Breckie Hill & Rachel Brockman HEATED DEBATE | Dating Talk #62

Date: 2023-03-13

Duration: 4h 38m

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SPEAKER_01you're missing so so you would feel a little it's just would you lose a little attraction a little bit you're like a

SPEAKER_03little bit you got me why do you need this [ __ ] yeah okay um that's an instant breakup really yeah I'm actually shocked that you guys are like all seemingly

SPEAKER_03kind of okay with this um I think that's really weird and I think like some of the people in the chat are saying like you guys are lying you would judge him and I kind of agree I think it's normal

SPEAKER_12to like masturbate and stuff okay but you would come across your flashlight and consider say it with your chest I'm just saying personally I think just repeat it with your chest I think it's

SPEAKER_12normal to masturbate wow that was enthusiastic what does that have to do with a mold of nicholet well he just said in general like having one not I'm not saying a mold you know but I'm just saying I think that's a lot different do

SPEAKER_10you not have of like your friend that's weird yeah no I think it would be like I don't know if I like need a night off like it's it's there Nicollet do you want to gift one

SPEAKER_09of them to Mary E I don't think she deserves it she doesn't deserve it no okay you can take it these are expensive $3.99 399 yeah

SPEAKER_03what that that's not how much they cost really it is and it's even weirder knowing that a guy would spend that much money on it that makes it even worse you want them to pay $10 for my [ __ ] I'm

SPEAKER_09more expensive than that if is normal much what's your only fans how much is your only fans it's 17 $17 yeah is there whatever discount code

SPEAKER_09this time yeah so if you want my um only fans it's onlyfans.com niolet niic your [ __ ] melt yeah it's really great okay what about you is it a deal

SPEAKER_08breaker if a dude you know I come from an older generation where where you know the bedroom is for freaky [ __ ] so no it's not a deal breaker matter of fact I

SPEAKER_08even bought one for my boyfriend but it was not a Fleshlight it was actual like a real bottom but that was that was like like one of those like mold got an ass

SPEAKER_08and [ __ ] yes but you know like I said back in the day it was a lot different you kept that stuff in the in your bedroom you know that's private stuff you don't

SPEAKER_00like how these days people are oh op super chated 100 hey Brian and the panel ladies please can you shed light on why you

SPEAKER_00would respect your male boss more over your male partner regi you don't bite back to your boss but you unload on your BF husband even though they provide for

SPEAKER_01you whereas your boss doesn't uh yeah we can go around may I don't know if any of these girls even have a boss but it's like a corporate

SPEAKER_10relationship is different from an a romantic one in a lot of ways there's no HR in your domestic partnership but you could you could make

SPEAKER_01the argument that you know so on so previously 60 70 80 years ago the man

SPEAKER_01would be the provider the woman would stay at home and I think it's wonderful that we've opened up the labor pool for women to become do cancer research and

SPEAKER_01you know throw these more labor at the most complicated issues that when it comes to healthcare and stuff I think that's great um however it is interesting

SPEAKER_01that I think women have traded being have traded being submissive to a husband for sorry I'm losing my train of thought women have traded being

SPEAKER_01submissive to a husband for being submissive to an employer so instead of your husband being the bread winner and you taking care of the internal

SPEAKER_01household you now have to go out and then basically be submissive to your employer and I would say that your employer is probably going to ask much more of you than with a

SPEAKER_03husband I I that's the case the part of the chat that doesn't make sense is like you're not supposed to unload uh all of

SPEAKER_03your anger on your boyfriend or husband that's that means that you're not a good partner right so yeah well I think like venting is okay if you had a bad day but

SPEAKER_05if you're like taking it out on them like the punching bag then yeah not like physically but like also like mentally but I think it's okay to vent you

SPEAKER_01know okay uh let's uh get through some uh let me see here what we have let me do these ones here okay I am

SPEAKER_01flying the Asian girl to Romania for a conjugal visit pack your bags I think we have two Asian women here so I'm not sure it's real you guys are you guys are going to have to uh fight it out to see

SPEAKER_01which one I maybe he can do too so question for you two uh if Andrew Tate one of his uh people secretaries while he's in jail hits you up he's like yo

SPEAKER_10he's trying to set up a conjugal visit do you do you go for Andrew Tate no I'm okay okay what about you he actually blocked me on Instagram before his account was taken

SPEAKER_10down it's real I like have a I have proof but what uh why well okay I was having a really rough day at work couldn't take it on on my boss clearly

SPEAKER_10and so I was just bored and I I was like oh I wonder if Andrew Tate like I want to see his Instagram so I open it up I leave one comment on one photo I just said you look like a ball sack because

SPEAKER_01like know it's not necessarily like a bad thing but he took it that way because I was blocked soon after did he respond to you no oh just a block that's the that's the best move yeah someone's

SPEAKER_10talking [ __ ] just insta block but okay so he loves men so much so I was like he loves men like he likes his own kind and like why not like all parts like it didn't have to be an insult but he took it that way I'm not sure why the TTS

SPEAKER_01didn't come through on this but yo Bruce Wayne thank you for the uh $99 I'll just read it nobody is paying paying 400 for that busted Fleshlight haha get them for

SPEAKER_0199 bucks for a ski ski skyb mod thank you thank you Nicollet is American cheese tops what what does that

SPEAKER_01mean confirm or deny American cheese tops what is that um I don't know okay so you slid into Andrew Tate's DMS you can be honest you were trying to like hit on him oh I commented on a photo I

SPEAKER_10did not slide in his oh you you didn't even slide in the DM you called him what did you call him I just said he looked like a ball sack but why that's so I was just I was bored I know like I I honestly like don't leave Internet Hate

