ØF Girls BOYFRIEND Joins Stream?! 130+ Body Count?! | Dating Talk #65

Date: 2023-03-22
Duration: 4h 51m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Mick(guest)
SPEAKER_02Vita(guest)
SPEAKER_03Cassandra(guest)
SPEAKER_04Madison Vu(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kayn(guest)
SPEAKER_06Key(guest)
SPEAKER_07Eric(audience)
SPEAKER_08Patrice O'Neal (clip)(audience)
SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Monica(guest)
SPEAKER_13Kelsey(guest)
SPEAKER_14Isabelle Brown(guest)

Key Moments

00:04:01
IntroKelsey introduces herself as a recovering sex addict and recovering opiate addict, announces her new podcast "Chronicles of Craving."

my name is Kelsey I'm 22 I go to LCC in Eugene Oregon and I am a waitress and I also just started a podcast Chronicles of Craving

00:12:35
ControversyKelsey describes peak sex addiction behavior: bringing up to 6 men per night to her home, one after another. Brian asks detailed questions.

I was like bringing over six dudes a night like it just was never enough

00:15:46
Key MomentKelsey discloses body count of ~136, says she keeps notes.

it's not like 300 or anything it's it's like 136 I think

00:17:21
ControversyIsabelle challenges Key/Mick arrangement using biomedical science: oxytocin bonding means you cannot separate romance from physical intimacy.

you can't separate the Romantic emotional part of engaging in the most intimate experience that you can with another human being

00:26:08
OtherMick (Key's fiance) joins the show from the audience after chat reacts to the OF situation. Brian reveals Key is engaged.

yes um I'm with her you're engaged to her yes we are engaged

01:06:26
OtherKey announces on-air she is quitting the adult industry. Brian confirms. Key then immediately walks it back to keeping OnlyFans.

she's quitting for real yes okay then from this point on what are we both going to do for money... the only fans money is too good okay then

01:26:40
QuoteIsabelle cites Pew Research data: ~73% of Gen Z who are dating are unhappy; proposes cultural change from inside out rather than regulatory rollback.

most of gen zers if you are in a relationship you are unhappy I think the figure from Pew was about 73%

04:23:46
QuoteIsabelle gives extended defense of Andrew Tate: argues media attacks on him are an assault on masculinity, his message has transformed lives.

the assault on masculinity that our culture has promoted... people who are going to encourage men to be who they were supposed to be

04:31:12
OtherBrian performs the All Blacks Haka live on stream after a $1,000 donation from "Smith." Scuffed performance with YouTube video playing.

okay all right I'm ready this so cringe bro

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Introductions & relationship statuses

All guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation). Brian goes around table for relationship statuses. Kelsey (sex addiction/recovery), Mick & Key (engaged, OF situation), Madison (planning marriage at 18), Kayn (situationship), Isabelle (engaged), Monica (life partner 5 yrs), Vita (single, virgin).

00:10:00
Kelsey's sex addiction story

Extended discussion of Kelsey's opiate recovery, transition to sex addiction, peak behavior (up to 6 men per night, ~136 body count), move from Olympia WA, launch of podcast "Chronicles of Craving." Body count disclosed as ~136. Brian asks detailed follow-up questions about scheduling, apps, volume.

00:26:08
Mick & Key: OF relationship dynamic

Key's boyfriend/fiance Mick joins from the audience at ~0:26:08 after the show chat reacts. Extended discussion of how they got into the adult industry (financial hardship, $100 left), how Mick feels (accepted but not happy), Key's perspective (it's a job), guest panel weighs in. Key announces quitting the industry live on-air at ~1:06 then walks it back to just OF.

00:33:20
Jealousy & double standards in relationships

Discussion of jealousy in the context of Key's situation, and broader double standards around men and women in sexual contexts. Whether emotional vs. physical infidelity are different. Cassandra, Kayn, Madison contribute.

01:14:00
Feminism debate

Monica calls modern feminism a supremacist cult. Kelsey partially agrees, differentiates equity vs equality. Isabelle argues modern feminism conflates submission with inferiority. Cassandra has mixed views. Vita believes birth control and abortion normalize promiscuity.

01:15:30
Physical ratings round

Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Kelsey: ~4, Key: 6-7, Kayn: 7 (sometimes 10), Cassandra: 6 (7 with makeup), Isabelle: 6 without / 7 with makeup, Brian: solid 8.3. Mick rates women: mostly agrees with self-ratings; calls Key his 10, rates Kelsey ~9, rates Brian 10 for a man.

01:26:40
Gen Z dating crisis & hookup culture

Extended panel discussion on Gen Z unhappiness in dating (Pew data cited by Isabelle: ~73% unhappy), hookup culture, whether it can be reversed, social media and dating apps as root causes. Brian argues the culture war is already lost. Isabelle argues for cultural change from inside out. Kelsey on normalization of average men.

01:35:00
Marriage incentives, divorce rates & family courts

Brian discusses divorce rate statistics (80% initiated by women), alimony flow (90-97% men to women), bias in family courts, disincentives for men to marry. Proposals to change marriage law. Isabelle on setting boundaries. Single mother household outcomes cited by Kelsey/Brian.

02:00:00
Body count, pair-bonding & CDC data

Discussion of Kelsey's 136 body count. Brian references CDC studies correlating higher body count with greater likelihood of infidelity, relationship dissatisfaction, STDs, and difficulty pair-bonding. Kelsey argues people can change. Brian uses cigarette lung analogy for lasting damage.

04:20:00
Abortion & pro-life debate

Near end of show, brief discussion of abortion. Vita: pro-life (birth control + abortion drive promiscuity). Isabelle: strongly pro-life (studied fetal development; 96% of biologists agree life begins at conception per Princeton study). Monica: calls herself pro-choice but says it is killing a being. Cassandra: cautiously pro-choice. Kayn: would not rule out dating pro-life man. Madison: pro-choice (SA exceptions).

04:23:46
Andrew Tate opinions

Panel goes around on Andrew Tate. Madison: likes his confidence and morals. Kelsey: respects him for walking the walk (multiple women), but has disagreements. Mick: knows some things, believes he is held illegally. Cassandra: common sense, doesn't like his character act. Monica: 70/30. Vita: agrees with Mick on legal issues. Isabelle: lengthy defense; argues media attacks on Tate are an assault on masculinity; his message has transformed lives.

04:28:18
Patrice O'Neal clip & discussion

Brian plays Patrice O'Neal clip about what a woman would do to keep her man if she lost her genitalia in a train accident. Panel responds. Isabelle refuses to engage with premise (biblical vows). Monica: would let him sleep with other women. Kayn: would do other things. Cassandra: agrees with Mick (Mick said he would never leave). Madison: everything she can, not let him go elsewhere.

