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00:04:24Giselle (Al)hello my name is Al I am 22 and I stream on Twitch what's your uh what do you stream on Twitch video games just chatting
00:04:36Giselle (Al)what I like to do is kind of more therapy so if anyone is having any problems at home or in any type of relationships they can come and talk to me
00:04:46Giselle (Al)and you said you're 22 right yes so you're a therapist I'm not certified therapist okay but what I do is
00:04:55Brian Atlasbasically like therapy you give relationship advice okay got it okay very cool what about you um my name is
00:05:04Brian AtlasRihanna I am 21 and I'm just a waitress just a waitress no content creation just a waitress yeah yeah okay got it what
00:05:13Destinyabout you hi I'm Destiny I'm an artist so I do music and I'm also on Tick Tock I'm basically on all platforms and
00:05:22Brian AtlasI'm A Lash Tech and I do only fans okay wow you wear many hats um age oh 21 20 okay where are you from by the way
00:05:37Brian Atlasokay I detect a bit of an accent so from like the sticks yeah in Oklahoma there we go what about you
00:05:48NBA Girl (DT71)in Long Beach California but the LBC yeah are you affiliated huh no is that the
00:05:57NBA Girl (DT71)word people that are oh okay yeah uh how old are you I'm 19. and then your occupation I'm a travel
00:06:06NBA Girl (DT71)nurse and I do only wait hold on travel nurse yeah you're an RN no I am closer to the mic yeah
00:06:24Brian Atlasyeah that's a little different than the travel nurse well categorize it kind of seems well phlebotomist I mean it's the entry level to become a phlebotomist is
00:06:34Brian Atlassubstantially lower than a nurse right um so you could you look at my veins later and tell me if I've got like yeah for sure okay cool yeah okay and then you also do
00:06:46NBA Girl (DT71)only fans yeah have you ever thought of combining the two um phlebotomy yeah I never think and only fans I I don't really know how I can kind of put
00:07:00Kellymaybe there's something here okay um how long have you been doing lonely fans um probably about four months now four months after okay got it cool what about
00:07:12Kellyyou hi I'm Kelly I'm 21 I'm a student and I'm a branded stylist through Nordstrom and I also do content creation and social media for them
00:07:20Abelinariafor Nordstrom oh cool okay hi my name is abelinaria I'm 25 years old uh I am studying
00:07:31Abelinariaum in Santa Monica College for my prerequisites for a master's and also working at a startup okay hi my name is Xenia I'm from Russia but
00:07:43XeniaI've been traveling a lot and I also moved to different countries I've been living in Austria and now I'm here I just finished UCLA in application programming so I'm in Tech and in the
00:07:54Xeniafuture I want to start my startup as well age I'm 25 24 how many languages do you two speak I speak three oh by the way we know we've
00:08:06Xeniabeen knowing each other for 17 years so yeah we're both from the same city in apparently Smolensk is that Russia or is that Poland it's very random that you
00:08:18Brian Atlasknow it's Russia but yeah not you're not from Smolensk uh it's just there's this famous painting by polish paint anyways
00:08:28Lauren De Lagunaum what about you my name is Lauren I do content creation and I am 29. 29. what kind of content creation do you do
00:08:39Lauren De Lagunaum I'm on YouTube my YouTube channel is called Lauren day Laguna and I just graduated law school and I just passed the bar so um I do thanks um so I do
00:08:51Lauren De Lagunalike some legal stuff um and all right we also do Morning News we do interviews but our Crown Jewel of Lauren day Laguna is our like Judge Judy
00:09:04Lauren De Lagunatype show where I'm the judge and it's called Lauren order you're like hearing like are you arbitrating small claims type stuff or
00:09:14Lauren De Lagunawhat well you know if we do have people who are actually in real life Court we put their issues their real life issues over our content creation so we try to
00:09:26Lauren De Lagunawait for real life issues to wrap up for instance we had um this award-winning journalist uh
00:09:33Lauren De LagunaAidan Carney AKA turtle boy and he was accused of harassing a person and they had a whole hit the pers some other
00:09:44Lauren De Lagunaperson other content creator accused him of harassing someone and they had the whole debate on my show but they did it after the legal
00:09:53Brian Atlasdecision was already decided in real court and he won in real Court okay um and are you currently actually practicing law or so you have to wait
00:10:04Lauren De Lagunafor something called character and fitness and I just passed the bar in Florida so I'm just waiting for all of that and hopefully all of that finishes
00:10:14Lauren De Lagunasoon and then I could get sworn in and then I will be working yeah I'm very excited for that what kind of law are you going to be practicing um previously so right after law school
00:10:26Lauren De LagunaI went into Public Defense work and I really enjoyed that and I'm currently speaking with a public defense office in Florida and I really I've spoken to a lot of the employees there and they're
00:10:39Johnjust so wonderful and so I hope to work in that office as soon as I'm certified okay very cool very cool hello uh my name is John and I am 44
00:10:51Johnyears old and I am the creator of the it's complicated Channel on YouTube also known as the rules of modern dating and understanding women I frequent the Las Vegas Strip and I just interview random people and ask them questions about
00:11:03Brian Atlasdating it's a really good Channel guys go check it out um and uh let's how long have you been doing the channel by the way I think it's about over three years now what was your occupation
