Breckie Hill & Rachel Brockman HEATED DEBATE | Dating Talk #62

Date: 2023-03-13

Duration: 4h 38m

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SPEAKER_10here so you said you're waiting yeah you want to wait how long do you want to wait um for your next guy

SPEAKER_01there's no like time it's just when I feel comfortable sure okay so however how do you reconcile you said you've had one night stands yeah how many one night stands

SPEAKER_10have you had uh three and three one night stands well actually it wasn't one night stands just like except for you know the first one um it was like just casual like friends with that yeah could let's say one night stands kind of means

SPEAKER_01like you hooked up once and that was it there can certainly be situations where you hook up immediately but then you continue hooking up it could be casual it could be friends with benefit so

SPEAKER_01let's say how many casual quick encounters have you had um with

SPEAKER_01new guys three oh three total okay um wait multiply by three and that's the

SPEAKER_10real number so nine no okay so the thing with that yeah I don't know like I find obsession with body count to be interesting for like some reasons that

SPEAKER_10we've talked about before because it's like how about you instead of multi Ming the number by three you like divide it by the number of like opportunities you've had and like

SPEAKER_10advances like women have infinite opportunities T yeah that's that's the thing then like instead of focusing on body count I feel like we should focus on like body ratio you mean how many dudes you've

SPEAKER_03turned down I mean if you've had sex with like a thousand men and you could have had sex with like 10,000 it doesn't really matter your body count is still

SPEAKER_01like astronomically High and men should take note of that and avoid you facts but okay you you said you've had like three casual Partners or whatever

SPEAKER_10um but you're waiting so like how do you reconcile that um I just figure you know I was in

SPEAKER_10college I was still you know just young and uh now I just know what I want more okay and did you have no you have only had had one partner right um have any of

SPEAKER_09anyone else here had like a one night stand one night stand no okay net what what are you talking about no I I'll hit them up after what do you mean

SPEAKER_01you they always come back they always come back okay

SPEAKER_01um word word um wait sorry hold on I'm looking for something okay I can't find it whatever um so you mentioned body count

SPEAKER_01um so you do you we we'll talk about body count really quick um do you have like a uh an issue with the body count thing like for example do you have an issue and we'll go around the table on this um and we'll we'll start with you

SPEAKER_01then we'll go around do you have an issue with men because it's kind of I think it's well known men prefer women with a low body count do you do you think that's problematic do you have an issue with that um I don't I think

SPEAKER_10Everyone's entitled to their own opinions um sure I understand from like you know a health standpoint like if you're having safe sex like that's important too but also just from like a

SPEAKER_10safety standpoint not wanting your partner to have slept with like 500 people before you sure um yeah I think everyone's just entitled to their

SPEAKER_05opinion in that realm okay what about you I think it's closer to M I think it really just depends on the person but I think body count isn't really I

SPEAKER_05think body body count really isn't that important like if youve slept with one person or 20 people I think it doesn't really matter and the reason I say that is because it's like well people can

SPEAKER_05sleep around or they cannot but I feel like if sex isn't everything then why does it matter how many people you've slept with well we've already addressed this wait wait let's just let's let all the girls go then you can go go ahead Nicollet I think it doesn't matter what

SPEAKER_09your body count is I think it's pretty like immature what's your body count um I'm not sure give us a range 100 plus no I've had SE

SPEAKER_01Five Guys in the last year the restaurant chain H what what isn't that you have like a food thing or something like a a food

SPEAKER_09fetish Jerry oh all right um okay you said you've had sex with Five Guys in the past year yeah like I don't like my body count isn't that high but even if it were like I

SPEAKER_01don't think that has anything to do with selfworth not I mean no but it's a criteria with which a man may want to disqualify you if you have a high body count or you're promiscuous then we were

SPEAKER_09never meant to be and I'll just go find somebody else fair enough but a lot of men are you are well a lot of men are going to have an issue with it most men are like she's hot she's successful she

SPEAKER_08does well with her life like men don't really care if you're successful I'm 36 and I'm telling you they don't care if you're successful they sound like the wrong type of man then okay here we'll

SPEAKER_01come back to that go ahead um your thoughts on body count would it be do you think it's wrong or like insecure for a guy to care about a woman's body

SPEAKER_02count like I could see why they care but then again I do think it's not like a huge deal just because I think especially like generational wise like

SPEAKER_02there are a lot of people out there that are like having sex hooking up with people then again it depends on the person um I mean like for me it would just be

SPEAKER_02something I'd have to like process I think as someone who M Martin super ch00 thank youus primary residence outside of

SPEAKER_00Nashville TN 120 Acre Farm oh private Chef that makes such an amazing breakfast will make you change unic name I have a beautiful girlfriend but she

SPEAKER_00should be fine you'll find out why I'll need the T about an hour into your arrival that scares me [Music]

SPEAKER_04scar thank yo Mar quavius thank you man appreciate it do you have a response to him why would I need wait what is it called a TR why I want to know the reason why I would need that so you

SPEAKER_04don't slash his tires and why would I do that you can't know until you go to his house I'll think about it

SPEAKER_01I okay um you were saying um body count is it insecure or do you think it's lame or whatever if a dude cares about a

SPEAKER_02girl's body count I don't think it's lame considering like I have a lot of guy friends and I see where they come from

SPEAKER_02when they say that but then again in my opinion I don't think that someone should be I guess like controlling or dominating enough to justify like oh

SPEAKER_00like if having a high body count mean like makes you less of value of a woman sure does that makes any sense oh oh Dragon Stalin 1,1 super chated

SPEAKER_00$100 body count matters because if you have 10 or more male sexual partners your probability of divorce is almost 90% after 10 years and men lose almost every time from

SPEAKER_12divorce nice word it's true CDC did a study on that [ __ ] what I wanted our dog what's up what's up um I was going to say I kind of do care cuz

