Brian Gets SHAMED For His Preferences?! | Dating Talk #91

Date: 2023-08-09

Duration: 3h 43m

Guests

Brian Atlas

CClaudia (DT91)>

BBrandon Mills (DT91)>

MMadison (DT91)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Chat(audience)

SPEAKER_02Heidi(guest)

SPEAKER_03Amy(guest)

SPEAKER_04Nikki(guest)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_06Helen Zod(guest)

SPEAKER_07Claudia(guest)

SPEAKER_09Brandon(guest)

SPEAKER_10Aubry(guest)

SPEAKER_11Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_12Psy(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteMadison satirically 'apologizes' for culturally appropriating German culture by wearing a WWI pickelhaube hat

“from the bottom of my heart I would like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody”

QuoteHelen Zod introduces herself — 42, multiple healthcare businesses and new podcast/radio app

“my name is Helen Zod I'm 42 years old and my occupation is I'm a business owner I own several Health healthcare companies from home health hospice Pharmacy compounding commercial buildings”

QuoteClaudia introduces herself — 34, neuropsychologist and TV personality

“my name is Claudia and I'm 34 and I am a neuropsychologist and I'm also a TV personality”

ControversyBrian defends preference for younger women (18-25) as evolutionary/biological, pushes back on 'shaming language' for male preferences after panel challenges him

“it is interesting like women men always get shamed for their preferences standards and boundaries men are not allowed to have preferences”

QuoteNikki reveals she is now waiting until marriage for sex, a standard adopted at age 27

“whether you're religious or not sex is a very powerful energy exchange ... that's as close as you're ever going to physically be with someone”

QuoteBrian summarizes relationship/marriage expectation mismatch

“men marry women with the hope they will never change Women Marry men with the hope they will change invariably they are both disappointed”

QuoteAubry confesses she cheated on her high school boyfriend before college and takes full responsibility

“I felt an extreme amount of Shame for about a week or so and after that I actually told him I told my boyfriend that I cheated on him right before we were about to move out to Hawaii together”

QuoteClaudia reads her Hinge prompt 'dating me is like dating diamonds' and explains the Twilight reference and what she brings to a relationship

“dating me is like dating diamonds it's beautiful ... I think I am a whole package”

Topics Discussed

Introductions

Host Brian Atlas introduces co-host Kiki and 8 panelists: Helen Zod (42, healthcare entrepreneur), Claudia (34, neuropsychologist/TV personality), Amy (33, HR leader/Army veteran), Psy (~39, fashion designer/filmmaker), Heidi (23, unemployed), Aubry (25, Turning Point USA publicist), Nikki (28, aerospace PM), Brandon Mills (25, VFX artist). Relationship statuses covered.

Ariana Grande Infidelity News

Panel discusses Ariana Grande's affair with Ethan Slater (SpongeBob Broadway actor) while both were married. Debate over relative blame between Ariana and Slater. Claudia offers psychological analysis framing Ariana as potentially narcissistic based on behavioral pattern.

Mia Khalifa Marriage/Divorce TikTok Reaction

Panel reacts to viral Mia Khalifa TikTok about her multiple marriages and divorces. Claudia analyzes sex-worker psychology and adrenaline-seeking behavior patterns. Debate over whether it's acceptable to leave a marriage when unhappy.

Divorce Rate and Marriage Skepticism

Extended discussion on 50%+ divorce rates, marriage incentives in military, religious motivations for marriage, pros/cons of marriage for men vs women. Brian expresses skepticism about marriage for men due to legal/financial risks. Helen shares her 14-year marriage and $70k/yr child support experience.

Wedding Ring Cost and Wedding Spending

Panel goes around the table on how much a partner should spend on an engagement ring. Most women say the amount doesn't matter; they value relationship quality over ring cost. Discussion of fiscal irresponsibility of large weddings.

First Date Paying — Who Should Pay?

Debate on who should pay on a first date. TTS donation suggests Separate Checks as a filter for interest. Brian broadly agrees. Panel mixed; most women still expect men to pay.

Brian's Preference for Younger Women (Title Topic)

Nikki and Claudia challenge Brian on why he would date women aged 18-25. Brian defends age preference on evolutionary/biological (fertility) and lower body-count grounds. Panel pushes back on emotional compatibility concerns. TTS comment reads: 'men always get shamed for their preferences'.

Plastic Surgery

Helen discloses her procedures (fat transfer face/foot, brow work, liposuction). Brian states he dislikes breast implants, BBL, lipo, lip fillers, labia plasty. Discussion of double standard: women shamed for aging but also for attempting to fix it via surgery.

Women in the Workforce / STEM

Brief discussion on women entering STEM and corporate careers. Nikki and others discuss feeling sold on corporate ladder climbing that hasn't led to fulfillment. Brian expresses support for women in STEM for solving humanity's problems.

Instagram / Social Media in Relationships

Discussion on whether a boyfriend can ask his girlfriend to delete revealing Instagram photos. Nikki says she would comply willingly. Brian expresses preference for partners with minimal social media presence. Panel debates double standard for men vs women posting revealing photos.

Requirements in a Partner — Final Round

Panel goes around table on what they want in a partner. Helen: minimum 6 feet tall, intelligent, kind, emotionally intelligent, complete package. Amy: no checklist currently, open-minded. Heidi: compatibility and someone who is better than her. Aubry: in relationship. Nikki: now requires celibacy until marriage. Brian: lists physical preferences (shorter height, large labia, soft-spoken/shy).