00:11:15Johnbefore that uh I would sell collectibles on eBay I worked at a music venue and uh yeah that's pretty much okay got it yeah got it okay cool um so we're gonna go around the table once
00:11:28Brian Atlasmore current relationship status so are you single you got friends with benefits talking States situationship relationship engaged married and also what is your longest relationship go ahead
00:11:48Brian Atlasuh how how long ago was that relationship
00:11:55Giselle (Al)over a year ago now okay so that was your most recent relationship too or you've had something in between no no no okay so my longest one was
00:12:09Rihannaand then my most recent one was a year ago okay got it yeah what about you um I'm single I the longest relationship
00:12:18Rihannaabout half I think it's it was a little over a year other than that
00:12:26Brian Atlasum complicated and my longest relationship was like six years complicated okay well what do you mean what do you mean by
00:12:37Destinyit's complicated go subscribe I mean it's like it's kind of just stuff happening like now you know what I'm saying I don't know what you're saying it was cool tell me what you said like the past
00:12:49Brian Atlascouple days so it's like it's a reason so it's kind of like complicated how long have you been seeing the it's complicated guy not like five months five months but recently as of a couple
00:13:00Destinydays ago there's been some conflict did you cheat on him no what huh would you consider him your boyfriend oh yeah no we was living together like we live together and everything so okay so
00:13:12Destinyyou're in a relationship yeah we're just like are you are you guys on a break yeah no no no we're literally in the process of basically like splitting splitting our apartments and everything so you guys are
00:13:25Destinythe breakup but it's toxic because we're like staying together right now so it's like you know what I'm saying so the breakup is imminent it's yes okay but you're living together
00:13:35Brian Atlashas either of you brought someone else to the the pad no what would you do if he did he definitely wouldn't he wouldn't do that because
00:13:45Brian Atlaswhat would you do tell us what would you I mean
00:13:58Destinyum it just depends on the situation you know okay it's like that could happen a lot of different ways it could go down a couple different ways okay
00:14:13Brian Atlasviolence Good Times um so why is it uh has it been on the rocks for a while or no it's like it's really recent that's why I say it's complicated like it's just it's kind of infidelity
00:14:25Destinyinvolved or no but you guys are gonna break up it's kind of like that's like I don't but it's kind of like we're two different people I see like two
00:14:37Destinydifferent paths and it's kind of you know okay interesting that's why I say it's complicated because I don't know how old is he
00:14:46Brian Atlashe just turned 21. okay complicated in the process of who um was there has there been like a definitive breakup conversation or are
00:14:59Brian Atlasyou guys just fighting right now it's really just like right now like it's um I don't know how to explain it like what do you mean well I mean like has it been a topic of has there been a conversation where like
00:15:11Destinywe're done or have you are you guys just in Conflict right now it's in Conflict but okay we're like back and forth because it's like we live together so we try to work it out and it's like no is he watching the show right now he might be what's it what's up Bae uh what's his
00:15:25Brian Atlasname Jalen Jalen yeah Jalen is there a chance of reconciliation here you know and just um no no she did
00:15:37Brian Atlasthreatened domestically thank you in the event yes in the event of infidelity so be careful Jalen she'll [ __ ] both of you up okay exactly uh what about you
00:15:50NBA Girl (DT71)um what was that again I'm sorry yeah relationship status the longest relationship um
00:16:02Brian Atlasokay currently single two and a half years uh when was that it was okay got it what about you
00:16:12Abelinariaand this is this is probably my longest one it's like a year and four months okay got it uh yeah I'm also in a relationship and
00:16:23Xeniathis is my current longest one uh for two and a half years with beneficial all right um I'm a single and my longest we're
00:16:34Xeniaaround two and a half years and it was around a year and a half ago before I moved to Los Angeles okay
00:16:44Lauren De LagunaI'm single and I just me oh yeah just go ahead all right and um and I don't think I've ever really had
00:16:56Brian Atlasany very long-term relationships yeah okay that one that's fair is that what's the audio ad Eric oh that's rude okay um you don't think you've had many
00:17:07Lauren De Lagunaany long-term relationships yeah I've had like situationships that were long-term on and off again but nothing that I would consider a legitimate partner what's the longest period of time that you've uh seen somebody
00:17:22Lauren De Lagunayou've had a two and a half year situation it was very on and off again I wouldn't consider that was it legitimate was it long distance it was long distance how long distance he was in New
00:17:31Brian AtlasYork and I was in California why okay but um so a bunch of situationships you have the 2.5 were were you dating other
00:17:43Lauren De Lagunapeople during this on and off again 2.5 year situationship um a little closer to the mic not seriously I'd go on dates with people
00:17:52Lauren De Lagunabut like get dinner see if it worked but I wouldn't have like a boyfriend during this time because you were still caught
00:18:01Brian Atlasup on no 2.5 year man no just it never happened oh you just didn't meet a guy that yeah you liked enough I guess yeah and were you living in Florida during
00:18:11Lauren De LagunaCalifornia oh you were in you were in California okay he was in New York I was in California how did you end up in Florida uh for him I'm moving to Florida because
