Obese Girl Would NOT Date Obese Man?! PLUS SIZE BBW PANEL! | Dating Talk #103
Date: 2023-09-25
Duration: 5h 25m
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_03Music/SFX(audience)
SPEAKER_04Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jasmine(guest)
SPEAKER_07Misty(guest)
SPEAKER_08Marshall(audience)
SPEAKER_09Gabby(guest)
Key Moments
00:29:09
QuoteGabby declares 'I am the table' — refuses to explain what she brings to a relationship beyond her presence.
“I am the table. I show up. I be me. That's what I offer. I'm there.”
01:24:24
QuoteGabby says the only guys who ask 'what do you bring to the table' are broke men who can't afford her.
“The only guys who have ever asked me what I bring to the table are guys who cannot afford me.”
02:05:00
QuoteBrian addresses accusation that he charges $9,500 for male panel spots; explains sponsorship tiers are for brands not individuals.
“We haven't had any guy on the panel paid to be on the panel so far. Every guy that's been on the panel it's either just somebody I know.”
04:12:06
OtherGabby texts all 5 men on her roster asking to be exclusive during the live show.
“I texted four, I'm on the fifth one... I said: do you want to be exclusive with me, boyfriend and girlfriend.”
04:39:00
OtherBrian runs 'delusion calculator' on all guests; all results show <1% of men meet their combined criteria.
“Each of you are under one percent in terms of the men that you're looking for.”
04:39:39
QuoteMisty rates herself 10/10, loudly and confidently.
“I'm a 10. Say louder for the people. I'm a 10.”
04:40:26
QuoteJasmine rates herself 3/10 by European beauty standards — unusually low self-rating.
“If you're judging by beauty standards I am definitely a three.”
05:24:51
OtherBrian asks for body counts at the very end; Gabby says 'zero' then walks it back saying she's not going to say it.
“Body count zero zero... I mean I just mean that I'm not gonna say it.”
Topics Discussed
00:02:48
Guest introductions — plus-size panel
Gabby, Misty, Jasmine, and Madison introduce themselves. Relationship statuses, dating histories discussed.
00:20:00
Dating rosters and modern dating behavior
Gabby's 5-man roster. Frequency of dates per week (~5-10). Jasmine's philosophy on exclusive dating. Gabby texts all 5 roster men asking to be exclusive during the live show.
00:37:00
Obese women dating preferences — would plus-size women date plus-size men?
Discussion of whisper.com article: plus-size women who won't date plus-size men. Jasmine says she wants a fit partner she can admire. Gabby says she's attracted to what she likes. Discussion of feederism phenomenon.
01:24:00
Income and financial requirements in a partner
Brian runs 'delusion calculator' for all guests. Gabby: $300K preferred, $100K minimum. Misty: $200K+ in LA. Jasmine: ~$80K. Discussion of stay-at-home motherhood and financial dependency.
01:32:40
Patriarchy and gender equality debate
Women discuss patriarchy, wage gap, male leadership, power dynamics. Disagreements on whether patriarchy constitutes oppression. Intersectionality: race + gender + size discussed by Gabby and Misty.
02:05:50
Sponsorship allegation and podcast operations
Brian reads DMs from person who accused him of charging $9,500 for male panel spots. Brian explains format (primarily female guests), rejection process, and sponsorship tiers. Stresses importance of not insulting the host when requesting to appear.
02:08:00
Body positivity and fat acceptance movement
Reaction to viewer chat criticizing obesity. Debate on fat phobia vs. genuine health concerns. Jasmine discusses both obesity and anorexia health risks. Adele weight loss discussed. Fat liberation vs. body positivity distinction.
02:50:00
Gabby TikTok video reactions
Multiple Gabby TikTok videos reacted to: 'broke boy anthem' (I am the table), 'train the man from the beginning' (don't split bills), dating men in LA, dating app behaviors. Brian and guests debate each video's premises.
04:39:00
Attractiveness ratings and aging
All guests rate their own attractiveness (1-10 scale). Brian rates himself 6. Gabby: 10. Misty: 10. Jasmine: 3. Brian argues men find women more attractive at 21 vs 31. Discussion of Kristin Kreuk as Brian's celebrity 9/10.
05:18:00
Dating app profiles reviewed
Brian and Misty's Bumble profiles shown and reacted to on-stream. Misty's profile notes she has video of her body for transparency. Brian's profile shows age as 28 (set to match Misty's claimed age).
Transcript
Page 5 of 6
03:54:51
Jasminethe standards I would like to date someone who's just dating one where are you like that's something I want to go you can fix it conversation you're willing to take when you're investing your love like yeah it won't
03:55:02
Brian Atlaswork out here's the problem with that though I do feel like a lot of people let's say someone who does have a roster you could ask up front like hey are you dating other people I
03:55:13
Gabbypeople lie men and women lie they're gonna downplay I would downplay Bruce yeah but oh you would downplay I'm not gonna let them know that I'm talking because appreciate your honesty because the The Fragile male ego if you want
03:55:25
Brian Atlasanything from this man you can't let him know that because that's gonna it's not a fragile ego it's just but he's doing the same thing okay I think men are territorial oh
03:55:37
Brian Atlasexactly territorial yes yeah but we don't we don't want
03:55:44
Brian Atlasthere's degrees to it right some guys are not going to care if you're seeing other men um I would say though like if a guy
03:55:54
Brian Atlaseven very early on is not like not like super jealous in a weird way where he's like let me look through your
03:56:02
Brian Atlasphone or being like really uh really jealous but if he says or he knows hey I only hold on sorry I'm losing my train of thought here there's too many conversational threads
03:56:15
Brian Atlasum I actually think it's an indicator that he's actually genuinely very interested in you if he wants you to just be talking to him yes but what have you done there because of that well but here's the thing like if he doesn't really care here's the thing if a guy
03:56:29
Brian Atlasreally doesn't care about you that much he just wants to you he's not really like some guys are not going to care yeah like okay fine you're seeing other girls I'm or excuse me you're seeing other men I'm seeing other chicks
03:56:40
Brian AtlasI just want to you like but if a guy is almost demanding your not enough loyalty is the right word demanding your exclusive attention that
03:56:52
Brian Atlasis to some degree an indicator that he is looking at you for long-term potential you need to press questions
03:57:02
Brian Atlasno this is Brian you need a normal hold on hold on this is that was the normal order of things up until I don't know the sexual Revolution up until very recently obviously we have social media
03:57:13
Brian Atlaswe have dating apps which has absolutely exploded people's optionality let's say people have way more options obviously look back in the 90s people were 30 years ago you know people were obviously
03:57:26
Brian Atlasdating multiple people but I think it's on steroids now because of social media because of the globalized sexual Marketplace because in the past if you were in a city your options were in that
03:57:36
Brian AtlasCity but now you got the DMS I'm sure you get DMS a guy in Vegas a guy in Miami a guy in I don't know whatever Brian going back to what I'm saying
03:57:47
Jasminethat's why that dating isn't meant to be forever you should if you want that from her then you need to pop the question and be like do you want to be my girlfriend and she's gonna have to make
03:57:57
Jasminethe choice to leave everyone else and choose you or no and you move on that's a question women should ask though what do you mean right I think women should broach the at what point date one date
03:58:09
Brian Atlasthree like when I think when she has made the determination that she sees uh she wants to pursue something long-term with that guy I think that's a conversation that the woman should Broach I don't think I feel like I already know that if I'm if
03:58:21
