HEATED Debate! 3 Girls KICKED OFF (Hat Trick) | Dating Talk #77

Date: 2023-05-24
Duration: 5h 33m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Jake/Shania (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_02Jessica(guest)
SPEAKER_03Madison(host)
SPEAKER_04Liv Margray(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Jamie(guest)
SPEAKER_10Victoria (Vicky)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Jules(guest)
SPEAKER_12Shania(guest)

Key Moments

00:24:21
OtherShania reveals her father is Robin Crosby, guitarist of Ratt (80s hair metal band). Brian shows photos on screen.

Robin Crosby okay you can just Google it okay all right

00:43:23
QuoteLiv Margray admits to cheating on her first boyfriend (5-year relationship) when her boyfriend discovered texts on her iPad.

he hacked my iPad and literally like broke my iPad

03:09:46
ControversyVicky refuses to accept Brian's redirect away from transgender debate, insisting on continuing the discussion. Brian tells her to leave.

you can either accept that or you can leave your choice

03:09:54
OtherTriple kickoff (hat trick): Vicky asked to leave after refusing to drop transgender topic; Jules exits in solidarity; Madison briefly exits. Brian calls it a hat trick.

okay this whole Squad leaving or what we got a whole Squad trick then I'm sorry

03:10:00
OtherJules leaves show in solidarity with Vicky after Vicky is asked to leave.

see ya I'm gonna get up too but thank you for having me

03:24:00
QuoteBrian discloses 12 guests flaked on show day and vents about ongoing podcast stress, death threats, and hit pieces.

we had 12 flakes today that's a [__] record

03:25:32
ControversyBrian disavows statement made by male guest on previous show (Destiny stream) about enduring abusive relationships; clarifies his silence was not a cosign.

let me emphatically say now that I disavowed the stance that was taken

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Guest introductions & announcements

Guests introduce themselves: name, age, occupation. Show announcements and tech check.

00:15:00
Relationship statuses & dating history

Guests share current relationship status and longest relationships. Liv discusses 5-year relationship that ended after cheating.

00:36:00
Red/green flags by job and degree

Discussion of red and green flag jobs/degrees for dating. Brian lists flight attendants, HR, nurses, OnlyFans as red flags. STEM as green flag.

01:00:00
Who should pay on the first date

Debate over whether men, women, or whoever asks should pay on first dates.

01:07:40
Body positivity and gendered insults

Discussion of 'small dick energy' phrase, body positivity double standards.

01:33:20
Situationships and modern dating apps

Dating apps, disposability culture, situationships, and fear of commitment.

02:00:00
Feminism: definitions and perspectives

Debate on feminism's meaning across the panel. Jamie vs Jules vs Vicky. Feminism's impact on family structure and women's roles.

02:46:40
Stay-at-home mothers and career women

Discussion of women in the workforce vs. stay-at-home roles. Jamie argues feminism pressures women into unfulfilling careers.

03:06:40
Transgender debate and triple kickoff

Heated debate on transgender ideology. Jamie (anti) vs Vicky (pro). Vicky refuses to accept Brian's redirect; kicked off. Jules leaves in solidarity. Third guest also exits. Brian calls it a 'hat trick'.

03:16:40
After-show: post-kickoff debrief

After-show with Madison and Shania. Recap of kicked-off guests. Brian discusses 12 flakes, ongoing podcast drama, stress. Discussion of show logistics and future guests.