Transcript

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00:56:03
Micksometimes I mean we're just that's why I want to be like a studio musician and uh have producer I'm like the behind the scenes guy like even when I used to play live on stages with the bands and we'd play rock and roll I was the guy in the
00:56:15
Mickbackground doing background vocals or background guitar I wasn't on in front of everyone Mick listen as your
00:56:24
Brian Atlasmanager I think you know you're a handsome guy you kind of look like a young Bert Reynolds kind of does he maybe I'll take it thank you
00:56:36
Brian Atlasyou know you got the good jawline M uh you know but I guess my confusion is you do only fans he accepts
00:56:48
Brian Atlasit allegedly apparently however you would have a major issue with him doing scenes with women hold on
00:56:58
TTS Reader$999 Mi saave yourself and find someone who brings the best out of as you would with that person I'm the best thing he's ever going to get because I'm the best
00:57:07
Mickso and we're soulmates what I I think um erroneous erroneous I I think uh she does uh bring the best out of me I think we both have our
00:57:19
Mickissues and and we both grown as people when we met each other we were a lot younger we're a lot more mature closer more mature and older now we certainly uh still have our issues just like in
00:57:31
Kelseyany relationship but we work those issues out we talk to each other and uh that's all you can ask for in life and I I'm here's like my thing with it cuz I used to strip right like my not the ex
00:57:43
Kelseythat I currently live with but another ex yeah you used to strip too okay yeah yeah so um but it was like an act of addiction kind of like I I was cleaning
00:57:55
Kelseyoff my drug of choice but like not clean clean so I was it was more like doing it to make money so that I could go get high but I mean you know whatever people aren't going to care but
00:58:06
Kelseyum sorry oh yeah a relationship is like a contract right like and it's also about compromise if you respect each other you're going to hear what each other has to say and you have to listen
00:58:17
Kelseyto each other and so when my X was telling me like he's uncomfortable with like the fact that I can go to this strip club and do this this but like he can't make an only fans or whatever we made a compromise and we actually made
00:58:30
Keyan only fans together and like started making content together so like it's all about compromise yeah I'd be okay with that if he wants to make anol fans I'm totally fine with it I just would want him to do content with me and the reason
00:58:42
KeyI don't want him touching anyone else but me is because I've already done that and have been making money and I don't even want to touch anyone else but him I just do it for money so yeah and that's something that you want her to quit
00:58:53
Keyeventually I want to quit today if I could but you know we just need the money how do you cope with that not quitting I sleep I just look at the end of light at the end of the tunnel and be like look there's people
00:59:05
Keydying in in all over the world someone always has it worse and that's not to say that my situation isn't valid but no one's perfect no one's life is perfect no one's relationship is perfect why don't you want Mick to start an only
00:59:17
Keyfans I never said he couldn't he can't you he hasn't started one you said you would have an issue if he was doing BG content with anyone but me because I'm already making all the money but that's what you do you do cont I don't even want to do it though that's yeah but you
00:59:31
Keydo content with other men but he can't do content with other women want to do it so huh but I don't even want to do it I don't want to him why can't he do it because making all the money cuz we I'm already making don't you want double money pressure from that that you have
00:59:44
Keyto make all the money in the relationship obviously a little bit cuz I want him to make money and pull his weight but I mean I guess I just never I don't know he just doesn't make as much you are refusing to let him do an only
00:59:57
Keyfans no he can make an only fans but with with other women well obviously yeah because I'm already making m b Reynolds but he's mine and I already I'm doing the point is he can't make an only fans with content with other people you
01:00:09
Keycan't keep a man that handsome I can and I will there's nothing you can do about it mine mine mine I don't care afterwards manager I got you ni he can have an only fans look he can totally
01:00:20
Keyhave an only fans but he can only make content by himself or with me look only fans you can have chef on there guitar people only fans just isn't adult content you know okay Mick I guess my question to
01:00:33
Brian Atlasyou is and I do want to keep continue moving because I want to give everybody an opportunity to share their relationship status um Mick don't you think it would be more ideal to not have a girlfriend that is
01:00:45
Mickdoing adult content with other men to be stripping to doing all this I would say it would be easier if she didn't have to do that but I'm not
01:00:56
Mickgoing to leave her for someone that isn't doing all that um because I loved her before it I love her after it it that's not an issue for me does she have
01:01:09
Isabelle Brownto right now I mean how financially secure are you guys we have Louis Vuitton bags we only have like1 15,000 doesn't have a Louis Vuitton bag so it's not a longterm sustainable strategy so
01:01:21
Keywhat are you doing to build a sustainable strategy to get out of it if he made money I'd quit doing what I'm doing if we both could find another job that wasn't in the adult entertainment I would do it like I always say to him
01:01:32
Micklook we can go work and I can it has to make it has to make more than what we are right now which I doubt most jobs would be paying as much as we're making right now however I will say this we do
01:01:44
Mickhave a plan we have a savings account we have about enough saved up we are planning on going to the smokies and by the end of the summer okay how about for income though like what are you doing to train for a Workforce position that not
01:01:56
Mickin the adult film industry or only fans or having a sugar daddy well I'm going to build out my recording studio and start I'm going to start once we have that house I'm going to start doing my
01:02:07
Mickown content uh not it's going to be YouTube related and things like that I'm going to be building the studio I'm going to be having people come in and charge them to use the recording studio
01:02:19
Mickuh for whatever they are I'm going to be doing session work in Nashville with other guitarists and things like that so that's going to bring in an income for me she can get a job at a at a at a coffee shop or whatever if she wants to
01:02:32
Mickshe can still do her off if she wants to she does a lot of live streaming and and things live streaming maybe one day I'll start my own podcast it's kind of fun you know talking to people and hold on I just have to interrupt a little bit guys
01:02:44
Brian Atlaswe we put members only mode on just for a couple minutes here uh the chat was uh getting a little we it was hard for the mods and for Eric to keep up so I put
01:02:53
Brian Atlasmembers only own MO slurring my words here I put members only mode on we'll leave it on for about 10 15 minutes and then we'll switch back um okay maybe we'll touch base on that again I do want
01:03:05
Brian Atlasto let the rest of the girls go so what's your current relationship status single situationship relationship I'm in a relationship okay how long has that um a little shy of a year now is that your longest
01:03:17
Monicarelationship no my longest is 5 years five five okay what about you I am with
01:03:23
Monicaa life partner um um for almost five years Super taken okay super taken okay um sorry I I would just say
01:03:36
Monicasomething I'm from New York so sometimes I'll say like New York SL so I don't know if that's like okay give like what's an example of what do you mean like oh you're Wilding right now I think
01:03:47
Monicathat's a slang everywhere I've heard that before well okay well others so okay got it explain the neck tap by the way um I got it at a women's retreat can you like pull your hair back so we