GabbyI'm dating you from going out with you I see long-term potential or else I wouldn't updated you so I'm ready now but these I don't feel like these guys are like giving me that I don't want to say some of them are but like um I feel like that's determined by the
03:58:34
Gabbyman because I've already decided if I'm going on a date with you I do see long-term with you if she showed up I'm not saying yes to you it's in her part unless I could see unless I'm trying to see you for my future just pop the question so you're saying
03:58:47
Brian Atlaswomen should do it actually like on first date by the way this is our first date but I think this is exclusive it doesn't have to be the first date but when it comes to the exclusivity conversation when it comes to boyfriend girlfriend
03:58:59
Mistyconversation I do think women shouldn't initiate that conversation no I really I have five guys you guys hate that you guys hate that question what are we you guys hate that question I'm gonna ask it well actually
03:59:11
Brian Atlasif you want to take care of something ask her I think this is actually some game for women and because a lot of women are uh frustrated with being in the situationships being in the talking stage being frustrated with guys who
03:59:24
Brian Atlasaren't prepared to commit the reality is like even very early on I'd say within the first couple let's say the first three to five dates right if
03:59:33
Brian Atlasyou drop the question and he's and he says I need more time oh yeah I've heard this or I'm just having fun let's see how things go he's probably
03:59:45
Brian Atlasjust honestly not that interested in you he just wants to keep you around for sex
03:59:51
Mistythat's why I don't keep a roster I can't keep them around if they've already if they're not showing the consistencies that I need for a husband because I really want to they are showing it because they're taking me out on dates but you have to let them go then how long is the dating you're gonna be in
04:00:04
Jasminethe market until they ask you the question that's what I said the roster is always week to week girl the roster's always changing so what's the max amount of time that someone can bring your roster like it's been three months where I'm cutting you off because you haven't asked me I'm moving on the three months
04:00:17
Gabbyone it feels like one month because I've only seen him five times and I haven't really spent a lot of time with him so I feel like that's it that situation is a little bit differently because it doesn't feel like three months it feels like one month and I've I'm doing other
04:00:28
Jasminethings I guess so I feel like but do you really need that much time to know that you want to want them you're right I guess I don't need that much time yeah you're right you know what people even you're getting removed sir come on girl
04:00:40
Jasminethree months you're getting removed Do You Believe In Loving for sight
04:00:58
Brian Atlasme too yeah so look ultimately just kind of going back to the initial Point um what was it was I think I was responding to you and you said that oh
04:01:10
Brian Atlasthat something about I'm lacking testosterone no I said your testosterone was broken because see but I don't want like it's not
04:01:22
Brian AtlasI actually think it's almost you can make the reverse argument that a guy who doesn't want a woman who's dating a bunch of men like you just want to opt out of the competition like
04:01:33
Mistythat's actually some High T but what it is is when you think about it even in the basic level of sperm the ones that give up they don't make it to the uterus it's the one that keeps
04:01:42
Mistytrying who's like determined Hey listen but are you a good swimmer wait literally that's all I'm saying that's true facts he made it here but now that you're in the in the in the in
04:01:54
Mistythe world of today are you a good swimmer because what it's giving is I'm not making it to the uterus
04:02:14
Mistyyou already start off doing that your your masculinity already starts off doing that get there get there the ones that are swinging they're all in circles that's what you're giving in like today's world because you don't want to
04:02:25
Mistyjust like like do the chase like you gotta the person that's what it is May the best man win that's what it is come on
04:02:44
Brian Atlasyou're talking about swimmers like I don't want my sperm to be literally competing with other men's sperm no but yours with itself what you are the sperm
04:02:56
Brian Atlasthank you you are the sword how did you not get the race with a bunch of other men that's what she's trying to compare you got it yes but this is going to be like I understand that there's obviously
04:03:06
Brian Atlasa competition but like when it because women are going to want to find the best mate possible I get it I get it but what I'm saying is despite the fact that as a woman you are
04:03:18
Brian Atlaslooking for the best guy doesn't mean that you need to be dating or sleeping with multiple men at the same time and it doesn't mean that I as a man have to tolerate or engage with a woman or date a woman who's dating or other
04:03:32
Mistymen you don't have to want that but the fact that you don't have the urge to want to win that is what I'm talking about just even at the Baseline no I don't wanna that's not a game I'm gonna play but here's the thing that's that's just you but by Nature that is what you
04:03:45
Mistyguys do like if you if you bring us back to neanderthals the ones that are winning are the ones that are doing the okay now we're about to fight and who's who's a bigger person to win the love like it it's basic you need to put your
04:03:55
Mistyarmor up right it's me too you need to pursue her you need to you know you don't have to do anything he doesn't want to but this is what I'm saying if you not doing that makes you that sperm that's kind of swimming around in circles that's why I have a roster I'm single because where's the where's the
04:04:08
Brian Atlasmen that are fighting to for the top fighting to win my love heroically who don't have a roster I'm not I'm not interested in pursuing a woman who's
04:04:20
Gabbydating multiple men and I know you're dating multiple women yeah I walk into multiple women I know there are women for you there are women who are not dating multiple men yeah
04:04:43
Mistyultimately that's all we're trying to say at the end of the whole day is yeah you're gonna attract who's attracted to you and that's what it is so if that's what you're into that's fine could you date someone like her no is that or wait is that a real question is that what I'm
04:04:55
Brian Atlasinto women who aren't other men you are yes no it wasn't a question I was it was an observation based on what you had said you're right you guilty as charged I am attracted to women who are not currently other men but no
04:05:07
Mistyone such as right that's great you said we're dating even
04:05:27
Brian Atlasfocus on that dude unfortunately I'm not a five foot three black man so what can I I can't you know it's not gonna work between us it's okay we can figure it out
04:05:40
Brian Atlasoh no okay um the world is fine we have some more videos we have some more videos guys can you pull up the next video oh who's that he's gonna say some
04:05:50
Unknownhe's kind of sexy when we bring back the women that rub backs and pack lunches um
04:06:00
Brian Atlasstarted at the beginning video tab please
04:06:08
Gabbycan we bring back the women that rub backs and pack lunches for hard-working men can we bring back the men who paid for dates open doors bring us roses call
04:06:19
Gabbyus beautiful is loyal to us and not stringing along three other girls in the roster can we bring back men with dignity and pride to do a man's job
04:06:29
Gabbywhich is to provide to pay our nails once twice a week to pick us up for dates to pay our rent
04:06:40
Mistycan we bring back men like that period both bring back down women need to also do something for their man wait I'm packing lunch I'm coming back if you're in the middle of the night dinner there was a question that was like okay
04:06:53
Mistyif you're a man he's providing for you and in the middle of the night he wakes up and he's like babe I'm really hungry can you make me like someone's not make me some lasagna I'm gonna be honest with you if I love that man and I'm completely provided for number one when I wake up I'm gonna get that D then yes
