She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon?! | Dating Talk #116
Date: 2023-11-08
Duration: 6h 05m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Priya(guest)
SPEAKER_04Karina Hammond(guest)
SPEAKER_05Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jessica Kirby(guest)
SPEAKER_07Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chase(guest)
SPEAKER_10Muki(guest)
SPEAKER_11Genie Exom(guest)
SPEAKER_12Kaye Killian(guest)
SPEAKER_14Candy Lane(guest)
Key Moments
00:13:15
QuoteGenie admits stabbing incident: says cops loved her and she went to jail briefly, released; dismisses serious framing
“they were so nice for real they were like this is your first time... I literally go and the police officer was like oh you're famous”
00:26:20
QuoteGenie describes attending a stranger's funeral as her first date with a girl she barely knew (flown from Paris after 2-3 weeks of texting)
“my last date... the date was like not well... so at a funeral... I flew there... I was down bad”
00:41:36
QuoteCandy reveals infertility as the event that ended her 10-year celibacy: "I can't have kids"
“I got some news about something something that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me and yet it did... I can't have kids”
00:47:00
QuoteChase delivers extended speech encouraging Candy not to give up on love, comparing her situation to Abraham and Sarah
“I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason... don't give up... Abraham and Sarah were childless and Barren until they were like a hundred years old”
01:23:50
ControversyChase directly confronts Candy about her self-sabotage regarding a 47yo man who expressed interest through the show
“what if this guy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids... you only have sex with younger men... that's pretty shallow”
01:24:57
QuoteCandy refuses to give up sex with younger men despite Chase's urging to pursue real relationship: "I only smash younger"
“here I only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life”
01:42:48
QuoteGenie reveals she had a boyfriend who locked her in his room from age 14-15 for a year and a half, had to sneak out the window for food
“I was like 14 15 and I could stay in his room... I couldn't come out of his room... I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home”
02:05:50
QuoteGenie admits she was a sugar mama spending ~$40K/month on a man, on top of her own $20K/month lifestyle
“how much do you think you were spending per month... maybe like 20K mon... you spend 20,000 a month... and then double that for him”
02:09:28
QuoteGenie reveals sleeping with an Army platoon (~20 soldiers in ~1 month) while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama
“you said that you effed a whole platoon... bring your friends to eat some wings and then I was like oh they're cute and he was like I was like put me on”
02:18:18
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line on makeup: "a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction"
“a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:05
Introductions and current relationship status
Brian introduces panel of 8 women plus co-host Chase. Each guest gives name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Notable: Kaye in new relationship doing OF with boyfriend; Genie single; Julie in new relationship; Candy terminally single; Karina in relationship; Muki in 3yr relationship; Jessica single 3yrs; Priya in new relationship (~2mo).
00:11:00
Genie Exom: stabbing incident and infamous past
Discussion of news articles about Genie stabbing her boyfriend with a broken glass in NYC. Genie maintains it was self-defense. Brian and Chase pull up New York Post articles. Genie was charged and released without bail. 22yo at time of incident.
00:34:00
Candy Lane: sex addiction and 10-year celibacy
Deep discussion of Candy Lane's sex addiction, two promiscuous phases (pre-celibacy teens, post-2020), and 10-year celibacy for faith (2010-2020). Reveals infertility discovered in 2020 as catalyst ending celibacy. Chase and Brian encourage Candy not to give up on love. Candy maintains pessimism.
00:57:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Panel rates themselves on looks. Kaye: 10; Genie: 10; Julie: 6-6.5; Candy: refuses to rate; Muki: 6-7; Karina: no clear number; Jessica: declines; Priya: ~2. Chase rates himself 7.5-8. Chat asked to rate Genie (got avg ~7). Brian discusses how youth = advantage in ratings.
01:55:20
Genie: sugar mama phase
Genie describes being a sugar mama for 3 years, spending ~$40K/month (double her own $20K/month). Paid rent, food, flights, Europe trips for a 32-33yo man while she was 21. Dated men who would not let her be dominant. Revealed she was also a sugar mama as young as 18 with a 29yo. Gave up the sugar mama lifestyle now.
02:06:09
Modern dating hypergamy and promiscuity
Julie raises concern about hypergamy in modern dating and its harm to young women. Brian clarifies the definition (marrying up socioeconomically). Discussion of promiscuity (the word Julie meant) and de-feminism in media.
02:12:52
Genie: sleeping with an Army platoon
Genie reveals she slept with approximately 20 Army soldiers (~a full platoon) over ~1 month while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama. First soldier stayed after work, then introduced her to more. Brian and panel discuss the scope (Brian Googles "platoon size"). Genie was younger at the time.
02:19:41
Who should pay on a first date?
Extended debate on whether men or women should pay on a first date. Brian advocates splitting or low-cost dates given modern dating marketplace promiscuity. Chase tests women with no-payment to gauge princess complex. Panel mostly prefers man pays but split is acceptable. Brian's "doggy bag" scenario discussed.
03:00:00
Makeup: who is it for?
Discussion of whether women wear makeup for men or themselves. Panel admits both — for themselves and to attract/impress others. Brian and Chase argue makeup is effectively a mating strategy. Brian says he dislikes heavy makeup. Comparison: makeup = rented Lamborghini (super chat).
03:15:00
Height preferences and shoe inserts
Panel states height preferences. Most want taller than themselves (range 5'7"-5'11"+). Candy requires 5'11" minimum, must be circumcised. Discussion of men wearing shoe inserts — most women would not hold it against them but would be confused. Brian says men's face is autobiography; woman's face is "work of fiction."
03:20:15
Relationship accountability round
Brian asks each guest: one thing you did wrong and one thing your ex did wrong in a past relationship. Common themes: women not respecting/taking seriously, men being lazy and not working. Genie's ex would not let her peg him. Julie mommy'd her boyfriend. Priya's ex hid vices and gaslighted her. Kaye was selfish when young. Jessica fed boyfriend's jealousy. Muki texted and deleted messages.
04:48:00
Soulmates, twin flames, and marriage philosophy
After-show discussion on soulmates and twin flames. Chase argues soulmate concept is a modern scam that leads to divorce. Discussion of types of love (eros vs. agape). Brian advocates for faith-based, committed marriage. Panel weighs in on no-fault divorce.
05:13:00
Promiscuity self-assessment (1-10 scale)
Aftershow: panel rates how promiscuous they are for their age. Kaye: ~7-8 (one new guy every 2 weeks during 8-month single period). Genie: implied high but evasive. Julie: not promiscuous in relationship. Candy: 6 in 2023. Priya: 2. Muki: in relationship so not applicable. Brian and Chase define scale: 1 new partner/week = 10.
05:26:00
Women and draft / military service
Aftershow topic: would women be drafted into the military? Genie reveals she passed her Army physical (MEPS/ASVAB). Panel discusses physical differences in combat. Brian jokes about progression from platoons to brigades.