Transcript

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03:53:13
Madisonyeah now I'm bored yeah have you ever experienced that oh yeah yeah I just feel like they get lazy that was just a problem with my last relationship but now we like this one yeah and she's gonna stream the wedding I love it he's
03:53:26
Madisonactually been on the podcast has he really I brought in like one time oh my God was that scary or um no he was actually like the reason I came on the podcast for like the first
03:53:37
Madisontime I ever came on because he was like one day he randomly like brought it up to me he was like do you know what the whatever podcast is and I was like
03:53:49
Madisonuh like I've been seeing their stuff on Tick Tock and all this stuff like I don't really know them I don't really watch them that much but they dm'd me like back in October yeah and he was like no way like that's crazy you have
03:54:02
Madisonto go on and he convinced me to go on and now I'm here and now look yeah posting the after party yep what's your boyfriend's name Frankie thanks Frankie hi Frankie he's probably watching right
03:54:13
Madisonnow honestly okay we'll keep going with these I don't actually don't know if we read that one I think I might have oh they're coming there's like a bunch before these are like they're awesome yeah we'll get to
03:54:26
Madisonthere Brian in all seriousness you're a good man doing an important thing keep building the whatever fam find a co-host to help take the weight off you do too much ladies favorite guests and why
03:54:38
Shaniaoh guess on the podcast honestly there was an episode that I did um I'm gonna totally blink on their names and I'm so sorry because I love
03:54:50
Shaniathem so much yeah um
03:54:56
Shaniaum and so uh they were only fans girls over here and then I had two girls from Ventura next to me and then I think I was sitting next to Brian and those only fan girls I didn't really get to talk to the uh Ventura girls I talked to him for
03:55:09
Shaniaa little bit before and they were sweet but they had to leave in the middle um I think they were like from Florida and they were all blondes one was in the military one was in a pink dress and
03:55:21
Shaniathey were all gorgeous and they were literally the coolest girls ever really I mean they got a lot of hate on the podcast I'm sure because of you know only fans and stuff but they were honestly the coolest so they were
03:55:32
Madisonforever my favorite I once again I don't remember your names but ladies you guys were amazing I still think about you today honestly I feel like people judge so hard about only fans which is like reasonable like you yeah obviously like
03:55:45
Madisonyou can think what you think I think what I think before I know that for a fact yeah but they're like they're honestly like such nice people like when I meet them in person thank you
03:55:57
Madisonmy favorite guest um probably my boyfriend there we go that's a good girlfriend right there uh can you hide that one I'm gonna trigger something from streamlines yeah
03:56:13
Madisonwe need to set up a rule where a chat can kick a user we got the feeling right from the beginning and we have been right on each one we needed to kick within the first five minutes I like the idea of ending on time on days y'all go late I can't read the rest it's cut off
03:56:36
Madisondo you have Instagram I do everyone's asking for our Instagrams Brian you better put us in there Ryan hmm
03:56:48
Madisonokay I also oh wait
03:56:55
Madisonwait Brian love what you're doing here man but seriously you need to chill maybe take a vacation or something and unplug you deserve it one and two it helps keep you goal oriented just want the best for you uh that's why we're
03:57:08
Madisontaking a little break soon for a week the girls outside I thought I heard the girls this is a college town there's a lot of girls here
03:57:25
Shaniathanks guys do you want to read this one uh oh gosh I want a public oh oh I forgot sorry never mind okay
03:57:38
Madisonthis is the fourth show I've watched I enjoy the mix between Christian Chad's non-Christian Chads and the others good stuff cheers
03:57:50
Madison9.99 is fine m-a-d-y-s-e-n-v-u-e
03:58:01
Madisonall right what's our Instagrams are in the description Lego all right what's this talk about 12 flasks tonight well we're talking about
03:58:12
Madisonflakes people that canceled so people that were about to come on the podcast but canceled last minute which was why it was very difficult
03:58:23
Shaniawould you like the after show is so much more relaxed and personal love it this is actually a very nice vibe that you guys have a lot more like intimate conversation that's why I like it like it's hard to talk
03:58:36
Madisonwhen there's people like arguing about stuff that sometimes you're not like informed about so like you don't know what to say or what to do well and that's a lot of the time like I said before I don't usually speak unless I'm
03:58:46
Shaniaspoken to but at the same time a lot of the topics like I just don't feel like I can have an opinion on because it doesn't involve me so I'm always just like that's how I feel too sometimes
03:58:58
Madisonlike yeah like for example politics will be brought up like I'm not like I know my own like political views but I'm not informed enough to like chime in because I can't back myself on that run like I
03:59:11
Shaniahave no right to say that you're wrong for feeling this or anything like that or like even when like you know all the bigger topics also come out I'm like this wasn't dating yeah exactly it
03:59:23
Madisonalways seems to stray to that too yeah and like religion and all that I'm like poof the destiny app was hilarious the Apple grow was way too effed up when she came
03:59:35
Shaniaback from the podcast or from the bathroom was that just a rough episode it was just rough yeah
03:59:45
Madisonfrom start to finish or was it just like a steady decline like yeah it was honestly pretty like interesting though I would say it was very
03:59:57
Shaniaentertaining yeah yeah I mean you can read this one uh Shania do you want to be a traditional wife or more modern that's a tricky one to answer I mean
04:00:08
Shaniaum like marriage and kids I am open to having both of those happen for me however if it doesn't I'm also not going to be heartbroken um so I guess in that case it would make me more modern however if I were to get
04:00:20
Madisonmarried oh and a thousand percent my dream is to be a stay-at-home wife like I'm so excited just like like I want to have children and I want to be able to like focus on my children and give my
04:00:33
Madisonall my attention to them so that's exactly why I want to be a stay-at-home mom and luckily my boyfriend who I plan on getting married to has it set up to
04:00:43
Shaniabe like that so hear that Frankie but that's it yeah and like I said even like a stay-at-home wife like once again kids I'm open to but if it's just me and my partner oh yeah I'll cook for you
04:00:56
