She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon?! | Dating Talk #116
Date: 2023-11-08
Duration: 6h 05m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Priya(guest)
SPEAKER_04Karina Hammond(guest)
SPEAKER_05Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jessica Kirby(guest)
SPEAKER_07Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chase(guest)
SPEAKER_10Muki(guest)
SPEAKER_11Genie Exom(guest)
SPEAKER_12Kaye Killian(guest)
SPEAKER_14Candy Lane(guest)
Key Moments
00:13:15
QuoteGenie admits stabbing incident: says cops loved her and she went to jail briefly, released; dismisses serious framing
“they were so nice for real they were like this is your first time... I literally go and the police officer was like oh you're famous”
00:26:20
QuoteGenie describes attending a stranger's funeral as her first date with a girl she barely knew (flown from Paris after 2-3 weeks of texting)
“my last date... the date was like not well... so at a funeral... I flew there... I was down bad”
00:41:36
QuoteCandy reveals infertility as the event that ended her 10-year celibacy: "I can't have kids"
“I got some news about something something that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me and yet it did... I can't have kids”
00:47:00
QuoteChase delivers extended speech encouraging Candy not to give up on love, comparing her situation to Abraham and Sarah
“I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason... don't give up... Abraham and Sarah were childless and Barren until they were like a hundred years old”
01:23:50
ControversyChase directly confronts Candy about her self-sabotage regarding a 47yo man who expressed interest through the show
“what if this guy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids... you only have sex with younger men... that's pretty shallow”
01:24:57
QuoteCandy refuses to give up sex with younger men despite Chase's urging to pursue real relationship: "I only smash younger"
“here I only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life”
01:42:48
QuoteGenie reveals she had a boyfriend who locked her in his room from age 14-15 for a year and a half, had to sneak out the window for food
“I was like 14 15 and I could stay in his room... I couldn't come out of his room... I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home”
02:05:50
QuoteGenie admits she was a sugar mama spending ~$40K/month on a man, on top of her own $20K/month lifestyle
“how much do you think you were spending per month... maybe like 20K mon... you spend 20,000 a month... and then double that for him”
02:09:28
QuoteGenie reveals sleeping with an Army platoon (~20 soldiers in ~1 month) while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama
“you said that you effed a whole platoon... bring your friends to eat some wings and then I was like oh they're cute and he was like I was like put me on”
02:18:18
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line on makeup: "a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction"
“a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:05
Introductions and current relationship status
Brian introduces panel of 8 women plus co-host Chase. Each guest gives name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Notable: Kaye in new relationship doing OF with boyfriend; Genie single; Julie in new relationship; Candy terminally single; Karina in relationship; Muki in 3yr relationship; Jessica single 3yrs; Priya in new relationship (~2mo).
00:11:00
Genie Exom: stabbing incident and infamous past
Discussion of news articles about Genie stabbing her boyfriend with a broken glass in NYC. Genie maintains it was self-defense. Brian and Chase pull up New York Post articles. Genie was charged and released without bail. 22yo at time of incident.
00:34:00
Candy Lane: sex addiction and 10-year celibacy
Deep discussion of Candy Lane's sex addiction, two promiscuous phases (pre-celibacy teens, post-2020), and 10-year celibacy for faith (2010-2020). Reveals infertility discovered in 2020 as catalyst ending celibacy. Chase and Brian encourage Candy not to give up on love. Candy maintains pessimism.
00:57:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Panel rates themselves on looks. Kaye: 10; Genie: 10; Julie: 6-6.5; Candy: refuses to rate; Muki: 6-7; Karina: no clear number; Jessica: declines; Priya: ~2. Chase rates himself 7.5-8. Chat asked to rate Genie (got avg ~7). Brian discusses how youth = advantage in ratings.
01:55:20
Genie: sugar mama phase
Genie describes being a sugar mama for 3 years, spending ~$40K/month (double her own $20K/month). Paid rent, food, flights, Europe trips for a 32-33yo man while she was 21. Dated men who would not let her be dominant. Revealed she was also a sugar mama as young as 18 with a 29yo. Gave up the sugar mama lifestyle now.
02:06:09
Modern dating hypergamy and promiscuity
Julie raises concern about hypergamy in modern dating and its harm to young women. Brian clarifies the definition (marrying up socioeconomically). Discussion of promiscuity (the word Julie meant) and de-feminism in media.
02:12:52
Genie: sleeping with an Army platoon
Genie reveals she slept with approximately 20 Army soldiers (~a full platoon) over ~1 month while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama. First soldier stayed after work, then introduced her to more. Brian and panel discuss the scope (Brian Googles "platoon size"). Genie was younger at the time.
02:19:41
Who should pay on a first date?
Extended debate on whether men or women should pay on a first date. Brian advocates splitting or low-cost dates given modern dating marketplace promiscuity. Chase tests women with no-payment to gauge princess complex. Panel mostly prefers man pays but split is acceptable. Brian's "doggy bag" scenario discussed.
03:00:00
Makeup: who is it for?
Discussion of whether women wear makeup for men or themselves. Panel admits both — for themselves and to attract/impress others. Brian and Chase argue makeup is effectively a mating strategy. Brian says he dislikes heavy makeup. Comparison: makeup = rented Lamborghini (super chat).
03:15:00
Height preferences and shoe inserts
Panel states height preferences. Most want taller than themselves (range 5'7"-5'11"+). Candy requires 5'11" minimum, must be circumcised. Discussion of men wearing shoe inserts — most women would not hold it against them but would be confused. Brian says men's face is autobiography; woman's face is "work of fiction."
03:20:15
Relationship accountability round
Brian asks each guest: one thing you did wrong and one thing your ex did wrong in a past relationship. Common themes: women not respecting/taking seriously, men being lazy and not working. Genie's ex would not let her peg him. Julie mommy'd her boyfriend. Priya's ex hid vices and gaslighted her. Kaye was selfish when young. Jessica fed boyfriend's jealousy. Muki texted and deleted messages.
04:48:00
Soulmates, twin flames, and marriage philosophy
After-show discussion on soulmates and twin flames. Chase argues soulmate concept is a modern scam that leads to divorce. Discussion of types of love (eros vs. agape). Brian advocates for faith-based, committed marriage. Panel weighs in on no-fault divorce.
05:13:00
Promiscuity self-assessment (1-10 scale)
Aftershow: panel rates how promiscuous they are for their age. Kaye: ~7-8 (one new guy every 2 weeks during 8-month single period). Genie: implied high but evasive. Julie: not promiscuous in relationship. Candy: 6 in 2023. Priya: 2. Muki: in relationship so not applicable. Brian and Chase define scale: 1 new partner/week = 10.
05:26:00
Women and draft / military service
Aftershow topic: would women be drafted into the military? Genie reveals she passed her Army physical (MEPS/ASVAB). Panel discusses physical differences in combat. Brian jokes about progression from platoons to brigades.