01:04:02
Brian Atlascan a woman's Retreat
01:04:10
Vitayeah okay what about you I'm single and my longest relationship was two two and a half years okay single like proper
01:04:19
Isabelle Brownsingle like 100% single sure what about you I am very happily engaged to my best friend engaged okay how long have you guys been together uh we started dating
01:04:30
Isabelle Brownin July of 2021 and he proposed in December and I know you're watching hi Brock yo what up Brock how you doing okay all right so that's everyone's
01:04:43
Brian Atlasrelationship Jesus what this is a this is a mess of a panel tonight um okay so hold on one sec I wanted to bring it back to
01:04:57
Brian Atlassorry guys yeah by the way I don't think some of the super chats are they're not triggering has has more
01:05:06
TTS Readerthan one come oh is that it w super CH 99.99 oh I know what happened there to the girl with red hair how can you say
01:05:16
TTS Readeryou love him and also say you are the best he can get love is not selfish it's selfless guy with the black T-shirt why don't you get any respect able you can
01:05:26
Keyget until you can fulfill your dreams so she can stop the of so to answer that um we're the best each other can get but we love each other like you have to be a little bit selfish not like you can
01:05:39
TTS Readerstill respect your partner and be a little bit selfish it's a balance you know like oh my God un truth donated $100 what a pile of bull you say he is yours and no one else can have him yet
01:05:51
TTS Readeryou are his and willing to give yourself away to male porn stars that care nothing about you garbage love you Brian everyone's going to paycheck at the end of the day and honestly I will quit but
01:06:03
Micklike babe do you want me to quit I'll quit today oh do you want her to quit I've been wanting to quit anyway is she is this a whatever exclusive she can quit when she's ready okay but what what you want yeah what are you going to do
01:06:15
Brian Atlasto make money I would like I would like her to quit yes well you would like her to quit do you want her to quit tonight on the whatever podcast yeah
01:06:26
Keyyou want to make it official okay we'll make it official she's quitting for real yes okay then from this point on what are we both going to do for money cuz we
01:06:36
Keyneed to have a plan you can still do only fans okay compromise compromise okay deal cool oh my and just so you guys know he has access to my phone
01:06:48
Keyanytime like I have nothing to hide so if you want to look at who I'm texting what pictures I'm liking tode you're quitting yeah wow right now yeah you're going to delete your only fans you're going to keep that
01:06:59
Brian Atlas[ __ ] around up to you babe what do you want what the only fans money is too good okay then wait before you guys quit though you got you got to let Mick do
01:07:12
Keyone scene with another chick no come on it's only fair it's only fair no no no way in hell never happening oh he he can't do a scene with a chick but you can I don't even want to touch these people though that's the
01:07:24
Brian Atlasthing neither does he but he needs the money I know but I already have so much money from what I did why do both of us need to do disregard her listen to me Mick I want you to say this say show me the money say it show me the money
01:07:36
Micklouder say with your chest show me the money louder you show me the money show me the money louder Mick the money louder Mick show me the money there we
01:07:46
Brian Atlasgo oh my God so cringe there we go Jerry McGuire by the way okay so the Super Chat the Miss Super Chat there can you pull it up read it I know what happened there oh wait we're I'm
01:07:58
Brian Atlasthere's another one that just came in uh actually hide it because I'm there's one that's about to come in so by the way thank you for all the memberships guys oh my God super CH
01:08:13
Brian Atlas9999 this is some double standard nonsense yeah here the asteroid men and women are different right so there should be double standards for some things but it's I mean you could the
01:08:24
Keythat argument be made more so in favor of if it was Mick who yes I I get that but this is what works for us and it's not permanent Mick just be honest do you want to start an only fans just say it it's up to you I'm not stopping you from
01:08:37
Keydoing anything you want to do well you don't want him to do it with other girls well obviously duh cuz I'm already making so much money from mine but you can double it this is Bert Reynolds in the flesh son yes but he would just be
01:08:48
Keytoo nervous to do it anyway instead of a two-bedroom three bedroom you're underselling your fiance not really I think he would kill it yeah but I just don't want him to and he doesn't want to
01:08:58
Brian Atlaseither what's that movie with Mark wallberg uh with the the from like the 70s or 80s Mark wal boogie kns boogie kns that's you dude it's a great movie
01:09:08
Brian Atlasjust look you need to look yourself deep in the eyes in the mirror and just be like oh what the [ __ ] does he say in that movie anyone in the chat can you let me know what he says in that movie
01:09:18
Vitait's but that's a prosthetic like don't worry about it you wanted to go in what or what were you gonna say I lost my train of thought I was going to say something you said there's nothing
01:09:29
Vitaromantic about the job that you have but if you're so against him having the same job will you admit that there is something romantic about your job no
01:09:40
Keywhat I just think it's both things both of us are together and we just want to touch each other it's romantic but I'm saying it's not romantic when I'm touching other people like I'm not enjoying it is what I mean and he
01:09:51
Keywouldn't enjoy it's not enjoyable at all no it's just awkward because we need money look why do people work at McDonald's is that enjoyable I was about to say I think most sex workers are are
01:10:02
Kelseythey don't it's a job right like they're not necessarily having a great time 100% of the time but the money is very very good like you make very good money doing it but it's it's like a job if you ask a sex worker do you like your job it
01:10:15
Kelseydepends on the sex worker some of them are like yeah I love getting railed by 15 guys other girls are like you know I just kind of do this for money so it just really depends if you're like willing to take that risk so what then
01:10:27
Isabelle Brownis the dollar amount that is the price of your peace and happiness like really is it that price on it but if there's no price then why not struggle financially to build a career path because people
01:10:39
Keysay you don't need money to be happy but you do you need money to eat you need money to pay your bills absolutely to eat million cost but at what cost what cost once it's over and done we have a place we're never going
01:10:51
Mickto look back and be like yep we did what we did I worked at a burger place for minimum wage and did that for 3 months and the way the management and customers treated me there and throwing food at me
01:11:03
Mickand things was one of the worst experiences in my life I was so stressful at that end of the 3 months I quit I was at that point I was pulling my hair out and losing sleep and so
01:11:14
Mickstressed that I said I would rather be homeless and starving than working at this burger place I will not name it but but wouldn't you be wouldn't you rather
01:11:24
Mickbe all those things and not have your girl getting screwed by a bunch of dudes if it brings in money then I'm
01:11:34
Mickokay with it it's it's it's it is what it is it just that's how our life has become and uh that's her her life I mean I didn't
01:11:44
Mickchoose it she didn't choose it but you know a lot of I've had dozens of odd jobs and 90% of them were awful I mean the way I was treated the you look
01:11:56
Mickstrong Mick you look like an ox I think you could handle pH labor I think you could handle like a good physical labor job I could I did forestry firefighting and that was actually really good and I had to I had to have a backpack on me
01:12:09