MadisonI'll clean for you I'll do anything for you just let me stay home I'm tired Brian can you move that tab that's covering the chat I can't see it completely yeah thank you
04:01:13
Shaniathis one um it would be really nice if you would rate me I'm the guy on the left and I think you're both absolutely beautiful and have and have from what I can see great personalities
04:01:26
Shaniathe guy on the left he got a little big does he have a bigger than a big one seem like a rad dude I honestly can't see you so I'm just gonna assume from
04:01:38
Shaniawhat Brian's saying is that I would probably go on a date with you
04:01:45
Shaniaokay you can read this one too uh you were in the right tonight Brian about the recent drama it will just dissipate hello give it time as you said you didn't agree you weren't really
04:01:57
Shaniafollowing along unrelated guys quit simping for girls shaking my head okay I'm very I've heard this so many times and I don't want to sound like an old
04:02:07
Madisonlady but what the hell is simping simping okay there's like it's I feel like the definition got like very disproportioned like over time but
04:02:17
Madisonsimping is for example like a guy that will like do anything for you like so a good partner but people people think of it as like in a bad way because it's like a week yeah a weakness like oh like
04:02:30
Madisonyou're my little [ __ ] or whatever like I see that's why I don't know especially if the girl doesn't reciprocate that energy that's [ __ ] up yeah it's [ __ ]
04:02:40
Madisonup but necessarily I don't think simping is a bad thing like I feel like everyone think it's a bad thing but I would love to have a son oh
04:02:51
ShaniaSimpsons chat yeah your love we accept all simps here was it Simpkins like I just I like very kind people like yeah if you're gonna like I
04:03:03
Shaniadon't know if you would do anything for me that says a lot that means you love me and truth be told that should be what a relationship is you would literally do anything for each other no matter what
04:03:13
Shaniaso I think that's like if you want to be in a relationship you you kind of gotta be a Sim yeah exactly and in a beer healthier healthier yeah same King's in Queens we love you
04:03:28
Madisonthis one's oh wait is that it no there's more all right a Super Chat option to kick
04:03:38
Madisonthat trigger's bride to spark a vote in the chat if chat votes cast off bye bye still let's Brian be respectful but solves a problem for the stream and viewership
04:03:52
Madisoneveryone in the chat saying like no simping's dumb
04:03:59
Shaniait has a different definition of simping and that's mine so I was about to say can the people in the chat who say that simping is not good can you explain what's happiness for you yeah chat let's
04:04:11
Madisonlet's give a good definition of what simping is yeah we want to know basically below a friend zone full hello a friend is there below friend
04:04:23
Madisonzone like is acquaintance people just think it's like kind of cringy to be like a Sim I don't know let's see simping is admiring and worshiping a woman totally unconditionally never in your mind
04:04:36
Madisonthinks she's thinking she's doing something wrong oh I can see how that's okay yeah I see that yeah I see that that's why I brought up like if the girl's not like reciprocating it then that's fine yeah you shouldn't be a simp
04:04:47
Madisonif no that's the case but but we also said that that's a relationship you both should be simping for each other educate yourselves about Sims I'm sorry
04:04:57
MadisonI don't really know this whole thing oh pain for sex without sex
04:05:06
Shanialike like kind of a sugar daddy but not getting the sugar could be I mean you're only seeing good
04:05:16
Madisonthings y'all okay guess my ethnicity Brian this podcast is great that whale had to go well I don't want that last part's a little rude I don't want to be rude and
04:05:28
Madisonlike I don't know if this is like cultural appropriation but like I will I will get guess your ethnicity but
04:05:38
MadisonPuerto Rican Maybe Mexican Hispanic I don't know I'm trying to go off the name too oh
04:05:49
Shaniacould it be my eyes are honestly that good it could be that could be that I do know the same are you Arabic you
04:06:00
Madisonlook Arabic yeah he looks Arabic also if we're offending you yeah that's why I said like I'm sorry if this is
04:06:08
Shaniaoffensive okay we're gonna move on uh Shania holla at your boy I am trying to have some D1 athletes have you ever played sports or uh I
04:06:21
Madisondanced you danced yeah I was a dancer I used to dance dude absolutely not what kind of like style I did Jazz
04:06:29
Madisonum yeah I did tap ballet and Jazz holy [ __ ] yeah well I did that when I was like four years old for like five months
04:06:41
Madisonif I I honestly would love to like know how to tap dance if anyone's trying to teach me how to tap dance let me know
04:06:51
Madisonuh do I do I get all of the money
04:06:57
Madisonoh 350 what is that oh no
04:07:07
Shaniaokay you can read um Brian we need to get Chris Williamson on the podcast that would be awesome and need more Frank castles when people are
04:07:19
Shanianot listening to you tell them Brian what is Frank Castle I I see people always right didn't they do that uh I don't know what it means though
04:07:34
Madison10 and up please yeah 10 and up for super chats you're a penny off Shane what time is it okay
04:07:45
Madisonit is currently 11 26 p.m in America oh Frank Castle is just kicking someone off oh that's that's what I thought it was but why do they call it Frank Castle
04:07:55
MadisonI honestly don't know okay lingo these days I've seen several times in the chat Madison what's your zodiac sign um honestly I don't believe in zodiac
04:08:06
Madisonsigns but I'm a Sagittarius I'm a Sagittarius when is your birthday November 27th hear
04:08:14
Shaniathat hurt her my venmo was the same as my Instagram uh I'm a Leo my birthday is August 4th
04:08:24
Madisonmy venmo is also open I heard like I don't I don't believe in this stuff but like I heard like Leo's and Sagittariuses get along because they're like fire signs or something I kind of
04:08:37
Madisonfeel them they're very spicy ladies I honestly hate Leos though like I can't stand yeah me too but you're like cool
04:08:48
Shanialike my sister's Elio oh like we're honestly the worst like anyways
04:09:01
Madisonsimping is more so when a man does whatever for a girl sometimes sacrificing his own dignity for a woman who does not reciprocate a simp doesn't really relate to someone in reciprocated
04:09:12
Shaniarelationship okay I get it yeah yeah same thing don't send guys don't samp there should definitely you should not sin be a limit to the simping like don't lose yourself but it's okay to also you
04:09:23
Madisonknow treat your girl right or your boy right we don't judge here yeah exactly stop simping I just said that because I didn't know like the true definition of it sorry
04:09:37