Transcript
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01:52:30
Chasemarried let's say I want to find a 61-year-old woman to marry what's the strategy where did you go where do you look Trader joon's um TJ's Joann's I don't know fashion TJ's a great I I
01:52:41
Mukiwouldn't know cuz I'm not a six-year-old woman but and I don't want to put her business out there but I don't know you just need to find someone that likes youer
01:52:50
Brian Atlasguys uh we we have a little wretched here uh according to the crystal meth calendar 30 damn that was a Savage roast
01:53:03
Brian Atlasgood thing she's out of the room right now is she in the middle okay all all right Rippy uh redhead have you ever read the children's book oh okay she I'll save it until she's back yeah here
01:53:14
Brian Atlaswhat did it say though pull it up again I I'll pull it up once uh translates to the surface the voice say I I'll translate I I'll bring it back up let's see we have Jessica here you said Jessica you said you have a crazy ex who
01:53:26
Brian Atlasused to show up at your work uh and post up out or post on this Snapchat story erotic things what's that what happened there erotic he used to
01:53:37
Jessica Kirbyum I never actually dated this man but he was obsessed with me you said crazy X yeah I know but like I considered him I just you didn't did whatever sure um
01:53:47
Jessica Kirbycheck out anyways I wonder how crazy guy has to be for you to consider him crazy I oh I worked at this retail place I still work at um and he knew like my
01:53:59
Jessica Kirbyschedule so one night I would have been closing I hadn't but he posted on a Snapchat story he was like oh just in the parking lot and like I don't remember exactly what he said but there
01:54:10
Jessica Kirbywas a weapon in his lap and he would always like threaten me and like talk about that's pretty crazy yeah so that's that's what consider crazy what other people consider crazy have you ever
01:54:22
Chasethreatened somebody we talked about this no no no okay wait you have she said no
01:54:30
Brian AtlasI'm scared of any violence I don't like violence okay let's see we have Genie
01:54:37
Brian Atlashere you uh said that you okay and this is related to the stabbing story okay I think you already said that you flashed
01:54:48
Brian Atlasthe police off serves um you said you were a sugarm mama for 3 years yeah to that one and you said you're still in your sugar mama phase yeah I'm like a
01:54:58
Brian Atlasmother at 21 I dated a boy who locked me in his room our entire oh that's something else here that's when I was younger here let's stick with the Sugar Mama thing so you were Sugar Mama did he adopt the name baby boy before or after you
01:55:11
Genie Exomstarted dating him no before it's like on his birth certificate and everything because you're like interested in the Sugar Mama stuff was that a turn on for you he happen I have no idea I mean a
01:55:20
Genie Exomlittle bit I he's different can can I be your sugar baby oh yeah you can C
01:55:28
Brian Atlasdamn I'm into that now okay so you were dating a guy for 3 years or you were just a sugar mama for 3 years with various dating and sugar mama at the same time and then I just like we
01:55:41
Genie Exomstopped dating and then I just became just a sugar mama and like we were like just having sex what were you doing to be a sugar mama like paying his rent
01:55:49
Brian Atlasbuying his food um or like giving stuff to his kid oh how long uh or how much so how much do you think per month you were
01:56:01
Brian Atlasspending on this guy also we did like everything together when we were like living together oh you lived together at one point but then we stopped so you weren't well you weren't paying his rent you were paying our rent well no I paid
01:56:12
Brian Atlashis rent whenever I mean he still had his own PL oh he had his own PL so I was still paying that and okay so he but he would spend a lot of time in your place but you would pay his yeah why um
01:56:24
Genie Exombecause I thought I loved him you thought you loved him yeah I was in L okay was this before you started off or this was after this was okay like a year
01:56:35
Genie Exomafter okay uh so you'd pay his rent you'd get him buy him what else was some everything like food trips flights we went to Europe his daily life yeah I just basically his daily life how much
01:56:48
Genie Exomdo you think you were spending per month month on him um I mean we I mean the same thing I don't know like just double what I did double what I spend on myself how much did you spend on yourself per month maybe like 20K mon
01:57:01
Brian Atlasyou spend 20,000 a month what the hell do you spend 20,000 I just travel a lot you travel a lot I travel a lot so flight hotels that plus another I see okay uh so then is this the only guy that you've
01:57:13
Genie Exomever been a sugar mama before or have you been no I've been for many more all your guys yeah it turns out that way cuz then I date like younger guys why oh you date younger guys sometimes like he was
01:57:25
Brian Atlasolder he was 33 but the like the last one he was like younger how old are you I'm 21 but he was 18 are you you were you were wait cuz in some of those news articles it says you were 22 at the time of the Articles yeah I saw they got it
01:57:38
Chasewrong I saw that when I was there this was like uh don't put that okay wait so you were 18 sugar moming for a 29-year-old guy yeah damn no it was bad
01:57:49
Brian Atlaslike and then whenever he turn no he's 32 but yeah I mean he's turning 33 this month do you feel that you have to you have to do this in order to compensate for some sort of deficiency you have when it comes to relationships that's a
01:58:00
Genie Exomgreat question I feel like I just love taking care of someone sometimes I love he can't take care of himself no he probably could I like taking care of and then I start resenting is it like cuz
01:58:12
Genie Exomthen I'm like why am I doing this for a man like come on do your part don't but then again I'm like oh I love it why don't you date guys that like can take care of themselves cuz I guess I I'm not
01:58:23
Kaye Killianattracting that so I'm getting what I attract the power the control that comes from it cuz like do you like the power the control that comes from it cuz like you're basically little bit wearing the
01:58:34
Genie Exompants I guess is what they would say so you're like independent completely cuz if he was to leave you or something happened you're good and yeah yeah yeah yeah and he has he won't be able to live
01:58:45
Genie Exomwithout me are you a Dom yeah I'm a switch though cuz like sometimes with girls like and with the girls that I've been with you're submissive with women sometimes when they cuz they have been very Dom with me the girls that I have been with they've been very like you're
01:58:59
Genie Exomnot doing for this you're not doing that you have your boyfriends I I've wanted to but you want to but they're not they wouldn't let me only one was down and he's still down the guy that I've been talking to so I
01:59:10
Genie Exomkind of want to do that just to say I did it so you're you were paying for everything and they wouldn't let you Peg them once that's what I'm saying it wouldn't even let me stick my finger in
01:59:19
Brian Atlashis butt like I'm like come on I would try and he would do it back to me and then I was like okay okay I'll stop okay
01:59:29
Brian AtlasI mean that's interesting um has anybody else here at the table been a sugar mama for a guy you have your current boyfriend n year the nine year the ninee yeah okay how did that affect the
01:59:41
Kaye Killianrelationship Dynamic oh extremely I mean that's obviously why it didn't work out that's why it didn't work out so did you feel like you were in the masculine and he was in the feminine throughout yes yes and it like started like that and then it just kept going and then I could
01:59:53
Kaye Killiansee like his self-esteem like going down and down and down and like I would try to pick it up for him and then like it comes to a point where it's like you make your own decisions like I can't
02:00:05
