Obese Girl Would NOT Date Obese Man?! PLUS SIZE BBW PANEL! | Dating Talk #103
Date: 2023-09-25
Duration: 5h 25m
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_03Music/SFX(audience)
SPEAKER_04Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jasmine(guest)
SPEAKER_07Misty(guest)
SPEAKER_08Marshall(audience)
SPEAKER_09Gabby(guest)
Key Moments
00:29:09
QuoteGabby declares 'I am the table' — refuses to explain what she brings to a relationship beyond her presence.
“I am the table. I show up. I be me. That's what I offer. I'm there.”
01:24:24
QuoteGabby says the only guys who ask 'what do you bring to the table' are broke men who can't afford her.
“The only guys who have ever asked me what I bring to the table are guys who cannot afford me.”
02:05:00
QuoteBrian addresses accusation that he charges $9,500 for male panel spots; explains sponsorship tiers are for brands not individuals.
“We haven't had any guy on the panel paid to be on the panel so far. Every guy that's been on the panel it's either just somebody I know.”
04:12:06
OtherGabby texts all 5 men on her roster asking to be exclusive during the live show.
“I texted four, I'm on the fifth one... I said: do you want to be exclusive with me, boyfriend and girlfriend.”
04:39:00
OtherBrian runs 'delusion calculator' on all guests; all results show <1% of men meet their combined criteria.
“Each of you are under one percent in terms of the men that you're looking for.”
04:39:39
QuoteMisty rates herself 10/10, loudly and confidently.
“I'm a 10. Say louder for the people. I'm a 10.”
04:40:26
QuoteJasmine rates herself 3/10 by European beauty standards — unusually low self-rating.
“If you're judging by beauty standards I am definitely a three.”
05:24:51
OtherBrian asks for body counts at the very end; Gabby says 'zero' then walks it back saying she's not going to say it.
“Body count zero zero... I mean I just mean that I'm not gonna say it.”
Topics Discussed
00:02:48
Guest introductions — plus-size panel
Gabby, Misty, Jasmine, and Madison introduce themselves. Relationship statuses, dating histories discussed.
00:20:00
Dating rosters and modern dating behavior
Gabby's 5-man roster. Frequency of dates per week (~5-10). Jasmine's philosophy on exclusive dating. Gabby texts all 5 roster men asking to be exclusive during the live show.
00:37:00
Obese women dating preferences — would plus-size women date plus-size men?
Discussion of whisper.com article: plus-size women who won't date plus-size men. Jasmine says she wants a fit partner she can admire. Gabby says she's attracted to what she likes. Discussion of feederism phenomenon.
01:24:00
Income and financial requirements in a partner
Brian runs 'delusion calculator' for all guests. Gabby: $300K preferred, $100K minimum. Misty: $200K+ in LA. Jasmine: ~$80K. Discussion of stay-at-home motherhood and financial dependency.
01:32:40
Patriarchy and gender equality debate
Women discuss patriarchy, wage gap, male leadership, power dynamics. Disagreements on whether patriarchy constitutes oppression. Intersectionality: race + gender + size discussed by Gabby and Misty.
02:05:50
Sponsorship allegation and podcast operations
Brian reads DMs from person who accused him of charging $9,500 for male panel spots. Brian explains format (primarily female guests), rejection process, and sponsorship tiers. Stresses importance of not insulting the host when requesting to appear.
02:08:00
Body positivity and fat acceptance movement
Reaction to viewer chat criticizing obesity. Debate on fat phobia vs. genuine health concerns. Jasmine discusses both obesity and anorexia health risks. Adele weight loss discussed. Fat liberation vs. body positivity distinction.
02:50:00
Gabby TikTok video reactions
Multiple Gabby TikTok videos reacted to: 'broke boy anthem' (I am the table), 'train the man from the beginning' (don't split bills), dating men in LA, dating app behaviors. Brian and guests debate each video's premises.
04:39:00
Attractiveness ratings and aging
All guests rate their own attractiveness (1-10 scale). Brian rates himself 6. Gabby: 10. Misty: 10. Jasmine: 3. Brian argues men find women more attractive at 21 vs 31. Discussion of Kristin Kreuk as Brian's celebrity 9/10.
05:18:00
Dating app profiles reviewed
Brian and Misty's Bumble profiles shown and reacted to on-stream. Misty's profile notes she has video of her body for transparency. Brian's profile shows age as 28 (set to match Misty's claimed age).
Transcript
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Gabbyguests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hi I'm Gabby Fay I'm 27 years old I'm a model singer-songwriter and tick
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Brian Atlastocker and uh for the modeling do you what are some of the companies you work for I looked on your Instagram and you've worked for some like very legitimate like Big Brand companies yeah
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Gabbyso I've worked a bunch I've worked for um Nike Calvin Klein youth to the people Tommy Hilfiger Target
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Gabbyum TJ Maxx uh swimsuits for all Fruit of the Loom Lane Bryant uh and a few others I can't think of them right now but yeah just a lot of
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Brian AtlasMajor Brands that's that's wild how long have you been uh modeling for about the past eight years oh wow okay and uh so are you like
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GabbyI'm trying to who's like the you like the Heidi Klum of oh that's a lot of big Brands yeah I I know right I'm like really grateful that I
00:03:52
Gabbygot to work with so many uh awesome Brands um but I wouldn't say Heidi Klum yet hopefully one of these days I'll get up there you know um I feel like those girls like my goal would be like to um
00:04:05
Gabbybecause I've walked New York Fashion Week every year for the past eight years but I want to do like a walk for a Milan Fashion Week Paris Fashion Week London Fashion Week when they stop being fat phobic that'll happen so like right now I'm just kind of doing what I can wait
00:04:17
Gabbywho's who's there which is the London Fashion Week there yeah you don't really see plus size they're not down with the plus-sized women yeah not really not yet is it mostly just a U.S thing so far I think so I think U.S is just more
00:04:28
Gabbyprogressing and plus size modeling than Europe right now have you done any gigs internationally outside the U.S yes um I I flew out to Montreal and I they only speak French I didn't realize that and
00:04:41
Gabbyso like I'm on set everybody's picking and pulling apart from like my outfit my hair my makeup and they're only speaking French I'm like trying to figure out what they're saying and I'm also like learning French too but like not that great um that was for youth to the people as a
00:04:53
Gabbyskincare brand uh it was really a cool experience I felt like like Hillary oh no I feel like Liz McGuire and Liz McGuire Movie where she's like in Italy and like everybody's speaking a different language on set that's how I thought but that's pretty cool okay
00:05:04
Mistyawesome awesome uh what about you hi uh my name is Misty I'm gonna be 28 forever and I'm also a model and I'm an actor wait what do you mean 28 forever what 28 forever I forget how you want to take it
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Brian Atlasso are you actually 28 or forever she's she's 28 forever so you're like
00:05:26
Jasminelike 55. okay I'm 28 forever 28 okay maybe we'll get into that later what about you hi I'm Jasmine and I am 25 and
00:05:36
JasmineI work in marketing specializing in Social in social media most likely what I focus more on the non-profit sector gotcha uh Madison if you want to intro yourself
00:05:46
Madisonhello my name is Madison I'm 18 years old I currently work for the whatever podcast I'm a host at a bar as well as a student in college I go to Santa Barbara
00:05:57
