Her Ex-Boyfriend DRIVES Her To Dates?! | Dating Talk #81
Date: 2023-07-05
Duration: 5h 50m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Video Playback(audience)
SPEAKER_02Dion(guest)
SPEAKER_03Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kat(guest)
SPEAKER_06Production/Crew(audience)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_12Nikki(guest)
SPEAKER_13Taylor(guest)
SPEAKER_14Yuki(guest)
Key Moments
00:06:50
Key MomentSophia admits ex-boyfriend Kaden told her to say she's 'single' before driving her to show
“he so like we're friends... he told me to say that I'm single”
00:07:25
Key MomentPanel accuses Sophia's boyfriend of letting her go to hook up with someone else
“he forced you to say you're single so he can drop her off and go hook up with another girl”
01:25:47
Key MomentBrian reveals xQc's identity and $100M Kick deal after showing panel his Instagram
“this is Felix he's a very popular twitch streamer... a two-year non-exclusive deal for a hundred million dollars”
01:33:43
Key MomentKat reveals she hasn't worked in a year and was financially supported by her ex
“I haven't worked in a year... my ex supported me”
01:52:33
OtherYuki becomes emotional discussing her online ex-boyfriend who ignored her hotel invitation; she waited alone all night
“I invite him to come over there and he just ignore... I'm staying in that hotel whole night alone”
01:55:04
OtherYuki cries on stream; Nikki and Sophia comfort her about self-worth
“I'm really ugly... I'm really sorry... she was hurting from a little bit before”
02:14:00
Key MomentSophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was planned to come on the show
“we actually we did DM like a long time ago like a year this is a year and a half ago... he was gonna come actually be on the show”
02:14:23
Key MomentSophia reveals she spoke with Destiny and was on his abortion debate discord
“I was speaking to Destiny... I should have been on abortion debate... on the pro-life side”
03:46:57
OtherDion (and Kat/Gabby) leave show early due to work obligations at 8am
“I do have to go... you've got work at eight in the morning”
04:53:11
ControversyBrian reveals he and Nikki almost got into a fight before the show started
“me and Nikki almost fought before the show but it's all love right Nikki”
05:13:34
Key MomentSophia admits she was 45 minutes late because she was doing her anxiety medication in the car and stopped at Target
“I was lost... I had to do my makeup in the car... I got leggings from Target”
05:40:52
Key MomentBrian shows Sophia's prescribed Lorazepam bottle on stream; she took 2 pills (double dose)
“this is Lorazepam 0.5 milligrams uh take one tablet by mouth twice daily but didn't you say you took two tablets”
Topics Discussed
00:03:52
Introductions & relationship statuses
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation, location). Brian goes around table for relationship status and longest relationships. Sophia's unusual situation discussed: broke up 3 days ago but ex-boyfriend drove her to the show.
00:06:38
Sophia's situationship: ex driving her to dates
Extended discussion on Sophia's ambiguous relationship status. Her 1-year boyfriend Kaden drove her from Bakersfield; they had a 'break' conversation Saturday. Dead bedroom for ~6 months. Panel debates whether this constitutes a real breakup.
00:46:40
Feminism & who should pay on first dates
Sophia identifies as feminist; debate on feminism, wage gap, patriarchy. Brian plays viral TikTok of liberal woman wanting traditional man. Discussion on whether feminist women can expect men to pay on first dates. Soy boy terminology debate.
01:38:00
Dating happiness check-in
Brian asks panel if they're happy with their dating lives. Goes around table. Tiffany celibate 7 months and attending therapy. Discussion on why Taylor isn't dating despite being attractive.
01:43:20
Female Delusion Calculator exercise
Brian has Kat and Dion run through the Female Delusion Calculator live. Kat gets ~1.1% match (white men, 100K income, 5'8'+, age 24-40). Dion gets ~0.75% match. Discussion on hypergamy and income requirements.
01:48:10
Self-rating round (looks scale 1-10)
Brian asks each guest to rate their own physical appearance. Dion: 6. Nikki: 10. Sophia: refused. Tiffany: 6. Taylor: 6.5/6. Kat: 7-8. Gabby: left before. Yuki: 0 then 5. Yuki's low self-esteem triggers emotional moment.
01:52:50
Yuki's self-esteem and online dating experience
Yuki explains she rated herself 0 due to poor self-esteem rooted in online relationship where ex ignored hotel invite. She cried. Nikki and Sophia give encouragement. Panel advises building confidence outside of relationships.
01:53:20
Flowers on first dates debate
Super Chat question triggers extended debate: is bringing flowers on a first date too much? Brian argues it's over-investment in hookup culture era. Taylor strongly disagrees. Most guests broadly open to flowers. Brian presents hook-up culture argument.
02:02:50
Bachelor showcase (Felix/xQc and Chance)
Brian shows the panel Instagram profiles of two potential bachelors: Felix (xQc, Twitch streamer, 27, $100M Kick deal) and Chance (29). Panel rates whether they'd date them. Reveals xQc's deal amount — Kat walked back her dismissal.
02:46:00
Religion and firearms discussion
Panel discusses whether they would date a religious person and their views on partners owning firearms. Most are OK with moderate religiosity and responsible gun ownership. Sophia is pro-life Catholic. Dion requires religious partner.
03:11:40
Andrew Tate and Destiny discussion
Sophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was going to appear on the show. She also claims to chat with Destiny. Brian dismisses online acquaintances as not real friends. Brief debate on Tate's legal situation.
03:14:00
Long-distance relationships debate
Sophia's story about guys driving hours for hookups prompts debate on long-distance. Brian says he wouldn't drive 45 minutes even for his dream girl. Taylor and Nikki offer different perspectives. Yuki shares her painful online-only relationship story.
03:20:00
Men vs women promiscuity debate
Sophia claims men are more promiscuous than women. Brian debunks with General Social Survey data (28% of men 18-30 report no sex in past year vs 18% of women). Extended back-and-forth on hookup culture access asymmetry.
05:45:35
Yuki leaves; show wind-down
Yuki says goodbye at ~5:45. Remaining panel jokes and wraps up. Nikki, Sophia banter about making up after pre-show argument. Show concludes.
