HEATED Debate! 3 Girls KICKED OFF (Hat Trick) | Dating Talk #77

Date: 2023-05-24

Duration: 5h 33m

Guests

Brian Atlas

VVictoria (DT77)>

JJessica (DT77)>

SShania (DT77)>

MMadison (DT77)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Jake/Shania (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_02Jessica(guest)

SPEAKER_03Madison(host)

SPEAKER_04Liv Margray(guest)

SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_08Jamie(guest)

SPEAKER_10Victoria (Vicky)(guest)

SPEAKER_11Jules(guest)

SPEAKER_12Shania(guest)

Key Moments

OtherShania reveals her father is Robin Crosby, guitarist of Ratt (80s hair metal band). Brian shows photos on screen.

“Robin Crosby okay you can just Google it okay all right”

QuoteLiv Margray admits to cheating on her first boyfriend (5-year relationship) when her boyfriend discovered texts on her iPad.

“he hacked my iPad and literally like broke my iPad”

ControversyVicky refuses to accept Brian's redirect away from transgender debate, insisting on continuing the discussion. Brian tells her to leave.

“you can either accept that or you can leave your choice”

OtherTriple kickoff (hat trick): Vicky asked to leave after refusing to drop transgender topic; Jules exits in solidarity; Madison briefly exits. Brian calls it a hat trick.

“okay this whole Squad leaving or what we got a whole Squad trick then I'm sorry”

OtherJules leaves show in solidarity with Vicky after Vicky is asked to leave.

“see ya I'm gonna get up too but thank you for having me”

QuoteBrian discloses 12 guests flaked on show day and vents about ongoing podcast stress, death threats, and hit pieces.

“we had 12 flakes today that's a [__] record”

ControversyBrian disavows statement made by male guest on previous show (Destiny stream) about enduring abusive relationships; clarifies his silence was not a cosign.

“let me emphatically say now that I disavowed the stance that was taken”

Topics Discussed

Guest introductions & announcements

Guests introduce themselves: name, age, occupation. Show announcements and tech check.

Relationship statuses & dating history

Guests share current relationship status and longest relationships. Liv discusses 5-year relationship that ended after cheating.

Red/green flags by job and degree

Discussion of red and green flag jobs/degrees for dating. Brian lists flight attendants, HR, nurses, OnlyFans as red flags. STEM as green flag.

Who should pay on the first date

Debate over whether men, women, or whoever asks should pay on first dates.

Body positivity and gendered insults

Discussion of 'small dick energy' phrase, body positivity double standards.

Situationships and modern dating apps

Dating apps, disposability culture, situationships, and fear of commitment.

Feminism: definitions and perspectives

Debate on feminism's meaning across the panel. Jamie vs Jules vs Vicky. Feminism's impact on family structure and women's roles.

Stay-at-home mothers and career women

Discussion of women in the workforce vs. stay-at-home roles. Jamie argues feminism pressures women into unfulfilling careers.

Transgender debate and triple kickoff

Heated debate on transgender ideology. Jamie (anti) vs Vicky (pro). Vicky refuses to accept Brian's redirect; kicked off. Jules leaves in solidarity. Third guest also exits. Brian calls it a 'hat trick'.

After-show: post-kickoff debrief

After-show with Madison and Shania. Recap of kicked-off guests. Brian discusses 12 flakes, ongoing podcast drama, stress. Discussion of show logistics and future guests.

Transcript

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Juleshello my name is Jules thank you so much for having me on I'm 22 years old and I'm currently a League bartender and server

Liv Margrayall right welcome my name is Liv margray I'm 22 years old and I'm an entrepreneur entrepreneur what uh what do you mean um so I have a media company called

Liv Margrayculture stigma I also have a Cosmetics company called Margaret cosmetics okay do you do any content creation yeah I do a lot of social media and modeling

Brian Atlasokay off you know you can find out somewhere so yes you also do it I do okay have you done traditional adult content or just of

Victoria (Vicky)what do you mean oh like corn oh no no okay all right hi um Vicky or Victoria or Victoria um 22 and

Victoria (Vicky)I'm currently a creative director slash like everything I love like dipping my foot and everything student yeah slash student I'm studying creative Direction two at um Art Center College of design in Pasadena

Jessicarock and roll what about you uh my name is Jessica and I'm a student at UCLA and I'm studying gender studies

Brian Atlaswait hold on age again 20 sorry 20 and you study gender studies yes I do okay what's your political orientation I'm actually moderate right-leaning

Jessicamoderate right-leaning and you study gender I was originally when I started out kind of studying it I was way more

Brian Atlasliberal and then kind of changed along the way yeah oh um okay we'll get into that in just a sec hey um by the way I think Chad are we streaming in 4k I tested something

Brian Atlasout with a new computer um can you guys let me know if the frame rate looks okay if the audio's sounds okay in terms of there's not like a

Brian Atlasdesync or if our oh wait hello holy [ __ ] uh twitch hello is the bitrate scuffed on Twitch hold on I'll pull it up

Brian Atlasum chat on YouTube first off are you able to load it in 4k um are you able to load the stream in 4k

Brian Atlasguys and do you have oh 1440 only 1440 oh [ __ ] okay the bit rate is scuffed apparently on Twitch 2k not 4K that's fine