00:18:22Lauren De LagunaI just passed the Florida bar yay right yeah yeah but you're not currently living in Florida but you passed the bar in Florida oh yeah because I'm waiting for character and fitness so I figured
00:18:35Lauren De Lagunait'd be easier to move in with family save that money save that skrilla I'm content creating yo I'm not a lawyer yet so okay not making no money
00:18:49Brian Atlasso you've never but you've never had someone that you would consider a boyfriend no have you ever been in love
00:18:59Lauren De Lagunaprobably now no there's time yeah maybe did you just think of someone's name they uh there's a person that I really liked but we we
00:19:09Lauren De Lagunadated for such a short period of time to call that love so I don't really know who I have some idea of some person but I'm sure that person is not the man he
00:19:20Lauren De Lagunareally is wait how long how long of a period of time was that a month I just really really connected with him very strongly and then so you definitely wouldn't call that but that name came to mind would you call it lust maybe
00:19:32Brian Atlasprobably closer to the mic by the way so that was that your you would say your strongest connection you've ever had yeah in a month okay yeah did you have stronger feelings for month man than 2.5 year man oh absolutely
00:19:47Lauren De Lagunacalled two point five year man can I just like make it work can we just like try to make this work and we tried and then it because he was just kind of like a he was always there
00:19:58Brian Atlasmonth man or 2.5 I like that we've we've assigned nicknames to them based on the length of these uh this is great situations okay um
00:20:09Lauren De Lagunahuh all right yeah 2.5 your man might be watching he's still friends with me so why why do you think you've not had a boyfriend um I'm
00:20:19Lauren De LagunaI'm picky and then also when I meet a guy that I like I could be a little bit
00:20:30Lauren De Lagunaum expectations I have high expectations of people yeah what are what are your high expectations why are you picky uh like okay if you say you're gonna do something I really expect you to do it
00:20:42Lauren De Lagunaand that's for anyone females or males and it's just I find when especially with dating like you tell me you're gonna be at a restaurant at this time do
00:20:53Lauren De Lagunait why why do men struggle with that so much but besides is that really a man struggle though it's not just a man's struggle it's a woman's struggle too
00:21:03Lauren De Lagunait's a societal struggle that I think that all of society is the I my girlfriend the other day Faith I love you I'm gonna call you out girl um she showed up like
00:21:15Lauren De Lagunatwo days and like she kept postponing our lunch date and then when we finally had the lunch date she was an hour late that girl face so then if that's your friend that's doing that how come you
00:21:25Lauren De Lagunadon't have the same expectations for your friends I do I oh yeah I told her like if you keep doing this I find I'll show you our text afterwards I was like I find this really disrespectful we had a conversation
00:21:37Lauren De Lagunaabout it yada yada but if you try to have that conversation with your like a guy that you just start dating excuse me sir sit down I'm finding the way that you treat me very disrespectful yada you're not going to be in a relationship
00:21:49Brian Atlasmuch longer I don't know I'm not someone's Mom okay so being late is a major problem for you yeah just I just I agree with you justifiably so um you said you said you were picky and
00:22:01Lauren De Lagunathen you also said you had high expectations yeah besides punctuality what okay I want you to be closer to the mic I don't I suppose I don't care if you're Highly Educated as
00:22:13Lauren De Lagunalong as you are pursuing like something worthwhile so for instance if you are starting a business like plumbers do great job like anyone going to trade
00:22:23Lauren De Lagunaschool welding stuff like that that's awesome or high Ambitions with education I need to see that ambition and I'm seeing just such a lack of in just
00:22:35JohnSociety in general it sounds like you want somebody who follows through accountability is followed through yeah
00:22:53Lauren De Lagunathat love and hate me all my haters and my fans are in chat hi y'all that Chloe why are you hating me right now I used to be a fan you have haters oh I have a lot of
00:23:02Johnhaters it's fine okay that's why you're a lawyer okay soon to be CNF uh what about you relationships down this longest relationship I am currently single my longest relationship was over
00:23:14Johnjust over three years it's probably been about six years since that relationship ended um I still you know am friendly and fond with that person um but you know it just uh
00:23:26Johnirreconcilable differences I guess we would call I don't know were you married no no I don't I don't know what that means honestly I just uh we're just you know but you know no hard feelings
00:23:36Johnbasically so do you want to get married um while I do believe that uh families are very important uh I believe that marriage is kind of the worst contract a
00:23:47Johnman can sign I think that it's just extremely dangerous uh to do that and I think that there's real no there's really nothing that a married couple can do that an unmarried couple can't do so it's overrated I think honestly
00:23:59Johnrelationships are almost in my opinion stronger when either one can leave at any time and the only reason you stay together is because you want to be and not because you're obligated to
00:24:09Johnword question so you do this your YouTube show how often do you post videos like once a week about uh it takes a while sometimes but uh I try to get them out at the most