Transcript
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02:52:26
Taylorsorry I saw fireworks on it oh yeah like I'm like a golden retriever just like okay that's okay um so you don't object to men caring about body count it's really really
02:52:39
Brian Atlasto tell them what they can okay I don't care don't care I think it's just a personal preference of the guy okay
02:52:49
Brian Atlasuh go ahead Yuki I don't care don't care okay wow that's don't hear that every day um you know what we should react to an Andrew Tate video because he really he
02:53:00
Brian Atlasreally hammers home the the this thing about uh body count Eric you know our OG clip that we've used to play a whole bunch we can we can pull that up um so we are going to react to a Andrew
02:53:11
Brian AtlasTate um thing and so that's going to be coming up uh who here is familiar with Andrew Sophia does drugs donated 100.
02:53:23
TTS/Donationstime people can tolerate her is directly proportional to amount of cleavage [Music]
02:53:34
Sophiawhat did they say oh do you want you know what I'll do your solid let me just play it again I love that it's a good one Sophia does drugs I heard that that's
02:53:47
TTS/Donationsall I heard hold on it's gonna trigger again don't worry I got you I got you Sophia does drugs donated 100 Sophia learned long ago that the amount of time people can tolerate her is
02:53:58
TTS/Donationsdirectly proportional to amount of cleavage visible um your response to that um the response is still loading we gotta
02:54:11
Sophiawait I don't know thank you at least you didn't call me ugly [Music] at least you said you got nice too
02:54:26
Brian Atlasthey didn't call me stupid ugly oh okay or anything how's that Celsius looking is it halfway halfway halfway
02:54:37
Brian Atlasdid you get liquored up too before the show or was it just the Tiffany do you smell alcohol on her breath get the breathalyzer I smell the [ __ ]
02:54:49
Nikkiwhat is it what is it called wait what's that beeping what's going on nobody off but we never even finished her question about everybody's body account only me and her
02:55:00
Nikkiare the only ones who've said anything oh said revealed their body count that's what I was eating okay um
02:55:09
Taylorbody count 10 10 okay I won't get into specifics but less than 10.
02:55:21
Gabbysame here I'm not going to get into specifics because I feel like that's a conversation that you should have with your partner uh it's a single digit though okay say that fair enough what about you it's eight
02:55:32
Brian Atlaseight to ten okay no in the past month okay okay uh and Yuki obviously zero multiply it by three and that's the
02:55:44
Dionreal number if you multiply Zero by three that's still zero it's zero it's still zero so that was for everybody though well I feel kind of stupid now because I also think that it's a topic you should say with your partner but I
02:55:55
Dionthought we were all gonna answer so well Nikki I mean was a Nikki no I feel [ __ ] stupid too so no no no stupid no don't say that I mean why we're not being this free question and it never
02:56:07
Nikkigonna be like oh I won't guess the specific suggestions
02:56:15
Nikkiit's eight to ten there could have been like a she was at a sorority party okay but we said actual numbers we didn't give you a range that's what we're kind of like what the [ __ ] about wait three difference with
02:56:38
TTS/Donationsanyone that [ __ ] Sophia should be able to write it off on their taxes as a charitable contribution dude I told you they were gonna come for you now
02:56:51
NikkiI mean that's not that bad okay girl what do you mean I guess we just got a dumb her down our insults
02:57:02
Brian AtlasI mean I'm just making Brian bread I know I was gonna say no matter what they donate Brian's still getting let me see if we have any uh I think we're good on the uh we have this from Joe would you
02:57:14
Yukilike to go play some video games lady Yuki sure did you play World of Warcraft a privilege of Legends League of Legends
02:57:23
Yukiyeah what else uh OverWatch OverWatch who do you mean
02:57:37
Gabbybattle Mercy or just regular support regular mm-hmm yeah what about Diablo the the Diablo it's a new one coming or it already came out right it's an old
02:57:48
Gabbyone actually I used to play Diablo like back in the day wait are you part of the game yeah oh I I didn't know that game Sorry Diablo it's well it's kind of like
02:57:58
Gabbywhat about Mario Kart Take the Wheel on that one the what on What Diablo is or Diablo I'm gonna pretend like you need to just make my dick go soft
02:58:07
Brian Atlasokay uh let's uh thank you Joe arvison for that uh soup chat
02:58:16
Brian Atlaswhat's going on over here you guys flirting with each other what's up oh yeah we're touching under the table there's definitely some tension going are you guys playing footsie or what's up okay um let's do the Tate clip on body count
02:58:45
Brian Atlasyou know what's so attractive about younger women wait is that the one I think it's it's a body count one yeah yeah that's the one that's one we'll we'll do that one video tab por favor
02:59:00
SPEAKER_07you know what's so attractive about younger women because we a lot of these dudes talk about fertility and yeah looks and stuff I don't actually think it's that I think that in the modern world in the in the days of old right you'd meet a woman you get married and
02:59:12
SPEAKER_07be together whatever in the modern world if I meet a girl who's 33 and single I know the amount of dick that's been through her before me is just simply unattractive I don't care how nice you are yeah but you're 33 years old how many men have [ __ ] if I got a 19 year
02:59:25
SPEAKER_07old girl might be your second or third man right I'm gonna be dude number [ __ ] 29 and all the trauma and heartbreak and [ __ ] they put you through you're gonna try and bring to my door like well my last man cheat I'll give a [ __ ] yeah they're like I don't
02:59:37
SPEAKER_07care like why is that my problem so if you pick up older women you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer they've had more [ __ ] rides more spins I don't want that [ __ ] when I see a beautiful young woman I know that she has a very low body count and that
02:59:50
SPEAKER_07and and also no no but the truth is women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex if a woman sleeps with a bunch of men it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her feel it active too and it's unattractive but if she said if
03:00:02
SPEAKER_07she's had 30 dudes inside of her she really didn't think you know what this guy's so so special or she's gonna think you know what you talk to me I was gonna give him the guy whereas if a woman's only living with a few guys she's much more likely to fall in love with you be a better partner except the likelihood of her falling completely in love with
03:00:14
SPEAKER_07you and staying loyal to you and and really believing you're the only man for her after being through so much trauma and so many men and sleep with so many dudes and having her heart broken and having those memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through is far less likely than meeting a nice young
03:00:27
SPEAKER_07beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men and she goes you know what this is the guy I like him every woman who knows this and every man who watches can be honest women fall in love with the person who lose their virginity to or their second or third guy they really remember them they really love them anyone who slept with 52 she doesn't remember who muslimar she doesn't care
