Brian KICKS OUT Rude Girl! She STABBED Her Blind Date For REVENGE?! | Dating Talk #115

Date: 2023-11-06

Duration: 5h 57m

Guests

Brian Atlas

WWifeu Delila (DT115)>

TTiffany (DT115)>

MMadison (DT115)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_02Nila Shake(guest)

SPEAKER_03Wifeu Delila(guest)

SPEAKER_04Noel(guest)

SPEAKER_05El (Ellie)(guest)

SPEAKER_06Tiffany(guest)

SPEAKER_07Kiki(host)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_13Naa(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteBrian confronts Delilah early in show about being on her Tamagotchi: "you explicitly told you before the podcast not to be on your phone." Sets up later ejection.

“when we explicitly told you before the podcast not to be on your phone... it's why we explicitly told you before the show to not be on your phone”

Key MomentBrian kicks out Delilah: confirms she messaged the show first, calls her rude and entitled, and tells her to get out.

“you're entitled you're rude you have TikTok brain you cannot stay focused... it's incredibly rude to say that you're bored... I'm going to ask you to leave okay so get up get the f out”

OtherDelilah kicked off: Brian tells her to leave after she calls the show boring and is repeatedly rude. She exits with "good luck on your dead ass podcast."

“yeah go ahead Madison good luck on your dead ass podcast bro bro you got no followers you're a clown”

OtherNaa reveals she stabbed her blind date twice in the neck with a pink knife during a manic episode in Las Vegas. Charged with attempted murder, received probation. Believed she was in a movie the entire time including during police interrogation (thought she was playing Carrie from Homeland).

“I had a blinding situation in March of last year I was dealing with a lot of mental health issues... I was charged with attempt of murder... my case is closed now”

QuoteNaa explains she thought she was filming a movie scene the entire time — from the hotel to the police interrogation (Homeland) to jail (Orange Is the New Black).

“I thought I was playing Carrie from Homeland and this is some kind of spy movie I'm doing... whenever I was in custody I thought the movie scene just continued in jail and we're shooting Orange Is the New Black”

QuoteNaa reveals she was asked by police to explain the stabbing, attributed it to the US killing an Iranian general (said in a manic state); Homeland Security investigated and found no terrorism links.

“I really thought I was playing a role in a movie... I had a manic episode... what I was saying is gibberish”

ControversyNaa disputes that her light sentence was due to gender privilege; Brian argues the disparity in sentencing between men and women is 8x greater than the racial disparity, pointing to a gynocentric justice system.

“I stand my firm belief that it could have been any gender... men as compared to women get 63% higher prison sentences”

QuoteBrian argues if genders were reversed and a man had stabbed a woman on a blind date, he would be in prison for a very long time — pointing to gynocentric justice system.

“if you had been a man... if everything about your case was the same but it had been a man doing it he'd be in prison for a very very long time”

QuoteBrian reads 1950s home economics article "Tips to Look After Your Husband" and asks panel to react.

“have dinner ready plan ahead even the night before... prepare yourself take 15 minutes to rest... be a little gay and a little more interesting”

QuoteNoel shares that her parents met at JC Penney, father served 2-year LDS mission, mother waited, they dated 2 weeks, got engaged, mother stayed home raising 7 kids for 15-20 years — and she has never once seen her parents argue.

“my dad and my mother met when they were 19-20... my dad went on to serve his mission in Uruguay for 2 years and my mother waited for him... they dated for 2 weeks got engaged... I've never once seen my parents argue”

QuoteBrian's dating stance: women's financial success is largely irrelevant to men's attraction because women don't share resources with men the way men do — "your money is your money, our money is our money."

“in a marriage or in a relationship the man's money is your money is our money but your money is still your money in a relationship”

OtherNaa reveals she went on 10 dates in one day while working for a restaurant startup earning commission per diner brought in.

“I ended up going on 10 dates in one day... breakfast a brunch three... for the business essentially”

OtherNaa's Valentine's Day story: non-exclusive boyfriend couldn't perform, she found and hooked up with a new Tinder match the same night by 10pm.

“my boyfriend couldn't get it up on Valentine's Day so I canceled the date and went home and found another guy on Tinder”

Topics Discussed

Introductions and relationship status round

Brian introduces panel of 7 guests plus co-host Kiki. Each guest states name, age, occupation, and relationship status. Notable: Delilah (OnlyFans) immediately on Tamagotchi, warned by Brian. El in fresh post-breakup situationship seen main guy same morning. Naa is single. Nila in exclusive relationship with NDA agreement. Tiffany single at UCSB. Noel single. Madison in relationship.

Delilah kicked off the show

After Delilah calls the show boring and plays with her Tamagotchi on air, Brian confronts her. She claims she was contacted by the show; Brian pulls up Instagram DMs showing she messaged them first (August 22nd). After further rudeness, Brian tells her to leave. She exits saying "good luck on your dead ass podcast." Brian confirms he intended to kick her from the start.

Naa: blind date stabbing story

Naa tells story of stabbing her blind date in Las Vegas, March prior year. Was off antipsychotic medication, in manic state; believed she was acting in a movie (Homeland spy role during interrogation, Orange Is the New Black in jail). Stabbed blind date twice in the neck with pink knife during sex at hotel. Charged with attempted murder, pled to 2 counts false imprisonment; received probation. Homeland Security investigated, found no terrorism links. Wrote and published autobiography about the experience. Has book signing at Barnes & Noble. Donates proceeds to National Mental Health Alliance. Discussion of gender disparity in sentencing.

Brian's partner preferences

Brian describes his ideal partner preferences: no plastic surgery (no BBL, fake breasts, lip filler), preference for natural appearance, no OnlyFans, prefers girl who is fully committed from the start. Dislikes when a woman is seeing other men while he pursues her. Mentions his preference for large labia. Discusses female virginity and pair bonding.

Gender roles and the 1950s housewife article

Brian reads a 1950s home economics article on how to look after your husband. Panel goes around: Madison, Noel, and Nila mostly agree; Ellie partially agrees (only if woman not working); Naa thinks it depends on the partnership; Tiffany considers it outdated context but some parts valid. Extended debate on traditional gender roles, women staying home vs working, masculinity, and feminity.

