00:56:59NBA Girl (DT71)put his name in the Church he's an athlete yeah okay so he flew you out because you're in Ohio but he flew you out to L.A because he for like
00:57:15Destinywhat's up I have a question do they know that you're on here and do they know about each other um I hope not um
00:57:24NBA Girl (DT71)but if they see me we probably don't talk about it later um I doubt anything would change though I had a black one though oh what you had a
00:57:36NBA Girl (DT71)block I had a block of NBA player and you're you're blocked an NBA player why is that he didn't score enough points in his last game to be honest I don't really watch their games much
00:57:47Brian Atlasum unless I'm there at the game um have you has a guy ever who was in the NBA flown you out and then you go and see his game that
00:58:02NBA Girl (DT71)I mean I I could ask him for Courtside but I'd rather not make anything too obvious yeah especially if they got other stuff yeah okay um has there ever been a situation where
00:58:14Brian Atlasan NBA player how many games have you been comped um just two oh just two yeah just a question
00:58:25Brian Atlashave you ever been seeing a guy from both teams and they're playing against each other I've had um guys from
00:58:33Brian Atlasactually yeah I have oh yeah I did oh from the Indiana Pacers when they was playing against the Bucks playing against the bucks so you're seeing I
00:58:45NBA Girl (DT71)wasn't seeing them at the same card I don't know their position so I know their positions but I don't know where are they both starters I don't know one of them was she doesn't date people on
00:58:56Johnthe bench okay she only dates can I ask this also we didn't play much um a lot of you talk about you know wanting this this high value guy uh would you be more interested in sharing
00:59:08NBA Girl (DT71)a high value man with another woman or having an average man all to yourself right so here's my take on that um and you guys can yeah we'll have everything
00:59:17NBA Girl (DT71)yeah but for me dating now it's definitely different I guess as long as I'm taking care of
00:59:27Brian Atlasum my like tuitions taken care of um car notes taken care of living Sorry hold on just one second yo
00:59:36Brian Atlasflan life thank you for the uh 50 gifted memberships uh we'll do the fit check here in just a sec let me write that down you're saying that your tuition is paid for your car knows paid for yeah so
00:59:49Brian Atlasyou have the guys who you're seeing the is it the NBA players that are paying for this nobody's paying for something right now oh okay I thought I'm just saying like from that point when he asked me like okay are you okay
01:00:00NBA Girl (DT71)with like sharing a dude honestly as long as he's not all up in my face like he just brought another girl over and I'm there I'm not about to go look through your phone and make something of something if
01:00:13Brian AtlasI'm taking care of so as long as you don't know about it you're okay with it yeah and that she's being provided for yeah and now I'm obviously being taken care of okay okay and so the question is would they
01:00:24Brian Atlasrather share a high status guy or get commitment right monogamy from more of an average normal guy do you want kids um
01:00:34Brian Atlasit's I'm not opposed to it well let's go around the table on uh his question so would you rather have a really high status guy say you're
01:00:44Brian Atlasthe let's maybe in this example uh she's the main chick is that fair sure she's the main chick but there's gonna be side chicks right or do you get monogamy commitment but from like
01:00:56Brian Atlasa normal normal guy so your celebrity let's say you're celebrity crutch you're the main chick for your celebrity crush but he's going to be there's gonna be some other chicks
01:01:06Giselle (Al)involved I'm super into monogamy I find it really special because it is a choice that we make so I would go for the average committed relationship guys how's the volume one in the chat if the
01:01:18Brian Atlasvolume on her microphone's okay is it not peaking one in the chat if her audio is okay or if it's too low how's the audio hello chat
01:01:31Brian Atlasaudio's good looks like audio is okay okay cool guys if it's peaking let us know um Eric keep an eye on that uh would you rather share a high status guy or
01:01:42Rihannaget monogamy from a like a normal average guy closer to the mic I think I would definitely share like like if it's like
01:01:54Rihannaa high status guy I mean it's different though it's like um like yeah if you keep it on low don't tell me about it it's whatever but like if we we have to
01:02:06Rihannalike be able to discuss that though and say like this is what that this is you know rather than being blindsided about it even though it's like you know you'd want him to be upfront with it yeah okay
01:02:18Johnsure so some people want to know and some people don't want to know which I think is interesting yeah it just depends because it's like if
01:02:28Destinyyou're dating a more valued man or high-valued man and he has like like y'all have no connection like are you saying like you would have a connection with that person and they're talking to other people and doing like stuff with other people
01:02:41Destinyyou're the main chick he's high status your celebrity crush yeah I would definitely have to be like I don't know communicated and I have to
01:02:51Destinybe taken care of for real if I was sure like is uh emotional taken care of a factor at all is it just that is because it's like if I don't feel no connection with that person I'm not going to be there and be like yeah I'm with them
01:03:04Destinyjust so that he takes care of me like yeah but what if you had kids with this person would you care then I don't think I would let it get that far like if I I
01:03:14Destinyfeel like I would know before it got to the point of children if I really had a connection with that person why date anyone if you're not like eventually trying to get to it's true but you're also like trying to learn people like
01:03:27Destinynobody's gonna show you who they truly are at first you know like it's kind of like you learn more about people and then make the decision as you go so you want to go from like polyamorous to monogamous
01:03:38Lauren De Lagunaeventually like for instance if you like a man but you're in some sort of polyamorous relationship or non-committal relationship and then you want to turn that into a husband
01:03:49Lauren De Lagunayou just plan on him switching to monogamy now um I don't know no well a lot of the time
