Breckie Hill & Rachel Brockman HEATED DEBATE | Dating Talk #62

Date: 2023-03-13

Duration: 4h 38m

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SPEAKER_01welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast thanks for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that we're coming to you live from Santa Barbara California every Sunday and

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SPEAKER_01description go subscribe without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead um

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SPEAKER_02I'm Brey I'm 19 and I do social media I'm Rachel and I do social media as well and I'm 18 I'm Lauren I'm 21 and I do social media and I go to school where do

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SPEAKER_09you go to school um I go to school at Chapman University what do you study I study business marketing very cool I'm Nicola I'm 23 I'm a stripper and I do

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SPEAKER_05only fans Nikola can you push your cup to the center of the table for me just yeah I'm key I'm a stripper I do only fans as well as adult film and I'm 25 oh

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SPEAKER_10and I'm a posture check posture check better yeah it's all right okay Sarah what about you I'm Sarah I'm 24 and I'm a sales development

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SPEAKER_03representative I'm Mary Morgan I'm 22 and I am a podcaster SL commentator at timcast media if any of you are interested you can find me on pop

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SPEAKER_08culture crisis I'm Leah I'm a I'm 20 I'm I'm sorry look closer I'm Leah I am 36 years

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SPEAKER_08old I am a software developer and I do political and social commentary on you know crazy stuff that happens in our society very cool very cool um so just

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SPEAKER_01to bring it back to you three so you guys kind of undersold yourselves a little bit because you guys all have I I would say fairly large social media following so you didn't quite paint a total

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SPEAKER_01accurate picture of what you do because I mean someone could do social media and have 500 followers but you guys are like in the Millions on Tik Tok is that correct how like how many followers do you have on Tik Tok and Instagram I have

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SPEAKER_04two different Tik Tok accounts one of them has 1.8 I think and then the other has 1.5 and then on Instagram I think I'm at 560,000 okay I have 2.9

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SPEAKER_12on Tik Tok and then casual 2.9 600,000 around that on Instagram okay what about you well mine's more of a

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SPEAKER_02hobby so like on Tik Tok I think I have like 108k and then on Instagram um 89k something like that okay uh and what

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SPEAKER_01kind of stuff do you guys post on like little dances yeah mostly dancing videos on Tik Tok okay honestly I just do whatever is like trending like the for

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SPEAKER_01you page same okay kind of just whatever we feel like okay cool cool cool um so we're going to go around the table once

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SPEAKER_01more current relationship status so are you single situationship relationship and what is or was your longest relationship go ahead I'm single right

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SPEAKER_04now but my longest relationship was with my last boyfriend ex-boyfriend for 7 months okay I'm single also and my

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SPEAKER_01longest was a year like on and off I'm single mine was like four or five years four or five years that so wait from what age to what age was that

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SPEAKER_02relationship let me see it's like kind of complicated I'd say like 15 16 up until a year ago or two so it's around

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SPEAKER_01around 20 yeah okay so it's like you know fresh or it's how when did you break

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SPEAKER_09up um last last year yeah okay um I'm single and my longest relationship was 7 years

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SPEAKER_05damn I'm engaged and I've been with my man for about five years engaged 5 years how long have you been engaged uh since like 2021 oh you just remember you got

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SPEAKER_03to speak into microphone since like a couple years ago like 2021 okay Sarah I'm single and my longest relationship was a year and a

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SPEAKER_03half um I'm currently in a relationship have been for about eight or nine months and it's also the only relationship I've been in okay so currently in a

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SPEAKER_01relationship 8 to nine months what about you I'm single and the longest I've been in a relationship was a year and a half a year and a half mhm okay when was that cuz you're currently you're you said

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SPEAKER_01you're 36 right yes uh when did that relationship take place I was was 19 years old wait n okay so 19 to 20 would you say okay and you said it was a year

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SPEAKER_01and a half yeah okay um and so why haven't you dated in that 16e period or been in a relationship I would

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SPEAKER_08say well I've lived many different lives military and then school so I started late into the mic sorry I started late so you know I'm that cautionary tell uh

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SPEAKER_08what branch of the military were you you in army army okay how long were you enlisted or officer I was enlisted for 10 years okay well what rank did you make

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SPEAKER_08it to well E4 I did five active and the rest reserves part-time did you date was this relationship while you were in the military um this was my first

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SPEAKER_01relationship before going into the military yeah okay and uh when did you enlist when you were 20 21 20 okay got it did you do any

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SPEAKER_08dating while in the military um yes and then I stopped and that was probably a

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SPEAKER_01big mistake you stopped dating yeah in the military mhm okay got it okay so okay we got a lot of single people here

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SPEAKER_01with the exception of engaged and relationship 8 to nine months okay um so I want to come back to you guys you guys live in LA correct yes we just well we

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SPEAKER_12just moved here like were you guys friends from back home or no we met through social media and I met her first I think yes and yeah me and Rachel met

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SPEAKER_04in September or August September yeah okay yeah and then we just decided to move here I was at University of Miami and we wanted to live together when I was still