Men's dating preferences: money, career, and attraction

Discussion of whether women's career success and income make them more attractive to men. Brian argues men don't care about women's earnings because women don't share resources the way men do. Female doctor vs male doctor dating patterns. Ellie's mother as breadwinner discussed. Grid One Motorsports donation sparks debate about boss babes vs availability.

Dating landscape: promiscuity, body count, and pair bonding

Brian's extended monologue and panel discussion on why men care about body count: STD risk, infidelity probability, pair bonding degradation, paternity certainty, evolutionary psychology. Madison defends her stance on low body count for high-value men. Ellie pushes back — argues reformed promiscuous women deserve love. Brian explains alpha widow concept.

Dating etiquette: first dates, flowers, situationships

Discussion of college dating culture: no proper first dates, mostly parties then situationships. Brian argues bringing flowers is not rewarded in modern dating landscape — women are put off by it if not already interested. Madison shares her boyfriend bought her flowers third day and told her he loved her early, which she loved. Brian says he won't bring flowers for promiscuous women. Debate on whether Ellie's situationship roster is fair.

Self-rating round (looks 1-10)

Naa rates herself 6-7 (was a 10 a few years ago, medication affects body). Noel: 7-8. Madison: 9. Ellie: 6 (6.5 on a good day). Tiffany: 8. Chat asked to rate Tiffany: mostly 4-6. Brian says he and Tiffany are a "looks match." Discussion of whether chat ratings are accurate or dominated by incels.

Height preferences round

Each guest states height and minimum/preferred male height. Nila (5'2"): minimum 6'4" (current boyfriend). Naa (5'5"): minimum 5'9". Ellie (5'4"): minimum 5'10"-5'11". Tiffany (5'5"): preferred 6'1"-6'2", minimum 5'8". Madison (5'2"): preferred 5'10"+. Brian discusses height preferences as looks-based and double standard compared to weight preferences.

Naa: 10 dates in one day and Valentine's Day stories

Naa reveals she went on 10 dates in one day while working for a restaurant startup (commission for bringing in diners). One restaurant hosted two overlapping dinner dates; she tipped bartender to stall first date. Valentine's Day stories: first year — non-exclusive boyfriend couldn't perform sexually, she found a new Tinder date same night. Second year — online-only relationship with man in California; met in person and he was cold; ended up hooking up with his friend instead.

Clubbing, relationships, and male friends debate

Extended debate: Brian argues committed men shouldn't allow girlfriends to go to bars/clubs (temptation, opportunity, lowered inhibitions). Ellie pushes back on trust and boundaries. Madison agrees with Brian on clubs. Ellie had boundary of not clubbing in last relationship. Brian challenges whether Ellie's male DJ friends are just friends (argues most would sleep with her if given opportunity). Advice to men: don't commit to women who go to clubs.

Transcript

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Naafun he wasn't able to get up and yeah and it was like on weed day out of all the days like so I started questioning him I was like did you see anybody right

Naabefore me like I understand this is not like exclusive or whatever but like I kind of felt a little like you know whatever and he his face turned red and I was like oh [ __ ] so this is what

Naawhat's happening right now so I was like okay well take me home right now and he took me home and um yeah and then I found another date for that night which

Brian Atlaswas same night [Music] yeah wait so you met this guy the Valentine's Day

Naaon a dating app is that correct correct this was 3 years ago like my first Valentine's Day

Brian Atlasor like that was kind of weird okay yeah and so you met him on a dating app and then

Naayou uh well the person I was saying like I didn't met him on the dating app but I did find my myself a second date for that night from ating yeah well also

Brian Atlaswe're going to uh switch into the after show mode so uh TTS trigger is now 69 you can you can hit it then the TTS trigger oh Madison can you hit

Brian Atlasthe these other lights TTS trigger is $69 and up read answer is $20 and up that's both for streamlabs and Super Chat I'm just going to change the things

Brian Atlashere in the description hold up guys okay so if you guys want to get

Brian Atlassome chats in go for it uh okay and then you download in the dating app or you have the dating app and then you messaged a new guy on the dating app yeah the first person I

Brian Atlasmatched and then you you that same night you were able to secure another sex partner correct on

Brian AtlasValentine's Day no less correct bro women have dating on [ __ ] easy mode easy mode dude I don't care how [ __ ] hot how what time of night did you

Brian Atlassecure this new guy like 10 p.m. I don't care how [ __ ] hot hot you are as a dude you cannot go on a dating app and get like turn around [ __ ] in like one

Brian Atlashour INF [ __ ] possible infucking possible I don't care how what you disagree no you're you're so right bro that you guys have dating on easy mode

Naason easy mod with dating apps like I heard like on guys that would run out of people to like cyp one like I heard that's a thing but I've never seen it on like girls wait question for you what's

Brian Atlasthe most like so that was like you so you had sex with two guys in one day well I wouldn't count the first one because like well he it was just a tip right like y'all [ __ ] no we didn't [ __ ] oh he couldn't even he didn't even

Brian Atlasyou didn't even try really embarrassing I never saw him again so damn girl D be you got to give a guy a chance you know like give him a second chance [ __ ] no honestly he didn't you know like about whiskey dick I know but he he'd never

Brian Atlasdrunk like he never you know what's really interesting about like if a guy's sexual performance is subpar like women often criticize men for all they want is sex but if a guy like drops the ball on

Naahis performance the first time like you're going to even though he's like could be a very nice guy you're it's done yeah I mean I'm not saying what I did was like exactly quote unquote

Naamorally perfect like I'm not saying that but I'm just saying like hey like I'm young and we were not exactly like exclusive and I didn't want to see him ever again so I thought I wanted to have

Nila Shakedud that's go ahead go ahead what's the so you seem like a freak what's the freakiest thing that you've done ining some sex besides stabing someone

Nila Shakewhat's like the freakiest thing or weirdest thing a guy has asked you to do or you've done in sex um I will tell you I got some stories I'm not sure if I can

Naagive them on camera give us like the PG version t t

Naat let let me think um I mean like Peg guy I'll keep it ambiguous but like fun at the beach but like public beach not a nude beach okay I was expecting

Nila Shakequestionable and fun I was expecting like strap on dildos and yeah all that wait me for me that's like normal though oh wait what what strap on dildos is

