Her Ex-Boyfriend DRIVES Her To Dates?! | Dating Talk #81
Date: 2023-07-05
Duration: 5h 50m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Video Playback(audience)
SPEAKER_02Dion(guest)
SPEAKER_03Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kat(guest)
SPEAKER_06Production/Crew(audience)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_12Nikki(guest)
SPEAKER_13Taylor(guest)
SPEAKER_14Yuki(guest)
Key Moments
00:06:50
Key MomentSophia admits ex-boyfriend Kaden told her to say she's 'single' before driving her to show
“he so like we're friends... he told me to say that I'm single”
00:07:25
Key MomentPanel accuses Sophia's boyfriend of letting her go to hook up with someone else
“he forced you to say you're single so he can drop her off and go hook up with another girl”
01:25:47
Key MomentBrian reveals xQc's identity and $100M Kick deal after showing panel his Instagram
“this is Felix he's a very popular twitch streamer... a two-year non-exclusive deal for a hundred million dollars”
01:33:43
Key MomentKat reveals she hasn't worked in a year and was financially supported by her ex
“I haven't worked in a year... my ex supported me”
01:52:33
OtherYuki becomes emotional discussing her online ex-boyfriend who ignored her hotel invitation; she waited alone all night
“I invite him to come over there and he just ignore... I'm staying in that hotel whole night alone”
01:55:04
OtherYuki cries on stream; Nikki and Sophia comfort her about self-worth
“I'm really ugly... I'm really sorry... she was hurting from a little bit before”
02:14:00
Key MomentSophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was planned to come on the show
“we actually we did DM like a long time ago like a year this is a year and a half ago... he was gonna come actually be on the show”
02:14:23
Key MomentSophia reveals she spoke with Destiny and was on his abortion debate discord
“I was speaking to Destiny... I should have been on abortion debate... on the pro-life side”
03:46:57
OtherDion (and Kat/Gabby) leave show early due to work obligations at 8am
“I do have to go... you've got work at eight in the morning”
04:53:11
ControversyBrian reveals he and Nikki almost got into a fight before the show started
“me and Nikki almost fought before the show but it's all love right Nikki”
05:13:34
Key MomentSophia admits she was 45 minutes late because she was doing her anxiety medication in the car and stopped at Target
“I was lost... I had to do my makeup in the car... I got leggings from Target”
05:40:52
Key MomentBrian shows Sophia's prescribed Lorazepam bottle on stream; she took 2 pills (double dose)
“this is Lorazepam 0.5 milligrams uh take one tablet by mouth twice daily but didn't you say you took two tablets”
Topics Discussed
00:03:52
Introductions & relationship statuses
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation, location). Brian goes around table for relationship status and longest relationships. Sophia's unusual situation discussed: broke up 3 days ago but ex-boyfriend drove her to the show.
00:06:38
Sophia's situationship: ex driving her to dates
Extended discussion on Sophia's ambiguous relationship status. Her 1-year boyfriend Kaden drove her from Bakersfield; they had a 'break' conversation Saturday. Dead bedroom for ~6 months. Panel debates whether this constitutes a real breakup.
00:46:40
Feminism & who should pay on first dates
Sophia identifies as feminist; debate on feminism, wage gap, patriarchy. Brian plays viral TikTok of liberal woman wanting traditional man. Discussion on whether feminist women can expect men to pay on first dates. Soy boy terminology debate.
01:38:00
Dating happiness check-in
Brian asks panel if they're happy with their dating lives. Goes around table. Tiffany celibate 7 months and attending therapy. Discussion on why Taylor isn't dating despite being attractive.
01:43:20
Female Delusion Calculator exercise
Brian has Kat and Dion run through the Female Delusion Calculator live. Kat gets ~1.1% match (white men, 100K income, 5'8'+, age 24-40). Dion gets ~0.75% match. Discussion on hypergamy and income requirements.
01:48:10
Self-rating round (looks scale 1-10)
Brian asks each guest to rate their own physical appearance. Dion: 6. Nikki: 10. Sophia: refused. Tiffany: 6. Taylor: 6.5/6. Kat: 7-8. Gabby: left before. Yuki: 0 then 5. Yuki's low self-esteem triggers emotional moment.
01:52:50
Yuki's self-esteem and online dating experience
Yuki explains she rated herself 0 due to poor self-esteem rooted in online relationship where ex ignored hotel invite. She cried. Nikki and Sophia give encouragement. Panel advises building confidence outside of relationships.
01:53:20
Flowers on first dates debate
Super Chat question triggers extended debate: is bringing flowers on a first date too much? Brian argues it's over-investment in hookup culture era. Taylor strongly disagrees. Most guests broadly open to flowers. Brian presents hook-up culture argument.
02:02:50
Bachelor showcase (Felix/xQc and Chance)
Brian shows the panel Instagram profiles of two potential bachelors: Felix (xQc, Twitch streamer, 27, $100M Kick deal) and Chance (29). Panel rates whether they'd date them. Reveals xQc's deal amount — Kat walked back her dismissal.
02:46:00
Religion and firearms discussion
Panel discusses whether they would date a religious person and their views on partners owning firearms. Most are OK with moderate religiosity and responsible gun ownership. Sophia is pro-life Catholic. Dion requires religious partner.
03:11:40
Andrew Tate and Destiny discussion
Sophia reveals she DM'd Andrew Tate ~1.5 years ago and he was going to appear on the show. She also claims to chat with Destiny. Brian dismisses online acquaintances as not real friends. Brief debate on Tate's legal situation.
03:14:00
Long-distance relationships debate
Sophia's story about guys driving hours for hookups prompts debate on long-distance. Brian says he wouldn't drive 45 minutes even for his dream girl. Taylor and Nikki offer different perspectives. Yuki shares her painful online-only relationship story.
03:20:00
Men vs women promiscuity debate
Sophia claims men are more promiscuous than women. Brian debunks with General Social Survey data (28% of men 18-30 report no sex in past year vs 18% of women). Extended back-and-forth on hookup culture access asymmetry.
05:45:35
Yuki leaves; show wind-down
Yuki says goodbye at ~5:45. Remaining panel jokes and wraps up. Nikki, Sophia banter about making up after pre-show argument. Show concludes.