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SPEAKER_04at school so we couldn't but I ended up leaving school and now we live together in LA rock and roll is it like an influencer house or whatever no it's just us in an apartment you to apartment

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SPEAKER_01okay okay got it um do you guys move in those circles like all the LA Tik Tok influencer people or you me you kind of well you kind of do you do you do collaborations do you oh yeah uh

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SPEAKER_12socialize with these people or you guys kind of Do Your Own Thing I mean we do socialize but we kind of like sticking to our own thing but um recently we've been going a lot of streams and stuff

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SPEAKER_01and like trying to make connections with people a lot of streams yeah any anyone that I might have heard of or Aiden yeah aen recently yeah it a week ago yeah how did that go it was good it was

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SPEAKER_04interesting the people that I went on the E dates with were fun oh you went on E dates yeah were you guys live with him or you just went on an eatee like it was uh virtual well Aiden was on the stream but he was like adding people to the EES

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SPEAKER_04but you were there in person no no I was just what what is an e dat um they pick people like streamers and they try to like convince you that they're the best

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SPEAKER_04guy you like I think there's like 10 guys and you have to rate them and then there's one winner of the E date why is it called e dat because it's on oh it's

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SPEAKER_01all internet on yeah okay you know that that whole thing um never heard of this so okay so you were on Aiden's stream um

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SPEAKER_01any other notable people that I may have heard of um clicks clicks okay gamer guy yeah

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SPEAKER_12we can talk about gaming a little down the road um so and what are you guys doing in these streams just like background characters no like that one

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SPEAKER_12we were just like we play Twister oh okay just kicking it yeah it was like chill chill sweet uh and were you involved in in this or not I was just in

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SPEAKER_01the background in the background you know okay sure okay cool um so do you guys date other people in the

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SPEAKER_12influencer realm I've tried really have yeah um but it just seems to never work with social media

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SPEAKER_12people okay yeah want to explain yeah do you want to well the guy that I dated for like a year on and off we both started like social media around the

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SPEAKER_12same time and we like helped each other grow and everything and then he got basically offered to be in like hype house the you know content house and he like ended things with me because he

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SPEAKER_12said he needed to focus on the house do you think that he was with you for clout all along um I wouldn't say that I wouldn't say that no but and why was it on and off there's just things happened

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SPEAKER_12well okay what were the things um I don't know if I want to talk about it you're on a podcast you got to talk about it know this person while you're here um I'll think about she's putting

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SPEAKER_03on the heat she's turning on the heat God damn godamn scared you didn't have to mention that it was on and off you know right I don't know I feel like I was young and we had like little

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SPEAKER_12arguments and like we wouldn't talk for a little bit and then we talk again yeah have was 16 I mean relationships they're never just straightforward and that easy all the time you know yeah why' you say

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SPEAKER_03that well I mean relationship what were you arguing about what do 17-year-olds have to argue

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SPEAKER_01about I don't know I I can imagine a lot of things actually but yeah yeah well okay so some guy in the hype house what and just my viewers probably have no

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SPEAKER_12idea what that is that's like it's a Content house a bunch of influencers like live in a house and they make videos and stuff and yep that's what a Content house is got it okay so you two

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SPEAKER_01are stripper and you do you do only fans also okay um oh by the way Nicolette can you show

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SPEAKER_01us what you got Nicollet brought a gift for me Brian was begging me I was not to bring I was not begging she insisted on

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SPEAKER_01on on bringing apparently Nicollet has a flashlight line huh yeah did they reach out to you or did you reach out to them like please mold me I was at an

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SPEAKER_09event and they were there and they were like hey do you want to make a flashlight and I was like yeah and you're like yeah and then what did they say and then so it's not how you think

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SPEAKER_09they make it actually I thought it would be like a clona Wily you know things but um they actually like they don't actually mold it they take a

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SPEAKER_09photo and um I guess they just go based off of the photo based off the photo MH okay yeah good times please remove those from the table that's gross I'm

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SPEAKER_01uncomfortable damn shots fired at nicholet okay um okay so wait so you guys mentioned clicks are any of you dating him is he dating someone I don't know um I don't streamer by the way no

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SPEAKER_01but yeah we're just friends okay got it okay um so both of you do only fans how much do you make Nicollet I make a lot how much per month I think um it's like

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SPEAKER_09kind of tacky to say like exact how much money you make I mean it's tacky to be on only fans in the first place but shots fired I mean everyone's entit to

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SPEAKER_09their own opinion um that's like bad vibes right there like oh my god um disagreement is bad vibes but

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SPEAKER_09yeah I do well I mean okay I drive a nice car can like live in a nice area do you want to give us a range is it five

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SPEAKER_03figures a month yeah six figures a month five five mid five low five um varies why are you being so Cy about it why don't you want us to know cuz on patreon

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SPEAKER_01they show the amount that people make not always it can be hidden I'm not on patreon yeah she's too she doesn't do patreon patreon's tacky I I have a