03:00:41
SPEAKER_07if a woman slept with a bunch of men before you she's less likely to stick it out through a difficult period of relationship she's more likely just saying you know what new answer is new dick that's a pretty good answer and that's the truth let me make something clear if I meet a beautiful 30 year old woman I'm not saying I won't sleep with
03:00:52
SPEAKER_07him that's pretty [ __ ] old yeah 30. I know what are you crazy I there's been times I was drunk
03:01:02
DionI like this guys he's single yeah and that's true I feel like the more you attach and detach by having more sexual
03:01:12
Dionrelationships it's like it gets to you it messes with you and I totally agree with all of that wait Sophia are you able to scoot into the table a little bit because you're
03:01:23
Brian Atlaskind of a little bit pulled it just we yeah you're kind of like no just like into the table okay you're good good so wait you've never heard of Andrew Tate before
03:01:34
Brian AtlasI've seen a couple clips of that guy but no I don't I don't know who that is can you just straight into the microphone it's like kind of there you go perfect yep thank you thank you Nikki uh okay so you're in love with Andrew Tate I can
03:01:45
TTS/Donationsget that arranged I'll get you guys linked up uh oh psycho lgma donated 100 Miss America you are one of a kind we
03:01:55
TTS/Donationsneed more women like you who care about themselves and have standards God bless and much love that's very sweet thank you
03:02:06
Nikkiuh your reaction to the clip um I feel like as a dude and should be vice versa like that's good if there's something you want to tell us Nikki if
03:02:15
Nikkiyou go around and you sleep with like 20 dudes I mean 20 girls like and you want a girl with two body counts and you expect that from the same person like that doesn't that doesn't click
03:02:28
Nikkiwell in my head and then you're gonna turn around and be like oh women have this much baggage and this and that everybody has baggage dead ass I mean it's just whether you choose to take it
03:02:39
TTS/Donationson or just to throw it away Martin donated 100 why does Sophia not talk during sex
03:02:46
TTS/Donationsbecause she was taught not to speak to strangers W body counts L brain cells
03:02:57
Brian Atlasprocessing Nikki got it say it literally just read it out to you in a robot voice
03:03:10
Brian Atlashere I'll trigger it again thank you Martin for the uh TTS much appreciated here we go to indones
03:03:22
TTS/Donationswhy does Sophia not talk during sex because she was taught not to speak to strangers W body count L brain cells
03:03:34
SophiaI don't get it
03:03:39
Nikkithere's no way you exist there's like dead ass there's no waves like wow is this real wow real de Lulu
03:03:50
Nikkime there's no way you see them like it's right in your face like should I play you need me to play it one more time no it's not the Lulu it's
03:04:01
Sophiaoblivious I just didn't I can't get what the insult was poor like sex I have sex with strangers
03:04:12
Nikkium yeah Nikki I think was giving her reaction to the tape clip right no hold on there's no way that literally
03:04:21
Nikkispells out like the joke like there's no way you're like this she asked for it and it's proving it
03:04:31
Brian Atlasright just she's not real exactly anyways what wow wow be careful Nikki Nikki almost
03:04:40
Brian Atlastook my head off before the show no way foreign are you sure like am I sure why you guys are looking at each other very romantically by the way right now and
03:04:53
Nikkithey was like is there is there a chemistry between you two there's no point going over her head like that anyways as I was saying you should be able as in a relationship
03:05:03
Nikkiyou have to take everybody's trauma baggage in previous relationships and just because the FEMA has more baggage and everything the higher her body count is it's just more of a you're not a real
03:05:14
Nikkiman you're not mentally or just any physically you're not a real man to be able to take on a female with more than 30 40 body counts like and that's coming from hmm
03:05:29
Sophiayou want to give your answer to the clip your reaction to the clip Sophia to Andrew Tate uh I mean what you said pretty much sums it up like you know it's hypocritical
03:05:40
Sophiafor you to have a high body count but wanting looking for a girl that's a virgin you know and I don't know I just think that's very
03:05:51
Sophiahypocritical and I can understand preferences I'm like what not but it's just the way that it kind of
03:06:00
Nikkiobjectifies women and like this Purity culture as well you just start from point A and you didn't even go to point B you did I just
03:06:11
Nikkiwent to a whole other level we went to like five over there we started the A and went to five like we're not even on the same plane but like anyways what do you think what do you think we're
03:06:22
Nikkisleeping over here um I think that and because your opinion didn't even line up anyways keep going and watch the video that doesn't seem like my problem like
03:06:35
Nikkikeep going what's your opinion everything okay tonight nothing like I don't care where in her sentence seemed like my problem anyways your reaction to the clip
03:06:46
Brian AtlasI oh sorry we have well I'll re-trigger it I'll re-trigger it hold on uh your reaction to the clip
03:06:58
Brian AtlasI am I agree with the oh you agree with that okay did you watch the clip right yeah yeah I did but I also didn't retain a
03:07:10
Brian Atlaslot of it because you're just staring deep into Sophie's Sophia's eyes falling I'll be honest so deeply into love with her
03:07:22
TaylorI mean Sophia has that impact is that has that effect right like it's just that that's what it is but can you well I mean he's saying well it's almost less about body count and more about men
03:07:34
Brian Atlashaving a preference for younger women because younger women it's it's not a guarantee because a woman who's 30 could have a lower body count than a woman who's yeah I know but he's saying like well the woman who's
03:07:45
Brian Atlasyoung is less likely to have less damaged ostensibly yes and but you know it's even if like let's say a woman along her timeline a woman at 19 is
03:07:57
TTS/Donationsgoing to have fewer bodies than when that same exact moment woman is 30. but zombies 100.69 Sophia thank you Victor bro you are
03:08:09
TTS/Donationszooted living on another planet or just an NPC no GTA 4 Ray I got more intelligence than you you are one of the few people that can Count Their IQ with just their fingers
03:08:24
TaylorI'm gonna cry that was so sad was it that's the one that got you yeah like really look I've been on your side girl I've been really supporting you but
03:08:35
Taylorthat's the one that broke the back though like she's like I tried so hard I'm gonna re-trigger I'm gonna re-trigger this one
03:08:46
TTS/DonationsSophia nobrain donated 100 Sophia is a typical brainless Airhead skating by life on her looks and tits she seems like the type to get passed
03:08:56
TTS/Donationsaround and frat party's lull good for Ray but not relationship material oh my God I mean for your neck bro are you okay like damn she but she requested
03:09:09
Gabbypeople roast her I'm oh that's right that's right I was here for that yeah are you are you it's yo it's the Sofia
03:09:16