00:24:21Brian Atlasuh or sorry at the latest every two weeks but um if I could get them out you know multiple times a week I would question for you have you ever dated any of the women or girls you've
00:24:32Johninterviewed uh or not not strictly business not dated but there was you know a time where I kind of you know just hung out and spent some quality time with somebody sure um but not like you know I mean a lot of people are tourists so they're kind of like in and out of town
00:24:46Brian Atlasso okay cool cool cool all right so I do want to go around a bit here again because we had a lot of people here who
00:24:53Brian Atlasare single so uh what does being single actually mean you know uh so
00:25:04Brian Atlasbecause I I have a sense of what being single means but uh so are you currently talking to somebody no nobody there's no one in the picture not
00:25:15Brian Atlaslike uh friends with benefits nothing no zilch zero zero nothing no nada nothing okay all right
00:25:26Unknownyou sure yes sure positive okay all right there's somebody come on there's someone
00:25:35Rihannain the picture right no there's somebody I used to well I I had a little bit of a bump in the road with somebody but like what do you mean a bump in the road I mean like I
00:25:51Rihannawould think that like I shouldn't be doing you know so like what do you mean it's like um like homeboy would be like oh we're together you know
00:26:03Rihannaor and then be like acting like I'm crazy if I find something out you know like of him going and doing something with somebody else and I caught him doing it one night and I like chased him in the car down the
00:26:15Rihannaroad and stuff I didn't like run him over or anything like that like I would just like want him to see like I see you know you should have so you were trying to run him over but not really no like he was driving his
00:26:27Rihannacar and I was driving another car like side by side like you know can let's reenact so um
00:26:35Rihannawhat's her name again Giselle giselle's your boyfriend I want you guys to like put your hands on the steering wheel let's reenact what you were doing I was
00:26:47Rihannajust like oh my gosh I'm almost crazy wait by the way was your is he your boyfriend well I don't know what to call it no what was his name that's like a little oh just make up a name if you
00:26:58Brian Atlaswant we'll call him um like Jose okay Jose over here this is your situationship or whatever yeah he's he's being a [ __ ] boy he's
00:27:08Brian Atlasdriving his S-Class Mercedes well he had a girl and what kind of cards was it a Hummer no it was a Dodge Challenger Dodge Charger yeah
00:27:19Rihannawhat color what color is black okay yeah but he was like it was like he told me he had went to bed and I was it's so crazy he lives down the same road as my
00:27:31Rihannasister right so he had told me he like went to bed like an hour before and I just so happened to like be going to my sisters and as I was driving past like this Plaza area where like in and out
00:27:43Rihannaand stuff was this lady was like stuck in the side of the road so we turned around Jose Hands on the Wheel yeah so well why turned around and went and parked in the plaza because we're gonna
00:27:52Rihannapush this car on the road as soon as I'm like backing up I see him a lot guys with him and he just like kept driving because there's like a stoplight so he has to wait so I'm like getting out of the car I'm like running
00:28:05Brian Atlasup there like crazy because I'm like ready for bed like and everything let me just interrupt you Jose does he is he both hands on the wheel or is he like a one well he's
00:28:16Rihannahe's here one one hand well he's like he's a pretty boy he's like always like this he thinks Jose please adjust yeah please adjust okay yeah something like that exactly like that actually that's the angle I saw him at you know and I
00:28:28Rihannasaw the other hands let's see the other hand yeah there we go okay yeah something like that it just look more like a fuckboy okay there we go that's better Alex just but yeah it was just like
00:28:41Rihannayou know after you see something like that I'm like oh crap like get in the car I was telling my sister like get back in the car and she's like no so we pushed it out and I like whipped around and drove all the way to his apartments and he pulled out at the same time so
00:28:54Rihannawe're just like she's here and I'm here and he tries to like Duke me out at like a stoplight or whatever like he thought he was gonna turn quick well he ended up turning and
00:29:04RihannaI was on the other side of him because like you know
00:29:18Rihannathis is just like normal we knew it was wrong he's like gaslighting so were you you were chasing him yeah this is like some fast and furious [ __ ] yeah that's what I felt like I felt like I was in a movie like everything was slow but everything was
00:29:30Rihannaso quick I had to like snap back and be like oh crap I can't be doing this like I'm crazy like no not like I'm crazy but like it's pretty stupid to do that over like a man you know what I mean but he's
00:29:42Brian Atlasnot your boyfriend was he trifling he was trifling trifling yes I can't believe he was trifling I know I can't believe it wait so was there a woman in the car with him yes he was it was a
00:29:54Brian Atlasblonde girl see at this time I have brown hair oh so I that's what popped out to me because if he was because it wasn't you in the car no because if you had brown hair yeah and you also weren't
00:30:06Rihannain the car with him yeah so I knew it wasn't me yeah yeah okay for sure wait so blonde chick yeah I don't even know who she is to this day is that why your
00:30:15Rihannahair is blonde now oh no I always dye my hair you can see it's from I died from like Brown de blonde okay the like it's summer it's gonna be blonde