Transcript
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00:55:40
Brian Atlasthink you think he was a good man to other women uh what I know of he was probably not no no okay all right okay well thank you Rippy Derek the trader oh my God Derek what the [ __ ] okay ranking
00:55:54
TTS Readerthe girl ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only being 10 starting to the left Sovereign BR we'll come back donated $99 Genie exm is Queen and I'll s for
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00:56:26
Chasea long audio all right let me pull this one back up from uh Derek thank you Ryan appreciate ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only 10 being the highest starting to the left of sovereign BR 7
00:56:38
Genie Exom435 2558 you guys want to respond to that do you want I feel like I should have got
00:56:46
Mukihigher S four three three I know I got four girl I got four baby I mean want to be here but I think I look pretty good
00:56:59
Brian Atlasyou do how would you guys how would you guys rate yourselves you want to do that starting over here yeah so we have Stiffler since it's related ask everyone to rate their looks looks I mind you on a scale of 1 to 10 go
00:57:11
Kaye Killianahead um I think it depends on the day but for the most part I now oh right now um I mean I feel pretty good right now here look into this camera and tell tell
00:57:20
Genie Exomus I feel good so I would say a 10 right now I'm feeling confident all right 10 I going to say the same I think I'm a 10 I think I'm looking good today in pink
00:57:30
Julieokay okay I'd say I'm probably like a six five you know I agree all right Candy Lane pretty I don't rate
00:57:40
Brian Atlasmyself you don't no but why not because I think it's rude to do that to anyone well wa wait hold on hold on hold on
00:57:50
Chasejust my understanding was think it but I when it comes to I got well when it comes when it you said it pretty clearly a few moments ago you had a whole rating system for dudes and what was what was A
00:58:02
Brian AtlasCut Above and what was a cut below you said you said you wouldn't measure one to 10 no but you said uh like literally a numerical measurement of a guy's height you said bare minimum 5'11 height
00:58:13
Brian Atlasand but you said you don't like to numerically you you wouldn't want to numerically rate somebody on their looks it's pretty Sim all those were ratings of a man's appear extremely shallow so
00:58:23
Brian Atlasit's who whoa whoa whoa whoa oh my God is it superficial too superficial shallow sure well don't just because
00:58:33
Chasewe're pushing back don't back down from your position um so it's it's shallow to care about looks I didn't say care about she said it's it's it's rude to rate
00:58:44
Chasesomebody on their looks yeah well you also said after rating men based on all of these physical characteristics you feel do you feel like do you feel like it's rude to rate yourself but not guys
00:58:57
Chaseum cuz if you saw let's say you saw a guy you are you telling me that it would be rude of you to be like oh yeah he's a 10 or no he's like a six you wouldn't do that I don't do that but you do discriminate based on all of these
00:59:09
Chasedifferent physical charri it's just criteria everybody has it it's everybody absolutely does everybody's entitled to their personal preferences but it's you just said a moment ago you had all these
00:59:21
Chasediscriminatory factors for a guy but then when it came to rating on self you're like no it's rude I I think it's rude to rap people that's you're taking that out of context it's it's what you said it's what you said you said shallow
00:59:33
Candy Lanepeople like what they like right I don't go around and say oh my gosh you're a 10 or you are a six I'm not talk are you telling me you've never raid a guy with
00:59:42
Candy Laneone of your girlfriends no really I'm calling cap okay a I don't have any girlfriends and thank you for
00:59:53
Julieclarifying anyways on the Friendship thing yeah so are you like friends with males more or we we should keep we should keep going around the table you sounded pretty poed at your rating that
01:00:06
Chasethat guy gave you what would you rate yourself was that you or was that her what did I get was that her I don't know somebody was mad over here at the rating that they got Zelda you're mad yeah you got a five five you
01:00:19
Mukigot a five yeah um what would you rate yourself I don't know six seven I'm not going to put a number but I know
01:00:27
MukiI look good okay really yes are you disagreeing do you think you're a
01:00:37
Muki10 um probably not to everybody but I don't assume everybody to like like me everyone has a different type aren't we saying what we think of ourselves is it
01:00:49
Mukijust are we just talking about like looks just looks yeah just looks I mean yeah I look good yeah that's good you're turn but I didn't plan for it today like I think everybody else knew
01:01:00
Chasethat they were going to be on the show today except for me so wait what do you mean you didn't plan for today how did this happen then she came with with her with Genie as a friend okay and then I
01:01:10
Brian Atlaswanted her to still be here so I made her come on so I wasn't prepared but so she wasn't really ready no the the only reason I pushed back is because before the show you had requested to be sitting
01:01:21
Brian Atlason that side of the table because it was your good angle yes so if you're a girl at this table let me know if you have a better side of your face but if you're
01:01:30
Brian Atlasif you sure but if you're a 10 wouldn't it stand to reason that you look Exceptional from every single possible angle you're say I do see what you're saying well 10 out of 10 is perfect
01:01:43
Brian Atlaslooks that's like Godly but did I say 10 out of 10 well I asked you if you were 10 out of 10 I didn't I didn't say that you refused to answer you said okay I said I look good all right fair enough
01:01:52
Chasethat could sure right go ahead I think at least a seven not okay 6.57 okay everyone that that's includes Chase over here Chase what what do you I'd give
01:02:04
Chasemyself like seven and a half or an eight on a good day all right I give myself hard on I give myself a six oh we got the two1 over here no I feel like I feel like I'm just like sober and objective
01:02:15
Chaseyou know like there's absolute Giga Chads out there and like I'm not an absolute do you do you want to answer or no I don't even know what my rating was
01:02:25
Brian AtlasI didn't what's your own it huh what that doesn't matter just youting yourself how do you feel about yourself like do you I'm a 10 is that no I'm not
01:02:37
Candy Lanea 10 oh okay all right no I'm not 10 all right I'm not delusional all right there you have it are you saying that the other woman are you saying mean are you
01:02:49
Candy Lanesaying they're delusional for saying 10 they're like based fresh still I'm sorry I'm 27 like that compared to other women they're fresh interesting
01:03:01
Brian Atlasdescriptor but that makes the difference everybody knows that you well sure youth uh yeah everybody knows Youth and Beauty go hand in hand so we got the two tens here um
01:03:14
Genie Exomokay all right um I feel like I should change my answer now no no no don't be influenced no no no
01:03:24
Chaseface like do I sound cocky like no I do do you guys think that all women should rate themselves as tens I would hope yeah I think we should all love ourselves even men but if every woman's a 10 then every woman is of equal
01:03:37
Kaye Killianattractiveness and that's obviously not true you're asking us what we think of ourselves though yeah I think so of myself I think I am a 10 like in this moment I have bad days where I think I'm
01:03:48
Brian Atlaslower so you're say you're saying you have high self-confidence right now yeah yes I I have a question do you have plastic surgery I do yes were you a 10
01:03:58
Kaye Killianbefore the plastic surgery I felt like I was a 10 before at moment and then sometimes I didn't well then why the need for plastic surgery if you're
01:04:09
TTS Reader$9 will you also be making selda stay on your only fans Genie new girl girl please okay yeah course coming after the
01:04:19
Brian AtlasBug House those are those are her friends who she told us I swear to God shats I have no idea during the show um go ahead I believe I'm poppy cuz like if you were 10 if you were 10 before if you