Mickand jump through those mountains with a chainsaw in my hand and I was in good shape back then you know got it here let's uh I got to get to these super chats uh Eric can you pull up the one that I missed or actually wait maybe I
01:12:20
Brian Atlascan do it hold on I got it I got it oh oh my bad here I got it uh by the way guys just a heads up um if you're donating donating in a different
01:12:31
Brian Atlascurrency if you're donating in a different currency you need to do the conversion for it to trigger TTS so it needs to be 100 USD so if it's like if you're donating Canadian or whatever other currency it needs for it to
01:12:43
Brian Atlastrigger TTS it needs to be a 100 USD so do the uh do the maths on that uh J oh [ __ ] Eric can you hide those scuffed
01:12:55
Brian Atlasuh J Ronald thank you for the Australian 150 man appreciate it this podcast is bloody fantastic made it always interesting and diverse guests with insights that surprise me for better
01:13:03
Brian Atlasrewards keep up the good gith gith the [ __ ] is that Brian you absolute Legend um thank you man appreciate it uh I don't know what time it is in Australia but uh thank you man really appreciate
01:13:17
Brian Atlasyour patronage and uh sorry I didn't come through as a TTS it's it's just it's through streamlabs so the conversion has to be done but uh if if it happens again I I'll always try to read it as oh promethus Venom super ched
01:13:32
TTS Reader$99.99 I work full-time and go to school I'm not doing only fans there's probably women in same shoes as me and do not have only fans as their source of
01:13:42
Brian Atlasincome yo Mick now that she's gone Bro Look the table's back we're going to back you right right girls I'm going to share all little secrets yeah look
01:13:53
Micklisten you need to start [ __ ] chicks on only fans that's what you got to do bro bro she's doing it you're doing it's only fair would she kill you would she like [ __ ] stab you that's actually our saying is it's only
01:14:06
Brian Atlasfair that's what we always say to each other it's not fair though I know did you see what she said when she's like oh no it's only fair no other girls can
01:14:14
Isabelle Brownhave uh BDM yeah only she gets BDM no not cool I just think you guys deserve better than it is what it is you know I
01:14:23
Mickknow but she doesn't the thing is is that I know she doesn't want to uh sleep with those other men and I don't want to I don't want to sleep with other women
01:14:34
MickI'm not going out trying to get with other women either so it for me it's like it's not like oh I got to go do this just to get be fair uh I don't have that
01:14:47
Brian Atlasfeeling I have a question for both of you oh Jesus
01:14:55
Micksorry I'm sorry chat okay good what's the hashtag free mick am saying that am I like in a toxic relationship where I our relationship so
01:15:08
Keyhorrible is it is it that bad we're happy you know I mean I'm happy are you happy which one of you wears the pants in the relationship well he drives I don't drive I just make some of most of
01:15:19
Mickthe money so I feel like we both wear the pants for certain things I cook I clean I dry I do most everything except for make as much as she does and I still do make
01:15:31
TTS Readermoney so I would say I'm probably the pants in the relationship okay oh my Kyle Henderson super thank
01:15:41
TTS Reader00 Mick could have joined the carpenters union or sewn other trade thoughtful face I I did forestry firefighting I
01:15:50
Mickwent to trade school to do that and that was my profession uh for 6 months and it was very good and I wouldn't mind doing
01:15:58
Mickit again um if I was hired anybody anybody knows anybody in the uh forestry industry that wants to reach
01:16:10
Keyout let me know you want to save us then you have to hire us at something that's going to make almost as much as what we're doing now how much are you making right now so how much do you think we're making I don't know how much from all
01:16:21
Mickyour hustles and whatnot how much you think I would would say closer to the mic guys I would say five or sixk a month um but at what cost but at what
01:16:33
Mickcost at what cost I don't know I I myself probably make a grand or two a month maybe 3K on a good month from all
01:16:43
Mickof the instruments and stuff I sell I sell lots of pedals lately too because they take up less space and people love pedals
01:16:53
Monicanowadays I have a question for kiwi would you ever consider taking care of kids or something um or like being a nanny cuz that that can pay a lot too there's a very high demand in being an
01:17:07
TTS ReaderI'm not I don't know if I'm very good with kids I've never changed diaper $100 your roles are swapped Mick she provides controls and she's territorial
01:17:18
TTS Readerover you I thought maybe you were just lazy and Pudgy and you are that but you're also softer than a roll of Sharman Ultra your story is painful but
01:17:28
Brian AtlasI mean if you're happy you're not the man what does it make you feel like most men I would say most guys would probably not be cool with the arrangement that
01:17:39
Mickyou guys have yes I I would say that I've I've been uh heckled and uh given a hard time by some of my closest friends
01:17:47
Mickfor uh years now and uh a lot of them don't think I should be uh with her but um I'm I'm okay with it and it doesn't bother me I
01:17:58
Mickjust it it just doesn't I'm sorry if it bothers you if it would bother you I thought it did bother you though I said there's some level of that discomfort and and that yes I don't want this
01:18:10
Mickbut it at the end of the day I compromise and sacrifice I guess for you say okay it's it's fine I can handle it key why don't you just join the military
01:18:20
KeyI'm not cut out for it I'm very into fashion I have anxiety I I don't want to get blown up and die okay I'm not I'm not into that what's the point of the military would not happen now okay I'm just being dramatic but you know I don't
01:18:32
Keywant to be in the military I'm not cut out for I respect hey if you do that then more power to you thank you for serving our country but I just I'm not cut out for it just like his friend he had a friend he was in the military
01:18:44
Mickright and he wasn't cut out for it and he had PTSD just from yeah just for six months in the military and he had a back issues in PTSD but I know other guys that were in it and did four years and
01:18:55
Brian Atlasare great and doing fine it it all depends who it is all right I'm going to do a couple chats uh this one came in at the top of the show Liberty uh I'm not able to re-trigger it for some reason
01:19:05
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01:19:43
Brian Atlasfailing world how could I be a better father by shaping her into a more whole woman for a worthy man to spend her life with Eric can you close that it's just too noisy with the rain can I answer
01:19:54
Kelseythat question sure um don't worry about how much money he's making that that's it well that's my
01:20:04
Kelseybiggest piece of advice if you're going to tell your daughter that I mean it's like I don't know my whole issue I could go into it but my whole issue with this
01:20:15
Kelseylike high value men thing is that a it's completely subjective people who designate themselves as high value men are not high value men to me because I have a
01:20:25
Kelseydifferent set of morals and standards and values right so and if it's because they're making a lot of money I don't date men who are rich so that's just like my main issue with
01:20:37
Cassandrait I would say just be present in your daughter's life and spend time with her and just be honest she has questions just tell her like it is you know some of the ugly truths are out there but they're really important to know and
01:20:49
Keywhen you have that coming from your father it makes the greatest difference homeschool by the way homeschooling not I think that's what we're going when we have kids one day too right babe you want is that what you want to do as
01:21:02
Mickhomeschool public schools are indoctrination factors I I definitely want to homeschool our children because uh I do not agree with the way uh Public
01:21:11
MickSchool Systems also my childhood was the worst time of my life as an adult I I would say I'm much happier [Music]
01:21:23