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SPEAKER_01patreon by the way I also have an only fan so guys onlyfans.com whatever uh go go subscribe there's nothing on there but um perhaps collab in the future who knows with Kik it's actually um Kiki

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SPEAKER_05over there who there's some photos of her okay um so what about you how much do you make on only fans um I don't make like a lot but I say just repeat that into the microphone so they can hear you not like a lot but like maybe like 3,000

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SPEAKER_054,000 bucks a month I don't okay and you strip yeah how much do you work at the Rhino no actually I work in Hollywood um you commute all the way yeah cuz uh I used to live in Hollywood uh before 2020

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SPEAKER_05and I just realized I love when in Santa Barbara out here so I'm like I'll just move here where it's like chill Little Beach town and sure I just I'm so comfortable in Hollywood and I've been at the clubs out there for like since 2019 so I'm kind of like just comfortable with it you know I have

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SPEAKER_05multiple clubs that I go to how much do you make a night uh it really varies but I'd say like on a really crappy night you can go home with like 200 on like a really really good night it could be

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SPEAKER_01like thousands okay good times okay so pretty much almost everyone here is single besides you and uh Mary so

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SPEAKER_01in today's day and age what does being single actually mean so we'll start with you so you're single yeah how long have you been

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SPEAKER_04single um I think 3 months yeah three months three months yeah and that's is that when your longest relationship ended yes yes I mean we were talking like still

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SPEAKER_04after but uh we ended up cutting off contact completely a little bit ago okay why did he dump you you um we were fighting a lot it was kind of mutual like it was

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SPEAKER_01Mutual you assumed that she got dumb just being toxic okay uh so are you are you dating what what are

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SPEAKER_04you doing I don't think I want to date anyone right now no I want to like I don't know no what do you want to

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SPEAKER_01do um be single for now but what okay so but are you talking toy guys are you hooking up with guys what What's um there's one guy that I'm talking to Okay

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SPEAKER_04and when you say talking what do you mean just like hanging out talking on text Snapchat FaceTime hanging out yeah okay does that I mean hooking up

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SPEAKER_04or no maybe okay fair enough okay so yes that's what you're saying about situationship yeah yeah situation situationship fun yeah yeah by the way you do have to talk into the microphone

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SPEAKER_01so they can hear you so those are what was the question yes uh so single yeah what what does that mean to you are you in a situationship is there one guy that you're kind of talking to I mean not

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SPEAKER_12really like I feel like talking and like dating is a little different I think like um what is talking I'm like open to talking to guys like getting to know guys and stuff but I'm not dating them

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SPEAKER_12until like we actually go out and like you know go on dates so just like hooking up no oh like actual Talking literally talking oh that sounds

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SPEAKER_01yep yeah you have to get to know people yeah before getting into relationship before any of that okay well yeah we'll come back to that topic um so nobody in

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SPEAKER_01recent history nothing no so you're forever alone maybe okay maybe it's that's a whatever exclusive she is forever alone

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SPEAKER_02what about you um yeah single um since my obviously very long relationship okay I was trying to think about the time like I think it was now it's now been two years I think two years because the year just started and has there been

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SPEAKER_02anything in between a little situationship here there like not really honestly I think that's because I'm I'm not like picky but I'm very like specific like I don't like to like waste my time you know what I mean I mean

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SPEAKER_02considering like how long that I've been in a relationship like I don't do things you know what do you mean waste my time what do you mean you don't do things it's like I guess I don't like entertain things it's like oh like if I don't actually like really like you like I'm

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SPEAKER_02not going to you know like talk to you yeah you you said you're picky not like picky I'm just very I know what I want if that makes any sense what is it that you want yeah what do you want oh jeez

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SPEAKER_02um I'm not think I'm not someone who like puts people in a bubble or you know how like guys will say oh like what what's your type or like what kind of guy do you

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SPEAKER_02like I I I never give them an answer because I like to take people as they are you know what I mean like when you meet someone it's like you get to know their personality like who they are like as a person like you're not

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SPEAKER_03trying to put them in a box like oh you're tall or like oh you do this you're do that so you're just like kind of looking for this intangible quality6 donated $100 thank you man go

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SPEAKER_08Army watch out Brian has the secret fetish for combat boots

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SPEAKER_01what okay yo Hal Spartan thank you man appreciate it um I don't think I've ever dated a girl who was who is in or was in

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SPEAKER_01the military so but uh watch out apparently okay so we were interrogating you on your uh what was it your type I don't have a type you don't have

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SPEAKER_02a type personality personality yeah no I'm okay what's what are the personality traits you like well then again that goes back to like me not being like super putting

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SPEAKER_02people in a box I think like getting to know someone's personality like knowing that they're genuine I guess funny guys oh man bro does well it just like is

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SPEAKER_08there anything you could list off like yeah everyone has prejudices like come on loyalty that's cat that's that's cat loyalty you know like do you want a

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SPEAKER_03smart guy or a himbo do you want uh I had a guy who's like into hiking or like I don't know like what's

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SPEAKER_01no I'm I'm honestly like not that specific like that okay we can let's go around the table on this we'll start on height so how T are you I'm 5 foot three

