02:52:46Laraabout a pattern but then he that then you show showed the the graphics so I think that regardless of that even if so the way to put the two things together I
02:52:56Larathink is that even if you have been very promiscuous and then you change your behavior because biologically that's what happens your past your past habit might still
02:53:08Mary Morganinfluence you in the future maybe less than before but still we are talking about you cannot desensitize to what sex really means and what it's for after that um and it's not really desensitizing I
02:53:18Mary Morganmean yes though like because if you're in your 20s being super promiscuous or serial monogamy is your thing uh and you're just getting ran through in your 20s and then your preferences change as
02:53:30Mary Morganyou say the statistics show and then you start looking for something different which is a long-term monogamous relationship then you're kind of screwed because guys don't want to be with someone with a high body like honestly
02:53:42Laraso maybe if that's the pattern we need to like kind of reverse course uh okay so they I mean in this show you keep on saying that um I'm not sure I'm not sure because I
02:53:54Laramyself honestly I don't have a very high body count so I cannot really I don't mean in particular but no no but the point is that I don't know how much actually women with a high body count can get boycotted Spider-Man I'm not
02:54:06Larasure about that and many women we find but boycott the person we need a boycott well I mean that I think that women generally uh if they
02:54:18LaraI don't know I mean women generally can find a partner even if they have a high board account I mean I know that in this show it exactly the opposite is sad over and over for weeks and months now but I
02:54:30Mary Morganstill well when are The Gatekeepers of sex but I would say that men are The Gatekeepers of commitment so it's like okay I agree you're gonna need to decide yeah women
02:54:45Mary Morganchoose the sex like we say yes to sex men pursue the relationship yeah which is why sex needs to be delayed when when you're looking for a long-term relationship it needs to be delayed I
02:54:57Laramean these are all rules that are very fixed but then when you are in an actual relationship when are you with a human beings all these rules are not necessarily followed exactly like that I'm following them I mean you can follow
02:55:08Larain the they can work for you that's 100 fine what I'm saying is that everything I've read about the red Bill does not apply to my to my everyday experience
02:55:18Laranot exactly there is a sometimes yes okay sometimes yes but then there is a certain percentage that goes away from the main laws so that's not necessarily true that if I have sex
02:55:31Larawith a guy that I like that means that I will never get married with him no I'm not saying that but I thought you were saying like if if you're looking for a long-term monogamous relationship
02:55:41Larahaving sex without commitment is not a good idea for you as a woman so how much how much commitment means how many days how many weeks do you have to wait before having sex until you're married
02:55:53Mary Morganand I know that that sounds like that's crazy and even you know what the last time I was on the show people are in the comments yeah in the comments yeah even memory or like red pill or whatever they were saying Mary's taking this [ __ ] too
02:56:05Mary Morganfar she's asking too much of men blah blah I think women do need to have like have higher standards and they need to start delaying sex in relationships whether it's marriage or something else
02:56:16Mary Morganthat you wait for whatever do your thing but um I'm saying that it's a necessary component of looking for commitment I don't think it's wise not knowing the person you are going to marry and spend
02:56:28Mary Morganmany at least many years of your life together not knowing him on a physical level before you you actually marry him I think that you can be very sure that you
02:56:39Mary Morganhave chemistry with someone yeah which means even even the sex you know that you want to have sex with someone before you have sex with them which is why you have sex that doesn't mean the sex is good yeah exactly yeah I mean in general
02:56:51Jonathan (MLD)you need to know that person his psychology but also his body and how he behaves in I mean this story you never you never hear married women being like I really had to make sure my husband was good in the bed that's what kept our
02:57:03Jonathan (MLD)relationship together it's usually a lot of other things typically the only people I see hold on hold on yeah typically the only people I typically see defending like sexual experience is important is like single women or women
02:57:15Jonathan (MLD)are like not locked down don't have a like a father or a husband and a guy's become a father too so I think like when it comes to relationships though like sex is really like not as important as
02:57:27Jonathan (MLD)keeping a long-term relationship going and another thing is this too if a woman has been ran through she's like desensitized to the whole sexual experience she's more familiar with breaking up with the guy and getting
02:57:38Mary Morganover a guy than keeping a relationships you possibly can be to another person can I respond to him that that relationship ends over and over again that does something to your brain that's
02:57:49Larathat's the pattern we were talking about before and I I kind of agreed like probably if you have a habit you will keep on having that habit in a way or another even if it gets better maybe you
02:58:01Larastill you still I don't know I don't know about that okay I don't know well all the women out there are doing but to respond to you yes I agree 100 I mean if you just have sex with that person and then you and then you decide okay let's
02:58:13Laraget married that's crazy what I'm saying is that you need to know that person in all the like 360 like but they've actually did this the they've actually debunked that there's like the myth of inexperience they're saying like oh you
02:58:26Laraknow these things will cause you to have a bad relationship it's actually not statistically it's like that I think it was the Pew research and like okay I don't fit in that search in my case I need to know the guy physically that's
02:58:39Laracalled confirmation bias no no it's not confirmation yes it is you're saying like this because this doesn't apply to me it doesn't apply to a generality no I'm not saying that she she is free to
02:58:50Larato keep her virginity until the end or I mean until she gets a marriage I'm not saying I'm not judging her choice I'm saying that her choice is not the universal choice I myself I just think
