She Is Dating 7 NBA Players?! | Dating Talk #71

Date: 2023-05-03

Duration: 5h 05m

Guests

Brian Atlas

GGiselle (DT71)>

RRihanna (DT71)>

DDestiny (DT71)>

NNBA Girl (DT71)>

AAbelinaria (DT71)>

LLauren De Laguna >

JJohn (It's Complicated)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_02NBA Girl (DT71)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Giselle (Al)(guest)

SPEAKER_05Lauren De Laguna(guest)

SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_07Andrew Tate (clip)(audience)

SPEAKER_08John(guest)

SPEAKER_09Xenia(guest)

SPEAKER_10Rihanna(guest)

SPEAKER_11Abelinaria(guest)

SPEAKER_12Destiny(guest)

SPEAKER_13Kelly(guest)

Key Moments

Key MomentNBA girl describes car chase after catching situationship "Jose" with a blonde woman in a black Dodge Charger

“"I was going to my sister's and... I see him a lot of guys with him... I'm getting out of the car I'm running up there... we drove all the way to his apartments and he pulled out at the same time so we're just like side by side"”

QuoteNBA girl reveals she is currently talking to 7+ professional athletes (NBA, college, NFL)

“"I like athletes so it's um a little difficult for me... I'm leaning a lot towards basketball players right now... there's four... Cavs, Milwaukee Bucks, Pistons... two that's about to go into the draft... couple football players"”

QuoteNBA girl was dating guys from Indiana Pacers and Milwaukee Bucks simultaneously during a game they played each other

“"I have had guys from... Indiana Pacers when they was playing against the Bucks... I wasn't seeing them at the same [time]"”

QuoteNBA girl states minimum income requirement of $100K/year

“"I would say for like a yearly or like monthly like a year salary probably at least like a hundred thousand a year"”

Key MomentBrian argues women are able to move in circles above their socioeconomic level while NBA girl doesn't realize the alpha widow risk

“"you are now accustomed to a certain caliber of man... NBA player tall good looking wealthy high social status... the normal a travel phlebotomist isn't appealing to you anymore... I honestly think you're going to be really unhappy in a future relationship"”

Key MomentBrian runs the delusion calculator for NBA girl — 2.5% of men meet her criteria (age 20-40, 5'8"+, $100K+)

“"that's 2.5 percent... 2.5 percent of men between the ages of 20 to 40 who are five eight and above who make 100K or more"”

QuoteNBA girl says she is attracted to men with an intense "crazy look" (dark energy)

“"I like me a sexy forehead... but I don't know like you know when certain people got that like crazy look... like when they give you just look at them and you're just like yeah it looks a little crazy"”

QuoteKelly ate a ketchup packet on stream — first ketchup in ~20 years

“[Applause] "it's good for you for overstepping your fears" — Kelly ate a Heinz ketchup packet live, first ketchup since approximately age 3”

QuoteLauren refuses to give body count (parents watching), only admits it is non-zero

“"it's not zero and I wish it was and my parents are watching and just the fact that I even admit that it's not zero I think is enough shame for my father for tonight"”

QuoteGiselle declines romantic offer from chat viewer and explains she is focused on becoming the perfect wife before dating

“"I'm not accepting anyone at the moment or seeing anyone at the moment because I want to focus on getting myself to the best place that I can be to be the perfect wife one day"”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian introduces show from Santa Barbara, plugs Streamlabs, Twitch, merch. Guests introduce themselves: Giselle/Al (22, Twitch streamer), Rihanna (21, waitress), Destiny (21, artist/lash tech/OnlyFans from Oklahoma), 19yo NBA girl (LBC, phlebotomist/OnlyFans), Kelly (21, student/Nordstrom stylist), Abelinaria (25, SMC student/startup), Xenia (25, UCLA tech, from Russia), Lauren De Laguna (29, content creator/attorney), John (44, It's Complicated YouTube channel).

Relationship Status & Background Round

Guests share relationship statuses. Lauren: single, no official boyfriend ever, 2.5yr on-off NY situationship. John: single 6+ years, against marriage. Kelly: in relationship 1yr 4mo. Abelinaria: in relationship 1yr 4mo. Xenia: in relationship 2.5 years. Destiny: unknown/single. Giselle: single, longest 1yr. Rihanna: unclear. NBA girl: single after trifling situationship ("Jose" incident — car chase after catching him with blonde woman).

NBA Girl's Athletic Roster

Extended discussion about 19yo NBA girl simultaneously talking to 7+ professional athletes (4 NBA: Cavaliers, Bucks, Pistons; 2 college draft prospects; 1 NFL/formerly Jets). Flew to California by an NBA player. Goes to Ohio every other month. Minimum requirement: $100K/year. OK sharing a high-value man. Chat comments and super chats react strongly (calling her a "304"). Discussed whether athletes are "easy" to attract for attractive women. Car chase story about trifling situationship Jose.

Blue Check Marks & Instagram as Dating App

Discussion of famous/verified people sliding into DMs. Kelly has gotten athlete DMs. NBA girl gets regular athlete attention. Discussion of whether Instagram functions as a dating app. Kelly doesn't prominently post her boyfriend. Brian reads tweet about "women running passive game" — women market while men sell. Debate on whether Instagram strategy is keeping options open. Would guests go out to clubs/bars if boyfriend said no? Debate on possessiveness vs protection. Women's passive dating strategy (marketing) vs men's active approach (selling).

Share a High-Value Man vs. Monogamy with Average Man

Would you rather share a famous/wealthy man (as main chick) or have monogamy from an average man? NBA girl: OK sharing as long as taken care of and doesn't find out. Destiny/Giselle: prefer known arrangement or don't want at all. Kelly: prefers monogamy. Abelinaria: prefers monogamy. Xenia: prefers monogamy, wouldn't share. Lauren: reframes — doesn't care about income, wants good father material. John: asks about celebrity crush exception. Debate on whether women make "no rules for the wrong guy, break rules for the right guy."

Male Income Requirements & Delusion Calculator

NBA girl states minimum income $100K/year. Only ~17% of US men make $100K+. Brian runs the female delusion calculator: age 20-40, 5'8"+, not obese, no race preference, $100K+ income = 2.5% of men available. Discussion of whether women's standards are delusional relative to their own attractiveness. Brian argues the average man makes ~$40-45K. Lauren argues she doesn't care about income/education — values ambition and effort over credentials. Kelly says once kids come into play, income matters.