Body Count Discussion

Panel goes around table on body count. Helen: 10+ but not answered directly. Claudia: 3 (only serious boyfriends). Psy: deflected. Heidi: 7 (stated briefly). Aubry: over 5, under 15. Nikki: not answered. Brandon: not answered.

Self-Ratings Round

Panel asked to rate their looks 1-10. Psy refuses to participate (doesn't see the value). Aubry: 7-8 (stated 'solid 7.8, seven'). Nikki: 6 (or 6.9 on a good day). Most others declined. Brian says there are no 10s at the table.

Aubry's High School Cheating Story

Aubry recounts cheating on her high school boyfriend (together since middle school) right before college at 18 with a virgin male friend. She confessed; boyfriend ended the relationship and exposed her on Twitter. She takes full responsibility.

Claudia's Hinge Dating Profile Review

Brian reviews Claudia's Hinge profile prompts on stream. Prompt: 'Dating me is like dating diamonds' (Twilight Edward reference). Claudia explains she offers peace, emotional regulation, loyalty, and good conversation.

Transcript

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Claudiaforeign women sure so um yeah and like also I also think that some women feel very entitled and they bring absolutely

Claudianothing to the table and they expect a lot from Men I'm not saying like yeah I'm just generalizing some women that I like talk to and I've like been like

Claudiawell what are you bringing to the table and they have absolutely nothing like nothing and I'm literally and they want like a man who's literally like saying

Claudialike I want him to make a million two millions three million and literally like they like think that all they have to do is be uh be pretty be young or be

Claudialike or bring her aesthetic and that's it and I believe that you have to have some in something special some intellect be a good mother be have a low body

Claudiacount I because I don't want even him to be like base chasing like young chasing like really basic young or not younger let me take that word out so like some

Claudiabasic Trashy Women when I've taken care of myself I have a low body count and I have invested so much into my education

Claudiafor him to be like choosing just any trashy woman and yeah well I'm gonna date that so I mean not to bring this up again we already talked about this but I

Brian Atlasmean you mentioned your education your educational achievements are not really going to make you more attractive to a male partner okay but also it's fantastic no good for you I agree but it

Claudiadoesn't make you more attractive I know but okay that's fine but I also have other stuff that I bring to the table because I know I'm gonna be a good mother I know I'm going to be a good

Claudiawife I have a low body count for a reason I haven't come from a good family and and I have a lot of other achievements that a lot of women don't

Brian Atlashave so like that's what achievements I have a book coming up I I have my own that's fantastic but it doesn't make you

Claudiamore attractive to it it doesn't matter I already know okay

Claudiaokay let's take away my achievement I already know the status that I could the status of the men that I can date just from live experience my brain Arty

Claudiaprocesses that so it already knows like what I can date what I can't date so okay let me just from that take I already know

Claudialike I will consider myself a solid six sure so oh we should do that we got to do the race yeah so but with whatever reason this can take me here so that's

Claudiawhat I'm saying even if I'm not like uh like a 10 I already know what I can date so that's from where I go based on even without any of my achievements but I

Brian Atlasdon't want somebody who is so non-selective that that they literally date any beautiful I love it I love it here's the thing though when it comes to the achievements and the education and stuff

Brian Atlasthat's fantastic for you on an individual level but I I don't think you should cite those things as things that will make you more attractive to a male partner let me just finish now that'd be like me telling all the girls here like

Brian Atlasback in 2019 when World of Warcraft classic came out I leveled four characters to 60. I had four level 60s in World of

Brian AtlasWarcraft I had a 60 Rogue uh a 60 Undead Rogue a 60 orc Warrior a 60 warlock Undead Warlock and a 60 Undead Mage now

Brian Atlason my rogue I got perditions blade I had some decent hero on my rogue on my warrior um I got uh death is a death bringer from from the next annexia

Brian AtlasI believe it's deathbringer um you know I was in the top rating Guild we were speed running molten core bwl like we were we were

Brian Atlasmonopolizing the world bosses as are ghosts Lord Kazakh uh let me see what else oh when when the nightmare dragons came out the emerald dragons we were getting all the dragons too and they

Brian Atlasspawned four at a time so like we were on we were dominant on My World of Warcraft PV it was a PVP server too we had a bunch of rank 14s

Brian Atlasthat okay what I just said illustrates like when you're talking about your achievements and your education like let me say something else women don't care about my World of Warcraft achievements

Claudiain the same way that men don't care about okay in order for me to like have been like to be like uh uh to get on telemund like Despierta America which is a huge

Claudiashow which is a huge show we men don't care about your status either men don't care about your status either I had to Vacation five times and it's really hard to be a Spanish TV and mind you I was

Claudiafour years I believe it and you have to be they put you in really tiny dresses men don't care about that wait no you have to be a certain level of attractiveness to be on a Spanish TV

Claudiashow because they like girls with like in Miami in Miami where like there's like a lot of girls so that are extremely beautiful I had to audition

Claudiafive times so that also takes me to another level of like being like I am this so if men don't care if you've been on Telemundo

Amysome men do please okay well that's for you Brian but other guys well I don't know I'm not saying I agree with her by any means but I do

Amyhave a question sure do you think Tom Brady cares oh about his like what like like his ex-wife was a model you know what I mean like in terms of like being beautiful and being on certain things

Amylike covers of magazines like a lot of like really really successful men they partner with like the most attractive successful women that's yeah yeah that's a part of it that's because when you

TTS/Chatmove in those sorts of circles 93 donated 99 sorry to cut off the party Nikki I'm 30 in front of me Nikki you are the fire