SPEAKER_12personally I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has been with like 30 plus girls you know and then expect me to have zero you know I think it should be oh so you're talking about the double standard

SPEAKER_01yeah okay I think remove the double standard from it do you have an issue if a guy generally speaking maybe he doesn't have a high body count himself or well he does but but if he cares

SPEAKER_01about mine huh but if he cares about mine he cares about yours or just girls in general like doesn't want the data girl with a high body count I respect that okay sure yeah yeah if a man

SPEAKER_01doesn't want a woman that has a high body count I respect that okay all right good times good times wait did you did everyone reveal their body

SPEAKER_01count wait here here's a different question should body count matter show of hands should body count matter yes or no yes or no so yes raise your hand if body count should matter okay we

SPEAKER_00have two ISS here body count should matter oh oh Super Chat $100 every 30 years old thinks their 18 years old self was dumb but 18 years

SPEAKER_00olds still think they have it figured out irony ladies do you think posting provocative piics is going to affect who you attract Brey

SPEAKER_04what you got to say Brey maybe I don't know I haven't had an issue with it I think it's different when you're posting pictures like I post pictures in

SPEAKER_04swimsuits um I think it's different when you're Haram getting with people rather than posting photos in bikinis I don't see anything wrong with posting pictures

SPEAKER_00in bikinis but that's just my opinion oh my God the chat is on fire .99 like I said said before you girls

SPEAKER_00choose who you have sex with but men choose who they marry body count factors into the decision men make when choosing a wife like money factors in when a wife agrees to get married you want a high

SPEAKER_03valued man then be valuable yeah I think it's like telling that the people at the table who say a body count doesn't matter are the ones with the highest body

SPEAKER_01counts what's your body count um into the mic like 22 okay Kiki a circle what's your body

SPEAKER_01count hello okay [ __ ] quiet [ __ ] just you huh hers is just you I her Chastity is intact she's a

SPEAKER_01virgin okay Lauren what about oh you said one did you oh two two six I do not reveal I I don't reveal that zero Sarah

SPEAKER_03seven seven okay well whatever it is multiply by three and that's number 0 time three is zero baby okay yes so

SPEAKER_03um did you want to come in on something I feel like you had something you wanted to add to this um well one of the super chats said it already but yeah um I

SPEAKER_03don't really take the attitude of Body Count not mattering seriously because it's statistically proven that it inhibits your ability to pair bond with

SPEAKER_03someone longterm and therefore like not get divorced if you have uh a high body count or even uh any body count uh whatsoever before getting married it exponentially increases with each person

SPEAKER_08that you have sex with before marriage so it does matter in very practical terms okay I have a question for those who'd say that body count don't doesn't

SPEAKER_08matter have you ever met a girl who have a very high body count and you've never called her a [ __ ] you never called or [ __ ] you never called her any other name

SPEAKER_12you're just like go girl get it get all that slurp slurp have I ever met girl like say that to their friends yeah Walt mosha super chated

SPEAKER_00$100 the answer to the carrying SL fatigue question depends on her receptiveness interest and enthusiasm to

SPEAKER_09his kissing touching manhandling overtures well no I don't like to call girls [ __ ] and like I I'm like all for women like I'm

SPEAKER_08not like you don't have to say it don't you think it but sometimes you never thought about that you don't have to say it out of your your mouth but you've never thought that way about a woman who just Loosely loose use her body like that no I feel like I would be more

SPEAKER_09likely to call someone that if they're like a home recer but if you're just it doesn't matter but you said home recer right if you're single and the other person you're hooking up with single if you're being responsible and getting tested in between partners and and just

SPEAKER_08minding your business I don't think it really matters your body your choice I know I don't care about the situation I'm like have you ever said that about a girl it doesn't matter if she was a home wrecker or not have you ever thought that about a girl who gone through and

SPEAKER_08rack up that many bodies doing this have you thought that about a girl doing what racking up a whole bunch of bodies whether that be through home wrecking or not honest I don't pay attention to what

SPEAKER_08other who like others don't care I didn't know I I asked you specifically have you thought or said anything about about these girls probably okay so why why wouldn't you think a man would I

SPEAKER_08don't really care what they think honestly okay well okay if a man doesn't want to if you feel that way about these girls why would a man want that same reputation of having that girl with them

SPEAKER_09too I just answered that question to like make you happy I don't really like think of girls like that like I don't be like oh that's [ __ ] so you said that to make me happy well cuz you wouldn't take my answer for an aners I'm like God let

SPEAKER_08me I know because it's not true you okay you like I mean I don't You' never met a nasty you've never met a nasty girl doing all your

SPEAKER_05stuff never yeah of course but I'm more likely to call her a [ __ ] to be honest okay so I'm not going to lie I was when I was back in high school I did grow up in a very you know conservative

SPEAKER_05traditional household so um I was going to say what was it going to say I totally forgot what was the question again I L I think you're going to say that you want to is

SPEAKER_05yeah that's right I have judged people and thought about it and like oh yes she's a hoe but now like with the job I do I feel like that's I feel like that's judgmental and as I've gotten older I've just realized that you shouldn't judge

SPEAKER_08people okay but we're this is from your mind but from a man's mind a Man how he looks into the world how he steps out to the world it it is usually with respect and wanting leadership why would you

SPEAKER_08listen to someone who has a a woman who doesn't care or hold her own self-respect it just makes sense from a a guy's perspective and everyone thinks college is wild military show me a lot

SPEAKER_08of that wildness [ __ ] too if I thought this way about those girls oh my God why would anyone want a TA 50 girl for a wife like this is a girl who literally would go around collecting you know gear

SPEAKER_08from the military as like a a freaking souvenir why would that is like why would any guy want to marry her I feel like if you're going around thinking these girls are like what like um [ __ ]