MadisonCity College and I'm studying business accounting can you uh turn your head that way just so they can see your hat so wait your last name is what voo
00:06:08
Brian Atlasso your Madison Vu yeah but the Hat she's wearing it's from Dragon Ball Z there was a character called Majin Buu so it's interesting because now you're Madison Vu maybe you're Madison I don't
00:06:21
Brian Atlasknow what character I don't even know Dragon Ball Z maybe we'll okay I'll show you further later okay um and by the way guys we we're gonna we were planning on having two other people here at the panel but they no showed
00:06:34
Brian Atlasit is what it is um it would have been nice if they said hey we can't make it but just it was just a straight up no-show so smaller more intimate panel tonight but we have a lot to react to so um we're
00:06:45
Brian Atlasgonna go around the table once more so what is your current relationship status so are you single are you in a relationship are you in the talking stage are you uh
00:06:55
Brian Atlasin a situationship are you in a sex cold polycule uh you know are you part of a harem whatever it may be uh so also
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Gabbyif you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead so I'm single I've been single for years I can't even remember the last time I was in a serious relationship but I've been like I you know obviously I have a roster of men that I date from
00:07:21
Gabbytime to time maybe I'll do like a one month three month stint sorry Nick it's it's muted the audio sorry continue oh okay um so I like I've been dating for the past few years but I haven't
00:07:32
Gabbybeen in a serious relationship for a few years so I would say just single and dating and yeah trying to find love gotcha let me just yo ftg thank you very much for the uh
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Brian Atlasfor some reason our audio is muted there but thank you very much for the gift of memberships um so single for very long time yeah when was your last relationship oh there it is I don't know what happened ftg thank you very much for the gifted 50
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Gabbymemberships um single oh gosh I feel like maybe it's been about five six years something like that gotcha and you said what was your
00:08:07
Brian Atlaslongest relationship um I would say two years two years got it okay uh in in the you said you've been single for about five years
00:08:19
Brian Atlashas there been there's been like maybe a thing oh yeah I don't count like I don't count like a month here a couple months there I don't really like situationship type I I don't know yeah I guess
00:08:31
Mistyyou could say that like there's yeah so gotcha okay what about you I am currently single I've been single for a few years as well
00:08:42
Mistyokay um uh longest relationship longest relationship um I think it was probably about
00:08:52
Mistyseven five seven years on and off on and off again five to seven years yeah how many times was it on and off like a lot a lot it turned into long distance started like good and then it turned into long distance and so long
00:09:05
Brian Atlasdistance um some people have trouble with sure fidelity you hear stories of people who are in Long Distance or sorry not long distance well it was long distance but yeah and on-again off-again relationships and it
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Mistycan range anywhere from oh we're on again off again a couple times to like people breaking up every week you know it wasn't like that no it was more like I mean like I really he was my first love and I'm pretty sure I was his and then when I moved I think it
00:09:30
Mistyprobably broke his heart so he went rogue um and so it was just like continual not trust like I go there for Christmas you come visit me but like yeah I mean okay
00:09:42
Mistyso like you broke up how many times do you think you know when you're young like that it's kind of you're toxic so you don't I don't know that I didn't count that just like it's over and then babe like why didn't you call me so okay
00:09:53
Mistyyou know come a long way gotcha how old were you when we first I was like 16. I was 16. we were first loves and
00:10:03
Jasminegood times I learned a lot I learned a lot I was toxic what about you yeah so I've been I am single I've been single for 11 years the last time I had a
00:10:14
Jasminerelationship I was 14 and my longest relationship was six months and it was with my first boyfriend when I was 13.
00:10:23
Brian Atlasokay and in your pre-show notes to us you said that uh you are you consider yourself religious yes yes I do have a relationship with
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JasmineGod okay I exercise my faith in life so that definitely plays a factor in dating gotcha and so are you um what's your situation like right now like dating well yeah you
00:10:47
Brian Atlassaid like hold on sorry I it's been a show before the show guys because we a couple people bailed uh in your pre-show information you said that you
00:10:59
Jasmineare waiting until marriage to have sex is that correct yeah to have sex yes I'm waiting till marriage okay but I am willing to date now gotcha for marriage okay yeah with the goal to get married
00:11:09
Jasmineokay gotcha but so you you've never been intimate with a guy never never I'm a virgin okay yeah gotcha and I've been single for 11 years and I haven't even
00:11:20
Jasminebeen pursued so I've never been even I've never been asked out within 11 years within 11 years 11 years yeah usually um when I was okay so I've always been big my whole life except when I was a
00:11:32
Jasminelittle kid the first time that I lost a lot of weight I was 13 and that was when I got a lot of attention from guys it was a whole world like a whole different world for me and that's when I had my first boyfriend and then when he broke
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Jasminemy heart and you know we did it for six months I ended up hoeing around and I had like a bunch of boyfriends back to back a lot of drama but then when I gave gained weight like all of that kind of
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Jasmineleft and when I was in high school when I was 16 I lost a couple like weight again and that's when I noticed that guys would become interested in me and then once I gained weight there's like
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Madisonno game so yeah that's kind of how it's been right now got it okay uh Madison your situation I'm in a lovely relationship for about a year now
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Madisonit's relationship so are you engaged no it's just it's just a problem
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Jasminewhat is the promise for uh to be with each other forever that's I hear that a lot okay never mind let me keep my thoughts a lot of people don't really wear promise rings anymore so it's cool to see you wear one wait no
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Gabbyactually just go ahead yeah I want to hear what you have to say well okay because like I like several people that I know that I've done the promise ring um thing I I think it's sweet when they tell me that but then
00:12:58
Gabbythey end up breaking up and it's like well how much that promise really mean I feel like the real promise is um signing your name on a marriage certificate where you can't just easily walk away and then leave me with like a
00:13:09
Madisonuseless very very true and eventually we plan on getting oh yeah what's the difference between a promise ring ftg thank you very much I think it's for a lot of people who uh
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Madisonum just can't get married yet or feel like they're too young to get married or if anything other else is like going on in their lives where they feel like they shouldn't be married at the moment and