01:04:32
Brian Atlaswere if your physical Beauty was a 10 before why the need to augment it with plastic surgery I see what you're saying yes so I would say a lot of that was influence I moved to LA and like oh rip
01:04:44
Kaye Killianyep y I mean I don't she almost got easily influenced just by that like she was about to change her answer but um also like I started making more money so I feel like when you oh you know when
01:04:56
Kaye Killianmaking more money you do what you get unnecessary dangerous surgeries to on I mean it's like if you have more money like why not buy nicer clothes and like
01:05:06
Kaye Killianfor me it was like nicer boobs nicer nose what was wrong I mean not to dive to what was what was wrong with the boobs before nothing they were actually
01:05:16
TTS Readerfine I like9 hate the single number system here is what we have developed at my academic in
01:05:24
TTS Readerwhich is a three tier system0 or 1 0al No 1 equal smashable 0 to 10 face 0 to 10 body this is a more comprehensive
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TTS Readerapproach of a Cosmopolitan age communication equals key you lost me don't understand that lost that's like so complicated that's some Advanced lost me here I have something for you hold on
01:05:48
Brian Atlasit's uh I don't know man that sounds like a lot of work uh cuz yeah I just if you were a 10 you
01:05:59
Priyawouldn't need to have gotten plastic surgery yeah fair enough but I mean I wanted it and made more money can I ask a question yeah so if you guys were to
01:06:10
Priyatheoretically take the what you presume would be the average answers for that question from men what do you think you would be huh um so from other people not from myself I would probably agree like seven
01:06:24
Genie Exomor eight um you think that's what men would rate you yeah okay depending on the man I guess on average what like what would you just assume on average yeah I was like eight or
01:06:35
Brian Atlasnine okay it's a good question I feel like more more the answer wait wait I got anyway not I'm not going to be mean here not trying to be mean [ __ ] if you
01:06:46
Brian Atlaswere to like I I don't think like a cohort of men is going to rate you on average eight or nine yeah no offense
01:06:57
Julieit's candy jumped in real quick on that one yeah no non- taken what oh okay yeah I take no offense why wouldn't they though I mean she's pretty thank you
01:07:07
Chaseshe's attractive but oh I was thinking you meant that she would be huh no he was saying he was saying if we asked an honest cohort of men they would not rate her and he's just your opinion you mean
01:07:18
Brian Atlash here why don't we ask the chat your opinion also on the type of don't be a [ __ ] just to like don't intentionally rate or low like chat be honest Nick can you pull up the chat
01:07:29
Candy Laneplease okay go gock Nick Nick show me make it bigger that's partly what's seriously wrong with this world that everybody's so hypercritical God
01:07:40
Brian Atlasbro can you make it so on average between five and seven average six it looks like I'm seeing some sevens honest guys more just just looks by the way not
01:07:52
Genie Exomthe whole stabbing thing you can't factor nine close the chat I see a nine close the 10 girl y'all are done eight no don't factor in the I know zero attempted murder thing block them block
01:08:05
Genie Exomthem okay six seven looks like seven who said the negative it look like I saw a nine I don't know I'm happy who rated me nine do you do you have an accent where are you from I'm from Alabama okay checks out um all right whoever did
01:08:17
Brian Atlaseight or nine gets a free subscription and photo good talk um wait so both of you said that all women should view themselves as tens do you think all men should view themselves as tens yes really really yeah of course why because
01:08:30
Genie ExomI want you to love yourself I want you to think highly of yourself I want you to feel confident in yourself I don't want you to think down about yourself this is why women give terrible dating advice bro like I don't want you to F down yeah I Want You To Love Yourself I mean don't you think it's a B I mean
01:08:43
Genie Exomyou're going to hate yourself sometimes don't you think it's a bit delusional hate realistic but it doesn't mean you don't want it yeah I mean I mean you're going to hate yourself sometimes obviously but sometimes you're going to love yourself here's the reality it's
01:08:54
Chaseimportant for men to have self-confidence but if somebody if I'm a guy and I'm rating myself a 10 what I'm subconsciously communicating to myself is there's no room for improvement I'm perfect the way that I am which is ridiculous I think that's a really
01:09:07
Chasestupid way for guys to look at themselves I also don't think it's a smart way for women to look at the themselves well when you say that that makes sense right yeah no it's it's important to have self-confidence but delusional self-confidence I don't think helps anybody yeah definitely I mean I don't think I'm delusional
01:09:20
Genie Exomself-confidence I think I'm just self-consent cuz I still think I have room Improvement like I sidence is absolutely rational yeah cuz I think a lot of the time I know if I'm at my healthiest and I work out every day and
01:09:31
Genie ExomI do this like I can be like the best you know so I'm just but if I think low of myself that day I'm not going to go to the gym I'm not going to work out so I'm going to think really high of myself so I can keep bettering myself okay so you said like objectively objectively
01:09:43
Kaye Killianspeaking you feel like you're like an eight or nine so you just barely have room for improvement much I mean I got more room I got to keep pushing I got keep an incentive I also see I see what you're saying but then I also think it's
01:09:55
Kaye Killiangood to not be delusional in the other way where you constantly feel like you have to be better and better and better cuz I feel like that can be like what are you driving for then I so I disagree
01:10:06
Kaye Killianwith that I would say you unhappy sometimes like I feel like a lot of people can end up with like certain things like self-loathing I disagree like eating disorders of some way that's
01:10:17
Chasethat's Z 20009 but again that follow you Instagram chat make sure to follow him on Instagram Jesus is King hey appreciate that Zach yeah if you guys
01:10:31
Chasewant to follow me on Instagram my uh username is Sovereign bra with an H on the end sovere to your point though um yeah with the eating disorder stuff I think that's usually more common with
01:10:42
Chasewomen but I I would agree that if somebody's too hard on themselves it can spiral into self-loading despair depression so on and so forth what I disagree with though is the
01:10:52
Chaseidea that men shouldn't be hard on themselves I think men I personally I'm like ruthlessly hard on myself and I have been for the past years men or you just mean like people in well you know
01:11:03
TTS Readerwomen it's different okay here's the thing women who are hard on themselves they typically have like oh my God Christopher wood donated
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TTS Reader$99 I feel really stupid for spending a100 bucks to talk to people I don't know but at least I didn't pay way more than 100 bucks to get no that is worse
01:11:24
TTS Readerthan my original nose fake noses do not look nicer they are noticeably weird who is this directed to I don't me it's directed to her oh do you want to respond to that I mean I don't think you
01:11:36
TTS Readerwould have noticed I had a nose job unless I said it so I would known I would have never known I didn't notice he donated $99 it's important to know your objective looks rating of yourself for
01:11:47
TTS Readerdating I'm 24 already balding slightly overweight and way lower than average P I can be confident and working on myself but still be realistic for my future
01:11:59
Chaserespect bro respect to finish the point that I was making a second ago I think when women are really hard on themselves they'll be hard on themselves about their physical appearance they'll be hard on themselves about their bodies so
01:12:10
Chaseon and so forth that can spiral into self-loathing that can lead to like you said Eating Disorders plastic surgery is one way that women will try to fix it and the solution for that often times is