Madisonright Brian I wrote at the start about your super long intro and mods put me in a Timeout I want my five dollar membership feedback if I can be blocked from making a genuine suggestion
04:09:49
Madisonokay thanks thanks Carter thanks for nothing
04:10:00
MadisonBrian I dm'd you way back when you said your channel was going a different direction away from the prank stuff glad to see you're doing well but yes you need a break ladies great job on the after show you rock whole medicine
04:10:13
Madisonthis is my first time doing it I don't know what the hell we're doing originally it was men who were giving women online loads of money for no reason and being led on oh then yeah no
04:10:24
Madisonthat's not good wait wasn't there do you watch like 90 Day Fiance I've seen like a couple clips of that one couple I think there's one on the
04:10:35
Shaniarose and no it was what was his name I'm gonna totally blank on on his name but yeah he he kind of did exactly that so now I'm picturing him as a simp and yeah stop
04:10:47
Madisonsimpy yeah don't sing don't do it guys we were I don't know what sibling was to be honest yeah we just really like the whole treating each other right sort of yes absolutely
04:11:08
MadisonBrian's thoughts on having Tim pool on bricksen yeah he said yeah he's down
04:11:20
Madisonokay what you are asking is for a man who will appreciate you and respect you and treat you good simping is completely different you're absolutely right okay so there's good simping and there's bad
04:11:31
Madisonsimping is simping in general is just like if your woman is not up to par to what you're doing for her and if you're just yeah
04:11:43
Madisonokay we should move on from the simping any who's love the show Brian love kicking back smoking while I watch the show and do my
04:11:55
Madisonwhat is that love from India looking forward to more thanks Mohan very cool profile picture too oh yeah it's very dramatic very mysterious
04:12:10
MadisonFrank Castle is the Punisher he's a Marvel character oh okay we have to read these I mean they're ten
04:12:21
Madisondollars but simping is one-sided desire when a guy gives a woman his all but is unreciprogated keyword un reciprocated when two people give each other the same energy it's not simping
04:12:32
Shaniamakes sense okay don't be a simp yeah never mind everything we said in the past yeah [ __ ] that
04:12:43
MadisonJoyce beninson and Chris Williamson had a great conversation pertaining to the subjects of this podcast sounds good cool cool this one's for you
04:12:56
ShaniaShania who's your dad we have said that so many times tonight so obviously
04:13:06
Madisonokay but also very cool profile picture and like I'm like smacking my face Frank Castle is a Punisher from Marvel
04:13:17
MadisonComics the kick outs our punishment for bad behavior it came from fnf oh yeah you're right because one of them went viral for saying you have to punish bad behavior from girls
04:13:28
Madisongot it there's a lot of these coming in would y'all give Instagram or social or would y'all give up Instagram or social media
04:13:38
Shaniain general for a long-term relationship gonna answer that first um I would be okay with it but I'm also like I like showing off my partner and
04:13:49
Shaniaso you know I would be kind of sad that I couldn't yeah yeah post like sweet things yeah um but yeah if my partner requested it
04:14:00
Madisonor we both did it together or like you they had a good reason then really okay I um same honestly same answer I would
04:14:09
Madisongive it up for a long-term relationship but I do also like flexing my boyfriend he's all over my Instagram I like
04:14:19
Madisonkeeping up with my family and my friends so I feel like without Instagram or social media I wouldn't be able to keep up as much with what they're doing yeah that's true but yeah
04:14:32
Madisonshout out flan life you're the bestest
04:14:41
Shaniathis is how are you um on dating me I'm rich AF I'm Mike Davis isuzu's cousin does that change
04:14:51
Shaniaanything nah JK I'm a combat athlete I'm broke AF LOL but yeah never simp and yeah and prove like there's no tomorrow thanks
04:15:02
Madisongood job T Giggles yeah you do you you're doing great you're doing stay happy stay keep that smile of yours combat athlete that sounds like it's a very violent job too yeah what is that
04:15:13
Shaniaif you want to send another chat to tell us what that is yeah bring it on all right you can read uh what is masculinity to you how does that play
04:15:24
Shaniainto toxic masculinity like honestly for me it's just doing manly things like working hard fixing things protecting providing being the best me exactly and being like
04:15:36
Madisonum being strong enough to I guess like uh what am I trying to say Andrew Tate said something about this but it's
04:15:48
Madisona hard quiz it's like saying what feminine things yeah it's like being strong enough to like put your I don't know I I don't know I watched this video a lot basically I think toxic
04:16:00
Madisonmasculinity is very different from masculinity toxic masculinity I think is it's being a dick yeah being a dick not being a true man
04:16:11
Madisonwho knows how to do their duties and and yeah and yeah you're right you're pretty right on your definition
04:16:22
Madisonwe don't need to expand you nailed it you should bring sneako and zurka on the panel would be great content brickson
04:16:34
MadisonBrian one no comment Frank castles is a Punisher punishing girls oh gotcha cool we Now understand Frank would love to see him get Tom McDonald
04:16:48
Madisonon here that would be awesome if you haven't heard of him I highly recommend listening to his music okay
04:16:58
Madisonif you were financially cared for by a wealthy man who you only saw one month out of the year would that become frustrating and make you want to leave the relationship oh
04:17:07
Madisonpersonally I cannot do long distance long distance sucks and I feel like with coming from personal experience like every time I'm not with my
04:17:18
Shaniaboyfriend I get really upset and Moody yeah so but you said you dated guys that are like far from you right yeah um my I've actually only been in one
04:17:30
Shaniarelationship and he lived about four hours away and so I would only see him on the weekends um and I mean it's it's kind of a good balance because yeah during the weeks it's so hard especially leaving on
04:17:42
ShaniaSunday you just you know you're leaving a piece of your heart back where they are um however I think it's also healthy too to have that distance but I don't know one month out of the
04:17:54
Madisonyear like are are we still allowed to be in contact with them or like I think yeah be in contact but say you can only see them like physically yeah that's
04:18:04
Shaniatough I mean I personally I feel like I would eventually become frustrated I just don't think I could do that yeah like even though I'm financially cared
04:18:14
Madisonfor I'd personally rather would be in a healthy relationship because I just know that would be toxic for me personally I'd rather be in a healthy relationship and have to support myself yeah yeah financially