Brian Atlashelp you anymore like you got to decide to get up go get a job like I mean I can't make you feel like a man you can yeah that's facts here we had cut you
02:00:15
Brian Atlasoff you had wanted to address something to her do you want to um yeah somebody asked me wait hey can you um C could you like tilt your mic yeah thank you so
02:00:26
Juliespeaking to your mic somebody asked me for her number like someone I know so maybe maybe there could be something you know are you just how do you know this
02:00:37
Brian Atlascuz when I checked when I went to the bathroom but like okay um that's that's the thing that you had to say in that trying to say you're giving
02:00:49
Genie Exomhope like Here's Hope like here's someone that still wants that wants you that maybe this could work out type thing do they want a long-term relationship with her or just a smash I
02:00:57
Juliedon't know what did he say he said oh um can I get the red head girl's
02:01:04
Mukinumber isn't she redhead do you have can you she's a dirty blonde that Super Chat I'll I'm not trying to sound like rude I mean I'm trying how how old is the guy is the friend of yours or just a random
02:01:18
Brian Atlashuh 47 oh he's a friend of yours yeah okay that's cool uh okay I guess if he wants he can DM her I guess nice yeah
02:01:31
Brian Atlasthat's good to know there you go maybe you you're on the show maybe the guys are going to DM you what do you think about them apples what do you think about them apples you really want to know yeah about the 47y old want to know no I I really want to know what if this
02:01:44
Chaseguy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids and he loves you for who you are what do you think about that what if that was a possibility
02:01:54
Chasehere I only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life yeah absolutely committed to sabotaging yourself but I get you but self Saab you
02:02:05
Chaseonly you only have sex with younger men M how young that's pretty shallow I don't like young no like younger don't you think that's a little shallow candy yeah you had problems with shallow rating systems before seems a little
02:02:18
Chasehypocritical little bit Yeah called out candy C's you're absolutely committed to sabotaging yourself can't help people that don't want to be helped speaking uh we have Rippy here redhead have you hold
02:02:30
TTS Readeron cber donated $100 you can live your life in a river and you can let your surroundings guide you or you can take control and get out of the river and climb the mountain of
02:02:41
TTS Readerlife and you can choose to climb as high as you want CL as you you have the ability to make the life you want so true fantastic comment C thank you
02:02:52
Brian Atlascber that was beautiful I want that I want that on like a freaking like a frame we got to print that out and frame that thanas superat all right Rippy redhead have you ever read the children's book The Little Engine That
02:03:04
Brian AtlasCould always say to yourself I think I can I think I can it will translate to the surface that voice saying be realistic is a demon bringing you down
02:03:13
Chasethat's facts a a CHR Rex Christus Rex okay so true thank you Rippy thank Rippy much appreciated you got you got demons whispering to you that the life that you
02:03:25
Chasewant is impossible and you're sitting here like you know what absolutely that's true and then some guy miraculously comes along and he's like hey I want to date her and you're like no I only want younger guys you know that story with God in the boat and
02:03:38
Genie Exomthey're like the guys on the boat in the middle of the ocean and he's like God please send me someone please and then God sends someone and then the guy's like no no no God's going to save me and then he sends another boat and then he's like no no no sir God's going to save me
02:03:50
Genie ExomI prayed and then another one comes and then he's like and then it Go sinks down and then God comes down and God's like I sent three and you weren't listening to me son that's exactly we are seeing this play out in real time right now we
02:04:04
Chasethere's your boat she's in the middle of the ocean she's like no I don't like that life raft I don't like that one I'd rather drown that's that's a winning game I'm not even religious like when you say she you're not
02:04:16
Genie Exomreligious but you're cooking yeah I mean Mama John 36 I know everything when you say you prefer younger men what are you talking about like a couple years
02:04:26
Brian Atlasyounger college boys what are we talking about like 28 29's kind of my sweet spot you said 28 or 29 yeah just curious why I I I don't object to your preference
02:04:37
Genie ExomI'm just curious why like why I don't know oh okay that's they're easier to manipulate huh oo they all know nothing I'm not a Dom
02:04:48
Brian Atlasso I wouldn't know about that oh okay good talk good talk manipul uh coming back to you coming back to you you said that you dated a boy who locked you in
02:05:00
Genie Exomhis room the entire relationship and you weren't allowed to come out WR Yik how would you do all of your traveling that this when I was younger this I was like
02:05:10
Genie Exomway younger like before the last one like like 18 no like 14 15 you did a guy that would lock you in your room he was older and like how old was he he was 20
02:05:21
Genie Exomand I was like 15 or so and I could stay in his room and like no one knew like that I was dating him or whatever and like we dated for like a year and a half and like I couldn't come out of his room like one time I remember his room yeah I
02:05:33
Genie Exomwas in his room he Liv with his like Mom you were living with him at no I would just go I would like leave school and I would go stay in his room and I couldn't leave I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home and like one day I
02:05:44
Genie Exomwas so hungry and his like Mom stepmom came and she was like he was like can you come like can you come she was like you want to eat and I was like yeah yeah yeah like I I want to eat I'm hungry and like I went out and
02:05:55
Chaseeat he was so mad at me why would you come out there and I was like oh I was hungry they make crab legs like that's I think I think you uh are pretty bad at
02:06:05
Chasepicking boyfriends yeah no I know I got a lot to work on therapy inner healing everything wa if if we attract what we are what does all of this say about that's what I'm saying I
02:06:16
Juliegot a lot to work on healing was this in Alabama yeah damn Alabama's are a whole another breed I
02:06:24
Brian Atlasknow them alabamians okay uh you say say messed up y'all i' be paying for dates and [ __ ] but I also like I be paying for
02:06:36
Brian Atlasdaily but you said I also like being paid for and being pampered usually I pay when I date younger uh men and women yeah that's what I said okay it's
02:06:47
Genie Exomprobably nice to be pamp when you never as a guy and I've never had money so like now I got money I'm like I got you what you want you know it sounds like you're really successful like we all eat you know if you're comfortable sharing
02:06:59
Brian Atlaslike how much you make per month from o and enough but I'm good six figures yeah enough okay all right you don't just I'm just curious I'm just
02:07:10
Chasecurious you said there were trained you lived in a trap house yeah okay Alabama alab this another boyfriend no this one was just trapping
02:07:21
Genie Exomwhat's tra what is just straight trapping nothing I was just like what what were you slaying nothing like what is what is I was just like no I know but no no I
02:07:34
Genie Exommean but I didn't do I didn't sell them like I was just with people that told them I did them yeah I did them what were you doing you had everything you
02:07:42
Genie Exomdid them you did the people the drugs oh in the house probably probably you don't remember okay I
02:07:52
Genie Exomdid what are we what are we talking here some assumptions are cor I know guys okay I'll just say it like M mesculin what are we talking mcul mesculin what
02:08:03
Genie Exomis that it's a drug Mescal oh not that no I used to do like Xanax and if I really really wanted to like I was like I was so get on y'all I would like go to
