02:47:12Brian Atlaskind of blocking if you yeah I know it's hard it's [ __ ] okay go ahead if I scoot in it's all good I can scoot over um perfect it's I mean it's a bad
02:47:24Camilabehavior I don't think I don't think just because you're best friends it it means that you shouldn't be able to point out her wrong I mean we should be holding each other accountable that's
02:47:34Camilathe only way to uplift women and even men too I think it's important that men also point out the bad behavior even if that means you know ruining ruining a
02:47:45Camilafouryear relationship down the drain it it has to be what it has to be so i' say tell them I agree I don't condone that behavior I just hear a lot of girls are
02:47:55Camila (2)like yeah girl like yes like get your revenge it's so common it's extremely common for women to support women's toxic Behavior extremely I think because
02:48:07Madisonwith woman like thinking you're being a good friend is supporting someone which is which is a good like a good friend trait but it's also if you're a good friend you're going to support someone but at the same time confront them if
02:48:19Madisonyou're if they're doing anything wrong yeah yeah all right well find the upon anybody
02:48:31Lindaelse hello no oh about the same question no just about like final thought on
02:48:42Brian Atlasanything NOP sub to my linol bio once again this is a perfect example of how men need to carry in relationships men need to carry conversationally men need
02:48:54Brian Atlasto do everything I have six women here at the table who are incapable no offense guys of carrying a conversation your podcast incapable no I do you want our end Rel
02:49:05Brian Atlassituation inable hold on Brian you have clarify I literally got up at the beginning of the podcast and I was like guys I need to [ __ ] figure out a [ __ ] the technical issue capabl of come on bro yall y'all
02:49:18Karissagive us a topic you want our ending thoughts or like a new topic I think that's we're ending in like 10 minutes so it could be a new topic if it's something quick
02:49:28Camilaor um I think I guess just adding to what I was talking about earlier um you know when it comes to leadership in men I think you know with
02:49:39Camilahulah culture and everything like that I think it's very very important that especially men should practice self-control um I think that's a huge Factor when it comes to being a good leader because if you can't control your
02:49:51Camilaown body don't expect me to let you control anything else in a relationship and so I think it's I mean you can have everything but if you lack self-control
02:50:01Karissayou you've lost everything period yep I completely agree I think that a lot of men these days
02:50:12Karissaum they they want to be leaders but they don't want to accept the responsibility that is required of becoming a leader and you can say the exact same thing for women I understand in that you know like
02:50:25Karissashe wants to be a leader she wants to be super dominant and you know so it goes both ways but at the end of the day um I think that even the most strong woman as long as she has you know some morals in
02:50:36Karissaher heart and you know she is truly seeking something real she will submit to a good man and especially um you know
02:50:46Karissacoming from the Christian Perspective um it is extremely important that Christian men first submit to God because at the end of the day how can you expect any
02:50:58KarissaChristian woman to want to submit to you if you are not first submitted to God it's extremely important and um and if you uh if you become that leader then
02:51:10Karissayou will find the right woman I think one of the greatest benefits of right now I mean like we think about the hookup culture and everything and you know how like there's no real women out there that are worthy of
02:51:21Karissame right like that's the constant argument but at the end of the day doesn't it make it so much easier to find the right one because now you have a lot less to go through like you can say nope not her not her not her not her
02:51:33Karissabut at the end of the day if you know what you want then wow I mean what a blessing it's just made it so much easier so but at the end of the day what are you doing sorry I'm bored my bad
02:51:46Lindathat's rude to her sorry I'm so sorry I apologize okay I do I'm sorry say it with your chest I apologize to
02:51:59Lindayou I didn't know if you had anything else to say but I wanted to just follow up to that no you're fine yeah I do agree I think that the stronger your discernment gets the smaller that your dating pool gets and people think that that's a negative thing they get into scarcity mindset and feel like oh my God
02:52:12Lindalike my dating pool is getting smaller when you're actually just getting you're like honing in more clearly to what you want so you can more quickly cut out what you do and don't want um so another
02:52:22Lindathing I want to touch on with this community um specifically red pill community and I know that when these shows just say men and all men that's not really the case these are
02:52:34Lindamore this is a little bit more of a tame one compared to others but there's still a lot of red pill rhetoric and it's
02:52:45Lindavery it's silly to me that there are a lot of um there are a lot of men in these communities who shame and judge women for choosing the wrong men but then on
02:52:57Lindathe flip side they shame and judge women for like like not choosing better when their standards are too high and whose standards the men's standards or the
02:53:08Lindawomen's the women's the women's standards are too high they judge and blame and shame women for choosing wrong and essentially what they're saying is not having good enough standards they're