Transcript
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00:57:21
Brian Atlasyou are if you aren't representing that like the the wage Gap first off it's been illegal to pay women less for the same job since 1963. um if it is so prevalent you would see
00:57:34
Brian Atlasmore people getting fined sued and companies shut down also if it was the case for example that you could pay a woman say 30 percent less than the man to do the exact same job companies would
00:57:44
Brian Atlasexclusively hire women because what is the primary interest of a business
00:57:54
Brian Atlaswould you agree primary purpose of a business is to make money so as a business owner or as a corporation if you can save 30 percent
00:58:04
Brian Atlason employment by hiring women only then you would do it fact of the matter is there is no wage Gap there's an earnings Gap but that's different than a wage Gap men
00:58:16
Brian Atlasearn more overall for the same job for the same job position men and women get paid the same wage but men earn more there's and there's a whole bunch of
00:58:27
Brian Atlasreasons for example women get paid you might say that women get paid 50 15 less because they work 15 percent less men on average work more hours than do women
00:58:43
Taylordo harder jobs I've standing on what the wage Gap is busy I think like I'm kind of confused because the last I looked it up the wage Gap is like 82 cents per the male dollar or
00:58:56
Brian Atlassomething like that that's the unadjusted rate but if you actually adjust it for all variabilities it shrinks to like including like all the discrepancies it's like one percent it's
00:59:07
Brian Atlasone percent if you adjust for hours worked and all this sorts of discrepancies racially as well the often reported wage Gap where it's like 80
00:59:17
Brian Atlasit's always changing let's say 76 76 or 80 cents to a dollar but that's what that what that stat is is you take all the money women make and you compare to
00:59:28
Brian Atlasall the money men make but men and women make different decisions when it comes to career we work different hours where there's different professions there's seniority there's all kinds of different variables that are uncontrolled for so
00:59:40
Brian Atlasit shrinks to like one percent and you have to ask yourself if there is a discrepancy can you necessarily attribute said discrepancy to for example sexism just
00:59:52
Brian Atlasbecause a discrepancy exists does not mean that it's due to if there's a discrepancy that exists between say men and women is it necessarily because of sexism I would
01:00:03
Taylorsay not necessarily it could be but not necessarily definitely possibility and I don't think we should do but I do think that there is a bit of a there's a skewed perspective on what really is the contributing factor to
01:00:17
Brian Atlasthat um I'm not the most educated on wage Gap per se so I don't feel that I'm the best to ask we're going to move away we're going to move away from the wage Gap but I just want to bring it back to you here for a little second here
01:00:29
Brian Atlasum so just maybe two other points when it comes to feminism uh do you believe in the patriarchy that's kind of a feminist position you know the answer
01:00:40
Brian Atlasno do you I'm asking you I don't I don't want to I want I want charitable I don't want to just assume that you believe so I'd rather just ask you if you believe something or don't believe something yeah because I'd like to treat people as individuals and see what they believe or
01:00:53
Nikkidon't believe I don't want to just assume you believe well whatever it may be I'm sorry it's kidding can we just change the subject because this is a dating podcast and we're clearly not gonna get anymore it is related it is related to the uh you know who should
01:01:05
Nikkipay on the first date but anyways I would like to ask the panel something unrelated we're going to continue on this because she doesn't know what she's talking about that's why I'm trying to
01:01:14
Dioncut in okay say that but as a woman with a small business if you have equipment signed up if you're a contractor whatever you are you get on the priority
01:01:24
Dionlist as a woman owning a business you get like your first over the men so I don't even know what radical feminism means but I don't agree with the whole age Gap thing exactly because it's just
01:01:37
Brian Atlasnot true wage Gap wait sorry okay you said age Gap that's another conversation uh so you believe in the patriarchy correct yeah okay and then another so just curious what what is your general stance on men
01:01:50
SophiaI mean what do you think of men like do I hate them no
01:01:58
Sophiaokay sorry for them what why is that I mean because like I always see men complaining about women
01:02:10
Sophiaand just like taking this hatred into onto a woman about how like you know how we have I don't know maybe if we feel upset we
01:02:21
Sophiahave someone that can you know empathize with us and like just these little things and because one thing is like with men I feel like men
01:02:31
Sophiamale friendships I'm sorry I'm really anxious but it's okay male friendships like most of the time they aren't really
01:02:39
Dionanything like they don't have substance you know between male and mail you mean or yeah okay so do you feel bad for men because you think they have it harder than women
01:02:52
Dionno so why do you feel bad for them because there are disadvantages for them as well so then how are you a feminist if you think that I don't know what
01:03:03
Nikkifeminist because we're trying to we're trying to understand you but like you have literally just been dodging the question not answering it like
01:03:13
Gabbythat I mean it's okay but before version of feminism yeah feminism doesn't make sense to me please explain exactly we we're open we're open-minded but we're trying to like really understand
01:03:28
Sophiaum I mean there's like multiple levels there's different types of feminists so what's the radical level yes Ezekiel 25 that you believe in once again
01:03:41
TTS/Donationson all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the theory of evil men expressed is he who in the name of Charity and Good Will Shepherds the weak
01:03:51
Brian Atlasthrough the valley of the darkness no no no no no no here I'll do it um all right hold on oops what okay thank you thank you Ezekiel 25 17. hold on I
01:04:02
TTS/Donationsgot just that Eric put let's play the herbs um I need to adjust the Ezekiel 25 17 donated 100 and I will strike down upon thee with
01:04:15
TTS/Donationsgreat Vengeance and Furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers and you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon thee all right let's Play that video Eric can you
01:04:25
Brian Atlaspull it up thank you Ezekiel 25 17. appreciate it uh Go full screen please Ohio no here you got to go back to her
01:04:37
Brian Atlasprofile and then you have to go find the video if you're able to um okay
01:04:49
Brian Atlaswait it's like she's in the car it's there's like a curious just can you show because I can't yeah Tick Tock is [ __ ] whack if you're not
01:04:58
Brian Atlaslogged in um scroll down what no scroll scroll scroll down uh that the the one with the participating in this activity yeah that one do you want to know one of
01:05:11
Video Playbackthe saddest realizations I recently had uh was that as a liberal one proud Tick Tock so we can't uh can you just uh move us over
