She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon?! | Dating Talk #116
Date: 2023-11-08
Duration: 6h 05m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Priya(guest)
SPEAKER_04Karina Hammond(guest)
SPEAKER_05Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jessica Kirby(guest)
SPEAKER_07Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chase(guest)
SPEAKER_10Muki(guest)
SPEAKER_11Genie Exom(guest)
SPEAKER_12Kaye Killian(guest)
SPEAKER_14Candy Lane(guest)
Key Moments
00:13:15
QuoteGenie admits stabbing incident: says cops loved her and she went to jail briefly, released; dismisses serious framing
“they were so nice for real they were like this is your first time... I literally go and the police officer was like oh you're famous”
00:26:20
QuoteGenie describes attending a stranger's funeral as her first date with a girl she barely knew (flown from Paris after 2-3 weeks of texting)
“my last date... the date was like not well... so at a funeral... I flew there... I was down bad”
00:41:36
QuoteCandy reveals infertility as the event that ended her 10-year celibacy: "I can't have kids"
“I got some news about something something that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me and yet it did... I can't have kids”
00:47:00
QuoteChase delivers extended speech encouraging Candy not to give up on love, comparing her situation to Abraham and Sarah
“I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason... don't give up... Abraham and Sarah were childless and Barren until they were like a hundred years old”
01:23:50
ControversyChase directly confronts Candy about her self-sabotage regarding a 47yo man who expressed interest through the show
“what if this guy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids... you only have sex with younger men... that's pretty shallow”
01:24:57
QuoteCandy refuses to give up sex with younger men despite Chase's urging to pursue real relationship: "I only smash younger"
“here I only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life”
01:42:48
QuoteGenie reveals she had a boyfriend who locked her in his room from age 14-15 for a year and a half, had to sneak out the window for food
“I was like 14 15 and I could stay in his room... I couldn't come out of his room... I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home”
02:05:50
QuoteGenie admits she was a sugar mama spending ~$40K/month on a man, on top of her own $20K/month lifestyle
“how much do you think you were spending per month... maybe like 20K mon... you spend 20,000 a month... and then double that for him”
02:09:28
QuoteGenie reveals sleeping with an Army platoon (~20 soldiers in ~1 month) while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama
“you said that you effed a whole platoon... bring your friends to eat some wings and then I was like oh they're cute and he was like I was like put me on”
02:18:18
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line on makeup: "a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction"
“a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:05
Introductions and current relationship status
Brian introduces panel of 8 women plus co-host Chase. Each guest gives name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Notable: Kaye in new relationship doing OF with boyfriend; Genie single; Julie in new relationship; Candy terminally single; Karina in relationship; Muki in 3yr relationship; Jessica single 3yrs; Priya in new relationship (~2mo).
00:11:00
Genie Exom: stabbing incident and infamous past
Discussion of news articles about Genie stabbing her boyfriend with a broken glass in NYC. Genie maintains it was self-defense. Brian and Chase pull up New York Post articles. Genie was charged and released without bail. 22yo at time of incident.
00:34:00
Candy Lane: sex addiction and 10-year celibacy
Deep discussion of Candy Lane's sex addiction, two promiscuous phases (pre-celibacy teens, post-2020), and 10-year celibacy for faith (2010-2020). Reveals infertility discovered in 2020 as catalyst ending celibacy. Chase and Brian encourage Candy not to give up on love. Candy maintains pessimism.
00:57:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Panel rates themselves on looks. Kaye: 10; Genie: 10; Julie: 6-6.5; Candy: refuses to rate; Muki: 6-7; Karina: no clear number; Jessica: declines; Priya: ~2. Chase rates himself 7.5-8. Chat asked to rate Genie (got avg ~7). Brian discusses how youth = advantage in ratings.
01:55:20
Genie: sugar mama phase
Genie describes being a sugar mama for 3 years, spending ~$40K/month (double her own $20K/month). Paid rent, food, flights, Europe trips for a 32-33yo man while she was 21. Dated men who would not let her be dominant. Revealed she was also a sugar mama as young as 18 with a 29yo. Gave up the sugar mama lifestyle now.
02:06:09
Modern dating hypergamy and promiscuity
Julie raises concern about hypergamy in modern dating and its harm to young women. Brian clarifies the definition (marrying up socioeconomically). Discussion of promiscuity (the word Julie meant) and de-feminism in media.
02:12:52
Genie: sleeping with an Army platoon
Genie reveals she slept with approximately 20 Army soldiers (~a full platoon) over ~1 month while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama. First soldier stayed after work, then introduced her to more. Brian and panel discuss the scope (Brian Googles "platoon size"). Genie was younger at the time.
02:19:41
Who should pay on a first date?
Extended debate on whether men or women should pay on a first date. Brian advocates splitting or low-cost dates given modern dating marketplace promiscuity. Chase tests women with no-payment to gauge princess complex. Panel mostly prefers man pays but split is acceptable. Brian's "doggy bag" scenario discussed.
03:00:00
Makeup: who is it for?
Discussion of whether women wear makeup for men or themselves. Panel admits both — for themselves and to attract/impress others. Brian and Chase argue makeup is effectively a mating strategy. Brian says he dislikes heavy makeup. Comparison: makeup = rented Lamborghini (super chat).
03:15:00
Height preferences and shoe inserts
Panel states height preferences. Most want taller than themselves (range 5'7"-5'11"+). Candy requires 5'11" minimum, must be circumcised. Discussion of men wearing shoe inserts — most women would not hold it against them but would be confused. Brian says men's face is autobiography; woman's face is "work of fiction."
03:20:15
Relationship accountability round
Brian asks each guest: one thing you did wrong and one thing your ex did wrong in a past relationship. Common themes: women not respecting/taking seriously, men being lazy and not working. Genie's ex would not let her peg him. Julie mommy'd her boyfriend. Priya's ex hid vices and gaslighted her. Kaye was selfish when young. Jessica fed boyfriend's jealousy. Muki texted and deleted messages.
04:48:00
Soulmates, twin flames, and marriage philosophy
After-show discussion on soulmates and twin flames. Chase argues soulmate concept is a modern scam that leads to divorce. Discussion of types of love (eros vs. agape). Brian advocates for faith-based, committed marriage. Panel weighs in on no-fault divorce.
05:13:00
Promiscuity self-assessment (1-10 scale)
Aftershow: panel rates how promiscuous they are for their age. Kaye: ~7-8 (one new guy every 2 weeks during 8-month single period). Genie: implied high but evasive. Julie: not promiscuous in relationship. Candy: 6 in 2023. Priya: 2. Muki: in relationship so not applicable. Brian and Chase define scale: 1 new partner/week = 10.
05:26:00
Women and draft / military service
Aftershow topic: would women be drafted into the military? Genie reveals she passed her Army physical (MEPS/ASVAB). Panel discusses physical differences in combat. Brian jokes about progression from platoons to brigades.