02:53:19Lindajudging and blaming and shaming women for having too high standards and so it's just this it's again just this like pointing the finger when we could all really just like go within and like
02:53:30Lindaalign to I think most men don't really give a [ __ ] if you date a scumbag like that's on you you hear it a lot in this community they'll like say oh you didn't
02:53:41Lindachoose you chose wrong or whatever it's just something that I hear a lot I haven't I mean I've watched yeah if you dat a dude who's a lot of
02:53:52Lindatimes we choose wrong as women right absolutely and I'm not saying that we don't we do it's vital to take full accountability and like when I'm coaching people and I am the hardest on
02:54:02Lindamyself and when I'm coaching people I go in on these women um like in a loving space um you have to hold people accountabil you know accountable just
02:54:12Lindalike you would call you would lovingly call out a real friend but um if it's harmful because a lot of these men
02:54:23Lindaare looking up to certain men who spew a lot of this rhetoric and I'm not like referring to you specifically but these
02:54:33Lindamen will shame women and say that they're like getting played and that they're falling for the games and it's their fault and you know understandably
02:54:43Lindathe lesson's the lesson but these same men are falling for the men that they look up to like running the same game on them like a lot of these men in these
02:54:55Lindacommunities don't have integrity they're they may be financially successful erroneous erroneous erroneous yeah but they're grandstand keep going it's not a
02:55:07Brian Atlasmoral grandstand I really don't like everybody judges to an extent but I don't get your point men are shaming women because women are picking shitty men
02:55:19Lindabut are you and then also judging and shaming women for saying to choose better so it's they're judging and shaming no matter what you do it's a lose lose situation is what I'm saying and I'm not even saying men I'm saying
02:55:30Lindathe men in this community I don't know specifically it's not all men I don't know specifically what you're talking about but if a woman dates a guy who is a
02:55:41Lindascumbag that's on her and people are fair to say you probably shouldn't have done that yeah no of course if a guy dates
02:55:50TTS Readera or that's just saying the truth Raven $100 it's one thing to make mistakes it's another to keep dating the wrong
02:56:01Lindaguys and then not holding yourself accountable so I'm just going to say it like specifically Andrew Tate he is literally it just got leaked that he's
02:56:12Lindaliterally doing exactly allegedly what he's been accused of and and these men these men are looking up
02:56:23Lindato him and judging and blaming and shaming women for falling for the same type of guys that these men are falling for these men are getting played by these men that they look up to and then judging and blaming women for getting
02:56:35Brian Atlasplayed by the same kind of men and that's just the silly thing that well I'm not sure specifically what you're referencing but I would point out that I believe it was yesterday or the day before Andrew was actually released from
02:56:45Brian Atlashouse arrest so there who knows how the court case is going to proceed it maybe they find him guilty maybe they don't in any case it's pending uh it's a pending criminal case innocent until proven
02:56:57Lindaguilty we don't know what the situation is um and regardless if they find enough evidence to but what what's your what's your about Andrew T I don't get it what regardless if they find enough evidence
02:57:08Lindaagainst him he's still his voice is literally being emotionally mentally and physically abusive in these in these leaked me messages so regardless if they
02:57:20Brian Atlasfind enough evidence I don't I'm not really okay I don't disagree hold on I don't disagree with you Andrew Tate has has said from his own mouth some very damning things for example when he was
02:57:30Brian Atlason the uh full send the nek podcast or whatever he said that he would take men for everything that they had and no I I don't excuse me excuse me let me clarify I don't think he verbatim said that but he said that he was like behind the
02:57:43TTS Readerkeyboard and he was managing only fan squirrels and he my my view is is he did it sounded a little like
02:57:50TTS Readerfraud chest T girl KN a real job get me in the next pod I have a on YouTube Hi Sam Hi Sam miss you uh thank you Sam I
02:58:01Caitlynlook I think Tate has said some damning things but I can be a Mark we we can overall he has some very good he has some good messages for men and stup I do
02:58:13Caitlynagree he does I have to say he's made out to be so which is it can be both you can be both I guess but it can be both he's he's misconstrued by the media a lot of the
02:58:25Caitlyntimes like if you watch his whole podcast L he has some good stuff to say and a lot of people are just mad because it's the truth and it targets a group of people that are not usually targeted yeah and I understand that and I'm not
02:58:38Lindalike triggered by anything he does says or anything my issue is more that it's like a harmful thing to spread he does say a lot of very truthful things about men having integrity and being transparent and yet the opposite is
02:58:51Lindaactually what he's doing and this happen this has happened a lot with people um mirring to the world to this to be this
02:59:00Lindaiconic man with integrity and yet very real things get leaked about them that shows otherwise it's not just him I don't have anything personal against him I just think it's very okay get off your