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Brian Atlaslike promise rings kind of solidify it into getting married in the future hopefully fdg thank you so much for the gifted 50 memberships uh I think
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Brian Atlasvery much f d g a true Giga Chad um going back to you really quick in your pre-show notes so you said that you got into a fight because of your first breakup when you were very young you
00:14:03
Jasminesaid you yes were dating a guy at 13 you got arrested what happened yes let me explain so I got my I had my first boyfriend when I was 13. we dated for six months he broke up with me and I was
00:14:15
Jasminevery heartbroken and I had a lot of game like I had a lot I don't really don't know what other word to use it in game but I had a lot of um guys like wanting to be with me and and all that stuff and one of my best
00:14:27
Jasminefriends at the time she had an often on again boyfriend and back then we would send notes this was in Middle School and he sent me notes saying that he wants to be with me and I was like you're literally like on and off again
00:14:39
Jasminewith my best friend I was like that's not gonna happen so I gave the note to my best friend and she was very upset and in the notice that everything his hand handwriting and everything that he wants to be with me and stuff
00:14:50
Jasmineum and she basically ended up talking to him and he ended up like telling her lies that I'm the one that I'm the one who wrote the notes and that's not the case and she basically just wanted to fight me because she was
00:15:03
Jasmineupset that the men that she loved or boy that she loved because we were Middle School liked me and we um we ended up like I ended up going to the counselors talked to you know I was a good girl no nerd
00:15:16
Jasmineall that stuff I'm like I'm not gonna fight you're my best friend we're gonna do this so I talked to the counselor at school she literally brought both of us in a room we talked it out and leaving that room she literally told me she's
00:15:29
Jasminelike hey Jasmine I know we work things out but don't let anyone know and I was like I was kind of caught off guard and I was like okay whatever I'll move on and then later on they were they told me
00:15:39
Jasminewe weren't in recess or I guess lunch time they told me to go this girl told me to go somewhere and I followed her and she was there gathered with so many people um to fight me and we kind of fought and I see that as self-defense I didn't want
00:15:52
Jasmineto fight and I got arrested because it was such an intense fight like she arranged everything everyone was even the nerdy people that don't care about fights they were right there so I couldn't get out of it we fought I got
00:16:04
Jasminearrested say she got arrested for this ordinary conduct we got suspended for three days I had court homework and just I just had a lot of when you have a lot of boys coming after you there are certain girls that hate on you and
00:16:17
Jasmineanother interesting tea I'm not sure you guys know her but her her name is jelino Hera she's a very very successful like influencer model she also went to my middle school and she also had a lot of
00:16:28
Jasmineguys after her so those three days that I was suspended they also jumped her so like if you're a girl who a lot of guys like they're gonna come after you and
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Jasminelike fight and do all that stuff so you know when I did gain weight and like I say my game left it was a little bit relieved because I didn't have that drama yeah and it had
00:16:49
Jasminethe drama from the girls anymore um but what were you arrested for I was arrested for this ordinary conduct
00:16:59
Jasminedid you go to juvie or they just gave you a ticket I was with the cop and she told me that she was like you have great records you have one of the highest gpas
00:17:10
Jasminethis is unlike you and I was like yeah that was self-defense and she was like so I'm not gonna take you but I should but I'm not gonna take you because of your good records so I'm but I'm still gonna have a record like an arrest
00:17:21
Jasminerecord on your account and stuff like that but she basically told me that she could have taken me but she had a choice to take me or not she decided not to give you a warning yeah she gave me a warning but even after that fight she
00:17:34
Jasminedid say that if I get in another fight on campus ground that I will definitely be arrested and go and I got into two other fights but outside of Campus so it didn't count did you her up or what was it who
00:17:46
Jasminewon the fight so that's an interesting question I honestly think okay so let me explain so she was here I was here she ended up hating me first so I fought and then
00:17:58
Jasmineeveryone was coming towards us and we both of us tripped we fell everyone else fell so there's a bunch of other people on the ground so when the teachers came to see who was fighting they literally
00:18:09
Jasminepicked up people from their hairs they suspended other people too because they picked up one of my friends from her with her hair she started cursing at the teacher teacher got mad that girl got suspended too so it was literally like
00:18:21
Jasmineeveryone was on the floor like everyone's sorry to like you know it was a disaster and then me and her were basically on the floor and then I was trying to get on top of her and I was trying to hit her and I did get some hits in and that's when the teacher knew
00:18:34
TTS Readerwho was the one that was fighting because I still tried to fight Fat Bastard donated 100 get in my belly I want my baby back baby
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00:18:54
Brian Atlaswhat's up Nick
00:18:58
Brian Atlasinterrupted TTS man come on all right um okay so sorry uh single single single
00:19:15
Brian Atlasyou guys there's come on there's some guys in the picture right come on I told you I had a roster but no one I'm taking seriously right now you got the roster yeah when you say roster though what do you what does that mean it means that uh
00:19:27
Gabbythere are men that I am entertaining that I allow to entertain me for the time being until someone uh is seriously pursuing me and putting in that effort and taking me on dates and planning dates and things like that
00:19:40
Gabbyum they're you know they stay on the roster and like the one who's putting more effort they get bumped to like number one and the one who's putting less effort they you know want to they fall off so and then sometimes I had to
00:19:52
Brian Atlasget rid of my whole roster and start from new start from scratch and you know it's exhausting but it's work oh so currently and do do you have a roster too or I don't know that I would call it
00:20:03
Mistythat I like look at it slightly differently their bench I mean I don't even think about it like that right like I enter I won't like keep them if I'm not gonna pursue them for a long-term relationship okay so like if I've
00:20:16
Mistyalready found that this not working they're going to fall off quickly I'm what's going to keep them to entertain them okay what would you call it then what do you call it I mean like it's I mean they're dating them or I'm not dating them like where they're talking and we're not talking do you have a do you have like a
00:20:29
Mistymain piece kind of in some side effects who are attempting to show what they have to persuade me to say yes or no okay um but
00:20:41
Mistyand I mean yeah that's probably what it is and when I when one of them makes sense then I will be going forward with that gotcha and I mean you already told us but yeah nothing like you've got it's
00:20:52
Brian Atlasbeen 11 years come on some guy I can explain a little bit more so let me let me first I'll come back to that real quick but so you have a roster uh what's the roster looking like you got
00:21:04
Marshallright now how many how many dudes are on the roster hold on oh no don't make her count I had to because you know it's a new week it's a new day I got you now we're doing some math here