Transcript
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03:45:46
Brian Atlasmembership that's kind of how if yall like a muscular dude and he tricked you into thinking he was muscular that's kind of how we feel with makeup
03:45:58
Genie Exomthat's makeup the woman or how about fake titties that's makeup enhances your beauty some sometimes you kind of tell the ones that are wearing a lot a lot you know like that one you knew she was wearing a lot that's not how I feel
03:46:08
Brian Atlasabout make T of cosmetic surgery I don't know you never know yeah but the surgery like stays on you so it's different that's true like that for sure that was makeup
03:46:20
Brian Atlastransformation that's huge I think I look the that's like the equivalent of like like muscle and I'm wearing no makeup when you're healthy your Skin's like glowing yeah your Skin's glowing and stuff when you're healthy and your
03:46:31
Genie Exommakeup looks better did we read this one did we read this one go so hey hey hey attention please did did we read this one no we didn't do you want to read it go ahead and since it's about
03:46:42
Genie Exomyou pink shirt I never date you okay but you'd be fun AF to party with I sure would you have more than enough personality you don't need to do only RS
03:46:53
Genie Exomyou can be a successful Entertainer the chick to the right of Chase should take you under her Wing um what that's you yeah you should
03:47:04
Chasetake her under your wing I should take you under my you can save her sorry yeah there's nothing wrong with her she need to be sa okay I take back don't only does she need to be save Chase she
03:47:16
Priyarelation she has a lot of personal growth that she had to go through yeah we all do but there's nothing wrong she said she's there's nothing she attacked her boyfriend with an alleged
03:47:27
Chasekitchen okay she cut him up with a cup and that's the past though do that like I have a healthy like no she threw the cup she threw it at him and then wrestled him on top of it and then throw
03:47:39
Chasethe cup what did you say how do you know he didn't throw the cup and get her on the ground and start wrestling her let's back up a know how would they know why why are we looking at someone getting into such an unhealthy relationship and we're like there's
03:47:51
Chasenothing wrong there I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with you no I know she got SC she got screwed by an entire platoon of army guys which was her choice but like is that healthy Behavior
03:48:02
Chaseare you saying there's she was years ago facts yall have great points and I'm working on myself she finds that healthy like it's very healthy
03:48:13
Chaseactually not it's not healthy sleep an entire platoon of army guys like who knows how many stvs you could
03:48:21
Mukiget anything it's years ago though thank the Lord condom you were five years ago still a deal breaker no I'm not okay so we're not going to maybe if it was a
03:48:31
Chasesquad she could get a are you telling me everything there is healthy anymore no I'm just saying there's nothing that needs to be fix wrong with her as a person or her actions sort of
03:48:42
Chaseeverybody's made mistakes so is there nothing wrong with making mistakes I think you learned from them she learned from them learn from mist is is there nothing wrong with making mistakes though has she learned from all
03:48:54
Genie Exomof her mistakes cuz she's sitting here saying I got a lot of work to do on myself I mean I do but I but I get what you're saying thank you she's a great person well friends are
03:49:07
Genie Exomalways I'm not saying she's a bad person denying that she's a good person she just has internal problems besides the stabbing thing I just think it sounds a little harsher when you said there's something wrong with her so you could say she was did I say that or did she I
03:49:20
Kaye Killiandon't know it just got brought up I don't know who said it I'm saying think that's just how she like that it sounds worse I think what she's trying to say is just like she could have look at
03:49:30
Priyawomen look at women coddling no one's saying that there's anything okay no one no one outwardly said there was anything wrong with her that was just a way that phrased her statement No I think the
03:49:41
TTS Readerwhat the question is essentially trying to get it Raven DT donated 100 girl in the pink would like to thank you for your service is over but thank you all right look let me just let me
03:49:54
Chasejust keep it 100 with you okay if one of my Bros was getting into fights with his girlfriend where she's even allegedly stabbing him with kitchen knives I'm
03:50:03
Genie Exomgoing to be like dude what the hell is wrong with you what are you doing little do you know he's crazy too it's the sex exactly but guys will never you see like if if one of my Bros did I'd be like
03:50:15
Chasedude what is wrong with you but women on the other hand are like girlfriend there's nothing wrong everything's perfect you're fine the way you are keep getting in those fights girl guys say that to other guys too though no me and
03:50:28
Karina Hammondmy boys absolutely not we call each other out for each other's [ __ ] all the time you guys are way different here then cuz in Canada no guy will admit when they're friend Canada Canada has yeah Canada is full of cucked man
03:50:39
Priyawelcome to America I think we're sensitive there's quite a few here too although America's all women are very s actually I will actually say I am critical of my female friends but I will
03:50:51
Priyasay my delivery is much softer than how I would approach like a male friend yeah absolutely but I will 100% tell my friend she's my friend so I would want her to know what do you have what do you have I feel like women are
03:51:04
Chasemore sensitive so you kind of have to like tell them things in like that's a very sexist I feel like that's so sexist I see a pattern of behavior where women endlessly bend over backwards and do all
03:51:17
Chasesorts of mental gymnastics in order to justify terrible behaviors that's what I see men do that too y not me and my boys okay you're small percentage Yeah and that's that's the standard that
03:51:30
Brian AtlasI want to hold all other men agree agree or disagree women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths fact bro in a general sense yes I
03:51:43
TTS Readerpersonally wouldn't but in a general sense I do believe that what what drives that what what drives that Z West might have the answer donated $99 for everyone what is a deal breaker
03:51:54
Chasein a relationship also how much could a woodchuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood what does it do we'll come back to that what driv D drives women wanting to hear un
03:52:05
Brian Atlasuh uh what was it how did you put it so women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths what drives that narcissism because the truth hurts think it's narcissism I think it's
03:52:17
Priyanarcissism that is some women not all women not all women just I want to let me finish Brie go ahead no but I think feminism has told women time and time
03:52:28
Priyaagain that women do not need men and women are perfect women can do all things it's just simply not true I I think it's deeper than that no no I I agree that it's deeper than that in in a
03:52:40
Chaselot of cases but I think the narcissism does come from from like what what the messages that feminism tries to portray what do you think it is you think it's deeper than that what do you think it is well and I think you know
03:52:52
Brian Atlaswhat it is Chase but I've got a few ideas for sure so I think when it comes to and I feel like you've probably tweeted about this when it comes to
03:53:02
Brian AtlasDefending Your Ideas when two there are two conflicting ideals two conflicting ideas if it if it can never be resolved diplomatically it will be resolved with
03:53:14
Brian Atlasviolence and violence is the realm of men typically not to say that women can't be can't be violent but I think men a little choked up I think men are much more I feel like I'm not