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SPEAKER_04do you have a height preference when it comes to dating men anything above 5 fo8 I'd say anything about okay got it yeah

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SPEAKER_01so bare minimum 58 the people I've dated have been really like abnormally tall my last boyfriend was 6'4 last boyfriend 6'4 yeah but you said the people you've dated have been abnormally tall so

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SPEAKER_01besides the 6'4 guy how how tall are we talking maybe some of 62 and 61 62 61 64 okay yeah got it

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SPEAKER_01but hypothetically 5'8 and above okay gotcha but all the boyfriends have been fairly abnormally tall yeah okay what about you um I'm 5'1 and honestly as

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SPEAKER_01long as they're taller than me and yeah 53 yeah no problem okay no problem short Kings short Kings her DMS are open um what of the guys you have dated though

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SPEAKER_02how tall have they been like five eight 59 okay yeah it's about that's average height so You' kind of expect that yeah what about you I usually say honestly

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SPEAKER_02taller than me I'm 5'2 um okay so 5'3 cool I'd say like the guys that I've usually liked they've been like at least

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SPEAKER_015'9 okay 510 all right wait oh the the guys you've dated though how tall have they been I think he was

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SPEAKER_09510 510 okay Nicollet the only guy that I've dated was 5'9 so I don't think that's like that

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SPEAKER_05tall you've only dated one guy yeah for seven years oh all right okay what about you uh I'm 5'5 and my boyfriend's 5'11 so I don't really

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SPEAKER_10have a hyp preference but I would say 58 would probably be my cut off so 5'8 or taller so I'm 5'7 and honestly if

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SPEAKER_10they're like my height or taller like I think wrestlers are like the same size for like a reason I just don't want to be I don't want to be like taller and

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SPEAKER_10feel like we look like you know like the dragon from Shrek and Donkey I don't want that

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SPEAKER_10Vibe but yeah if they're my if they're 5' seven or taller um for sure okay wrestlers is that your type huh wrestlers no I'm just saying like

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SPEAKER_03wrestlers are like usually like a weight match and oh okay so it goes the same for height

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SPEAKER_01yeah like a height match yeah okay I'll have you know um Sarah that I actually I did junior varsity in high

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SPEAKER_03school so okay um the Sparks are flying what about you Mary what's up I am 5'1 and my boyfriend is five six or seven

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SPEAKER_08okay don't really have a cut off never did good times what about you I'm 5'9 I've dated shorter guys but mostly

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SPEAKER_03average around my height are taller okay I have a little bit of a take um I think that some tall guys uh especially over 6 foot have a sort of entitled attitude cuz they think that they don't have to

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SPEAKER_08like try or make an effort they just think they can like Coast on being tall do you guys feel the same yeah I've never had that 5'9 so I

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SPEAKER_01never really seen that at all I don't know I've heard that about men with big dicks I've heard

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SPEAKER_01that I heard if you're sleeping around I haven't heard the the height one though that one's new that one's new I always thought that okay all right so uh Eric

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SPEAKER_01can you pull up let's see do let me do a couple super chats here all right um just a reminder guys uh all the super chat and donation triggers are in the description we have Reed TTS um if you

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SPEAKER_01on a scale of 1 to 10 Nicollet we're going to start with you go ahead why me because one one more time 10 okay let's

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SPEAKER_13go this way um I'd say like seven on a good day okay um I would

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SPEAKER_13give myself an eight maybe like seven or eight I would say like a seven but if I'm like drunk I'll be like

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SPEAKER_0110 I'd say like a six right I'm going to go with a safe seven a six and a half okay all right that is the ratings for

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SPEAKER_01tonight Nicollet you're the most beautiful girl here um I think we're all beautiful true hold on KiKi wants to say something

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SPEAKER_01like no wow okay I think honestly no offense Nica Kiki's the only 10 here yeah Kiki is a bad [ __ ] she is a bad [ __ ] okay

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SPEAKER_01so oh my God okay what's so I want to um go back to this so have any of you ever had a ho

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SPEAKER_01phase Nicollet let's start with you I'm just picking on you tonight I guess um actually you you know what let's start over here I thought about

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SPEAKER_08it and then I just couldn't do it y'all just couldn't do it I was like [ __ ] that not the reputation it wasn't worth it I just seen too many girls go through it

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SPEAKER_08I'm like yeah I'll wait I'll wait I'll just wait I just if anything I became more celibate more celibate

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SPEAKER_03okay okay um I've never had a ho phase I never thought about it never considered it um I'm saving sex for

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SPEAKER_01marriage good for you huh really you don't I that's cool just you don't hear that very often yeah especially here in

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SPEAKER_01California yeah I but you're not from California I'm not from California so okay um waiting till marriage cool uh so never there I assume there's no way to have a HOAs if you waiting till marriage

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SPEAKER_01is it like a wait hold on just to clarify though you're waiting until marriage correct but is it like a born again thing no okay so no never never