SPEAKER_08and [ __ ] I think you need to love yourself more and just like focus on yourself better what they're doing if these girls are going around collecting souvenirs as like a notch on their belt

SPEAKER_08why would any man want to you know carry that on as as far as like the show oh my God I got the baddest [ __ ] she done suck this many do you think that's something to be proud of I mean cucks do exist men love [ __ ] like you're kind of

SPEAKER_08like it's going in one and you're out the other cuz like I don't have problem they love but they going to marry them l has lud Chris has told us this so many times all right they love the hoes but

SPEAKER_08they won't marry them they will not did you say lud Chris everyone deserves not they will not give you they they say it specifically love the hoes we love you guys but they won't marry you they won't

SPEAKER_05give you that pick and fence and the ones that do come on you you only with them for the money not everyone deserves love and everyone makes mistakes and I feel like well if you everyone deserves

SPEAKER_05love Mo most people you know most if you're not like a horrible person not going around like like killing people or like Kim

SPEAKER_09J I don't know the North Korean dictator well I'm in the industry and I've been in the industry for a few

SPEAKER_09years now and a lot of the successful porn stars a lot of the successful porn stars are married they have kids and like it doesn't you can be successful at

SPEAKER_09one porn or having a marriage and you can't have both yes you can I know people who you can't have both successful how are you going to say you're a virgin Mary over here like I know you don't think there's a reputation you don't know what it's like

SPEAKER_08to be married and have children no but I know what it's like to be in the industry like and not have a problem and do you think a lot of people listen to those people from that industry as far as like where to get marriage advice

SPEAKER_08from absolutely shouldn't no family advice from how to raise kids well they're not watching us for that reason okay if you think think that's the normal you know let's get our it's not normal but it's like we're not

SPEAKER_08finding like we're not having a hard time it's not okay this is not shame this is not really to shame it's more like accepting accountability and your role and the outcomes of what you possibly get because you did certain

SPEAKER_08things I don't know why that is so hard to well maybe some guys like wouldn't want to date a woman who is in the military you know you could say that about yeah I I know that there's a lot of guys I don't date because they haven't been into the military because

SPEAKER_08they like [ __ ] but I'm like when it comes to a woman and a man what a man values when he walks outside the door has nothing to do with oh my God you know I don't know what the [ __ ] women think about when they when they step

SPEAKER_08outside the the house but I know when it comes to a man it has to do with respect and people look up to them and if they can you know if they are someone they can take direction from and learn from no one's going to look at a man who doesn't have a wife that he cannot

SPEAKER_08control a wife who just [ __ ] sleeps around it just doesn't happen unless you are in an industry where that happens and that's considered normal but that is not the normal you can't bring your industry into the outside world and

SPEAKER_03think that everyone's going to live like that and be okay with that it's it's it's just asine to think that way it really is I think what really pisses people off uh is that you're expecting

SPEAKER_03Society to change and become more enlightened to accept your lifestyle and modern values but no one has to to adapt to your Lifestyles no I'm not trying to

SPEAKER_09change change anyone if I'm going to date someone I'm not going to change myself or change them they're going to accept me and I'm going to accept them and that's going to be it and it's like I don't get why that's so hard to understand not who you date but like

SPEAKER_03when we brought up you know if you had kids who got bullied because imaginary porn on the Internet like you're

SPEAKER_09expecting Society to change its views on sex work when like well I mean I don't think bullying is right that doesn't really take account

SPEAKER_08trying to change society to like not bul it's not bullying though it's just accepting that you have you're going to live with certain consequences whether whether or not you like how other people perceive you there that's just going to

SPEAKER_04be it I have to be perceived the way that I am and I I just have to live with that I think you're making a lot said if I say hi to him he'll donate $100 hi Cojack I remember you from my

SPEAKER_03lives a legally binding contract by the way you're making a lot of and shouldn't statements about Society but you don't want Society to make should and shouldn't statements about your actions that's hypocritical I wouldn't have made

SPEAKER_09it this long in the industry if I cared what people think so like I just you just said you think that Society shouldn't you're right in your industry you're right frown upon sex work to the

SPEAKER_03point where if you had kids they'd be bullied because of your history you do think that Society should change do you want kids by the way um um I don't know know if I met

SPEAKER_10someone like really amazing sure and if they wanted them but the whole like kids bullying thing like kids are going to get bullied inevitably like you could say like kids are going to get bullied

SPEAKER_10because of your genetics like that doing porn the same thing no but like like like if we're thinking about like protecting our kids from getting bullied like oh if I have like a weird nose and I have a kid then it might have a weird

SPEAKER_01nose like that's not a choice though doing porn is a choice the the difference there is I mean kids are [ __ ] brutal especially like 13-year-old boys they're going to be

SPEAKER_05like this is the thing these anti-bullying campaigns need to stop oh you have you've done nothing but damage to society so it's okay to make people feel like [ __ ] about themselves and Bully them and say oh you're ugly oh

SPEAKER_03you're this think I'm literally right I'm literally right but what if it's not their fault like what if someone has like really this is how kids learn to socialize this is how Society is always

SPEAKER_09formed I feel like Mary was bullied as a child but we can't literally everyone was bullied and has been a bully yeah some more than others are you it was Mary bullied you think I

SPEAKER_09don't know I'm getting like a she gives me like The Vibes of like I was bullied as a child so now I want to bully people like bullied people I was also bullied it's a thing that a lot of kids do

SPEAKER_12you're never you don't need to act holier than now kids are always going to normalized has been around forever you can't get rid of it it helps like and if you care so much about need to be

SPEAKER_01bullied so they don't end up being FES when they grow up what the fu wait yo Rachel confirm or deny oh God were you like a vicious bully I was bullied come