03:53:26
Brian Atlasarticulating this as perfectly as I'd like but I think that men are will are more prepared
03:53:34
Chaseto to fight I'm not [ __ ] here here's what here's what I think it is like a revolution I think the pattern I see this is what I think it is the
03:53:46
Chasepattern I see is women take criticism as an attack on like their self like their their being like who they are I only if you're not wanting to work on yourself you say you say it is but like the thing
03:53:57
Chaselike if I receive I I I I literally welcome criticism from my friends and the people closest to me like 100% I know but when I'm screwing up I'm like yo like tell me all the areas where I'm
03:54:07
Chasescrewing up cuz I want the most of people will tell me Chase like you're arogant you're headed you get angry uh people tell me you don't respond to criticism well all these different things and I'm not like I don't hear
03:54:20
Chasethat and and think oh I'm just a terrible person I hear that and it's like okay there's room for growth but women women seem to take it as like an assault on their being I when I was younger why is that I
03:54:32
Kaye Killianthink for me personally when I find myself getting like that it typically is when I'm I'm more emotional like something else is going on in my life or
03:54:43
Kaye KillianI'm already down or more sensitive do the other things you know obviously like time the month that kind of stuff like I feel like that's when I catch myself being that way so when you feel like in
03:54:56
Kaye Killianlike you're in a stronger position and you're less frustrated by other stuff in your life do you feel like you can receive criticism better oh yeah cuz I agree with you then I take that and I you know think about it I'm like okay yeah I could have maybe handled that
03:55:09
Kaye Killianbetter I've done that better and this is how me and my like boyfriend talk like when we have fights it's communication like that and it's more of like let's just see what we can do better for ourselves and like us as one yeah were
03:55:22
Chaseyou basically making the point that men are less conflict averse because we're more geared towards
03:55:29
Candy Laneviolence I think I yeah basically yeah I think um what I just think there there was actually the most perfect answer to
03:55:39
TTS Readerthat that was in a movie where it was it was a line in a movie where men hold on99 is about Herpes there's something wrong with girl pink it's called genital
03:55:52
TTS Readerherpes and is highly infectious even with the use of the condoms 60 bodies equals exposure to 12 Partners who are infected I can assure you she's
03:56:04
Brian Atlasfilthy J Butler you J Butler every single show every single show Jay Butler brings talks about Herpes he's he's a urologist just he's had herpes or he
03:56:16
Brian Atlasjust no he's a he's a urologist which is a peen doctor so he's he knows about professionally deals with her he deals with he just diagnosed you via Super
03:56:27
ChaseChat hey a lot of people would is he going to give me medicine too valra here you okay go ahead what were you what was the line from the movie where men think
03:56:37
Chasewomen feel very true yeah absolutely I got another line for you Frederick n said uh how did he speaking
03:56:48
Chaseof n how did he put it all things related to women everything it's something like everything of woman is a riddle and every the solution to a woman how did he put
03:57:02
Chaseit he said something like woman is a riddle and all things related to women have one solution man and it is called pregnancy
03:57:12
Brian Atlaspregnancy speaking totally unrelated to the show he who fights with mon this is from n he who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a
03:57:23
Brian Atlasmonster and if you gaze for long into an abyss the abyss gazes also into you so true honestly doing this
03:57:32
Brian Atlasshow gazing into the abyss like it it g is back at me I have become
03:57:41
Chaselike a having done hundreds of these shows I this [ __ ] has kind of [ __ ] me up a little bit I'm not g to [ __ ] lie okay all right um Brian I think you need
03:57:53
TTS Readerto touch grass I probably welcome go on a run okay good talk um but uh hold on womencore prefer uncore lies uncore
03:58:05
TTS Readerbecause donated $99 lies Incorporated makeup plus sex are their primary tools for the acquisition of power men have to earn
03:58:15
TTS Readertheir value via work sacrifice and disposability Truth benefits men because it helps them adapt women prefer lies because it helps the muser power plus
03:58:26
TTS Readerthat was a brilliant Super Chat oh we have one that was a brilliant Super Chat got one here from grid G One Motorsports donated $100 a true friend gives you the cold
03:58:38
TTS Readerhard truth truth people that tell you the lies you want to hear are not friends it is at best being fake friendship and at worst enemy action a true friend will value your happiness
03:58:48
Brian Atlasover everything including the Friendship that's facts related to this I get the impression that one of the differences between men and women is men
03:59:00
Brian Atlaswill like talk [ __ ] to their friends to their face and in kind of like a like men roast each other a little bit yeah uh and then they'll like they flat they'll say flattering things about
03:59:10
Brian Atlastheir friends behind their back and it's I I think it's the reverse with women you'll say nice things to a woman's face and behind her back talk absolute [ __ ]
03:59:21
Brian Atlassay what you want to actually say oh my God I love you so much [ __ ] that [ __ ] type [ __ ] you know Zach West I don't want you to feel like we've um we just
03:59:31
TTS Readerjumped over your chat so Zack West he said we never got to Rippy Z West 2000 donated for everyone what is a deal Breer also how much could a woodchuck if a wooduck could de breaker in a
03:59:44
Kaye Killianrelationship go ahead um probably cheating cheating
03:59:53
Brian Atlasokay lying I wonder if he's curious like something not obvious like he wears pink socks or some random maybe I Zach maybe
04:00:04
Genie Exomyou can clarify but uh ugly okay hey that's a good that's honest yeah deal breaker pimples scars pimple scars let's go to the facial together let's go
04:00:16
Juliefix that okay deal Breer in a relationship I'm trying to think I think it's like not being autistic that me not oh sorry sorry Sor
04:00:28
Juliemy b um heavy drug use yeah that's super valid what about light drug use um that's fine I feel like here and
04:00:39
Candy Lanethere it's fine you know smoking like a little bit of heroin on a daily Bas no just a just a small bit just a tab yeah if they hide drug use or alcoholism
04:00:51
Brian Atlashiding it what if it's out in the open then it's chill it's cool if it's in the out in the open right long as you're at home only if they
04:01:01
Karina Hammondshare okay what about you um yeah probably just uh drug use or staying out late every night
04:01:10
Brian Atlasor okay not ambitious not ambitious not ambitious is a deal a deal breaker yeah okay
04:01:21
Jessica Kirbyhuh I had all this time to think but I don't know I can't think you can't think of just name name something that's given you the I well you were talking about those shoe insights I would not be able to do it
04:01:34
Jessica Kirbywhat the shoe inserts shoe inserts turn off well I just think why lie yeah okay I was going to say drug use but another one would be
04:01:45
Chaseno desire to marriage and no relationship with Christ yeah Amen to both of those also history of sex work
04:01:53
Chasesorry ladies it's okay totally F uh drug use history of cheating MH yeah the list goes on but yeah yeah what about you
04:02:04
TTS ReaderBrian I'll answer after this D donated $100 if he has a dating podcast huge red flag just kidding love you Brian no
04:02:16
Brian Atlashomo thank you Raven that's actually there's like news articles like beware of men with podcasts especially dating podcast that's like a double trouble no no go the feminist machine is in