SPEAKER_10ever but um I've been I've been more so like annoyed by just all the Andrew Tate clips that it was like at the height of his like rain over if that's your way of flirting like no no it was not flirting

SPEAKER_10it was just like a moment of weakness on my part but I thought it was really funny that he blocked

SPEAKER_01me okay I would Haram okay so how I don't know how we got to Andrew Tate no he's pushing 30 oh right okay so um who

SPEAKER_05here's show of hands who here is on a dating app dating app dating app wait you're on the dating app yes because I I just go on there to make friends and just like

SPEAKER_03talk to people and see who will follow me on Instagram and get my no one who is matching with you on a dating app wants to be friends they want to date they also have like a a friend section

SPEAKER_05which Bumble BFF which apps are you on I'm on Bumble BFF hinge not any just bumble just Bumble and you're looking for friends cuz they have a bumble BFF

SPEAKER_01I'm not on like the dating side of it okay are you looking for female friends or male friends both both friends or friends you know uh okay um so you're on

SPEAKER_08the dating app which dating apps are you on I'm on Match and tender guys closer to the microphone closer to the mic I got kicked off of hinge so I'm on only on Tinder and match why did you get

SPEAKER_08kicked off a snowflake who didn't like me with my controversial take on something so what was it I said we need to stop you know electing anti-semitic

SPEAKER_08and law you know into Congress so someone reported me on that who were you referring to what's that girl up in Minnesota

SPEAKER_10Marie no not um Ilia Omar she's yeah I don't like her okay um okay dating app I'm on hinge I was actually banned on Tinder for saying that I don't do uppers

SPEAKER_10I only do downers when someone asked me on the coffee date wait you only do is it was that like a joke it was a joke and they took it seriously and they banned me so I'm not on Tinder but I so you only do

SPEAKER_10downers meaning alcohol instead of caffeine that seems like very tame reason to get banned no that's like all I can think of yeah but um I am on hinge well while we're talking about your drug

SPEAKER_10use what drugs do you use oh now I'm totally like straight edge girly I only I'm C sober I only smoke weed I don't even drink anymore what you said now you

SPEAKER_10are what did you do previously um like you know I definitely um was really curious like I don't know uh I heroin no

SPEAKER_10no heroin no meth okay but yeah psychedelics for sure peyote is that a psychedelic no just like acid

SPEAKER_01shrooms I was just really interested in aasa I actually no never did okay so you're on hinge you got banned on Tinder um I wish we we had done a dating app review we would have taken screenshots

SPEAKER_03you're not on a dating did you meet your boyfriend on the dating app or in person no I met him in person but I was on a dating app for Catholics Christian

SPEAKER_09Mingle no it's Catholic match but I deleted it okay uh any dating apps nicholet yeah but I just like swipe for fun I don't actually talk to them do you

SPEAKER_01have your Instagram in the bio no what about you do you have your Instagram and your bio mhm yeah okay so you're on the dating apps to promote your only phans okay go ahead not going to lie there it

SPEAKER_01is the truth reveals itself any dating apps no no but I used to you used to have dating apps what about you yeah same I don't anymore but I used to used

SPEAKER_01to okay okay um which dating apps did you used to have Tinder and hinge I had Tinder did you ever have a dating app I

SPEAKER_02think I had gotten it cuz my friend like told me to get it but I never like used it ever did either of you meet up with a guy yeah actually like talked to this guy for a month and like what do you

SPEAKER_12mean you talked to him like he came over and my mom met him and everything he came over your mom met him yeah like the first time you met first yeah my mom met him the first time we met she's very

SPEAKER_01much she wants to like meet wait on how old were you when wait 17 you were on the dating app at 17 isn't that to holy crap so you lied about your age I think

SPEAKER_10you have to be 18 that's a yikes no she lied about her age I actually did that that's a yikes and I thought it was like you did that too I I was 16 and I would tell everyone and at the time like all these guys would be like that's fine and

SPEAKER_10the one guy who was like sorry I'm not cool with that and unmatched me I was like what a jerk but now that I'm older I'm like that was the only guy with like morals did you meet up with any dudes no

SPEAKER_01I didn't bro okay stay safe gentlemen um okay so you

SPEAKER_01were 17 how old was he uh 19 is that is it that's Haram is it haram okay so he came over to your house

SPEAKER_04on the first to meet your mom yeah and we played Xbox you played Xbox yep damn bro that's to okay what about you um I've never ended up meeting up with

SPEAKER_04them no because every time they'll be like oh like this is a fake account or they'll be like oh is this actually Brey and then I'm like okay I don't want to like is this actually Brey yeah I don't

SPEAKER_04want to hang out with people that are like like that know me because of Tik Tok I feel they using me then is Brey your full name name Breen yeah but I've been going by Brey since I was in

SPEAKER_04kindergarten Brey yeah it's like Becky I know people call me breakfast breakfast yeah okay like my close friends yeah all right are we talking like oatmeal or like cereal what are we talking about

SPEAKER_01here you know like short for breakfast Brey no I know but what what oh what kind of breakfast do what kind of breakfast waffles and French Tob never mind okay um okay

SPEAKER_01so dating apps um you've been on the dating app for a while actually that's how we we met mhm well that's how we got connected because much like how Nicollette and sorry

SPEAKER_01remind me your name key much like how nickolet and Keeley use dating apps to procure men and simps to follow them on Instagram and only

SPEAKER_01fans I don't have my Instagram linked to my oh okay sure sure whatever I I'm doing the reverse finesse I'm on dating apps to get women on the show so um

SPEAKER_01that's so we we've been trying to get Sarah it's been it's a couple times we've attempted to get you on but you're you're in San Diego right okay yeah so uh I do the reverse finesse so how has

SPEAKER_10things been going on hinge for you oh it's been it hasn't been the best um my friends tell me that I need to change my prompts and that guys might not be