04:07:04
Brian Atlasyou're getting your lasagna babe and but you said in that video you said Can something about I don't want a guy who has a roster of three men yeah if
04:07:15
Gabbyhe's loyal to me and not to three other women but you have a roster because I'm single I'm single now but like the next stage is what I'm talking about so like if I like first of all I don't accept money from just any man okay I'm not
04:07:27
Gabbyaccepting money from you unless it I know that it's serious and I want something long-term like I see marriage potential whatever I'm not going to accept money from just any man what do you mean accept money like like I don't really want a man to just pay my bills
04:07:39
Gabbypay my upkeep things like that if we're not in a relationship and it's not like I'm your woman and you know dating and you're you're supposed to be providing me I'm not just any Rando you know what I mean because that's not what I'm looking for I'm looking for a provider
04:07:51
GabbyI'm looking for a man who is dedicated and loyal to me as I would be to him in a relationship but I mean you certainly for the first date though at least to that extent you want a guy to pay well dating that's
04:08:03
Gabbyjust being a gentleman that's being chivalrous you're taking me out on a date be a gentleman like pay the paper okay okay
04:08:15
Gabbyhonestly I thought everybody was taught that like that you know a man's gonna be picking up for a date take you to a restaurant pay for dinner get to know you and drop you home and you know I mean I just thought that was normal dating until now I realize people just
04:08:28
Brian Atlaswant you to come to their house for a Netflix and chill and they can touch you and I'm just like what is going on in this world today like huh but okay you talked about a gentleman and chivalry but how am I gonna go on the first date
04:08:39
Brian Atlaswith a girl and pay for the first date and you said earlier that you went on five dates in a week with new guys yeah that's not being a lady how how
04:09:01
Brian Atlasit's just like your your conduct so if you're dating but if you're dating multiple men a week you're dating Five Guys in a week to me you're free to do it obviously it's you're allowed to do
04:09:13
Brian Atlasit there's no laws against it you're single you can do it but in the same way that a guy can also not pay for the first date this whole if you demand a guy be chivalrous she's I just let
04:09:26
Brian Atlasme just finish my point if if you demand a guy be a gentleman and be chivalrous maybe it would be nice if you weren't maybe you didn't sleep with a guy but the the night before our date you weren't kissing another dude
04:09:42
Gabbywhy was there gonna be disease of course I'll kiss yeah but we're talking about first dates right first day's just meeting and getting to know each other I'm not giving you anything but say you got the roster so like yeah
04:09:54
Brian Atlasone of them you're kissing the dudes and then I'm I see next next day I'm taking you on a date and I'm gonna be a gentleman
04:10:05
Mistydude men date like that okay another girl and do a background checks you can even if you even go back to like have people recommend the men would call on the women and they would be multiple different men from different households
04:10:18
Mistyor would call on these women would come and be entertain a date have a coffee that was obviously supervised and that's what would happen so I don't see why that I mean it's been going on for hundreds of years you can make the face if you want to you're you're gonna be
04:10:30
Brian Atlaslike I'm not calling on you you got to meet me outside but I think back in the day when like okay you I don't know what I was thinking about pretty uh Little Women like victorians
04:10:43
Brian Atlaswhen there's literally alone a line of men with gifts to give it to her and now like people don't even want to pay the flower I don't think I don't think back
04:10:53
Brian Atlasin the old days oh God that women were going like there were lines and lines of men yes there were no I don't think it was that but they literally show it depends on what status they are it's
04:11:05
Brian Atlashistory they don't have apps I get it like it was just trying to say no but it's just a new age Nuance of that I don't know think about like the the when did the same thing for those uh poodle
04:11:16
Brian Atlasskirts or whatever 50s was that the 50s right yeah I don't know I think like if you were you were going steady and yeah and you were having a boyfriend and
04:11:27
Mistyyou had you had you went on a date with one guy you pursued it and then no what do you mean she was obviously attracted to the jock and then the nerdy guy got her and then they said have you watched no movie yeah I mean have you watched
04:11:39
Mistynone come on now a lot of I watch movies movies like are are parallel to life in a lot of ways okay we get movies from what we do with in real life I just think that oh Billy Ray is in the chat what's up Billy Ray oh my gosh the
04:11:52
Brian Atlassinger no not different person Cyrus look just to me it's like look okay we talk we if you talk about chivalry right in order
04:12:01
Gabbyto be chivalrous you gotta like the woman has to be a lady you got a roster five dudes I'm not them like we're not doing any of
04:12:13
Gabbythat I'm just going on so what's the difference between me having uh going out to dinner or lunch or whatever five times a week with guys I'm dating versus like going out to with a friend for lunch or dinner five times a week what's
04:12:24
Brian Atlasthe difference you are being pursued and you are pursuing romantic relationships with multiple men yeah that as a guy makes me feel like oh okay I don't know about that I would immediately drop my
04:12:36
Gabbyroster if I knew that the guy that I'm dating today was uh serious about me and was giving me all of his attention and energy I would immediately like not even pay attention to anybody else but that's
04:12:47
Jasminenot what's happening ask him text him right he would have to ask him to be his girlfriend
04:12:55
Mistychivalrous I just like to say this definitely because people use this word Webster's or I mean whatever it courteous and gallon especially towards women typically used for man or his behavior relating to Historic notion of chivalry which was actually just like
04:13:08
Mistywhat Knights would do so to be fair that's not even really the right word we want to be recorded there we go yes please put that wait can I ask you a question how often do you think about
04:13:19
Mistythe Roman Empire oh that yeah um every day to be honest foreign like every day or like how often the Roman Empire how often do you think about it
04:13:32
Brian Atlasthis is a Greek I'm just asking military helmets please be historically out okay you know what I'm just asking about the Roman Empire um here I don't know where to put this but how often for real they had that question on Tick Tock and I'm just curious as a man how often do you think
04:13:45
Brian Atlasabout the Roman Empire I'll just say this I watched the Roman Empire I mean is it like weekly a couple times a week well I was listening to an audiobook by
04:13:55
Brian AtlasMarcus Aurelius meditations in fact I have the book here
04:14:08
Brian Atlaswould be a big fan of stoicism this is uh I don't know Nick if you're able to we'll put it up here uh Marcus Aurelius
04:14:16
Brian Atlasuh meditations right he was I'd say one of the best uh Emperors there's uh right right Emperor was it he was Emperor
04:14:27
Brian Atlasright so is it daily though like huh how often do you think about it I mean I think I'm more
04:14:39
MistyI'm more of a zombie apocalypse thing I think about that too that's why I like to jog so if I know that like if the zombies that drink the leg I got a good like four like a pace if I get it if I keep my rhythm for about two and a half
04:14:51
Mistymiles which is what I normally jog I can get away from a zombie enough to like get and be safe so the lesser the ones that climb on walls and then I'm gonna join them are you texting him right now oh I texted four I'm on the fifth one wait oh you're talking you're texting