TTS/Chattoday just left biotech proud simp for you you to the little boys in the chats hating I'll DM you on Nick Yorkie's fire

TTS/Chatand I'd brag if that was my gf's page Brian BLM BLM best um very beautiful okay there you would this be the first whatever marriage I

Brian Atlasknow right whatever pretty soon uh we do need to wrap up pretty soon um but uh we'll go for a few more minutes um which probably will turn out to be a

Brian Atlaslittle more because I do need to finish up a couple things before we wrap um you were asking me something this is not my opinion by any means I'm literally oh like okay Tom Brady yeah yeah okay

Brian Atlasum well when you're like moving in those sorts of circles you're going to be meeting both men and women that are of a certain status so but I mean it's Plus

Brian Atlaswhat if Tom Brady still gone for her had same Beauty but without the following accolades and she's the same person as she was

Brian Atlasyeah I assume so I mean like Leonardo DiCaprio it's like always high status models oh my God a b check thank you for the 50 man appreciate it uh that actually triggers the fit check so what we're gonna have everybody do we're

Brian Atlasgonna do a little fit check you can tell us you know if you're wearing Gucci or Prada or what whatever that thing is the prize yeah she's the most gorgeous

Psyare you Japanese I'm Asian wow that is cultural is it though is it it was gifted to me by a Japanese person exactly

Psyit was gifted to me by a Japanese person to be worn as aesthetically as I wanted to cultural appropriate I mean but you're not Japanese so it's not cultural appropriation it's not who started close then we're all

Psyappropriate also this like fixation on cultural appropriation is pretty much existent in the west but come back to Southeast Asia we would love to see you in traditional barong which is a

Brian Atlastraditional men's costume so it's a different perspective there I I just point of clarification uh this cultural

Brian Atlasappropriation term is a joke I think but but uh okay let's do a stand up let's do a little fit check everybody so I'm wearing like a show Pony well whoops

Brian Atlasuh if everyone can just stand up and show their fit um all right there we go we got the the fit going here okay

Brian Atlasthe kimono all right okay culturally appropriating Madison what about you we've got Madison here um

Brian Atlasall right just got I don't know what you call those those are Cheetos or something um Genie pants yeah I think so they're classy all right thank you everybody you can sit down all right there you go

Brian Atlasthank you uh was that EB check thank you man appreciate it um yeah Tom Brady Giselle I mean it's you know you know I don't know where we were at with that one did you have well further follow-up or I mean like I like that

Amyit's not my opinion I'm just literally seeking to understand the full breadth of your statement that men don't care like I think I think some men care like where their woman is at like I don't see Tom Brady dating a regular normal girl

Brian Atlaswith no status no Fame no money well I mean he also just got divorced so there's from a supermodel that was famous before they got together well that's another reason not to get

Brian Atlasmarried look at all these hyper successful Attractive people exactly who are getting divorced so if they can't keep a girl what makes you think you can um can't argue with that

Brian Atlasso uh let's see um we have something from Psy SCI is that how you say your name yes you said dating with a checklist what did you

Psymean by that oh it's a topic I wanted to like open up like do you guys date with a checklist what's your chance

Brian Atlaswait what do you guys date with a checklist in mind do you do yes do yeah well let's start with you do you have a checklist I have an idea not necessarily a checklist okay let's start with

Psyphysical traits and then let's talk about personality not so much physical traits more on intellect intellect okay that that's it he just has to be smart

Psybut he can be can you be obese if you are smart then in a way you care about yourself okay I get it wait what if you are smart and you're self-aware then obviously there's a part of you

Psythat cares about yourself your health that's not true is it not if you're self-aware self-aware that something is wrong there's different kinds of intellect right yeah that's what I'm saying it's

Psylike intellect more towards self-awareness like are you trying to improve yourself but I'm sure there's people with high IQs or who are very smart who are not yeah that's why I'm specifying the kind

Brian Atlasof intellect I'm looking for so okay so someone who's smart enough and in good health in a self-aware mode yeah because I was thinking like Christopher

Brian AtlasHitchens was a very intelligent guy but he was not a particularly healthy individual but um so that's it just smart that's why I

Psysaid it's an idea because I was asking you guys I'm pretty sure it doesn't really matter she's fine flat are you sure you're not four eleven and three quarters I'm sure okay don't worry about that all right well Nick can you get a

Brian Atlastape measure um sure no I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding um what else any physical traits not so much honestly what about Dad Bond are you cool with Dad bod

Brian Atlasuh Hatter on a honestly what I can get behind down Bud yeah okay um so checklist you guys have a

Claudiachecklist um yeah I think as long as they're um they they're smart and they're kind I really like kind people

Helen Zodkind of people yeah okay um I want complete package I want a complete package I want them to look good

Helen Zodum I want them their height I want them to be minimum six foot six foot tall I want them to be very intelligent emotionally intelligent I want them to be very kind

Helen Zodwait they have to be six feet six foot at least at least how tall are you five six but I wear high heels all like most of the time so and then my high heels are like like crazy so and then I don't want to

Brian Atlasfeel taller okay so I cannot like uh settle with my high heels I'm 60 minimum that's like only 50 15 of men are over six feet I know you're kind of limiting your pool

Helen Zodwhat if the guys otherwise a great guy he's just 5 10. I I just don't know I think maybe because my character is a little bit aggressive and a dominant and then if they're shorter and then I feel

Brian Atlaslike I'm dominating him completely so that's even extra dominance guy yeah as you're kind of in you're more masculine or you're dominant yourself so

