Brian REJECTS Layla?! FLAKE EXPOSED! | Dating Talk #106

Date: 2023-10-04
Duration: 5h 18m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_03TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_04Molly(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kelly(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sydney(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Q(guest)
SPEAKER_09Q(guest)
SPEAKER_10Emily(guest)
SPEAKER_12Sarah Ryder(guest)
SPEAKER_14Leila Jenner(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:05
IntroBrian opens the show and guests introduce themselves

welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast thank you for tuning in tonight

00:05:13
ControversyBrian exposes a guest who drove 2 hours to the studio, arrived 40 min late, declared no one was 'on her level', then left without participating

we had a girl ... she came in she's like oh I okay well I'm gonna leave so she drove two hours to come and requested to be on and then just said okay well I'm not going to do the show

00:13:51
QuoteLeila's DMs to Brian read on air: 'Brian is one of the sexiest men I've ever encountered... I'd sign an NDA for you'

Brian is one of the sexiest men I've ever encountered ... I swear to God I'm not trolling I'd sign an NDA for you

00:19:29
QuoteBrian publicly rejects Leila: her porn history is a non-negotiable deal-breaker — 'you're irredeemable, that's like a serial murderer'

here's my analysis guys of this weird situation one it's an act you don't want to fuck me I'm not going to fuck you ... not the point where we want to date girls who do porn

00:23:15
Key MomentLeila offers to quit porn, be celibate for months, and do Brian's chores for 3 years to earn a relationship; Brian says he could still walk away after 2 years 11 months

I would stop like I just genuinely like you ... I would be celibate for like a month ... to me to date you I would have to put you through some sort of trial

00:39:54
QuoteBrian on the gender double-standard: if a man pursued a female guest the way Leila pursues Brian, he would be considered predatory

as a guy you could do ... Leila the thing is ... if you're a normal person and you do like the slightest not even a misstep ... they'd be like oh that's predatory

00:39:58
QuoteLeila tells Q she would 'take him out' and 'pay for dinner' — Q declines citing he was dating someone

I would genuinely like take you out like you're a pretty little princess and we would go eat

01:34:48
Key MomentEmily shares story of 3-month situationship where the guy cried when she ended things after refusing commitment; Brian unpacks the likely miscommunication

I told him how much I liked him and I was like do you are you going to start seeing other girls when we go back to school ... he started crying ... and he wasn't making any noise

03:41:00
ControversySarah Ryder challenges non-porn Emily: if doing porn makes us unworthy, what makes you more worthy given you also don't get respect from men?

my question is if that's what makes us unworthy then what's making you unworthy to men because you don't sound like you're getting respected either

03:58:20
ControversyMolly and Emily clash: Emily compares paying for OnlyFans to buying a bucket of chicken; Molly says 'fuck is fuck' — all sex is equivalent

fuck is fuck ... whether it's your boyfriend whether it's a stranger you meet on the street ... I could pay ten ninety-nine for a bucket of chicken does that mean I'm worshiping it

04:11:40
QuoteSarah rates herself a 10/10 and defends it: 'there's no woman who's more beautiful than me' — extended philosophical discussion with Brian on subjectivity vs. objectivity of attractiveness

I feel like I'm a good eight today ... no I mean you asked me to rate myself so that's how I personally feel about myself ... there is no woman who is more beautiful than me

04:49:48
QuoteSarah Ryder gives calm, detailed explanation of herpes strains to the panel — HSV-1 vs HSV-2, cold sores as herpes, asymptomatic transmission

if you've had chickenpox or if you've had mono that is herpes ... most people do have it something about it is it can actually be dormant in your body

05:04:07
QuoteLeila reveals body count: ~60 (revised from prior 100+ claim); does extended math with Brian on total penis length

body count probably honestly after the last porn scene I really sat down and thought about it and I think I might be like near 60s

05:07:30
QuoteTiffany reveals she is a complete virgin — zero body count, zero kissing, zero handholding

um I'm a virgin so literally never had sex ... I have zero ... I've never had any like romantic experience

Topics Discussed

00:00:05
Intro, Announcements & Guest Introductions

Brian opens the show, reads channel announcements. All guests introduce themselves: Leila Jenner (20, ex-porn/OF), Molly (20, porn star/OF), Emily (19, Questa College student), Sarah Ryder (22, porn star), Tiffany (18, UCSB poli-sci), Sydney (20, traveling/unemployed), Kelly (21, CSUN student/Nordstrom stylist), Q (30, relationship coach).

00:05:00
Flake Exposé: Guest Who Cancelled Last Minute

Brian exposes a woman who requested to appear on the show weeks in advance, confirmed multiple times, then cancelled the morning of the show claiming she didn't realize it was a 9+ hour commitment. She drove 2 hours to the studio, arrived 40 minutes late, expressed dissatisfaction with the other guests ('nobody here is on my level'), and left without participating. Brian reads message screenshots. Panel discusses the entitlement and disrespect. Plans to implement a deposit policy for future guest bookings.

00:12:20
Relationship Status Round

Panel shares current relationship status and longest relationships: Leila — married (informally) + situationship with someone else, upset about husband's Miami behavior. Emily — single ~1 month; 6-month longest relationship; date on Friday (Hinge match). Sarah — always single; never had a boyfriend. Tiffany — never had a boyfriend; zero romantic/physical contact; virgin waiting for marriage. Sydney — single ~6 months; longest relationship 3 years. Kelly — in a ~2-year relationship (longest). Q — officially single but still sees his 'main chick'; went on a Lobster steak date last week.

00:13:00
Leila Jenner Pursuing Brian: DMs & Tweets Read On Air

Brian reads screenshots of Leila Jenner's public tweets and DMs pursuing him romantically/sexually. Leila's tweets include 'Brian is one of the sexiest men I've ever encountered' and explicit DMs. Brian publicly declines, citing her porn history as a non-negotiable deal-breaker. Leila offers to sign an NDA, quit porn, and be celibate for Brian. Panel and chat weigh in on Brian's rejection. Brian and Leila discuss their 'situationship' dynamic throughout the episode.

00:53:00
Can Women Be Faithful? Cheating Statistics

Chat question: can women be faithful? Panel unanimously says yes. Q shares research: men and women cheat at similar rates in their 20s; men cheat more in 30s-60s. Discussion of what drives infidelity.

00:54:50
Parents' Professions & Reaction to Adult Content Careers

Discussion of whether guests' parents know about their adult content careers. Kelly says her parents probably know and are supportive. Sarah hasn't told her parents. Leila grew up Mormon and discusses the contrast with her current lifestyle. Debate on whether porn stars can be good mothers.

01:00:00
Relationship Types: Open Relationships, Situationships, and Commitment

Discussion of Molly's open relationship (boyfriend in porn, non-exclusive, but she gets jealous); Leila's husband + situationship dynamic; Sydney's views against open relationships (influenced by parents being swingers); panel on when to define a relationship. Brian invites co-host Emily to cancel her Friday date and go out with him instead (playful exchange). Emily agrees to In-N-Out date 'after the show' (comedic bit).

01:34:48
Commitment Conversations: When and How to Have Them

Emily shares story of a 3-month situationship where the guy cried when she tried to end things after he refused to commit. Panel debates whether it was a miscommunication. Q advises: communicate feelings as soon as they arise; find a man who already wants a relationship. Discussion of 'I'm not ready' as genuine vs. excuse. Brian and Leila briefly discuss what it would take for Brian to give Leila a chance. Brian proposes going around the panel on how soon to have the commitment conversation. Leila: immediately; Molly: open relationship so not relevant; Emily: after 3 months; Sarah: important to align early; Kelly: once you're spending every day together.