01:05:24
Brian Atlassorry guys we're doing it live okay Rush Limbaugh oh my God yep okay start from the beginning please
01:05:39
Video Playbackone of the saddest realizations I recently had was that as a liberal woman it is really hard to find a man who was willing to play the more traditional
01:05:49
Video Playbackmasculine role in the relationship in today's day and age who is not a conservative a man who wants to pay on the first date who wants to open your door who has that want and desire to
01:06:01
Video Playbacktake care of you and to provide was not a conservative and obviously as a liberal woman I do want to be respected from Independence and I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship and
01:06:11
Video Playbacknot be confined or conform to the traditional female Homemaker childbearing role and most of the men that I've dated who do have that more
01:06:21
Video Playbacknatural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative so I don't really know what to do because I don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man but am I asking how
01:06:34
Brian Atlasmy cake can eat it too all right I don't know if you can control Z those back um I don't know if it's still possible but uh yeah yeah sweet thanks Eric
01:06:45
Brian Atlasum okay so that's somewhat related to what we were talking about before when it comes to who should pay on the first date so this kind of went semi-viral uh
01:06:55
Brian Atlasbasically you have a woman self uh I mean self-identifying as Progressive liberal whatever who's like wants like a traditionally masculine man to pay for the first date do all the [ __ ] so let's get everybody's reaction let's go around
01:07:09
Brian Atlasthe table um we're gonna start with you and then we'll go around this way any thoughts on on that you you right here yeah into the mic please um um I feel like
01:07:26
Katum yeah we'll skip uh what about you Gabby like every girl wants a guy that's gonna be like that
01:07:38
Katum but it's it's becoming less and less apparent in this day and age okay yeah your reaction I feel like she
01:07:48
Gabbymissed the whole well I mean a conservative woman or a traditional woman just because you're the one who's cleaning house or cooking
01:07:59
Gabbyor having the babies that doesn't mean that your opinion or your thoughts are just completely disregarded I'm sure there are many conservative men out
01:08:08
Gabbythere that value their partner's opinion and if you're equal counterparts or if you're good together then you should be
01:08:17
Gabbyable to you know provide some insight into decisions
01:08:26
TaylorI got beef I'm not gonna even lie so I'm just gonna I'm just gonna say if you if you are if you want a traditional man
01:08:37
Taylorand that traditional so that it's likely that that traditional man is gonna want a traditional woman right so if you don't fit that archetype right if you
01:08:46
Taylorcan't satisfy the traditional role right then it it doesn't make sense there's just not a congruency like two plus two is not really equaling four there so
01:08:56
Taylorlike if for example he's he comes to the table right and he's like I would like a woman that is gonna clean cook and do all that stuff right and these are the terms that he's setting for everybody
01:09:08
Taylorright and so he's very transparent and he's very forthcoming about that and you come and you meet him with I don't want to do that I want to do this and I don't like that that's just an incompatibility
01:09:19
Taylorand that has nothing to do with him being a piece of [ __ ] I'm sorry is that an excuse me just go ahead I'm sorry okay and that has nothing to do with him or anything like that it's just strictly an incompatibility it means you're
01:09:32
Taylorlooking in the wrong place or you're looking for the wrong one so you might want to reevaluate what you're looking for and maybe be a little bit more uh eye to eye with that because there's
01:09:42
Tiffanyjust a mismatch there that's all I can say okay what about you yeah the video kind of just gave me Whiplash to be honest with you is she just talking about I don't know
01:09:52
Brian Atlasit just um yeah it was just a lot [Laughter] well okay so she's saying she's like she's basically a progressive woman who
01:10:03
Brian Atlasis like man these guys in La like I'm so liberal but like I want a guy who's traditional and pays for the first aid and does all these more traditional
01:10:13
Brian Atlastraditionally masculine things but is she if she's not traditional herself you know is it fair for her to be no asking for these sorts of things I don't
01:10:26
Tiffanythink anyone's really traditional anymore I mean you can like yeah assume you can be as traditional as you think people you know what traditional is but I don't know if there really is a traditional anymore you know everybody's
01:10:36
Tiffanykind of different and like yeah like what you were saying if you meet on You Gotta Have you have to meet in the middle in any situation so it's just not going to work out especially if you have two different viewpoints yeah does it
01:10:48
Taylormake sense it's like oil and water like what you think bro like your reaction to the video it was kind of prompted by or I think it was prompted by
01:10:58
Brian Atlaswhat you said but about what well you said you said you're like feminist you're probably more liberal right um but you want the guy to pay on the first date so do you do you resonate with what she
01:11:11
Brian Atlassaid that she wants the conservative man like well I don't think she should not like you know what I mean she wants a liberal soy boy guy to but who will still pay for her day it'd still be like provider
01:11:25
Brian Atlasstill be a protector still be the gentleman open the door et cetera et cetera so do you have a reaction to that agree disagree I just
01:11:36
Brian AtlasI just think she needs to work on herself did you get stoned before the show oh it's my eye okay then well no it's just that that sounded like a stoner laugh
01:11:56
Brian Atlasit's all good it's legal in California um okay yeah Nikki what about you why did you say soy boy like when you refer like referencing
01:12:08
NikkiTerry why do you say like soy boy like whatever you said like opening doors paying on first dates like why do you say that I'm just trying to understand why would I say soy boy yeah what did he say it
01:12:20
Nikkiwasn't that heavy it's not heavy but I'm just trying to see how you're thinking I mean right why did you say soy boy why did I say out of every word it's just like I've heard it before I mean I mean
01:12:32
Nikkiyeah but like it's kind of saying like he's saying like he's a wussy like oh like he's paying on the first day so the girl in the video says she wants a liberal is a liberal somebody who likes
01:12:44
Brian Atlassoy milk I thought yes it's really not happy it's like somebody a little nickname used to like oh I misunderstood what soy
01:12:54
Brian Atlasboy was that's why I'm saying it's often used to just as as uh to basically say like someone a weak guy but why did you reference him as weak for opening doors
01:13:07
Nikkisemantics of what I said or I didn't say or but I just wanna I wanna get to know like we're talking right but why a weak man why did you think that he you're asking me this question right now because I'm trying to understand where
01:13:19