04:15:04
Brian Atlasall of them might as well put it out there so for those viewers who are just tuning in she has four men excuse me five men on her roster who she would be I it sounds
04:15:14
Brian Atlaslike happy to be in a committed exclusive relationship with she is now currently texting all of them what did you say what's the message was it copy and paste to all of them oh
04:15:26
Gabbythat's romantic whatever I get the point across them it's communication right so what did you say I said do you you want to be exclusive with me boyfriend and
04:15:35
Mistygirlfriend oh okay all right I keep saying that you're gonna end up with someone who you don't like yet uh-oh I like all of them though yeah but not enough otherwise you would have sent
04:15:47
Gabbythis text a while ago I've never thought honestly I've never thought about asking a guy that I'm dating she's been busy do you want to be exclusive boyfriend or girlfriend I assume that they would let me know when they wanted to be exclusive yeah I never thought to do it so this is
04:15:58
Gabbymy first time ever asking a guy I'm proud of you yes Gabby this is gross this is gross I'm so proud but not so sad how us girls need
04:16:09
Madisonto be the ones like asking this question like that is not okay I didn't know I was supposed to ask a lot of men are scared to ask the question oh my God you know how the women feel like are you calling the shots for safe if you were
04:16:22
Gabbygoing to be in a relationship with the five men on your roster like are you gonna I assume are they waiting for you no they're not waiting for me I was waiting for them but now we we're going to clear the air I feel like I don't want to be in the
04:16:35
Mistyrelationship until he shows himself the things that I want to see in a husband and the guys that are on my roster if that's the word we're using haven't shown themselves to be consistent enough to be word uh
04:16:50
Brian Atlasoh uh what what oh flan Life Plan life um thank you very much for all the membership sorry I miss them uh thank you so much man plan life you've been so supportive with all the
04:17:02
Brian Atlasmemberships throughout the months man appreciate it dude um sorry sometimes we miss it because we uh we don't have the uh message or the sound notification we have more videos we have more videos
04:17:12
Gabbyfrom Gabby let's check them out we love this one they do this to you I mean when I'm in a relationship I don't believe in spending my money on my man
04:17:22
Gabbyhis buddy is for me my money is for me okay so that means when we go out we go on dates we go shopping we do whatever
04:17:32
Gabbywe are using his money my money does not get touched okay that is just the standard
04:17:45
Brian Atlasyour money in a relationship or in a marriage even your money is your money yeah his money is also your money yeah okay this is why people get divorced
04:17:59
Gabbybecause I'm not working how am I going to give him any money anyways it's his money it's our money yeah they'll call Compass meme about this
04:18:10
Brian Atlaslike it's uh you're very libertarian when it comes to your money but you're communist [Laughter] when it comes to his money I don't know if that's exactly how it
04:18:23
Gabbygoes but maybe somebody I'm just saying like my money's not a factor here if he's the one providing financially for our family if I'm a stay-at-home mom a stay-at-home wife why did why does my money even matter he's the one paying the bills so he's the one who already
04:18:34
Jasminehas a job yeah I mean my job is with my children and she's not getting wood what are you doing for our job what do you use your money to at least buy him something to give spoil him here and there or you don't even want to use your money for him at all she's saying she's
04:18:48
Gabbynot making money she's not making money how would you do that yes side hustle yeah I mean I I'm not opposed to birthday gifts I've said that on my Tick Tock before I'm not opposed to getting birthday gifts and making you
04:18:59
Gabbyfeel special but I don't feel like my role and job as a woman is going to make a man feel special just because I spent money on him that's how I want to be loved spend money on me and I'll love you for sure but I don't think it's the
04:19:10
Gabbyopposite because I feel like like the men just men in general that I've dealt with and dated they don't really feel like especially loved if I'm spending money on them I don't think that's their love language I feel like when I cook
04:19:22
Gabbyfor them if I kiss them give them hugs like be affectionate I feel like that's what they feel loved for money is not really a factor in them feeling loved it's a factor in me feeling loved so it's just different so I think you would
04:19:34
Jasminejust have to learn about the guy like if I need to learn my man's love language but at the same time like men go through a lot of stuff he needs to do stress and I don't mind using our money we're in a
04:19:45
Jasminemarriage our money for me to go and buy him stuff even you know like and treat my man right and that includes spending some money in my man too yeah I mean when you're married my money is your money anyway and even if we're
04:19:58
Jasminenot married I and I want to give him something give him something that he's like oh I really want this or you know help him I feel like money is a resource to be able to do something for others it's not the only way to give though
04:20:10
Brian Atlasmoney is not the only way to give but I think the love language has a lot to do with this conversation excuse me sorry about that I think I you know what I actually uh it's it's very rare for a
04:20:21
Brian Atlaswoman to want a simp in the same way that I guess guys will I kind of like it though if a woman Sims don't get me wrong like it's it's so rare that it's not something I'm ever looking for like it's not like
04:20:34
Brian AtlasI'm disappointed if it's not there but it's kind of I don't know if I've really encountered it really I mean there's different ways to simp you can kind of simp by the way you act what does that mean to like simp
04:20:45
Brian AtlasI love a simp I'm going to marry a simp yes I don't know what we're not this but um yeah if a woman just like came in and she's like Brian let me spoil you I'd be like cool yeah that sounds like like you can eat
04:20:58
Brian Atlasit there are in La especially we've got a lot of men who love that kind of thing yeah like I make my own money I'm good but if a chick just was wants to let me Finn dumb her like and then she's like you know what get on your knees eating
04:21:09
Mistythis freaking couch that's not happening well guess what you lost out on your sugar mama but I'm willing to do that wait whoa you're willing to do what I'm willing to please my man in the way he finds that he needs me please if I'm in love with
04:21:23
Mistyhim and he's taking care of me we're gonna work out whatever we need some money uh money does make me feel very sexy that's the D um if this is my man and he's like here
04:21:33
Mistybabe go back yeah on the way there Road Road business I'm oh but here's the thing like I'm I'm I simply my own way like I might not simp with money but I'm gonna simp with my
04:21:45
Mistyentire energy you know everything I'm gonna give everything to you like like I said if you wake up middle night and you need some food like babe everything's taken care of me I'm gonna do that you'll cook in the middle I love I love it I love catering and and giving to my
04:21:57
Mistyman and loving on him maybe it's not necessarily economically although I do do that as well I love I love that that makes me feel good to love on him yeah but money goes into buying those stuff like sometimes it does but if like what she says like so let's say I'm not modeling anymore and now I have to live
04:22:11
Gabbyoff of his stuff it's still going to be his money that I buy stuff with oh yeah I'll fix you up with your money for sure oh but I I don't find myself ever not making money like did you hear back from any of the guys yet any it's on silent
04:22:23