Instagram Behavior, Clubs & Monogamy

Brian reads tweet about women running "passive game" as marketers vs men as salesmen. Would guests stop going to bars/clubs if boyfriend asked? Kelly: yes (would comply); NBA girl: no; Lauren: doesn't go out; Abelinaria: same as Lauren; Xenia: doesn't like clubs. Is it controlling for a man to not want girlfriend at clubs? Most say slightly controlling unless she goes every day. Debate on jealousy as a turn-on. Giselle explains she likes knowing boyfriend cares about her whereabouts. Kelly states she complies because it's the relationship.

Self-Rating Round

Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Giselle: 4-5 (corrected from higher; significant past trauma, bullied, sister more complimented). Rihanna: ~6. Destiny: dim sum girl 6 (by chat). Kelly: declined (private/boyfriend watching). Abelinaria: 8-9 in Columbus Ohio. Xenia: 7-8 (mood-dependent). Lauren: 5-7 (Idaho: 3, LA: 7). John: 6-7 (Tony Hawk doppelganger). Brian: 6 (6.9 on a good day). Chat viewer from Quebec gives official ratings: Latina black pink 9, Latina black pink 9.5, humble Silent Bob 7, art major sniffles 6.5, Rookie of the Year 7.5, dim sum girl 6, Babushka's granddaughter 8, Brian's hot lawyer sister 8, Tony Hawk 7, Brian Atlas 7.5.

Women's Dating Standards vs. Their Own Value

Extended debate on whether women's high standards are realistic. Lauren rates herself 5-7 but wants a Gaston-type man (muscles, jawline, discipline, 5x/week gym). Brian argues Lauren is shooting for an 8-10 while rating herself 6-7. Discussion of percentage of men women find attractive (Lauren: very small — wants masculinity, most men lack testosterone). Debate on whether women's standards requiring men to be more masculine while women becoming more masculine is a double standard. Discussion of beauty standards for men (need to be gym-rat chiseled) vs women (just need to be slim/curvy).

Oral Sex, HPV & Cancer Discussion

Brian asks if it's a deal breaker if a man doesn't go down. Most say no. Discussion of news articles about oral sex being the leading risk factor for throat cancer (HPV/oropharyngeal cancer). Michael Douglas throat cancer connection referenced. Chat reacts. Brief discussion of whether you can trace cancer type to origin.

Weird Things That Are Attractive

Round on unexpected things each guest finds attractive. NBA girl: men with intense/crazy eyes (dark energy, not actual criminals). Destiny: men who are intensely assertive/Dom. Rihanna: facial hair and how they dress. Kelly: men who do physical tasks entirely alone without asking for help (moving heavy furniture alone). Abelinaria: assertiveness and a man who controls everything. Xenia: men who cook with passion. Lauren: men who are strong at math. John: asked the round question.

Body Count Discussion

Show of hands on whether body count matters. Most women initially say no. Brian argues pair bonding and screening rationale. John raises the hypocrisy of men shaming women for BC while also complaining about difficulty getting laid. Brian distinction: some women are "recreational use only" and some are "wife material." Round: Destiny: 5; NBA girl: 17; Kelly: private; Abelinaria: 12; Xenia: 17; Giselle: 10-20 range; Lauren: non-zero (refused to say, parents watching); Brian: 6. Brian says multiply by 3 for real number. Discussion of pair bonding science.

Andrew Tate Clip — Submissiveness Discussion

Brian plays Andrew Tate clip about wanting a maximally submissive woman like a robot. Lauren: partially agrees but men don't literally want robots. Xenia: agrees in principle, scary to want robots from loved ones. Abelinaria: interprets it as wanting consistent obedience (not literal robot). Kelly: strongly agrees — submissiveness works in women's favor; nagging destroys relationships. NBA girl: agrees it goes both ways — both should prove themselves. Giselle: agrees with sentiment but wording went too far. Discussion of "brat" archetype in BDSM vs conditional femininity. John: raises "conditional femininity" concept — women unlock femininity for the right dominant man.

Transcript

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Brian Atlastall dudes I can like dwarves deal with it Miss NBA Dater oh sorry I didn't mean to I'm sorry um by the way I I found like a ketchup

Brian Atlaspacket how much for someone to down this ketchup packet for a soup chat what's that it's Heinz Heinz Ketchup well it's Heinz we don't want to support them what if it's hunts is hunts better

Brian Atlasis anyone down to shoot this Heinz ketchup packet here catch oh my God that's such a bad throw gamer Hands by the way can you just like shoot it right now would you eat it you

Brian Atlaswant me to suck on it what the [ __ ] no just like that's what she said no like just like eat it a little don't suck bro you guys don't have to make it like so sexual just eat them eat it it's not

Lauren De Lagunait's an interested in your mouth don't think about it just put it in your mouth I can't pour it are you actually down to do this on stream

Brian Atlaswhatever it may be I have some like three days old cake that you can have in as compensation

Giselle (Al)that seems comp that seems commensurate right that seems fair how much for the ketchup packet I don't know it's probably like five cents or something nope how much for the

Brian Atlasdonation for the so I do it what's fair what do you guys think is fair 500 for it just [ __ ] shoot the ketchup can we start the bidding can we start the bidding if anybody else wants

Brian Atlasto get on this I have a second one too so

KellyI love food like I have no like I'm not picky out but I will not eat ketchup just like straight up at all like

TTS Readereat the ketchup already donated 100 keep the ketchup high already 300 anyways Let's do let's do a 300 donation yeah

Brian Atlaswould you do it for 300 yeah yeah it goes into my pocket but you're just like a [ __ ] Legend helping me out because like I'm a I'm a college student he could pay you back by getting you a

Brian Atlasdrink after some time oh wing woman over here okay um really quick Eric do you recall last stream I feel really bad about this it might have been markovius

Brian Atlasdo you recall someone at the table last stream was stepped away and the Super Chat was directed at them it was a TTS it came in but she wasn't even there and I said I'll pull it back up when she's here and I don't do you remember that

Brian AtlasEric uh yeah it was from last stream do you remember if I pulled it up or again it might have been Martin so whoever that was last stream it just occurred to me

TTS Readersorry oh my God the chat is on fire high body count in the long history of being single equals not a prize it's

TTS Readerjust the way men view it it's one of our very few double standards if you have been ran through and not wiped up it's just a red flag for men word oh wait

Brian Atlasum thank you bads underscore exe appreciate it man uh we'll talk about body count here in just in just a sec here um really last quick thing on the whole 10 thing and getting slapped in the face

Brian AtlasI think you were talking about um in terms of women being able to date across and up socioeconomic hierarchies um

Brian Atlasyou're 19 correct way closer to the mic yes you're 19. you're a travel phlebotomist yeah yeah correct how what

Brian Atlasis that 18 an hour it's 21. 21 an hour you are dating you're dating NBA players NFL players it sounds like you're dating multiple of them they're flying you