Brian Atlasyou need to you need a guide yeah yeah in a way yeah okay all right uh where were we did you answer I don't know I answered I don't really have a checklist right now I'm just being

Amyopen-minded stop the cow seriously though really I really don't have a checklist right now we were actually talking about this in the car on the way here that I'm kind of in a place right now where I'm starting to figure out what I want because I don't know right now

Heidiokay what is that I'm done that's it that's it should I keep going around the table oh me um not really I just really look for

Heidicompatibility like attraction obviously and it'd be nice if he's like like better than me like

Aubrywonderful uh for me not really I think my checklist has also changed throughout time when I was young I was definitely a lot more ignorant and I don't think there was a checklist

Aubryum there probably would be now if I was in kind of the dating World um but I am not and if I were to be I think the number one thing definitely would be Faith

Nikkium a man of Faith because I think that opens up a lot more Realms that are important to me so yeah agreed yeah definitely has to love Jesus um and that'll that'll usually you'll be

Nikkia certain type of person so someone who's honest loyal who values commitment and who also wants a family um I need him to be smarter than me um just very into

Nikkibeing able to think critically and not just kind of blindly go with whatever is in front of him um and yeah I mean I'd like a tall guy that'd be great I kind of want him to be

Nikkiin shape I try to be do you guys hear that thumping is that one of you guys yeah guys even stop thumping please um yeah no I mean physically um it's not I had a really big crush on

NikkiPrince Eric when I was a kid but now I'm like okay he doesn't have to be dark hair and blue eyes anymore as long as I find you attractive like that's totally fine but someone who's like athletic I can't have you just kind of be lazy and

Brandonnot work out because I want to do that for the rest of our lives so somebody takes care of himself checklist yeah somebody that's nice sweet funny Traditional Values

Brian Atlassomebody that's old school like me I gotta say that only some real descriptions nice old school I like old school all right I've I've got a checklist I've written it down 18 to 25 no that's not I

Brian Atlasmight 18 to 45 how about that um dark hair keep in mind these are these aren't there's like deal breaker deal maker slight preference strong preference so

Brian AtlasI'm not gonna but I'd say slight preference for dark hair slide preference light eyes but don't really like it's not like oh I've got like I date women dark eyes

Brian Atlasum prefer probably a moderate pref moderate medium preference for a short the shorter the better uh large labia the bigger the better soft spoken a little shy a little

Brian Atlasintroverted um let's see uh soft calming voice uh her parents made her do at least three

Brian Atlasyears of violin or cello that's important um yeah I want peace don't want like a really combative woman um

Brian Atlaslittle or no makeup pretty strong preface for no plastic surgery um let's see uh

Brian Atlasum 19. Pleasant no I mean like I said I date women around my age I did a bit older um

Brian Atlaswhat if she plays the guitar what's that I said that's a cute list I like it yeah I'm kind of joking about the violin or cello thing but that yeah

Brian Atlasum and uh low body count it would be good do you offer a low body count do I offer low body count I don't reveal my body count so why should she then what do you mean like if that's what

Brian Atlasyou're looking for but like are you gonna tell her well I yeah I would privately if she asked I would tell her what my body count is but I don't think as a guy if you have a high body count

Brian Atlasthat you can only date women who have high body counts I don't think it makes you a hypocrite it would make you a hypocrite if you were to say

Brian Atlaswomen shouldn't have high body counts but you contribute yourself to happen giving women a high body count although well

Brian Atlascan a guy contribute to a woman having a high body count because who else well sort of sort of but like as a guy on an

Brian Atlasindividual level you're only one body so you know you know what I mean now as a guy I think if you

Brian Atlaslike play with a girl who is desirous of a long-term relationship and you like feign that you want something serious when really your intentions are to just

Brian Atlassleep with her and then ghost her then that's contr I would say that could contribute to another body a little but uh I don't think men should do that um because I well me personally I have

Brian Atlasno interest in one night stands or sleeping with somebody once but uh yeah I don't I don't think there's a double standard because I don't think I don't think

Brian Atlasin order for you to desire something in a partner that you yourself need to possess it is that kind of hypocritical though I don't think it's hypocritical because

Brian Atlasthere's I think that's just normal so it's normal for guys to sleep around yeah speaking to my guys so it's normal for guys to sleep around and then kind of I'm not saying I'm not saying it's

Brian Atlasnormal I do think there's differences when it comes to body count I think men typically tend to care about it more and I think women typically tend to care about the less I'm perfect if a woman wants to date a guy who's a virgin more

Brian Atlaspower to you that's totally that's a totally fine preference for a woman to have I happen to think it's the case though that women don't have a strong preference for dating men who are virgins like women who have previous sexual partners I

Brian Atlasdon't think that's a very strong preference for women because I think it's not I guess who's more likely a religious woman might be inclined to do that but like for example you don't need

Brian Atlasto possess a trait to find it desirable in a partner for example a woman who is broke could be attracted to a guy who's

Brian Atlasrich need she also make as much money as him to be attracted to him because of his wealth I don't think so I think that's just normal same with humor a woman need not be funny to be

Brian Atlasattracted to a guy who's funny I'm not saying women can't be funny but what I'm saying is there are plenty of women out there who probably aren't [ __ ] like I would say if you ask

AmyI if you ask every single woman would you like a guy who's funny every single woman's gonna say yes I'd like a guy who's funny I think a lot of people look for are they funny themselves people that they don't have themselves to like