02:03:00
Porn Industry Debate: Body Count, Respectability, and Self-Worth

Extended, recurring debate between non-porn guests (Emily, Kelly, Tiffany, Sydney) and porn guests (Molly, Sarah, Leila). Topics include: whether doing porn makes women undateable/unmarriable; Sarah's counter-argument (why do non-porn women lack respect from men too?); whether sexual experience in porn improves bedroom performance; the 'dick is dick' argument (Molly/Sarah: body count logic is inconsistent); Brian's 'can't turn a ho into a housewife' position; Leila claims she can't take dick like Molly (self-deprecating); discussion of porn stars being worshipped vs. priced cheaply on OnlyFans; Q attributes dearth of relationship-ready women to sexual marketplace dynamics.

02:10:00
Miscellaneous: Anime, Game of Thrones, UN Men's Day, Politics

Tiffany puts on a Super Saiyan hair wig; discussion of anime (Dragon Ball Z, JJK, Attack on Titan). Brian and Kelly discuss Game of Thrones vs. House of the Dragon. Brian mentions that the UN made International Men's Day the same day as International Toilet Day. Brief political polling: Leila calls herself 'probably liberal'; Sydney says apolitical; Tiffany leans conservative (states she hates Obama).

04:11:40
Self-Ratings Round (Attractiveness 1-10)

Brian asks all guests to rate themselves 1-10 on attractiveness. Leila: 8; Sydney: 9 (approx); Molly: 9; Sarah: 10; Q: declines specifically; Emily: 6 (Brian says she should be higher). Extended discussion with Sarah on self-perception vs. external reality; Brian argues rating yourself a 10 is delusional; Sarah argues beauty is subjective and all women should see themselves as tens; Brian counters that men can't operate with such self-assessment due to real-world feedback.

04:47:00
Herpes Education: HSV-1 vs HSV-2 in the Porn Industry

Triggered by a donation claiming all porn stars have genital herpes. Sarah Ryder provides detailed explanation: HSV-1 and HSV-2 can both appear orally or genitally; most adults carry HSV-1 (cold sores, chickenpox, mono are herpes strains); porn industry does not routinely test for HSV; HSV-2 is more prevalent in adult industry due to unprotected sex; transmission can occur asymptomatically. Brian reads WHO/medical definitions; debate about normalization vs. concern.

05:04:07
Body Count Disclosure Round

Brian asks each guest their body count: Leila — ~60 (revised from 100+; does not count oral); Emily — less than 5; Sarah — ~25 personal; triple digits total (including work); Tiffany — 0 (virgin, no kissing, no handholding); Sydney — declined to state; Q — 'somewhere above 55 multiplied by 3' (evasive). Brian does extended math on the total length of Leila's sexual partners.

05:16:00
Wrap-Up and Final Words

Brian wraps the show. Sydney gives final remarks on swinging and being more careful entering relationships. Kelly final comment on ambition and Brian. Q self-rates body count evasively. Brian announces a special guest for Sunday. Raid on Twitch.