02:59:02Larame as an example because I know myself Uh I that that pattern would not work with me so that choice is definitely fine legit but not Universal you could I
02:59:14Mary Morganwould need yeah I would say it is a universal which is what we're arguing about yeah no I mean I mean that's like how the majority of cultures have been doing it sorry women aren't lying to themselves about what they want a lot of the time yeah
02:59:27Lararight but you just have to [ __ ] with your future husband you have to know them I mean you have to know him psychologically his behavior his habits
02:59:37Larahis daily life together with the the sexual connection that you can have from my personal perspective okay so you think in a different way and that's fine uh as long as you acknowledge as long
02:59:49Larathat would make you the exception and not the rule in terms of things I think I make the exception that's the point I'm just a a certain percentage I don't know what percentage is that but I don't think that I mean if you are a virgin
03:00:02Laraand you get married with your husband that means that your relationship is for sure going to be successful 100 something it's a better chance higher probability yeah because we're talking about okay because we're talking about
03:00:13Jonathan (MLD)long-term relationships and husband and then according to your you know strategy you haven't even success with that which is a husband oh say the last sentence again so so basically you're defending your train of thought but if the end goal is to get a
03:00:26Larahusband you don't have a husband so you're now if we're being really fair I'm not married either so but you're also not having sex I'm not looking for a husband though I mean I'm not I'm not I don't care about getting married I want to have a relationship then Gary
03:00:37Jonathan (MLD)marriage is a contract as you say I agree with that and I don't need right we're talking about over ranking the importance of sex in keeping someone long term like a husband and you were
03:00:48Larasaying that like you were afraid that your significant other was going to cheat on you later on in your relationship right I mean I think that there is that pattern in males in maybe even my my partner but
03:01:01Madison Vuum I don't know yeah but sorry but I think you called Mary crazy but she's taking those steps to make sure that that does not happen what is it from my point of view she's not crazy in general okay
03:01:12Laralike I would not choose uh when I was her age I I was virgin when I was your age and I hated it but that's right for marriage because yeah that's fine I mean if you
03:01:25Mary Morganbelieve that that's completely fine I mean I I really wish you to have exactly that what you're like I don't think women can be in cells because every time no no I was a [ __ ] insult I'll tell you that I all women have instant access
03:01:36Mary Morganto sex basically no no well you know you see you're very biased you don't have instant access to commitment from a man but you do have a yeah there's no such thing there's no such thing as feminism you can't be offensive listen listen
03:01:48Larathat's not true I was ignored for years by man I'll tell you that well I I was not voluntarily being a virgin
03:01:59LaraI I swear I lost my virginity when I was 23 and until then I mean I know I know that there are men out barely no it could have happened is the thing the thing is it could have happened a guy could go out there and try try and try
03:02:12Jonathan (MLD)and it could still not happen that's what it means in some it's in involuntarily yeah celibate so you just maybe were not aware of the sexual power you had in the marketplace so when at
03:02:23Laraany time a woman here a girl here in this podcast say something that is against your ideas she's a cop or whatever you use like caps there's no
03:02:33Brian Atlassuch thing you cannot you cannot be I mean perhaps there's something hold on let me just let me say one thing perhaps there's like an extremely you'd
03:02:44Larahave to have severe some sort of severe deformity or even like severely obese women have no issues I'll tell you what I was I was very shy very introvert and that doesn't attract to men no maybe no
03:02:57Brian Atlasneed that's not true actually I think I think men they're attractive introverted women I'll speak for myself I prefer shy quiet introverted women
03:03:07Brian AtlasSammy so as far and you know this let me ask during this period of time let's remove sex from it did any men pursue
03:03:17Brian Atlasyou no uh in three years one and what did did you say no to him I didn't like him what can I say so you're not involuntarily celibate because
03:03:27Larabecause of my age where having partners continuously and I got just one and I did not feel like doing it I was also blocked you know let me ask you a
03:03:41Laraquestion here's the difference were you trying to have sex with men yeah I was trying you were trying I was trying to become visible to men yeah I was trying to be more social
03:03:51Laraany random dude on the street the likelihood is that yeah can I can I okay so go ahead go ahead
03:04:00Larasorry and I'll let you speak later um you have to understand that I was I was a virgin 20 years uh 20 years 22 21
03:04:10Brian Atlas22 Etc and I was born wait wait you said 23 before 23 what is it 23 is when I lost my virginity okay but why are you saying 20 21 one in those years I was a
03:04:23Laravirgin and I was trying I was going to the gym trying to talk to guys Etc but never ever happened what can I tell you I also don't don't think that it's easy
03:04:33Brian Atlasfor a virgin to go and ask a guy out so easily yeah that's very convenient as a woman to say that because as men it is convenient because as men we have to
03:04:44Larainitiate with women so I would have loved to initiate I was not able because actually I was reading that book that's convenient for you to say it once again I mean it's not coming I'm describing you
03:04:57Laraknow what state was I was actually reading a book about how to flirt with men and and to see the strategies wait a minute I did not finish uh sorry but in Italian
03:05:13Larabasically I was reading these strategies because I was at a certain point I was getting crazy and I thought no I kind of pickup artist for women though that's a
03:05:24Laralot yeah there is a lot it exists I can send you the PDF I mean I'm not I'm not like women women don't need games no but the point is that actually the book was saying that we are we we have
03:05:37Larato initiate so I was trying to understand how to initiate a conversation uh but because I was not able to do that and men were not coming to me so I don't know I was feeling an an experience that was very similar to
03:05:49Gloriathat of the incels you can tell me no loneliness for sure when a man approached to you even though you were again to men like