04:18:30
Madisonall right seems Molina was a snake she comes with Destiny had what seems like a makeable combo then slices up a clip that directs
04:18:42
Madisona ton of heat Brian don't let the stress get to you you got this mads I love you love you oh that's so nice mark
04:18:54
Madisonalso really good there's like been some great profile pictures [Music] Hodge twins would you bring them on their dating advice is hilarious Brian said yes he's awake
04:19:09
Madisonall right maybe taking a break is a good thing for Brian and the audience because I think I'm starting to lose brain cells by continuously watching for so long tonight was pretty good though
04:19:24
MadisonI got some heat brickson do you love steaks I work for a Famous Steak Company and would love to send you some I love steaks steak is my favorite food
04:19:38
MadisonBrian loves steaks DM at whatever on Instagram send us some steaks
04:19:47
Shaniayou want to read uh ladies have you ever had a guy in the friend zone and how did you deal with the situation wait we're like we put them in the friend zone yeah
04:20:00
MadisonI don't think I have I've been in the friend zone but I don't think I've put someone in the friend zone oh I've I have had a guy in the friend zone before and it's
04:20:11
Madisonhonestly really hard to deal with the situation like that but I guess giving them the closure that it's okay to be friends and that even if you tried really hard to be in a relationship it
04:20:22
Madisonwouldn't be pure because you're kind of forcing it upon yourself so I guess just say like really good friends with them be kind my best advice yeah
04:20:37
Shaniaoh um Shania I understand the idea of showing off your man but social media is the devil it was a big reason for my premature Exodus I think from my longtime partner men don't want to be
04:20:50
Shaniashown off they want peace that I mean so like I said before I'm actually huge on privacy and so when I show off my man
04:21:01
Shaniaum it's like little things so it's not like a big old you know projection of like look at this this is my boyfriend girlfriend whatever um my last relationship I that was
04:21:13
Madisonactually something that he brought up when we were on the decline is that I didn't show him off enough yeah I was just gonna say that like uh you said showing off your man social media is the
04:21:25
Madisondevil well I feel like if you want if you want to bring your relationship into social media you have to take that into accountability and you just have to ignore it or block anyone
04:21:37
Madisonthat tries to bash on your relationship and um yeah like she said my boyfriend loves that I show him off people praise me all the time for showing him off so that's
04:21:48
Shaniait that's what my ex actually said that because I wasn't posting him enough I was protecting someone else's feelings which I was like oh that's interesting very interesting
04:21:59
Madisontruth be told I just looked ugly and all of our photos together some girls though like some girls will not like post their man because of things like that which is so sad yeah just don't date him then like I said I'm
04:22:12
Shaniajust I'm private but I still want it to be known that I am off limits if that makes sense oh he changed his picture just so he could see closer can you see me better
04:22:23
Shaniain this picture you got glasses on is that a do-rag I think so I mean you're throwing up a Shaka so that's you must be nice
04:22:35
ShaniaI still can't really see I really don't like to judge on looks because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings here how about instead why don't you tell us since we both love humor why don't you tell us your best joke and we'll rate
04:22:48
Madisonyou off your joke whether we do best joke and best pickup line send it no pickup lines are good then we'll give you a rating we welcome dirty pickup lines as well yes
04:23:05
Brian Atlasbecause I feel like we maybe skipped a whole bunch of super chats um I don't think so you sure hold on let's check what's up welcome I'm back guys wait so
04:23:20
Madisonyou did you sure yep yep oh
04:23:29
Madisonwait where did we leave it this one yeah did you read this one um no Brian you should also try to get Matt Rife on oh that's the comedian my
04:23:41
Madisonboyfriend and I watch him on please have me on dude cracks me up in is Unapologetic in his comedy routine crisis Lord
04:23:51
Madisonum I don't know who that is but I'll check it out uh I have a suggestion of who we should try to get on uh chat does anyone know who shot eBay is do you
04:24:03
Brian Atlasknow who shot eBay is no idea by the way um I think we should boost otherwise we might be here all night we should maybe boost the Super Chat trigger to uh 19
04:24:15
Madison1999 and up uh yeah the difference between you two ladies and most of the other female guests you carry yourself with Grace but do you think it means to be a true
04:24:28
Madisonto purpose woman first of all thank you yeah thank you um uh true to purpose woman I'm just
04:24:39
Madisonguessing like to be a like a woman you know but um to embrace your femininity
04:24:50
Shaniaum I mean I don't once again this is like the masculinity question like it's tough to be like what what makes a woman yeah I mean personally for me it's just
04:25:00
Shaniacalm like never never lose your head just stay chill be peaceful do you have the mouse oh here yeah
04:25:12
Brian Atlasit's a weird Mouse though if you know how to use one of the vertical mouses oh this button here no no no oh that's right click it's the top button so look the mouse is vertical
04:25:24
Brian Atlasso you have to oh [ __ ] oh Jesus now I'm [ __ ] what
04:25:31
Brian Atlaswhat do you think it means to be a true to oh what is that oh true to purpose woman and when I say
04:25:41
Madisonembrace your femininity I don't necessarily mean like feminism but like embracing your Womanhood you're my maternity
04:25:52
Brian Atlasyeah she pressed this one the top one okay I did that didn't I no you pressed the the right click button oh no just look at your Instagram and yes you
04:26:04
Madisoncan see that you are very proud of your boyfriend and that you are very happy and I wish more women would make their Instagram look like that when they are taken so
04:26:18
MadisonI don't know is there lipstick on it no are you wearing lipstick I think this is yeah because I didn't finish my water
04:26:31
MadisonBrian are you gonna do more vetting have more rules restrictions for future pods to cut down the stress of having to deal with kicking people out or do you think it's good for viewership I mean there's only so much vetting you can do
04:26:44
Brian Atlasum I uh you never know you never know I mean a girl who would otherwise seem normal you know um
04:26:56
Brian Atlasyeah there's not much vetting you I mean there's some vetting you can do where it's obvious if they're going to be like a mess a mess but uh you never know um
04:27:08