SPEAKER_10taking me seriously because of my prompts but I honestly think that my prompts kind of give insight into like what I'm actually like in real life so I don't feel like I should change them

SPEAKER_10what do you uh have you committed your prompts to memory um okay so I know one of them is I know I'll delete hinge when and then I have my husband get

SPEAKER_10suspicious it's a joke and then I have another one that's like thank you thank you I guarantee some people actually think that that's

SPEAKER_10serious the the military guys do yeah thank you thank you now the military guys do and then so they'll they'll be mad they'll be like you shouldn't do that and then I'll kind of like match with them and say like oh

SPEAKER_10it's okay he's like on deployment and then they get really mad but it's all it's all just a joke so what are the other two prompts there was one that was like um I'll

SPEAKER_10introduce you to my family if you don't succumb to my nyos sister seduction tactics um huh that's a joke too that's a joke too

SPEAKER_10oh your sister's not Nyo is very like outspoken she's a sex therapist and she's very comfortable with herself and she's flirty where is she uh she's in DC oh okay I was going to say maybe she can

SPEAKER_10be on the show but she's a sex therapist she is so she's unemployed no she's she does her who goes to a sex what like what oh well it's like relationships too so it's like

SPEAKER_10people infidelity like just everything under that realm but a lot of people who have like sexual dysfunction and um trauma

SPEAKER_10okay so and she's a nymo what's her body count do you know um I don't know actually you don't know yeah I know she's been seeing a guy recently but um

SPEAKER_01is it up there you think could be feel like sex therapist okay um okay what's the other prompt um oh I

SPEAKER_10think that was just something that one was more tame it was just about travel story my Airbnb host was on house arrest I mean it's a great story but I won't

SPEAKER_01get into it okay um cool so let's see here let's do let me do these uh streamlabs chats let's see if this works

SPEAKER_01okay yo Maddie Potter thank you for the 50 are we thinking her boyfriend is a s or a pimp but I can understand the struggle but why be in a relationship and share hard- earned sex work money

SPEAKER_05this is directed to you mhm uh well because it works for us and we get to travel and we enjoy it obviously I'm not going to do sex Works forever but I'm just doing it until we have enough money saved up and then we're going to get

SPEAKER_01like a cabin out in the woods somewhere in Tennessee or something all right yo we have uh RP Mentor Tokyo here donated 50 whether

SPEAKER_01cognizant of it or not the pursuit of friends of the opposite sex likely comes down to gauging backup mates as Dr David bus brings up in his M switching

SPEAKER_01hypothesis of course plausible deniability can play a role here hey RP Mentor Tokyo thank you uh for that much appreciated um okay so those are done

SPEAKER_01and then we have uh let's see we have did we do this one yo Aaron Chambers thank you for the 50 man love you Brian give me and Jessica shout out I'm retired military I went after an older woman but everything you say is Gospel

SPEAKER_01hey Aaron thank you so much for the Super Chat man appreciate it clef the misfit thank you for the 50 hey Mary love timcast and pop culture crisis uh it's dope you're here oh uh but you got to chill on these girls a bit there's not much gold in the cavern you got to

SPEAKER_03know when to stop mining oh okay well thanks for watching um I don't really get what you're saying

SPEAKER_01though she does not get what you're saying cleft the misfit all right we have Alvin Sam here yo Alvin thank you so much man Ladies marriageable Man or Instagram pick only one to keep we'll go

SPEAKER_01around the table on this so maybe they might be a bit young for marriage but let we we'll just do it marriageable man or your Instagram I would say

SPEAKER_04marriageable man so you would delete your Instagram yeah I think having a man like a marriageable man is so much more valuable than having an Instagram account where you just post pictures to

SPEAKER_01it okay I agree with her actually oh okay I agree as well even though like cuz you guys that's your bread and butter your social media that's what you

SPEAKER_12do for work a sucker that like to get a good relationship like I want to be in love and like you know have a good relationship with somebody okay I want to share my life with somebody I don't want to be alone forever so you would be willing to

SPEAKER_01despite the fact that what you do for work is social media you would be willing to take it down Tik Tok as well yeah if it was forever wow I'm kind of

SPEAKER_02impressed by that answer okay um and you too right yeah I mean obviously it's more of a hobby for me it's not like I I'm still in school I getting my degree and

SPEAKER_09okay nickolet if I was dating a guy or married to a guy and he said you know pick me like you have to delete your Instagram or we can't be together that's

SPEAKER_03pretty controlling and weird and I'd be like no what about your only fans would you delete that at a marriageable man's

SPEAKER_09request no I just wouldn't shoot with other men wait what like if I were you would delete it all together under any circumstance no I

SPEAKER_03would just do solo content but what if he was like I don't want you to do any content on only fans then that's controlling and weird and I

SPEAKER_08wouldn't want to date him really no modesty at all especially if he's like okay well let's say he's the one bringing in

SPEAKER_08the money and he is just requesting you you know hey you know can at least be a little bit more modest can you if he wants to like provide for me then like sure that's fine be like okay then you

SPEAKER_05would delete it yeah what about you honestly I would get rid of my phone you know I'd rather have my boyfriend I mean I'd rather have him than my phone into the mic I'd be totally fine with getting

SPEAKER_05rid of my phone and social media for well but you I mean you are engaged already yeah if he ever asked me he never asked me he sure yeah what about you yeah I would definitely choose the man can you tilt your microphone down

SPEAKER_03ever so slight what and Mary what about you I have both right now but I would delete Instagram if it came to it what about you I would take a man all right

SPEAKER_01yo repent and Obey Jesus thank you for the 50 uh we can only do one of these um are your biological parents married is your father unquestionably the leader in his relationship does your father