Brian Atlasum does it look good though on YouTube 1440 only 2K okay um

Brian Atlaswhat's up don't later it's later on in the show [ __ ] yeah um okay and then twitch hold on let me pull up

Jake/Shania (mixed)we'll continue introducing yourself please and I'm just gonna check in on this but hi I'm Shania I'm 25 and I work for a hotel hi uh thank you so much for having me my

Jake/Shania (mixed)name is Jake I'm 25 years old I own a swimwear brand I also run a community called irrational optimism so shout out to all my iOS that are watching and I also do sales for one of my best friend's company it's called launch

Jamiesocials and shout out to launch socials which my reminder you're 25 right yep okay what about you hi I'm Jamie I'm 25 years old and I run a conservative

Jamiewomen's magazine where we talk about fashion politics and culture and it's called the conservator and I'm the founder and CEO don't you have some presence in media too yeah like you because I've your

Brian AtlasInstagram like you're on Fox news or are you a I used to work for fox you used to be a correspondent or what was your I was an associate editor associate editor Fox News okay did you have airtime though or were you

Madisonmore behind the scenes more behind the scenes okay gotcha gotcha Madison what about you hello my name is Madison I'm what's your nickname uh I was just gonna get to that okay also known as

Brian AtlasArch Archduke Francis douche all right your name's Arch douche from now on um Duke

Madisongo ahead you're 18. you keep cutting me off I'm 18 I'm a student at sbcc studying accounting rock and roll okay cool um so

Brian Atlaswe're gonna go around the table once more what is your current relationship status or are you single are you in the situationship friends with benefits are you in a relationship engaged are

Brian Atlasyou in a polycule whatever it may be go ahead oh Andrew did I say Andrew longest relationship go ahead I'm in a serious relationship right now and my longest relationship

Brian Atlaswas about nine months that's not your current relationship though no how long is have you been dating this current six months person

Brian Atlasmale female male male okay six okay cool what about you married to the money uh my longest relationship was five years

Brian Atlasso you're you're single money so you're single you're married to the money yeah so you're saying are you married to the money you're in a relationship with the money yes okay um

Liv Margraydoes it please you yeah like romantically not all the way everything you know mentally physically emotionally when's the last time you

Brian Atlaswere on a date oh not with money I guess oh like a few days ago was it with the money or was it with like a human being with both really

Brian Atlaswith the money you were so the guy paid for the date yes wait really yeah so it's like a sugar baby sugar what do you what do you mean he paid you money to go

Brian Atlason a date oh no I thought you're just saying like regular date like regularly okay but he paid for the day I mean should men pay for the date yes well we'll get into that later on okay yeah um

Brian AtlasSo you you're married to the money but you were on a date a few days ago was it but that's not like a relationship no no what is it a date was it the first date

Liv Margrayjust one day and that's it is there going to be a second date no it was that bad was it bad it wasn't that bad but it was okay

Brian Atlasuh and was it was it with a guy was it with a girl it was a guy it was a dude okay it's 2023 you can't wait you can't assume anymore right you're right okay

Brian Atlasum so how many dates a week are you going on would you say I've only been like three days in my life three dates in your life like with not boyfriends okay so with

Brian Atlasboyfriends but what about like because what about like just meeting someone at the party or you know well I consider it date like when you someone's like hey I'm gonna

Liv Margraytake you on out to dinner and you're not like together and then you go to dinner and have a date or like or like the park or whatever you know okay I consider that a date but you are married to the money the money and you said your

Brian Atlaslongest relationship was what again five years oh five years and you're 22. yeah so was that in preschool or what what

Liv Margraylike oh my God no I was like 15. so 15 to 20. yeah okay um why did he dump you

Liv Margrayum well actually I was young and I cheated on him but I was young but he dumped you he dumped me but then he wanted me back but I was like no after you cheated on yes okay

Brian Atlasyeah and this is so this is a five-year relationship that ended up when you were 20. um you cheated on him just once yes that yes was a little suspect

Liv Margrayyes was it with did you cheat like with just one dude or were they like it was with one guy but like obviously with that one guy it was like I kind of had like two boyfriends at one time so was your

Liv Margrayyou had he was the side piece well I had my boyfriend and then another guy yeah the other guy was the side chick yeah but it was because well I was with my main boyfriend but like you know things weren't going well okay

Liv Margrayyeah things weren't going well you know what I mean so no excuse I don't condone in cheating never would do it again but I was young and he like took my virginity and everything you know what I mean so it was like we were like you know and then things happened you know so this was

Brian Atlaslike a high school relationship yeah basically it was like my first you know or did you drop out of Junior what no okay you were you did go to high school yes okay okay did you go to college by the way I forgot to yes I'm in college

Brian Atlasoh you're currently in college okay what are you studying um pre-law pre-law you want to be a lawyer possibly possibly or a

Liv Margraywhat else can you do with if you're pre-law I mean what well right now yes you don't have to go because the thing is I don't know if I'm gonna like use the degree so like I'm I'm doing it

Brian Atlasbut I don't know if I'm going to keep doing it you know right you're getting the prerequisites yeah yeah yeah okay so is that the is that the major though

Brian Atlaspre-law is that what it's called yeah so you get your degree in pre-law okay and then if if you're so inclined you could go to law school but okay so let's

Brian Atlasget back to your you your five-year relationship so you cheat on him was it just like was the writing on the wall kind of you know what do you mean was it writing on the wall