02:08:14
Genie Exomthe CVS and I would get like NY will or something and like chug some like sinus medication take like 12 of them start tweaking like I like just
02:08:24
Genie Exompicture this the situation the house yeah and like I would like stay in like trap houses and we would like lace our weed with Xanax like
02:08:35
TTS Readerlike, $99 Chase refresh yourself of John chap your behavior quite inappropriate towards
02:08:46
Brian Atlascandy bro P it's so crazy like people be sending chats at the most inopportune times CH just left uh de I will I will re-trigger this for you um that's Happ three times when cany get okay so we
02:08:59
Brian Atlashave let's see okay there's the Trap houses oh right the funeral here wait let's let's come back to that actually let me just well I'll come back to that in just a
02:09:10
Brian Atlassec uh I have uh put it in a box we had something here from let's see one sec
02:09:21
Brian Atlasuh Kaye wait actually no we're going to come back to Kaye uh Julie the main thing that occupies your mind that you'd like to speak on is the
02:09:31
Julietopic of modern dating and hypergamy Hyper did you have anything to elaborate on that um yeah I just feel
02:09:40
Julielike it's gotten out of control and we should be warning like young girls about how detrimental it is to to mental health and like their future and you
02:09:51
Julieknow their lifelong happiness hypergamy I mean like you know okay I don't know anything is there was there anything else elaborate a little bit
02:10:02
Juliemore like on what part well how do you warn somebody with the world that they come in the media and it's like represented as something that's normal
02:10:12
Julieand even good but it's everywhere I just don't think it's like really good at all for girls can we first explain the word hypergamy yeah I don't know what it means either yeah backtrack well what's
02:10:23
Brian Atlasyour sense of the word hypergamy um Hy like excessive sexual activities no that's that's not hypergamy is typically
02:10:33
Brian Atlasthe typically the tendency for women to date and marry up so typically like socioeconomic status yeah really Mar rich man we shouldn't do that well i'
02:10:44
Brian AtlasI've heard the word hyper used in the context of what I was thinking so I just thought that's what it meant okay yeah typically it's the action of marrying I pulled it I pulled up the definition
02:10:55
Brian Atlasmarrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background okay this could also be for looks too what would be like a better word to
02:11:06
Brian Atlasdescribe then describe what describe what like promiscuity promiscuity promiscuity got it okay the D feminism
02:11:15
Brian Atlasgot it absolutely this is getting real I mean word just okay um here we have jeie you said that you met a girl
02:11:28
Brian Atlasyou met a girl biggest crush on her first date was at a funeral I don't know if you told us the full funeral story if I recall no yeah that was really it oh you just met the funeral yeah did you know the the deceased no you didn't know
02:11:41
Genie Exomthe deceased she went as moral sport this is like from Wedding Crashers where it's like it was definitely the most awkward intense thing ever and it was like really freaking sad and like I cried a lot it's obviously I mean yeah it's so
02:11:53
Priyasad so you only knew this girl for like what two weeks you said yeah like three weeks so how did she approach the situation of hey do you want to come to a funeral with me she texted me I was like and you said hey we were texting a
02:12:04
Genie Exomlot like yeah I was like you need me I'll be there like you flew did I flew there oh you was going to say I'm pretty sure you said from parents to Miami yeah I was in Paris at the time you had been texting this girl for 2 weeks and you
02:12:16
Genie Exomacross the world to go to I was down bad damn but I no I liked her though like I was down bad but I liked her you know have you had you met her prior no you prefer men or women both I like both I
02:12:28
Genie Exommean it just depends on you don't lean One Direction one more towards the other I mean I would use say have men I used to say men I mean they're different I yeah they're like different they're not the
02:12:41
Brian Atlassame all right whatever I can't choose who's better uh you said in your pre-show in your pre-show notes here you said that you effed a whole plon oh yeah what's the story
02:12:50
Brian Atlasthere oh okay I I lived in Alabama Marin or Air Force Army sadly oh Army okay my bad Co the only
02:13:02
Genie Exomwhy cuz you know Army everyone's like Army you know no I don't what does what does that even mean cuz they're like Marines they like M and then they're
02:13:11
Genie Exomlike you know and then they're like the Air Forces I I know Air Forces you know and they're like Army like Coast Guard what about the Coast Guard no Coast Guard Nation no they're like good
02:13:22
Brian Atlasthey're like yeah they're so what's this how did were were you in the military no but like my family how did you what hold on chat how much men are in a platoon
02:13:32
Brian Atlaslet me Google this platoon I don't even know platoon definition a platoon is a military unit typically composed of two to four
02:13:42
Brian Atlassquads uh 100 is it 100 it oh specific platoon May range from from 10 to 100 people oh it can be composed of 20 to 50
02:13:52
Chasetroops getting 100 gen I'm getting 7 billion Genie how many dudes were how many dudes did you sleep with probably at that time like 20 the whole platoon
02:14:02
Chasewas it the whole what span of time was this in this is a span of time it yes it was like was this like over the span of
02:14:11
Genie Exomlike 5 days or like two weeks oh oh this is a span of like 20 and maybe one week I mean one month one month one month probably a month cuz I would like
02:14:23
Genie Exomhow did they all how did they all feel about it were they like fist bumping one another did yeah they would bring me new guys they would be like Genie the next batch is here like coming in from how did how did this unfold where were you I
02:14:35
Genie Exomwas in Alabama working at Buffalo Wild Wings okay and one of them came in and he was like he yeah and then he would stay for me like after work and I'd be like we go into my car and like we would go to my car after work like do it and then how did how did that trans
02:14:48
Genie Exominto yo you should sleep with my whole platoon it was like bring your friends to eat some wings and then I was like oh they're cute and he was like I was like put me on and he like put me on and then he like put me on another and put me on
02:14:59
Julieanother and then they put me on a whole another batch that would come in and i' I was just going a little crazy then yeah yeah okay did they pay you at I love my country us did they pay you no
02:15:11
Genie Exomno no like I said A Thousand Lives you yeah I know cuz now I would like never how long ago was this right yeah this was like when I
02:15:21
Genie Exomwas to into the mic oh I thought I my neck this is when you were what this was during the time I feel like he can't say the age
02:15:32
Genie Exomcuz he younger younger here's here's the real question here's the real question Genie what's your relationship like with your dad now it's good it wasn't he left before I was born blame the father I do
02:15:45
Genie Exomhave Daddy Issues how long have you been in and Mom issues how long have you been in contact with your dad since I was okay so he came when I was 13 left came
02:15:53
Genie Exomback when I was 16 left lived with him for a bit for like a year that was bad and then now we're back
02:16:03
Brian Atlasbetter they were each asking each other how their blank taste f sake man get the Rocks okay get the Rocks Abdul yeah get the Rocks get the Rocks Bros all right
02:16:16
Chaselet me just say something for all the dudes listening Bros this is why you must raise your daughters okay dudes please raise your daughters thank you use me as a reference be there for your child huh
02:16:30