SPEAKER_01approve of your lifestyle if your father has a neck Skinner than Bill G skinnier than Bill Gates still show some respect please Titus to okay um we'll just do the first one are your biological

SPEAKER_12parents married um my parents are divorced I haven't seen my dad since I was 13 my parents are also divorced and I haven't seen my dad in years um my

SPEAKER_05parents are separated they're not married my parents are separated and my mom passed away a few years ago and I never met her my parents are still married my parents are

SPEAKER_08divorced but very much in the picture I was adopted my parents died together then my surrogate family came involved and they're still married damn that's

SPEAKER_01heavy okay um repent thank you there for the uh 50 all right we have Panda trucker hey thank you for the 50 man ladies you must pick one guy number one 55

SPEAKER_01practices wait hold on marital Arts hello I think he means martial arts for 20 year I don't know what the [ __ ] marital Arts is is that domestic violence in the context of marriage um

SPEAKER_01for 20 years and legality owns you guys got to spell check these and legally I like your hi is jacket though um uh legality own guns guy number two 63 soft

SPEAKER_01emotional feminine and doesn't like to fight there are things I would change all right here's are your two options one of them the five five five guys is

SPEAKER_03uh is a wife beater jeez you're making the personality traits though so like guy number one does personality guy number two does have a personality listed I like emotional guys guys who

SPEAKER_12are open you like emotional guys well like open to talking you know about things and not just holding it in yeah you sure you sure about that one okay no no well yeah because I like it means

SPEAKER_12that they like care about you I think they're more I think no some guys hold it in right but I'd rather talk about it I'm like a person who likes to talk about don't worry about it don't about

SPEAKER_12it keep going okay I like to talk about things so um yeah I just would rather want an emotional guy someone who would talk about their feelings yeah person agreed so you want a guy who can be

SPEAKER_01vulnerable yeah guys aren't built though that way well some I think some are only you don't think they should show emotions what do you mean I I don't think men should be vulnerable with with

SPEAKER_05their girl no why not why because an L it's an L an L it's an L humans have emotions and they think it's okay to talk about it if guys just bottle it up that's how they get angry

SPEAKER_01and then they're not happy and I feel like you're not robots men can cry you know I don't well I mean there there's a few reasons I mean chiefly if you see

SPEAKER_01you're going to lose respect for your boyfriend if he's vulnerable in front of you I wouldn't say so I still respect my

SPEAKER_05boyfriend even if he like cries in front of me wait that doesn't even make any sense though how could you like lose respect for somebody if they show emotions well I'll tell you why women will claim they want a guy who's in

SPEAKER_01touch with his emotions or who can be vulnerable in front of them but let me ask you all a question what let's say when a guy's approaching you let's say he's approaching you in person would you

SPEAKER_01prefer that he steps to you with confidence his eye contact is on point and he's you know confident or would you prefer him kind of be like really shy his eye contacts weak he's

SPEAKER_01not being weird but he's like a little socially anxious contact is weak just and not yeah the first one but what does that have to do with like showing emotions well I want to go around the table really quick on this which of the

SPEAKER_02two would you prefer obviously a confident guy come up to me probably okay um I've had both happen to me I mean I think shy guys it's always interesting when they try to like shoot

SPEAKER_02their shot um what do you mean it's interesting well because or not that it's like funny but I was like it's it's cute to see like you know there are some guys that get like really nervous or they're more on the shy side but I don't

SPEAKER_02think that's like a bad thing necessarily obviously I think you feel more enticed and like intrigued when it's like a more confident guy comes up to you but then again there's a

SPEAKER_01difference between being confident and like being cocky you know okay sure yeah nickolette what are the two options confident he steps to you approaches you in a confident manner

SPEAKER_01good eye contact no stumbling versus a guy who's kind of bashful steps to you a bit shy like eye contact weak he's not being weird or

SPEAKER_05creepy but he's like shy uncomfortable socially anxious um confident but not cocky okay what about you I would say both I think it just matters if you're a good person I feel like if you're very

SPEAKER_10confident and have nothing in common but he's like not nice I feel like it doesn't matter if shy or conf sure Sarah what about you um I would say confident I do think it can be endearing if someone's like a little bit shy um and

SPEAKER_10then that kind of pushes me to be the more confident one which isn't always a good scenario but it's like something that I've struggled with so it's kind of like good practice to step into that role so you want to step into a more

SPEAKER_10masculine role like I don't want to um the times that I have found myself doing that I don't think it's been all bad I would prefer not to you'd prefer it not to okay Mary what about you confident

SPEAKER_08I'm not going to entertain a guy's advances sure out of pity okay I'll say with being prior military the civilian guy just doesn't work for for me like I

SPEAKER_08can't do the weakness I have to have a man in leadership and still strength that's just how I'm bred and it just speaks more okay so it's being in the

SPEAKER_01military you want like a very masculine confident guy okay so that's a guy stepping to you being a little nervous a little shy maybe his eye contact isn't

SPEAKER_01great that's quite literally him being vulnerable however women are repulsed by said vulnerability therefore women don't actually want want men to be vulnerable

SPEAKER_03Brian I have a different perspective on this I think that what women kind of want is to be the only person uh the

SPEAKER_03only woman in a man's life that he has a willingness to show vulnerability to after trust has been gained I agree not not immediately CU if it's immediately

SPEAKER_01then that's manipulative like if he's crying to make you feel bad for him well I yes I suppose it would be a woman's preference that her men is only vulnerable with her with

SPEAKER_01her where instead of being vulnerable to the entire world however that's kind of picking and choosing when a man is vulnerable and

SPEAKER_01when he isn't so the point I'm trying to say is is that women are hardwired to find vulnerability in men they view it as weakness and it's a turnoff if a man