Aubrythere's a lot of people that do that yeah so I agree with that well and I think it also comes down to Instinct too because one of the things that you're bringing up is also innate in men generally is that they don't want to be with a woman who has slept around in

Aubryit's not necessarily a rational fear but it is in like all animals that's like why when a male lion takes over a pride he will often kill the young cubs of the

Aubryother Pride because men have kind of innate in them a fear of a woman bearing the child of another man yes innate competition and so that's one of the things that you're touching on is it may

Brian Atlasnot matter as much to women but it does matter to men and there is a reason for that it's kind of in their nature to some extent yeah I mean then when it comes to body count there's just another biological factor and that's comes down

Brian Atlasto paternity uncertainty yes so a woman who's had a lot of special partners and this is like on a this is not always necessarily on the uh

Brian Atlasa conscious cognitive level by the woman who's promiscuous uh at least previously before the Advent of birth control a woman who is promiscuous and let's say

Brian Atlasshe gets pregnant there's no way to guarantee who the father is paternity testing is something that came about in the 1980s so back in the day like okay let's say a

Brian Atlaswoman has 10 husbands who's and they're all sleeping with her who's the father prior to paternity testing you don't

Brian Atlasknow whereas if a woman gets pregnant she knows if a woman has 10 excuse me if a man has 10 wives and they're loyal to him

Brian Atlasyou know who the father is or sorry excuse me the women know hold on I'm losing I feel like you're arguments

Brian AtlasI got Tongue Tied so okay a woman who has 10 husbands right you don't know who the father is but the man who has 10 wives and of course

Brian Atlasassuming that the 10 wives are all loyal to him you know who the father is in all instances you know who the mother is of course the woman always knows who the mother is because you birth the child

Brian Atlasbut men don't have that same immediate knowledge I don't want a man with 10 baby like baby mamas I'm gonna be honest I don't want that yeah sure the difference is is that as a guy there

Brian Atlasthere's never going to be a question as to like since women are the ones that give birth there's never going to be an uncertainty about maternity there's no such thing about there's no such thing

Brian Atlasas maternity uncertainty but for men it's a very genuine fear that they could potentially be raising a child that they think is theirs that's not that's pretty much the biggest L that a

Brian Atlasguy can take in his life is to raise a kid that you think is yours that's not yes because I understand that yeah that's it's not great I guess I'm feeling oh it's really bad it's really I

Nikkiunderstand that I guess I'm coming at like from the opposite perspective of like I would feel really crappy if my husband said he was at work and he has a whole second family it's like you committed to me like wait a minute hold on you have all of it like I was listening to Usher on the way here and

Nikkihe's I was listening to confessions one and two and I'm like if this if my man made a song like this like you're so important to me but I got my side chick pregnant sorry she's keeping it like

Nikkiwait what hold on sure and it's the same the same idea like you want you want your person to be committed to you and I think that should go both ways both ways you know don't look around it's not great for you sure and and certainly

Brian Atlasthat could be a fear for women because there's certain Financial ramifications if your husband has a respiratory I don't know what the term

Brian Atlashas has kids with another woman because then his resources might be diverted and cannot be solely focused on and I'm kind of coming at this from an evolutionary perspective the survival of

Brian Atlasyour family however it's different like that that's a little different than like eternity fraud where this man who potentially

Brian Atlasyou're like you're [ __ ] with his ability to um like he thinks he's propagated his bloodline but like huh that's not his kid totally so that's

Helen Zodthat's like a woman do that it's so wrong what is the slipping around means sleeping around yeah yeah what does that mean like how many it will it call like oh like what's a high body count yeah what is it it depends on your age yeah

Brandonit depends on how old you are yeah so I don't know somebody my age 30 40. well speaking of that should we let's go around the table what's everyone's body count I'm not answering

Brian Atlasthat I'm like not answering that I mean well yeah you just brought it up so wait we haven't even rated ourselves yet yeah we gotta do that and we're gonna wrap we're gonna wrap 10 minutes we're gonna wrap in 10 minutes no I'm not gonna talk

Helen Zodabout what is my body yeah you go first Brian you go first you go first we'll start with you yeah I'm gonna talk I'm gonna say until I was 32 years old I was only slept with one

Brian Atlasman in my life so that's that was my life until you were 32. yep but you're now 42. so a lot can happen in a decade yeah so that's what I'm saying so what is

Helen Zodthis living around means if you're dating someone once a year is that living around is there you dating someone once every two years is that sleeping around what is sleeping around means

Brian Atlasthey're being very short durations between sexual partners or sleeping with multiple people at the same time okay so sleeping around like if I would say if

Brian Atlasyou're you have one new sexual partner I mean even less than this but let's say one new sexual partner a week I would say that's sleeping around also if you have one person that you're sleeping with and you're sleeping with

Brian Atlasother people that I would say that's sleeping around so yeah okay even if there's not crossover or there's not overlap like you sleep with one guy for one week and then another guy for another week

Brian Atlaseven if there's no overlap you can still be sleeping around I typically tend to think of it though if there is some overlap that's more so body count I don't know I don't count them

Helen Zodplus 10 plus wait can we stop can we stop thumping on the oh yes yes sorry my downstairs I date between one to two people per year

Claudiasometimes one to two Okay per every two three years okay I only sleep with my serious boyfriends I've had three so three stop the cow

Brian Atlasyou're a hoe If you answer the question you're a hoe If you don't answer the question so I'm not gonna answer that's not true that's not true you can answer yeah no judgment this is a safe nope