Nikkiyou're coming from in a referencing way so you're saying that a man so you're saying that you're a man is a wussy because he pays no I'm just trying to say like where you're coming from so you're saying that
01:13:31
Brian Atlasa man is not supposed to pay on the first date that's not and then so I'm she so that he's a wussy for doing that right no she's saying that she wants she doesn't want like a conservative dude
01:13:43
Brian Atlasshe wants like a super Progressive liberal guy and I added a little cherry on top like oh maybe maybe a soy boy
01:13:54
Nikkiwe can have a semantic argument like if if you object so heavily to one yeah I'm just trying to wonder why did you just use the words you could have just said like oh he says it's not that a caring guy or something like that I mean like
01:14:07
Nikkithat's just normal in a relationship especially if a guy who believes in alpha male and I don't know like projects like the the red pillars oh
01:14:18
Dionthe red pillars the ones that actually believe in be like you know paying for the first day always paying and everything right that's what Justin said he pays I wasn't really really bothered by the soy boy but what
01:14:31
Nikkidid you think about the video I mean in in the video she she needs to change obviously but you know it you need compromise in everything but he's saying that as a guy he's a wussy for paying
01:14:44
TTS/Donationsfor the first that's not that's literally not what that meant is donated one hundred dollars
01:14:51
Brian Atlasso what is your understanding is scientific what did we correct soy milk has makes men more feminine bricksen is scientifically correct it's
01:15:02
Brian Atlasit's literally it's like it's like a silly insult yeah so you're okay so not directed at anybody at this table it's
01:15:12
Dionjust like okay but I could say I think that video that lady has it so backwards It's gotta be satire or something because no she's got a whole Channel
01:15:22
Dionfull of them like she's in her car in her entire Channel if you want a man that's gonna be a leader then you have to submit to him you can't exactly that's so awesome why are you saying
01:15:33
Brian Atlasthat he's a wussy for Shane that he's no I'm not I'm not saying I am not saying that you are a soy boy if you want to
01:15:42
Brian Atlaspay for the date I am saying she's she wants a progressive super liberal dude a nickname a semi-derogatory somebody
01:15:52
Nikkithat bends to her will that like everything that she says that he does basically I would say Okay soy boy is like the liberal version of redneck you know like you can call somebody like
01:16:05
Taylora redneck and you're not talking about like a specific person so does it specifically pertain to like your political standing or like what I don't think I think it just drinks soy milk
01:16:18
Brian Atlasgive me some steak give me some red meat raw milk that's all we drink okay like people people who like consume soy probably are more likely to be a bit
01:16:30
Brian Atlasmore liberal people who are vegetarian are more likely to lean a bit more liberal in their politics has been the nickname I'm asking that up that's just been I know but where does
01:16:41
Brian Atlashe go you are literally derailing the conversation now I'm trying to see where you're standing at I've just explained it to you you want you want me to articulate all of my political stances on various political issues yes no
01:16:54
Brian Atlasthat's not gonna happen why so you can you're on a talk show you're hosting I'm on the dating show I'm on a dating talk show I'm not about to articulate every single one of my political stances whether it be Firearms whether it be
01:17:07
Brian Atlasabortion whether it be whatever [ __ ] political thing it is I'm still the initial question was about uh we're reacting to something dating related yes we are okay so I've I've
01:17:19
Nikkithoroughly answered your question okay why are you arguing just arguing I'm not arguing just argue I'm just trying to see where you stand at on my politics we're face to face I'd say I'm politically moderate does that sufficiently answer your question by
01:17:33
Brian Atlasanswering all these questions I've just answered your question I I concern myself politically let's move on then lovely okay to be politically moderate okay
01:17:49
Brian Atlasrock and roll okay we have a couple chats here that we have to uh get to we have Jonathan cruto hey thank you man forgot to say this last stream but love the Pod Brian one request Destiny versus
01:18:00
Brian AtlasShapiro also happy Independence Day everyone hey yo John thank you very much much appreciated thank you for the soup chat man you're you're a legend hey thanks for the 50. that hurts her
01:18:11
Brian Atlasbecause it puts him in the bad spot when was the scent oh this was sent uh almost an hour ago for couples out there never put your significant other in a spot like that forcing them to fight their family over you is never a good spot it brings
01:18:26
Brian Atlas[Music] a b check thank for the uh 20 gifted uh memberships man really appreciate it you're a [ __ ] Legend good to see you uh back in chat I haven't seen you in a while man welcome welcome uh thank you so much Prometheus Venom hey thank you
01:18:39
Brian Atlasman what about the corn industry actresses get paid more than their male counterparts yeah there's definitely some Industries where I think women get paid more I mean than modeling and porn and uh I think in
01:18:52
Brian AtlasI mean there's other there's certain industries that are more women dominated like nursing and nursing pays very well so um all right and then did we pop this one pull this one up I don't remember but um thank you man
01:19:04
Taylorappreciate it dude I'd date the [ __ ] out of overalls too I know I'm kind of I'm looking at your overalls right now and I'm still I'm still stunned by them because they're so good they're so good they look good on Gabby can you read
01:19:16
Brian Atlasthis one they're on the floor uh Gabby it is clear his mom is sabotaging your relationship if he cannot cut the proverbial umbilical cord your marriage will struggle take it from a recovering
01:19:27
Taylormama's boy okay whoa there you have it he's giving you personally I appreciate it I've been there I've done that let me give you what's up like that's what he was all right we have uh on gay tour thank you
01:19:40
Brian Atlasman please that American flag girl should yell a Yeehaw Fourth of July uh the most bass girl on the panel F feminism and woke crap Trump president the most important thing is Deus volts
01:19:51
Brian Atlasum can we get a Yeehaw that was beautiful well done okay very cool I think we are fully caught up on all that so
01:20:02
Brian Atlasuh we need to react to is Eric in the bathroom or what's okay uh do you know how to pull up a tab uh you're gonna pull up actually just wait until later we're gonna have to
01:20:12
Brian Atlaswait until Eric's back to do that so um those of you who are single some of you said you were single some of you said it's complicated one of you is in a relationship I believe that's you Nikki um
01:20:25
Brian Atlasthose of you who are single what does that really mean you know mad single like single AF yeah but like you could people can say they're single and then they just like hooked up with someone like yeah oh
01:20:38
Taylorthat's fair but I think I'm pretty straightforward like I I'm not I'm single mean I'm not in a relationship like period can you close the door it's getting a little uh chilly in here thank you man