01:04:01NBA Girl (DT71)I'm gonna be honest if you're doing that with that man you know he already got his other things sorry about that um it's not gonna work with him you're gonna have to find some videos unless like y'all really talk and y'all really
01:04:13NBA Girl (DT71)like okay like I'm messing with you like I've tried all these other people and it's just not working and I keep coming back to you then you guys can have that talk but more than likely if you are trying to really settle down and you're
01:04:25Brian Atlaswith somebody like that it's just not gonna work so just to continue going around the table on this would you rather share a high status guy you're the main chick but he's gonna have side chicks or get
01:04:36NBA Girl (DT71)monogamy from like average normal dude well I already already said it I would rather be with somebody who taking care of all your [ __ ] yeah yeah because I'm not
01:04:51NBA Girl (DT71)some people don't date for kids and like oh I need him to be all about me like marriage marriage marriage like if I'm looking for a good vibe and he
01:05:03NBA Girl (DT71)give that to me and he's respectful because a lot of them are respectful to me at least okay um you don't want kids or if they come into play then I'll have
01:05:15Kellythat conversation you want to be married before you have kids yeah you have to be married yeah what about you share or well if it's like what what is the what
01:05:27Kellyis the sharing am I sharing am I sharing you with another woman all the time or is it that my husband went on vacation he [ __ ] a [ __ ] in Brazil and came back home to me never gonna see
01:05:41Brian Atlasher again let's let's say like El Salvador let's not say Brazil it was in El Salvador so it's a little okay but Peru maybe chili but it's not like
01:05:54Kellyit's a mistress am I sharing him with with somebody else like that or am I the am I am i the Queen and then he ha he guys are gonna get horny anywhere they
01:06:05Kellygo he goes on vacation some big booty [ __ ] on him and he [ __ ] up but it's like if we were married for 20 years is that and we have kids that's not really fair of me to just
01:06:17Johndone go away it would just happen once and you're never going to see this woman again do you want to would you see that almost more of like emotional cheating versus just sexual gratification I that would just be like sexual gratification
01:06:29Kellyright so it's like it's just more logical to not leave you if that's the situation that happened but then it's like if you're if you're allowing another woman to feel the same
01:06:40Kellyway that I'm feeling and you're letting another woman feel this like she's in the same position as me then that's completely different that's having a mistress that so so let's say yes there's a
01:06:51Kellymistress there's a mission no I'll settle for the Loyalty I don't need what about like once a quarter he's he like hooks up some chicken once a quarter and like
01:07:02KellyLuxembourg or some [ __ ] like once a year or like like a couple of times a year four times a year like once a quarter that's a little like q1 Q2 Q3 that's a little much if we're married that's a
01:07:13Brian Atlaslittle much if it happened like if it happened then like we were married for 10 years and it happened it would be really easy hold on just oh yo a b check think for the uh 20 gifted appreciate it thank you
01:07:26Kellythank you plan life we will get the fit check here in just a sec I just want to finish up going around on the stable so like it's just if you have kids with that person and you have a marriage with that person and you have like you know you've built your life with this person already and they cheated because they
01:07:39Kellywere horny men are gonna cheat men are animals they're literally you guys are just gonna cheat it's just in your name erroneous there's minerals there's a lot of men that are loyal there's a lot of course there's a lot of men that are loyal but
01:07:52Kellylike it is in it's sure that's that's hard to have them commit to one person to commit to one woman and you
01:08:01Kellyknow it's hard for one man to go 20 25 30 40 years with one woman and I I like I'm not gonna say we're not gonna say the same thing we're gonna think other guys are attractive I'm pretty sure we
01:08:14Kellyhave more control over that as women but you know a man it's really hard for I I know that it's going to be really hard for one man to be having sex just sex
01:08:23Lauren De Lagunawith one person for that long of a time are your parents together no but my mom is married my stepdad cheats on your mom I don't think my stepdad she's on my mom so why can your
01:08:36Lauren De Lagunastepdad do it what do you mean I didn't say he could do it like your dot like I'm saying your stepdad is able to remain in a monogamous relationship with your mom and he's not going around if my
01:08:48Kellymom had kids with my stepdad and he cheated on her she wouldn't divorce him if they were together for that one at least what are you by any chance with any
01:09:04TTS ReaderVietnam talk about divorce because Vietnamese culture doesn't really yeah hold on yeah Robert
01:09:12TTS Reader101 girl in red what's your end goal with NBA players let's be real you're being flown out for sex only those players have busloads of women lining up
01:09:24TTS Readerfor them for the same thing dot why do you think they'll do more for you besides just running through you your response to Robert Mugabe okay Rob
01:09:42NBA Girl (DT71)and just get in I'm gonna just be a little vulgar here rather than just getting [ __ ] by some random who don't have nothing to him
01:09:51Lauren De LagunaI should I'd rather be [ __ ] by a baller but why why get [ __ ] at all
01:10:05Lauren De LagunaI mean don't get me wrong like sure yeah like euphemism I just don't understand why you need to like do you actually gain that much from having sex with you
01:10:18NBA Girl (DT71)right do you enjoy that so much I mean it's not more so like oh my God like I'm gaining so much from [ __ ] this dude it's not that it's just like I mean how many times how many
01:10:31NBA Girl (DT71)times you get to a [ __ ] NBA player how many times you get to flow now go to games and do all this extra stuff like well it sounds how they live like kind of frequent though yes like you you got that [ __ ] on lot you got that [ __ ]
01:10:42NBA Girl (DT71)figured out right because you called them yeah you said a lot of them are easy yeah so easy to get attention wise
01:10:53Lauren De Lagunaa lot of times you'll have that opportunity it's not a rare opportunity it's my um well it it really just depends on how the the girl looks that's what I mean by