Transcript

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02:51:25
Kellythey just want to [ __ ] you and then be good I love just [ __ ] and being good I know that's cool that's cool and that's why it works out good I know that's why you guys ever been in wait
02:51:34
Brian Atlasokay so I'm gonna have me and Q come in on this um go first okay so you're well first I just have a question for the three girls here who do
02:51:45
Brian Atlasadult content so do you think after and some of you have been in it from Fairly young but do you think your pro your romantic prospects are better now that
02:51:56
Leila Jenneryou do adult content or do you think they're worse better I actually love I actually have had way better sorry I'm so sorry Nick he's gonna start like
02:52:06
Leila Jennerscreaming at me but I actually the relationships I have now that I've had ever since I quit porn or whatever I was only in there for like 2 months but but I genuinely love them so much better
02:52:18
Leila Jennerthan when I than relationships I had before I did porn and mean that's just me but yeah I mean I guess it was good for me in a way yeah I think doing porn for me cuz like I'm a very like sexual person I love Sensations I'm very like
02:52:30
Mollycurious about like new experiences in life and like I'm very like horny so I think that me doing porn really weeds out a lot of the people that like
02:52:41
Mollywouldn't you know be compatible with me simply because I do what I do and I don't appreciate um a partner who is going to judge and like treat other
02:52:52
Sarah Ryderpeople meanly based on what other people do in their own lives okay so dating prospects better what about for you um I think my
02:53:04
Sarah Ryderapproach to dating is a lot better yes I agree with you guys that's not the question okay but let me get to my point but I agree with you guys that it is most likely and if not inde need much
02:53:15
Sarah RyderSlimmer selection of people that I are wanting to be with me because of my profession but because of my job I have a lot firmer boundaries and an
02:53:28
Sarah Ryderunderstanding of what I'm looking for in a partnership and I have a clear vision of dating and my expectations with that and I think that that helps me when I'm
02:53:40
Sarah Rydertalking to potential uh people to be in relationships with because I know what I'm looking for and I can clearly communicate my boundaries my feelings my thought what I'm looking for and most
02:53:52
Mollypeople can't do that I think also like sexual our sexuality not being Tethered to who we're dating is very empowering and like frees up a lot of mental space
02:54:02
Mollyto feel like needed or like sexually good in a
02:54:11
Emilyrelationship okay I just don't understand the psyche yeah I don't understand how like so right we we've kind of came to the agreement that most men don't want to date porn stars so you have a whole big group of men now if all
02:54:24
Mollyof these ones don't want to date porn stars you're going to get the bottom Barrel men so you're dating say the bottom Barrel it's just the smaller portion of men that are okay with it I don't think it's okay to call anyone the
02:54:36
Leila Jennerbottom of the barrel I think all humans are humans and like if I like one that you don't like that's okay but you shouldn't say that they're the bottom of the worst people just because they like like me sorry just cuz someone likes me doesn't mean that they're okay we don't
02:54:47
Brian Atlaswe don't need to relitigate her choice of words when it came to the ball of the barrel thing so okay um so is your kind of position that like
02:54:57
Brian Atlasdo you object to guys not wanting to date you because of your work I don't think I think most I at least I would hope most women who are in the adult entertainment industry have some degree
02:55:09
Brian Atlasof self-awareness and it's like yeah there are going to be men that aren't going to want to date me because of the type of work I do yeah no I'm absolutely aware of that I was aware of that before
02:55:20
Sarah Rydergetting into the industry that that would be a result of what I do for a living um but like she just said most men don't want to date me because of what I do for work but even before I did
02:55:31
Sarah Ryderporn I didn't want to date most men most men that are out there are not up to my expectation well what are your expectations yeah let's hear that well like I was saying earlier I'm a person
02:55:44
Sarah Ryderand and just because you guys don't respect me I would never want to date you guys because you don't have basic respect for other human beings I would want someone that can view someone and
02:55:54
Brian Atlasrespect them despite what they do for a living or despite what other people think about them is it disrespectful to not want to pursue something romantically or or sexually with someone
02:56:05
Sarah Ryderwho's engaged in sex work no absolutely not but I think it's disrespectful to project like Eternal loneliness and Damnation on that person because of what they do I don't think I don't think anybody here at least not me
02:56:18
Mollymaybe somebody else at the table might have said something a bit more I I I think that oh yeah definitely I think that calling Our dating pool the bottom of the barrel is definitely was that you
02:56:30
Kellybeing interally lonely that was me and I'll still stand by it yeah I think I mean it's just statistically correct because when we talk about how men don't want to date a porn star that already just lowers your
02:56:42
Kellychances of the men that want to marry you would they [ __ ] us like would anybody would want to [ __ ] CU men [ __ ] anything I think that's where the resentment comes from but also like we are also unbothered because because any man would [ __ ] me too just like how any
02:56:55
Leila Jennerman would want to [ __ ] you they' [ __ ] better they [ __ ] you better just kid no say it again say it again go ahead they [ __ ] me no I think I I think I [ __ ] back you what I think I [ __ ] back did you say
02:57:06
Kellythis is the only good thing about everything that comes out of your mouth is just about sex so no man is going to respect you everything that comes out of your mouth is just judgmental like no what did I just say that was judgmental everything
02:57:18
Mollyeverything out of judgmental is negative is nasty why are you getting so mad I make a point instead of a generalization and tell her what she actually said that was wrong statistics are generalizations
02:57:28
Mollythey aren't they're facts have you taken a statistics class literally a generalization um and we are not generalizations the two men right here
02:57:38
Emilyare though we're literally talking are notations we are the individual St at the table these two men right here have just said they would never date a porn star there you go now take that and apply it to the rest of the men in the
02:57:50
Unknownworld that they are not going to also want to date a por my boyfriend your porn is probably [ __ ] other girls husband and they probably are never going to marry you do [ __ ] other girls that's our job and I 99% likely to never
02:58:01
Unknownmarry you he loves me girl he respects me defitely wait but what did you say loving you and marrying you are different and if he doesn't I suck they would no one's going to marry
02:58:11
Brian Atlassuck better speak into the mic is better I [ __ ] that dig back but you'll never get the ring girl I already got the ring where is it she's literally where is
02:58:22
TTS Readerwhere is it at hold on stop stop native here not addicted to drugs leave this to genery
02:58:31
TTS Readerand experience real loyalty long Do's BTW yo TJ thank you man Sydney bro she the the girl from Colorado is that what
02:58:42
Brian Atlasshe saying bro why did why do people send ttss when like the [ __ ] person walks away I know was like all right TJ we'll [ __ ] pull it up again please don't send ttss directed at the person
02:58:54
Brian Atlasif they've they're probably typing it and then they get up and then they all right just try to okay whatever don't thank you TJ yeah imagine he's like [ __ ] all right um AB Che and FN life thank you for the gift of memberships
02:59:07
Brian AtlasI'm GNA pull up twitch really quick guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub uh let me yo B thank for the Prime guman thank you for the prime church thank you for the tier one 12K thank for the prime Miguel
02:59:19
Brian Atlasthank you for the prime Pub test thank you for the five commun sub gifts thank you man Joma thank you for the tier one twist thank you for the tier one appreciate it guys uh I mean just my
02:59:30
Brian Atlasreaction really quick is just like look you're free to do uh free to do porn but I think you got to understand that I'm not my personal view is I don't think it's impossible for a girl who's been
02:59:41
Leila Jennerinvolved in that kind of industry to get a guy to get married it's C change it's not about change it's just like that's your history you don't think it's well I think a woman can become a better version of herself even if they went through a lot of stuff what about women
02:59:54
Emilywho've been like sex trafficked and stuff they can be women you can't compare that at all comp no actually that is deep bring that up we're not but it's just like don't judge people who have had a lot of sex some people like I didn't even know what I was getting into
03:00:06
Brian Atlaswhen I well actually no I will judge people who have had a lot of sex okay in the same way that in the same way that women judge men for a vast list of criteria when it comes to selecting them
03:00:17
Brian Atlasto potentially be a romantic partner men are also allowed to have preferences standards and boundaries but I'm not saying men versus women saying I wouldn't Jud no but it's like there's always this like oh why do though but it's always this hold on it's always
03:00:30