Brian Atlasacross the country um you're an attractive girl right but you're 19 and you're making 21 an hour you are moving in circles you are moving

Brian Atlasin the most elite group of men that there is right High status physically attractive athletes desired by many women yeah

Brian Atlasum what else did I say wealthy I don't know um that is quite a socio economic big jump difference

Brian Atlasum SoCal Surfer uh thank you for the hundred same for girls some girls have huge vaginas I've been with plenty and it's kind of messed up to judge someone on their parts some girls are tighter shallower excited the girls who are

Brian Atlasbetter at at sex know how to blank same like guys Etc some girls are trying to show the girls who are better at sex know how to I mean the girls who are better at sex

Brian Atlasknow how to oh okay um I've been with playing he's kind of messed up to judge someone on oh word I agree yo is this SoCal surferred 805 do you have curly

Brian Atlashair blonde curly hair do we is that you know who I'm talking about first name starts with a d I'm not gonna I'm not gonna dox you but uh thank you

Brian Atlasvery much for the uh Super Chat um much appreciated I just so 805 is the area code for Santa Barbara so it might be somebody I'm from Santa Barbara so it might be somebody I know um

Brian Atlaswhere was I going with it okay so you're you got your dating NBA players and [ __ ] um obviously men and women are want different things but the circles you're moving in there's not like 18 19 year

Brian Atlasold dudes who are like getting flown out who are getting comped trips who are like getting attention from like really really really high status women right it's just not happening I mean and part

Brian Atlasof that just comes down to the differences between men and women we both tend to Value different things in people for whether it's short-term or long-term relationships but um

Brian Atlasyou know that kind of plays into your point about you know women are able to and it's I mean it doesn't sound like any of them are trying to wife you up at this point yeah

Brian Atlasmaybe maybe they are I don't know I mean they just want to [ __ ] let's be honest but you're fine with it right you're just kicking it I mean I'm not over here like oh I need to be in a relationship

NBA Girl (DT71)I'm trying to be like wifed up I understand if that's what I wanted but I'm smart enough to know where I can go and look for that I'm not gonna go to no NBA player and be

Brian Atlaslike okay I need a ring I need the house I need all this like I'm not well you're to some degree I mean are you you're kind of living your best life right you're

Brian Atlasyou're moving in circles and getting attention from the top tier of men from athletes who I presume are in incredible shape physically attractive really tall

Brian Atlasmaking good money High status playing professional um professional basketball which I I think is probably

Brian Atlasmaybe the number second sport after football oh it's the it's the highest paying sport it's the highest paying sport okay I don't know if it's is it more popular than football though it might be higher paying but I think football second but when I recently

Brian Atlaschecked it was it it was the highest pain well in any case you're basically oh my God Spencer Park donated okay donated 200. the ketchup

Kellybut he he sent a hundred he said 100 before

Brian Atlasum what do you bro is that how you open a ketchup I tried I tried wait show it to the camera so they see how messed up you did okay turning it you're supposed to rip the little the corner listen I'm

Giselle (Al)bad it's like opening up a condom I don't know how to do that what

Brian AtlasI can't believe she's doing it yo let's hold it up to the camera oh my bro this chick is

Brian AtlasI'm wow okay spit or swallow always swallow have you seen that going back to the vagina thing have you seen that Curb Your Enthusiasm thing where it's like you know you know when women go like

Brian Atlasthis you know this thing when women do this thing yeah for a guy who's small yeah how do you know it's not what do you mean how do you know it's

Rihannanot like if the woman vagina cavernous I think guys need to start I think women do this guys gotta start okay about something

Brian Atlassorry I can't look at you but one thing yo W's in the chat for Giselle for [ __ ] being a a legend for being a champion for Brian could have opened it for her like a gentleman I apologize

Brian Atlasthat was not very gentlemanly of me uh let's get some W's in the chat she actually [ __ ] pounded a a Heinz ketchup packet on stream first ever by

Brian Atlasthe way that's that's like a uh that's quite a milestone in this podcast's sorted history okay clip it clip it guys clip it and ship it okay

Giselle (Al)what a g okay you said she wanted to become a wife right I'm sorry I can't look is that correct like you want it to be wife you wanted to be wifed up when

NBA Girl (DT71)did I say that is that what you said is what I'm asking no so I'm not out here like wanting to be wiped up like I'm just vibing right now like that's just not at the tip of my mind like I'm not

Giselle (Al)where I want to be in life so I'm not better be like okay I'm trying to get married like let's just knock off the top of my head right now if you're not where you want to be at life wouldn't it be better for you to focus

NBA Girl (DT71)on trying to get there than hooking up with a bunch of random people well what I do in my time um is my business um

NBA Girl (DT71)so how do you um how do you plan to keep men interested in you once your looks begin to fade I figure that out once my looks begin to fade but I don't

NBA Girl (DT71)plan on just like sleeping around and hooking up with whoever forever um I think I'm just young and turned and I'm just living my life right now are you worried that's gonna affect your

Lauren De Lagunafuture options especially like with this chat and seeing all the men yeah here and like just the culture that this has that all of these men it definitely like crosses my mind I'm not gonna sit here

NBA Girl (DT71)and be like oh I don't care I do care about it like you know how is my future husband if I do ever get to that point gonna think like how's he gonna feel so obviously

Brian AtlasI feel like I could be a lot worse but well I'm not at that point yet I want to address one thing with this and um this sort of almost ties into what you were saying about and what I was

Brian Atlassaying about how women are able to secure sexual attention from men that are higher than them in terms of socioeconomic status um

Brian Atlasif you don't if you don't marry or have a long-term relationship with one of these NBA players

Brian AtlasI honestly think you're going to be really unhappy in a future relationship because you've be you you are now accustomed to a certain caliber of man

Brian AtlasNBA player tall good looking wealthy good high social status successful Etc and then there's a certain confidence

Brian Atlasthat comes with being a professional athlete like Justin okay I mean from from we can approach that from a sexual a sexual angle we can approach it from

Brian AtlasJust personality all the components right the whole package do you think the guy that you're going to marry is going to be an NBA player it

Brian Atlascould be right it could be but if you don't you've basically and I'm sort of repeating myself you've become so accustomed to these really attractive

Brian Atlasreally high status dudes the normal a travel phlebotomist isn't appealing to you anymore from a status point of view well I mean

NBA Girl (DT71)like I said I still do [ __ ] with like regular guys like like a players yes you have four NBA

NBA Girl (DT71)yeah I'm saying that's my type okay NBA player yeah I believe we call that Alpha widowed how much money does a man have to make