Tiffanynormal for you yeah have you ever done with like a girl yeah with guys like stra on dildo [ __ ] a girl what do you guys think about guys who want to be pegged by their girlfriends I think it's

Nila Shakegay right yeah I also think it's gay for guys to be super into anal

El (Ellie)yeah do you agree hi key I mean maybe not like gay but like um kind of it's sus that's a good

El (Ellie)word well cuz that's isn't that where the male gspot is what the what isn't it in their butt am I

Nila ShakeMing guys to be like into anal with girls y eat ass no I would never I feel like you eat ass she eats ass you eat

Nila Shakeass and you Peg the freak out of this panel I feel like that's you like freaky [ __ ] I think that's kind of experimental

Brian Atlaslike I don't like you're ready to go to war is that your weapon no it's my [ __ ] I got chronic back pain so I'm like digging into into my shoulder blade

Naalike cuz he's old I'm an old man yeah Tiffany get over here give me a back massage like I got the story it's not exactly like freaky or anything but it was it's kind of interesting um I think

Naait was like two years ago I was working for a startup company for um basically bringing people into restaurants and I would earn commission for however many people I bring in so on my creative mind

NaaI was like how many people want to go out and take me out on a date with me oh so continue no continue yeah so um I

Naaended up going on 10 dates in one day one day yeah but like it was just it was dates that I scheduled to like for the business

Naaessentially wait how did you find all of these people social media did you 10 dates in one day yeah like bre three breakfast a brunch three you like initi I mean obviously I would

Naalike I would like snack on or like have drinks these were food dates yeah or like coffee like not like yeah I should have clarified I'm sorry like with the company because it was restaurant based

Brian AtlasI was trying to drive the business up and bringing people into restaurants oh [ __ ] okay and this was uh did you hook up you hook up with ago I didn't hook up with any of them but you're just trying

Brian Atlasto get them to come eat at the restaurant yeah what kind of it was it a what kind of restaurant like different restaurants runs I mean I'm not going to specify I thought you were like part of the business and you were trying to like

Brian Atlasgenerate money for the business yo that's actually smart if you're a chick and your family owns a restaurant just like set up [ __ ] 12 dates be like I

Naareally like this place yo that's some 200 IQ [ __ ] yeah and like I think it was a restaurant was for the dinner one and this the my first dinner and the second dinner was kind of

Naalike the first dinner was running late and my second dinner showed up so I went back to the bathroom and I tipped a bartender I was like girl you got to help me out make some story make him busy like so I was like trying to manage wrapping up the first one and then going

Naato the second one without them finding out so that was kind of like wait it wasn't even at different places was at the same place well like I did different places but for dinner it was just one place so I would just tip the b in there

Brian Atlasthey get their money business get their money I get my money that's a it I mean that's wait so I just I want to come back to your Valentine story here well okay hold on there's the 10 dates in a date how did you Source these dates was

Brian Atlasit dating apps I have quite a number of people on social media just like from was this before or after the this this is like

Brian Atlasbefore okay yeah um I don't know how much of a [ __ ] Giga Chad you have to be to be able to as a guy to be able to get 10 dates in

Brian Atlasone day do you know you know what I mean what was that term Giga Chad you want to Define that for the jury a giga Chad is like a very attractive guy huh Legend

Brian Atlasvery attractive guy Nick can you uh Google um Giga Chad for us I'll show you who gigachad is I will show you an example of a giga Chad my Beard's actually looking a

Brian Atlaslittle like in that I don't know why I didn't cut it differently but wait can you scoot to the table a little bit you're just kind of you're like yeah do images of uh

Brian Atlasgigachad let's see okay some of these are

Brian Atlaswhat wow like the demand for wait hold on scroll up Scroll up Scroll up he has like the Bold glamour filter wait scroll up is this all the

Brian Atlasway yeah click the third one this yeah yeah wait put us on the other side that's gigachad right there wow [ __ ] my two musculars and a that's

Brian Atlas[ __ ] gigachad yo gigachad those of you who are members gigachad in the chat um G like like the emote use our emote um so 10 okay 10

Brian Atlasdates but dates is in like just food coffee like right but you still had like guys who went out of their way on to come and meet you was this like just a point of clarification did you plan this all in one day or did it take you a

Naacouple days to plan this one it took some planning why what's the motivation like that just sounds terrible money I mean it was a company that I was working

Naafor but also I I kept genuine conversation and there was a few of them that I really liked and I went on a second day with them for non work purposes but you know okay same way you

Naawould collab with Kim for business and pleasure same thing with me did they it's a little different did all of them pay for the date or did you pay they paid okay um you said back to your

Brian AtlasValentine's Day story I'm I'm sorry if you already said this just a point of clarification in your pre-show notes to us you wrote One time my boyfriend and I don't know if you made

Brian Atlasit clear that the guy who had trouble getting it up was your boyfriend you said your one time my boyfriend couldn't get it up on Valentine's Day so I canceled the date and went home and found another guy on Tinder and effed

Naareal good I'm sorry that was probably like a very late night message but I turn I I use the term boyfriend not as like an

Brian Atlasexclusively that's just me but it wasn't exclusive but you said boyfriend so this is this was a guy that you've been seeing for a while yeah like more than 6

Brian Atlasmonths how how how long were you seeing him 6 months six months yeah like that's my timeline like more than six months how long so you'd been seeing him for seven months yeah so guy you'd been

Brian Atlasexclusively or no not exclusively was was an open relationship okay so couldn't get it up on Valentine's Day

Brian Atlasso you canceled the date for your seven Monon open relationship and found another guy on Tinder that night in

Nila ShakeF yeah get the Rocks yeah Abdul yeah get the Rocks get the Rocks wait can I ask what your body count is if you feel comfortable answering uh it's under double jit I go

Naaon a I've went on a lot of dates but that doesn't mean I [ __ ] every dud no I stop the C wondering under double digits so less than 10 yeah should we go around the table on body count here what

Noelone eight 4 zero 6 bro you got to say it louder six

Brian Atlaseight I don't share my body count because I'm a man of God um with three fast comers we know you have six bodies that's so surprising wait what she has

Brian Atlasse bodies why is that surprising because she seems like really traditional feminine like I mean I'm 23 six is not I mean compared to some other like I don't think six is that much some guys think