01:12:23
Chaseyou're right loving oneself but also taking good care of oneself with men though like I think the issue in the world is that not enough men are ruthlessly critical of themselves and
01:12:34
Chasehard enough on themselves I think a lot of dudes are lazy yes I agree actually women are very frustrated by how how many men are just like not striving in life yeah they're they're comfortable
01:12:46
Chasethey're not getting after it they're not working to build their value and like early in my 20s I was I I took like very sober in ventory of myself and my life and I was like okay I need to get this this this this this this and this in
01:12:58
Chaseshape and I worked really hard on it and I still do to this day and I think when when men don't do that they end up not building their value and men find their confidence in their value right you guys are talking about men having like high self-esteem men should think of
01:13:12
Chasethemselves as tens as a guy I'm not just going to think of myself as a 10 because I'm like oh wow I just I think I'm perfect I'm going to have confidence in myself because I know that I have aspects to my life yes they can back it up okay I
01:13:25
Kaye Killianagreee with that does that make sense yeah and I also think that kind of goes like person to person as well like you know based on like mental and stuff like that certain and then I also think with
01:13:36
Priyathe men thing it's the difference between a boy and a man I agree oh yeah sure and there's different uh different ideals for what men and women have to achieve in life and Men
01:13:48
Priyastrive to achieve success and it's different for women women strive for for the most part vanity type of type of uh
01:13:57
Priyaaspirations but men strive for successful careers successful um attractiveness in terms of like your physical fitness and Etc yeah and I I like the message that I try to preach to
01:14:10
Chasedudes is like it's okay to not be enough and to realize it as long as you're working towards becoming the best version of yourself you know like you don't have to hate yourself if you're not enough but
01:14:22
Chaselike even successful dudes that are resting on their Laurels like if you get lazy like your your value is going to slip dudes that don't have much value if they're just like sitting around not doing anything with their lives like the
01:14:35
Chaseright kind of women that they really want probably won't end up wanting them you know like it's as a man it's good to always be striving to be better I agree with you I think just like the innocent like sweetness of me wants everyone to
01:14:46
Brian Atlasfeel really good about themselves understandable I the the the only difference there though is that when it comes to getting sexual attention from the opposite sex the
01:14:59
Brian Atlastreatment that men and women get is very different yes so women can think they're a 10 and it's not going to slap them in the face but if a guy thinks he's a 10
01:15:10
Brian Atlasif a guy thinks he's hot [ __ ] he's he's not going to be one Assuming he's not right if he's actually a 10 and he thinks it's a 10 that's fine but men will get slapped in the face with the reality whereas I think women ially
01:15:23
Brian Atlasdon't because what I think ends up happening is typically women when it comes to who they can sleep with women can sleep out of their league when it comes to looks when it comes to status when it comes to all sorts of things an
01:15:34
Brian Atlasaverage 19-year-old girl could go [ __ ] like probably some famous celebrity now what what I would say to that is your league is the men who will marry
01:15:44
Brian Atlasyou yes not the men who will sleep with you y so women uh when when you sleep with attractive men and if you let that go to your head assuming that that's your league that's about as ridiculous
01:15:56
Brian Atlasas like an average guy who's sub to a bunch of of models and assumes that's his League um and I think women need to know where they stand looks wise because if you're if you think you're a 10 and
01:16:07
Chaseyou're gunning for a certain caliber of men for long-term commitment I think you're going to be let down um I think women need to to be able to accurately appraise themselves looks wise but also
01:16:18
Chasein terms of like what are they bringing to a relationship are they are they argu ative can they cook are they sweet and feminine do they offer loyalty do they offer good support to a man right cuz
01:16:30
Chaselike a lot of women want a partner yeah and a lot of women want like the highest quality guy but they're just frankly not the highest quality part both ways like women are always looking for a partner
01:16:41
TTS Readerand like I feel like men or sorry wrong way like men are always looking for a partner but then women aren't looking for that grid One Motorsports donated $100
01:16:53
TTS Readerwhen evaluating yourself in the dating Marketplace is a key to happiness F men status earning potential and ability to provide is generally valued higher than
01:17:03
Brian Atlaslooks for women the weight is on your looks attitude and Purity yeah thank you good one last thing on this um I think another thing that's related to this is typically when it comes to uh dating sex
01:17:15
Brian Atlasrelationships so for a woman to sleep with a guy typically that guy needs to be at least physically attractive enough for her to be a relationship with that man whereas it's kind of the reverse for
01:17:26
Brian Atlasmen yeah men will sleep with women of a certain like men will sleep with women of a certain uh looks level that they would never be in a relationship with they'll sleep with her but they will
01:17:39
Brian Atlasnever be in a relationship with her whereas the reverse is for for a woman to sleep with a guy he typically has to be at least physically attractive enough for her to
01:17:51
Brian Atlasbe in a relationship with him yeah and typically going break rule waybe they typically don't have casual sex but they might break that rule for like a really fing attractive guy um so that's the
01:18:04
Brian Atlasdifferential let me get caught up on a couple chats here because we're a little behind we have doc vas Jens I think that you are missing the point of Grandma's behavior is like doing drugs think of The Hangover movie her life is
01:18:15
Brian Atlaspractically a blur do you have a response to that was for me not my words from Doc vanis I'm sorry I wasn't paying
01:18:24
Brian Atlasattention Okay I didn't know that was for me all right um to he just says that oh wait there's oh wait that's another one I'll read it while it's up the one with the noticeably fake nose is
01:18:37
Brian Atlasconstantly worrying about where she stands based on inscrutable social Clues and then inevitably reframing it all in a ruring way so that she can get to sleep at night the host notice your plastic surgery first I actually didn't know you had to I just noticed the
01:18:49
Brian Atlastitties not going to Li boobs I mean they're fake obviously but uh I didn't even notice the nose I I don't really quarrel so much with that it's but whatever well yeah I don't know
01:18:59
Kaye Killianwhy the nose is sticking out more than the boobs to them I like that's kind of different it's like too perfect maybe I don't know I it could actually that
01:19:09
Kaye Killiancould be a real like upset like men more that like it's on my face it could be a real nose I didn't know I didn't but uh I've never had people think that it's
01:19:20
Brian Atlasnot my real nose so but I also tell everyone because I'm not like ashamed of okay yeah well I think there's also degrees to plastic surgery I think uh rhinoplasty is far less or far less
01:19:31
Brian Atlasinvasive than like a BBL or breast implants or lipo or something else um so you know uh we have Avery here hold on let me get this Avery not going to lie
01:19:42
Brian Atlashard not to s for a woman who as absolutely stunning as priia especially after learning her outlook on life religion religious political opinions anyway Brian love the show your old pranks were hilarious I wish you luck
01:19:56
PriyaJesus loves you hey Avery thank you so much appreciate it thank you thank you thank you uhe Pria anything else or no just although rippy's comment I think you're going to pull it up soon
01:20:07