01:11:04NBA Girl (DT71)it can be easy I'm not saying anybody can just like having a DM or start liking everybody's pictures and somebody won't talk to you that's not always the case in my case I just get lucky to be
01:11:16Brian Atlasnoticed so sure um let's just continue with the question so would you rather share a high style sky or get monogamy from normal guy
01:11:28TTS Readersorry hold on 100. I think Lauren is too smart for the rest of this panel she is growing on me and
01:11:37TTS Readermaking something grow on me LOL I would let her litigate all over me anytime thank you
01:11:47Brian AtlasI love my Sims litigate all over me anytime okay um go ahead uh yeah so if I was not dating my boyfriend then I would definitely choose an average guy that
01:11:59Abelinariawas loyal but I am lucky and I got a high Valley status man all to myself so well you're hold on you're 21 right 25. oh excuse okay I got that next 25 uh
01:12:10Abelinariawhen you say he's a high value man in my eyes sure to me for me okay what and what does that look like to you um definitely okay so like so like high value
01:12:26Abelinariame what's the difference what's the difference well closer to the mic well because I could be just describing him but it's not necessarily that that's that what it
01:12:38Abelinariatakes to be a high value man well what does it take what do you think is what does it okay is he a high earner uh for his agent argue okay is that the only high value man no I
01:12:50Abelinariamean there's other there's other metrics but that's that's one potential component of it would you say that looks money and Status are part of that equation for most women uh for most women for sure I think one
01:13:02Johnof the most important things for me is his intelligence but for most of them okay so for most women so if if most women if a man typically has to have looks money and status in order to attract lots of beautiful women how is the man
01:13:15Johnnot considered the prize oh I definitely think I won like well right but I'm saying when you ask people when it comes to dating relationships who's typically seen as the prize the man or the woman most people will say the woman right why is
01:13:28Giselle (Al)it should we go around the table on this I mean really quickly yeah yeah we can just who's the who's the prize who do you think is the prize I I don't think anyone in specific is the prize
01:13:40Rihannaokay yeah I don't are you the pro okay are you the prize or is the man the prize I don't really know because sometimes it's just different on different like standards and sure situations same
01:13:54Brian Atlasjust be honest you can say it you can say it yeah I'm depressed okay a little closer to the mic though I don't know if they heard yeah I'm the price does does her mic need to be boosted to chat hello
01:14:07Kellyum we do okay uh the red Russian thing go ahead logically I think the man is surprise okay
01:14:19Xeniaum I think that my man for me is a prize but I hope that I am his prize so I think that both are price of for each other because men choose women and women
01:14:30Xeniachoose men so yeah they well four of each other Lauren yeah same okay both prizes for each other do you want to continue with that I'll just say
01:14:40Brian Atlashappy spouse Happy House word and it goes both ways so it should bringing it to you um hi status man but you're sharing him normal guy but
01:14:52Xeniauh well I'm actually into monogamy so for me it would be very difficult to share someone I would be very jealous even though before that I didn't think that I'm jealous I mean not before that but like when I was younger
01:15:04XeniaI didn't think that I'm jealous but yeah for real just one man and I also think that every man can be successful in life um especially if they have goal and if
01:15:14Xeniathey have brain they can definitely be so and if they want yeah of course if they want to be successful you're both from Russia right isn't it somewhat
01:15:24Brian Atlascommon at least this is what I've heard in in Russia for there to be a mistress is that common in Russia are you talking about France are you maybe mixing us up with friends all right are you sure I think I'm
01:15:36Abelinariathinking about Russia um I mean I would not hope so I would not know probably but I I'm not as far as like the people that I know
01:15:48Lauren De Lagunaokay all right uh so Lauren what about you share or monogamy monogamy I also I kind of take issue with the question because you're talking about high high valued
01:16:00Lauren De Lagunaman and I just don't value people I think you could say hi earning man maybe so are we just talking about does a man have a lot of money I feel like essentially the question is if a
01:16:13Lauren De Lagunaman has a lot of money would you let him [ __ ] a lot of women and it's like no it doesn't matter how much money my man makes I want my man to be it's not even so much about being
01:16:24Lauren De Lagunaum loyal to me it's more about being a good role model as a father and I don't want to be with a man who I don't think would make a good father to my kids so
01:16:35Brian Atlasand I wouldn't want my kids to see their dad running around with other women I just think that's gross so yeah by the way flan life thing for the uh extra gifted Subs we'll get the fit
01:16:47Johncheck here in just a sec um did you have a string that you wanted to continue with well I was I was just gonna say I'd be willing to share myself with multiple women no I'm just kidding I'm kidding um okay uh I'd like to um
01:16:58Johnall right uh let's try this one have any of you guys ever used Tinder or dating apps before and what was your experience hated Tinder
01:17:13Johnokay I've heard a lot of people talk about hinge okay I'm on the right stuff do you um why do you think that women typically get far more matches than men
01:17:25Xeniaum go ahead well I just wanted to say that men probably just swipe right and then see who swipes right now it's because men are on there and
01:17:36Kellyit's a lot easier for men to find a woman attractive than women to find men attractive so we're all gonna say it's a lot more it's a lot more
01:17:46Kellyprobable for a woman to get more people that are finding her attractive than a random man to just get have women constantly finding them attractive and I also feel like you're not just looking
01:17:58TTS Readerat at least for women I [Music] don't know Robert Mugabe donated okay so let me get this straight girl in
01:18:09TTS Readerred is happy to adjust her back blown out but NBA players for now but what about the long term do you want to get married eventually how do you think your future potential husband will feel about