Psyforget what I said no matter what I do I'm gonna get called a Barracks funny even though I'm not and never have been uh plus 10 or I'm not answering what about you I've only been in monogamous relationships and I've never had one

Psynight stands so that's that's it you've only what I've only been in monogamous relationships and I've never had one I've never had that one night stand okay seven

HeidiI'm not saying Oh okay that's fine what about you uh three billion um just kidding that's private

Aubry[Laughter] um well I think my parents are watching so I'm gonna say over five under 15 just to be super careful sure that's fair yeah thanks

Brian Atlaspass my dad's watching there you have it ladies and gentlemen I don't answer that question all right there you have it there you have it we do have something here from Mr Stiffler ask everyone to write their looks on

Psyscale of one to ten we'll go around the table on this 10. I don't know if the camera was on your whole one more time ten

Psysix yeah I'd say six is it for the fit or like your physical appearance looks on the skill levels oh no who am I comparing it with though just your own self-assessment of your own however you

Psythat it's hard because I would not go there so I go there I don't want to sorry you can go there I don't have to you don't have to I don't want to but you could yeah I don't want to you could

Psygo there I don't want to but you you could I already said no why is it being pushed when everybody said no so but you okay so you don't want to rate yourself no so are you a 10

Psyhow do you how do you feel about yourself I think I feel happy as myself yeah exactly so I feel happy that's why I don't need I don't have the need to answer this like you you have to give me

Brian Atlasa parameter like to compare myself with then I'm gonna answer oh if I give it so if I pull up a photo of a girl you will make a compare okay actually hold on I did that back nope you cannot

Brian Atlasrescind your I could you can wait why not why not I could really I could retract it yeah I could say no of course

Heidiyou can do whatever you want yep um Kristin cruick whatever we'll move on what about you um I'm not really sure

Aubryum maybe 6.5 or 7 . um I would say probably a seven or an eight there's always room for improvement um but I think I'm working on myself doing a good job

Aubrysolid 7.8 seven

Brian AtlasJesus Christ okay uh she said eight she said they uh I give myself a six maybe six point nine on a good day uh I'll just say this there's no tens at the table

Helen Zodsorry I'm sorry but I think it's it's not about how you're gonna judge me it's about how I'm gonna feel about myself and like even the whole world is going to come and tell me um I think you're this but it's about how I feel about

Helen Zodmyself so I'm gonna base it on that because if I sit here I'm gonna wait to see oh you say you said I'm five you sit down four you said I'm three I'm on a seven then who am I is I'm waiting here

Brian Atlasto judge me so like I think I'm not gonna wait and see who's gonna judge me okay all right we I mean the the whole ratings scale though it's

Brian Atlasnot so much about like you can claim to be a like for example I could claim to be a billionaire but if my assets don't reflect that I'm a billionaire I'm not so

Brian Atlasthey're neat there's some basis in reality but you don't even know me how can you tell me if I'm Italian it's not your personality the question is specifically looks so I mean I'm looking at you right now and then you said like in general

Brian Atlasit's just it's just a little question that's yeah for the sake of time I need to move on from that but uh we have Alex P here unless she has her cab she's a veteran of foreign war not a combat

Amyveteran the cab is a is a badge um that some get provided uh when they've been in an exchange of fire or some kind of

Amyuh Combat Action and listen the the attack on me because I'm a military veteran I just have this to say listen I've never understood why somebody else in the military would dog or down put anybody else in the military like if you

Amywere in the military period I'm proud of you no matter what you did or no matter what your career is whoever's commenting these things I don't know my career and um things I'm really proud of my military service I got a lot out of it I gave a lot and if you're in the military I love you and I love your service and I

Brian Atlasappreciate you and I'm not going to fight with you all right Alex P there you have it it's pretty good uh mic drop yeah just to finish reading he said we can Trash veterans if we are vets we have the card it's clear that the way Bender the

Amyoffender has communicated that he is probably a veteran for HR in the Army is still HR I wasn't my only job but I love HR and even if you were in the military doing HR or mail room or whatever I'm proud of

Brian Atlasyou there you have it okay we have Matthew Saturn hey as a rancher in Texas noted LOL the reason I asked is because men women treat money very differently in a relationship I.E women own most of the debt in the states the richest man

Brian Atlasof Babylon wealth grows wherever men exert energy okay Matthew Saturn thank you for your very generous Super Chat Buffy Vegas Brian on my contact ASAP I have 57

Brian Atlasmillion views would like to talk with you bro the DMS bro the DMs this is true the girl from Rocky IV I'm five foot eight I'm here to tell you that led many men and I've made many men

Brian AtlasRich it ain't the size of the dog in the fight but the size of the fight and the dog P.S you're too old too choosy oh okay yeah all right there you have it

Brian Atlaswow they're they're out for blood tonight guys okay uh then we have a chat here from JT Nikki I'm 30 and fun employed right now might apply to med school next year not positive yet if

Brian Atlasthat was my girlfriend's IG I'd show that off to my boys in heartbeat JT don't don't take anything down to the chat yes I'm shamelessly a simp grow some balls

Brian AtlasBLM yeah I was about to say it's kind of simpy bro come on bro come on your girl to your boys

Brian AtlasI don't know I don't know about that I believe in being discreet with like I'm not gonna show my male friends look at my girlfriend oh no that's kind of she's totally real she goes into school

Brian Atlascheck out my girlfriend all right but they teach their own JT appreciate your patronage all right we have Raven it doesn't take skill to get on Telemundo