Brian Atlasthan okay we we have a veteran Carpenter here thank you for the 50 how worthless do you feel that your girl has to sell her body to feed you if I pulled every man in America I bet you are one of one
01:21:33
Brian Atlasof one I mean don't don't underestimate oh [ __ ] I missed it hold on uh got uh sorry I'm trying to re-trigger it
01:21:44
Mickuh you should be ashamed of yourself go find a job and stop being a bee your response to veteran Carpenter well I would say that I know quite a few
01:21:57
Mickother people that are in a very similar situation and most of the people the girls that she's met in the industry have boyfriends if it whether it be at the strip club or on a film set she does
01:22:09
Mickknow I mean it's more than you think if you're jerking off to a porn star she likely has a husband or a boyfriend at
01:22:17
Kelseyhome it just is and kids likely too so also there's been like ex male porn stars on this show I think I watched an episode um a couple episodes back where
01:22:29
Kelseyhe had like three girlfriends or something like that so like it's okay for a man to do porn it's okay for a man to do all this stuff and the woman has to sit at home and be submissive but when a woman's doing it she doesn't gain
01:22:41
Kelseythe same respect and I kind of understand where it's coming from right because biologically I understand what you're saying that like women aren't naturally designed to have casual sex
01:22:52
Kelseylike I kind of agree with you there but it doesn't people don't really see it as that anymore I think we've evolved to like it's about mutual respect like for example if there's a dual income
01:23:03
Kelseyhousehold why do I owe you submission if we're making the same amount of money why do I owe you submission if we're splitting chores like that doesn't make any sense who says it's okay for men to be porn
01:23:15
Keystars like I I don't know I mean I just that's like the general opinion that I thought like the red pill Community kind of happen I mean it's true people not not as hard on like oh when you're a when you're a kid in high school and you're a guy for
01:23:28
Keyexample you sleep around with a bunch of girls everyone's like go bro but if a girl sleeps around oh she's a [ __ ] it's bad so I get what you're saying yeah but at the same time it's like I listen I'm
01:23:40
Kelseya sexact so I agree I think I think sex addiction can definitely be a byproduct of this like hookup culture and Casual Sex absolutely like it was for me it was
01:23:51
Kelseysex addiction for me was probably the only thing I got addicted to where nobody could say [ __ ] to me because I would hide behind feminism and I'd be like it's women empowerment y'all like go like let's you know and nobody said I
01:24:04
Kelseymean people still called me a horror obviously there was consequences for it but generally like nobody really felt like they could call me out on it aw so I see both sides but at the same time
01:24:14
Monicait's like I don't know do you think feminism today is a problem is toxic yes I don't think why it's literally like a
01:24:24
Monicasupremist group it is it's a cult is just crazy absolutely it's rooted in Brokenness B hello all right somebody disagrees here right I mean
01:24:35
TTS Readerwell I don't agree wait you agree I agree I think people take super ched 169 new zealand 199 than guy on right rate
01:24:47
TTS Readerevery girl 1 to 10 10 means you'd hit if you can one means you would never so I assume that's Nick is he he wanting me to raate all the women he wants you to
01:24:58
Brian Atlasmaybe before we have you do that we'll we'll have you do that by the way thank for the uh New Zealand 169 man thank you uh Stiffler ask the ladies to rate their
01:25:07
Brian Atlaslooks on the scale of 1 to 10 then Mick we will have you uh do the ratings let's start
01:25:18
Brian Atlaswith I don't know okay we'll just start over here one we're rating ourselves 1 through 10 wait or start with I don't know who to start
01:25:29
Kelseyyeah okay sure your looks on the scale of 1 to 10 a 10 I genuinely don't know like I I genuinely have no
01:25:40
Brian Atlasidea well if you just had to throw the number out there four I guess I don't know okay yeah it's like a
01:25:49
Keyseven seven okay key K dog he can't rate himself it's as the ladies okay well I would say seven but sometimes 10 because
01:25:58
KeyI feel like I don't know it's you seven but sometimes 10 yeah I think like six but like a seven on a good day okay yeah I read myself a
01:26:10
Isabelle Brownsix cuz I have crooked tees I'd say six without makeup seven with makeup a solid 8.3 because there's
01:26:21
Brian Atlasalways room to be better okay solid 8.3 okay um so 10 4 S yeah okay um Mick they want he wants you to rate all the girls
01:26:33
Mickso let's just try to run through it quick okay well first off I think all of you are are lovely and I don't want to do this so just so you know but he's wanting it and I'm I'm forced my hands
01:26:44
Mickare tied I would say all of you were pretty accurate on on what you you gave yourself or what I would rate you I would say I would say you could give yourself at at least a six or seven you
01:26:55
Mickdon't need to be like not knowing you know yeah like I would say you know a nine or a 10 you know uh a six or seven
01:27:04
Mickum obviously you're my 10 of course I would say like a a nine I would say uh a nine um I would say you know like eight
01:27:15
Mickand a half yeah eight and A2 like you said I would say about that what about ran what's he I think he's he's a 10 when it comes to men especially because oh wait so the girls are less than Brian
01:27:27
Mickno no because here's the thing he's successful he has a he has a good beard and he dresses nice and he carries himself well and as a man that's
01:27:39
Isabelle Brownimportant it's true all right okay so I'm actually fascinated by the fact though that everybody at this table thinks that feminism is a scam yeah let's go back to feminis it really is
01:27:49
Kelseyyeah I I I agree with some things right like as as far as I don't believe in equality between men and women I believe in equity right there's a difference so
01:28:01
Kelseylike there's place for women in the workplace right but it's just in different areas can you explain the difference to us what you think the difference between equality and Equity is yeah so equality is like the same treatment given to like both sexes right
01:28:14
Kelseyso that doesn't make any sense because are men and women the same obviously not so Equity is giving the same opportunities to equate to each person's ability I think you might have them
01:28:26
Isabelle Brownswitched generally speaking Equity is the end result is always the same so typically countries that Implement economic equity for example will bring the ceiling down to make sure
01:28:38
Isabelle Browneverybody's at the same ending point whereas equality is giving everyone the same opportunity and what you do with it you can run with okay regardless of who you are well I yeah um but yeah like
01:28:50
KelseyGeneral Equity equality like somewhere in there like I think I think feminism as far as that's concerned like that makes sense in certain C circumstances right so like if if women are getting
01:29:02
Kelseypaid less in the caregiving industry because it's a caregiving is a predominantly woman field right and I hate this um no morph is super chated
01:29:11
TTS Reader$69 new zealand 99 honestly rate your girl we lost Brian for this so late let's keep talking okay I was going
01:29:23
Kelseyto say you were in a good thought yeah she she's a 10 um we all are in our own way where where do you have an issue with modern feminism then oh I mean definitely
01:29:33
TTS Readerhookup culture I think feminism like hot take but I think feminism definitely civian super chatted $100 Mick is the perfect example of a
01:29:44
TTS ReaderManchild this failure is entirely on him Big Dreams no direction his pattern of not making money the entire relationship will not change change and only continue
01:29:55
Brian Atlasif she keeps enabling him he's taken the easy path I do make money though we're on feminism now people also
01:30:06
Brian Atlasreally quick um I did see while I was away from my chair that uh one of the ttss tri sort of triggered but didn't