03:05:58Brian Atlascome to you that man yeah can you put that cartoon like the comic cartoon I think you you know it's been a while since we pulled it up but pull it up go ahead and continue
03:06:10Larabut do you wanna do you want to stay I mean do you wanna you are a virgin you never had a relationship you still want when I have a relationship with somebody that you like oh wait so question let me ask you a question you say you want a
03:06:22Brian Atlasrelationship you said you wanted a relationship before you had sex did you want to be in love before you had sex yes ah see that's different we're talking about very different things here relationships inset but in cell or
03:06:33Brian Atlasfemcell incell is a very specific term it means involuntarily celibate so this is someone who desires to have sex but in they cannot find someone who will
03:06:44Brian Atlashave sex with them yeah but listen I it's not I'm not you're adding on all these variables I needed to be in love I needed to be in a relationship well that
03:06:54Larasuggests to me and and you probably wanted a certain tear of God you weren't ready to just settle for anybody no no you were you were prepared to get into a relationship with just anymore no wait
03:07:05Larawait a minute because I I I did not go into a relationship for years after that so of course in your mind you have the Romantic thoughts so in that sense I
03:07:16Larawanted to be in love or whatever but I was very uh obsessed by being me being a virgin I didn't like it I didn't like so of course the sexual level was very
03:07:26Laraimportant very relevant at that moment I I did not want to have sex with somebody I didn't know like I do not feel an affinity I don't know if you can call
03:07:34Brian Atlasthat love love is the idea but still but still that you you are by definition by definition you are not or you were
03:07:45Mary Morgannot an in cell it would be a woman who's not capable of finding a man to commit to her it's all those 30 year olds on Tick Tock that up
03:07:55Brian Atlasthemselves sell femcel in cell involuntarily celibate celibacy is in respect to sex we're not talking about love we're not talking about relationships we're not talking about
03:08:06Brian Atlasany of these things you just weren't able to find a guy that was going to be that you found attractive and that would be in a relationship with you and would date you for three four five six seven months eventually can you pull up that
03:08:19Brian Atlascomic book really quick and they'll have you continue your you know what I'm talking about right Eric
03:08:26Brian Atlasokay scroll make it a little bigger make it a little bigger women will say they're lonely this is what that there were not so many this is what that means but I just told you that
03:08:39Laraone guy tried to flirt with me but I didn't like him
03:08:45Lindsayit's not involuntary woman get about men men don't have that yeah women get the ick factor with a man they do not want
03:08:57Brian Atlasto sleep with what is like but you don't want to have its children oh no but we have okay we're we're speaking about something very precise here is it the
03:09:06Brian Atlascase that some women struggle to find relationships yes but we're speak when you say the term incel that has a very specific definition all right I was not
03:09:17Laraan insult I was I guess I was being virgin for longer than I wanted I guess perhaps you had two high standards no no no I don't think her standards were too high if she was looking for a loving
03:09:28Laracommittee able to to relate to relate how is your confidence during that time at that time it was [ __ ] irrelevant
03:09:38Brian Atlaslook not in women you're 33 you're in you're in good shape you're not obese I assume you're in much better shape when you were younger 10 years ago better now
03:09:48Brian Atlasthere's no way you were you were there's no way I don't care and I want more seriously I wasn't better I was I consider myself
03:09:58Brian Atlasbetter looking and in better shape 10 years ago age that's how aging Works in any case for you to say like you're I you're an attractive woman you could have gone to
03:10:10Laraa nightclub and [ __ ] a dude yeah dude Italian I was I was very closed I I was scared of even thinking about going here's the crazy thing Italian men oh my God yo a b check thanks for the
03:10:23Brian Atlastime you don't really like me very much I'll tell you that well Italian men I I'm from my understanding are pretty impressive what they're uh I don't think
03:10:33Brian Atlasthey're shy about approaching women so you could have gone to like there's definitely men in some other countries where they're a bit more shy but Italian men are pretty uh what's direct let's
03:10:44Brian Atlassay you could have gone to a nightclub gone to a bar and got laid so for you yes but you didn't do it right my personality my personality prevented me too sure and I don't like stock sure I don't like bars and nightclubs and
03:10:56Brian Atlasdrinking too but if you were so inclined if you were so pressed to get sex you could have done it I got it but you wanted the Disney
03:11:06Larafantasy fairy tale connection that I used to I mean where I went
03:11:15Jonathan (MLD)school college and gym the people there there just didn't know what so what you wanted didn't come to you but the access to sex okay
03:11:26Mary Morganthat's what incel means it's like involuntary good Brian I don't think it's fair to frame like a Disney level fantasy to want to have a loving committed relationship before you have
03:11:38Mary Morgansex with someone especially for women that's what I think all women want whether they admit it to themselves or not that's not an unattainable fantasy it's what I think all women should be
03:11:47Brian Atlaspining for well in this is more so in response to her claims of it being hard for her to get sex or hard or her characterization of herself yeah as
03:11:59Brian Atlasincel I I'm basically just saying look you wanted love commitment the right the good perfect maybe not the perfect partner but you wanted that guy
03:12:12Larasure yeah no girl like like they don't they don't it's not a relationship person for many years and when I lost my virginity I did not look for a relationship I was
03:12:22Larajust looking for somebody that I liked and that I felt good mentally that's if you don't feel good mentally you don't have sex with that person that's how it works for women most of the times sure so that's probably so I'm not sure if I
03:12:35Larawas looking for love I don't even remember it very well but I was looking for the mental connection and the physical attraction I guess but I I mean are you willing to share what your first experience was like yeah it was nice it