Brian Atlaslet's see what they said nope nothing okay we'll check back in later we'll check back in later whatever tell you what as a compromise I will say this
04:22:32
Brian AtlasI will pay for the first date oh we changed it yes if she has a large labia just saying and how are you going to know that you don't
04:22:43
Mistyexactly willing to change she's gonna have to all right sounds good so ladies all you have to do is tell him what your vagina looks like and he'll be happy with your Google pick it's gonna be
04:22:54
Brian Atlassomeone else a Google pick oh we do that by the way I will tell send other pictures of people I think women need to start getting revenge on men for the dick pics I don't I've never sent it oh yeah Revenge I
04:23:06
Brian Atlasthink women should get revenge exactly that's what it is unsolicited pics my DMs are open ladies you know what I do I take a screen video between the legs and the Revenge that I have is
04:23:17
Jasminehaving now a video of your junk that I can now share gentlemanly do you want a lady but that's not done I'm not doing that yeah no pics no that's not like that's not gentlemen like you want to leave it's giving I want to pay half
04:23:30
Brian Atlasha ha ha I'm just saying I think I think you gotta act like a gentleman if you want a lady pics that's what I'm saying
04:23:41
Brian Atlasyou know why I can't send it you can never have sent nudes to any other man you can never after you meet me even if we break up you have to become a nun after you date me that's the degree to
04:23:52
Brian Atlaswhich I demand that's what I demand from women even even after we break up it's it's over for you you cannot date other men uh-huh you have to become a nun okay
04:24:04
Jasmineyeah I mean maybe after dating you someone might want to become a nun yeah they'll be traumatized Jesus
04:24:17
Brian AtlasI don't want no more Darkness here it could be the case sometimes I also turn the women gay you know what and then you have one in the mirror about that one baby boy you know because I i s i it's probably because I
04:24:29
Mistyrefuse to eat you saying that I actually had a woman proposition herself as the man that I want but a woman recently and I had to think long and hard about it oh like she was a breadwinning woman she owns a lot of stuff she's actually kind
04:24:41
Mistyof a cute girl I'm I'm heterosexual but we had a moment one time in a bar and I was just like oh well that was kind of cute moment and she literally propositioned me like I want to take you on a date like I want to take you out like I want to spoil you like I look out
04:24:54
Brian Atlasfor my women I'm like I want you to have a dick because that sounds great yeah but she doesn't and now I'm kind of conflicted yeah I'll give you an example right so fdg the woman who's been like gifting all the subs or whatever thanks
04:25:06
Brian AtlasOTG you don't agree with you I don't know if she's still watching but like if we're we're not like we haven't met or anything but if we were to date if we were to meet like
04:25:16
Brian Atlaseven if we only like I let her like go buy me some Five Guys or whatever and I never talked to her again like she has to remain committed to me for the rest of her life what are you talking about
04:25:27
Brian AtlasI'm saying she cannot move on like she why why what are you talking about once we've have that Soul tie of having a first date she can she has to become a nun you don't even believe yeah
04:25:38
Brian Atlasshe has to be this is this is this is post breakup commitment okay she cannot remarry she cannot get involved with another man she has to be fully committed to me this is what I don't know they get
04:25:52
Mistymarried you don't even believe in me this is this is like the ultimate that's what you wish that's that's like you're right I had someone in the sauna tell me that same thing well what if you guys are married for five years and he's doing all that but then he decides he
04:26:03
Mistywants to open the relationship and I'm like okay well then he's gonna have to risk that I'm opening the relationship too well you can't go do stuff okay so what he wants to open the relationship for him but I'm not going to because at the end of the day let's say we open the relationship we meet five people I can
04:26:16
Mistyall five you might one huh that's just the fact because the the chances of me being able to get some is going to be higher than that's true it's easy for me he wants to open up the marriage and be like well I can do
04:26:28
Brian Atlaswhatever I want but that's why they cheat instead of telling you let's be open let's watch another video we got another video we got so many see if I can get I don't know if we're gonna get uh we'll
04:26:37
Gabbytry to be quicker with it with a guy and the first date was dinner and a movie super respectful really nice um makes at least three hundred thousand
04:26:49
Gabbydollars a year which is definitely around my range and how much is an activity and getting dinner and I just did this say though like I don't know if
04:27:00
GabbyI'm feeling jaded today or if I've just done this routine so much that at this point I'm just like let's get to the
04:27:10
Gabbypoint like let's get further along without you being an idiot and messing this up for us but then it's like okay this is life you know this is literally
04:27:21
Gabbypart of life and I want to encourage you if you're in a strong relationship um don't let Petty problems break you up because these streets ain't for
04:27:32
Gabbyeverybody not everybody has the strength to date in modern dating today and when I tell you the nonsense that I run into
04:27:41
Brian Atlasdating guys it's just like I'm so over and so bored but this guy's usually nice so wish me luck agreed how did that is that one of the
04:27:53
Gabbyroster guys yeah yeah he's a roster he hasn't done anything bad yet he's followed all of my rules for dating and he's been a perfect gentleman and did you just text him I texted everybody he follows your rules
04:28:06
Brian Atlashonestly I didn't even tell him anything about me this is just natural he just knew the rules yeah he's just a gentleman what what is the reverse of that like what are the rules that you follow I guess um I feel like
04:28:22
Gabbythat my house or your house when we just started dating like I think that's a little bit too much for you to be in my space because I don't know you like that um you know I'm not having sex with you like this like we're not doing all of
04:28:33
Gabbythat because I'm not into casual like um you know I I want to preserve myself and save myself or someone who's ready to get married someone who's ready for
04:28:43
Gabbyum a strong committed relationship so I prefer to date in that way versus just kind of hooking up and things like that so um I think those would be like my rules like just to be feminine supportive submissive and
04:28:56
Gabbyum you know being a pleasant day and honestly I'm a I'm a great day like I'm I'm super funny super respectful you're always going to enjoy your time with me I feel like I have a lot of great great
04:29:06
Gabbyqualities a lot of things to offer and um mostly it's it's good unless you know it goes bad so okay
04:29:18
Brian AtlasGood Times good times did you hear back from any of the guys yeah anything yeah while you do that we'll pull up the next EO here how many of these are okay we'll only
04:29:29
Gabbywatch a portion of this one go ahead Nick ladies you have to train the man from the beginning you gotta try paper stuff for you no don't think it's cute being 50 50 in the beginning because you
04:29:40
Gabbythink he's gonna be grateful enough and show gratitude towards you later and pay for the whole thing he's not gonna okay he's not gonna that man is going to continue to rely on
04:29:51
Gabbyyou for the duration of your relationship however long that is I had a friend recently a good friend of mine basically tell me that her man is pissed that she's not working because
04:30:03
Gabbyshe's just had his child just had a baby and is breastfeeding and wants to spend time with her baby before going to work and she doesn't want to leave her kid with a stranger to have to go to work
04:30:14