01:30:16
TTS Readerget red let me see if it had to say it doned $100 mck just Google jobs in SB you can apply get a forestry fire job starting
01:30:28
TTS Readerat 42k you need to get off your underly jobs are out there also Isabelle you are absolutely gorgeous thank you it's very
01:30:39
Brian Atlaskind sorry that it didn't uh trigger the first time it came through I'm not sure what happened there but hey uh had to say it thank you for the uh $100 donation man really appreciate it thank
01:30:50
Kelseyyou okay hookup culture go yeah so hookup culture for sure it makes men like want to un AE of themselves it makes women really like self-conscious
01:31:00
Kelseyit's it's a horrible thing you know like um my ex has like really really bad mental health problems and I think I said something on my podcast like don't ever date a man under 25 it was really
01:31:12
Kelseystupid and generalizing but don't ever date a man under 25 all he's looking for is sex like he's going to screw you over and he's like you have to understand that when you make these generalizations about men and how men do this and men do
01:31:23
Kelseythat like it makes me want to un alive myself and the male suicide rate is freaking skyrocketing it is so sad I even want to make another episode about like men's mental health and I know most
01:31:34
Kelseyof this chat thinks I'm a hoe and like they don't want like they don't agree with me or whatever but yes regardless I care about you guys and I want you here
01:31:44
Kelseyand Alive you know so um I just think that males un alive rates are like not talked about enough as well women too and what's really crazy is the CDC just put out a study of weeks ago we can
01:31:54
Isabelle Brownargue about the CDC later in the chat just for warning for that uh but teenage girls right now more than ever before are starting to struggle more than teenage boys in modern America particularly with mental health so
01:32:07
Isabelle Brownteenage girls are starting to see higher levels of anxiety higher levels of depression and in 2021 one in three teenage girls seriously considered taking deleting dele unal living themselves uh because of the culture
01:32:21
Isabelle Brownthat we've created right now which is so ironic right like wouldn't you think that this culture that's all about women doing whatever they want and women having any Pathway to success that they want to embrace we say that we live in
01:32:32
Isabelle Brownthis world and at the same time the next generation of women gen Z women are so unbelievably miserable and unhappy and discontent in today's society that they don't even want to be here right and I
01:32:45
Kelseywill say to I'll say this and then I'll be quiet because I know I talk a lot but um I like in active addiction I try to unal myself five times and that wasn't
01:32:55
Kelseyeven substance abuse that was because I was convinced that no man was ever going to take me seriously or love me because all they wanted for me was sex seriously and I still some part of me still convinced of that cuz thought it was
01:33:08
Kelseygoing to work out with this guy it happened or not but I'm holding out hope and I'm waiting you know what I mean but it's it's a real thing so yeah well so you said that you think men might not
01:33:18
Kelseywant to take you seriously because CU of how many people I've slept with yeah okay you guys say that a lot on the show and so I was like oh I guess that's what guys don't want well I mean that's kind of where I was going with it cuz you you
01:33:30
Brian Atlassaid that your concern was men only wanting you for sex however I would say that's probably not oh than
01:33:41
TTS Reader$100 Mick you're a manlet chasing your silly dreams meanwhile she's got DeMarcus making a human skin sock out of her inets meet me at my boxing gym I'll
01:33:53
TTS Readerget you on the right track in under five rounds after that raggedy anel will do exactly as you demand why do you keep calling me raggedy an you're just a hater oh
01:34:03
Mickwhatever I think it's cute I like I was raggedy and I mean I I wouldn't I wouldn't mind going to your gym and and uh sprawling a
01:34:15
Micklittle bit I started recently uh uh taking boxing lessons and everything so if you want to fight let's fight oh oh my Oh wait we're going to we're going to
01:34:25
Brian Atlaslive stream it marquavius Martin versus Mick BD Mick yeah that's long as long as we have you know a referee you know that's it's a pay-per-view in the works
01:34:37
Brian Atlasokay wait so you want to fight someone babe why what happens well he's that's that's what men do we fight each other we fight each other Yo No morphis thank you for the 90 New Zealand R renga by
01:34:48
Brian Atlasthe way if somebody donates I'm trying to think how much in New Zealand dollars I will do the Haka if it's impressive I'll do the haka
01:35:01
Keyfor 333 New Zealand dolls okay all right [ __ ] cash crab over here okay um oh can I say one last thing I feel like there's such a pressure to be perfect and I feel like everyone should view
01:35:14
Keythemselves as a 10 because life is short why do you have to be miserable everyone deserves to be happy so that's why erroneous called myself erroneous it's all about confidence confidence will get
01:35:24
Keyyou anywhere in life anywhere but the reason I didn't call myself the reason I didn't say I was a tenent is because people will roast you in the chat if you call yourself a 10 no matter how good-looking you are so yeah but I don't care you know what you're right we're
01:35:37
Keyall freaking tens up in here all of us are tens and we all deserve to be happy we're all beautiful exactly stop it get some help wait so you said confidence
01:35:47
Madison Vucan get you anywhere absolutely or what was it ex exactly that you said confidence like confidence
01:35:57
Madison Vuin general just like I don't know if you're confident about going into a job interview you're going to get it if you're confident about being pretty you're
01:36:07
Brian Atlaspretty well I mean the when it comes to your physical attractiveness there is an out outside component of
01:36:16
Brian Atlasthat so how people view you you know you could for example like you said just be confident well I would love to you know get paid tens of millions of dollars to
01:36:27
Madison Vugo play in the NBA I don't no matter how confident I am that's just not going to I would say I'm talking more personality confidence wise than uh physical
01:36:40
Brian Atlasappearance wait I'm confused you said that confidence get can get you anywhere yeah can it though what like what if someone without
01:36:53
Madison Vulegs wants to you know that's why I was saying not physically like personality wise like in in your brain if you're confident about something like if you're confident about
01:37:05
Madison Vugetting a good grade on a test most likely you it's kind of like or you could just study that might be yeah exactly like after you study if you're confident about getting a good grade on a test you're going to most likely get a
01:37:16
Brian Atlasgood grade on that test what if you don't study yet you still have confidence do you think you'll still get a not having any conf confidence at all well I'm not sure if it would have
01:37:28
Brian Atlasif it would have any impact on your actual test score if your confidence I I don't suspect let's say you take two people that one is a wreck and the other is
01:37:40
Brian Atlasconfident I can't imagine it would have much of an impact on your test score if neither of them have studied the material yeah that's no we're all T Gator screw you I'm hot and you're not and you're just a hater and we're all
01:37:51
Keyhot F you h got yeah he's hating he's literally hating on all of us for no reason my question up here and you're not so I think everybody's beautiful but like it is a little different when you
01:38:02
Cassandrahold on everybody's physically beautiful can we okay wait let me finish my thought though I think everybody is beautiful in their own way but then when we're all together there is a difference it's because it's like competition in a
01:38:14
Kelseyway that's what I'm saying the world is a competition it's toxic very like why do we care why do we even rate ourselves at all who cares we know that there's listen I understand if I was an exceptionally attractive human being I