Brian Atlaswe do we do there's like uh a lot of people are like Brian why do you get so mad at the girls if they do this or they do that or you tell them they're speaking to the mic I mean we do like a 10 minute pre-show instructional
04:27:19
Brian Atlasa panel instruction before the shows and we say uh speaking to the mic uh don't interrupt uh if Brian redirects let them redirect like uh it's a it's a
04:27:30
Brian Atlaslong-winded uh pre-show instructional and uh people just even though I hammered away speaking to the mics like people just
04:27:40
Brian Atlasforget them and I'm OCD too so thank you Joey we're gonna be here all night by the way
04:27:49
Brian Atlasso let's uh mods bump it to uh bump it to uh well it's guys from here on out we're gonna do uh 19.99 and up so that should be the orange
04:28:00
Brian Atlasno we're gonna read all the tens that came in but just um if you got it 10 uh 10 soup chat in 9.99 we're gonna read it but just so we can get out of here pretty soon um
04:28:15
Brian Atlasbe a kick but guess would also yes be a kick but oh kick butt guest okay yeah I actually
04:28:29
Brian Atlasdiscovered the Hodge twins like probably 10 10 years ago um I used to watch their stuff when they were like primarily doing like Fitness and like kind of funny videos I'm trying to they used to have this
04:28:40
Brian Atlasintro that they always did it was really funny like 45 second intro anyways yeah I love the Hodge twins they're super funny
04:28:50
Madisonoh that was a right click yeah good yeah super violent I'm a pro submission Grappler trying to stay humble here but yeah I'm broken people's feet in a Toe Hold sounds like stepping on a tree branch multiple times
04:29:02
Madisonput people to sleep damn he's strong call me oh [ __ ] okay it's going down in the super trucks
04:29:15
Madisonwait was he the one that said the D1 athlete thing no that was another one no somebody else okay we told him he had a nice smile and everything I remember that
04:29:24
Madisonwould you choose six pack or dad bod six packs so now Shania is for sure a dad check I mean I'm cool with anything that's you know what about you Maddie
04:29:35
Madisonevent I I right now I would choose a six-pack but I wouldn't be I wouldn't be opposed to a dad bod because eventually eventually Frankie's gonna have a dad Bob don't you dare say that Frankie's
04:29:46
Madisongonna be shredded until he's 70. exactly that's shredded okay all right yo we had the same birthday ladies would you prefer to live in the mountains or
04:29:58
Shaniathe beach wait I think hello oh wait I wasn't here so I was like why are you calling me ladies hello wait you look really familiar I think I've seen you on Instagram oh [ __ ] Beach
04:30:09
Shaniait's going down in the soup chats for Shania I've uh I've stalked your page um
04:30:18
MadisonBeach Brian since Michael Knowles did such a great job giving his Catholic perspective to the of girls would you like a Mormon perspective on the show let me know
04:30:27
Brian Atlasyeah it could be interesting to uh have somebody who's Mormon come on the show um the thing is those were we get like a hundred
04:30:39
Brian Atlaswell over 100 DMS a week from guys wanting to be on the show so just due to the volume of requests we get and also I stacked the panels with girls so like if I do have a guy on the
04:30:51
Brian Atlasshow it's either going to be someone who's notable or like the thing is is that I've had experiences where we used to bring on just guys more frequently
04:31:01
Brian Atlasbut what I've found is is that a lot of guys will talk a big game and they'll say Brian put me on the
04:31:10
Brian Atlasshow I'll show these girls uh I'm such a good debater I'm like you know I know how to argue and then they come on the show and then they're sitting in front of eight
04:31:23
Brian Atlasgirls some of which are hardcore feminists and the lights are on the cameras are on there's 10 000 people watching the show oh [ __ ] still donated 100. missed the
04:31:35
TTS/Miscshow today I hope you guys are well and I keep hearing Brianne needs a vacation I hope there's nothing serious Weighing on your mind much love guys hey Victor
04:31:46
Brian Atlasman uh I think I saw your I don't know if you messaged me on Instagram or what but thank you man really appreciate it uh thank you for that uh really generous TTS yeah oh reminder TTS is I maybe I
04:31:57
Brian Atlasshould put that in the description TTS we lowered it to uh 99 if anyone's interested uh just to wrap up on the other one though um if you could pull that one back up if you scroll up just a bit
04:32:09
Brian Atlasyeah uh so what was I saying um oh yeah we get guys who say oh I'll do great on the show and then They Don't Really they they just they choke they just sit there
04:32:22
Brian Atlasum I mean not to throw Jake under the bus he requested to be on the show nice guy um but he wasn't really able to insert himself
04:32:36
Brian Atlasinto the conversation and we tell people before the show a lot of people are like oh give other people an opportunity to speak but I we tell people hey look there's a tendency for one or two people to be conversationally dominant and I
04:32:47
Brian Atlasexplicitly instruct them if you want to speak you need to either do a hand raise or try to insert yourself into the conversation I'm too
04:32:56
Brian Atlasbusy trying to handle super chats be conscious of time and all these there's like so many moving parts and then I'm also trying to listen to the
04:33:07
Brian Atlasconversation and think of my own rebuttals or arguments so it's very difficult for me to be multitasking all these things so I'd tell people like before the show very explicitly insert
04:33:18
Brian Atlasyourself or do a hand raise and what ends up happening is a lot of people come on the show and then they just they're not able to insert themselves um and look it's tough when there's really dominant speakers especially if
04:33:32
Brian Atlasyou're more soft-spoken I consider myself spoken I have the privilege of being the host so I'm kind of in a position where I'm a bit more capable of just interrupting and being like
04:33:43
Brian Atlasyou know inserting myself but um and I've done 70 plus of these but uh yeah a lot of guys say hey let me on the show and then they come and they just [ __ ] sit there and they don't there's been a lot of guys who have come
04:33:55
Brian Atlason the show who've either added nothing or actually been a detriment so I'm very selective with the male guests I I basically want a guy who
04:34:05
Brian Atlasyou you need to basically have proven track record of being a capable speaker and debater um I'm willing to put you on if you send me videos but then the other that we
04:34:17
Brian Atlashave other concerns too we now have security concerns because of the controversial nature of the podcast I have to be considerate of who I'm letting into the studio we run a very tight ship we nobody's allowed behind
04:34:29
Brian Atlasthe scenes um during the show um I'm very cautious of who I led into the studio and then it's just a matter of volume I'm kind of rambling here we