01:18:20NBA Girl (DT71)that your answer quickly yes so um hopefully my husband can accept me for me I'm still young now so I'm going to use that as my excuse um
01:18:32NBA Girl (DT71)but everything I do I definitely think about um whether it's sex protection is used um
01:18:42NBA Girl (DT71)protections used yeah really yeah you sure yeah you sure a lot of them want to use it oh yeah the hot sauce thing yeah a lot of them want to use it so I'm not
01:18:53Brian Atlasagainst it apparently in the NBA even going back to the 90s they would send out these memos instructing these new NBA drafts who are
01:19:06Brian Atlasperhaps a bit naive and Young that not only should they wear wear condoms when sleeping with these women they should also be sure to like tie a knot in it and throw and flush it down the
01:19:19Brian Atlastoilet because what these women would do is like I think this happens to Drake recently or some [ __ ] the women would like get the condoms and like try to inseminate themselves so they could get
01:19:30Brian Atlasa baby so that they could get child support from presumably well athletes tend to make a good amount of money so and they're also athletes so that's I mean yeah you got things like
01:19:43TTS ReaderI'm not saying I do this but oh my God push the magnet donated 100.69 great names never had bad vibes with a high value man our Vibes
01:19:55NBA Girl (DT71)synonymous with good looks thank you pushy magnet for the 100.69 appreciate it I mean like I said I've had a blogging NBA player before because he was just
01:20:07NBA Girl (DT71)every time we would talk it was always about sex and then when I would like defer from that topic he would like he would Lucky Chip on me like and I was not going for now oh so he
01:20:19NBA Girl (DT71)just wanted you for sex basically it was it was yeah and sometimes it's like that but if I can't even have like a regular conversation with him I just can't like if you always sending
01:20:30NBA Girl (DT71)me your dick like yeah yeah throughout the day they'd be sending them and they in their bed just the [ __ ] yeah see I wouldn't I I can't I
01:20:43Brian Atlasmean I guess they do it but to me it's just like you know why would you if you're uh out there in the public you know why why would you
01:20:55Brian Atlasbecause it could get leaked right well I've never sent a dick pic yeah I'm gonna send a dick pic I'm not trying to get that [ __ ] out there you know I mean that's what I've been thinking I think women should send [ __ ] pics
01:21:06Brian Atlasthough I'm in favor of [ __ ] pics women should start saying [ __ ] pics Revenge I think it's revenge for all the dick pics that's just been sliding around for hold on Mike Davis yo thank you Mike Davis
01:21:18TTS Readerwhat's good shorty with the red and dark hair I'm no NBA player but I probably got more bread in the brains than those bench players I earned my way if not for
01:21:29Brian Atlasathleticism they'd be hustling a mixtape on the street corner let me slide in if you want to take a look at the screen here this is Mike Davis we have a photo
01:21:39Brian Atlasof him in the studio he's one of our long time patrons uh I don't know if you can tell he he works oh that's him that's Mike Davis that's the guy who just super chat handsome guy right
01:21:50Brian Atlasum he owns like 331 Burger King restaurants on the East Coast question like Mike Davis yeah I've known
01:22:01Brian AtlasMike Davis for a very long time he once we were on a camping trip and believe her it was like in the uh what What's the uh mountain range in California it's the uh it was the Appalachian Trail me and we
01:22:14Brian Atlaswere camping together they're all our clothes like we're close platonically like there's no romance or anything we did share a tent once though like on the Appalachian Trail romance it
01:22:25Brian Atlaswas a bromance it's okay yeah he's a patron of mine so I fly out and we we talk and but um he rescued me from a bear and so I'm like forever in his debt so
01:22:36Brian Atlaslike can I connect to you I mean with Mike Davis you got my Instagram how did he rescue you from a bear yeah so he was on the night Patrol because of the Appalachian Mountains so we didn't want like any meth heads like
01:22:49Brian Atlastrying to [ __ ] us up so he's like standing guard outside the tent right and I'm like I I need my beauty sleep so I was like [ __ ] knocked the [ __ ] out so he was like you know chilling and there's a [ __ ] black
01:23:01Brian Atlasbear how did he I mean because we left some food out accidentally like there's some Burger King wrappers and [ __ ] just like strewn across the the campsite so like he [ __ ] like he had some bear mace
01:23:14Brian Atlaslike one of those big canisters so he like this black bear comes charging [ __ ] charging at him boom sprays the [ __ ] he saved me yeah I woke up the black bear was
01:23:27Brian Atlastripping the [ __ ] out and Mike Davis was like [ __ ] off so he saved me so like can I I'm like kind of his his wingman yeah are you down like could I get you guys linked up he's a good dude linked up
01:23:38NBA Girl (DT71)like what you mean like he's down to fly you out where he stay late he's in on and he's on the East Coast oh he's on East Coast you're down can I get you guys linked up huh hey we could talk about it and he's a gentleman too
01:23:50Lauren De Lagunahe owns a couple Birds he'll comp whatever you want at Burger King why would you choose NBA player player somebody who's like actually actually charred made to live like Mike Davis is like Mike
01:24:01NBA Girl (DT71)Davis I mean I'm gonna be honest I'm not knocking nobody who worked hard for their money like Mike look cool like I'm not knocking nobody for their money I don't care how you get the money as
01:24:13Brian Atlaslong as you got it and these aren't prescription by the way he has perfect 20 20 Vision he just it's more like an aesthetic it's an aesthetic thing he his
01:24:23Brian Atlasvision's good so his jeans are good how tall is he uh six three yeah six three hundred uh can so after the show can I get you guys yeah we can
01:24:35Johntalk about it might or uh you know what Mike Davis I got it Mike Davis just slide into her DMS yeah you got my Instagram okay so anyways what were we talking about yeah well I wanted to ask a question also what are your thoughts on like that
01:24:48Johnthere's a common perception about modern women today I've heard uh they say modern women today don't care about a man's struggles they just want to show up at the finish line and pick the winners do you think that's true and if