03:12:47Mary Morgangot interesting it was a very is this trauma dumping trauma dumping this is trauma dumping light it was good yeah it was good is Madison
03:12:59Brian Atlasstill here oh she had to dip yeah oh shoot okay um let's maybe I'm wondering if we scoot let's scoot can I have you guys scoot over one that'll just be easier
03:13:12Brian Atlasthere's not many of us left yeah it feels kind of lonely came over no can leave the mic there John can I have you just put that microphone on the ground this one here yeah just be careful the the wire I got you buddy yeah
03:13:27Brian Atlasum your first experience oh it was great I don't know what do you want to say exactly I mean okay how long how much how long were you seeing him for
03:13:38Laraum it was four months it was four months four months yeah see that's it's it it's how soon how soon did you have sex with him well we were friends first I already liked him but we were friends first the
03:13:50Larafriend we did not see each other very often so it prolonged and then eventually we actually started to be more active to a couple of weeks before and then we finally had sex
03:14:03Laraon what date well we were I don't know I did not count the date there was more or less the fourth month that I met him um natural dates were probably the the
03:14:15Brian Atlaslast months wait don't let the microphone block your face yeah to speak oh sorry you're fine you're fine you're fine you're fine like this you're just kind of like edging out over here so edging out but I don't remember I mean
03:14:26Brian Atlasthis is over 10 years ago it's your first sexual encounter but okay so yeah but he's asking me the number of the dates okay so but you from from when you
03:14:36Brian Atlasmet him to when you had sex with him was four months is that correct yes yeah I mean it's your your complaints about being involuntarily celibate are
03:14:48Brian Atlasnot particularly surprising well not sorry they're they're a bit surprising to me but why why is it too long or Too Short well let me ask you did he in that four-month period did he want to have sex with you and you
03:15:00Larasaid no no no let's wait no never hold on I was bro I wanted to have sex with him right away and he didn't want to no they we were friends first and I did not
03:15:10LaraI Was Not That explicit to tell him I I'm okay and it was not explicit too then he was in the military so did not see him very often so it was a gradual
03:15:21Brian Atlasthing that's the reason why all that time was wait so the four month period you were friends
03:15:30Larathe last the period where we started to actually flirt and show show our interest was the last months more or less so the actual dating was a man's
03:15:41Laramore or less uh the actual time when I when I showed that I liked him and he showed me the okay so how did that go did you tell him
03:15:52Brian AtlasI like you uh no he told me and then he was he was so he told you and then did you immediately reciprocate and say yeah
03:16:01LaraI like you too did you [ __ ] that night no no no no because did he try to no no he was very delicate okay he didn't know whether it was a virgin I do not tell
03:16:12Larahim okay I just didn't want him to know that I was I thought he would I you I would scare him I don't know um
03:16:23Laraso yeah it was even that was a little bit gradual sorry
03:16:33Mary Morganum I mean I think I think she's like conceited at this point that incel is not the word to use for what okay so right okay okay um fair enough fair enough I just okay
03:16:44Brian Atlasfor some reason that bothers me bro you don't know how hard Ryan trigger well no because I mean I This this term like I don't think women can honestly I
03:16:55Brian Atlasdon't think women can claim the term and so yeah I just yeah and and I I have genuine empathy for men who consider themselves in cell because these are not and and there's a lot of bad [ __ ]
03:17:07Brian Atlaspress about people who who are in cells but really it's just typically I mean they're maybe men who are not particularly physically attractive or
03:17:17Brian Atlasthey struggle socially and uh I think these men deserve our empathy and compassion and not vilification in any case though I genuinely don't think a
03:17:28Brian Atlaswoman can be an incel I just it's not you you need not look further than just hop on the dating app swipe on a bunch of dudes and you could get laid if you were so inclined so
03:17:41LaraI don't know right I'm not an Intel sorry if I misuse the word but and but I suppose I also change later they're appropriating in cell
03:17:53Brian Atlasculture yeah cultural approach sorry in cell guys out there I'm sorry yeah well I mean it's it's also just I think uh we uh we also
03:18:04Brian Atlasdon't have much empathy or compassion for men who maybe aren't in cells but who struggle when it comes to dating and
03:18:13Brian Atlasuh in any case uh so yeah uh while we're done uh let's do some super chats here let's get some super chats let's go long convo okay
03:18:25Nala Rayuh wait we did this one yeah we did John Doe I believe uh do you want to read this one yeah bruh y'all crazy I commit to but also
03:18:37Nala Rayabsolutely wreck the old lady y'all f'd for saying that love your eyes by the way also I'd let myself be thoroughly smashed by Nala either way she not she's not trying to commit and I wouldn't
03:18:48Nala Raycommit to her because cheating equals l so I guess I'm a loser why is everybody promoting their [ __ ] Instagram like what they just gotta get like a lot of okay you did he's probably
03:19:00Nala Rayblowing up right now because of you go Queen he answered me did he Victor probably ghosted me uh do you want to read this one that
03:19:11Nala Raywould be the funniest part he said I'm 16 deep when did you send that photo 16 beers hello oh 16 beers you don't like guys who drink oh I don't mind does he drink like that though I
03:19:24Brian Atlasdon't know anything about I think but he he looks like he's seen beers or something else he can probably beers can I ask my question though impressive let's just do the Super Chat can you read the Super Chat real quick then we'll have you do a question go ahead
03:19:35Brian Atlasbring Chase back instead of this overweight dude Chase actually knows are you talking about me I'm getting kind of pudgy just saying I think he's talking about me he's calling me MLG like he's looking you've been working
03:19:48Brian Atlasout man I don't know mld's not overweight come on uh Medina I think for the uh we shall say how much we weigh yeah weight check okay okay you go first go
03:20:00LaraI'm 120. okay what is that something
03:20:15Kiki (co-host)something 112. I'm thick 141. 15. surprise we're actually answering this John yeah