00:30:29Rihannaand winter it's gonna be brown you know what were your thoughts on the woman that was in the car with him who is this [ __ ] who's this [ __ ] describe her well I can't get lit did she have a face
00:30:41Rihannatattoo I couldn't even see that quick like no teardrops I don't know I shouldn't even see her like was she cute you couldn't see her I could see like
00:30:49Rihannaher head yeah he has a tinted card you know like when you're driving a car and it's like oh okay sorry was he listening to me did he see
00:31:01Brian Atlasyou yeah he definitely saw me because I was walking up to the car question so you were in your car and he was in his car yeah when you first saw him correct were you guys like Crossing pads like
00:31:12Rihannathis like I had just backed into a spot so yeah he was coming like this and I had just parked and he got out of the car because I wanted to make sure that it was him yeah I saw like run up to the car and he's like rolling up his window
00:31:24Brian AtlasI'm like calling him one request can you pop your you're uh it's just clinging on the table it's all good so continue you you saw him with trifling yeah with this blonde woman blonde woman I do call her
00:31:37Rihanna[ __ ] that's rude because I don't know you know but um yeah I saw that so it's just like you know when you see Sun a really bugs you and you just like have that quick what if it was like a cousin
00:31:48Lauren De Lagunaor a sister or a mom oh it definitely was not he has no family here or a friend or a co-worker or a prostitute you don't know no BC I know
00:31:58TTS Readerit wasn't a it was a prostitute could have been no no you seem he's oh my God hold on Beats
00:32:07TTS Readerand cheeks donated 105 it's complicated John Cook this panel please my ears are bleeding he always on stream do not simp and sup to these twitch I think it's
00:32:19TTS Readerokay I think it's okay it's complicated Channel and my Rumble this blonde thought is making me Dumber by the moment wow okay do you wanna yeah
00:32:30Brian Atlasdo you want to respond to beaten cheeks no not really I don't really care you can roast them back if you want that's cool his name is beaten cheeks I know you're probably just first name
00:32:43Brian Atlaslast name that's actually his legal name oh he proved it he showed me a birth certificate and his kazakhstani passport whatever because he's from Kazakhstan oh
00:32:54Brian Atlashe actually is okay they have weird naming right you guys are from that region well we are from Russia which is completely different country Cheeks is a common Russian like uh Slavic last name isn't
00:33:08Xeniait um not really well maybe a little bit some somewhere
00:33:16Brian Atlassomewhere wait how would you say uh okay what was our question about sir I don't know about looks I'm not sure you're driving yeah you see trifling
00:33:29Brian Atlasboyfriend situation [ __ ] prostitute drug dealing okay was there drugs involved no definitely not
00:33:38Brian Atlasbe no drugs no I didn't no no but like he's got a black Dodge Charger yeah but he's in a military dealer oh yeah yeah
00:33:47Brian Atlasthat's more of a military card yeah they buy the Mustangs and the Chargers okay Good Times um so
00:33:57Brian Atlassingle yeah most definitely have you had a rebound since dude I mean yeah but like a couple rebounds just one rebound um
00:34:09Rihannabecause if my boyfriend was trifling like that I might be tempted to I didn't have trifle myself yeah but I didn't have a rebound like right away because I was more like
00:34:21Rihannaum I guess like man I had to take a step back from you know like everything going on but I ended up having one when I went out to
00:34:30Brian AtlasNorth Carolina but that's it okay got it oh you have your complicated situation you're single yeah yeah but come on there's a guy in the
00:34:43NBA Girl (DT71)picture come on yeah there's one what's going on how long you been seeing them um
00:34:57Brian Atlaswhy don't you when you say a couple we talk in the baker's dozen what are we talking about four yeah good question do you have like a main piece yeah and then like rotation you
00:35:08NBA Girl (DT71)got the rotation you got a roster yeah but it's like you say girl there was a girl in it no okay all dudes those are cute like I get down
00:35:20NBA Girl (DT71)with a girl but like relationship wise I'm not there yet have you been with a girl I have yeah more than one no it was
00:35:30Brian Atlasjust one okay so currently four yeah guys and you said there's oh hold on black Socrates thank you man I appreciate it 99
00:35:41TTS Readernowhere in your handling incoherent responses did you come close to anything that could be considered a rational thought everyone in this room is now Dumber for having listened to it I award
00:35:53Lauren De Lagunayou no points and my God have mercy on your 304 Souls Billy Madison don't worry girl was that for me don't yeah girl no don't think
00:36:05Brian AtlasI'm serious it's from Billy Matt you've seen Billy Madison right like no okay it's Dom it's a dumb movie yeah well at least he donated money like I don't know if who I it might be I don't think it's addressed towards you
00:36:18Lauren De Lagunabut uh yeah yeah um I feel like I have that on my soundboard somewhere I think I've heard it before wow you're
00:36:29NBA Girl (DT71)talking about your room yeah I like athletes so it's um a little difficult for me oh hold on what you've just said is one
00:36:40Brian Atlasof the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard at no point in your rambling incoherent response okay we get uh thank you for the uh TTS appreciate
00:36:51NBA Girl (DT71)it so you like athletes what and which athletes I used to really
00:37:03Brian Atlasreally leaning a lot towards basketball players right now you're leaning towards the basketball players okay so how many so there's four yeah are they all basketball players