Gabbyeffect it's a Sofia fact [Laughter] that's okay give it 10 minutes and you'll catch up you're fine you're fine
03:09:29
Taylorum let's continue with the Tate thing yeah so basically essentially the younger women are less likely to be as carry as much baggage essentially that's what Yeah well yeah younger women are going to have less baggage they're you know
03:09:41
Dionnot baggage but sexual parts well it's but I think it kind of goes together yeah depend on your family how you were raised your troubles from your childhood that has nothing to do with how many
03:09:53
Brian Atlaspeople you have sex but I think he's speaking specifically he's speaking specifically about like relationship baggage and usually like as you get older you start accruing more and more
03:10:02
Brian Atlasrelation like baggage from relationships because just more time has uh elapsed there's more opportunity to get you know [ __ ] over by somebody so yeah I think the sentiment might be factual in this
03:10:15
Taylorcase I don't necessarily solicit the advice that Andrew Tate is the best advocate for said thing but I think that the only reason why I have an issue with that with what he said is because it gives the flavor of like I just want
03:10:26
Taylorsomeone that I don't have to that I can that I can do whatever I want with and I'm not going to have to deal with someone being smart enough to catch on that's the only reason why I feel like I don't really rock with him because it's
03:10:37
Taylorhe has a bit of a manipulative flavor to him but what he said isn't inaccurate though so I will give him that and I'll give respect on that but I don't think that he's the best of Advocates I'll I I don't wait when did he say anything
03:10:50
Taylorabout not being smart enough because I feel like um no he didn't say it I'm saying that there was for based on my understanding of him or based on what I've consumed of
03:11:00
Taylorhim if he has a very he is a very specific angle and a very uh targeted he's a very angled way of how he discusses certain things and
03:11:12
Taylorespecially in the relational sense and he's kind of like notorious as being an [ __ ] so like he has some pretty he has some pretty harsh views I know that he says certain things that are true and there are some things that I do agree
03:11:24
Taylorwith unfortunately because I don't really like to support somebody like him but he definitely has like a bad rap as it comes to discussing matters of women because he's a notorious [ __ ]
03:11:36
DionI feel like if you have a little one account you're kind of smart and if you're sleeping around that doesn't that doesn't mean you're smart if you're sleeping around so I think he would want
03:11:49
Gabbysomebody who is smart I think that's what he's saying sure uh your reaction to the clip go ahead I like Tate I think he's cool she likes Tate okay you should watch the long form
03:12:00
Gabbycontent if you're gonna make a a formed decision on who he is where is it oh no not just like it's on YouTube he's on Rumble
03:12:14
Sophiahe got charged but he's on house arrest yeah innocent until proven guilty but wasn't he proven guilty no he's not no he's he's just been charged so it's uh
03:12:24
Brian Atlasno waiting to like you know what due process I know yeah I know it's difficult to under for due process yeah
03:12:33
Brian Atlasfeminists are not fans of due process that whole thing you know do you process innocent until proven guilty
03:12:43
Brian Atlasyeah you know I like guilty okay yeah I'm confused by you right now I'm like what's going on some dude okay here's what happened some
03:12:56
Brian Atlasdude the past two shows pretended like did this Chili's baby back baby back which is from Austin Powers and I've been seeing that movie since I was a kid so it's on Netflix so I went and watched it so now I'm starting to talk like
03:13:12
Brian Atlaswhat's up Sophia what you got for me are you friends with Andrew Tate what do you mean to my friends oh he's my best no we actually we did DM like a long time ago like a year this is
03:13:25
Brian Atlasa year and a half ago so we were dming each other then he got banned on Instagram um I've uh he was gonna come actually be on the show so you should actually be on the show when he when he comes on the
03:13:37
Sophiashow yeah yeah don't take that event before though please I need you at your full faculties so okay but like I've never done this I was super it's okay nervous and I've been doing great
03:13:48
Sophiasociety and it's okay me too like took that out of it because it's just like as needed I didn't want to have a panic attack on up here like you know yeah no I get it I get it you gotta you know you
03:13:58
Sophiagot it also I was speaking to Destiny and you spoke to Destiny what what been on the abortion debate
03:14:11
Brian AtlasI don't think that would have been a good idea wait you're actually dming with Destiny like when you what do you mean you spoke with Destiny yeah like you're have you have you met him no
03:14:23
Sophiaare you trying to meet him is are you into him like are you attracted to him because I dear friend what do you mean he's a dear friend he won't unban me from his server oh so
03:14:34
Sophiahe's a friend what I'm so confused so what's going on so what's your opinion on abortion oh let's hold on hold on but he's a dear friend and I was talking to him I was
03:14:46
Brian Atlaslike because when I am he's a dear friend are you sure you understand that like to be a dear friend have you met him in person no okay you're not a dear friend but
03:14:58
Sophiaokay you're exaggerating I get it go ahead no but I was just telling him because would you smash him abortion what would you would you hook up with Destiny
03:15:09
Sophiano he's not your type Maybe why wouldn't you hook up with Destiny I don't know I like nerds so like he's in he's kind of a nerdy guy that's what I'm saying he's very smart super
03:15:21
Sophiaintelligent guy yeah or a single remember he's got a wife though I know he's Polly he's Polly smash her oh so you're bi okay but
03:15:33
Taylorshe's really pretty okay but how did we get here how did we get on tonight I mean this was on you dog
03:15:42
Sophiabut I just wanted to say that I should have been on abortion debate even Destiny was like yeah true he's probably just bro there's no way he would have wanted you on his side on the emotion
03:15:55
Sophiadebate no I would have been on their side on the pro-life side yeah you're pro-life Catholic oh you're Catholic yeah okay I wasn't expecting that one okay
03:16:10
Brian Atlasbut that was a missed opportunity been on the pro-life side arguing against Destiny yeah Destiny is like an insanely good debater he's nuts girl I don't know I don't want to be you know I
03:16:22
Sophiadon't want to be honest on Discord I know that he banned you from his server from no because someone sent me thirty dollars what and I got banned for catfish what do you mean catfish what there's so
03:16:35
Brian Atlasmany elements you didn't expect in the story you've got to structure this [ __ ] a little bit I'm gonna move this along here like yeah Destiny if you see if you see hi
03:16:46
TTS/Donationsthat's simple okay uh oh we got another one Sophie underscore is underscore Garners donated 99 why did God create Sophie to get an easy
03:16:56
TTS/Donationsway to move semen from the bed you asked for it Sophie but here's some consolation behind Ms murica nine five
03:17:07
Brian Atlastenths your next best looking eight tenths Good Times Sophia you got okay they are roasting you are you gonna say anything