SPEAKER_03it like it would be a major turnoff for most women I think for emotionally healthy women it is not a turn off if you have gained trust beforehand I think you if you ask 99% of women if they

SPEAKER_01prefer confident men or men who are a bit more shy and socially anxious almost all women are going to say they prefer conf first impression yes right but that the difference is is that a woman could

SPEAKER_01you as a man we would actually prefer a woman step to us a little bit shy instead of being like super bold and confident so men if a girl steps to us

SPEAKER_01and she's a bit Bash and like a little sh we would actually prefer that over a girl who steps really confident because then well we're going to think certain things but so that's just that's the difference between men and women there

SPEAKER_03there's a difference between First Impressions and then where you are into a long-term relationship what you show of yourself to someone you've been with for a long time well the other thing is even in a long-term relationship if you were to cry in front of your

SPEAKER_01girlfriend even if you've been dating for a while and she might not immediately might be there to support you but it she is going to lose attraction for you if you cry in front of your girlfriend I mean if it's

SPEAKER_03Overkill if you're like emotionally imbalanced and you cry too often but if there is a valid reason then even if there's a valid

SPEAKER_03reason women detest weakness in men that statement is true I think the context doesn't fit always um and you also aren't a woman so you don't know if

SPEAKER_01what that's right I'm not a woman however repulses us sure but I mean I've had my own experiences I've spoken with a lot of men and a lot of them report that when they've been in scenarios

SPEAKER_01where they are either showing some sort of vulnerability uh it it there's a

SPEAKER_01palpable shift in the relationship after some event when the when the guy has demonstrated a weakness or a vulner ability I'll give you guys an example so

SPEAKER_01this was a year and a half ago almost two wait a year and a half ago so I was dating this girl i' been dating her for six months uh I got

SPEAKER_01jumped I got jumped so I got all [ __ ] up so I I you know this is my girl I've been talking to her for six months I call her up it's like late at the night she comes over I'm not and I didn't cry however I was all bloodied up and you

SPEAKER_01know kind of [ __ ] up right and I was in pain but I wasn't like crying or anything but I was like a [ __ ] I was limping and [ __ ] and there was such a pal palpable shift in the

SPEAKER_01relationship from that point prior to that we never argued after she witnessed me in this weak State we started fighting it was like such a noticeable

SPEAKER_01shift she started becoming a bit more less Cooperative less agreeable we started fighting and a lot of men have similar experiences when you display a

SPEAKER_01weakness the woman loses attraction for you and honestly the writing is on the wall so I mean my recommendation to men is if you have an issue talk to your male friends don't talk to your don't go

SPEAKER_09to don't don't go to your girl I feel like in your case she probably just didn't like you that much in the beginning and then she she pretty she was put into that position to take care of you for the first time and she

SPEAKER_01probably realized like oh I don't actually like this guy that that much to take care of him I mean I I would disagree with that but that's perhaps

SPEAKER_03that could be an explanation but I I I disagree with your assessment I think uh maybe her reaction was because she thought you weren't competent at protecting yourself and therefore how could you be competent at

SPEAKER_03protecting her even on a subconscious uh evolutionary level that makes sense that's what I'm saying it's evolutionary yes it is I totally agree

SPEAKER_03with you but I think that like sometimes uh if a woman is like uh if she's like not emotionally

SPEAKER_03healthy then she's not able to respond to a man having emotions like she can only let her emotions take the stage and and be paid

SPEAKER_08attention to intended to sounds like most relationships I also think a lot of girls Overlook the quiet guy um I remember just being in the military a lot of the quiet guys or a lot of the stoic ones they're very manly you just

SPEAKER_08didn't know they they never showed their emotions but I can hey if something were to go down I'm going to go to that man instead of the little [ __ ] crying I'm not going to go to him what what is he

SPEAKER_08going to protect me for no so I'm like I think there's just a difference between you know women who've never been in a situation where they might need to fend have someone fend for them we live in

SPEAKER_08very very like um babysitted type Society where everything's given to us you guys don't know what it's like to actually need a man so therefore you say the things that you say which is like it's a whole another thing go to war

SPEAKER_08you're not going to want a man you're not going to want a man who cries you want to want a man who knows how to think on his feet you're going to want to know want a man who knows how to find that money get that money to make sure you survive why the hell would I want to

SPEAKER_03go to some weak guy who's just going to complain and [ __ ] and make my life harder Brian I think that um I I like thought through this a little bit more I

SPEAKER_03think men's emotional exclusivity with a woman is uh an analog to a a woman's sexual exclusivity with a

SPEAKER_03man do you do you get what I'm I'm I'm getting at sort of sort of he values complete loyalty and monogamy from her

SPEAKER_03and there's an emotional loyalty and monogamy that a woman expects or desires from a man does anyone she wants to be

SPEAKER_01the only woman that gets to see him in a vulner State sure Carson um the audio got switched Eric can you help him figure out how to you have to like find

SPEAKER_01that little audio that's in the right corner my audio is muted over here you're going to hit the Windows button you're gonna have to remember I think I showed you before the stream

SPEAKER_01you're going to have to hit the uh yep switch it no yeah SW switch it the yep put it on speakers the bottom one

SPEAKER_01yeah okay sorry the thing closed that out okay cool um does anyone on this side of the table have anything in response I obviously want a guy who's

SPEAKER_12going to be able like to protect me and stuff but at the same time if like something's going on and like let's say one of their family members dies and they cry I'm not going to like be turned off by that you know like you'd probably

SPEAKER_01be turned off by really I don't think so I don't think so the guy cried no I don't think that's like a turn off I think most men are are overly emotional overly vulnerable these days I