02:59:13Brian Atlasgrand stand we get it Andrew Tate has said some damning things like it's okay cool are you going to land the plane are you arriving at your point no I I already made it okay that's not that wasn't my point all right we have haha
02:59:24Brian Atlaswin chest girl chess tat girl needs to shut the yapper yep there you have it and then we have Giani hey Camila huge fan loved you in the Mr Beast video oh hold on it's getting pulled up was
02:59:35Brian Atlaswondering if you could wish me a happy 12th birthday thank you I just pooped my pants there you have it happy 12th birthday I love you I don't know if it's going to get 12 years old there happy 12th birthday buddy there you have it
02:59:48Brian Atlasthank you for wishing him a happy birthday then we have Mr capadia hey thank you for the 50 women have a psychological trait called own group preference meaning men as group prioritize the well-being of women and
02:59:59Brian Atlasso do women there have been experiments in this but the real world makes it abundantly clear women have a I think it it's ingroup and outgroup preference so actually women have an in-group
03:00:11Brian Atlaspreference and actually men have an outgroup preference for women so women have a very strong ingroup preference for each other and men have a slight outgroup preference for women yes so
03:00:23Brian Atlasthank you Mr capos appreciate we have Ninja Smokehouse Camila it's unfortunate you've chosen to ruin your life so early oh wow okay glad you like your nighttime routine red pill this red pill that girl in the mill needs to take accountability
03:00:35Brian Atlasfor her bad decisions and stop G giving advice Corner girl is for L Bryan I did make that very clear thank you oh he's he's mentioned that because I I only
03:00:45Brian Atlasdate women whose height starts starts with for but uh yeah all right Jason pastana 6969 thank you man girl in brown talking like we got all day move along
03:00:56Brian Atlaspal K do is it pink oh my God boom roasted it okay I think you asked your friends to to send all that have okay okay okay no it is what it is okay I
03:01:09Lindamean you're making money yeah what's up can I add something last thing and after I feel like you get pushed back when your own masculine energy expresses truth and then they what they really want is their feminine energy really
03:01:20Lindajust wants to be like gossipy that's really what it is it's like it's just they want entertainment they don't want education what do you mean I'm not
03:01:31Lindasure what you're talking about okay so when a woman steps into her masculine energy and expresses a like a very clear
03:01:40Lindatruth that uh is against whatever said ideology they who are supposed to be such high value men which I don't resonate with any of these terms by the
03:01:50Lindaway but they all they do is they like say a bunch of wild things and they just get in their feminine gossipy energy and yet they're masculine that's just I
03:02:01Brian Atlasthere's just so much it's just there's so much hypoc hypocrisy in these communities I well who knows but I mean you've mentioned a couple of these bu buzzword before you mention you keep
03:02:12Brian Atlasmentioning the red pill look red pill equals the truth equals reality see it's it's an analogy from
03:02:23Brian Atlasthe the film The Matrix seeing the world as it truly is embracing the truth even if said truth is painful or uncomfortable right women can take the red pill
03:02:33Lindatoo yes I do I love the Matrix movies and I completely understand this concept but just because you're spewing some ideology it does not make it the red
03:02:44Lindapill truth because a bunch of wounded men who are just projecting at women feel that it is because it's making their ego feel better yeah but I mean when it comes to objective truth earlier
03:02:54Brian Atlason in the conversation we were doing the one to 10 rating system and you refuse to have a good faith conversation about that I didn't refuse to be good faith just because I'm not answering a question doesn't mean I'm bad faith
03:03:06Lindathat's kind of bad faith no it's not it's just something that it would go against a boundary of me like I wouldn't answer this if I were like dating somebody so like if I was a date I would
03:03:18Lindanot like answer this so why would I go against my own boundary and answer it then it's not bad faith I haven't yelled or screamed or done anything I'm just speaking truth I'm just being grounded they say I'm triggered and upset I'm not
03:03:28Lindatriggered I'm not upset takes there's nothing you can do say to trigger or upset me like trust me it's just it's just funny you give a little
03:03:39Brian Atlaspush back and it's like no no well we debate on the show but um I mean and and again this really ties in
03:03:49Brian Atlaslike one of the red pills a woman could take is not confusing sexual attraction for relationship attraction or marriage attraction and we already talked about
03:04:00Brian Atlasthis men and women they have we have different sexual strategies so you as a woman you wouldn't want to project your experience onto how men operate so as I already previously said for a woman to sleep with a man that man has to
03:04:13Brian Atlastypically be at least physically attractive enough to be in a relationship with whereas men will sleep with women of a certain physical attractiveness oh hold on Jimmy Donaldson donated
03:04:24TTS Reader$99 chest tat been pleading the fifth this whole damn time move it along pal go take care of your kids Asian girl please remove the headwear Brian I love the flannel keep up the hustle Wednesday
03:04:36Brian Atlasof dropping thank you appreciate it look the red pill would be just having an accurate self assessment of your uh you know own physical attractiveness so that you can maneuver in the sexual Marketplace the relationship Marketplace