04:02:27
Chaseoverdrive trying to shut down man heaven forbid a man have a podcast the latest podcast trend is making women look dumb on pod New York Post
04:02:39
Chaseso funny such a pull it up just pull just Google AR funny um we won't it's like we you don't have to make them do anything they do it themselves I'm pry sure in the clip that they included you didn't even say anything a lot of the
04:02:51
Brian Atlasclips were just like the most tame [ __ ] conversations ever uh Nick it's just New York Post whatever you in this this's an article this podcast here do Nick find the New York Post and the vice
04:03:02
Brian Atlasarticle oh and yeah there's two uh red flags for me while he's doing that um let's see uh goodness funny
04:03:12
Brian Atlasarticle not not red flags deal breakers deal breakers deal breakers [ __ ] in a relationship no beef
04:03:20
Brian Atlascurtains taller than 52 she are cool too I that's not a deal breaker uh let's
04:03:28
Brian Atlassee not buid Coral some Coral some is just an instant deal breaker um huh argumentative AR starting fights oh yeah
04:03:39
Brian Atlasjust to like start them cuz once you've better to live in the desert than with a corome wife yeah the Book of Proverbs Proverbs 2119 check it out that shit's
04:03:49
Chasedope it's got to be stressful okay we'll just pull just yeah making women look dumb is a disturbing new podcast Trend scoll down
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Brian AtlasI don't know why this video that's just like an ad a podcast wait scroll down what the [ __ ] oh oh look at that hey I know those guys oh [ __ ] yeah
04:04:10
Brian Atlasthat's us and then the vice one I like that they choose the the the latest Trend in podcast is making women look dumb whatever podcast is bait you can't okay that's it yeah they wrote
04:04:22
Brian Atlassome hit pieces it's all good so funny so good they got dragged so hard on Twitter for posting those articles yeah the all the comments were mostly super
04:04:32
Brian Atlassupportive um in any case uh so I want to try to hit oh we we got Rippy here Rippy there's also a lot of women that you would assume have a roster but sit at home in their PJs generally you should always take someone at their word
04:04:44
Brian Atlasunless their behavior shows otherwise or you period let's not blackpill ourselves into being single from Fear that's fair age it's a very solid comment that's
04:04:53
Brian Atlasfair true and I mean there are there are women who do like who strip and do sex work that are not promiscuous but on its
04:05:04
Chaseown that's a can be kind of a separate thing to what you were talking about before with your boyfriend who is constantly like you're texting all these other guys and all that kind of stuff I
04:05:15
Chasethink I think one uh Habit that is worth fixing for just generally speaking for people in relationships because a lot of people have like trust issues and whatnot is not approaching a relationship from the perspective of
04:05:26
Chasefinding the person guilty of whatever you're worried they're doing not approaching the relationship from the perspective of finding them guilty until proven innocent but instead finding them innocent until proven guilty you know his point taking taking people at their
04:05:39
Mukiword you trust them until they break your trust yeah I agree with that but it's also I feel like a lot of guys they're like oh this is a very attractive woman like she must have a
04:05:50
Mukilot of sex or she must have a lot of bodies but it's like no not really like it's the average chicks that beat [ __ ] I could agree that's that's
04:05:59
Chasefacts bro that's facts I it's also I mean it's like I think for guys it's not just a physical attractiveness thing it's also how you carry yourself as a woman right so like if I see a really
04:06:11
Chasebeautiful girl but she's very modest and like wears modest clothes and like carries herself conservatively I'm not going to look at her and think oh yeah that that girl is sleeping with a lot of
04:06:20
Chaseguys but she could she might be which is why it's still worth asking and your due showing their body but like they don't I don't know yeah I mean if a woman is like
04:06:32
Chasedressing very provocatively and like has like not very conservative attitudes yeah you're going to which is fair enough yeah oh J Butler Brian you son of a bee I'm
04:06:43
Brian Atlasnot even remotely done talking about how this woman definitely has the herp no one touch her skin you will die immediately and there's no cure all P stars have it filthy filthy filthy
04:06:55
Brian Atlasfilthy filthy filthy yeah I think yeah I think he thinks I'm filthy I dude I love this guy this guy's so funny Che me every show can he check you yeah you might see you might have to
04:07:06
Brian Atlassee an OBG y for that one I never heard of that he could probably I'm just kid yo Jay Butler thank you man appreciate it appreciate it good to see you in the chat he he
04:07:17
Brian Atlasliterally I'm not even joking every show it's [ __ ] hilarious yeah every show he you've been here Pria she was here like two months ago he was talking about
04:07:27
Brian AtlasHerpes no he's funny I like how he is FY fyy he's the leading researcher for the whatever podcast on about her about Herpes about Herpes thank you man appreciate it so I got some more
04:07:39
Brian Atlaspre-show notes here I'm going to try to get through all of them and then we'll do a brief after show and then we'll wrap so I think we've got through Genie we have Katarina finally you said you were dating a guy for a year and half
04:07:51
Brian Atlasand a half you just left him in June he was a psycho psycho was an is an understatement I find out that he was still dating his ex for almost our whole relationship he was so good at lying
04:08:02
Brian Atlasthat even when I had proof of him doing things I'd still believe him I now have a restraining order on him now because of all the stuff he did to me so he like
04:08:13
Karina Hammondstalked you no okay so 2 months into dating we moved in together and then 2 months into living together uh we got a mandatory restraining order that ended up getting that ended up getting dropped
04:08:25
Karina Hammondcuz I didn't press charges um I took him back and then yeah in June I left him when he went to the gym just packed up and left wait what why did why did you get the restraining
04:08:35
Karina Hammondorder um neighbors called the cops because they heard a lot of stuff being thrown around and stuff so cops showed up took them to jail and they're like yeah we're playing restraining order no kitchen knives
04:08:47
Karina Hammondthough no um it was a flower vase actually did you throw it or him he did yeah what catalyzed this fight um because we were supposed to go to a night market and he went out drink
04:09:00
Karina Hammonddrinking or cheating whatever he was doing that night showed up and yeah and you were like what the hell yeah I was like I don't really want to hear about how much fun you had tonight like I just want to go to bed and then that like fli
04:09:13
Karina Hammondthe switch what why I don't know what what did he say in response um honestly I can't I don't even remember the first thing he said it
04:09:23
Brian Atlasjust like all of a just fle into a rage yeah wow yeah sounds like the kind of relationship that leads to domestic abuse like hardcore it's spot on you said he was dating multiple other women
04:09:36
Karina Hammondat the same time too but you didn't know know about them well okay so before moving in together um I saw on his phone him texting his I guess current girlfriend and he just said that she was texting him about clothes he left behind
04:09:49
Karina Hammondand then after moving in together she started messaging me sending me their tapes and stuff um and then he would just say that they're old and all that Stu old tapes yeah it turns out it was
04:09:59
Chaselike a dozen girls damn a dozen what kind of tapes were these what kind of tapes were these like like sex tape yeah I didn't know if
04:10:08