SPEAKER_01that okay was Brey the bully no Brey the bully that was your nickname I was a little bit feisty when I was younger it was Lauren wasn't it major bully I so the thing the difference is though

SPEAKER_01to Mary's point when it comes to bullying you did say yes Bullying happens regardless however if you've engaged in sex work I was saying 13-year-old kids they're [ __ ] team boys are [ __ ] brutal and they don't I

SPEAKER_01feel like when you're a young kid you don't quite have developed the sense of empathy that you will develop as you become an adult um not to say it's impossible however they're going to be like yo I saw your mom [ __ ] on the

SPEAKER_05internet I saw her suing a higher risk for more bullying because of that so you just got to be okay with the consequences with it yeah the kids didn't consent to the consequences of

SPEAKER_02your actions but they're her kids right so but like so dot do dot I think you guys are judging them very strongly on the basis they're making their Bas of

SPEAKER_02their choices the things that you their choices not yours and I understand your beliefs and how you feel but you know honestly sitting here listening to you guys kind of degrade them they understand what industry they understand

SPEAKER_08their what they're doing but honestly I don't think they see it that way and that's totally fine and that's how the rest of the world will see it cares what the rest of the world okay then you can't get mad if they bully your kid you can't get mad I'm not mad I didn't say anything about bu my I'll bully them

SPEAKER_08back I'll be like don't bully my kid at least she's willing to accept she understands but like to sit here and think that no one's going to bully your kids think that you're not going to reap any repercussions from your action going

SPEAKER_08to be tons okay then you just got to accept it if they call you a harlot they call you a harlot you can't do anything about it exactly I don't think anyone ever said anything about not accepting that I what about your kid but when it comes to your kid you're going to say

SPEAKER_08when it comes to your kid you're going to say oh don't bully my kid don't bully my kid don't bully my kid you can't sit here and sit here and say that you can't bully my kid based off of your actions your actions are literally on the internet for the whole world to see you're you're setting your kid up for

SPEAKER_01failure everyone's going to want to have sleepover at our house that's no they don't want to get groomed what the spicy wait so Mary is your position

SPEAKER_01that you want to bring back [ __ ] shaming is that your position oh yeah it never went away it never went away your response to

SPEAKER_08Mary being a proponent of [ __ ] shaming Brey I don't support that I don't think you should be mean to anyone I think you should mind man man [ __ ] that because y'all don't y'all don't understand when

SPEAKER_00you get to my age and you see how people happen such a [ __ ] in such a [ __ ] you're going to wonder why you can't find anybody 1,1 super chated $100 yes

SPEAKER_00it's their choices actions SL decisions but you don't want to suffer the consequences which is delusional yo dragon's Talent thank you man um I feel like you sound very jaded

SPEAKER_08no it's the truth you guys are literally [ __ ] up all the other women that come behind you you don't think this is true you don't think this is true back in the day when there was bet girls black girls

SPEAKER_08who just shaking their ass you know how you know how like embarrassing it is for guys to come up to you and ask if you can shake your ass like this because of all these [ __ ] stereotypes they still

SPEAKER_08do that when I'm at my age you don't think it's real you guys are literally set you're making stereotypes for all women and no one's putting you in your place like women back in the day used to and that's why we shouldn't judge based

SPEAKER_05on because everyone's their own person so we can't back in the day we weren't having this problem we you saw people get married it's obviously more common now because of social media and only fans and all of this but people were

SPEAKER_08like hoes in the 1800s you know what's more common too women not getting married women becoming more single mothers too that's common as well well I mean I don't think any of us are single mothers here oh my god really stop

SPEAKER_08thinking about you and just in general in general okay well I'm talking about right here right now in general in general when it just comes to women and their future prospects all right I'm telling you this from just personal

SPEAKER_08experience from what other black girls have done they've made it so that anytime I go go do you even date black girl do you even date white guys do you date Ang who the [ __ ] thinks like that when I look at a guy I'm like you know I

SPEAKER_08like you I think you're attracted the last thing I want some guy to think is that hey oh I wonder if this black girl does it like this or this girl does it like that or she going to take me for all my money that's what you guys don't understand that's literally racist of

SPEAKER_08them to do that though it doesn't matter if it's racist or not that is just what's happening out there don't you guys do you guys have any guy friends do about it still be

SPEAKER_08keep what how you the whole thing about you know be a lady in the street and a freak of the bed y'all ever heard of that yeah then why don't you guys act that way cuz we don't want to we just want to be sleds so now so when you call

SPEAKER_08out for being a sled out in public do you care about the the consequences that come with that do you even want to change that what I'm going be driving away in my Mercedes like bye okay so what about your daughters your future daughters if you have any do you want them being looked at how you guys are

SPEAKER_05looking at yourselves right now obviously I don't condone it but like I definitely say like whatever you're comfortable with and I say like look if your kid's bullying my kid because of what I did online I feel like that's screw maybe you should set an example so

SPEAKER_10that she wouldn't get bullied even if I said an example it's people are still going to get bullied so you think that spreading your legs is something to be proud of y'all really think that as a women why should our value be like our kids like I don't plan on having kids I

SPEAKER_03don't think all women our value as women is innately our ability to create and sustain life as you're not harming any live your life as long as you're not Hur anyone

SPEAKER_00thank you appreciate it I'll get away from Jessica the girl next to Brian's left the attractive black woman is speaking truth but hey Brian give a shout out to Aaron and Jessica yo Aaron

SPEAKER_01Chambers thank you man uh yo big shout out to Aaron and Jessica or if we use your celebrity couple name ASA thank you man appreciate it um we're going to move

SPEAKER_01on from this we are going to play the game where do you draw the line oh the microphone what the [ __ ] that microphone here push the microphone back that way

SPEAKER_01mine pull it pull it towards you yeah oh no that that way closer there we go all right we're going to play the game where do you draw the line so there's two different cards we