Brian Atlasthat's a lot but like you should see the way some people be like you probably know girls right cuz you're in the dorms you live in the dorms at UCSB some of these girls their first freshman is it quarter or semester at UCSB quarter

Brian Atlasquarter yeah these girls their freshman first semester will put up double digits they'll put up 20 30 40 bodies like do you know have you seen any scandalous

Brian Atlaschicks at the dorms I know a few who have double digits just like this year right yeah yeah that's how a lot of girls move and dudes there's dudes who move

Brian Atlasthat way too good talk good talk Tiffany um why do you keep saying that saying what good talk that's like my filler word in yeah

Brian Atlasum okay you said another year on Valentine's Day actually stop we're not reading that you said it no I we're not reading that you did what should we read it let's I think we should read it you

Brian Atlassent it you said you wanted to talk about this you said that you why don't you tell us okay fine I'll talk you tell you I won't say it you say okay so I I

Naawant that's why I was like let me provide more context for it so this was very the very next year after that year um I was talking to a guy basically like

Naait was more like an online relationship because I lived in Texas he lived in California so you know like we were going back and forth um I never got any clear communication that it was

Naaexclusive like he never called me his girlfriend we never even met up for anything it was all online but you know apparently is my we were like exclusive and you know whenever we

Naadidn't try to make plans to come to California I came with some of my friends and we met up for dinner and when I met up he was just like very icy

Naaand cold like I don't know like whenever I meet up with somebody they just didn't give up the same wibes that it would be online like online would be like always

Naacalling me facetimeing me super warm and like my friend would have her date like put her hands on on her shoulder or like anything you know just like to show like

Naathat you know interest interest anything like and he would just like sit there and like literally nothing and I was like I was the one putting my hand and

Naalike okay like any interest like let me know like so I I just didn't get the Vibes that I wanted from him and then

Naathat same night whenever we were out in dinner um his friends were over and one of his friends um I ended up getting his Snapchat and you

Brian Atlasknow it took some next Wild night on valtin day so I'll leave it at that okay word Let's see we have to get

Brian Atlasto Nila oh yeah you consider yourself red

Nila Shakepilled yeah how what what does that mean for you um not being a liberal umh being

Nila Shaketraditional having Traditional Values uh having open opinions and as people say like being not being a part

Nila Shakeof the Matrix so we can't say that on here but like um just being opposed

Nila Shaketo I keep I keep wanting to say it but I can't um

Nila Shakethec the [ __ ] the [ __ ] being opposed to like the [ __ ] and all the being opposed to like Pharma and that's basically what red pill means to me okay like being

Brian Atlasanti-government anti-government sort of yes word uh okay so you're red pilled uh you also said you questioned should a

Nila Shakewoman work question mark should a woman work yeah I think the best thing is a woman having the option to work but also having the option to be able to sit back

El (Ellie)and not work if she doesn't want to do you you agree with that that's valid do you think men a woman's entitled to do whatever she a woman's entitled to do whatever she wants no

El (Ellie)like I'm saying like if if you know if if there's women that do want to sit back and and not work I think that's a great thing cuz I'm sure they offer

El (Ellie)other other things and I think it's also valid for a woman to work I think it's do do you think that's a female privilege uh to not be able to work work

Brian Atlasyeah absolutely cuz like there's definitely like women you kind of have a backup plan of like Well yeah if my career doesn't work out I can just marry

Brian Atlasa guy I can just find a rich guy or something or just a guy who's prepared to provide whereas like most men we NE like that can't be a thought in our head we can't think yeah I think I'll just

Brian Atlasfind a woman to provide for me because most won't some will but vast majority I want to say it's probably more than 90% of women don't want to stay atome

Nila Shakehusband yeah true that true I feel like women don't really find fulfillment within like their career and their jobs they more so they find fulfillment in

Nila Shakepeople so like finding a nice husband having a family having kids is what I

Nila Shakethink women are more fulfilled having 100% a tiing job their job is to bake the bread like they're supposed to be the oven speaking

Noelof which you said that you had a few boyfriends who were leeches why don't you tell us about that well it was really just one boyfriend but oh a singular boyfriend okay we were together

Noelfor almost a year we had met on New Year's when I turned 21 and we worked at a famous car company together and I ended up letting him move into my

Noelapartment he did have a house in sack which was about an hour and a half 2 hours away from where I was living and he was paying for his grandma to live there so I kind of was like giving him the benefit of the doubt like oh you're

Noelalready paying for a house like you could just stay with me I was driving him to and from work every day which was an hour there and an hour back and then

Noeldriving to my job which was also an hour away and I ended up catching him cheating yeah and then I just kicked him out times yeah good times

Noelyeah he didn't pay groceries didn't pay gas nothing okay major Lee yeah do you think you'll find yourself

Brian Atlasin another situation like that or no I've I've learned my lesson on that so you've learned your lesson okay uh and so you said you were paying for

Noeleverything is that correct yeah correct and you didn't like that though well I think at the time I didn't mind it cuz I was like you know maybe I'm not traditional maybe maybe I want to

Noelprovide and when I you know at the end of that I was like yeah this is not for me what what do you do for work again remind me I'm a scientific analyst what is what is that what do you what do you

Noeldo um it's lab work so I formulate bulk batches of I basically make medical

Noeltesting kits like Co sorry I can't say that um it's okay yeah can test kits

Brian Atlasokay dope yeah does it pay well or yeah it pays very well six figures no no one

Brian Atlasday maybe uh yeah okay maybe a couple years all right okay good to know good to know we have oh we have a Tik Tok of yours to

Brian Atlasreact to why don't we pull it up oh yeah and then we have some of your tweets to react to and then we're going to wrap up probably shortly after that

Nila ShakeI want to know you guys agree with this by the way can you yeah oh start it from the beginning these are five red flags to look out for in a girl if she has any of

Nila Shakethese you're better off just not getting involved number one is high body count and no regrets if she's proud of being a [ __ ] you can hit it but don't put a ring on that finger CU remember sleeping with many people ruins your ability to pair

Nila Shakebond and obviously makes your current partner less special the second thing is having a poor relationship with family so if she's disrespectful hide that thing in the corner