01:20:49
Tiffanyum okay so you're single um for me single like somebody single means like I'm not talking to anybody nothing's going on I'm not like getting dressed for anyone in the bedroom like
01:21:00
Brian Atlasnothing's going on Yeah by myself sleeping by myself that's what it means for me so okay yeah you said so you said you've been celibate for seven months
01:21:10
Brian Atlasum and you said you went on one date correct uh so what what are you waiting for you think I want
01:21:21
TiffanyI want a long-term real like commitment I don't want like another two and a half year flings I just had I had another one before that was another two two and a half years I keep getting in these two and a half year relationships and I hit
01:21:33
Tiffanylike that year two and a half year mark and I I don't know what it is if they don't want to grow or if I'm that's when she hits them too much or what it is but we end up just going our separate ways and it works out for the best to be
01:21:44
Tiffanyhonest because we probably weren't meant to be together but you know it's always a growing process it's definitely a learning process I feel that's why I'm really single
01:21:58
Brian Atlasokay uh Eric can you pull up we're gonna have the girls for those of you who are single we're gonna show you two eligible bachelors who you may be interested in
01:22:11
Brian Atlasum by the way make sure you can't see the the top portion of their Instagrams Eric can you pull up uh xqc please
01:22:20
Brian Atlasit's one of the uh Instagram tabs okay uh this is Felix uh so Eric scroll down we're just going to look at some of his photos he's
01:22:31
Brian Atlasyou know and uh okay there's Felix right there he's a he's a very nice guy he's from Canada he's got a French accent
01:22:40
Brian Atlasum big fan of the show big fan of the show uh so he's requested that I attempt to set him up with one of the lovely women on the panel tonight so um continue scrolling Eric look at that
01:22:53
Taylorthis is a handsome guy yeah he's good looking he's a handsome guy keep scrolling yeah you guys like the hair you know it's Sophia what are you thinking is he your type fine
01:23:03
Brian Atlasum sure sure okay wow that's enthusiastic okay he's not a dog uh we're gonna just go around the table so just around the table would you date
01:23:14
DionFelix let's start with you go ahead smash
01:23:21
Dionokay I need to get to know him
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Brian Atlas[Laughter] uh Nikki what about you pass pass okay if I got to know him
01:23:40
Brian Atlaswould date him you'd go on a date with him yeah okay if you got to know him or you'd go on a date with him then get to know him like you know same thing yeah okay same
01:23:50
Brian Atlasdifference you know would your boyfriend drive you to the date oh my God okay good times um what about you yeah not not your type not my type okay
01:24:01
Brian Atlaswe should get into types uh after that but after uh this what about you oh how old is you do you know I think he's in his mid-20s I think okay mid-20s
01:24:12
Taylorokay I mean he's cute he's an attractive young person I don't I don't know how much we'll have in common but I'm open to he's 27. oh just me okay yeah I mean
01:24:24
Katwhy not okay what about you personally I I us okay what about you Gabby he's a little bit younger than me and I don't think that he's my type so I'm gonna pass
01:24:36
Brian Atlasokay um you missed it says would you date would you date him yeah
01:24:45
Tayloroh you knew right away bro no hesitation yeah yeah she's like okay so what what did you find attractive about him that you
01:24:58
Yukisaid yeah I'm just feel like I need more experience about dating oh okay so she's like okay
01:25:08
Gabbyum Eric can you go back to it can you scroll to the very top Nikki she took advice to Heart
01:25:17
Brian Atlasokay um oh just a reminder uh just if we're doing this put it in the window tab um
01:25:28
Brian Atlasuh okay so this is Felix he's a very popular twitch streamer arguably one of the the most popular streamers he recently got a kick deal which was uh for I think it was a two-year
01:25:40
Brian Atlasnon-exclusive deal for a hundred million dollars those of you who said no does that change the calculus at all for you when it comes to uh
01:25:52
Brian Atlas100 million dollars to I think it was a two-year deal no no no I'm I'm so sorry that's like retire you money you never have to work a day in your life money a million it's
01:26:03
Gabbynot what it used to be a hundred million 100 million still isn't it are you [ __ ] out of your mind are you out of your [ __ ] mind a hundred million dollars isn't what it used to be well it's not what it used to
01:26:16
Gabbybe no I'm not saying it's bad but I'm just saying a hundred million dollars is not what it used to be but it's a lot you could you could burn through a hundred million dollars but that's only if you're smart with it
01:26:28
Brian Atlashold on hold on hold on how much let me ask you a question how much do you want your significant other to earn bare minimum I mean honestly I like homesteading so
01:26:38
Nikkiso you like making your guy like a house husband no no no no no no no no no no no no wait can you expand on that because I'm not sure I don't think I've heard that term before homesteading 100 Mil
01:26:49
Gabbynot enough homesteading is um kind of like when you're self-sufficient and you can grow your own food okay
01:26:59
Brian Atlaswhere do you you currently live where in Fresno Fresno okay how what's the average Homestead house price in Fresno uh to rent or to own do you own your own
01:27:10
Brian Atlasproperty currently no okay so I was I would assume you need to buy a land and buy property or construct it how much would that cost you don't just get gifted am I am I just
01:27:22
Gabbydoing it for myself or do I have like um dependents like people that I need to support well because that factors how much land I need I do want kids yeah okay well depending upon how many kids I want
01:27:34
Gabbyyou know the land needs to increase per person
01:27:41
Gabbya hundred million I think you're just [ __ ] around like obviously a hundred you I'm not saying that you can't do anything with a hundred million dollars I'm just saying it's not let me ask you a question let me ask you a question
01:27:53
Brian Atlasokay so how much money would you like your partner to make
01:28:01
Gabbycomfortable amount what is that 100 100 like me personally I don't know how much to estimate so I feel like I can't really I'm not like a finance
01:28:13
Gabbyperson I'm not a numbers person so I can't like estimate so what's the lifestyle you see yourself like do you see your life I want to stay home that's that's the idea I don't want to be a girl boss I
01:28:25
Brian Atlasdon't want to do anything you want to be a stay-at-home mom yeah okay so then hold on hold on hold on hold on so you want to stay at home you want so just to be clear of the household income
01:28:36
Brian Atlasyou want the guy to provide 100 of it correct okay so I mean I can have investors so then well hold on and like I can contribute that way yeah but but you just said you you haven't really given the much thought how much your
01:28:49
Brian Atlaspotential partner needs to be making however you actually need to give it even more thought because you want your partner to be contributing a hundred percent of the household income