Karina HammondI was his ex was sending you those yeah to your phone um yeah of them together wow got free only fans from them that's so gnarly how did how did
04:10:20
Karina Hammondyou feel about that how did you respond well like I said he was just so good at lying I was like oh must have been from before we were together she's crazy oh that's horrible so during your relationship he was making these and then they were being sent to you mhm
04:10:33
Karina Hammondthis sounds like the worst relationship ever yeah and then after I left him when he was at the gym I literally just texted my dad I was like K I'm packing up let's go moved out in like an hour and then uh yeah he started stalking me
04:10:45
Chaseuh sending me like death threats and stuff so I had to get a restraining order it's horrible that's a yikes got to pick better guys man what the hell well I did know
04:10:57
Brian Atlasyeah yeah you said you've been in a relationship for two years now right two months we've I misread that we've known each other for like four years though
04:11:05
Brian Atlasokay got it wait Chase what would you do you're dating a girl and her ex sends
04:11:13
Chaseyou a video of them having sex bro I would like lose it and probably break up with her I might have to that be honest with you I'd I'd probably immediately
04:11:25
Chasebreak up with cuz like the when you if you have sex with her again that's like now in your head yeah dude so and it's not even it's not even about like having sex with her again
04:11:37
Chaselike yeah it would be in your head then but like just any time after that point having that mental image in your mind like I I have no idea how you could have possibly dealt with that we didn't really have sex cuz he was always too tired but it was cuz he was having sex
04:11:49
Brian Atlaswith other girls so okay that that guy's a nutcase yeah I dude I would like yeah break my heart what would you do I'd probably end the relationship not
04:12:01
Chaseand it's almost it's not her fault but like the image scor burned into the my eyeballs yeah I don't know how you recovered from that and I feel like it's kind of different between
04:12:14
Chaselike guys and girl like obviously it would suck for any girl to see her boyfriend with another guy but like as a guy dude like men are more territorial so much more territory for me to have that mental image burned in my mind would like rip apart my mind bro well
04:12:27
Brian Atlasnow they're together so she's even crazier well which is why I think a lot of men would struggle to date a woman who does o who does porn because there's
04:12:36
Brian Atlasimages is out there of her having sex with another dude and it's hard to see yeah it's not just hard to see it tears apart your mind hurt in your soul stings
04:12:48
Brian Atlasooh it stings yeah but what's the like what's the difference what's the difference of like seeing the stuff and knowing she's [ __ ] another guy I mean we're very visual like we're very we
04:13:00
Kaye Killianlike I think most men like well you can compare then too like you're seeing the situation like how they're being intimate what he looks like like feel like it's more intimate than just
04:13:12
Brian Atlasknowing like oh she [ __ ] some guy at a bar yeah definitely I think a lot of guys want a woman's undivided romantic
04:13:22
Brian Atlasand sexual attention 100% um and uh anything even if it's in your past I know this sounds this almost sounds
04:13:30
Brian Atlascrazy but like we don't want to think about or know the previous sexual things that you've done with men we don't want to know it it stings it
04:13:43
Chaseburns I agree I don't want to know it with my boyfriend um what about the guys that want to know that like literally ask you what does that mean what does that me fetish is it why are they asking you they start getting is it is it because
04:13:56
Genie Exomthey're like vetting you and they're curious about your past or is it like they have like a c that he was like I want to know everything about you I'm not going to be able to know you unless I know everything you've ever done in your past This and like how you grew up he was like I'm not going to How will I
04:14:10
Genie Exomknow you as a person if I don't know your history that's why he would tell me and I had to tell him everything [ __ ] positions and [ __ ] like like no just like everything I've done if I had a threesome if I've been with girls if I've done this and like how many like
04:14:22
Genie Exomevery he want to know everything ever happened in my life I think that's fair I mean yeah like if you're having like a serious relationship like yeah he was like I want to know your whole life story yeah I mean that like those are questions that a guy is going to ask a
04:14:35
Chasewoman if he like she said is serious about if I'm talking to a girl damn well do I want to know whether or not she's done a threesome CU
04:14:43
Chaseshe it's like is it worse if it's a guy guy versus a girl girl well like Devil's threesome versus so of I mean even even
04:14:54
Chaseeven a girl and a guy would like be a deal breaker to me but two guys is like bro dude when I was in college you when I no when I when I was when I was a freshman in
04:15:06
Chasecollege there was this girl in my dorm complex that had a train ran on her by guys at a party in front of other people was it a platoon or a squat coard or I dude I remember when I heard that that I
04:15:17
Chasewas like that I think that was the most disgusted I maybe had ever been in my life it was so gnarly like what how would you feel if you found out that a girl had had like a threesome or a foursome with a number of other guys a
04:15:29
Chasegirl I'm interested in yeah like okay like if it's just some random chick a girl no no a girl a girl that you're interested in I wasn't wasn't interested in this woman by the way but why did it
04:15:39
Chasebother you that I would I would not want to dat why did it bother me cuz I'm just thinking to myself dude that's somebody's daughter she's getting a train it doesn't bother like stuff like that just like doesn't bother me if I'm
04:15:50
Kaye Killiannot like I don't know I just wouldn't care like she's doing what whoever it is it happens to someone else I don't care they're like doing their own thing like they don't affect me like I don't
04:16:00
Brian Atlasknow yeah I still find I see I your personality it would be I have a strong disgust response yeah yeah completely agree yeah I yeah it'd
04:16:12
Brian Atlasbe I'd feel like that's kind of gross kind of are the old I'm I'm very very like you meet this girl she's perfect she's got the beef curtains she's
04:16:23
Chase4 super passionate about your podcast you find out a train had been ran on her no it's a d I can't do it I can't do it okay can't do it dang can't do it yep no
04:16:34
Brian Atlaswell I mean I'm I I feel like I'm pretty extreme with with it like even on a first date when of course like you've just met me there's clearly no expectation of commitment or anything if
04:16:46
Brian AtlasI find out on the first date that you've recently had sex with another dude even before you even met me I'm already like uh y like bro there needs to be at I
04:16:57
Kaye Killiandon't know what the minimum is at least 3 months so you guys are very intimate people for sure like sex is very important and intimate yeah absolutely it's like the most
04:17:09
Juliesacred thing that you can do with another person you know um so I have a question what is like an acceptable body count for a woman to have zero virgins then that's what you guys are that would
04:17:20
Brian Atlasbe the the ultimate yeah that would be the ultimate but the lower the better the lower the better okay better you feel the same way towards a man though like like do you think what's an acceptable body count for a men yeah I
04:17:31
Chasewell I I personally speak out against male promiscuity I think one of the worst problems in our world world is promiscuity in general I don't support dudes like sleeping with a ton of women like some somebody close to me recently was telling me that he's talking to a