01:24:59NBA Girl (DT71)so why well I'm gonna be honest um I've messed with a couple guys that have been through stuff like more challenges in life and lots of money um and honestly they're a lot more down to earth
01:25:12Brian Atlasum um yeah like they I can have a conversation with somebody who slept in a car before or had to sleep in a car before wait question is six three too short no six three five she kind of scoffed when I said six three I know you
01:25:23NBA Girl (DT71)did NBA Ballers but is that too short for you the tallest I had was like seven two and I'll be honest like it's a wrap I'm sorry Mike Davis it's over for you
01:25:34NBA Girl (DT71)bro no like 6 30. get some help six three is perfect I need I think anything over like because I'm a little taller I'm like I think anything over like five eight is
01:25:47Johnfine for me oh anything more than plastic go ahead yeah do you think you're more likely to meet a beautiful woman Who's down to earth or a high value man Who's down to earth oh I'm a beautiful woman that's more Downer which
01:25:58Johnone was more likely to overcome hardship probably say the can you compare the ugly duckling woman to the high value man who had to earn his status wait why are y'all shaking
01:26:09Lauren De Lagunaour heads am I missing something you really think that a pretty woman has a harder time throughout life than a man who has to work for his wealth I mean I'll strive to get to the top I'm just
01:26:20Lauren De Lagunalike okay like who has it harder Heidi Klum or Mark Cuban throughout life the lower the numbers I don't know oh you don't know those people okay uh who
01:26:32Brian Atlashad it harder Haley Beaver or I'm trying to find like gen Z what the [ __ ] is this question okay um here let's do a fit check because
01:26:43Brian Atlasflan life has been working all right so fit check everybody we gotta do a little stand up we're gonna check everyone's fit you know um if everyone wants to stand up you can say you know where your outfit's
01:26:55Brian Atlasfrom you know uh I'm doing a group stretch if you want oh join us all right uh is is this uh Balenciaga over here
01:27:06Brian Atlaswhat you got yeah I just bought this from Korea Korea like the government the government sold it to you North Korea
01:27:18Brian Atlasit's like just bulk I traveled to Korea and I bought it North Korea you're tight with Kim Kim Jong what are the tattoos on your uh what are those what does they say angel
01:27:32Brian Atlasis there something in between angel and devil
01:27:39Brian Atlasokay um there's the fish does everyone want to do a little spin so they can you know we got to see the spins full spin full spinaroo okay we got some
01:27:50Brian Atlasjeans over here we've got some Balenciaga we got I'm not sure what what do you call those these pants with the the the sides visible is there a name for them
01:28:01Brian Atlasdid you rip them yourself or did they come like that became like this okay thank you flan life and uh this is um this is um Teespring t-shirt right yes it's actually
01:28:13Brian AtlasTeespring um It's Complicated that's his YouTube channel he's got the Nirvana Smells Like Teen Spirit um white um thing you know under you know rocking
01:28:24Brian Atlasthat and some black jeans he's got the New Balance yo guys show the New Balance oh my God we got Steve oh he's taking it off are you gonna
01:28:36Brian Atlasdon't do that um okay everyone can sit down now thank you flanlife for
01:28:46Brian Atlasokay where were we we were talking oh um I want to finish off on a previous conversation we were having so we were talking about blue checks blue checks by the way guys I have OCD
01:28:59Brian Atlasum is can you guys see the screen flickering is his screen flickering actually I don't really see it anymore maybe it's the angle it's fine um okay I think we left off with you so have you
01:29:12Brian Atlashad any blue check marks slide into your DMs yes yes how many a lot a lot how many what are we talking here
01:29:19Kellybreak it down well when I was single I used to be a lot a lot more but did you post your boyfriend
01:29:28Brian Atlashold on on your Instagram not like that not like his face but like you know like wait Eric can you pull up her Instagram we'll do a little Deep dive here 1.5 one point wait one year relationship yeah
01:29:42Kellyit's been like a year and four months you're in four months it's kind of post your boyfriend territory well like I don't like post him like I like don't I'm not gonna like make like a whole post about him and like oh hey baby I love you so much like this is why I love you like you know
01:29:55Kellylike happy birthday like I'm not gonna do that but like I post like my dates that I go on with him to your stories which disappear which disappear yeah I put it on my highlights Eric can you pull up the Instagram
01:30:09Brian Atlasum hey Kelly Lou what it's in the uh description of the video
01:30:20Brian Atlasso okay you get blue check marks in your DMs um have you ever met up with any of them [Music] but this is a nice thing well yeah I'm talking when you're single obviously
01:30:32Brian Atlasyou're in a relationship now but prior to your current relationship what's like the baddest MF or that slender DMs NBA player well it's like a bunch of
01:30:44Brian Atlasyeah it's a bunch of those and a bunch of like you know athletes um yeah or just like random guys who like I don't know okay oh here it is okay so we're gonna we're gonna just take a look um scroll down Eric let's see let's look
01:30:57Kellyat the Instagram okay keep going keep keep going one uh where's where's the boyfriend I know I told you I don't post him on
01:31:09Kellythere but if you go on my stories oh oh the stories yeah okay all right 1.4 year relationship by the way he doesn't post you no I told him no he doesn't well
01:31:21Kellyhe'll like you know post a story too but like uh every single thing like I post on my story is like usually with him he knows that okay how many DMS do you still get though from guys even
01:31:34Brian Atlasthough you're in a relationship so I'm a stylist so I wrote well I'm talking romantically like it's clear that your stylist for men are for women both okay how many DMS it's like where it's kind
01:31:47Kellyof evident that the guy's sliding in where there's a romantic interest a lot of I would say maybe like out of all the DMs I get like definitely like 80 of them are guys who are trying to like you
01:31:59Kellyknow get at me but then the other 20 is either like a client who's actually serious about working with me or just
