.m Pacific we got a good show planned so be sure to tune in for that we'll see you guys next time hope you
04:41:10
Brian Atlasguys have a good night and uh hang out for a couple minutes afterwards if you want we're going to be doing an after show all right good night guys in the chat oh Seven's in the chat a
04:41:22
Brian Atlaswhat can we have a moment of silence for all the soldiers that lost their lives defending our great country Oh I thought oh for Fourth of July okay I thought you're about to say something related to um like the
04:41:37
Brian Atlasoh well I mean I guess we could do that too okay moment of silence also for the Spartans
04:41:45
Taylorokay that's not the moment of silence that we was talking about but foreign
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Taylor[Music]
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Brian AtlasI'm gonna have you do you want me to keep it on I don't see Heavy you died I want to wear one
04:42:56
Brian AtlasI think Nikki if you're down I'll have you and uh yeah I thought that you were Ukrainian at first with your accented a little bit like myself
04:43:30
Gabbynext time I love you guys thank you so much for coming yeah yeah
04:43:40
Gabbyfor the record I'm getting picked up in my own car America just for the record I'm getting picked up and it's my car how does that work
04:43:52
Gabbyso we he has classic cars and so my car is the only car that could make it here yeah so we use my car for everything so I do
04:44:07
Nikkiand nobody cares someone said nobody cares well he's mad because he's sitting behind the screen so okay watching me
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Brian Atlasthis middle one not far the one far over there
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Production/Crewright here right here yes yes
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NikkiI don't know how his OCD works I don't know
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um
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Tayloroh yeah
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Brian Atlasthis is for the audio now we're gonna get started here in a sec guys
04:45:39
Nikkiuh all right entertainment I will try read the chat um please ask me some questions
04:45:50
Nikkias positively as I can think yeah
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foreign
04:47:06
Nikki[Music] um oh you don't like my attitude um you should grow up grow a pair of balls it doesn't seem like my problem
04:47:21
Nikkiuh I was so nice to meet you
04:47:30
Nikkioh my God why do we look so fly um thank you I feel like this good old American hat does me Justice
04:47:44
SophiaI want to get better though
04:47:51
NikkiI was like you give me this I mean honestly don't get me wrong Yuki is a good person I love Yuki I mean who's Yuki her oh yeah
04:48:03
Nikkioh yeah sorry you're funny um but it's just more of like uh what you really need to work on as a person it's just your personality yeah and yourself exactly love yourself
04:48:20
Sophiawhat I was trying to say it was a little blunt what you're gonna like be like really oh wait we're on right now okay
04:48:34
Sophiawe're on right now securing them back but no Yuki was really nice I felt bad you know I mean the guys that she's with are pieces of [ __ ] don't get me wrong no that's what I like was thinking and I
04:48:46
Sophiajust wanted to tell her to um you know like go out like go to the grocery store go to the gym like exactly outside and like you get meaningful relationships do that but she doesn't
04:48:57
Nikkireally know how to start conversations like foreign language barrier you know I wouldn't say there's a language barrier if you're just trying to go for guys that are also
04:49:08
NikkiChinese because I am Chinese myself and I do speak his her same language but um
04:49:18
Sophiaso why why Malaysia
04:49:27
Diondefinitely be down to have you back okay sorry guys uh bye bye
04:49:37
Brian AtlasSophia looks like she would be in some like shitty Disney something with your hat why are you saying that oh no you won't oh wow thing
04:49:53
Nikkiit's okay is it really you have a t too yeah yeah I didn't know it was going to be this bad
04:50:09
NikkiGod damn it I've been like trying to spell my name for like the past three clicks and it's been deleting and undeleting okay there you go
04:50:20
Nikkithank you please stay right here [Music] I hope you realize you like I have no