Brian Atlasbasically let me read this um ladies do you think that most modern women respect workingclass men and do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation question so we'll go around the table do you think that most modern
01:20:19
Brian Atlaswomen respect workingclass men and do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation starting with you and we'll go around the table go ahead um I would say most men don't like
01:20:31
Kaye Killianrespect certain jobs that women have like I would feel like like a woman like me only fans yeah um and I don't think there's anything wrong with that I think
01:20:41
Brian Atlasthat's just like you know personal preference and like what they view I'm Chase I'm almost wondering if we let do you think that well do you think that most men respect women women
01:20:53
Brian Atlasregardless of occupation but excluding sex work because I think what he's perhaps trying to get at is most men will respect women when it comes to
01:21:04
Brian Atlastheir romantic interest in them regardless of her uh Career Success I think that's what Bender's trying yeah so I I agree with you Brian because I'd
01:21:15
Brian Atlassay most like yeah do you think that most modern women respect workingclass men and do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation so who who here thinks most men respect
01:21:27
Chasewomen regardless of occupation you think most men respect women excluding sex work yes excluding sex excluding sex work okay excluding sex working sex work for sure but you recognize that men many
01:21:40
Chasemen don't respect sex absolutely who who here thinks that absolutely who here thinks most women respect workingclass men we'll go around the table start starting with you and we'll go around go ahead um do you think
01:21:53
TTS Readerthe average woman respects A working class Man donated $100 here's the thing I realized early on I wasn't no looker the good news is I
01:22:03
TTS Readerhave zero patience for women so I'm glad I don't attract them my one and only Lifelong Love is money so I got in the lab and learned how to make a lot of it be realistic he owns a lot of Burger
01:22:14
Brian AtlasKings the photo really quick just he's a handsome guy Mike Davis if there's any man who's a 10 I think it's this gentleman right here Davis is the perfect exemplification of
01:22:28
Brian Atlasgame9 white top blonde how do you your relationships in the future affected by your of career here we'll um here actually answer answer that really quick brief answer and then we'll we'll get
01:22:40
Brian Atlasback to the question go ahead um I don't see there being any problem because he does only fans with me so well are you guys going to stay together forever yes you are let's say hyp let's say hypothetically hypothetically speaking
01:22:52
Brian Atlasit doesn't work out do you anticipate that the fact that you have done the content that you've done could it conceivably have an impact on future relationships no cuz I was in that one
01:23:04
Kaye Killianand we had content together the current one the the prev there's a previous relationship the nine year oh you were making content so I made content with
01:23:13
Kaye Killianhim oh and then when I was single I was making content with you know Rands wait did this guy propose to you your current boyfriend No but like I
01:23:23
Chaseknow you guys have made a plan to get married yeah okay we're serious we share like bank accounts but but you know God forbid the relationship doesn't work out but if it didn't yeah you don't think
01:23:34
Kaye Killianthat other guys would have an issue with it um I mean I found him and he didn't have an issue with it not him though other guys other guys I mean I would assume there's more of him out there but like do you think have a difficult time
01:23:48
Kaye Killianit would probably take yeah there's like people like I mean I I tell I would tell a guy die straight up like on the first date like this is what I do and if they
01:23:56
Brian Atlasdon't want to be involved then I think it might be for for some of the guys who are not so much in favor of girls who do s work or only fans there may be some
01:24:09
Brian Atlasdegree of cope about oh they're never going to find a guy like I think granted and she's also very attractive I think that there's a lot of guys that are just
01:24:19
Brian Atlasgoing to overlook it and it might not Le to it might not lead to like it could cause problems in the relationship but much in the some the same way that people frequently get into relationships
01:24:30
Kaye Killianthat are Rife with conflict and issues we had conflict with like we've had discussions where we've had to change but I think we underestimate the degree to which like there's a lot of there's a
01:24:41
Chaseton of simps out there would that would be so stoked to be with her regardless of the only fans the question is though are those the kind of men that she would want yeah exactly there was this guy who
01:24:51
Juliepaid like $10,000 just to have a hug with it's like this girl and only fans that is like the most insane level of sing I've ever heard in my life awesome
01:25:01
Juliewhat's his name is that a completely B but is that like a w like for him for the girl like in terms of for the for the girl yeah her bank account well yeah he's a trick Grand he's a trick he's a
01:25:13
Priyahug I mean it was only a hug yeah but does the girl that he wanted a hug from does she view him as a romantic Prospect probably had went on after that with money the
01:25:26
Priyasecond a man displays that type of behavior Every Woman here and you can deny it all you want is going to write him off immediately okay so so Priya you said you've been dating your guy for two months yeah what how would you feel if
01:25:38
Priyain the process of talking to him he had told you that at one point in time he had paid an only fans model $110,000 to give her a hug that would that would cause some serious problems I agree I think even
01:25:49
TTS Readerfor me that would like I do only fans I denial is strong enough can you name a PR worker that has had a lifelong marriage was there not a guy on recently who said the same thing about his prong
01:26:01
Chasegirl and that relationship went out down in fames I have never wished to be a divorce attorney more I would I I would love to know the statistics on long-term marital outcomes
01:26:14
Chasefor people in the sex work industry it cannot be good can you bring it back to the question about the working class yeah so do you think most women respect
01:26:25
Chaseworking-class men yes like blueco collar dudes yes yeah what about you yeah I mean as long as you're making money yeah like is it in the terms of a relationship Prospect or just men in
01:26:36
Chasegeneral uh we'll say relationship prospects um I think it depends on the girl cuz some girls want to be like you know step up yeah I agree what do you mean some girls want to be like step up
01:26:48
Candy Lanelike hey that's not enough money that you're making at your blue color job I guess so so how about you uh I can't speak for other girls but I do I you respect men with respect for anybody out
01:26:59
Candy Lanethere in the grind cool because it's not an easy World especially right now yeah mad respect what about you
01:27:10
Mukiyeah yeah I think a lot of girls don't though like they all want a really rich boyfriend that like takes care of them like they look for somebody that's going
01:27:20
Mukito like spoil them and if they don't get that then they're like no I'm done yeah but yeah especially in the 21st century what
01:27:31
Chaseabout you I for sure think most women do and if you don't you should okay I think on average blue collar workers are extremely underappreciated by women specifically MH so if your boyfriend was working a bluecollar job would you be
01:27:44
Candy Lanechill with that let's say he's making like 65 Grand a year yes yeah would you be okay with that a guy making money I would pay for all his stuff yeah okay what about what about you yeah definitely yeah well that also goes to
01:27:56
Chaseyou know like what a guy thinks is okay for hold on hold on no no don't go down that rabbit hole what I'm curious about is if you were if you met a guy who is making that kind of money would you consider being a long-term relationship
01:28:09
Brian Atlaswith him if he was the right guy yeah okay yeah I agree if it's the right guy oh wait he's making like 65 Grand you'd be down Nick put put on the other camera can you scoot your mic that way please