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SPEAKER_10never I am a virgin got it yeah Sarah um no I didn't have a hze I definitely wanted to at the beginning of college but didn't

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SPEAKER_10succeed you didn't succeed what does that mean no I was weird I was very much like I don't know like well I I knew that that

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SPEAKER_10but I don't I was really shy and yeah I was like I lost my virginity really late um and all of my friends were like why aren't you curious like you should lose

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SPEAKER_10your virginity and I was like I'm trying what do you consider late um I was 19 oh that's not late at all I guess like relatively by like my friend group standard and like all the people around

00:31:51

SPEAKER_10me I felt like it was where where did you go to school I went to Princeton H yeah so yeah there there were some late bloomers at Princeton I could see that so I wasn't completely

00:32:02

SPEAKER_01alone that's a private school you right um or is it it's is it public it's private right it's private yeah it's ivy league but private are all the Ivy Leagues private any in any case doesn't

00:32:13

SPEAKER_01really matter except for Penn State is Penn State in I I believe it it has been it was ranked at one point okay but so no no ho fiz no ho phase no ho phase although you were nearly peer pressured

00:32:26

SPEAKER_10and you failed apparently failed but then like once I did you know lose my virginity I was like okay like don't need to do that again no I'm kidding I I I just I don't know I've never I've

00:32:37

SPEAKER_10always like taken my time trying to get to know people was it with a boyfriend or just like a hookup oh it was with a hookup like yeah I kind of knew of him

00:32:47

SPEAKER_10but he didn't know me and then um it like I don't know I was like I was so happy it's like a stalker you were hiding in the bushes and [ __ ] no no it wasn't like a stalker situation I just

00:32:59

SPEAKER_10like um I thought he was like really cute and yeah like he happened to come up to me at a party and I was like elated um although yeah it yeah but then

00:33:11

SPEAKER_10um I saw him again like a couple weeks later and yeah he he pretended not to know me so wait so you you were aware of

00:33:21

SPEAKER_10him was he an athlete or something yeah like so I um I was a runner but like not a good one um and I was just like a nerd and I like would literally watch running like the

00:33:33

SPEAKER_10sport like I would watch the New York City marathon I was just yeah that's part of the reason why I [Laughter]

00:33:43

SPEAKER_01was sorry um you watched running I watched running sounds riveting Good

00:33:50

SPEAKER_01Times yeah can you take this off um so okay you he was a runner too what

00:33:58

SPEAKER_10was what was the deal yeah is he a sprinter no distance long distance Long yeah long distance skinny

00:34:08

SPEAKER_01gangly okay I could see a sprinter but a distance Runner okay so you saw him in the party he or he came up to you at the party yeah but you had a major crush on the dude mhm and

00:34:22

SPEAKER_03then he approached you and then you hooked up that night yeah we did okay so you lost your virginity one night stand mhm so he he didn't he didn't know that you were losing your virginity did you tell him um I think I did what a legend

00:34:36

SPEAKER_01okay what he say he was just like okay you didn't care okay okay and then uh and it was just a one time there wasn't like a

00:34:45

SPEAKER_10secondary hookup or no did you want um another hookup I mean I was just so inexperienced and like anxious and um

00:34:56

SPEAKER_01yeah just yeah I don't know I feel like I really like late bloomer if if you could go go back would you want your first time to go down

00:35:07

SPEAKER_10differently or no regrets um I I'm fine with it like I didn't get um into a relationship for another like year and a few months

00:35:18

SPEAKER_10and I was fine like kind of having like a little bit of experience under my belt so you you felt like you felt nothing thing from from that at all I mean I was

00:35:30

SPEAKER_10it was like a introduction into kind of like you know I had no idea like that people would like hook up with other people and then just like never talk to them again so it was like an intro into that and I feel like kind a bad thing

00:35:42

SPEAKER_10though right yeah something you don't want to be introduced to it's not ideal but I feel like I needed to learn one way or another learn one Lear learn that

00:35:53

SPEAKER_10like um the sex well being ignored yeah like that guy approach like hookups like differently than how I would or how like

00:36:03

SPEAKER_01yeah I don't know okay so you said it was at the party mhm was there alcohol involved or yeah were you

00:36:14

SPEAKER_01tanked oh yeah for sure oh good times okay so but you okay so you said that you attempted to have a HOAs so

00:36:23

SPEAKER_10what like you just struck out like I mean no I I could never go up to people or anything like that I was just like totally open to it because all of my

00:36:34

SPEAKER_10friends were doing it and I was like oh that seems cool but then um yeah like I was just that friend that like um guys would be like talking to my friends and

00:36:44

SPEAKER_10I'd be like standing there and I was like but it's it's life were you an sority at Princeton no there wasn't a

00:36:55

SPEAKER_10big culture but we did have like coed sororities kind of they were called eating clubs it's like so cringey to even say that but I was in one of those for a while an

00:37:06

SPEAKER_10eating they're called eating clubs but they're like co-ed like frat sororities like Social Scene see that's what it sounds like but really they were just like Social Clubs sure okay got it okay