NBA Girl (DT71)for you to [ __ ] with him good question thank you Kelly I would say for like a yearly or like monthly like a year salary

Brian Atlasprobably at least like a hundred thousand a year 100 000 yeah 100 000 a year okay so um but you're 19 right how many men your

NBA Girl (DT71)age do you are you have any interest in men your age I mean yeah the last dude I was just messing with was about to be drafted he's 19 too okay but I'm talking like normal guys

Brian Atlasnormal guys your age are not making 100 000 a year they're not even making it they're maybe in college or some [ __ ] right Lauren did you want to say something

Brian Atlasoh okay yeah I would go ahead don't worry about it so okay minimum bare minimum for you in terms of financials is a hundred

Kellythousand dollars a year right okay oh yeah I mean have you ever made a hundred thousand dollars in one year no I think like the statistic is like only 17 of men in the United States make over

Brian Atlasa hundred thousand I think it's a lot isn't it less than ten percent shall we look it up just I think it's less than ten percent of men make maybe is it 50 it's maybe 10 or 15

Brian Atlasum Eric are you looking similar and they're like 75 like 80s here I think the average is like 40 000. do you know this John's like 40 000 for average income for a man in the US yeah I believe it was 40 but it might have been

Brian Atlasa little bit more 45 something like that yeah when you did it guys 45 000 yeah

Brian Atlasum 11 of women no no no no men men 21. 21 of men yeah make 100 um

Brian Atlas[Music] go to Wikipedia CNBC also fake news so liberal too also the people can you go to that first time

Kellyrun it will actually lock Pages what percentage of men make over 100k 17 okay oh that's all right really

Kellyyeah obviously it's going to change but what about California exactly that's counting like dudes in their 60s that's counting everyone yes but then it's like only 17 persons let's do the delusion

Brian Atlascalculator Eric can you pull up the dilution calculator go ahead

Brian Atlasit's a tab it's one of the favorite tabs I think it's calculator or something what's the question I had about this here we're gonna we'll fill this out really quick for you and then any other

Brian Atlasgirls who want to do it we can do it for you too uh so what what are the chances to find the men in my dreams um ideal age for you like age range for a guy into the mic that works for me yeah 20

Brian Atlasto 40. exclude married yeah you don't care if they're married I thought you said no Steph Curry no LeBron wait into the mic into the mic I said

Brian Atlasrather not if they're married okay so uh exclude married race do you have a preference no okay uh minimum height

Brian Atlaslet's do five eight five eight okay fair uh oh Eric scuffed exclude obese men um no I would [ __ ] with

NBA Girl (DT71)you'd [ __ ] with the Obesity if he's tall not nobody like not nobody like certain things yeah like stubby but like say like he got a little

NBA Girl (DT71)he got a little muscle to him I don't care a lineman in other words yeah like I don't mind all right fine um proportional minimum income put it at 100k

Brian Atlasokay find out might not be terrible but okay that's 2.5 percent what is this even reading that's your ideal man I think it's the

Brian Atlaschances of you finding that ideal man so 2.5 percent of men between the ages of 20 to 40 who are five eight and above who make 100K or more

Lauren De Lagunaso you get three out of five cat packs put in any of her information like how right is there information she is well but

Johnthis is just pointing out the the proportion of men that are even out there those standards so who's more delusional the average woman holding out for the rich alpha male or the average woman holding out

Johnfor the lingerie model holding up one more time who who do you think is more delusional the average woman holding out for the rich alpha male which we just saw in that delusion

Johncalculator or the average woman or sorry the average the average uh man holding up for the lingerie model sorry screwed it up a woman expecting like waiting for

Kellythat man is way more delusional but how many lingerie models are there out there I'm just saying like when you say launch like you really do you literally mean lingerie model are you just speaking

Johnabout beauty well what I'm saying is that the the average man can work on himself right and probably eventually get to a status where he's going to attract all the lingerie women right but

Kellythe average woman holding out for the rich alpha male we see how you know few based on that delusion calculator how rare they are that's yes because alpha alpha males are more are more successful they're more successful they're more

Kellyrare that's that's why I said in the beginning that men are the prize because there are way more there are way less successful high value men than there are beautiful women and through about history the most powerful men have usually had multiple women so going back

Kellyto our idea of monogamy would you say that polyamory is almost like where we're headed based on the delusional expectations of women um I wouldn't say that's where we're

Lauren De Lagunaheading but yes that does play into the delusion of women nowadays for sure with the Society heading towards

Lauren De Lagunapolyamory you were talking about like for instance with dating apps almost all women date the same like five to ten percent of men is that what you're referring to well not all women but

Brian Atlasthey're all grabbing gravitating towards the top men and we see this playing out on dating apps for example most women will say I'm only swiping on like

Brian Atlas10 of men and all women are swiping on those same 10 percent of men and then I think if you ask I mean we can go around the table like what percentage of men that for example

Brian Atlasyou see in real life do you say I find him attractive so why don't we start with you oh and remind her earlier you said that

Brian Atlasyou're picky and that you have high expectations so in day to day what percentage of men would you say you find physically attractive yeah that you're attracted to a really

Lauren De Lagunahard one because I do recognize that like I'm not perfect and I don't I don't know if my standards are necessarily realistic either I guess

Lauren De Lagunabut I find such a slim number of men attractive especially these days I'm really attracted to masculinity and men

Lauren De Lagunajust are not masculine anymore so like it is very difficult to find a man when you say masculine what do you mean uh like what are your like what are your

Lauren De Lagunawhat's your definition like I want him to go to the gym and I just want him to have that's the that's why she ridden me on well I mean like working out is really really important

Lauren De Lagunato me and then I'm having just that super manly drive like waking up early business business not that and Brian but how is that but what is that is what is that masculine what what's masculine

Lauren De Lagunaabout waking up early the hard work ethic she wants someone who's ambitious yeah yeah I find ambition I guess maybe it's not masculine is that a masculine

Lauren De Lagunanot necessarily but I want other things are masculine I suppose um

Lauren De Lagunaa rugged jawline broad shoulders all of the all of the stereotypical basic Mass okay Gaston as a human being okay but

Kellybesides the physical appearances so the masculine like personality traits have to do with anything is that what you're looking for are you just looking yeah a physically masculine man but we were just talking about on looks like so you

Lauren De Lagunathat's that's what that's why I'm asking silly just based on looks yeah I'm looking for masks right and then if we're also including Personality yeah I would like the uh masculine traits of

Lauren De Lagunaprotectiveness and um obviously there's some feminine traits that I want like caring and nurturing but I wouldn't want that overboard I wouldn't want a clingy man

Lauren De Lagunaso yeah I would want masculine masculine men and there's just like a severe lack of testosterone in society these days I just look around and I see a bunch of

