She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon?! | Dating Talk #116
Date: 2023-11-08
Duration: 6h 05m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Priya(guest)
SPEAKER_04Karina Hammond(guest)
SPEAKER_05Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Jessica Kirby(guest)
SPEAKER_07Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chase(guest)
SPEAKER_10Muki(guest)
SPEAKER_11Genie Exom(guest)
SPEAKER_12Kaye Killian(guest)
SPEAKER_14Candy Lane(guest)
Key Moments
00:13:15
QuoteGenie admits stabbing incident: says cops loved her and she went to jail briefly, released; dismisses serious framing
“they were so nice for real they were like this is your first time... I literally go and the police officer was like oh you're famous”
00:26:20
QuoteGenie describes attending a stranger's funeral as her first date with a girl she barely knew (flown from Paris after 2-3 weeks of texting)
“my last date... the date was like not well... so at a funeral... I flew there... I was down bad”
00:41:36
QuoteCandy reveals infertility as the event that ended her 10-year celibacy: "I can't have kids"
“I got some news about something something that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me and yet it did... I can't have kids”
00:47:00
QuoteChase delivers extended speech encouraging Candy not to give up on love, comparing her situation to Abraham and Sarah
“I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason... don't give up... Abraham and Sarah were childless and Barren until they were like a hundred years old”
01:23:50
ControversyChase directly confronts Candy about her self-sabotage regarding a 47yo man who expressed interest through the show
“what if this guy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids... you only have sex with younger men... that's pretty shallow”
01:24:57
QuoteCandy refuses to give up sex with younger men despite Chase's urging to pursue real relationship: "I only smash younger"
“here I only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life”
01:42:48
QuoteGenie reveals she had a boyfriend who locked her in his room from age 14-15 for a year and a half, had to sneak out the window for food
“I was like 14 15 and I could stay in his room... I couldn't come out of his room... I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home”
02:05:50
QuoteGenie admits she was a sugar mama spending ~$40K/month on a man, on top of her own $20K/month lifestyle
“how much do you think you were spending per month... maybe like 20K mon... you spend 20,000 a month... and then double that for him”
02:09:28
QuoteGenie reveals sleeping with an Army platoon (~20 soldiers in ~1 month) while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama
“you said that you effed a whole platoon... bring your friends to eat some wings and then I was like oh they're cute and he was like I was like put me on”
02:18:18
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line on makeup: "a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction"
“a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:05
Introductions and current relationship status
Brian introduces panel of 8 women plus co-host Chase. Each guest gives name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Notable: Kaye in new relationship doing OF with boyfriend; Genie single; Julie in new relationship; Candy terminally single; Karina in relationship; Muki in 3yr relationship; Jessica single 3yrs; Priya in new relationship (~2mo).
00:11:00
Genie Exom: stabbing incident and infamous past
Discussion of news articles about Genie stabbing her boyfriend with a broken glass in NYC. Genie maintains it was self-defense. Brian and Chase pull up New York Post articles. Genie was charged and released without bail. 22yo at time of incident.
00:34:00
Candy Lane: sex addiction and 10-year celibacy
Deep discussion of Candy Lane's sex addiction, two promiscuous phases (pre-celibacy teens, post-2020), and 10-year celibacy for faith (2010-2020). Reveals infertility discovered in 2020 as catalyst ending celibacy. Chase and Brian encourage Candy not to give up on love. Candy maintains pessimism.
00:57:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Panel rates themselves on looks. Kaye: 10; Genie: 10; Julie: 6-6.5; Candy: refuses to rate; Muki: 6-7; Karina: no clear number; Jessica: declines; Priya: ~2. Chase rates himself 7.5-8. Chat asked to rate Genie (got avg ~7). Brian discusses how youth = advantage in ratings.
01:55:20
Genie: sugar mama phase
Genie describes being a sugar mama for 3 years, spending ~$40K/month (double her own $20K/month). Paid rent, food, flights, Europe trips for a 32-33yo man while she was 21. Dated men who would not let her be dominant. Revealed she was also a sugar mama as young as 18 with a 29yo. Gave up the sugar mama lifestyle now.
02:06:09
Modern dating hypergamy and promiscuity
Julie raises concern about hypergamy in modern dating and its harm to young women. Brian clarifies the definition (marrying up socioeconomically). Discussion of promiscuity (the word Julie meant) and de-feminism in media.
02:12:52
Genie: sleeping with an Army platoon
Genie reveals she slept with approximately 20 Army soldiers (~a full platoon) over ~1 month while working at Buffalo Wild Wings in Alabama. First soldier stayed after work, then introduced her to more. Brian and panel discuss the scope (Brian Googles "platoon size"). Genie was younger at the time.
02:19:41
Who should pay on a first date?
Extended debate on whether men or women should pay on a first date. Brian advocates splitting or low-cost dates given modern dating marketplace promiscuity. Chase tests women with no-payment to gauge princess complex. Panel mostly prefers man pays but split is acceptable. Brian's "doggy bag" scenario discussed.
03:00:00
Makeup: who is it for?
Discussion of whether women wear makeup for men or themselves. Panel admits both — for themselves and to attract/impress others. Brian and Chase argue makeup is effectively a mating strategy. Brian says he dislikes heavy makeup. Comparison: makeup = rented Lamborghini (super chat).
03:15:00
Height preferences and shoe inserts
Panel states height preferences. Most want taller than themselves (range 5'7"-5'11"+). Candy requires 5'11" minimum, must be circumcised. Discussion of men wearing shoe inserts — most women would not hold it against them but would be confused. Brian says men's face is autobiography; woman's face is "work of fiction."
03:20:15
Relationship accountability round
Brian asks each guest: one thing you did wrong and one thing your ex did wrong in a past relationship. Common themes: women not respecting/taking seriously, men being lazy and not working. Genie's ex would not let her peg him. Julie mommy'd her boyfriend. Priya's ex hid vices and gaslighted her. Kaye was selfish when young. Jessica fed boyfriend's jealousy. Muki texted and deleted messages.
04:48:00
Soulmates, twin flames, and marriage philosophy
After-show discussion on soulmates and twin flames. Chase argues soulmate concept is a modern scam that leads to divorce. Discussion of types of love (eros vs. agape). Brian advocates for faith-based, committed marriage. Panel weighs in on no-fault divorce.