Brian Atlasthis thing with like oh why are men so judgmental about body count or women who do this or who do that y'all are super [ __ ] judgmental about a myriad of things that matter to you like a guy's
03:00:41
Brian Atlasheight a guy's success there's a guy's penis size there's a million [ __ ] things that y'all care about I guess that's and that's for you that's preferences but if a man has a
03:00:50
Brian Atlaspreference that's discrimination that's judgment that's somehow wrong okay so any anything that that comes to the detriment of women when it comes to the
03:01:00
QDynamics between men and women if a man has a preference that's frowned upon and I and I think it's imperative to understand sitting here listening to y'all y'all have a very deontological
03:01:11
Qview what that means is y'all view [ __ ] as right or wrong Fair unfair and the reality is men have a value system we have things that we want our women to do we have things that we want our women we
03:01:23
Qdon't want them to do and things that we're naturally attracted to our brains work in a way to where certain things trigger us is it it triggers our disgust Factor sexually and the thought of a
03:01:35
Qwoman being Ram rotted by a whole bunch of dudes sucking a whole bunch of dicks taking come on the face all kind of [ __ ] that's not something that we take and knowing that our woman does that's not
03:01:45
Qsomething that we op but what I'm saying personal opinion it's not a personal opinion because if I run a survey right now I can find thousands of dudes who feel the same way
03:01:57
Qand I'll find more men who feel the way I feel than men who don't the majority don't don't exist so so but that's not what I'm saying that's not what I'm saying what I'm saying is I'm painting a
03:02:08
Qpicture of what's normal and what's abnormal being a porn star is morally reprehensible that's why you're getting all this uh criticism and Judgment at the end of the day at the end of the day at the end of
03:02:20
Qthe day if you're going to do something people are going to judge you for it people are going to criticize you for it so to think you should live in a world where you won't receive any criticism or judgment you're not being realistic I never said I wouldn't receive critic like I would judge a man if he hasn't
03:02:32
Qhave enough sex but but you're sitting here saying you don't you sitting here saying very judgmental and you kept and you kept highlighting that you're being very judgmental you're being mean about it but I wouldn't be mean towards
03:02:44
Qyou no I'm talking about talking to talking to the girls on the panel you keep hitting at being judgmental that tells me because they are judgmental exactly but that's reality that's what comes with the territory and I can't call them out on that go ahead you can but that's not going to change it cuz
03:02:58
Qyou're essentially doing what they're doing y just virtual signal y'all just virtual signaling back and forth you're literally just like narrating this whole podcast and what it's about you can't understand you cannot seem to grasp you're you're doing nothing but virtue
03:03:09
Qsignaling back and forth oh don't judge me what about you it's the same thing you're engaging in the same thing and what I'm saying is anything that you choose to do you have to deal with the consequences of your actions not going to agree with consquences but I think
03:03:22
Mollythat you guys just have a fundamental opinion in what is like a fundamentally different opinion in what is morally right and wrong than what I have in my life and I feel like you guys personally attack me for the way that I live my
03:03:32
Sydneylife okay youens but we can we can okay we can move I don't think there's a consensus it doesn't matter there is a consensus but the whole there's consens in the whole world there's a consensus
03:03:44
Sydneyby saying you have a lot of sex but then you're over here saying oh I'm not going to be with someone who doesn't have a lot of sex the same thing and there's ask you how much your husband or your boyfriend makes because hypocrite I'm sorry how
03:03:56
Kellymuch do you make that's none of your business don't ask me I asked you how much does your husband make how much does your husband make oh my boyfriend makes enough trust me how much my boyfriend makes definitely well over six
03:04:08
Kellyfigures so but how much that's none of your business then don't ask me okay but you're over here talking about how you are not judging anything but if a man did not make six figures you probably
03:04:17
Kellywouldn't be with him yeah that's correct no that isct thank you I my point Thank you so you have a preference too I never said I didn't have a preference you not
03:04:30
Kellygoing to be mean toward someone about my world that nobody is going to judge you like do you not realize that being a porn star is not the normality today but do you realize that I judge you for the way that you speak to me but I can judge
03:04:42
Mollyyou for the way you're speak speaking to me too okay okay that's what I'm saying what's your point my point is that I think fundamentally you guys you what fundamentally means yes that was so mean and that was mean that shows your
03:04:54
Mollycharacter more than it shows mine um your fundamentally let me speak don't cut me off nobody cut you off you did fundamentally and you made fun of me fundamentally I think that people on
03:05:05
Brian Atlasthis panel have a different opinion on what morally correct means than me okay no no no hold on let me come in really quick let's let's try to move away from the discussion of like it's it's veered
03:05:17
Brian Atlasa little bit away from dating yes there's a dispute about what's morally correct however if I can try to stick it to what we I think the central thing about this conversation is
03:05:29
Brian Atlasour position is that if you are engaged in creating this kind of adult content there are going to be men perhaps a majority of men that are going to find that unsuitable in a partner and would
03:05:40
Brian Atlasnot pursue you for long-term serious relation relationship Andor marriage so we can have a discussion about well what's moral and what's not but ultimately bringing it back to dating
03:05:51
Brian Atlasmen do not want to get involved with generally speaking I would say most men do not want to get involved with women who are engaged in sex work no I agree and I'm saying I don't
03:06:02
Brian Atlaswant to get involved with those men either so cool and then but I do want to address one of the points you made and you said that you judge men who are sexually inexperienced yeah so men who are well saying that like I I wouldn't
03:06:15
Brian Atlaspick those men right but do you think it's wrong for men to not want to date women who are promiscuous or who have a high body count or who who engage but I think the key difference though is and I
03:06:27
Brian Atlaswould say it's it's kind of the norm if women would not want to date a guy who's sexually experienced however when a guy doesn't want to date a woman who is
03:06:36
Brian Atlassexually experienced and proxy for promiscuity proxy for high body count proxy for uh doing adult adult
03:06:46
Brian Atlascontent that's somehow wrong that we have a preference when it comes to the when it comes to something that you have that's in your control however men will
03:06:57
Brian Atlasor excuse me women will disqualify men who can't get laid who have difficulty developing relationships with women which to some degree is outside of their
03:07:08
Brian Atlascontrol so you said you don't you said you don't like men who they lack sexual experience but that's outside that's kind of out of their control to some degree whereas if you have a lot of
03:07:19
Brian Atlassexual experience that's 100% in your control so I would I would argue it's it's less fair to judge a Man based on that than to judge a Woman based on her promiscuity or her body count I don't
03:07:31
Mollyagree with that because like I want I want the man who is like confident enough to go out and be sexually promiscuous and like learn about his body and learn what he likes and dislikes I don't want to be the person that he like learns about himself
03:07:44
Mollythrough I want to come together and like already know you wait so you want a guy who's promiscuous or well yeah I want I want a guy that is like sexually there that's not like sectionally sexually
03:07:55
Mollyinadequate okay like I enjoy sex I'm very horny and like I want a man that like is the same way okay so then if he gave you all of that you still wouldn't be loyal to him
03:08:07
Mollythough but again our definitions of loyalty are different because like the way I view sex for work I think that's just work you do realize that you have more sexual experience than overwhelm I
03:08:18
Kellyhave over 100 bodies you dat points yeah that's that's why you date porn stars that's what you said yeah I keep so your only pool of dating is porn other porn stars I don't I I've never dated a point that's my preferred pool of dating but
03:08:32
Mollyalso like my boyfriend I met him on Tinder like we were friends for two years before we started dating and I approached him look when it comes to dating right um you got to understand
03:08:42
Brian Atlasthat that working in the SE sex industry is still a Scarlet Letter and always will be to a self-respecting man huh do you know what a Scarlet Letter is do you know what a self-respecting man is like literally I
03:08:56
Brian Atlaswas asking an actual question CU that's a movie and a book anyways I don't even think they're pushing back all that much on the whole realizing that because you're engaged in this kind of stuff
03:09:07
Brian Atlasthat you are you are narrowing your pool of potential partners because there are just some men that would not want to pursue you for a romantic or sexual
03:09:16
Brian Atlasrelationship um so yeah I don't know but and look there's women see I like there's women who there's definitely a
03:09:27