04:34:41
Brian Atlasjust have way too many uh people wanting to be on the show so yeah sorry for the long-winded
04:34:52
Madisonwhat's your ideal male body type how important is it that your boyfriend meets your ideal honestly I've dated or I wouldn't say dated but been with very
04:35:04
Madisonof various amount of body types I've dated skinny men a little bit of larger men
04:35:12
Brian Atlasjust a reminder 1990 1999 and up Shania what 300 pounds plus is your type
04:35:19
Shaniano okay I like I don't truthfully I do not care so that's that you can be a little fluffy you can be super fit you could be anything as long as you're
04:35:32
Madisonfinding sure next one Brian we love you we really do and welcome back but this is Maddie's at the
04:35:42
Madisonshow now word yeah Maddie should just host the show yeah we should do this like every every yeah I think I'd like to do that and just have like at like one or two of the
04:35:54
Madisonguests yeah the cool guests I guess yeah the cool guys you don't get a big hand ladies would you give up City Life to move to the countryside to have a slow
04:36:06
Madisonand peaceful lifestyle if your partner was providing everything absolutely yes yeah who said I who said I hated the countryside I feel like that's the dream
04:36:16
Shanianow yeah that's the American dream hey you want to read this one hmm me yeah uh
04:36:27
Shaniamen and women view each other as status symbols as them is the modern day Ballroom men and women want their significant others to be proud of them
04:36:37
Shaniaand show them off discretion in SM oh on social media required though what's SM social media oh social media
04:36:47
Brian Atlasthank you Blair just Spam it every few every minute or something oh you skipped the yeah thing for the
04:36:56
Brian AtlasCanadian 55-man merci beaucoup uh Brian this is for you to go out tomorrow and just grab some lunch and a drink I can see how stressed you are but you need to persevere your show will help a lot of men and women in the
04:37:10
Brian Atlasfuture yeah it's been pretty stressful Honestly though it's so [ __ ] unfortunate like back in May in March I tweaked my neck and
04:37:21
Brian Atlasthe show is already stressful to begin with but like when you're in physical I mean I've had chronic pain issues for a while but like I I've had the worst neck pain flare up
04:37:31
Brian Atlasfor two months basically it's really bad it's bad like I'm in pain right now um and I took some I took like a Tylenol before the show but I've been icing
04:37:43
Brian Atlasum so uh if it wasn't for my neck pain I would I don't think I would be I think I would be able to better
04:37:54
Brian Atlastolerate the stress of the show if I wasn't in just constant chronic pain but I think when you're in physical pain it just like it lowers your threshold
04:38:05
Brian Atlasto like we're just I I'm my my what's the term for it I'm like my fuse is short or something so just
04:38:16
Brian Atlaslike little little stressors that wouldn't bother me normally or bother a normal person like it's just oh no I don't know it's kind of like for
04:38:27
Brian Atlasexample like let's say you have let's say you could deal with one life stressor that you know would otherwise be tolerable but if you
04:38:38
Brian Atlasstart like okay you're you're having Financial issues then you're having health issues and then you're having interpersonal issues you're having issues with your family issues with your relationship it just starts piling up
04:38:50
Brian Atlasand it just it really lowers your threshold so um I need to meditate or some [ __ ] but yeah I've been pretty irritable um it's something I need to work on but
04:39:01
Brian AtlasI don't want to cop out like oh I don't want to use my chronic pain issues as a cop-out but I don't know if any of you have dealt with physical like I would
04:39:14
Brian Atlasphysical pain is like a whole nother Beast I don't know if any of you have had that experience but um I think I can handle like emotional pain but like
04:39:25
MadisonI don't know physical pain is uh is Pretty Tough anyways I'm being I'm being you're trauma dumping right now I'm kidding yeah I'm being I'm being a
04:39:34
Madisonuh what's what's the word uh a Debbie Downer yeah all right thank you Sky Patrol there's not enough space for my best joke on here and I don't believe in pickle lines
04:39:47
Madisonjust try to be real Brian there's enough space for your best joke come on just from that we're not gonna go on that date I'm sorry yeah sorry we have to turn it down all right Stephen Crowder would be
04:39:59
Madisoninteresting to have on the show but not sure it would be a good idea if you want to stay on good terms with the DW hello yeah I guess they're in the beef I don't think it would be uh I mean if I hosted him I don't think
04:40:13
Brian Atlasdaily wire is pretty professional like it's not I don't think it would be an issue I don't think Steven Crowder would come though I think he has um kind of enough on his plate as it is right now but I mean I'd love to have
04:40:24
Brian Atlashim on he's reacted to uh one of our videos so thank you man
04:40:35
Shaniaum but yeah I've won multiple Grappling Championships on the East Coast performed live on Flow grappling and YouTube among others was in a camp for
04:40:45
ShaniaMMA fight got a concussion don't want CTE so grappling's the move long term LOL I still don't know what that is that's
04:40:56
Brian Atlasnice yo uh Giggles did you wrestle in high school are you from the U.S because I feel like a lot of people who like wrestle in high school end up going into Jiu Jitsu and MMA and stuff
04:41:08
MadisonI wrestled in high school Common Ground yeah I wrestled in high school yeah Brixton when is Tasha coming back also try to get Hannah Claire Bernal from Tim
04:41:19
Brian Atlascast on I think Mary oh Natasha uh I think for the Canadian room I appreciate it uh I'm not sure who Hannah is but I'll check her out uh I don't know if Natasha's coming back
04:41:33
Brian Atlasum I think I called her in passing like in one of our live streams of pikmi um
04:41:42
Brian Atlasand look I wasn't I wasn't like I [ __ ] she's gonna be mad at me for even mentioning that but look I called her a pygmy I I don't dislike Natasha just
04:41:56
Brian Atlasyou know whatever okay let's move on she's probably gonna call me up and be all pissed I sent message to instant about steaks but oh yeah thank you man appreciate it
04:42:06
Madisonis it filet mignon I could cook us a really nice steak I'm a great let's do a cooking are you yeah I have a stove over there yeah I cooked
04:42:17
Brian Atlasevery night for dinner for that would be like the most gangster [ __ ] like after this like right before the stream ends during the after show we have you uh we move the camera we move that camera and we have you like cooking steak and then
04:42:30
Madisonwe eat some steak let's see what I had for dinner I cooked myself chicken and rice oh okay wow lucky Frankie okay um oh here's he's back here we go I guess a