SPEAKER_01have dip your toes which is the light blue and then we have take the plunge which is the dark blue so uh I'm going to pass these out we're just going to do the first three here we're going to do

SPEAKER_01boom and then that one's for Mary and then if you guys can each take one pass these along and uh the way we're going to frame it is well I'll go first and you you guys

SPEAKER_01have a sense oh did am I okay good okay so how would you feel about dating someone if they live with their

SPEAKER_12parents deal breaker red flag I'm 18 so I don't have a comment what is it yeah how how would you feel about dating someone if they lived with their parents um it depends and I know you

SPEAKER_12guys are young so maybe let's say like when you're 25 oh okay um you know honestly I'd rather them have their own place yeah I agree sure wait what was the Bro the third time hello um but like

SPEAKER_05but that's expensive something in general I mean I feel like it's not a deal breaker though difference if you're going to talk you got to talk into the mic I don't think it's a deal breaker if they live with their parents but eventually they should get their place eventually but because it's so expensive

SPEAKER_02right now I feel like it's it's okay I'd be okay with it yeah I think even at my age like once you even graduate college a lot of people do end up living back with their parents just because of um like how much living on your own costs I

SPEAKER_02think eventually like when you're in a relationship obviously it's ideal to move out of your parents house so it's not a deal breaker nette would you dat

SPEAKER_09the guy who lives with his parents um possibly if I really liked him and maybe if it was like some certain circumstance like

SPEAKER_09maybe he had to support his parents so they like lived with him or maybe it was temporary while he was I don't know saving up for a house or something he definitely has to have like a

SPEAKER_10job yeah I would I would be okay with it but they have to have like Direction and um but yeah not everyone's dealt like the same situations in life and I would be

SPEAKER_08understanding I would not date a guy who lives with his parents okay unless you're saving up for a house or your parents are you know retired and they need someone looking after um them no

SPEAKER_01that's a red flag yeah I I would date someone that lives with their parents for I think for most men it's doesn't really matter I've heard a saying it goes something along

SPEAKER_01it's a quote goes something along the lines of women would rather sleep with a guy who lives with his wife than a guy

SPEAKER_01who lives with his is parents Nicollet confirm or deny you're saying that girls would rather sleep with a guy who lived with their wife women would rather women would rather

SPEAKER_09sleep with a guy who lives with his wife than sleep with a guy who lives with his parents I feel like that's probably true I don't feel that way I've been cheated on and like I'm really against it so

SPEAKER_09like sure but I do agree a lot of other girls it's different like they will just sleep with someone who they know is married or in a relationship word okay what's yours Let's uh your card so Frid

SPEAKER_08as how would you feel about dating someone if how would you feel about dating someone if they played video games often Brey I think that's fine clicks hello

SPEAKER_01yeah exactly well he makes a living off of it so Chad I play video games so is is clicks is he dating someone is he in a relationship I don't know can't speak

SPEAKER_01on that you did the eay with him though no that was Aiden Ross a no no I yeah I know Aiden I got mixed up yeah okay so yes I don't care yeah um

SPEAKER_02personally I have never been a fan of video games but I honestly like don't care I it's fine okay sure if they were on all day every day I

SPEAKER_05I wouldn't want that mhm yeah same I don't want to be with somebody who just I mean as long as you have time for them and if you want a game like a few hours here in there that's fine but it can't be like all day

SPEAKER_10every day yeah yeah as long as you don't use any of the lingo with me we're good like I don't want any of the Wu or any of that you don't want any of the anime not

SPEAKER_10gaming the guy watches anime that's a big red flag I would not I would not that's a red flag yeah no well if it's not if they watch it if it's they become it like if they're like always do though

SPEAKER_03you know H time yeah um video games not a problem anime big problem video game is not a problem okay so you said it'd be an issue if like

SPEAKER_10they use the lingo and [ __ ] if yeah they just take it too far okay so I want to paint a picture here for you guys first off let's say like this is back in the

SPEAKER_01day he was a top of the ladder in Command and Conquer generals so like 1 V one 2v2 3v3 like [ __ ] smoked people and he was like he played GLA like he'd rush you know like put a bunch

SPEAKER_01of Rocket men in the technical and just like Rush the base and [ __ ] he's hot you you'd go for Himel yeah yeah don't worry about it um so you'd go for him Rachel yeah

SPEAKER_01okay cool Lauren next question you you date that guy here what here how about this I've literally I'm like wait what did you just say okay yeah

SPEAKER_01I check this out he's in a top North American hardcore rating guild in World of Warcraft classic 460s a rogue main

SPEAKER_01Warrior primary Al like Warlock and the Mage and [ __ ] 99th percentile parser like [ __ ] Chad pumper DPS parser right all pink parses he's in a hardcore

SPEAKER_01raiding Guild so they full consume full world Buffs they raid like and they do split raids so they've got like three or four raids going right um they clear molten core and bwl in like 30 minutes

SPEAKER_01each they get all the world boss Lord kazic in the blast of lands azer ghost in ashara they get all the world Boss Loot right [ __ ] Gamers like and they

SPEAKER_01have summoning alts too like they're real Chads summoning alts in the places so like as soon as the world bosses spawn yo Lauren as soon as the world

SPEAKER_01bosses spawn right yet they're on it I'm like disting yo Emerald dragons the the nightmare dragons Lord kazic azer ghost down in I'm saying like within 5 minutes

SPEAKER_01of Spawn like they're that quick on it like the Discord notifications boom they're on it 40 people online 3:00 a.m. they're going to get the kill 5 minutes

SPEAKER_01[ __ ] [ __ ] casual 10 hours a day that's what I'm talking about and right he's the main tank for the guild sounds a good chat he's got Thunder Fury blessed blade of the WindSeeker did I [ __ ] that one up he's got Thunder Fury