Brian Atlasyeah I'll get it I'll get it I'll get it um be there for your child just a couple before I do that um so did you precisely answer the period of time that this was going on yeah I didn't want to say like the younger age cuz you were like
02:16:42
Brian Atlasearlier she said it it was over the span of a month oh one month the platoon yeah and you said it was 20 guys M what do you have a platoon story too I have a question okay did you think at any point
02:16:54
Candy Lanethat he may have been actually pimping you out like he was getting money from his friends didn't cross my mind okay
02:17:03
Brian Atlasum yeah have hiccups now from the platoon thing my the boom 20 okay the whole platoon all right yeah
02:17:15
Brian Atlasgood times good times hey you know it could have been a uh what are some other units that in the military there's uh it could have been a I didn't get
02:17:26
Brian Atlasthat far a brigade is it wait Battalion a battalion sorry Bal is no I don't know actually hold on let me look at the
02:17:33
Brian Atlasdifferent kinds of of uh for like a mil what is it what military for groupings is that what what would be military group names is that what you're trying
02:17:44
Brian Atlasto say military units okay so oh my God why is it giving me this [ __ ] hold on they were Rangers different different kinds of military units they were
02:17:54
Brian AtlasRangers so oh here we go okay so there's there's a platoon yeah there's there's also a company Bravo Company okay do you
02:18:04
Brian Atlasthink like maybe a company a battalion Battalion I know that a regiment I don't know there is a brigade a brigade sure I never aade a brigade is 3,000 to 5,000
02:18:15
Brian Atlasyou know what we should start asking women their body count is but the many how many men in a Mil well has it PL has now if we start getting into
02:18:28
Brian Atlasdivisions if you get into divisions that's you should definitely do that there's Corp there's corpse is it Kors core I don't field Army Field Army like how bad are you how
02:18:40
Genie Exombad that's like 100,000 if you're like if you oh my God my VJ oh my God that would hurt y'all that thing would be all right C's like sign
02:18:50
TTS Readerme up uh a lot of stress to I've already been there hey chase this one came through while you were gone M donated
02:19:00
Chase$99 Chase refresh yourself on Gospel of John chapter 8 your behavior is quite inappropriate towards candy um all right thanks bro that's probably relevant to me roasting her a
02:19:13
Chasesecond ago but uh I don't know man I I don't know if I feel like that's fair I've spent like a large portion of this podcast trying to call her away from a life of sin towards
02:19:23
Genie Exomhaving faith in God and believing that he can fulfill the longing of her heart so I like that you even did that and then at the end what I what I liked it was at the end what did you like tell us what you like I'm hard to tell you tell
02:19:35
Genie Exomokay tell us what you like go ahead okay so at the end like I like how you were like well you don't made me forget you were like oh if you don't want to you can't help you know you can't change whatever if you don't want to change and then you like kind of stopped you know you weren't like forcing it too much
02:19:48
Genie Exomdown her throat you were just like all right if you don't want it to change that's on you yeah and I appreciate that all right all right all right all right all right I get it the [ __ ] is that Holy sorry guys
02:19:58
Brian Atlasthere's like a [ __ ] tractor tractor going [ __ ] by outside tuning that out uh Derek for the Derek the traitor question for the ladies when it comes to previous relationship can you name one
02:20:09
Brian Atlasthing your ex did wrong and one thing you did wrong before you broke up
02:20:15
Kaye Killianstarting with you go um I would say one thing I did wrong was
02:20:25
Brian Atlasnot respect the relationship enough um and then you cheated on them no oh how did what is what is that how did you disrespect the relationship um or I feel
02:20:37
Kaye Killianlike since we started dating at such a young age I was selfi more selfish than I think I would be in a relationship now just cuz I was young
02:20:48
Kaye Killianso I was just like oh well I want to go do this or I want to do that instead of just asking like how do you feel about me doing this yeah like it wasn't really a partnership yeah it was more just like
02:20:58
Kaye Killianyour world revolved around you yes yes and then what he did wrong was the whole like laziness and
02:21:07
Kaye Killianthen kind of like blaming it on me type thing like he felt like he wasn't a man and it kind of like I feel like always went back to me and he should have taken
02:21:19
Kaye Killianaccountability yes yeah yeah and gotten on top of his life yes yeah 100% what about you we literally live the same relationship no and we're like literally
02:21:28
Kaye Killianthe trap house thing like so in I lived in Atlanta yeah oh girl you was ghetto too yeah yeah so there was Parts you live in a trap house too I didn't live in a trap house but there was moments
02:21:39
Kaye Killianwhere I was like going back and forth between like going to a trap house to do stuff like that I got arrested at one point in my life life as well um so I don't know if that's like a southern
02:21:51
Genie Exomthing I think I think it might be damn straight damn stupid girl Genie what about you what's your answer one thing you did wrong and one thing he did wrong I think I didn't um don't tell me take
02:22:01
Genie Exomhim seriously I didn't respect him I didn't take the relationship seriously I was just like all over the place I didn't really I don't think I was ready for a relationship I was I shouldn't
02:22:14
Genie Exomhave been in one and then he was just really lazy didn't do anything he wanted me to do everything for him everything and then would blame me and be like you demasculate me like you said that you would help me so you should and
02:22:26
Genie Exomblah blah blah and like he was like you said this is this and I was like yeah I said it but now I'm like all right do something like I take it back like so he should have taken accountability as well yeah for sure how do you feel like you
02:22:37
Genie Exomdisrespected him sometimes I feel like cuz sometimes I feel like something was good and I was like I was like okay maybe I was gas lit I was probably gas you were gaslighting
02:22:47
Genie Exomhim yeah no I was gas lit oh you were gas lit by him yeah like you my question was how did you disrespect him I guess I didn't I take that back oh you never disrespected him I mean sometimes we fought a lot I guess I disrespected him
02:23:00
Genie Exomby downgrading him and maybe like I should have I maybe I should have like helped him more but like I did like I did a lot what do you mean you disrespected him by downgrading him what does that mean like I'd be like why are you being so lazy why aren't you working like you could be working that's you're
02:23:13
Kaye Killianjust pathetic like you're not doing anything like you could have got a job at Burger King like I could could I don't think that's disrespect I think a woman should hold her man to the standard of working I think we had similar things where like you start to
02:23:25
Kaye Killianfeel guilty because they kind of make you feel guilty yeah and so then you think that like you said you're not respecting them or like being sensitive to them yeah but then there's also a
02:23:35
Chasepoint like he's saying like they kind of have to like get it together yeah I mean all concede if he was saying that you're being disrespectful to him for telling him he should get a job yeah that's
02:23:47
Genie Exomabsolutely gaslighting he's being disrespectful to you by not getting a job and making it a partnership he used to tell me cuz he like one time I got him Ubers and stuff like that and he was like you should be giving me that Uber
02:24:00
Genie Exommoney not getting an Uber I'll ride the train give me the money and I'd be like you have a drug problem no no he just wanted your $20 he just wanted my
02:24:10
Juliemoney yeah sounds like a cheap cheap guy yeah yeah he was one my money okay what what about you uh so I'd say the thing that I did wrong was I had like I would