Nila Shakeman all right go ahead [ __ ] like I hate my dad I hate my mom unless she has a valid reason to then she'll be disrespectful to you as well the third thing is she entertains multiple guy

Nila Shakefriends who want her this speaks for itself you should know that they probably just want to smash and if she doesn't know that then there's a red flag in itself there's no no such thing as guy friends and this really just

Nila Shakeshows that she loves attention number four she shames you for having boundaries if you express something you're not comfortable with and she says you're just being insecure instead of

Nila Shaketalking it out with you and compromising then run number five is gross if she smokes this just shows she doesn't take care of herself in the right way so let me know if these are valid and if I

Nila Shakeshould drop a part two valid or not um can you just really so recap what are the five so high body count high body count with no regrets like she's proud

Nila Shakeof being a [ __ ] um the second one was disrespectful to her family the third one oh my God I'm forgetting it wait okay I know smoking that that was

Nila Shakethe fifth one that's the fifth one but disrespectful oh has guy friends okay um and she doesn't compromise with you so she's saying like [ __ ] like you're just very insecure because you don't want her to go clubbing or something like that

Brian Atlasand then the fifth one's if she smokes gotcha I agree with you pretty much everything there the only knit pick I have is when you say if she's a [ __ ] you can still hit it me

Brian Atlaspersonally I like I don't know if I'm a outlier when it comes to men even if it was just for a one night stand I wouldn't want to get with a girl who's promiscuous anyways what if she lies though what if she or what if you like

Brian Atlasthat doesn't come up what if you just like or you just not that type of guy to just hit it in a one night stand well no I mean I think that well I wouldn't want to have a one night stand but if like

Brian Atlasthere's a girl I'm pursuing and then I don't think it's necessary to wait long periods of time before having sex yeah but

Brian Atlasuh I mean you can there's there's things that you can tell like in not always some women are pretty good at hiding it but you can tell to some degree if she's promiscuous um and but you can also at

Brian Atlasleast for me I'm kind of you can just straight up ask to be to be but you don't need to necessarily straight up ask for the body count but you can ask like okay ask relationship history that can sort of be an indicator you can ask

Brian Atlaslike certain questions that might potentially be an indicator of promiscuity has she had three sums has she had more than three sums okay she's had [ __ ] orgies probably high body

Brian Atlascount yeah there's other like there's certain sexual and nonsexual questions that you could ask her that could potentially reveal promiscuity not always but there's there's a lot of other deciphering factors so you know

Nila Shakewhen they say like you can tell it in the eyes like if she's the Thousand what's it called the Thousand [ __ ] stare yeah you can say if you can tell it some girls have the Thousand [ __ ] stare yeah

Naaso if she Tiffany just kidding just kidding I'm kidding Tiffany wait I don't have a question so like all that is valid but I think an important question

Naato ask is like when was that timeline of that body count for example like um like for my for my circumstance like yeah I did a lot of stuff that you know I shared that I thought it were

Naaentertaining but I don't think there were like good things that have done and when I look back in the past year and a year and a half have completely changed but does that mean that my potential data is going to judge me for what I've

Brian Atlasdone like 3 4 years ago yeah absolutely your past haunting absolutely totally yeah um okay I mean I'm like

Brian Atlasokay well look with is it obviously a girl a girl who is no longer promiscuous but was

Brian Atlaspromiscuous you could say that's better than a girl who was promiscuous and is still promiscuous um some people believe in Redemption and but me personally I feel

El (Ellie)like once a girl's got a high body count it's a that's a WAP I'm pretty sure the vagina resets after a certain amount of months no that's I'm not even talking

El (Ellie)about that and look that it is a like I think I'm the biggest red flag then cuz I don't find any of those wrong you think they're all right I think it's I

El (Ellie)think if a girl decides to be sexual and decides to settle down then that doesn't make her a red flag you said decides to settle down decides to settle down like like I don't know like if a girl is like

El (Ellie)crazy in college and like gets with a bunch of guys but then like later on like once a family and a husband like that doesn't like just because she's been with a bunch of people doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve isn't deserving

Nila Shakeof those things well do you have a response and then I'll go I would say no I what makes you more deserving than a girl that slept with more people um I

Nila Shakevalue myself a lot more so I deserve I would say I deserve someone of more high value and usually more people of more high value like men they choose to be

Nila Shakewith a woman who isn't promiscuous like Brian here so I wouldn't say I'm more deserving of love I think everyone is deserving of love I'm just saying it's like a standard that someone like he has

Nila Shakesomeone like I have and the kind of videos I make promote to Red Pill they're promote to high valued guys and not usually but what I'm saying to those guys is if you can get a bunch of girls don't settle for a hoe settle for a good

Brian Atlasgirl who's going to make your life easier but I would I would even to add to what you're saying I would argue that even normal average men have a strong preference for non-promiscuous women you

Nila Shakedon't need to be like a high value guy that's not true it's because they don't have they can't get options they don't have options their options are only like the ran sure so I think so what you're

Brian Atlassaying is like a guy who it's difficult for him to get a woman out of necessity he might partner with like a woman who is or was promiscuous because that's all

Brian Atlashe can get I would actually argue though that like even guys who struggle with dating there are some guys who are really not that pressed for [ __ ]

Brian Atlasthey're not that pressed to get laid and they they do want to pursue uh a high quality woman who may be average just as

Brian Atlashe's average but I mean I'm confused well what you're trying to say what I'm saying is is that perhaps out of necessity some guys will settle for a woman who's promiscuous or who has a

Brian Atlashigh body count but I don't think that like men almost innately want women who are not promiscuous or don't have a promiscuous pass or don't have a high

Brian Atlasbody count why there's I mean there's a ton of reasons um so first off having a high body count is a proxy for

Brian Atlaspromiscuity yeah promiscuity is an undesirable trait for someone that you're pursuing for a long-term relationship there's the STD component

Brian Atlasthe more sexual partners you've had you have the greater likelihood that you've got in an STD perhaps yo AB Che thank you for the 20 gifted memberships the more promiscuous you are

Brian Atlasthe more people you've had sex with the greater likelihood of having had an STD or perhaps you have an incurable STD like herpes etc etc so uh I mean I