Brian Atlaslot of women that don't want to date me because I'm doing this dating podcast I have some hot takes like it is what it is I'm not upset about it it just it is what it is like but there's also women that would love to date you there's huh
03:09:39
Mollycheeks there's also women that would love to date you why are you Beck and it why are you gesturing at Leila wait what sorry oh he said just said there were women because of this podcast that would not love to date him but like yes there
03:09:51
Brian Atlasare happens trust me I get the DMS there are definitely some women that do not maybe they secretly do I don't know but there are definitely some DM I'd say it benefits me cuz I a lot of the women who disagree with me end up liking me but I
03:10:04
Brian Atlasfeel like you're a little like I come in sometimes with some like ridiculous [ __ ] takes you know and you're a little more levelheaded I think you know that's because having uh conversations like
03:10:15
Qthis you know studying psychology you try to understand why people do what they do as opposed to taking as opposed to taking a moral stance on what they do like I have clients so I have to
03:10:27
Qunderstand them objectively as opposed to telling them you know this is good bad when it's more healthy unhealthy and how effective is this going to be in getting what you want so do you have porn star C definitely respect that I've
03:10:39
Leila Jennernever had a porn star client I definitely respect that mindset though like completely like that understand before judging that's awesome oh yeah yeah yeah I see what you mean it's a little too ass sorry sorry no Naga we
03:10:51
Leila Jennercan't um wait what was there something going on here here let me do some chats Leela can you read this of course don't talk is about puffy Vegas he's our autistic mascot he may be a sec he may
03:11:03
Leila Jennertype he may type at a second grade level but he's got legendary lore probably he is a legend that was yeah that was fun thank you Ryan the eating Warrior Mol has a Molly has a point there's a difference between not meeting someone's
03:11:16
Leila Jennerpreferences and openly making someone feel bad because they don't meet your preferences I agree with you Wolf Gang pack 3102 oh hi I know you I love you hi
03:11:27
Brian Atlasis he one of your fans he he he worships my [ __ ] he worships your oh that explains the comment donation thank you for the donation withing pack what was the thing you
03:11:38
Brian Atlaswhispered to me earlier Madison about Molly I brought it up but I forgot what you said okay what it wasn't wait what okay it smells so good do you smell that
03:11:50
Brian Atlasfood you don't SMS like quesadillas andas do you need some attention you want a little attention right now good how's your day going Lea you doing okay it was a good day you know how was your
03:12:02
Brian Atlasshoot did you do shoot today was there a shoot no shoot Molly shoot um was there a shoot well I'm doing my first feature dance on the 5th in New York at sapphires you should come see me feure dance what about you any shoots today
03:12:15
Brian Atlasdid you do Sho no okay well and in response to wolfing wolf G meeting someone's person well I mean obviously when you've been invited onto
03:12:25
Brian Atlasa dating podcast where we have uh heated discussions about a myriad of dating related topics like people are
03:12:34
Brian Atlasgoing to voice their uh stances and opinions and that's actually encouraged but I'm not like mess messaging porn stars on Instagram in my private time
03:12:45
Brian Atlasbeing like you are the downfall of society no it's like okay do your thing I'm not like oh actually a lot of people message me though and they go out of their way privately on Instagram to
03:12:57
Leila Jennervoice their displeasure with my podcast but uh and then I have a lot of supporters too I didn't know that people like uh like had like a disagreement with your stuff until I went on your podcast people were like why would you go on there like he's so mean and I was like no he was actually like super
03:13:09
Brian Atlasrespectful the entire time for the most part sometimes I'm I think sweet no I was pleasantly surprised keep keep yeah okay all right all right uh let's see let me get a couple chats in here uh
03:13:21
Brian AtlasKelly can you read this one I I don't know why I'm making you I can't see I don't have my glasses can you read it for those panel members who do or not
03:13:30
EmilyNick Nick Nick Nick Nick what Nick Nick what she's look Nick just you got to switch the camera angle for those panel members who do or have
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Brian Atlasdone wait it went away adult content what do you reserve for those you are in sincere relationship based on traditional love that's a good question what do you reserve okay what
03:13:54
Leila Jenneryou reserve for those you are in a sincere relationship based on traditional for those who do no for those who do or oh I'm so sorry I said for those who do not um okay what do you deserve for those who can you speak
03:14:05
Leila Jennerstraight into the mic please um I'm so sorry what do I reserve again uh no I am pretty much understand it I reserve I think any guy who's dated me or ones that are dating me openly right
03:14:17
Leila Jennernow can say like I'm a really good girlfriend like I genuinely care like I almost flew to Miami when Zer like threw out his arm like that like actually scared me I almost flew out there like I felt like terrible that I couldn't take care of him like I'll cook you all three
03:14:29
Leila JennerI'll cook you every meal of the day um like I'll do the chores like I do everything like yeah I want to [ __ ] like I only did porn for two months like I I love my men like I treat them well I
03:14:40
Brian Atlasthink that's what I reserve for them but it's okay if you don't agree you seem like you don't with your little you know like okay I know you're like the whole act thing but so if you and me
03:14:52
Leila Jennerwere still dating you would be involved with other men I mean I I think that the way me like for example the way me and zero date like he does whatever he needs for like we're both content creators like we kind of like you know it's kind
03:15:04
Leila Jennerof how you play the game but I also think like when I when we were first starting to date like and he was here in La like I wasn't [ __ ] any other guy I was only and I said that last time I said no whenever I was [ __ ] zerka I was only [ __ ] him when he was in LA
03:15:17
Leila Jennerand then he went to Mi in the past two weeks you've but that he's in Miami right now remember I said that last time too I said he's in what does that have to do with anything cuz we are not good when he's in Miami we don't do well like that so it's okay and I'm okay with that
03:15:30
Brian AtlasI'm okay with us being together when he's in LA and he's in Miami yeah so when you're in a relationship when it comes to what you reserve for those you're in a relationship for it's not monogamy no I do thinkx I think
03:15:41
Leila Jennereventually yes but right now no I think I reserve the way I take care of that person cuz I give them a lot of love when I do love someone do you I do or are you quarrelsome in a relationship
03:15:53
Leila Jennerno I'm I'm so sorry i s you sound so stupid but can you define that quarrelsome like somebody who's combative likes to quarrel argue comb I know you think that but honestly like uh me and C argue because we're very alike
03:16:05
Leila Jennerbut no I'm not combative I'm very like okay like I I'm like the same way like I want to understand why you think that let me put myself in your shoes because if you love me enough to bring it up to me then like let me understand why it's upsetting
03:16:15
Brian Atlasyou okay uh what do you reserve for those in a sincere for those in a relationship I mean I kind of agree with Lea like I don't really Reserve anything like sexually because I think that's really weird like a really weird and
03:16:28
Mollyperverted way to look at me and like the relationship um how is that perverted like what do you reserve for your boyfriend like oh he can only do like I only Reserve anal for him like that's weird wouldn't you but wouldn't isn't
03:16:41
Kellyyour boyfriend supposed to be like really like one of the most important people to you yeah and if he is why wouldn't you want him to have all of you why wouldn't you want him to have like he does have All of Me no he doesn't because you pop your [ __ ] open for
03:16:52
Mollyother for other men what the what do you mean is it cuz I pop my [ __ ] open for other men AKA go to work um he can still
03:17:01
Kellyhave all of me that's work it is work how does corpor oh so hard to lay on your back question when you clock in is that the first p and the V insertion I
03:17:12
Brian Atlasdon't clock in there's no CL there's cocking in I clck in for sure she doesn't clock in she [ __ ] in in [ __ ] goes in and that's and then [ __ ] out that's you that's her that's your time
03:17:24
Mollycard I mean no if you want to be serious about it like most of the time like call time is like at 9:00 a.m. and then that's like hair and makeup and then we do like photo shoot yeah but no like I don't Reserve anything so like is it
03:17:36
Emilyperverted when other people Reserve sex just for their relationship is that what you're saying that it's perverted when people Reserve for just relation because that's a relationship but like again you're Rel
03:17:47
Mollyseizing my job which doesn't mean what you're supposed to do over sexualizing you having sex for work it's porn yeah that's what you're supposed to when you're talking about like the real world and like taking it not in the room looking at my real life do you not
03:18:00
Mollyrealize that you're not even letting me talk you're just judging like all that's coming out of I'm responding to what you me talk okay are you mad um you're really annoying me yeah oh I'm sorry so basically I can keep annoying you I