05:13:00
Promiscuity self-assessment (1-10 scale)
Aftershow: panel rates how promiscuous they are for their age. Kaye: ~7-8 (one new guy every 2 weeks during 8-month single period). Genie: implied high but evasive. Julie: not promiscuous in relationship. Candy: 6 in 2023. Priya: 2. Muki: in relationship so not applicable. Brian and Chase define scale: 1 new partner/week = 10.
05:26:00
Women and draft / military service
Aftershow topic: would women be drafted into the military? Genie reveals she passed her Army physical (MEPS/ASVAB). Panel discusses physical differences in combat. Brian jokes about progression from platoons to brigades.
Transcript
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Kaye Killianplease tell us your name age and occupation go ahead Kaye Killian I'm 27 and I do only fans okay uh how long have
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Brian Atlasyou been doing that for um about 3 years three years okay and what is it BG content solo content what do you do it's
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Genie ExomBG boy girl content okay got it what about I'm jeie exom I'm 21 and I do only pants uh and then same question I do
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Brian Atlaseverything BG you've done boy girl boy girl girl girl yeah vibrator did you go to uh did you go to college University or I went to a technical school for like
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Genie Exomit or that no in in Georgia okay I went there for a bit no way I'm from Georgia really I'm like columus Georgia is near me really yeah yeah that's crazy maybe
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Kaye Killianyou guys know each other I don't went to high school together um did you go to college too or no okay no um I didn't graduate what did you do oh you that's awesome I got my GED dropped out of
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Brian AtlasElementary scholo I dropped out of high school the hard streets of Georgia um wow what so what uh so you said you started of more recently I mean what were you doing before that um I was doing regular modeling like fashion
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Kaye Killianmodeling is what I started and then I started doing like influencing and then I started only fans okay got it what about you I'm Juliana Hernandez and I'm
00:03:43
Julie20 years old and I'm currently unemployed are you at University uh Questa College Questa College what do you what are you studying just like
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Brian AtlasGeneral Ed you're currently unemployed yeah I quit Walgreens Walgreens okay all right there you go I I gave them a sympathy card like sorry for your loss
00:04:04
Candy Lanefor my two weeks yeah okay how did they respond to that they they thought it was hilarious that's funny yeah okay got it what about you hi I'm Candy Lane and
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Candy Lanethat's not just a name it's a destination I'm 36 uh until last Thursday I was an Uber
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Brian Atlasdriver for 3 years and I'm only fans hopeful 36 yes okay um o an of hopeful what did so do you you don't have one but you're hoping to start one or you
00:04:36
Brian Atlashave one and it's you're in the process of developing it I don't know how to do it oh okay well you got I got Z allab I guess that's a
00:04:46
Karina Hammondcollab in the works okay uh what about you uh Karina Hammond I'm 23 and I do Instagram content creating okay but no
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Chaseno o no okay all right um is there is there decent money in that yeah yeah yeah how large is your following uh 18.6
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Mukith000 I think okay so modeling content creation yeah just like promote for Brands all that fun stuff okay got it what about you um I'm selda
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Brian AtlasMuki I'm 26 and I have a clothing brand okay is this one of your pieces no this is Chrome Hearts okay what what do you sell like what
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Mukikind of clothing just Street Wear yeah like women's Street Wear I don't know oh sorry it's just stuff that I like I don't make it for anybody else if I like
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Jessica Kirbyit I make it and then I sell it okay what about you I'm Jessica Kirby I'm 21 and I work at a retail store
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Priyaokay I'm priia I'm 22 years old I am a full-time student at ASU online uh I co-run a family business and I'm an equestrian all right Chase sweet do you
00:06:01
Brian Atlasdo that professionally yeah cool I'm Chase 28 professional photographer and brand consultant all right welcome everybody so we're going to go around the table once more what is your current relationship status are you single
00:06:14
Brian Atlastalking stage situationship Friends with Benefits married polyle sex cult Harum whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's your longest relationship that you've ever been in go ahead I'm in a
00:06:25
Kaye Killianrelationship and that's who I do the content with on only I see okay how long have you guys been dating a year one year okay is that your longest relationship no what's your uh
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Kaye Killianwhat's your longest relationship n years nine years wow okay wow uh from when to when what um the long one how long Okay so the long one was from like high
00:06:49
Kaye Killianschool I was like 16 till a little over a year ago when I met my new boyfriend my current boyfriend nine year were you guys married no the nine-year relationship um to certain
00:07:01
Brian AtlasStates maybe what like Vegas you guys went to Vegas and just marriage law like if you like oh I see okay I see what you're saying okay so you're married for N9 years he was also in high school I'm
00:07:14
Brian Atlasassuming at the time yeah we met in high school we are the same age okay all right and so you were in a 9-year
00:07:23
Kaye Killianrelationship why did it end um we just drifted apart you know I think it lasted longer than it needed to be probably like should have stopped at like 4 years to be honest and it just kept going so
00:07:36
Brian Atlaswas it Mutual or who initiated no I broke up with him how soon after the breakup did you get involved with your new guy um I think it was like eight months
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Brian AtlasMH like had you been was there any crossover not not like infidelity but well but had you been talking were you aware of your current boyfriend while in
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Kaye Killianthe midst of your 9 year relationship no I just met him like eight months later how did you guys meet we met through a mutual friend in Arizona I was visiting her and we went to a bar I met him and
00:08:09
Brian Atlaswe hooked up that night and then we like Goodtimes talking and was he was he kind of the rebounds like for the nine-year relationship or no other rebound no I
00:08:18
Brian Atlashad plenty of rebounds plenty plenty of rebounds okay oh man cool how quick how quick did you have a rebound after the 9year relationship um like probably like
00:08:29
Kaye Killiana week later 3 weeks maybe I was like moving so like had to move and then started going out in LA and yeah okay but you said like Midway through the
00:08:42
Brian Atlasnyear relationship you were already checked out it sounded like okay got it okay uh what about you I'm single ready to mingle yeah single ready to mingle
00:08:52