04:17:45
Chasegirl he's going to have to leave California soon and like this girl is like re like she really likes him and he like kind of doesn't care about her that much he was like yeah I think I might go stay over at her place tonight I was like bro but you're going to leave
04:17:56
ChaseCalifornia and this girl like love it's going to hurt her you know like I a lot of guys are like if a guy has a high body count dudes will be like dude nice I just I think it's degenerate still hot girl go for it like yeah I think it's
04:18:08
Chasedegenerate personally like contributing to the problem with EXA as well exactly and this is this is like one of the problems I have with like the red pill sphere as a whole is you've got like a lot of influencers that are like yeah women with high body counts are bad but
04:18:21
Chasealso you as a man should go get laid as much as humanly possible it's like bro you're literally advocating for men to contribute to the problem that you're calling be like a equal situation there there are some differences though in so
04:18:32
Brian Atlasfar as there's a small proportion of men who can be promiscuous as compared to the portion of women who have the capacity and capability to be promiscuous because almost any woman if
04:18:43
Brian Atlasshe was so in inclined could be a [ __ ] but not every guy can be a [ __ ] Like It Takes a certain degree of either look status or Charisma for a guy to get laid
04:18:53
Brian Atlaswhereas there there's more women who can be promiscuous or have the capacity for promiscuity than it is the case for men so there is a differential there is a differential even ugly dude is still
04:19:07
Chasegoing to try as hard as to be a [ __ ] if he wants to be yeah he might if he wants to to his level of ugliness but let me it's going to be much harder for him to do that though than for a woman who's at the same level of ugliness yeah like a
04:19:20
Brian Atlasif if you take the point that he's making if you take like we had a woman on the show I mentioned her earlier on she this is the woman who had slept with Five Guys in a night and she did that
04:19:31
Brian Atlasfor like weeks on end um she was where's her father dude actually Nick if you're able to find it I think you've pulled it up before it's the uh I didn't hear what
04:19:41
Brian Atlasyou said oh it's the girl who uh was on the podcast before she was sleeping with five men in a day I think you've pulled it up before
04:19:51
Brian Atlasum unremarkable looking overweight her looks equivalent like if she had a brother who looked like her equivalent whatever or just her looks equivalent equivalent would not be capable of
04:20:03
Brian Atlassleeping with five women in a day in order to sleep with five women in a day you need to be Drake you need to like DaNell that is like the top
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Chasein just check the profile picture a dude he just he just successfully roasted every woman at this panel wait which one was I but I've been called weirdo so it
04:20:57
Juliereally it's Al ke I think he killed was the was it that's so un original come up with something more original do you do you have the a blanket sweat
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Brian Atlasuh yeah there's probably a better versioni slept with Five Guys per night for weeks yeah can you find H just play it just play it just play it yeah started with adult content when I was like n old
04:21:22
Unknownor something like that then eventually it got to a point where like I was 19 and I got kicked out of my house because I was like bringing over six dudes a night like it just was never enough enough was never enough so yeah what
04:21:35
Brian Atlaswait so You' sleep with six six six guys a night mhm um so like would you slot them in like 700 p.m. 8:00 p.m. 9:00 p.m. 10
04:21:47
Unknownp.m. yeah yep okay and then I would even oh sorry no go ahead I say I would even like have like my backup guys to where it was like if this guy didn't come tonight then I have then I would invite
04:21:57
Unknownthis guy and then if he did come if the first guy guy did come then I'd tell the other guy oh I'm busy like I can't you know make it or what ever so that like
04:22:08
Unknowndid you have a spreadsheet like an Excel kind of yeah I mean I had to write eventually like I had to write people's names down cuz it got like so insane oh my God that is wild I have so many
04:22:20
Brian Atlasquestions disg behavior that woman's looks equivalent in is not capable of sleeping with six
04:22:30
Kaye Killianwomen in a night in a day yes but I think the point is is just like the mindset and the beh behavior that like upsets you guys so like even though a
04:22:39
Kaye Killianman can't get that many women because he's ugly or whatever the situation is he still has that mindset of a [ __ ] or whatever so wouldn't it still be like
04:22:50
Kaye Killianthe same actions are different than intentions and your mindset is going to eventually I mean there's there's a lot of D it's not really that he's like trying his actions are the same he's still trying to get it he just his
04:23:03
Kaye Killianactions aren't the same though he's not sleeping with seven women a night because can't though so it's not really like that even if even if he could it would still be wrong for him to do yeah but that's just what I'm saying like it's it would be the same they're
04:23:14
Chaseadvocating against Behavior not not for regardless of if it's the I'm not I'm not we're not upset that guys like ugly guys can't do that but I think it's all degenerate Behavior yeah okay I was just like trying to get like yeah he was just
04:23:27
Brian Atlasexplaining why it's different between the Sexes okay yeah I still don't think I don't think it's ideal for I think men should be pursuing long-term term relationships as women hup culture is
04:23:40
Brian Atlasbad things any guy that's sleeping with seven women a night is for sure spreading a ton of s population that's so B also this this whole idea of like it's it's high value or Alpha to like
04:23:53
Brian Atlasyou may be able like you might be such an attractive guy that you're able to and you have the capacity to sleep with a lot of women but I don't think it's high value Behavior or Alpha to sleep with a bunch of women granted I do think that men
04:24:06
Brian Atlasneed to get more experience when it comes to dealing with women but not necessarily in a sexual sense but I do think that like dating yeah there's like a
04:24:18
Brian Atlasdifferential there we don't need to go into that need to build game yeah and confidence why does somebody have classes for that then huh societal classes for that well so just to make my point though I when it comes to men
04:24:31
Brian Atlassleeping with a bunch of women and it's be high value or Alpha it's the least alpha or or high value thing let's say you want to have a wife one day you want
04:24:39
Brian Atlasto have kids it's not cool to like be bringing herpes or some other STD to your the mother of your children to your
04:24:49
Chasewife Etc so you know what I think the most Alpha behavior is personally wait until marriage uh well that that but I don't think that's like like particularly Alpha per I think like the
04:25:02
Chasemost Alpha behavior that a man can embody is like making the greatest success out of him s that he can finding the most beautiful and virtuous woman that he can having as many kids with her as humanly possible repopulating the
04:25:13
ChaseEarth and creating a freaking Dynasty dude building building a family that then like governs the Earth bro that's Alpha Behavior tell us about that what's that Arrow one I agree with that the
04:25:22
Chasearrow thean sons are like arrows Warrior uh Proverbs says the children of a man's youth are like arrows in the hands of a warrior so basically the Bible is saying Your
04:25:35
ChaseChildren Are it's describing your kids as artillery to send out into the world so I'm curious on like adoption for you like say like I'm open to it okay yeah I was I was raised by my stepfather my