02:24:22
Juliehave male friends like I'd text them then like platonically and and the boy I was with he didn't like that but I just still kept talking to them cuz I mean I was like lonely like he would just play
02:24:35
Juliehis video games all day every day and I would just sit there and I'm like what else am I supposed to do you know I had to I had to have somebody to talk to you
02:24:44
TTS Readerknow grid one Motorsport fors donated $100 no no it is not a southern thing it is a white trash thing please do better
02:24:55
TTS ReaderI grew up dirt poor in Tennessee but I made good choices and now I am no longer poor listening to the Bama girl is like listening to four pack a day lot lizards
02:25:05
Chaseto better I love getting roasted these are so funny keep a com grid motorport Motor Sports standing up for the honor of the South right now very based very based a little hurt by that props grid
02:25:17
ChaseMotorsports for making something out of yourself too despite growing up dirt poor um so it sounds like your boyfriend wasn't giving you attention you wanted attention and you
02:25:28
Chaselooked for attention from your male friends M yeah I mean look if I was in a relationship and my girlfriend if I was in a relationship and I was giving my girlfriend plenty of attention but she was like texting other guys I'd be like
02:25:40
Chaseyo what like what are you doing stop or we're breaking up but if he's not giving you attention like it's on on him and also I like didn't stand up for myself I would just like kind of just do what
02:25:52
Juliethey wanted me to do and I was literally like at some point I was I was his mom I was doing his laundry I was picking up after him like just cuz I felt trapped like whole side of the table is filled
02:26:02
Juliewith mommies go to you have mommy issues as well uh yeah issu I never knew my mom I was raised just by my dad sorry to hear that no it's okay yeah sorry to hear about your
02:26:13
Juliedad too um okay she was like a bit like you know yeah from what I've heard she was like cluster B you know crazy whacked
02:26:24
Chaseout okay stop uh mothering your boyfriends ladies yeah well now I'm good thankfully now I'm single candy how about you one thing you did wrong in a
02:26:35
Candy Lanerelationship with an ex and one thing he did wrong I think it's I don't know in hindsight the one that I miss the most
02:26:43
Candy Lanethat I feel like I messed up um I smothered him but like when you are first getting to know someone and you're really enthusiastic about who they are
02:26:55
Chaselike you want to spend a lot of time with them I think she could relate with that I knew you were going to say that and I was like
02:27:04
Candy LaneI got her speechless yeah um what do you feel like he did wrong he was just crazy he was straight up like super crazy I
02:27:17
Candy Lanestraight up super crazy you know those are talking like Fringe types where they're an artist and they're passionate and but they're way off the other end
02:27:28
Candy Laneokay like he I don't can you give an example I don't think I ever saw him one day when he was sober damn yeah I think he self-medicated with
02:27:38
Chaselike acid wow I'm not I'm not that will make a man crazy that will make a man super crazy I is like 13 hours
02:27:49
Karina Hammondyes that freaking sucks in a previous relationship one thing you did wrong one thing your act did wrong go ahead uh it' probably be a shorter list saying what
02:27:58
Karina Hammondhe did right and the one thing I did wrong was not leave him sooner that's not that's wait what wait there there was too many things he did wrong what what did you do wrong in the
02:28:11
Chaserelationship women never take accountability for the yeah okay it'll be a rare day when that happens she what what did you do wrong in the relationship besides leave him sooner or not not leave him sooner what did you do
02:28:21
Chasewrong um I didn't really have time to mess up he was always gone cheating okay you just that's putting the accountability on him again like is there anything you you did nothing wrong she's she's perfect I guess that the one
02:28:33
Karina Hammondrelationship I can say I was perfect okay what about a relationship where you weren't uh yeah probably talking to guy friends same thing ladies yeah if you're trying to hold on to your relationship
02:28:45
Chasewhy you talking to other dudes I was like 18 we just like the attention you know like they Mak they're it's good conversation okay there's a great lesson here for all men and women watching dudes take care of your woman unless you
02:28:58
Chasewant her to start getting attention from other guys ladies if you start talking to other dudes prepare for your dude to drop you yeah I mean that's true wait can I have you scoot your mic that way
02:29:08
Brian Atlasplease also your when you got up earlier the clip if you can uh if it's if it's too far into the don't worry about it I thought I thought if it was next to you don't worry about it don't worry about it don't worry about it I thought if it
02:29:22
Brian Atlaswas just next to you you could grab it but never mind um wait just really quick on well just really quick on you you said that and I I was gone I think when she responded but you said oh her boyfriend play video games all the time
02:29:35
Chaseand he would never give her attention so she started texting her male friends for attention Okay which is on both of you guys yeah I mean he's [ __ ] up a little bit there
02:29:44
Mukifor sure completely messing up yeah what about you um one thing he did wrong one thing you did wrong and one thing an ex did wrong okay can you Center your mic
02:29:56
Mukiyeah um can I say what he did wrong first cuz I feel like doesn't matter the order okay whatever um like a lot of assumptions and projection and then it
02:30:07
Mukimade me be like well if you're assuming it then I'm just going to like do it so I'm just going to like text other guys delete messages like that was what I did
02:30:18
Mukiwrong but I was just like what if you're already thinking that I I'm doing it like oh when you side it's I mean like what difference does it make what difference I mean let's like let
02:30:30
Chasethat evolve for a second it's like if a guy suspects his girlfriend of cheating but she's not actually cheating using that using that logic it's like well if you think I'm doing it I might as well just go sleep with other guys over not
02:30:40
Mukisleep I never did but over time like you keep like assuming like oh so you went out today and guys talked to you like okay like you just get tired of hearing
02:30:52
Chaseit so like you're going to that's what I did wrong so he was super jealous and you were like you know what I'm tired of this I'm going to feed the jealousy I guess yeah how long did the relationship last after that
02:31:03
Mukium I mean on and off like a couple year like two years that sounds like a healthy relationship I mean yeah just saying what I did wrong and he did wrong
02:31:14
Jessica Kirbyokay appreciate you owning what about you um I think that he had a lot of trust issues and what I did wrong was probably not realized that I also
02:31:25
Jessica Kirbydid too so I fed into it and we bounced off each other with the trust issues nice that sounds like a vicious cycle same thing there with with you actually with you uh this kind of reminds me of
02:31:37
Brian Atlasthis Eminem song I am whatever you say I am if I wasn't then why would you say I am is that the S what song is that but
02:31:48
Chasethe ending part is like I wasn't that before so like I don't know I don't know how to explain it I also feel like Pro did you get anything out of texting those other guys like did it satisfy you
02:31:59
Kaye Killianat all no would you like compare it to if someone kept telling you like you're ugly you're fat you're this like eventually you start to believe I am ugly I am fat I am this like would that
02:32:10
Mukibe S I wasn't believing it though I was just like you keep saying it so like you're not going to believe me either way so like if I answer to this text message or to this DM like it doesn't