Genie Exomyeah okay how's the mingling going not well not well why is that why is not going um I don't really go outside you don't go I need to go outside I'm on dating abs like I'm on hinge look me up
00:09:02
Brian Atlaslike I don't know put oh you know what we should have we should have got your maybe my what we should we do a dating app review uh segment of the show sometimes we should have done that
00:09:14
Brian Atlasshowed my hinge like show your prompts and oh we should still do it and then we see if no we should totally go get my phone soone okay well maybe we'll we'll get to it time permitting maybe we'll
00:09:24
Brian Atlasget to yeah we got time um I I'll make a note here uh dating app reviews okay so you don't go outside so you're like a recluse you're
00:09:34
Genie Exoma Hermit occasionally yeah okay I mean I travel a lot but like I don't know maybe I don't know when's the last time you went on a
00:09:43
Genie Exomdate oh my God yesterday no it wasn't long ago actually but like the date was like not well the date was like the first date was like a funeral so you
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Genie Exomknow what I'm saying your first date was a funeral yeah no dead ass so at a funeral at aun funeral like that's the first time we met who who invited who to the funeral the girl invited me she invited me what I mean like she wanted
00:10:06
Genie Exomme like did she think that would be romantic no I think she needed their emotional support and I was there and it just kind of sucks but I'm like she using you no way was she that seems like
00:10:18
Chaseyou think so wait wait that freaking sucks what happened after that did you guys keep we don't talk anymore did did you maybe I was used did did you keep seeing each other after the funeral yeah like no I flew to
00:10:30
Genie ExomMexico so like I couldn't see her at all so I was just did you know this person prior to attending for like two weeks before got it okay yeah interesting I know I know no it's my life that's what
00:10:41
Brian AtlasI'm saying I'm [ __ ] up guys oh oh go ahead no it's fine it's f um so yeah you provided in your notes here that you did go on a date to a funeral
00:10:52
Brian Atlasyeah um maybe we'll get into we can get more into that later later um I think kind of the one of the notable things though is there were some news articles about you you are kind of
00:11:04
Brian AtlasInfamous it's okay you're kind of Infamous for having stat allegedly allegedly excuse me allegedly on alleged which by the way we had last
00:11:16
Brian Atlasshow I don't know why this is like a one of those what was that like in early 2000s mid 2000s there's like three Magic movies like The Prestige do you know what I'm talking about like these things
00:11:27
Brian Atlasalways happen in threes so I think we're going to in any case we just had a girl who got charged with like attempted murder for trying to stab somebody last show oh wow so it's maybe I didn't get charged with anything they let me go cuz
00:11:40
Chasewait so did did you stab him no I didn't I swear to God there wasn't even that involved who stab it's freaking like selfdefense wait oh so wait it was self-defense but I was selfdefense with
00:11:51
Genie Exomlike well I mean things happen but there was no like I ain't that crazy I'm crazy but like not that crazy here use this pen to demonstrate kind of the no but there was no knife the motion there was no knife there was no knife y you know
00:12:04
Genie Exomhow cops and stuff they love to sell things to the media was it was it a fork no there was cups Cups that were thrown and everything like that you know were these cups plastic or paper or that's why they're like oh jeez I don't no I
00:12:17
Genie Exomdidn't was this somebody that you were in a relationship with Yes my ex what did he do what everything like what what what was the straw that broke the camel's back okay listen there is so
00:12:28
Genie Exommuch that happened but he we like it was selfdefense that's what I'm trying to say but like was he laying hands on you there was there was hands there was hands there was cups there was water who
00:12:39
Genie Exomstarted there was green juice who started it were there any mugs it was like pictures pictures kind of Started With Me teacups teacups he end up going
00:12:49
Genie Exomto the hospital did he go to the hospital no no no he was fine no yeah but I went to jail okay how long wow I spent a night in jail y'all but I made some friends they were so nice they were
00:13:00
Genie Exomlooking nice as F they were so nice they were really nice for real they were like this is your first time isn't it honey I was like yeah I was like I'm so tired I didn't even know it was on the news like
00:13:12
Genie ExomI literally go and like the the police officer he was like oh you're famous you're famous I'm like what are you talking about like how he know I got Instagram like how he know he found my only fans already and so I was like okay and then he was like no girl and I was
00:13:24
Genie Exomlike someone outed me like someone was like cuz they probably like this rich white girl on o you know living in a highrise stabbed her eggs you know so they stole they stole the story are we
00:13:35
Chasegoing to pull up this new I I need to see are you buying this oh don't put him though don't give him clout like I don't know how much I'm buying this SC show my picture put us in the corner Nick put us
00:13:46
Chasein the other other side only fans model shares video of herself smirking at police station after being AR I didn't know I was going to be that for quote stabbing her boyfriend with a kitchen
00:13:57
Chaseknife in their NYC apartment 22-year-old is released without bail so this is how famous people where did where did this story about the kitchen knife come from that's what I'm saying I don't know
00:14:09
Genie Exomreally no I swear to God I swear why do I not believe you I don't know so you're telling me they just made up the whole kitchen they can I think it's cuz he was cut up from the glass of the cup so they
00:14:20
Genie Exomwere thinking oh she sto the guy but like no did you take the glass and stab him with the glass no it was thrown that's what I'm saying and we was like rolling around yo I I I wonder what the
00:14:31
Chasechat thinks about this chat let us know let us know if you believe her story guilty or not not was it a kitchen knife or a cup who called the cup y can't put me back in there though are you sure you didn't
00:14:46
Genie Exomblack okay so how did people show up to the like like what happened like someone called or like no like we were it was like loud like get the [ __ ] out you know
00:14:58
Genie Exomand like then he was somebody like called downstairs they called yeah and then my Dorman and I was like I told my dor after like why you do that how many my I cop wise like was it like a lot
00:15:09
Genie Exomokay like how many like we talking like 10 five five not that many so you would you he was injured yes so was I okay you were both injured yeah we were both
00:15:21
Brian Atlasinjured and he had he was worse wounds from a broken so that's why drink drinking glass yeah okay okay okay it was crazy but word pull the
00:15:33
Brian Atlasarticle let's pull up the article real quick more information uh well we'll read some of the the bullet points here she was so you arrested um but were the charges dropped or did you take a plea deal no it was just there was no charges
00:15:46
Brian Atlasthere was nothing they like they just took you they detained you yeah they were just like you go home now so it says you return to Instagram you post a clip of yourself smirking in custody he was taken to the hospital in stable
00:15:56