03:20:25Mary Morgan186 185. okay like that 107 last time I checked I'm 180. you're 180. I'm 180 really I need to
03:20:36Kiki (co-host)lose weight I thought you were heavier like you look bigger in a good way not a bad way in a good way I need I need to lose a little I need to lose like 10 pounds you know I got a little sorry 180
03:20:50Brian AtlasI'm not obese um and by the way you're not three you're not three oh thank you you're a full seven
03:20:59Brian Atlasokay from my personal person oh [ __ ] this is we had a girl on the show like two shows ago uh Lauren day Laguna do you know her well she basically came on the show
03:21:12Brian Atlasbecause we always do this rating question and she basically intentionally ranked me lower than she actually thought I was or maybe she's just walking it back after I [ __ ]
03:21:23Brian Atlasuh rebutted her I guess but yeah she ranked me a three rip Rip's in the chat for Brian So Good Times um I think and I consider myself six so
03:21:34Lindsayyeah anyways um go ahead oh what would you rather uh would you rather we need a like question here yeah well maybe it's not
03:21:46Lindsaylike hitting on okay go ahead go ahead go ahead go ahead go ahead with it all right a younger girl 2025 High bite account yeah
03:21:56Brian Atlas30 or 35 low about account that's a good question what what's the uh give me exact age and exact body count
03:22:08Brian Atlasall right 24 24. I don't know my body counts here give me let's do how about 21 and 31 how about that there you go oh 21 year old versus 31 year old oh God I
03:22:20Lindsaygot it what's their body counts 21 and I've heard this actually like 60 to 100. versus pretty common especially yeah yeah
03:22:30Lindsayverses 31. it's seven like you said six you said yeah so you're six because girls had ears so
03:22:40Brian Atlaswait what she's had some years to put herself out there some ex-boyfriends some okay but she her body counts six at 31. I'll take the 31 year old yeah yeah yeah um
03:22:54Jonathan (MLD)this is directed at the men so good I mean neither the high body count chicks are just hard to maintained in a relationship yeah I don't I don't want it it's usually if you go with the 31
03:23:04Jonathan (MLD)year old yeah are you kidding me yeah 100 dudes that's like you know I mean I'm just like a jaded war vet at that time like the next stick doesn't even matter there's a lot too like
03:23:16Mary MorganI think six is a lot yeah but it's not a hundred it's not a hundred that's that's what we're talking about at some point I feel like you like certain places and then it just plateaus like that's what I'm saying like a jaded war vet like
03:23:28Kiki (co-host)after like you know what's it called the Thousand caucus a thousand [ __ ] there like you know it's just like all the same thing you know wait can you do the Thousand [ __ ] stare into this camera [Music]
03:23:40Brian Atlaswell no no but what just a lifeless space it's just like a lifeless um glazed over look full of life though fair enough oh she's back okay
03:23:54Nala Raywe're not necessarily a quick I understand I don't feel offended quick hello you will is there another one is there another one um
03:24:07Nala Raythere's a there's a couple why don't you tell us some more Japanese phrases I would say so Mizu is water if I'm gonna order chicken and rice it's a chicken two rice
03:24:19Nala Raysoy taraki maska um Ocha is green tea is green tea right no matcha is powder
03:24:33Nala RayI mean I'd like to hear you speak some you live there I just did matcha matcha is an American word too I can order it at Starbucks I mean it comes from Japan speak some no I'm so
03:24:44Brian Atlascurious there so speaking of Body Count um what is everyone's body count John do you want to go first yeah it's up there you you revealed it before so do you
03:24:56Jonathan (MLD)want to reveal it again I don't know I'm a man of God no you're a man of God now yeah you were born again yeah watching all these watching all these shows has made me just like well
03:25:06Jonathan (MLD)don't we time sit by seven oh yeah here I got you no divide divided by seven that's women no no it's this one no no no that's the real number
03:25:17Lindsayhe's saying that for girls oh really yes word huh uh okay
03:25:28Brian AtlasJohn just just throw it out there the number yeah yeah over a hundred fair enough just trauma dumped over 100 trauma dump how old are you again let's start 37 37 what about you I don't know
03:25:40Nala RayI've already said this over a hundred well give us a range I would actually say it's definitely over 50. okay definitely
03:25:48Larayeah definitely over a hundred no yours is even higher I know you're a [ __ ] deserve each other thank you I would
03:26:00Larahope so [Music] I'll I'll tell I'll tell you when you tell me yours
03:26:09Brian Atlasso as far as I know I'm a woman of God next just you got to make sure to I want to know I don't reveal my body count me neither
03:26:19Larafair enough what about you oh [Laughter]
03:26:27Larayeah what's the problem with this look I'm I can neither confirm nor deny no I'm not tell you what why don't you guess what my body count is yeah um I was saying something like that actually I was saying something almost
03:26:40Lara10 but not really I was saying something like that it's seven that's a good number okay all right
03:27:03LindsayI will not use the word Intel but I did please don't use it but I I went on my own sexual revolution of figuring myself out
03:27:14Lindsayafter being hurt by a very very cruel man and I didn't have sex for about four years when uh what age did you lose the Virgin
03:27:25Mary Morgan18. okay body count um less than five a Mary oh that's I didn't know I had to answer but it's zero yeah it's zero okay
03:27:39Brian Atlasopportunity okay um what were we talking about I don't [ __ ] remember the body count no so six
03:27:53Lindsayhuh is real real answer okay all right we're talking like P and the V though not like not oral are we talking oral sex I know
03:28:04Lindsaydoes oral sex count it's like it's like a half Point probably it's like half of a body I got more
03:28:14Lindsaymen when I was not doing pee in the baby what what's the number
03:28:33Brian Atlasuh I'll tell you guys my body count how about this this is like the dumbest this is becoming like a slumber party
03:28:46Brian Atlaswhat's that I think the the best answer is um how about we sleep together and then you can tell me what you think it is
03:28:56Nala Rayno I understand it's like how much experience you have how about you decide you can that's stupid is that a proposition stupid is the proposition
03:29:05Brian Atlaslive live on air opposition okay so let's see we had oh I'm gonna react to a tape video because it was related to your question about