03:17:18
Sophiaback you're just letting them [ __ ] pone you what was the rose okay okay anything about her body see I don't have my
03:17:28
Sophiaglasses new here yeah and then once they say it and I can't hear you um I don't think you should be debating for a while
03:17:42
Production/CrewI'm trying to keep it together
03:17:48
Sophiabut honestly thank you for sending my best friend Brian money guys it's friends just we're best friends just like your best friends with Destiny right yeah I was gonna say careful you're gonna be a dear friend soon
03:18:01
SophiaWhat's it gonna take for us to upgrade to dear friends um I don't know she does another insult and more money in your pocket Pokemon
03:18:15
Brian AtlasI want some money in my pocket in your pocket what the [ __ ] are we talking about you get your money on a Tuesday did you get to give your take on tape no
03:18:30
KatI just basically want somebody to argue with me about body count here I'll argue men who did not have men should not have a double standard for women's body count if they have a high body count because
03:18:42
Katthey also will come with baggage if that's what Andrew Tate was saying it's a little different you can expect you can't expect I'm sorry I'll stop I'll stop no it's
03:18:54
Katperfectly fine you can't expect Like a Virgin or like a very low you can't expect a virgin or a very low body count if he has like hundreds and hundreds and hundreds I mean maybe he can but like
03:19:06
Yukiit's gonna be a different level it's incongruence if anything Yuki yeah would you date Mr Tate like come like comes like use this big college
03:19:19
Yukistudent like you just want to hook up I would like to deal with him you would what I would like to stay with him compared with like what you're exposed to right now I come back with I mean
03:19:30
Yukicomparables uh like a cluster and just [ __ ] around word who here would date Andrew Tate show of hands
03:19:41
Brian Atlasthat was just like an example I was soliciting the hand raises who here would who here would date Andrew Tate Gabby before you leave nope
03:19:52
Dionokay I think that it doesn't really matter for guys can you lower the volume uh because I know that
03:20:04
Dionum well I think I don't know but I think that guys can have sex and just casually and have it not really mean that much but I think when a girl has sex it really
03:20:17
Dionum it really messes with them so I feel like if a guy had a high body count I really wouldn't mind as much although it does say something about him I wouldn't be like oh no you know like you wouldn't completely
03:20:28
Sophiadismiss it but it wouldn't bother you too much yeah but what do you mean that woman like woman and when they have sex
03:20:36
Dionsex so like new age feminism it's like oh sleep around you know like prostitutional use your looks in your
03:20:47
Dionbody and um to get what you want in a transactional relationship and that's girls acting like guys because that messes with girls to just sleep around but I think a guy can sleep with
03:21:00
Dionsomebody and it doesn't really bother them or mean a lot but I know as a girl if I sleep with somebody it's really gonna it's really gonna hit me I mean have you
03:21:10
Nikkiheard of the expression that guys sleep they like can and girls could sleep once because us girls are more choosy picky because we're based off
03:21:22
Tayloremotionally for guys but we also have a natural responsibility right we have a baby making situation so we can't we have to also think about that or factor that into US
03:21:34
Sophiasloppy about it with sex you know like guys when they're horny it's an instinct and they gotta find a girl like she said no no I'm gonna go to her it's it's
03:21:48
Taylorsome of the things that I've heard and seen men do for sex and Desperation has been kind of like get girls flowers on the first date crazy but no
03:21:59
Sophiaum sorry I have a crazy one um yesterday I was talking to my friends that are here you have friends yeah and I was like I'm going on this dear friends or regular friends dear friends
03:22:10
Sophiaokay so they're all online [Music] never met anyone above you the rest yeah but um and I was talking about this podcast yeah and then we were talking about sex
03:22:22
Sophialike you know it's what your podcast does to people and huh and we were talking and the guys okay so
03:22:32
Sophiait's two girls on closer towards you me and Sage that's great and then there's two guys okay two dudes the dudes of course were like guys will do anything for sex
03:22:44
TTS/Donations100 Sophia's pro-life argument stalks are pretty birds they could no longer delivered babies they would be sad and unemployed and it increased the wage Gap
03:22:57
Brian Atlasif they are female confirmer tonight is that your argument
03:23:06
Sophiawe're hanging out with sage and Bartholomew and mm-hmm Cornelius right yeah and okay but it it's so embarrassing what was
03:23:18
Sophiaembarrassing he was a you guys had an orgy this this because you're talking about like hookup culture and just dating and all this and like the differences between
03:23:27
Sophiagirls and guys and like what we do in hookup culture and the guys my boyfriend they were talking about how they know guys who drove like out of this city
03:23:39
Sophialike you know to La like from Bakersfield to L.A to Bakersfield to NorCal to get a hit
03:23:49
Brian Atlasand that's crazy why would you drive so far just for sex I wouldn't do that [ __ ] yeah no I wouldn't that's right I have I have it on record hold on I have it on
03:24:03
Brian Atlasrecord so I live in Santa Barbara right Ventura is like 45 minutes away so I've stated that I would not even if my dream girl is in
03:24:13
Brian AtlasVentura I am not commuting 45 minutes for my dream girl convenience is too important for me you got to be like within 10 15 minutes otherwise I don't care if you I don't care if you're a
03:24:25
Brian AtlasVictoria Secret model I'm going to Bakersfield for starters I I definitely Drive in the Bakersfield so you can't do long distance relationships I don't do long distance
03:24:45
Brian Atlasit's so complicated like and I I don't I don't part of being in a relationship there has to be like I think there has to be a proximity I think you need to be
03:24:54
Brian Atlasso you value that yeah you need to be in person with the person
03:25:01
Brian Atlas[Laughter] but I mean this is a perfect example like she you got you got really invested in this guy and but there was a distance
03:25:12
Yukicomponent right or was he in the same town as you but it was only online it's like only online but he's like doing LA and I trying to like make him
03:25:23
Yukiin person like I can't I said like I can fly for you like I can do everything to meet you but he's like
03:25:35
Brian Atlasa girl offering to fly to you you don't have to do anything he just he probably was like I don't know what he was [ __ ] doing he squandered to be honest no he he no he's playing he's playing a
03:25:46
Brian Atlasgirl he was playing a game with you so honestly you keep my advice to you with that situation is I think it's not a it has nothing to do with you it actually like he was on some weird [ __ ] it says it was about him because
03:25:58
Taylora dude turning down a girl to who's prepared to fly to him I really hope that you find yourself value one day really I I'm seeing how
03:26:10
Taylormuch it pains you right now and I really sucks to see you like that's messed up right you know no no I was I was trying to Big up Yuki what it is