Chasecondition oh maybe he was uh um says that he was stabbed in the back and on his arm yeah that's so how did the cup hit him in both places that's I said we were wrestling on the ground so you
00:16:08
Priyabroke a glass and then you were wrestling wrestling yeah there there's another article too if you can tap over ask if there was some sort of updated report because thrown cups don't exactly resemble stab wounds that's what I'm
00:16:21
Genie Exomsaying I don't know Instagram model Genie stabed B with kitchen what you're putting down what wait show that photo scroll down I guess oh no the next one uh I smile so
00:16:34
Brian AtlasNew York Post is saying an Instagram model stabbed her boyfriend with a kitchen knife during a fight inside her Midtown pad police said Tuesday and later you flashed your your breast oh
00:16:43
Chasegreat um you flashed an nyt cop car yeah but that was before this was that was like your boyfriend's name was they added that your boyfriend's name was baby boy oh my God no comment no comment
00:16:55
Brian Atlasshiver dramaa uh wait next next article Nick t over this was 3 years ago this is Instagram model smirks I guess this is like a my friend was questioning after
00:17:05
Brian Atlasokay uh charged with stabbing her boyfriend does the New York Post here just have it wrong do all these news sources have it wrong or I'm sure if you ask like any like Kardashian Lawrence
00:17:18
Brian Atlasthey're like they they detate the truth they do this they sold to the media you know that's what I'm saying I'm basically Kim Kardashian there were no charges you there were no charges okay I mean no it it says she was charged with stabbing him with the
00:17:31
Genie Exomkitchen knife no I don't think she like cops sell stuff well there's like arrested charged and then Pro like uh detained and then
00:17:42
Kaye Killianconvicted yeah so were you charged but not convicted or just not even charged at all Char were you just held like in a whole I was just held all right so here here's what I want to know was this was this the first time this ever happened
00:17:54
Chasewith a boyfriend yes how many boyfriends have you had two two and he's one of them one nothing like that ever happened with your other boyfriend no would he describe you as sane or crazy do you
00:18:04
Genie Exomthink probably crazy yeah why why do you think he'd describe you like that I mean because because I am sometimes but like not like that notab crazy no but that's
00:18:17
Genie Exomcrazy that happened like right after this like other girl stabbed hor brend and then it got like to the media like they were like this girl stabbed hers and I
00:18:25
TTS Readerwas GD one we'll move we'll move on $100 no surprise there Georgia say no more steak knives again though the daddy
00:18:36
TTS Readerisues on this panel have to be legendary deserve to be discussed all may be saved through Christ but there is no man on the planet that can help with this level of crav Amen bro you don't know that Amen
00:18:49
Priyabrother I will just say the accompanying Behavior doesn't quite resemble Innocent but I'm not going to make the assumption okay I can take that all right well
00:19:01
Brian Atlasmaybe we can touch on that later but uh what about you your relationship status um I'm in a relationship with my best friend okay and were you friends before or yeah we were friends before okay how
00:19:11
Julielong have you been dating like since March so what six s months yeah okay uh is that your longest relationship no I
00:19:21
Brian Atlaswas in another relationship like I think it was like 3 years on and off okay yeah all right High School gotcha can I have you just scoot your microphone this way just to
00:19:32
Candy LaneTad like yeah thanks what about you uh I am single I usually tell people I'm terminally single cuz I terminally single don't ever plan on I mean you
00:19:45
Candy Laneknow the heart wants is something different yeah but there's there's just no possibility of it anymore yeah well we often hear terms
00:19:56
Brian Atlaslike very single so terminally single though that's that's a new one for the whatever podcast so can you maybe dive a bit more deeply into what you mean when
00:20:06
Candy Laneyou say terminally single um I've experienced just about everything there is to experience as far as dating and it just doesn't seem and I
00:20:18
Candy Laneknow this goes round and round and round the quality of people that are out there anymore and like who's available
00:20:29
Candy Lanebecause a real genuine quality man they're really hard to find and they're very few and far between so it's like a girl just ends up trying to have her needs met for the time and then
00:20:42
Candy Lanethat's all there is so that's all there is so what's the point sure uh longest relationship um I think it was about two years technically two and a half but the
00:20:54
Brian Atlaslast 6 months was garbage so two years okay two years and then you're terminally single uh when's I when's the last time you've dated I guess uh well I go on dates okay you go on Dance okay
00:21:07
Chaseyou know it's kind of like interview for the horizontal um what' you call it interview from a horizontal for the for the horizontal interview for the horizontal where do you where do you
00:21:18
Candy Lanefind where do you find the guys you on these dates with what where do you find these guys social media okay I mean dating apps which is oh just on the dating app thing just show of hands who's currently on the
00:21:30
Brian Atlasdating app you uh well both relationship relationship you're on dating app dating apps Sorry did anyone else raise their hand did I miss no I think it was just
00:21:41
Brian Atlasthose two well damn okay so maybe when we do the dating app review we'll have you guys take screenshots of your profiles we can review it later um okay so maybe give feedback you know where do
00:21:53
Genie Exomy'all go what's that y'all go to the bar where do youall go how do youall find people have dates at the bar they happily single Craigslist just kidding
00:22:03
Brian AtlasFacebook Mark about that that's my favorite too based um okay uh what about you your relationship I'm in a relationship all right and how long have you guys been together uh together for
00:22:16
Brian Atlastwo years have known each other for about four years all right and is this your longest relationship no what's your longest uh year and a half two years wait you said your current Rel
00:22:28
Brian Atlasrelationships two-year relationship two months oh two months excuse me I I think yeah it so okay one to two years got it what about you in a relationship um
00:22:38
Mukiwe've been together for a couple years like 2 three years you're not sure on um like 3 years I think I don't know after Co I I don't know what year it is has it
00:22:50
Brian Atlasbeen on get off again yeah yeah yeah yeah cuz yeah well that's when you weren't certain as to how long you've been together at I it's better now but yeah
00:23:00
Brian Atlasthe beginning was Rocky how so um just Rocky I don't know you cheat on
00:23:09
Brian Atlashim with the NFL football team no no hold you you don't tell me I'm make I make assumptions if you don't tell me um why was it
00:23:20
MukiRocky maybe we'll get to that later maybe we'll get to that later get to it later yeah infidel
00:23:28
Mukigive us a little teaser infidelity um just a lot going on in in in the world Mike Davis donated
00:23:39
TTS Reader$100 this unhinged goofy white girl better count her lucky stars she wasn't dating a real man like Mike Davis I put her 6 feet under and bail right back to
00:23:49
TTS Readerthe motherland I'm starting a condom business can I buy the rights to use your face damn who's this director to is it I believe it's me yeah her I'm going to take it uh Mike Davis is our res he's