00:37:18

SPEAKER_05uh ever had a HOAs I'm currently in my ho phas wait hold on but you're engaged but you're engag so is it an open for only fans and stuff open so for pay oh can

00:37:30

SPEAKER_01you scoot your microphone that way just scoot it over that way and then when speaking I want you to do like you can can you pull the chair into the table a little bit so you get a little closer

00:37:39

SPEAKER_01there you go um so you're in your hoase but you're engaged so is it an open relationship so yes and no I am

00:37:48

SPEAKER_05monogamous but I do things for um pay I do it for money that doesn't mean you're monogamous though you when you say you do things for pay what do you mean you

00:37:58

SPEAKER_01know like only fans you know my adult films and you know stripping escorting yeah or stripping just stripping no no no but you you say you do things for pay

00:38:08

SPEAKER_05so are you talking prostitution no okay that's no I do like adult film and stuff but like I do dancing at the clubs and stuff and I'm like get custom videos on

00:38:18

SPEAKER_01only fans or something okay when you say you do adult film are you talking BG boy girl yeah both uh girl girl and boy girl and are you doing the with your partner

00:38:28

SPEAKER_05or with just other male Talent honestly just whoever they book me with but I wanted to do it with my boyfriend but he's kind of shy he's not really into it so and so you did you say your

00:38:39

SPEAKER_01relationship is it monogamous mhm but you're sleeping with you're the other male talent I know crazy right well I mean it's not unheard of but um so how does he feel about that he's okay we

00:38:52

SPEAKER_05both get to travel and make money so and he knows that I always come back to him after you know he has no qualms about it no and honestly I was like I asked him for permission like I used to work in grocery stores like five years ago when

00:39:05

SPEAKER_05like when I first met him and I was like Hey like we were really struggling at one point and I was like hey is it cool if I dance at this club if you don't want me to I won't but he's been very supportive the whole time and I'm like

00:39:16

SPEAKER_01if he wanted me to quit to this day I'd be like okay you know so um wait so you met him and then you

00:39:26

SPEAKER_01were not doing um like only fans or any no when met met him I was like normal in a grocery store yeah like retail and stuff okay so it's

00:39:38

SPEAKER_01not like he knew going into the relationship like okay she does neither one of us knew but you had not done any only fans or any uh adult content prior to the

00:39:49

SPEAKER_05relationship NOP okay so you guys had been dating for 5 years you're engaged um and then you was it something he brought up or did you bring up I actually brought it up because we were both struggling and stuff and uh I just

00:40:01

SPEAKER_05wanted to try something else you know cuz I was sick of you know I was like being broke yeah exactly and I just wanted a change of pace I wanted some more money and I wanted to be able to

00:40:10

SPEAKER_01pay my bills and not struggle you know what what was your first foray into adult content was it straight to only fans straight to just traditional uh

00:40:22

SPEAKER_05adult industry so my first thing into the sex work industry was stripping stripping okay okay and then after

00:40:31

SPEAKER_01stripping it was only fans and then it was adult film got it hey Carson can you open up the door it's a little stuffy um okay

00:40:42

SPEAKER_01so you did you approach him and say Hey I want to start doing scenes with men you you told him that mm cuz OB you said it started with

00:40:52

SPEAKER_01stripping right so I assume there's perhaps more money to be made doing BG content boy girl

00:41:02

SPEAKER_05content so he didn't have any potential issues or concerns about it just like no I I asked him and at first I was like nervous but I had someone actually reach out to me on Instagram and they're like

00:41:15

SPEAKER_05hey are you interested in doing adult film and I was like um I guess at first I was like no but then all the Strip Clubs closed during uh Co and actually I

00:41:25

SPEAKER_05started adult film during Co because like shoot I needed some money but my boyfriend I was like are you cool if I do this if you don't want me to do it I won't do it but you know it's like so he's been very supportive so can you

00:41:39

SPEAKER_01continue scooting the microphone a little bit that way I just don't want yourh face to be blocked you can keep scooting keep scooting um

00:41:48

SPEAKER_01so no no issues with it no not at all did you say you did have you done escorting at all mm so it's all within the context of film yeah like only fans

00:41:59

SPEAKER_05dancing at the clubs and uh adult film yeah okay you make more money than him right yeah maybe that's why he's okay with it I think so too but I it's it's

00:42:11

SPEAKER_05our money you know and like uh he he still works you know um he sells guitars and stuff and uh amps he's very into music you know okay so you like are kind

00:42:21

SPEAKER_05of a sugar mommy yes and no but we both bring in money he makes like I would say he makes like not as much as I make but he still makes quite a bit cuz he does

00:42:32

SPEAKER_01mainly like gigs and stuff with music and selling gear and stuff so how many scenes boy girl scenes with new people would you say you do a month uh

00:42:43

SPEAKER_05currently I haven't worked in like a few months but um let's say the peak uh I think the most I ever did in a month was like maybe six scenes or seven

00:42:54

SPEAKER_05six okay how long have you guys been how long have you been doing this while you guys have been together um I started