Lauren De Lagunabeta [ __ ] and I'm not not really into it I think that reason is because um a lot of women nowadays are more masculine ah so true and also because of our water Alex Jones there's plastic plastic in

Johnthe water can I ask you this question yeah when it comes to relationships are men more likely to be held to a masculine standard than women are held to a feminine standard yeah that's a damn good question yeah they are what

Lauren De Lagunaare those standards and who defines them I'm mean it's so crazy because I mean if clothing is a great example of how Society relaxes in women's standards much quicker than it does with men's

Lauren De Lagunastandards so like for instance women have always worn blank dresses for as long as I know clothing standards until recently now it's acceptable for women to wear pants and it's totally normal

Lauren De Lagunawithin society and yet we haven't slipped with men yet we are now just starting to see the brink of that so I just think it's like a slower thing but it's definitely

Brian Atlasit's it's trending for both genders I've got a question for you you said that you like a guy who works out so you're saying like he just has to be in like emoticum I don't know if I use that word

Brian Atlasright modicum of Fitness or are you saying like you want like a really like muscular guy it doesn't have to be like vascular if that's what you're at no I'm saying just

Lauren De Lagunamuscular uh I I want a man who's been who's been working out and considered working out a part of his daily routine or at least five times a week routine um

Brian Atlasand but you also said you want a guy broad shoulders chiseled Jaw Gaston yeah what's that song from the [ __ ] how's it going

Brian Atlasthat's a banger dude I [ __ ] love that song let's keep going keep going um no it's a good song um okay I don't know where I was going with

Lauren De Lagunathat uh you want Augusta like so you want to chat you want like a 10. I want to chat yeah if I want a Chad man I want I want it all I want little but earlier commune

Brian Atlaswith didn't you rate yourself a six or a seven yeah do you want a guy who's I mean sound you're kind of describing like a guy who's maybe an eight nine or ten do you want an eight nine or a ten yeah

Kellywho doesn't want to talk but then you think you can still strive but then that's right but that's where the double standard comes in for you because it's like how are you expecting a perfect man I'm not expecting how are you expecting

Lauren De Lagunaan eight nine or ten when you don't I'm not I'm I'm saying I would I would like that I'm striving okay but then but I would be very happy with somebody who wouldn't be considered your standard eight nine or ten obviously that's what

KellyI'm attracted to I feel like a lot of men that are in the eight nine and ten range are looking in the eight nine and ten range of women yeah doesn't doesn't everyone settle no one gets their ideals

TTS Readerso technically I mean 100 I am a 32 year old man that makes 800 000 a year drive a Supercar let's go

TTS ReaderPenthouse hell yeah and I can tell you money doesn't not affect my dating life doesn't it doesn't matter how much money you have women won't see you unless you are conventionally attractive yeah I

Brian Atlasdefinitely think looks are kind of like the main primary thing that has to come first so Spencer can you tell us a little bit like obviously you're a successful dude 800k a year that's fantastic congratulations man sounds like you have your life in

Brian Atlasorder um obviously I don't know if you're prepared to submit the photo but can you tell us a little bit about your appearance like how would you rate yourself how tall are you are you in good shape um I mean race sometimes comes into play here or some you know but um

Johnso you were go ahead John you were about to uh oh I was just gonna say thank you Spencer women will often complain about the uh the feminine standards placed on women you know you got to have you know boobs and ass you know you got to have

Johnskinny waist uh which is more unrealistic the masculine standards placed on men or the feminine standards placed on women the masculine standards well I think it's harder to get a

Kellysix-pack for for a man than it is for a woman to go get a BBL is it harder to grow muscles or just not overeat it's harder to grow muscles so we and we

Brian Atlasshould maybe go around the table on this and that's a good line of questioning so um is it harder to be good looking as a woman or as a man

Unknowndefined man as a man for sure like like life being harder than well to look good I think just to be considered physically

Unknownattractive the steps it takes to be physically attractive oh yeah man

Brian Atlasto be deemed attractive physically for example like you said this Slim

Brian Atlaswas it 50 yeah yeah I'll pull it up here in a second let me see continue go ahead look go ahead while I pull it up you just said the like let's say any waste right I was going to say like an example of this you know I live

Johnin Vegas you look at the strip clubs right and if you look at male versus female strippers you know female strippers you know just basically have to be fit and and slender slender or curvy I guess you would say is the ideal

Johnbody type what is the ideal body type for a male stripper he's got to have you know he's got to be chiseled right he's got to have a body of a Greek god that takes hours of you know you have to be become a gym rat you have to be obsessed with that

Abelinariaum and and diet nutrition so I mean that's kind of I think where I'm going with this right absolutely like I do I 100 agree men have to put a lot of work but just slightly depending on like

Abelinariaphysical time and effort on that I'll agree but the reason that I'll have hard times agreeing on the harder part for women is because like you said Slimmer waist and yes you can do the surgery but

Abelinariafirst of all cost money to earn money not easy second of all yeah that's a cop out a little bit like would it be as easy physically like naturally biologically for me to get that waste I

Abelinariathink it would be just as hard for me as for a guy but yes women it's easier for a woman to use a cop-out in the 21st century now what if a man had a very

Johnsuccessful status but had a dad bod versus a guy who's just you know broke but he's an F boy I mean is it more is it looks over money and status for you or you know

Johnwhat will be I might be the wrong person to ask because I like dead bud you like you prefer dad buds yeah well well prefer to what to a scrawny little dude no no not that but I'm saying if we talk about you obviously I seriously doubt

Abelinariathat you preferred over a man who's chiseled well yeah well of course but then there are different like levels if you you could be chiseled and very skinny and I would prefer dead Bud over a skinny

Brian Atlaschiseled but of course a good chisel yeah it would be better than the bed bug what I'm sorry oh so okay I wanna let's talk about your perfect man here

Lauren De Lagunaum so and also you're an attorney so you're successful yeah I'm waiting on character and Fitness so you're a lawyer because my understanding is is that you can be a lawyer I passed the bar

Lauren De Lagunaokay but you will be a lawyer but you will be an attorney if everything did you have something in your background that you're I legally don't want to tell anyone that I'm an attorney when I'm not an attorney because then I could be

Brian Atlasaccused of giving legal advice and then I just legally and also my mom is watching shout out to my mom yo shout out shout out Lauren de Laguna's mom dlg in the chat let's go yeah okay

Brian Atlasum but you will be I suspect a high earner correct attorneys make decent money yeah when you are at assuming you're yes I will probably be a high earner and your