00:24:02
Brian Atlashe's a that's him right there Mike why you feel that way do you do you like would could I set you up with him maybe okay he uh I mean I don't know after that he owns a couple Mike Mike says he'll put her 6 feet under she just
00:24:15
Brian Atlasdowned let's just take it m at this point he's joking about the whole homicide thing by the way no it's okay I'm into it he's definitely joking about that it's a kink yeah that's that's some
00:24:26
Brian Atlasintense BDS okay uh all right we'll get into it later what about you just single just single single single happy
00:24:37
Jessica Kirbysingle that's it okay uh longest relationship 3 years three years how long have you been single probably 3 years now when's the last time you went on a date yesterday like last week probably
00:24:51
Jessica Kirbyoh last week okay I mean I don't know if it's considered a date we don't call it a date what was it just out to dinner just out yeah just out to dinner a couple of friends hanging out just going
00:25:00
Jessica Kirbyout to dinner wait what just a couple of friends just one friend just me a couple two people you went on a date with two people oh I see me and another person
00:25:11
Chasejust a couple of friends the English language is challenging for us wait did he think you guys were going out on a date as friends or did you that used to be how I was now it's the other way
00:25:22
Brian Atlasaround oh so you got friend owned ouch this 202 wait he took he took you out on the dinner date and then friends owned you it's a long
00:25:31
Brian Atlasstory we better okay I know but what if he's watching right now say hi say so you've been single you've been single uh for three years but I mean I
00:25:42
Brian Atlasassume you've in that three-year period have there been has there been a situationship uh friends with benefits anything like that I've had some wild moments in between some wild moments
00:25:54
Brian Atlasthat's why we're okay with just being single what when you say wild moments can you give us a little more details more like I'm wild and then I ruin all
00:26:02
Brian Atlasthe moments oh that's interesting okay yeah um so how are you wild and how do you ruin all the moments I don't know I don't think we're
00:26:15
Jessica Kirbyquite picking up what you're putting down so we a little more crazy just have you stabbed any boyfriends with a kitchen knife no no have I thought about it have I thought about it probably okay slashed any tires
00:26:28
Chasecars no how how would these guys describe you if they were describing you would they say wild or would they say just straight up
00:26:37
Brian Atlascrazy probably crazy probably crazy oh yeah how so though like are we um okay maybe I can help to prompt this um
00:26:47
Jessica Kirbybipolar no BPD I feel like jumping straight to the mental illness but I'm just crazy like clingy uh probably that could be show up like
00:26:59
Jessica Kirbydrive by the houseing SCH schizophrenia I hope not that oh for sure I would drive by the house but then I would be really crazy so I just keep
00:27:09
TTS Readeron telling myself that it's not okay okay I see what you're have ever St boyf no no oh God tired off bed rest 123 donated
00:27:19
TTS Reader$100 Chase why aren't you engaged yet the dirty deed is done time to get married son happily married here after 4
00:27:29
TTS Readermonths no time to waste the next World War is looming is she blond I see you dating a blonde chick what okay here we'll stick to all things in God's
00:27:39
Brian Atlastiming brother uh anyways let's continue yes give us some details give give us some details so we kind of get a better sense of the situation I'm
00:27:50
Brian Atlasprobably just crazy and clingy and oh how are you crazy like how are you crazy though no I I don't think I'm crazy they do they tell you that you're
00:28:01
Brian Atlascrazy how many people have how many men that you've dated have said you're crazy one or two two dat one wait you haven't
00:28:10
Jessica Kirbywhat quick math girl math you haven't dated them but there's one or you said how many people have you dated no they just we don't make it that far cuz I'm
00:28:22
Chasecrazy have you ever been okay hold hold on let's let's let's slow down for a moment I wanted what does this process look like like what you start talking to a guy how long after talking to him is
00:28:32
Jessica Kirbyhe like yo this chick's crazy and what caused him to think that a um like name a behavior give give an example of a behavior I would probably say after like a month or so but just because I'm like fully invested and maybe they're not so
00:28:45
Kaye Killianyou're like are you like totally in love with them like super clangy right off the bat and they're like I love everyone and then okay so have you seen the show Married at First Sight oh yeah
00:28:56
Kaye KillianI don't want to be on that okay but I feel like it's like the same Vibe I think that's like kind of what you're saying right like you're like super clean you probably text like 500 tax in a row yeah if you're annoyed don't so
00:29:08
Jessica Kirbyyou push them away cuz they're like holy like have you ever heard of uh insecure attachment yes and I yeah sometimes you're ask you are that yeah I would say sometimes yeah are have you guys heard
00:29:19
Chaseof that insecure attachment so there's like there's like three different attachment styles that people have in relationships there's like avoidant attachment where people are like emotionally distant then there's like secure attachment where you're just like
00:29:31
Chasenormal and secure with your partner and then there's insecure attachment where you're like often people are super clingy or like reaching out way too much they're afraid the person's going to leave them like is that you I often
00:29:43
Jessica Kirbythink that I love to go for the first option that you said what was that the avoidant attachment style so like somebody that's going to push me away but maybe because I like feeling something like they'll hurt my feelings
00:29:54
Chaseand I'm like so you're saying their toward and I'm so they push you away and then you're like no come here yes that's so the extreme I love the chase I love
00:30:05
Brian Atlasthe chase where did stigmatized come in what dick did you say dickmatized or stigmatized I did yeah what what is that question addicted where does that fall
00:30:15
Chasein your categories oh like being addicted to somebody I mean if you're in securely attached you could be addicted to pursuing somebody huh oh I guess yeah
00:30:27
Jessica Kirbywait what addicted to dick oh no not that Haram har get the Rocks Abdul get the rock get the rocks that was a legitimate
00:30:38
Candy Lanequestion what so wait what's the question where does that fall in to your little Cate categories uh being addicted to dick to their particular brand
00:30:50
Juliethey're throwing down it doesn't fall into the categories that's just like something women deal with individually these are relationship attachments yeah exactly yeah good talk back from like
00:31:02
Julieyour relationship with your parents that's how it yes yes that's often how those attachment styles form I a few more questions for you though
00:31:11
Brian Atlasso you're you say you're wild but then the wild mean like I mean crazy not wild what in the past three years wild in the past three years what's the longest
00:31:22
Brian Atlasduration of time that you've continued to see any given guy like maybe you had a one month situationship sorry the last three years well you said you've been single for three years correct yeah in the last three years and then your
00:31:34