Brian Atlasthink a girl who's had one sexual partner is much less likely to have herpes for example than a girl who's had 50 or 100 do you want to hear something crazy what's up so let's say say you

Nila Shakemarry a girl with 10 bodies and you have a child with her that child can inherit the DNA of all the past men she heard of this it's I don't is that a fact though it's called toogy you can search it up I

Brian Atlasthought it was called like micro something like Chism or no no it's something about Chism there I I have heard something about like women will

Brian Atlasretain the sperm uh sorry not the sperm the DNA of men that they've previously had sex with I I don't know if that study is valid I don't know I saw the

Nila Shakearticle though yeah but I'm like that's pretty crazy what think he's a condom I mean no I think the guy has to blast yeah he he the guy has to come inside totally blast I think he's got to come

Brian Atlasinside I think but uh he got a blast yeah so but no why body count matters okay so on on a purely practical level if a girl is for example sleeping with somebody else

Brian Atlaswhile she's sleeping with me it's it's just gross on a practical level well that's rude to you that be like and by the way I feel like women can feel this exact same way like if you knew that a guy slept with a girl right before you

Brian Atlasyou could feel like uh that's kind of like did he wash like uh you know it's different though like it's a little different between men and women but um so promiscuous woman with a high body count she's more likely to be sleeping

Brian Atlassleeping with multiple people at the same time uh I don't I don't want to like kiss a girl that like sucks some dude's dick yesterday like to me that's just gross um STDs right infidelity

Brian Atlasthat's a huge thing so nobody wants to risk getting cheated on high body count equals high probability of cheating and infidelity pair bonding is the other one

Brian Atlasso the more Partners you have the less able you are excuse me the more Partners you have the more the Le Jesus is that fact though the less able you are to

Brian Atlasbond and fall in love with new partners so the more Partners you've had you just start viewing sex as sport like it's just sport [ __ ] to you it means

Brian Atlasnothing there's no int you've detached intimacy from sex once you've like it's just the intimacy's gone it's just like

Brian Atlasa handshake good to meet you um you've you've rewired your brain to detach the intimacy from sex uh you're also probably not a relationship-minded

Brian Atlasperson if you've had a bunch of casual sex um as evidenced by the amount of casual sex you've had if you were relationship-minded you would probably

Brian Atlashold like hold sex to be something that you just have within a relationship um so there's also I think people want to feel like

Brian Atlasthey're someone special to their special someone so if I'm dude number 77 for you why one why didn't the previous 76 work out what is something wrong with you do

Brian Atlasyou get bored really easily I'm going to view you as not you're not a good long-term bet for commitment what why didn't you commit to any of these 77 other dudes that you've

El (Ellie)slept with um doesn't that make you more special no I see just kidding that works no um like out of all these 77 guys on

Brian Atlasthe roster like you made it you made the cut what then you're also thinking about all the other 77 guys that she's no I mean what would be special would be like

Brian Atlasshe's a virgin and she picks you a yeah sorry so special um I would also argue when it comes to body count it's a social reputational thing men care a lot

Brian Atlasabout respect and respect from our male friends from our peers if we wife up a girl who's like promiscuous and has slept with the entire town that's going to reflect poorly on us like there's this old saying like you don't what's

Brian Atlasthe you don't wife up the Town Bicycle like it's a reputational thing people are not going to respect you um there's also this concept

Brian Atlascalled It's Kind it's kind of like a nerdy term but Alpha Widow so I would say yes we we as men do care about being compared to your other

Brian Atlaspartners part of that is because women can women can sleep up men can't really so I think women have to be very careful with with who they sleep with because

Brian Atlasyou can sleep with men way out of your league in looks personality and Status uh bear in mind those men will never commit to you the same can't really be said about men like men can't

Brian Atlassleep outside of their league typically you you have like a it's a totally mirror opposite almost so typically for a woman let's say a woman

Brian Atlasdoesn't normally um engage in casual sex she might break that rule for like a guy who's really [ __ ] attractive whereas men it's it's almost the reverse like

Brian Atlasmen will will sleep with women that they otherwise wouldn't just based on looks but have no interest in of getting

Brian Atlasinto a relationship with that woman so for example right in order for a girl to sleep with a guy I would argue that that guy needs

Brian Atlasto be at least physically attractive enough to be in a relationship with I don't think the the reverse is definitely not the case for men men will

Brian Atlasregularly sleep with women that they will would never just on the looks Factor alone we'll sleep with women that we would never consider for a relationship but the like the reverse is

Brian Atlasnot the case yeah that makes like if a woman's going to have casual sex she's going to try to secure with like a really [ __ ] hot dude so women will break their rules that way and then men will sleep down with women

Brian Atlasthat they'll never commit to but they'll it's just they welcome the easy access to sex did you have something sorry um not sorry toing rub but um I wasn't sure how long this podcast was going to

Brian Atlasbe so we're going to wrap pretty soon okay yeah yeah yeah just want to check in sure sure sure yeah probably another 10 minutes I got it thank sorry um

Brian Atlasso does that that's kind of what some of the reasons why men care about body count I know I went through quite a bit of list it's okay if they are

El (Ellie)like plug it in in everywhere so well I do think there is a bit of a difference um how if it's like a transfer of energy

Brian Atlasboth ways then like doesn't the energy of the man well I'll address that so it is a bit different and the the other one I forgot to mention which I

Brian Atlasthink is probably one of the most I feel like people don't well there's an evolutionary psychology basis for men caring much more about women's

Brian Atlaspromiscuity than the reverse so it comes down to paternity certainty so for example let's say I have 10 wives they're all loyal to me and I'm sleeping

Brian Atlaswith all of them I know with my 10 wives that I'm the father for all of them they know they we we know who the mothers are we know who the father is the reverse

Brian Atlashowever if there's a woman with 10 husbands and they're all sleeping with her who's the father of the children that she Bears you don't know now of course I'm

Brian Atlastalking about this from a evolutionary psychology perspective in the 1980s I believe we've you know DNA testing came around so yes through paternity testing we can we know now but that doesn't undo

Brian Atlasthat doesn't erase hundreds of thousands of years of evolution when it comes to males and Men needing to ensure paternity of their children because it's what when you have a kid you know for a

Brian Atlasfact that that's your kid but as a man there's there's no real way for us to know with certainty so men care far more about promiscuity because if you're promiscuous that's indicator for