00:37:14Brian Atlasyes same team no um I don't want a name job nobody NBA yeah huh oh wow good for you all right
00:37:27NBA Girl (DT71)uh I mean if you want a name drop you can name I can name like teams okay um somebody from the Cavs Cavaliers yeah okay
00:37:38NBA Girl (DT71)um Milwaukee Bucks Milwaukee Bucks okay piston
00:37:51NBA Girl (DT71)and then like the one you rarely season is playing college ball um I got two that's playing college ball and then I got another one I got two that's about to go into the draft this
00:38:04Brian Atlasyear so wait so there is there more than four yeah there's more than four but there's like a four that like way closer to the Mind closer there's like a four that I text on like a daily basis like hi good
00:38:15Brian Atlasmorning that UTech you you send it well like they either text me or I text them so you know what there's a thing in your phone where you can actually automate text messages to go out like at a certain
00:38:27Brian Atlastime at the certain time every single day it's I forgot it's in the automation setting so you might want to look into that just so you can automate the good morning text you know um I think they could also automate it based off when they leave their house so
00:38:39Brian Atlasthat could change every time wait so okay so there's how many total is it there's not there's no football players in there just basketball players there's a couple football players
00:38:52NBA Girl (DT71)I don't think I've messed with anybody in the NFL right now maybe in the past but previously there was some NFL um I forgot that one team the Jets something from like New York New Jersey
00:39:04Brian AtlasI think New York something like that wait okay so but so currently you're seeing three NBA players yeah do they buy you stuff um they buy me plane tickets that's it
00:39:17NBA Girl (DT71)for the most part you don't get a bag or anything I mean if I ask girl you need to get a bag I know okay so here's the thing like for me like
00:39:27NBA Girl (DT71)I make money my other ways um what would be [ __ ] with somebody that right makes that sound right that's what I'm saying um I just expect a good time whenever we
00:39:38NBA Girl (DT71)go like whether it's Vacations or they fly me out to their house and we do whatever we do there or wherever they're at like they're in Chicago or New York like spend time with them for a week can
00:39:50JohnI ask something yeah go ahead I want to know um is there an ever oh sorry we'll have this donated 100 I don't think she knows the difference between a football
00:40:01Brian Atlasand a basketball well hey Nick can you pass me the rugby ball over there it's on the top of the chair any rugby players
00:40:13Brian Atlasthanks Nick um I've played female rugby here catch um no rugby players in there no no no okay
00:40:24JohnI mean I'm not opposed to it like rugby players who are watching her DMS are open okay so um go ahead you I wanted to ask you a question about that uh is there an extra level of expectation when
00:40:36NBA Girl (DT71)somebody does some Grand Roman romantic gesture um what do you mean like if somebody said like a nice date for me do you believe that men initially do really nice things for women because they want
00:40:48NBA Girl (DT71)sex I think it does get death apart yes like the further a man goes for you um he's definitely trying a lot harder to get to that point than somebody's
00:41:00Johnjust not doing nothing so if so why would a woman ever accept an extravagant offer from a man if she wasn't interested in having sex when that would that be leading him on right
00:41:11NBA Girl (DT71)um I think accepting the offer and then even like change your mind later it really just depends like you can see how the offer goes maybe she's just giving it a try
00:41:22NBA Girl (DT71)um but like how would you feel about reimbursing a man if a relationship didn't end up happening that's not my fault if you wanted to pay for whatever do whatever that's I didn't
00:41:34Kellyask so okay but don't you feel like if you um once you once you're like talking to somebody I feel like you already know if you're gonna have sex with someone yeah like straight off the bat so it's like at that point are you really just
00:41:47NBA Girl (DT71)leading them on if you're accepting everything that they're giving knowing that you aren't gonna have sex with them well wait just one thing just when you're speaking I do need to do a little closer to the microphone go ahead if I keep accepting something from that man
00:42:01NBA Girl (DT71)um then obviously I have some type of intention towards him but more than likely if I really don't like him I'm I'm gonna just let him know can I see one more um when you first meet a guy how do you know whether he's going to be
00:42:13Johna friend or more than a friend and more importantly when do you decide because it's often said a woman will know right away right um [Music]
00:42:27NBA Girl (DT71)and like just kind of like Hi how are you how was your day but like they don't know how to like really have a conversation with me then I it's probably not going to go no further um but if they're like kind of
00:42:39Johncomfortable with me like talking like like cracking jokes like just being comfortable but I'm saying if most women would know right away and then they're willing to accept and extravagant offer from a man isn't that almost like you
00:42:52Johnknow in a way consenting to the possibility of of um I'm interested in yeah you know why would you accept the offer right if you wasn't interested okay how do you um
00:43:04Brian Atlasdid you have more questions or that that's that's as far as that goes sure yeah uh how did you how did you um meet them was it in person was it did they message you on Instagram Instagram really like yeah did you message them