Brian Atlaswhich you all know that is like number yeah you gotta train the man you gotta train the man though isn't it just like something the guy is Gonna Get You Can't Keep like how would you train me train
04:30:26
Gabbyme okay so the training stops when you're not willing to do what it takes to please me when I so when I say train I mean um I am allowing you I'm not gonna fit
04:30:38
Gabbyyou know how some people some women like they'll go on a first date and they'll fake pay like oh and reaching their I don't do that I expect you to pay so I'm sitting here like this is a smile when the check comes I'm not going in my purse so that's the way I train so it's
04:30:50
Gabbylike I'm looking at you I'm giving you a smile and you're gonna know this has to be paid I'm gonna go into my wallet and pay this okay and so um another way I feel like I
04:31:00
Gabbywould train is uh you know if I want and I'm not really a stickler on um men opening doors for me I like it it's nice but if I wanted to do that I wouldn't if we like stopped and we're
04:31:12
Gabbyabout to get out I would just sit there and wait for you to get out and then walk around and then open the door for me okay can we role play a date okay sure so the end of the date right end of the date
04:31:26
Mistyum so can I be the waiter yeah sure here's your guys's check I hope you enjoyed your meal oh thanks what is that your phone no that's that's the check oh
04:31:43
Gabbyoh you you want me yeah oh okay um oh you know what gosh let me go to the bathroom real quick I have to pee oh I got a P2
04:31:56
Brian Atlasokay okay here's a different different scenario different scenario um let's say okay the check's already come whatever it's in the middle of the table that's the check um and I pull out my wallet here
04:32:08
Brian Atlasoh um oh uh I don't have any cash and I don't have any cards on me could you get this one
04:32:18
Gabbyyeah for sure you'll never see me again buddy in that scenario I I kind of would have pity on him because it must have been really embarrassing for him to tell me that like a guy doesn't take out a girl
04:32:31
Gabbythat he likes and wants to say I don't have enough money to cover this can you cover it I know his pride is like bruise his ego is bruised and if in that case I would definitely pay I wouldn't question it
04:32:41
Brian Atlashere's another scenario this is some gangster right so the guy arrives more often than not would you say you you arrive on time to the date yes or
04:32:52
Brian AtlasOkay so let's say the guy arrived early to the spot you ubered over so he got there a bit early he goes to the waiter and he before the even the dates are you don't know this right but he tells the
04:33:03
Brian Atlaswaiter bring two checks at the end of the date so you don't know but the waiter comes and brings two checks so the waiter goes here's a check for you and then obviously the waiter gets happened to me before now in that
04:33:16
Brian Atlassituation what do you do because he has the check in his hand obviously for his bill then are you gonna like are you gonna like
04:33:27
Gabbydo that no I wouldn't like because if that was the case if that if they because the only time that's ever happened where they split the check when I'm with a man is because he went and told them but typically when a waiter
04:33:40
Gabbycomes to a table and they see a man and a woman they're going to give the man the check I've never ever been at a table with a man and they've given me the check it's always been the man but what would you do in that situation I would be highly upset but I wouldn't
04:33:52
Gabbyshow it I would be I would end the date pleasantly and respectfully I'm gonna pay it because it's not about the money it's about um you know him as a person I'm trying to get to know him as a person and he's that kind of person I don't need a date I don't need a second date from him so
04:34:04
Gabbyyes I would pay and then I would never see him again what if it was the waiter's fault you know oh then he would already snatch it immediately exactly that's true but if that happened that's happened before
04:34:17
Gabbylike one time like the waiter that did happen and I just like okay after the date or whatever it was kind of like a day out um I texted him was like oh I'm you know I'm so is everything okay like are you
04:34:29
Gabbyknow are you going through you know a financial strain or something going on with you like is everything okay and immediate he's like what do you mean no I'm good and he's like oh okay because I was like I thought that you maybe didn't
04:34:40
Gabbyreally have the money to cover dinner because you didn't you weren't I'm the one that you know put my car down or whatever he's like oh no I I he made an excuse like oh I just forgot my card in the car or whatever and then he like
04:34:52
Gabbysells me the more than enough to cover both of our meals and I think again it's out of Pride like a man who likes a woman who takes her on a date he doesn't want to be like oh yeah can you pay this for me because I don't have enough money
04:35:04
Gabbyto to date you or to take you on a date instead of that they'd rather save their pride unless they are the type of Brokey who was just like no I kind of like him my woman pays for a day I kind of like it you know that's I think that's the
04:35:17
Brian Atlasdifference okay well I have a couple questions so obviously I think we agree the guy paying for the first date that's kind of him being a gentleman being traditional right I have a couple questions for you
04:35:29
Brian Atlasguys and I think all it sounds like all of you you you would prefer the guy strongly prefer the guy to pay for the first day it's not even prefer like that's it that's the only answer it has to yeah
04:35:40
Brian Atlasum will you take Alaska's uh excuse me will you take his last name yeah of course thousand percent quickly yes okay oh okay all right that's traditional
04:35:52
Gabbyum would you defer to his leadership yes if I if he's my man I trust him and yes yes can you just tilt the microphone down a little bit it's fun yes I would I think that uh for so long I've been
04:36:05
Gabbyindependent and kind of called my own shot so it might be an adjustment period I'm not gonna lie it might be an adjustment to kind of learn to lean on his leadership it might be a little bit more difficult for me in the beginning because I'm used to being an independent boss babe
04:36:19
Brian Atlashuh uh what about this kind of relates to the last question would your husband have final say in household matters yes depends which household matters for
04:36:31
Brian Atlasexample let's say I'm paying all the bills I'm you're just doing what you do I guess um I'm really
04:36:42
Brian AtlasI'm the man I'm the man I'm paying I'm paying all the bills and I'm the breadwinner blah blah blah uh let's say I don't want our children I
04:36:54
Brian Atlaswant our our children homeschooled I don't want to send them to public school I love it I'm with it I prefer that let's do that well okay so in this scenario you actually agree with that but like let's say maybe you're like I
04:37:05
Brian Atlasdon't know maybe I'd like to go have them in public school but my I was like no I'm very firm with this I don't want them to go to public school if he had the money for a tutor someone to homeschool the kids in case I didn't
04:37:18
Mistyreally want to or whatever and he we had the money to get help in that area then yes I'm gonna trust what he says if I if I chose this man to be my husband that means we already went through a vetting process that I'm going to trust whatever he's saying is right if he's the type of
04:37:31
Mistyman who's a breadwinner at the point that I'm expecting then if he's saying you know I I think this I'm gonna already assume that he's already wagered either way and I'm going to trust him because I'm already in the relationship with him so I'm going to know that he's
04:37:44
Mistynot just gonna have no reason for it there's going to be a valid reason and I'm going to trust him for that but I'd appreciate a conversation for sure but ultimately I married you so I trusted you with my life and my body and who I am in my entire career so I'm trusting
04:37:57