00:43:02

SPEAKER_05dancing in 2019 so after dancing so um 2019 a few years how long do you think he'll stay around if you're doing we're together forever I'm not even worried

00:43:14

SPEAKER_05about it are you sure I've never been so sure about somebody to be honest like I always thought I was like really weird and never would find anybody and end up with a bunch of cats but no literally like I found him and we both have like a

00:43:24

SPEAKER_08lot in common like I have wavy messy hair we both like rock and roll um yeah I'm just very happy I found my person so why did you choose sex as a way to make

00:43:35

SPEAKER_05money instead of going through something else I have to understand this um I'm lazy it's easy easy money and everyone's doing it now she's honest she's honest

00:43:47

SPEAKER_05um I me at least you're honest you're saying it's easy I just don't think that it is as easy as you're saying not like easy mentally sometimes for a lot of people but like I would say it's yeah

00:43:59

SPEAKER_05it's quick you know you go there you go to the club and you dance and you go home with hundreds or thousands or whatever the night may bring in and it's fun you know I get to you know I get to drink my um vodka or whatever at the

00:44:11

SPEAKER_05club and I'll be like look baby look how much I made tonight he's like I'm so proud of you let's cuz like we travel a lot so like oh let's go to cornado island or something now and let's go spend it do you not feel like a piece of

00:44:22

SPEAKER_08yourself like do you not feel like a piece of yourself like is like gone away or every single time you sleep with another person or do something else like I used to I used to think like that but

00:44:33

SPEAKER_05then I realized nothing I mean it's just I don't know I don't think it's that big of a deal like you know only because he's cool with it and it's everyone's

00:44:43

SPEAKER_01doing it now and us I feel like would you um would you be okay with uh if he started doing porn and like you'd be fine with him sleeping with other women

00:44:54

SPEAKER_01it's only fair you know I suppose it is would you be would you be okay with him sleeping with other women outside of work like it was yeah oh yeah oh

00:45:06

SPEAKER_01okay well I I mean I'll say this I'll let you go just after this um a lot of I I mean you found a guy who's going to tolerate that but a lot of men are going

00:45:16

SPEAKER_05to have a major issue with their girlfriend [ __ ] other dudes on camera yeah totally understandable I mean each relationship has its own boundaries and whatever so you know what

00:45:27

SPEAKER_05is it that you and your fiance have that is just yours then um each other and our sex is different it's more emotional it's not like it doesn't feel like a job whereas

00:45:38

SPEAKER_00when I'm on film I I do enjoy what I do dank Nick donated $100 for the redheads doing movies does your boyfriend kiss you on the mouth when you come home from one of those

00:45:50

SPEAKER_05boy/girl movies yes but I brush my teeth of course beforehand because hygiene and you always get tested all the time to make sure you're clean and all that so

00:46:00

SPEAKER_01yeah I mean isn't there there although you get tested I mean there is certainly is he not aware that there is an increased STD risk oh no he's aware

00:46:10

SPEAKER_01we're both aware CU I I've heard that I mean sure like they test for you know certain things but and perhaps you can weigh in on this but is it I don't know

00:46:20

SPEAKER_05if it's like full panel yeah they do they do HPV herpes all of that yeah they do the whole thing they do HPV but they don't do

00:46:31

SPEAKER_01herpes isn't it the case like most girls who do porn like they they eventually not eventually because it's not a a guarantee but they'll get either HPV or

00:46:42

SPEAKER_09herpes like it's for sure going to happen I'm not sure about that statistic but there I should say for sure but there's something called the past past it's like the past past p a SS

00:46:56

SPEAKER_09they kind of regulate the testing standards for the porn industry um and personally I go to my doctor to get a full panel as well if I'm going to perform cuz they at your

00:47:07

SPEAKER_09doctor they can check for like everything and do like a real full panel um but Talent testing in like um places like that test for the industry um they each have their

00:47:20

SPEAKER_09different full panels but um I don't think herpes is on any of them yeah well I mean I assume it's pretty common like a lot of people have herpes and they don't even know in the industry or in

00:47:32

SPEAKER_01not even just in real life well I mean there's uh there's two kinds there's what is it hsv1 and hsv2 and they manifest a little differently

00:47:43

SPEAKER_01but okay so you're dating a guy you're engaged to a guy he's okay with you uh hoing around making a bank yeah

00:47:53

SPEAKER_03he's porn uh have you ever thought that he's using you for money no because we were both together when we both had no money yeah but then this this presented

00:48:04

SPEAKER_05itself as a solution Started From The Bottom I thought we're together and like I have access to all the bank accounts like if he if he was spending something and I didn't know I would know like I

00:48:16

SPEAKER_03have another question I'm not worried really you said that you used to feel oh yeah like you were losing a part of yourself or something some discomfort

00:48:27

SPEAKER_05other people it sounds like you kind of like repressed that maybe a little bit but every job has its ups and downs and you know there's people working five days a week eight hours a day and

00:48:39

SPEAKER_08they're you know selling their soul in different ways so got it oh so did you want to go yeah um so when you said that um you started at first started having that feeling you don't think maybe