Brian Atlasoh it does take skill to have all of the world bosses on rotational Farm status on the PVP server just saying what's up

Nikkiokay whatever what are those words I don't know what a PVP we had them on player versus players PVP uh yeah yeah of course of course yeah of course of

Brian Atlascourse yeah PVP no big deal uh okay that's it for the chats here let me get a couple last oh my God okay let

Brian Atlasme get a few more things and then we're gonna wrap so Aubry you had the story about you cheated on your high school boyfriend for five years why don't you tell us that story uh give us a plot synopsis on that oh my gosh well yes

Aubrythis was I graduated high school in 2016 we had been dating since we were in Middle School um and then all the way throughout High School um that's why I kind of stuttered when you asked if it was my longest relationship because I actually think that one was a little longer

Aubryum but yeah anyways we were each other's first and pretty much everything um he did finagle with another girl in a brief moment when our parents made us break up um and I think I always kind of just held that jealousy in my heart quite a

Aubrybit I was just really young and really immature um so we did like I said we were each other's first um he was mine and everything and um anyways I was just kind of being pursued

Aubryum by this guy in high school who who was a virgin and he was like the only virgin at our high school at the time and uh the girls really liked that a lot of girls are really into this guy and he

Aubryjust had it out for me for whatever reason he despised my boyfriend um and I used to vent to him quite a lot when I was really young and um to this guy who was a virgin because

Aubryhe was my friend and uh anyways he just kind of pursued me to the point where ultimately I was just kind of put in a in a pretty weird situation right before I went off to college and ultimately I decided he point blank looked at me and

Aubrytold me that if I went to college without ever hooking up with him um that I would completely regret it and I was 18 and super vulnerable and I was like all right I guess I will

Aubryum so we did and I felt an extreme amount of Shame for about a week or so and after that I actually told him I told my boyfriend that I cheated on him right before we were about to move out

Aubryto Hawaii together to go to school and um he ultimately drove away said [ __ ] you

Aubryand a lot of other nasty words and um that is the very summarized version

TTS/ChatRyan your tolerance for these bad faith 304 keppers is insane they won't answer truthfully because they have had more bodies than the whole John Wick

TTS/Chatfranchise especially the one in back well for all the ladies for wasting our time stop capping who's the one in the back

Brian Atlasum by the way LPE that's the equivalent of like small dick energy it's like the yeah big dick Henry okay um

Aubrydid you see one comment I did want to say that I know that I did say vulnerable and I totally do take responsibility for what happened I was just saying I was vulnerable because I was talking about how I was young but I do completely take responsibility that

Aubryis why I ultimately told him because I was you know at a point mature enough to realize okay I'm maybe gonna marry this guy one day and to sit here and and commit bounce to this man who I haven't been faithful to when he's been faithful

Aubryto me um made me feel really bad about myself and so ultimately I knew that I there was a chance I could lose a relationship or there was a chance he could maybe forgive me um and he didn't and we have not been together since so yeah that's kind of my

Aubrything okay all right um forgiveness yeah totally I I definitely think proud of you yeah don't stand by once you're always a cheater I think that's so silly and anytime people say it I'm like oh my

Aubrygosh come on and all the people in high school were cheating on each other anyways I just had enough you know Womanhood to tell them that I actually did it yeah

Brian Atlasnon-sequitur I just want you know in case anybody's watching I would like to point out you know this is a very busy thoroughfare there are even at all hours of the night there are

Brian Atlasloud as you just heard there's a there's a motorcycle that just passed by you know yeah I'm just saying just saying okay all right

Aubryum did you wrap up on your thing yeah and basically he ended up taking it to Twitter and I was from a very small town so you got exposed oh yeah very very exposed um yeah to like a whole other level to

Aubrythe point where it's still to this day like people call me out about it no it doesn't hurt at all anymore and to be honest with you about it oh yeah why are they still hung up on that that's a good thing I really couldn't tell you but the guy I cheated on my high school

Aubryboyfriend with he was still getting called out years later I haven't really talked to him either I'd be curious to know if it still goes on

TTS/Chatum oh hold on turp 93 donated 99. okay I have to redeem myself I had no idea you'd be reading my fifty dollars

TTS/Chatmessage from 40 minutes ago I thought it just went through unnoticed to have it read out loud was so cringe and I mortified not actually simply just

Brian Atlastrolling the little boys in the chat the only way you can redeem yourself JT is to have us pop a champagne bottle yeah I was just about to say that just saying JT just saying wait what I

Brian Atlasdo need to be simple for someone oh yeah dude we're gonna wrap the show bro um uh okay so I um before we wrap any final thoughts from anybody speak now forever hold your peace if anybody has any last minute

Aubrythoughts also no I just had to share that story and get suckered at the end seriously we don't even get to pop champagne over it I know

Amyassumption

Psyit was money for you can you read this can you read this you're cute oh okay it's Japanese pretty could he yeah

Psyyou're not Japanese I'm not are you uh Chinese why are you doing this Asian no I'm just now I'm Filipino oh Filipina okay

Brian AtlasTagalog Tagalog excuse me it's at least I know that it's yes that you know Tagalog Tagalog okay all right good times good times all right so any final

Brian Atlasthoughts here before we wrap it up wrap it up box go ahead to the guy who made the Grimace joke about me that was really funny

Brian Atlaslike a while back yeah a long while oh my gosh you okay Madison I'm doing okay we need to get Madison a

Brian Atlasuh back massage here but all right so let me uh let's see I think there was one last thing there was what everybody roast us I do