Brian Atlasinfidelity if you're sleeping with other men they could be the one that impreg impregnated you not us and we want to it's a we want to pass on our

El (Ellie)genes so there's a it's a paternity uncertainty but wouldn't you like separate the two like wanting to like have kids with someone versus like hookup culture like those are very

Brian Atlasdifferent you know what I mean because like women don't have sex to like have children sure but it doesn't them but

Brian Atlaswhat let me ask you a question what drives us on a biological base level to have sex what makes us sexually attracted to

Brian Atlasother people hormones but but there's something in our our our biology our DNA what ultimately like for example somebody who

Brian Atlasis how do I articulate this [ __ ] okay sorry I'm I'm the even if you have sex with

Brian Atlassomebody of course you don't have the intention of okay my intention here is to procreate no of course not people have sex

Brian Atlasrecreationally all the time most of the time probably however our drive to do it

Brian Atlasare in is has a very strong like evolutionary biological route to pass on our seed now that might not be your

Brian Atlasintellectual intention but somewhere in your subconscious in your like uh I'm I'm what's that wait Nick what good

Brian Atlasyou're good oh okay um somewhere in your subconscious there's that there's that drive to

El (Ellie)procreate what no I don't I don't I don't like obviously like I want kids but there's a lot of okay let me ask you a question why

Kikido why are women attracted to Tomas hold on Modest heima donated $69 independent girl can you define independence and how you think

Kikiindependence of women is not contradictory to basic human biology and intuition do you think you do not need a man are you self-reliant will you still be when you have a

El (Ellie)child um I don't know if you're referring to like like obviously I need a man to like make a child but I think I am

El (Ellie)self-reliant I don't think I need need a man I just like want one you know what I mean like I don't need one I don't think

El (Ellie)any woman needs a man like just how a strong independent man wouldn't need a woman they're just nice to have you know what I

El (Ellie)mean like cuz humans are meant to you know connect with each other like that's like one of our purposes so I think it's just part of our biology I guess you

El (Ellie)don't need a you don't need a man do you mean romantically or just generally speaking like we don't need men in society no no I think I think they're both valid like men and women are both

El (Ellie)valid in society but I think that I like don't need a man to like be happy basically they make sure it's nice it helps sometimes but like I don't

Nila Shakenecessarily like need one do you have a response to that Nila I actually think it's like right but everybody you don't want to be the

Nila Shakeperson who dies alone with their 20 cats absolutely absolutely yeah you say like you you don't need one and it's true like you could definitely live alone without a man but how much more

Nila Shakedepressed and how much more shitty would your life be without one no I'm saying I want one I don't need one yeah and know what he even said that brought this up but yeah no I could agree with that but

NoelI think I think it's a need and a want I think we need each other yeah we need each other for sure do you have any more stories by the way

Brian Atlasor you're good okay well than what can I say byly uh

Naasure so but yes uh just wanted to say thank you so much for having me on this show thank for coming um I just have like time limit on when I be out so U super

Brian Atlasnice meeting you and yeah thank you byebye I I feel like I have one last question for you here um oh okay here's the last one here's the last one then it's a it's a quick

Brian Atlasone um and I I want to start with you ask everyone to rate from Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 go ahead I would probably say like six or seven I definitely had some

Naapoints where I was a 10 like few years back but I'm working on it and especially we on my medication it it like kind of messes up up with your body

Brian Atlasso you know like trying to balance that plus like you know diet and exercise so okay and I'll go around the table on this I know you have to leave so feel free to excuse yourself thank you for

Brian Atlascoming appreciate it uh what about you how I think I look rate your looks on a scale of 1 to

Noel10 uh I'll give myself like a nine eight I think realistically like a seven or an eight this is based off like how I

Nila Shakeperceive my yes your looks all right how I perceive myself I give myself a nine cuz 10 is perfect so there's always room for

Brian Atlasimprovement right what about you six six that's good 6.5 on a good day accurate oh oh okay funny speak speaking of I mean what

Brian Atlasdid you rate yourself Tiffany eight okay chat let's pull up the chat since since I'll be Petty uh Tiffany says it's

Brian Atlasaccurate that I'm a six she says she's an eight do you guys think Tiffany's an eight st e wait Tiffany can you take take her seat what do you give Tiffany guys Tiffany sit over there take that seat

Brian Atlasjust for the rest of the show I'm going to wrap up soon it's just better that way it's so

Brian Atlasfast what do you rate Tiffany wow it's going crazy what do you rate her if keep rating what do you rate her I don't see a lot of eights here

TiffanyTiffany I'm sorry I don't care cuz I think I saw a 9.5 four four

Brian Atlasfive five six 5 four there there Christina oh a woman gave you eight of course okay uh that's a lot of people

Brian AtlasTiffany I think they're actually shipping us since we're looks match what that's disgusting why why is that disgusting you're dirty four huh

Nila ShakeI'm not into you you're a dirty [ __ ] I'm a wait I'm a dirty I think she said 34 I heard that too no I heard that too oh my goodness excuse

Tiffanyme yeah it's okay yeah but that's not an accurate representation because all the men on there are probably incels no they're not incels probably should we have them rate all of

Brian Atlasus do you you think you think you're more likely to be rated higher by like a Chad you think you'd get a higher rating from a Chad who [ __ ] a lot of chicks

Kikimodest take him a $69 very doubtful finally the terrorist sympathizer is gone in death if you want a man would you call that biology and intuition what

Kikido you want a man for children are you planning on taking taking the sperm and no child support since don't need no man I hate how like it's so off topic

Brian Atlaslike what's off topic that the super send the message when we're talking about it not well sometimes there's a delay stochastic Decay donated $69 than

Kikiapprciate it hey brain sorry I'm late long day I had to feed my Tamagotchi I bought some chain mail armor for my next

Kikidate prevent poking I partially converted to Islam 32.3 3% repeating of course anyway te dog is a five or six

Brian Atlaswhy racis makes Tiffany it's racism makes you an cuz your the first letter of your name is t okay okay like for example she'd be M dog I guess and

Brian AtlasMadison would be M Dog my name growing up was mad dog Mad Dog oh that's a good one uh yeah Tiffany you Misses my chat look