Brian Atlaslongest relationship was 3 years three years and that was that the one 3 years ago yes okay so in that threeyear period what's the longest period of time that you've seen like any one given
00:31:47
Brian Atlasguy what month is it now huh what month is it now November November November probably 6 months okay all right well that's like a was it was just
00:32:00
Brian Atlaslike a friends was it a friends with benit situationship how do you categorize that one I don't like the word situationship but okay which word do you
00:32:10
Brian Atlasprefer just a couple of friends H that so like friends with benefit so Friends with Benefits yeah I guess okay all right prio what about you I'm in a
00:32:21
Priyarelationship it's relatively new just over 2 months uh my longest relationship is five months okay all that's exciting all right
00:32:35
Brian Atlasum no right you don't want to yeah I'd prefer to keep my personal life private right now okay all right and then uh we have let's see oh let me let me see here
00:32:49
Brian Atlaswe have two chats I'm going to get really quick we have one from oh AB check thank you for the 20 gifted memberships man you could oh I was going to say could oh it's okay oh man what a Savage Roose the ladies on
00:33:00
Brian Atlasthe panel expect to be treated like Queens but have taken more look wow okay uh don't shoot the messenger here more loads than the washing machine Derek the Traer okay um do you guys want to
00:33:11
Kaye Killianrespond to that they're here to roast guys I mean I mean Jesus Christ I could respond to it I mean I would say that like men probably hook up
00:33:23
Genie Exomwith the same amount of women that women hook hook up with men and IES yeah definitely not true that like him that say [ __ ] are the ones that like don't
00:33:34
Genie Exomever get anything at all on the internet more so than probably in person did he pay to say that yes yeah I paid 50 bucks got paid
00:33:44
Brian Atlasto talk smack I enjoyed the comment I like the money even though I ain't getting we can discuss that later we have seberg read it has been my experience that you tend
00:33:56
Brian Atlasto find find what you're looking for I believe humans are problem Sol solvers if you look for ways for things not to work that's what you'll likely find if you look for a way to figure it out you can likely find it so true absolutely
00:34:08
Brian Atlasall right thank you cber much appreciated much appreciated okay so I had a uh some of you were so kind to provide some pre-show notes to us so I'm going to go through a few of those let's see let's start
00:34:22
Brian Atlaswith umone did you uh I'm going to bounce around a little bit so uh candy in your pre-show notes to us you said that you you
00:34:35
Chasestruggle with sex addiction yeah currently or in in the past or struggle to find it sometimes struggle to what feed it find it you struggle to find it or you struggle to
00:34:47
Kikifeed it struggle to find the supply yeah really yeah it's pretty easy I mean as a chick kicky
00:34:59
Brian Atlasyou're what's your type okay uh when you say hold on well that's a good question yeah it is uh so what what is your type and also how are you
00:35:10
Candy Lanepicky um there's got to be a measure of Sanity there's a lot of just straight up nuts people in the world I mean like on
00:35:21
Brian Atlasboth sides yeah she's she's pointing to herself um okay so levelheaded um I prefer to like have a
00:35:31
Candy Laneconversation with somebody like if if the text is going well and like they've like passed the criteria test then I like to actually have a conversation with somebody before to see
00:35:43
Brian Atlasif they can even hold like carry on a conversation so as far as your type goes you want somebody who's a good conversationalist who's mentally stable is there any physical traits when it
00:35:52
Brian Atlascomes to type we like them tall how tall are you 5'4 54 okay what when you say tall what do we do you have a bare minimum because some people like only
00:36:03
Candy Lanedate six feet and above do you have that or 5'11 would be my minimum 5'11 minimum there's something to say about short guys too so I don't what is that something to say it depends on the
00:36:14
Candy Lanepersonality if they've got that six foot personality but they're 55 I agree confidence yeah confidence goes a
00:36:25
Brian Atlashuge yeah that's like that's like crack what about do you have a you know any other physical traits that you care about when it comes to your type
00:36:35
Brian Atlascircumcision I'm what huh H that's kind of are you are you saying you don't want them
00:36:46
Brian Atlascircumcised or you do very V about that deal breaker for you pretty much they have to be I mean when the pen is erect it's pretty much the same not all of
00:36:57
Candy Lanethem you sure it's a bit different but no there have been some that are and I'm very oral it's kind of pointy you're
00:37:05
Candy Laneorally fixated I'm very yeah so I'm good talk okay um so can I ask a question sure so if
00:37:17
Priyayou're simply just looking for sex why all the the criteria yeah because I'm picky I have why are you picky you say that
00:37:27
Priyafeed yourx add if you weren't picky it' be easy I'm Nota for it if I'm advocating against it does someone that snorts coke not want to go for heroin or
00:37:38
TTS Readeralcohol we all have our [Music] brand donated $100 Brian we are going to have some fun
00:37:48
TTS Readertonight the right side of the panel has been more than all the PRI horses the blonde peach is going to cost some poor sap divorce budget katop needs to be
00:37:59
Brian Atlascareful though might break a hip oh man damn if I read my Instagram comments they be like this uh you guys want a fireback anybody want a
00:38:09
Genie Exomfireb who's blonde peach yeah who's that is that Georgia it's one of you two I'm assuming you're more blonde than me no I'm like dirty blonde strawberry you
00:38:19
Julielike strawberry a strawberry right she strawberry I feel like you just have straight up brown hair thank you yeah all I got to say is that what do you
00:38:29
Juliehave to say tell us does not apply to me okay yeah it definitely does I'm a good girl she I'm a good girl so you're picky how are you
00:38:40
Candy Lanepicky besides some of the stuff you've already listed yeah that's pretty much it circumcised tall a measure of Sanity San and I like fit but who doesn't you
00:38:51
Chaselike fit yeah some people don't do you pursue like relationships with these guys or you just want to hook up with them well I like buddies so you don't want a relationship you want like a
00:39:02
ChaseFriends with Benefits type thing but yeah cuz I I'm like I'm hearing like you're like man where are the good quality guys like really want to find a solid guy but you're also like No I gave
00:39:13
Chaseup looking there there are none no there I I here here's the thing though candy there's actually a lot of solid dudes out there but they tend not to want women that just want a bunch of [ __ ]
00:39:25
Priyabuddies yeah it's that simple yeah it seems like you're you're kind of throwing a victim card out there saying there's no good men out there but you're not portraying yourself as a person that good men
00:39:37
Chasereally want to I looked for a lifetime how how how long is a is a girl supposed to look before she gives up well sometimes people don't I'm no longer a viable candidate this this Behavior though this like sex addiction
00:39:50
Chasethat you're describing how long has that existed in your life because you can say that you looked for a long time but you've given up but if the Behavior's been the same the whole time you were probably repelling
00:40:02
Candy Lanethe good guys that might have wanted there a long time that I fought it I you know you said you were celibate for 10 years I was celibate for 10 years what motivated that 10 years yeah well I