00:21:17
MadisonI would say like a safe number is five safe numbers five okay okay yeah are you like entertaining all five uh like the same time around do you think yeah do they know about each other they don't
00:21:30
Gabbyknow but they have to know that they're not the only people dating you they I don't think that they would continue on Tick Tock saying that yeah but the guys I date aren't on Tick Tock they're like not spending their time on the Internet or on social media the guys I date they don't like social media they're just
00:21:42
Gabbylike they're about work they're about their business like they don't live on the internet I do they live on in real life are they also spending time with other women are they they probably are I assume that they are you know until we
00:21:55
Gabbyget to a place where we've both agreed that like this is serious and you need to drop your roster because I'm gonna drop my roster if I know it's serious you know for sure how often so that you said it's about Five Guys on the roster
00:22:07
Gabbycurrently is it is it more is it less because it's no I mean around five around five so it could be six could be four yeah but it's not like I'm talking to each of them every day or I'm seeing them every day it's
00:22:19
Gabbykind of like they're in the vicinity and if they you know call me on Friday night I'll be like okay let me see I'm gonna schedule J on Saturday and Josh on Friday
00:22:31
Gabbyyeah put them in the calendar I'm a busy woman I can't like take time like you know so yeah um I schedule them out and then I schedule them out and then yeah and like let's say in a a week or a
00:22:43
Brian Atlasfortnight of the five how many would you say you schedule in a fortnight it's a fortnight oh 14 days yeah oh and into in two weeks I'm
00:22:54
Gabbybeing kind of extra with the fortnite no it was nice okay thank you four score in seven years ago I would probably say I would like uh realistically two per weekend
00:23:04
Brian Atlasso you could do like you might do a Friday Saturday yeah so Bobby on Friday yeah Cornelius on Saturday his name is Cornelius whose name is Cornelius
00:23:19
Brian Atlaswhat's next don't sleep on cornelius's okay they got they put it down okay okay um if you want I know a guy who I could
00:23:28
Brian Atlaslink you up with his name is Cornelius no way yes I swear yeah is he smart yeah he's but he's like kind of he grew up very like in a very isolated
00:23:39
Brian AtlasCommunity okay because I like what normal person okay I shouldn't I don't I don't want to throw him under the bus but like so he's not on the internet no he doesn't have anything exactly my favorite type so it's not any social
00:23:50
Brian Atlasmedia and he he like grew up in a very rural area with like super traditional parents very he's like uh how do you how do you explain it
00:24:00
Gabbyhe's a gentle giant oh I love gentle Giants they're my face if you want to put in a word yeah tell Cornelius I
00:24:11
Brian Atlassaid hello question though on the whole Cornelius thing like you know do you think that there's just certain names like and I'm getting a little intimate here that you know in the middle of some
00:24:23
Brian Atlasbedroom fun you can't be talking dirty if they got a weird name do you know what I mean I'm with it I'm with it too like oh Cornelius like I I just can't even imagine myself like whisp like
00:24:34
Mistypulling a girl's hair Whispering into her ear and being like Oh Gertrude for short that's cute super attracted to her she was like just the hottest thing to you you would scream that name I would scream Gertrude yeah you would oh
00:24:48
Brian Atlasmy God you might just not even use a name I might have to use oh yeah a nickname for the battle bad girl yeah I just have to call her a girl or something um oh God you can have pet names that's
00:25:00
Brian Atlascute yeah there we go um so five on the roster and how long do is it a kind of some common go so like a guy will fall off the roster then
00:25:11
Gabbyyou replace or yeah okay yeah because I feel like um I mean like I said sometimes it's zero like if I have a busy week and I just don't have the time then I'm just not gonna entertain
00:25:21
Gabbyanybody and then sometimes it could be like 10 like it just depends on like I guess this the influx of people that I just happen to like meet or match with that week and I'm like starting to talk
00:25:33
Brian Atlasto and all of that so I guess yeah it just depends on that you said sometimes it might be ten so let's say in like a week period or like a fortnight Let's do fortnite let's do fortnite what what is the most amount of
00:25:45
Brian Atlassay dates that you've been on with different people in a fortnight 10. 10 yeah so that'd be what five a week or so yeah like Monday through
00:25:57
GabbyFriday okay but that's if I have like impressive that's if I have time and energy it's a lot of energy to give to people yeah dating oh my gosh I've I be I call myself a dating Guru because I do this so often at this point like
00:26:09
Gabbysometimes I do it just for the experience just for this the plot because I just like I'm so exhausted with dating like when you're trying to find the one you go through all of these ups and downs and roller coasters I'm like let's just see let's do it for the
00:26:22
Gabbyplot let's see what happens and I'll like start experimenting and be like this is a guy that I would never go for let's see how this works maybe maybe I'm picking the wrong ones maybe I just need to try something completely different from my type sure you know so yeah well
00:26:34
Brian Atlasyou definitely are a dating Guru because I mean your Tick Tock you definitely speak a lot about uh dating and we actually have a few that we're gonna react to during the show get into those earlier and you've gone viral a couple
00:26:46
Brian Atlastimes you had a few that went very very viral so we'll definitely react to those and we'll uh we'll uh have a discussion uh just a little few more questions so
00:26:56
Brian Atlaswhen it comes to the uh the roster um how many like first dates and this is for everybody here on the panel will go around the table how many First Dates total do you think you've been on your
00:27:07
Brian Atlasentire life countless lost count have you I lost count I've even got like a proper date or just like like let's say I mean well if we're talking proper date how do you
00:27:19
Brian Atlascategorize what a proper date is is it do you spend money on me okay I would say just first because some people might have like a meeting they might meet someone but yeah with a
00:27:31
Brian Atlasromantic subtext but it's not oh you wouldn't categorize as data okay we went we went on a block type of thing or we you know what is what is what is that what is a walk yeah like I've had guys
00:27:42
Gabbydo that and I feel like I know so much I mean I tried it in one of my experiments it was terrible never did again never again I think we saw that Tick Tock actually it was a Beach Walk was it and then I've had one of those two each
00:27:53
Mistyblock is how I found my boyfriend oh that's weird I mean you guys met online and decided to go no we met um pretty organic so that's when you have the organic that adds something to the relationship when you're meeting someone
00:28:05
Mistyonline them doing the most low effort thing they could possibly do is such a turn off really yeah I mean of course because that's what you're going to put to any part of the relationship and I'm not on there just for a hookup so your amount of effort is going to then lead
00:28:17
Madisonto what your seriousness of the dating game was going to be yeah I get that are you guys like all looking for something serious yes I'm I want to pop out a kid in the next year and a half maybe two oh
00:28:29
Gabbyokay yeah I'm on that type of time I wanted to be married yesterday
00:28:36
Brian Atlasdo you have an estimate estimate First Dates let's say maybe first meets with I would say 200 200.