SPEAKER_12right that's a legendary there's not a lot of legendaries right yeah wait what was the question are we gaming right now gaming that was impressive though

SPEAKER_01play going you kept going and like half the guild like they stack Warriors because like that's the best meta like Rogues and warriors like if you want to speedrun molten core and all this [ __ ]

SPEAKER_01like you're going to stack Warriors stack Warriors a couple Rogues but really just stack Warriors so he's first in line for gressle but the rest of the Warriors right like they have uh

SPEAKER_01most of them like ranked so they're like going for rank 14 like no lifers so dude they are going for it rank 14 like does this guy have any

SPEAKER_01free time to do anything well if if you want to do the honor grind that's like a 14 that's like a 12 14 hour day commitment to get to rank 14 that takes

SPEAKER_01like 2 to three months but they have like they have all the you know the PVP weapons and [ __ ] just envisioning the South Park episode when they're just eating and just getting fat and just like thing like high Warlords is this

SPEAKER_01like just as like a hobby like does make money dating a guy that no he's just like a casual 10 hours a day you know oh oh um really quick question on this do you guys like in terms of the best loot

SPEAKER_01system for World of Warcraft like what do you guys prefer loot Council dkp um epgp Suicide Kings come on Rachel you know Rachel stop the C I don't play that game soft Reserve do any like soft

SPEAKER_01Reserve that one's good but like sometimes like rock League gamer I don't know she's a gamer would you no I play rocket League like the problem with like the problem with loot Council like loot

SPEAKER_01council is kind of like a corrupt loot system right Brey right yeah like loot Council the thing is like it works if the loot counil isn't corrupt stop don't

SPEAKER_12worry I'm reading Shel that was me I don't worry about that but like okay okay hide it yeah it's just like bro I it's just like he kind of got one of the Rogues in the

SPEAKER_01guild got got screwed because like he wanted preditions blade from rag but like it went to another Rogue that really didn't deserve it so like he got preditions blade which is like the best

SPEAKER_10dagger until like until phase five you're describing yourself right now what happens when his mom canels His World of Warcraft membership they gave

SPEAKER_01they gave preditions blade to a rogue that didn't deserve it and it's the best dagger that you can get until phase five five until uh AQ like

SPEAKER_01cathon you know yeah anyways okay um moving on so okay uh on too long he loves gaming I wish I knew stop

SPEAKER_01[Music] it okay uh what's yours Mary says they're always late uh so I'm always late though so that's a

SPEAKER_01yikes although you were on time for the show niolet what was the question what I forgot they're they're always

SPEAKER_03late this one is a dip your toe I mean what if you're a man why are you late were you like doing your makeup or something what are you guay Jesus Christ okay I'd say like always late no but

SPEAKER_05like I'll give you a leeway for a few times like you know traffic things happen you know but if it's like every single time it's traffic he's lying I'm automatically offended if a guy's late I am going to

SPEAKER_09just know that I will be late no exactly I'm always late so if they're late then they're like really late you know what I mean all right what about you guys being late Happ AIT I

SPEAKER_04guess I really don't think it's that deep it's not like I'm not going to date them if they're constantly late it's annoying but it's not like a complet yo Rachel do you surf bro no do you shred

SPEAKER_12the Nar no are you more of a snowboarder I like you get powder yeah fresh powder oh that sounds bad but you

SPEAKER_01also do cocaine app I do not do any drugs thank you admit it okay um okay yeah major issue if a chick is late actually Carson in another tab if you can pull up a window um if you could

SPEAKER_01pull up an image in the Dropbox folder there's a photo let me know if can you pull up a folder do you know how to do that uh it's in the Dropbox folder do

SPEAKER_01you have it open yeah so I'm always late terrible actually whatever basically would you guys let me I did

SPEAKER_01this once so a girl was 15 20 minutes late to the date however like she didn't let me know so I just dipped at the 15minute mark my leg fell asle I would honestly yeah I would

SPEAKER_01forget about it Carson forget about it I would want them to tell me if they're going to be late and I wanted to be sitting there and not knowing where they are but I didn't hear from her cuz like I don't know I'm very punctual so I showed up on time I think it was 15 20

SPEAKER_01minutes and like I have my time's pretty valuable that's valid I mean so I just left and then she shows up at like I don't know we're meeting at 700 she gets there at 7:30 she's like where are you

SPEAKER_02I'm like her that's on her I dipped was the date by the way was the date yeah what was it oh just like meeting at a a lounge for a drink oh

SPEAKER_02okay yeah so I just left yeah and she was all but hurt about it oh you should she should have texted you she should yeah she should let me know also like that's such a terrible first impression

SPEAKER_03to make like being late and that long bro it's like one of those girls that goes on multiple dates in one day that's a yikes that's a yikes she was like

SPEAKER_01coming back from her her last date that's terrible well I I would say this uh my experience is 90% of the time the chick's at least

SPEAKER_015 10 minutes late like I can almost I almost go in expecting a girl to be late on a date damn that's how frequent I me what she should do is get

SPEAKER_03there early and then scope it out and make sure you are who you say you are from from far away so you're not a serial killer that's a that's a good idea that's a good idea um or FaceTiming sometimes FaceTiming before you meet in

SPEAKER_01person is always good I always do talking about have you been cish Brian uh no but I I like to do a call one just to get takes a little pressure off the first date you get acquainted a

SPEAKER_01little bit and you can feel it out it gives them an opportunity to feel it out and me an opportunity to feel feel it out I've definitely had phone calls with a girl and where we would have otherwise perhaps met and I'm like I don't think

SPEAKER_01it's worth our time you know so I'm not mean about it I'm just like hey yeah I won't pursue actually scheduling a Meetup but it's just I've definitely avoided a couple scenarios so go ahead