01:28:20
Chaseleft right that way that way please go ahead you're fine you're fine uh yeah I think as long as you're happy um yeah yeah yeah you'd be cool
01:28:31
Brian Atlasdating a guy making that much yes yeah yeah You' be cool yes absolutely okay all right got some more chats here take this with a grain of salt I can understand rating yourself a 10 to make yourself feel better and some people
01:28:43
Brian Atlasalso appreciate that most people will just think you're pompous or arrogant for that rating I give myself a three I've been told by friends I'm hi what's
01:28:52
Brian Atlasthat mean what is Hig Hig maybe huge big I don't know I think big all right send in send in another chat clarify it we have Christopher wood here the one with
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Brian Atlasthe oh did I already read this one I already read it my bad my bad um hold on let me skip that all right not bringing up the nose again all right we have a couple chats here we have midnight while I missed the prank and
01:29:18
Brian Atlassocial experiment stuff I love the new content too totally dig the channel excuse me progression first impression of the table of just joining girl on the far left would be the one I'd walk up to
01:29:27
Brian Atlasalso to be clear I'm a woman who's on the far left is it the girl she's talking about priia is she yeah or okay all right midnight sh This Woman This Woman's
01:29:39
Priyahitting on you priia what do you have to say priia it's very kind of you I don't bet for that side sorry and I am in a relationship Nick did you pull this one up
01:29:50
Chaseor we didn't address it what like I said Julie what is humble and probably the prettiest one on the panel dressed down dang y'all shows some love the one that said she didn't even
01:30:00
Chasewant to be here should be kicked out the old lady should stop lying did you did you show it I believe I did but okay all
01:30:11
Brian Atlasright all right little wretched ran through just and just a clarification guys normally that just it's uh 50 and up okay wretched ran through redhead is great sneak preview for the
01:30:25
Brian Atlasyounger chicks of where the road of promiscuity dead ends get married raise a family and follow Christ girl with white button down looks like a keeper good to see Chase back my brother in Christ from Lil wretched okay cool thank
01:30:37
Brian Atlasyou man uh okay we have Christopher wood I feel really stupid for spending hundred bucks to talk to people I don't know but this one oh he sent it as a super chat
01:30:48
Brian Atlastoo okay well thank you Christopher he doubled up Rippy overtly high self ratings on physical attractiveness are product of a self-love culture yep I think we need a self-hate this is exactly what I wanted to get into
01:31:01
Brian Atlasactually rather well let me finish reading rather than a self sacrifice culture self-sacrifice is what makes humble people always striving to help those close to them without massive ego
01:31:12
Priyaagree I like that I think the self- Lov movement has B narcissism narcissism in our culture today people need to be honestly frankly most people do need to be a bit harder on themselves to strive
01:31:25
Priyafor actually achieving something in life instead of just saying oh if I'm if if life's not going to be easy for me then why would I put any effort into it I agree yeah yeah yeah we live in like a participation trophy culture everybody's
01:31:37
Chaseperfect just the way they are which is complete nonsense I think we need a self-sacrifice culture I think we need a self-discipline culture I think we need a self-control culture I agree with that I just hate i' the last like guys I've been with all they did was downgrade
01:31:50
Genie Exomthemselves like so much much to the point that I'm like yes I Want You To Love Yourself like when you asked me that I'm like yes I do immediately my brain was thinking about the guys like how how would they downgrade themselves gosh donated
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TTS Reader$99 Brian I love the disapproving size you give when your staff isn't on point it reminds me of me in the operating room thank you for making me feel normal
01:32:13
Brian AtlasLOL you're welcome you you like you're you're doing surgeries and [ __ ] and the [ __ ] surgeons just like your [ __ ] up
01:32:22
Brian Atlasnurses cut just like oh yeah he's dead now wrong instrument that's how I feel um thank you man appreciate it oh here I'll just read it while it's up I don't know why priia is wearing a tablecloth
01:32:34
Brian Atlasuh oh um jeie looks like Barbie on heroin don't even get me started on the 90-year-old also question for Kaylee Killian does your boyfriend hold the camera while you smash other dudes LOL
01:32:44
Chaseoh no he's L I'm smashing my boyfriend okay our only fans is you guys are exclusive yes it's literally our name is the only fans did did your boyfriend have any issues with you having content
01:32:56
Brian Atlaswith your P boyfriend No he didn't does he have content with other women no he never did only fans until we started dating wait C candy um there's been a
01:33:08
Candy Lanecouple chats that have questioned your age noticed do you want to address that address what the have you been honest with us a lot older than everybody else
01:33:20
Chasehere well you said you were how old did you say you were 36 have you been honest with us about that yeah there's a lot of skepticism from
01:33:28
Chasethe viewers is it Justified like what are you actually 36 yeah is that what your driver's license would say if I looked at it my driver's
01:33:40
Brian Atlaslicense would probably say a couple of things you weren't expecting oh yeah like [Music] what that you're an organ donor she's not actually a redhead oh no she's an
01:33:51
Brian Atlasorgan owner I didn't expect that candy all right um leg name is surprisingly not candy date of birth uh what year were you born 87 okay that was quick
01:34:02
Candy Lanethat was rehearsed he's rehearsed that was quick who doesn't know the date the year that they were born it's like oh my
01:34:10
Brian Atlasgosh what is that if we're if she's actually 36 we're being kind of a me yeah okay what else did I say in my
01:34:21
Candy Lanemy pre inter I said I am the cautionary tale how so well you know one of your you know chats had to say you know this is what it's going to look like yeah yeah this
01:34:32
Candy Lanethis wasn't how things were intended but when you're in your 20s and you're all brigh eyed and you know like oh my entire future is in front of me and then all of a sudden you're in your 30s and you're like just
01:34:43
Candy Lanehappened it comes up really quick okay it happens really fast especially when you decide to take out a decade you know to have
01:34:53
Chasefaith is it possible that having faith could still pay off for you do you think that is that cuz I think I I get the sense I get the sense in your heart of hearts the addiction that you're trying
01:35:05
Chaseto feed would probably be best fed with one guy for the rest of your life what do you think about that I'll think about it later you know you know there's truth to what I'm saying do you think it might be a good
01:35:18
Chaseidea to have faith that that could be possible for you what if you became a complicated world I I think you make it more complicated than it needs to be by pursuing casual relationships with all these different
01:35:30
Candy Lanemen that you don't want anything deep with I think you're making your world complicated I agree yeah I think it's complicated period I think I'm doing what I can to survive I feel like you
01:35:41
Candy Lanekind of want it to be complicated that's what I get from it I think you might be addicted to the emotional roller coasters perhaps no cuz some it's not about emotions it's about release huh
01:35:53
Candy Laneokay so why don't you get like one guy and just have the same amount of sex that would be great so well yeah that would be great that's kind of a relationship but you know they just but
01:36:04
Priyait sounds like you you don't even want to attempt to pursue a relationship I've tried I know you've said you've tried and like it just has not gone well for you and you have this outlook on life and men that there are no good men out
01:36:17