Brian Atlascontent creator and hopefully that is successful for you um can you tell us in terms of we talked a little bit about what you're looking for in terms of physical appearance but maybe let's talk a bit of uh status

Brian AtlasLet's Talk education let's talk um status education and income how much money are you would you be looking for a potential partner I

Lauren De Lagunadefinitely don't look at like how much money someone's making I'm looking at how much effort they're putting in and then also how logical their effort is like if they're just wasting time at

Lauren De Lagunalike mlms then I don't care how ambitious they are but if they're you know if they're working for something and it's um

Lauren De Lagunait's something admirable then why not so for instance if they dropped out of high school and then went to a trade school and started their own business I find first of all plumbers electricians

Lauren De LagunaCarpenters these people make very good money yeah they make good money I don't have any issue with a lack of Education or okay well that I mean that's refreshing

Brian Atlasbecause I mean I think you often a lot of my impression is a lot of women don't want to date down socioeconomically now these Tradesmen they make good money and what they do is

Brian Atlasincredibly valuable to society however I think there's going to be an educational uh uh an educational unevenness and perhaps

Lauren De Lagunaa chievement uneven uneven I'm not saying here's why I disagree with what you're trying to say like with men uh first of all I just don't value education that

Lauren De Lagunamuch that's a lot of the people that I graduated law school with and I'm sorry before I say this and I thank you to my law school and to Dean Ferrari and everyone that being said a lot of the people I graduated law school with are

Lauren De Lagunasome of the dumbest human beings I've ever had the displeasure of sitting in a room with including some of my professors so um I just really don't value education and some of the smartest people I ever

Lauren De Lagunamet are high school dropouts so why am I going to be oh wow you didn't waste hundreds of thousands of dollars in school like I did that I totally regret you're excluded for my dating pool

NBA Girl (DT71)that's not like what they're asking you is like what they ask me how much do you want your desired man to make a year I really don't care about

Brian Atlasadults so are you saying like well I I don't I'm not sure if I totally agree with you but Kelly did you want to say something you have a startup business that's losing money I could be interested well I'm just think you by you saying that you don't care what

Kellyamount of money that your man makes kids I do so if you want kids your man your husband's gonna have to support you and your kids so your man's gonna have to make a certain amount of money to

Giselle (Al)support you guys I would agree with that can I just say though that I don't think it should matter initially right when you meet the man for me for instance I believe that if he isn't where I would

Giselle (Al)want him to be I will do everything I can as a woman to support him to get to that place I'll make sure that he will achieve whatever he wants to achieve I think that's a part of a good healthy

Giselle (Al)relationship too not just expecting him to have it right when you meet him I love that answer that's a w I love that answer it's beautiful you're beautiful that's what

Brian AtlasBrian's thinking okay um I just have a couple more questions for you so um because I mean and it certainly could be the case that you don't really care so much about that and you make some you do raise some good arguments as far as

Brian Atlashey you could be college educated and be dumb as bricks and it's an indoctrination Factory all this stuff right um but I do think that there is they've done studies on this and generally speaking I think women for example who

Brian Atlashave bachelor's degrees or who have uh higher level graduate degrees for example Masters and phds they've surveyed them and they typically want to date men educationally who are

Brian Atlason their level or higher so if she has a bachelor she wants to date a guy who's at least as educated educated as she is but that survey is done by a bunch of people in the education like I've been

Lauren De Lagunalooking for in doctor indoctrinated by that like College is very indoctrinating and it's that and then there's a lot of the wow you graduated college you're a special person while you're in college

Lauren De Lagunaso then you get some of that like ego-ness I don't I just feel like I don't care about a poll of people's opinions face oh I want someone who's more educated than me sure but uh okay

Brian Atlasso that's fair but I think for a lot of women they're gonna if they've gone to college most of them want someone who's at least because there's these articles coming out maybe some of you some of you have seen it a lot of women are saying

Brian AtlasI'm I'm struggling to find men who are economically attractive because women are starting to now at least in for example major cities women who have

Brian Atlasnever had children never been married uh who are single between the ages of 18 and 30 are out earning their male counterparts in that same demographic group in major cities across the U.S so a lot of women now they're I mean since

Brian Atlas1980s there's been more women in college than men so for pretty much and now women who graduated in 1980 they're now in in their 60s they're retirement age so we've had equality in terms of college education since the not since

Brian Atlas1980. there's actually more women in college nowadays yeah it's like 60 to 40 I've heard as high as 65 to 35 so there's more women going to college um so they're going into they're making

Brian Atlasmore money I think a lot of positive outcomes are disproportionately to the benefit of women in these cases but uh so in any case you mentioned though that you well let me touch on the physical thing first I have a couple photos here

Brian Atlasplease tell me what you're and you can look into the camera for this so I'm gonna raise up oh wait Eric put it over yeah we're gonna raise it up here um is this would you say

Brian Atlasthis is Greg Plitt helping you stay fit all right yo Rip's in the chat for Greg Plitt rips is yeah can we yeah it's very sad there was a terrible train accident like legit

Brian Atlasactually a terrible train accident this is related to our Patrice he obviously didn't die from being unhealthy so um you can bring it back so Greg Plitt would you is this the type of guy you're

Lauren De Lagunagoing after you said you want a strong muscular guy I mean is this what we're talking about

Lauren De Lagunaso is that like is that the only

Lauren De Lagunaam I saying I'm only going to settle for just that no but yeah if he was interested in me I would consider going on a date with him very quickly oh you'd consider

Brian Atlasapparently I'd very quickly you know what I have another photo here for you can you swap it can you actually here I'll hold it up here first and then I'll do it okay put it other one another one Eric take

Brian Atlascontrol man um all right no what do you no over what about this guy oh my God

Brian AtlasSylvester Stallone is that oh Mike are you Myron are you Myron has Aesthetics um he's attractive yes are you Myron his

Brian AtlasAesthetics I think he's an attractive man no no I'm asking are you Myron his Aesthetics yeah yeah I want you to say you're Myron I'm

Brian AtlasMyron you're Myron admiring okay all right this is for you okay uh that's ziz okay all right so that

Lauren De Lagunaa beautiful woman that was out of your league you might shoot your shot right if someone that is out of my league wanted to date me I absolutely would not say no but but are you holding out no

Lauren De Lagunafour no absolutely but I mean you're you're 29 then you've never had a long-term relationship you've never had a boyfriend or a girl it's not so much holding out like I'll meet people and I'll try to get to know them and I just

Lauren De Lagunadon't like connect with people can I ask you a question yeah um do you feel like you're in competition with other women um I try really hard when I noticed

Lauren De Lagunasomeone that I think is like objectively prettier than me to like internalize oh I might be experiencing jealousy right now I should definitely try extra hard to be nice to