SPEAKER_10what's your card Sarah as dog uh they ask you to split the bill on a first date that's fine what a Chad for sure no um I think that's fine let's start over here

SPEAKER_04go ahead what was the question they asked put the cup down put the cup down uh sorry I fidget a lot uh I think the guy should pay for the bill is that the

SPEAKER_02question yeah yeah okay for sure I think it's fair if you split it I mean okay fair valid valid like I've had this discussion with friends and sometimes it's like who asked the person to go on

SPEAKER_02the date but then again also I'm someone like who never asks well that's true but um I'm someone who doesn't mind like splitting just because for me that's not a big deal I'm someone that actually I

SPEAKER_02don't like when people pay for me and that's just like even growing up I think like my parents taught me to be very independent so I honestly even when like guys are trying to be nice I I'm like I

SPEAKER_02really am just going to pay for my own like sometimes I'll let them or even I will be one to pay for things because for me it is honestly like not that deep in a sense sure

SPEAKER_09Nicollette um I would laugh in his face and then I would split the bill with him and then I would never talk to him again cuz I don't ask people on dates so like

SPEAKER_01that means like they asked me to go out you know so you would laugh in his face you would pay the whole thing and never talk to no I would not pay the whole thing I would pay my half oh you'd pay

SPEAKER_09your half okay yeah and I'd be like itemize it the [ __ ] but that would be a deal breaker if yeah that's so like tacky so embarrassing for them tacky it's tacky wow yeah to like

SPEAKER_03invite a girl out on a date and they be like all right like we're going to split the bill I mean there are such such opposite answers here like what is a guy supposed to do well let's keep going around the table give everyone a chance to answer

SPEAKER_05go ahead honestly okay so it's not like a deal breaker but I say 99% of the time I would want the guy to pay for the date because that shows he's interested um he doesn't have to be like financially stable but I would say like okay like if

SPEAKER_05it's your first date with me and the vibe is good oh you know like if it was a one-time thing we could split the bill but I would want I would prefer a guy

SPEAKER_05like pay so you you said that you want the guy to pay that way you know he's interested okay yes but also like a guy will spoil a girl when he's really into

SPEAKER_05her it doesn't always have to be money it could be flowers it could be compliments whatever but I feel like it's better when the guy pays for the date I mean couldn't you make the argument

SPEAKER_01that it actually would show in terms of if you compared men and women if a woman paid for the date that would actually show a much greater enthusiasm well true

SPEAKER_05but I stoping with that I would also feel weird like like if I paid for the day I don't want to feel like I'm too independent like I want a guy to be in

SPEAKER_10control and like pay for the date oh okay Sarah what about you I mean I would prefer if someone paid um yeah I would kind of depending on like how much money he

SPEAKER_10has like it would just show some level of like investment like he can't take it's also like someone can't take like tons of people out to dinner so like that would

SPEAKER_10show that maybe they're not dating like tons of well if someone has enough money they could but um yeah basically it would be a plus um but not a deal breaker it would be a plus but not a

SPEAKER_01deal breaker okay would it be like negative points though if he wanted to split no as long as it's like a place that we both agreed on like equally it's

SPEAKER_10not like him making the entire plan and then choosing what I order to and then expecting me to pay for it that would make me mad but if it's like we come to the decision together where we're going

SPEAKER_03and I get to like choose what I want then I'm with it okay okay Mary um I think that if a guy is interested uh in a sincere way and is

SPEAKER_03looking for something serious he will pay and uh most guys aren't looking for something serious these days um so they

SPEAKER_01don't I don't think a guy paying on a date is a is a very good metric for if he's serious or not true cuz money is not everything but it just tends to be

SPEAKER_05shiver us and gentlemen like oh hold the door open did you just say shivalry yeah I did whatever you call it you know so what is so chivalry like being a

SPEAKER_03gentleman yeah traditional gender roles yeah yeah exactly it's like LARPing as a provider you're supposed to want to do that if you're a man not in today's day and age I I think it's I mean no I'm not saying like all

SPEAKER_03of these chicks that you go out with from a dating app are worth you know the trouble but if you're going out with someone that you might that you think might be then you need to show the

SPEAKER_01initiative in that way shouldn't the girl pay in those circumstances in what circumstance because here's the thing like men a lot of men have had the experience or have heard about for

SPEAKER_12example foodie calls where a girl goes on a date Rachel's laughing because she's done that [ __ ] whoa pause no I haven't admit it I always either split or if they offer to pay I'll be like no

SPEAKER_01let me pay but if they really want to pay sure there's this there's this term called foodie call where it's kind of derived from booty call where women will

SPEAKER_01go on dates to get a free meal um additionally women will go on a date for for experience or just because they're

SPEAKER_01bored I guess I'll go on a date with him not doing anything else sure why not whereas men if they're going on a date with you they have a like we know ahead of time like we're interested whereas

SPEAKER_01women when they go on a date they're like let me feel it out I need to decide blah blah blah so there's foodie calls and then there's also just wanting a free experience maybe some guys are being [ __ ] extra and taking you to

SPEAKER_01the zoo and [ __ ] taking you to play mini golf taking you to a concert spending 50 100 200 bucks on the first

SPEAKER_01date um so there's there's that component to it whereas if a guy goes on the date with you it's pretty clearcut he's interested in you he's not going on

SPEAKER_01the DAT just to get some extraneous benefit like a free meal or like to go to a concert with you like he wants to at the very least sleep with you at the

SPEAKER_01very least which and having sex with someone is a is a um equal value exchange you're both participating in that whereas a guy paying for you on a

SPEAKER_01date that's a one directional value exchange he's paying money you're not paying money he's

SPEAKER_03he's what you're doing is like you're giving him your time and also your company so if you're a nice sweet feminine Pleasant woman you are