01:29:00
Brian Atlasokay so how much does that need to be you think
01:29:08
Gabbysix figures you want to put the math
01:29:14
Gabbylike the math how many kids do you want to have ah that is a discussion that I would have to have with my partner probably around two to
01:29:24
Gabbyat least two but I'm open to more okay not like not like a crazy amount I mean I want to be able to like walk when I'm older you know you want to walk when you're older
01:29:36
Brian Atlasremind you you're you're 24 correct okay what's the ID when you're gonna like settle down what's the ideal age of the guy that you'd be looking to marry uh I don't I mean as long as they're not
01:29:47
Gabbylike geriatric that's fine but okay I'm not looking for like a Hugh Hefner like I want them to like have a pulse okay so and you said you want a homestead so you want to sell not necessarily like a
01:29:58
Gabbyhomestead but I want to have like a garden for myself like I still I don't mind being like on the grid and like having power and [ __ ] okay how big of a house do you want square footage I can tell you like bedroom wise yeah
01:30:11
Gabbysure how many bedrooms okay so like my my dream house that I have it's how about your eye your realistic house my realistic you think you'll get
01:30:21
Gabbywell that depends because my dream house would be a billion dollar house you know my dream barely over a million
01:30:33
Brian Atlasmy dream house your dream house is barely over a million it's like a under a million and a half okay but realistically like what so okay how many bedrooms
01:30:44
Gabbyyou said you want two kids right at least two at least two but if you want more do you want the kids to each have their own bedroom yeah when they first start off that's not like that's important but yeah eventually yes yes and I want to have a
01:30:57
Gabbyguest room too and then you want a master bedroom I'm assuming so four bedrooms is that I mean if if you want to be like if that's my realistic house then yeah like what's your dream house
01:31:07
Gabbyuh the dream house it's I think it's I think it's eight bedrooms six bathrooms
01:31:17
Brian Atlasno no no I think it's maybe seven okay um how many bathrooms how many bathrooms six and you want to stay in California I think it's six and a half you want to stay in California no okay so you're
01:31:27
Brian Atlasopen to living in uh North Dakota maybe not North Dakota the house is in Georgia the specific house is in Georgia yeah
01:31:38
Gabbyyeah a long time Zillow needs to sponsor me because I've looked at that house so many times do you want to go on vacations yeah regular vacations maybe what's
01:31:50
Brian Atlasregular uh let's say twice two three times a year okay International Vacations or you'd be okay that doesn't matter okay um cards how many cards do you want two
01:32:02
Brian Atlascars I like cars I'm a car person what okay so how many cars would you like your household to have uh one for my husband one for me
01:32:15
Gabbyfamily car okay are you okay with a regular car would you like a luxury car uh I like older cars select classic cars not like luxury but
01:32:27
Brian Atlasnot like a Prius not not something that's new but not something that's like super fancy you probably want like a family car to transport your kids around are you going
01:32:38
Brian Atlasto be doing that in a 1950s Chevy I could yeah 1950s Chevy okay um keeping all this keeping all this in mind
01:32:48
Brian AtlasI I'm gonna ask again what would your husband's income need to be for him to support a hundred percent of all this
01:32:57
GabbyI mean in like dream fairy tale land or like do you want me to like what more realistic yeah I mean I don't know
01:33:07
Gabbydo I want to say like a million dollars it's more realistic a year well I mean to support all that probably you're gonna need more than a million dollars a year but so above minimum wage
01:33:19
Gabbywell yeah definitely above minimum wage but I mean I'm not like picky I don't have like a hard staunch like they need to make this much for me to be happy but this is you just listed out the
01:33:30
Brian Atlaslifestyle that you want so well yeah but you don't want months are different there's like wants and then there's like realistic I'm just not even gonna engage with that wait how old are you I'm 24. how much do you make
01:33:43
Taylora year I haven't worked in a year what whoa I didn't do that parents no how do you do it yeah I'm so curious
01:33:55
Taylorunless it's like super private and that's not like a thing it's not private no my my ex supported me oh okay okay wow and this is the complicated situation okay okay
01:34:09
Gabbythat's not for like lack of me working like okay I'm in my life that I had like three jobs and I was going to school at the same time so I know how to work it's not that I don't know how to work
01:34:20
Brian Atlasthere's no want to but okay this this all stems from like you kind of scoffing it oh 100 million dollars it's like no I didn't scoff I don't think that that's a bad amount to have that's a really
01:34:32
Gabbyreally really really good amount to have probably more than I'll see in my lifetime but I'll all I said was that a hundred million dollars is not what it used to be you can say that about any yeah
01:34:46
Katthen why are you coming at me so hard for one little anecdote that I said I think it's a million dollars is a very large amount well I'm not I'm not [ __ ] on 100 million dollars I'll just say that I'm
01:34:59
Sophianot saying that somebody's a broke if they have a hundred and million dollars like that's that's a lot of money that's almost egregious amount the fact that you said it I mean I just you know or the way you said it maybe because it's
01:35:11
TTS/Donationsjust like it's 100 million well I'm glad I'm glad I could Claire I'm glad I could consciously clarify what I meant by that Tyler Durden donated 100 oh these came through I see in chat the strongest and
01:35:23
TTS/Donationssmartest men who've ever lived I see all this potential and I see squandering God damn it an entire generation pumping gas
01:35:32
Brian Atlaswaiting tables slaves with white collars advertising has us Chasing Cars and clothes Okay Tyler Durden thank you very much for your uh TTS man thank you um Okay so
01:35:45
Gabbylike I I will predict that my brother will make more than a hundred million dollars in his lifetime maybe even yearly um crypto guy or no law lawyer litigation
01:35:57
Gabbyokay all right like big law he doesn't do it right now he just got accepted into Chicago uh wait hold on you think you're
01:36:08
Gabbyyou're you think your brother's just strictly doing litigation you think he's going to make over a hundred million dollars a year not necessarily just strictly literally sorry I mean there's things that you can get into like with
01:36:19
Gabbybig law like corporate law you can do um a clerkship with a judge like things like that like he he has his own plan like I can't speak for him you know he's
01:36:29
Brian Atlastold me to think a little bit I mean attorneys make good money but like
01:36:41
Brian Atlasin his lifetime that would require him to make millions of dollars a year
01:36:51
Nikkihe's he's a smart smart smartphone I'm not doubting that means is that most people they have their six hundred thousand dollars that's like the most people make okay then a guy that makes
01:37:04
