ØnlyFans "Virgin" vs. Rollo Tomassi, Justin Waller, Mike Sartain | Dating Talk #72

Date: 2023-05-08
Duration: 4h 56m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Mixed panel(audience)
SPEAKER_01TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_02Rosie/Ali(guest)
SPEAKER_03Female guest (situationship)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Nev(guest)
SPEAKER_05Farha/Nikki/Kylie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Crew(audience)
SPEAKER_07Patrice O'Neal (clip)(audience)
SPEAKER_08Michael Sartain(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Unidentified(audience)
SPEAKER_11Rollo Tomassi(guest)
SPEAKER_12Justin Waller(guest)
SPEAKER_13Kiki(host)
SPEAKER_14Aspen(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:36
IntroFarha introduces herself as a 24yo TikToker and OnlyFans creator; immediately followed by Nikki (18, warehouse).
00:07:48
IntroMichael Sartain enters as mystery guest, joking "I'm Mia Khalifa what's up" before revealing himself; age 45.
00:08:18
IntroJustin Waller introduces himself: construction, real estate, age 37. Keeps relationship status a "mystery."
00:08:27
IntroRollo Tomassi introduces himself: author of the Rational Male series, just turned 55, married 27 years (closed on both ends).
00:21:00
QuoteBrian announces show has reached 10,000+ concurrent viewers, a record for the Whatever podcast.
00:47:32
QuoteFarha reveals she is a virgin despite doing OnlyFans. Justin Waller responds with disbelief; Rollo connects it to hypergamy.
00:48:32
ControversyMichael Sartain asks Farha what kind of OnlyFans she does and presses on whether she has ever gotten close to sex; extended discussion of her virginity and pickiness.
00:59:36
ControversyRollo Tomassi and Farha debate hypergamy definition at length. Rollo argues it is biological/evolutionary; Farha argues the definition is being used inconsistently.
01:16:47
QuoteBrian asks girls to self-rate looks 1-10. Rosie says 5, Ali 7, Aspen 7, Kylie 7. Show is at record 10,000+ viewers during this segment.
02:18:12
QuoteMichael Sartain advises all single guests to volunteer at SPCA and soup kitchens as a strategy to meet empathetic, non-narcissistic partners.
03:38:20
QuoteBrian plays Patrice O'Neal "vagina train accident" clip. Avery/Kiki is first to respond: "blow jobs."
04:23:35
QuoteBrian attempts to set up Farha with Destiny (political streamer) who was in the live chat; Farha says they already live in the same city and she'd be open to a date arranged by Brian.
04:33:28
QuoteJustin Waller describes his War Room involvement: co-created with Andrew Tate, also involves Lou Barnett and "satorial shooter."

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Introductions and show announcements

Brian Atlas introduces guests and co-host Kiki. Sponsor spot for MCFC 2 MMA event. Guests introduce name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Mystery male guest (Michael Sartain) revealed. Male guests: Justin Waller, Rollo Tomassi.

00:11:00
Aspen: six years single, dating standards, religion

Aspen discusses being single for six years with only one near-relationship. She is a conservative Christian ER nurse. Panel discusses her standards (must love The Office, go to church). Debate on whether she is too picky or intimidating.

00:46:40
OnlyFans virgin reveal: Farha

Farha reveals she does OnlyFans but is a virgin. Panel probes consistency of this position. Farha explains she debates men in her DMs and her content is non-pornographic. Justin Waller and Michael Sartain question whether she is actually a virgin. Rollo Tomassi connects this to hypergamy.

01:00:00
Hypergamy debate: Rollo Tomassi vs Farha

Extended debate on the definition and origins of hypergamy. Farha argues hypergamy is cultural or definitionally contested; Rollo argues it is biological and universal across 37 cultures. Michael Sartain cites evolutionary psychology studies on attraction and facial symmetry. Debate on whether selectiveness equals low body count.

01:30:00
Self-ratings round and objectivity of beauty

Brian asks panel to self-rate looks 1-10. Girls give: Rosie 5, Ali 7, Nev 6, Aspen 7, Kylie 7. Farha deflects. SPEAKER_00 guests give mixed answers. Debate erupts on whether beauty ratings are objective or subjective. Michael Sartain argues beauty is largely objective (symmetry, signs of youth). Show peaks at 10,000+ concurrent viewers.

01:48:20
Body count, double standards, and OnlyFans economics

Discussion of acceptable body count numbers. Farha debates whether body count = selectiveness. Justin Waller states he will not date a woman with 80+ bodies. Rollo explains evolutionary basis for asymmetric standards. Farha argues she does not conflate selectiveness with body count numbers.

02:20:00
Role models, broken homes, sex and relationships advice

Panel discusses role models. Rosie shares 7-month situationship backstory. Kiki reads superchat questions. Michael Sartain advises volunteering at SPCA/soup kitchens to meet empathetic partners. Discussion on whether men's actions matter more than words. Rollo: women talk, men do.

02:50:00
Dating while in the military, masculinity, and modern men

Discussion of dating military men (small percentage of Americans serve). Justin Waller and Rollo Tomassi debate the crisis in modern masculinity. Rollo argues traditional marriage is currently untenable for men due to imbalanced risk. Debate on polygamy/sharing high-value men. Justin Waller explains War Room involvement with Andrew Tate.

03:30:00
Patrice O'Neal clip and panel reactions

Brian plays Patrice O'Neal "train accident" clip asking what women would do to keep a man if they lost their vagina. Panel reacts. Avery says "blow jobs"; Aspen declines to answer fully. Discussion of what women uniquely bring to relationships beyond sex.

03:53:20
Destiny (streamer) discussion and payo Twitch raider

Brian investigates Destiny (political streamer) who sent superchat. Panel rates Destiny. Farha defends her polyamorous arrangement with Destiny. Justin Waller and Rollo Tomassi debate open relationships. Brian tries to set up Farha with Destiny. World of Warcraft streamer payo shown on screen; girls rate him.

04:20:00
Andrew Tate's War Room and closing remarks

Brian asks Justin Waller about War Room involvement. Justin describes it as co-created with Tate along with Lou Barnett and others. Closing shoutouts. Brian promotes Justin's YouTube channel and War Room.

Transcript

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04:56:43
Brian Atlasguys again for tuning in we will see you next time have a good night guys good night