00:40:14
Brian Atlascan give you a prompt on this you said that you you were raised in a very strict Christian household you said you spent 10year
00:40:21
Brian Atlascelibate um so can you tell us the the frame the years that you were celibate
00:40:29
Candy Lanelike you said you're 36 it ended in 2020 the beginning of so from 2010 to 2020 you were celibate yeah okay and my
00:40:39
Brian Atlasunderstanding is I think you wrote here you had you had two wait I'm trying to find it sorry in my notes you had
00:40:49
Brian Atlastwo ho phases ho is that what were the yeah yeah you said you you had first ho phase before the celibacy I'm assuming
00:40:59
Brian Atlasand then your words not mine a second ho phase subsequent to your celibacy yeah are you still currently in the HOAs oh yeah yeah sorry I couldn't hear that was
00:41:10
Chaselike whispered okay wait so you had a ho phase prior to the celibacy went I as a teenager okay and then you went celibate and now you've ended it and now you're in another ho phase and during that during that phase of celibacy were you
00:41:22
Candy Lanelooking for a good guy I was more believing you know in the whole like [Music] um if I'm supposed to have faith in God
00:41:35
Candy Lanethen that's what he'll provide and I believed that wholeheartedly that was you know I was back in church I was doing everything I was supposed to be doing
00:41:46
Priyaand but were you were you putting yourself in positions to to meet single men that like what positions like going out into the world and actually like putting yourself in social situations
00:41:57
Candy Lanegood conversations other than going to bars and you know which a Christian doesn't do so I didn't do during that time I wasn't on social media or dating apps at that time did you did you like
00:42:10
Candy Lanelook throughout the church that you were a part of um I went to a few different um in order I mean it was like one church had nothing but way too young people one church had nothing but way
00:42:21
Candy Lanetoo old people and just like the same story of my life I've never really kind of fit anywhere okay so are you more mad about like church and religion and like what
00:42:34
Kaye Killianthat brought in your life or you like mad at men and like um the type of men you're coming cuz it's I'm getting like or is it God yeah do you love yourself are you happy within your own self
00:42:46
Candy Lanethat's like 20 Questions y'all just asked her my bad my bad I I got some rather upsetting news in 2020 which is what ended my everything may may I ask
00:42:57
Brian Atlaswhat that was maybe not right now okay so let me ask a couple clarifying questions here so in your pre-show notes to us you said
00:43:07
Brian Atlasthat there was a downward spiral leading to the beginnings of a raging body count until there was uh let's see ouch man
00:43:18
Brian Atlaswhat no these these verbatim there yeah you sent them these were prompts I sent you before the show you said until a St stint with drugs led to a tragedy in
00:43:30
Brian Atlasyour early 20s which is also a very volatile subject to speak on and if you don't want to that's totally fine you said uh okay we're going to skip that
00:43:41
Brian Atlasbut just to get a bit of a timeline here you said you had an initial your words not mine hope phas uh you said that you were struggling with sex addiction and
00:43:53
Brian Atlascurrently still are you're in your second phase can you give us a scope of your sex addiction like what when you say sex addiction were you having sex with a new
00:44:03
Candy Laneman every single day of the week how did that look like um I had like
00:44:09
Candy Laneno base selfworth I think in my early life like my teens and I think because the family that I grew up in was
00:44:20
Candy Laneso cold I was just desperate for you know the first well the first word you want to say is attention but I think it was more like validation like am I real
00:44:31
Candy Lanesomebody touch me please cuz I'm dying inside okay so what is the scope of the sex addiction um on the weekends probably Thursday Friday Saturday it was
00:44:41
Candy Laneyou know if I was going out different guys yeah each night well yeah mult multiple men you know teenage to a teenage boy you're disposable multiple men each night or
00:44:52
Brian Atlasnot multiple within the same day no have you I mean that have you ever had more than one guy in the same day it's okay we had we have we have actually had previously another woman who was a sex
00:45:05
Brian Atlasaddict on and she said that she had she would regularly have sleep with like five men in a day yeah I saw that one yeah I'm crazy that's icky what the hell
00:45:15
Unknownyeah who has the time like I'd run out of so or the energy who the so you would so Thursday you said Thursday Friday Saturday just a new new guy every day
00:45:26
Brian Atlasbasically yeah but that was a very long time ago long time ago sure that was your initial got it um was it was that
00:45:34
Brian Atlaskind of the the crescendo of the sex
00:45:43
Candy Laneaddiction well I started dating
00:45:51
Brian Atlassomeone I don't know how to answer that question well you said like you would go out Thursday Friday or Saturday which is not so much of a different answer as you might hear from a typical college girl
00:46:02
Brian Atlaswho parties Thursday Friday Saturday um would it would you be hooking up with men like new men every single day it was an intentional I mean I would have stuck
00:46:13
Brian Atlaswith one no I'm not making a judgment I'm just asking for you to kind of when you say sex addiction what is the scope of the sex addiction always looking always looking always looking like okay
00:46:25
Chasethinking ahead planning ahead searching searching searching you know where is my next fix going to come from like what do you think motivated this what what does motivate it because it sounds like you're not looking for a
00:46:38
Chaseserious relationship is it male validation is there something inside of you that you're trying to fill like what what is it why why are you pursuing this I like the way it feels okay so you like it's a you like the physical pleasure
00:46:50
Candy Laneyeah okay do you feel like it might have been motivated by some sort of AA in your past or something I'm sure yeah because
00:46:57
Candy Laneof the um content that I am hoping to get into that's definitely um a trauma release okay do you feel like there might be healthier ways to release that
00:47:09
Priyatrauma like what I don't know I don't know yoga can I I don't know either worse honestly so it sounds like during your journey with Christ and when you were actively attending church was the
00:47:21
Priyaduration of your celibacy if I'm not mistaken did that I I know you said that you had some sort of event in your life that ended your your belief in Christ
00:47:31
Priyabut was there anything other than P pursuing God and and go attending church and pursuing religion that kept you from like getting into your or sorry um
00:47:44
Priyafollowing after your desires I don't really understand your question I'm Sor is there anything besides during your time of celibacy is there anything besides God that was
00:47:54
Brian Atlasstopping you from pursuing sex no that was kind of the point uh so okay you said there was a 10-year celibacy and there's a Hiatus from all things you
00:48:05
Brian Atlaswent back to the church you walked away from it uh and then after discovering certain defects that led me to be angry uh you started another subsequent
00:48:16
Brian Atlasho phase you said that subsequent H phase started in 2020 is that correct yeah okay um and again when you say there was a second H phase when you say h phase what does a what does that mean