01:32:08Kellylike my like just friends guys that are just how many DMS a day do you get um like from different people yeah uh maybe like six or seven only
01:32:19Kellyand how many are like romantically like section their shots are like am I talking back to them because no no just just them hitting you up I don't reply I don't really reply at all but how many
01:32:31Kellyare hitting you up in a day or in a week in a week I would I would say like 10 to 15
01:32:39Johnlike requests and everything I'm not replying to sure sure okay um did you have something related to this sort of I mean obviously we were talking about dating apps earlier but I think a lot of uh people almost use Tinder as
01:32:52Johnyou know a dating app a form of dating app so I was wondering um they use Instagram or they use Tinder well they'll use Tinder but I think also a lot of people will slide into your DMs
01:33:04Johnon on Tinder so tinder's sorry not Tinder Tinder uh on Instagram and so Instagram is almost like another dating app or somewhere it is a dating app I would say that for sure I think okay I would definitely agree but like honestly
01:33:15Johnlike I prefer if I was using it as a dating app I prefer to use Instagram over Tinder anyways to be honest so so where I was going with this is if a woman has lots of sexy photos on her
01:33:26Johndating profile or maybe her Instagram and no bio should she be surprised if guys are only contacting her for hookups of course that's what she's that's you know that's why I don't get I'm not getting mad or
01:33:39KellyI'm not texting these guys like don't talk to me I have a boyfriend you know it's like I'm not gonna get mad I don't post my boyfriend I already know that so it's like I'm people are gonna assume that I'm single so you so you feel like
01:33:51Johnshe's kind of putting herself out there in that way what do you like in other words if she's got you know a dating profile no bio lots of sexy photos you feel like she's kind of sending a message like I'm just
01:34:02Johnopen the hookups I don't think it's just I'm open to hookups it's just okay but I mean should she be surprised if she's getting no contact why not I'm
01:34:13Kellynot surprised because that's your like I said before like women are gonna get men to that are finding you attractive men are gonna find women attractive like anyone every single one
01:34:26Kellyof us in this room have men in our DM who think they're attractive so it's like how but why are we gonna get mad at somebody who's just complimenting you because these guys are coming out of their way dming you because they think
01:34:38Brian Atlasyou're attractive right and are you getting DMS from guys thinking that you're attractive from dudes actually yeah there's been some dudes
01:34:47Brian Atlas[ __ ] hitting me up and [ __ ] not a lot but I'm I'm trying to answer oh sorry
01:35:00TTS Readerby saying I'm young now I'm going to use that as my excuse Brian John and Lauren I am disappointed in you for not
01:35:09TTS Readerpressing her enough on this age is not a good excuse for being a 304. isn't Robert Mugabe like some [ __ ]
01:35:19Brian Atlasuh isn't that like some guy in Africa who's like a dictator Tyrant or some [ __ ] confirm and deny are you the [ __ ] president of some where should I say today like
01:35:34TTS Readerold dictator oh my God this donated 100 Brian I'm not gonna lie I was about to let the bear pounce but then God came to me in a
01:35:46TTS Readerrevelation and said it's not your time yet you still have work left on this Earth gate keeping these streets praise the Lord not me Hallelujah yo Mike Davis thank you man yeah
01:35:59Brian Atlasum I appreciate you you know being there to defend me against that I think it might have had rabies too like it was frothing at the mouth so like yeah they had a 10 he got he had to go
01:36:11Brian Atlasto the hospital after because he got a little he got cut so if you actually meet him he'll show you the scars from the bear yeah he has he has Battle Scars
01:36:23Brian Atlasso yeah you owe him a lot I I am indebted to him for life big time that's why I'm trying to get a little connection between okay all right
01:36:34Abelinariaum we were going around the table blue check marks uh you you've had you've had a bunch what about you any blue check marks in your DMs yeah no actually into the mic please no any blue check marks
01:36:45Abelinariaever and in fact the fact that um Instagram could be used as a dating website I found out about three months ago four months ago I don't get a contact
01:36:58Xeniayou not really no no no maybe like longer ago but not really now no no okay what about you Lauren um in the past I don't really post on Instagram so
01:37:13Brian Atlasokay all right all right uh let's do a couple soup chats here we need to get caught up on them thank you to everybody who became a member yo Eric can you um can you go ahead and pull up twitch I need to shout
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01:38:38Johnlet's see here oh have you had have you gotten any blue check marks from some babes in your DMs or what uh not quite yet but um I'm thinking that uh I could nowadays everyone could just buy their blue check mark so does it really have
01:38:49Brian Atlasany value oh before Oh no yeah no but I'm looking forward to it I I actually I had a month ago I had my first blue check mark DM from a check and uh bro girls have no [ __ ] game
01:39:02Johnyou'll have zero [ __ ] game holy [ __ ] if I was sending that exact same message to a chick responded but I mean is a good check mark gonna make that girl you know more attractive to you you know as far as I
01:39:14Brian Atlasmean guys don't really care about stuff no actually it's worse yeah it's actually worse wait what did she say okay I have this thing where like I've said that like I look I don't really
01:39:26Brian Atlascare about height but I like short women like four four feet 411 you know if her height doesn't start with four she ain't the one that type of [ __ ] well women have high preferences
01:39:38Brian Atlashuh it's all it's wrong a dude has a high preference bro I would be so down for a dwarf if anybody knows any dwarves can you hook it up oh really yeah get hook it up like
01:39:51Unknownfemale female dwarves I know they go by that term like I'd be done be friends with like a male dwarf oh okay no dwarf dwarf is the well I guess now it's moving towards little person yeah
01:40:02Brian Atlasbut I think dwarf is still like appropriate it's still appropriate but yeah if you guys know anybody hook it up you know somebody who's a dwarf who's a dwarf how tall are you I'm 411.