00:48:51

SPEAKER_08something came across his mind where maybe he changed and like oh maybe it might have it does affect me but I'm just going to repress it and keep it down and not tell her like you ever

00:49:01

SPEAKER_05thought that maybe he went through the same feelings too he's just not we're we're very open um I always say if he needs to talk I'm totally open you know I feel like the universe will do what

00:49:13

SPEAKER_01it's supposed to do so like people will talk if they want to talk yo uh guys in the chat um is there a a frame rate issue I don't know I'm the asteroid came in very jittery so I'm just trying to

00:49:25

SPEAKER_01assess if there's a weird weird frame rate issue going on uh how's the frame rate look guys how's the FPS let me know one in the chat if it looks good two in the chat if the FPS is scuffed um by the

00:49:35

SPEAKER_01way there's 500 excuse me 5,500 of you watching live right now yo the chat is on fire thank you guys so

00:49:46

SPEAKER_01much for tuning in um okay so uh really quick I oh H phase Nicollet have you ever had a h phase

00:49:56

SPEAKER_01little one a little one mhm so like what three dudes a week or what um five dudes in one year five dudes in one year yeah I mean that's

00:50:08

SPEAKER_01kind of tame for La that's like really tame I mean okay um what about you ever had a ho face no because and I bring this up

00:50:18

SPEAKER_01because we had a girl on uh UCSB student 18 or 19 two shows ago and maybe two three shows ago and she said she had one

00:50:28

SPEAKER_01main hoe she had a main hoe and then four side hoes she was she was dating Five Guys not the restaurant chain like

00:50:38

SPEAKER_01five did they know about each other she said no but so she said one main guy four side guys five total and she said

00:50:47

SPEAKER_01she's in a hes so kind of in that realm so but no h honestly no I got depressed and like

00:50:58

SPEAKER_01didn't want to talk to any guys and I'm finally like now starting to talk again you got depressed yeah I was really sad it was like the first person I loved so oh you got bummed out over the

00:51:10

SPEAKER_01relationship my breakup yeah okay not what you did to Timmy okay what about you no I prefer dating you prefer dating yeah as opposed to like up with guys got

00:51:22

SPEAKER_01it got it got it um kind of related to that we'll go around the table really quick what's the most amount of guys that you've hooked up with in a 72-hour

00:51:31

SPEAKER_01Period start over here one one zero one in what in a 72-hour period

00:51:41

SPEAKER_13two two because it was a threesome oh thank you for clarifying I don't do hookups so I can't okay so one one one

00:51:51

SPEAKER_01oh wow okay we got a tame panel tonight okay um nicholet can you please put the fleshlights back on the table momentarily because I have a question related to

00:52:04

SPEAKER_01it yes okay so ladies this is a male uh male sex toy would it be let's say you're at your

00:52:15

SPEAKER_01boyfriend's house you've been dating him for three months and you discover somehow I don't know maybe he left it

00:52:23

SPEAKER_01out you discover that he has one of nicolet's fleshlights do you think of do you look at him differently because he has a

00:52:37

SPEAKER_01pocket [ __ ] h no because girls have vibrators right yeah so I agree with that nette what if you go to a dude's house you've been

00:52:46

SPEAKER_01dating him for three months and he has one of your pocket he got he has one of your fleshlights you're like what the [ __ ] well if it's one of mine that's kind of weird I I gu be like oh thanks I get

00:52:59

SPEAKER_01commission like he had it before he met you I be like um he'd be like my

00:53:07

SPEAKER_09Haley what my my what my Haley Bieber oh God that's the name of like my fan it's like a thing right now wait I'm confused explain you want to know like the drama

00:53:20

SPEAKER_09he Bieber Justin Bieber had the pocket Bieber no and then they got married yeah yeah so

00:53:29

SPEAKER_09it' be like that oh with dating my fan oh but what if it was of somebody else's vagina I mean I'm pretty like open like

00:53:39

SPEAKER_01sexually and stuff so I mean I guess your a mold of your friend's vagina oh that'd be pretty weird it was like my friend okay yeah wait hold up what if

00:53:51

SPEAKER_09what if he had one of yours by the way just can you differentiate the difference between the two um I would have to open it well just tell us just tell us oh um one is the booty hole yeah

00:54:02

SPEAKER_09can I say that yeah um one's my [ __ ] and one's my like oh back door um oh Haram okay

00:54:12

SPEAKER_01so you are with a guy and you see one of this one yours and there's like a shrine around it is that a deal breaker for sure for

00:54:24

SPEAKER_01sure yeah deal breaker okay when are you are what about you deal breaker if the dude has a pocket [ __ ] not at all because I have dildos so I mean Sarah

00:54:35

SPEAKER_10yeah I guess like I it's like you can be honest you can be honest I don't know they're just so like graphic like I feel like most dildos aren't as like

00:54:45

SPEAKER_10realistic to how a dick looks like the good ones are like I just don't see that many like veiny dildos out there whereas like pocket [ __ ] are so

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