02:32:23
Mukieven matter like it doesn't even matter like I'm being a good girlfriend but like you're not that's insanely frustrating did you go yes for um an ex of mine hid certain vices of his that
02:32:35
Priyaare traditionally deal breakers for me until we were a few months into a relationship and Hinds side is 2020 I should have just ended it there but I fell into the I can help him and fix him
02:32:45
Priyamentality but um he perceived my help to overcome these VI as judgmental behavior and maybe it was I I
02:32:56
Priyaknow a fault of mine is being very quick and harsh to judge certain behaviors and um opinions that I don't agree with but yeah interesting I don't know I feel
02:33:08
Chaselike it's good to have standards where you're like hey I I don't think these behaviors are acceptable sure yeah I feel like it sounds like what he did was kind of like gaslighting in a way unless you were like unless you were very rude
02:33:20
Chaseor mean about it I never felt like I was but that's how he perceived it so yeah I mean he kind of brought it upon himself by hiding the vices from you were you clear with him that like stuff like that wasn't acceptable to you
02:33:32
Priyabeforehand I was and then there was certain uh incidences where it became very clear that he was engaging in certain behaviors and he finally owned up to it and I was prepared to break up with him he begged me not to said he
02:33:45
Priyawanted to change not only for for me but for him and I encouraged it but then he fell back into it and I became less
02:33:52
Brian Atlassympathetic to to those issues okay cool well want to move on yep uh so jeie you said that you jumped out of a plane with
02:34:02
Genie Exomyour last ex for your first date yeah any details you had some crazy First Dates know cool now I kind of like it now I keep wanting to do it now I'm like messing people on hand you want to Dr
02:34:14
Brian Atlasout of a plane and if you don't answer you're not for me yeah I guess a plan you know because of like the implication what what's the implication yeah you know it's kind of like if it's the same thing with like if you're on a
02:34:24
Brian Atlasboat you know because of what is because of the implication it's sorry it's from like this show Always Sunny oh I know you're talking there's this thing where you take a girl on the boat yeah it's a
02:34:37
Brian Atlasjoke from it's okay you'd have to get the reference whatever um you said that you said that you had a boyfriend that you never effed for a year because his D wouldn't get hard cuz of all the cocaine
02:34:49
Chasehe did that's facts was this in the trap house this was outside of the trap house okay um yes but it was like living in a trap house with him you never why' you stay with him for a year yeah that's how
02:35:01
Brian Atlashe I don't know no self love I mean how old were you younger as well like 15 I had like many relationships in one at the you had many relationships at the
02:35:12
Brian Atlassame time yeah some yeah I was kind of just dating around how many many guys were you dating two at one time another what's the most that you've ever dated at one time like cuz one another yeah
02:35:24
Brian Atlassometimes we have girls who say they have like and men too who say they have a roster they'll have like three four five six seven maybe even more people that they're talking to maybe not sleeping with all of them but they could
02:35:34
Juliebe sleeping with two three four five people mine was just two okay one another good talk no that was literally it did they know that you were talking to other people or um well I knew they
02:35:47
Genie Exomwere too but I mean they didn't they didn't know that I was but I knew that they were talking to other people cuz one time when I was dating my last ex I not my last ex my last ex the one that
02:35:59
Genie Exomlock me in the room I came into the house he was in and he had another girl sitting on the couch and he threw a blanket over her head so I wouldn't see her face and I literally just walked in
02:36:09
Brian Atlasgrabbed my shoes and then left and I was like see you tomorrow and then left okay and then the last thing for you jeie you say that women should pay for guys if they make more money yeah
02:36:21
Brian Atlasand we kind of already talked about that a little bit that you are a sugar mama for for men and what do the other girls here think though on a first date who do you guys think should pay for the for first date should it be split should the
02:36:33
Kaye Killianguy pay what do you think I don't know I kind of you know you know I enjoy a man paying for me yeah you could have just said that okay
02:36:45
Kaye Killianthat's fine I feel like there's a butt I don't know if there's a butt I think she just I mean but I wouldn't mind also pain is the butt like I I do see her Point like but I do think that's like a
02:36:56
Kaye Killianlater on thing like if I'm in a partnership and we're you know married or something or getting to that point then like it's okay if the woman makes
02:37:05
Juliemore money and takes care of more things word okay what do you think me um it kind of shows like I think yeah he pays
02:37:17
Julieit's it shows he's like a traditional guy and if that's what you're into then what are you into fine like traditional traditional kind of why are you bashful
02:37:28
Brian Atlasabout it I don't know it's just no one want to wait here here's let me add this in addition to who ought to pay or if you're okay with splitting actually let's go around the
02:37:38
Candy Lanetable first then I'll do my followup so you're you prefer guys to pay yes for the first dat what about you I think it depends on who the pursuer is I mean if a guy says hey let's go out to dinner
02:37:50
Brian Atlasand he's the one asking for the date that he should pay for it okay do you ask guys to dinner I don't yeah see that's like the
02:37:58
Brian Atlaswhole I mean who saying whoever whoever asks should pay it's kind of ignoring the fact that de facto men are going to be the ones generally speaking always
02:38:09
Kaye Killianinitiating so your answer may as well be men should pay but sounds like a good answer though I don't necessarily think it's the spin but like I like asking
02:38:20
Chasegirls more it's extremely rare that men get asked out but what about you uh first instinct I always reach for the bill I feel weird when other people pay so even if like a
02:38:31
Brian Atlasguy ask you out on date you want you would that's like my first instinct yeah well cuz some women will do the the the Fain where they oh reach for the purse
02:38:42
Brian Atlasbut secretly want the guy to still pay for it is that what you're talking about no like I actually go to pay cuz I feel weird oh so you'll pay for the whole bill or you'll split yeah I'll usually just pay for the whole bill how often do
02:38:54
Karina Hammondguys let you do that well I don't really go out on a lot of dates I'm picky oh she's also Canadian yeah did we not mention that no cuz I heard the oot or
02:39:06
Brian Atlaswhatever me and Jess are both Canadian yeah you're both from I think these are the first two Canadians we've had on the show so congratulations welcome to America you guys have been here before
02:39:18
MukiI'm assume to America anyways okay uh what about you I think the man but if you're a woman that like makes a certain amount of money I feel like you just don't care
02:39:31
Mukilike you get to a point of making so much money that you're like if he pays he pays if he doesn't want to pay I don't really care cuz like money doesn't really mean she's already got money yeah
02:39:41
Jessica Kirbyyeah yeah okay that's fair for me I love a good power move so if and sometimes like when it's like more of a fight if they're like no I'm going to pay for it I'll like wait till they get all set up and I have my like Apple pay and I'll
02:39:53
Jessica Kirbypay for it I don't know I just think it's funny and then they're like oh you shouldn't have but really I think they like it okay all right uh go ahead um I
02:40:03
Brian Atlasalways offer to split I do appreciate when they pay though okay so for any of you here whatever your answers were um if the guy wanted to split on the first date and I know some of you said you're