Liv Margrayuh was the writing on the wall for the uh relationship um well I mean basically he found out and then he broke up with me and then he wanted to get back together but it didn't work out okay hold on just one

Liv Margraysec Eric can you uh put the audio on please it's muted right now sorry go ahead but it didn't work out because he couldn't trust him anymore obviously and also I didn't want to do that to him because I feel like we kind

Liv Margrayof grew apart so it was more like you know it was my first relationship like type thing and we kind of were just like growing apart so it wasn't working anyway but I was like afraid to leave at the time you know because I was like Oh My First Love type thing but it wasn't

Brian Atlaslike worked out did he like cheap back on you or no no you don't know okay but you cheated on him did he discover it or did he tell him he discovered it he

Brian Atlasdiscovered it like he walked in no oh my God and saw him no no he hacked my iPad he hacked your eyes don't use your iPad I got two of those I

Liv Margraygotta be careful didn't you see like text with him yeah he hiked my iPad and literally like broke my iPad he freaked out yes I was sleeping and he like woke me up and like literally broke my iPad

Liv Margrayyeah but he was like so sad about it and stuff and I felt really bad so did he punch a hole in the wall no but he was like ah never mind I'm not talking about it did he know the other guy you cheated on him with

Madisonanswer were they friends do it no I would not wait Brothers what Step Brothers wait pause it

Liv Margraywas it no I'm kidding uh was it actually his dad no no no you can be honest it was his dad that's good looking it wasn't his dad oh my god oh you hooked up with the dad she

Brian Atlasdid too I could have you got with the dad okay got it okay this is quite a love triangle you guys have going on here um so okay um so I don't condone a cheating at the end of the day and I would never do it again

Brian Atlasit was a one-time thing I had another boyfriend never cheated on him um but but then you said he wanted to get back with you yes to take him back no I didn't

Liv Margraythat's an that's an L as a dude to get cheated on and then yeah break up with your girlfriend and ask to get back right change because he actually he came to me he's like I realized like I wasn't treating you the right way like I want to treat you the

Liv Margrayright way and like that's why you did that to me type thing which I mean it's not I mean I don't condone in cheating like I said there's no excuse to what I did but I mean obviously he wasn't treating me the right way so kind of good times okay

Brian Atlasmaybe we'll come back to that later um what about you current uh relationship status longest word oh just closer to the mic I'm like I'm like single I guess but I'm not like looking for anyone

Victoria (Vicky)single you guess so is there

Victoria (Vicky)yeah clearly amen wait so you're claimed yes by a dude um I belong to myself period kinda I

Brian Atlasdon't know I feel like you're married to yourself yeah I've heard of people that marry themselves I'm here for that is that a

Brian Atlasthing there was like some stories really 100 what I need to know more it seems like a very famous thing but um so is there currently any guy in the picture like a guy you've recently been on a

Victoria (Vicky)couple dates with or anything I like that I have left four and that I've Loved for me for me just dates are fun but like I'm

Brian Atlasso focused on school it's like I don't even give it the time you have people in your life who you have love for and they have love for you what do you what does that mean it's just like you know like

Victoria (Vicky)I'm busy and I push everyone away and I'm just like not invested in like getting into a relationship but like if I was going to I have people that I might consider dating

Victoria (Vicky)so you got some sneaky links no it's not a sneaky Lane I mean I'm celibate as [ __ ] you're celibate as

Victoria (Vicky)[ __ ] yeah yeah well it's been like a fortnight no I just 14 days 14 days you're celibate as [ __ ] what

Brian Atlaswhen's the last time you uh I'm not do I have to answer that well I mean you said yourself how long have you been celibate how about that my whole life huh you've been celibate your whole life

Victoria (Vicky)cap is it true you're friends with her I actually know the truth what's happening just say it's a that's a good thing it's just it's I don't know I'm just not interested in anyone right now it's not that long wait so what I

Victoria (Vicky)mean that's not my business that's why I love you but it's a good it's a good answer let me see if you want you want me to tell them no no no later than me and you could break myself yeah okay because you

Victoria (Vicky)know you better for me and like you're like we love you feeling me wait so okay you're you're celibate question mark yeah I guess so I'm just not interested in anyone have you ever had a period of

Victoria (Vicky)non-celibacy that's such a well-worded question yeah the gears are turning I'm gonna drag it out um why can't I just be someone who's

Brian Atlaslike doesn't who can't answer yeah I've had periods of non-celibacy I guess okay so you're not so you've you have

Brian Atlashad sex at least once yeah at least once at least once at least once at least one time yeah okay at least once okay well you were kind of angling there too you

Brian Atlaswere kind of angling there to it sounded like you were gonna try to say you were a virgin but I'd love to be a virgin but alas that is not the case well clearly because you've already said

Brian Atlasyou're not I feel like I'm gonna answer this question on the contingency so okay you're look are you you said you're celibate as [ __ ] right yeah how long have you been celibate

Brian AtlasI was gonna answer that question one day it's kind of long don't answer it kind of long kind of long like it's a

Victoria (Vicky)good thing like oh the the period of her celibacy was kind of long you know what three weeks that's longer than three weeks

Brian Atlasthe LA I think the longer the better so I mean it like it's not I don't think it's embarrassing for you to be like yeah it's been [ __ ]