00:48:27
Brian Atlaswhat is what is a hoase to you um that's just like looking to hook up I no let me be more precise in my question what I guess what I'm trying to get out is what is the frequ frequency with which you
00:48:40
Candy Lanewere sleeping with new men two new men a week three new men a week four new men a week well if I meet somebody and I hit it off with them and you know it's like Prime banging then that's where I want
00:48:50
Brian Atlasto stay okay but so I what what goes through my mind when you say hoase that typically relates to promiscuity and
00:49:01
Brian Atlashaving multiple many sexual partners so I'm just trying to get a some understanding are we talking what a new guy one at a time for
00:49:13
Chaseme Ryan's asking is what is the frequency of new partners that you would have would it be like one new guy every week two new guys every week would it be like like how many how many partners would you have in the span of a month
00:49:26
Candy LaneI think her answer is as long as just just please please let her answer go ahead yeah I I can't answer that because it's like I mean if you want to know my history of it it's you know if I meet
00:49:35
Candy Lanesomebody through Bumble or or wherever and it goes there because of you know whatever like cuz the vibe has to be right it's not just like you're a meat
00:49:46
Brian Atlassack and I want to jump on you there actually has to be con we don't need the minutia of how you feel about the guy I'm just asking just a very factual
00:49:57
Brian Atlasquestion trying to decipher and I was trying to get to it actually during your first ho phase too um how frequently right and perhaps we
00:50:08
Brian Atlasyou can answer for both and if you want to average it out because perhaps there are periods where you more you were more active other periods where you were a little less active how frequently would you be hooking up with new guys when I
00:50:20
Brian Atlaswas younger that would have been uh a different guy every night for those three days during the week during okay so so for example uh let's say over the course of the month four weeks in the
00:50:31
Brian Atlasmonth there would be 10 to 12 guys per month okay are you trying to get to a body count I no I'm not I mean we could if you want but I'm just I'm trying to cuz sex addiction is something very
00:50:44
Brian Atlasspecific so I'm trying to understand like the degree to the sex addiction he's trying to understand the amount of turnover that you had with men yeah exactly I don't really like the turnover but if they don't asking whether I'm not
00:50:56
Chaseasking whether you like it or not a question what what was the turnover he's trying to understand the nature of the sex addiction what was the turnover of men in a six-month span how many guys
00:51:04
Brian Atlaswould there have been I I can't say that I don't know 50 100 you need to give us an exact number but a range here I'll do
00:51:15
Brian Atlasthe math here you said you said Thursday Friday Saturday it's that's three guys let's say it's 10times four for a month let's let's give her the benefit of the
00:51:24
TTS Readerdoubt that's 10 donated $99 girl in the baby blue outfit as a Taurus I am forever chasing red flags L [Music]
00:51:35
Brian AtlasChu okay there you go so here for crazy yo cam H thank you to uh good to see you in the Chatman so okay uh if it's so three dudes per week dudes four weeks in
00:51:46
TTS Readera month that's 12 guys in a month how long was the H phas in a six-month period let's say it's just 10 four years but I can't say that I kept cber donated
00:51:59
TTS Reader$99.99 it is my belief that you can't spend life pursuing pleasure it leads to a dead end where nothing brings you pleasure you have to allow for the ups
00:52:09
TTS Readerand downs without the Downs there are no UPS try allowing yourself peace past the boredom dot try meditation that was beautiful thank you uh I agree thank you
00:52:19
Brian Atlascber so okay yeah three a week let's say it's uh 10 10 a month I mean she said it lasted for like 4 years so 100 a year
00:52:28
Candy Lanethat'd be like 100 a year no I remember when I was young I tried to like actually keep names at one point and uh I didn't you could just answer the question it was you could
00:52:40
Brian Atlasjust answer the question you know second for for my younger life I I know that it wasn't more than 50 okay and then what about the second phase which I
00:52:51
Brian Atlasthink you're currently in correct okay um what is the scope of your current since it's more recent maybe it's might be a little easier to recall uh what's the scope of your current not necessarily because once somebody is
00:53:03
Brian Atlasgone they're gone out of my memory too I mean literally like an iMagic I don't need a precise number you don't need to say 77 just like a range would be good I don't know a range is it more
00:53:16
Candy Lanethan is it that you don't know or that you don't want to reveal it because it's embarassing inform a lot of people I talk to a lot of people I text a lot when you say talk to you mean text um
00:53:27
Chasemostly sexual intercourse with no okay just curi I think Brian I think there's a 0% chance we're going to get a clear answer out I think we should move on uh
00:53:36
Brian Atlasone more one more chance here what do we here the you know the definition of insanity I'm [ __ ] insane um here in the past year this is very recent how
00:53:48
Brian Atlasmany how many guys do you think you've hooked up with in the past year uh tell you what I'll be calendar year 2023 six six yeah okay that's like
00:54:01
Candy LaneI said are are we missing a zero on the end of that or no sex addiction hello relax like I said I prefer buddies you
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Brian Atlasknow somebody wants to stick around and do the job then sure gotcha okay uh I have some further notes Here I I'll come back to you later though let me do a
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Brian Atlascouple chats we have Rippy here ladies who think there are no good men left have you s the man of God if not I would say to you if there is no moral structure guiding a man and subservience
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Brian Atlasto that structure God are you really surprised the men you find are not good it's a banger Super Chat a banger Super Chat from RI fantastic you got anyone I
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Brian Atlaswell who said here who thinks men there's no good men where where are all the good men who thinks that anybody you guys all think that there are good men out there yeah the world's full of good men not full of them full of good men
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Chasebut there's there's there's enough good men out there know where to look you have to know where to look yeah like I wouldn't look on this the first panel we've done together where the whole panel didn't say no there aren't enough
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Chasegood men out there could be is I think every other panel we've done every single time they're like no there's like no good men out there well we have relationship
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Brian Atlasrelationship relationship relationship sing Single no relationship oh did I oh relationship a lot of relationships they are what they
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Genie Exomexpect so they're just not getting a good guy you think there's good man out there yeah do you think your past boyfriend was a good man um stabby not to me alleged stabbing I don't think so