SPEAKER_05think it's cute when a guy cries it shows that you're really connected to them you think it's cute when the guy cries yeah it's kind of cute like they're showing their vulnerable side to

SPEAKER_05you like so you take pleasure in in okay so like I don't take pleasure in it I would say like oh you know he's opening up to me he really likes me you'll have to fix it again guys you know like obviously there's a time and a place and

SPEAKER_05yeah a man can still protect you like if something goes down even if he cries because there's a time and a place for emotions and you know you know protecting you with his fist or whatever if something someone tries to break in

SPEAKER_08or something you can't predict when he's going to be stoic and you know calm and handle his situation so you don't know that what if you on M Martin super CH yo

SPEAKER_00Martin thank you man ladies you are viewing it through a filter what vulnerability looks like through rren is a cathartic cry over a cute puppy what emotional vulnerability looks like

SPEAKER_00through the filter of testosterone is unfed violence viol prisoners School shooters murderers stoicism is a must for men yes

SPEAKER_01100% 100% um like the accent that makes and also there was uh We've reacted to this video a couple times on the podcast but there's this video of this MMA fighter woman who's on Joe Rogan Maria

SPEAKER_01Nakamoto or something and she was dating a MMA fighter and she said that she saw her boyfriend get knocked the [ __ ] out within the context like not in a street fight but uh in an MMA fight and she

SPEAKER_01said I dumped him afterwards because I was so turned off by him getting knocked out by another man whereas I don't I don't suspect the reverse if would be the case because women look to men at

SPEAKER_01least from an evolutionary perspective and also still today for protection you want your partner to be capable to some degree of protection you whereas men we

SPEAKER_01don't look to women to protect us really so if a guy is vulnerable or weak you almost uh biologically there's going to be like this

SPEAKER_10innate uh you'll be repulsed by repul she dumped him just because of that she she said it on the podcast she said yeah I dumped him afterward deer issues I think that like in a way like crying you

SPEAKER_10know if you never see your partner cry that's them just hiding a part of themselves from I think that um in a way just like opening up if it's you know just once in a while like that's just

SPEAKER_01being real I think being real yeah keeping it real I mean the just the whole like being vulnerable thing just Falls flat on its face when you think about okay women

SPEAKER_01like confident guys as a guy if you want to approach a girl you have to be confident your eye contact is has to be on good uh excuse me eye contact has to

SPEAKER_01be on point you can't be stuttering as I am right now so uh you need to um really step properly otherwise the girls going be like ah this guy's weird just like

SPEAKER_01not interested so whereas as a girl you can be shy whether it's on a dating app or in person you can be shy and a guy is not going to not be attracted to you if you're shy in fact I would actually make

SPEAKER_01the argument that men are more attracted to women who are a bit more on the Reserve side are not loud are not boisterous or are not obnoxiously loud uh Men actually probably prefer kind of

SPEAKER_01the more quiet calm mellow girls as opposed to the like the loud [ __ ] obnoxious chicks okay so

SPEAKER_03um yeah so uh I really feel tell us how I well I I just want to point out that it's a line like most men

SPEAKER_03these days are overly emotional it's just a fact the testosterone is plummeting it's like failed Society it's

SPEAKER_03really bad and uh yeah like women kind of deny that they feel repulsed by that like intense uh emotionality

SPEAKER_03vulnerability from men before it's even appropriate based on the relationship um and like of course they want to know that a guy is capable of

SPEAKER_01defending himself and her word okay um oh wait we already did this one let's see we have uh yo Justin thank you for the 50 Brian watch your show at least

SPEAKER_01three times a week not including YouTube shorts awesome you were able to get Michael on the show the other day side note love the jacket much love keep up the great work hey Justin thank you so much for the uh Super Chat man really

SPEAKER_01appreciate thank you for the uh kind words man your your patronage is uh really appreciated then we have another one from you here hey Justin thank you because I misspelled your name Brian here's another 50 hey thank you man actually you're going to have to do another one because there's an X in

SPEAKER_01there the x is silent though you don't pronounce it it's like brixon thank you man appreciate it uh I believe this one came through as a TTS thank you man this one came through Bruce Wayne thank you

SPEAKER_01man uh yo wizard ape thank you for the 50 man there's a reason why Pearl is a 10 next to these girls someone like her carries herself so differently than these loose confused girls who would

SPEAKER_01more than likely ruin a grown man's life okay guys confirm or deny would you ruin a grown man's life I hope not Brey looking at you no no how would I ruin

SPEAKER_01their life by like what cheating on them by slashing their tires and bleaching all their clothes that's psychotic no you can be honest tell us just tell us

SPEAKER_12you slash the last guy no oh my God ad Brey okay no slashing the time not what about like um okay uh what about you Rachel I don't understand like ruin his whole life yeah

SPEAKER_03that's what I'm saying in what ways you know I saw the other girl in here say that like she was dating this guy just as like a psychological experiment that's crazy

SPEAKER_03that's crazy when I watched that I was like that girl has super low self-esteem because she just is desperate to have an impact on somebody's life and not be regarded with

SPEAKER_03indifference shout out Hensley shout out Hensley oh man like that looked really terrible for that it's kind of sad like if you feel that unimportant that you want to have like a negative impact on

SPEAKER_01someone's life just to be memorable yeah you know what's funny is like like no I don't think any other girl at the table said anything and to be fair I actually didn't say anything either cuz I kind of

SPEAKER_01thought she was joking but then like I watched it back I was like I was like yo this is [ __ ] [ __ ] up this is some heavy [ __ ] so uh but this is kind of funny like how she said she probably didn't even break that guy's heart

SPEAKER_03that's the reality she she yeah she flatters herself to think so but you know def mediocre as a person watch out Hensley might