Brian Atlasfour score in seven years I don't know 24 scoring seven years ago is

Brian Atlasmany full moons chat is score 10 in any case so uh what like it's been a year how long just answer the question please so I can move it along

Brian Atlasokay all right whatever okay what about you for that thank you uh I've been in a relationship for two years now okay two-year relationship all right

Brian Atlaswhat about you Shania I'm single and my longest relationship was roughly seven months seven months oh by the way guys Eric can you find the photo of her dad

Brian Atlasher dad's a famous rock star musician wait before because there's there's some uh you give that energy for sure yeah there's like my name is you're gonna have to you have to Google it I'm pretty

Brian Atlassure or wait actually it might be in one of the folders let me I'll look for you really quick but um guys if you want to guess in the chat some of you might already know um 80s hair metal band right

Shaniasure if you sing the song we don't have to pull up a photo oh but I'm not the musician in the round there

Brian Atlaswho's her dad wait don't say me by the way okay that was corny um Eric can you find a picture I'm gonna have to like I'm gonna have to tell you yeah I'm

Brian Atlasgonna have to wait Eric Eric do you remember how to do a full mute I'll I'll say it to you mute it yeah just press it press the button real quick do a few

Brian Atlasbreak yeah Robin Crosby okay you can just Google it okay all right did you guys hear that hopefully though

Brian Atlasthis picture better be worth it yo is our twitch scuffed oh video is fine on Twitch hey um twitch mods can you just in our uh twitch chat can you guys tell me if uh

Brian Atlasif there's any uh dropped frames on Twitch or is the video okay just keep me a prize to that and then uh mods on YouTube is the frame rate okay is it is it all good

Brian Atlasum wait hello Sydney huh okay wait so single seven months okay we'll keep moving while we uh while you find that did you find that like blue photo with

Brian Atlasthe guitar oh oh you don't come on bro does he look pretty in it he always looks

Brian Atlasoh wow what about the red background one shania's dad was a legit Giga Chad

Brian Atlasis okay after you find find a photo of Giga chat too um YouTube chat is acting weird hello um Eric why don't you go ahead and pull

Brian Atlasit up why not yeah that's fun oh my gosh wow it's such a low-res potato photo dude

Brian Atlaswhat about the purple purple one scroll down you play instruments scroll down scroll down scroll down

Brian Atlasthere you go

Shaniawhat the [ __ ] ing wait is there

Brian Atlashow tall are you Shania by the way I am six foot two six foot two and her dad was pretty taunted you model is this is this cringe I feel bad bro Robin with two B's hello did you

Brian Atlasever graduate college Eric hello I'm teasing you um oh it is [ __ ] okay oh yeah that's right I'm gonna call it Dropout then [ __ ] okay um

Brian Atlasand then gigachad find a photo of Giga Chad it's the can chat we have a giga chat emote can chat just Spam gigachat in the chat please

Brian Atlasspam yeah that's God that's his name click click the one where it's Giga Chad it's pretty dark photo hey I love

Brian AtlasCrimson Jesus oh my God Brian spam Giga chat in the chat okay my dad was a little fluffier than him

Brian Atlasis that your type though kick a Chad you're telling me Giga Chad slides into your DMs and you're not going for it hell no oh no absolutely not all right if you say so

Jake/Shania (mixed)um what about you your uh relationship status yeah relationship I'm single uh my longest relationship was about like two years yeah single two years okay Eric can you adjust the exposure on the camera go

Jamieahead uh your status so I'm married and I've been married for one and a half years and my husband and I had our first baby in December congratulations thank you

Brian Atlascongratulations um you know what we actually have the baby in the studio believe it or not Brian's gonna hold the baby there you go

Brian Atlasum show us your motherly instincts please okay you have to hold that the rest of the show by the way are you seriously yeah okay um

Madisonactually though okay um that's your daughter uh go ahead um my current relationship status I'm taken and I've been with my boyfriend for

Brian Atlasalmost 10 months but my longest relationship in the past has been 10 months so okay Good Times okay uh did you wait what were we going for oh let me do a couple

Brian Atlaschats here really quick okay we have uh feeling dangerous the stream doesn't appear to be Fubar that's effed up beyond all repair

Brian Atlastonight like on Sunday good work Brian and his team uh a seat excuse me a CR learning GS major cap she probably somewhere between Mao and Stalin

Brian Atlasoh a CR wait what does CR stand for learn I know what GS gender studies yeah I don't know she's probably somewhere between Mal and Stalin okay oh yeah we need to come back to that

Brian Atlaswhat elaborate please and then we have John Galt here you guys should get farha back on the show she's cool in the respectful disagreement makes things entertaining Destiny 2 great podcast Brian keep it up

Brian Atlasyeah we're gonna have Destiny back I think farha we have her next week so uh yeah we should have her back on thank you John Gott really appreciate uh the donation man thank you um and then we have sweet potato or excuse me Sweet Tooth hey sweet tooth

Brian Atlaswelcome back to the stream thank you for all the support uh last show really appreciate it you dropped like a ton of memberships last show so thank you so much that was a super stressful stream for me um I was uh yeah it was technical

Brian Atlasissues out the Wazoo so uh thank you she belongs to the streets who's this in reference to clarify Sweet Tooth 989 thank you appreciate it okay um

Brian Atlasso let's go back to you really quick you study gender studies at UCLA yes I do but you you consider yourself like uh