03:26:22
Brian Atlasliterally I hope I didn't make you sad well I'm trying to say it wasn't it wasn't anything that you did it just sounds like the dude you know he he it was uh you know he was uh you know and just take what you can save all the
03:26:35
Dionnegative it's a good lesson don't fall in love with anybody that isn't gonna reciprocate it or not at least meet you in person you know what we're gonna have to talk about we can talk about we'll talk about something else yeah at the end of the
03:26:47
Gabbyday they don't want to talk about it we don't have to talk about it either if it makes you uncomfortable then we can move past this okay it's fine thanks guys yeah at the end of the day uh when it
03:26:58
Brian Atlascomes to distance though I don't want to do like a long distance thing
03:27:08
Gabbythe middle chunk of your point so it's like it's like two two stories down long distance or you know like it's got too many stairs look I just want to date a girl who lives in my city I don't I think you just don't really want to be driving 45 minutes that's really what
03:27:21
Brian Atlasyour point is like plus it's like I don't know if it's like I want to see you if I want to see you tonight that if they live far away like you kind of have to pre-plan a little bit but like if you're having a bad day hey babe come over she can be there I mean I see your
03:27:34
Taylorpoint I guess I'm just like I'm really devoted to my my person so I'm I'm monogamous for sure sure but also I love really hard and so like for me as a person nothing gets in my way if I want to if I if I'm loving on you you're
03:27:46
Taylorgonna have all of it so if that means I have to drive I drive if that means I have to do whatever it's whatever and I'm just devoted to my person so I don't I guess I just can't relate but I see where you're kind of like that's a thing
03:27:57
Taylorfor you because I I wouldn't prefer like a long distance relationship and I'm not gonna elect to to be in one because I don't think I'd like that myself either like out of state or out of country or anything like that how did we get to the long distance thing I think it was
03:28:09
Sophiaoriginally on something I was just saying that guys it's not a relationship they drive miles oh that's a way just to have sex with the girl but shouldn't so but do you do you frown on on that yeah
03:28:21
Brian Atlasyeah but whoa whoa whoa hold on I think I've caught you in a trap here because earlier you said that guys should pay for flowers so it wouldn't be romantic that a guy is willing to to spend this time and money to travel and come and
03:28:34
Sophiasee you isn't that doesn't that show that he cares he's willing to invest and then like what oh well that's different like it's not like a relationship like a random girl that
03:28:47
Brian Atlaslives let's get the mic closer to you please a random edge of the table there you go boom lovely a random girl
03:28:57
Taylor[Music] why were you you were making a point you almost had it so yeah I almost had it you had like a really strong grip on that by the way that was intense
03:29:12
Sophiawhen like it's a random girl you know this guy is horny so he gotta get that on and he's like damn
03:29:21
Sophiatwo hours away damn son wow like like she wouldn't see that maybe she'd seem as desperate in like that sense but I think you might have
03:29:32
Sophiatook it into the relationship sense of what this situation like what happened because it was in a relationship it was just like hook up culture you know what are we talking about and about I will
03:29:43
Sophiathat came from when I was talking to my friends with about hookup culture and like the differences in between guys and girls and how desperate men are in Hook
03:29:54
Sophiaculture like they lie to you know they lie and lie to just hit it and they just kind of like uh I don't know they do a lot of stuff or no not even just that
03:30:06
Nikkibut like they they just have sex with anything as a female have you ever been in a talking stage with like multiple
03:30:17
Nikkidifferent people no no you just haven't been in a talking stage where you just kind of get to know a person you're like oh yeah this is not it I'm not feeling him I've been in a talking stage but have you told them things and then you
03:30:29
Nikkilike a sooner or later you're like oh yeah this is not it and then you just um probably yeah so that's you don't think that's like
03:30:40
Nikkibasically the same level like same level of what what does that have to do with what I'm saying I feel like
03:30:48
Nikkias a dude like a lot of guys as I said men can get what they can girls can choose who they want to like sleep with like as girls like we have that
03:31:00
Nikkiadvantage to be like okay we could pick and choose maybe some people don't have that luxury but it's like that for both genders anybody could pick and true that person it's just that you're talking about an audience of people who would
03:31:12
Nikkidrive okay let's say so and so like however miles to get [ __ ] but you don't know if they get game or anything like that like that's just their Lifestyles like it's the same thing with a girl
03:31:24
Nikkilike she can go risk it all for a dude because she thinks he's cute or she just wants to go hook up with them most people would risk it all if their ex just picks up the phone and calls them and be like hey come over there's nobody
03:31:35
Sophiahere a lot of people would drive that 45 minutes to go see their ex again so but it's not their ex they're not in a relationship it's just some girl that you talk to exactly so you're just like that with your ex too you guys are not
03:31:48
Nikkiin a relationship and he's he still calls you and a lot of people will go risk that and go do that for their hookup culture with their ex thinking that they can get something out of it I think with the next it's a little bit
03:32:00
Taylordifferent because there's an emotional relationship or emotional connection that has been established I think the issue is like or I think what she's trying to say is that there's a certain desperation for someone that you don't have that much investment in and you're
03:32:12
Sophiajust doing it for the purpose of having sex so because like you if it was all right let's uh let's get some super chats in here let's get some
03:32:23
Brian Atlassuper chats just really quick on the flowers thing
03:32:30
Brian Atlassounds like a lot of work that sounds like a lot of work don't do the flowers thing okay so we have did we do this one yeah we did uh did we do this one to Brian hello to the lovely Yuki I think we we did this one
03:32:42
Brian Atlasright yo Sweet Tooth good to see you in the chat man welcome back yo marimore he has played clearly outdoorsy sharks lines growl LOL ladies all of you are awesome people there you go compliment
03:32:53
Brian Atlasfor the ladies at the table thank you very much thank you all right we have here uh maremore Sophia you are awesome person I'm a single body count man 40s
03:33:04
TTS/Donations100K my opinion is one out of eight billion hold on Martin donated thank you 100 dude Martin serious question and topical for July
03:33:15
TTS/Donations4th I'm very patriotic and I know it's incredibly disrespectful to let an American flag touch the ground when I take them off where will you hang your overalls
03:33:28
Dionuh they're not coming off right yeah [Laughter]
03:33:39
DionI wish I had something to say there I know
03:33:46