01:40:15Brian Atlasoh oh there you go oh [ __ ] it's not work God damn it the Romeo sound Eric do you have a blue check that's not your fault I do not know I only have a check mark on
01:40:32Brian Atlaswait Jose will you marry me I try it on yeah sure she's keeping the ring
01:40:48Brian Atlasif it doesn't fit it's a no rest in peace Rip's in the chat preemptively it's probably too big where did you pull that yeah
01:40:56Brian Atlasrip IP's and chat for Brian okay I'll take it back got dwarf fingers yeah 411. um I don't know where was I going with that you got a DM from a blue check mark and
01:41:08Brian Atlascheese oh yeah she's like I'm five one that's it and I was like I was like oh sorry too tall for me like in a choking way wait that's okay so sad wait is that the first one she
01:41:21Brian Atlasjust said I'm five one and then she shocked the rest of the conversational burden on me like she had 11 million followers by the way and I'm like okay I think that's kind of cute like she knows it would have been cute if she continued the conversation but she's
01:41:34Abelinariajust like I don't know girls have no game okay here I'll take it back I'm sorry we're divorced just give me it all right cool okay which is the girls you interact with have no game because some girls do not
01:41:46Abelinariamany not many but some do women don't well here's the thing women don't need game sometimes they do no at least from personally there's nothing I can tell you I do lesbians okay so if you woke up
01:41:59Abelinariatomorrow as a man and you wanted to get laid like a lot of guys do how would you do it uh I don't think I would have that desire one morning that I wake up randomly uh but I have definitely had to
01:42:09Abelinariamake the first move I had to write to a guy like I I actively made into the mic myself uh put myself out there here pull the mic closer to you just put it at the
01:42:20Abelinariavery edge of the table um so yeah um I just think personally I do make the move but I do know that not most people do well the exception doesn't make the rule and generally
01:42:31Brian Atlasspeaking like definitely women don't need game to get a guy you just I mean it sort of ties into the whole like a lot of you receive getting DMS
01:42:42Abelinariaright you kind of just have to be out in The Ether and guys will come to you again you don't want the case for everyone I just said I have no blue check marks what do you mean well just well just an example right yeah but if
01:42:55Brian Atlasyou were to download the dating app for example like you would just be getting matches they would be messaging you they would be asking you for the date they'd be asking you for the number they would be setting up the day planning the date paying for the date moving things
01:43:07Brian Atlasforward on the date going for the first kiss moving things forward sexually so guys are expected to pretty much do everything throughout the entire early stages of a relationship again would be nice for sure but there
01:43:20Abelinariahave been so many times there I had to do that well I actually don't find a problem with it I just think that like there are different women all I'm arguing here so sorry sorry okay uh just to finish
01:43:30AbelinariaFrance uh Brands um that yeah um to say no women have game that just incorrect some women will have it most women okay
01:43:40Brian Atlassure I'll I'll I suppose I'll refine my statement women don't need game and most women don't have game though because they don't need it fully agree now with the statement yeah now I want to ask you
01:43:52Johna lot of women I asked them why don't they typically approach men and they will often say because they're afraid of rejection so I asked them if a woman chooses to approach a man and shoot her shot is she more or less likely to be rejected than if a man approaches a woman
01:44:05JohnI'm probably less likely to be rejected yeah why do you think women are afraid of being rejected when they're far less likely to be rejected I think it's just like a mental thing so what advice would you give to men who
01:44:16Abelinariafear of rejection oh well to both men and women I would give the same advice which is just go for it if they will reject you they're not meant for you and so don't waste your time I always say rejection is
01:44:29Giselle (Al)simply redirection so if that person does not want you then you are being directed to another pathway that's better for you
01:44:39Lauren De Lagunayeah I don't think you should I don't think you should go somewhere where you're not appreciated obviously so yeah um but I didn't like your premise see that I'm closer to the mic can you reread
01:44:50Lauren De Lagunaquestion again oh that was in my head in his brain yeah in my memory bank okay you said that women approach men because uh they're or sorry women don't approach men because they're afraid of rejection
01:45:03Lauren De Lagunabut that's not the reason women don't approach men what what would your uh women don't approach men because they don't have to not masculine men and they want the qualities of a man
01:45:14Lauren De Lagunagoing to be the type of man to approach them they don't want the type of man who is going to accept a woman and there's this there's actually a dating book I wish I remember the name of it but a
01:45:26Lauren De Lagunawoman says if you are reaching out to the man that relationship will not work because you are fake news disavow okay I have a question about that okay go ahead continue
01:45:37Brian Atlaswhy do you I'm curious as to why that's fake news I actually I think that the instances where a woman is being a bit not like pursuing in the
01:45:48Brian Atlassame way that the man is but she's actually like putting an effort those actually tend to be the ones that I in my experience
01:45:57TTS Readerare the strongest mine as well like not these ones where she's like playing hard to get like donated 100 thank you on behalf of the military homies can you
01:46:09TTS Readerask the panel why most modern women say or think a dude being in the military is a red flag and can they provide Insight on why P.S Big Ups to Mike Davis based
01:46:21Brian Atlasbased um yeah we can go around really quick on this um well I'll just ask a question if a guy's in the military current active duty military red flag or no just no
01:46:34Abelinariayes no yeah guys please yeah you have to be speaking into the mics I really don't know could you repeat the question sorry I missed that
01:46:47Brian Atlasuh red flag if a guy's active duty military no no okay YouTube said yes just why why do you think that is I don't think you're wrong I mean necessarily well it's
01:46:57Rihannabecause like I'm very I'm very like you know men or women that could be very like red flag because they end up going on these deployments and stuff like that and usually like when people join the
01:47:09Rihannamilitary they're really young and they don't really know what they're we're going in life and type so let's say they've been with somebody and they go get deployed and they're there for so long people are going to want the other
01:47:21Rihannaphysical connection with somebody else you know so there's always the opportunity for them to be able to cheat on you like I don't know how to explain I just feel like if someone's in the military and they're not older then yes
01:47:34Brian Atlasbut like if they're a little bit if they're like over 25 then no I think I've actually heard the reverse is that it's more often the case that the men will go off to deployment maybe
01:47:45Brian Atlasthey're married or they have a girlfriend and the girlfriend or wife cheats on them yeah they're getting [ __ ] well either way deed and [ __ ]