Brian Atlasmoderate right-leaning 100 yes but isn't gender studies like a pretty uh liberal major yes

Jessicafeminist yes and when I started out I was very passionately liberal um like throughout high school and then kind of when I started getting into like politics I

Jessicaguess in middle school I would have concerned myself a liberal um but kind of coveted and then I went to a black lives matter protest and I had a pretty bad experience there I

Jessicacould get into that like later on if you wanted me to or if I could explain it now whatever you want um but yeah just kind of

Jessicaspewed over into a lot of things and I noticed the world kind of just breaking down into chaos and I just had a switch

Brian AtlasI guess yeah and wait so you're remind me you're 20 is that correct correct when did you kind of switch to become more conservative

Jessicaor moderate Agnes like 2020 I would say um is when it kind of started um and then

Jessicanow like I very much can articulate my opinions I guess I'm just curious though I mean you you're studying gender studies but I

Brian Atlasmean it sounds like your switch occurred prior to you entering school at UCLA so why did you go into uh well that field in the beginning of it like covid I guess

Jessicaum I can't I didn't I was still like very socially liberal but I kind of covid just like started to make me uneasy I

Jessicaguess right and just kind of all the censorship surrounding it and um so that was just kind of the beginning of it and then I started with

Jessicalike the classes and I enjoyed them in the beginning but then like I went to a black lives matter protest and they I was walking with my friends and you

Jessicaknow we're chanting doing the whole thing and then did you get jumped no I was not jumped I was not jumped but and I had like this sign and like me and my friends are having a good time and

JessicaI'm like wanted to just shake the sign in front of the news reporter basically and she kind of just asked me a question she's like oh why are you out here today and I was like oh I believe in the

Jessicaprinciples of Dr Martin Luther King you know and I believe in peace and equality and it's kind of the basic rundown you

Jessicaknow and then these two girls started like harassing me and the newscaster they were just like why would you interview a white girl to Black lives

Jessicamatter protest this is ridiculous and then the girls came up to me and were like next time check your privilege and hand the mic over to a person of color

Jessicaand I just started yeah like I was just like I was just out there like talking about Martin Luther King and like spewing what you guys are supposed to be out

Jessicahere talking about and that's not even good enough so I just it that was the start of it and then like I just started to see in media and pop culture that like there was just this like disdain

Jessicatowards white people and it's kind of alarming quite honestly you know so you got red pilled I got red pills yes but also white pill because like well

Jessicathere's white uh moderate that's like another term for it I've never I've never heard the white pill yeah a white pill um white poop yeah white pill just like yeah you're neither I guess it could be a purple pill

Victoria (Vicky)because blue and red together makes purple but what's that tick tock song it's like oh something I said she liked purple so I blew her back out and left her on her edge

Jessicaget it because don't let that go over your head because Welcome to California yeah but I'm sorry yeah no um I can't even remember where I was going with that now but okay but so okay

Brian Atlasyou're studying gender studies yes um but you're still in it um how do you not feel the need to just throw yourself off a building every time you're in a gender studies class I'll be honest I don't go to class A Lot which

Jessicakind of tells you something about gender studies is it online yeah I get away with it um are you gonna switch your major you're just gonna try to no I I'm too far along like I would have to I don't I

Jessicadon't really like school I went and I started with gender studies because I was interested in it I knew I could get good grades and I knew I could get the degree and my grandma told me when I was a kid that nobody can ever take a degree

Jessicaaway from you it's and that was just kind of important to me I didn't really give a [ __ ] about what the major I chose was um yeah no I I wanted to do something

Jessicaafter like more creative like start a business or go into creative projects like content creation and I you know I mean I don't think I need a major for that you know I was going to

Brian Atlassay with a gender studies degree that's probably like the joke is often like you're basically unemployable but with all the like die [ __ ] you could probably like infiltrate

Jessicait like oh 100 like that was my original plan I wanted to go into HR so there is a lot of like actually be based in HR like not be a [ __ ] [ __ ] in HR you know yeah no and I that was kind of like

Jessicamy original plan with it is to go into HR Psy off the HR department exactly yeah do HR but you can also like go and work in New user media um you could go

Jessicaand run a business on your own or you could become like a lot of a lot of um sorry like fire not fire departments police departments are actually looking for like Dei Majors because why that's

Brian Atlassupposed to appear more Equitable like oh my God failed society and inclusion yeah start learning Chinese guys it's it's done okay um yeah

Jessicaokay so uh what was I gonna say I don't know um Good Times yeah it's good times I I mean I want to kill myself half the time like when I when when the like

Brian Atlaslecture slide comes up metaphorically oh I'm so sorry YouTube moderators get the [ __ ] [ __ ] she's talking about BLM

Jessicayeah that was why I stuck with college and that's what I think was like so fruitful about my experience yeah and like that is what ultimately made me decide to stick with it was I was like okay

JessicaI want to be like fully armed with all of the opposing arguments so that like I can not only create like a decision for myself as to what do I

Jessicabelieve but also what like be able to argue it from both sides basically you know and like have really nuanced conversations with people about it yeah I agree I went to Berkeley and I always say it made me a better

Victoria (Vicky)conservative hmm I'm kind of studying creative direction to get into the content creating field and stuff which is actually doing into the mic oh I'm studying creative direction to get into that field and it's doing me pretty good