03:04:49Lindathe marriage Marketplace accurately and not get hurt as a woman I think there is some truth to what red pill says but not everything
03:05:00Lindaand I think this is another thing that gets tricky is because Andrew Tate for example I know he doesn't identify with red pill I'm just using him as an extreme example because it's obvious a lot point and then we have to wrap go
03:05:11Lindaahead he um he uses um a lot of pimps do this like pimp will say complete absolute truths they will like shock you with some truth and it will get you to trust them because you're like well he was
03:05:24Lindahonest about that and he does this in certain instances and it this is what men do this is what a lot of convincing men do to play women as well um women could do it too but I'm going to use
03:05:35Lindathis example with men I'm not anti-men or anti- women um but so it's just it's and this is actually what drew me to Red Pill I was like oh my gosh these these guys actually are saying
03:05:48Lindasome some truthful facts can you land the plane please but once you look into it deeper it there's a lot of hypocrisy and there's ultimately a lack of integrity and it's feeding
03:06:00Lindawounded men instead of guiding them to actually fully emotionally heal it's it's superficial they're chasing money and women and that is not integrated
03:06:12Brian Atlasmasculine energy okay quickly can you give me three things that the supposed red pill gets
03:06:20Lindawrong um one example is the well I'll just use I think it was Rolo tamasi
03:06:29Lindahe specifically said that something along the lines of women find men who can who are with a bunch of women ideal
03:06:39Lindalike women go for men who have a lot of women and actually there's been a study on it and I forget it's like a letter it's like HX or something the study that was done that is actually contradictory to that because women
03:06:51Lindacannot women do not find that evolutionary evolutionarily attractive because typically those men don't have enough resources to actually sustain their family and they would be abandoned
03:07:02Brian Atlasso that's just one you said three um what is another you're hold on women women absolutely there's a component of social proof when it comes to what women find attractive a lot of
03:07:14Brian Atlaswomen will need co-signs from either their other girlfriends they'll like check with their girlfriends oh this guy what do you think about this guy men don't need cosign from their male
03:07:23Brian Atlasfriends to pursue a chick so but this if if a guy is capable of getting 10 10 women other women are going to find him attractive by virtue of social proof yeah kind of like what we were talking
03:07:37Lindaabout earlier though it's not really about is HE capable it's like does he have strength over his like lower desires that's really what's ultimately attractive sure some wounded women don't
03:07:48Lindacare and they'll just take a man that like cheats on them or like is in a open relationship and there can be positive open relationships I'm not open relationship C I just paid for your only
03:08:00TTS Readerfans now I can't feel my left leg Caitlyn can you feed me Grimace Shake while I PE ran take my innocence
03:08:09Brian Atlasplease thank you for subscribing love you uh luk thank you man appreciate it I don't know about the Innocence thing though I'm not sure about that one buddy
03:08:20Brian Atlasum I wish we had more time to uh probably get into this really quick I have many more but I know you have to cut me off so yeah what and like I don't know
03:08:32Brian Atlasthis there's there's like a red pill ideology and then there's just generally the red pill so look I don't I don't claim to subscribe to a red pill
03:08:43Brian Atlasideology like I just use red pill as an analogy for the Truth For example lizo is not a 10 to me that is the truth she's obese you cannot be a 10 and be
03:08:55Lindaobese do you object to that I don't deal with a numerical I'm not dealing with that numerical stance we keep going to the physical attractiveness things so many it's
03:09:07Lindaimportant don't you think that physical don't you think that physical attractiveness is important when you're trying to scout though I mean because yes physical attract you're not attracted of course but it's
03:09:20Lindait's on both sides it's not just one-sided and also like you know they say like whatever certain things each culture finds very largely different things attractive even women have people
03:09:31Brian Atlashave different preferences some people would find there is no culture in the world for either men or women that finds
03:09:39Lindaobesity attractive across the board you okay yeah I understand this but you're using seen a rather extreme example it's not extreme what percentage
03:09:50Lindaof people are obese was it 50% or something yeah it's not an extreme example it's but it's never just because one little thing hasn't ever been like a characterization
03:10:02Lindaof physical attractiveness doesn't I don't know it's do you think okay do you think lizo is a 10 oops I don't I'm not doing this scale thing it's
03:10:13Brian Atlaspointless no okay no all right well we're gonna I'm not getting anywhere so we're going to wrap there if you want you can come back I know we had a little heated discussion but we could pick it up another time um guys last call hit the
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03:10:47TTS ReaderTristan Tate donated $99 lizo is 100% ATT 10 she's so bad I would let her lick Big Mac sauce off my left cheek sorry Brian going to have to
03:11:00Brian Atlasdisagree well there you have it trist and Tate I guess uh you know everybody has their taste so uh there you go um we will be live again Tuesday at 7 pm
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