SPEAKER_01stalk you okay good thing you live in West Virginia just kidding just kidding um okay so Rachel look you can be honest you would ruin a dude's life just say it I would do it are you saying you ruin a

SPEAKER_12guy's life not on purpose on accident on accident if I'm ruining a whole like guy's life like by breaking up with him or what no just like you know on purpose

SPEAKER_01like purpose I would say like I wouldn't purposely try to ruin a guy's life just you know like longlasting post-traumatic

SPEAKER_01stress you know no I'm lost deep wounds psychological damage is he going to cry about it I think that would be too vulnerable

SPEAKER_01what's the most [ __ ] up thing you've ever said to a guy oh there's a lot no like I can't I'm trying to think okay what about you no what was the okay

SPEAKER_01th this is the original Super Chat you're he's he's talking [ __ ] to you guys if you guys want to say anything to wizard ape well I'm not loose that's for sure well it depends if he like he's

SPEAKER_05calling you guys loose are you going to stand for this like if the are you going to I don't care what people think of me honestly you can like me or hate me or you know Everyone likes different things different people so I think it's all

SPEAKER_01subjective you know we're all worried you know yo Michael mro thank you for the 50 shout out to whatever podcast question for the ladies do you regret who you lost your virginity to yes or no

SPEAKER_04why let's start with you Brey um I don't really think it's that deep but yeah I guess because I wasn't dating the person I lost my virginity to tilt the

SPEAKER_01microphone down down down down I wasn't dating the person I lost my virginity too you weren't dat actually I yeah I would say I regret it was it a one night stand yeah yeah it was did you meet like the

SPEAKER_01so the guy you lost her virginity to was it kind of similar to her where was like well actually hers is a I knew him for a while you you knew him it wasn't like just you met him that night and no no okay what was the were you at a party or

SPEAKER_04no I was hanging out with friends hang out with friends okay and yeah I like didn't really want to do it but then I was like yikes good times you you didn't

SPEAKER_04no I like gave consent but like at the same time I was you I was 16 did as immature you regretted regreted after the fact okay uh what about you yes and

SPEAKER_12no because I wish I waited a little bit longer but I feel like I wanted to experience it it's normal but it was with a guy I was dating so okay yeah no

SPEAKER_02I still have a lot of love for him like he's very special to me so sure oh sorry okay net um no I don't regret it okay

SPEAKER_05what about you I don't regret it either he was nice to me um I was like 17 when I lost me virginity and um it was really sweet you know I don't regret it it was amazing and um we all actually showered

SPEAKER_05together afterwards and he gave me a massage so 10 out of 10

SPEAKER_03experience okay uh you already went what about you oh you have I haven't but I'm sure I won't regret it because about it'll be after I'm

SPEAKER_01married okay we have uh hoad thank you for the Australian 50 man appreciate it of girls the that lasts forever what happens when your son or daughter goes to school and everyone is laughing and circulating your pics and videos around

SPEAKER_05fast money slow problems men do care about your past honestly I think it doesn't really matter you know there's just I mean everyone's out there doing something and what you know everyone

SPEAKER_05watches porn so why that's not true either a lot of people do and I feel like it doesn't really matter you know like growing around a lot of generalities there's plenty of people in

SPEAKER_05really healthy really good relationships with children their mothers who yeah and do adult film and yeah it doesn't matter I think for everyone it's different we all have like different boundaries and things we're okay with you know but but

SPEAKER_05your kids it is what it is if they find it they find it I'm not going to like I'm obviously going to try to make sure they don't but if if they find it whatever you know so if everyone jumps off they find it by their peers send

SPEAKER_09it's really different do you they they would find this by other kids sending it to them then I feel a lot about the parents of the kids who are doing that

SPEAKER_09like why are you bullying a child and also kids are mean yeah bullying well then the parents should do a better job and teach their kids to stay in [ __ ]

SPEAKER_03line no I me yeah literally bullying is like a natural socialization tactic that is never going to be eradicated but also like you're not your parents and I feel like I'd rather get

SPEAKER_09bullied for something my parents did than for something I did and I feel like in the future we do have kids who are old enough to find out about it only

SPEAKER_09fans is pretty mainstream now so there's going to be a lot of other parents who or a lot of other kids who have parents um that have done only fans as well I think you're massively

SPEAKER_09overestimating the I mean it's pretty popular a lot of people signed up for only fans during your future children are unlikely to go to school with other people uh with

SPEAKER_03other kids whose adults did porn it's extremely unlikely and it's way more likely that they would get you basing that on though did you not get bullied in high school none of you guys got

SPEAKER_08bullied in high school so you think that behavior is somehow going to change with the the new generation that comes up behind you no I don't think it's going to change but why you think your kids are not going to get made fun of I think it says a lot more about that child

SPEAKER_03who's bullying it doesn't matter what consolation is that to your child who's experiencing bullying then you guys talk about this amongst yourselves I'll be right back it'll

SPEAKER_08still happen regardless no you can try to Shield your child from all the craziness that's out there there's going to be indiv my child will be laughing at them in our nicest house driving home in their nice ass car with their nice

SPEAKER_05clothes okay and then you'll live with the consequences of you know possi I think that just says a lot about our society as a whole that you can't just people are so mean and messed up and I think it's always been like that I think

SPEAKER_08it does says a lot about society when women just goes to sex as their first only choice as oh my God I need to have a way to survive so let me just sell my body in my pictures and hope make a

SPEAKER_09living off of that you guys will see anything wrong with that nothing at all all girls are going to get sexualized whether they like it or not we're we're just choosing to monetize it so do you

SPEAKER_08care about the repercussions that like there have been many sexual comments I've seen about you my but they don't know me I don't they can say whatever they want that's just the reality of