03:18:13
Kellywould like to just answer the question rather than be berated with your harsh judgment that has been harsh to you this whole time I've just been speaking my point is and you're talking over me my point is there's nothing that I reserve
03:18:25
Emilyphysically for my boyfriend because I think that's stupid and she said we over sexualize her job everybody so I guess we over sexualize being for Liv I would love to
03:18:35
Sarah Ryderhear it your body should for your soad so yes oh my God we lay on our back and we have sex um but if we're talking about being
03:18:47
Sarah Ryderin a relationship with someone uh obviously my intimacy is reserved to them so the person that I'm spending my time with the person that I'm cooking for having dinner with spending
03:18:59
Sarah Ryderleisurely time with watching movies doing the intimate things obviously those things are reserved to whoever my partner would
03:19:08
Brian Atlasbe that was beautiful thanks there an interesting question yeah um I do Jay Butler asked me to do this me and Jay Butler we I don't know if he's still
03:19:19
Brian Atlaswatching Jay Butler you still watching he is a uh a friend of mine he's a medical student and one time he saved me from a swarm of jellyfish while we were
03:19:28
Brian Atlasout surfing and Jay Butler asked me um to pass this to one of the girls who are in the adult content industry could one
03:19:39
Brian Atlasof you wear this ash catch them Pokémon hat like catching the horse maybe Molly can wear it oh looks good oh my God I love
03:19:48
Brian Atlasit it's so anime um so what's the tagline for Pokemon got to catch them every time you bought the catch body the Pokemon
03:19:59
Brian Atlastrainer got it that so cool it was really cute they should redo has there been like a Pokemon themed adult video probably yes yeah no I mean like I was
03:20:10
Brian Atlaseono like the Pokémon trainer oh and got to catch them all is that talking about STDs or all the come oh got to C got to catch them all that is
03:20:20
Brian AtlasHaram okay all right folks um his name is a Pokemon name Tiffany moving to you um is there anything dating related you like to uh talk about or get off your
03:20:31
Brian Atlaschest not really zilch no okay well I'll ask you I'll try to ask you some questions here Tiffany um should we take the hats off I feel like it's getting Tiffany do you want to
03:20:43
Brian Atlastake the thing off or you like it I like it I'll take it here Tiffy I'll take that you you did it you wore it well Tiffany you wore that you wore that good luck for you actually I think you should
03:20:53
Brian Atlasgo to class in your blond that would be a move okay so Tiffany you're pretty you're Christian right yes you're waiting till marriage yes now but we've
03:21:04
Brian Atlashad girls come on the show like they're virgins and but they say okay well I'm I want to wait for the right guy M but it's kind of vague in the sense of
03:21:16
Brian Atlaslike they're not really waiting for marriage but are you like dead set even if you like meet the right guy you'll hook up or no 100% has to be
03:21:28
Tiffanymarriage it doesn't really have to be marriage I just trust in myself and I feel like the first guy I'm going to dat is the person I'm going to marry okay so you would have premarital fun yes but
03:21:40
Brian Atlasyou got to be pretty damn I'm sure like you're you probably got to be in love mhm right like I would have to meet like all of their family yeah so just meet the family and
03:21:50
Brian Atlasthat's it no she wants to meet the right person I could speedrun that [ __ ] okay that's her wrong call right now let's get the intro okay we good um so
03:22:02
Brian Atlasthey got to meet your family M are you do you have like kind of a traditional family background or what like I guess yeah I guess Asian people are pretty traditional are you Chinese no I'm Korean Korean okay and
03:22:17
Brian Atlasuh mom and dad still together yes okay do you have any siblings I have a younger brother younger bro okay and so how's the dating life been you've been
03:22:29
Brian Atlashere at UCSB for two weeks one week a week right um yeah like a week and a half what do you think of the guys so far have you met any no I don't like them so you've met
03:22:41
Brian Atlassome yeah you don't like them why is that have you ever have you already had your heart broken by a frat boy you see not not a
03:22:51
Tiffanyfrat boy I'm not attracted to Frat Boys what do you what's your type my type yeah um I like emotionally stable guys
03:23:01
Qemotionally stable guys have you ever been uh sexually
03:23:08
Qaroused um yes okay he's like wait did you think she was like asexual I tease women about that I be like oh you asexual you
03:23:19
Qknow okay she's blushing now um that was out of the blue I I was curious cuz you said cuz you said you you know you waiting or you we were talking about my type and then I know but I just wanted to know have you ever
03:23:32
Qeven been tempted what Temptation yeah like have you ever even been tempted that's why I said have you ever been sexually obviously do you think I'm not human I don't know I was I don't know you do come out it was it was up in question to
03:23:43
Leila Jennerthat point she say what I feel like you do come out like like you're like so like powerful and like comes out it's like perfect time oh thank you looks like a cinnamon roll would kill you that's almost like Borderland
03:23:56
Tiffanyoffensive ask that question get no not cuz of her like porn stuff just because she's a girl I'm not gay like what the [ __ ] oh
03:24:06
Brian Atlasmy you're so she I'm not gay what the [ __ ] my bad um what why do you what was the incident I guess that caused you to already not like the guys at
03:24:19
Brian AtlasUCSB um like you go on a date or something you met them at a party what I hate dates you hate dates no she like you like she stay home are you like you want a guy to just come over and watch
03:24:31
MollyNetflix and like watch no I like being friends first that's terrible but okay that's awesome no I love that I think that's terrible that's a good way to get that's I was friends with my boyfriend
03:24:41
Brian Atlasfor for two years before we started dating and we met on Tinder oh why that you want to marry your best friend right well this this thought occurred to me like so you have a subset of women who
03:24:53
Brian Atlassay I want to I want to be friends first right but then it's but then you also hear women who
03:25:03
Brian Atlassay that they get mad at the men who are their friends for trying to make a move and ruining the Friendship so you have like I don't know if it's two different
03:25:15
Brian Atlasgroups of women or it's just like but you do have women who say I want to start off as friends but I do think some of those same women will also be frustrated when there's men who are her
03:25:25
Brian Atlasfriends start making a move so men are listening to your advice saying oh like women will say oh we got to start as friends got to be friends first then
03:25:36
Brian Atlasmaybe and then when your friends your male friends make a move all of a sudden you get a offended so it's like but you've instructed the men to be your friends first instead of just being upfront with their intentions me me
03:25:48
Brian Atlaspersonally I think it should be romantic from the start there there should not be like a friendship period Transit like it should be romantic from the start or nothing that friendship forms later on
03:26:00
Brian Atlaslike once you start spending that time with that I agree that exactly I agree with that that's how you unlock my friendship you like friendship with a romantic Hue romantic what no I get I get what you're saying get it like
03:26:12
Brian Atlasflirting like flirting with them okay I get it kind of really subtle but would you be upset with this friendship with the Romantic Hue if you saw that guy flirting with other women sleeping with
03:26:24
Brian Atlasother women dating other women would you have a problem with that you're just friends right I would ghost no you have standards that's good why would you ghost a friend shouldn't you be happy for your your friend that
03:26:36
Brian Atlasthey are pursuing flirting well she wants them to focus on only her right like well all the benefits of a relationship without any of the
03:26:47
Brian Atlascorresponding you get you get his attention you get his protection you get his maybe dude there's girl there are women who have male friends that will like pay for their [ __ ] it's basically a boyfriend without any of the
03:26:58
Emilyreciprocated romantic or sexual like anything so yeah actually I feel like girls just kind of like if they find a guy like that the the one that are like the ones that say I'm that get mad about
03:27:10
Brian Atlasthe guy pursuing it to be a romantic relationship I think they want to keep the guy around just cuz they like the attention sometimes and the validation emotional support makes them feel good they'll keep a guy around for sometimes guys will provide benefits that are just
03:27:24
Brian Atlasin the friend zone whether that's attention whether that's here Li there we had a girl on the show a while back who's like she had a dude in her phone as Uber she had a dude in her phone as dinner so she'll like go out hang out
03:27:37
Brian Atlaswith these guys they'll pay for it because you know want to be good friend with the hopes that eventually down the road what they're doing will elicit romantic response from her yeah it's just like so it's yeah that's that is
03:27:49
Brian Atlasstraty I think but just generally speaking I think it should be romantic from the get-go I don't think you should be friends first if you happen to be friends and develop feelings that's
03:28:00
Brian Atlasdifferent but certainly if you get friend zoned as a guy it's done yeah friend zone friend zone exists because of male stupidity don't be in the friend zone gentlemen don't let yourself get
03:28:12