Lauren De Lagunathat person so whenever I whenever I feel jealousy like the first thing I do is try to recognize that I'm feeling jealous and then go out of my way to be nice to that person because usually the

Lauren De Lagunaprettier the girl is the meaner other women are to her so I try to be really I don't know so but my institution with them yeah like I'm not gonna like

Lauren De Lagunayou know I'm probably not gonna get that guy if you know if Gisele and I are walking down the street giselle's gonna get that guy and that's okay that's fine

Kellylike I that's okay I'm I'm not I'm okay not being the top prettiest chick on this panel like I'm okay so then I just that that I just you the way that

Kellyum you feel about that doesn't line up with your standards I feel like because like you have you have expectations of like a man but then it's like

TTS Readerthe tattoos and let's find a ring that fits I'm making low six figures rate myself as a five but trying to improve make those six figures ladies what is

Brian Atlasthe first thing you notice about a guy body facial hair teeth Etc we'll go around the table really quick first thing you know this is a guy and then you guys continue your little back and forth go ahead just physical

Giselle (Al)how about both us like how he physically takes care of himself whether that's like if he does his hair or if I can tell he takes care

Giselle (Al)of like maybe his skin or his fashion um and then personality based I know I observe his actions the way he treats me or other woman like open the door like

Rihannachivalry type of things that's what I noticed okay I would just do just do I don't know like facial I like facial hair or like

RihannaI guess how they how they dress but that's the first things I notice

Destinyum if you see that they like visibly take care of themselves and also teeth I really like straight teeth like if I see somebody with straight teeth that's super attractive

NBA Girl (DT71)um I like a nice face like like I said I don't mind a man who's a little bit bigger but if you got a nice face then you like a bigger man

Kellywho's like seven feet I think I do too late yeah NBA player by the way okay um um I think I look for hair the hair first I like the hair and then like they're the way they're dressed

Abelinariauh what I look for what I notice I forgot the question look what you notice first um then um it's like the beefiness of their shoulders and their breasts

XeniaI agree I think like overall buddy like how tall he is and also if he's taking care of his skin and teeth for me it's important yeah first thing is body second thing is teeth

Brian Atlasword thing for the soup chat by the way Spencer came in here really quick so I'm gonna address it sorry Spencer that we're a little delay on getting to this uh at Spencer Parker on Instagram Eric did you pull this up I'm 6'3 I'm probably a six out of ten well Spencer

Brian Atlaswait actually before you pull it up is it okay if we I mean he included it so I'm assuming he's okay if we react to it I spend more time working than working out Spencer

Brian Atlasconfirmer deny is it cool if we pull up you cool if we pull up your Instagram let us know I don't I mean I'm assuming it's okay because you included it in the soup chat what do you guys think you think it's okay yeah

Brian Atlasyeah I will say why would you like it I don't know chat I just don't I mean I don't know if he wants us to say no doxing Chad is it okay if we pull it up you think or I don't know I want it I

Brian Atlasbelieve since he announced it through a donation it would be okay I just want to be considerate of she said yes people in China all right let's do it yes Eric do you have it pulled up scroll

Brian Atlasscroll up Spencer Park San Diego home test box 007 Fastlane okay Roofing solar investor that is that a uh

Brian Atlasrolls what is that okay I didn't see the uh what db11 oh wow she knows her asking there but I also know oh okay she knows um let's see that photo of him with the

Brian Atlaspalm trees click on it uh uh you're gonna have to go to video or wait no actually I don't know how to see that yeah we can't

Brian Atlashere uh in the sources just hide us for a sec the eyeball nope nope gh5 it's the gh5 it's the gh5

Unknownuh okay all right is that is that a dad bod because it's a tortoise y'all can you swipe yeah here's

Brian Atlasmore go down oh there's more okay yeah those are some [ __ ] all right just here get get out of that get out of it no just out out X

Brian Atlasno no no no go back go back we want to see the rest of his Instagram okay we have uh cars that's you passed out I guess um that's you in there's a

Brian Atlasa is that a Sex in the City what are you drinking dude what's up with all the fruit okay scroll down is this you in the oh my God look at this man look at that suit he's like a main character in

Kellyan anime um they look like different yeah I know the the confused click uh the the that one

Brian Atlasyeah because who is that oh 2014. 2014. okay and then

Brian Atlasuh click on the the left one yeah bro what hello what what happened in oh it is a eight-year difference okay

Brian AtlasI think you should bring back the emo hair bro I think it's a good look just you don't think so Kelly you're a fashion consultant

Brian Atlasstylist no not a good look yo don't listen to her she works at Nordstrom's like bro Dylan I'm telling you bro it's a good look bring it back see look they're all

Brian Atlashyping them up I actually think he looks better older don't listen to them rock that

Brian Atlasrock that maroon button down with the shoulder pads and the the is that a gray suit just keep rocking it bro this is like a cream onizuka great teacher

Brian Atlasonizuka costume okay appreciate it man um so ladies Spencer Park 800k a year [ __ ] Giga Chad

Brian Atlasum do you go for him no no no how did did he say his age hello what would you go for him Giselle is

Giselle (Al)that actually is that your name giselle's my real name Angelic is my online oh okay got it okay do you go for him I don't know anything about his

Destinypersonality so I can make 800k he's but I need more than that okay fair enough what about you [Music] nice but

DestinyI also don't know not even that it's like you can't I'm not gonna sit here and say I'd be down if I don't if I've never met them just based off of the Instagram and that he's a giga Chad

Brian Atlasmaking 800k a year that puts him in like the top oh that doesn't even matter top one percent what about you um just based off his Instagram no

Brian AtlasI'm sorry Spencer I'm sorry go ahead Kelly it's just because Asian guys remind me of my brother what the [ __ ] and that's why

Brian Atlaswhat Asian guys remind you of your brother yeah yeah do you you don't date Asian guys uh I've never known really

Kellyinteresting word uh why why don't you like Asian guys um are you are you a race Trader are you

Kellya race Trader no like you wouldn't even date a Vietnamese guy um no not really I actually like I just I don't know they just come off like I get so close like they're just my friends like they give me like my

Kellybrother like they remind me so much like the way that they like they carry themselves they remind me so much of my brother that it's like sorry go ahead continue that I have like a brotherly relationship with

Brian Atlasmostly with most Asian men that I that I meet wait can you scoot your um your chair into the table so we can get you a little bit of posture uh and can everyone push their cups into the table just a little bit thank you thank you

Kellythank you so reminds you of your brother yeah like most of it like I don't know too many Asian guys because I didn't grow up in like a area where there's a lot of Asians