SPEAKER_08societ and the reality is people are probably dragging off to your Instagrams right now I don't good luck cuz all my [ __ ] is mostly commentary on politics I don't show that and I'm trying that's it doesn't matter okay so you think these

SPEAKER_10kids are going to matter about your kids when they go to school and they see your pictures all plastered you think those kids are going to care about your feelings Honestly though like my parents dressed me in velour tracksuits and I think it's what they did was worse than

SPEAKER_03if they had an only fans but it's not your it's not your par picking on you it's Society picking on you nicholet I think that you're making a huge mistake in saying I'm going to be sexualized

SPEAKER_03against my will anyway so I might as well do it myself and monetize it just you can't deny that that's not uh that

SPEAKER_03that is like spiritually and emotionally corrosive I don't know I'm pretty happy with my life so okay I guess money doesn't equal happiness I know it's

SPEAKER_03cheesy to say it but like kid if you have kids they might drive home in a nice car and have a nice house is it really worth but that's not going to console them I might not even have kids

SPEAKER_09in the future I'm living my life for myself right now I don't even have these imaginary children that we're talking about so I'm just going to live my life how I want so will you care well the I guess the whole thing is will you care

SPEAKER_08what people say then about you if you decide to keep going on with this content do you think that you are in a right to say that you can't speak to me like this because hey this is your own free will you did this

SPEAKER_09yourself I'm not saying they can't do it they can do people can do whatever they want I don't really give a [ __ ] what people do I'm going to do what I do and I don't like really give a [ __ ] what other people you're consenting to being

SPEAKER_03sexualized your future children if you have any do not consent to this material being public and available for other children to use as a bullying BL leging

SPEAKER_03against them well honestly like anything you do can be used against you your children people are going to regard you don't think that one is worse than the other exactly you don't think that you know being on a podcast and talking

SPEAKER_03about dating culture is like a little less embarrassing for a kid than their mother sucking dick on camera really I guess but there are degrees to this objective there is degrees and I feel

SPEAKER_05like people should just be taught to not bully and I mean obviously you can't control what other people are doing you can just control how you react to it if I have a kid one day and um they're getting bullied I'll just either I can

SPEAKER_05take it to a private school I can do home school or I can just go and just tell them to ignore it or like go up to the kid and be like don't bully my kid and haters AR at least you're

SPEAKER_08knowledgeable on that at least you're willing to accept that consequence I just think it's crazy to not even contemplate accepting that consequence as something that you're literally putting out for the whole entire Society

SPEAKER_05to see it's never going to go away you know me being a programmer I know this it's never going to go away it's out there I'm not ashamed me neither I'm okay with it I'm actually really proud

SPEAKER_03me too I think this Society could do with little more shame especially around issues of sex are you saying that we should bring oh hold on M Martin super

SPEAKER_00ch100 appreciate it let's not stop boning on the internet let's irradiate bullying from planet iriate amazing idea ladies how is NASA building rocket ships

SPEAKER_03with all of you on this podcast tonight your future regret will be fisa's gain yeah if women were in charge of the world then War wouldn't happen right

SPEAKER_01okay not sure about that one um never heard of Mary Scotland huh building rocket ships are any of you thinking about going into um rocket engineering

SPEAKER_12as a career I'm good if they affirmative action mean there confirmed rocket rocket scientist oh no I'm not that I think Rachel don't get down on yourself I think you'd make a fantastic rocket

SPEAKER_01scientist I wouldn't want to be one you wouldn't want to be one no thank you what if you got like a full ride sponsorship to um Costa Mesa City

SPEAKER_01College full ride no full ride no Costa Mesa City College no they're like number 13 no in the Southern California area no in rocket science I'm pretty sure they

SPEAKER_04have a program at City College for rocket science no no it's okay what about bre Brey probably not rocket science no it have to be something that I'm like passionate about like you can't succeed in something you're not pass brain surgery maybe I could see you

SPEAKER_05being a brain surgeon I wanted to be a nurse and athetist that's what I went to school for guys don't take nurses you know what I think is really really annoying like I feel like you should do whatever you want to do like whatever job you want and I feel like parents who

SPEAKER_05have kids they're like oh you have to be a doctor or a lawyer what happens if you're they're a doctor and they hate their job they're not good at it and then the Pati dies on the table so I feel like you should be passionate and enjoy what you do I think that's called

SPEAKER_01medical malpractice well you not like okay so that's like over the top but like if you're not passionate about it you're not going to be very good at it so you think you need to be passionate about something in order for it to be

SPEAKER_05your gainful employment well I mean you can have jobs that you don't like like you can let's say for example like I was working at the grocery store many years ago and I didn't like it but I still like worked hard and you know but obviously it was draining and I wasn't

SPEAKER_05happy like sex work yeah I do I enjoy it like you like [ __ ] other men I mean I like sex but I enjoy it more with my boyfriend obviously it's acting acting

SPEAKER_05is the same thing now obviously there's sex scenes and acting even and you know it's not mattress actress well like there's not always like like full-on sex but like even in movies there's like kissing or there's talking so it's like

SPEAKER_01you know wait so are we talking like Daniel D Lewis are you comparing like Daniel de Lewis acting

SPEAKER_05to obviously it's different to porn obvious obviously it's different but yeah do you think I suppose there's a craft to porn you know a lot of people

SPEAKER_05enjoy it you know and I feel like we all most a lot of people watch it there's there's like awards for porn right yeah definitely did you win the clette no but I was there in January you were there it

SPEAKER_09was fun wait did you did you get any awards no I went to the award show but I was just watching supporting I was at a booth at the convention did some collabs

SPEAKER_10if you could make like the same amount of money and just be an actress like would you rather do that or do you think you'd stick with what I'm a horrible actress yeah no don't say that right don't say that

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