00:28:46
JasmineI did a lot can I asked you for the plot I can't say yes to everyone about your roster so how what are the cons of having a roster because you said you
00:28:58
Jasminesaid that you get exhausted so don't you think there should be a moment or time where maybe you shouldn't have a roster and just focus on one well that's what she said yeah I feel like when I was
00:29:07
Gabbyyounger I used to do that I I did focus on one at a time but uh I realized that I was wasting so much my time and you know like when you're a woman you only
00:29:17
Gabbyhave certain amount of time that you can you know certain amount of time to like have a find a husband get married have kids all these things so I got to a point where I was wasting like three to
00:29:28
Gabbysix months on a guy who was literally not ever gonna be marriage material or husband material but I wasted all that time because I thought I was gonna dedicate all of my time and energy to to this one person it was going to work out and then I realized maybe I should have
00:29:41
Gabbyscaled it back a bit and see what he's about and see what kind of person he is in the effort that he's making before I kind of went all in so I think that's when I started the roster life because now I'm splitting my energy and I'm not
00:29:52
Gabbylike breaking my heart over and over again every three to six months stint so that's why that's the logic behind the roster that's how you date also oh yeah talking too many people
00:30:03
Brian Atlaslet me not take about all men because I saw you roll your eyes but in general no no it wasn't an eye roll it was more of a uh eyebrow raise Not all men no but like in general I
00:30:16
Mistythink the way that you guys look or seek out relationships as a whole is by nature differently just biologically what we're made to do did you have more on that yes so when you have a roster do you feel like
00:30:29
Jasmineyou're the one who's wearing the pants or you're the one pursuing them or how does that work because I feel like the guy should be pursuing us great um so how does that work with you I only have yeah I that's a great question I only
00:30:42
Gabbyhave a roster because multiple guys are pursuing me like multiple guys are asking for my time like they're like hey are you available Friday well I gotta check because Bobby Joe and mo like texted me too and they also want my time
00:30:55
Gabbyso I feel like the roster kind of just got built around the interest and like if I have so many people like wanting my time they're probably not all worth my time but I don't know that yet so and I don't want to say like no because I said
00:31:08
Gabbyyes to this one guy I'd be like well I have two hours scheduled on Thursday night at 7 pm are you down like and just kind of schedule them out that way okay and do you like go on dates with them or are you just like okay oh yeah I don't
00:31:21
Gabbyand that's another thing too I feel like I'm so traditional and I'm so like you know you gotta take me out on a date like let's let's do dinner let's do a movie Let's do roller skating like let's
00:31:32
Gabbydo an activity um for me to really get an idea of who you are as a person especially in public I think a lot of a lot especially online guys like a lot of guys will you know be
00:31:44
Gabbylike hey what I never met them like hey how are you hey how are you um why don't you come to my house for a dinner I can cook you dinner and we can watch a movie at my house it's like sir do you want to get robbed because you don't know me you
00:31:56
Gabbydon't know if I'm gonna set you up like you you just don't know and you're so comfortable inviting a strange woman from the internet to your home and a lot of that a lot of guys feel that way on
00:32:07
Mistydating apps so I'm just like I'm not about that life I'm very like I want to be careful and she I mean I want to just piggyback on her saying the Rob thing like men I've accommodated something someone else had said that oh you know
00:32:20
Mistywhy she gonna go and get she's going to rob the guy but it's like where we're coming from is as a woman anytime you invite us over to your house what goes through our minds is you could drug us and you could do you know any very good
00:32:32
Mistyyou could do anything and so we have to take that into account when we say yes to anything and that's even in public so it's almost like a privilege that a man gets to be able to say come over to my house and he's not even giving a second
00:32:45
Mistythought that you could be robbed you know that anything that could happen to you but we think that immediately that is very true where can I just have you tilt your microphone down like this
00:32:56
Brian Atlasyeah just perfect um so okay just going back to the uh how many First Dates question do you how many First Dates do you think you've been on I thought it was I thought it was doing good by saying 20 but you said
00:33:07
Brian Atlasever in my life I don't know maybe oh yeah yeah maybe like maybe 50 not a whole lot okay and then well I dated during Middle School right but you said in 11 years you haven't
00:33:18
Brian Atlaseven been like approached it no really yeah you just you just stay at home all the time like guys don't no so I feel like one of the major things that I
00:33:29
Jasmineencounter is getting friend zoned a lot I've had a lot of crushes and I kind of let them know like you know I give them my attention but they just never make a move what's your type
00:33:40
Jasminelike whatever like going after the wrong type of dude well I mean I'm not with I mean I don't date I don't I don't have like online apps
00:33:50
Jasminemaybe that can help but uh and I guess in when I was in college I had opportunities to date but I only met like three types of guy the first type of guy is that one guy that's already in a committed relationship once
00:34:03
Jasminehe graduates he's gonna get married they're already planning their wedding the second type of guy he's like oh no I want to go to medical school I don't want to date nobody I don't want to commit the third type of guy is like I wanna like hole around so it was kind of
00:34:15
Jasminehard for me to date during college and right now I'm not really surrounded by a lot of guys and the guys that I am surrounded with they're already like married so I feel like my surroundings have something to do with it too
00:34:28
Gabbyyeah that's a factor because I I know because I've lived in the city for the past decade so like I think there's more like opportunity and a lot more influx of people when you live in a City versus
00:34:39
Gabbythe suburbs but I feel like when I go like to Ohio for example like visit family whatever and I'll swipe out there I feel like I do meet great guys with great mindsets that want to like get to
00:34:51
Gabbyknow me for real and want to take me on things like that and I feel like I do get some good quality guys out there it's just not a lot of options and it's like it's just hard to like meet in the middle I guess with that but I
00:35:03
Jasminedefinitely think environment exactly and I mean a lot of traditional men so a lot of them at this age are already married so yeah it's just I guess I'm I'm 25 so I'm kind of that in the middle age and
00:35:15
Jasminejust kind of seeing what's out there but I feel like maybe I should be putting in some more work and dating but I just don't want to go online and I'm great at meeting people I'm
00:35:26
Jasminegreat at meeting guys I'm a huge extrovert out you know and but they just never make a move and you're gorgeous so they're bugging like you're gonna put yourself in places
00:35:37
Mistywhere you're gonna be approached by men who wears that let me know depends what kind of man that you want right yeah I mean often maybe a like a bar or someplace do you want a religious man as well I heard you were religious right
00:35:49
Jasmineyeah so he does have to have a relationship with God you know God has to be number one I can be number two um but he yeah he definitely needs to have a relationship with God he needs to have self-control like all those virtues
00:36:01
Jasminea lot of Christian people look for do you go to a church where there's a single men I do yeah okay okay good yeah like like I like I said before I am around a lot of people just haven't been
00:36:13