Gabbyhim about other things shouldn't be a problem I would hope that he also trusts me as his wife and his spouse to make uh good decisions and to and he would like he would value my opinion because I am a
04:38:09
Gabbysmart and intelligent woman so I would hope that I married a man that does respect what I have to say and what I think I would hope that someone who's considerate yeah of your thoughts okay
04:38:20
MistyI think in general though I mean I do want a leader I don't I it makes me feel better to multiply what you're giving me rather than having to get it myself okay good time and then sometimes it feels great to say you know what I was right
04:38:32
Jasmineyou should listen to me yeah we have a chat here from fdg want to be my boyfriend yeah who are you asking you yeah she asked him when we were making
04:38:43
Mistythose jokes she's into you are you short and Asian and chubby kinda she might be looking I'm kidding uh that's cute I don't think she's like this is kind of like a love connection
04:38:55
Mistyfor you it could be yeah I'm with it and no honestly she's giving you what you want she's paying more than half she's paying for you to like exist right now I think she wants a green card to be honest I mean hey here's the deal
04:39:06
Brian Atlasshe might give you 10 grand for it too go for it well the Argentina pesos uh okay we have a question here from Stiffler ask everyone to rate their
04:39:16
Mistylooks on a scale of one to ten I'm a 10. say louder for the people I'm a 10. um I think it depends on what city I'm in
04:39:28
Brian Atlasum yeah I think it depends on what city I am I'm in um a number still like boys okay yeah what about yeah if I'm judging you based on beauty standards I am definitely a
04:39:40
Jasminethree oh okay all right yeah
04:39:46
Brian Atlasthat was a very timid to hit but okay I think she's a 10 too I give myself a six six yeah I'm a six compared to who who are you comparing this to like
04:39:59
Gabbythat's what I'm saying like when I answer that question I'm like according to beauty standards if you ask me if I feel like oh I don't I disregard uh European Centric like Europe eurocentric
04:40:10
Mistybeauty standards I don't even follow because I'm a queen where I come from so you're a queen I'm a queen yeah I guess if we're to like put everybody else's opinions into it they might rate me like
04:40:22
Gabbya six or a seven oh I feel like what would you say I I I every region is different are we talking about oh yeah you know like you're right in in the Caribbean I'm a queen in Africa New York
04:40:34
GabbyI'm like I'm a 10 so it depends on like whatever people group we're concerned for like I just yeah you know some places yeah I may I may not be as um attractive as they would like but in
04:40:45
Gabbysome places I'm top tier so really just depends [Laughter] um
04:40:58
Mistyso wait 10 and 10. you two three okay yeah all right of course everything in my group and my genre that yeah I'm attending my group and my genre like if you're attracted to women who are plus size I think that well just like overall
04:41:11
Mistythough that's why I said like if you're talking about regular booty standards as far as like Western Society I mean I'm already chubby I'm black like my hair is Curly like usually you know depends on what people prefer Some people prefer
04:41:24
Gabbycurly hair but you know our society doesn't necessarily question are all women tends why not no because I um I think some women don't take care of themselves some women look raggedy when
04:41:36
Gabbythey walk out some people look like the maid like what are we doing I love her shut up come on you know like sometimes like they're not doing anything so yeah I wouldn't call every woman at 10. and also how do you feel about yourself I
04:41:49
Brian Atlasthink has to do a lot with it and I feel high about myself yeah you know what I mean Gabby You're Beautiful on the inside but come on nobody's a 10 at this table there's no time there's no tenses
04:42:01
Gabbythe men that date me make me feel like I'm a 10. like I they're constantly telling me how gorgeous everything about me is my curves my face my skin like everything so I feel like a 10 with the
04:42:13
Mistymen that I date so that makes me feel like a 10 everywhere that's true good A man should make it I posted that too I was like I don't need to be pretty to everyone but I want to be fine as to him yeah and that's that's fine for me so I'm gonna do someone's 10. exactly
04:42:25
Brian Atlasare you judging us based on beauty standards I don't think we're tense you are I well I think you the three that seems like a reasonable
04:42:36
Brian Atlasself-assessment I'd say that's fair um I'm not saying I'm not trying to be mean I just don't think either of you are attends I don't think I'm a 10. I'm not sitting over here thinking offended I don't think I'm mad
04:42:49
MistyI mean it's coming from someone who who's not paying for the day right here for the date so I just like I'm not a fan and we do that sometime he looks good but he's bowing halfway too and
04:43:01
Gabbythere was like this fine ass man he was like an NBA player level like fine and me and her like talking like you know he ain't paying for the day you know he's going 50 50. which one oh I
04:43:11
Gabbymean okay wait let's get the tea let's see this guy sometimes yeah the characters LeBron sorry doesn't LeBron like have a wife
04:43:22
Gabbyand like yeah I'm like no um but I just mean like we just go out and like you know you would think that a really hot attractive guy we would want to have some kind of
04:43:34
Gabbyinteraction with but immediately I just know it's going to be because he's so fine he's used to women camping for him and he's thinking like I don't really have to put much effort in because I'm super tall I'm super handsome like I'm
04:43:47
Gabbyused to women even asking me out on dates and paying so like I got kind of guy like that I feel like he's just you know he's not gonna give it as much and like I'm not gonna I'm not trying to like prejudge or anything I just mean
04:43:57
Gabbylike from experience I've noticed that and I am not interested in that so I don't care how fine you are you're not doing anything for me yeah okay and we're not for everyone yeah yeah everyone's not for everyone you gotta
04:44:09
Mistyget in where you're fitting yeah you know who's a 10. who this doll right here the three of us she is uh men love her because she doesn't say anything
04:44:24
Brian Atlasto you like a woman ten yeah a woman ten it's a tough one it's a tough one I like to say Kristen young Kristen
04:44:36
Mistycrewick who's that yeah I don't know if she's a 10 but she's very attractive I think the guy that told her I feel like you're almost afraid to call someone a 10. you're like reserving it well 10 is
04:44:48
Mistyperfect so I don't think anybody's perfect how are we not all perfect we're all exactly how we're supposed to be we don't question we're gonna find your own perfect there's no there's no person doesn't that all make us perfect in that way though like if you see a dog you
04:45:02
Mistydon't be like oh you know the Tail's Too Short The Tail's too long whatever you just accepted as being a dog and it's perfect in that way how are we not humans the same thing it's different okay yeah people people have flaws I mean
04:45:15
Mistyobviously we're talking about physical physical trades but people have flaws you know but so do everyone how does that not make it like how is that not like for me I see that as Beauty I love the flaws I love the things that make us unique and different
04:45:27
Jasminesure but you know when you find the one she's gonna be a 10. oh for you no no she's gonna be a heavy six she's gonna be half for you I
04:45:38
Brian Atlasthink no but it's it's not like you'll be surprised no because I I have there's a there's a sort of almost an objective assessment that you can make of people's physical attractiveness so me personally I don't
04:45:51
Brian Atlasthink that I view myself as as like pretty average looking average guy um realistically I'll probably get with a girl who's
04:46:03
Brian Atlascomparable looks wise who's plus or minus a point looks wise like it's five or six between five and seven I guess I think that's within okay so you round it up