Brian AtlasI'm learning a lot all right we have blah blah blah blah blah blah I can't pronounce that uh y pill means you have hope for the future and black pill means you have no hope for the future hey

Brian Atlasthank you man appreciate it we have uh Odin with the 99 thank you man thank goodness nobody is hitting on Nick this time for the group what job and degree is the biggest red green flag for dating versus hookup why that specific job uh

Brian AtlasOdin hey thank you man yeah we'll go around the table on this really quick um let's start with you go ahead um I guess red to me it's more about like

Julesthe person someone is like because I think you can meet someone at any point on their journey and so it's about like their efforts and where they are and like I don't look at a partner based off of like what they've achieved but kind

Julesof how they're showing up the efforts that they're putting in so I don't really think that there's like a red or a green flag for me there's not like any job a guy could have

Julesthat I mean maybe if it was illegal and like you know dangerous to me then I would definitely think that's the red flag but other than that no what about

Julesum like someone who I'm trying to think of something that could be arrested people have different goals like if you're seeking out a husband that can like provide for your family might like want

Julesthem to have a certain income to provide and protect but not everybody has that goal and so um yeah not for me do you make content online me yeah do you like do of or

Julesanything like that I've like for fun I've done like Tick Tock videos but not um that kind of videos just like yeah but no you don't have only fans no okay um would you

Brian Atlasokay so the the question is is what job and degree I think we'll just pick one of those we'll do job is the biggest either biggest red or green flag and then he specifies for dating versus

Brian Atlashookup but I I just want to try to minimize this so what job or do no hold on what job is the biggest red flag I think the biggest red the biggest red

Julesflag would be a job where somebody is not being conscious about how their actions or behavior in their company or in their real life is affecting other beings on the planet so if they're not being conscious of that and just being greedy that's the biggest red flag for

Brian Atlasme what's the term for people that are um I'm blanking right now it's on the tip of my tongue you're you're a uh oh a lobbyist what about a lobbyist for the tobacco industry is that the red

Julesflag for you probably yeah I mean not like a red flag I guess I'm an open-minded person but um I'm definitely someone who you know would want my partner to also want to be

Julesinvolved in a career path that is supportive of helping Humanity become healthier become happier so for me personally it wouldn't probably be my like cup of tea but everybody's entitled

Brian Atlasto their own preferences okay so no to the tobacco lobbyist let's say he's making 300K a year though don't care that doesn't you don't care you don't care about money no no but I can't

Brian AtlasI don't look at a partner through the lens of how much money they're making no what about like do you want do you want to have uh kids one day I don't oh you don't have kids yeah I don't okay um well have you always felt that way I

Juleshave I've always felt that way okay do you think that's going to change or you're pretty like I mean you've already got your tubes tied basically no but I'm not gonna I'm open-minded to my to my mind changing changing but it's always

Julesbeen something that's like very apparent to me that I feel like I have other you know things that I want to do with my life and that you can have a family in a way that's not necessarily that

Julestraditional so for me I've always known that but I'm always open mind I'm not gonna never say never you know but pretty sure okay got it and then do you know do you have a sense of what you

Juleswant to do career-wise like do you wanna um I studied psychology in school but I didn't really see myself going in on that traditional path of getting a masters and becoming a therapist but

Julesdefinitely want to work in helping Empower women to be confident in themselves and all people as well helping people with their relationships with their health that kind of stuff

Brian Atlasokay do you think you'll be a high earner one day I do okay but in terms of a partner you wouldn't care about the money they make no like you even even though perhaps you intend to make six

Julesfigures in a year you what date a guy works at McDonald's 100 really I would come on I would I mean to me it's about when you die you take your

Julesmemories and so if that guy who works at McDonald's like if I share like the best laughs and the best memories that's all I'm taking with me and so you know if he's a good person and I respect him as

Brian Atlasa person that's what I look for in a partner okay uh what about you so biggest uh red flag in terms of like a job from a guy um I agree with her with a lot of things she said as well um as long as they're

Liv Margraydoing something that they love and that doesn't affect Humanity in a negative way but I for me I would if I had to pick I would say like a red flag

Liv Margrayone would be something illegal or corn star wouldn't do that a corn star would be afraid would not absolutely not

Brian Atlasokay uh just want to check in here really quick with the chat is uh the viewership or sorry excuse me not the viewership is the uh video quality okay just want to check in this is our first

Brian Atlastime streaming at a higher uh what's it called like a higher quality so just want to make sure that the chat is or the quality of the video is okay uh one in the chat if the video quality

Brian Atlasis okay there's not any dropped frame rates the audio sync is fine uh yeah okay it sounds like it's good um so wait but okay you'd have an issue

Liv Margraywith a guy who does porn yeah just because I mean I don't want my guy to be with like a bunch of women for his job that's just not you said you do only fans right

Brian Atlasum yeah do you do solo content I don't do any like things with anybody else it's mainly just like just like solo stuff like extra bikini pics you know what I mean it's nothing crazy okay got it but so you wouldn't get with a guy

Brian Atlaswho does porn that'd be like a red flag for you yeah okay got it um okay uh and then just really quick money-wise like do you want a guy who makes about as much as you make because you said you're

Brian Atlasmarried to the money right yeah and you said you own like two businesses you make content yeah um a lot of girls on the only fans make quite a bit of money yeah how much how much uh money do you make from only fans