03:29:16Brian Atlasexperience it's actually pretty wholesome not gonna lie but and and I 100 agree with Tate's take on this um when it comes because you asked this like much earlier on in the show when it
03:29:28Brian Atlascomes to a woman's experience that to me that doesn't really matter like sex is not this uh and he says this in the video it's not a complicated operation it's not a complicated procedure you
03:29:41Brian Atlasknow the the way that you're going to make me as a woman the way that you're going to make me real fall in love with you is not the way in which you're able to gyrate your
03:29:52Brian Atlaships on top of me it's not the the skills with which you can fellate me I don't really care um first off because I can teach I can teach a girl I could take a girl who's
03:30:04Brian Atlasinexperienced have great sex with her do not give a [ __ ] about a girl's experience in terms of if she's inexperienced that that's that's a pro not the con
03:30:16Brian Atlasum so what really matters is does she care about me ish like I don't give a [ __ ] like is she gonna is she my ride or die I don't give a [ __ ] about all this other
03:30:28Brian Atlas[ __ ] doesn't matter to me I like look I like sex I like I I'd say I have a fairly high sex drive but you know
03:30:39Brian Atlasyou don't do the Gluck Gluck 9000 I don't [ __ ] care ers
03:30:47Brian AtlasI yeah I yes I'm I'm familiar yeah I bet you are what the [ __ ] I call her daddy podcast I've heard the caller daddy podcast by the way the way they
03:30:59Nala Raydescribe it it's actually pretty dog [ __ ] nine thousand like with the Turning there's also the four thousand too what is that I'm so dumb I don't know no I
03:31:11Nala Rayjust call it for like heavy dick suckers they give the glug like 9000. I don't really look at it like a technique it's like okay well it kind of is but like I don't want to get that graphic you know well the one thing they say is like you
03:31:24Brian Atlasneed to like bro [Music] spinning motion this motion no
03:31:34Nala Rayno that does nothing you're like what yeah that's that's like the most toaster brain thing I've ever heard this very overweight female who doesn't look like she ever has sex on the internet
03:31:45Nala Rayexplain what she does when she gives head I was like that looks so painful so painful and it was that exact motion she's like yeah I just go like really fast I'm like what is this there should
03:31:56Nala Raybe afterwards only vertical only vertical no horizontal uncircumcised like all that extra skin just like being Twisted must hurt so bad
03:32:09Brian Atlassorry Mary sorry Mary okay um let's pull up the tape clip let's watch the take clip it's the uh Tate uh uh what is it what's it called hello
03:32:22Brian Atlasit's the uh [ __ ] I don't have it pulled up right now let me find it really quick uh speaking of which does anyone have anything dating related that they want to get off your chest start thinking about it because I'm going to ask you that that's gonna be our final question
03:32:34Brian Atlasfor tonight all right it's called wait oh Tate sex meh meh
03:32:53Brian Atlass you've mute it's muted the audio is muted by the way sex okay
03:33:09Andrew Tate (clip)sex sex this position that position can you boost so you feel like you get to a point in your life with something more than that [ __ ] don't you feel like maybe I'm gonna sound like a romantic don't you feel like you get to a position in your life where you'd rather have a girl who truly truly like she truly loves you
03:33:22Andrew Tate (clip)and it doesn't matter what she does because you know she really loves you and she's trying her best wear those hats [Music] you sleep with enough women yeah
03:33:34Andrew Tate (clip)just like if you sleep with enough men there's no [ __ ] mood sex is not a complicated operation right there's no move that's going to be like wow I've never seen this before I've never seen this before on my mind
03:33:45Andrew Tate (clip)no no if you think the way you keep a man happy is to move your [ __ ] in a particular way on top of his dick as opposed to behaving in a way which is respectful to him out in the real world until for him to know he has you and your loyalty regardless of what's gonna
03:33:59Andrew Tate (clip)come up all the problem is going to come into in his life then you're wrong so the whole point of sex is a connection between two people and I think having a genuine connection between two people is worth more than the sex so her question was what can a woman do to truly blow
03:34:11Andrew Tate (clip)your mind in the bedroom you'll blow my mind outside of the bedroom in a relationship okay that's the truth wouldn't you rather have a girlfriend who truly loves you is absolutely loyal to you like no matter what happens she's going to be there for
03:34:25Andrew Tate (clip)you you can catch her case six months she's waiting outside waiting she she okay she can't take dick right whatever but she tries her very very best the poor thing she wants to satisfy you and you know
03:34:37Andrew Tate (clip)you know she cares about you yeah wouldn't you be like well I don't care that she can't take dick because that's actually a quality woman which is rare in the world today but I am genuinely uninterested in sleeping with a woman who I don't have a connection with if a
03:34:49Andrew Tate (clip)girl said to me I don't love you at all I don't feel anything for you at all I don't want to sleep with you but I will I would say no I'm the sex act in and of itself is is okay we've all have you had sex we've all had sex right do you
03:35:02Andrew Tate (clip)really need to [ __ ] somebody who doesn't give a [ __ ] about you at all if we live in a world now right where we have a lot of narratives which are being broken down and destroyed in real time and I think it's very very healthy for men and women to look at sex as an act that
03:35:14Andrew Tate (clip)happens between people who at least like each other the idea that I don't like them at all but as long as they can suck dick this way then it's okay I don't give a [ __ ] right if a girl genuinely loves me with all her heart and gives me
03:35:27Andrew Tate (clip)a [ __ ] terrible [ __ ] I'm still gonna be like well you love me I love you it is what it is it's more life's more important than blow jobs and [ __ ] blowing yourself this is the truth and if it's not love this if it's not long let me tell you something women
03:35:39Andrew Tate (clip)are The Gatekeepers not men if it's not love you shouldn't be [ __ ] them anyway this is the reality of the world you're different you shouldn't be [ __ ] any man you don't love that's the first [ __ ] thing okay
03:35:51Andrew Tate (clip)you're ready [Music]
03:36:00Nala Rayokay um shout out to fresh and fit that's uh from their podcast um your reaction to the clip write about some of it about the outside