Kellyum where did you grow up and like Calabasas Woodland Hills okay okay yeah so not too many not too many Asians but um yeah like they they they are like every single Asian guy that I have I

Kellyhave met and like I have like some kind of like friendship with just they just remind me of my brother and I I I can't I don't know I can describe it

Brian Atlasthey remind you of yeah like they have the same personality traits as like that's a bit you know I don't know are you saying all Asian men are the same yeah I'm not saying that just the ones

Kellythat I've met the ones that I've met all remind you of how your brother acts most yes the ones that I have met yes or like one of my cousins or something I don't know it's just like

Brian Atlaswhat about like a nice Filipino boy there's a lot of nice Filipinos excuse me men well you know what I mean yeah there's a I've met like I've met a lot of them yeah I just Laos what about a loud guy from Laos

Brian Atlasmaybe like American Born but never no not not from last Cambodian no cambodians no most definitely it sounds like not Vietnamese because your brother's Vietnamese so that's like oh

Kellyyeah Vietnamese I don't know it's just like we we're too alike to like you know like I'm I can I can relate to you so much that I can't learn anything from you so it's like

KellyMongolian um no Korean Japanese Chinese I'm Chinese too so I'm Chinese you're part chinese vietnamese okay what about um

KellyI'm running out of Asian countries uh uh Thai Thai uh I've met no I only know one time Indonesian Filipino I already said yeah I've met

Brian AtlasFilipino guys but just by the way how's my uh how's my geography guys it's pretty okay um what am I uh

Brian Atlaswhere was the uh we're talking about if you would date that guy on Instagram and then we were going around I'm missing like at least one or two of the South

Brian AtlasEast Asian countries I hate Korea hit Laos hit Cambodia

NBA Girl (DT71)not what you said oh I missed Taiwan thank you Thailand and Taiwan I said I said Thailand you got loud you got Cambodia Cambodia

Brian Atlasand Vietnam Malaysia thank you Malaysian guy uh what about North Korean guy what do you do I've never met a North

KellyKorean guy actually so maybe you're open maybe he's I don't know outstanding like I've just just based off like who I've met because like I've said like I've I grew up some I don't meet that many people you know I'm like my high school

Kellyis like most mainly like white people and like so they I didn't like experience Burma

Kellyare you just not attracted to Asian men yeah I would say that too I'm just and then like I said it's just a thing like we're just so alike like I like learning from my from my man like I like learning about I like learning about different

Kellyculture too and like I like just experiencing new things but it's like with somebody if I was dating like a Vietnamese guy we relate so much do you speak Vietnamese um I understand it but I don't speak okay

Kellywait so you you would relate too much to them and that's I know it sounds weird it's just like it's just like I can't I can't learn I can't learn from you or I can't you

Kellycan't teach you can't really like teach me new things about you know like is that really a primary like thing you care about though learning learning from learning from my like my boyfriend yeah

Brian AtlasI care about that a lot I like learning from I like their culture of course yeah I love yes is that that's a primary like thing you care about that's a really big yeah it is a big thing that I care about

Kellyabout I care about he if he cares about my culture and he wants to learn more about my culture and my boyfriend right now he's black and he he goes to extremes to try to teach me more about

Brian AtlasBlack Culture and he tries to make me help me understand it better so that I have a better understanding of him I don't think I've ever heard a girl say that the one of the primary things they

Brian Atlascare about is learning I mean hey that if that's your thing cool but learning about a potential partner's culture cool word yeah I mean like why wouldn't you want to learn about how they grew up

Kellyand like how what their family traditions are like and how they they want to like I want to teach my kids about Vietnamese Traditions sure you know what do you learn about Black

KellyCulture that you didn't know before um how deep it is and how much deeper I honestly like before even dating my boyfriend now I I'm not gonna lie I was probably I was definitely ignorant about some topics and then he made me

Kellyopened my eyes more about a lot of things that nobody in here is black but like I don't think anybody in this room would really understand are you black my mom's yeah

Kellyum but like there's a lot of things that go into Black Culture that somebody who isn't black is not gonna understand unless it's taught to them and unless I don't know if it's like really been

Kellytaught like that if you've really learned about it like that but like when you when it's coming from somebody who is so passionate about it and is so passionate about you learning about it you have a deeper understanding you you

Abelinariaform a deeper understanding of it which is why it means so much to me okay um fun fact my boyfriend is Vietnamese oh really yeah and uh love learning about his culture yeah very important

Lauren De Lagunathing and is There's Something Beautiful about like exchanging culture of course yeah I agree was your boyfriend into BLM just out of curiosity

Kellyum he's very like he's very very he does he's done rallies he's LED rallies before he's LED protests like he's very like passionate about his culture which

Kellyis which was why I would say it's unfair of me to disregard it and not want to learn about it more because if he cares about it so much why why shouldn't why should I make him feel like I don't care about it

Brian Atlaswell I mean I think it's great that you want to learn about his his culture I just in terms of an attraction trigger I've never heard someone say learning

Brian Atlasabout like it would I would not be attracted to someone if I if I could not learn from their culture

Kellyand if that's the case for you hey that's that's totally fine but yeah I don't know it's not not just like just the culture thing it's just a

Kellylearning like learning period like I like to learn from like anything like that he can teach me you know like if we have the same experiences if we're on this like you know if we've done the same thing our whole lives if we're not

Kellyif we're you know how that people say like Opposites Attract like if we're like the same then I'm not really learning from you that much like I think well I think Opposites Attract is kind of [ __ ] no offense I just I

Kellydon't believe I think I actually have no I was just saying that in general like you know how like people will say that like that's I'm not saying that's exactly how I feel like it's sure sure what let's let's move on from that interesting comment on

Kellythe screen did you see it by any chance which one uh what about uh an Asian guy who was raised by white parents oh yeah that's interesting um I'm the same thing like I've never

JohnI've never like talked to a guy like an Asian guy who's raised by white parents so I wouldn't know and I just want to ask something about your culture also um what do you think about all the American men traveling to Asian countries to find wives I mean what do

Kellyyou think about women in those cultures and how they treat their men I think the reason why they're leaving the country this country to go to different countries to sign wives

TTS Readerthank you man appreciate it right my girl at michaela.no L she gives permission to post Instagram we are watching this together in Korean BTW I

Brian Atlasalso don't hate on the Asian girl I am not attracted to Asia neither we're uh Eric you can go ahead and pull that up rate my girl Michaela dot Noel

Johnis there a DOT also at the end or is that just a period do you want to know just uh do you think that uh those women treat their men a

Kellycertain way because they want to or because definitely they're forced to or what do you think about that not that they're forced to but it's just the culture the culture is different the culture is different in Vietnam than it

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