04:25:47
Chasebiological father was never in my life and so you my stepfather yeah yeah okay I've like I remember when I was 18 I had this like feeling one day I was like I want like 30 kids like I just like knew
04:26:00
ChaseI wanted as many kids as humanly possible and it's just stuck with me ever since you know that's nice yeah I I got a lot of love to pour into my future children and yeah my my stepdad raised
04:26:12
Chaseme and he did an incredible job raising me like my I wouldn't I would there's no way I would be who I am today if he hadn't raised me and like I would love to pay that forward someday it's nice
04:26:22
Kaye Killianyou know that's my take do you guys want to have a lot of kids I would love to yeah how many kids do you want to have want kids I mean I would love to have twins personally get it done why it ad
04:26:34
Kaye Killianas fast as possible like yeah then I would get it done um would you be open to multiple sets of triplets that would be a lot but I mean if it freaking happened like I guess it
04:26:46
Genie Exomhappened but yeah I would prefer just two do you guys want to have kids no no why I maybe I'll change my mind when I'm older or something but as of now no and I never don't wait you never know
04:26:58
Juliewaiting I'm for sure waiting it depends on my financial position I would want to be like relatively wealthy to be able to give them you know the best schools the best food I want to give them the best
04:27:09
Chaseof everything but if you're in a good position you want to have kids yes yeah you said you did yeah we of course no candy Longs for children I I will pray tonight that God
04:27:21
Chasegives you the kids that you want whether they're your own or from someone else what about you yeah yes I'm sure it's a yes yeah let me
04:27:34
Brian Atlastry to I'm going to try to get through these not as as I can here so just finishing off with uh let's see Karina okay we did the whole restraining order thing uh modern dating with apps
04:27:46
Brian Atlasis definitely not for everyone I've seen successful stories but I personally hate it it's based on looks you don't know if the vibe is really there and then you risk showing up to the date being a waste of time or them just looking for friends with benefit situation Karina
04:27:58
Brian Atlasover here uh you prefer meeting people in person my boyfriend and I met four years ago at the party his friend invited me to oh there's not much there okay there's
04:28:09
Brian Atlasnot uh let's see we also have Kaye oh wait oh the story of how you and your
04:28:21
Kaye Killianboyfriend met okay you want it oh is it good we we want it is it good okay this the short version if you can but okay so we met through a mutual friend I was in Arizona
04:28:33
Kaye KillianI lived in La at the time and I was visiting her and we went to like a concert or whatever um she introduced us and then we all went out to the bar um
04:28:44
Kaye Killianhe was really shy I had to like make the first move we you know I didn't know his name it wasn't anything serious we barely talked hooked up but we ended up
04:28:55
Kaye Killianhooking up on this dude's balcony in front of everyone at the what yeah how did you not know no we knew oh you knew yeah
04:29:06
Kaye Killianthat would be kind of hard enough to was it obvious to the the bystanders the yes so we go to this after all the way hm did you go all the way on the balcony no
04:29:17
Kaye Killianso he just ate my ass yeah yeah so we go to this Afterparty it's like an intimate Afterparty so there's like 10 people
04:29:28
Kaye Killianmaybe 15 people um and me and him just go straight to the balcony we're just like let's it was intimate all right yeah let's let's get out of here so we go on the balcony it just starts
04:29:39
Kaye Killianhappening we're both extremely drunk obviously and the dude who owns this like Penthouse that we're at like is coming outside and like handing us shots
04:29:50
Kaye Killianand he's like in our ear and he's like you guys are so beautiful like yeah like and I'm just like focused on him I think I knew then that like this was the one I don't know I I think that sounds crazy
04:30:02
Kaye Killianbut like I swear and so I was just like focused on him he was just focus on me and we'd like get the shots taken be like yeah man whatever like like go like whatever and he just like kept coming
04:30:13
Kaye Killianand it was like five times and then eventually we were out there for like 2 and 1 half hours wow in front of people yes wow yes and so then we go back inside and it's been like two and a half
04:30:26
Kaye Killianhours and we go inside and everyone's gone and it's just this dude who owns the place I go use the restroom and my boyfriend told me like later on that he like came up to him was like you got to get her back here and we like record it
04:30:38
Brian Atlasand like I'll pay you guys and stuff like that yeah did you do it no wait question that that that was the line too far line too far not hooking up in front of all those people so the how long have
04:30:50
Brian Atlasyou been dating your boyfriend again one year you said year this one year uh you said that you so okay the first night that you met your boyfriend uh you
04:30:59
Brian Atlashooked up and he he ate ass mhm question do you you really love you love this guy oh yeah you think you guys are going to get married maybe yes we are getting married kids you think you guys want kids how many kids do you guys
04:31:11
Brian Atlaswant um I just said I wanted I want twins so hopefully two question for you when your kids say they're 5 years old and they ask Mommy and Daddy tell us
04:31:22
Kaye Killianabout the first night you met I'm sure we'll change the story what are you going to tell him well I'm sure he'll change it to oh I saw her from across the room and she was beautiful and I had
04:31:33
Kaye Killianto go up to her and I made the first move and and all that but do you think you'll mention the ass eating no not at that age as we as they get older we might like put that in there oh
04:31:52
Brian Atlaswow good talk uh okay let's see we have oh you love Tate no I'm just kidding oh that's okay it's fine if you do I guess
04:32:00
Brian Atlasum I see let's see we have Okay Candy we need the wrap up oh candy you mentioned hookup culture you wanted to talk about hookup culture breed culture what is
04:32:13
KikiI've never heard this what is breed culture it's nasty is what it is what's what do you mean um like to breed someone can you
04:32:23
Chasedefine it yeah can you yeah it's like intentionally to emit inside a woman so she gets pregnant there's a is there you're saying there's a culture of this sounds like just a thing guys do what do
04:32:36
Candy Laneyou mean there's a cult are there like online forums where dudes are like planning this out breeding really mhm so they do it without telling the woman I
04:32:46
Candy Lanedon't know about that and I don't know if it's all like intended like that or if it's like um people that don't know each other or if it's mostly like people that
04:32:59
Candy Laneare in a couple that put out that kind of content but it's it's it's its own culture and that's just like that's too far because I mean that's basically feeding directly into the abortion Mill
04:33:11
Brian Atlaslike let's create a baby just to kill it I mean wait what cuz it's hot or it's like a fetish well okay hold on let's differentiate here a little bit so these
04:33:21
Brian Atlasare people that specifically because like a man could and a woman could conceivably enjoy not to be like vulgar this isn't
04:33:31
Brian Atlaseven that like cream pie like a guy wants to come inside of a woman without necessarily wanting to breed her so is that is that what you're talking about
04:33:44
Brian Atlasdoes a guy wanting to come inside the woman does that constitute like this is this is specific because I would make the argument that the vast majority of
04:33:53
Brian Atlasmen want to avoid getting a one night stand or even their girlfriend pregnant there certainly there might be like a kink it's a fetish fetish thing is and