TTS Readerapproached okay yeah I don't know sorry hold on there's a new student donated 100 well well well to all the fat phobic jerks in the chat you shouldn't make fun
00:36:24
TTS Readerof fat people they've got enough on their plates already ladies ignore them be the bigger person do you guys ever I just I think he's so
00:36:36
Jasminesweet thank you so much all right thank you we have enough on our plates okay there you have it I get it you guys uh have a good uh taking it on the chin I mean you spend
00:36:49
Brian Atlasmoney to do that so that's nice thank you I love when a man spends money on me so thank you so uh first thing first thing for today uh we are going to react to an article Nick if you could pull up the article
00:37:01
Brian Atlasuh or it's just it's a photo then we go to the article it should be the first thing uh can you hide us really quick just to hide us so this is an article plus sized women admit they aren't
00:37:13
Brian Atlasattracted to overweight men and Nick if you could tap over facts so this is the article whisper.com Nick if you can just scroll down um I'll actually scroll back up I'll just read it can you uh Mouse wheel
00:37:25
Brian Atlascontrol up so make a little bigger yeah that's good as a plus-sized woman there's this expectation that you should only date overweight men oh can you can show us on the right side um but what if you aren't attracted to plus-sized men
00:37:40
Brian Atlasuh sorry these women open up about dealing with the stigma of being plus-sized and refusing to settle and date overweight men from dealing with harsh criticisms to feelings of guilt for their preferences find out what they had to
00:37:52
Brian Atlassay in all these and excuse me in these tell-all confessions scroll down I'll just read the first one uh sometimes I feel guilty because I'm not attracted to bigger guys even though I'm plus size myself I find it rare to find a big guy
00:38:03
Brian Atlasthat takes care of his appearance and hygiene the way I do scroll down I'll just do read one more I'm a plus-sized woman but I'm not attracted to big guys I get a lot of hate and criticism for it but I can't help that I
00:38:14
Brian Atlaslike average to muscular tie types so on that topic do you guys have a reaction to that and also just what's your type to you like bigger guys you like plus size men or I have an immediate reaction even in sorry just even in like when
00:38:27
Mistythey're writing she says settle for a plus-sized person they're assuming just because that you like someone who's not plus-sized that then you're settling for someone who is plus size that's already like a negative connotation you can be
00:38:39
Mistyattracted to whatever you are attracted to without putting another thing down like when I'm talking to a man and usually the men I talk to yeah they're fit bodied men I'm attracted to athletic men I was athletic growing up my entire life I was also like 212 as a
00:38:52
Mistycompetitive figure skater beating girls who were much smaller than me so I'm always attracted to things that I do I like to run every day I like to work out I like to work out um and so I'm attracted to men that are
00:39:03
Mistylike that and and I feel like it's okay to just like what you like because they're obviously still attracted to me too with their shape you just gotta like what you like getting where you fit in yeah I feel like for me
00:39:16
Gabbyum I don't really have a type I because I really am attracted to a man that I uh like on an intellectual like mental emotional like all the other things you would connect with a human being with I
00:39:28
Gabbyfeel like I'm more attracted to that versus their looks and when I think about like plus size guys and like athletic guys or fit guys I can only really speak from like my experience and
00:39:40
Gabbyit feels like the guys that come after me or the guys that are like showing interest are like Jim Bros like super fit super athletic yeah they all are in my idea like there's like coming at me
00:39:53
GabbyI'm just like well that's weird so I'm I guess I tend to date more like either tall skinny lanky athletic or you know just fit body types because those are
00:40:03
Gabbythe ones who are talking to me I haven't yet like really had a plus like many plus-sized guys kind of show interest in me I did date maybe one or two or I went on a couple days with one or two so I'm
00:40:16
Gabbynot opposed to it I'm just kind of whatever is offered like whatever is I'm presuming is I guess is what I'm paying attention to and the comment about their hygiene not being good I've dated two
00:40:28
Gabbyreally fit guys with six packs and they stunk and I'm just like so it's really just not the plus size people I've had like there's some smelly guys out there and they're fit so you have to understand a
00:40:41
Mistylot of plus-sized people also don't necessarily have confidence in themselves so where they won't judge themselves they'll be okay to judge someone else usually that kind of thing is projection it's what they're feeling on their inside so for that person with those plus-sized women to then degrade
00:40:54
Mistywhat they also are at the same time it seems like just a little bit of self-hate and boost your you know your self-esteem and that kind of thing what we said right so for you it sounds like
00:41:04
Brian Atlasyou would have no problem dating a plus size guy but the guys that are coming to you that are hitting on you you there's been a few plus size guys but it sounds like it's mostly you can
00:41:15
Jasminelike just kind of regular size even fit guys you know so yeah so with me I like to I'm attracted to guys that I
00:41:26
Jasminethey can inspire me so kind of what the article said I agree I as a plus-sized girl wouldn't date someone who's plus size um because why is that
00:41:37
Jasminebecause I want a guy who I can look at and admire and be like oh you know like I would like to be that way you're I would like to date someone who's fit obviously because I want them to be strong and you know all this stuff but
00:41:49
Jasmineyeah I guess it kind of seems hypocritical because some people are like well your plus size should date someone who's plus size or you should at least consider it and it's like yeah but you know we are we have our preferences
00:42:00
Jasmineand I would like to date someone who is fit because I can admire them they can also help me improve in my fitness journey because I truly believe that when you're in a relationship with someone you two influence each other so
00:42:11
Mistymuch and I will like someone who can kind of help me in an area that maybe I'm struggling in but what if you're with the guy who's fit and he likes you because you're plus size and then you are inspired so much by him that you lose weight and then he becomes
00:42:22
Jasmineunattracted to you oh interesting
00:42:38
Mistyyeah like and treats their own like I've got a best friend who's very very thin and like her husband loves the crap out of her so it's just kind of like so do you think that's like a fetish almost like I think it depends how you look at it right you can just genuinely be
00:42:51
Mistyattracted to something like this without fetishizing it right right um so I think it depends it's how The person talks to you or they treat you you can usually tell if they're really quick to be handsy with you usually it's a fetishized thing if it's a short quick
00:43:03
Mistything or something they don't want to take during the daytime not real dates that's why someone like me will require something that's you know you're proving that this is not just some sort of fetish yeah but I mean because what what you said what makes me
00:43:15
Brian Atlasthink it might be a fetish is like if they were to lose attraction for you if you were to lose some weight that's to me is kind of like they I mean I would hope that they like obviously physical traction is important but I would hope
00:43:27
Mistythat they I mean I feel like you for that's going to be the guy though like is he kind of a douchebag because he can do the same thing to his wife who was thin when he met her and then get her pregnant and now she's got gained some weight now he's lost attraction to her nothing wrong with him right because she
00:43:40
Mistychanged from when he with her is that something you've encountered though like you started losing weight and the guy started I've not encountered someone just like I've got respectfully adult personality so you're gonna fall in love with me but