Brian Atlasfriend onone well you're going to get friend zone but don't if you don't want to be with me it was nice to meet you goodbye slay did you have anything else
03:28:23
Brian AtlasTiffany I don't make male friends unless I want to be romantic with them wait you don't you don't make male friends but so do you wait I have a question though so let's say a guy let's
03:28:34
Brian Atlassay uh a nonf frat emotionally stable college boy steps to you who likes Kanye West also who has a Kanye tattoo on his
03:28:42
Brian Atlasbutt talks steps to you and is like Tiffany I actually don't really like guys who are Kanye fans who are what Kanye fans really wa but you love Kanye
03:28:55
Tiffanyyou don't but I feel like opposites track I she I mean okay so the guys who do like Kanye there's something wrong with them but he can't hate Kanye because I hate everyone who hates Kanye
03:29:06
Tiffanybut I'm so confused no just explain like why just just he has I want him to have a neutral point of view of Kanye do you think but you don't you don't want him to like Kanye I'm like Head Over Heels
03:29:18
Tiffanyover Kanye so if he's like me then like that's kind of weird it's your thing it's your thing right yeah okay so okay let's say he steps to you Tiffany and
03:29:29
Brian Atlashe's like cute boy in class right walks up to you after class you're kind of leaving the grassy null by the outside of the
03:29:39
Brian Atlasthe Yen the whatever hey Tiffany um just oh [ __ ] I already okay he's just like no no no I
03:29:50
Brian Atlaswas just I was just thinking thinking it through my head he's just like hey Tiffany listen um just wanted to say thought you were cute want to see if you'd like to go out sometime what do you what do you say to
03:30:02
Brian Atlasthat do you say oh no well if I like someone I do background research on them well okay but in the moment this is in person uhuh I know I've never seen this guy before or no let's say you're in a class with him and you're kind of like
03:30:14
Brian AtlasGathering your books after class and he he approaches you in an affable sort of way and he's like hey what's up Tiffany what are you doing right now hey uh maybe maybe he's like hey you want to go grab coffee really quick before our next class or just like hey just thought
03:30:27
Brian Atlasyou're cute want to see if you'd like to uh get some food grab some coffee someine huh I would decline you would decline yes if they were assuming
03:30:37
Kellyassuming he's like attractive and you would decline just based on the Riz yeah I would still decline based on what I don't think so I think if he was a really attractive guy it would be hard
03:30:48
Brian Atlasto say no for you no so you would decline you're attracted to him but he he approaches you he just says Hey listen just saw you in class thought you were cute would you like
03:31:00
Brian Atlasto grab coffee sometime go grab some food how do you want to be a I feel like that is like the most [ __ ] polite way
03:31:09
Brian Atlaslike I feel like most espe it's not polite but what you would you object to that scenario um
03:31:21
Brian Atlasyes why you literally just said yes to a question where I'm trying to solicit more understanding more details I like
03:31:31
Brian Atlascasual things like I don't like what do you mean casual that's hella this is I don't like formally being asked out these are the different messages that men receive from women you have women who are crying why don't guys approach
03:31:43
Qin person anymore let me see yeah okay so say you say you sitting somewhere you go on campus um cafeteria something like that and a guy just comes sit down start
03:31:56
Tiffanytalking to you yeah like that i' be fine with that okay yeah that's casual yeah so you want him to just come up to you and just start talking to
03:32:06
Emilyyou that would that would be almost more Awkward than more weird guy just came up to me that's not weird no I think I see what she's saying like if you're just having lunch on campus and a guy a cute
03:32:17
Qguy comes up with like a some food for you like say that I mean he can have he can have Riz in the process like seat taken what you EA or you know like and make it comfortable to where he's just
03:32:29
Brian Atlasinteracting with you and you don't think too much into out it's almost like an appointment like that I have to commit to I get that
03:32:37
Brian Atlasbro this is like men trying to approach women is like literally a [ __ ] tight RPP act every woman wants something different she wouldn't want a guy
03:32:48
Brian Atlaspolitely approaching her like granted I think maybe it's the case like especially Z Zoomers who are like really young have actually never encountered a
03:32:57
Brian Atlasguy doing a cold approach like that but like I don't know bro that's okay um look I mean even if you're attracted to him the
03:33:10
Brian Atlasscenario I painted that's just immediately a noo you mean attracted just physically yeah yeah it's a noo if a guy
03:33:22
Kellycomes up to you okay so what's the ideal scenario for you to meet a guy like what he said like cafeteria cafeteria but don't you feel like if a guy is coming up to you by yourself at the cafeteria he's obviously going to try to want to
03:33:34
Brian Atlasask you out because I know no guy like no guy's about to go up to a random girl just to be friends with them she she want I will say she's she wants conversational foreplay she doesn't want a guy to be instantly
03:33:47
Kellywhich I mean to me it's like what's the difference but there is yeah she wants the guy to like talk to her first ask her how her day is and then ask her out she wants a guy to prove themselves
03:33:59
Kellyfirst before she she Pro deems them worthy to go out on a date with them or something okay though yeah that's valid I think that's cool yeah I mean I guess well maybe she just do want to take the risk of going on the date and
03:34:12
Brian Atlasthen not liking them and wasting your time right is that what it well the okay the way I'm thinking with the scenario that I painted is the guy goes up he's immediately straightforward about his intentions because like there's some
03:34:23
Brian Atlasguys that will approach you and talk to you and it's like what do you they're like asking you questions like oh where's the library and you know like
03:34:33
Brian Atlasgirls aren't [ __ ] stupid they they know that the pretext is is a way to initiate a romantic Interac interaction with you so I think I don't know me personally like my
03:34:45
Brian AtlasApproach would be to always be very upfront from the GetGo and also just because if the girl's got a boyfriend I want to know right away I don't want to spend 10 minutes talking to a girl and then like keep it friendly and then I ask her out and then she's like oh I
03:34:58
Brian Atlashave a boyfriend because a lot of women if you keep things more casual and friendly they're not immediately going to give the boyfriend the boyfriend's objection but if you're just straight up hey just thought you're cute are you
03:35:09
Brian Atlassingle immediately they can give you the boyfriend objection and then it's like oh cool hey didn't know nice to meet you have a good day and then you can leave so um yeah I feel the same way I think
03:35:22
Sydneythat like you're supposed to be straightforward ask about the date and then during the day is when you have those little conversations like if I saw a cute girl in like a place where it's like a moving situation where let's say
03:35:35
Brian AtlasI saw a cute girl at Trader Joe's or something I'm not going to like go and have a 10-minute conversation with her about cucumbers I'm just going to be like if she's cute hey just saw you thought you were cute uh want to see if
03:35:46
Brian Atlasyou're single you want to do something sometime and then based on what she says if she's kind of into it I might continue the conversation and then we could have a brief interaction uh if she's not into it oh
03:35:57
Qhey nice to meet you have enjoy your shopping whatever see you later so I don't know how often do you get approached I know she's young though I feel like she got I'm saying that's what I'm that's what I'm saying that's why her answers are the way um they are
03:36:10
Brian Atlasbecause she's inexperienced well most young women also don't have you been approached before by guys yeah maybe like two two times yeah
03:36:21
Brian Atlasso okay cute like guys that you thought what's that I've gotten a lot of DMS you get a lot of DMS how do you respond to those I don't
03:36:31
Brian Atlasrespond we need a mic drop moment for that one I don't respond um dating on easy mode okay um Sydney what about you anything you'd
03:36:42
Sydneylike to get off your chest um no but you like you said something you were like oh you grew up Mormon and then the thing got cut off what were you
03:36:52
Brian Atlasgoing to say huh yeah it was like a while ago you I was trying to I was trying to weave in that you grew up Mormon to the her Mormon Bishop alone but I don't know what I
03:37:06
Brian Atlasdon't know do you have anything dating related though that you wanted to talk about any topic
03:37:13
Sydneyum what's your tattoo say here um it it says the whole is greater than the sum of its parts it's from my favorite book called flipped flipped okay flipped yeah
03:37:23
Brian Atlasokay yeah okay good times good times Q reminds me of Andrew Tate who q q reminds you of Andrew Tate yeah why how I feel like he understands women's
03:37:34
Mollypsyche like a lot I don't oh yeah I do understand women's psyche he's a coach relationship coach certified did you just say you think Andrew Tay understands women's psyche he does he
03:37:47
Brian Atlasdoes yeah he does he does speaking of Andrew Tate we have a video to react to that was related to something I think one of you two had said earlier on in the conversation is the one with har no
03:37:58
Brian Atlasno no no no not this one Nick it's it's uh it's the uh what is it it's the one where he's talking about like oh if she doesn't