04:34:06
Brian Atlasit's I don't think you can say that there is a culture and there is a whole yeah no but when like typically when I'm thinking of a culture it means that
04:34:15
Brian Atlasthere's there's a majority movement within a society that is desirous of this thing where I would argue actually the vast majority of men who are
04:34:25
Brian Atlasengaging in sex either casually or with a long-term partner don't want to get their girlfriend or hookup pregnant I don't think that we're talking about those though and maybe I'm
04:34:37
Brian Atlason ready too much okay well it's not I don't think it's I've never met a guy who's into what you're describing I think it's a f probably like there there probably are some men there's definitely men out there that are like probably are
04:34:49
Brian AtlasI've never met it guy who's into it probably pretty rare um if I UND let's see oh you said in your pre-show notes to us if I understood modern technology at all I would be a top 1% multi-million
04:35:00
Brian Atlasdollar earning only fans phenomenon I not trying to be full of my self this is I just yeah I just know what I have and understand marketing
04:35:11
Brian Atlasenough to say that that with all confidence yeah it's so that your lack of
04:35:23
Candy Lanetechnological understanding is what you feel is holding you back yeah and it's pretty bad like I didn't want to mention the whole autistic thing but I
04:35:34
Brian Atlasam pretty yeah pretty far down there and that is pro that's making it hard for the understanding the
04:35:45
Candy Lanetechnology yeah I don't understand technology like I can't there I I can't even describe it or exp all right uh yeah and you you continue to say
04:35:56
Brian Atlasthough I cogn cognitively disabled diagnosed on the Spectrum in BPD uh you struggle significantly when
04:36:04
Brian Atlasit comes to wait so sorry I wait my notes are all scuffed here hold on uh were you trying to when you mentioned that were you trying to say that that
04:36:15
Candy Lanemakes it more difficult when it comes to dating I would say that makes it somewhat impossible
04:36:25
Candy Laneimpossible okay that's a lot of baggage oh yeah that's a lot of baggage I mean that's like not just a suitcase that's a carryon that's a shoulder bag that's a makeup bag that's all kinds of stuff in
04:36:37
Brian Atlasthere I will say when it comes to comparing men and women who have cognitive disabilities autism Aspergers I would actually argue that men who are
04:36:49
Brian Atlasneurodivergent are going to struggle struggle significantly more when it comes to getting women dating than the reverse um expand upon that Brian please explain for the audience why that might
04:37:00
Brian Atlasbe yeah well I mean it kind of comes down similarly to video that we pulled up of that woman who was no offense to her she wasn't particularly attractive
04:37:10
Brian Atlasshe was overweight she was able to sleep with Five Guys in the night despite her lack of physical beauty or attraction or
04:37:19
Brian Atlasany other redeeming quality okay that was a bit mean but uh uh she was able to [ __ ] Five Guys in the night so Sim similarly the problem for dudes on the
04:37:31
Brian AtlasSpectrum when it comes to dating how do you see that well I would say that a woman who is like Autistic or deficient in some way with her cognition that
04:37:41
Brian Atlasisn't really going to be a barrier when it comes to having sex and we have like for example you you say you're a a sex addict you haven't struggled when it
04:37:52
Brian Atlascomes to getting sex despite your admitted cognitive dis disability being on the Spectrum having borderline personality disorder you
04:38:02
Brian Atlasmight want to go that way might be a little easier for you um rip and uh so you assume that you think
04:38:12
Chaseit would be harder for a man in the same position I I I would just because he's a man well there knowing knowing dudes on the Spectrum the thing about dating in part and the thing about women is that I
04:38:25
Chasethink the men that are most successful with women typically understand female emotions the best oh okay so like social cues social cues being a like if you want a healthy relationship with with the woman you as a man you're going to have to be able to understand her
04:38:38
Kaye Killianemotions and stuff whereas like the other way around if the woman didn't understand social cues the man maybe wouldn't care as much yeah it's like less of a big deal I think to guys neurode Divergent people should just
04:38:49
Juliestick with each other because they understand each other very well it's honestly probably good advice is it though you don't think so I don't I feel like it would almost like double the but
04:39:01
Candy Lanewhat if they're autistic in the same exact way how what are the possibil of that though what is the probability of do the m i we have like three autistic people in the room right now I wouldn't say it's a weakness I would say it can
04:39:13
Juliebe a strength because you you I wouldn't say it's a weakness I'd say it's a strength because you see the world in a drastically different way you know probably autic people from what I understand differ and it's it's not
04:39:26
Chasesomething that should be looked down on it should be I agree no I I think I think autism can actually be like a superpower cognitively speaking like I've I've read that autistic people have like vast like where they lack
04:39:38
Chaseemotionally sometimes they have like vastly stronger systematizing and like logical thinking uh Israel right now has like an entire platoon of like autistic digital bro straight up they they
04:39:51
Chasestraight they straight up have like an entire platoon of like autistic soldiers like doing yeah doing like ground monitoring and stuff I'm not this is real I saw an article about this last week they have an entire unit of
04:40:03
Chaseautistic soldiers doing ground monitoring what what's what's paltin probably like IQ iq70
04:40:14
Chasepeople oh Jesus okay Ser think the average I of Palestinians is like 67 or something like that I saw that online like a week ago I don't know hopefully I don't get killed for saying
04:40:24
Chaseyou might get canceled for that um if there's probably many very smart people in Palestine please I'm like not being racist towards you it's just it's just what I read but anyways maybe we should stay away from the
04:40:35
Chasemiddle e conflict um uh but yeah like bringing people like that together probably I would imagine they would probably get along much better they should just like have two parts of society you know wait you want to create
04:40:47
Juliea segregated Society they should have two parts of society cuz I just don't think they're ever going to like get along because neurode Divergent people they kind of like make people like
04:40:59
Julieneurotypical people feel uncomfortable in like this very deep down like Uncanny Valley Way
04:41:07
Brian Atlasshow I'm kidding I I don't I don't experience that personally with autistic people you could actually perhaps make the argument that uh like
04:41:16
Brian Atlasa a JZ a neurode Divergent person could match up really well with a neurotypical person because that neurotypical person might be more suited
04:41:28
Brian Atlasto uh for example like someone who's kind of awkward and shy could could best pair off with someone who's maybe more extroverted [ __ ] I'm doing a terrible
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Brian Atlasjob articulating this but I I think there's there's Merit to it um that person that's neurotypical might be or might be more capable of carrying the
04:41:50
Brian Atlasrelationship whereas if there's two people that are lacking in the ability to build a relationship Department I don't navigating like
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JulieSociety so yeah I know like one of the partners could better carry the relationship but if they're both like just like take them under their wing and guide them for things they would have a