01:38:27
Kelseywould be getting modeling contracts with Vogue I'm not stupid I don't think I'm ugly you know what I mean but like I don't think I'm exceptionally attractive but like why does it matter I think
01:38:38
Keyhuman's uh like judgment is there for a reason yeah but and that's Jud people on their character not how they can't control how they 100% but again judgment
01:38:48
Cassandrais a human characteristic and we do it all the time we should TR not judge people on the way they look look if someone like I'm just saying though it's a natural instinct and we all do it it
01:39:00
Madison Vuhonestly makes you who you are like I would say for you guys as a couple I bet you guys get judged 247 they suck it so I'm better than them yeah exactly when I
01:39:10
Mickmet her I definitely found her to be attractive but I still was looking for how do we connect as human beings and do we like each other's uh you know the way
01:39:20
Mickwe're reacting and when we have long conversation late at night do we get any meaning out of that I think men still want that connection with women there are certainly men out there that just want a a hot girl and that's it yeah but
01:39:33
Keythe physical attractive attractiveness had to come first well of course but it's everything else that keeps the people together look at Amber herd and Johnny Deb she's goodlook but she's a horrible
01:39:45
Cassandraperson so wait what I'm so confused how we're talking about appearance right so just saying that like judgment is there for a reason and it's you can't keep somebody with beautiful look you have to have everything else to your not
01:39:58
Cassandraeverybody is beautiful if we're talking not everybody's a 10 well 100% but I do think that it's important for everyone to like love themselves in some way right cuz if you're like staring at yourself in the mirror and you're like
01:40:09
Keychecking yourself out before you go into the sea of a 100 Attractive people right you have to love yourself at some point and be like yeah I'm kind of cute you know like yeah what's the point of living if you're like oh I hate myself I'm not a 10 like no screw that love
01:40:21
Kelseyyourself be a 10 to yourself look in the mirror oh my God the show is not about you let let other people it's about everybody I like when Britney you know you guys know Britney rener right like
01:40:31
Kelseythe the infamous you know she's like incel nightmare but she they like hate Britney rener for some reason but she said something that I really loved and she said everybody is special to
01:40:42
Kelseysomebody you know what I mean like we're all beautiful to somebody it doesn't so therefore we're all beautiful or you could have a pessimistic attitude at it and say nobody's beautiful and nobody's
01:40:52
TTS Readerspecial it's like a it's like a philosophical Scag donated $100 thank you Scott shout out to the whatever podcast for everything a bit off course but question to Isabelle having a
01:41:04
TTS Readersuccessful career do you believe to let your man lead the household be submissive to him would you forgive him if he was to cheat wow those are three very distinctly different questions so I
01:41:14
Isabelle Brownwill try to answer them as best as I can yes I do have a successful career I plan on continuing that successful career after we get married and as a parent I grew up with two parents who worked in the home and my mom actually traveled
01:41:27
Isabelle Brownfor her job the vast majority of my childhood like 5 days a week for seven years so I was very used to both parents taking on an active role in that capacity but I am extremely
01:41:37
Isabelle Brownold-fashioned and that I do believe that my husband will be the leader of our family in many different capacities largely spiritually and leading Us in faith which I believe to be the foundation of a marriage of building a
01:41:49
Isabelle Brownfamily uh and of a relationship that lasts which is incredibly rare these these days and is something I feel incredibly lucky to be starting out in the journey for uh second question would
01:41:59
Isabelle BrownI ever forgive him if he were to cheat forgiveness and the health of that relationship are two different things perhaps I would forgive him I don't think he ever would I have been cheated on by many significant others before I
01:42:12
Isabelle Brownmet my fiance uh and ultimately that always led to the demise of the relationship and it just couldn't survive beyond that I am a huge monogamist at heart I want undying commitment from the person that I am dating and that I'm going to spend the
01:42:24
Isabelle Brownrest of my life with I give that to them and I expect that in return and I think our society's playing with that boundary is ultimately leading to a complete breakdown of healthy relationships it's
01:42:36
Isabelle Brownwhy you're seeing the vast majority of genen Z unhappy in their relationships it's why we have the lowest marriage rate since America began recording marriage rates in 1860s in the 1860s and we have the highest divorce rate as well so we're
01:42:48
Isabelle Brownunhappy when we're dating we're not getting married if we do get married we end up getting divorced uh and as a result P research has found that our generation is just taking ourselves off the market entirely we decided it's not even worth it so I think that's a huge
01:43:00
Brian Atlascomponent are you talking about that recently released uh data from Pew I mean there's there's a whole bunch of data points but the big one that I took from it was I think it was
01:43:10
Brian Atlascomparing men and women between the ages of 18 to 29 and they found that women between the ages of 18 to 29 were twice as likely to be in relationships than
01:43:21
Isabelle Brownmen in that same but interesting study so the first one that I referenced the majority of gen zers if you are in a relationship you are unhappy I think the figure from Pew if I'm remembering correctly and obviously I don't have it
01:43:33
Isabelle Brownright in front of me was about 73% of us who are dating are unhappy really unhappy in our relationships those of us who aren't dating are intentionally not putting ourselves on The Dating market for either casual or committed relationships but the study that you're
01:43:45
Isabelle Brownreferencing was fascinating that came out a few weeks ago uh that women our age are more likely to be in relationships than men which makes you think who is everybody dating at the end of the day if the women aren't dating
01:43:58
Brian Atlasthe men then how did that statistic end up coming to fruition what crosses my mind is I think there's perhaps two explanations one women in that age group are dating older men 30 to 40 but I
01:44:10
Brian Atlasthink the bigger thing is is that women are maybe think they're in relationships or are in a relationship and they're sharing higher quality guys so and there's this concept called hyper women
01:44:23
Brian Atlasare all chasing after the top tier of men so a lot of women are happier sharing a top tier guy than settling for a guy that's actually on their
01:44:35
Kelseylevel so oh so go ahead I was going to say I agree with you I like I think I made like a Tik talk the other day that was like get yourself an average man ladies or something like that because
01:44:47
Kelseylike the majority of your audience I would say is average males right we're like Chads well but it's very it's like what less than 5% of men are making like
01:44:58
Kelsey100 Grand a year in America or something like that like it's it's really low so most people are average yeah yeah just average like so I think we need to normalize the fact that like if you get
01:45:10
Kelseyin a relationship he doesn't have to be making the same or more money than you right because that's true equality and like Equity or what however you want to
01:45:21
Kelseyphrase it it's about what you give to the relationship and so whether that's means that you're a stay-at-home mom and he's out there working full-time or vice versa it's about like everybody doing
01:45:32
Brian Atlastheir part whether you're man or woman whatever role you want to play so yeah but here's the problem is that you basically what you have going on in the dating Marketplace is average women don't want average guys they and I'm I'm