Brian AtlasI'm not gonna say uh maybe a range five figures six figures a month let's get them out five figures I'm not gonna mid mid five Figures it's pretty good it's good give us give us a range give us a range give us a range it's

Liv Margrayabove six figures above six figures a month yeah okay oh wait not a month not a month not a month yeah yeah a month oh a month no no no no it's not 100 000 I'm not saying

Brian Atlasbut you said in a year it's over six figures yeah okay that's all I'll say so do you do you need a guy that you're potentially going to date to make as much money as you no

Brian Atlasno you don't care about money no no okay I just want a guy that I have a connection with and that you know I love as a person sure so you would date a guy who works even though you're 22 and you're making

Brian Atlassix more than six figures a month totally fine dating a guy who works at McDonald's okay maybe not McDonald's as long as they can provide for themselves sure I don't want to pay

Brian Atlasfor them okay what about Wendy's it's the same thing more reputable fast food restaurants I mean I want I want the guy that I'm going to have goals like if he's working at McDonald's and he's like pursuing like what something else why do

Liv Margrayyou want him to have goals what what is the end benefit of having goals because I mean why would it what are we going to talk about like I'm gonna be like so let's talk about goals I mean yeah like talking about the future or talking

Liv Margrayabout something you're passionate about I want a man to be passionate about something while they're talking to me you know what I mean if they're just like yeah I went to McDonald's today it shows their pursuit to grow is that but is that what you do when you're with a

Liv Margrayguy you just talk about work okay the last thing I want to do with with a girl is talk about my work okay maybe they're at work because okay let's see he's working at McDonald's we're not talking about how I was making the burgers it's

Liv Margrayabout like okay his future goals that he's pursuing but once he pursues the goals we're not gonna talk about it every day they want to do like a power couple thing yeah maybe power couple power couple yeah I would

Liv Margraylike a power couple or maybe even even if he's not in like the spotlight of something I would still want a man that has goals if it's a business or if it's something hold on just a second feeling dangerous thank you man appreciate it 13

TTS/Miscdonated 199 I am really shocked she wasn't lying I mean the gender Studies major who isn't around in Communists never thought I'd see the day she ain't bad looking

Brian Atlaseither oh thank you yeah um imagine our surprise a moderate

Brian Atlasperson studying gender studies yeah I'm a paradox it's yeah I do we'll touch on it a little bit later but I would like to get into uh maybe you can reveal the

Brian Atlasuh disastrous stuff that they're espousing uh in the class um Okay so we were talking about basically um what you're looking for in a partner

Brian Atlasum but so you're 22 so I mean I think most of the guys in your age range aren't going to be making six figures a month or excuse me six figures a year yeah yeah yeah um um yeah well I I personally won't

Liv Margraydate below like 21. she won't date below 21. I feel like it's weird if they're like not 21 that's to me it's weird because I'm like they can't even drink sure and it's like where what are you we're gonna go we're

Brian Atlasgonna take me out to dinner I'm like can I get a glass of wine he's like not gonna be able to get a glass of wine that's weird to me yeah I mean I think that's pretty normal typically if you hear from women they want to date a guy who's at least their age or yeah get

Victoria (Vicky)older yeah um okay what about you uh biggest red flag in uh I guess anything that like takes away from them or that they don't feel happy about like if you're like

Victoria (Vicky)doing something that like makes you feel like [ __ ] and you just continuously do it because why for just the check like if you're so like running a dating podcast I'm kidding chat I'm kidding um

Victoria (Vicky)um or like anything that would like make you feel

Victoria (Vicky)don't feel happy about unhappy and whatever they're doing like I feel like if someone's working at McDonald's like they're not like waking up every day like I'm gonna go conquer McDonald's unless you are like thank you for my extra Happy Meal toy but

Victoria (Vicky)um you gotta be like really passionate about what you do um red flag wise I guess anything that's like you're straight into the microphone oh red flag wise like I don't know anything that

Victoria (Vicky)would like be dirty or unhygienic you know something that would like make them like maybe if it's like if they're good

Victoria (Vicky)and they gotta just stay clean you gotta have good hygiene you know I wasn't particularly thinking a plumber I was thinking about like some kind of make you smell I don't know

Victoria (Vicky)smell I don't know construction worker or something no I mean there's showers like even maybe even like a butcher like I mean I've heard people who work with like fish can kind of yeah but they make so much

Brian Atlasmoney yeah um and uh I'm not judging any profession I just like but questions so do you at the end of the day though your answers a little similar to theirs uh you don't care about how much money the

Brian Atlasguy makes and keep in mind so I know some of you guys are younger so at this point in in time maybe you don't really care about a guy's income but let's say like when you're 25 30. do you want kids by the way you want kids

Brian Atlasyeah okay so um say down the road when you're 25 you've started your career do you care or not care about a guy's money

Victoria (Vicky)yeah I mean he's gonna be making me or more you know just as much as you I plan to make a lot of money so they got Ice Station I don't want to like I mean I believe I can take care of someone I feel like it is important for like a

Victoria (Vicky)woman to take care of a man yeah and like in a lot of ways but I think that if he's kind of and then like I don't know like whether I'm dating like any and even a manner

Victoria (Vicky)from dating a woman like you can't have that inferiority complex and there are people out there who don't get that and who are just like super supportive and who are like super like peace minded sure but like you know