Nikkisix hundred thousand dollars then that's fine yes but he's trying to tell you that a hundred you know 100 million dollars is a lot of [ __ ] I know it's a lot of
01:37:15
Kat[ __ ] money I can conceptualize that 100 million dollars is a a massive amount of money for the rest of your life
01:37:25
Gabbyokay if my if my husband had a hundred million dollars then yes I would be set for life he would be set for life our kids would be good to go yes so if my husband had 100 million I'd be
01:37:37
Brian Atlashappy with him that'd be a great amount to have okay all right we'll move on um so I do want to go around the panel here I have a question for all of you uh
01:37:48
Brian Atlasare you happy with your dating life go ahead well I don't have one but yes well I mean I'm sure there's are you on any dating apps no have you you go on dates do the guys
01:38:00
Taylorapproach you they slide into your DMs on Instagram no come on no come on girl are you serious that come on yeah I'm serious because you're like like mad pretty right so like it's really hard for me to believe but maybe I shouldn't
01:38:12
Dionmake assumptions yeah you shouldn't because I live in a really small town oh and everybody in there is like my second cousin somehow so um
01:38:30
Brian Atlasokay uh are you happy with your dating life yes oh there's the fireworks starting okay well if you guys will end up hearing that but uh what about you are you happy with your dating life yeah
01:38:41
Sophiadespite the fact that you just broke up yeah two days ago three days ago yeah you guys are gonna get back together like and that's the whole point of that like it's not
01:38:52
Sophialike breakup it's just so kind of like sleep with other people no not that it's just it's been a year and [Music]
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Sophiaand in some ways so we just kind of want to stop us stop that I don't know how to wear this stop us
01:39:15
Sophiafrom doing that and just like take a break and you know figure out ourselves okay you know do what we want to do and like
01:39:25
Brian Atlasand just grow up so but I mean it's interesting but you said you kind of need this oh hold on oh why is it not hold on I'm gonna have to re-trigger that because the TTS
01:39:37
Brian Atlasdidn't come in hold on I'll skip that one sec I'll re-trigger it I don't know why it didn't maybe it's because there's a curse word in there give it just a sec but um but I mean
01:39:47
Brian Atlasyou're still hanging out with him you're spending time with him as if he's your boyfriend right yeah so like it's not really a break like a break would mean
01:39:57
TTS/Donationsthere's like no almost no contact and that's usually how healthy breakups donated 100.69
01:40:09
TTS/Donationsokay first off red coat you are a bum you live in a fantasy world clearly reality hasn't checked your but it will eventually maybe you are just bad at
01:40:19
TTS/Donationsmeth and finances the lifestyle you want is supported by a six-figure salary yeah you're gonna need a guy who makes it like six figures okay then that's fine I
01:40:29
Gabbymean I didn't say that I was you know looking for some crazy like rich man that is of course that would be nice making making six figures puts you
01:40:39
Gabbyin like well I think the top 10 percent is it okay of income earners well that's what everybody's competing for anyway I think I could be wrong it might be 15 huh well that's what everybody's competing for anyway right the top 10
01:40:52
Brian Atlaspercent of Partners well maybe not there's a difference between whatever I want and what you're you can get especially what you can get in terms of commitment
01:41:04
Gabbywell I mean I guess I'll come across that bridge when I get to it realities kicked my ass a couple times I mean I've had some hard things that have happened to
01:41:14
Nikkime in life but I don't let it dictate my future and what happens from then on out sure that you know what I think we should because those are life lessons they're checking you you're
01:41:26
Nikkisupposed to learn from those life lessons because they're only happening to you yeah and you're supposed to learn from it like if it keeps repeating exactly and I think it's less than 10
01:41:36
Dionbecause when I did the female delusion calculator it said it was one percent for somebody that makes
01:41:45
Dion100K a year and I think I put like not obese and like 25 to 35 and here let's pull it up Eric can you pull up the uh it's one of the uh I think it's favorited at one of the top things we'll
01:41:59
Gabbyhave you do it and then we'll have you do it um uh put the window tab please is there there one for women though like for what guys want and women there
01:42:10
Brian Atlasis there might be okay um so can you actually Mouse wheel scroll up so it's a bit bigger yeah there we go okay so uh we'll start
01:42:19
Gabbywith you so age range uh at least my age so 24 to what uh
01:42:28
Brian Atlasyounger than my dad I would say 40 is okay 24 to 40. yeah okay so you're 24 you'd be fine with the 40 year old guy that's fine okay exclude married
01:42:43
Gabbyhas anybody ever watched succession do you know the dynamic that um Marcia and Logan have you know like she kind of looks the other way and he
01:42:56
Brian Atlaskind of does whatever he wants okay so would you be okay with him having a mistress that's a hard question here let's just exclude married let's just exclude married um uh race
01:43:08
Gabbyuh I mean I have a preference but not it's not strictly like I have Mexican boyfriends I've had white
01:43:18
Gabbyboyfriends can we please move things along please I'm so sorry but that's why like it's that's why I'm just saying would you would you date a white guy black there's
01:43:29
Gabbyoptions for any color I mean but that's I'm open to like multiple decisions that's one of the options but I'm not open to all colors just some which which would you like to
01:43:41
Gabbypreclude uh I'm not big I'm not like hugely attracted to
01:43:50
Brian AtlasAsian people or darker conflicted individuals pull it back Eric pull back so do you want to just say white I mean Latinos are what aren't they are Latinos
01:44:05
Brian Atlasso I'm trying not to be canceled here okay it's fine it's fine people can have preferences okay minimum height uh at least five eight okay guys be quiet over there please
01:44:17
Brian Atlasokay um exclude obese like are we talking like the Saudis sisters that are like 600 pounds oh my God we don't need the [ __ ] the extra
01:44:28
Gabbycan just please please just no I do not want an obese person okay uh minimum income sounded like was it 100K minimum uh I'm uh and that's the
01:44:39
Gabbything like I my husband will worry about finances like I'm no longer a person to worry about them so in your lifestyle that you imagine in your life in your head how much money do you think my
01:44:52
Gabbyhusband will take care of all that like I just want to be I just want to focus on like having the kids
01:45:03
TTS/Donationsdonated 100.60 thank you Victor since reality kicked you as really was the new LV Bank being sold out a soul crushing
01:45:13
TTS/Donationsdefeat in your world or maybe your ex realized you are a bomb and with nothing to besides your personality which is about as exciting as box of dead puppies
01:45:22
Gabbyand left you oh well okay bads that's a little mean but I mean I don't have a Louis Vuitton bag I actually don't have any designer bags
01:45:39
Brian Atlasokay uh let's bring it back uh minimum income 60k okay I mean you're the lifestyle you described is not going to be supported