03:38:08
Brian Atlastake dick that well you know that one Nick I can't take sex me me oh yeah I think we watched it last week but W
03:38:19
Leila JennerAndrew Tate W Andrew Tate I'll take the hat back by the way Andy T thank you it was cute it was cute yeah oh wait so hold on wait wait
03:38:31
Brian Atlaswait I know he did this too uh wait okay so so I I forgot which one of you you who said it was it but you're saying like
03:38:42
Brian Atlasmaybe it was you Molly about the this [ __ ] be the [ __ ] what this py you're like this [ __ ] be the [ __ ] I got that bomb [ __ ] I don't know
03:38:56
Brian Atlasyou saying something like that I was saying something like that she said I forgot it already this dick sucking is good right yeah it is good okay all right is it never mind you want to see
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Mollyno I'm okay we two we can do it together yeah what I'll what we could do it together I think you want to see to who well you said you
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Brian Atlaswant to see no no no no no no no no no yes Nick sorry go ahead play the tape I'm
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Leila Jennerready have you ever taken that bdsmtest.org test Leila oh my God Brian Haram why are you getting to this she's she's I haven't are you talking about
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Brian Atlasthe rice purity test no no I'm talking about the BDSM test .org no I haven't I don't is.org I don't know why it's.org bdsm.org no like you know how there's
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Brian Atlaslike breakdowns when it comes to B BSM like submissive prey Predator there's um she's Predator no she's well she's also
03:39:55
Leila Jennera brat but um in a BDM cont yeah you're brat F like can you read this one please yeah um sure you all can suck a dick we
03:40:07
Leila Jennerget that that is such a small portion of the relationship oh I'll sorry I'll re-trigger way to finish strong L thank
03:40:18
Leila Jenneryou on average you might have sex for about an hour a day what do you do with the rest of your day lay around with your mouth open here is it real what can you
03:40:29
Leila Jennercook I like cooking I have been taking a cooking class and I think I've been doing pretty well in it oh the other day I learned how hear that fellas I learned how to make this like a
03:40:40
Leila Jennerlike a homemade baked potato soup like it I cut them up I skinned them I I did the whole flow thing chicken broth the whole cut up
03:40:52
Brian Atlaschives was really good I was really wow that was beautiful okay we have grid Motorsports hey thank you man just to get off the S work for a minute swid T ask a question for the panel what is the number one deal breaker in a
03:41:04
Leila Jennerrelationship other than obviously s work and cheating I give us a couple seconds sorry oh God he hates me here why don't we start with Kelly over here and we'll
03:41:14
Kellygo around the table what is the biggest deal breaker a relation sex work and cheating you said just like just by knowing someone or just if I'm already
03:41:25
Brian Atlasin the relationship with I think in the relationship Rel one deal breaker in a relationship so I guess it could be before it could be during
03:41:34
Kellyum no ambition zero ambition deal breaker okay or like you know if you're in the same position that you were like a whole year ago and like you're not trying to do anything to better yourself
03:41:46
Brian Atlasthat's unattractive to me I have kind of a hot take on the whole ambition thing I think that uh women claim that they want ambition I don't think that's actually
03:41:57
Brian Atlastrue yeah I don't think that's true why is that Brian tell us I think that women they don't want ambition they want
03:42:07
Brian Atlasa man who has reaped the benefits the tangible benefits of sad ambition if a guy is broke and homeless yet ambitious that does nothing for you so I
03:42:19
Brian Atlasdon't it's not clear to me that women are particularly attracted to ambition I mean I think it does I'm the most [ __ ] ambitious person in Santa Barbara nobody like chicks aren't like banging down the door to like oh Brian
03:42:33
Kellyyou're so ambitious please let me date you hello Brian you're so ambitious please let me date you cool but if you Wen ambitious brand then that would be a deal breaker sure fair enough um Sydney what
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Sydneyabout you I mean uh wait what was the question like Breer it say besid and cheating um honestly mine's probably just like physical attention just
03:42:55
Sydneybecause I'm so clingy in a relationship probably wait where you from originally cuz you have an accent um I well I've kind of moved around I've lived in Colorado Texas and California how long were you in Texas
03:43:08
Sydneyfor uh from 10 to 17 10 to 17 there you have it folks but I lived in but I lived in Dallas like no one has a accent or anything and so
03:43:18
Leila Jennerpeople from Texas they're like that how do you get that accent I don't know 10 parents country cuz typically your parents do they have an accent no not at all here's the thing typically you're going to get an accent when you're
03:43:31
Sydneyyounger so you were in California no I was I was born in Colorado then moved to Texas then people from Colorado don't have accents no I know I don't know where it came from I've heard some I've heard
03:43:47
Brian Atlaspeople all right there you have it uh red flag for you wait Brian you have a fuzz on your beard right here oh you got it thanks appre appreciate it Tiffany
03:43:58
Brian Atlasred flag deal breaker or deal breaker in a relationship being liberal being liberal ding ding ding well speaking of that let's go around the table really quick do you consider
03:44:08
Brian Atlasyourself liberal moderate oh wait liberal Democrat or liberal conservative moderate apolitical starting with Lea go ahead probably like a political I kind
03:44:21
Sarah Ryderof believe in things on both sides um I would say liberal yeah conservative um I'm a constitutional conservative with Progressive
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TTS Readervalues Sydney conservative consera ative I'm apolitical a political okay what what youan I thought you were
03:44:46
TTS Readerred $99 five head Korean girl is apparently delusional someone with her face and landing strip going down her scalp
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TTS Readershould be thankful for any advance girl with the Pokémon hat is qf I think most dudes would wipe it up I think you're beautiful you are gorgeous yeah do you
03:45:08
Emilycan you read it no [ __ ] that one get rid of it get dumb I can't read don't worry he was saying very nice things about you no I'm used to this oh you you don't mind
03:45:19
TTS Readeryou're beautiful you sure yeah the chat's [ __ ] up got wor I love chat okay fine I'll trick it again ccore zore
03:45:29
TTS Reader$99 fivehead Korean girl is apparently delusional someone with her face and landing strip going down her scalp should be thankful for any advance girl
03:45:39
TTS Readerwith the Pokémon hat is qf I think most dudes would wife it up I'm not offended huh I'm not offended you're not offended I've gotten worse
03:45:51
Brian AtlasDMS you're like kind of an enigma I can't quite read you she's basic like she's chill so I had like 10K followers on Tik Tok uh oh what did did you say
03:46:03
Brian Atlassome racist [ __ ] here wait wait wait before you say before you say hold on Nick can you actually this can you mute on the can you mute put it on the intro really quick
03:46:32
Brian Atlasjust okay um maybe not that one okay do you have any thoughts on but Tik Tok honestly like bra should we talk about that or it's not it's not related to
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Nickdating whatever okay no I don't have no issue with thats like minutes ago that came in
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Brian Atlassilent did you read that I did I did yeah um you wait 10 minutes ago I said five to 10 I don't which one it just
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Brian Atlascame in Sil I'm pretty sure we got uh yeah we got everything um let's see okay wait so what were we talking about deal breakers deal breakers deal breaker um
03:47:14
Sarah Rydersomeone that Rel can't communicate their emotions nor can they self-regulate them word um I'd say someone who's close-minded like if I try and show you
03:47:27
Emilysomething new about like the news or the media and you just like immediately like don't believe me or shut me down like I get turned off immediately if anybody did that I wouldn't want to be around them but I mean that's kind of the PO
03:47:38
Sarah Rydercalling the kettle black but I mean you're saying that your deal breaker is someone being judgmental but you're no no no not judgmental I'm saying like in the in cled that's what you said in the prospect of like the
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Sydneyconspiracy and news stuff like that not about sex and porn no just yeah still it's still Clos minded no I think I've saw it on my I don't think it makes it I don't think it makes her close-minded to
03:48:01
Sarah Ryderhave an opinion no not at all but when you're judgmental and hateful and you like put your expectations onto other people's Lifestyles instead of saying like wow there's people that are
03:48:13
Emilydifferent than me in the world she wants to smoke Emily yeah there's lots of people that are different there's M there's so many people that are different murderers [ __ ] rapists I mean sorry about that word but you know every the world in we all have a
03:48:25
Emilycollective conscious that we or consensus that we govern on and just because you two don't think that that's fair and oh I don't have the same view of loyalty as you I don't have the same view of of sex as you everybody else