Brian Atlasthere I never said that I think there are good men out there I think that they are very rare okay yeah please don't put words in her mouth I'm pretty sure she did say that but I apologize that's not the case um but okay so you say that
01:36:29
Priyathere are a few good men out there why don't you try and seek them out and pursue them if that's the case I did try I tried for a very long time were you just going to quit yeah you can't quit you can't quit candy you can't quit we
01:36:42
Genie Exombelieve in you candy well should it maybe you work on yourself are you candy are you a quitter someone else you're not a quitter no I'm trying to you are not a quitter candy done a lot oh sorry sorry sorry I didn't mean to press that
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Genie Exomone that was an accident I swear to God I swear to God I I I did not mean that it belongs to the street I think you'll find the right one candy I think you will I think you need to work on yourself timing is a huge timing is a
01:37:04
Chasehuge thing but sometimes you can meet the right guy at the wrong time if you have the wrong patterns and habits in your life okay and if you meet the right guy at the wrong time because you quit ahead of time think about how much
01:37:17
Priyathat's going to suck think of the suck how much that might suck I'm I'm a big believer in you you you attract what you are and if you're not behaving like the person that you want to attract and become your life partner then you're you're just simply not going to find him
01:37:30
Kaye Killianbecause you're not looking you're not going to find him 100 not going to find him what go ahead no go ahead no say it what you like I just feel like it's like
01:37:39
Kaye Killiankind of playing like victim absolutely and you're kind of just like a woe as me like at least I'm not going to go fix it with a bunch of surgery okay
01:37:50
Juliefair getting spicy let's go are you a white night or something to sweep you off your feet and take you into the sunset that I don't think exists anymore so I'm I'm not going to I'm not going to minimize
01:38:02
Priyaanything that you might have gone through in your life I I completely like believe that everyone goes through their hardships but at the same time you can't let those Define you and you need to you
01:38:12
Priyayou need to overcome them and must overcome yeah over and be behave like the person that you want to attract and end up being in your life life and I I do think you have to make some changes
01:38:24
Chaseif you POS got to make changes CH want to look at this I want to look at this real soberly and logically okay a few moments ago candy you said that men are attracted to
01:38:36
Chaseyounger women you said that women who are more fresh that's an advantage that they have in the sexual dating Marketplace generally yeah generally speaking yes on
01:38:46
Chasethe trajectory that you're on there's this you know messing around playing the field hooking up with different guys this can only last for so long true so long it can only last it can only last
01:38:58
Chasefor so long for so long I don't know how long keny I I I don't know how long it can last okay like you're probably not going to be able to do this as successfully as you are now 15 20 years
01:39:08
Chasefrom now this is an intervention podcast I would say maybe two what do you say I said one year maybe two what you you think you have one year maybe
01:39:19
Chasetwo left in you of doing this okay that's not a long time but if you found the right guy and you married him got got married you could get that you could get that supply that you're craving for the rest
01:39:30
Chaseof your life whole life but you're not going to find that guy if you're playing these games that you're doing now no games can I ask a question real quick how is someone who gets surgery to get
01:39:42
Candy Lanethrough hardships any worse than going around sleeping with people got her I think that's a big difference how like to pay somebody money to actually change your physical being when you could I don't know just
01:39:55
Kaye Killiango we talking about fixing your behaviors not your physical appearance yeah and also I didn't mean like anything rude or mean about what I was saying let's be friends be just saying
01:40:05
Chasethat I think the behavior is obviously negative and like I also want to say to you I'm not attacking you I don't I can't speak for anybody I'm not
01:40:16
Chaseattacking you I I just see a woman who has a deep longing in her heart for love and also for dick but like I I I see I see I I see a woman who has a longing for
01:40:28
Chasecompanionship who has been hurt by the world and who has been hurt by her life's circumstances and who has kind of given up on true love you know and it it it breaks my heart to see but I also know like that thing that you're looking for you're saying that it's so rare to
01:40:41
Chasefind good guys out there that guy that you're looking for he's not going to want this version of candy that's engaging in this Behavior he's going to want a version of you that wants that true love with him you know and I I don't I don't want to see you I mean you
01:40:54
Chasesaid you've got two years before this game is up I don't want to see you go the rest of your life single you know you clearly have a longing for companionship you know does that make sense I'm not attacking you not attacking you can still like change for
01:41:08
Candy Lanethe better wait hold on hold on let her let her respond let her respond I can tell I struck a nerve just because that's what the heart wants doesn't mean that it's possible in
01:41:18
Candy Lanethis world maybe God and I am being realistic by my choices right now y'all may maybe not like it but I am being realistic and a lot of
01:41:30
Brian Atlasthis podcast has been especially you Brian oh once you're 30s oh you should be put out to pasture what I didn't say that I I object I object I did not say
01:41:41
Brian Atlasthat I did not say I did not say that disavow pastur put out to pasture when did you say that I did not say this I did not say this just about
01:41:53
Brian Atlasmaybe once you get in your 40s we can have another conversation about it but definitely in your 30s no pastures no pastures no Meadows no Tundras nothing all right
01:42:06
Mukicandy wait can I say something really quickly really quickly my mom is like 61 she was born in 62 so however old that makes her she's married to 28-year-old
01:42:18
Brian Atlas29-year-old so maybe she does have a lot of time what wait this is new your your
01:42:25
Mukimom who's 61 was she was born in 62 so however old that makes1 61 and she's dating a 20 married they're married mom
01:42:37
Mukihow when when did they get married like 2 three years ago so he was like 25 he yeah so I have an older brother and he was younger than my older brother is
01:42:46
Priyafriend insane no no they're not friends they're not the age is and is her youngest son so don't count how did they
01:42:57
Mukimeet your business wait does your mom does your mom have a lot of money is she like a sugar mama I'm no she's not a sugar mama but I'm not going to put her business out there but she's goodl looking who's the Kardashian mom is that
01:43:09
TTS Readershe's pretty is that your mom no my mom is blonde she's 5T tall Chris Jer is it is your mom $99.99 candy
01:43:21
TTS Readerignore your feelings put your faith in Christ he will show you the world you want you will have to sacrifice it's
01:43:29
Chasehard I can't do it you can that's nice amen thank you I agree this this ties in this ties in directly to what I wanted to say to you Candy you say that you're being
01:43:42
Chaserealistic about the fact that it's just not going to happen what you call realism and this is look I understand this is probably hard to hear after you're watch walk with God but what you
01:43:51
Chasecall realism I see as a lack of faith I know that God put those Desires in your heart that he put there and I know that he put them there for a reason and I believe 100% he wants to fulfill them
01:44:02
Chasefor you I also believe God rewards us for our obedience in this life you know and look you said you spent 10 years trying to be you were celibate for 10 years trying to do the best job that you
01:44:13
Chasepossibly could I obviously can't judge you know your obedience to God during that time frame and I know what it feels like to be obedient to to God and to not feel rewarded for it it sucks you know