SPEAKER_05providing him the company of of a sweet they're giving their time too good point I think from the GetGo as long as you're honest with the person be like you should be honest like hey if you're just coming for a free meal then say that if

SPEAKER_05you're going to actually be interested and be on a date make sure you tell them ahead of time I feel likeo Carson go to Google Search for um woman who went on 6 days a week to save on her grocery

SPEAKER_03bill she should she should at least tell him I she's doing that she's probably fat so not really well in any case look datable men men are kind of waking up to

SPEAKER_01the fact that women are going on like also it's just and I know some of you are young so maybe you haven't gone on a lot of like proper First Dates where it's like a dinner date or like for a drink or

SPEAKER_01something why would you do that thank you Carson so that is not six six dates a week to save on food I didn't buy groceries for two years scroll down Carson scroll down is

SPEAKER_01this all the time those get to the Tik tokra hold on so uh when they say women are bad with money but you used to go on

SPEAKER_01six dates a week to avoid paying for groceries between 2016 2018 I didn't buy groceries once probably saved about 150 did you can close it that's fine Carson

SPEAKER_01um you can just close that out close out the tab close out the tab scuffed oh you scuffed it okay it's all good um so men

SPEAKER_01are waking up to this reality where not all women but some women are going on dates without an actual genuine interest in the guy so guys don't want to feel like suckers so me personally I don't think dude should be paying also the

SPEAKER_01other reason guys should not be paying on first dates is the current the current dating landscape gone are the days of people just dating one person at a time people are seeing multiple people both men and

SPEAKER_01women but uh I think it's actually much more common for women to be dating multiple multiple men at the same time that's that's a game women play a lot some men play that game but most men

SPEAKER_03can't I think that was before modern dating as well though like women having suitors being selective but that's also when they were less sexually accessible well yeah now you here's the we and more

SPEAKER_01attra to bring it back there there was a girl two shows ago who like I said she's sleeping with Five Guys she had one main guy four four uh side dudes and she said

SPEAKER_01and then I was like having one night stands on top of it yeah so like that's not dating that's just being a [ __ ] pretty much I would not want to go on a date with a girl that is sleeping with

SPEAKER_01another dude I don't I don't even want to pursue a girl who's sleeping with another guy if you're sleeping with another guy I don't care if it's just casual I don't want to pursue you I don't want to date you I don't want to pay for your dinner I don't want to kiss you I don't want to have sex with you I

SPEAKER_01don't want anything to do with you however the dating landscape is both men and women but I think more so women they are sleeping with multiple people they're dating multiple people like if I let's get this straight do you mean

SPEAKER_05dating is synonymous with like sleeping with the people that you're dating not necessar have to be that not necessarily Buton going on dates with people for the first time I don't even like that [ __ ] either I think it's important to stay

SPEAKER_05loyal in the talking stage to be honest and I feel like you should only date one person at once and the reason why I say that it's like because how are you going to know who you like more but then you eventually will know but I still feel like it'll be confusing and it'll be

SPEAKER_05just like I don't know Annoying I feel like how can you divide all of your attention to one person and you really get to know them if you're seeing multiple people you know it'll be confusing at least for me I get confused

SPEAKER_01well and also the other thing is the that I would say almost all women are capable of going on like three or

SPEAKER_01four dates a week if you were so inclined what disagree I wouldn't no but capable so able to do it Rachel I wouldn't you wouldn't however

SPEAKER_12well if you were so inclined Rachel you could sleep with a new guy every single night of the week but I wouldn't but you acknowledge that you could right if I wanted to yeah yeah but

SPEAKER_01I don't want to sure and and I mean to your credit you're you're an attractive girl but thanks so I don't I don't know if you're

SPEAKER_01I'm not sure if your looks do you have a brother yeah older younger older does he slay is he he's got game is he good with

SPEAKER_01the ladies slay is he good with the ladies is he the ladies man he's probably watching this is he a Chad yo what's his name his name is Jonathan yo

SPEAKER_12Jonathan you're a [ __ ] Legend oh my God so is he like is he a Chad he's not a chadad he's very respectful and like he's got a girlfriend or he has

SPEAKER_01a girlfriend okay rip in the chat for Chad I mean Jonathan okay um so I guess the point I'm trying to make is unremarkable average women I'm not saying that you are but I remember once

SPEAKER_01I went on a date with this girl unremarkable un like average looking you know and she told me she had been not we had mat on hinge she had been on hinge

SPEAKER_01for 3 days she had already had two dates before I had a date with her she re revealed all this to me on the date and then she said it was like a Wednesday or some [ __ ] we hung out um then she said I have two dates planned for this weekend

SPEAKER_05I'm like [ __ ] that's five dates in a week I immediately sounds like she wasn't interested in the relationship with you I would have why would you openly be like I'm seeing multiple people because

SPEAKER_05I asked her and oh okay got you I mean to her she was honest is important but I wouldn't see one more than one person I would leave you would leave I would leave the date if if a dude was like y I'm seeing another girl on

SPEAKER_01Tuesday for that but here's the difference so an average guy can't do that whereas an average girl could [ __ ] like a new dude every single night of the week if she wanted to yes [ __ ] up

SPEAKER_03well she would only do that if she were mentally the system Rachel huh she would only do that if she were mentally ill ill so it doesn't really matter she would only do that if she was mentally ill to hook up with a new guy every day yeah you got to be like actually crazy

SPEAKER_01to do that right but I'm not saying they might they would do it but they have the option and so basically but but you have average women who have basically the

SPEAKER_01sexual options of a male celebrity so that creates a asynchronicity wait in in congruity I'm

SPEAKER_01trying to Inc asy big word Jesus Christ asymmetry I dropped out of college um no in any case so women have far more

SPEAKER_03sexual options than men do yeah like it's it's absurd but that's not what they value they want to be committed well I mean not [ __ ] yes men and women's sexual

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