04:42:41
Madisongood pickup line would be for me if you'd like to date a man who will love you under you and cherish you I'll be sitting over here what that's gonna be a hard pass for me
04:42:53
Brian Atlasit was always going to be passed I'm sorry I appreciate it I if I was if I went that way
04:43:03
Madisonsaying you're a handsome man great beard right I'm very serious C1 athlete children it's simply Financial move Jake had nothing productive to say very disappointing
04:43:15
Brian Atlasyo Victor thank you man by the way did they blow up your uh did they blow up your Instagram when we uh showed your showed your Instagram wait that that Center yeah that's Victor
04:43:27
Brian Atlasthe number one D the Big D ude thank you man appreciate all the support you've shown car
04:43:36
MadisonBugatti no I'd like a Lamborghini with the suicide doors that's cool I could see you driving that
04:43:47
ShaniaI just want like a like a mom Escalade a mom Escalade I want a 65 Mustang and
04:43:55
Brian Atlasbaby pink that's so fitting yeah I'd like a McLaren would be good Lamborghini I'm not a flashy guy though I mean I still drive I buy the Toyota in
04:44:08
Brian Atlas2013 that you know uh twenty thousand dollar something like that maybe it's 25k Toyota still drive it I'm
04:44:19
Brian Atlasnot I'm not a flashy dude funny but it's only ten dollars go ahead we'll just just pull it up why not hell yeah thank you man thank you for the Australian Town appreciate it
04:44:31
Madisonokay been getting a lot of entertainment out of the shows lately you're the go hey thanks Brian what server faction do you play on classic I'm a light main OG oh [ __ ] uh first off
04:44:43
Brian AtlasShania we need to hear the goat noise do it
04:44:49
Brian Atlasfor me oh goat noise my bad okay whatever um don't goats make the same noise yeah it's like me or something like that can you make it alpaca noise what do
04:45:02
Brian Atlasthey don't they just scream they literally just scream or do they spit what noises do llamas make it's either what Does the Fox Say oh
04:45:14
Brian Atlasgoat scream um oh yeah so I I played so I played world of art Warcraft uh during vanilla
04:45:25
Brian Atlasthis was back in like 2005. I played a little bit during TBC I played a little bit during cada but like I never was serious about it when I was younger but
04:45:34
Brian Atlasthen like I always preferred vanilla and then I stopped after cata basically and then I came back for classic and I was like hardcore with it joins a hardcore raiding Guild had 460s a mage a
04:45:47
Brian Atlaswarlock a warrior a rogue rogue Mane Warrior alt and then I had the Mage in warlock Alt um I was on I don't know if I want to reveal the server I was on I only I quit before aq40 people are liking the chat
04:46:00
Brian Atlaswith the [ __ ] what is he talking about I am so these girls over here like what the [ __ ] is he talking about um elevator music turn on in my mind I played I played horde you know what's funny I was initially Gonna Roll on
04:46:10
Brian Atlaswhite Mane or maybe I was gonna roll on Fairbanks but like my name was taken that I wanted so I went on a like a medium pop realm which was really good towards the
04:46:22
Brian Atlasbeginning of uh it had a pretty good balance it was lower pop um and my guild I was in like the top rating Guild
04:46:31
Brian Atlasand uh but uh it was loot Council and the loot Council was corrupt but we were like speed running like we were top 10 horde guilds in North America
04:46:44
Brian Atlasum yeah and my 60 Warrior was named does it [ __ ] matter it was named Brian that's all I'll say um yeah okay the next one
04:46:59
Madisonmake dudes who want to be in the show ain't up put down one thousand dollars if they're a great guests who contribute to get their who contribute they get their cash
04:47:10
Madisonback if they blow you keep the money let chat or Maddie decide if they sucked um honestly I mean I to me it's just I don't I don't wanna
04:47:22
Brian AtlasI'd probably honestly make someone pay like 10K for a seat at this point I'm just Chase is a good host and then there's like content creators I can bring on that
04:47:32
Brian Atlaswould be good co-hosts but back when we were doing 300 live viewers um I was more open to like just bringing on
04:47:44
Brian Atlasrandom guys but now there's just a lot more on the line a lot more eyeballs I'm not ready I'm not really prepared to like Risk a dead seat as I call it uh
04:47:55
Brian Atlasfor the chance that the guys may be good so yeah um I mean yeah thank you though appreciate the uh Super Chat man
04:48:07
Madisonno I didn't say she should host the show remember I said we love you they're talking about you Brian oh honestly go ahead you honestly do a fantastic job and nobody can replace you here but
04:48:18
Brian AtlasMaddie's a great after show co-host oh yeah no I didn't take it and I didn't take it in a bad way yeah and I think you did say after show co-host yeah Maddie's the goat Maddie's the Goat Sim
04:48:30
Madisonfor Maddie Squad don't say I say we just found out that don't be sin
04:48:38
Madisonexplanation on the stressors your chronic pain is not a cop-out I lost my leg three years ago and I'm trying to persevere and become a high value man even with the pain 24 7 pain love your show hashtag based
04:48:50
Brian Atlashey Sky Patrol uh drowns thank you for the uh Canadian merci beaucoup uh sorry to hear about your leg holy [ __ ] man um three years ago can you tell us what
04:49:01
Brian Atlashappened like what how did you was there a car accident something else but uh uh do you get by the way do you get Phantom limb pain because you lost your leg where by the way is it below the
04:49:12
Brian Atlasknee above the knee amputation um yeah man that's I mean I I have pretty bad neck pain but I know there's people who have it way worse
04:49:23
Brian Atlasthan than me and they still persist um so good for you man for continuing to persevere um and uh yeah I mean that's a
04:49:36
Brian Atlasto lose your leg is just uh hold on leave it up for a sec I just wanna um that's that's pretty [ __ ] major man um and I've heard um it's it's interesting though with
04:49:47
Brian Atlaswith uh people who have amputations um there's uh and this is kind of I don't want to get too far into this topic but there's this concept where I think there's a
04:49:59
Brian Atlaspsychosomatic component of chronic pain like especially for neck pain well especially for back pain and um
04:50:08
Brian AtlasI think that a lot of pain is can be in the mind and like rewiring your neural circuitry um I mean a lot of people report after
04:50:19
Brian Atlashaving a major life stressor event that they get they all of a sudden have start having chronic back pain and I think that's a component of my pain I do have a structural issue I have a fracture in
04:50:30
Brian Atlasmy L5 S1 so I have what's called a spondylolisthesis basically the vertebrae if I'm here the vertebrae for uh I have