04:46:15
Mistywhat do you mean well you didn't you said you're you think you're a what a six six so instead of saying a three to four you round it up to a six six to seven five to seven
04:46:27
Brian AtlasI feel like it's fair you can you can probably go plus or minus in either direction but I I I'm not gonna land a girl who's a 10. I mean that your mindset you're absolutely
04:46:40
Brian Atlasright I think it's a self-limiting mindset I do do you think or do you think it's just a realistic pragmatic no I do because I have my own experience from when I didn't love myself to when I did and so I was attracting men and who I
04:46:52
Brian Atlasattracted question for you I'm I'm 34 right now do you think that yeah old man should over here I'm a I'm a boomer um do you think if my mindset was strong
04:47:02
Brian Atlasenough I could become a professional NBA player if your mindset was strong enough at 34. do you think I'd hell no there's just I'm just being realistic
04:47:13
Brian Atlaslike I don't think I'm gonna get a woman who's uh like exceptional like in the one percentile you're probably not gonna like her inside and her personality I honestly think you could because in in
04:47:26
Mistytoday's society especially when you're thinking about girls we think are tens a lot of them like even her people consider to be her to be a 10 but she could rate it herself a six and so a lot of those women who Society deems really beautiful they have our eight sorry
04:47:37
Mistyeight but a lot of them have low self-esteem so they'll be looking at me wondering why I've got higher self-esteem in the girl who they'd consider to be prettier which means you actually probably could pull someone who's better looking than what you think
04:47:48
Brian Atlasthat's true that's why it's not a DM sometimes you never know you never know I think I think typically women I think typically women don't unless the
04:47:58
Brian Atlasguy is bringing a lot of wealth or status women typically don't date down when it comes to physical so you acknowledge that you don't have wealth and status I I have a YouTube channel but like when
04:48:10
Brian AtlasI'm talking like a guy who a guy has to have and then quite a high level of status
04:48:20
Brian Atlaslike if I tell a girl what I do that's not going to that's not going to elicit like a insanely strong attraction response to
04:48:31
Mistythe same way that someone who's like a top-tier musician or professional athlete or actor I'd prefer your job description over any of those other ones personally yes but once you got to you
04:48:44
Brian Atlaswant to go half then you've lost me I like men that are good at good with them darn I was really hope I feel like a spark I was feeling it too but now we just and now it's just the whole not gonna have to leave it where it's at
04:48:56
Brian Atlasbut I'll miss you I also don't eat so that's kind of a yeah so that was a no-go that was a no-go immediately is that a deal break for you guys if the guy doesn't eat I've dated a guy who didn't before it was it was tough he was like sounds like it was tough it was
04:49:08
Gabbytough so I was like cool dude I don't know I feel like after a few years of marriage you'll just be like whatever no I'll be like whatever you'd go down you'd eventually go down eventually go down if I'm the only woman that you're sleeping with in being
04:49:21
Mistyintimate with you'll be like I'm bored let's try this you don't want to take like how do you not attract I feel like that's a manly thing to want to be attracted to that like to be attracted to I've never met a man that's he's
04:49:33
Brian Atlasmanly to me that's sexy I think if it wasn't the if we weren't in this dating climate where people are dating and sleeping with a bunch of other people that's the issue there's a high rate of infidelity it makes me very
04:49:44
Brian Atlashesitant to uh engage in that sort of behavior and look even with I mean there's a whole bunch of reasons but even with a girl who you've been dating there's obviously you'd never know there could be infidelity also it's
04:49:56
Brian Atlaslike look if you're it's kind of like look if you're a girl and you're coming inside her right ew why are you not using a condom what is happening hello
04:50:08
Brian Atlasbirth control hello hello I don't well if she's your girlfriend you know but like I don't want to go down on a girl after
04:50:18
MistyI've why not do it before no no I'm not I'm just saying I like my men a little nasty that way well okay what I'm saying is for example if we are having
04:50:30
Brian Atlassex regularly throughout the throughout the week and yeah nuts be busted yeah busting yeah nuts are getting busted right Jesus I'm so vulgar okay
04:50:41
Brian Atlasuh like the next day it lingers yeah great again it changes up the pH balance a little bit but if that's your continuous girlfriend then
04:50:54
Mistyyou should be comfortable and familiar with that because you're right it does we also form to your side that should drop out like a day late or something I mean that's who you've been dating I don't necessarily deal with that issue
04:51:05
Madisonwould you like kiss your girlfriend after she sucks you today nope
04:51:16
MistyI would kiss a guy after he did that with me and I'm not even gonna lie to just go further and respectfully this is probably a little too far but I actually like
04:51:28
Mistyif they go if my man goes down on me and he kisses me I like them oh that's different that's like feeling it I like myself I'm always make sure that yeah some girls like to taste themselves you know
04:51:39
Brian Atlaslike if you're fingering what what huh I didn't say that look look look um no honestly if a girl goes down on me I don't wanna
04:51:55
Brian Atlasyo I shower every single day I shower before my girl comes over it's just like you don't like germs it's like I wouldn't suck my own dick son
04:52:07
Mistyyou wouldn't if you could no I wouldn't suck my arms what's his name what's that one singer moved to so he could I think that's like a yeah urban legend but uh no look it's
04:52:20
Brian Atlaslike she just like did I if I came in her mouth that's like for sure no but even if there was no you showered what's the problem you showered why did you come there's pre-com I don't know that's your
04:52:33
Mistyown germs that's your stuff yeah but I don't want to taste too much you have taste buds on your balls by the way no what you've got taste buds on your balls and we have them in our vaginas too huh yeah listen if you take your balls and dip
04:52:46
Madisonthem in soy sauce you can taste the salt I swear to God I swear to God I'm randomly smart I saw that it was like a trend a lot of guys were doing it and women have it too we have it too if
04:52:56
Mistywe can taste like what what like let's say like ladies do not put soy sauce in your first off actually that should you up yeah once yeah you'll taste the salt or like
04:53:10
Brian Atlassomething sweet you can taste it in them in your mouth what I don't think I'm gonna try that and vice versa I mean they're connected hello in any case yeah I don't I don't want to kiss a girl after she went down on it well I don't want to kiss a guy unless
04:53:21
Brian Atlashe's put his balls in the soy sauce so word good time they were both being ridiculous sometimes I'll know where how did we get to this I don't even know what the weird town and we were talking
04:53:33
Brian Atlasabout uh of the deal breakers right okay yeah that's right don't pay for the first date dude don't go down on the girl yeah I got neck problems too so that makes sense
04:53:47
Brian AtlasI'm a little hurt it looks like never mind okay um where was I going with this [Laughter] um
04:53:58
Brian Atlaswas that even mean it looks like you have nothing but sometimes I say random somebody it looks like you have it looks like you have a hand problem yeah or like sometimes I just say your mom your mom yeah it's always your perception you
04:54:09
Brian Atlascan be insulted okay I'm deeply hurt and offended wait we have uh sorry I'm trying to pull up my notes Here you never told fdg and whether you want to be her boyfriend or not