01:47:56Rihannayeah either way like it's either the woman cheats on him because he's gone or like he cheats on her like either way it's just not really what is it what is it called a depends eponymous like basically they get their the military
01:48:07Brian Atlaswives and spouses they get their military benefits and then they [ __ ] divorce the guys and cheat that's [ __ ] anyone here been in the military no
01:48:17Brian AtlasI dated a guy in the military yeah that counts you're pretty much you know it's funny like these military wives are like I'm basically in the military because you hear everything because I'm married too
01:48:29Rihannawell that private first class what's cousin they come home and they're like they talk about everything like my sister's in the military so like a lot of things like I know and understand because of that so thank you for her
01:48:40Lauren De Lagunaservice no what you're who are you thinking her sister is in the military you're thanking her for her Services okay like I I did military for two years oh you were in the military yeah yeah
01:48:52Abelinariawhich branch Air Force does that really count though um yes I'm I'm teasing you but okay basically and the Air Force were the
01:49:04Brian Atlascoolest ones no no more chair for us yeah chair Force yeah um it is what it is it is what it is okay um let's what I'm trying to remember where we were at before but uh here we have a question here from Stifler ask the
01:49:17Brian Atlasladies to rate their looks on the scale of one to ten
01:49:22Brian Atlasum I would say four oh sorry hold on oh uh I'll read it the military is literally protecting your asses from crazy mfers in North Korean China and you all think a man being in the
01:49:34Brian Atlasmilitary is a red flag well what the actual F thousands of dudes did not die in Normandy Beach for y'all to say that what you guys have a response no comment on that
01:49:46Brian AtlasI don't think it's necessarily wrong for someone to not want to I don't know if it's a red flag but I don't think it's wrong for someone to not want to date someone in the military in the same way that it wouldn't be wrong for someone to
01:49:59Brian Atlasnot want to have a long-distance relationship with somebody because deployments you know they might be gone 100 Laura and Tony Hawk been spitting facts
01:50:09TTS Readerfor the 304s on the other side of the table these thoughts are beyond the streets they're for the forest relationship and no Couple pick Runaway
01:50:20TTS ReaderKing oh where is based Chase we need him back your response no no response I have a question he's
01:50:32Brian Atlassaying he's saying 1.4 year relationship no photos of your boyfriend on Instagram public profile posting stuff I don't know why that's such a big deal
01:50:42Brian Atlasif my me my boyfriend don't care yes I I think that the thing is is that Instagram is to some degree a dating app and
01:50:53Brian Atlaswomen are primarily the ones getting attention on Instagram so you're basically by hot take of the night you're basically keeping your options open by having an Instagram if you're in a long-term relationship if you're not
01:51:07Kellyespecially if you're not posting your boyfriend bare minimum but what if you use that for what if your social media is for work too is that how you procure most of your clients through Instagram what do you mean well
01:51:20Kellyyou say you're a stylist for Nordstrom is that the way in which you procure most of your clients well I prefer to give them my Instagram to talk to them rather than um giving them my phone number my
01:51:29Kellypersonal phone number okay so that's that's where I direct them to First is Instagram are you monetized on Instagram would you call Instagram your portfolio
01:51:42Kellyum your business portfolio like a professional portfolio not really because I have like other it's I don't just do separate on Instagram like I do like Instagram posts on like social media I'll give them I'll give them content stuff like that and
01:51:55Abelinariathen they have like other things that go with that okay is that I guess what I just wanted to say in your defense uh I feel like Instagram in nowadays is used as like a business card you know nowadays you don't give out a printed
01:52:07Abelinariabusiness card you give an Instagram and especially for artists having a big Instagram and like having like the type of Instagram that you have is actually quite essential just for
01:52:17Kellybusiness and but why exclude her boyfriend even in business aspects but I don't exclude him because I still post it's not like I'm not posting pictures of him he's in every every time every single time I go on a date I take a
01:52:30Lauren De Lagunapicture with him in the picture I think what people are saying is like they'll go to your Instagram page and it'll see all of these beautiful you look beautiful in all of those pictures
01:52:41Lauren De Lagunaum and then you're gonna appear single so it seems like if you're not doing it for the money what are you possibly doing it for why are you having all of these beautiful pictures of you and none
01:52:51Kellyof your boyfriend like readily available well I just don't think it's that serious if you're not entertaining it so but what's the purpose I guess I
01:53:04Destinycan't post pictures of myself it could be for someone's self like if you see yourself in a different light maybe you're just trying like you could really love yourself and just want to post you and people like that like people fall in love with people on the internet
01:53:17TTS Reader[Music] black Socrates donated 99 that's made Jacobian you don't post pictures of your boyfriend because you know it'll make men more likely to slide
01:53:29TTS Readerinto your DMs which in turn will make it more likely for you to rope them into business posting someone on a 24-hour story doesn't count bro I will literally post a picture of
01:53:41Johnmy boyfriend right now but like there's do what do it if you're if your boyfriend bought only fans content every week from the same Creator would you consider that cheating
01:53:53Johnum yeah but my boyfriend would never do that I would never spend money on what I'm saying like if somebody you know has like a online relationship with another Creator does that at some point become you know yeah that's weird it's a little
01:54:05Kellybit weird yeah that's weird but I don't I don't do that I don't I don't have relationships with these people that are dming me I don't even reply to them oh you know okay the most I'll do is tap
01:54:16Lauren De Lagunadouble tap the picture like the picture I mean like the response but what what do you gain from your Instagram not that you can't have like I hear you shake I see you shaking your head because I don't mean it to be yeah because I mean
01:54:28Lauren De Lagunabut I think it's funny also because you do social media too right because I'm just single right and I gain things from it like so I'm trying to promote my YouTube content and I am trying so like for me it's all 100 per bit sent
01:54:41Lauren De Lagunabusiness I'm trying to make money from it and if I had a boyfriend I don't I could understand if it's a hundred percent business and I'm making money off having like simps give money to me I
01:54:54Lauren De Lagunacan understand in that case why you wouldn't post your boyfriend but if I'm being honest with my fans and I had a boyfriend I feel like an Instagram is really just kind of a story of your life
01:55:05Lauren De Lagunajust like Facebook was and you would want to include important people in your life your friends your boyfriend yada yada
01:55:16Kellyyeah like yeah I do do that like everyone pretty much knows that like everyone important to me knows that I have a boyfriend when guys hit on me at work I tell them straight up I have a