Victoria (Vicky)there are people out there that are like oh okay I'm making under my my partner and I'm sure sitting on the couch and you said that you plan to be a high earner correct yeah do you plan do you anticipate making more than 100K a year

Brian Atlasof course of course okay you're very confident okay um but currently do you not really care about a guy's money at this point in time um I'm really focused on school yeah so it's

Victoria (Vicky)like I'm not even looking for someone I mean like the people that I'd be going out with like they take care of me and maybe I'm just like maybe I just attract that because I like to be taken care of and I like to take care of people sure but

Brian Atlasum yeah definitely like hmm it's it is attractive for someone to have bread of course sure but wait I love you I love you yeah um do you know what you're going to be

Victoria (Vicky)doing for work hopefully going into creative directing or like something lovely like performing or okay when do you think you'll start making 100K plus bye

Victoria (Vicky)I'm gonna cap it like with before 25 before 25 yeah so within three years you're going to be making over 100k even if it's 60k over two dollars over yeah

Brian AtlasI'll put that as my goal sure two two dollars over 100k 100K yeah even if it's just you know I mean that's pretty ambitious to be making 100K by the time you're 25 but um go ahead and what about

Jessicayou thank you uh biggest red flag and like job career-wise yeah um besides anything illegal like if you're a criminal yeah like if you're a drug dealer or if you're a Ponzi scheme

Brian Atlaslike anything like that yeah no or Pharmaceuticals anything in there sure and then uh kind of related to this um currently and then perhaps in the future do you want kids yes well you're in a

Brian Atlasrelationship now so uh do you uh do you care about man's earning potential or his money um yes and no I don't know I think it's kind of a hard question like

Shaniaroll yes like it's good to have those want but you also can't control who you love so okay yeah

Shaniaum a big red flag for me personally is if you work in like a dispensary or like yeah I love that for you I don't really I

Shaniadon't smoke and so that has zero interest to me and you know that kind of like what you said when you come home and you tell me about your job I'm not gonna care I don't know what's going on okay so you don't want to pothead

Shaniabasically yeah I'm not I'm not I mean a little bit here and there you know whatever everyone does it but like I said I I don't do it so I don't smoke either yeah it's I'm good uh what about

Jake/Shania (mixed)you uh biggest red flag yeah otherwise um and a girl I would say only fans are like a corn star it's not my cup of tea sure and um what was the other question

Jamieno that's pretty much uh what about you no offense but probably my biggest red flag would be like an HR job or if a guy

Jamieworked at Planned Parenthood I feel like that would be a no-go for me are guys a lot of work at blind Baron I knew some questions I've never seen a man in Planned

Brian AtlasParenthood no okay deal breaker if they work at an HR or they're an abortion doctor okay oh my God understood okay

Jamieum and uh without revealing too much what kind of like what what line of work is your husband in so we met on a presidential political campaign and so

Jamiehe works in politics for Kanye no not for continent we worked on the Trump campaign yeah okay so we met on the 2020 Trump campaign and he is in politics

Jamielike me still he works he does fundraising for an organization and yeah okay um fundraising got it uh my biggest red flag career-wise

Madisonum would probably be can we get Maddie some seat boosters Eric can you get her to the seat booster are you like a gamer you're just kind of a gamer sitting on a chair all day doing nothing I feel like

Madisonthat really affects your health mentally and physically let's do both let's get both over here my posture is just all so terrible right now but

Brian Atlasyeah double seat boosters for Maddie here I'll let you figure that out um

Brian Atlasokay um what was your answer

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Madisongonna do it right now hold hold your horses okay we're gonna do that right now and does money matter Maddie to you it matters enough to a point where like

Madisonuh you're able to take care of me and our children later in life because I want to be a stay-at-home mom and take care of my kids so if you're making enough money to

Brian Atlastake care of the family you want to be a stay-at-home yeah husband I mean Trophy Wife you want to be a trophy wife what I call it okay and Frankie's cool with that Frankie's

Brian Atlascool with that he's super down for it yep okay I'm making the oh so Mike Davis the uh limit is 255 characters uh on streamlabs they they don't let you make it higher

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Brian Atlasto that here in just a sec uh okay so oh I should answer this okay so guys here's some [ __ ] game for you hold on let me just pull up the question

Brian Atlasso I have it biggest red flag career-wise and degree so HR if she works in HR that's a red flag if she's a flight attendant also red flag if she's a travel nurse also red

Brian Atlasflag honestly if she's a nurse she's probably also a red flag I'm just gonna I'm gonna reduce the dating pool to like zero um let's see um only fans probably a red flag

Brian Atlasum stripper red flag I mean these are obvious though porn star red flag yeah I was gonna say that too those are the given though if it's like of I mean yeah no offense over there but uh there's a stigma around it because you don't got

Brian Atlasto do nude stuff all the time if you're the daughter of a 80s hair metal band that's also a red flag um if you yeah if you're the daughter of

Brian Atlasan 80s hair band guitars okay shots fired tonight specifically shots fired um let's see

Brian Atlaswhat else oh and then as far as degrees go anything in like in there like gender studies shots fired um

Brian AtlasCommunications com's pretty bad so sociology I think anthra anthropology's kind of like soch but socious pretty bad

Brian Atlasum and then I want to say uh dance dance music dance so what are green flags huh what are green flag a

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