00:43:52
Mistyum if you did decide I have had men who've been like they wanted to like feed me I like to work out I'm I mean I do like my sweet things but it's not something I gorge on wait they like to like but like in a just like a normal
00:44:03
Gabbysort of way because there's some like weird you know it was weird what's it called feederism so they like they like they get off they get hard if they see what you eat yeah he wanted to feed me
00:44:15
MistyI'm not big enough for that I gotta be twice I was my size and I'm talking about feederism have you experienced that well he wanted to feed me cookies yeah he wanted me to he wanted like he was like I want to make cookies I want you to eat cookies like and that's my
00:44:27
Mistyfood look at you eat it like yeah I've never experience let me see you eat yeah and I've had guys other people I want to take you out to eat let's eat together and I'm like at the same time like you gotta eat and like I do like nice food like but I don't feel like they're but
00:44:39
Brian Atlasare you saying it's something Beyond because I'm obviously like for anybody a like a dinner date that's a pretty normal thing but was it going beyond that to like he wants you to like stuff your face I mean like we didn't get that
00:44:52
Mistyfar right because I'm not gonna sit there and do that for you like respectfully that's a little too far for me um but yeah I mean like when he expressed himself it seemed like that could be the way that maybe it could go
00:45:02
Mistyyeah but I'm not gonna like I've just been mean for so long that I don't necessarily want to be unhealthy like I know certain things about certain foods and so I don't I don't want to go crazy like I do like cookies but I've
00:45:15
Brian Atlasgot to be kind of particularly what's that story with the witch is it Hansel and Gretel we have to eat the house we're like the the witch or something was trying to feed them to get them yeah
00:45:27
Mistythat was Hansel and Gretel she caught them they were eating the house and then she's like kept them a thing and she was trying to fill their bones and they were giving her the the chicken bones to feel and she didn't think they were skinny enough and then they eventually pushed
00:45:38
Jasmineher in the stove that's a really old story I'm 28. okay of course of course uh well you can answer the question she asked me so I feel like someone who I
00:45:49
Jasminewant to be with someone who also would support my health Journey so even if they love me how I am right now if I was to become healthier hopefully they can also love that version of me and if they don't and if they break up with me
00:46:01
Jasmineawesome I saved myself okay yeah I think that is kind of weird though like why would you only want to be with me if I'm at this certain size there are people like that but but it's the same way when we when she said
00:46:13
Gabbyearlier that the guys who date uh thin women if they were to gain weight they're like Sorry Charlie so like she her body also changed from like thin to fat and then exactly
00:46:25
Mistybecause the woman's body does fluctuate like when I think about when I'm my future husband like I know that the kind of man that I want he's we're probably going to expect a certain something from me so every day whatever I presented to him to get him I want to continue to
00:46:38
Mistygive that to him while we're married so I want to continue to look good every day I want to continue to do my hair I want to continue to care about myself and I want to present I don't want to let myself go just because and so here's the thing and like and I'm not going to attack you but when I'm when you say
00:46:50
Mistythat you um aspire to be him or you look up to him that's in a way saying that you don't like what you have right now and you told me already you hit the gym so you're not an example of someone who's being unhealthy right but you're in your mind have told yourself that
00:47:02
Mistybecause the way you look it is unhealthy because aspire to be something that is like him and what I say what I always challenge you to do that maybe just love what you got and then it doesn't matter where you fit before that that's when
00:47:14
Jasminethe personality you know what I mean because you're yeah I got your point but I always feel like like it's like it's like for example you have a business and you have a mentor who maybe has already done it better than you and you kind of
00:47:27
Brian Atlaslook at them you know like that type of relationship um that's kind of what I'm looking okay so question question to kind of bring it back here so you said you are just not attracted to men who are plus signs is
00:47:38
Brian Atlasthat correct correct but you've been single for 11 years never have you rejected plus-sized men like have they because you said you
00:47:50
Brian Atlashaven't even been approached no I haven't even approached so but like if a plus guys uh an otherwise nice plus size Guy step to you and he said hey I'd like to take you out whatever would you turn them down
00:48:02
Brian Atlaslook everyone physical attraction is obviously important in a relationship if you're just happens to be the case you're not attracted to plus size men hey is what it is but when you turn a guy down like would I turn a guy down
00:48:14
Jasmineyes wouldn't even give them a chance hey look again you got to be physically attracted to the person but I would say yes about the end of the day when that happens you never know there's something
00:48:25
Jasmineelse that Sparks yeah right you know like you just I feel like I can't be too close-minded um but I kind of understand what you're saying at least give them a chance um I just would be if you're not
00:48:38
Jasmineattracted to him I mean yeah I would just like someone who I can go to a gym with and work out and if they're like okay I don't want to be like that I hate going to gym I'm not active I don't want to do that then that's like okay well well plus size men just like we are plus
00:48:49
Jasminesize and work out could do that yeah that's what I'm saying like if they're they might be plus size but if they're still like taking care of themselves I was going to a gym then yeah okay we can work something out but if it's someone
00:49:01
Jasminewho is like struggling with it and they don't want to go to a gym they you know kind of like eating disorders or something like that like would you view it as settling
00:49:12
Brian Atlasfor a plus-sized guy do you view it like if you were okay I guess I'll date like would you view that as settling for you me I'm not saying it is but is that how you
00:49:25
Brian Atlaswould view it how I would view it no no oh no I wouldn't view it that way you say you're not attracted to
00:49:33
Jasmineplus-sized men so I'm trying like I am well I'm not but I feel like there can always be an exception I don't want to say never it's kind of like the quote of Never Say Never is there any plus
00:49:45
Jasminesize guy that you can think of that you're like yeah I'd date them like do you think a celebrity musician no nobody I'm trying to think what do you think a lot of more like I think it also depends what your definition is the Plus Size
00:49:56
Gabbybecause there's like bigger taller guys you have to be clean and look good and and look you know what I mean you can't be like I don't care about how I walk out of the house and you're just like in the same t-shirt seven days like seven
00:50:09
Mistydays a week you know exactly I feel like you have to carriers goes back to healthy lifestyle what about Jonah Hill
00:50:25
Mistycan you Google a photo of Jonah Hill super bad I met him like shortly after that actually oh yeah and I was like 28 By the way yeah and I was like oh my God I'm such a big fan he was like really thank you what's your name and I was
00:50:37
Brian Atlaslike Misty Marine he was like nice to meet you okay I was like you too and then I was like here's your table oh you were you a server I was I was Hostess
00:50:50
Mistyokay so he was five six can you control my mouse wheel up and like he makes a lot of money right yeah uh scroll down scroll down
00:51:01
Jasmineuh that's good that's good uh would you go for Jonah Hill he looks like he's 12 years I would be his friend so hard I would same as her I would definitely be friends so like but like factor in fact