01:44:24
Chaseit like really crushes your faith but I know like I see the longing in your heart candy I know you want that companionship like don't give up on it yeah that just makes it harder what does the
01:44:35
Candy Lanelonging but it's there for a reason you know he implanted that in all of us absolutely life's not supposed to be easy but that's that's the whole point I don't think it's supposed to be this
01:44:45
Chasehard though either the say says who yeah says I've I've had a I've had a hor life I've had so many Terri Terrible Things world yes it is but that's our ancestors
01:44:57
Chasewent through yeah candy just just because life is hard doesn't mean it wasn't supposed to be this hard or that like you can't still have love you know yeah don't give up or that you can't stop pursuing the the positive things in
01:45:09
Priyalife don't give up candy don't give up don't give up and also to what you were saying like about when you brought up your mom none of us were saying that it's it's too late for her if anything we're advocating for that it's it's not
01:45:20
Mukinearly too late for her also everyone's on their own Journey like as much as we want her to be happy and like be more like have a better outlook on life like she's only going to realize when she realized yeah if you never do you just
01:45:33
TTS Readernever offed to9 she took cougar to a whole other level side note tin CH tried to get the Donald Trump down oh I was just in
01:45:44
MukiMexico does it look like that does it really look like that Mexico to Mexico a month what did you say a second ago roasting before that came in I'm Mexican like she's on her own Journey we can wish the best for her
01:45:58
Mukishe's going to want to you know have like a better outlook on life when she decides to she's on her own path so but yeah I hear what you're saying but I
01:46:09
Chasealso know that it's easy to slip into permanent pessimism until somebody comes along and is like hey no there's a better way like you can do it you know and that's that's when you punch them come and hit me in the face candy come
01:46:23
Chaseand hit me in the face cuz I'll say it to you all day you can do it she might take you up I have candy I I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason and I would encourage you to keep honoring it you know think
01:46:35
Chaseabout you're probably familiar with the Bible if you spent 10 years in church think about Abraham and Sarah they were childless and Barren they were childless and Barren
01:46:45
Chaseuntil they were like a hundred years old and God promised Sarah a child and she she was like she laughed at it she was like that's ridiculous but he still came through they had to wait a 100 years and
01:46:56
Chasehe still came through and gave it to them you know Jesus died on the cross all hope was lost the Messiah was dead impossible happened Rose from the grave like we have a God who does impossible
01:47:07
Chasethings what feels impossible to you is easy to God but God often asks patience from us that was literally like a promise from God though what is a designer that didn't become famous until
01:47:18
Genie Exomshe was like 51 like Versace or something not the same thing but almost like you got it it took her a while you know she was not big and famous in the
01:47:27
Chasedesigner world and now she is is Don Dono I'll be famous good don't give up the kind of man the kind of man that you want like be like
01:47:39
Chaseshe said you attract what you are be the kind of woman that he would want that's what I think you should do in the meantime the sex addiction the sex addiction everything like that find other ways to fill that longing within
01:47:51
Candy Laneyou I try actually with exercise that's my anxiety relief and exercise you said you tried no I do I punish the heck out of myself B that I do the same thing I
01:48:03
Brian Atlasyeah absolutely awesome um we have grid One Motorsports it didn't trigger fear is the spare change that will keep you broke Ginger if you want a relationship you will find one if you choose and it is a choice to be single acting like a drunken slute you
01:48:15
Chasewill find that which you seek make better choices be a better human he's right it is a choice it is a choice everything is a choice everything's a choice yeah I you're resigned you feel doomed you feel doomed
01:48:28
Candy Laneand I'm telling you you're not well like I said things have happened in my life that um like what ended my celibacy you know I got some news about something
01:48:40
Candy Lanesomething that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me and yet it did and now it makes me real trapped an inviable candidate so is it is are are
01:48:51
Chaseyou Barren yeah I can't have kids down okay that's literally the first thing a guy wants I'm I'm I want to break that narrative right now you you have a narrative in your mind that
01:49:01
Candy Lanebecause you can't have kids no guy will ever want you and I want to break that narrative right now by telling you that's all I ever wanted I hear you that's that's all I've ever wanted to
01:49:11
Candy Laneand I waited for the right guy and I believed and this is where I am now so if it's a punishment to God what I do with my body then so be it if he wants to cry every
01:49:23
Mukisingle day that life that I have chosen to live wa is this like revenge on God God for my mom can't have kids and she still got a man so he don't care I think
01:49:35
Chasethe Outlook that you're putting on candy candy think about think about how serendipitous this is you're sitting here on the panel saying no guy will ever want me I've I've only got so much
01:49:45
Chasetime left to keep getting piped for my sex addiction like like like like I'm I'm totally screwed meanwhile her mom is sitting here she has a 28-year-old guy she she can't but but here's here's no
01:49:59
Chasedifferent ladies ladies this is the narrative that I want to break right now who's to say that there's not a guy out there that would love to be with you and would love to adopt and raise kids with you who's to say that there's not a guy
01:50:09
Julielike that out there something I need to share please hold it's with her candy can what do you think about that I've already made the decision but don't you think it's possible that there's a guy
01:50:21
Chaseout there there's a guy out there who would love you even despite the fact that you can't have kids who would who would want to be with you and to raise kids with you don't you think that's possible uh if God wants that to happen
01:50:32
Candy Lanethen it will happen that's not an answer do you or do you not think it's possible are you saying it's not possible i' think that in all things with God it's
01:50:42
Chasepossible but that's on him not me no absolutely not that is ridiculous
01:50:50
Chasethat I did looking and waiting and being what I thought I was I'm done with that now sure um do you have one final response but then we're going to move on
01:51:01
Chasewhat you just told me is that's on God there's nothing I can do about it so I might as well just keep getting piped by all these random guys and hope that the perfect guy comes along and just wants to accept all of that that's what you're telling me that's that's not a proper
01:51:14
Chasestrategy for locking down that guy M there's absolutely stuff you can do right now in order to do to to lock down that kind of guy I've already told you I don't know how many times I've stopped looking for that guy okay then then
01:51:26
Brian Atlasbeing being alone is your choice candy that's your choice temporarily I want to hear more about
01:51:33
Mukithe the 61 year old the mom uh CH a mil he she's 61 he's 28 yeah think he might have turned 29 this year or maybe
01:51:47
Brian Atlaslike end of this year I don't know they're married yes and you're how old are you 26 so you could also date this guy I wouldn't oh you wouldn't not my type you
01:51:59
Mukicould have gone to high school with him though yeah no the beginning the beginning was Rocky me and my older brother wanted to like beat him up oh
01:52:08
Muki[ __ ] kill sorry um but yeah we weren't happy cuz we were just like what like I don't know
01:52:18
Chaseyeah let's not talk about it but but yeah how did they me did you say that um I don't want to put her business out there but I just I wanted her to feel like hopeful they're married though correct they're married how long have