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Brian Atlasdescription uh so I'm trying I feel like I had two more notes I really wanted to hit on really quick um oh we need to react to your dating profile let's pull that up really quick

Brian Atlasum and while he's while Nick is getting that wait sign you've been single for six years yes

Brian AtlasI'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding um it's all good it's all good uh wait okay we'll come back to the single let's for okay we'll come back to that so this is Claudia she's so graciously gener kindly

Brian Atlasprovided her hinge prompts to us dating me is like dating diamonds it's beautiful [Music] I'm just just saying well I applaud that uh

Brian AtlasEdward beautiful this is the skin of a killer Bella I'm a killer I have no idea what the [ __ ] that means but okay dating me is like dating diamonds let's before hold on so cringe you wrote it I know

Claudiaso it's a reference to Twilight because I think Twilight a Twilight reference and a dating yeah Edward Edward yeah how old is this

Brian Atlasreference wait okay uh yeah let's see the next one next one yeah 2011 or before maybe B okay the way to win me over is be funny be romantic be direct I'm looking for a relationship not

Brian Atlascasual I don't get impressed so just be yourself

Claudiayeah

Brian Atlasuh let's see the next one I go crazy for sweet kind smart gentlemen yes sir I'm real I'm Brazilian polish Mexican that is why I live in my swim okay I think the other two are the

Brian Atlasmore interesting ones but wait pull up the first one again really quick

Brian Atlasdating diamonds tell us about that why what do you mean diamonds are you a diamond um in the rough I I think so yeah um into the mic please

Claudiaum yeah I think I think I am um I actually was doing it for the Twilight reference because I'm uh think that it's I I really like the Twilight when I was younger but then again I just do think

Claudiathat um you get like um a whole package with me I really do believe that I'm not saying that I'm the most beautiful most intelligent I don't believe that about myself but when you

Claudiadate me um I feel like you get a person that um will bring you peace I don't react a lot I um I feel like I know how to

Claudiaregulate my emotions and I feel like I know how to you know call myself I feel like I have good conversation and you know my relationships so far have been really long for the most part and if

Claudiawe've broken up it's been you know because I was pursuing my career I put my career first but now I'm in a good place so I mean yeah I do think that

Claudiaum that that's what I bring to the table and I am you know very loyal very kind and um yeah I think that that's the first things that I uh put bring to the table

Brian Atlasso yeah okay cool Sai you've been single for six years um but like come on there's been a guy in the picture in that six year time period right what does that mean like there's maybe did you have a

Brian Atlassituationship in the past six years I really it's like if I want to be in a relationship then I'll be in a relationship oh what oh [ __ ] sorry

Brian Atlasum let's can one of the girls just ever so just kind of push it wait where's Madison wait where's the ghost Jesus Christ wait what's up Madison

Brian Atlasbug like a giant well we'll see it next time um six years six years six years come on there's been some guy in the picture in

Psysix years of being single I'm only really when I am interested it would only be for a monogamous relationship when I get interested so right now I'm not I'm just chilling

Psyis it really that inconceivable because like life could be so busy like you're trying to do something it's not it's not inconceivable but a six-year period for nothing it's not coming to me maybe there was a

Brian Atlasguy who you dated for three months no three months even if it was monogamous but it was just three months so it wasn't like no I only go long term what do you mean you only go long term um you've never been with a guy and it only

Psylasted like two or three months no it's always like you're just that amazing no I'm just like I I thought you had a thyroid problem you would know how

Psyenergy is so much of a thing yeah so you can't just like be willingly uh you know like spending it just casually spending it

Psywait so are you copying out because of the thyroid am i coughing no I'm just like very selective of where I put my energy and I think that's fair can I ask because you don't have an interest in having children at all is dating just not a problem the thing is it's like I

Aubrydon't even go there about the children part but it's like right now I'm doing something I want to focus on that yes no I'm just wondering so are you full-fledged kind of just like focus on yourself like I guess leave children completely out of it that's just kind of

Aubrya main portion of what I'm asking about because that's not a priority to procreate you don't necessarily need a man so it's just not a priority in your life I'm due date right now and that's why you've been single for six years see the thing is the idea of having kids is

Psynot even there it's like it's not in existence so like I don't know how else to put it I'm just not interested to have kids and that does not come into my dating profile or dating mind like once I get once I want

Nikkione like a relationship relationship then I'll do it but I have time well yeah you can you can pursue relationships without the intention of having kids yeah I guess I was just curious if that had something to do with it have you just not found

Psysomeone that's cool I'm not looking oh you're not like oh so you don't really want a relationship not right now if it happens it happens it's like there's a way where you're open and

Nikkiyou're also doing your own [ __ ] so you're not close you're just not actively yeah searching that makes sense wait can you speak some Tagalog for US

Brian Atlasbased okay cool what did you say do you describe okay rock and roll okay there you have it folks we're gonna wrap up the show so uh let me

Brian Atlasjust double check oh let's shout out twitch really quick guys go to twitch.tv whatever drops follow jobs to Prime sub if you have one drop some prime sub drop us a follow if you have one hey thank you guys appreciate it yo moonshine

Brian Atlasthing for the prime if anything for the prime big thing for the prime oh I think I already read these uh 55 thing for the tier three oh tier three thank you man appreciate it you're

Brian Atlasawesome uh okay cool so without further ado wait what do we I swear we're forgetting something no no I think no we got everything okay

Brian Atlasguys we're gonna wrap up the show guys last call please hit that like button on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you were here with me I appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates

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