00:43:15NBA Girl (DT71)did they message you I I don't like to message nobody because if you don't like me then you don't like me and that's just that um I've played a game though like you know
00:43:26Abelinariayou like their photos or like I don't comment on nobody's stuff but like if they have highlights you like like their highlights and then but why waste time like why not
00:43:37NBA Girl (DT71)to just talk to them potentially or make the first move well you never know what somebody got going on like not everybody posts their like significant other um so if they're putting that like
00:43:48Abelinariaeffort towards me um then I'm gonna go for it so okay um sorry could I just one more question so for you it's mostly to make sure that
00:43:58Kellythey are single yeah okay yeah but guys don't just because they're yeah you just never know because they'd be dming you and they're not single right and a lot of the time before um
00:44:11NBA Girl (DT71)closer to the mic yeah it's happened before um I'm not gonna out that one person but they are currently in a relationship
00:44:20Brian Atlasum one of the basketball players but they're also seeing you her lips are sealed okay feeling so you're you said you're
00:44:32NBA Girl (DT71)you're currently seeing four yeah well I'm not having like I'm not having sex with all four but like currently talking to and like interacting like calling texting snapping FaceTime me on that day
00:44:45Brian Atlasfly you out how many how many are you you said you're not sleeping with all four how many are you hooking up with well their schedule is busy so it's not like I could just
00:44:58Johnum Eric can you close the door um so they do they fly you out yeah it is the potential to hook up with all of them on the table okay okay
00:45:10Brian Atlasso there's how many currently because you said there's more than four well there's like that's just like NBA and then like you said like four in the NBA yeah that
00:45:22Brian Atlasyou're talking that are already in there but there's two wait wait that you're what do you mean you're already in there like they're already drafted no but for you've met them in person yeah all of
00:45:34NBA Girl (DT71)them multiple times no some of them just once I've gone out like once yeah okay
00:45:42TTS Readerbut that's it like got it okay and then oh my hold on Ross condo nated 100 hello
00:45:50TTS ReaderLauren Ruru Anna kick it hello Starlight super Rebel City Taron Dixon the PBS elves and whatever
00:45:59TTS Readerchat are interesting thanks oh and Anarchy Chic wants her super chats acknowledged hi anarchic those are all the people from my like YouTube
00:46:10Brian Atlascommunities hey good to see the uh Lauren is it Lauren day Laguna yeah yeah YouTube Community welcome guys thank you appreciate the big TTS thank you guys appreciate it so you said that was just
00:46:24Brian Atlasthe NBA let's talk about um badminton badminton how many you got any any days
00:46:35Brian Atlassoccer no no I wouldn't Cricket any Cricket no no Cricket no what about um
00:46:45Brian Atlasany Gamers no like any Esports Chads no League of Legends World of Warcraft Counter-Strike but like what if they have really good like micro like would
00:46:58Brian Atlasyou be attracted to a dude who's just like micro Center Tech like Command and Conquer send the technical rush I mean GLA if it
00:47:07Brian Atlaspays the sales then yes China INF what if they like play China Inn okay so hold on but so you would date a gamer yeah I would okay but you primarily prefer like
00:47:19Lauren De Lagunaproper athletes not like you know game Gamers you know I don't really mind I'm not you got a baseball yeah what if you found out that Gamers
00:47:30Lauren De Lagunaactually made more money than Ballers I doubt well no
00:47:37Brian Atlasthe the computer game players they make hella money Millions yeah they can't some of them the top guys can make a lot of money but okay so
00:47:49Brian Atlasyou're currently also seeing a a baseball player or multiple baseball no I have not seen no baseball previously though you had like a couple like in my DM what what is the league for the uh what is it the
00:48:01Brian Atlaswhat's the league for baseball MLB MLB any MLB players okay so there's football football players yeah how many football players you got
00:48:13Brian Atlasright now and it's two just two okay just two yeah NFL just one in the NFL and then one college player yeah yeah and then for basketball any college
00:48:26Brian Atlasplayers um yes okay all right you're you're successful with the athletes congratulations Okay so um and you said you meet most of them
00:48:37Brian Atlasthrough Instagram yeah all of it okay Instagram um is there any reason like are you
00:48:46NBA Girl (DT71)not wanting to date just one well if one showed me that he was like
00:48:57Johnwho um I mean right clearly yeah you like uh exceptional athletes do you think that women have the privilege of being more picky because
00:49:08Johnthey have more options yes yes why why do you think that so many women today are so reluctant to admit that they have privilege all right come for it
00:49:21NBA Girl (DT71)feel like some girls just don't want to be perceived in a certain light so they just try to keep things open instead of just if they feel some type of way they just stand to it plus there's a
00:49:33Abelinariadifferent uh difference between privilege and dating and privilege in life but definitely girls have religion dating okay how is isn't dating a huge aspect
00:49:44Giselle (Al)of life yeah go ahead I was just gonna add on that I think a lot of women do unfortunately have trouble with taking accountability and they do also hold on
00:49:54TTS Readercell phone which donated 104.20 love you guys why do women choose the male role while also resenting the