01:45:50
Brian Atlasokay no she said six six you said 60k let's do a hundred okay get a good three-digit number okay uh find out
01:46:01
Brian Atlasokay so the probability you have a 1.1 chance okay uh that's uh yeah that's just white man or white men yeah
01:46:13
Brian Atlasokay you wanna okay scroll down a little bit okay that's a you have a four out of five cat bag
01:46:25
Dionokay uh did you want to do it too let's do yours are you sure all right let's reset everything or actually yeah we don't need to reset I'll change my answers because the last time it was one percent and I want a
01:46:37
Dionlittle bit more than that so I'm gonna change my answers from the last time sure that's fine age okay um 20 to 35 okay exclude married anything so right
01:46:49
Dionnow you did a 35 year old yeah okay uh exclude married yeah okay uh race any okay uh minimum height um how tall are you I'm five seven or
01:47:01
Brian Atlasfive six okay so I'd say like five ten five ten and exclude obese all right thank you uh minimum income 100K is good
01:47:09
Brian Atlas100K all right so that is 0.75 uh between that age range
01:47:22
Brian Atlas0.75 that's why I'm so single so we're the shop here let's just uh I wanna uh go back really quick no no uh do like 30 to 35 I'm just
01:47:34
Brian Atlascurious because the most most guys who are like 20 and 25 are not making 100K you know oh wow that does not help does it have things much to begin with okay there you have it folks uh enjoy the cat
01:47:48
Brian Atlasfood um okay all right there you have it the well hold on can we figure out what what percentage of women we are well
01:47:59
Brian Atlassure you know what that's a good idea here we have Stiffler here Stiffler says ask the ladies to write their looks on a scale of one to ten
01:48:09
Brian Atlasso we're going to go around the table and we're going to start with you go ahead um I say six
01:48:22
Diongirl I'm sorry of yourself you mean yeah oh my God okay so disagree with that okay uh if five is average and 10 is perfect I'm far from
01:48:33
Brian Atlasperfect I say six I'm above average Nikki I'm 10. I'm Nick Nick he's a real okay what about Sophia what about you um I
01:48:45
Nikkidon't want to rate myself why is that because I don't want to uh okay do you I mean you're not Batman like it's just a simple question it's just I
01:48:57
Brian Atlaspick a number how you feel like right now just on personality okay so let's say five is average would you say you're average looking do you say you're above average looking physical appearance wise
01:49:19
NikkiI'm so confused um me right myself I just don't want to rate myself just pick a number from one to ten like I'm how you feel in in this exact moment like have you ever played
01:49:30
Brian Atlasthat game like he's a 10 but what he wears flip-flops have you ever played that game are you playing that game no no I'm just asking have you played that game okay so you have used the rating
01:49:40
Sophiasystem before no I like I haven't played that game but oh I saw it just all over like Tick Tock okay but you're familiar with it yeah okay I just don't want to rate myself just a question for you that's that's
01:49:54
Brian Atlasfine if you don't want to um would you date a guy who's shorter than you do you have a high preference how tall are you okay you don't have any High preference
01:50:06
Brian Atlaslike don't care at all about a guy's height don't do you care about the guy's physical appearance is that a factor for you
01:50:15
Brian Atlasyou don't care at all about physical appearance I mean I've liked some ugly guys yeah yeah okay so in terms of the calculus you do when
01:50:27
Brian Atlasassessing this is someone I'm attracted to this is somebody who I want to pursue romantically you don't there's zero consideration placed on physical physical appearance for you nothing
01:50:42
Brian AtlasI mean sometimes maybe but it's not like I want to date them I just think they're good looking okay so you do acknowledge that some people can be more good
01:50:52
Brian Atlaslooking than others okay and but when it comes to the men that you want to date you don't really doesn't looks doesn't matter at all
01:51:04
Sophiayeah to a point what do you mean I mean
01:51:13
SophiaI mean you know let's say my boyfriend and like he's good looking would that disprove that looks matters or it doesn't matter to me okay we're starting from the question basically how do you feel right now do
01:51:25
Brian Atlasyou feel like a one through ten like on how you feel look wise like yo a b check thanks for the 50 gifted appreciate it man you're a [ __ ] Legend oh that's a fit check uh we'll do it once we get the ratings then we'll do
01:51:37
Brian Atlasfit check um I don't think she wants to answer I just I don't want to rate myself okay uh Tiffany right what about you
01:51:46
Tayloryeah uh six five six five six okay I'd probably say about the same a six okay uh what about you I'm like a seven to an eight okay like a six seven Yuki what
01:51:59
Yukiabout you for me I don't know what maybe like it's really a tough question because I
01:52:09
Yukidon't know what answer can satisfy other people so maybe I'll give myself a zero because I know what my exact
01:52:23
Brian Atlasamongst the ugliest people in the world is that what you're saying like if people considering as I'm
01:52:33
NikkiI'm really ugly it's fine why do you think that though like you you have to like average you you portray what you believe so if you keep telling yourself that you're ugly you're gonna start
01:52:45
Yukithinking oh [ __ ] I'm ugly and I don't equivalent to anybody else like like let me let me let's hear like a story it's like sorry
01:52:56
Yukiso like I feel like I'm like kind of physically attractive because so first I'm a virgin and I ask my ex out closer to my place I asked my ex and my
01:53:08
Yukiboyfriend because I broke the hotel at the area like it's really nearby his Hometown was like just like half hour a taxi like certain message
01:53:18
Yukiand I invite him to come over there and he just ignore like like I'm staying in that hotel whole night alone like so I
01:53:28
Nikkimean set your self-esteem exactly yeah honestly word of advice you don't even need a boyfriend you need confidence you think that you're ugly you married things in some type of way you don't
01:53:38
Nikkihave any type of you know conversation skills so you what do you like you don't what do you like I entered my
01:53:51
Yukimaybe like I give myself like five I think no I'm not asking to raise yourself in your hobby like what do you like to do in your free time like honestly I'm staying in library whole
01:54:03
Nikkiday like like I only study like staying in library like so you study and okay well while you're on your down time obviously your eyes will hurt why don't you just pick up a hobby of what you like to do you know Hobbies
01:54:16
Nikkidifferentiate you from different people and because of what you like everybody likes a certain thing and you know lo and behold somebody a guy when they will like the same thing that you like and that you've worked on yourself you just need confidence you just need to like
01:54:29
Nikkithrow dating out the [ __ ] window because you don't need that you think you're ugly why do you think that you just need to look in the mirror and be like okay you need to fix yourself okay well my makeup is kind of like uh it's