Brian Atlasyou don't have a response to Martin I think it was just a joke that's not gonna happen okay that's fine uh I think I was reading this one Sophia you are awesome person but hopefully uh my
03:33:58
Brian Atlasopinion is one eighth billion an eighth of a billion one out of a billion I don't but hopefully you understand you're awesome
03:34:08
Brian Atlasby the way his opinion is one out of eight billion opinions just a heads up buddy it's you apostrophe Ari just letting you know wow just saying if
03:34:19
Sophiayou want to marry more if you want to uh what does it say bro get this chick some reading glasses hello I have my glass es they're in my purse
03:34:30
Sophiaokay so oh no I can read hold on I want to read this nope too late go ahead read it read it let's hear it into the mic please oh
03:34:41
SophiaSophia I forget we're on stream Sophia you are awesome person I'm a single body count man 40 100K my opinion is
03:34:53
Sophiawhat one out of 8 billion but hopefully you understand you're awesome is half do you have a response what does that mean is he just saying I just said
03:35:07
Brian Atlasyou're awesome thank you that's sufficient thank you you're awesome too by the way I just want to say I want you know I want to put in a good word here for my friend
03:35:16
Brian AtlasMary Moore who's in the chat um he actually rescued me from a um with us a raccoon that had rabies we
03:35:26
Taylorneeded to be rescued a lot huh I just find myself and listen I have very look I have dainty dainty hands I don't have
03:35:37
Brian Atlaslike big muscular hands so like my homies that are all [ __ ] Chads like listen it's just a it's a matter of practicality are you gonna send the [ __ ] dainty gamer hands guy to deal
03:35:49
Taylorwith a [ __ ] wild animal are you gonna send a [ __ ] guy who's like got man hands but it's just like why are you getting attack ING with that have you ever been in the wild Sun yeah them [ __ ] be
03:36:01
Brian Atlascrazy I mean it'd be kind of wild I'm not gonna lie but you be targeted though and that's pretty interesting listen they just approach you out camp camping and [ __ ] they come for you
03:36:14
Brian AtlasI don't even know what accent that was but okay all right so he saved me from a [ __ ] rap uh rabies infested raccoon like the the raccoon was like literally
03:36:24
Brian Atlasrabies drooling from the mouth can I set you up with him sure can he DM you sure will you respond to the DM sure you promise I promise I want you to respond to the DM while you're driving
03:36:36
Brian Atlasback to Bakersfield in the car with your boyfriend or your ex-boyfriend ex-boyfriend excuse me yeah excuse me all right you're like never forget Bye Felicia somewhere count Von count count
03:36:48
Brian Atlascount counts each body counts within the uh
03:37:00
Brian Atlas[Laughter] sorry okay um all right we have uh thank you for the uh Super Chat Man by the way thank you everybody for all the
03:37:14
Brian Atlassoup chats we really appreciate all your patronage tonight bro I live in Middle America 45 minutes is going to Walmart right got to be a little better look man Trader Joe's is 10 minutes away
03:37:24
Brian Atlasson but uh maybe you can link up with uh our homegirl over here who lives seven thousand person population town all
03:37:37
Brian Atlasright thank you man um streamlabs is broke Sawyer uh Sawyer you might I mean I don't you probably not we I'm looking at the uh
03:37:49
Brian Atlasover the threshold have you donated are you donating in Canadian dollars what's the threshold uh Sawyer tell me your uh if you can send another Super Chat Sawyer Nick if you can be uh try to see
03:38:02
Brian Atlasit coming in Sawyer what are you super chatting under or on streamlabs what's your username that you're using or your name that you're trying to Super Chat as I'll see if I can fix it but yeah
03:38:13
Brian Atlasokay we have one here from Joe arveson uh I also play league Yuki ad vciev or I would be honored to play league together also Brian thanks for the show I enjoy it I was considering traveling the world
03:38:23
Sophiato find a lady but some of the ladies you have on give me hope oh he's so good he's a good one he's a sweet guy this is the first time I've
03:38:34
Sophiaseen a comment actually talk nice about women on this bro they talk nice about the women all the time what are you talking about 304. have you been reading the chat yeah of course I read the chat all the time I
03:38:46
Sophiaread it all the time my chat doesn't even use 304 that much dude it's in every video 304s and we have every video and I would
03:38:58
Sophiaknow you're super cool you hate watch I watch it to sleep yeah I wake up to you 304 you will never get a man I've I don't
03:39:10
Brian Atlasthink I've ever read I've actually to a monkey man you must be watching a different podcast no I never I almost never say 304
03:39:23
Brian Atlasyeah the chat does but you say you you fall asleep listening to the show yeah and like they say you can't hear I mean oh you're talking about super chats and
03:39:33
SophiaTTS okay I mean every single one when there's before this 30 for that 304 this 304. I
03:39:43
Sophiawas like thinking I mean they are kind of technically three of those but I was thinking about this like if I were to come on here would they call me at 304. I don't know are you I
03:39:54
Sophiamean I'm not an only fans model well I mean three or four can mean other things like a slot but like I'm not are you promiscuous no is anybody here I don't want to back check you oh God all right
03:40:06
Sophiago ahead okay well you said you said are more promiscuous than men yes that's not true it's 100 true it's not true 100 true it's not true okay fat fact check me statistics statistics
03:40:19
Sophia[Music] what's up it literally I think this suit I Had a Brain fine
03:40:29
SophiaI got you I don't like Celsius okay but um it said that since the 80s
03:40:40
Sophiathey counted this the promiscuous Infinity woman and men have always been higher but here's the difference right so in
03:40:50
Brian Atlasorder to be promiscuous you need to be able to act on for so what you're saying is is men have a higher sex drive correct yeah yeah which is true men biologically because we have
03:41:01
Brian Atlastestosterone are have a higher sex drive so you would think that that would lead to men being more promiscuous and here's the difference though the men who are capable of securing casual sex very
03:41:13
Brian Atlaseasily those men yes are promiscuous however the difference is women have more access to being promiscuous because it's very easy for women to get laid whereas it's it's rather difficult for
03:41:25
Brian Atlasmen to get laid relatively speaking comparatively speaking so less men have access to hook up culture so there are more women who engage in hookup culture who are promiscuous and there are men and this is evidenced by the fact that
03:41:37
Brian Atlasthey've done studies on this they've done surveys there are a higher proportion of men between the ages I believe of it's 18 to 29 who in the past year report having who are either virgins or who have not had any sex in
03:41:50
Nikkithe past year also if we're talking about that if we're talking about facts men the reason why they have a higher testosterone than most is because you know to repopulate you know you could see that in African
03:42:02
Nikkiculture a lot of them have multiple different wives and multiple different kids because they have a higher sex drive it's normal like that in other different like you know cultures it might not be just in America maybe to