01:45:44
Isabelle Brownencouraging them to that's what my podcast is about call me crazy why wouldn't average women just decide to stop being average ourselves and raise the standards for what we expect from the men that we're dating say sorry
01:45:56
Isabelle Brownexplain that one more time rather than settling for an average guy why wouldn't we just demand more from the men that we dating because it's very hard for a certain some people to take men men respond extremely well to
01:46:08
Isabelle Brownboundaries they do psychologically if you set a boundary for a man either intentionally or unintentionally he will honor that boundary for example if you let him continue getting away with cheating on you and being half in half out of a relationship being a
01:46:21
Isabelle Brownsituationship for months upon months upon months without ever committing to you or wanting to put a label on things that's a boundary that you've set saying it's acceptable for me to be treated that way why wouldn't we as
01:46:32
Isabelle Brownwomen actual feminism I suppose to be theoretical about this demand more from the men that were spending our lives with I I agree and I think like here's
01:46:43
Kelseywhere the problem lies right men end up leaving because they because if they that girl that's demanding respect and demanding boundaries now she becomes high maintenance to them this is again
01:46:56
KelseyI'm not even I'm speaking anecdotally but I've heard this from men before now she's becomes high maintenance so they're leaving and they're going to find somebody that just says yes all the time so what if we all did it I hear all
01:47:08
Isabelle Brownthe time all men want are sex all men want is sex all men want is sexual partners what if we as women just said you know we're not okay with that anymore we want more wouldn't that Force
01:47:19
Isabelle Brownmen to rise to that occasion and similarly men who might be listening to this you should be going after women who expect those boundaries because a rising tide lifts All Ships and that's going to
01:47:30
Brian Atlasimprove the genie the genie is out of the bottle I mean I think we can say in an Ideal World wouldn't it be fantastic if we did away with hookup culture and I I think that is desirable but I I don't think you know the I think the culture
01:47:43
Brian AtlasWar has honestly been lost to decadence and degeneracy so like so there's no no hope
01:47:54
Brian AtlasI mean lost I think the culture War has been lost because you have you have Academia you have journalism you have the mainstream media which is all basically very and without really going
01:48:05
Brian Atlasso much into politics it's very left leaning um you know every single University in the country has a feminist studies a gender studies a women's studies program I mean there well now this is getting into men's rights
01:48:16
Brian Atlasthere's no equivalent men's studies or men's rights things in in education uh the we're two blocks away from UCSB University of California Santa Barbara
01:48:27
Brian Atlasit's the frequently ranked the number one party school in the US major hookup culture here um and AC I would say across most universities and colleges there is a major hookup culture and then
01:48:39
Brian Atlasbeyond College there's a major hookup culture uh where it's just casual sex situationships all this stuff I don't think I really think it's going to be a challenge to walk that back I I don't
01:48:50
Isabelle Brownsee how so how about instead of walking it back we as a generation and as a society acknowledge we are at the end of our rope that we've never struggled more as a society from a cultural perspective
01:49:02
Isabelle Brownthan we are right now despite living in arguably the most Progressive and advanced Society ever we're miserable so much so that a third of us as women in our teenage years and a significantly
01:49:14
Brian Atlashigher portion of men in their young adult years say we don't even want to be here at all so maybe rather than walking back we choose A New Path forward well but so and and you consider yourself pretty conservative right yeah
01:49:26
Brian Atlasso Secrets out I'm extremely conservative yeah I mean one thing that occurred to me is I mean social media and dating
01:49:35
Brian Atlasapps I think that these are majorly at the Forefront of hookup culture all this stuff uh so government
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Isabelle Brownintervention like how how do you unwind the damage that social media and dating apps has done well that's the problem you can't unwind in my opinion and this is the really hard reality of
01:49:58
Isabelle Brownwhere we go from here I work a lot with Generations older than us and I cannot tell you how often every day I hear gen Z is beyond all hope gen Z is destroying America your generation will be the end
01:50:10
Isabelle Brownof us uh when in reality somebody else built this world that we have grown up in and have really struggled to come into adulthood and and now has been dropped in our laps and we have no idea what to do with it moving forward technology is a quint essential
01:50:23
Isabelle Brownexperience of what our day-to-day life is like what reality is like it involves our school our jobs Our dating relationships our our sex is happening online let's just be totally honest we've had a really long conversation about that on this podcast I don't know
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Isabelle Brownthat you can walk it back I think we as a society would have to come to a cultural conversation point and change minds and culture From the Inside Out rather than regulatory measures to do
01:50:45
Isabelle Brownthat by saying this is not working we need to do more I I sound crazy that I'm like one of the the only people in my own life that has never downloaded a dating app nor have I ever wanted to
01:50:56
Isabelle BrownI've never had a desire to I don't seek out opportunities to watch adult content I don't surround myself with opportunities to do that because I've set a different standard for my life and encourage the other people in my life to do that as well imagine if we all banded
01:51:09
Isabelle Browntogether regardless of politics where everybody is seeking to divide us on this issue and start today by saying this is not working Generation Z is falling apart at the seams and clearly Our dating life is a great place to
01:51:22
Isabelle Brownstart needs more help than almost any other aspect of our culture what can we do differently returning to Traditional Values but in a new way that would take us to a stronger future I I don't think
01:51:33
Brian Atlasit can be undone honestly I think it's just going to be the status quo I I mean I just you you have the the basically the destruction of the nuclear family that's gone you have feminism it's not
01:51:43
Brian Atlasgone yet people are attempting to it's not it's not gone but I mean I isn't it the majority of people are being raised in single mother households people say it's accept the majority of Americans
01:51:54
Kelseysay it's acceptable for people well that in the study of single mother single mother households I mean you're like 75% or something like that more likely to drop out of high school like you know more percentage like to go or get
01:52:07
Kelseyarrested like all that kind of stuff like single mother households are like not good for kids they're just not I I understand there's circumstances where some men leave and there's nothing you
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Kelseycan do about it but that's the thing like I that's why I'm divided on that issue because if if we make this general statement like you know keep the nuclear
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Isabelle Brownfamily together but if he leaves it's how is it her fault you know and then you could say like well she picked a bad guy but right well there are ideal and unideal circumstances for sure but I I guess just more generally not pigeon
01:52:40
Isabelle Brownhoing ourselves in the single parent household conversation I'm curious what all of you would say do you think that our generation is Happy do you think that we're thriving do you think that