Brian AtlasTiffany wants to age shamie it's okay um it's okay it's okay I'm heartbroken I'm a little heartbroken Tiffany that you won't

Brian Atlasbestow me with your she just Li you up and down H that's funny okay um let me see where oh we had to react to some of nila's tweets let's do some of her

Brian Atlastweets we don't have a bunch of time so we'll just do a few um pull up her media tab oh wait there's kind of a sus one that I don't know if we should show

Brian Atlaswhich one the alphabet the one about the alphabet people oh I don't know if that's Haram that might be Haram I don't

Nila Shakeknow really no uh sure scroll no I think it's the second one go that's so cute it's so cute it's the media tab is that your cat

El (Ellie)no I was a tiger yeah that's a wait did you just ask if that's a cat is that your cat EXA like people have cats that look like yeah bag

Brian Atlaswhoa yeah that's it's a media tab it's this one scroll scroll up I saw this and I was like what the hell all the way up scroll all the way up this is like plastic all the way up all the way up

Brian Atlasscroll down put us on the other side I think if you can dress like woman are the reason why societ har men who dress like women are the

Brian Atlasreason okay nice dope based scroll down skip this one I don't want to invoke their wrath um you see this you see your girl do this on the night out by the way so the way I want to frame this Nick if

Brian Atlasyou can also maybe have the chat pulled up so we can see it the all these questions that Neil is asking on her Twitter um this is directed at the chat

Brian Atlasso we're going to have some chat interaction here um oh scuffed okay so you see your girl do this on night out what you do truth ful

Brian Atlasbro insta breakup that's a breakup that's a breakup son and it looks like it's a dude that's doing it I'm that's a that's a done deal she shouldn't be going out to begin with though your thoughts on that nil oh yeah she should

Brian Atlasnot be going out my girl should not be going out partying she just oh look at this is awful go ahead go ahead what you think what you think do you still disagree with the body count thing what do you mean like men men cuz you I

El (Ellie)understand the unal but like girls should be able to go out and have fun and go with their girlfriends like partying to like a party place like a club I think going to the I feel like it's it's very Rock like in my

Nila Shakerelationship clubbing was something that we discussed that was a boundary that yeah you he was like he's like girls go to clubs to find well yeah the reason I'm saying that is like

Nila Shakeguys go there to find a girl to rail they don't go there to dance probably girls go there to dance but like they go there to flex their money buy bottles buy tables and then like find girls that's why most men do not like their

Brian Atlasgirls going to clubs do do you think do you think that men who don't want their girls going out partying drinking clubbing Etc do you think that that's

El (Ellie)just him that's a guy being insecure I would say or not having trust I yeah I just feel like if if it's a good relationship they should be able to live their life however they want well

Brian Atlasisn't that quite liter like once you get into a relationship you start putting boundaries on what's acceptable and unacceptable beh valid but like in terms of like going out that you should be allowed to like go out with your girlfriends not necessarily to a club

El (Ellie)like like I don't know like if you want to like go to dinner you know you that's that's not what we're talking about I know but like there's like little fun little clubs in Silver Lake in La that are like fun La clubs are it's not it's

El (Ellie)not like clubs but like there's like going out like dancing places there's like fun pool places to go out like oh no that's a no well I mean clubs bars no

Brian Atlasthese are these are like single Environ these are so you wouldn't go out like on a business meeting to like a bar no business meeting now for have you have you not been to a bar or club they're

Brian Atlasinsan they're super loud a business meeting I'm going to talk I'm maybe a like a quiet Lounge at somewhere

Brian Atlasbut um let me ask you a question uh would you prefer your boyfriend to not play video games he can do whatever he wants 10

El (Ellie)hours a day no issue I probably wouldn't date someone that plays that okay so men should not date women that goes go to bars and nightclubs but that's me specifically like I wouldn't want to date someone that's sitting around all

Brian Atlasday playing and a lot of women don't want their boyfriends playing a bunch of video games what what about this it's a preference would you have an issue with your boyfriend paying for girl girls only

Brian Atlasfans uh yeah why don't you trust your boyfriend well it's a it's different it's I would argue that the risk of

Brian Atlasinfidelity is far higher a girl going to a club or a bar cuz all those guys want to [ __ ] you the only fans girls wants his money there's no most of these

Brian Atlaschicks that like strip that are sex workers that are well chicks who strip chicks who do off they like look down on these dudes who pay for their [ __ ]

Brian Atlasthey're tricks their marks like strippers almost never want to date their customers because they they like look down on their customers they're like it's

El (Ellie)unattractive so you could argue that like you going out to a club there's a far greater risk of infidelity then well that's not you specifically like if if I go out on the

El (Ellie)street or whatever and I there's potential for me to get asked out or hit on yeah but it's it's different like when you go to it's different like intentions you're saying like AIT intentions but also like if you go to

Brian AtlasTrader Joe's and I'm not saying like don't let your girl go grocery shopping not at all you can go out go live your life do what you need to do but these are these are very specific social

Brian Atlasenvironments where like hooking up Is frequent there's alcohol involved there's like shady characters that might try to take advantage of you in

Brian Atlassome way this is Art like men not wanting their girl to go to the bar and Club that's just our masculine instinct to try to protect you from like from one

Brian Atlaspotentially [ __ ] the relationship and two from like getting victimized in these environments that attract honestly a lot of shady people so we don't want you to be in a

Brian Atlassituation that's us trying to be protective to protect you from being victimized from some guy [ __ ] trying to grab you or being gross or whatever so

El (Ellie)yeah no I just think I think with with every relationship there's different like boundaries that there needs I mean like in my past relationship like I I was

El (Ellie)like it was a thing like I could not go to clubs and when I did oh you did anyways even though well like if all of my girlfriends were going out for like

El (Ellie)her birthday and they got a table and I went it wasn't it was a problem sure but I would go anyway well the the thing that I recalled here when it comes to like if you go to

Brian AtlasTrader Joe's and a guy hits on you like look that's going to happen like a lot of guys recognized like you got an attractive girlfriend guys are going to hit on you in all kinds of firework um

Brian Atlasguys are going to hit on you on all kinds of environments the big difference though is that in the history of Trader Joe's no girl has gone to Trader Joe's and then five minutes later is getting

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