03:42:13
Sophiayou maybe but it's it's there I mean it's just a that's just a biological fact of science but um men are more promiscuous I just fact
03:42:24
Brian Atlaschecked you you I literally just debunked what you said but do you have a response do you have a response to any of the points I've just made I mean
03:42:37
Brian AtlasI really don't I actually talk pretty slow no no I talked pretty slow we should talk about no no no no I do I do want to have we we can come to that but I do want to have a little back and forth with you on this because you've challenged me on
03:42:49
Brian Atlasthis so um I will pull up I will pull up the study that I'm referencing Eric it's in the infographics folder we've pulled it up
03:43:00
Brian Atlasbefore um let's see we have it is the uh sex frequency chart and this is uh
03:43:11
Brian Atlasthis is done by the uh it's a general Social Survey uh oh [ __ ] job Optimus thank you for the uh 20 gifted Subs man thank you so much
03:43:22
Brian Atlasreally appreciate it it's in the infographics folder it's uh young men driving the decline in sex it's called sex freak frequency
03:43:33
Brian Atlasare you in the info sex frequency
03:43:41
Brian Atlasit's coming up here in just a sec and what it's going to show is that young men are driving the decline in sex the share of men and women between the ages of 18 and 30 reporting No Sex in the
03:43:53
Brian Atlaspast year Erica can you uh is so it's this is 18 of women are reporting no sex and this is from 2018 No Sex in the past year 28 of men are
03:44:04
Brian Atlasreporting having had no sex in the past year so
03:44:14
Brian Atlasso like so so there's 10 percent more men who are not having sex so just based off of that alone I think you can come to the conclusion that women are more
03:44:25
Brian Atlaspromiscuous than men there are more women who have access to hook up culture any any girl can engage in hookup culture there are men who are like average who can maybe get a girlfriend
03:44:37
Sophiayou can hook up and average do you think like average guys they can rich people they can no no but I'm talking about an average guy average
03:44:48
Sophiaculture no it's really hard it's pretty hard for men to get laid it's not do you think who is okay she's a drunk girl that's what not in a weird way but
03:44:59
Nikkiliterally like go to I think she means like go to a party go to a party it's not that easy it is no it's not it is it's not it is it's really not that doesn't want to walk to go find his
03:45:10
Brian Atlaspartner maybe if you like distance and add a couple more miles to your dating range it might work out well I I do have a question for you so do you think that it's who has it harder when it comes to
03:45:21
Sophiagetting laid men or women um I'd say men because men kind of throw themselves at women okay and so it's like but you
03:45:34
Sophiajust said it's easy even need to try well just because some men throw themselves at other women doesn't mean that other men have it easy do have it easy I mean
03:45:45
Sophiajust from my town and my high school experience um even the ugly people were getting [ __ ] like for sure but okay if you have a
03:45:57
Brian Atlaspersonality and like personality matters so much here's some more evidence I have for you so on dating apps and dating apps is the primary way that people are
03:46:06
Brian Atlasnow meeting uh women swipe no on like 90 of dudes so the you have to understand like the vast majority of men are invisible to
03:46:17
Sophiamost women okay but if you saw what they were like
03:46:27
NikkiI mean I'm talking about like in-person meeting in-person meeting we know like guys pull more than than girls because guys don't put more than girls I mean average average guys that are funny and
03:46:39
Brian Atlasactually have a personality and actually have goals in their lives then maybe but you you're you're adding up these other things at the end of the day it's just it's hard it's those other things that make you a different person so you just
03:46:52
Dionwant to be like every other person I want to say real quick yes there are average people in the world because you have no personality I have to drive eight hours so I'm gonna go
03:47:02
Brian Atlasoh yeah you got work at eight in the morning and this is like really really interesting or you you know what what if you stay till 11 11 that's a lucky
03:47:11
Brian Atlasnumber that's another six minutes yeah I forgot about she's got that drive yeah look here's the thing most men are invisible to most women most women can
03:47:23
Sophiasleep with most men most men cannot sleep with most women you disagree with that okay there might be a little truth to it what
03:47:34
Sophiado you mean the little truth there's massive truth to it but listen I just I don't know why now that they have it so hard because when I was growing up in high school and
03:47:46
Sophiajust seeing like party culture and club culture and just like this you know just like that's all they did and um seeing like
03:47:55
Sophiaugly guys horrible guys like maybe they aren't super ugly but they're just awful personality you know I would see them getting laid all the time
03:48:10
Nikkiokay that's not evidence that okay you want evidence look at the rappers and look at all the famous social media stars that are kind of mid or and have bagged the big like the baddest [ __ ]
03:48:22
Brian AtlasI'm talking about the baddest [ __ ] so so you're so just to be clear you are are you you're talking by the way this is not a debate about like we're not talking strictly about physical appearance you just referenced men with
03:48:34
Brian Atlasreally high status and who probably make good money that's an attraction trigger for women yes it but how many men are famous rappers and musicians a very small proportion of men we're talking
03:48:45
Nikkiabout for the normal average guy we can talk about my problem that's why you have to build something with another person not everybody's going to be around build up their career then oh well like that's why there's always such
03:48:57
Nikkithing as day ones people who have stayed down with you when you had nothing and believe in your music career and until when you're already up on top and now you actually call yourself a rapper a celebrity they are with you the
03:49:08
Nikkiexception does not prove the rule you're looking at these cases of you you wanna understand yourself like you could be an artist you could be that person if you put in the hard work and dedication
03:49:20
Nikkiyou're saying average people because average people limit themselves to their own fantasy and their own beliefs but I'm not average people I don't believe or shelter myself in these little shallow thoughts that you have of
03:49:31
Nikkiyourself of saying oh average people this oh average people that like okay be better like what the [ __ ] is your problem you keep talking about a problem but I don't hear any solutions like if you want to like be better in a better situation put yourself in a better
03:49:43
Nikkienvironment maybe open your status maybe open your mind to other people there's so many things that like you're like you're the problem of your own thing like there's no oh this guy's oh there's
03:49:54
Brian Atlasgirls maybe girls around you maybe if you put it if you I'm not by the way just to be clear I'm not necessarily speaking for me I'm speaking on the experience on behalf of average or