03:36:12Nala Rayaspect of like you know if a woman's acting uh loyal and like that's attractive you know for a man to see a woman acting like theirs you know they've claimed them like this is hot whatever but like a man [ __ ] a girl
03:36:25Nala Raythat's like or he's not in love with like I disagree with that completely I have sex with people I'm not in love with I'm not in love with anyone you know what I mean so I disagree with that but that's just my take on it it's more so I mean that was one component of what he was speaking on I think the bigger
03:36:38Nala Raything though is yeah was that like having a connection and not just having sex like sex is sex everyone can kind of Envision it except for Mary like you know what I mean so it's just kind of
03:36:47Nala Raylike I get why he's saying that and it is attractive when a woman acts uh in a certain way in a relationship to entice her man to be only hers I completely agree with that yeah and I mean the the
03:37:00Brian Atlasprimary point is just you know there's this talk of well a woman who has a low body count or as a virgin then she is sexually inexperienced she's not
03:37:11Brian Atlasgoing to be able to please you in the bedroom which I frankly disagree with but I disagree um but I often hear that as a rebuttal too typically men's position that men care
03:37:24Brian Atlasabout body count and I I don't think it's a particularly strong rebuttal because I think well when it comes to what men and women want in the bedroom yeah a man a man would be more turned on by a woman be having low body count than
03:37:36Nala Rayany kind of sexual thing she does yeah that would be the most mentally stimulating thing for you I think so too but is that just because she's got a really tight [ __ ] or because he can teach her to have sex with him or is it
03:37:48Jonathan (MLD)selfish no it's just psychological it's just because that's what we want as men a woman who hasn't been privacy no no it's not even it's not a physical thing because that's that's a myth about women women who get [ __ ] have like uh loose
03:38:00Jonathan (MLD)you know vagina but compared to someone who has never had sex it's a little different no because we're not I'm telling you you're not listening guys are searching for Purity in a woman not a tight vagina
03:38:14Jonathan (MLD)I know listen I'll explain okay we're turned on by the idea that she has not done this with anybody else and it's something special because that's what determines value scarcity determines
03:38:25Jonathan (MLD)value right if everybody has some access to something that means it's not scarce and if it's not scarce then it's not valuable because scarcity determines valuable
03:38:42Larasome women have the same as no even if you think that it's only for men there are women that take I didn't say it was only for men I just said in general in that context it is
03:38:54Larasaid over and over that women don't care about the body count don't care about purity there are definitely women that would take that for sure for sure but women with high body counts they would care
03:39:05Gloriaabout that because they now get so used to men to get [ __ ] by them then now they get out like a virgin man he's yeah I've never thought a virgin man I have a my friend he she has like a lot but it
03:39:18Gloriacomes and then when he got a like a virgin man he's like oh yeah he's virgin but I don't care because he doesn't know anything but because she has been with a lot of men now she's having this
03:39:30Brian Atlasideology of what men need to do I have to read this really quick we'll come back to that Gloria is 100 win Lindsay you're not too old I know come to the southeast LMA like botox but the rest
03:39:40Brian Atlasdon't want it stop judging harshly and give a real man a chance Nala I would be into you as I am a certified certified freak your of ruined you Gloria is the best rip
03:39:54Brian Atlasum sorry Ivan I didn't mean to miss your Super Chat there you're right we didn't did we do that one or no the one I just read that we do it like previously yeah we did oh he's saying
03:40:06Brian Atlasthat we didn't finish the red oh did we skip over it my bad maybe in any case we just read it now uh we have one here from Joe's Madness thing for the uh donation man uh Nala can you read this
03:40:17Nala Rayyeah recently new viewer two to three months and loved the format my first top gotta say the redhead is gorgeous and the albino is a zero my question is
03:40:27Nala Raywould you date a fat guy with a high sex drive high sex drive as in at minimum three times a day yes that is more than enough and literal fat has absolutely
03:40:39Nala Raynothing to do with it I have dated my not even dating the people I have seen or slept with look like there's not one type so that makes sense wait you said three times a day is more than three
03:40:52Nala Raytimes a day more than enough but I mean you said earlier on in the show that you're insatiable okay two to three times a day or a guy is a lot every [ __ ] day A woman is very different
03:41:04Gloriathat's true that's true okay um thank you sorry I want to say something about the tape video and he's totally right men really don't care about the woman experience because at
03:41:16Gloriathe end of the day the man is the giver and the woman is the receiver you like it or not so they are the in charge so and mostly it may
03:41:28Glorianot always like mostly doing all the work in the sex in my experience or what I've seen videos so I mean pretty much um they really don't care I'm honestly
03:41:39Gloriathing it's like based on the biology that they give what we all need so there's you can say whatever you want but deep
03:41:50Brian Atlasdown you know um DNA it's like he keeps us received yeah and I mean the other thing it's it's much harder for a guy to be in to be good and bad than it is for
03:42:00Brian Atlasa woman to be good and bad you need not really do much yeah as a woman to and I'll totally disagree with that I work so hard in the bedroom
03:42:12Nala RayI feel like my main purpose is to make the guy come isn't that what sex is about no one really cares if the woman comes I feel like well I disagree with that but that's fine but
03:42:25Larayou need to work if you if you if you're dominant you need to work like you need to know how to move or stuff like that again it's not relevant for men probably
03:42:35Nala Raybut yeah I mean sometimes also women have to work hard so choice you can be a pillow princess or you could not be one or no or harm but maybe
03:42:47GloriaDrive the guy to how you like to be told or like how to like touch yourself in a way teach them not to just wait them to know right and then judge them to be oh
03:42:59Gloriakiss kiss uh he's a [ __ ] bite yeah so I mean sure sometimes it doesn't make any sense yeah what women want so I mean that's my opinion wait so but you disagree