00:51:14
Brian Atlasher in now obviously he's actually lost some weight from this but this was a very big movie when it came out so I don't know if like are we he looks like he's 60. would you date him if you had a time traveling machine just like you
00:51:26
Brian Atlashave to factor in so okay let's say when you date not just a guy who looks like this but Jonah Hill actor no I have wealthy funny he seems
00:51:36
Mistylike a funny guy he's a Jewish guy no uh so is that a no for the whole table that's not enough for me I wouldn't agree with a Jewish guy that was well he was much taller but he was larger but he
00:51:50
Mistytreated me like a princess so sweet I wanted to like him but Jonah Hill though he had he was similar to Jonah Hill looking okay so you would go for Jonah I'm not saying I wouldn't say go for Jonah Hill but if Jonah Hill stepped up to the plate and gave like here's the
00:52:01
Mistything just if I if I'm treated the right way I'm going to fall in love with your books because I've fallen in love with broke people before and and if I can fall in love with just your inside and
00:52:13
Mistyyour heart because that's all you really had then I think that I can fall in love with the other side of it gotcha um would you go for the Jonah Hill Superman it looks like he's 12. he looks like
00:52:23
Gabbyhe's five let's say he's a he's 18. I I'm not attracted to him not because of his size necessarily just because of like his upkeep I don't like sure um I don't like the way he dresses
00:52:33
GabbyI don't really like the personality that I get from him I don't like his Vibe I'm not saying he's like a bad person I'm just saying it he doesn't give me a vibe that I feel like I would vibe with so I would say no based on that based on the
00:52:46
Gabbyside and then also it just like looks wise he just reminds me of like kid brother type deal like I'm not attracted to him because he looks very young to me okay what about I want to Google some
00:52:57
Brian Atlasother photos because I'm going to try to set you up with somebody okay uh let's see here can you Google who's that uh DJ Khaled yes yes
00:53:09
Mistylike a princess
00:53:14
Brian Atlaslet's see if we can get a scroll down but he doesn't okay there we go that's good you can uh pull up the photo of him he's a big boy okay he's a big boy um
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Brian Atlaswhat do you think about DJ Khaled he's DJ Khaled what's his name his wife is a little Slim Right uh I'm pretty sure do you go for DJ
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GabbyKhaled no not yes if he believed in going down on women which he does not he's made a very public yeah so I think that that is very
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Mistyum triple co-sign oh you're not a fan of no I just can't you don't also I was co-signing her you also don't like would you like Big Lots oh I co-signed DJ Khaled so you don't go down on women you don't believe me that's a hard no that's
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Brian Atlasa red flag sorry I can't do it what is that what does that mean yeah you're preparing to eat the meal yeah no I don't it's uh no you know not a fan
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Brian Atlasnot a fan not a fan we can get into it later it feels selfish because men always want that so it's like no his facial hair is nice let me see let's find one more guy um I'm trying to think
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Brian Atlasof like a uh I like the guy who goes no dude you know who's that guy yeah oh okay I got it I think he's Patrice O'Neal Patrice O'Neal Nick find Patrice I don't know I
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Brian Atlashaven't seen him in a while get Patrice we need Patrice up on here we need Patrice do you guys see like what's that one comedian's name he's really funny and he's kind of cute Steve Harvey no no so this is Patrice
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Brian AtlasO'Neill are you guys Rip's in the chat for Patrice Nick scroll down a little bit let's see if we can get a proper scroll down uh we got a photo he's a bigger guy a little bit but I don't know if we're
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Brian Atlasgonna find it uh scroll down these aren't the best what about Ice
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Brian AtlasCube Ice Cube is Chubby uh is he or what I mean he lost weight now just really quick Patricia Neal you go for Patrice wait for him the guy we just showed you no what oh you go for Ice Cube though
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Jasminewhat about um no wait no what okay you're picky you're picky I guess here's the thing I love how you're asking me these questions because it's making me really think stuff that I really haven't
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Jasminethought out I feel like when like okay you're asking me if I would date someone who's plus size yeah I feel like I would if they're if they have good habits or
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Jasminehealthy habits you know for example because there's some people you know I don't want to stereotype or anything but there's some people that I've met a couple
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Jasmineum that are big and they are pretty lazy they don't want to go to a gym and sometimes those habits can rub on me so do you go to the gym I do believe it or not I do and so that's one of my
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Jasmineconcerns is like when you are dating someone whether they're whatever size they are their habits is going to influence you and I truly believe that probably that's why maybe in my mind I wouldn't necessarily date someone who is
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Jasmineplus size and isn't and maybe just doesn't care about their their like going to having a healthy lifestyle right because it could still be big and but have a healthy lifestyle things have been thin and they have not been working out it always was me yeah I just want
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Jasminesomeone that's motivated yeah yeah someone who's motivated and can go to a gym with me and yeah so I guess to answer your question I may would date someone who's plus size but but I
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Brian Atlasautomatically be attracted to them probably not okay what can you um can you think of a guy who you think that you are attracted to maybe like a
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Brian Atlasmusician athlete actor that you think like that's the kind of guy you would go for that you are attracted to can I realistically you know I mean
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Gabbyrealistically I would date like a I don't know Drake I love him he's so hot
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Jasmineany other guys any actors you could think of like oh okay I think I could like I could get him I think ah I don't know his name but he was one of the lead
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Jasmineactors for the Vampire Diaries oh Ian somerholder the one that plays Stefan or the one that's what I'm talking about
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Brian Atlascan we see a picture of them yeah okay I like guys actually he's really really attractive Ian is was in one of my favorite movies it's uh an old movie The Rules of Attraction uh James Van Der
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Brian AtlasBeek Jessica Biel tons of uh I think I've seen it old like came out in early 2000s brother and sister wait brother maybe I'm thinking about something else probably something else um Ian summerholder uh yeah if you can
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Jasminefind him he's in his 40s though I think and he still looks great in his 40s so not necessarily him it was the other guy that was supposed to be his brother on the right yeah
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Brian Atlasinteresting yeah click it Nick click it so you always do you think that like kind of is he's he's on your looks level like he's your looks equivalent looks match like that's the kind of guy that