00:50:05TTS Readerless salaried man men traditionally are providers yet 4 7s 50ks often won't look down on her but if a woman provides she often resents the man when she forcibly
00:50:16Brian Atlasswitched the roles word huh uh why do women choose the male role while also presenting the less salaried man but uh I'm not sure the
00:50:27Brian Atlasanswer to that question um go ahead
00:50:37Giselle (Al)because women tend to lead more emotionally I think that's kind of my though so just being emotional goes hand in hand with climbing claiming victimhood I think not
00:50:49Giselle (Al)necessarily but I think that they don't take too much of the time to logic like step back and logically think to proceed if that makes any sense do you think
00:50:59Giselle (Al)there's a level of power and privilege that comes with victimhood yes so could that possibly be linked to it yeah I I think that they want
00:51:15Johnkind of intertwines with also being less than victim I mean is it possible for women to be strong and independent but also victims yo Eric I think you need to boost her microphone a little bit it's I think it's number 10. strong and independent
00:51:29Giselle (Al)in the sense of you know they're taking care of themselves maybe financially and everything like that sure and they can also play the victim I think you can be both isn't that a contradiction I don't think so
00:51:41Brian Atlashey guys is the volume a little better one in the chat if the volume's a bit better or two in the chat if we still need to boost it a little bit um are you dating any civilians right now
00:51:56NBA Girl (DT71)a couple regular guys what's a regular guy to you I regular someone who's not in the NBA somebody who's not a rapper someone who's not an industry
00:52:05Brian Atlasare any of but are they like are they wealthy just not famous or yeah okay I try to be with somebody a little bit more well off right sure okay
00:52:18Brian Atlasum well first off I'm like I appreciate just your forthcomingness and honesty sharing all that um that's certainly pretty impressive to me uh
00:52:30Brian Atlasalthough I think it it's uh it's not uncommon uh especially you live in Los Angeles correct I don't oh where do you live I live in Ohio right now wait oh right okay you're in
00:52:42NBA Girl (DT71)Ohio yeah I thought wait LBC is that so I come back here almost like every other month because majority of my family does like still live here
00:52:53Brian Atlasso I'm like kick it with my family okay interesting okay um just I want to ask everyone else at the table here so she's dating or has
00:53:03Brian Atlasdated multiple NBA players NFL players some other athletes any uh musicians actors yeah yeah producers
00:53:18NBA Girl (DT71)um camellia's rappers any any names we would know I wouldn't put it out you wouldn't want okay of course of course um but would we know the names yeah
00:53:30Brian Atlasdo does it start with a D and end with a rake no no Drake yeah it's in the works question if Drake slides into your DMs
00:53:42Lauren De Lagunaare you are you on it let everybody go they're all gone the rest are gone okay can I ask a question okay you would do that for you though you don't care I really don't you don't care about the
00:53:55Johnlike a loving relationship I mean I could listen though I have no [ __ ] loving relationship so I have a question about that right so I'm sure each of you has a celebrity
00:54:06Johncrush right yeah uh I'd like to pose a question to the panel if if each of you had the opportunity to hook up with your celebrity crush would you take it so when a woman says I'm not that type
00:54:18Johnof girl is she really saying I'm not the type of girl with you but I am that type of girl with my celebrity cross yes with you so wouldn't that mean that women will make rules for the wrong guy but
00:54:29Brian Atlasbreak rules for the right guy yeah okay modern dating 2023 okay so they're the rules there are no rules
00:54:40Brian Atlasum so okay I want to open this up to the rest of the table so and I know Instagram recently anyone can get a blue check mark now so it's not a big deal but like for that have any
00:54:52Brian Atlasof you here been contacted and Via Instagram by someone with a blue check mark prior to the recent changes so we're talking to
00:55:02Giselle (Al)famous athlete musician actor whatever it may be yes however if I do not feel a connection with them I do not take it
00:55:12Brian Atlasfurther have you taken it further with a blue blue check mark person I guess I've dated someone but that was a serious relationship it wasn't just a hookup you ended up dating
00:55:24Brian Atlasthem yeah and he dm'd you yes so you guys met on online yes through Instagram um no not through Instagram too much yes use a twitch streamer yes xqc no okay
00:55:36Brian Atlasum but the twitch streamer okay what about you no blue check marks but you I'm sure you've gotten them blue check mark in your DMs okay
00:55:48NBA Girl (DT71)what about you some blue check marks yeah in the DMS NBA players you guys might be asking my own sisters maybe I don't know me I'm gonna be honest you really never know like there I'm I'm not gonna say
00:56:01NBA Girl (DT71)they're easy but they are they good around yeah I mean they're athletes they're athletes exactly that's all it takes it's easy okay um
00:56:14Brian Atlasyou said you got some blue check marks yeah but it never went anywhere this was like did you meet up no okay but there was just like conversation it kind of led to nothing so yeah and just I I want to add one thing to
00:56:27Brian Atlasthis um have you ever had an offer to be flown out to yes and usually I decline any flight out offers
00:56:38Brian Atlasno yeah yeah take it or no yeah okay and you've been flown out yeah I mean if if you had to put a number on it how many
00:56:48Brian Atlastimes have you been flown out by a guy this this trip I actually got flown out to California Yeah by an NBA player no he's