03:43:11Nala Rayyeah I feel like um if you're having sex you both should be working at it you know it's both an effort you both should be sweating it's like animal uh sweating I don't know about that
03:43:22Brian Atlas[ __ ] like hormones are coming out of your side like your sweat glands like that's hot but let's uh before we continue on with that uh topic let's have everybody react to that today video
03:43:33Jonathan (MLD)John do you have a reaction to the tape video I think what he said is right you know like a lot of women they just think that the quality of sex they give a guy is important as like Fidelity or like
03:43:45Jonathan (MLD)just not having to worry about her doing some whole [ __ ] in the relationship that's gonna bother him in the back of his mind oh by the way Mary did you have a
03:43:54Brian Atlasresponse he said the albinos is a zero do you want to respond to Joe's Madness I don't really have a response can you call him a zero
03:44:07Mary Morgan[Music] sorry Joe I'm I fight about uh Mary will fly to you and fight you in the cage did have thoughts on the Tate video um
03:44:20Mary MorganI like that he's ostensibly pushing people in the right direction and he's saying you know sex is about connection and that's uh more important than just the mechanical event that's happening here
03:44:32Mary Morganbut um on the other hand I have to I'm critical of the idea that a girlfriend essentially should be your ride or die totally loyal to you forever
03:44:45Mary Morganlike if you're a girlfriend there's no reason to have that attitude towards a guy because you're not committed to he has not given you a commitment therefore you should not be giving him access to your intimacy
03:45:00Jonathan (MLD)so you think a girl should not be a ride or die that's the best strategy to lock a guy down for a marriage I mean what I'm saying is
03:45:10Mary Morganfitted to you then you shouldn't be giving him access to your intimacy and that's what he's saying sex is about is like the intimacy the closeness the connection yeah
03:45:22Mary Morganyou should be delaying that type of intimacy until after he has come so you're thinking ride or die ride or die is connected to sexual intimacy I'm saying it's connected to marriage
03:45:33Mary Morganright and marriage is The Benchmark I say is wise for women to wait until sex okay so not being ride or die before marriage is not good for women you think there's no such thing as ride or die
03:45:46Mary Morganbefore marriage that's not a thing there's no commitment other than marriage okay otherwise it's just like oh a vague idea like I'm committed to you John would you wait till marriage
03:46:01Jonathan (MLD)since you're a new man of God no all the crazies I'm eating I don't want to have sex with any of them it's wild out there right now it's is there not an abundance of marriageable women
03:46:13Brian Atlasin Japan uh yeah there is but I'm just like not really talking to anybody right now all right um so before we wrap up uh we
03:46:24Brian Atlashave one more video to react to but I posed the question is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest
03:46:34Brian Atlasbut like uh or perhaps for example is there something is there some way that men are pissing you off in some way you're not dating okay let's
03:46:46Brian Atlassee well no like I mean if someone asks me on a date yeah like by the way will you go on a date with Victor is Victor Victor are you still in the chat buddy yeah hello Victor confirm a
03:46:56Nala Raydenier are you in the chat 16 or 20 in now he was too yoked to be he's pretty yoked 20 is too young for you I mean oh you said 16 or 20. like beers we're talking about beers beers
03:47:12Nala Rayyou want to just get blitzed with a dude like super drink actually oh based okay me neither I'm swooping just kidding okay I don't really think there's anything that's like pissing me off currently I can't
03:47:24Nala Raylike nothing comes to mind I just feel like men and women are two very different things and like I don't know I just want to be mad at anybody anything dating related you want to get
03:47:34Laraoff your chest uh it's too bad but I cannot I can sort of like
03:47:44LaraI don't know what else what other answer I can give well I am bothered by the red pillars you're bothered by Red pillars because also feminists they are
03:47:54Larato basically both of them are pretty much she is he's getting the red or the blue I'm pointing towards the red pill
03:48:03Brian Atlasyeah I don't like the red pillars why is that because Jesus [ __ ] yeah that's exactly what you deserve it sure can you yeah
03:48:16Larayeah um simply because I think it's a very materialistic way mechanic mechanic I don't know how to say that in English but it's a very limited way to see reality it's true I mean there is a
03:48:27Larapartial reality but it's not only that so I don't want to be judged only for my physical aspect I don't want to judge only based on money status or can you guys need some air in here yeah so
03:48:39Larathat's like I just find in the very limiting the guys they are red pill they usually are pretty aggressive they are not kind usually I would say that okay I had that experience
03:48:51Laraum so um well actually in online not in person uh well actually I met once a brad pillars but I we were not even flirting so it was not even a thing but the
03:49:03Laraattitude that they have is pretty aggressive and I don't I don't like it which I mean who which ones the red pillars those they are core like they really believe in everything
03:49:16Larawhat is your sense of the red pill well what I understood is those things that I told that I told you so basically I'm I I went beyond the wall so I'm already not valuable anymore
03:49:30Brian Atlasum the wall you know 25 years old whatever that's not really the wall but what is it the wall well I mean look I'm I don't 25. now in Japan
03:49:40Brian Atlasin China or Japan and I I don't really sell myself as someone who's uh protect like uh like a guru in the
03:49:51Brian Atlasspace I I don't consider myself a guru I just consider myself a guy who's somewhat has some knowledge of the topic
03:50:00Brian Atlasthank you man ten dollars I am a Victor right here Captain much love let's go thank you man really appreciate the big uh donation man I appreciate your support all night it's been overwhelming
03:50:12Brian Atlasand uh really appreciate your patronage so thank you man um yeah I don't consider myself a guru I I've read some books done a little research and I'm just more interested in
03:50:23Brian Atlashaving these conversations and um and I think I ask Sometimes some decent questions sometimes not but uh so and I think you're okay I don't think you are one of those that are that