02:40:15
Brian Atlasfine with that if the guy said proposed hey let's split the bill in as diplomatic or nice as a in in the most flattering light that one could say that uh would there be a second date would
02:40:27
Brian Atlasyou object to a guy wanting to split the bill would there be a second date because we've had girls come on the show say no if the guy wanted to split just there wouldn't be a second date I think
02:40:38
Kaye KillianI would take that and like thought of like if I want a second date but if he's like a really good guy and I really really enjoyed it then I wouldn't let something as simple as splitting the bill like effect the next day I think we
02:40:51
Julieknow your position you're cool with paying what about you yeah like in this economy it's fine both people pay oh okay I thought you could have taken that
02:41:03
Candy Lanein either direction in this economy men should pay for the okay go ahead I also think it depends on the date I mean a lot of guys don't think outside the box anymore like it's just dinner but like
02:41:15
Candy Lanethere's all kinds of activities that you can do on a first date you know if the moon is full go out and walk under the moon is oh go out and walk underneath the full moon to you know nature
02:41:26
Candy Lanewhatever and if you happen to come across a street vendor you know buy your own or you know but what was your answer to the first question you said that men should pay guy asks he should for like a
02:41:38
Brian Atlastraditional setting so let's say one of your young studs asks you out on a date he asks you
02:41:47
Brian Atlasdo you want him or excuse me would you be upset if he said hey let's split this I wouldn't be upet about it I would probably have to wait for a
02:41:59
MukiPayday okay what about you uh that wouldn't affect my decision it's better than him telling you to pay okay um second date I don't know no you
02:42:11
Mukigo on a first date with a guy he says let's split the bill like if you ask me to go on a date like you should be prepared to pay or like make it known
02:42:21
Mukibefore have you ever asked a guy out on a date not on a date but I've gone out with a guy and paid and not mine a guy you already knew who you've been seeing for a while yeah and not
02:42:33
Mukimine because I knew that they're like a little broky so I'm like all right a little Brokey okay but if if a guy did ask to split the bill with you on a day he ask like why weren't you prepared you
02:42:44
TTS Readerlike wanted to set this up like I wasn't I don't know I'd just be like I probably wouldn't go back CM donated
02:42:55
TTS Reader9999 if you want us men to act traditional and pay the bill then be traditional women and not have a full roster when the girl is exclusive then our wallet is exclusive stop buying
02:43:07
Brian Atlasdinners for girls talking to 73 guys on Tinder SL Bumble don't be a sucker I forgot facts that's facts cm well well said well said so there wouldn't be a second date you'd think
02:43:19
Brian Atlashe's a broky uh what was the other stuff he said that just be prepared prepared I feel that goes for both end he's
02:43:29
Mukiprepared to pay for him should go into the date having money just in case yeah I mean like I'm not a like I yeah I'd probably pay for my share and then yeah be like no I'm I'm
02:43:41
Brian Atlasgood so you but you okay so you wouldn't have a second date with the guy I don't think so I don't think so no okay okay all right
02:43:54
Jessica Kirbyyeah it just depends on the Vibes I it's not it's not going a non answer okay it's yes there would be if it was like good like if we're splitting there
02:44:05
Chasewouldn't whether he what if the Vibes were bad but he paid for it would you still go on a second with him no yes
02:44:16
Brian Atlasis your face okay are you yes okay sorry I was just okay it would not affect my decision for a second date or not okay cool all right you ever offered
02:44:27
Brian Atlasto split the bill on a date oh all the time all the time I'm the king of splitting the bill what a RIT hole not surprised I am the king of splitting the bill look so if if I can tell that the
02:44:39
Brian Atlasgirl is worthy then I'll pay for it then I'll I'll pay I'll pay it's it's not I won't make a big deal on this isn't a girl I want to be dating so yeah but if she's
02:44:51
Brian Atlaslike a non-traditional chick you might but then you might ask me Brian why are you yeah dating a chick that's Brian why are you dating a chick that's not traditional yeah it's a good question
02:45:02
Brian Atlasit's a good question uh why put money into someone you're unsure about though well yeah exactly why first dat that's yeah yeah exactly I think the women
02:45:13
Brian Atlasshould pay the whole bill actually but they're unsure about the guy too yes not so it should be 5050 no that's my troll my that's my troll answer my real answer is is that okay there's a couple
02:45:24
Brian Atlasdifferent angles first off as a guy if you want to minmax your success with women you should pay for the first date let's get that out of the let's get that out of the way uh if you want to minmax your success you should definitely pay
02:45:36
Brian Atlasbecause there are some women who are going to object to having to split or whatever um now on a purely principal level I think that in the current dating landscape there's people are moving in very Shifty ways people are talking to
02:45:48
Brian Atlasmultiple people at the same time people are dating multiple people at the same time people are sleeping with multiple people at the same time and my standard is I would feel very I would feel like a sucker if I like took a girl out on a
02:46:01
Brian Atlasnice date did all the gentlemanly chivalrous things all the while she's [ __ ] like one two three other dudes and you might say well Brian wouldn't you know if she's she's a moving in that
02:46:14
Brian Atlassort of way there are some very unassuming women they could be they could be pleasant they could be shy even on the more introverted side and have a roster and be sleeping with other dudes
02:46:24
Brian Atlastalking to other dudes so just the way the dating landscape goes I feel and also I think that people go on so many First Dates like you you will hear from people that
02:46:37
Brian Atlaslike girls for you guys to get the first state it's super easy like if you guys wanted any girl here uh could probably if you wanted to go
02:46:46
Mukion five First Dates a week maybe more um I feel like that's kind of your ego though cuz like what's like $50 or $100 like if it doesn't work out it doesn't
02:46:59
Brian Atlaswork out it's just food or it's just like $50 or $100 for a lot of ego huh what does that have to do with the ego cuz he's like I would feel what' you say I feel like a sucker like why would you
02:47:10
Chasefeel like a sucker cuz you're pay for a girl well I mean if you take out a girl if you take out a girl and she's got a roster of dudes it's somebody sent in a super chat a few minutes ago they were like women want women want the
02:47:23
Chasetraditional treatment for men but why is men why why as a guy would I be motivated to treat a woman traditionally if she's not living a traditional life like why would I want to roll out the red carpet for a woman and treat her so
02:47:35
Brian Atlasright if she's got like a whole bunch of dudes she's sleeping with why would I ever want to do that to add to that a lot of women want the benefits of being modern women while still receiving all the benefits of traditional male
02:47:46
Brian Atlascourtship that's facts um so for example here's one scenario that I I've frequently given let's say I bring I you said uh 50 to $100 date I or 20 or $40 I
02:47:58
Brian Atlasdon't know it just feels like even if I I would not recommend men even if you're inclined to pay the entire Bill don't spend that much um you you can go get something reasonable like a cup of
02:48:09
Brian Atlascoffee actually a cup of coffeee you can get you can do a free date you can get a cup of coffe you can you can go grab you know a drink glass of wine whatever but